June 4, 2025 • 22 mins
Keke is asking her Facebook friends to not tag her in posts that she doesn't need to be included on. And you won't want to miss why Adam got ghosted on Waiting by the Phone!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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like this, this week we give away trips and then
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to yeah, yeah, we're trying to get a trip to
give away. Okay. I thought we went into like mad
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more trips. I don't know why. I thought he just
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So how about just do that? Just buy trips and
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using your name and that word that we give you
here in a little bit. We're just missing the guy
(01:26):
who breaks every voice of men song down it. Yeah,
hey baby, I'm sorry. Please forgive me for all the
wrong AF done and then you gotta go. Please forgive me,
Please forgive him.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
I love you.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I didn't mean to get were you baby? I didn't
know she was an Instagram model? Oh, I didn't know
she was. The Fred Show is on the interesting that
that's the one that played today because today's seeming KICKI
karaoke about an hour from now. He's the end. It's
the end, because it's the end of you and the showdown. Damn.
(02:00):
I was gonna be hose a week.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah, a lot of good songs.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
We could do host. We can do host next week. Yeah,
we can do next week. Yeah, maybe this week it's
the end of next week. It's host okay, yeah, no,
that makes perfect sense. Waiting by the phone. Why did
somebody get ghosted? Will investigate in just a second show
biz Kiki final week, not a kiki, but if showbiz
kiki Showbiz Shelley, who invented the game, is back next
(02:28):
week from maternity leave. One hundred and fifty bucks is
the price today In your record forty and seven I
got away from my Thusaurus seven. Yeah, you did lose
seven apparently according to Pauline at least no.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
That's me all right. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
forty and seven. Your record is far less seven. No,
your yours is eighty five wins at ninety I think
that's a lot more impressive. But thank you, well almost
one hundred. We're going to almost celebrate one hundred losses
in your game. Definitely gonna be Publia, which is game
show Wednesday too. So you don't think you lost seven times?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
No?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
I thought it was five.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I don't know. I mean this is the we. We
this time we leave the technical aspects of this show
and we leave the numerical aspects of this show to
the most reliable, focused person on the show. That's Paulina.
Who else would we leave it to?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I did the math and that's.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
What my math was said.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Even your psychic called up yesterday and was like, you know,
focus is a bit of an issue, but what would
we leave some of the most.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Important never lie, never lied?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Yeah, yeah, but anyway, we're working on it. It's good.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yeah, let me go back to the vault.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
And we're usually right, not always, and we're on the
air more than we're off. So I think that's a win.
That's that's excess.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
I think so too. I mean these days, yes, and the.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Entertainment reports coming up to sour two. What are you
working on? K we'll do a Diddy update.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Offset may finally have given up, and Shaq ranks his
greatest basketball players all time.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Interesting, less, a towering forty and seven is your record,
even though you say seven's not right towering about These
are the radio blogs on the frame writing in our diaries,
except we say them a loid. We call them blogs Kiki,
Yes you got one? Go all right, dear blog.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
I've been wanting to address this issue for a while now.
It has really been on my heart. It kind of bothers
me every single day.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Heart.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah, man, it's been deep, deep thought for me. There
is never a need. There's never a time where you
need to tag me and ninety nine other people in
a Facebook post. There's no need. And I've been with
I didn't know how to address this because it's the
older generation that I have on Facebook, and every morning,
(04:51):
me and ninety nine other people get tagged in a
good morning post every morning, every every every nine other.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
We don't need it.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
There's not a moment in time where you need to
tell me in other ninety nine other people good morning.
You could just put it as your status and just
let it live.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
So every day somebody gets up and does this.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
Yes, And I feel so bad because I don't even
know if she knows that she could just put it
as her status and just leave it alone, like you
could just say good morning to everybody. But it's me
and ninety nine other people.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
You know, I swear that I need And we got
a wide array of folks who listen to this show,
all different backgrounds and ages and interests and whatever y.
But I do contend that there's a certain age. I
don't know what it is exactly. I mean, let's say
it's sixty, maybe it's fifty five. I don't know, somewhere
in there where. I kind of wonder if as a generation,
(05:49):
as a group, if these folks understand how the internet works.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
No, they don't.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Like my dad, you know, God bless him. He stopped
doing it because I think he over He doesn't listen
to the show, but my mom does in the office
next door, so I think he overhears it. But my
dad has it, you know, his famous picture of a
bear at a picnic bench with a birthday had on
that he sent to everybody on their birthday on Facebook.
I don't think what he realized was that he was
posting it on his Oh it was on his things
(06:16):
I tagged by them, but everybody could see every time,
So I think he stopped doing that. But I think
he I mean, it was very sweet of him to
even bother to have a graphic, you know, but he
also I don't think he realized that everybody could see
every time he did it, so that it wasn't necessarily special, right.
You know, my mom has a bit of an issue
thinking that she's talking to the show but she's talking
(06:37):
to me, or really thinking she's talking to me. But
she's talking to the show, or that she's she for
some reason can't tell the difference between Paulina and Caylin.
I don't. Sometimes she'll say something and she means one
or the other. I don't know why. But yes, so
I think, you know, I think sometimes people don't understand
the Internet.
Speaker 5 (06:55):
Yes, and you know, like it's been happening for over
a year now, and I'm just like, God, bless her heart.
But it's like, you don't have to do that the
work that it must take her to tag ninety nine
different people like and I'm happy to be included in
her one hundred, like her top one hundred. Right, no, no,
but we don't need it. And like, you know, if
(07:16):
your niece or nephew posts a selfie, like, don't tell
them to call you in the comments, right, don't in
the comments like Uncle James is sick, call me.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
You know, that's not the place for that. The comments
section is not the place.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
My friend's dad thought that his timeline, you know, everybody's
stuff was his personal wall, see, so that everything my
friends posted, he would comment on every single thing because
he thought that we were posting like our going out
photos on his wall.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
So every photo was like, wow, great photo, thank you
so much, and we're like, why the hell is he
commenting on our like little skimpy going out photos. He
thought we were posting everything on his own wall, but it's.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Just his timeline.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Wow, I like that too, and it's some Now shout
out to the champions though, because you have some ons
on Facebook. No matter what you post, they're gonna be like, niche,
you are so beautiful, You're gorgeous, amazing.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Now shout out to them.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
I love that.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
We need that.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Yeah, that's my mom everything everything this show posts, or
anyone who says anything. But I've had to stop her
from going after the haters. I'm like, mom, that's your
real name and your real Facebook. Like, we'll handle this right,
Like thank you. I'm so happy that you're so defensive,
but like, yeah, you don't need to go after these
morons who feel the need to say horrible things about
(08:34):
us on Facebook. Ye, with their name and identity and
picture and their kids and where they work and everything else.
That's another thing, you know, before everybody knows, if you
want to be really down and dirty on the internet,
hide behind an egg, you know, hide behind a fake profile.
Don't put your real I am amazed the number of
people who write up here and tell us just awful,
(08:55):
awful things with their own phone number, right, you know,
a real quick true people search and eye. You know,
I'm just saying, like, guys, come on, like, let's let's
protect ourselves here. We could do a whole topic on
internet annoyances.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
You know.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
The one that really gets me is the reply to
all really gets me. It really gets me. You know.
They will write emails around here to a large group
of people, and they will say, if this applies to you,
if you if you're interested in this, please reply directly
to me. They'll put it right there. Please reply directly
(09:29):
to me. It's the same culprits every time we get
just everybody gets their response. Well, I would be interested
in that. I don't care, it says, reply to me.
There are two buttons, reply and reply to all. One's
even bigger than the other one. Select the smaller one.
(09:49):
I don't need to know if if those if that
pair of tickets is good for you and your children,
I don't need I don't even know. I don't know.
I don't even know reply not reply to all? Is
that that hard?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
I don't know. I can't answer that.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
I've never replied all, but because fear is replying all.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
What about your Coca Cola story?
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Okay, one time years ago, I asked, we were all asked.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Do you want to work with Coca Cola?
Speaker 2 (10:15):
And I replied with a very heartfelt message, a very
heartfelt story about my mom coming to this country.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Right to hear it, right, and she.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Came to this country so I can have a ice
cold Coca Cola.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Jesus says, I'm a liar.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I'm the liar. D Wow. So you you were so
thirsty in more ways than one to get some business
that you wrote whole story. What's funny is what's funny
is you copy and taste of that same story for
every other client too. That's amazing.
Speaker 7 (10:42):
It's like, oh, David's rido, I got my dress there.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Car insurance right, covey and paste. You know, my mom
came to this country as an emigrant so that I
could be covered by that car insurance company.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Just for you guys you know this country.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Yeah, no, exactly. Hey, my line on the end of the
day for Cricket Mobile. You know my mom came to
this country. It's an immigrant from Poland exactly so that
I could have a cell phone I can speak. And
she said that she wanted me to have cricket. That's
what she said. She wanted me to have an English
That was her first word, actually was cricket.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
I'm not lying.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Not on Facebook. Ye, people are like, hey, I got
a good idea, don't don't Facebook. It's like, yeah, Facebook
is a is a wild it's a wild environment. I'm
about to deactivate, like I'm there.
Speaker 8 (11:36):
It is.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
It's a wild world, man, and I don't want any
part of it. Every day on Facebook, every single day,
somebody posts something that makes me go, oh, I had
no idea that you were you felt that way. I've
known you for how long and I had I had
no idea. And by the way, you know, everybody can
see that, right, like everybody can see that. Yeah, I've
(11:57):
ever been.
Speaker 9 (11:58):
Left from waiting by the phone.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
It's a fresh show, Adam, good morning, welcome to the program.
How are you.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
I'm doing all right?
Speaker 9 (12:06):
How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Man?
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Doing okay? What's going on with this woman, Kristin? I
gotta know how you met about any days that you've
been on and where things are now in waiting by
the phone because you feel like maybe she's ghosting you, right.
Speaker 10 (12:17):
Yeah, I mean, so me and Kristin had met by
the pool at our gym one weekend, and I mean
we were both just kind of hanging out with friends
and so like both we were both in the pool
and we just kind of started talking, and so like
I was like, I really want this conversation to keep going.
So I asked her out and she said yes, So
she gave me your number, and so like we texted
(12:40):
for a little bit and then we decided that we
wanted to take it further, so we met up for
drinks and then like drinks that week ended up doing
really really well, and so like even before the date,
like our artechts were getting super super party and I
mean even even a little icy to a certain point,
and so like and then when we met, we had
(13:01):
like just this in person chemistry that didn't disappoint and
it was going really really good. Like I mean I
was even late to work the next day because like
we had ended up having so much late night fun.
Oh okay, but I mean ever since that day, like
I just haven't heard from her, and I don't know
what's going on things were going well. She agreed that
things were going well, and I mean, I don't know
(13:23):
what happened.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Yeah, it's always kind of crazy when this happens, because
it's like everything was going so well. I mean the
way you describe it, all this chemistry and all this
sort of you know, fun stuff going on at nine
you're late to work. I mean, this is all this
all sounds great, except for whatever reason, something must have happened.
And now I assume you've texted, You've called Kristen, you've
(13:44):
you know, carried your pigeons and smoke signals and everything.
Speaker 9 (13:47):
Yeah, I mean I didn't.
Speaker 10 (13:48):
Like send her an over abundant, like desperate amount of
text but like I did a couple of check in texts,
even tried to call her one night and on like
one of the nights we had like that I knew
Stepree because that was the night that she had the
preset schedule with work, and so like those were usually
the nights we would like talk over the phone, and
so like I tried to call her one night and
(14:08):
she just didn't pick up. And so I don't want
to be like a stalker and keep text there. And yeah,
we don't want that, but I just kind of want
to know what's going on. Like we're going really well
and then nothing.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
Yeah, makes sense. So we're going to play a song.
Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Kristin.
You'll be on the phone, Adham. We're gonna ask these
questions for you. And the hope is that maybe she's
been busy or who knows what's going on. Let's see
what's up. In part two of Waiting met the phone, Hey, Adam, Yeah,
all right, let's call Christen. You guys, you met at
the gym, right. You met at the gym, and you
(14:42):
were at the pool right with with your friends, and
you hit it off and we're chatting and everything went well,
exchange numbers, texted, you know, things kind of got there
was a lot of flirtation going on. They got a
little spicy, kiky, They got a little spicy by his uh,
by his description. And you guys have gone out and
had a great time and then all of a sudden
radio silence. Kristin is not responding to you like she
(15:03):
normally would. It appears that you're being ghosted. You want
to know why. Okay, let's call Kristin. Now, good luck, Adham.
I appreciate it, but I think Hi is this Kristen. Yeah, hey, Kristin,
good morning. My name is Fredam calling for the Fred Show,
(15:23):
the morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
do need your permission to continue with the call. Said, okay,
if we have for a second.
Speaker 8 (15:31):
I guess I guess, I guess that's.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Okay, Well, thank you. We're calling out behalf of a
guy named Adam. I guess you met him at at
the pool and you hung out a couple of times,
and uh, I guess you guys went on some dates
and stuff like that. Do you remember meeting this guy
and going out with him? Yep? Okay, So he describes
to us a minute ago what he thought was, you know,
this this great story about meeting and all the chemistry
(15:55):
you guys had, the dates you've been on. But he
says he can't get a hold of you now. So
what's going on with that? Why are we ignoring Adam?
Speaker 8 (16:01):
Okay, listen, Adam is awesome.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Okay, he's attractive, he's charming, he's confident, he has great energy.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Okay, what's the butt? Where's the problem. Wait, so we did.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
We did go out.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
Okay, this sex was amazing, but okay, okay, all right, just.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Just wait for it.
Speaker 8 (16:28):
He's leaving my place and you know, he's talking.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
About, you know, meeting up again, and he just casually
slips in that you know, oh, he just has to
work it around, you know, like his kids swim schedule,
which okay, yeah cool, you've got kids fine, and his
wife's works schedule.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Oh how do you think I felt having just had this.
Speaker 8 (16:52):
Amazing night with this man and all.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Of a sudden learning that he has a wife.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Okay, it's all us. So you guys, you met, you talk,
you hooked up, you went on dates.
Speaker 9 (17:02):
She didn't.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
He never mentioned that he was married. And then like
in passing, he's like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe tomorrow,
but if my wife can pick up the kids.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
How was it out there? Like it's nothing and you didn't.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Know anying about this? You didn't know there was a wife.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
I knew nothing about it. I would have never gone
out with him.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
That's a details.
Speaker 3 (17:18):
I had known that he had a wife.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Be helpful to know. Let me bring Adam and I
forgot to mention kristin the Adam is here, I'm very forgetful. Also,
you're married, Adam, and that would that's just not important
to know.
Speaker 9 (17:29):
I'm sorry, I mean, did I forget to mention that?
Speaker 3 (17:33):
I mean, yeah, yeah, you forgot to mention that.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (17:37):
No, I'm non monogamous and my wife has agreed to
everything to an open relationship. She doesn't want to live
that life, and so she says that I'm I'm available
to do whatever I would like because she would like
me to be happy in that respect, but she doesn't
don't want to know about it.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
So she doesn't want to know about it, like.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Really, and that would be interesting just because I mean, honestly, madam,
what you're describing is.
Speaker 9 (18:02):
Not I don't believe that I have.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
I don't believe that.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
What he's describing I have heard of existing before, whereas
oh I have to.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
But the wife actually like agrees and like she's available
to like talk to, you.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Know, potential partners. It's like they don't believe.
Speaker 9 (18:20):
Few.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
She says she's wanting to doing it. But at the
same time, it's Yadam, you've got to I'm trying to
rupt you, but you got to disclose that the other
person involved in this needs to have all the information
because maybe, like in this case, Kristen is not comfortable
with this arrangement, even if it's above board in your
house exactly.
Speaker 8 (18:39):
And I mean it's about board. Why can't I talk
to her?
Speaker 3 (18:42):
I have time to you know, with.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
This kind of a lifestyle, and they're always allowed to
talk to the south and get it verified.
Speaker 8 (18:49):
That's all I'm asking for, Like, if this is above.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Board, the only way I could participate in this is
if I got to talk to your wife and she said, yay.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Verily she can do this. Okay, that's the only way
I'm in for.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
This, Adam.
Speaker 9 (19:00):
I can talk to her about like a verification. That's problem.
I'm not trying to hide anything. Like she just was
very like she just very much said she.
Speaker 10 (19:08):
Doesn't want to know about it if I'm being involved
with another berthdon.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
But I mean, that's let's say that Adam's telling the truth.
I'm just going to give him the benefit of the count,
and he is telling the truth. You're saying that if
you could talk to her and verify, you might be interested.
But my question to Adam and to you Kristen, is
are you not upset or concerned about how this might
define the relationship, because even if it's okay, Adam, what's
(19:32):
the likelihood you leave your wife? What's the likelihood you
wind up committed to Christen in a relationship like without?
I mean, Kristen, do you want to be a third
member of a dynamically sign up for that? When you
meet a guy or you meet good when you guys
start talking and no one just closes this sort of
open relationship thing. I mean, in your mind, it's it's
(19:52):
to make it for me, right, So, Adam, do you
if you fall in love with Kristin, well, are you
going to leave your wife? I mean that's pretty unlikely.
Speaker 10 (19:59):
But I mean so Kristen said that she didn't want kids,
So I mean, I don't know what's to stop us
from Dan doing this?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Like, oh my god, good, It'll make me feel like
I'm a cheater. I'm a cheater for the entire length
of our relationship.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
How do I introduce you to people?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Well, the family dinner, But like, I just want to
try to figure out is okay? So so let's say
it's all on the up and up? I mean, is
that just so that you know you haven't been cheating?
And then you're gonna dump this guy, or like if
she says, yeah, it's true, I let him do it,
then are you okay with those terms? Because he just
said he's not leaving his wife, So basically, now you
can accept that you're going to be.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
If there's no chance of him leaving his wife. And
I'm just like some weird little secret. Yeah, I'm probably
not interested honestly, Like I just I don't think I can.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Live with that. I can't live that way on your head, Kiki,
what because this is in like, he's insane. This is insane.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Like you, if.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
Your wife gave you the green light to do whatever
you want to do, do it. But why bring in
people unknowingly like hey my wife, I have a wife.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
You don't tell somebody after the fact.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I think you've got to lay that out for me.
I think, Adam, you know that a lot of people
are gonna say no to this situation, and you didn't
want Kristin to say no, so you just didn't tell her.
Speaker 9 (21:10):
That's what I lit lied And I can accept that.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Right, Okay, Do we have an accountable person on here?
It's impossible. I do think you got to you gotta
lead with it. Adam, like you got to tell people, hey,
I'm in an open relationship, like I got a wife
and kids, and that's not going to change because everything
changes now for Kristen because maybe she didn't want to
be an accessory. Maybe she didn't want to be just
you know, the side thing. Maybe she wants you to
(21:37):
all to herself and she has every right to make
that decision. But if she doesn't know, then look here
we are.
Speaker 3 (21:43):
It's just really disrespectful, is really what it comes down to.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
It's incredibly disrespectful, and it puts the other person in
a place where they feel dirty, and she's yeah, have.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
You ever had this problem before, Adam? I mean I
assume you've been doing this for a little while. Like
if you had this issue, where when do you normally
lead with it? You normally tell people of.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
Frond or no, I mean usually to kind of gauge
how how things go.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
First it's not going to work out. Christian, Hey, thank
you for your time, and I'm sorry that you know
this happened to you and I wish you to invest
in Adam. Good luck out there team as well.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
Thank you
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who breaks every voice of men song down it. Yeah,
hey baby, I'm sorry. Please forgive me for all the
wrong AF done and then you gotta go. Please forgive me,
Please forgive him.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
I love you.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I didn't mean to get were you baby? I didn't
know she was an Instagram model? Oh, I didn't know
she was. The Fred Show is on the interesting that
that's the one that played today because today's seeming KICKI
karaoke about an hour from now. He's the end. It's
the end, because it's the end of you and the showdown. Damn.
(02:00):
I was gonna be hose a week.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah, a lot of good songs.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
We could do host. We can do host next week. Yeah,
we can do next week. Yeah, maybe this week it's
the end of next week. It's host okay, yeah, no,
that makes perfect sense. Waiting by the phone. Why did
somebody get ghosted? Will investigate in just a second show
biz Kiki final week, not a kiki, but if showbiz
kiki Showbiz Shelley, who invented the game, is back next
(02:28):
week from maternity leave. One hundred and fifty bucks is
the price today In your record forty and seven I
got away from my Thusaurus seven. Yeah, you did lose
seven apparently according to Pauline at least no.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
That's me all right. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
forty and seven. Your record is far less seven. No,
your yours is eighty five wins at ninety I think
that's a lot more impressive. But thank you, well almost
one hundred. We're going to almost celebrate one hundred losses
in your game. Definitely gonna be Publia, which is game
show Wednesday too. So you don't think you lost seven times?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
No?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
I thought it was five.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I don't know. I mean this is the we. We
this time we leave the technical aspects of this show
and we leave the numerical aspects of this show to
the most reliable, focused person on the show. That's Paulina.
Who else would we leave it to?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I did the math and that's.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
What my math was said.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Even your psychic called up yesterday and was like, you know,
focus is a bit of an issue, but what would
we leave some of the most.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Important never lie, never lied?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Yeah, yeah, but anyway, we're working on it. It's good.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yeah, let me go back to the vault.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
And we're usually right, not always, and we're on the
air more than we're off. So I think that's a win.
That's that's excess.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
I think so too. I mean these days, yes, and the.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Entertainment reports coming up to sour two. What are you
working on? K we'll do a Diddy update.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Offset may finally have given up, and Shaq ranks his
greatest basketball players all time.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Interesting, less, a towering forty and seven is your record,
even though you say seven's not right towering about These
are the radio blogs on the frame writing in our diaries,
except we say them a loid. We call them blogs Kiki,
Yes you got one? Go all right, dear blog.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
I've been wanting to address this issue for a while now.
It has really been on my heart. It kind of bothers
me every single day.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Heart.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah, man, it's been deep, deep thought for me. There
is never a need. There's never a time where you
need to tag me and ninety nine other people in
a Facebook post. There's no need. And I've been with
I didn't know how to address this because it's the
older generation that I have on Facebook, and every morning,
(04:51):
me and ninety nine other people get tagged in a
good morning post every morning, every every every nine other.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
We don't need it.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
There's not a moment in time where you need to
tell me in other ninety nine other people good morning.
You could just put it as your status and just
let it live.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
So every day somebody gets up and does this.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
Yes, And I feel so bad because I don't even
know if she knows that she could just put it
as her status and just leave it alone, like you
could just say good morning to everybody. But it's me
and ninety nine other people.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
You know, I swear that I need And we got
a wide array of folks who listen to this show,
all different backgrounds and ages and interests and whatever y.
But I do contend that there's a certain age. I
don't know what it is exactly. I mean, let's say
it's sixty, maybe it's fifty five. I don't know, somewhere
in there where. I kind of wonder if as a generation,
(05:49):
as a group, if these folks understand how the internet works.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
No, they don't.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Like my dad, you know, God bless him. He stopped
doing it because I think he over He doesn't listen
to the show, but my mom does in the office
next door, so I think he overhears it. But my
dad has it, you know, his famous picture of a
bear at a picnic bench with a birthday had on
that he sent to everybody on their birthday on Facebook.
I don't think what he realized was that he was
posting it on his Oh it was on his things
(06:16):
I tagged by them, but everybody could see every time,
So I think he stopped doing that. But I think
he I mean, it was very sweet of him to
even bother to have a graphic, you know, but he
also I don't think he realized that everybody could see
every time he did it, so that it wasn't necessarily special, right.
You know, my mom has a bit of an issue
thinking that she's talking to the show but she's talking
(06:37):
to me, or really thinking she's talking to me. But
she's talking to the show, or that she's she for
some reason can't tell the difference between Paulina and Caylin.
I don't. Sometimes she'll say something and she means one
or the other. I don't know why. But yes, so
I think, you know, I think sometimes people don't understand
the Internet.
Speaker 5 (06:55):
Yes, and you know, like it's been happening for over
a year now, and I'm just like, God, bless her heart.
But it's like, you don't have to do that the
work that it must take her to tag ninety nine
different people like and I'm happy to be included in
her one hundred, like her top one hundred. Right, no, no,
but we don't need it. And like, you know, if
(07:16):
your niece or nephew posts a selfie, like, don't tell
them to call you in the comments, right, don't in
the comments like Uncle James is sick, call me.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
You know, that's not the place for that. The comments
section is not the place.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
My friend's dad thought that his timeline, you know, everybody's
stuff was his personal wall, see, so that everything my
friends posted, he would comment on every single thing because
he thought that we were posting like our going out
photos on his wall.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
So every photo was like, wow, great photo, thank you
so much, and we're like, why the hell is he
commenting on our like little skimpy going out photos. He
thought we were posting everything on his own wall, but it's.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Just his timeline.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Wow, I like that too, and it's some Now shout
out to the champions though, because you have some ons
on Facebook. No matter what you post, they're gonna be like, niche,
you are so beautiful, You're gorgeous, amazing.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Now shout out to them.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
I love that.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
We need that.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Yeah, that's my mom everything everything this show posts, or
anyone who says anything. But I've had to stop her
from going after the haters. I'm like, mom, that's your
real name and your real Facebook. Like, we'll handle this right,
Like thank you. I'm so happy that you're so defensive,
but like, yeah, you don't need to go after these
morons who feel the need to say horrible things about
(08:34):
us on Facebook. Ye, with their name and identity and
picture and their kids and where they work and everything else.
That's another thing, you know, before everybody knows, if you
want to be really down and dirty on the internet,
hide behind an egg, you know, hide behind a fake profile.
Don't put your real I am amazed the number of
people who write up here and tell us just awful,
(08:55):
awful things with their own phone number, right, you know,
a real quick true people search and eye. You know,
I'm just saying, like, guys, come on, like, let's let's
protect ourselves here. We could do a whole topic on
internet annoyances.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
You know.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
The one that really gets me is the reply to
all really gets me. It really gets me. You know.
They will write emails around here to a large group
of people, and they will say, if this applies to you,
if you if you're interested in this, please reply directly
to me. They'll put it right there. Please reply directly
(09:29):
to me. It's the same culprits every time we get
just everybody gets their response. Well, I would be interested
in that. I don't care, it says, reply to me.
There are two buttons, reply and reply to all. One's
even bigger than the other one. Select the smaller one.
(09:49):
I don't need to know if if those if that
pair of tickets is good for you and your children,
I don't need I don't even know. I don't know.
I don't even know reply not reply to all? Is
that that hard?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
I don't know. I can't answer that.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
I've never replied all, but because fear is replying all.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
What about your Coca Cola story?
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Okay, one time years ago, I asked, we were all asked.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Do you want to work with Coca Cola?
Speaker 2 (10:15):
And I replied with a very heartfelt message, a very
heartfelt story about my mom coming to this country.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Right to hear it, right, and she.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Came to this country so I can have a ice
cold Coca Cola.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Jesus says, I'm a liar.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I'm the liar. D Wow. So you you were so
thirsty in more ways than one to get some business
that you wrote whole story. What's funny is what's funny
is you copy and taste of that same story for
every other client too. That's amazing.
Speaker 7 (10:42):
It's like, oh, David's rido, I got my dress there.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Car insurance right, covey and paste. You know, my mom
came to this country as an emigrant so that I
could be covered by that car insurance company.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Just for you guys you know this country.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Yeah, no, exactly. Hey, my line on the end of the
day for Cricket Mobile. You know my mom came to
this country. It's an immigrant from Poland exactly so that
I could have a cell phone I can speak. And
she said that she wanted me to have cricket. That's
what she said. She wanted me to have an English
That was her first word, actually was cricket.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
I'm not lying.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Not on Facebook. Ye, people are like, hey, I got
a good idea, don't don't Facebook. It's like, yeah, Facebook
is a is a wild it's a wild environment. I'm
about to deactivate, like I'm there.
Speaker 8 (11:36):
It is.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
It's a wild world, man, and I don't want any
part of it. Every day on Facebook, every single day,
somebody posts something that makes me go, oh, I had
no idea that you were you felt that way. I've
known you for how long and I had I had
no idea. And by the way, you know, everybody can
see that, right, like everybody can see that. Yeah, I've
(11:57):
ever been.
Speaker 9 (11:58):
Left from waiting by the phone.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
It's a fresh show, Adam, good morning, welcome to the program.
How are you.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
I'm doing all right?
Speaker 9 (12:06):
How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Man?
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Doing okay? What's going on with this woman, Kristin? I
gotta know how you met about any days that you've
been on and where things are now in waiting by
the phone because you feel like maybe she's ghosting you, right.
Speaker 10 (12:17):
Yeah, I mean, so me and Kristin had met by
the pool at our gym one weekend, and I mean
we were both just kind of hanging out with friends
and so like both we were both in the pool
and we just kind of started talking, and so like
I was like, I really want this conversation to keep going.
So I asked her out and she said yes, So
she gave me your number, and so like we texted
(12:40):
for a little bit and then we decided that we
wanted to take it further, so we met up for
drinks and then like drinks that week ended up doing
really really well, and so like even before the date,
like our artechts were getting super super party and I
mean even even a little icy to a certain point,
and so like and then when we met, we had
(13:01):
like just this in person chemistry that didn't disappoint and
it was going really really good. Like I mean I
was even late to work the next day because like
we had ended up having so much late night fun.
Oh okay, but I mean ever since that day, like
I just haven't heard from her, and I don't know
what's going on things were going well. She agreed that
things were going well, and I mean, I don't know
(13:23):
what happened.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Yeah, it's always kind of crazy when this happens, because
it's like everything was going so well. I mean the
way you describe it, all this chemistry and all this
sort of you know, fun stuff going on at nine
you're late to work. I mean, this is all this
all sounds great, except for whatever reason, something must have happened.
And now I assume you've texted, You've called Kristen, you've
(13:44):
you know, carried your pigeons and smoke signals and everything.
Speaker 9 (13:47):
Yeah, I mean I didn't.
Speaker 10 (13:48):
Like send her an over abundant, like desperate amount of
text but like I did a couple of check in texts,
even tried to call her one night and on like
one of the nights we had like that I knew
Stepree because that was the night that she had the
preset schedule with work, and so like those were usually
the nights we would like talk over the phone, and
so like I tried to call her one night and
(14:08):
she just didn't pick up. And so I don't want
to be like a stalker and keep text there. And yeah,
we don't want that, but I just kind of want
to know what's going on. Like we're going really well
and then nothing.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
Yeah, makes sense. So we're going to play a song.
Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Kristin.
You'll be on the phone, Adham. We're gonna ask these
questions for you. And the hope is that maybe she's
been busy or who knows what's going on. Let's see
what's up. In part two of Waiting met the phone, Hey, Adam, Yeah,
all right, let's call Christen. You guys, you met at
the gym, right. You met at the gym, and you
(14:42):
were at the pool right with with your friends, and
you hit it off and we're chatting and everything went well,
exchange numbers, texted, you know, things kind of got there
was a lot of flirtation going on. They got a
little spicy, kiky, They got a little spicy by his uh,
by his description. And you guys have gone out and
had a great time and then all of a sudden
radio silence. Kristin is not responding to you like she
(15:03):
normally would. It appears that you're being ghosted. You want
to know why. Okay, let's call Kristin. Now, good luck, Adham.
I appreciate it, but I think Hi is this Kristen. Yeah, hey, Kristin,
good morning. My name is Fredam calling for the Fred Show,
(15:23):
the morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
do need your permission to continue with the call. Said, okay,
if we have for a second.
Speaker 8 (15:31):
I guess I guess, I guess that's.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Okay, Well, thank you. We're calling out behalf of a
guy named Adam. I guess you met him at at
the pool and you hung out a couple of times,
and uh, I guess you guys went on some dates
and stuff like that. Do you remember meeting this guy
and going out with him? Yep? Okay, So he describes
to us a minute ago what he thought was, you know,
this this great story about meeting and all the chemistry
(15:55):
you guys had, the dates you've been on. But he
says he can't get a hold of you now. So
what's going on with that? Why are we ignoring Adam?
Speaker 8 (16:01):
Okay, listen, Adam is awesome.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Okay, he's attractive, he's charming, he's confident, he has great energy.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Okay, what's the butt? Where's the problem. Wait, so we did.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
We did go out.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
Okay, this sex was amazing, but okay, okay, all right, just.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Just wait for it.
Speaker 8 (16:28):
He's leaving my place and you know, he's talking.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
About, you know, meeting up again, and he just casually
slips in that you know, oh, he just has to
work it around, you know, like his kids swim schedule,
which okay, yeah cool, you've got kids fine, and his
wife's works schedule.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Oh how do you think I felt having just had this.
Speaker 8 (16:52):
Amazing night with this man and all.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Of a sudden learning that he has a wife.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Okay, it's all us. So you guys, you met, you talk,
you hooked up, you went on dates.
Speaker 9 (17:02):
She didn't.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
He never mentioned that he was married. And then like
in passing, he's like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe tomorrow,
but if my wife can pick up the kids.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
How was it out there? Like it's nothing and you didn't.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Know anying about this? You didn't know there was a wife.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
I knew nothing about it. I would have never gone
out with him.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
That's a details.
Speaker 3 (17:18):
I had known that he had a wife.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Be helpful to know. Let me bring Adam and I
forgot to mention kristin the Adam is here, I'm very forgetful. Also,
you're married, Adam, and that would that's just not important
to know.
Speaker 9 (17:29):
I'm sorry, I mean, did I forget to mention that?
Speaker 3 (17:33):
I mean, yeah, yeah, you forgot to mention that.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (17:37):
No, I'm non monogamous and my wife has agreed to
everything to an open relationship. She doesn't want to live
that life, and so she says that I'm I'm available
to do whatever I would like because she would like
me to be happy in that respect, but she doesn't
don't want to know about it.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
So she doesn't want to know about it, like.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Really, and that would be interesting just because I mean, honestly, madam,
what you're describing is.
Speaker 9 (18:02):
Not I don't believe that I have.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
I don't believe that.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
What he's describing I have heard of existing before, whereas
oh I have to.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
But the wife actually like agrees and like she's available
to like talk to, you.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Know, potential partners. It's like they don't believe.
Speaker 9 (18:20):
Few.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
She says she's wanting to doing it. But at the
same time, it's Yadam, you've got to I'm trying to
rupt you, but you got to disclose that the other
person involved in this needs to have all the information
because maybe, like in this case, Kristen is not comfortable
with this arrangement, even if it's above board in your
house exactly.
Speaker 8 (18:39):
And I mean it's about board. Why can't I talk
to her?
Speaker 3 (18:42):
I have time to you know, with.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
This kind of a lifestyle, and they're always allowed to
talk to the south and get it verified.
Speaker 8 (18:49):
That's all I'm asking for, Like, if this is above.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Board, the only way I could participate in this is
if I got to talk to your wife and she said, yay.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Verily she can do this. Okay, that's the only way
I'm in for.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
This, Adam.
Speaker 9 (19:00):
I can talk to her about like a verification. That's problem.
I'm not trying to hide anything. Like she just was
very like she just very much said she.
Speaker 10 (19:08):
Doesn't want to know about it if I'm being involved
with another berthdon.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
But I mean, that's let's say that Adam's telling the truth.
I'm just going to give him the benefit of the count,
and he is telling the truth. You're saying that if
you could talk to her and verify, you might be interested.
But my question to Adam and to you Kristen, is
are you not upset or concerned about how this might
define the relationship, because even if it's okay, Adam, what's
(19:32):
the likelihood you leave your wife? What's the likelihood you
wind up committed to Christen in a relationship like without?
I mean, Kristen, do you want to be a third
member of a dynamically sign up for that? When you
meet a guy or you meet good when you guys
start talking and no one just closes this sort of
open relationship thing. I mean, in your mind, it's it's
(19:52):
to make it for me, right, So, Adam, do you
if you fall in love with Kristin, well, are you
going to leave your wife? I mean that's pretty unlikely.
Speaker 10 (19:59):
But I mean so Kristen said that she didn't want kids,
So I mean, I don't know what's to stop us
from Dan doing this?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Like, oh my god, good, It'll make me feel like
I'm a cheater. I'm a cheater for the entire length
of our relationship.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
How do I introduce you to people?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Well, the family dinner, But like, I just want to
try to figure out is okay? So so let's say
it's all on the up and up? I mean, is
that just so that you know you haven't been cheating?
And then you're gonna dump this guy, or like if
she says, yeah, it's true, I let him do it,
then are you okay with those terms? Because he just
said he's not leaving his wife, So basically, now you
can accept that you're going to be.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
If there's no chance of him leaving his wife. And
I'm just like some weird little secret. Yeah, I'm probably
not interested honestly, Like I just I don't think I can.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Live with that. I can't live that way on your head, Kiki,
what because this is in like, he's insane. This is insane.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Like you, if.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
Your wife gave you the green light to do whatever
you want to do, do it. But why bring in
people unknowingly like hey my wife, I have a wife.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
You don't tell somebody after the fact.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I think you've got to lay that out for me.
I think, Adam, you know that a lot of people
are gonna say no to this situation, and you didn't
want Kristin to say no, so you just didn't tell her.
Speaker 9 (21:10):
That's what I lit lied And I can accept that.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Right, Okay, Do we have an accountable person on here?
It's impossible. I do think you got to you gotta
lead with it. Adam, like you got to tell people, hey,
I'm in an open relationship, like I got a wife
and kids, and that's not going to change because everything
changes now for Kristen because maybe she didn't want to
be an accessory. Maybe she didn't want to be just
you know, the side thing. Maybe she wants you to
(21:37):
all to herself and she has every right to make
that decision. But if she doesn't know, then look here
we are.
Speaker 3 (21:43):
It's just really disrespectful, is really what it comes down to.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
It's incredibly disrespectful, and it puts the other person in
a place where they feel dirty, and she's yeah, have.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
You ever had this problem before, Adam? I mean I
assume you've been doing this for a little while. Like
if you had this issue, where when do you normally
lead with it? You normally tell people of.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
Frond or no, I mean usually to kind of gauge
how how things go.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
First it's not going to work out. Christian, Hey, thank
you for your time, and I'm sorry that you know
this happened to you and I wish you to invest
in Adam. Good luck out there team as well.
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