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Kaelin talks about her love hate relationship with her birthday! Plus, we debate relationship drama on an all new Stay Or Go! And find out if Shelly can continue her win streak!

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Going to one island and somehow she saw another island.

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Yeah, all of them do not give that come right.

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She also packed about fifteen minutes for her flight. Left. Yeah, left.

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Speaker 4 (02:38):
So this is a two parter, but they do both
relate to each other, if that's all right with you guys.
So I have a love hate relationship with my birthday,
which is coming up, and it all started. It all
started in nineteen ninety one on a hot summer day.
But I just growing up. I've I'm not someone who

(03:00):
I need all the attention to be on me. But
I am someone who likes to use my birthday as
an excuse to be with people I love and force
them to do.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Something I want to do.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
I'll, uh, you know, like a party or a concert
or whatever, just spend time together. But it doesn't need
to be me focused. But it's been difficult in the
past because even like starting when I didn't get a
locker at school. You know, it kind of made me
sad because I had a summer birthday decoration.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Like the cupcakes. You can't bring cupcakes.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Anymore to get a locker used to decorate it.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
Yeah, yeah, I used to like really like long for
that yearn for that, you know, and bring a treat.
You know, I wanted to bring a treat. And then
it turned into when I got a little bit older,
everyone took like a family in the Midwest, everyone takes
like a family road trip or vacation, and it's usually
early August before everyone goes back to school. So typically
if I wanted to do something, I had like one

(03:47):
little friend with me there, which is fine.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
I mean, we're so.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Bald, because everybody else had planned.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
Everybody else was uptown. Yeah, and then it turned into weddings.
You know, I have an August birthday, and typically if
it's on the weekend, there are weddings. Then it turned
into La La Palooza, the Chicago Music Festival, because it's
every year during either my actual birthday or the weekend
that I would celebrate my birthday because the weekend after

(04:13):
my birthday is my sister's birthday, so there's really no
there's no time before or after. So I've kind of
just made my peace with it, and that's happening this year.
And it's very funny, like when you're the planner of
the group, and like, I really love planning other people's birthdays.
I think you guys can probably attest like it. That's
very important to me. I think it's special. I want
to celebrate the people I love.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
But it's very.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Funny when like it's my birthday and then like all
the people that I plan for ask me what we're doing,
and I'm like, Okay, I don't. Should I be telling
you guys what we're doing?

Speaker 3 (04:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (04:43):
But my second question is miss Paulina. This morning and
I were in the elevator and she goes, hey, put
are you into lately?

Speaker 5 (04:54):
Great?

Speaker 1 (04:54):
Super super slick? Yeah, I will. I always ask people
that in the elevator. I'm actually a different question entirely,
but yeah, hey, what are you? What are you into
these days? You know that's just that's me feeling out
something totally different. But I'm super slick. Yes, one week
away from the birthday? Hey, what kind of stuffy into
right now? That's when I asked my my That's when

(05:15):
I asked my friends with kids when their birthday is
coming up, like what are they into right now? Like
that's because it's a never changing thing for a child,
you know. Right now, for Gideon son, it's legos and
Spider Man, but you know in a year it might
be something else. Yeah, so what do you? Yeah, but
while we're at it, what are you into? What are
you in?

Speaker 6 (05:34):
These days?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Am I God?

Speaker 1 (05:35):
Taking some notes?

Speaker 4 (05:36):
I spend we are in constant communication, and I spend
more time with her than I staid with my family.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
So it's just very funny out.

Speaker 4 (05:42):
Of nowhere in an elevator, run random morning, what are
you in? And then she's like, you know, I think
you like shoes, right what kind of shoes you've been
trying to get Paulina.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it.

Speaker 4 (05:52):
But I am hypocritical because I would never tell someone
what to buy me. But I very much love when
you guys tell me what you want. Like that is
my happy as a grown up.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
At this age, I'm very much of the place where
I wish you would just say, like your birthdays next week,
I wish you would just tell me, I'm looking at
these shoes because I'm just going to go buy them
for you. Yeah, because I can go buy you something
that I think is cool or that the people at
the store think is cool, and then you might not,
and then it's like then you might feel guilty about

(06:21):
returning it, or or you might not like it or
want it, or you might want something else, or you
might already have it or too much of that category.
It's just like because we're not we're not any longer,
Like it's not when we're kids, when we don't have
any money. So like everything is cool, because almost everything
is cool, except for that time that I got a
bike instead of the Nintendo sixty four I wanted. If
my sister got the Nintendo sixty four and then held

(06:43):
it over my head. But other than that, like it's
everything's cool. I just I would much rather as an
adult that if gift giving is expected, and most of
my adult friends, this is the only place in my
life except for family, that we even give gifts anyway, By.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
The way, it's not expected.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
Way absolutely is. You deserve a gift on your birthday,
and everybody in this room does too. But I but
because your family. But at the same time, I don't know.
I would much rather you say, like, hey, I want
these these jordan ones. I've been looking at them, and
then guess what you're gonna get exactly that, and then
you're happy, and I'm happy because I got you something
that you actually wanted. So which jordan onees do you?

(07:20):
If you would please send me the link, I will
make sure I get them right now.

Speaker 3 (07:23):
The gertiess lies.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yes, you guys, Yes, that was one of my favorite
gifts I ever got. I I will try to get
over my fear of telling people what I would want
and think of something for you guys, if that's helpful,
But it really is tip tough for me, difficult.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
For someone like me, like that really helps.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
What do you do these days?

Speaker 7 (07:40):
Right?

Speaker 2 (07:40):
What are you in during Thanksgiving.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
I was like, I don't know, Like like these kids
that put together like little little link trees or whatever,
they put together like little emails with links, if you
wouldn't mind, I think it's brilliant. I think it's a
brilliant idea. Like my sister does this now for for
the kids birth days, Like she'll just send me here, here,
this is what she wants, Like here are three options,
and I just click on all three and order them

(08:06):
on Amazon. And I'll admit that it's lazy. It is lazy,
But at the same time, it's like I would much
rather just get you what you want then try and
guess and it not be right. So if you wouldn't
mind a little email, you know, with a few links,
just a couple of linky links on it, you know,
just a little just a little something, and we could
do like various price ranges, we could do like we

(08:27):
could do like.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
You know, right, are you guys doing a group guest?

Speaker 1 (08:31):
But why there been there been debates and discussions and
there's been negotiations behind the scenes. The show is on
its stay or go Kelly, Good morning to Kelly, how
you doing. Welcome to the program. Kelly, So you are,

(08:52):
you're a married woman. Congratulate, congratulations for being a married woman.
I don't know if you've made it. Have you been
married for a while, a couple of years, something like that.
That's a big accompny been together a long time. I'm serious.
I feel like being married for any period of time
like past Maybe I don't know, twenty four months is
impressive for me. I've been being with someone longer than
six months is impressive. But anyway, nonetheless, this is about kids, though,

(09:16):
So what's going on with you and your husband?

Speaker 5 (09:20):
Well?

Speaker 7 (09:20):
Okay, so you know, when we were younger, we both
agreed we just didn't want children, and so that was
our thing. But we've gotten a little older, and unfortunately
I'm one of the people that they kind of talk
about that I've changed my mind and I want kids.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
Okay, So you you guys have this conversation. This is
and this is a very fundamental thing to talk about.

Speaker 6 (09:46):
Here.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
I am talking about relationships like I've ever been successful
in one. But nonetheless, I have I can, I can observe,
I give great advice, I give excellent advice, and I
have great perspective. I just myself cannot really seem to
find very much success. But you have this conversation ahead
of time, Hey kids, no kids. I think talking about
money ahead of time. I think talking about you know, love,

(10:09):
languages and that kind of thing. I think there's all
stuff to get ironed out before you get married, so
that you're on the same page, that you don't commit
to each other for life legally, and then decide one
person's like I want to spend all of our money
and the other person like I want to save all
of our money, or I want to have kids and
I don't want to have kids, or you know, these
fundamental things, and now you guys are latched together and
you're going to be unhappy because you view things differently.

(10:32):
So you guys had the conversation before you got married,
no kids, that was what you determined.

Speaker 7 (10:37):
Oh yeah, we definitely had this conversation, and I mean
I definitely didn't want them, and he didn't either. But
it's just we've gotten older and I have changed my mind.
And I went and told them, though I, of course
we are really communicative, this is this is just one
of our busses. But I told them that I had

(10:57):
a change of heart, and he he was like, you know,
I appreciate you telling me, but.

Speaker 6 (11:06):
I don't.

Speaker 7 (11:07):
My mind hasn't changed. So anyway, he still doesn't want kids.
But he did have a compromise.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Well, a compromise that's exciting. What was it? Yeah, what
is it?

Speaker 7 (11:19):
Well, well, he said that if I wanted a kid
bad enough, he said, he would obviously contribute financially. But
he's not doing diapers, he's not doing feedings, like waking
up in the middle of the night, warming bottles, all
of the thing. I'm going to be doing all of them.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
So he'll help you make the kid, but you get
to raise it, and he's just he's and he'll give you,
he'll preat a couple of bucks towards it, but he's
not going to be involved in like the hard work.

Speaker 6 (11:47):
I mean, you're right, but I will make.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Sure I have this right. I'm I mean, I think
that's that's a wild take, but I want to make
sure I have this right. So he's not telling you
you're fine, we can have a kid. I'm just not
going to do the hard stuff.

Speaker 7 (12:00):
Yeah he's not. He's exactly. Yeah, he's not going to
do any of that. If I want, if we're going
to do this.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
How does that make you feel?

Speaker 6 (12:09):
Change my mind?

Speaker 1 (12:10):
Well, and that's start, But how does that make you feel?
Because you're allowed to change your mind now, I mean,
it's it's a pretty significant thing to to then say, well,
now I want to add a human to our sort
of existence. Now. I mean, but you also have every
right to change your mind. I suppose he has every
right to say. But we talked about this and I've
never wanted kids, and I don't want them now. I

(12:31):
think that's a weird compromise. But how does this all
make you feel?

Speaker 7 (12:35):
I mean at first it was like that is but
I mean again, I'm the one that made this decision
in my head. I changed my mind. And if he's
gonna he's not going anywhere, he's going to be financially supporting.
I mean, plus, you know, what's the difference between like
having a kid on your own. You know, there's plenty
of single moms that do it every day. And I'm

(12:58):
thinking he's going to change his mind over time, you know.
And so I don't know, I don't know what do
I do?

Speaker 8 (13:03):
I don't know?

Speaker 1 (13:06):
I mean, what are the options?

Speaker 6 (13:08):
Right?

Speaker 1 (13:09):
The options are you? You do it this way? You know,
you have your kid with your partner who you love,
and he's just not involved very much. Somebody tells me
he'll be okay. Maybe he'd be okay with like some
of the upside, but doesn't. Like, he doesn't want to
be up in the middle the night changing diapers. He
doesn't want to do right, he doesn't want to hear
you're the nurturing part of it. Maybe okay, you could

(13:33):
not have a kid, which means then that you're not
fulfilled in this way because this is what you want
and that's a big deal. Or you could divorce him
and then go find somebody who does want to have
a kid. Am I missing any options here? And I
know this all studs cut and dry and like very simplified,
But am I missing anything? Bill? That's it?

Speaker 6 (13:56):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
Yeah, I don't really like this very much. And I
only say that. And you can totally have a kid
on your own, that is not even the issue. But
I feel like, because you are married to somebody and
that person you know, is quote okay with this idea
and kind of treating it like almost like you're bringing
home a puppy or something like he's like, you know
what I mean?

Speaker 3 (14:14):
He's like, oh, I'm not gonna get up the middle
of the night and do this and.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
That, like that's that's a single married mom in my opinion,
And I don't really like that.

Speaker 3 (14:19):
If you're gonna do it on your own, I would.

Speaker 2 (14:21):
Just say do it fully on your own and like
not even like truly I have to leave this man
because also too, so you're gonna bring him a baby
and there's gonna be a man living there, but he's
not involved. But he's a dad, you know what I mean.
It's like, who's that man walking in the hallway, Like,
you know what I mean? How involved does he think
he's gonna be? Like you're the father and you also
live here, And.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
I suppose he might change his mind once the kid's
there and he sees you working hard and doing all this,
he might decide, well, maybe I should be involved. It's
my offspring too. I guess there's a chance of that.
I just from the jump, I just don't like the
way that feels, you know, like, hey, yeah, you can
have the kid, but like I'll just I'm just sort
of here, don't don't, don't, don't inconvenience me with it.

(14:59):
But the people who are texting saying this guy's a jerk,
that that is a jerk. That's kind of a jerky
response by all means. But he did say from the
beginning his truth was I don't want kids, So that
does not make him a bad guy. He was very
clear about that. So I mean, for the people who
are like, this guy's terrible, I don't know. I don't

(15:23):
know if he's his response is not great, but he's
allowed to be a person who doesn't want to have kids,
like that's not And and you guys didn't talk about
it and agree on that initially.

Speaker 6 (15:32):
Yes, And I.

Speaker 7 (15:33):
Understand where he's at. That's why because we were hard knows.
So I get where he's at. So you know, that's
why I'm struggling with this.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
And you're going to resent him.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
You're going to resent him when the baby's there middle
of the night. You're the one changing diapers, you're the
one doing all these things.

Speaker 3 (15:52):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (15:52):
I feel like it's a terrible idea. And you're allowed
to change your mind. And Fred was right about that.
Like you guys were very clear in the beginning. You guys,
you know, grew in your marriage. Whatever you want, different.

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Things now I think, I hate to say it, doesn't that.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
Call for like some form of like, I don't know, separation,
going your own ways, then living your life on your terms,
both of you doing what you both want.

Speaker 3 (16:12):
My crazy, I think this.

Speaker 7 (16:13):
Is bigger than oh god, someone is even bigger than
the baby.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
Someone texting have the baby and then divorce him. Do
not do that, Yeah, do not do that. That is
the that's the worst. I love you, but that is
the worst advice I've because you're still tied to the guy. No,
this is what you do either. You may have to
leave this dude. If you really want a kid, you
deserve a supportive partner who's in it with you, it

(16:38):
also wants the kid. Maybe give him a little bit
of time to marinate on this. But you, I don't
think it's unfair. If this is really your calling and
really what you're drawn to do, and you feel very
strongly about it, you have one life. You deserve a
supportive partner with whom to do this. You may have
to go to shay him and say, look, I love you,
but we are now fractured. We are fundamentally on different

(17:00):
sides of this, and I don't want to do this
with somebody who's going to be absent minded, and maybe
if you have that conversation, he comes around because he
loves you, and maybe he can see it, and maybe
he does it. I actually know a couple. This is
a real story. I know a couple that had this
very thing happen. They decided no kids, no kids. And
I'm not going to get into too many details because
these people might know who I'm talking about. I don't

(17:20):
know people might know who I'm talking about. But let's
just say that he was willing to take on some
other responsibilities, but he did not want kids. He never did,
but he loved her. They got married. She says, you know,
in somewhere in years into the marriage, I want kids,
and he's like, I don't want kid. I told you
I really don't like I have my whole life planned out,
and I told you this. And at some point the

(17:43):
conversation was, if you need to leave me, I would
be heartbroken, but I understand. I'm not going to stand
in your way, but I'm not one hundred percent in this.
They wound up staying together and having a kid and
everything is wonderful, but it wasn't the plan. It wasn't
it kind of all, it didn't happen in order or
as you know, it kind of just happened, and that's

(18:04):
a different story. But nonetheless, everything works out fine, everyone's happy,
and it turns out. I think this guy would tell
you that it's the greatest thing that ever happened to him.
But if a guy's telling you right now, I don't
want it and I'm not going to be involved, that
is bad, right like that. I can't imagine starting that way.
You know, do you really.

Speaker 8 (18:25):
Think I could do it on my own?

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Of course you can if someone wants to know how
old you are? By the way, how old are you
in your thirties?

Speaker 8 (18:33):
I'm in my thirties.

Speaker 1 (18:33):
Okay, yeah, you absolutely could do it on your own.
I mean, here's what I'll say. I don't know you.
People can do it on their own, and I believe
you're you're probably very capable of it. But I don't
think this is going to work, and it's it's heartbreaking.
But eight five, five, five, nine, one one three five,
the text are going crazy. I would love to know
what people have to say about this. Though I hate
to say this, but I think you you know, have

(18:55):
to have a very and it's not a mean conversation.
It's not you know, there's no lack of love. I
don't think it's spiteful or hateful. This guy didn't lie
to you. He told you the truth. But it may
it may be the kind of conversation where you have
to just say, look, I gotta do this and so,
and I want to do it with somebody who either
either is going to be an active participant who wants

(19:16):
to be there, or I'd rather do it on my own.
I know people who've done that too. Well, Kelly, let
me take some calls and have the radio one and
thank you for sharing this. I know it's very personal,
and good luck to you.

Speaker 7 (19:29):
Well, thank you so much for having me.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
Yeah, you got it. We appreciate you. I mean, yeah,
I don't know. I think she's got to probably leave
this guy.

Speaker 9 (19:38):
Yeah, from his perspective too, like he came into this
relationship like thinking one thing, and now yeah, she gets
to choose her what she wants to do. But in
a way it is also like blowing up his life,
you know, like now he may lose his marriage because
of it, and he had the same intentions from the jump.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
Yeah, I don't like his response, but I don't disagree
with with him having a say in this and having
a vote and having a desire for his life too.
I mean again, the whole I'll well, I'll knock you
up and then just be here. I don't like that.
But I also for the people like this guy is
such a d I he didn't have to want this,

(20:16):
you know, he didn't have to run the jump. This
is what I want. She's the one switching up, but yeah,
she can do.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
But it's sad, but it happens.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
I think in marriages people just outgrow each other, not
because okay it's but other things too, right, And I
think it's sad and it blows up everyone's life.

Speaker 3 (20:29):
And now you know you're divorced. But it is what
it is.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Autumn, Good morning, Hi, welcome.

Speaker 8 (20:34):
Hi, I'm your fourteenth color.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Just so you guys know, Oh you're the fourteen You
know what, that's impossible. We only have thirteen listeners, will
only ever have thirteen listeners? Right when we think we
got fourteen, someone moves to somewhere where they don't have
the Internet yet. It's crazy anyway, what do you think?

Speaker 8 (20:50):
So I just I'm thinking about the child. My that's
always my number one is do you really want to
raise a child or have even a sixty percent chan
of like this child not having the father being around
like in their life. So I just think that that's
that's what I would think about. I'd leave, I for
sure leave, especially if she really wants a baby, because

(21:13):
you don't know for sure if he's going to want
to be around, and you don't want to do that
to the baby either, you know.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
Yeah, I agree, and you know what it could be
like my friend who had a kid that he wasn't
expecting and and loves that kid more than anything and
it changed his life. If you're here right now, he
would tell you it's the greatest thing that ever happened
to you. I know he'd say that, but he didn't
see it. But you're taking a risk. You're taking a risk.

Speaker 8 (21:33):
He's an exception, he's not the rule right from a movie.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
And I can't, I can't with much confidence, uh, engage
in that agreement, you know what I mean? Like that's
that doesn't feel good. My partner is gonna my partner
is willing to sleep with me, and you know whatever.
But but but he's not really willing to do this
with me.

Speaker 8 (21:55):
So sometimes you grow apart like that just is huge
different things and you grow in different directions and that's okay,
and she shouldn't feel ashamed about that. But if she
doesn't want the same things, then I mean it might
be time to part ways.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
Yeah. Maybe, So thank you autumn listener number. You say
fourteen and you're still thirteen. But HI, have a good day.

Speaker 8 (22:15):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (22:15):
I love you mean it, Hi, Kelly, good morning, Kelly. Hello, Hi,
Hi Kelly. What do you want to say?

Speaker 9 (22:25):
Hi?

Speaker 8 (22:26):
I want to say that she needs to go.

Speaker 3 (22:28):
This is so selfish.

Speaker 8 (22:31):
She should not bring a child into this world knowing
that their father wants nothing to do with it. It's
so cool.

Speaker 1 (22:40):
Yeah. Yeah, I don't think it's going to work under
the current arrangement, and I think it's a risk if
you do it within these with the confides of this relationship,
because he's telling you he doesn't want to do it.
But thank you, Kelly. I'm glad you called. I have
a great day, you too, and thank you for listening. Brandon.
So you say stay, why, I.

Speaker 6 (22:59):
Say steep because he was honest from the very beginning.
He told her exactly what the situation was. While there's
a good chance that his mind will change when he
sees that precious young one and he holds it in
his hands. However, there's so many fathers who never were

(23:20):
honest from the beginning, who have a just who actually
never told their wives that, oh no, I'll do everything,
but then never do anything. Who who are married now
but never take care of the child in any way,
who perhaps live from the beginning.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
I think we're talking about it. He told two different things, Brandon.
Now we're talking about dead bee dads. We're talking about
people who want a kid but don't want to work
for it. This guy, and you don't find that out
until after the fact. This guy's telling you. He's telling
you right now. Hey, he's calling a shot, like hey,
just heads up, I don't want to do this. Like
that's I think that's a little bit different, because it's
bad enough if you have a kid and then yeah, yeah,

(24:00):
yeah kid, and then you don't want to raise it.
I mean, that's a different I think it's a different problem.

Speaker 6 (24:06):
That's true. But however, he is willing to take care
of it in every way. But the amount of single
moms out there who have zero support whatsoever, have to
do it all on their own.

Speaker 4 (24:14):
Well, not every way, not the emotional. But you know
he's saying, I want to be like a hands offstague.
So I wonder, okay, if she goes to a sperm
make and the kid doesn't hack quote unquote have a dad,
is that less painful than having a dad that's like
one foot in, one foot out the door?

Speaker 3 (24:29):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
On the riod, he's somehow going to buy in after
the fact. But Brandon, I appreciate you, man, Thank you
so much for calling Katie. Katie, you say go, she's
got to go.

Speaker 8 (24:39):
Yes, I do.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
Well.

Speaker 8 (24:40):
I think if they can find a compromise, great, But
I think the idea at hands is a bad idea
and if that's the only idea, she should go.

Speaker 1 (24:49):
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, So we got to vote for go.
Thank you, Katie. Yeah, Larry, vote for stay. Hi, Larry,
Hell old there, Larry. You can say why. So the
reason why is that?

Speaker 10 (25:05):
And I don't know this gentleman's circumstances, but depending if
he was an only child or something like that, I
had the same thing with my folks, and when my
folks got married, my dad wanted to have kids. But
until we were like, I don't know, seven or eight
years old, he didn't really he wasn't involved in our
in our you know, raising us and what have you.

Speaker 6 (25:26):
Thus he would do is probably wipe.

Speaker 10 (25:27):
A butt every now and then, but other than that
he didn't do much. But as we got older, he
got more involved and active. And I think that has
a lot to do with it. Since we don't know
the gentleman's circumstances here and what his upbringing is. I
think that it's the same thing that maybe once this
child gets older, he may get more involved.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
And oh, we love Larry, but Larry, no, I hear
what you're saying. That's a risk. I mean, I hear
what you're saying. Does a chance he buys in over
time right or warms up the idea, But that now
you have another human involved, and I think we have
to consider not only her needs his needs, as Jason
pointed out, but also like how's this, how's his kid

(26:10):
going to feel if dad is truly detached from the process.
Sample Jenny, good morning, Hey, good morning. I'm gonna let
you have the final say here, what do you think?

Speaker 6 (26:20):
So?

Speaker 5 (26:20):
I think they both should try to work it out
only because it's a little different. But I had a
friend or I have a friend who they both got married.

Speaker 6 (26:28):
In all their lives, they said, you know, we don't
want kids.

Speaker 5 (26:30):
Both when she turned forty I think forty one, she
accidentally got pregnant. They get baby, and now they're in
love with this little boys now I think eight years old,
and he says it's the best thing that's ever happened
to their lives.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
Yeah, I mean it's very possible.

Speaker 5 (26:50):
Yeah, once the baby's here, he could easily change his mind.

Speaker 1 (26:53):
You never know, it's possible.

Speaker 3 (26:56):
Yeah, I don't know, but mind.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
Yeah, it's a risk, I mean risk gambling my baby. Yeah,
that's that's a big risk because you know he's telling
you his truth. It's almost like when people show you
who they are, you should believe them kind of thing.
I mean, I know that applies to different scenarios, but
it's like he's telling you. So then in when the
kid's five years old and he's like, I told you
I don't want any I don't want any want to

(27:19):
do this. You can't be mad at him, I guess,
because he's as messed up as that is. He told
you that. Yeah, So I don't know, Jenny, but thank you,
thanks for calling. You have a good day. Okay, Well,
I don't think we solved the problem, but anyway. Entertainment
report is on the Bread Show.

Speaker 4 (27:35):
Carucci Tran, who you may know as Chris Brown's, actually's beautiful.
She was seen supporting Hall of Fame coach Dion Sanders
during his recent bladder cancer surgery in a documentary style
video produced by Dion's Sun. It shows her wiping away tears,
holding his hand, and asking very detailed questions in the
hospital room as he underwent his treatment. Earlier outings like

(27:58):
lunches and some handling had already started speculation earlier this year,
but neither have confirmed their relationship.

Speaker 3 (28:05):
I think now it's.

Speaker 4 (28:06):
Pretty much sealing the deal that they are together, and
of course we're wishing him a very speedy recovery. Last week,
fifty Cent, who is his full time job, is strolling
above all else. He posted a video of what appeared
to be or photos of what appeared to be Rick
Ross cuddling up to another man on a yacht in Miami,
writing quote, your man was looking real saucy kissing that.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
Boy on that boat. That's not Ai.

Speaker 4 (28:31):
Well, yesterday, Rick Ross, a shirtless Rick Ross. He was
in a pool with a cocktail and a joint.

Speaker 3 (28:38):
He responded to fifty cent.

Speaker 11 (28:39):
So infatuated with my lifestyle. You see me out on
the yacht with a black beautiful woman. And I hope
you don't have anything against black beautiful women, Curtis. I mean,
what are you insinuating here? I mean, and we know
you just as your heart shatted when you found out

(29:00):
what we found out. We all found out together, and
we know that's the mother of your youngest son, low
Bruce Lee roy Man. But you got to give a
beautiful black woman an opportunity, Curtis. We know you may
have been hurt.

Speaker 6 (29:16):
You are hurt.

Speaker 11 (29:16):
Home, we get over it, man, enjoy your glass of
far and bubbles and move on in life.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
Be happy, all right, move on, be happy. I love
a light rap beef.

Speaker 4 (29:27):
That's not like hurting anyone, really, but that was his response,
and it made me chuckle. And lastly, real quick, the
fourth movie in the Meet the Parents franchise has been
officially named. It's Falker in Law as I said, foc
k e R. And it is set for release on
Thanksgiving next year. So we're gonna have to wait. Ben
Stiller is back as Greg Fawker and Roberts and Hero

(29:48):
of course is back as Jack Burns, along with blythe Danner,
Terry Polo, and Owen Wilson reprising their roles. Ariana Grande
joins the cast as a assertive fiance, and she is
the fiance of one of Greg and Pam's sons. The
storyline will mirrow the og by depicting Greg's grown children
preparing to introduce their partners to the next Burns family,

(30:10):
this time through the eyes of the next generation.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
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Speaker 1 (30:21):
It's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes
to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Biz Showdown?

Speaker 6 (30:28):
Show me?

Speaker 1 (30:33):
Hi, how's your morning?

Speaker 3 (30:36):
Oh? You know, mornings are chaos, but they're fine.

Speaker 1 (30:38):
It's good, all right, raising children are playing the game,
doing the thing.

Speaker 3 (30:42):
Hey Kelly, good morning, guys.

Speaker 1 (30:45):
Hello you Kelly.

Speaker 10 (30:47):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
Fun fact about you is what I am a mom
to Cheokaitto.

Speaker 4 (30:52):
But my son with me and you guys in Palatine.

Speaker 1 (30:55):
Why I love that. What is your son's name, Kelly?

Speaker 8 (30:59):
My name is Jimmy.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
Hi, Jimmy, Hey, Jimmy. How old are you?

Speaker 8 (31:03):
I am about to be twelve years old?

Speaker 7 (31:05):
Don't jewish mon?

Speaker 1 (31:07):
Don't you cheat? Okay, Jimmy, I don't want.

Speaker 11 (31:12):
I don't know.

Speaker 8 (31:13):
I don't even know what I because what's your favorite
time of the show?

Speaker 7 (31:17):
You were just telling your favorite of the show is
what Kayln's entertainer report.

Speaker 1 (31:21):
Okay, this kid's gonna cheat that. If I hear a
little voice in the background, I'm disqualifying you. I don't
care if.

Speaker 3 (31:30):
You're twelve, I might count a little slower for you.

Speaker 1 (31:34):
All Right, guys, let's play the game. Five pop culture questions.
Seven fifty is the prize? Good luck, guys, all right,
good luck. All the respect. Shelly, you got to get
the heck out question number one, Kelly and only Kelly.
Which late wrestler's action figure is making a comeback after
his passing. Last week, Chris Martin's ex wife was hired

(31:55):
to be the spokesperson for the tech company where the
viral cold Play cheaters used to work. Name his speaking
of cold Play, Lionel Messi and his wife were caught
on their concert kiss cam. Why is he famous?

Speaker 8 (32:10):
He's a kind offer?

Speaker 1 (32:12):
Which actress is getting roasted online for her new American
Eagle Denim ad what What's awesome? And Billie Eilish's brother
and musical counterpart turns twenty eight tomorrow name him? All right,
you got a four and you're gonna kick yourself for
number three. But don't say it. Don't say it, don't

(32:33):
say don't I tell.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
You, don't your own books at me?

Speaker 8 (32:35):
He goes, he told me the right answer.

Speaker 1 (32:37):
All right, Well, don't say it. Don't say Kelly, sometimes
sometimes less words. Okay, and I need I need to
take my own advice. But here we go four. Oh
oh no, okay, you got to focus. All right. Kelly
was trying to give you an answer, but I had
to stop her. Which late wrestler's action figure is making
a comeback after his passing last week.

Speaker 3 (32:58):
O Cogan, that's right.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
Chris Martin's ex wife was hired to be the spokesperson
for the tech company where the viral cold Plade cheaters worked.
Name his ex Gwyneth Yeah. Speaking of cold play, Lionel
Messi and his wife were caught on their concert kiss Cam.
Why is he famous? Uh?

Speaker 3 (33:16):
Soccer?

Speaker 1 (33:16):
He's a soccer player, that's right, not a tennis player.
Which actress is getting roasted online for her new American Eagle.
Denim Ad and Billie Eilish's brother and musical counterpart turned
twenty eight Tom name.

Speaker 3 (33:30):
Him oh Phineas.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
Yeah, that's a five. That's key, Kelly. Number three got
you and Jimmy could have saved you, but he didn't see.
He didn't see, So we'll we'll get you some kind
of a runner up Jason. Yeah, well, now we're gonna
get you some kind of runner up price. I don't
know what it is.

Speaker 6 (33:45):
Do you know what it is?

Speaker 1 (33:46):
But I'm gonna figure it out. Jason, Jason always figures
it out. Yeah. I commit Jason of things all the time.
He doesn't want to do. It's fine.

Speaker 3 (33:55):
I'm in a medium.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
Yeah, yeah, we gotta say it. Kelly and Jimmy, you
can join its. Kelly, I got showed up on the showdown.
You know the rest?

Speaker 8 (34:03):
All right, ready, then my name is Kelly. I got
showed up on the showdown.

Speaker 1 (34:11):
Boom oh man, that was good. That was so good.
I don't have to do it, guys. Excellent I love
you for that. You guys, hang on a second. Thanks
for listening, all right, you stay right there, Shelly, Yes
you did it. You got a five. You needed a five,

(34:33):
eight hundred bucks tomorrow when number one thousand, thirty two
eleven straight. We've been at sixty nine losses for some
time now, hasn't it?

Speaker 6 (34:42):
So?

Speaker 1 (34:43):
Very good job? Come back tomorrow. Let's play again.

Speaker 3 (34:45):
All right, sounds good.

Speaker 1 (34:46):
We're gonna heye, we're gonna. I'm reluctant to say I
don't want to chase it, but like we're gonna drive
this up. It's gonna be five thousand dollars.

Speaker 4 (34:53):
Okay, yeah, no pressure, Okay, no pressure.

Speaker 1 (34:59):
All right, have a good mon Alright, that's good. Okay,
bye waiting on the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted
from the vault? We'll do it more pread Show next

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