September 9, 2025 • 37 mins
Scott is conflicted after his girlfriend wants to get engaged after Taylor Swift did. Plus, find out if Jonathan has what it takes to take on THE Showbiz Shelly? Find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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we talk about the Bears in Arlington Heights? I mean,
I guess they're really doing it. Does that sound good
to you? Are you happy about that? Are we happy
about the Bears in Arlington High?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I am? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Why are you so happy that?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
I love a suburban area and I'm tired. I'm tired
of parking four miles away from the stadium.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Yes, not that I ever go to a Bears game.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
The station quest They did a request to visit the
island of Soldier Field. But it is a bit of
a quest. Yeah, they didn't really think about that when
they went in the in the in the you know,
eighteen hundreds, or when they built Soldier Field, they didn't
really think about parking. Did they right do better? Well,
I guess they're going to do better now. I'm glad.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
I think it is the worst venue to try to
get in and out of in the entire city. Yes,
this logistically the worst, right Lakeshore Drive, all that happening,
or we pick up drunk people from there?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Have you done that?
Speaker 1 (01:25):
No, I've done the drunk person Oh yeah, well I
was pregnant.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Well my in laws, but when I go pick them
up or like Mahabi my husband, like it's it's a
mission I have to go, like through the South Loops,
certain things.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Are closed, like it's a whole mission.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
To pick up drunk people.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
And I'm sorry, I don't even think I've tried to.
I mean you could drop people off kind of, but
then trying to go at the end of something is
to turn near impossible. It can't be done. And then
I had one other thing to mention of note our
little partnership that we did with South Suburban Humane Society
in honor of Taylor Swift's engagement. We wanted you to
find your forever for iesy forever. You see what we
(02:01):
did there, super clever. But a bunch of the animals
were adopted during the promotion or Odin and short Rib
short Rim had to get adopted because that's the best name.
Short Rib is the best. And then Dipper and Goober
we're also adopted because we posted some stuff on our
social media with these these animals. Goober, there was Gabriel,
(02:24):
there was short Rib, Romaine, Dipper, Laura Laura, Laura, Laura Laura,
it was a dogger cat. I can't remember if Laura
was Glorida cat. And then Abra Cadabra. Anyway, we had
them up there and we heard from the folks at
the South Suburban Humane Society that you guys stepped up
(02:44):
and because there are a little a little promotion on
the on the gram, you guys you have some new
forever animals in your home. So so you only follow
pretty people?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on
my timeline, Ugly people on my timeline. Like it, like
it triggers, Oh God, not again, like why so.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
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person girl. Good morning, Sesday, September. Now it's the Fred's Show. Hi, Kalin,
Hi Jason, I follow Shelley nine fifty is the prize
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(03:26):
We'll get to the entertainment report in a little bit.
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Speaker 7 (03:30):
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neighbour's daughter with a garden hose. Okay, Also, uh, leave
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Speaker 1 (03:41):
I saw who this actor was and I can't disassociate
him with the character he played. And I wouldn't want
this guy spraying my house with a garden hose.
Speaker 8 (03:51):
It's stay or go.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Scott is here, Hi Scott, good morning, Hey, good morning, Scott, welcome.
Thanks for hitting this up. There's a lot of places
you can get ahold of us, fred Shaw Radio and
the social search for the Fred Show fred Show Radio
dot com. And so you're having an issue with your
girlfriend of about six years, So what's going on? I
can't wait to hear about this.
Speaker 9 (04:15):
Yeah, Well, like you said, we've been together six years,
and like, I don't know, lately, I'm feeling a lot
of pressure to like propose, but I'm just not ready.
So that sounds familiar, I guess, I guess I just
fun I kind of want your opinion on that, Like,
do you think it's too long or do you think
it's like I shouldn't worry about it.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Well, okay, you should worry, all right. I need a
little more information. I need I need a lot more information.
I mean, right, so that's been six years for every right,
what do you think?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Well, I mean we were talking about this earlier. But
you know, whether it's Kiki and almost eight years or whatever,
it was seven and a half and then you you know,
sort of joking about since the day that I met you,
where is my proposal? Or you know, it's Kaylin who's
been with someone for a little while and isn't in
any hurry whatsoever. I mean, there's a lot of context here.
So six years is she pressuring you?
Speaker 9 (05:08):
Like?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Is she is she fairly so beginning to ask or
has she been asking? Hey, where's this going? I mean,
it's because maybe people are together forever and never get
married and they're okay with that, and then maybe people
are together for three months and they're like, hey, where's
the ring. I mean, I've kind of encountered both. What
what's happening here?
Speaker 9 (05:27):
Well, yeah, this is gonna sound kind of silly. So
like normally like she's never really brought it up or
really even seem to like worry too much either, but
like she's a giant swifties. So with the last couple
of weeks, like with all the big news and stuff, like,
can you get caught the marriage bug?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I say, get out of here, get out of it?
Has she actually cited that? Like she said, well, you know,
you know, Travis and Taylor are engaged, So I mean
that hasn't actually come up.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
Oh well, I was sitting next to her when she
saw the news on her phone and she like started
like crying and being like so emotionable, like I don't know,
like and then yeah, so like the last couple of
weeks kind of just been like talking about our future
and like you know what things look like down the
line and things You've got to kid.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
I was emotionable too, I get it.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
But it's something to be It's one thing to be
emotionable like Scott's grow upfriend. To be emotionable, that's one thing.
But then but to put the pressure on because because
she's swifty and because she got engaged. I mean, it's like,
look at her life, what about you slack her?
Speaker 8 (06:37):
Right?
Speaker 9 (06:37):
I mean?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Is that that's not fair? But here's the thing. So
she's indicated to you that she wants to be married
to you. How long has she been talking like that?
Of the six years you've been together, just recently.
Speaker 9 (06:50):
Honestly, Like it's something we've kind of talked about, Like
I feel like we both always wanted to get married,
but like this, like like I said, this marriage bug,
like that's brand new, and like I'm honestly, it makes
me like I'm ready to fight Travis Kelcey. Like I
may not be as big as him or as strong
as him, but like I'm ready to go.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I'm telling you, I wonder how many people are in
this situation where you know, she she sort of inspired
within a bunch of folks, men, women, whomever, Like no, no,
I want that too, proposed to me in the backyard,
What are you doing? So okay? What's your position though,
I mean, are you what's the hold do you want
to be married? Why are you not proposing? I mean,
(07:31):
and again I don't say it in the judgmental way.
I mean, you have every right to live your life
hoever you want. But what Yeah, what is the hold up?
Speaker 9 (07:37):
I mean, there's a few reasons, but flat out I'm
just not ready, Like it's something I want to do
in the future, but like I don't know, Like I
don't see why it's a problem for like everyone to
take their own path, like like yeah, six years, but
like if we're not ready after six years, then why rush?
Like I don't know, Like I'm still trying to figure
out my career a little bit, and you know, like
there's no way where we could afford like the wedding.
(07:59):
I'd want to give her, the ring I'd want to
give her. Yet so like I guess that's kind of
the stuff I'm working on.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
But so she wants to be married, how long do
you think that those things are going to take? Like
how wants this time frame? Yeah, the type of thing
when you're thinking, before we get the career and the
money thing sorted out, I mean the year. I mean
how long are we thinking? Because I mean, you know,
at some point I do understand that I don't no
one should be rushed, and no one should be do
(08:26):
anything that they're uncomfortable doing or they I don't feel
compelled to do. But and here's my question, everybody else
eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five,
At what juncture is it fair for a person who
wants to be married to say this is enough time?
And you yeah. I can hear people now going, well,
there isn't one, and I would normally agree with that.
But if you're somebody who wants to get married and
(08:46):
maybe you want to have kids, there is and you
want to be married when you have kids, if those
are things that are important to you, there is kind
of a time frame. It's a little bit of a
finite thing. You know, you can't necessarily do this when
you're fifty. You know you can't necessarily you can, but
you know, I mean, if you're are you gonna be
together for twenty years before you feel comfortable? And then
at that point have things passed you by somewhat? I mean,
(09:08):
how long is it going to take?
Speaker 9 (09:09):
Bro I don't know, and I totally get what you're
saying like we're well, still relatively young, but like, I
don't know, I'm just not ready. It might be a year,
it might be another two years. I don't know, but
I definitely get what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Because the worst thing is if you know, I want
to be married to you and I'm getting emotionable about it,
and then and then we keep, you know, we keep
this going for another two, three, four years, and then
we're ten years in and then you're like, eh, actually
I don't want to do this anymore. And now it's like, well, okay,
I invested a lot of time in this aspiration that
(09:43):
is not coming to fruition. And you might say, well,
then good, I'm glad it didn't because it wasn't supposed to.
But that's still a lot of time to spend on something.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
So I mean, or she can meet her husband tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Yeah, what would you do if she met someone else
and said, Hey, this guy's more serious than you are.
How would that make you feel?
Speaker 9 (10:02):
That'd be heartbreaking? Yeah, I'd be very emotionable and it'd
be heartbreaking. And I don't think we've ever had commitment issues.
Like we're both like, you know, we both know how
committed we are to each other, and you know how
serious we are about each other. It's just it's just
like the marriage part itself, like I'm not ready for.
It's not the relationship that makes me not ready. It's
(10:23):
like I said, it's more like just like the timing
and the wedding and the I don't know all that
kind of stuff, like I'm just not ready for.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Well, if you're not ready, don't do it. But I
think at some point if you don't get ready, and
this isn't the threat, but I think at some point
if you don't get ready, then you might expect that
she'll find someone who is. And again, don't do anything
that you don't feel comfortable doing, because that's I think
where bad things start to happen. But if you're not
compelled to do it within five, six, seven years, I mean,
then I don't know. But then again, you got Jason
(10:52):
over here fourteen years. Yeah, and I don't know. Maybe
it happens now, maybe maybe you feel like it's beginning
to happen, or it's more a realm of post in
the realm of possibility than it was. Yeah, I think
it's a lost cause. But I also never mind, I
was being optimistic. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
I never like actually expressed like, hey, this is really
important to me. I want to do it because I
don't feel that way. It would be nice if it did,
but it's not a deal breaker for me. It sounds
like for her it might be. And our kids a
factor here? Do you guys want both one kids?
Speaker 8 (11:26):
Again?
Speaker 9 (11:27):
Like if the situations right were kind of always.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Situation right, It's not like I know it's a lot
in this world. Six years. I mean, the situation seems
we're six years right.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 8 (11:39):
I don't want to have a kid if I can't
feed it, you know, like like I don't know's.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
You know, I don't know if that money for a wedding,
you just got to play it exactly, just got money around.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
That's what he takes some phone calls Scott and I look,
I appreciate and thanks you being a good support about this,
and have the radio and we'll see if people have
to say, have a good day.
Speaker 9 (12:05):
All right.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
I'm really torn on this. I'm really in torn on
this because I don't want people to do anything they're
not ready to do. And I am a proponent of
situations where people can be together forever and not necessarily
get married legally or in a church or whatever, and
live very happy lives. You know, people think, well, if
I get married, you won't cheat or she won't. No,
they will try. Let me assure you, yes, let me
(12:27):
assure you. That doesn't seem to stop anybody. But it's
just like, how about just be happy? Right? But but
if here's where here's where I'm on the other side
of this. If your goals differ, you know, and your
level of comfort and priorities differ, how long do you
live in that sort of middle ground? I mean, Kiki, realistically,
and it's easy for you to say now because you're engaged,
but realistically, how much longer were you going to give
(12:49):
big tim because you want to be married?
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Right until I met my husband, Like I was that
serious about that?
Speaker 8 (12:55):
You were not.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
You were not really looking for all people? Stop it
right now, you we just gets in.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
This is not a skit or a lie.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
If you are in a relationship with a good woman
and you all have built something together and she has
been clear about her desires to be married, if you can,
if you are not making attempts to prepare yourself for that,
you are in the way of her husband, and so
I was very clear to Big Tim about I love you,
where we are great friends, we have a great relationship.
(13:22):
I want to be married, okay, and if you are
gonna prepare yourself to do that, then I am actively
out here letting the world know that I'm single. I
mean a man that is serious about his goals and
can get it together, then we may be in trouble.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
He got serious.
Speaker 8 (13:39):
That.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I watched many, many, many, many men try we all have,
and you didn't give any of them the time of.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Day, right because I was in love with Tim and
so you weren't.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Really looking much to replace him.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
I made that clear to him, because that is what's
that's gonna happen. I'm not gonna sit that for twenty
five years and still be talking about I'm single.
Speaker 8 (13:57):
No.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
I feel like men all so no, and I'm no man,
but I know I'm not a man.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Happen. I have been with a man right now, A couple,
a couple of men, yes, pull up a share. I'd
like to hear more about this.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
I would talk to you really quick. I think men
know that they want.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
To marry a woman like right away.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
I've heard this.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
I know you you because you have.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
I don't think I met the woman you're like, I
want to be with her like I hadn't, and I
was very wrong. So well, there too, exactly be honest
with you, the ones.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Where I think I really want to be with you,
I should probably just go the other way. I should
do the opposite of what my brain tells me to do.
Speaker 5 (14:40):
I hear you, But I do feel like men know
instantly if they want to lock this in. I mean,
I call me crazy, but I do feel like, if
you're gonna make it happen, you're making happen the six
year thing, like you're just wasting all of our time.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Now I see that.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
I'm really in the middle of this. Because if it
takes ten years and you guys, everyone gets there and
then it's this wonderful thing it lasts forever, then that's
all good. If it takes ten years and it dissolves
and it's not, you don't, it's it's just not that
cutting dry and this whole thing where the moment I
saw her, I knew, not the moment it's not quite
not for everybody.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
Three months, okay, I think in three months, like if
I call Shane right now, he will tell me I'm Shane.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
He wanted to marry her before.
Speaker 5 (15:17):
He loves Taylor and he's had all the relationships, and
I dared you do not feeling amusing.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Shane is an example does not have he loves her.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
And I'm trying to bring that out.
Speaker 5 (15:32):
Did I guarantee you he did not feel that way
about other girlfriends and the way he feels about you,
I can promise you that, and it shows and his
his actions and who he is as a man, like
he would marry you yesterday, you know, and because he
knew Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Serena, yes Hi Hi. So this dude, that's a mask
over the fact that Taylor Swift is putting pressure on
his six year relationship. But that's what's happening. And now
all of a sudden, you'll he knew his girlfriend wanted
to get married after six years they've been together. But
now it's like, wait a minute, they did it. So
(16:05):
now where are we at with this? And it seems
like it's intensifying. Now what does one do in this situation?
Speaker 10 (16:12):
Well, I know my husband's listening because he listens to
every morning, and I gave him an ultimatum.
Speaker 11 (16:18):
I said, we've been together eight years, we.
Speaker 10 (16:21):
Have three kids, my last name, Okay, I want to
get married, And he's like, well, marriage is just a
piece of paper, and so I don't care.
Speaker 9 (16:30):
I want to get married.
Speaker 11 (16:31):
You have a year to propose, and we get married
in our ten year anniversary.
Speaker 8 (16:35):
That's exactly what we did.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
Period.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Yeah, and you've got kids and their life together, and
it's a little more substantial than just But I never
like it. Serena different, I don't like an ultimatum. I
don't like it because I feel like, then in the
back of your mind, it's like, would you ever have
done it if I hadn't just said you're doing it?
And I hope it works out. It looks sounds like
it is and maybe he needed a little shove and again,
(16:57):
you guys have a life together and a lot to
speak for it. But I hate an ultimatum in these situations.
I hate it.
Speaker 10 (17:04):
Yeah, I get it, but at the same time, I'm like,
I have already invested eight years and I'm not you
know what, it's either now or never because I will
find someone else.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
And the case thing is important because and not that
you should definitely get married because you have kids, you shouldn't.
But this guy's going to be a part of your
life forever anyway, So I understand why that is an
interesting dynamic. But I hate it when people are like,
you got one year, because even if that, how do
you even if that person intended to do it. I
feel like forever it would be like if I had
(17:35):
not said to you you have one year, then would
you have done it? And then that's in the back
of your mind And that's not fair to anybody. But hey,
I'm glad it worked out for you. And what's your
husband's name?
Speaker 12 (17:45):
Irving?
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Shout out to you, man, Blink twice if you're okay,
Irving had a good day. Yeah, Oh, she's brilliant and
she's hot. She listens to this show. Must be one
of the smartest people that was ever mind. Yeah right,
Oh my god, they both She should have been begging him,
he listens to Well, if you listen to this show,
then you're brilliant. Hi, Samantha, except the people who hate
(18:07):
on us, But do you have fine? Hi Samantha, Hi,
good morning, Hey Sarah, what do you think? Good morning?
Speaker 11 (18:14):
Well, I think it's interesting that this guy is calling
in to get a decision, because I really think it's
the girl. I think that she should go. And he
may be like a lovely man, but I do think
he's wasting her time. I think after six years, like
other people have said, you know, if you want to
be with somebody for marriage, and if he wants to
(18:34):
stay with somebody's long term without getting married, that's totally okay.
And also I have to add that I too, am
a huge swiftie, and I think that maybe she kind
of had an itch that was scratched when she saw
Taylor Swift get engaged because she's been as swifty and
she sees like, oh wow, love is real. Maybe this
(18:54):
can kind of, you know, be my story too. I
don't really think that's unrealistic. It probably just showed her that,
you know, I can have a love story like this too,
even if it's just getting engaged and being married and
having kids.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Just go and buy her all seven CDs of Life
of a Showgirl. Make sure they'll show up on a
day and that'll buy them another year. You know, she'll
be distracted listening to all seven CDs, even though they're
all the same. Samantha, Thank you, have a good day too. Yeah,
and the kids thing is that it's a big factor.
Someone said she's wasting her good child bearing years on him.
I mean, yeah, again, not a reason to force a marriage,
(19:30):
but that's that's a real thing. You know, if if
you want to be married to someone and have a family,
things get more complicated this time goes. I'm not impossible,
but there's there be a lot of resentment there. I
would think if you invest all that time and then
it doesn't happen, I'm gonna say three as years. It's
kind of that, Sorry, Jason. It's kind of that gray
area we're kind of transitioning into, like Okay, we've made
(19:53):
a life together now after three years, like I've seen,
we've probably traveled to this is this doesn't ply to
you at all. We've probably traveled together. Like you know,
I know if you're stinky, I know, you know, I
have a good idea what I'm working with here. We've
had ups and downs, and like I think we're in
that kind of area. It's like, you know, that's what
(20:16):
we kind of got to say this is a foreverthing
or a long term thing or not not six months
or and again this is me just generalizing because Paulina
over here thinks every guy just looks at the woman
and say, oh, you want come me.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
I'm wrong, though. They are men know when they're somebody
you not. No, don't let a man waste your time.
I'm gonna just leave it that.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I don't men say that. I don't think it's that simple.
I really don't think it's that simple. I think a
lot of people have said that to other people and
they're divorced.
Speaker 5 (20:42):
Okay, possibly, but I'm not saying you look at a woman,
you're like, I'm gonna marry you tomorrow.
Speaker 6 (20:45):
But I think if you just you just know, you're like.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
I know people who have done that, Paulina, and they're
still together, and they've been together for twenty years. I
know people who have done that and they're not together anymore.
I don't think that it's I simply don't think it's
that simple. There are men listening right now, going nope,
I was compelled and they are mendless thing right now.
Who're going, I was compelled and now I'm paying galimony.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Well, marriage the gamble, and some people just are ready
when they're ready. Some men just marry whatever is in
front of them. When they're ready that that part too.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Can't have that. Hey, Jane, that's a bad idea. Oh
that's sorry, Mike. No, I want to talk to Mike.
That We'll get to Jane.
Speaker 9 (21:18):
Mike.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Sorry, Mike. How you doing Male perspective go.
Speaker 12 (21:21):
Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 8 (21:22):
Guys? So?
Speaker 12 (21:23):
I mean, like my dad told me when I married
my wife back in twenty fifteen. We were engaged in
twenty fourteen. I was scared. He's like, yeah, he says,
you're the provider, you're the protector, you're the shield. Now
you've got to protect her and provide for her for
the rest of your life. I was like, I'm scared
to death and he's like, good, he says, can you
imagine her with someone else? I said no, If she
(21:43):
walked away from me, that would end my world. And
I said, he says, then she's the one for you.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
So we married.
Speaker 12 (21:48):
And listen, man, when you're married, listen to the wedding
and all that stuff. That doesn't make the marriage.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
Man.
Speaker 12 (21:52):
That's all for the parent and everybody else. That's all
for her, you know what I mean. That doesn't make
the marriage.
Speaker 9 (21:57):
Man.
Speaker 12 (21:58):
You know what, if you love her, if you ask
yourself this question, for man to man, I'm talking to
the guy. If you can see her walking away from you,
she's not the one. It's as simple as that.
Speaker 7 (22:08):
So you either do it.
Speaker 12 (22:09):
You know, she might not even want a big wedding
or a big ring, you know, big ring. My wife didn't,
but I still gave it to her, you know what
I mean. So you gotta either crap or get off
the pot, man, one or the other.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Yeah, By the way, I don't I think you're right.
I don't think it will ever not be scary. If
he's waiting to be scary, then now.
Speaker 12 (22:31):
Right, Okay, you married her, you marry her, you have kids.
That's where the real scaries come in.
Speaker 13 (22:35):
Andy.
Speaker 12 (22:35):
And I know Paulina knows exactly what I'm talking about,
because when you're a parent, you're constantly afraid, worried.
Speaker 6 (22:41):
That's very true.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
That's good. Thank you, Thank you, Mike. Have a god day.
Appreciate that good perspective.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Yeah, Hello, was always cold.
Speaker 8 (22:54):
All right?
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Jane? Hi Jane, Why am I wrong?
Speaker 9 (22:56):
Jane?
Speaker 8 (22:56):
Go ahead, Hi, Prad, I normally think your advice is
really really great.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Thank you. Yes, it actually is, but it's fantastic.
Speaker 8 (23:06):
But yeah, but I'm a mental health counselor, and at
this I kind of hear you're mixing up two different
sets of needs. There is a difference between a demand
and a saying of what your needs and wants and
goals are in the world and that this is what's
appropriate for me. And so my Kiki had said, this
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is my life goal, this is why I'm dating this way.
So I'm just putting in my cards on the table.
So there you go.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
But Jane, I don't. I don't think we're saying the
same thing. But your trauma no no, no, no no
trauma history with Jane. What an ultimatum is inherently a demand, Yes,
it is an ultimatum by definition, is saying.
Speaker 8 (23:58):
Between There's a difference between saying that there's my life
goal and this is not, you know, ultimatum. It's it's
not really an ultimatum. It's saying no, no.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
But we're saying the same thing. If I come to you,
Jane and say here are the things that are important
to me, that's I agree with you. That is different
than me coming and saying if you don't marry me
by the end of the year, I'm gone. Those are
two different things because one's a threat and the other
is an expression.
Speaker 8 (24:29):
But the thing is, it's we're not talking about We're
talking about a major life goal and a major life situation,
and you're giving somebody time to make a decision.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
But you're not in an ultimatum. In an ultimatum, you're
saying it's this or that if I express my needs
and you don't need.
Speaker 8 (24:47):
It's a mixing of I think it's a mixing of
interpretations of what is being said and how it's being set.
But it is extremely important in a dating situation to
say this is my needs, this is my way.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I agree with you. I think I actually agree with you.
Speaker 8 (25:02):
It's really going on here.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Yeah. No, this guy's not being given an ultimatum. No, no, no.
An ultimatum is separate from this. He's this isn't a
conversation they're having. I'm saying I don't like an ultimatum.
I don't like an ultimatum in any situation. And you
hear about it sometimes, like the woman who called earlier
and said, if you don't marry me by the end
of the year, I'm gone. I don't like that. That's pressure,
that's what it's.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
A man though, I think that's the choice. You're giving
them the choice.
Speaker 8 (25:26):
Are you in it?
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Are you out?
Speaker 8 (25:28):
Like how exactly?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
That's not why I just say, hey, look, I would
like to be married to you. I need to be
married to you soon, you know, or I need to
I don't know. It's just if you don't or else.
Speaker 8 (25:38):
Nobody it's articulated. Nobody is in an articulates you, Fred,
You're like one of the most articulate people in the world. Oh,
Joso say it average. The average people will not say
it that way. Yeah, well I say the other way.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
And I respect your perspective as a mental health cancer.
It's just a threat. For me. The threat is dangerous
and I don't like it, and I don't think it's
the right way because I feel.
Speaker 8 (26:01):
You're threat I am.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Wants wants to betten in any context though nobody wants
to be threaded.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
But you gotta tell him. It's not a threat. It's
a promise.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
To Jane. I appreciate you, thank you for calling. I
have a good day. No, I hear what she's saying.
I just don't want I don't want to be confused.
Absolutely express what's important to you. Caitlin's Entertainment report is
on the Thread show.
Speaker 7 (26:29):
Raymond Cruz, the actor who played a drug lord Tucco
Salamanca on Breaking Bad, was arrested yesterday on suspicion of
misdemeanor battery after he allegedly sprayed his neighbor's.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Daughter with the garden hose.
Speaker 7 (26:41):
I guess the altercation started when the actor asked the
girl to move as he was washing his car.
Speaker 6 (26:47):
I would have moved.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
This man is pretty scary. You watch the show, you
scare in the show too.
Speaker 6 (26:52):
Things escalated from there.
Speaker 7 (26:53):
No charges have been filed yet, but for minor infractions,
the city attorney typically holds an office hearing where the
accused defender is warned or offered anger management courses in
exchange for having charges dropped. Sense Breaking Bad, Raymond did
reprise his role in the prequel spinoff Better Call Saul.
You may also know him from playing a detective on
(27:14):
the other end of the spectrum on the show The
Closer as well. Vanessa Brian is nipping yet another baseless
rumor in The Bud, denying that she's pregnant by downing
a few drinks at the US Open, which is my
favorite way to tell people I'm not pregnant. Kobe's widow
made the statement on Instagram, showing a photo of her
sipping the tournament's signature Honeyduce cocktail while enjoying the action
(27:36):
with their daughter's capri and bianca.
Speaker 6 (27:37):
She simply wrote, enjoying my Honeyduce.
Speaker 7 (27:39):
Keep me posted on how this imaginary pregnancy rumor is
coming along.
Speaker 6 (27:43):
Twenty four years later, same rumor.
Speaker 7 (27:45):
Unclear where the new rumor is coming from, but just
a few months ago, remember she had to address the
same thing that time. She used a Rihanna meme for
that denial, with the caption me protecting my peace, not
pregnant and having fun all summer.
Speaker 6 (27:59):
Of course, it's been five years.
Speaker 7 (28:01):
Since Vanessa's husband, NBA legend Kobe Bryant, tragically passed away,
and she hasn't.
Speaker 6 (28:06):
Really dated anyone publicly since.
Speaker 7 (28:09):
Kobe and Vanessa had four daughters together before Gianna tragically died,
of course, alongside her dad and seven others in that
helicopter crash. And she remembered Kobe's birthday last month just
saying we love and miss you and Gig so much.
Speaker 6 (28:22):
So she's not pregnant and just let her live her life.
Please stop doing that.
Speaker 7 (28:26):
In case you missed it, Ella Langley, Megan Maroney, and
Lanie Wilson taught the upcoming CMA nominations with six appease
Zac top scored five. Riley Green and Cody Johnson have
four each. Christian Bush, Carson Chamberlain, Luke Colms, Charlie Hansom.
Speaker 6 (28:42):
Which is quite a name.
Speaker 7 (28:43):
Chris Stapleton and Morgan Wallen each secured three nominations and
then vying for the night's biggest honor, CMA Entertainer of
the Year. Luke Colms, Cody Johnson, Chris Stapleton and Morgan Wallen.
The show will air live from Nashville Wednesday, November nineteenth,
at seven or eight, depending on where you are and
if you missed this earlier when Fred brought it up,
Apparently the woman caught on the Coldplake kiss cam with
(29:06):
another man was already separated from her husband. And I
don't know how I if I believe this or not,
but Andrew Cabot, CEO of a different company, I mean,
she really needs to save some CEOs for the.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
Rest of us.
Speaker 6 (29:18):
But she he addressed the recent.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Controversy Layer CEO too. That's a good one.
Speaker 8 (29:22):
We like it.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
We like a laquor ceo.
Speaker 6 (29:24):
Wait, where are you meeting all the ceo? Like, I
know you worked with the other one, but where are
you meeting I need to meet.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
A CEO and lady CEO's out there. I got a
bunch of money, Like, how you doing money? It was
fred nice to meet you. I don't like ultimatums, but
I like everything else. And then you look at her.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
That's what I knew.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Yeah, let me tell you what.
Speaker 6 (29:40):
I get that feeling for once.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
I really know, I really know.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
That's new.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
All the big bosses, the big bosses. I'm floating around
on the homeway.
Speaker 6 (29:53):
So many bosses, so many titles. I'm confused.
Speaker 1 (29:55):
I know it's there, all fake, but yeah, we have
seen president. No come up. I bet you even she
would tell you, like, what is your title now?
Speaker 2 (30:04):
Element?
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Jesus Lord and Mary Joseph? Like what do they make
these things up? Senior vice president, regional regional senior. How
does everybody advice president? It's a president and then we
get an assistant in the vice How are there forty
seven vice presidents in one builder of each?
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Like do I feel like?
Speaker 6 (30:24):
How do I meet these people? Do I kissing?
Speaker 9 (30:26):
Like I don't know.
Speaker 6 (30:26):
I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 7 (30:27):
Anyways, this other CEO said he and Kristen were already
separated before this happened. He said it happened a couple
of weeks before she was spotted, you know, with his
hands around Andy's hands around her waist at the Coldplay concerts.
So he said that their decision to divorce was already
in motion prior to that. By the way, if you
missed any part of our show, you want to catch up,
type the French show on demand and if you could,
(30:48):
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Speaker 13 (30:52):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Shelley in the show Biz Showdown, Good Morning. How many
of your life decisions you based on Taylor Swift?
Speaker 9 (31:08):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Not many?
Speaker 6 (31:11):
I like her, but I'm not you know, no, not
too many. But I'm very happy for he.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Would you say is increased?
Speaker 9 (31:19):
You know?
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Not that I mean one about the.
Speaker 8 (31:23):
No.
Speaker 4 (31:23):
I think like this is a it's an example of
when you need to hide your crazy, right, because I
feel like, like, especially with all the engagements everything.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I was like, oh, that's so sweet, and then I
think like, you can't.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
Help and say like, oh, like at some point I'd
like to be that happy right like so, but I
would never be like, well, because kicking and Taylor Swift
got engaged, I need to be engaged to you, and
you have six months days.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
I'm not a licensed therapist currently, but you can't base
your happiness and other people. Yeah, you have to find
your happiness from Really. That is something that I am
working on. Is that trigger you triggered you? It's true though,
trust Shirt, it's coming. It's work, It's a work in progress.
I find happiness in a lot of ways that are
(32:08):
completely erratic, like, for example, the ratings. My mood is
so much better when we're number one. Let me tell
you something, and then Nielsen comes along and it makes
me feel terrible. Hey Jonathan, how you doing. Good morning guys,
how are you Jonathan? Good morning? Fun fact about you is.
Speaker 12 (32:27):
I work for the United States Postal Service, which just
turned two and fifty years old.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
Yeah, Okaya gets your own segment, bro. Nine hundred and
fifty bucks is the prize one fifty one win for Shelley,
wins for Shelley only, seventy emotionable only, seventy losses, and
twelve straight five pop culture questions. Let go guys, Okay,
good luck? All right too. She goes to the sound
boof poof all right, are you an actual postal? Are
(32:54):
you a mailman male person?
Speaker 12 (32:56):
No, I'm actually a mechanic. I fix the mailman's cars
a lot of It's.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
A very elaborate. They got a lot going on over there.
And Jason likes the mechanic. He likes the mechanic. Are
you engaged to be married to anyone? Are you married
to someone.
Speaker 8 (33:10):
Married? All right?
Speaker 1 (33:12):
Sorry, Jason, take into a Cold Play concert. Well. Question
number one. Adam Sandler is fifty nine today? Which highly
anticipated movie sequel did he release on Netflix in July?
Speaker 12 (33:25):
Happy to go more too? I just saw him stand
up yesterday on Saturday.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
Sorry, Oh wow. Road Beauty is officially available at Sephora.
Who founded the Brandy two no idea, Kyle Richards and
Mauricio Umanski reunited to celebrate their daughter's wedding, which reality
show first brought them to fame.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
Three two?
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Well, no, I mean we got the last two. It's
all good. Brittany Snow and Maylon Ackerman were both hush
hush about season two of the horny show The Hunting
Wives on the MTV VMA's Red Carpet on which streaming
service would you find that show? Just to say, the
most obvious one, the most obvious. Oh, that wasn't the
most obvious one. And Jennifer Lopez was spotted with her
(34:17):
former step son Samuel over the weekend, proving they're still close.
Who is Jlo's ex named? Ben Affleck and Samuel's father say, benefl,
how did you get that? That's crazy? That's a two.
You got a two? So here you got a two show?
(34:39):
And yeah, but all your questions are about mechanical stuff,
so yeah, well he's a mechanic. I'm just kidding. I
was skiing switch it up on you. You know, he
had to answer entertainment questions.
Speaker 8 (34:49):
You have to.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
You have to answer questions about hemmy's and stuff. Adam
Sandler is fifty nine. See Jason's getting He's tingling over there.
Adam Sandler's fifty nine today? Which highly anticipated movie sequel
did he release on Netflix in July? Happy gil Mar
Yes Road Beauty is officially available at Sephora. Who founded
the brand, Hailey Bieber, Kyle Richards, and Mauricio Yumanski right,
(35:13):
reunited to celebrate their daughter's wedding. Which reality show first
brought them to fame, The Real Housewives, Sure, Beverly Hills, Yeah,
we'll take it. Brittany Snow and Maelon Ackerman were both
hash hushed about season two of The Hunting Wives on
the MTV VMA's Red Carpet. On which streaming service would
you find that show?
Speaker 9 (35:34):
Three?
Speaker 10 (35:36):
Two?
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Peacock?
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Yeah, no, no Netflix? And Jennifer Lopez was spotted with
her former step son Samuel over the weekend, proving they're
still close. Who is Jelo's ex and Samuel's father? Then Nefflick,
Yeah that is a four and you win. So Jonathan,
my man, you're gonna say my name is Jonathan. I
got showed up on the Showdown. You know the rest.
Speaker 12 (35:58):
Hey, my name is Jonathan, and I was so up
on the Showdown by Shelly and you.
Speaker 1 (36:02):
Jonathan the male postal mechanic man can't hang with real, can't.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Can't, can't, can't shout out to the postal workers. Can't
can't stop raising the price of a stamp.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah, you're right, Else, Jonathan, we got to talk about
the business model of the old postal Postal service.
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Fix the car.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
That's another day for another day. We love you and
your fellow postal workers. Hey, I have a great day,
and thanks for listening, Jonathan hang On.
Speaker 12 (36:36):
Thank you guys so much.
Speaker 9 (36:37):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Thank you for that one. It made me dizzy. Jason,
love you.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
Worker and a mechanic.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Do you think he has to wear those like pe
teacher looking shorts that they wear as if they're a
postal worker to work on the car? I hope. So
you know the ones I'm talking about, the ones that
are made of like burlap, the polyswers not it's not giving.
It's not giving. They don't it's not good. Maybe a
nice dry fit or something, you know, they don't come
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on like.
Speaker 6 (37:08):
My Marilyn Monroe Tupac shirt.
Speaker 1 (37:10):
Yes, Session, Yeah, I'll order them some from Malaysia. It'll
take six months, but they'll show up. Session. Have a
good day, Shelley tomorrow. It's a thousand bucks nice.
Speaker 6 (37:20):
Okay, that's good bye.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
I was dizzy for like a minute after that one
because I really gave my all on that one.
Speaker 9 (37:28):
Me too.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Yeah, waiting by the phone is more fresh.
Speaker 8 (37:34):
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we talk about the Bears in Arlington Heights? I mean,
I guess they're really doing it. Does that sound good
to you? Are you happy about that? Are we happy
about the Bears in Arlington High?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I am? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Why are you so happy that?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
I love a suburban area and I'm tired. I'm tired
of parking four miles away from the stadium.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Yes, not that I ever go to a Bears game.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
The station quest They did a request to visit the
island of Soldier Field. But it is a bit of
a quest. Yeah, they didn't really think about that when
they went in the in the in the you know,
eighteen hundreds, or when they built Soldier Field, they didn't
really think about parking. Did they right do better? Well,
I guess they're going to do better now. I'm glad.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
I think it is the worst venue to try to
get in and out of in the entire city. Yes,
this logistically the worst, right Lakeshore Drive, all that happening,
or we pick up drunk people from there?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Have you done that?
Speaker 1 (01:25):
No, I've done the drunk person Oh yeah, well I
was pregnant.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Well my in laws, but when I go pick them
up or like Mahabi my husband, like it's it's a
mission I have to go, like through the South Loops,
certain things.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Are closed, like it's a whole mission.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
To pick up drunk people.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
And I'm sorry, I don't even think I've tried to.
I mean you could drop people off kind of, but
then trying to go at the end of something is
to turn near impossible. It can't be done. And then
I had one other thing to mention of note our
little partnership that we did with South Suburban Humane Society
in honor of Taylor Swift's engagement. We wanted you to
find your forever for iesy forever. You see what we
(02:01):
did there, super clever. But a bunch of the animals
were adopted during the promotion or Odin and short Rib
short Rim had to get adopted because that's the best name.
Short Rib is the best. And then Dipper and Goober
we're also adopted because we posted some stuff on our
social media with these these animals. Goober, there was Gabriel,
(02:24):
there was short Rib, Romaine, Dipper, Laura Laura, Laura, Laura Laura,
it was a dogger cat. I can't remember if Laura
was Glorida cat. And then Abra Cadabra. Anyway, we had
them up there and we heard from the folks at
the South Suburban Humane Society that you guys stepped up
(02:44):
and because there are a little a little promotion on
the on the gram, you guys you have some new
forever animals in your home. So so you only follow
pretty people?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on
my timeline, Ugly people on my timeline. Like it, like
it triggers, Oh God, not again, like why so.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Hutch you again? Fred's Show is on again? An ugly
person girl. Good morning, Sesday, September. Now it's the Fred's Show. Hi, Kalin,
Hi Jason, I follow Shelley nine fifty is the prize
in about twenty minutes. If you can beat her in
five pop culture question snapper twelve gamer in streak, you win.
(03:26):
We'll get to the entertainment report in a little bit.
What are you working on for that?
Speaker 7 (03:30):
Ka the actor that was arrested for allegedly spraying his
neighbour's daughter with a garden hose. Okay, Also, uh, leave
Vanessa Bryan alone please, Like letter live.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
I saw who this actor was and I can't disassociate
him with the character he played. And I wouldn't want
this guy spraying my house with a garden hose.
Speaker 8 (03:51):
It's stay or go.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Scott is here, Hi Scott, good morning, Hey, good morning, Scott, welcome.
Thanks for hitting this up. There's a lot of places
you can get ahold of us, fred Shaw Radio and
the social search for the Fred Show fred Show Radio
dot com. And so you're having an issue with your
girlfriend of about six years, So what's going on? I
can't wait to hear about this.
Speaker 9 (04:15):
Yeah, Well, like you said, we've been together six years,
and like, I don't know, lately, I'm feeling a lot
of pressure to like propose, but I'm just not ready.
So that sounds familiar, I guess, I guess I just
fun I kind of want your opinion on that, Like,
do you think it's too long or do you think
it's like I shouldn't worry about it.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Well, okay, you should worry, all right. I need a
little more information. I need I need a lot more information.
I mean, right, so that's been six years for every right,
what do you think?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Well, I mean we were talking about this earlier. But
you know, whether it's Kiki and almost eight years or whatever,
it was seven and a half and then you you know,
sort of joking about since the day that I met you,
where is my proposal? Or you know, it's Kaylin who's
been with someone for a little while and isn't in
any hurry whatsoever. I mean, there's a lot of context here.
So six years is she pressuring you?
Speaker 9 (05:08):
Like?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Is she is she fairly so beginning to ask or
has she been asking? Hey, where's this going? I mean,
it's because maybe people are together forever and never get
married and they're okay with that, and then maybe people
are together for three months and they're like, hey, where's
the ring. I mean, I've kind of encountered both. What
what's happening here?
Speaker 9 (05:27):
Well, yeah, this is gonna sound kind of silly. So
like normally like she's never really brought it up or
really even seem to like worry too much either, but
like she's a giant swifties. So with the last couple
of weeks, like with all the big news and stuff, like,
can you get caught the marriage bug?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I say, get out of here, get out of it?
Has she actually cited that? Like she said, well, you know,
you know, Travis and Taylor are engaged, So I mean
that hasn't actually come up.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
Oh well, I was sitting next to her when she
saw the news on her phone and she like started
like crying and being like so emotionable, like I don't know,
like and then yeah, so like the last couple of
weeks kind of just been like talking about our future
and like you know what things look like down the
line and things You've got to kid.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
I was emotionable too, I get it.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
But it's something to be It's one thing to be
emotionable like Scott's grow upfriend. To be emotionable, that's one thing.
But then but to put the pressure on because because
she's swifty and because she got engaged. I mean, it's like,
look at her life, what about you slack her?
Speaker 8 (06:37):
Right?
Speaker 9 (06:37):
I mean?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Is that that's not fair? But here's the thing. So
she's indicated to you that she wants to be married
to you. How long has she been talking like that?
Of the six years you've been together, just recently.
Speaker 9 (06:50):
Honestly, Like it's something we've kind of talked about, Like
I feel like we both always wanted to get married,
but like this, like like I said, this marriage bug,
like that's brand new, and like I'm honestly, it makes
me like I'm ready to fight Travis Kelcey. Like I
may not be as big as him or as strong
as him, but like I'm ready to go.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I'm telling you, I wonder how many people are in
this situation where you know, she she sort of inspired
within a bunch of folks, men, women, whomever, Like no, no,
I want that too, proposed to me in the backyard,
What are you doing? So okay? What's your position though,
I mean, are you what's the hold do you want
to be married? Why are you not proposing? I mean,
(07:31):
and again I don't say it in the judgmental way.
I mean, you have every right to live your life
hoever you want. But what Yeah, what is the hold up?
Speaker 9 (07:37):
I mean, there's a few reasons, but flat out I'm
just not ready, Like it's something I want to do
in the future, but like I don't know, Like I
don't see why it's a problem for like everyone to
take their own path, like like yeah, six years, but
like if we're not ready after six years, then why rush?
Like I don't know, Like I'm still trying to figure
out my career a little bit, and you know, like
there's no way where we could afford like the wedding.
(07:59):
I'd want to give her, the ring I'd want to
give her. Yet so like I guess that's kind of
the stuff I'm working on.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
But so she wants to be married, how long do
you think that those things are going to take? Like
how wants this time frame? Yeah, the type of thing
when you're thinking, before we get the career and the
money thing sorted out, I mean the year. I mean
how long are we thinking? Because I mean, you know,
at some point I do understand that I don't no
one should be rushed, and no one should be do
(08:26):
anything that they're uncomfortable doing or they I don't feel
compelled to do. But and here's my question, everybody else
eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five,
At what juncture is it fair for a person who
wants to be married to say this is enough time?
And you yeah. I can hear people now going, well,
there isn't one, and I would normally agree with that.
But if you're somebody who wants to get married and
(08:46):
maybe you want to have kids, there is and you
want to be married when you have kids, if those
are things that are important to you, there is kind
of a time frame. It's a little bit of a
finite thing. You know, you can't necessarily do this when
you're fifty. You know you can't necessarily you can, but
you know, I mean, if you're are you gonna be
together for twenty years before you feel comfortable? And then
at that point have things passed you by somewhat? I mean,
(09:08):
how long is it going to take?
Speaker 9 (09:09):
Bro I don't know, and I totally get what you're
saying like we're well, still relatively young, but like, I
don't know, I'm just not ready. It might be a year,
it might be another two years. I don't know, but
I definitely get what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Because the worst thing is if you know, I want
to be married to you and I'm getting emotionable about it,
and then and then we keep, you know, we keep
this going for another two, three, four years, and then
we're ten years in and then you're like, eh, actually
I don't want to do this anymore. And now it's like, well, okay,
I invested a lot of time in this aspiration that
(09:43):
is not coming to fruition. And you might say, well,
then good, I'm glad it didn't because it wasn't supposed to.
But that's still a lot of time to spend on something.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
So I mean, or she can meet her husband tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Yeah, what would you do if she met someone else
and said, Hey, this guy's more serious than you are.
How would that make you feel?
Speaker 9 (10:02):
That'd be heartbreaking? Yeah, I'd be very emotionable and it'd
be heartbreaking. And I don't think we've ever had commitment issues.
Like we're both like, you know, we both know how
committed we are to each other, and you know how
serious we are about each other. It's just it's just
like the marriage part itself, like I'm not ready for.
It's not the relationship that makes me not ready. It's
(10:23):
like I said, it's more like just like the timing
and the wedding and the I don't know all that
kind of stuff, like I'm just not ready for.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Well, if you're not ready, don't do it. But I
think at some point if you don't get ready, and
this isn't the threat, but I think at some point
if you don't get ready, then you might expect that
she'll find someone who is. And again, don't do anything
that you don't feel comfortable doing, because that's I think
where bad things start to happen. But if you're not
compelled to do it within five, six, seven years, I mean,
then I don't know. But then again, you got Jason
(10:52):
over here fourteen years. Yeah, and I don't know. Maybe
it happens now, maybe maybe you feel like it's beginning
to happen, or it's more a realm of post in
the realm of possibility than it was. Yeah, I think
it's a lost cause. But I also never mind, I
was being optimistic. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
I never like actually expressed like, hey, this is really
important to me. I want to do it because I
don't feel that way. It would be nice if it did,
but it's not a deal breaker for me. It sounds
like for her it might be. And our kids a
factor here? Do you guys want both one kids?
Speaker 8 (11:26):
Again?
Speaker 9 (11:27):
Like if the situations right were kind of always.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Situation right, It's not like I know it's a lot
in this world. Six years. I mean, the situation seems
we're six years right.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 8 (11:39):
I don't want to have a kid if I can't
feed it, you know, like like I don't know's.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
You know, I don't know if that money for a wedding,
you just got to play it exactly, just got money around.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
That's what he takes some phone calls Scott and I look,
I appreciate and thanks you being a good support about this,
and have the radio and we'll see if people have
to say, have a good day.
Speaker 9 (12:05):
All right.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
I'm really torn on this. I'm really in torn on
this because I don't want people to do anything they're
not ready to do. And I am a proponent of
situations where people can be together forever and not necessarily
get married legally or in a church or whatever, and
live very happy lives. You know, people think, well, if
I get married, you won't cheat or she won't. No,
they will try. Let me assure you, yes, let me
(12:27):
assure you. That doesn't seem to stop anybody. But it's
just like, how about just be happy? Right? But but
if here's where here's where I'm on the other side
of this. If your goals differ, you know, and your
level of comfort and priorities differ, how long do you
live in that sort of middle ground? I mean, Kiki, realistically,
and it's easy for you to say now because you're engaged,
but realistically, how much longer were you going to give
(12:49):
big tim because you want to be married?
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Right until I met my husband, Like I was that
serious about that?
Speaker 8 (12:55):
You were not.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
You were not really looking for all people? Stop it
right now, you we just gets in.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
This is not a skit or a lie.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
If you are in a relationship with a good woman
and you all have built something together and she has
been clear about her desires to be married, if you can,
if you are not making attempts to prepare yourself for that,
you are in the way of her husband, and so
I was very clear to Big Tim about I love you,
where we are great friends, we have a great relationship.
(13:22):
I want to be married, okay, and if you are
gonna prepare yourself to do that, then I am actively
out here letting the world know that I'm single. I
mean a man that is serious about his goals and
can get it together, then we may be in trouble.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
He got serious.
Speaker 8 (13:39):
That.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I watched many, many, many, many men try we all have,
and you didn't give any of them the time of.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Day, right because I was in love with Tim and
so you weren't.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Really looking much to replace him.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
I made that clear to him, because that is what's
that's gonna happen. I'm not gonna sit that for twenty
five years and still be talking about I'm single.
Speaker 8 (13:57):
No.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
I feel like men all so no, and I'm no man,
but I know I'm not a man.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Happen. I have been with a man right now, A couple,
a couple of men, yes, pull up a share. I'd
like to hear more about this.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
I would talk to you really quick. I think men
know that they want.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
To marry a woman like right away.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
I've heard this.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
I know you you because you have.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
I don't think I met the woman you're like, I
want to be with her like I hadn't, and I
was very wrong. So well, there too, exactly be honest
with you, the ones.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Where I think I really want to be with you,
I should probably just go the other way. I should
do the opposite of what my brain tells me to do.
Speaker 5 (14:40):
I hear you, But I do feel like men know
instantly if they want to lock this in. I mean,
I call me crazy, but I do feel like, if
you're gonna make it happen, you're making happen the six
year thing, like you're just wasting all of our time.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Now I see that.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
I'm really in the middle of this. Because if it
takes ten years and you guys, everyone gets there and
then it's this wonderful thing it lasts forever, then that's
all good. If it takes ten years and it dissolves
and it's not, you don't, it's it's just not that
cutting dry and this whole thing where the moment I
saw her, I knew, not the moment it's not quite
not for everybody.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
Three months, okay, I think in three months, like if
I call Shane right now, he will tell me I'm Shane.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
He wanted to marry her before.
Speaker 5 (15:17):
He loves Taylor and he's had all the relationships, and
I dared you do not feeling amusing.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Shane is an example does not have he loves her.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
And I'm trying to bring that out.
Speaker 5 (15:32):
Did I guarantee you he did not feel that way
about other girlfriends and the way he feels about you,
I can promise you that, and it shows and his
his actions and who he is as a man, like
he would marry you yesterday, you know, and because he
knew Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Serena, yes Hi Hi. So this dude, that's a mask
over the fact that Taylor Swift is putting pressure on
his six year relationship. But that's what's happening. And now
all of a sudden, you'll he knew his girlfriend wanted
to get married after six years they've been together. But
now it's like, wait a minute, they did it. So
(16:05):
now where are we at with this? And it seems
like it's intensifying. Now what does one do in this situation?
Speaker 10 (16:12):
Well, I know my husband's listening because he listens to
every morning, and I gave him an ultimatum.
Speaker 11 (16:18):
I said, we've been together eight years, we.
Speaker 10 (16:21):
Have three kids, my last name, Okay, I want to
get married, And he's like, well, marriage is just a
piece of paper, and so I don't care.
Speaker 9 (16:30):
I want to get married.
Speaker 11 (16:31):
You have a year to propose, and we get married
in our ten year anniversary.
Speaker 8 (16:35):
That's exactly what we did.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
Period.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Yeah, and you've got kids and their life together, and
it's a little more substantial than just But I never
like it. Serena different, I don't like an ultimatum. I
don't like it because I feel like, then in the
back of your mind, it's like, would you ever have
done it if I hadn't just said you're doing it?
And I hope it works out. It looks sounds like
it is and maybe he needed a little shove and again,
(16:57):
you guys have a life together and a lot to
speak for it. But I hate an ultimatum in these situations.
I hate it.
Speaker 10 (17:04):
Yeah, I get it, but at the same time, I'm like,
I have already invested eight years and I'm not you
know what, it's either now or never because I will
find someone else.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
And the case thing is important because and not that
you should definitely get married because you have kids, you shouldn't.
But this guy's going to be a part of your
life forever anyway, So I understand why that is an
interesting dynamic. But I hate it when people are like,
you got one year, because even if that, how do
you even if that person intended to do it. I
feel like forever it would be like if I had
(17:35):
not said to you you have one year, then would
you have done it? And then that's in the back
of your mind And that's not fair to anybody. But hey,
I'm glad it worked out for you. And what's your
husband's name?
Speaker 12 (17:45):
Irving?
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Shout out to you, man, Blink twice if you're okay,
Irving had a good day. Yeah, Oh, she's brilliant and
she's hot. She listens to this show. Must be one
of the smartest people that was ever mind. Yeah right,
Oh my god, they both She should have been begging him,
he listens to Well, if you listen to this show,
then you're brilliant. Hi, Samantha, except the people who hate
(18:07):
on us, But do you have fine? Hi Samantha, Hi,
good morning, Hey Sarah, what do you think? Good morning?
Speaker 11 (18:14):
Well, I think it's interesting that this guy is calling
in to get a decision, because I really think it's
the girl. I think that she should go. And he
may be like a lovely man, but I do think
he's wasting her time. I think after six years, like
other people have said, you know, if you want to
be with somebody for marriage, and if he wants to
(18:34):
stay with somebody's long term without getting married, that's totally okay.
And also I have to add that I too, am
a huge swiftie, and I think that maybe she kind
of had an itch that was scratched when she saw
Taylor Swift get engaged because she's been as swifty and
she sees like, oh wow, love is real. Maybe this
(18:54):
can kind of, you know, be my story too. I
don't really think that's unrealistic. It probably just showed her that,
you know, I can have a love story like this too,
even if it's just getting engaged and being married and
having kids.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Just go and buy her all seven CDs of Life
of a Showgirl. Make sure they'll show up on a
day and that'll buy them another year. You know, she'll
be distracted listening to all seven CDs, even though they're
all the same. Samantha, Thank you, have a good day too. Yeah,
and the kids thing is that it's a big factor.
Someone said she's wasting her good child bearing years on him.
I mean, yeah, again, not a reason to force a marriage,
(19:30):
but that's that's a real thing. You know, if if
you want to be married to someone and have a family,
things get more complicated this time goes. I'm not impossible,
but there's there be a lot of resentment there. I
would think if you invest all that time and then
it doesn't happen, I'm gonna say three as years. It's
kind of that, Sorry, Jason. It's kind of that gray
area we're kind of transitioning into, like Okay, we've made
(19:53):
a life together now after three years, like I've seen,
we've probably traveled to this is this doesn't ply to
you at all. We've probably traveled together. Like you know,
I know if you're stinky, I know, you know, I
have a good idea what I'm working with here. We've
had ups and downs, and like I think we're in
that kind of area. It's like, you know, that's what
(20:16):
we kind of got to say this is a foreverthing
or a long term thing or not not six months
or and again this is me just generalizing because Paulina
over here thinks every guy just looks at the woman
and say, oh, you want come me.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
I'm wrong, though. They are men know when they're somebody
you not. No, don't let a man waste your time.
I'm gonna just leave it that.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I don't men say that. I don't think it's that simple.
I really don't think it's that simple. I think a
lot of people have said that to other people and
they're divorced.
Speaker 5 (20:42):
Okay, possibly, but I'm not saying you look at a woman,
you're like, I'm gonna marry you tomorrow.
Speaker 6 (20:45):
But I think if you just you just know, you're like.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
I know people who have done that, Paulina, and they're
still together, and they've been together for twenty years. I
know people who have done that and they're not together anymore.
I don't think that it's I simply don't think it's
that simple. There are men listening right now, going nope,
I was compelled and they are mendless thing right now.
Who're going, I was compelled and now I'm paying galimony.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Well, marriage the gamble, and some people just are ready
when they're ready. Some men just marry whatever is in
front of them. When they're ready that that part too.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Can't have that. Hey, Jane, that's a bad idea. Oh
that's sorry, Mike. No, I want to talk to Mike.
That We'll get to Jane.
Speaker 9 (21:18):
Mike.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Sorry, Mike. How you doing Male perspective go.
Speaker 12 (21:21):
Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 8 (21:22):
Guys? So?
Speaker 12 (21:23):
I mean, like my dad told me when I married
my wife back in twenty fifteen. We were engaged in
twenty fourteen. I was scared. He's like, yeah, he says,
you're the provider, you're the protector, you're the shield. Now
you've got to protect her and provide for her for
the rest of your life. I was like, I'm scared
to death and he's like, good, he says, can you
imagine her with someone else? I said no, If she
(21:43):
walked away from me, that would end my world. And
I said, he says, then she's the one for you.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
So we married.
Speaker 12 (21:48):
And listen, man, when you're married, listen to the wedding
and all that stuff. That doesn't make the marriage.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
Man.
Speaker 12 (21:52):
That's all for the parent and everybody else. That's all
for her, you know what I mean. That doesn't make
the marriage.
Speaker 9 (21:57):
Man.
Speaker 12 (21:58):
You know what, if you love her, if you ask
yourself this question, for man to man, I'm talking to
the guy. If you can see her walking away from you,
she's not the one. It's as simple as that.
Speaker 7 (22:08):
So you either do it.
Speaker 12 (22:09):
You know, she might not even want a big wedding
or a big ring, you know, big ring. My wife didn't,
but I still gave it to her, you know what
I mean. So you gotta either crap or get off
the pot, man, one or the other.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Yeah, By the way, I don't I think you're right.
I don't think it will ever not be scary. If
he's waiting to be scary, then now.
Speaker 12 (22:31):
Right, Okay, you married her, you marry her, you have kids.
That's where the real scaries come in.
Speaker 13 (22:35):
Andy.
Speaker 12 (22:35):
And I know Paulina knows exactly what I'm talking about,
because when you're a parent, you're constantly afraid, worried.
Speaker 6 (22:41):
That's very true.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
That's good. Thank you, Thank you, Mike. Have a god day.
Appreciate that good perspective.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Yeah, Hello, was always cold.
Speaker 8 (22:54):
All right?
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Jane? Hi Jane, Why am I wrong?
Speaker 9 (22:56):
Jane?
Speaker 8 (22:56):
Go ahead, Hi, Prad, I normally think your advice is
really really great.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Thank you. Yes, it actually is, but it's fantastic.
Speaker 8 (23:06):
But yeah, but I'm a mental health counselor, and at
this I kind of hear you're mixing up two different
sets of needs. There is a difference between a demand
and a saying of what your needs and wants and
goals are in the world and that this is what's
appropriate for me. And so my Kiki had said, this
(23:30):
is my life goal, this is why I'm dating this way.
So I'm just putting in my cards on the table.
So there you go.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
But Jane, I don't. I don't think we're saying the
same thing. But your trauma no no, no, no no
trauma history with Jane. What an ultimatum is inherently a demand, Yes,
it is an ultimatum by definition, is saying.
Speaker 8 (23:58):
Between There's a difference between saying that there's my life
goal and this is not, you know, ultimatum. It's it's
not really an ultimatum. It's saying no, no.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
But we're saying the same thing. If I come to you,
Jane and say here are the things that are important
to me, that's I agree with you. That is different
than me coming and saying if you don't marry me
by the end of the year, I'm gone. Those are
two different things because one's a threat and the other
is an expression.
Speaker 8 (24:29):
But the thing is, it's we're not talking about We're
talking about a major life goal and a major life situation,
and you're giving somebody time to make a decision.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
But you're not in an ultimatum. In an ultimatum, you're
saying it's this or that if I express my needs
and you don't need.
Speaker 8 (24:47):
It's a mixing of I think it's a mixing of
interpretations of what is being said and how it's being set.
But it is extremely important in a dating situation to
say this is my needs, this is my way.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I agree with you. I think I actually agree with you.
Speaker 8 (25:02):
It's really going on here.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Yeah. No, this guy's not being given an ultimatum. No, no, no.
An ultimatum is separate from this. He's this isn't a
conversation they're having. I'm saying I don't like an ultimatum.
I don't like an ultimatum in any situation. And you
hear about it sometimes, like the woman who called earlier
and said, if you don't marry me by the end
of the year, I'm gone. I don't like that. That's pressure,
that's what it's.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
A man though, I think that's the choice. You're giving
them the choice.
Speaker 8 (25:26):
Are you in it?
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Are you out?
Speaker 8 (25:28):
Like how exactly?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
That's not why I just say, hey, look, I would
like to be married to you. I need to be
married to you soon, you know, or I need to
I don't know. It's just if you don't or else.
Speaker 8 (25:38):
Nobody it's articulated. Nobody is in an articulates you, Fred,
You're like one of the most articulate people in the world. Oh,
Joso say it average. The average people will not say
it that way. Yeah, well I say the other way.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
And I respect your perspective as a mental health cancer.
It's just a threat. For me. The threat is dangerous
and I don't like it, and I don't think it's
the right way because I feel.
Speaker 8 (26:01):
You're threat I am.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Wants wants to betten in any context though nobody wants
to be threaded.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
But you gotta tell him. It's not a threat. It's
a promise.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
To Jane. I appreciate you, thank you for calling. I
have a good day. No, I hear what she's saying.
I just don't want I don't want to be confused.
Absolutely express what's important to you. Caitlin's Entertainment report is
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Speaker 7 (26:29):
Raymond Cruz, the actor who played a drug lord Tucco
Salamanca on Breaking Bad, was arrested yesterday on suspicion of
misdemeanor battery after he allegedly sprayed his neighbor's.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Daughter with the garden hose.
Speaker 7 (26:41):
I guess the altercation started when the actor asked the
girl to move as he was washing his car.
Speaker 6 (26:47):
I would have moved.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
This man is pretty scary. You watch the show, you
scare in the show too.
Speaker 6 (26:52):
Things escalated from there.
Speaker 7 (26:53):
No charges have been filed yet, but for minor infractions,
the city attorney typically holds an office hearing where the
accused defender is warned or offered anger management courses in
exchange for having charges dropped. Sense Breaking Bad, Raymond did
reprise his role in the prequel spinoff Better Call Saul.
You may also know him from playing a detective on
(27:14):
the other end of the spectrum on the show The
Closer as well. Vanessa Brian is nipping yet another baseless
rumor in The Bud, denying that she's pregnant by downing
a few drinks at the US Open, which is my
favorite way to tell people I'm not pregnant. Kobe's widow
made the statement on Instagram, showing a photo of her
sipping the tournament's signature Honeyduce cocktail while enjoying the action
(27:36):
with their daughter's capri and bianca.
Speaker 6 (27:37):
She simply wrote, enjoying my Honeyduce.
Speaker 7 (27:39):
Keep me posted on how this imaginary pregnancy rumor is
coming along.
Speaker 6 (27:43):
Twenty four years later, same rumor.
Speaker 7 (27:45):
Unclear where the new rumor is coming from, but just
a few months ago, remember she had to address the
same thing that time. She used a Rihanna meme for
that denial, with the caption me protecting my peace, not
pregnant and having fun all summer.
Speaker 6 (27:59):
Of course, it's been five years.
Speaker 7 (28:01):
Since Vanessa's husband, NBA legend Kobe Bryant, tragically passed away,
and she hasn't.
Speaker 6 (28:06):
Really dated anyone publicly since.
Speaker 7 (28:09):
Kobe and Vanessa had four daughters together before Gianna tragically died,
of course, alongside her dad and seven others in that
helicopter crash. And she remembered Kobe's birthday last month just
saying we love and miss you and Gig so much.
Speaker 6 (28:22):
So she's not pregnant and just let her live her life.
Please stop doing that.
Speaker 7 (28:26):
In case you missed it, Ella Langley, Megan Maroney, and
Lanie Wilson taught the upcoming CMA nominations with six appease
Zac top scored five. Riley Green and Cody Johnson have
four each. Christian Bush, Carson Chamberlain, Luke Colms, Charlie Hansom.
Speaker 6 (28:42):
Which is quite a name.
Speaker 7 (28:43):
Chris Stapleton and Morgan Wallen each secured three nominations and
then vying for the night's biggest honor, CMA Entertainer of
the Year. Luke Colms, Cody Johnson, Chris Stapleton and Morgan Wallen.
The show will air live from Nashville Wednesday, November nineteenth,
at seven or eight, depending on where you are and
if you missed this earlier when Fred brought it up,
Apparently the woman caught on the Coldplake kiss cam with
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another man was already separated from her husband. And I
don't know how I if I believe this or not,
but Andrew Cabot, CEO of a different company, I mean,
she really needs to save some CEOs for the.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
Rest of us.
Speaker 6 (29:18):
But she he addressed the recent.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Controversy Layer CEO too. That's a good one.
Speaker 8 (29:22):
We like it.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
We like a laquor ceo.
Speaker 6 (29:24):
Wait, where are you meeting all the ceo? Like, I
know you worked with the other one, but where are
you meeting I need to meet.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
A CEO and lady CEO's out there. I got a
bunch of money, Like, how you doing money? It was
fred nice to meet you. I don't like ultimatums, but
I like everything else. And then you look at her.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
That's what I knew.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Yeah, let me tell you what.
Speaker 6 (29:40):
I get that feeling for once.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
I really know, I really know.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
That's new.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
All the big bosses, the big bosses. I'm floating around
on the homeway.
Speaker 6 (29:53):
So many bosses, so many titles. I'm confused.
Speaker 1 (29:55):
I know it's there, all fake, but yeah, we have
seen president. No come up. I bet you even she
would tell you, like, what is your title now?
Speaker 2 (30:04):
Element?
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Jesus Lord and Mary Joseph? Like what do they make
these things up? Senior vice president, regional regional senior. How
does everybody advice president? It's a president and then we
get an assistant in the vice How are there forty
seven vice presidents in one builder of each?
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Like do I feel like?
Speaker 6 (30:24):
How do I meet these people? Do I kissing?
Speaker 9 (30:26):
Like I don't know.
Speaker 6 (30:26):
I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 7 (30:27):
Anyways, this other CEO said he and Kristen were already
separated before this happened. He said it happened a couple
of weeks before she was spotted, you know, with his
hands around Andy's hands around her waist at the Coldplay concerts.
So he said that their decision to divorce was already
in motion prior to that. By the way, if you
missed any part of our show, you want to catch up,
type the French show on demand and if you could,
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it really help set us as a preset on the
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Speaker 13 (30:52):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Shelley in the show Biz Showdown, Good Morning. How many
of your life decisions you based on Taylor Swift?
Speaker 9 (31:08):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Not many?
Speaker 6 (31:11):
I like her, but I'm not you know, no, not
too many. But I'm very happy for he.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Would you say is increased?
Speaker 9 (31:19):
You know?
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Not that I mean one about the.
Speaker 8 (31:23):
No.
Speaker 4 (31:23):
I think like this is a it's an example of
when you need to hide your crazy, right, because I
feel like, like, especially with all the engagements everything.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I was like, oh, that's so sweet, and then I
think like, you can't.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
Help and say like, oh, like at some point I'd
like to be that happy right like so, but I
would never be like, well, because kicking and Taylor Swift
got engaged, I need to be engaged to you, and
you have six months days.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
I'm not a licensed therapist currently, but you can't base
your happiness and other people. Yeah, you have to find
your happiness from Really. That is something that I am
working on. Is that trigger you triggered you? It's true though,
trust Shirt, it's coming. It's work, It's a work in progress.
I find happiness in a lot of ways that are
(32:08):
completely erratic, like, for example, the ratings. My mood is
so much better when we're number one. Let me tell
you something, and then Nielsen comes along and it makes
me feel terrible. Hey Jonathan, how you doing. Good morning guys,
how are you Jonathan? Good morning? Fun fact about you is.
Speaker 12 (32:27):
I work for the United States Postal Service, which just
turned two and fifty years old.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
Yeah, Okaya gets your own segment, bro. Nine hundred and
fifty bucks is the prize one fifty one win for Shelley,
wins for Shelley only, seventy emotionable only, seventy losses, and
twelve straight five pop culture questions. Let go guys, Okay,
good luck? All right too. She goes to the sound
boof poof all right, are you an actual postal? Are
(32:54):
you a mailman male person?
Speaker 12 (32:56):
No, I'm actually a mechanic. I fix the mailman's cars
a lot of It's.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
A very elaborate. They got a lot going on over there.
And Jason likes the mechanic. He likes the mechanic. Are
you engaged to be married to anyone? Are you married
to someone.
Speaker 8 (33:10):
Married? All right?
Speaker 1 (33:12):
Sorry, Jason, take into a Cold Play concert. Well. Question
number one. Adam Sandler is fifty nine today? Which highly
anticipated movie sequel did he release on Netflix in July?
Speaker 12 (33:25):
Happy to go more too? I just saw him stand
up yesterday on Saturday.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
Sorry, Oh wow. Road Beauty is officially available at Sephora.
Who founded the Brandy two no idea, Kyle Richards and
Mauricio Umanski reunited to celebrate their daughter's wedding, which reality
show first brought them to fame.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
Three two?
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Well, no, I mean we got the last two. It's
all good. Brittany Snow and Maylon Ackerman were both hush
hush about season two of the horny show The Hunting
Wives on the MTV VMA's Red Carpet on which streaming
service would you find that show? Just to say, the
most obvious one, the most obvious. Oh, that wasn't the
most obvious one. And Jennifer Lopez was spotted with her
(34:17):
former step son Samuel over the weekend, proving they're still close.
Who is Jlo's ex named? Ben Affleck and Samuel's father say, benefl,
how did you get that? That's crazy? That's a two.
You got a two? So here you got a two show?
(34:39):
And yeah, but all your questions are about mechanical stuff,
so yeah, well he's a mechanic. I'm just kidding. I
was skiing switch it up on you. You know, he
had to answer entertainment questions.
Speaker 8 (34:49):
You have to.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
You have to answer questions about hemmy's and stuff. Adam
Sandler is fifty nine. See Jason's getting He's tingling over there.
Adam Sandler's fifty nine today? Which highly anticipated movie sequel
did he release on Netflix in July? Happy gil Mar
Yes Road Beauty is officially available at Sephora. Who founded
the brand, Hailey Bieber, Kyle Richards, and Mauricio Yumanski right,
(35:13):
reunited to celebrate their daughter's wedding. Which reality show first
brought them to fame, The Real Housewives, Sure, Beverly Hills, Yeah,
we'll take it. Brittany Snow and Maelon Ackerman were both
hash hushed about season two of The Hunting Wives on
the MTV VMA's Red Carpet. On which streaming service would
you find that show?
Speaker 9 (35:34):
Three?
Speaker 10 (35:36):
Two?
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Peacock?
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Yeah, no, no Netflix? And Jennifer Lopez was spotted with
her former step son Samuel over the weekend, proving they're
still close. Who is Jelo's ex and Samuel's father? Then Nefflick,
Yeah that is a four and you win. So Jonathan,
my man, you're gonna say my name is Jonathan. I
got showed up on the Showdown. You know the rest.
Speaker 12 (35:58):
Hey, my name is Jonathan, and I was so up
on the Showdown by Shelly and you.
Speaker 1 (36:02):
Jonathan the male postal mechanic man can't hang with real, can't.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Can't, can't, can't shout out to the postal workers. Can't
can't stop raising the price of a stamp.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah, you're right, Else, Jonathan, we got to talk about
the business model of the old postal Postal service.
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Fix the car.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
That's another day for another day. We love you and
your fellow postal workers. Hey, I have a great day,
and thanks for listening, Jonathan hang On.
Speaker 12 (36:36):
Thank you guys so much.
Speaker 9 (36:37):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Thank you for that one. It made me dizzy. Jason,
love you.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
Worker and a mechanic.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Do you think he has to wear those like pe
teacher looking shorts that they wear as if they're a
postal worker to work on the car? I hope. So
you know the ones I'm talking about, the ones that
are made of like burlap, the polyswers not it's not giving.
It's not giving. They don't it's not good. Maybe a
nice dry fit or something, you know, they don't come
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on like.
Speaker 6 (37:08):
My Marilyn Monroe Tupac shirt.
Speaker 1 (37:10):
Yes, Session, Yeah, I'll order them some from Malaysia. It'll
take six months, but they'll show up. Session. Have a
good day, Shelley tomorrow. It's a thousand bucks nice.
Speaker 6 (37:20):
Okay, that's good bye.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
I was dizzy for like a minute after that one
because I really gave my all on that one.
Speaker 9 (37:28):
Me too.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Yeah, waiting by the phone is more fresh.
Speaker 8 (37:34):
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