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the toll way, can we just talk about the toll
way quickly, because because I have I don't even know
how they managed to bill you, kiki, because it never
works for me. I'm I tend to be every time
I drive in a toll way, which is about once
or twice a week, I tend to be that guy
with my flashers on in the lane because my tag
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won't work. I guess they call them tags in Texas.
But my toll I pass, whatever it's called. I am.
You have my credit card, I have the transport under
take my money, take it here it is it doesn't
and then I'll call, I'll push the help. Then I'll
go Hello, we can't hear you. Com in the middle
of a road right now, they're like the toll way
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of people, we can't hear you. That's because a motorcycle
getting next to me.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I just open the gate, right a truck is honking
and then they'll be like, well, give us your the
last four of your transponder.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
And then I do that, Like, yeah, it doesn't register
with us. What I'm holding it? What I mean does
it register? It's getting my hands.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Oh you bought one of those fake ones. Yeah, you
got one from the flea market.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
But it works sometimes, it doesn't work other times, and
it's guys, can we get it together? Like, first of all,
you have potholes in your road. I tell you why
my thing doesn't work. It's because it can't invent new
technology because Kiki won't pay them.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Oh, they get more than enough money. Okay, this is
the biggest scam.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
It costs fifteen dollars to drive on the thing. Can
you at least take my money? Probly? What is going on? Really?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Does I have a confession to make Kiki? I pulled
a U because I don't have a transponder. I normally
just paid by the plate, so but we took the
Skyway the other day and there's a gate you can't
That's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'm talking about the Skyway.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
First one I paid with my credit card, like, I
pulled up to the booth of leg to my credit card.
The second one, there was one with a broken gate,
so I just drew.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
As you should.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I was like, you guys need to get open tolling
because every other road has it. But I was utterly
freaked up. I see, that's what I'm talking I'm I
should have specified. I'm not talking about like you know,
the Kennedy or whatever. I'm not talking about like outbio hair. No,
I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Like the Skyway, because they got the gate so so
you know, if the transplanter doesn't work, then it won't open,
and then everyone behind you is in the fast lane
and then they're they're like they hate you. And then
I'm pushing a button because I pay it and it
does work like it worked on the gate before me. Yeah,
and then every now and again you get to one
where the gate has been ripped off. I think a
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someone just was like screw this and they just.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Came behind me.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
But guys, it's not my job to tell you how
to take my money. Like I am a customer. Okay,
you have my credit cardage current, take my money. That's
your job.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Make it easy. Illinois has figured it out.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Are no gates, you just drive right through your computer
either works or it doesn't. I don't know. But you
guys with the Indiana guys or whoever, we gotta come on,
please come on, like take my money.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Yeah, you never agreed to this. I don't know who
was on the board. You know what, let's make a
toll way.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
My friend Bill Barker, our friend Bill Barker, not Bob Barker.
He just texted me and said, after that last segment,
can you just get these guys raises please? Like we
sound like total brokies. I'm like, dude, if you only
if you only knew, if you only knew, right, we've
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raised money for everything. Now we're raising money for us.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
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Speaker 1 (05:14):
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Let's know, what's kind of fine?
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Oh yeah, he was, I like a man and go
to work.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
He beat him at his feet on the ground. If
he gets there.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
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we'll get to stay or go. It's Serena in Just
Your Second debates in My Relationship Drama and the entertainer
reports coming up to what's in their case?
Speaker 7 (05:57):
The singer that got drunk and is posting green shots
about his axe. Also, Kim Carnes, the singer of Betty
Davis Eye, has officially commented on JoJo's he was covered.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Oh boy, yeah, she comment, Yeah, I have to confess something.
I'm so glad that you and I have something in common.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
What we already got the same birthday.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
You get the same. I'm so glad that you and
I have something in common.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
Nothing can't do you today.
Speaker 8 (06:31):
I never do nothing to holidays.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I won't get that never.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
I don't even know what the holiday.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
You know that whoever came up with that. I don't
think they realized how brilliant they were man, but they
have gone wildly viral. Yes, I guess it's a thing
in Europe. It's like a vacation package. It would be
like Apple vacations. I'm not plugging anyone in particular, but
like where you you know, you pay them whatever and
you get the flights in the hotels and the whole thing.
(07:01):
But it's got that. There's jefs Glynn that song and
then the voiceover lady who now is making appearances at
clubs like in the middle of songs that like the
beat will drop and show gop nothing be to get
to holiday. And the people are doing it all over
the place.
Speaker 9 (07:16):
A couple of new friends. And last night you will
not believe what they said to me. They said, Nicole,
what is a Jet two holiday?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
What is it?
Speaker 9 (07:24):
I think you could not stop laughing because clearly the
jets too holiday sound has made it to America.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
It happens. I had no idea what.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
On earth a jets Woo holiday is and why.
Speaker 9 (07:35):
You can get two hundred pounds off for a family
of four. Jess Glynn and Jet two you've made it
to America.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
The people love it, but they want to know what
you are. They have no idea. See it's brilliant, Oh
my god, it's brilliant. But yeah, I guess these commercials
are like we were talking about this. I guess it
was last week about the jingles that just stick in
your head, you know, for the commercial campaigns that you
know it doesn't even matter what it is, it's just
you just you know it immediately. And I guess the
people of Europe they just know this immediately, like this
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is their thing.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
It's so wild.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
It has gone viral on TikTok, so like all these
people are taking this sound and putting together videos of
like terrible things, right, people almost drowning, people falling, stages
breaking like it is. But I will never miss a
video now me and probably we're talking about this morning,
like I'm it just it keeps playing on a loop
in my.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Head, which I'm sure Jet two is ecstatic that they're
getting all this press. Except the problem is when I
first saw the videos, I thought, is this a jet
to holiday? Like is this what happens if I go
on a jet to you know what I mean? Like
I don't know what the hell it is. Then I
see all these like catastrophic things happening to people, and
I'm like, ohso are they Are they telling us what
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happens if I go on a jet to holiday or
are they just making fun of the jingle, which I
think they are. But if I'm Jet two, I want
to be like, hey, guys, just hold up. They just say,
you know, this is nothing. This is int are our trips.
Our trips are way better than this. Yes, fifty dollars
for person. That's two hundred dollars for a family of four.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
We need her at the iHeart Festival.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Well, yes, there is a big announcement tomorrow. I don't
want to say you. I'm just gonna go ahead and
say it. Sorry, Tom Pullman, It's Jess Glynn at the
Jetsoo Holiday Lady. It's stay or go all right, Serena
is here? Good morning, Serena. Welcome.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
How's it going? Doing great? Serena? What's going on in Ciergo?
This is I mean, the headline here is that you
just had a baby what months ago?
Speaker 10 (09:29):
Oh yeah, two months ago, a little baby boy.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Congratulations, that's exciting you and your husband's need a little beach.
So what what?
Speaker 11 (09:37):
Well?
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Yeah, well, no, here and tell the story, Serena. So
you had this baby, which is wonderful, and your husband
he's acting not acting right about this, She's not.
Speaker 10 (09:47):
And listen, you know, just to be clear, I'm not,
you know, considering leaving my husband. But lately, you know,
he told me he doesn't want the baby sleeping in
our room anymore.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
And you know.
Speaker 10 (10:00):
That's tough because you know, we had the baby two
months ago and he says that if I cared about
our relationship at all, I'll move the baby into his
own room.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Okay, so you know, and that is I'm sorry to
rupt you, but is it the disruption? Is this sleeping disruption?
Is it? Like? What is his issue? What does he
want the baby in the room?
Speaker 5 (10:20):
No, I you know, I'm not totally sure. Like he
just like gets visibly upset.
Speaker 10 (10:25):
Like I think, you know, he thinks I'm hugging the
baby and he gets visibly upset when, you know, when
I kiss the baby and hug the baby, and he says,
you never cuddle me as much as him.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
He's jealous of the baby.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
He's jealous of the baby.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
I mean, what does he what does he expect you
to do? Exactly two months postpartum. Does he expect you
to I guess at this point just to banish the child,
but the child another room, like we didn't do this.
Oh my god, it's all about me.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
I know, I know, I don't know.
Speaker 10 (10:55):
You know, he's saying that, like, ever since I gave birth,
all I wanted to be is a mom and not
a wife.
Speaker 5 (11:00):
And you know that's pretty intense. And he also gets
upset because.
Speaker 10 (11:04):
You know, we decided I decided to breastfeed, even though
we had originally talked about not doing it.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
That was an issue for him. That was a really
big issue for him.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Affect him. I'm asking that question, uh, Paulina as a mom, Yeah,
I'm asking that question. Honestly, I don't know the answer.
But how does it negatively affect him?
Speaker 6 (11:24):
It shout in first and foremost mom can make that choice,
so and congress on doing that because the full time
job to breastfeed.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
The only issue quote and.
Speaker 6 (11:32):
I'm using it this quote, is that he might not
be able to feed the baby at night via bottle
or whatever, right, because sometimes they say mom wants to rest,
How is dad going to feed the baby?
Speaker 5 (11:39):
But that you guys can figure.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
That all out later your baby or just more time,
so mom has to dedicate to the baby. As if
if there were it was model feeding, then I suppose
anybody could feed the baby, correct, Okay.
Speaker 5 (11:51):
Right right?
Speaker 10 (11:52):
You know, so it's just like you know, he says,
they treat him like an absentee father because they don't
tell him when the baby's getting a bath or when
you know, when he's going down for a nap, Like
I make the decisions myself, but obviously i'm you know,
I'm not doing that on the purpose.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
And I have a feeling that someone texted this. But
this has something to do with intimacy as well, which
you're two months postpartum, so I mean, aren't we a
little again, I'm not going to get too detailed about that,
but don't we wait a little longer than that anyway?
Isn't it? Is it sixty days?
Speaker 5 (12:22):
Well, typically six weeks you have a good checkop.
Speaker 6 (12:24):
You go to a checkop, but they kind of clear
you or what depending you know, if you have c section,
if you have the vaginal birth. But in two months
you can still be in diapers. So I don't understand
what his way is.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
So we're not even really there yet.
Speaker 6 (12:35):
Not there yet necessarily well not yeah, yeah.
Speaker 10 (12:38):
So you know, and obviously we're both just exhausted and
I'm really trying my best. And I just never imagined
in a million years he'd react like this.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
I don't mean to be insensitive, Serena, but what did
he think was going to happen? I mean, you and
I realized it's an adjustment, but he's you know, you, guys,
I assume discussed having children and you and you and
you conceived one, and for the last nine months you've
been you know, pregnant, you know, baking this this, this
little guy, and now maybe so I would think that
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the transition would be sort of happening, right, like, Okay,
we're adding to the family. There's going to be a
new obligation here, there's going to be someone something dividing
our attention a little bit. We have another. But I
guess I don't understand why he's surprised that you have
to raise the kid and that you can't just put
the kid in another room and pay attention to me
all the time, like it it's very much me behavior.
Speaker 5 (13:32):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 10 (13:33):
And you know, like you said, it's not like we
just decided to do this overnight. You know, this was
a discussion, this was many months of talking about it,
and obviously the baby needs more right now at this stage,
and like it's just temporary. It goes by so quickly,
and I just she just can't see that.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
And I think he's taking it really personally.
Speaker 10 (13:55):
And I did not expect to set off from him,
and I just don't I just don't know where to do.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
I'm sorry to be negative, but this is him making
this about him. He's not being considerate of you. He's
not being considerate of what you're going through. He's not
being considerate of what the child needs. He clearly isn't
ready to make the adjustment that he's going to have
to share your attention now with another human. He's acting
like this is a surprise, like he wasn't involved in
the process of making the kid.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
Men through postpartum.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
I don't know the answer either, but I mean I
get that someone just said mental health as wild as
a new debt. I don't know if that means that
a man's mental health is wild. Look, this is a transition,
for sure, But making her feel bad about tending to
the child, I think is really the wrong way to go.
Speaker 5 (14:43):
I agree.
Speaker 6 (14:44):
I mean, listen, everyone's world is upside down right now,
right especially you as a brand new mom.
Speaker 5 (14:49):
Just everything you're going through.
Speaker 6 (14:50):
I mean, you are in the thick of it, and
I feel like if anything the husband has to your
husband has to be so supportive of anything that you
need in that moment. And because he's not, he's focused
on his you know what he's focused on. If he
just wants you, you know, intimately or whatever like that,
that needs to be put to the side. I'm sorry
you guys will once again have all the amazing sex
and all the amazing times together and daints and all
of that, but right now, I think.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
Like your focus should be truly both on the baby.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Yeah, two months out, honestly, and not that his needs
don't matter. I don't mean to just dump on this guy,
but two months after having a baby, he needs to
be focused on what's best for you and the baby
and his needs can be met down the road. And yeah,
and I don't I don't think his knees are gonna
any closer to being met when he's just acting like
the baby these are not. This is not a good
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sign for me. And again I don't have any experience
in any of this, but it just doesn't feel right
to me, and the text are overwhelmingly in favor of
this is really bad. And I'm sorry to say that
to you because I know he just had a baby
with this guy, but this is really not the kind
of supportive, you know, selfless behavior that you would hope
from someone after what you just went through. But we
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take some phone calls on this to see if you
and by the way, you're welcome to feel differently about it,
and maybe you can enlighten us in some ways because
the men in the room here have never had a baby,
so I don't I admittedly do not know. To me though,
my thought is it feels bad.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
Yeah, I feel so. I feel so bad for you, mama.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 10 (16:17):
Yeah, And you know again, I'm not like thinking about
leaving him, but just like I just feel like this
confirms everything that I've sort of been thinking, and you know,
I don't want to lose myself or my marriage. You know.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Well, good luck to you and let's see what some
people have to stay here and I appreciate you sharing
and all the best. Have a great day. Thanks you too.
By Serena maternal mental health professional. Men go through postpartum
mood changes in postpart and depression. It's a maternal mental
I'm a maternal mental health professional.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
Okay, so that may be what he's experiencing, but it.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Doesn't necessarily change the negative effect it's having on her
and the pressure it's adding to what has to be done.
It's not a choice to care for the baby. And
you know, it's not like she can just go I'll
do a little less of that. Hey, Julie, good morning,
Good morning. How are hi, Julie. So you just heard
this this situation, but this woman is is experiencing sort
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of a negative reaction from her husband that all of
a sudden, there's this new being that she's having to
devote so much attention to. What do you think when
you hear tell the story.
Speaker 12 (17:26):
It's very reminiscent. We have three kids and they do
get jealous, and that's the bottom line. And he's going
to have to figure out. You're gonna have to talk
to somebody and deal with his emotions because.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
This is a newborn.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
They need they.
Speaker 12 (17:42):
Need the parents. There's no one taking care of the baby,
and he's just going to have to step up a
little bit and do what's best for the family right now. Now,
I'm not saying that marriage doesn't come first, but you know,
dude needs to wait four months. Yeah, you know, with
that extra special attention that he really is craving, that's all.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
It's funny you mentioned that, Julie, because I a lot,
a lot, a lot a lot of years ago. I
think it had to do with a politician cheating on
his wife or something, and someone brought this up. This
was a long time ago. I heard this, and the
person hosting the debate was saying, you know, people say
when it comes to marriage, they'll most people will answer
the question when asked, you know, what's the most important
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part of your family, they'll say, well, the kids. My
kids are the most important thing to me. And because
that sounds right, but or it sounds harsh to say
that my spouse is the most important thing. But the
fact of the matter is, this person was arguing, that's
the right answer, my spouse is the most important thing
in the relationship, because if that's not solid, then my kids,
who come to it at a close second, will not
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necessarily have a good upbringing. Mike, I would think the
asterisk to that would be when the kid is literally
an infant and the mom is literally post part of
I mean, it's like, you can wait, you can wait
sixty ninety days for to get this together. This this
baby relies on me for absolutely everything. It's not a choice,
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it's not a preference. It is a mandate, right, Like
if we don't do it, it's not happening. Correct, So
your husband can be the most important thing to you
once we get this baby, like you know, with a
with a hard head, once it's once its skull forms
holling yes, yes, right right. I guess that's where I'm
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at with this. But Julie, thank you for calling.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
I have a good day. It's like, guys, you know,
this isn't a this isn't a ten year old. You know,
it's like I'd rather drive the kid to practice and
have sex with you. Like that's that that would indicate
something I think a lot deeper. This is, Hey, I'm
going through all this stuff emotionally and physically and and
and figuring figuring out how to raise a human and
you're worried about whether you're getting coddled enough.
Speaker 6 (19:51):
It takes two years for a mom to really get
back to her quote normal self, I'm gonna say that,
so I'm not.
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Even there yet myself, so I can't even imagine how
she feels.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
All right, Again, I don't I mean to be like
an anti male here. I think a lot of guys
listening now would have who've been through this. I gotta
think they're thinking, like, dude, it's not about you right now,
Like it's it can't be about you right now? Emily, Hi, Hi, Hi?
What do you think? So?
Speaker 13 (20:19):
I have two babies. I had two babies under and
under two years, and I think I've reastpy both of them,
and the breasting issue is the thing that really sticks
out to me is like Dicky in this situation, I
really don't understand what his problem with her breastfeeding is.
What I love to say, though, is while I think
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this is like a weird situation and he's definitely putting
a lot of unnecessary like anxiety on a new mom,
I am sympathetic to the fact that like having a
baby is an adjustment for both partners, and there is
definitely a point where you want to kick the baby
out of your room because you're ready to have some
space back. But two months postpartum is not that time.
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Maybe four to six months is a moreasonable time.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
I think that's what I'm saying is right now would
not be the time to put pressure. I don't think
on the relationship to make it about you, because I
just seem like there's so much adjustment going on, and
I don't think it's necessarily personal. I don't think, but
I think I think that one way it could create
a tremendous amount of divide is by behaving this way
right now, right right.
Speaker 13 (21:30):
And I think that a lot of times, well actually
more often than not, we are very focused in that
nine months of growing a baby on the needs that
the baby will have, but there's not a lot of
support about like what a new mom needs, especially a
breastfeeding mom, or women with their hormones and postpartum issues
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and how to be like partners in that situation. And
so I do think there's ways to move past it.
Like when I was pregnant with our second baby, our
first day was it just turns one, and we decided
to do some couple counseling courses that are about like
bringing home baby, that like focus less on the like
how to feed and diaper and take care of your
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baby and more on like how to be partners in time.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
That's interesting, that's a good idea.
Speaker 13 (22:19):
Yeah, there's one specifically by the Gotman. They're like pretty
famous couple counselors and it's called bringing Home Baby. So, like,
I do think there's ways to work past it, but
he has to be willing to like listen and hear her.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Yeah, yeah, he needs good points at good points. Emily,
thank you for Colin, thanks for listening. Have a good day. Yeah,
you too, appreciate you. Julian, Julian, we're not considering his
feelings really, no.
Speaker 11 (22:47):
Because Joe focusing more on him. I want to be
intimate with him. I had a baby to it. The
father of my botto was really involved with the child.
That set him when I'm going to feed the baby,
I told him when the baby's going to sleep, and
everything else in between.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
It's the community.
Speaker 11 (23:05):
I believe her issues of no one had to communicate
with the father of putting him involved actually in the
baby's child. And when I had my first baby, I
was very in say care because I will call her
father through the trauma that I've.
Speaker 13 (23:19):
Been with all the time.
Speaker 11 (23:21):
But I do understand when you said that it's an
intimate issue and everything. But she did mention of him
feeling absent in the child's life.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
You know, that's fair, that's fair much maybe and someone
texted much, right, Julian, I'm Tellingry, someone texted maybe maybe
he hasn't bonded with the child yet. I think for
me it was the comment about you don't cuddle me,
you've never cuddled me as much as you've cuddled him.
Speaker 11 (23:47):
Well, it's my daughter will feel like that. But at
the same time, I had my daughter in certain place.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
In a toy bat.
Speaker 11 (24:00):
I apologize, my English is my second language. My daughter
in a in a play band by the by the bed,
so he wasn't. She wasn't in the bed with us.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
So maybe other.
Speaker 11 (24:14):
Than putting the child in it on his own roomb,
maybe you know, put a little band or something next
to next to her or something in the womb and
that and whatnot. But at the same time, they just
had a baby within two months, so maybe he will
probably do some research and see a way to make
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her feel better with him being in the in the
intimately as well, because at the time is not really
sex really is more over the sitting together and talking.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Thank you, Julie, the person there. I appreciate that, of course,
thanks for listening. I think for me, it's the sixty days.
You know, we're talking about this after three years. You know,
my needs are being mad. You're not paying attention to me.
We're not you know, our partnership is falling apart. Like okay, okay,
Like the kid's a little bit more independent. It's been
years of this now, you know he doesn't feel like
he's part of the process. I mean, all of that
(25:07):
is fair, but I mean we are. It is just
so new and we're to your point, we're still physically
healing from what happened. Yeah, Kathy, Hi, Kathy, Hi, good morning, Hey,
good morning. And just to recap here, this woman, Serena
Coled and she just had a baby sixty days ago
and her husband's not adjusting well. Essentially, he's throwing a
temper tantrum, saying, hey, you're not paying enough attention to me.
(25:29):
I want the baby out of the room. I want
to be cuddled more, I want to be held. But
whatever he wants, he wants all the things that baby's getting.
But I don't know that she's necessari. I mean, maybe
she's choosing to do this, But at the same time,
I think she kind of has to write.
Speaker 8 (25:44):
Yeah, and something similar happened to me. I was married,
had a baby, so excited the whole time and everything,
but then he got really insecure for the baby was born,
because yeah, you don't go out to dinner every night,
you know, you don't have all that free time to yourself.
And he ended up, you know, it drove a wedge
between us. He ended up having an affair. And then
when we were splitting up, she said that it was
(26:07):
the lack of attention and more attention on the baby,
and it's just you know, like hindsight, it was all
just a lot of insecurity, like you're so jealous of
a little baby, like a sweet little baby.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
Well, it's all just gaslighting. Right again, I've said it
fifty times in the last fifteen minutes. What are you
supposed to do, especially in these really early stages, what
are you supposed to do? Just okay, you know what,
baby's crying and needs to eat and it requires me
to do everything, but you know, let me make sure
that I hold you a little longer. And it's just
a tough spot to put her in.
Speaker 8 (26:39):
Yeah, I'm sorry. Time to put your big boy pants on,
like you're a dad now, like it's time to provide
and you know, intimacy will come later. Right now, it's
all about your baby. You cannot make it about you.
And like I said, just a lot of insecurity.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Yeah, yeah, I think so. Thank you, Kathy, and I'm
sure that happened to you, but thanks for sharing.
Speaker 8 (26:55):
It was all for the best.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
There you go, have a good day. Do you have
any final thoughts?
Speaker 6 (27:02):
I do, because people are saying, you know, maybe dad
doesn't feel like he's bonding with baby. I think mom could, okay,
maybe give him like hey, do bathroough, little things like that.
Speaker 5 (27:10):
People have to understand it.
Speaker 6 (27:11):
Two months postpartum, you feel like you don't want to
be away from your baby, like it's I don't know
if it's just like this.
Speaker 5 (27:16):
I call it a primal feeling, Like I.
Speaker 6 (27:17):
Feel like I just like I had to grab her
all the time, if somebody was holding her, I needed
her back instantly. So like we have to give grace
to the mom to understand that these are her hormones,
this is how she's feeling.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
We're talking about a chemical reaction, we're talking about human
chemical reacity. We're not. It's not necessarily all a choice, correct,
So understanding at least, so yeah, CalWIN's Entertainment report, he's
on the Freas Show.
Speaker 7 (27:40):
Chris Stapleton and his wife donated one million to support
the victims of those devastating bloods in Texas. The couple's charity,
Outlaws State of Kind, announce the donation will be split
among several charities like Texas Search and Rescue, World Central Kitchen,
and a few others. And if you want to donate
and anything helps, any helps, you can head two Community
(28:02):
Foundation dot net if you want to get involved. Moving
on to singer Zach Bryan, who has seemingly started coming
for X and barstool employee Brianna chicken Fry out of nowhere.
Speaker 5 (28:13):
It seems like, I don't know.
Speaker 7 (28:14):
What has gotten his his little self so upset, but
his army of fans started coming for her as well,
saying she's lying about how things went down during the breakup.
She ignored it, ignored it, and remember she was the
one who said she was offered an NDA in exchange
for her silence, So she decided to scare screenshots from
what she says was his team texting her outlining the terms. Now,
(28:37):
first of all, she said, his team is not really
like the sharpest tool in the shed.
Speaker 5 (28:42):
Why are we texting the terms of an.
Speaker 7 (28:44):
NDA like that with like bullet points and typos.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
It just seems if that's true crazy.
Speaker 7 (28:49):
But according to the message, here's what the deal included.
Speaker 5 (28:52):
She had two options.
Speaker 7 (28:54):
Ten million or three million plus the Massachusetts house that
Zach bought them, which cast seven point five million in return.
Speaker 5 (29:02):
Here's the bullets of what she would have to do. Now,
this is allegedly what they texted her.
Speaker 7 (29:06):
Number one promised not to speak about Zach or his
quote non public cheating, So I guess if he publicly cheated,
she could speak about that.
Speaker 5 (29:13):
That's private.
Speaker 7 (29:16):
It guarantee a specific recording where Zak yelled at her
friends and family at a bonfire never sees the light
of day. She was also asked to publicly defend Zach
if questioned by media or fans, and she has always
said that she turned it down so she could speak
about her own experience, really own that, and share only
the parts that may help other women. Now, as for
Zaki does have a new woman in his life. Her
(29:36):
name is Samantha Leonard, and she looks so much like
Breonna that it's actually scary. And I just showed Jason.
I don't know what's going on there, but there's something
and that just freaks me out when people date someone
else after and it's like, that's the same person, That
is the same person. And lastly, singer Kim Carnes who
you know she sings Betty Davis's eyes, of course if
you don't know that name. She's sharing how she really
(29:59):
feels about jojoh seas cover of the hit Now. She said,
I can only speak to how it initially struck me.
The phrasing, the tone, even the inflections. It all felt
a little too close. I'm all for female artists lifting
each other up. This business can be brutal, and I
strongly reject any kind of hate and personal attacks that
I've seen online. But at the same time, I believe
artists have the right to speak openly about how something
(30:21):
makes them feel, especially when it's a little personal and close.
And I think even the way she dressed up everything
kind of freaked her out. She initially posted her first
reaction and then she deleted it and elaborated on her feelings.
But remember that was the cover was man Dave and it.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Was going very well. That was actually I played the
audio just then.
Speaker 5 (30:40):
Yeah, you were quick on that.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
I was it really was. That was that was her
singing it.
Speaker 14 (30:44):
Yeah, so she doesn't love it. It's sounds bed Dave. Everyone,
thank you, thank you so much, you do.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
I do love her.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
I love it. It's so camp. But that wasn't good.
You can you can love someone and then you cannot
love everything they do act she ate with that cover.
It was really bad.
Speaker 5 (31:08):
Tomato tomato.
Speaker 7 (31:10):
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Speaker 1 (31:32):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Shelley in the Showbiz Shohow Now Military Mike didn't have
any issue when you first had babies, right, he was well.
Speaker 5 (31:48):
Than that, Yeah, I was gonna.
Speaker 7 (31:49):
I feel like Mightship isn't a good baramter because she's
just gone a lot.
Speaker 5 (31:54):
So I feel like it's it's just a little bit different.
Speaker 6 (31:57):
But man, I feel for her that that's sad because
it's such a hard time after you have a baby.
Speaker 5 (32:02):
For lots of reasons.
Speaker 6 (32:03):
I think I told you guys, like from going from
zero kids to one kid, it's a lot like you know,
you hear like, oh, it's a lot of work, but yeah,
it's a lot of work.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
Can it changes like it changes the dynamic of everything.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
So yeah, it's a hard thing for everybody. But like
especially when you add the human chemical component, it's like
have some grace here, you know, Yeah, time at all?
Right exactly? Margo, Hi, Margo Hire, what's up? Margo? Fun
fact about you?
Speaker 11 (32:30):
Ease?
Speaker 1 (32:32):
I'll be sixty this year. Oh my god, Margo, well
happy almost sixtieth.
Speaker 5 (32:38):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
Let's see how well you do here. Five questions against
our pop culture expert showb is Shelley. Two hundred and
fifty bucks is the price? Three game wins streak one
twenty three wins, sixty nine losses, you ready, Yes, I'm ready.
Let's do it.
Speaker 5 (32:52):
Okay, good luck?
Speaker 1 (32:53):
All right, with all the respect, Shelley, you gotta go
into the sound booth. Poof question number one Margo Rihanna
walk the red carpet with her kids for the premiere
of the Swurfs movie. How many kids does she have? Two? Okay?
Which actress was spotted with top gun actor Danny Ramirez
after her divorce from Cash Warren. Jessica Alma, Amaya Espinol,
(33:19):
and Brian Arenalez were announced as the winners of This
Peacock Show and awarded one hundred thousand dollars Love Island.
You are killing it, Margo, which DC movie broke box
office records after its release over the weekend. Superman and
HBO's Harry Potter series is officially in production. Who played
Harry Potter in the movie series, Daniel Radcliff. That's five.
(33:45):
That's a five.
Speaker 5 (33:47):
Oh boyoy mao.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
I'm so proud of you. She got a five.
Speaker 8 (33:53):
Oh, Margaret, I remembered that that is really really good.
Speaker 1 (33:59):
Okay, let's see how you do, Shelley. We got to focus.
I am, I know, I know. Rihanna walked the red
carpet with her kids for the premiere of the Smurfs movie.
How many kids does she have?
Speaker 5 (34:12):
Well? That are like out in Rebelly two.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
Yeah, two with one on the way. That's right, which
actress was spotted with tockun Actor Danny Ramirez made her
divorce from cash Worn Jessica Alba, yes Amaya Espinal and
Brian R. Nalis, who announced as the winners of This
Peacock Show and awarded one hundred thousand dollars. Love Island, Yeah,
which DC movie broke box office records after its release
(34:37):
over the weekend. Superman yep, and HBO's Harry Potter series
is officially in production. Who played Harry Potter in the
movie series, Daniel Radclffe. That's a five. That's a time, Margo.
You got to come back tomorrow, Okay, all right, Wow,
I'm still impressed with you. Margot showed three hundred bucks.
You made earn yourself an extra fifty and we're stalled
out at the three game win streak. So three hundred
(34:59):
bucks tomorrow, hang on, all right, Shelley, good work.
Speaker 5 (35:04):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 7 (35:05):
I need to watch Love Island, right like I That's
a show I would like, right, Cale, Yeah, you just need.
Speaker 5 (35:09):
A lot of time, which I don't.
Speaker 7 (35:11):
Know if you have as a mom of no wonder,
I even't started it right.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
I don't know if I can bring myself. I've said okay,
I'm gonna do it, and then I can't.
Speaker 5 (35:19):
You promised me.
Speaker 11 (35:22):
No.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
There's too much dancing in the intro like everybody's what now?
Speaker 1 (35:27):
You told me that there was a choreographed number.
Speaker 5 (35:29):
I said in the beginning forward through that.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
And I don't like a number. I'm not a number guy.
I don't like a number.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
You're not gonna like you, brother. They're jumping out of
trees like twirl in everybody's why Why is it necessary?
Let's get to the smut right because there are a
bunch of hot people hikinis.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
I've already seen the TikTok parodies. Hey can I pull
you aside?
Speaker 7 (35:46):
Play for a chat text bachelor?
Speaker 1 (35:51):
Like okay, put your put your like I'm really into
like another like four or five other girls here, like.
Speaker 5 (35:58):
I'm a mommy that you've not seen that? No on TikTok.
Speaker 1 (36:05):
Oh, I don't know how would I know the reference?
I haven't watched the show.
Speaker 7 (36:08):
Oh, it's like this is like how you when we
didn't know the plane thing and you thought we were crazy, Yeah, Masita,
except no one told us that Ms Huddah is one
of our mary own from Raleigh.
Speaker 4 (36:18):
Oh is she?
Speaker 5 (36:19):
Yes, she is from Raleigh or she lives there. At
least I didn't know that, yes, one of us. Maybe
she's one of the thirteen.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Then I take it back. Then it's probably one of
the thirteen, and you're you're gonna pack otherwise otherwise I'm
not sure. I just don't know. No, I didn't know
that reference.
Speaker 4 (36:32):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (36:32):
Oh wow.
Speaker 7 (36:33):
Yeah, there was a really dumb conversation when she was
trying to tell another islander that she is a real
life mom and he like it didn't compute. So he
was like, mommy a mom of what Mamasita? And she's like, no,
like I have a human child.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
Oh I did see that. I just wouldn't. I wouldn't
know the reference. Kind of watch the show. Yeah, I
mean you know, that's why there's eighty seven of us
on this show, because everybody watches different stuff, and then
we're covered. Shelley, I want you to have a great day,
and Margot's coming for you tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (36:59):
I No, she's good, all right, she is good.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
Okay, talk to you later. All right, waiting met the phone.
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