September 12, 2025 • 23 mins
Kaelin met a new guy at the dog park and he ran the second he found out she had a boyfriend. Also, find out why Chris got ghosted on a new Waiting by the Phone!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the fread Show. It is a friend show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Good Morning, one O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number
one hit music station. Amy Weather is here, my friend,
our friend, Uh aunt Amy, Mama Amy? Are you Mima Amy?
Or you wanna be Mama?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Is that kind of weird? Mama? What do you want
to be?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Found so old? I'm not that much older than you. Fred,
Do you feel like the aunt or the older sisters?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Say?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Okay, you can be Tia, you can be Ta Amy.
It's Aunt Amy.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
We're going Spanish, right.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
That's Spanish, Yes it is. But we're here and we're
gonna hook some folks up. We've got We've got some
nurses here, first responders. Let's welcome Mary and Lauren. Hi,
Mary and Lauren? How you doing?
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Lauren?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
You know I always I do this every time. Oh,
my friend Amy weatherright is here from one one hundred
truck track by the way, which is a It's a
good thing. I know there's a lawyer on the phone,
but it's a good thing, guys, I promise.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yes, it is always good on the phone with Fred.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
But Laura and you have no idea what we're doing here.
I always have to ask the question of the other
person on the call. You have no clue what this
is about?
Speaker 5 (01:06):
No, I have no idea.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Okay, Well, Mary is your sister and she wrote us
a note about you.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Mary. Can I read this?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Absolutely all right, says hi, Amy and Fred.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
My sister Lauren works as a nurse at Lourie Children's Hospital.
She also does so much for others outside of work.
Anyone in her life can count on her for anything.
She's always babysitting for friends and family when she's not working.
She could use this money that we're giving away. We
are giving away some money surprise to help her reach
her goal of getting her master's degree. She's someone juggling work,
(01:37):
school and being an amazing person.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Your sister loves you, Lauren, she does clearly. And what
are you studying? What is the master's degree in nursing.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
I'm actually getting my MBA. I hope to go into
hospital administration.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Wow. Okay, Mark, And what area Lourie do you do
you work in?
Speaker 6 (01:55):
I work on the twenty first floor, so it's general
medicine and pulmonary All right.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Wow, of a work that they do at Lury Children's Hospital.
And Amy, I think we should do something nice for Lauren.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I think we should too, obviously, And Lauren, I think
it's great you've got your nursing degree, then you're going
to get an MBA. I always tell everybody it can
never hurt to have an MBA and know something about business.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
So good for you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
And quite frankly, you're right down the street from me
because I'm in Streeterville, so we love Laura. You know
Daurn Hospital. I cut through there all the time when
I'm walking up the whole Foods. I know exactly where
you are. Buy you lunch one day, but in the interim,
instead of a thousand bucks, Fred, let's do two thousand
dollars today for Lauren.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
There you go, Laura, Okay, just like that, two thousand
bucks to go towards.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
The master's degree.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Or you could do something nice for yourself, because it
sounds like you're busy doing stuff for other people all
the time.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Always yes, no, but thank you so much. Really is
very helpful for me.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
And you all marry one.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I guess maybe take Mary to lunch or something, because
Mary hasn't said a whole lot, but she made this
whole thing happen for you.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
She's my big old assistant.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
You know, if she helped me out through anything, I
only can count on her, so I not do something
nice for her.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Good looking out Mary and Lauren. Wait wait wait wait,
and you know there are a lot of hot freads.
I don't know if there are. Listen. It was kind
of fun.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Oh yeah, he was I like a man and go
to work.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Yeah, he beat him at his feet on the ground.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
That's good to you know.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
That's all.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Fred's show is on Friday, Good Morning, every one, September twelve.
Fred Show is not Hi, Kaylen, Hi, Jason Brian and
Hello Kiki, good morning, oning us out today Shelby Shelley
is hearing about twenty minutes, one hundred and fifty bucks
in the showdown. Five pop culture questions, one game win streak?
Will you hand her loss number seventy two and get
some money to start the weekend?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Waiting by the phone is new?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
And next way, if somebody get ghost to be entertainer
of just now and see what's in there?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
K Now, there is a new Whitney Houston dua and
you heard that correctly. However, I'm scared to do the
story because when I told Kiki that there was a
new Whitney Houston duet.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
She told me, don't take me off, like.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Don't make me massy. I say the same thing.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
Let Whitney bread, I see the same passenger.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Do we have a clip of it?
Speaker 5 (04:19):
We are getting a.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Clip over, We're getting a clip. We're working on that.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yes.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
Our technical department is our technical department.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
So Bell is using the Internet Explorer from two thousand
and four, so certainly editing software from nineteen ninety three.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Yes, And when Whitney comes in, surely it will skip
and we won't be able to hear the pres radio
I heard.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
We were cutting it off right when she starts singing.
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Jason Kelsey said, I radio.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Right, exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
It's only one of the biggest things in the company
that day, and then leaping him. She's bringing to me
on a tape actually, but we don't have a tape player,
so it's going to be hard for us to do. Yeah,
morning everyone, it's great here. I love it, and we're
commercial free for the next forty minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
You don't have to go anywhere. They talk better than
they say.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. You
played it for me a little while ago, and I
started to hear her singing, and I'm like, wait, someone
else is involved with this, and you're like yeah, I'm
like key, I looked at each other. It's the same thing,
the same visceral reaction. We don't need it.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
And there's a music video.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
We all don't do it, like I don't care. You
can be very very talented. I've heard very few people
do anything with Whitney Houston that makes me happy. Iigo did,
but he didn't he used Whitney's vocals and he didn't
try and sing with Whitney. And there's only you know what,
I think, there's only one or two people I've ever
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heard ever in my life. There's a girl I know,
she's the one I dreamed of. Look into my eyes,
take me to the clouds of.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Now. I lose control. Can't see him beginning it. I
can't see beginning, you know, real lyrics. I never mind.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Look look like she knows. I want to say. She's
on the Harvard like glee club, honestly. And there was
a video on TikTok of how will I Know? And
they were doing it, and you know, I'm not a
huge fan of the You're like, we're there, ooh, you
know whatever that is?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
What are they doing?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
You know when they do the whole thing with there,
they make like every I don't know enough about music
to like, but every Yeah, layer of the song is vocals.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
But she just I'll see if I can find it.
She just belt it out.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
It's so good, like not over song, Like she's really
got the vocals to do it.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I think a lot of people over sing.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
It because they don't have They don't have because nobody
has Whitney Houston vocals.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Nobody anyway.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Sorry, He's do a blog, okay, like writing in our diaries,
except we say I'm aloud, go ahead.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Deer blog. So I have a question for the straight men.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
So I guess Fred and any and Kiki anyone listening?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
So me okay, sure.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
And it was something that was ruminating in my mind,
and then you said something the other day that I
kind of feel like affirmed this, And so I just
want to know why do straight men not want to
make new straight female friends?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Okay, what's the context?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
So?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
And I think I have my stage and I can
tell you why.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Okay, for sure. I'm excited to know because I've been.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Pondering this because my new thing and I found like
a life hack is taking a bottle of wine to
the dog park, and so I sit outside.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
There's hell of dogs there. Don't worry. I have one too,
so I'm not like creepy. Just sitting in the door would.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Be a little strange.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I guess if you just went to the dog park
without one, but you probably can.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
Yeah, but it's the cheapest bar in town. I bring
it in my little bag, a red solo cup, and
I sit there, I play with dogs, I have my
little happy hour. My dog gets outside. What YadA YadA.
So the other night I went and this is a
little sad. I went on a Saturday night.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
That is not sad. That sounds like an amazing night.
A bunch of dogs, a red solo cup full of
alcohol and.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Solitude.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Yeah, no, that's probably is You've described the greatest Saturday time.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Listen.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
The weather was hitting. It was hoodie weather. I went
to Binnies. I got some red wine, like I was
just you know, we were Me and Willie were city girls.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
Okay, girls up.
Speaker 6 (08:11):
So I went to the park and unfortunately on Saturday
nights it's a little less crowded than it is on
other nights. As there was only one other gentleman there,
and so you know, I pull up, I get my spot,
and usually at the dog park you end up talking
to other people that are there because your dogs play,
and like because you're.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Kind of just standing there or sitting there. You know
what they're doing there. Yeah, it's a social event for them.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
It really is, like we have chairs at ours.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
And he was standing up playing with the dogs, but
his dogs ran over to me. So whatever, we ended
up talking and we were really like, we were just
kicking it. We were both hanging out. I asked him,
you know, I'm like, shoot, I wish I would have
brought you a cup. I would have had some wine
for you. And he's like, yeah, I'm jealous. And so
we talked for a little while we hung out and
he was asking me questions and then came the answer
of well, how long.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
Did you have your dog?
Speaker 6 (08:55):
And then I explained that she was my boyfriend's first
for a long time and then we started dating and
she kind.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
Of just became obsessed with.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Each other and got to ask my dog and regardless
of what happens, is my dog.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
I'm glad you're learning. But the second that I brought
up that I had a boyfriend. This man like there
was he ran through the fence, like he didn't even
open the door to the fence.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
He literally put his dogs on his leashes and he
got the hell home. And I was just.
Speaker 6 (09:22):
There with my you know what in my hand, and
I would say, like it hurt my feelings, and I
was like, I thought we were having fun. I thought
we were going to become friends, and maybe not like
an exchange of number situation, but like I thought we
were vibing, and it just really hurt my feelings.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
And then you said the other day, You're like, I'll
follow a hot.
Speaker 6 (09:40):
News anchor and see that she's got a ring, and
then I'll unfollow her.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Why don't you want new friends?
Speaker 2 (09:45):
And I don't mean to suggest when I said that,
I don't mean to Let me just clarify, Okay, I
don't mean to suggest I don't respect their work, but
I'll be honest. The first thing that I'm looking at
when I see is Wow, that person's attractive.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Right.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
These people live in like places I've never been. We
live in like, you know, College Station, Texas, Like I
don't care about the weather in College Station.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I'm sorry, I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
But I'm like, oh, that person's attractive, and then it's like,
oh they're married, and every yeah, I don't need to.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I would have.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Maybe cared if it was seventy eight degrees in college
station today, but I don't otherwise. Okay, but man, this
is what it is. I think that most guys are
trying to find someone to date. Like so he his
intention in coming over to you, he probably and continuing
to engage with you was that he found you attractive,
because theren't no anything else about you.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
I didn't look at well does the.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Matter he thought you were You're a good looking woman,
you know, appreciate, but I've seen the best of you,
and I've seen the worst of you, and it's still
a very high, high level, at a very high level.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
That's the lie.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
No, No, it's true. It's true. I do feel that way.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
But I think as soon as he heard that you
were taken that I guess it's just like, well, what
further engagement is there here? Because I would say that
typically it would be a pretty tough putt for a
single guy to make a platonic friendship with a woman
who had as a boyfriend, because it's just kind of
the way it is, like I think if you went
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home and like if you gave me your number, and
or like if I'll see tomorrow and we'll be friends,
you know, and we'll see each other at the dog park,
and you go home and tell your husband or especially
your boyfriend, Hey, I met this guy at the dog park,
gave him my number. We're gonna be friends. If we're
being very transparent, I think there are very few men
that would go, oh, that's a great idea, Like that's amazing,
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Like you should absolutely go drink and hang out with
another guy at the pain and it should be that way, right.
But but I'm just saying, we as mannor are weak
creatures at times, and we can be possessive and we
could be insecure.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
And I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
I think if if roles were reversed and your boyfriends
or fiance's or whomever came home and said the same thing,
you might.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
Be like, well that, what did you hear?
Speaker 2 (11:46):
That's not boundaried really, Like I don't I don't know
about that. I mean, it's just and again, is there
anything wrong with it inherently? But if I were guessing
it was he was interested and then you said you
had a boyfriend, and his takeaway is, I'm not going
to be her best friend. I don't really want to
be her best friend. And we're not gonna be able
to date so and I don't want to. I'm not
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trying to get in any weird situation if your boyfriend
walks up, So I'm just gonna walk away.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Yeah, And to be clear, like I have, I do
have boundaries, Like I would not have exchanged numbers with him.
I am a social person, like I I my boyfriend
doesn't look I mean we were in Greece and the
boat driver, like I exchanged Instagrams with him because I
wanted to, like see where his story went. Like I
don't I don't do it because I have a crush
on him, but I don't know. I just it made
me feel sad like I was only I don't know,
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like we weren't having a good conversation.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Otherwise, like I wouldn't take it that way. I would
just say he shut his taking saw an opportunity and
he didn't get it, and so he just dismissed. He
just you know, departed the kind of faster.
Speaker 5 (12:50):
Yeah, I don't know, get out of there.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Because I don't know what you know, he could have
I guess he could have certainly tried to be your friend.
Then he could have also been the douchebag guy that's like, well,
we don't care about him, do we?
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Or like you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yeah, no, I mean you know what I'm talking about
as women who've been hit on my men and were
in relationships, you know how. I'm sure in my life
I've done it, and I'm shamed, ashamed of myself. But
it's like, yeah, oh where's he? He ain't here, and
you know that kind of stupid stuff that men do.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
Yeah, I mean I didn't think we were gonna go
get pedicures together. I just thought like there could have
been a smoother transition of his exit, like you could
have stayed like.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
Ten more minutes. Make me not feel like, I don't know, maybe.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Maybe in some strange way, he was being respectful. Maybe
he felt like he didn't want you to feel hit on,
or he didn't want any sort of confrontation. I'm trying
to give this guy the benefit of the doubt, But
what it came down to is you thought you were
hot and then you were taken. So he walked away.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
I just like to yep, I'm from the Midwest, like
I'm just trying to talk to everyone.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
But yeah, that was it didn't feel great, so I'm sorry.
That's okay.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I don't think it was personal.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
I'll see you guys at the dog park.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I think he was envisioning a life together.
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Someone texted friend saying I don't know enough about music
while being in radio Forever is funny. No, I don't
know about music theory. I know a lot about music.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
I don't. I'm not in the lab. You know. I
don't go to the studio with Armin van Buren and
layer tracks. You know, don't. I don't know what it's
all called.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
You know, he doesn't know about glee club. It's like,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
I don't know what it's like to I can't build
a song with my mouth, okay, like I can no
not okay?
Speaker 8 (14:22):
Are you sure.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
I can make People saying you've never been left waiting.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
By the phone. It's the Fred Shell. Hey, Chris, good morning,
welcome to the program. How are you I'm doing okay,
how are you doing doing?
Speaker 1 (14:36):
All right? Man?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
What's going on with this woman, Chelsea, we got to
kind of know everything. It's waiting by the phone trying
to figure out maybe if you have been ghosted. So
tell us about any days that you've been on with Chelsea,
kind of how you met and where things are now,
the whole backstory.
Speaker 9 (14:49):
Okay, Well, we met on a dating app pretty much
like everybody does nowadays. We hung out twice, now, I
I mean, I thought we had a pretty good time.
We did talk about our past relationships, which I know
is not a good thing to do. But I am
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a little worried maybe I said too much and that
might be why she's not calling me back.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
I see. Okay, little self awareness on this one. You know,
this dude did some real reflection. It wasn't like I
didn't do anything. And then it turns out that he,
you know, I don't know, tried to put her feet
in his mouth or something, you know, I don't know,
but her things to make her smell better. He never
met her before, Like I mean, so you're saying that
maybe maybe some of the conversation was maybe some of
the topics were the things that you're not supposed to
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talk about on dates. But other than that, you felt
like everything went really well.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
I do.
Speaker 9 (15:42):
Yeah, no feet in the mouth or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
It's good and we like to try and keep them
out unless, you know, unless somebody wants that. But and
no judgment there. But that didn't happen here. So let's
play a song. Come back, Hey, Chris, Yes, all right,
welcome back. Let's call Chelsea. You guys, you made on
a dating app a lot of that's pretty much everybody meets,
and you went on two dates. You felt like everything
went really well. But you've reached out since the second
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date and you haven't heard back from her in any form,
and you want to know why.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
You feel like you're being ghosted. You have no idea why.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, I mean, like I said, it might.
Speaker 9 (16:14):
Be because I brought up some past relationship stuff. But otherwise, yeah,
I really don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
I mean, but that does people do talk about that,
of all the things. So let's call Chelsea now and
try and figure this out. Good luck, Thanks man. Hello,
Hi's this Chelsea.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Chelsea. Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call can which hat for just
a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (16:47):
Oh yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Thank you very much. We appreciate that we're calling on behalf.
I mean, she seemed like optimistic, but we'll see. We're
calling on behalf of a guy named Chris. I guess
you recently went a couple of days with Chris him.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Okay, Well, he called.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
Us and he had nice things to say about you
and said that he enjoyed the dates that you went on.
And apparently he's reached out for another one and you're
not responding to him at all, so he's trying to
figure out me, you know, why you might be ghosting him.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Okay, Well, yeah, we met on a dating app and
like everyone does, and after talking for a little bit,
he got my number and asked me out, and more
than a few times he brought up how important trust
is and how he's had women lie to him in
the past, and it seems pretty clear to me that
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he had been hurt and he clearly hasn't worked through
it or like let it go. I didn't love like
all the X talk or him you know, seemingly having
like a chip on his shoulder about women. But he
did seem a little nervous and tipsy. So I just
chalked it up to like first date jitters, and I
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wanted to give him a second chance.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Okay. So when he picked.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Me up for our second date, he told me he
had a surprise for me, and the surprise ended up
being a lie detector test.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Stop organized stop it.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
I wish he took you a polygraph examiner on the
second date, like a fun yeah, I mean like an
escape room would be one thing.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
But like he took you up you know, I don't
know a nice when they took you up a eminer? What? Wow?
I don't even know where you find that?
Speaker 5 (18:36):
Is there a story?
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Is there a group for that?
Speaker 6 (18:39):
Like?
Speaker 1 (18:39):
What did he take you to the FBI? Like?
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Okay, so he took you to get a legitimate.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
Liight detective test?
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (18:46):
And he for his reasoning was he said that way
we could start things off with a clean slate on
the right foot. And he told me he had some
questions and they would be like, have you ever cheated
on someone? Have you ever lied to a partner?
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (19:06):
I know it's.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Past and right.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Well, I'm told him he wasn't going to take the
test because it's stupid and I.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Don't blame you. I wouldn't have hey, I would have
known that he would have no C.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
And how'd that go over?
Speaker 4 (19:27):
He flipped out and said, like see, I knew this
was too good to be true.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
I never like I left and never like oh.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
He just was like freaking out.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I believe this guy had a lie. He's hector test
line up. I feel like you wanted to see if
you do it. And then when he said that you
you wouldn't any you know, because I don't even know
who to call. You call the captain s I guess
can't steeve our guy, you know, and maybe he's not
somebody who does this but gCO yeah yeah, oh yeah,
we'll call that guy left on this day of the investigation.
(20:00):
Let me bring Chris in, Chelsea. I'm trying to rupt you,
but I I he's on the phone. I failed to
mention that I'm very forgetful. But Chris, what are we doing?
You said you talked about past relationships. Fine, a lie
detector test.
Speaker 9 (20:12):
Well, to be honest, I think she's kind of exaggerating
the situation a little bit.
Speaker 7 (20:17):
It was more like a playful kind of day it
was just to see, you know, hey, let's let's be honest,
because when she brought up her exes, I felt like
she wasn't being one hundred percent honest.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
So I really didn't think it was that big of
a deal, you know.
Speaker 7 (20:31):
So let's just you would want to know some stuff too.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Let's sling by.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
The station and he'll get to some electrodes and let's
let's see, let's see if you're really telling the truth. Dude,
you're not entitled to that information. Like, it's very clear
that you don't trust people. I'm sorry for whatever the
you know, the catalyst for that is, but for whatever
reason you don't trust people, I'm sorry. But like, you
don't just get to go hook everybody up to a
light detector test. And even then, I'm not even sure
(20:53):
that's how that works.
Speaker 7 (20:55):
Well, no on a person would mind taking a light detector,
would take detected.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I don't know you. I didn't come murder.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
Chris when I because when I got home, you texted
me that you forgave me and I owe you a drink.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
No, that's the point where things got strange for you.
I see, Okay, all right, yeah, no, no, I'm not
I'm not.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
I love it unprompted. I forgive you like for that.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
By the way, this girl was right. But this reminds
you of the first date that I went on. I've
told you guys about it before. This is a long
time ago. But I went on a first day. I
had the next day off, and the date was kind
of flat, and so I'm like, I'm going home, and
she was like, what do you want to Let's go
another place.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
I'm like, no, I'm gonna go home.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Why didn't I left and I went to hang out
with my buddies because I was off the next day,
and she facetimed me like eight times in a row
because she wanted me to answer to prove that I
and then she was right.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
I was absolutely out of the bus. But I can
do that. I mean I did lie. I did love her,
but you're not entitled to know that.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Like, we went on a date, we had two drinks,
it was a nice time, and then I left and
went somewhere else.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
I have every right to do that. But she called
over and over again.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
I had to be FaceTime, and then when I wouldn't
pick up, it's like you liar, and I was but
that's it's not the point I can lie to someone
and I don't. I don't know after two dates, how
you believe that you're entitled to that level of access
to someone's psyche, Like you gotta trust issues, bro, you're
gonna have.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
I mean, that's unattractive in itself. That's not helping. Chris
fred I don't know. I think I'm asking the wrong
person here. It sounds like you're a liar.
Speaker 9 (22:35):
To be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
I mean, I have absolutely lied, and but I'm honest
about it. But I'm not asking people You're insane.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
We're not stopping by the bureau you hooked up to
get your deepest darket secrets. I'm not entitled to that
information the same way that girl's not entitled to know
where I am after a date.
Speaker 5 (22:56):
So take detectors on the show.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
I'm busy.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
So actually, you know what I would too, because I
don't think there's anything that I would have to lie about, Like,
you know.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Are you going to the club or are you not?
Speaker 1 (23:08):
I went to the club.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
I did, all right, Look, Chelsea, I'll ask the question,
no lie, detector, But you want to give this guy
another chance? I know the answer, But if you you
know whatever. Surprised me, absolutely not. Okay, all right, well
we're all liars, Chris, so sorry.
Speaker 9 (23:21):
Yeah, apparently you guys are a bunch of liars and
don't care about honesty.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
That's fine whatever.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
If i'm you, I find another way to regain trust
rather than strapping everybody in.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
It's all therapy.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
No, keep doing this, don't work.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
It's expensive, I'm sure
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Or you wanna be Mama?
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Speaker 3 (00:19):
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Do you feel like the aunt or the older sisters?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
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Speaker 3 (00:32):
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That's Spanish, Yes it is. But we're here and we're
gonna hook some folks up. We've got We've got some
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Mary and Lauren? How you doing?
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Speaker 1 (00:47):
Lauren?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
You know I always I do this every time. Oh,
my friend Amy weatherright is here from one one hundred
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good thing. I know there's a lawyer on the phone,
but it's a good thing, guys, I promise.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yes, it is always good on the phone with Fred.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
But Laura and you have no idea what we're doing here.
I always have to ask the question of the other
person on the call. You have no clue what this
is about?
Speaker 5 (01:06):
No, I have no idea.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Okay, Well, Mary is your sister and she wrote us
a note about you.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Mary. Can I read this?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Absolutely all right, says hi, Amy and Fred.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
My sister Lauren works as a nurse at Lourie Children's Hospital.
She also does so much for others outside of work.
Anyone in her life can count on her for anything.
She's always babysitting for friends and family when she's not working.
She could use this money that we're giving away. We
are giving away some money surprise to help her reach
her goal of getting her master's degree. She's someone juggling work,
(01:37):
school and being an amazing person.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Your sister loves you, Lauren, she does clearly. And what
are you studying? What is the master's degree in nursing.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
I'm actually getting my MBA. I hope to go into
hospital administration.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Wow. Okay, Mark, And what area Lourie do you do
you work in?
Speaker 6 (01:55):
I work on the twenty first floor, so it's general
medicine and pulmonary All right.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Wow, of a work that they do at Lury Children's Hospital.
And Amy, I think we should do something nice for Lauren.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I think we should too, obviously, And Lauren, I think
it's great you've got your nursing degree, then you're going
to get an MBA. I always tell everybody it can
never hurt to have an MBA and know something about business.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
So good for you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
And quite frankly, you're right down the street from me
because I'm in Streeterville, so we love Laura. You know
Daurn Hospital. I cut through there all the time when
I'm walking up the whole Foods. I know exactly where
you are. Buy you lunch one day, but in the interim,
instead of a thousand bucks, Fred, let's do two thousand
dollars today for Lauren.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
There you go, Laura, Okay, just like that, two thousand
bucks to go towards.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
The master's degree.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Or you could do something nice for yourself, because it
sounds like you're busy doing stuff for other people all
the time.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Always yes, no, but thank you so much. Really is
very helpful for me.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
And you all marry one.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I guess maybe take Mary to lunch or something, because
Mary hasn't said a whole lot, but she made this
whole thing happen for you.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
She's my big old assistant.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
You know, if she helped me out through anything, I
only can count on her, so I not do something
nice for her.
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Good looking out Mary and Lauren. Wait wait wait wait,
and you know there are a lot of hot freads.
I don't know if there are. Listen. It was kind
of fun.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Oh yeah, he was I like a man and go
to work.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Yeah, he beat him at his feet on the ground.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
That's good to you know.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
That's all.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Fred's show is on Friday, Good Morning, every one, September twelve.
Fred Show is not Hi, Kaylen, Hi, Jason Brian and
Hello Kiki, good morning, oning us out today Shelby Shelley
is hearing about twenty minutes, one hundred and fifty bucks
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Speaker 1 (03:56):
Waiting by the phone is new?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
And next way, if somebody get ghost to be entertainer
of just now and see what's in there?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
K Now, there is a new Whitney Houston dua and
you heard that correctly. However, I'm scared to do the
story because when I told Kiki that there was a
new Whitney Houston duet.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
She told me, don't take me off, like.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Don't make me massy. I say the same thing.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
Let Whitney bread, I see the same passenger.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Do we have a clip of it?
Speaker 5 (04:19):
We are getting a.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Clip over, We're getting a clip. We're working on that.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yes.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
Our technical department is our technical department.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
So Bell is using the Internet Explorer from two thousand
and four, so certainly editing software from nineteen ninety three.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Yes, And when Whitney comes in, surely it will skip
and we won't be able to hear the pres radio
I heard.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
We were cutting it off right when she starts singing.
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Jason Kelsey said, I radio.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Right, exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
It's only one of the biggest things in the company
that day, and then leaping him. She's bringing to me
on a tape actually, but we don't have a tape player,
so it's going to be hard for us to do. Yeah,
morning everyone, it's great here. I love it, and we're
commercial free for the next forty minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
You don't have to go anywhere. They talk better than
they say.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. You
played it for me a little while ago, and I
started to hear her singing, and I'm like, wait, someone
else is involved with this, and you're like yeah, I'm
like key, I looked at each other. It's the same thing,
the same visceral reaction. We don't need it.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
And there's a music video.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
We all don't do it, like I don't care. You
can be very very talented. I've heard very few people
do anything with Whitney Houston that makes me happy. Iigo did,
but he didn't he used Whitney's vocals and he didn't
try and sing with Whitney. And there's only you know what,
I think, there's only one or two people I've ever
(05:40):
heard ever in my life. There's a girl I know,
she's the one I dreamed of. Look into my eyes,
take me to the clouds of.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Now. I lose control. Can't see him beginning it. I
can't see beginning, you know, real lyrics. I never mind.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Look look like she knows. I want to say. She's
on the Harvard like glee club, honestly. And there was
a video on TikTok of how will I Know? And
they were doing it, and you know, I'm not a
huge fan of the You're like, we're there, ooh, you
know whatever that is?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
What are they doing?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
You know when they do the whole thing with there,
they make like every I don't know enough about music
to like, but every Yeah, layer of the song is vocals.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
But she just I'll see if I can find it.
She just belt it out.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
It's so good, like not over song, Like she's really
got the vocals to do it.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I think a lot of people over sing.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
It because they don't have They don't have because nobody
has Whitney Houston vocals.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Nobody anyway.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Sorry, He's do a blog, okay, like writing in our diaries,
except we say I'm aloud, go ahead.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Deer blog. So I have a question for the straight men.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
So I guess Fred and any and Kiki anyone listening?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
So me okay, sure.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
And it was something that was ruminating in my mind,
and then you said something the other day that I
kind of feel like affirmed this, And so I just
want to know why do straight men not want to
make new straight female friends?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Okay, what's the context?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
So?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
And I think I have my stage and I can
tell you why.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Okay, for sure. I'm excited to know because I've been.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Pondering this because my new thing and I found like
a life hack is taking a bottle of wine to
the dog park, and so I sit outside.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
There's hell of dogs there. Don't worry. I have one too,
so I'm not like creepy. Just sitting in the door would.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Be a little strange.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I guess if you just went to the dog park
without one, but you probably can.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
Yeah, but it's the cheapest bar in town. I bring
it in my little bag, a red solo cup, and
I sit there, I play with dogs, I have my
little happy hour. My dog gets outside. What YadA YadA.
So the other night I went and this is a
little sad. I went on a Saturday night.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
That is not sad. That sounds like an amazing night.
A bunch of dogs, a red solo cup full of
alcohol and.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Solitude.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Yeah, no, that's probably is You've described the greatest Saturday time.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Listen.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
The weather was hitting. It was hoodie weather. I went
to Binnies. I got some red wine, like I was
just you know, we were Me and Willie were city girls.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
Okay, girls up.
Speaker 6 (08:11):
So I went to the park and unfortunately on Saturday
nights it's a little less crowded than it is on
other nights. As there was only one other gentleman there,
and so you know, I pull up, I get my spot,
and usually at the dog park you end up talking
to other people that are there because your dogs play,
and like because you're.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Kind of just standing there or sitting there. You know
what they're doing there. Yeah, it's a social event for them.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
It really is, like we have chairs at ours.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
And he was standing up playing with the dogs, but
his dogs ran over to me. So whatever, we ended
up talking and we were really like, we were just
kicking it. We were both hanging out. I asked him,
you know, I'm like, shoot, I wish I would have
brought you a cup. I would have had some wine
for you. And he's like, yeah, I'm jealous. And so
we talked for a little while we hung out and
he was asking me questions and then came the answer
of well, how long.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
Did you have your dog?
Speaker 6 (08:55):
And then I explained that she was my boyfriend's first
for a long time and then we started dating and
she kind.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
Of just became obsessed with.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Each other and got to ask my dog and regardless
of what happens, is my dog.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
I'm glad you're learning. But the second that I brought
up that I had a boyfriend. This man like there
was he ran through the fence, like he didn't even
open the door to the fence.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
He literally put his dogs on his leashes and he
got the hell home. And I was just.
Speaker 6 (09:22):
There with my you know what in my hand, and
I would say, like it hurt my feelings, and I
was like, I thought we were having fun. I thought
we were going to become friends, and maybe not like
an exchange of number situation, but like I thought we
were vibing, and it just really hurt my feelings.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
And then you said the other day, You're like, I'll
follow a hot.
Speaker 6 (09:40):
News anchor and see that she's got a ring, and
then I'll unfollow her.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Why don't you want new friends?
Speaker 2 (09:45):
And I don't mean to suggest when I said that,
I don't mean to Let me just clarify, Okay, I
don't mean to suggest I don't respect their work, but
I'll be honest. The first thing that I'm looking at
when I see is Wow, that person's attractive.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Right.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
These people live in like places I've never been. We
live in like, you know, College Station, Texas, Like I
don't care about the weather in College Station.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I'm sorry, I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
But I'm like, oh, that person's attractive, and then it's like,
oh they're married, and every yeah, I don't need to.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I would have.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Maybe cared if it was seventy eight degrees in college
station today, but I don't otherwise. Okay, but man, this
is what it is. I think that most guys are
trying to find someone to date. Like so he his
intention in coming over to you, he probably and continuing
to engage with you was that he found you attractive,
because theren't no anything else about you.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
I didn't look at well does the.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Matter he thought you were You're a good looking woman,
you know, appreciate, but I've seen the best of you,
and I've seen the worst of you, and it's still
a very high, high level, at a very high level.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
That's the lie.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
No, No, it's true. It's true. I do feel that way.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
But I think as soon as he heard that you
were taken that I guess it's just like, well, what
further engagement is there here? Because I would say that
typically it would be a pretty tough putt for a
single guy to make a platonic friendship with a woman
who had as a boyfriend, because it's just kind of
the way it is, like I think if you went
(11:05):
home and like if you gave me your number, and
or like if I'll see tomorrow and we'll be friends,
you know, and we'll see each other at the dog park,
and you go home and tell your husband or especially
your boyfriend, Hey, I met this guy at the dog park,
gave him my number. We're gonna be friends. If we're
being very transparent, I think there are very few men
that would go, oh, that's a great idea, Like that's amazing,
(11:26):
Like you should absolutely go drink and hang out with
another guy at the pain and it should be that way, right.
But but I'm just saying, we as mannor are weak
creatures at times, and we can be possessive and we
could be insecure.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
And I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
I think if if roles were reversed and your boyfriends
or fiance's or whomever came home and said the same thing,
you might.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
Be like, well that, what did you hear?
Speaker 2 (11:46):
That's not boundaried really, Like I don't I don't know
about that. I mean, it's just and again, is there
anything wrong with it inherently? But if I were guessing
it was he was interested and then you said you
had a boyfriend, and his takeaway is, I'm not going
to be her best friend. I don't really want to
be her best friend. And we're not gonna be able
to date so and I don't want to. I'm not
(12:07):
trying to get in any weird situation if your boyfriend
walks up, So I'm just gonna walk away.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Yeah, And to be clear, like I have, I do
have boundaries, Like I would not have exchanged numbers with him.
I am a social person, like I I my boyfriend
doesn't look I mean we were in Greece and the
boat driver, like I exchanged Instagrams with him because I
wanted to, like see where his story went. Like I
don't I don't do it because I have a crush
on him, but I don't know. I just it made
me feel sad like I was only I don't know,
(12:34):
like we weren't having a good conversation.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Otherwise, like I wouldn't take it that way. I would
just say he shut his taking saw an opportunity and
he didn't get it, and so he just dismissed. He
just you know, departed the kind of faster.
Speaker 5 (12:50):
Yeah, I don't know, get out of there.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Because I don't know what you know, he could have
I guess he could have certainly tried to be your friend.
Then he could have also been the douchebag guy that's like, well,
we don't care about him, do we?
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Or like you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yeah, no, I mean you know what I'm talking about
as women who've been hit on my men and were
in relationships, you know how. I'm sure in my life
I've done it, and I'm shamed, ashamed of myself. But
it's like, yeah, oh where's he? He ain't here, and
you know that kind of stupid stuff that men do.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
Yeah, I mean I didn't think we were gonna go
get pedicures together. I just thought like there could have
been a smoother transition of his exit, like you could
have stayed like.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
Ten more minutes. Make me not feel like, I don't know, maybe.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Maybe in some strange way, he was being respectful. Maybe
he felt like he didn't want you to feel hit on,
or he didn't want any sort of confrontation. I'm trying
to give this guy the benefit of the doubt, But
what it came down to is you thought you were
hot and then you were taken. So he walked away.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
I just like to yep, I'm from the Midwest, like
I'm just trying to talk to everyone.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
But yeah, that was it didn't feel great, so I'm sorry.
That's okay.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I don't think it was personal.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
I'll see you guys at the dog park.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I think he was envisioning a life together.
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Someone texted friend saying I don't know enough about music
while being in radio Forever is funny. No, I don't
know about music theory. I know a lot about music.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
I don't. I'm not in the lab. You know. I
don't go to the studio with Armin van Buren and
layer tracks. You know, don't. I don't know what it's
all called.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
You know, he doesn't know about glee club. It's like,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
I don't know what it's like to I can't build
a song with my mouth, okay, like I can no
not okay?
Speaker 8 (14:22):
Are you sure.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
I can make People saying you've never been left waiting.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
By the phone. It's the Fred Shell. Hey, Chris, good morning,
welcome to the program. How are you I'm doing okay,
how are you doing doing?
Speaker 1 (14:36):
All right? Man?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
What's going on with this woman, Chelsea, we got to
kind of know everything. It's waiting by the phone trying
to figure out maybe if you have been ghosted. So
tell us about any days that you've been on with Chelsea,
kind of how you met and where things are now,
the whole backstory.
Speaker 9 (14:49):
Okay, Well, we met on a dating app pretty much
like everybody does nowadays. We hung out twice, now, I
I mean, I thought we had a pretty good time.
We did talk about our past relationships, which I know
is not a good thing to do. But I am
(15:10):
a little worried maybe I said too much and that
might be why she's not calling me back.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
I see. Okay, little self awareness on this one. You know,
this dude did some real reflection. It wasn't like I
didn't do anything. And then it turns out that he,
you know, I don't know, tried to put her feet
in his mouth or something, you know, I don't know,
but her things to make her smell better. He never
met her before, Like I mean, so you're saying that
maybe maybe some of the conversation was maybe some of
the topics were the things that you're not supposed to
(15:37):
talk about on dates. But other than that, you felt
like everything went really well.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
I do.
Speaker 9 (15:42):
Yeah, no feet in the mouth or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
It's good and we like to try and keep them
out unless, you know, unless somebody wants that. But and
no judgment there. But that didn't happen here. So let's
play a song. Come back, Hey, Chris, Yes, all right,
welcome back. Let's call Chelsea. You guys, you made on
a dating app a lot of that's pretty much everybody meets,
and you went on two dates. You felt like everything
went really well. But you've reached out since the second
(16:05):
date and you haven't heard back from her in any form,
and you want to know why.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
You feel like you're being ghosted. You have no idea why.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, I mean, like I said, it might.
Speaker 9 (16:14):
Be because I brought up some past relationship stuff. But otherwise, yeah,
I really don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
I mean, but that does people do talk about that,
of all the things. So let's call Chelsea now and
try and figure this out. Good luck, Thanks man. Hello,
Hi's this Chelsea.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Chelsea. Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call can which hat for just
a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (16:47):
Oh yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Thank you very much. We appreciate that we're calling on behalf.
I mean, she seemed like optimistic, but we'll see. We're
calling on behalf of a guy named Chris. I guess
you recently went a couple of days with Chris him.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Okay, Well, he called.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
Us and he had nice things to say about you
and said that he enjoyed the dates that you went on.
And apparently he's reached out for another one and you're
not responding to him at all, so he's trying to
figure out me, you know, why you might be ghosting him.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Okay, Well, yeah, we met on a dating app and
like everyone does, and after talking for a little bit,
he got my number and asked me out, and more
than a few times he brought up how important trust
is and how he's had women lie to him in
the past, and it seems pretty clear to me that
(17:38):
he had been hurt and he clearly hasn't worked through
it or like let it go. I didn't love like
all the X talk or him you know, seemingly having
like a chip on his shoulder about women. But he
did seem a little nervous and tipsy. So I just
chalked it up to like first date jitters, and I
(18:00):
wanted to give him a second chance.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Okay. So when he picked.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Me up for our second date, he told me he
had a surprise for me, and the surprise ended up
being a lie detector test.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Stop organized stop it.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
I wish he took you a polygraph examiner on the
second date, like a fun yeah, I mean like an
escape room would be one thing.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
But like he took you up you know, I don't
know a nice when they took you up a eminer? What? Wow?
I don't even know where you find that?
Speaker 5 (18:36):
Is there a story?
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Is there a group for that?
Speaker 6 (18:39):
Like?
Speaker 1 (18:39):
What did he take you to the FBI? Like?
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Okay, so he took you to get a legitimate.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
Liight detective test?
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (18:46):
And he for his reasoning was he said that way
we could start things off with a clean slate on
the right foot. And he told me he had some
questions and they would be like, have you ever cheated
on someone? Have you ever lied to a partner?
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (19:06):
I know it's.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Past and right.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Well, I'm told him he wasn't going to take the
test because it's stupid and I.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Don't blame you. I wouldn't have hey, I would have
known that he would have no C.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
And how'd that go over?
Speaker 4 (19:27):
He flipped out and said, like see, I knew this
was too good to be true.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
I never like I left and never like oh.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
He just was like freaking out.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I believe this guy had a lie. He's hector test
line up. I feel like you wanted to see if
you do it. And then when he said that you
you wouldn't any you know, because I don't even know
who to call. You call the captain s I guess
can't steeve our guy, you know, and maybe he's not
somebody who does this but gCO yeah yeah, oh yeah,
we'll call that guy left on this day of the investigation.
(20:00):
Let me bring Chris in, Chelsea. I'm trying to rupt you,
but I I he's on the phone. I failed to
mention that I'm very forgetful. But Chris, what are we doing?
You said you talked about past relationships. Fine, a lie
detector test.
Speaker 9 (20:12):
Well, to be honest, I think she's kind of exaggerating
the situation a little bit.
Speaker 7 (20:17):
It was more like a playful kind of day it
was just to see, you know, hey, let's let's be honest,
because when she brought up her exes, I felt like
she wasn't being one hundred percent honest.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
So I really didn't think it was that big of
a deal, you know.
Speaker 7 (20:31):
So let's just you would want to know some stuff too.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Let's sling by.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
The station and he'll get to some electrodes and let's
let's see, let's see if you're really telling the truth. Dude,
you're not entitled to that information. Like, it's very clear
that you don't trust people. I'm sorry for whatever the
you know, the catalyst for that is, but for whatever
reason you don't trust people, I'm sorry. But like, you
don't just get to go hook everybody up to a
light detector test. And even then, I'm not even sure
(20:53):
that's how that works.
Speaker 7 (20:55):
Well, no on a person would mind taking a light detector,
would take detected.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I don't know you. I didn't come murder.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
Chris when I because when I got home, you texted
me that you forgave me and I owe you a drink.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
No, that's the point where things got strange for you.
I see, Okay, all right, yeah, no, no, I'm not
I'm not.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
I love it unprompted. I forgive you like for that.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
By the way, this girl was right. But this reminds
you of the first date that I went on. I've
told you guys about it before. This is a long
time ago. But I went on a first day. I
had the next day off, and the date was kind
of flat, and so I'm like, I'm going home, and
she was like, what do you want to Let's go
another place.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
I'm like, no, I'm gonna go home.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Why didn't I left and I went to hang out
with my buddies because I was off the next day,
and she facetimed me like eight times in a row
because she wanted me to answer to prove that I
and then she was right.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
I was absolutely out of the bus. But I can
do that. I mean I did lie. I did love her,
but you're not entitled to know that.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Like, we went on a date, we had two drinks,
it was a nice time, and then I left and
went somewhere else.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
I have every right to do that. But she called
over and over again.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
I had to be FaceTime, and then when I wouldn't
pick up, it's like you liar, and I was but
that's it's not the point I can lie to someone
and I don't. I don't know after two dates, how
you believe that you're entitled to that level of access
to someone's psyche, Like you gotta trust issues, bro, you're
gonna have.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
I mean, that's unattractive in itself. That's not helping. Chris
fred I don't know. I think I'm asking the wrong
person here. It sounds like you're a liar.
Speaker 9 (22:35):
To be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
I mean, I have absolutely lied, and but I'm honest
about it. But I'm not asking people You're insane.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
We're not stopping by the bureau you hooked up to
get your deepest darket secrets. I'm not entitled to that
information the same way that girl's not entitled to know
where I am after a date.
Speaker 5 (22:56):
So take detectors on the show.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
I'm busy.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
So actually, you know what I would too, because I
don't think there's anything that I would have to lie about, Like,
you know.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Are you going to the club or are you not?
Speaker 1 (23:08):
I went to the club.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
I did, all right, Look, Chelsea, I'll ask the question,
no lie, detector, But you want to give this guy
another chance? I know the answer, But if you you
know whatever. Surprised me, absolutely not. Okay, all right, well
we're all liars, Chris, so sorry.
Speaker 9 (23:21):
Yeah, apparently you guys are a bunch of liars and
don't care about honesty.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
That's fine whatever.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
If i'm you, I find another way to regain trust
rather than strapping everybody in.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
It's all therapy.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
No, keep doing this, don't work.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
It's expensive, I'm sure
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