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John, I just wouldn't get right the first time anyway, Brianna,
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Speaker 2 (05:09):
Thank you for your note.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
You can dm us you can hit us at Friendshire
Radio dot com. So you are in a new relationship
with a boyfriend of about six months. This has been
going on, yes, And.

Speaker 8 (05:23):
I want to just preface by saying we are very happy,
We're very into each other, and everything is great except
one thing.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Great, nice topic this, Thanks for calling. You just want
to call here and brag I'm so happy in my
life scru.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
Stark That yeah, that relationship. Well, so what is the
one thing? Though?

Speaker 8 (05:44):
Well, so we have a very big age app So
I'm twenty four and he is fifty.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Okay, all right, so we get a nice, nice twenty
six year age gap. Now I need to hear both
of Now I'm not quite fifty. In fact, I'm not
anyone you're fifty. But but but you know, let's defend
the older let's defend the older men dating the younger
women thing for a moment until I hear the old thing.
So how did you meet? And like why are we
talking of? If you're happy? I get that it's a

(06:12):
huge age gap, but like what's the insecurity? Like where
does it come from? Why are we talking?

Speaker 8 (06:18):
Well, we met while we were both out and this
is not like a thing for me, like I don't
seek out men that are older than me. But we
met at a bar. I thought he was much younger
than fifty. He does not look fifty. And I approached
him and then we got along and after talking for
a while, he was like, by the way, how old
are you? So I wasn't like looking for this, but

(06:39):
it just kind of happened.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
And we've been.

Speaker 8 (06:42):
Dating for six months now, so it's like kind of
getting to be time to introduce into my family. But
I'm very afraid of how they're going to react. They
know that I'm dating someone, but they don't know his age.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
Does he have kids, how old are his kids?

Speaker 5 (06:56):
He does not have kids, okay.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
Because that could get a little weir.

Speaker 5 (06:59):
Yeah, you know if I agree, if.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
His kids were you know, close to your age. And
there's my dad, right, yeah, that's right. Your dad is
dated someone. You're one of your friends?

Speaker 6 (07:08):
Right, Well, I'm not her friend, but we did attend
the same high school at one point.

Speaker 2 (07:12):
Yeah, we're not friends now are we? We never were?
But can help no?

Speaker 1 (07:17):
Mom?

Speaker 9 (07:18):
Right?

Speaker 3 (07:20):
Oh my goodness, so weird.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
And so your family's like, oh, this is so exciting.
Brianna has meant someone or whatever.

Speaker 2 (07:27):
How do you.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
I mean, is your dad Let me see, if you're
twenty four your dad, your dad could very easily be
close to his age, which could make things kind of weird.
I mean, are you worried about what they're going to say?

Speaker 8 (07:39):
I am. I mean, I don't think they're going to
tell me to break up with him, but I don't
think they're going to be like jumping for joy about it.
And my friends know about him and they're concerned. They've
told me that they're concerned.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
Well that says a lot now why it's a huge
age gap, right, But like why if you're happy, why
are they concerned?

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Would be my question?

Speaker 8 (08:00):
Well, none of them have met him, and I think
they're just like, why is a fifty year old man
dating a twenty four year old? Like they think it
reflects badly on him, but he's such a great guy
and they don't know him.

Speaker 5 (08:09):
Hm.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
So I have a lot of questions.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
First of all, eight five five five nine one three
five you know you know what what what do you
think when you hear this this twenty four year old
fifty year old dynamic? I also would ask the question
like why is it necessarily a bad look? Like if
you're a mature twenty four year old and he's a
decent guy and he's not a perver, weirdo or creep.

(08:33):
Then I guess I don't know why this couldn't be
a thing, Like, yeah, it's unorthodox, but like why, I
don't know, I don't, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
I mean, I've dated people of all ages. I'm forty four.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
I've dated people anywhere from twenty five to over fifty,
so I've gone both ways. But like if I date
someone who's over fifty, no one says anything about that.
I've dated people who are twenty eight and the next
person I date is my age, and they think that
they think I'm disgusting for that, But is am I
disgusting for that?

Speaker 2 (08:59):
Or is there an inca security about that?

Speaker 1 (09:02):
It's like, well, you were doating someone so much younger,
what are you doing with me? It's like, well, because
I can like both things, right, Like, I'm not necessarily
I'm not targeting twenty somethings. But if I meet someone
that I connect with you, then I'm not really sure
that I care about the age necessarily, but your priorities
may differ.

Speaker 2 (09:20):
I mean, he's fifty, Like, do you want kids.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
He may not want kids, he may want not want
to start now, Like, I feel like that's the kind
of stuff that might get you in trouble.

Speaker 5 (09:29):
Em heard, I.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
Mean, do you want kids? She's like, received, yeah, yeah, yeat,
you know, yeah, do you want kids?

Speaker 8 (09:42):
I think I do? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Okay, Well, I mean I get on it. I mean,
have you had that discussion with him? I feel like
it's that kind of stuff that where you might have
an issue because you might very well be very mature
for your age and and find that this guy offers
security and money, a parental figure, you know, or somebody need.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Maybe.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Well, I'm just saying, like, you're allowed, you're allowed to
be to gravitate towards whatever you need, right, and maybe
and there's something wrong. You're both adults, right, I mean,
there's there's nothing inherently wrong about this. But I guess
I wonder, like, do you do you think that you
will align on all of the principles and all of
the goals that you have for one another.

Speaker 8 (10:26):
Yeah, those are valid concerns, But I am also just
kind of like living in the moment of this relationship,
and for the moment, it's very good.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
Is he rich.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
Hell. Yeah, yeah, I want to say that, Like, you know,
when I was twenty four, I'm surprised that anybody went
out with me. When I was thirty four, I'm surprised
that anybody went out with me, to be honest, Like,
the difference between the human being that and I'm not
sure that's saying much, but the difference between the human
being I am now and I was twenty years ago

(10:55):
is significantly different. And I don't know, I'm much more settled.
I'm it's more kind of like, you know, I don't know,
I don't have anything to.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
Prove to anybody anymore. I am who I am. I
don't know.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
I think I'm a better version of myself. You know,
back then I thought I was hot stuff, and I
I don't know, I had a lot to prove. I
didn't have any resources. I didn't know, you know, my
butt from a hole in the wall, you know whatever.
I just so, I guess I can see why younger
women gravitate towards older men. I just wonder, I just
wonder how long you're you're sort of you're going to

(11:29):
be on how many points you were aligned or hey,
are you happy not having kids? And being with a
guy who's much older, who's rich, and there's security there,
and I mean, I guess, I guess this all depends
on what your priorities are.

Speaker 8 (11:40):
Right, God, lots to think about.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
Geez.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
Yeah, all right, Well, let me take some calls on this, Brianna,
and I will have to follow up. I can't wait
to hear and let me get Let me guess, Brianna,
he's got money, he's he's mature and confident, and the
sex is really good, right problem at the well, Brianna,
thank you, good luck, have a good day, and keep
the radio on and we'll see what people have to say. Bye, Calyn,

(12:08):
you've done something like this.

Speaker 3 (12:10):
Yeah, twenty was where I maxed out, maxed out, excuse.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
Me, choked up there, think about it, had emotional yeah, yeah,
when beneath my wings.

Speaker 6 (12:21):
Yeah, twenty is where I maxed out. But I don't know.
I mean, I do also have concerns. Like one of
the reasons that I'm not so in that relationship is
like I and this is dark, but like I took
care of my grandpa as he was dying, and I
was like, I'm about to do that in like ten
years for this man.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
You know what I mean, Like, I just found I
can't do it again.

Speaker 2 (12:38):
He was in his fifties.

Speaker 3 (12:40):
Yeah, he was fish.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
I think you had a little bit more time than that.
Hopefully I hear what you're saying.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
I was like, I can't do that.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
You're going to be a caretaker at some point you
marry this guy.

Speaker 3 (12:47):
Yeah, So that was part of it.

Speaker 6 (12:49):
Honestly, I was like, I need I need a little
because I want to have kids.

Speaker 1 (12:53):
But I think I don't want to say anything. I
think that general, early women think that men who date
women who are much younger are doing it like it's
only to their benefit, like it's just about sex or
just about an own body, or just about just about
or somehow it's like naivitae or lack of maturity or

(13:16):
manipulation or stuffing. Not every twenty something I've gone out
with appealed to me right, like they could be banging
in every way, but like we couldn't connect because we
didn't have similar priorities because they were I mean, I've
met very mature late twenties, early thirties people who are
you know, they're not into the partying, they're not into
the things that are traditionally stereotypically young stuff, stuff that

(13:39):
we all did go out and going out every weekend
and going out and getting crazy stuff that you maybe
don't do when you get a little bit older. So
it hasn't always appealed to me, right, Like, sometimes I've
noticed the maturity gap and it doesn't work. So I
don't think it's in And sure, I think there are
guys out there with a boat and they're rich, and
they're old, and they're divorced and they just want hot
chicks and they don't care about talking to them or connecting.

(14:00):
Just fine too, And that's all right too, if that's
if you're transparent about that. But I don't know that
it's I don't know that it's always as it looks.
I think there are examples where it's like that, and
I think there are examples from the other way where
the girl has really no interest in the guy. He
has interest in the money and the resources and not
getting messed with, you know, or not not being with
an F boy, a younger f boy, I guess, right.

Speaker 3 (14:21):
And like her like, who's asking?

Speaker 6 (14:22):
I mean, I'm not asking ages, so you know, like
for my ex for example, he looked he didn't look
his age.

Speaker 3 (14:28):
So who's like going, wait, how old are you?

Speaker 1 (14:30):
No, Well, Diane, you say this is too big of
an age gap. This is a hard no for you.

Speaker 5 (14:35):
Yeah, when he was twenty four years old, she's born.

Speaker 4 (14:38):
She was.

Speaker 5 (14:39):
I mean when he was twenty four, she was born.
It's no, absolutely not.

Speaker 8 (14:43):
I have a daughter that's almost that age, and I
would absolutely not be on.

Speaker 2 (14:46):
Board with this.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
So she comes home with you, I mean, let me
ask you this. She's she's around twenty four, your.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
Daughter, Diane, she's twenty five, okay.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
And I'm sure that in her life you've seen her
dates some real douchebag that are her own age, right,
And and they're douchebags maybe not because they're inherently bad people,
but because they're young and stupid and naive and and
and and immature, because we all are before we know better. Right, So, like,
would you there's no way that you could see this
for what it is, which is maybe he's a decent

(15:17):
guy and they connect and he's and he's got his
act together more than somebody her own age might.

Speaker 4 (15:24):
I can't.

Speaker 5 (15:24):
That's my husband's dag.

Speaker 8 (15:25):
It's appropriate because by the time she's going to have
babies with him.

Speaker 5 (15:30):
He's going to be ready for bad.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
Another wrong with that.

Speaker 3 (15:34):
I'm ready for.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
Let's the big time? All right, Like there's another wrong.

Speaker 8 (15:40):
They're going to be falling apart. Come on, now, I
see the concerns.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
I see the concerns, But I guess I take it
more to are their lifestyles going to align?

Speaker 2 (15:51):
Are their goals going to align?

Speaker 1 (15:53):
Because I do think it's possible that they both could
be good people. And yeah, okay, thank you, Diane, I
know I'm yeah, yeah, okay, well, thank you, Dane.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
Have a good day.

Speaker 4 (16:03):
Thanks.

Speaker 5 (16:04):
Right, I spoke.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
You may not want to have kids.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
You may want to, I don't know, travel the world
and be secure and and maybe that that guy can
offer that, and someone your own age can. I mean,
I think I think we all assumed that everybody has
similar priorities, and maybe this woman doesn't. I don't, but
she did say she was thinking about kids, and so
that's an issue. Hey, Liz, Hi, Hi, Liz, So you
just resonates with you You've been on the on her

(16:29):
side of this.

Speaker 9 (16:31):
Yes, not such a huge age cap. But I dated
someone who was fifteen years older than me years ago.
I'm thirty now, and I dated this person when I
was twenty two, and my parents were not on board
with it. They didn't they didn't like it. It was
more like I've never looked my age, so I look

(16:53):
way younger than I actually am, and they just thought
it was weird. And I've dated that person for two years.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
And we were like, why did it all?

Speaker 1 (17:05):
I'm sorry interrupt you, but why did it ultimately not
work out?

Speaker 9 (17:09):
I think it was like I had a different mentality
back then, like I wanted to go out and party
and do all this stuff. When you're like twenty and
he's always here trying to like settle down and start
a family and everything.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
It was more like that type of I see.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
Okay, so you were attracted to each other and there
was like a connection maybe physically or whatever, but again
your priorities were different. Yes, yeah, yeah, okay, Well thank you, Liz,
have a good day. Glad you called. That's what That's
where I think ultimately they may align.

Speaker 2 (17:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
Not every twenty four year old wants to go out
and get hammered every weekend. Not every fifty year old
is like, you know, in a recliner on a ARP
website you know. I mean, I think there's probably a
compromise in there somewhere. Hey, Diane, another diet. Diane number
two certainly no less important than Diane number one, just
the second one to call in this segment.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
What do you think? What this is? A woman who
called instaergo.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
She's twenty four, didtying guy who's fifty Her friends a concern,
her family doesn't know, and she's been with him for
six months and is happy but isn't sure.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
What do you think?

Speaker 5 (18:15):
Well, I think if she were confident in knowing that
this is a good relationship for her, it's really healthy
and strong. It doesn't matter what other people think. But
I'll tell you I think her parents might pick up
on that and say, wow, this could be really good
for you, because that's what happened with me. And I
was forty five. He was twenty three years older than me.

(18:36):
He was the age of my father, And of course
they had some you know, like a second thought. But
when they met him, they could see how he related
to me and how I related to him, and it
was wonderful. My mom actually cried when we broke up.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
Oh wow. And what ultimately was the demise of the relationship.

Speaker 5 (18:57):
What ultimately happened, well, what happened was it was an
energy difference where he actually had more energy than I did.
I was more of a deep thinker, profound meditation, spirituality
kind of a person, and he was more of a
let's go travel, let's go here, let's go there. And
I'm the world's worst traveler. So I wanted him to

(19:20):
be free to do what he really felt like he
wanted to do. And I said, you know this, I
really need to let.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
You go oh wow wow.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
And Diane, I think I feel like when people hear
these age gaps, all they're thinking about, or at least
the first thing that comes to their mind is sex.
The first thing that comes to their mind is this
is about sex, This is about the physicality the old
guy wants young girl. And I don't That's certainly probably
an element in a lot of these cases, but I
don't think it is in everyone.

Speaker 2 (19:50):
No.

Speaker 5 (19:51):
Oh no, gosh no. I mean that was part of it,
and we both had kind of like wounded backgrounds in
that area. But the other part of it was that
we were so deeply connected in a just a fundamental
way that we had fun no matter what we did.

Speaker 1 (20:08):
Yeah, and so yeah, and in which case it had
nothing to do with age. Really, it had more to
do with your interests and what you guys wanted to
do in life. And and I think that the situation
you ran into could happen if you were the same age,
or if you were thirty years apart.

Speaker 2 (20:21):
So sorry, think about it, oh.

Speaker 5 (20:24):
All the time. And we still stay in touch. He's
a lawyer. He did my mother's papers before she passed.
He was at my dad's funeral. I mean, we cried together.
He's still a wonderful friend.

Speaker 1 (20:36):
But you won't reconcile. There's no way that that you
can see, you know, finding some common grounds.

Speaker 5 (20:42):
At this point he's in his nineties.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
Oh well, I'm gonna you know when I can. You
want to did some papers of your own.

Speaker 5 (20:54):
You know?

Speaker 1 (20:54):
Okay, yeah, okay, I mean you did the hard work,
you know, time for the payoff, you know what? Oh god,
we're terrible. All right, Thank you, Dan, I have a
good day. Thank you for sharing. All right, I only
have ten.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
It really was sweet, No man, now what I mean?

Speaker 1 (21:11):
Yes, I will also say forties and sixties I think
are probably less of a maturity difference than twenties and forties. Yes,
in any case, so I can see them. But listen
from the male perspective, here comes big rich, Big Rich
is here.

Speaker 2 (21:27):
Hey, he's forty seventy. His girlfriend's twenty five.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
My man, congrats, dude, come on, come on, we don't
have to make it sound like that.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
Fred, Is it like that? Is that what it is?

Speaker 4 (21:40):
I mean that those are the numbers. Yes, those are
the numbers.

Speaker 2 (21:42):
And how did you mean.

Speaker 4 (21:45):
We met at a mutual friend's house when we were
in sure, she told me she was twenty eight years old.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
Well that's a big difference, rich twenty five? Come on, man, so.

Speaker 4 (21:57):
You hello, you been together prime at the time she
was twenty three, and she told me she was twenty eight,
and every time I saw her after that it went
down a year.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
Okay, all right, so she's eighteen, So you've been just
for two years. It says on the screen you've been
together for two years. Yeah, So what's the future?

Speaker 4 (22:13):
You're living together for two years, dating for like just
a little over two years.

Speaker 2 (22:17):
Yeah, okay, and so what is it? Wow? She pulled it,
she pulled ad Jason on you and just moved in
and never left. Aint nothing wrong? With that, What what's
the endgame here?

Speaker 1 (22:25):
Like, are you gonna get married and have kids and
do all the things that you would do with you?

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (22:30):
Yeah, that's that's that's what we're that's what we're hoping for.
I mean, we're obviously trying to get some stuff ironed out, uh,
each of us in our in our lives. And then
you know, her thing is she wants a white fence.
Pick a fence, and then she'll get married.

Speaker 1 (22:43):
Rich has to get divorced and she has to graduate
high school. So there's luck going on.

Speaker 4 (22:50):
I've been divorced for seven years.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
Richie was too easy. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but no,
I hope.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
Look, I hope it works out if you guys connect
and everybody you know and you're on the same agent
that I don't.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
Know, who would who should judge rich Right?

Speaker 4 (23:04):
Yeah, we get we get a lot of judgment online
and stuff like that. And she has she posts a
lot of one of her TikTok says whish we met earlier,
and then it shows a picture of me and and
uh two thousand and two and her in two thousand
and two, and.

Speaker 2 (23:17):
I love doing that.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
Yeah, that's not that's certainly going to feed the narrative. Hey, rich,
good luck man. I appreciate you calling. Have a good day.
You're good sport all right?

Speaker 2 (23:29):
Not good for rich life man?

Speaker 1 (23:32):
Yeah yeah he can.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
Hey, no college loans for her. He can pay for it.

Speaker 5 (23:41):
You know.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
I want to get me. Oh man, what's the website?
I think they are? What's the website called grinder? Want
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Speaker 2 (24:25):
Awen's Entertainment report is on the Fresh Show.

Speaker 3 (24:28):
Have to start out with such a sad story.

Speaker 6 (24:30):
Former Gray's Anatomy and Euphoria star Eric Dane is fighting
als and has tragically lost functionality in his entire right
arm with his left side beginning to weekend. While updating fans,
he shared a really frightening moment while snorkeling with his daughter,
and he says that she had to pull him back
onto the boat herself because he couldn't power through the water. Eric,

(24:50):
who was diagnosed back in April after nine months of testing,
said I have one functioning arm a couple more months
and I won't have my left hand either. Tearing up
as he spoke of how als could take him away
from his daughters and intense physical challenges, he said, I
don't think this is the end of my story, while
confirming that he will continue acting, including returning for season

(25:12):
three of Euphorias. So I'm not sure if they'll, you know,
write his illness into the show or how they're going
to handle that, but hopefully make him as comfortable as possible.

Speaker 3 (25:20):
You hate to see that. It's a terrible disease.

Speaker 6 (25:23):
And next up is Alex Cooper after a number of
former Boston University women's soccer players are speaking out in
support of that coach at the center of her sexual
harassment allegation. Saying their interactions with the staffer were drastically different.
Tamz shared this letter from a rep of BEU women's
soccer alumni signed by ninety nine former athletes, which states

(25:45):
while they do not look to quote, diminish, or discredit
anyone's individual experience, they felt it was necessary to share
their own perspectives as a united group, and the letter,
the alumni say, we categorically never felt unsafe under Coach
Nancy Felman's leadership at a We were never at risk
or witnessed to inappropriate behavior or anything that could be

(26:06):
characterized as sexual harassment. The group, featuring alumni spanning several decades,
went on to say that Coach Feldman's influence didn't end
after their collegiate careers, as she has remained an important
part of their lives and they will stand by her
remember the call. Her Daddy host shared in her new
Hulu documentary that the coach was very inappropriate with her
during her time on the team in the mid twenty tens.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
Twenty tens, I don't even know how to say that.

Speaker 6 (26:28):
She was very clear though that she was singled out
in that situation, So I'm not sure how other people
saying that they didn't experience the same thing is relevant at.

Speaker 3 (26:36):
All, but they felt like they needed to say that.

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Speaker 3 (26:45):
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Speaker 6 (26:46):
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faces as we Sweakah, there's.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
A little new thing we're doing now. We can listen
and watch at the same time. And don't do it.
If you're in a tesla with self full self driving mode,
don't think it.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Don't fresh show. I want to be responsible. Do you
have what it takes to battle show biz? Shelley in
the show Biz Show.

Speaker 1 (27:22):
Show, Bez Show, be Show Bees Good Morch Show. Bes
Kai is your challenger today?

Speaker 2 (27:28):
Hi Kai, Hi, Hi. Fun fact about you.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
Is what.

Speaker 5 (27:35):
I cannot do it backslip.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
I think that's most people I mean he's been trying
to show me how to do one forever.

Speaker 2 (27:41):
He can do back flipping. I'll believe it. I'm back
flipping here every day. It's crazy.

Speaker 8 (27:46):
Hey, you're in I know it too, Yeah, believe it.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
Nine hundred bucks is surprise. Shelley's record Oney thirteen wins,
sixty eighth losses, nine straight. She's back from eternity. Lee,
we got five questions. Let's go, guys.

Speaker 3 (27:57):
Good luck all right, hig good luck?

Speaker 2 (27:58):
Okay, Jelly to build.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
He respect it the heck out question number one for
you Kai As she goes to the sound boof poof.
Kim Kardashian wish her oldest child a happy twelfth birthday
on Instagram? Yesterday, what's her oldest child's name? New York
People in Venicebeli are protesting the wedding of this Amazon
founder as its rumor to be taking place there.

Speaker 5 (28:21):
Oh man, what's his name?

Speaker 3 (28:23):
Three?

Speaker 5 (28:23):
What you're asking for?

Speaker 8 (28:24):
The name of the person.

Speaker 3 (28:25):
Who founded Amazon?

Speaker 5 (28:27):
Two? Oh oh three?

Speaker 2 (28:31):
Week three? Laugh, We're good, We're good.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
A new video show Savannah Chris Lee and her dad
embracing after she picked him up from prison. Name her
dad Chris Chris, which not like us Rapper is thirty
eight today? And which former Yellowstone star and ex wife
Christine Bumgardner were spotted keeping their distance at their son's graduation.

Speaker 5 (28:57):
Shellby's got this one.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
Oh you didn't want to get?

Speaker 8 (29:00):
Take a guess I don't.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
He's so close, very very close to to to to two.
Here comes Shelley from the book two. Oh okay, yeah, right,
I think I'm thinking that things will go well for you. Well,
I'm rapping over here now. Kim Kardashian which her oldest
child the happy twelfth birthday on Instagram yesterday?

Speaker 2 (29:25):
What is her oldest child's name?

Speaker 8 (29:27):
Nor?

Speaker 1 (29:27):
Can you imagine the car that kid's gonna get?

Speaker 2 (29:30):
Oh my god? A couple of years well.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
People in Venice, Italy are protesting the wedding of this
Amazon founder as it's rumored to be taking place.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
There Jeff Bezos.

Speaker 1 (29:40):
New video shows Savannah Chrisley and her dad embracing after
she picked him up from prison.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
Name her dad? Oh that Todd?

Speaker 1 (29:49):
That's right, Todd is his name? Which he looks like
a Todd too, by the way. Which not like US
Rapper is thirty eight today? Kendrick Klamar, Yeah, and which
former Yellowstone Star our next wife Christine Bumgardner, were spotted
keeping their distance at their son's graduation.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
Kevin cos, Yeah, that's right. It's a five, and that's
a win.

Speaker 9 (30:09):
Kai.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
You have to say, my name is Kai. Got showed
up on a showdown. You know the rest.

Speaker 5 (30:14):
My name is Kai.

Speaker 8 (30:15):
I sort of get showed up on the showdown and
I cannot hang long.

Speaker 2 (30:23):
Kai, You can't hang and you should.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
Maybe you should do the pop it drop it while
I do the thing, because people are missing pop and
drop it, smack it, rub it with a real.

Speaker 3 (30:37):
Dropping, rolly, poppy, poppy stallings.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
It's gonna doesn't work.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
It doesn't work.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
It doesn't. I'm sorry, it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
We're gonna have to figure out a way to get
that juvenile into something else.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
We'll figure it out. We're gonna work. Yeah, I'm getting
the lab peet.

Speaker 2 (30:53):
Start the show every morning.

Speaker 7 (30:54):
Maybe I think that's what we're doing. Yeah, give me
the give me the instrumental. Soho we call mister juvenile though, like,
let's copyright morning he actually you can't use the instrumental.

Speaker 1 (31:08):
No, it's copy written music all day on social media
and then Jesus guy all right, hold on, have a
good day. Thanks for calling. I stay there, Shelley. I
don't we can't put an instrumental to a song.

Speaker 3 (31:26):
Frustrated they do it.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
It's not my money on Earth is going to report us?

Speaker 1 (31:35):
Hey, Fred, can you do a show with no music,
no talking, no microphone, no internet, no air conditioned.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
Shelley.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
Hey, by the way, for our friends in Norfolk and Chicago.
Of course, the original, the original Superstar Middays showed with
Shelley ten o'clock today.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
Everyone listens. You know what we got.

Speaker 1 (32:01):
We got the people trying to go up against you. Now,
that won't work. We got people copying your game.

Speaker 2 (32:06):
I laughed out loud, straight up.

Speaker 3 (32:13):
No, sorry, no, I don't know what we shouldn't talk about.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Wow, that was ruthlessly no. But now now we got
some other demmie competitors that have to pay for their ratings.
They are playing the same they're trying to play the
same game.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
Oh my god. Now I will admit.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
I will admit about a decade ago, before you worked here,
we tried it too, and it failed miserably. We tried
to we literally tried to do the exact same game
at the exact same time, and it failed miserably, and
then our competitors were stupid enough to fire you. And
I don't think you were even out of the building
before we hired you. And that look what happened. Incredible
here we are. What a success story it really is.

(32:53):
You know, you come over here, you meet your husband,
you get married, you have kids. You know you're on
the number one show. It's just look what happened.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
Life went up.

Speaker 1 (33:01):
It certainly did what it made your upgrade. You gotta
go from you gotta go this way, You gotta go
this way.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
Shady Shelley, you gotta go this way. No, that wasn't
meant at all.

Speaker 4 (33:13):
Read me.

Speaker 2 (33:16):
What I heard was I heard, sorry, Shady Shelley.

Speaker 9 (33:20):
I like Shady.

Speaker 1 (33:21):
That's a new character, unlocked, the nicest person on earth,
Shady Shelley.

Speaker 2 (33:27):
Though it's there.

Speaker 1 (33:28):
And if you ever hang out with Shelley and some
tequila is served, this woman has the mouth of a
truck or too, which you would never expect.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
You'd never expect it from I was appalled like.

Speaker 3 (33:41):
A little dinner this weekend.

Speaker 6 (33:43):
I'm so excited because I haven't been out to like
anything and forever. But I don't know because I'm breastfeeding,
so I don't know if I'm a tequila, but I
let you know.

Speaker 2 (33:51):
Girl, Pump and pump Shelley.

Speaker 1 (33:54):
Shelley, after a couple of shots at tequila, is a
is an entertaining his hell loud, profane. We need it's amazing,
love it. Oh yeah, Next Tangent Live. We do it
next Tangent Live. That we do our podcast and we
do a live one, because that's where the Tangent Live
is is.

Speaker 2 (34:09):
When we do it live.

Speaker 8 (34:10):
Tangent.

Speaker 3 (34:11):
I was like my worst nightmare.

Speaker 4 (34:12):
No no, no, no, no no.

Speaker 2 (34:14):
It's a couple of shots. It's you show up, You're
part of the next one. I don't want to do it. Actually, no,
it's happening, nice, happening.

Speaker 1 (34:22):
All right, it's been decided nine to fifties a price
tomorrow ten fourteen oney fourteen wins and ten straight wins. Shelley,
have a good day, Okay you too? Wow Shady Shelley,
right there, that was wild. I didn't think she had
a dinner. Oh but she does more.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
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