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report this hour too. What's in there?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
K I will tell you who just paid the entirety
of their child's child support for a baby so up
until eighteen years old.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
It's just like, here's the money, here's the money. You
can do it, be paid and get the heck out
of here. I guess you got money like that. Yeah,
they talk better than they scit.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show that
is like I don't want anything to do with you
or this kid.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Here you go.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Yeah, it's not it's not giving nice.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
And the mom has some some serious concerns and I
understand why.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Man like, yeah, dad said no, here's here's a bunch
of money. But no, I hope at least they gave
them money, because a lot of dads say no, they
don't get the money.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
So there's that like running right right.
Speaker 5 (03:02):
Right?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Is he not evade child support?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I thought we were talking about personally.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Oh yeah, celebrity, I'm not the betty. Oh no, you
didn't pay your child support.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Well I haven't paid any child sport. I don't have
any kids.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
But yeah, no, I haven't like writing in our diaries
except we seen them alive.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
We call them blogs. Nobody call blowing gliss. You take
a blog, go.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Okay, dear blog.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
Speaking of paying for things, I have come to the
point of my life where I am experiencing extreme sticker shock, okay,
And I don't appreciate how we just go through life
and allow these things to happen. So I went to
six Flags the other day, which I had no business
being there, okay, talk about a Jetsu holiday woo, not
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a big girl sport anyway, So you know, but the
pop you know, like I wanted to get some pop
soda whatever you want to call it. And it was
seven dollars for a twenty ounce of Coca Cola okay,
And everybody was in there just swiping and tapping their
iPhones like.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
This was normal. That's not normal, okay.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
First of all, then yesterday I went to get an
oil change.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Every time I go get.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
An oil change or something but it was over one
hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
And I know, wait a minute, but did you go
for all the stuff?
Speaker 5 (04:27):
What?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
No, did they sell you all the stuff?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
That capacitor is Oh no, Oh my gosh, blinker fluid,
completely empty. I'm not even sure how you operated like this.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
You know, I don't go for that.
Speaker 6 (04:40):
You know they come over there with that little white
sheet of paper with all those things, and tell them
take that right back.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
But that's my point. That's my point.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
There was I didn't do anything on the list, and
it was it was still one hundred dollars, and we
all sit around and act like this is normal. No,
when I used to go get my nails done, friend,
it was twenty five dollars. Sure was I go get
a full set of nails one hundred dollars?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Yeah? You had become that person. Now we just walk
around and act like this is normal. You've become that person.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
We need to start like having full meltdown sticker shock fate.
Like the next time somebody tell me something that's overprice,
I'm gonna just faint right there, like I can't believe
it and fall out because.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Well, don't do that, because the hospital bill won't make
you happy, either you go or the coope or the
medicine or the ambulance tried.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
So no, yeah you don't want that. Don't faint, bro,
This is insane.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
Like and it's just like people just go up on
their prices and we we just we just pay it.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Nobody reacts.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I want to know where all the money is because
like every time I look at to your point, every
time I like go on vacation or I take a
trip and I'm like, this place is nice. I wonder
how much of condo would be here just for just
for fun, like how much it costs to live here?
And I look it up and I'm like eight million
dollars for an apartment, you know, or like next year
I want to go on a trip and I'm looking
at hotels and I'm like, huh huh, like who who
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has somebody? I get that things are more expensive, but
who's buying it right? Or like to get on you know,
just crappy airline, you know whatever, crabby airline. I'm not
gonna pick it any one of them, but where they
don't give you anything and nothing crazy happens, and you
know what, you gotta get on it whatever and that's
seven hundred bucks to go to, you know, Saint Louis.
And I'm like, I've always wanted to go to Saint Louis,
but not for seven hundred bucks. Yeah, I mean, I
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just I don't know who has the money to do
all this stuff. So, like, at what point does everybody
stand up and go, we can't afford any of this,
We're not doing it anymore, none of it. And then
everything has to come down in price exactly. So I'm
ready to cool.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Come on, I'm ready to start it. Lead the charge. Okay,
where are we going? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
I still have no idea how you spent one hundred
bucks in an oil change, though I think I think
you got bamboozo.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
No, they put they put the diamond oil in.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Well, they put the air in. My tire was an
extra forty five dollars.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Somehow, somehow you drove your card of the oil change.
But you only had three tires somehow. Oh yeah, don't
know what happened to the fourth tire. You gotta have
to buy another one. I don't know where it went.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Okay, So how much are y'all paying for oil change? Nothing?
Why do you continually get ripped off.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
It just so happens that a guy in here with
a man who owns a garage that operates, you know
that there.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
It would be crazy for you to go to that
place where I'm done.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Jason is so fat with me. I'm done, I'm done selling.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
You're paid one hundred dollars for an oil change.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Can you live near him?
Speaker 1 (07:22):
The mechanic owns the garage, the closest one in this room.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
My head, Jason, I never want to bother.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
That's the And that's another Jason, I can't believe it.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Editing, I took I took my Pinto to the dealership,
to the Pinto dealership, and they wanted to replace eighty
four spark plugs.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
And I did it. It was four thousand dollars I did.
Can you believe it? Can you believe that?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Jason?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
If only there was someone in here who could help
me with same, Gosh, it's so good.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
It's all hard to find a good mechanically. Also, our
Bella went to another mechanic her window face.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I don't know one. His problem is with the gayaraje
in here, but I.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Know we do payment plans and finance there. You have
to come there. Yes, I do need to come there he.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Stay or go?
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Okay, you guys, something going on? You want us to
talk about you? Well, He'll be on the phone for
part of it, so it's not all behind your back.
You can hit us up on all the different social
search for The Fred Show and Fred Show Radio dot Com.
I got to pull out my phone because you know,
my outlook doesn't work.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Why would it? Hey, Kelsey, how you.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
Doing good about yourself?
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Kelsey doing all right? Welcome to the program here. So
you have been in a relationship for a year and
a half and it says here that you think your
boyfriend's wonderful. Okay, great, well thanks for calling. I mean,
what are we talking about here? Your boyfriend's wonderful, You're
and a half a nice run, So what's the issue?
Speaker 7 (08:51):
Okay? So I'm going to say it again. He's really great.
He's very loving, very helpful.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Around the house.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
He's a big buye coming. There's a big bud coming.
Speaker 8 (09:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
He gets angry, okay, like.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I mean, you know his sports seems losing angry or
you know his I don't know, he stuffed his toe
angry or he ran out of fish ticks angry, you know, like,
what kind of angry are we talking about here?
Speaker 7 (09:25):
So I would definitely say he has anger issues. He yells,
he's punched a ball or two. Sometimes he'll throw things,
and it's a lot. And it's not like he's ever
hit me or anything, like, I don't think he would
ever do that, but it's just kind of terrifying to
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be around him.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Is he mad at you or is he mad about
other things?
Speaker 5 (09:52):
Or it?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Does it matter?
Speaker 7 (09:56):
It doesn't matter. It's just the way that he expresses
whatever he's feeling is not healthy. It's scary, okay.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
And do you feel in danger?
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I mean you say that you don't think he would
hit you, but like, do you feel do you feel
at risk by this behavior? Or is it just scary
because of how quickly it ramps up and the way
that he's sort of you know, it's communicated, I guess
or manifest.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Yeah, I don't feel like I'm in danger, but it's
it's just stressful having to witness it and be around it.
And that's just how he is when he's upset.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
And has it always been this way the whole year
and a half or is it something that you're only
now seeing Maybe he was able to sort of keep
it under.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Wraps for a while.
Speaker 7 (10:43):
Well, I mean I would say like the first few months,
like I hadn't really seen that side of him. But
you know a few months in that's when you start.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
To see, right, you're not really dating the real person
for about six months, I've found. Yeah, if you make
get that far, Yeah, you're only seeing You're seeing what
they want you to see. So this is more likely
what you would be dealing with if you were with
him forever. A lot of texts already coming in. You
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got to you gotta run, like you gotta go the
other way, Like this is a huge red flag. Now
do you have any idea where this is coming from?
Speaker 7 (11:21):
Like?
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Is it where this why it ramps up so quickly?
I mean, is it like is it Do you feel
like he's really stressed out? Do you feel like it's
some sort of childhood trauma? Do you think it's anxiety
or I mean, you know, is this something that a
medical professional could address? Is he willing to go to therapy?
I mean, have you talked about any of this with him?
Have you said, hey, I watched you go from zero
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to one hundred so quickly, and it really concerns me
or does that just cause him to go zero to
one hundred.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
I'm I'm a little scared to talk to him about it,
and that's a problem.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Flag.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
Yeah, she's scared, because don't think anything's gonna change unless
you communicate to him that you are concerned about it.
And if you already feel trepidation about sharing it with
him or sharing your thoughts with him, then that's the problem,
because how is it ever going to be resolved?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Do you guys live together?
Speaker 7 (12:16):
We don't not yet.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Huh.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
But you say he's wonderful. I mean, so every other
aspect of the relationship you're happy with, except when he
gets angry, he gets really angry.
Speaker 7 (12:29):
Yeah, huh yeah, And that's what's that's what's difficult here,
is he's actually really wonderful. It's just he's got a
short fuse and his emotional regulation just isn't good when
he's mad.
Speaker 8 (12:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I mean, he's.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Overwhelming on the text, like it's blowing up eight five
five five three five, you can call him text the
same number. It's it's overwhelming that you have to move on.
And I know that's easy for other people to say. Unfortunately,
I think a lot of people have lived through this before, though,
and so they're they're they're coming, you know, they're they're
talking to you, or they're they're giving this advice from
their perspective, and and maybe some of these people have
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seen it through a little bit longer and it's been bad.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
This is above my pay grade, though, which is why
I think when you have a bunch of strangers tell
you what to do eight five five five nine three five. Fortunately,
this is not one that I've encountered before. I've encountered
people that drink way too much and then their behavior
becomes extremely erratic and dangerous, and that's a problem. But
I've never encountered anybody who gets just just hair pin
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trigger angry. But if you can't talk to him about it,
I guess that's the first sign that, I mean, how
do you expect it to be any different? If you
don't feel comfortable talking to him about it, and and
and and thus coming up with some kind of a resolution,
him getting some kind of help. I mean, I guess
I don't know what. I don't know what to tell you.
If you can't talk to him about it like that
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to me says everything.
Speaker 7 (14:01):
I mean, I could try to talk to them. I
just I haven't yet.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Hmmm.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
I'm gonna take some phone calls on this, Kelsey. I
want you to listen because I do think that a
lot of people out there. You know, something about our
show is when we talk about stuff, and people can
call from their perspectives and a lot of people have
lived this before. So maybe someone will say something that's
helpful to you or that inspires you to know what
to do next. But I wish you the best, you know,
be safe. Please, Okay, Yeah, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Have a good day.
Speaker 5 (14:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
People are saying and I do feel like she's looking
for validation to leave.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
That's what I said.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
I think she's looking for someone to tell her to leave.
And I agree with that. A bunch of texts like that,
Hey Jessica, good morning.
Speaker 9 (14:43):
Good morning, how are you?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
And I was kind of serious to start the day.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
But nonetheless, I think people out there may have lived
this before and might have some perspective to offer. This
woman is concerned because she's been with a guy for
a year and a half and she says he's a
great guy. Maybe she's say next week, doesn't get mad,
but she says he's a great guy. He said, he
has a temper and it hasn't really necessarily come out
at her, but it comes out, you know, punching walls
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and you know, really sort of over the top, and
it's scary.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
What do you think.
Speaker 9 (15:13):
Well, I'm kind of on the other end of this.
I married this person. We dated for about four years,
and unfortunately I had unknown resolve unresolved childhood traumas, and
I thought this was normal, and we got married. We
have some kids, and I finally threw my therapist have
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taken a standards and I'm not doing this anymore. You
have to go to therapy, you have to be on medication.
It has gotten better, but he still has never said
this is a problem. Like he always says I'm working
on myself, but he's never really come out and said that,
you know, I have this problem. I have anger issues,
I have of fatality issues. Like it's really hard. It's
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really hard. So if I could go back in time,
sad to say, I love my children, but I would
not have stayed with it.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
It's such an interesting thing, Jessica, because I guess I
never really understood this until recently, and I've been alive
for a while, but you are saying that you grew
up seeing this or experiencing this, and so as obvious
as it sounds, you know, you just thought that was
how everybody was, and at some point what you had
an awakening, like you just said, wait a minute, this
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isn't how. This is not how every relationship is. It
was modeled for you, and so now it's like, no,
hold on, I don't want to live this way.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Is that what happened?
Speaker 1 (16:32):
How did you come to that spot where you realize, Okay, no,
this isn't how it's supposed to be.
Speaker 9 (16:38):
Well, I started going to therapy and I explained all
my situations to my therapist and she's and me. I've
been with her for probably about four years now, I've
been married for seventeen. But yeah, she's just like this
is not normal, and she kind of, you know, let
me see that it's not okay that he yells at
loud and throws things. You know, I've actually had to
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call the police. And I feel like that that was
kind of like an awaking need for him, like, Okay,
she's not dealing with this anymore. This is not going
to be okay, Like I have to change and my
kids are now experiencing, you know, problems because they witnessed this,
and so we're having to go through therapy with them
and you know, unresolved trauma. And I mean it's big,
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Like she like I said, if I could go back
in time, I wouldn't I would have left him.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Do you see a world, Jessica where he I mean
he recognizes it and actually makes big steps towards changing it,
or do you think it's a lost cause.
Speaker 9 (17:38):
Well, my therapist says, I still have hope. So if
I still have hope, then there's you know, I shouldn't leave.
Yet He's actively working on it, and he has gotten better.
And I know that people in a puse of of
situations often say, you know, like, oh, but he's gotten
so much better since then, But he has, and so
I'm trying to focus on that. And I've laid out
to him what I need in this marriage for it
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to work, and and we're actually they have a couple
of therapy tomorrow, so I'm going to present him with that.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
But that takes what you're doing, jess takes a lot
of courage, because everyone on here saying run, and I
know why they're saying that because it's dangerous, there could
be dangerous. It sounds like you're fighting for it and
you know, giving this gun an opportunity to change and uh,
and that takes a lot of courage.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
So good for you.
Speaker 9 (18:21):
Thanks, thanks, I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
You have a good day, Jessica.
Speaker 9 (18:25):
Thanks you.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
It's amazing how like you can not to make it
about me, but like you you can experience something growing up,
you can know what it was, you can and then
and then you can be triggered by that behavior all
your life until one day you just say, and it
happened for me recently, it's like wait a minute, no,
like no, I'm not you're not, You're not going to
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do that. And then you you connect it with the
thing that happened, you know, early on in your life,
and you're like, well, that's why that triggers me. But
now I'm taking a stand like no, not no, like
I'm not going to be treated that way by anybody.
And unfortunately sometimes it takes over correction to then come
to the place where you just avoid it entirely. But
that that makes me sad. It makes me sad that
this woman got herself into a marriage thinking this is
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this is how it. This is just how it is,
right because it's what she saw it, and it doesn't
have to be that way. Hey Becky, good morning, that's
good morning.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (19:16):
I beg you.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Okay, so you're not a total random You are a therapist.
You know, we did not check your licensure, but we'll
go with it.
Speaker 9 (19:23):
You hear this.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
What do you think.
Speaker 5 (19:27):
If a person doesn't have emotional regulation, which is really
control of their emotions right now the relationship that relationship coach,
I will tell her, he's only going to get to
know you. He's going to become familiar, which once he
becomes familiar with you, he's going to feel comfortable lashing
out and you and you don't know where that lashing
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is going to go to.
Speaker 8 (19:49):
It definitely if he's behaving like that, asis well, adverse
childhood traumas have come in those experiences. So if he
he doesn't have control of it, you have an individual
with unmanagemental health issues.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
They may manage it.
Speaker 7 (20:06):
What a fas with alcohol?
Speaker 2 (20:08):
You never know in your experience for your life.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
Okay, all right, so she says, go now, in your experience, though,
have you ever seen where people can be rehabilitated from this.
Like if the guy is really opened, if he accepts
the fact that this is really happening and he wants
to save his family, and he goes to the right
person and he leans into the process.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
I mean, does it have to be a.
Speaker 10 (20:29):
Go No, it doesn't have to be a goal.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
But she's afraid to address him, and he's he hasn't
taken responsibility for his actions, because if he took responsibility
for his actions. You think of is when you look
at an individual you care about and you see how
you've wounded them or you see how you've brought them
to fear, you try to comfort them in that whatever
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means it takes, you would try to you know, on
what I'm going to talk to somebody about this. You
should be your own advocate.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
Yeah, and that, Yeah, that's not happening. Becky, thank you.
Have a good day, you too. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
I mean, I'm not naive to the fact this is
happening a lot, but my god is the text is
blowing up with people who unfortunately can relate to this
very scenario. Hey Monica, Hi, good morning, Hi Monica. Yeah,
So if you're just joining and I know you're not.
But if you're just tuning in stare go, this woman
you know, loves her boyfriend, says he's a great guy,
but things go zero to sixty with the anger. He
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gets very angry, very quickly, and well it's not directed
at her yet. It concerns her, but she's not willing
to talk to him about it, and she's wondering if
she needs to get out. It sounds like if she's
not willing to talk about it, then there's nothing left
to talk about.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Like she's got to go.
Speaker 9 (21:47):
Yeah, she has to absolutely go.
Speaker 11 (21:49):
And as out listening the fact that she says that
I don't think he'll hit me, Oh, she's not certain.
I've been married with my husband for over eighteen years
and I can say he will.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
Not hit me.
Speaker 11 (22:01):
There's a difference between being angry simply just you know,
the temple of angry.
Speaker 12 (22:06):
Oh you know, I'm hungry or I've.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Lost the game.
Speaker 11 (22:09):
But the fact that she cannot say he won't hit me,
and even listening to her talks, she sounds very scared
to get the words out.
Speaker 9 (22:19):
All the red flags are there.
Speaker 5 (22:20):
She has to go.
Speaker 9 (22:21):
She's setting herself up for a.
Speaker 11 (22:23):
Lifetime a failure. And once she brings kids into the mix,
it's going to be even harder to leave. So I
hope that she's listening, but she needs to.
Speaker 9 (22:32):
Go, needs to go.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
Yeah, have a good day, welcome, so thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
I think it sometimes gets you in new a value
proposition too. Some people think that they just don't they
don't deserve to have it all. And I'm not sure
if that's what she's thinking. But you know, for some people,
it's well, they just stay in it because it's like, well,
you know, he's nice most of the time.
Speaker 6 (22:49):
Yeah, you make excuse excuses, and you see potential and
you and when it's good, it's probably really good, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Like when they make up, it probably feels great, but
then it happens again. It's a cycle.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Yeah, maya, Hi, Hey, good morning, Stay or go? What
do you think when you hear this? It's kind of
overwhelming today.
Speaker 12 (23:08):
Yeah, she needs to go, definitely. I sadly was in
a similar situation and he was throwing things and screaming
on stop until one day he drew something towards me
and smashed my face.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, and he said.
Speaker 12 (23:24):
He would never hit me, he would never do anything
like that. But one day it happened.
Speaker 9 (23:28):
He was so remorseful.
Speaker 12 (23:31):
I'm so sorry, but you know what, I walked away good.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
Yes, yeah, a lot of strength and I'm sorry it
came to that. But so for you, when you hear this,
it's well, it's not happening yet, but you know we're
on the trajectory. It's escalating. And so you hear this
and you think, well, you know, we're certainly headed in
the wrong direction. As far as he may not, he
may say that, or you may feel that now, but
it's but since they've Matt, it's gotten so much worse.
(23:56):
So it's possible that it turns on her.
Speaker 7 (24:00):
See.
Speaker 12 (24:00):
The scary thing about this is that God Forbata turns
on her, and then when she walks away like myself, now,
if I hear a man yelling or loud noises or
anything smashing.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
I jump.
Speaker 12 (24:11):
And I was in therapy for three years because of him.
I'm much better now, but I still get triggered.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
Yeah, I can imagine. Yeah, that's step that's Steph Lingers. Yeah,
thank you, Maya, thanks for sharing.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
Have a good day.
Speaker 11 (24:23):
Thank you you too.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
All Right, I was gonna move on. I got time
for one more though, Albert, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 10 (24:29):
How you guys doing that all the time?
Speaker 1 (24:31):
And this guy kind of heavy? But I maybe it's
something that people need to hear because it obviously resonates
with people. But you are calling because you were this
guy in some ways. I'm not saying this guy because
I don't know what you were and I don't know
what he is, but but you were the angry guy.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Yes, So.
Speaker 10 (24:48):
Throw out her trauma. All of that aside. There are
issues in our marriage, and I became very angry and
hateful and verbally would lash out and things like that. Unfortunately,
my kids also saw me acting like that, and I
knew I needed to get better. I knew I wanted
(25:09):
to be better, but I was just in my own
little world with that hate and anger for so long
that that that was my normal. And it took for
my ex wife to actually go through with the whole
divorce process for me to you know, hit rock bottom,
man realize, hey, I need to change. I need to
(25:31):
you know, work on myself and get rid of this
anger that's built up. So I'm in a much better
place now. But and I'm not trying to victim, blame
or anything like that. But I feel now that I
can think clearly about how I behaved and how my
anger was and what I put my ex and the
kids through. I'm a little ashamed that, you know, my
(25:54):
ex stayed with me for as long as she did,
because I kind of hope, you know, she would have
left that situation before it got to that point.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
I hear you saying that you're accepting your behavior and
you look back and think, how on earth would someone
stay with me through that, which is something you weren't
able to see at the time.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Correct. Yeah, And so here's the here's the guy in
the situation go. Yeah, he's selling this woman to go
from his perspective than that.
Speaker 6 (26:21):
So much, Cousin, I do to relationships, say I'm going
to stay for the kids. I'm going to stay and
work it out for the kids. If you are in
an abusive relationship, the best thing you can do for
your kids is to leave.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (26:31):
And if the abuse can be emotional, and it can
be burner, it doesn't have to be physical.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Yep. I appreciate you call him man because you know
we really we had only heard from you from the
other side. So and the fact that you can say
that now you could admit that you were that person,
and I appreciate that's valuable.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
Have a good day, man, Yeah, I have a good one,
thank you.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
And then we did get a text to Taylor Swift
announced an album. So just so you know, uh, did
you guys know Taylor Swift announced very heavy, very heavy topic.
But Taylor Swift announced.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
An album's entertainment report he's on the Bread Show.
Speaker 4 (27:03):
We now know the cause of death for Kelly Clarkson's
ex husband, Brandon Blackstock, also a talent manager and former
stepson of Ruba McIntyre, died from melanoma, a form of
skin cancer that he battled for over three years. He
passed away peacefully at his home in Montana, surrounded by
family under huspic's care. He leaves behind four children, which
is so sad, two with Kelly, two from a previous marriage,
(27:25):
as well as a grandson and extended family. So while
a lot of people think melanoma no big deal, beatable,
it can be a big deal. So please wear your
son's screen. I don't care if you don't burn, I
don't care if you tan well. Please wear your sun's screen.
It's always my PSA. NICKI Minaj and former NFL star
Dez Bryant have ended that social media feud I told
(27:45):
you about.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
I think it was last week if you forgot though.
Speaker 4 (27:48):
The whole thing started when Nicki referenced his past legal
issues and he fired back by calling attention to our
husband's criminal history.
Speaker 3 (27:56):
Niki even offered des ten million to fight her husband,
which was wild.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
The online showdown concluded with Dez issuing a heartfelt apology,
acknowledging that he let the devil win, and expressing regret
for bringing up Nikki's husband. She responded with grace, accepting
his apology and praising his accountability.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
So that was that was not something I'd expected. That
was a very mature way to end social media feud.
NBA start And this is the story that I teased.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
Anthony Edwards just paid over one million dollars in child support,
covering the next eighteen years for his child in one
lump sum, but his ex, Ayisha Howard, says it's unfair
because she can't go back to court and ask for
more if his income goes up. She said, I've already
paid one hundred thousand or I've already used that. Rather,
what if it runs out before eighteen years. She didn't
(28:44):
blame the judge for betraying her, saying this is an injustice,
injustice to poor women like me.
Speaker 3 (28:50):
I feel betrayed. So I guess a judge signed off
on that. I've never heard of that happening.
Speaker 6 (28:54):
Which is crazy because look how the prices keep going up,
right exactly inflation.
Speaker 4 (28:59):
Souish is not to wishing tomorrow a million percent, So
it'll be interesting to see if that can be challenged
or how that moves forward.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Base get a million bucks. It was just over Yeah,
so fifty grand a year. Yeah, yeah, I mean, yeah,
I guess I guess I'm surprised.
Speaker 3 (29:16):
Yeah, me too, Yeah, that that would. But we'll see
how it all plays out.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
And then there are some people now listening going fifty
grand SEMs a bit because my diad be.
Speaker 2 (29:25):
Don't pay anything for sure.
Speaker 3 (29:27):
I mean, you know, it's all ends of the spectrum.
Speaker 4 (29:29):
We got to get to the showdown though, but if
you want to watch us on YouTube, you could type
Fred Show Radio and we will go live throughout the
show during the portions that we can afford.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Who wants to take on Shelley eight five, five, five,
nine one three five call right now. One thousand, one
hundred and fifty bucks is the price Shelley's record one
thousand and thirty nine wins only sixty nine losses. Showbiz,
Shelley is here, Sis. I'm counting on you to light
and you get a light in the mood.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
Man, it's you. It's your job.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
Tell us, tell us a joke, say something fun right
now on the spot. Immediately, Yeah, did you see that?
Speaker 3 (30:05):
I was like, I'm I'm surprised. Are Jason and Kayln
Are you freaking.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
Out about that?
Speaker 3 (30:09):
I mean, yeah, I was, and I'm not even like
here Swift, the moon has.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Been pretty calm this morning.
Speaker 6 (30:15):
I was tired see sales spreadsheets over there. I don't
let them fool you. They guts, really, they are trying
to put it all together.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
Shelly with what like Easter eggs, Blines.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
Doing Massive twelve twelve, but the announcement was at twelve.
But then it's your twelfth album twelve twelve twelve, and she.
Speaker 3 (30:35):
Wins twelve times and then yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
Yeah, don't somebody go back and look in the background
of the set. Maybe there's some clue in there too.
Speaker 3 (30:45):
There wasn't Easter egg there was an extra suitcase and
am me, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
But the t s on it. It was up on
his little shelf.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
And then you all trying to, like, you know, go
through a trash to figure out who she was working with.
So you think maybe it's gonna be like a nineties
pop sound next, Yeah, who did it in nineteen eighty nine? Oh,
Battrey Boys and a bunch of other stuff too. So
maybe maybe there'll be some mixed up lyrics too where
I'll tell me like I want it that way, where
the song won't make any sense, but it will be
(31:13):
a complete and total banger.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Maybe do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Speaker 3 (31:19):
Shelley in the show Biz Showdown Show?
Speaker 13 (31:26):
You're gonna listen to the actual podcast episode right like that.
I'm gonna watch it, Shelley, watch it. Oh my gosh,
I leave my house. Yeah, okay, she wants it on
a movie theater.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Watch it. That's a good idea by herself. Why didn't
do that already?
Speaker 1 (31:42):
You want to talk about overpriced stuff, how about going
to the movies try and buy it. You gotta buy
seven gallons and it's like twenty eight dollars and don't
refill it.
Speaker 6 (31:50):
For you though, and it all tastes like grape because
they use the machine with all the different flavors.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Man, I was just somewhere the other day where they
had the one that makes every shoda ever ever invented,
And you're right, they all taste like cherry coke.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Yes, it makes me so mad.
Speaker 2 (32:07):
I didn't order cherry coke.
Speaker 9 (32:08):
O the water.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
It tastes like cherry coke. Somebody getting your cleanest thing. Hey, Jenna,
Hi Jenna, good morning. Fun fact about you is what.
Speaker 7 (32:22):
My sister and I have the same birthday, but we
are not twit.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Okay, how far apart?
Speaker 11 (32:27):
Are you?
Speaker 8 (32:27):
Cool?
Speaker 3 (32:28):
Two years?
Speaker 2 (32:29):
All right? Wow?
Speaker 1 (32:29):
Fascinating. I wonder if your parents got it on on
the same way. What is your birthday? Let's figure out
the day they got it on. What's your birthday?
Speaker 3 (32:37):
July twenty seven, so.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
Like around the holidays. Yeah, so they were doing it
on Christmas.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
They were they were the holiday party two years and
they got it on a little too many cocktails, a
little too much egnog. And then look what happened you
and your sister Boom problem.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Solve it.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
I just figured the whole thing out. That's how it happened. Yeah,
She's like whatever, I don't want to consider and fifty bucks,
one thousand, thirty nine wins, only sixty nine losses all
time and eighteen straight for Shelley.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Five questions. Let's go, guys, good luck all right?
Speaker 3 (33:06):
Good luck?
Speaker 1 (33:08):
Sold to respect Shelley. You gotta go soundboof poof Jenna.
Question number one. The Kelsey Brothers had the Internet going
crazy over a podcast teaser hinting the Taylor's swift maybe
a guest tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
What is the name of their podcast, New Heights.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
Christiano Ronaldo, which for some reason it always heard for
me to say, proposed to his girlfriend Georgia Rodriguez with
the biggest ring I've ever seen.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Yes, and you know they dug that out of somewhere.
That is not a loud grown diamond.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
Wait it long for that?
Speaker 2 (33:36):
What is Christiano best known for?
Speaker 5 (33:41):
Stoccer?
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Who did the Jonas Brothers bring out for a Camp
Rock reunion during night one of their Greetings from Your
Hometown tour. Jemmy Lovato influencer and singer Dixie Demilio is
twenty four today. What is the name of Dixie's famous
sister who is a dancer and TikToker and which Columbian
(34:02):
singer paused his concert to call out a mom for
bringing her baby without ear protection. That's a five.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
That might be it.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
You might do it, you might get it. We might
be writing a check. She got a five.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
She got a five, Shelley, get the typewriter out, Jason,
that's out. I think today's the day. Well, I'm going
to need to write emails because that's the only reason,
only way I can do that. All right, question was
running and someone corrected me. I guess Jenning your parents
got it on around Halloween, so same deal, you know?
Speaker 10 (34:38):
And then.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Right, question number one that Kelsey Brothers had the Internet
going crazy over a podcast teaser, hinting that Taylor Swift
may be a guest tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (34:49):
What is the name of the podcast New Heights? That's right.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Cristiano Ronaldo proposed to his girlfriend Georgia Rodriguez. What is
Christiano best known for soccer?
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Did you say a ring?
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
Oh, I saw the ring? All right.
Speaker 1 (35:03):
I don't know how she can carry her hand around
who and I'll also be afraid of my hand? I
get cut off wearing that there? Yes, who did the
Jonahs brothers bring out for a Camp Rock reunion during
night one of their Greetings from Your Hometown tour, Demie Lovato, Yeah,
influencer and singer Dixie Demilio's twenty four today. What is
the name of Dixie's famous sister who is a dancer
in TikToker? Oh?
Speaker 5 (35:24):
No?
Speaker 3 (35:25):
What a stream? Dixie too? And a tricksy Yeah?
Speaker 2 (35:31):
Ooh Dixie and Trixie. No, Charlie, Charlie?
Speaker 1 (35:37):
And which Columbian singer pushed his concert to call out
pause rather his contract to call out a mom for
bringing her baby without air protection.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Oh, Maluma, Oh you got that? I thought you'd get
I thought you missed.
Speaker 1 (35:47):
Five Jennings and last number seventy and you snapped her
eighteen game win streak back to one hundred bucks?
Speaker 5 (36:00):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (36:00):
Wow, What are you gonna do with the money?
Speaker 3 (36:05):
Probably go on to vacation.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
There you go.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
That's okay, all right? One thousand, one hundred and fifty
bucks is yours? Hang on one second, you.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
Can hang with it. Got really you did it? Hang on?
I don't. I'm not going to go along for it.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
No, hold on, that's what he's saying. I'm not well,
you know, I don't have a comeback for that. You know,
I don't want to yes, and I'm not going to
go along. Does that mean I have to say yes,
I'm not going to go along. I'm not going to
say that, not on purpose. Sometimes it happens, you know,
(36:42):
sometimes if you're that hot. Anyway, I gotta go, Shelley,
have a good day. One hundred bucks tomorrow we started
all over again.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
All right, sounds good, okay, I.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
Mean, if it's that good, you know, what can I say?
Speaker 3 (36:55):
Not much to saykky, you know what do I know?
You know, being that hot, somebody has a little.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
I mean sometimes a little sometimes.
Speaker 5 (37:08):
What can I do?
Speaker 2 (37:09):
What can I do?
Speaker 3 (37:11):
There's nothing you can do?
Speaker 5 (37:12):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (37:13):
Aren't you complimented sometimes me when that happens, yes, all
the time.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
Oh it's everything. Well that's a different problem entirely, but
more bread.