August 6, 2025 • 22 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Honestly, this is what the Catholic church. As a Catholic,
I can say what we need is a rebrand, and
you would be the guy to do it.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Imagine the pink smoke that would come out when I
get watched.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Yeah, Fred's Show is on. You turned the gig down,
didn't you? I did you know?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
There was just some scheduling conflicts you.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I guess you wouldn't be able to show and also
be the Pope the time different.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah, it's a lot of hurdles.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Never before in the conclave of it had been like
it's you, it's you, Sir Jason, or not, Sir Captain Jason,
or yea father Jason, ma'am Captain, Yes, ma'am it's you.
And you were like, nah, noah, fam, let's vote again,
let's count it again.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Yeah. Are you are you sure? Yes?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Morning everyone, Wednesday, August sixth, The Fred Show's on. Hig Kalin,
Good morning, I Pope, Jason, Hello, Hello, Paully.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Hikiki, Good morning show. Umn Shelley is here.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
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You start your Wednesday with a thousand bucks game show Wednesday.
That's gonna be Pauline up k Key Karaoke Waiting by
the Phone is new this morning? Why did somebody get ghosted?
The entertainer of port Headlines and Blogs this hour? What
are you working on?
Speaker 5 (01:10):
K A couple of things.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So Brooke Hogan tells Bubba the love sponge of all people,
that she's suspicious about her dad's death.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Okay, so that's one thing.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
And then also Billie Eilish could sing your baby to sleep.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Yeah, I thought they had beef. I thought they weren't cool.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's just if you think about the history, yeah, which
I don't know if everybody knows.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah, Radio personality Bubba were friends in Tampa and then
so good a friends. I guess that hope yous tould
get with Bubba's wife contensually good friend, like I guess
it was like, hey, all good, she's in the bedroom
kind of thing. And then there was some video of this, Yes,
there was that existed that sadly I've seen. I don't
know why I saw it, how it was. I wish
(01:52):
I hadn't, Okay, I didn't need to. But then somehow
the video got released and then they weren't friends anymore,
because that's really not great when your friend released the
video of you getting with his wife.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
And then but it was okay before the video.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I guess, and then it was a big disconnect. I
don't I really don't know. I'm not really clear. I've
only met Bubba once and uh, you know, we didn't
talk about him. Yeah, so you know, it's fine. And
then now for some reason, we're talking to Bubba about
all this.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yeah, her dad Brooks dad passed away and then she
talked right, yeah, right, so I didn't Yeah, you know what. Yeah,
let me.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Run to the guy who has the tape of my
dad getting with his wife, and I'm gonna tell.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Him some stuff. Correct, But hey, whatever works, like.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
The biggest stories of the day.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Good morning everyone, What do I have for you all?
The twenty twenty five MTV vm A nominations have been
announced that maybe Camlin has more on that, But lady guy, guys,
we need to pack skittles. Hershey, and Neslie are all
removing artificial colors from their food at some point in
the near future. Authorities are warning against pulling the hot
water Challenge prank. So another day, another thing, we're not
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supposed to do. This one involves hot water. They're reaching
a warning to parents about a poorly thought out social
media prank involving boiling water. Officials are speaking out after
a child in Pennsylvania was severely burned by his older
brother who was trying to recreate the prank. The police
there said that a twelve year old boyt boiled water
in the microwave and then poured the water on his
sleeping nine year old brother, part of what's known as
(03:15):
the hot water challenge, where boiling water is dumped on
someone who's not expecting it.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
How about we don't.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Parents and caregivers are being reminded to monitor their child's
online activity to hopefully guard against similar situations.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
That is, that is pouring boiling water on people. No,
don't do it. We don't. We're not. It's not necessary.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Maybe I know.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Walmart has shared that they're expanding their drone delivery service
to five more states, Arkansas, Florida, Georgia, Texas, and North Carolina.
So if you're in Atlanta's, Charlotte, Houston, Orlando, and Tampa,
you can sign up for the service. One hundred more
stories will now be able to deliver by drone. It's
twelve ninety nine per delivery in nineteen ninety nine. I
guess it could be cheaper if you're a Walmart Plus subscriber.
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The drones radius for deliveries is about six miles. I'm
not sure how much they can put on this thing,
or like, when I'm gonna have my preparation, you know,
preparation ation dropped on my head as I'm going somewhere,
you know, like I need emergency whatever from Walmart, I
need some milk, and then I'm walking down the street
walking my dog and then the drone flies over and
drops the milk, and then I'm dead. And then a
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kid comes over ports hot water on me from TikTok,
and then the whole thing's over.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
This drune stuff's freaking me out a little bit, because
you know, it's gonna be Lord of the Flies in
no time.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean, we we are.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I feel like if drone deliveries are become what Uber was,
you know ten years ago, was like was it maybe
not ten? Maybe thirteen fourteen years ago? It's like Uber,
what's that? Oh, it's just thing on your phone, It's
an app and then it sents a black card to
your wherever you are and it's cheap, you know, And
it was like that was this novel concept, and now
all this time later, it's a it's a it's a noun,
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it's a verb, it's whatever else.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
They're everywhere.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
It's uber if us my dad.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Yeah, my grandma used to call it uber form. But
now they are ubers everywhere. If this drone thing is
really gonna be a thing and they're gonna be everywhere,
we're not gonna be able to see the sky, right.
We want to be a little bit of drones and buzzing around.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
The FAA has already having enough going on. Okay, we
don't need show me to add this. How much traffic
going on up there.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
There's a Lakinsa by Wyndham hotel in Miami that sparked
outrage after a video went viral. I saw this showing
guests being checked in via a video call with an
overseas worker in India. So there is no reception desk
at this hotel. You walk up to a screen and
there's a dude with a headset in India and he says,
welcome to the window, and you're like, yeah, I'm checking
in my name's you know, Frederico, and they go cool
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and they do the whole thing over the screen. There's
nobody there. I guess people are criticizing the move as
outsourcing American jobs, demanding penalties.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I'm more concerned about the fact that, like, I think
I want a person in the hotel. I think I
want a person. I want a person, like, could you know,
what if the room's messed up?
Speaker 4 (05:54):
What's that? What does that clean? I don't know why
I want a person.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
How's it going to validate my parking?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Who's gonna validate you know?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I mean, that's my biggest concern so always.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Right now, they released the statement clarified in my emy
location it's independently owned franchise, not brand approved, and that
their standards require a person physically stationed at the front
desk at all times, and these guys didn't do that.
That's strange, though, I don't know. Sometimes I want to
be greeted by a human being, even if they're rude,
I still want to be I just want to know
that I could go down there and be like, hey,
I want you know, could have a towel and then
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they throw it at me or something stressing me out right.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Remember I went to the guano and I had to
talk to a nurse on an iPad.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
That's weird.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
It was weird.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I was like, am I going to have to set
the iPad in the stirrups and do my exam that way?
Speaker 4 (06:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
They're like, hey, grab that that thing, okay, now, scooch, scooch, scooch, scooch.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Oh yeah, I always got a scooch.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
He got a scooch? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Yes, what was the deal? So they don't send like
a pre nurse in the pre nurses on an iPad
on an iPad and then they send the doctor in.
There was no nurse.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
She told me, now you can get undressed.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
You can put me in the door on the outside
there was a little iPad holder.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Cause I was like, am I gonna, you know, put
my gown on in here with you? Right there?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
She was literally in her living room in front curtains
and cheated the whole intake.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
Interesting it was, I just come on, Yeah, I had.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Like a sinus infection a couple of months ago, and
I had to do the same thing. It was like
a virtual visit and the guy was in his house
and I'm like, I see your pickleball player. He get
like rackets hanging to the.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Bat of mind.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
How does he know that it was a sinus infection?
Doesn't he need to do something?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I just I describe what was going on, and they're
be like, okay, cool, we'll send this to this to
this place, have a good day. And then it's like bye,
oh okay. And I don't know about this, but Sketchers
has rolled out a new kids sneaker line called Find
My Sneakers, with a hidden compartment under the insole designed
to house an Apple AirTag for location dragging. The compartment
is secured by a screw tight lid, and it's invisible
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to the outside and makes the shoes look like any
other pair of shoes. They're praised at about fifty eight bucks.
Supporters praise the design as a practical safety feature, an
unobtrusive way to prevent lost shoes and potentially help track
kids when phones aren't practical. They say the air tag
won't interfere with wireless signals and is well hidden to
prevent tampering. Critics are saying, though, that they have concerns
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over privacy, consent, and parenting. Many of you the hidden
tracker is a step toward surveillance parenting, and worry that
it normalizes tracking children without their knowledge. Experts warn of
potential psychological and ethical implications. So if Jigi is I
don't know, five years old and goes to the pool
or goes to her friend's house, and you don't want
to lose the shoes, or you want to make sure that.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
I mean, I guess I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Do you really need to explain to your five year
old that you put an air tag in her shoes
so that you can be certain that she's safe. Like?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Is that bad parenting? Am I? At five years old? Do? I?
Are you invading my privacy? You can't tracking me?
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Oh, you can't wait for your butt properly at five?
Like that's crazy.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
My daughter is getting an air tag, she's getting the backpack,
we're getting the leash, we're doing the little thing where
I cough her to me, like, uh, I don't care.
I don't play with that, no, cause kids get away
from you so quick. You turn around, like that's the
mall this weekend. I turned around, she's out out the
door because I took her out of the stroller. She's
already out the door at the store, and I'm like,
I literally screamed. I was like, oh, imagine if I
didn't turn around in that second, like you know, where
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would she? And I don't trust people, Okay, don't this world? Nope,
we're getting two air techs.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
When do you think as a kid that you get
the expectation of privacy, like as a teenager maybe thirty five?
Speaker 5 (09:09):
Never, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
My mom always thought never, and I was pissed, But
I agree now they don't. You don't need privacy for
a very long time.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
I feel though that maybe you should tell your kid
like like like, uh, find my location hey, or Life
three six or whatever whatever that that app is that
the parents can watch their kids. It's like, I think
it should just be the expectation, but I think they
should know, you know.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
It's like so that I understand.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
But maybe as a teenager, but as a kid, I
don't know why we're you're five years old, like I'm
looking out for you. Someone could like statue like I don't.
I don't know that I see that. This seems like
an overreaction. It is ethical implications, potential psychological. You know,
I need consent to track my child with this way. Man,
don't want to buy some new shoes. I don't want
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you to lose your shoes. Yeah, I would say teenager though,
and I that I would say maybe to your point,
you have the right in today's society to want to
know where they are at all times. But you can
tell them, like just so you know, I'm we have
this thing going on, and if you turn it off,
then I'm I'm going to come hunt you down, like
it's for your safety. But I think it would be
a little messed up if you didn't tell your kid
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that you were tracking them.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
I don't know how you do that because it's on
their phone.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Well, you could put like a you could put an
air tag in their car. There are other things you
could do, like unannounced to them, And I think I
think the point would be that you try and establish
some form of trust between them and communication and that
they don't feel the need to lie to you.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
I think it's one thing to say I'm putting an
AirTag in your shoe, kid, and then you know it
and don't take it out. If you take it out,
then we're going to have a problem. I think it's
another thing if you put it in there and you
didn't tell them and then you were tracking them.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
You don't have a problem with that.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
You're my kid. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I
don't have to run anything past you.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
Period.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Sorry, That's probably why I don't have kids. But if
I want to track you, you being tracked all.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
You don't have a kid. I want to tell you.
Speaker 6 (11:00):
If I don't want to tell you, it's completed between
me and the Lord. I'm gonna do what I want
to do.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
That's why you've never got any prede Kiki, because your
kid is up there and having waiting to come down
and being like.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
No, I didn't consent to that.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I didn't consent to that at all, and she going, hey, God, God,
do you hear that she's gonna AirTag me.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
Okay, I didn't airtagged you.
Speaker 6 (11:18):
I airtagged your daddy.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Everybody Kitlin's Entertainment Report.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
He is on the freadshew Brook Cogan is suspicious about
some things relating to the death of her father Haul Cogan.
During an interview with Bubba the Love Sponge of All People,
Brookes said it was weird that no autopsy was done
on her father. She understands that he had a heart attack,
but she's wondering what caused it in the first place.
She also shared a screenshot on her Instagram that read
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quick cremation without autopsy raises questions about hul Cogan's death,
and she added thank you in the caption. She also
spoke about how it was revealed in Hulk's medical records
that he was diagnosed with leukemia. She said that she's
confused about the diagnosis because she always saw the blood
work when her dad underwent surgeries, never saw anything about
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a high white blood count blood cell count, so she
said that that was confusing to her as well. Elsewhere
in the conversation conversation, she shared excuse me that her
dad expressed some concerns about getting married to his third
wife's guy daily. She claims at one point he even
told her, I'm trying to figure a way out of
this thing. Also said that he expressed concern about being
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a scientologist. So I just thought that was a very
interesting conversation. I don't know, I can't imagine feeling that
way after losing your dad. Margo Robbie is in early
talks to star in Tim Burton's remake of the nineteen
fifty eight sci fi classic Attack of the Fifty Foot.
Speaker 5 (12:41):
Woman The Og. Yes exactly, Jason.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
The Og black and white movie starred someone named Alison
Hayes as a wealthy heiress who becomes a giantess, which
is I guess what we call female.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
Giants after a close encounter with an alien.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Margo's decision to start in the film reportedly hinges on
the final version of the script, though, but the project
is currently in without a writer and so a remake.
I don't have a release date for that, but I mean,
she's hot. I want her to be fifty feet you know.
I would love that she can play Barbie. She can
play anything, Jason, did you see this? Taylor Swift and
Chiefs Titan Travis Kelcey were spotted house hunting in Cleveland, Ohios.
Speaker 5 (13:22):
He's from there.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
He's from Ohio, so maybe they want to have a
home there. People said they looked at two luxurious houses
currently on sale in northeast Ohio's East Side suburbs.
Speaker 5 (13:35):
I guess that's probably a nice suburb there.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
The trip reportedly took place back in June when the
couple were photographs having lunch together with his family. He
currently owns a mansion in Kansas City, but is from
Cleveland Heights, Okay. Lastly, Billie Eilish is the next artist
whose songs are going to be turned into lullabies by
Rockabye Baby.
Speaker 5 (13:56):
And I don't know if you guys know about this,
but if you have kids, you probably do.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Lullaby renditions of Billie Eilish will be released on August fifteenth.
It's going to feature instrumentals of her biggest hits like
Bad Guy, What Was.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I Made for Ocean Eyes and more.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Rockabye Baby has shared an animated teaser for Bad Guy
as well. Other artists have done this, and I love it,
Wu Tang Clan, Lady Gaga, Bad Bunny, Taylor Swift and more.
Their music has been turned into lullaby So if you
want to ease your babies into your favorite music, you
can do so.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
And she has the perfect voice for that.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
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Speaker 4 (14:39):
Wait, so if someone give you specifically bad advice?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Kiki, when you asked the question, what is the worst
advice someone's given you?
Speaker 6 (14:46):
No, I just wanted to know what, Like from you guys,
what was the worst advice you've gotten?
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Because I'm curious, like, where did this come from? Because
you wrote today you run on our little thing. Yes,
you wrote, just curious, what is the worst advice that
somebody has given you?
Speaker 4 (14:57):
So I'm wondering where did this come from?
Speaker 7 (14:59):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (14:59):
I was literally just curious.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
Oh you were just curious.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
So someone didn't say, hey, you know you, you know
you should do you should? You should go work at
the polar station. You should you be great over there.
Speaker 6 (15:10):
People give me wild advice all the time, but I don't.
I don't take it serious, you know, Like I don't
even take good advice serious. Actually, that's my biggest problem
in life.
Speaker 5 (15:19):
I'll just be doing stuff.
Speaker 6 (15:21):
You know, Kayla told me a year ago to get
my student loans in order, and here we are. You know,
Jason has told me to give my parking passes together,
renew my sticker on my car. So people give me
great advice. I don't even take that serious. But I
was curious just to know what bad advice have you gotten?
Speaker 5 (15:36):
And did you try it? O?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Because I was hoping if somebody had given you bad advice,
we could make fun of them, if you could tell
me who it was and we could just we could
cloud on them. Right now, can you guys, think, off
the top of your head, off any bad advice you've
been given.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
No, follow your dreams, that one and your heart.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
You know what I'm saying, follow your heart the bills.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
Unfortunately, no, neither do your dreams.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Because I was hoping that you were going to tell.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Me something that really bad that we could we could
make fun of, but you were just well no, I mean,
I just I don't know where that comes on. I
don't know how that just comes to your mind.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
Man, I put on that sheet, like come on.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Like I'm just driving down the road.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
I'm like, man, I wonder what the worst advice anybody
has ever given?
Speaker 4 (16:16):
Fred is? Man?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
I wonder? Oh, yes, maybe maybe it was taking this job.
I don't know what was the worst. Was it worst
advice anyone's ever given? That's a random thing to think about.
If you didn't weren't given bad advice.
Speaker 6 (16:28):
You know, because I'm at this stage in my life
where I have to make decisions that are going to
determine the rest of my life. At this point, like
I gotta get serious. I gotta stop playing around. So
I'm like, you know, who can I go to for
good advice? Because when you go to someone for advice,
you're looking at their life. You're like, hmmm, I could
go to you, but then I'm looking at some of
the decisions you have made.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Maybe not the right person.
Speaker 6 (16:50):
So it just made me start thinking about, like, I know,
people give advice all the time, whether it's solicitor or not.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Have you gotten bad advice?
Speaker 2 (16:58):
You should probably ask a person for advice who's in
the position that you want to be.
Speaker 6 (17:02):
Come on, that's the one, you know. But then you
sometimes you do that and people they are worried about
you being in a position. They don't want to give
you a real advice.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
And that's real.
Speaker 6 (17:11):
And a lot of people don't want to be transparent
about what they did to get where they are.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
That's messed up, that's just that's bad karma. Yes, I'll
tell you what I did, not much. I just showed
up for some reason they thought I should stay. No,
that's if you're gatekeeping advice on how you got to
where you are because you're afraid you're going to get replaced.
And that's because I don't think it has anything to
do with that. Like I could tell you all the
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steps that, you know, whatever. In my case, I could
tell all the steps I took to get here, and
then it's a lot of hard work and some luck
and so there you go. And you you could do
that too, and then you wind up. I don't think
it necessarily means you're gonna wind up sitting right here.
Speaker 6 (17:50):
Yeah, I mean, And to be honest, this all came
really came when I think about it now, it came
from my trip to Hawaii. I was with an aunt
who was giving out a lot of relationship advice to
the single girls who were on the trip, and I
don't know if it was some of the best. You know,
you also have people who would give advice, but they're
speaking from their own experience, which may be a place
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of hurt or you know, bitterness, or.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
You know, different places.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
So I'm just like, do you think married people should
be able if they've been married for a long time,
should be able to give advice on dating like nowadays. See,
it's no, it's so different, yeah, because I feel like
people who have been married for twenty years are like, well,
here's what you gotta do, and I'm like, how do
you know?
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Right?
Speaker 6 (18:34):
You know, like your man didn't have an Instagram, right,
your man didn't have a right cell phone? It was yeah, yeah,
no snapchat. You know, Papa went out for work the
whole day. You don't know where he was at exactly,
and you didn't need to know. Right now, I'm checking locations.
It is different out here.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
What I've said this before too.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
But you also have to remove emotion from advice because
you know, if there are people close to me who've
given me career advice and that's based on the value
that they perceive in me, that's that's that's how much
they care about me. But they don't have any perspective
as to the industry, right, so they don't You know, again,
my mom, if you call my mom right now, get
her out of bed in Arizona, she would tell you
that I should make more than Ryan Seacrest. The company
(19:14):
sadly disagrees with that, And yeah, I try to use
that in my current negotiation that was like, but my
mom says that I should make or you know, your
friend is like, you're the best part of that. I've
said this before, but it's you know, you're the best
part of the show, or you're this or you're that,
or you should do this or you should do that,
or you should hold out or whatever, and it's like, yeah,
but and that may be all that may be based
(19:34):
on what they feel about you and your what you know,
know your value. That's that that is that's dangerous advice
sometimes because yes, you should definitely advocate for yourself and
you should know what you're worth, but that's also relative
to what everyone else is worth too, and like there
are so many variables. So when it's like, well I'm
worth this, it's like, but where did you come up
(19:56):
with that? Like may, okay, well then I guess maybe
hopefully somebody will give you that, because that's not necessarily
what is available right now, So I guess maybe that's
it can be hard to take advice from people who
love you, Oh yes, because they want more for they
want all, they want everything for you, and of course
you want that too. But then if you go on
with that with no perspective as to like what's really
(20:18):
going on? Then you can wind up getting in big trouble.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 6 (20:21):
For instance, the same aunt who I love to death,
she told me. I was like, you know when we
when I get back to Chicago, like I got to
go to Latla and stuff, and she was like, well,
they need to send a driver.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
You don't have a driver.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Oh yeah, it's me.
Speaker 6 (20:37):
For one, so so serious, Like what do you mean,
like what they don't get it?
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Yeah, they don't. Where are you coming up with that?
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Because you saw like on TMZ that you know, I
don't know Brad Pitt has a driver because they don't
think of us like that, right, Oh.
Speaker 6 (20:49):
Like you should think of me like that because you
love me in your mine right you know.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Well, my best friend says this like, oh all the
best friends O your best friend?
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Cool?
Speaker 7 (20:58):
You know, like family, like your foreign family who thinks
I should have my own radio show and all that.
Speaker 5 (21:02):
I'm like, first, I don't want that.
Speaker 7 (21:03):
And number two like I'm very happy where I am,
so like why are we diminishing what I'm doing?
Speaker 5 (21:08):
You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 7 (21:09):
They think like I should be some starr and lights
and I'm like that's not what I was to know.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
I'm working towards something bigger this.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
And if you want your own radio show, you should
have your own radio show. But it's like, you know,
it doesn't work like that. It's not like, well, I'm
gonna have my own radio show and then I'm instantly
going to be super wealthy.
Speaker 7 (21:24):
But it's also not everybody wants you know either, Like
you hit the nail on the head though, because like
it does feel like, okay, well, what's wrong with.
Speaker 5 (21:30):
Where I'm at? Like why are you offering.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Different suggestions of where I should go or what you
want from me?
Speaker 5 (21:35):
When like I'm really proud that I got here here,
isn't that enough? I'm like no, but like I'm happy here.
I love my team.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
No, I've seen this industry all the time. It's like
I'm gonna tell I'm going to show them.
Speaker 4 (21:46):
And it's like okay, well, I mean show them, I guess,
but show me.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
You better know how you're gonna show on, right, Like
what is that based on?
Speaker 4 (21:59):
Like if you do, you do, you know it?
Speaker 6 (22:02):
Right?
Speaker 2 (22:02):
I mean, okay, let's have a plan first, right, That's
what I mean. It's like I want I want everything
for everybody too. But yeah, maybe that's maybe that's the worst.
Some of the worst advice could be from the people
that are the closest to you.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
Look at this.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
I'm just full of it this morning, and I was
really hoping you were gonna be like girl, somebody told
me to do this and it was a bad idea.
Someone told me to pour hot water on fread this
morning because it was a trend on tiktoks. Oh would
well it maybe depends on the day, but yeah, okay,
what there you go. There's there's your good advice today.
Well two blogs next to waiting out the phone is knew.
Why did somebody get ghosted? I'm disappointed. I was really
(22:37):
hoping for some tea cool. Someone told me that that's
what I was hoping for. We didn't get him. A
thousand bucks from showed Shelley the entertainer of ports.
Speaker 4 (22:45):
It's all next. Now we're commercial free, so more fread
shall next.
Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Honestly, this is what the Catholic church. As a Catholic,
I can say what we need is a rebrand, and
you would be the guy to do it.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Imagine the pink smoke that would come out when I
get watched.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Yeah, Fred's Show is on. You turned the gig down,
didn't you? I did you know?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
There was just some scheduling conflicts you.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I guess you wouldn't be able to show and also
be the Pope the time different.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah, it's a lot of hurdles.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Never before in the conclave of it had been like
it's you, it's you, Sir Jason, or not, Sir Captain Jason,
or yea father Jason, ma'am Captain, Yes, ma'am it's you.
And you were like, nah, noah, fam, let's vote again,
let's count it again.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Yeah. Are you are you sure? Yes?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Morning everyone, Wednesday, August sixth, The Fred Show's on. Hig Kalin,
Good morning, I Pope, Jason, Hello, Hello, Paully.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Hikiki, Good morning show. Umn Shelley is here.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Up to one thousand bucks in the showdown fifteen straight
wins if you can beat her in five pop culture questions.
You start your Wednesday with a thousand bucks game show Wednesday.
That's gonna be Pauline up k Key Karaoke Waiting by
the Phone is new this morning? Why did somebody get ghosted?
The entertainer of port Headlines and Blogs this hour? What
are you working on?
Speaker 5 (01:10):
K A couple of things.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So Brooke Hogan tells Bubba the love sponge of all people,
that she's suspicious about her dad's death.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Okay, so that's one thing.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
And then also Billie Eilish could sing your baby to sleep.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Yeah, I thought they had beef. I thought they weren't cool.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's just if you think about the history, yeah, which
I don't know if everybody knows.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah, Radio personality Bubba were friends in Tampa and then
so good a friends. I guess that hope yous tould
get with Bubba's wife contensually good friend, like I guess
it was like, hey, all good, she's in the bedroom
kind of thing. And then there was some video of this, Yes,
there was that existed that sadly I've seen. I don't
know why I saw it, how it was. I wish
(01:52):
I hadn't, Okay, I didn't need to. But then somehow
the video got released and then they weren't friends anymore,
because that's really not great when your friend released the
video of you getting with his wife.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
And then but it was okay before the video.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I guess, and then it was a big disconnect. I
don't I really don't know. I'm not really clear. I've
only met Bubba once and uh, you know, we didn't
talk about him. Yeah, so you know, it's fine. And
then now for some reason, we're talking to Bubba about
all this.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yeah, her dad Brooks dad passed away and then she
talked right, yeah, right, so I didn't Yeah, you know what. Yeah,
let me.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Run to the guy who has the tape of my
dad getting with his wife, and I'm gonna tell.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Him some stuff. Correct, But hey, whatever works, like.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
The biggest stories of the day.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Good morning everyone, What do I have for you all?
The twenty twenty five MTV vm A nominations have been
announced that maybe Camlin has more on that, But lady guy, guys,
we need to pack skittles. Hershey, and Neslie are all
removing artificial colors from their food at some point in
the near future. Authorities are warning against pulling the hot
water Challenge prank. So another day, another thing, we're not
(02:54):
supposed to do. This one involves hot water. They're reaching
a warning to parents about a poorly thought out social
media prank involving boiling water. Officials are speaking out after
a child in Pennsylvania was severely burned by his older
brother who was trying to recreate the prank. The police
there said that a twelve year old boyt boiled water
in the microwave and then poured the water on his
sleeping nine year old brother, part of what's known as
(03:15):
the hot water challenge, where boiling water is dumped on
someone who's not expecting it.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
How about we don't.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Parents and caregivers are being reminded to monitor their child's
online activity to hopefully guard against similar situations.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
That is, that is pouring boiling water on people. No,
don't do it. We don't. We're not. It's not necessary.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Maybe I know.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Walmart has shared that they're expanding their drone delivery service
to five more states, Arkansas, Florida, Georgia, Texas, and North Carolina.
So if you're in Atlanta's, Charlotte, Houston, Orlando, and Tampa,
you can sign up for the service. One hundred more
stories will now be able to deliver by drone. It's
twelve ninety nine per delivery in nineteen ninety nine. I
guess it could be cheaper if you're a Walmart Plus subscriber.
(03:57):
The drones radius for deliveries is about six miles. I'm
not sure how much they can put on this thing,
or like, when I'm gonna have my preparation, you know,
preparation ation dropped on my head as I'm going somewhere,
you know, like I need emergency whatever from Walmart, I
need some milk, and then I'm walking down the street
walking my dog and then the drone flies over and
drops the milk, and then I'm dead. And then a
(04:18):
kid comes over ports hot water on me from TikTok,
and then the whole thing's over.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
This drune stuff's freaking me out a little bit, because
you know, it's gonna be Lord of the Flies in
no time.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean, we we are.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I feel like if drone deliveries are become what Uber was,
you know ten years ago, was like was it maybe
not ten? Maybe thirteen fourteen years ago? It's like Uber,
what's that? Oh, it's just thing on your phone, It's
an app and then it sents a black card to
your wherever you are and it's cheap, you know, And
it was like that was this novel concept, and now
all this time later, it's a it's a it's a noun,
(04:51):
it's a verb, it's whatever else.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
They're everywhere.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
It's uber if us my dad.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Yeah, my grandma used to call it uber form. But
now they are ubers everywhere. If this drone thing is
really gonna be a thing and they're gonna be everywhere,
we're not gonna be able to see the sky, right.
We want to be a little bit of drones and buzzing around.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
The FAA has already having enough going on. Okay, we
don't need show me to add this. How much traffic
going on up there.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
There's a Lakinsa by Wyndham hotel in Miami that sparked
outrage after a video went viral. I saw this showing
guests being checked in via a video call with an
overseas worker in India. So there is no reception desk
at this hotel. You walk up to a screen and
there's a dude with a headset in India and he says,
welcome to the window, and you're like, yeah, I'm checking
in my name's you know, Frederico, and they go cool
(05:36):
and they do the whole thing over the screen. There's
nobody there. I guess people are criticizing the move as
outsourcing American jobs, demanding penalties.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I'm more concerned about the fact that, like, I think
I want a person in the hotel. I think I
want a person. I want a person, like, could you know,
what if the room's messed up?
Speaker 4 (05:54):
What's that? What does that clean? I don't know why
I want a person.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
How's it going to validate my parking?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Who's gonna validate you know?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I mean, that's my biggest concern so always.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Right now, they released the statement clarified in my emy
location it's independently owned franchise, not brand approved, and that
their standards require a person physically stationed at the front
desk at all times, and these guys didn't do that.
That's strange, though, I don't know. Sometimes I want to
be greeted by a human being, even if they're rude,
I still want to be I just want to know
that I could go down there and be like, hey,
I want you know, could have a towel and then
(06:22):
they throw it at me or something stressing me out right.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Remember I went to the guano and I had to
talk to a nurse on an iPad.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
That's weird.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
It was weird.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I was like, am I going to have to set
the iPad in the stirrups and do my exam that way?
Speaker 4 (06:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
They're like, hey, grab that that thing, okay, now, scooch, scooch, scooch, scooch.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Oh yeah, I always got a scooch.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
He got a scooch? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Yes, what was the deal? So they don't send like
a pre nurse in the pre nurses on an iPad
on an iPad and then they send the doctor in.
There was no nurse.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
She told me, now you can get undressed.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
You can put me in the door on the outside
there was a little iPad holder.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Cause I was like, am I gonna, you know, put
my gown on in here with you? Right there?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
She was literally in her living room in front curtains
and cheated the whole intake.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
Interesting it was, I just come on, Yeah, I had.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Like a sinus infection a couple of months ago, and
I had to do the same thing. It was like
a virtual visit and the guy was in his house
and I'm like, I see your pickleball player. He get
like rackets hanging to the.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Bat of mind.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
How does he know that it was a sinus infection?
Doesn't he need to do something?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I just I describe what was going on, and they're
be like, okay, cool, we'll send this to this to
this place, have a good day. And then it's like bye,
oh okay. And I don't know about this, but Sketchers
has rolled out a new kids sneaker line called Find
My Sneakers, with a hidden compartment under the insole designed
to house an Apple AirTag for location dragging. The compartment
is secured by a screw tight lid, and it's invisible
(07:39):
to the outside and makes the shoes look like any
other pair of shoes. They're praised at about fifty eight bucks.
Supporters praise the design as a practical safety feature, an
unobtrusive way to prevent lost shoes and potentially help track
kids when phones aren't practical. They say the air tag
won't interfere with wireless signals and is well hidden to
prevent tampering. Critics are saying, though, that they have concerns
(08:01):
over privacy, consent, and parenting. Many of you the hidden
tracker is a step toward surveillance parenting, and worry that
it normalizes tracking children without their knowledge. Experts warn of
potential psychological and ethical implications. So if Jigi is I
don't know, five years old and goes to the pool
or goes to her friend's house, and you don't want
to lose the shoes, or you want to make sure that.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
I mean, I guess I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Do you really need to explain to your five year
old that you put an air tag in her shoes
so that you can be certain that she's safe. Like?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Is that bad parenting? Am I? At five years old? Do? I?
Are you invading my privacy? You can't tracking me?
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Oh, you can't wait for your butt properly at five?
Like that's crazy.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
My daughter is getting an air tag, she's getting the backpack,
we're getting the leash, we're doing the little thing where
I cough her to me, like, uh, I don't care.
I don't play with that, no, cause kids get away
from you so quick. You turn around, like that's the
mall this weekend. I turned around, she's out out the
door because I took her out of the stroller. She's
already out the door at the store, and I'm like,
I literally screamed. I was like, oh, imagine if I
didn't turn around in that second, like you know, where
(08:59):
would she? And I don't trust people, Okay, don't this world? Nope,
we're getting two air techs.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
When do you think as a kid that you get
the expectation of privacy, like as a teenager maybe thirty five?
Speaker 5 (09:09):
Never, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
My mom always thought never, and I was pissed, But
I agree now they don't. You don't need privacy for
a very long time.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
I feel though that maybe you should tell your kid
like like like, uh, find my location hey, or Life
three six or whatever whatever that that app is that
the parents can watch their kids. It's like, I think
it should just be the expectation, but I think they
should know, you know.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
It's like so that I understand.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
But maybe as a teenager, but as a kid, I
don't know why we're you're five years old, like I'm
looking out for you. Someone could like statue like I don't.
I don't know that I see that. This seems like
an overreaction. It is ethical implications, potential psychological. You know,
I need consent to track my child with this way. Man,
don't want to buy some new shoes. I don't want
(09:57):
you to lose your shoes. Yeah, I would say teenager though,
and I that I would say maybe to your point,
you have the right in today's society to want to
know where they are at all times. But you can
tell them, like just so you know, I'm we have
this thing going on, and if you turn it off,
then I'm I'm going to come hunt you down, like
it's for your safety. But I think it would be
a little messed up if you didn't tell your kid
(10:17):
that you were tracking them.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
I don't know how you do that because it's on
their phone.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Well, you could put like a you could put an
air tag in their car. There are other things you
could do, like unannounced to them, And I think I
think the point would be that you try and establish
some form of trust between them and communication and that
they don't feel the need to lie to you.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
I think it's one thing to say I'm putting an
AirTag in your shoe, kid, and then you know it
and don't take it out. If you take it out,
then we're going to have a problem. I think it's
another thing if you put it in there and you
didn't tell them and then you were tracking them.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
You don't have a problem with that.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
You're my kid. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I
don't have to run anything past you.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
Period.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Sorry, That's probably why I don't have kids. But if
I want to track you, you being tracked all.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
You don't have a kid. I want to tell you.
Speaker 6 (11:00):
If I don't want to tell you, it's completed between
me and the Lord. I'm gonna do what I want
to do.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
That's why you've never got any prede Kiki, because your
kid is up there and having waiting to come down
and being like.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
No, I didn't consent to that.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I didn't consent to that at all, and she going, hey, God, God,
do you hear that she's gonna AirTag me.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
Okay, I didn't airtagged you.
Speaker 6 (11:18):
I airtagged your daddy.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Everybody Kitlin's Entertainment Report.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
He is on the freadshew Brook Cogan is suspicious about
some things relating to the death of her father Haul Cogan.
During an interview with Bubba the Love Sponge of All People,
Brookes said it was weird that no autopsy was done
on her father. She understands that he had a heart attack,
but she's wondering what caused it in the first place.
She also shared a screenshot on her Instagram that read
(11:45):
quick cremation without autopsy raises questions about hul Cogan's death,
and she added thank you in the caption. She also
spoke about how it was revealed in Hulk's medical records
that he was diagnosed with leukemia. She said that she's
confused about the diagnosis because she always saw the blood
work when her dad underwent surgeries, never saw anything about
(12:05):
a high white blood count blood cell count, so she
said that that was confusing to her as well. Elsewhere
in the conversation conversation, she shared excuse me that her
dad expressed some concerns about getting married to his third
wife's guy daily. She claims at one point he even
told her, I'm trying to figure a way out of
this thing. Also said that he expressed concern about being
(12:26):
a scientologist. So I just thought that was a very
interesting conversation. I don't know, I can't imagine feeling that
way after losing your dad. Margo Robbie is in early
talks to star in Tim Burton's remake of the nineteen
fifty eight sci fi classic Attack of the Fifty Foot.
Speaker 5 (12:41):
Woman The Og. Yes exactly, Jason.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
The Og black and white movie starred someone named Alison
Hayes as a wealthy heiress who becomes a giantess, which
is I guess what we call female.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
Giants after a close encounter with an alien.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Margo's decision to start in the film reportedly hinges on
the final version of the script, though, but the project
is currently in without a writer and so a remake.
I don't have a release date for that, but I mean,
she's hot. I want her to be fifty feet you know.
I would love that she can play Barbie. She can
play anything, Jason, did you see this? Taylor Swift and
Chiefs Titan Travis Kelcey were spotted house hunting in Cleveland, Ohios.
Speaker 5 (13:22):
He's from there.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
He's from Ohio, so maybe they want to have a
home there. People said they looked at two luxurious houses
currently on sale in northeast Ohio's East Side suburbs.
Speaker 5 (13:35):
I guess that's probably a nice suburb there.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
The trip reportedly took place back in June when the
couple were photographs having lunch together with his family. He
currently owns a mansion in Kansas City, but is from
Cleveland Heights, Okay. Lastly, Billie Eilish is the next artist
whose songs are going to be turned into lullabies by
Rockabye Baby.
Speaker 5 (13:56):
And I don't know if you guys know about this,
but if you have kids, you probably do.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Lullaby renditions of Billie Eilish will be released on August fifteenth.
It's going to feature instrumentals of her biggest hits like
Bad Guy, What Was.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I Made for Ocean Eyes and more.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Rockabye Baby has shared an animated teaser for Bad Guy
as well. Other artists have done this, and I love it,
Wu Tang Clan, Lady Gaga, Bad Bunny, Taylor Swift and more.
Their music has been turned into lullaby So if you
want to ease your babies into your favorite music, you
can do so.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
And she has the perfect voice for that.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
By the way, if you want to see what We're
wearing today, what We're rocking, we are live throughout parts
of the show on YouTube. Fred Show Radio also type
the fred Shaw on demand and set us as a
preset on the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 4 (14:39):
Wait, so if someone give you specifically bad advice?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Kiki, when you asked the question, what is the worst
advice someone's given you?
Speaker 6 (14:46):
No, I just wanted to know what, Like from you guys,
what was the worst advice you've gotten?
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Because I'm curious, like, where did this come from? Because
you wrote today you run on our little thing. Yes,
you wrote, just curious, what is the worst advice that
somebody has given you?
Speaker 4 (14:57):
So I'm wondering where did this come from?
Speaker 7 (14:59):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (14:59):
I was literally just curious.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
Oh you were just curious.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
So someone didn't say, hey, you know you, you know
you should do you should? You should go work at
the polar station. You should you be great over there.
Speaker 6 (15:10):
People give me wild advice all the time, but I don't.
I don't take it serious, you know, Like I don't
even take good advice serious. Actually, that's my biggest problem
in life.
Speaker 5 (15:19):
I'll just be doing stuff.
Speaker 6 (15:21):
You know, Kayla told me a year ago to get
my student loans in order, and here we are. You know,
Jason has told me to give my parking passes together,
renew my sticker on my car. So people give me
great advice. I don't even take that serious. But I
was curious just to know what bad advice have you gotten?
Speaker 5 (15:36):
And did you try it? O?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Because I was hoping if somebody had given you bad advice,
we could make fun of them, if you could tell
me who it was and we could just we could
cloud on them. Right now, can you guys, think, off
the top of your head, off any bad advice you've
been given.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
No, follow your dreams, that one and your heart.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
You know what I'm saying, follow your heart the bills.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
Unfortunately, no, neither do your dreams.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Because I was hoping that you were going to tell.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Me something that really bad that we could we could
make fun of, but you were just well no, I mean,
I just I don't know where that comes on. I
don't know how that just comes to your mind.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
Man, I put on that sheet, like come on.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Like I'm just driving down the road.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
I'm like, man, I wonder what the worst advice anybody
has ever given?
Speaker 4 (16:16):
Fred is? Man?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
I wonder? Oh, yes, maybe maybe it was taking this job.
I don't know what was the worst. Was it worst
advice anyone's ever given? That's a random thing to think about.
If you didn't weren't given bad advice.
Speaker 6 (16:28):
You know, because I'm at this stage in my life
where I have to make decisions that are going to
determine the rest of my life. At this point, like
I gotta get serious. I gotta stop playing around. So
I'm like, you know, who can I go to for
good advice? Because when you go to someone for advice,
you're looking at their life. You're like, hmmm, I could
go to you, but then I'm looking at some of
the decisions you have made.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Maybe not the right person.
Speaker 6 (16:50):
So it just made me start thinking about, like, I know,
people give advice all the time, whether it's solicitor or not.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Have you gotten bad advice?
Speaker 2 (16:58):
You should probably ask a person for advice who's in
the position that you want to be.
Speaker 6 (17:02):
Come on, that's the one, you know. But then you
sometimes you do that and people they are worried about
you being in a position. They don't want to give
you a real advice.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
And that's real.
Speaker 6 (17:11):
And a lot of people don't want to be transparent
about what they did to get where they are.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
That's messed up, that's just that's bad karma. Yes, I'll
tell you what I did, not much. I just showed
up for some reason they thought I should stay. No,
that's if you're gatekeeping advice on how you got to
where you are because you're afraid you're going to get replaced.
And that's because I don't think it has anything to
do with that. Like I could tell you all the
(17:36):
steps that, you know, whatever. In my case, I could
tell all the steps I took to get here, and
then it's a lot of hard work and some luck
and so there you go. And you you could do
that too, and then you wind up. I don't think
it necessarily means you're gonna wind up sitting right here.
Speaker 6 (17:50):
Yeah, I mean, And to be honest, this all came
really came when I think about it now, it came
from my trip to Hawaii. I was with an aunt
who was giving out a lot of relationship advice to
the single girls who were on the trip, and I
don't know if it was some of the best. You know,
you also have people who would give advice, but they're
speaking from their own experience, which may be a place
(18:13):
of hurt or you know, bitterness, or.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
You know, different places.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
So I'm just like, do you think married people should
be able if they've been married for a long time,
should be able to give advice on dating like nowadays. See,
it's no, it's so different, yeah, because I feel like
people who have been married for twenty years are like, well,
here's what you gotta do, and I'm like, how do
you know?
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Right?
Speaker 6 (18:34):
You know, like your man didn't have an Instagram, right,
your man didn't have a right cell phone? It was yeah, yeah,
no snapchat. You know, Papa went out for work the
whole day. You don't know where he was at exactly,
and you didn't need to know. Right now, I'm checking locations.
It is different out here.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
What I've said this before too.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
But you also have to remove emotion from advice because
you know, if there are people close to me who've
given me career advice and that's based on the value
that they perceive in me, that's that's that's how much
they care about me. But they don't have any perspective
as to the industry, right, so they don't You know, again,
my mom, if you call my mom right now, get
her out of bed in Arizona, she would tell you
that I should make more than Ryan Seacrest. The company
(19:14):
sadly disagrees with that, And yeah, I try to use
that in my current negotiation that was like, but my
mom says that I should make or you know, your
friend is like, you're the best part of that. I've
said this before, but it's you know, you're the best
part of the show, or you're this or you're that,
or you should do this or you should do that,
or you should hold out or whatever, and it's like, yeah,
but and that may be all that may be based
(19:34):
on what they feel about you and your what you know,
know your value. That's that that is that's dangerous advice
sometimes because yes, you should definitely advocate for yourself and
you should know what you're worth, but that's also relative
to what everyone else is worth too, and like there
are so many variables. So when it's like, well I'm
worth this, it's like, but where did you come up
(19:56):
with that? Like may, okay, well then I guess maybe
hopefully somebody will give you that, because that's not necessarily
what is available right now, So I guess maybe that's
it can be hard to take advice from people who
love you, Oh yes, because they want more for they
want all, they want everything for you, and of course
you want that too. But then if you go on
with that with no perspective as to like what's really
(20:18):
going on? Then you can wind up getting in big trouble.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 6 (20:21):
For instance, the same aunt who I love to death,
she told me. I was like, you know when we
when I get back to Chicago, like I got to
go to Latla and stuff, and she was like, well,
they need to send a driver.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
You don't have a driver.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Oh yeah, it's me.
Speaker 6 (20:37):
For one, so so serious, Like what do you mean,
like what they don't get it?
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Yeah, they don't. Where are you coming up with that?
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Because you saw like on TMZ that you know, I
don't know Brad Pitt has a driver because they don't
think of us like that, right, Oh.
Speaker 6 (20:49):
Like you should think of me like that because you
love me in your mine right you know.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Well, my best friend says this like, oh all the
best friends O your best friend?
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Cool?
Speaker 7 (20:58):
You know, like family, like your foreign family who thinks
I should have my own radio show and all that.
Speaker 5 (21:02):
I'm like, first, I don't want that.
Speaker 7 (21:03):
And number two like I'm very happy where I am,
so like why are we diminishing what I'm doing?
Speaker 5 (21:08):
You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 7 (21:09):
They think like I should be some starr and lights
and I'm like that's not what I was to know.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
I'm working towards something bigger this.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
And if you want your own radio show, you should
have your own radio show. But it's like, you know,
it doesn't work like that. It's not like, well, I'm
gonna have my own radio show and then I'm instantly
going to be super wealthy.
Speaker 7 (21:24):
But it's also not everybody wants you know either, Like
you hit the nail on the head though, because like
it does feel like, okay, well, what's wrong with.
Speaker 5 (21:30):
Where I'm at? Like why are you offering.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Different suggestions of where I should go or what you
want from me?
Speaker 5 (21:35):
When like I'm really proud that I got here here,
isn't that enough? I'm like no, but like I'm happy here.
I love my team.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
No, I've seen this industry all the time. It's like
I'm gonna tell I'm going to show them.
Speaker 4 (21:46):
And it's like okay, well, I mean show them, I guess,
but show me.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
You better know how you're gonna show on, right, Like
what is that based on?
Speaker 4 (21:59):
Like if you do, you do, you know it?
Speaker 6 (22:02):
Right?
Speaker 2 (22:02):
I mean, okay, let's have a plan first, right, That's
what I mean. It's like I want I want everything
for everybody too. But yeah, maybe that's maybe that's the worst.
Some of the worst advice could be from the people
that are the closest to you.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
Look at this.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
I'm just full of it this morning, and I was
really hoping you were gonna be like girl, somebody told
me to do this and it was a bad idea.
Someone told me to pour hot water on fread this
morning because it was a trend on tiktoks. Oh would
well it maybe depends on the day, but yeah, okay,
what there you go. There's there's your good advice today.
Well two blogs next to waiting out the phone is knew.
Why did somebody get ghosted? I'm disappointed. I was really
(22:37):
hoping for some tea cool. Someone told me that that's
what I was hoping for. We didn't get him. A
thousand bucks from showed Shelley the entertainer of ports.
Speaker 4 (22:45):
It's all next. Now we're commercial free, so more fread
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