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Speaker 3 (02:13):
All right?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
What say you?
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Let's get in the courtroom. The gabble has been hits.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
It says, hey, Kiki, I need your honest opinion because
my family thinks I've lost my mind. I canceled my wedding,
three years ago, my fiance cheated on me while we
were on we were dating, we did the whole therapy forgiveness,
rebuilding trust thing. Eventually he proposed and I really thought
we were in a solid spot. Fast forward to last week.
(02:41):
We were at the bar with his coworkers and one
of them casually mentions, oh, yeah, Carrie, the woman he
cheated with joined our team a few months ago.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I froze.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
He never told me that she worked there, and for
six months at that I felt humiliated, blindsided. So I
left him at the bar, went home and called off
our wedding. Now my mom and sister are saying that
I overreacted because he didn't actually cheat again and you
can't control where people work. But to me, the lion
(03:15):
by omission feels just as bad. And if he was
a trustworthy man, why would he hide it? So am
I wrong for calling off our wedding over something that
technically happened years ago? But it feels brand new all
over again. What do you think, judge Kiki girl almost
called off my wedding over socks this morning? So you know, sister,
(03:35):
I feel you, and you know how I feel about
withholding information in a relationship. You know, you can hide
it from the world, but you should tell your partner.
I feel like I should have known, or she should
have known, that that woman is now working at his job.
I do think he made a big mistake by not
telling her. Well, technically I think you did, because you
(03:59):
know if car is now your coworker, you know the
history that you and Carrie have. You don't think to
bring that up over dinner one night.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Why would you do that to yourself? Though?
Speaker 4 (04:07):
But then if you don't and your and your friend
tells me about it, now we're in a worse spot.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
So I don't think.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I think you're a little dramatic by calling off your
wed and I will be honest, I think this is
something that you guys can work through. But I don't
feel that he was completely innocent by not bringing this up.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
You guys are the jury eight five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five call in textas ay number No.
I don't know why you'd walk into that again, I
mean because it just it just sort of opens the wound. Okay,
you know if you're so so he cheated, he got
caught or acknowledged it, or whatever happened. They went through
the process. He's been forgiven. She she's good with him,
(04:42):
they're they're engaged, they're getting married. Everything is fine. So
why would he sit down and go, oh, by the way,
remember that threat from the past, Remember that that that
woman with whom I made poor decisions. Yeah, she's in
my life again now every single day, and so nothing
to worry about here, nothing to see. I just want
you to know that I don't know. I mean, I
can see both sides. I can see why you would
(05:03):
say something. I can very much see why you would not,
But can come.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Next we moved past it going to the holiday party,
you know, and then it's like, oh, what is she
doing here?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Or what is he doing here?
Speaker 4 (05:14):
You wouldn't want your partner to have given you a
heads up that this person is not working with them
every day.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
I just think you're asking for problems. I think you're
asking for it all to be dug up again. But
it's already been forgiven and we've moved past it. I mean,
if he wanted to cheat with this woman, he would
do it whether she worked there or not.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
I agree. How do I know you didn't get her
to get her the job? Well, to see there you go.
This is what I'm talking about here, we go down
this rabbit hole. This is the rabbit hole where you're
just saying things now, yes, and you have no evidence
of that, no proof of that. He may have had
nothing to do with it whatsoever, And it doesn't matter
because we've already forgiven him for the indiscretion and we're
trusting him moving forward. This is the only way this works,
(05:52):
except we're not if we're saying things like that. Okay,
but I just don't believe you should withhold information because
you're worried about my reaction me and let me process it.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
But maybe it wouldn't ask if it happened, he just
didn't tell her.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Yeah, you didn't tell me. Somebody else telling me.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
But withholding would mean that that you that you asked
and he said no, or.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
That you know no because he does.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Don't want to go there again, because this is what happens,
and we started asking a bunch of a bunch of
crazy things are coming in your brain, like oh, well night,
now you're you're you're in close proximity, so you're gonna
slip and fall in a meeting and stick it in
her or something like no, you're not like you know,
you're not You're not going to You're not going to
do that. Hey Marcy, Hello, Hi Marcy Kigy's Court.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
You're the jury. What say you?
Speaker 6 (06:41):
Well, what I say is that on one end, I
do believe she's being a little over dramatic. However, he's
also not completely off the hook with this one. I
feel like transparency is to you rebuilding that trust and
the work was done for them to forgive and rebuild
the trust. Then, yes, being transparent, he is part of
the work that everybody put in.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
So why not bring it up? Why not say anything?
Speaker 8 (07:02):
Right?
Speaker 7 (07:03):
Unless somebody has something to hide, that's the only reason
they would keep that valuable information. I feel like, which
give the other person peace of mind.
Speaker 9 (07:09):
But yes, she is a but traumatic.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
I feel like this is something that could take a conversation, clarity,
maybe another couple of therapy sessions, and you know, work
through it.
Speaker 8 (07:17):
If the love is there, then just work through the issue.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Yeah, okay, all right, thank you, Marcy.
Speaker 10 (07:24):
You're welcome.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Have a good day.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Now, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here in different perspectives here, Hi, Lucy,
how you're going guys?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Go morning, Lucy, Good morning, Kiki's Court. So basically.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Peeboard together, male female there together, and dude cheated with
a woman. Now woman works, and they've moved on. The
couple's moved on the forgiveness and the whole thing, and
they're engaged, are getting married, and now the woman that
dude cheated with now works with dude, and and he
didn't come home and just tell her that, and now
she's canceling the wedding and the whole thing. He didn't
(07:58):
necessarily go back there. Don't think he went back there.
We don't know that. She's just mad because his ladies
at work every day and he didn't tell her.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
What do you think?
Speaker 11 (08:07):
I think what she key said, I mean, he could
have avoided any type of even minor and insecurity that
the girlfriend's going to have, the fiance is going to
have by saying, hey, babe, really quick, super weird. She
works here, and I know what one happened, just so
you know, and you leave it there and then.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
Obviously she might be on guard. But I mean, that's
what a relationship is.
Speaker 9 (08:28):
It's awkward.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
You know, you got to get through it.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, I guess, I guess you could.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
But that means that you trust that you're not going
to continue to be penalized for the past, or that
you're not digging up all this stuff again.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
Trust like, hey, I trust that you're working with her.
Speaker 9 (08:42):
Thanks for letting me know.
Speaker 7 (08:43):
Listen, I was previously.
Speaker 11 (08:44):
Married and a lot was withheld, and if it would
have just been told to me, I'd still be married.
So let me just tell you that.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
See, he screwed up, right, he screwed up by cheating,
But he I'm guessing he doesn't trust that bringing that
information up is going to result in her going Okay, Now,
I remember that we've moved past this, so I'm not
saying it's her fault at all. But I think the
reason he's not telling her is because he's afraid of
her reaction.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
And I don't know that he should be afraid.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
Of her, and that's valid, but that's valid. We all
have fears, like if he loves her so much and
he's like, okay, chardy forgave me once, what if his
pushes are over the edge? I get all that, but
at the end of the day, like I guess, we
all don't have a handbook on what's right and what's wrong.
But I just honesty I mean if he learns now
like honesty will always.
Speaker 11 (09:31):
Win, even if it's super awkward, you know you'll feel
better at the end of the day.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Thank you, Lucy, have a good day.
Speaker 8 (09:37):
Thanks guys, adore you, buy I have a good more
than thank you, I adore you.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
That's nice thing to say. Fred.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I don't disagree with you often, but Kiki is right
withholding is not telling your partner. Your partner shouldn't have
to ask, But if your partner does as you don't disclose,
that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
I guess what I mean is.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
If she asked me and I lied, But like, what
are you asking about this woman constantly? Because again, we
supposedly moved on here. That's the biggest part of this.
I'm not saying forgiveness is easy, but she forgave him.
There should be zero penalty for whatever happens moving forward.
If she forgave him and he's holding up his end
of the bargain and there's trust. For whatever reason, he
(10:19):
thought he would be penalized for bringing this up again.
And I'm not saying that that's that she did anything wrong,
but I just think like he doesn't want he doesn't
want that smoke anymore.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
I understand what you don't want, but you brought the
smoke in the house, and so I need to know
that there's a new fire, and I need to know,
but there isn't a new fire. Oh it's a fire.
The house is on fire.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Because hey, Christina, Hi, good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
It was Kicky's court. You're the jury. What say you?
Speaker 10 (10:48):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (10:49):
So I just called old Joss a couple of months
ago call off my wedding because I found out was
cheating on me.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I'm sure that happens.
Speaker 9 (11:04):
I mean, that's a life, and I'm kinda the worst,
but for her, like I try to make it work too.
And then you just find out new information and though
it's old information to them, it's new information to you.
And when you try to have moved past like the cheating,
(11:24):
the cheating is always there, but the transparency is what
helps gets you through it. And if he's nothing transparent,
especially about this person he cheated, was now working with him,
like he's completely in the wrong. That is, she has
every right to be upset about that, because omission of
information is lying.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
But we're implying here, we're projecting onto him that this
is automatically a problem that any overlap between these two
is going to be an issue. And this is a
guy who I don't know why we're not giving him
the benefit of the doubt. And again, the only reason
I would say this is because he screwed up for
how he Connery came clean and she chose to forgive him.
(12:09):
What I cannot stand is situations where I forgive you,
but I'm going to it's going to be an issue
for the rest of our lives.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Well, then you didn't, Then you didn't.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Because this guy's got to have a chance to redeem
himself and you don't know him that, by the way,
But if you give him that, then he can't be
And I'm assuming he was afraid to tell.
Speaker 9 (12:26):
Her, as he should be, but he lost the benefit
of the doubt once he cheated a couple of years ago.
So whatever you don't tell her, she has all the
right to be obsessed.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I would agree that he doesn't need to fear her
reaction if in fact, he's living up to his end
of the bargain.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
So I don't know. I guess I understand exactly what
you're saying.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Because we have to, because we because we forgave and
we're trusting now, or we're not and you again, I'm
gonna say one more time, you don't know anyone that
you don't have to do that, but then break up
because it'll never work if we're constantly living in a
world where this person's a threat.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yeah, that's all I'm saying about.
Speaker 9 (13:11):
So she found she found out, So that is that
is a big deal. If she would have told her
up front, I feel like the transparency would have been
more okay, work through this. But now she found out,
So now it's kind of like for me, I would
be like, you lost you lost any chance of forgiveness,
or we're trying to make it work because you weren't.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Being transparent with Yeah, here's what I would have done, Christina.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
I would have said, I would have come clean if
this woman comes in my proximity ever again, whether I
see her at the mall or at the car wash
or at Starbucks, or if I see her if she
now works at my business, if if my hands are clean,
I would have been transparent. But if I were to
pay any penalty for that, now we.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Have now gets to decide that I do.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
They'll because because when you forgive someone and you move
on that we can't every time this person's name comes up,
where every time you feel vulnerable, make me pay again.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
But because we're moving forward.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
How I'm going to react if you don't give me
the opportunity. So give me the chance to see how
I'm going to.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
React with what I'm saying is if I if you
do react poorly beyond a certain point, now I have issue.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Now I have issue to say. Now, wait a minute.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
I thought if I thought we were moving forward, I
thought we acknowledged that I screwed up, that I acknowledge
that we went through the process.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
So I don't know I would cover my ass.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
But I also think I would have every right if
you freak out on me, to be like, now, hold on, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
And I thought we were good.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
She may not freak out on you, though, if.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Right, and he doesn't know that because you didn't tell her,
So I would have said something.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
Yeah, yeah, you let someone else come.
Speaker 9 (14:50):
Into So he wasn't wrong for not being transferred in
the first place.
Speaker 10 (14:53):
That's well, he was wrong.
Speaker 2 (14:55):
I'm telling you what I would have done. Whether I
what I don't think he's wrong or not, it's up to you.
But and you think it's wrong, so that's fair. Thank you, Christina.
I'm sorry for what happened to you, But onward and upward.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
Yep, it's more fish in a sea girl.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
You will be okay, Christina, have a good day.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Okay, she'll be ready. No, she's not ready to hear it.
No she's not. But that's okay. She's gonna be fined.
Speaker 11 (15:17):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Noel, how you doing good?
Speaker 3 (15:21):
How are you?
Speaker 9 (15:21):
I love you guys so much getting married than you?
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Are you excited that you're getting married after hearing all
these kiggies court stories about people doing this and that.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
Oh yeah, because it's strict in his courting room.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Well let me let me just recap here quickly. And
this is kind of a hard one to recap. But
we have a couple. The dude cheated three years ago
with a woman. They moved past it, went through the process,
she forgave him therapy, all these different things, and they've
moved forward.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
They're engaged and there they had a wedding planned.
Speaker 8 (15:52):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
This woman finds out that the woman with whom her
fiance cheated now works where he does, and he didn't
tell her, and so she cancels the wedding. I'm saying
that's not I don't think that's fair to him if
in fact we truly forgave and move forward. Noel, what
say you?
Speaker 8 (16:12):
Okay? So I'm getting married in two months and I
found out that the woman who my fiance teated on
me with is now working with him every single day
and he did not tell me. I would call the
wedding off because obviously I did forgive you in the past,
but you're still proving to me that I cannot trust you.
Because if you have nothing to hide and we're going
(16:34):
to be transparent and we're working on trust, you should
have told me in the beginning that she's worked with you. Now,
if he works late at the office or they go
out for a company happy hours, it's going to cripple you,
Like it's going to literally cripple your mental state, and
you're never going to trust him again. And I love you,
(16:56):
Fred with my whole entire heart. But no, my reaction
is valid because you chose to not tell me, and
you made this whole fire yourself, like you chose this life.
Speaker 10 (17:09):
And that's my reaction.
Speaker 8 (17:10):
It's because I can't trust you anymore.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
I don't think this woman coming in my proximity three
years later, or whatever makes me untrustworthy for not wanting
to open that wound again again, What would I do?
I would cover my butt and watch your reaction, and
if you flip off, if you fly off the handle,
then I know where I stand.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
You haven't forgiven me, and we have a different problem.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Now.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
You didn't.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
She didn't just come in your proximity. You didn't just
see her at the stop line, Broy.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
I did every day.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
I'm just I'm going to give him the benefit of
the deb I'm going to give hi the bett.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
I'm going because I don't think. I don't think he
got her the job.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
I don't think he's out seeking her and communicated with
her to being closer. If he is, then he's in
the wrong, and then he he should have been forgiven
if he knew all that. The dump is as But
I don't know. I don't know how we live in
this world. Whereas I forgave you, but I kind of did.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
But here's the term. It's forever.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
No one's asking you to forget, but we can't just
every time you feel like it, Pauline, Well, I.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Will, but.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I'm not to run to freak out. But I just
don't want to be the clown in the background that.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I didn't know.
Speaker 12 (18:18):
That's all this really is, Like, yeah, it might hurt
when you tell me, I might throw a fit. I
might you know, punch a wall, I might do all
these things that I might just do. The point is,
if I forgave you, I'm with you, Like, let me
work through my emotions. But be honest, just be straight up, like,
this is happening at the office. This person is here.
I don't talk to her whatever, I'm just letting you
know she she is in the office withholding.
Speaker 5 (18:36):
Sometimes I feel feels like people are trying to control
the other person's reaction. Yes, fortunately, like you have to
do the right thing, but be prepared that they might
not react well.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
But that's not on you and you can't control that period.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Thank you. Noell, have a good day. I love. People
are blowing me up. Oh I'm so wrong. I'm strong.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
I told you exactly what I would do, and it's
the thing that you want me to do. But what
I'm hung up on is that everyone is in here calling,
going see he can't be trusted.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
What do you mean he didn't do anything but what
you're doing.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
But you're doing the thing I'm talking about is we've
jumped to all these conclusions.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
We don't have any information.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
We automatically assume that this guy went and called her
up and he was like physically humping her and was like.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
I'm gonna get you.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
I gotta be next to you every day so I
can physically hump you some more.
Speaker 5 (19:27):
I'm you see, it's CRA's physically humping her.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Guys, this is what I mean.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
You guys are saying you guys are telling me I'm wrong,
But you're saying that you're you're jumping to all the
conclusions that concerned me, and you.
Speaker 4 (19:39):
Told me the conclusions would not be there because I
would have you on FaceTime at work all days.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
And then Calen's point is true, is I think he's
probably not telling her because of this?
Speaker 4 (19:51):
Yes, I understand, but no, but that's up to me.
I get to choose how I react. You know, I
don't care what's fair to you.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
All me.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
You're saying all the things that I'm saying would prevent
would prevent a lot of people from going back there.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
That's it, Hey, Jill, how do you do it? Hi? Jill?
I'm gonna give you the final sake because they got
to move on. What do you think?
Speaker 10 (20:17):
All right? So I mean, I'm all about this forgive
and forget because I've done it. My ex husband left
me twice for the same woman. He's now happily married
to her, and I'm happily with someone else. So it
worked out.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
For the best good.
Speaker 10 (20:31):
And I will say I forgave and I forget. And
he didn't tell me when she came back into his life,
and I said, you know what, I forgave you. It's okay,
it didn't work out. Bred he should have been honest
with her if she's back in his life in any capacity.
Now these terms have changed. She forgave and forgot, but
she was gone. The other part of the puzzle was removed.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
Here's my other question comes back.
Speaker 10 (20:54):
Into the puzzle. You have to communicate and you have
to work through it.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I hear all that, and again, that's probably what I
would do in this situation. What I would do and
what and me try me understanding maybe where he's coming
from her two different things. But okay, so I come
home and I tell you, hey, this woman who is
I caused you amends? I did it she didn't. I
mean she was part of it. But I was married
to you. I'm the or I'm with you, I made
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the commitment to you. I cause you great pain by
being with this woman is now is now in my
presence every day at my work?
Speaker 1 (21:28):
What am I putting you?
Speaker 2 (21:29):
And again, I'm assuming that you're going to dislike that
most people would. But now you get to relive all
of that and for what Because I'm just assuming this
guy's not going back there.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Now. If he is, we have a whole different problem.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
But if we forgave him and we trust him, then
we're assuming that until we find out otherwise that he
is not. But now every day when I go to work,
you get to relive this until you don't. And I'm
saying that's not fair to her either.
Speaker 10 (21:55):
No it isn't. But isn't it worse? Isn't it so
much worse that she does go to the hull party,
like someone said, goes to the holiday party and this
person's been working there for almost a year. You at what,
at some point found out this person had been sleeping
with your partner?
Speaker 1 (22:11):
What is it worse when you find out he didn't
he wasn't doing anything or better, you're back too.
Speaker 10 (22:16):
He cheated on you behind your back.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
But we're assuming he's not doing anything now just because
she's there.
Speaker 10 (22:22):
Yeah, I don't know, sure, just because she's there, but
that it's the sense of betrayal that he's now reignited
by withholding the importation.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
I hear, I hear all of this. I think he's Dan.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
If he doesn't Dan, if he doesn't in this, honestly,
i'd probably you know what I'd do, I'd get another job.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
I quit my damn jo.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I quit my damn job.
Speaker 10 (22:41):
Sound terrible.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
I'm moving.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
I work at Wendy's Now important forget Taco Bell. I've
moved on. Jill, Jill, Jill, Jill. I don't work there anymore.
We're fine.
Speaker 10 (22:52):
I quit more important than Taco Bell.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Have a good day to thank you for calling.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
I love Jill. Now I'm doing at the holiday party.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
We got shrimp cocktails. Come on going to a holiday
party because I don't work there?
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Yeah, you don't tell me? And they now get a
job there. Now three of us.
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Speaker 1 (02:06):
It's Kik's Court. All right, Cheskik?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
All right?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
What say you?
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Let's get in the courtroom. The gabble has been hits.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
It says, hey, Kiki, I need your honest opinion because
my family thinks I've lost my mind. I canceled my wedding,
three years ago, my fiance cheated on me while we
were on we were dating, we did the whole therapy forgiveness,
rebuilding trust thing. Eventually he proposed and I really thought
we were in a solid spot. Fast forward to last week.
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We were at the bar with his coworkers and one
of them casually mentions, oh, yeah, Carrie, the woman he
cheated with joined our team a few months ago.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I froze.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
He never told me that she worked there, and for
six months at that I felt humiliated, blindsided. So I
left him at the bar, went home and called off
our wedding. Now my mom and sister are saying that
I overreacted because he didn't actually cheat again and you
can't control where people work. But to me, the lion
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by omission feels just as bad. And if he was
a trustworthy man, why would he hide it? So am
I wrong for calling off our wedding over something that
technically happened years ago? But it feels brand new all
over again. What do you think, judge Kiki girl almost
called off my wedding over socks this morning? So you know, sister,
(03:35):
I feel you, and you know how I feel about
withholding information in a relationship. You know, you can hide
it from the world, but you should tell your partner.
I feel like I should have known, or she should
have known, that that woman is now working at his job.
I do think he made a big mistake by not
telling her. Well, technically I think you did, because you
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know if car is now your coworker, you know the
history that you and Carrie have. You don't think to
bring that up over dinner one night.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Why would you do that to yourself? Though?
Speaker 4 (04:07):
But then if you don't and your and your friend
tells me about it, now we're in a worse spot.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
So I don't think.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I think you're a little dramatic by calling off your
wed and I will be honest, I think this is
something that you guys can work through. But I don't
feel that he was completely innocent by not bringing this up.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
You guys are the jury eight five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five call in textas ay number No.
I don't know why you'd walk into that again, I
mean because it just it just sort of opens the wound. Okay,
you know if you're so so he cheated, he got
caught or acknowledged it, or whatever happened. They went through
the process. He's been forgiven. She she's good with him,
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they're they're engaged, they're getting married. Everything is fine. So
why would he sit down and go, oh, by the way,
remember that threat from the past, Remember that that that
woman with whom I made poor decisions. Yeah, she's in
my life again now every single day, and so nothing
to worry about here, nothing to see. I just want
you to know that I don't know. I mean, I
can see both sides. I can see why you would
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say something. I can very much see why you would not,
But can come.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Next we moved past it going to the holiday party,
you know, and then it's like, oh, what is she
doing here?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Or what is he doing here?
Speaker 4 (05:14):
You wouldn't want your partner to have given you a
heads up that this person is not working with them
every day.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
I just think you're asking for problems. I think you're
asking for it all to be dug up again. But
it's already been forgiven and we've moved past it. I mean,
if he wanted to cheat with this woman, he would
do it whether she worked there or not.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
I agree. How do I know you didn't get her
to get her the job? Well, to see there you go.
This is what I'm talking about here, we go down
this rabbit hole. This is the rabbit hole where you're
just saying things now, yes, and you have no evidence
of that, no proof of that. He may have had
nothing to do with it whatsoever, And it doesn't matter
because we've already forgiven him for the indiscretion and we're
trusting him moving forward. This is the only way this works,
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except we're not if we're saying things like that. Okay,
but I just don't believe you should withhold information because
you're worried about my reaction me and let me process it.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
But maybe it wouldn't ask if it happened, he just
didn't tell her.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Yeah, you didn't tell me. Somebody else telling me.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
But withholding would mean that that you that you asked
and he said no, or.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
That you know no because he does.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Don't want to go there again, because this is what happens,
and we started asking a bunch of a bunch of
crazy things are coming in your brain, like oh, well night,
now you're you're you're in close proximity, so you're gonna
slip and fall in a meeting and stick it in
her or something like no, you're not like you know,
you're not You're not going to You're not going to
do that. Hey Marcy, Hello, Hi Marcy Kigy's Court.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
You're the jury. What say you?
Speaker 6 (06:41):
Well, what I say is that on one end, I
do believe she's being a little over dramatic. However, he's
also not completely off the hook with this one. I
feel like transparency is to you rebuilding that trust and
the work was done for them to forgive and rebuild
the trust. Then, yes, being transparent, he is part of
the work that everybody put in.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
So why not bring it up? Why not say anything?
Speaker 8 (07:02):
Right?
Speaker 7 (07:03):
Unless somebody has something to hide, that's the only reason
they would keep that valuable information. I feel like, which
give the other person peace of mind.
Speaker 9 (07:09):
But yes, she is a but traumatic.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
I feel like this is something that could take a conversation, clarity,
maybe another couple of therapy sessions, and you know, work
through it.
Speaker 8 (07:17):
If the love is there, then just work through the issue.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Yeah, okay, all right, thank you, Marcy.
Speaker 10 (07:24):
You're welcome.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Have a good day.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Now, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here in different perspectives here, Hi, Lucy,
how you're going guys?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Go morning, Lucy, Good morning, Kiki's Court. So basically.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Peeboard together, male female there together, and dude cheated with
a woman. Now woman works, and they've moved on. The
couple's moved on the forgiveness and the whole thing, and
they're engaged, are getting married, and now the woman that
dude cheated with now works with dude, and and he
didn't come home and just tell her that, and now
she's canceling the wedding and the whole thing. He didn't
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necessarily go back there. Don't think he went back there.
We don't know that. She's just mad because his ladies
at work every day and he didn't tell her.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
What do you think?
Speaker 11 (08:07):
I think what she key said, I mean, he could
have avoided any type of even minor and insecurity that
the girlfriend's going to have, the fiance is going to
have by saying, hey, babe, really quick, super weird. She
works here, and I know what one happened, just so
you know, and you leave it there and then.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
Obviously she might be on guard. But I mean, that's
what a relationship is.
Speaker 9 (08:28):
It's awkward.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
You know, you got to get through it.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, I guess, I guess you could.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
But that means that you trust that you're not going
to continue to be penalized for the past, or that
you're not digging up all this stuff again.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
Trust like, hey, I trust that you're working with her.
Speaker 9 (08:42):
Thanks for letting me know.
Speaker 7 (08:43):
Listen, I was previously.
Speaker 11 (08:44):
Married and a lot was withheld, and if it would
have just been told to me, I'd still be married.
So let me just tell you that.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
See, he screwed up, right, he screwed up by cheating,
But he I'm guessing he doesn't trust that bringing that
information up is going to result in her going Okay, Now,
I remember that we've moved past this, so I'm not
saying it's her fault at all. But I think the
reason he's not telling her is because he's afraid of
her reaction.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
And I don't know that he should be afraid.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
Of her, and that's valid, but that's valid. We all
have fears, like if he loves her so much and
he's like, okay, chardy forgave me once, what if his
pushes are over the edge? I get all that, but
at the end of the day, like I guess, we
all don't have a handbook on what's right and what's wrong.
But I just honesty I mean if he learns now
like honesty will always.
Speaker 11 (09:31):
Win, even if it's super awkward, you know you'll feel
better at the end of the day.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Thank you, Lucy, have a good day.
Speaker 8 (09:37):
Thanks guys, adore you, buy I have a good more
than thank you, I adore you.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
That's nice thing to say. Fred.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I don't disagree with you often, but Kiki is right
withholding is not telling your partner. Your partner shouldn't have
to ask, But if your partner does as you don't disclose,
that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
I guess what I mean is.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
If she asked me and I lied, But like, what
are you asking about this woman constantly? Because again, we
supposedly moved on here. That's the biggest part of this.
I'm not saying forgiveness is easy, but she forgave him.
There should be zero penalty for whatever happens moving forward.
If she forgave him and he's holding up his end
of the bargain and there's trust. For whatever reason, he
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thought he would be penalized for bringing this up again.
And I'm not saying that that's that she did anything wrong,
but I just think like he doesn't want he doesn't
want that smoke anymore.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
I understand what you don't want, but you brought the
smoke in the house, and so I need to know
that there's a new fire, and I need to know,
but there isn't a new fire. Oh it's a fire.
The house is on fire.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Because hey, Christina, Hi, good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
It was Kicky's court. You're the jury. What say you?
Speaker 10 (10:48):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (10:49):
So I just called old Joss a couple of months
ago call off my wedding because I found out was
cheating on me.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I'm sure that happens.
Speaker 9 (11:04):
I mean, that's a life, and I'm kinda the worst,
but for her, like I try to make it work too.
And then you just find out new information and though
it's old information to them, it's new information to you.
And when you try to have moved past like the cheating,
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the cheating is always there, but the transparency is what
helps gets you through it. And if he's nothing transparent,
especially about this person he cheated, was now working with him,
like he's completely in the wrong. That is, she has
every right to be upset about that, because omission of
information is lying.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
But we're implying here, we're projecting onto him that this
is automatically a problem that any overlap between these two
is going to be an issue. And this is a
guy who I don't know why we're not giving him
the benefit of the doubt. And again, the only reason
I would say this is because he screwed up for
how he Connery came clean and she chose to forgive him.
(12:09):
What I cannot stand is situations where I forgive you,
but I'm going to it's going to be an issue
for the rest of our lives.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Well, then you didn't, Then you didn't.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Because this guy's got to have a chance to redeem
himself and you don't know him that, by the way,
But if you give him that, then he can't be
And I'm assuming he was afraid to tell.
Speaker 9 (12:26):
Her, as he should be, but he lost the benefit
of the doubt once he cheated a couple of years ago.
So whatever you don't tell her, she has all the
right to be obsessed.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I would agree that he doesn't need to fear her
reaction if in fact, he's living up to his end
of the bargain.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
So I don't know. I guess I understand exactly what
you're saying.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Because we have to, because we because we forgave and
we're trusting now, or we're not and you again, I'm
gonna say one more time, you don't know anyone that
you don't have to do that, but then break up
because it'll never work if we're constantly living in a
world where this person's a threat.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yeah, that's all I'm saying about.
Speaker 9 (13:11):
So she found she found out, So that is that
is a big deal. If she would have told her
up front, I feel like the transparency would have been
more okay, work through this. But now she found out,
So now it's kind of like for me, I would
be like, you lost you lost any chance of forgiveness,
or we're trying to make it work because you weren't.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Being transparent with Yeah, here's what I would have done, Christina.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
I would have said, I would have come clean if
this woman comes in my proximity ever again, whether I
see her at the mall or at the car wash
or at Starbucks, or if I see her if she
now works at my business, if if my hands are clean,
I would have been transparent. But if I were to
pay any penalty for that, now we.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Have now gets to decide that I do.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
They'll because because when you forgive someone and you move
on that we can't every time this person's name comes up,
where every time you feel vulnerable, make me pay again.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
But because we're moving forward.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
How I'm going to react if you don't give me
the opportunity. So give me the chance to see how
I'm going to.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
React with what I'm saying is if I if you
do react poorly beyond a certain point, now I have issue.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Now I have issue to say. Now, wait a minute.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
I thought if I thought we were moving forward, I
thought we acknowledged that I screwed up, that I acknowledge
that we went through the process.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
So I don't know I would cover my ass.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
But I also think I would have every right if
you freak out on me, to be like, now, hold on, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
And I thought we were good.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
She may not freak out on you, though, if.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Right, and he doesn't know that because you didn't tell her,
So I would have said something.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
Yeah, yeah, you let someone else come.
Speaker 9 (14:50):
Into So he wasn't wrong for not being transferred in
the first place.
Speaker 10 (14:53):
That's well, he was wrong.
Speaker 2 (14:55):
I'm telling you what I would have done. Whether I
what I don't think he's wrong or not, it's up to you.
But and you think it's wrong, so that's fair. Thank you, Christina.
I'm sorry for what happened to you, But onward and upward.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
Yep, it's more fish in a sea girl.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
You will be okay, Christina, have a good day.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Okay, she'll be ready. No, she's not ready to hear it.
No she's not. But that's okay. She's gonna be fined.
Speaker 11 (15:17):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Noel, how you doing good?
Speaker 3 (15:21):
How are you?
Speaker 9 (15:21):
I love you guys so much getting married than you?
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Are you excited that you're getting married after hearing all
these kiggies court stories about people doing this and that.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
Oh yeah, because it's strict in his courting room.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Well let me let me just recap here quickly. And
this is kind of a hard one to recap. But
we have a couple. The dude cheated three years ago
with a woman. They moved past it, went through the process,
she forgave him therapy, all these different things, and they've
moved forward.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
They're engaged and there they had a wedding planned.
Speaker 8 (15:52):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
This woman finds out that the woman with whom her
fiance cheated now works where he does, and he didn't
tell her, and so she cancels the wedding. I'm saying
that's not I don't think that's fair to him if
in fact we truly forgave and move forward. Noel, what
say you?
Speaker 8 (16:12):
Okay? So I'm getting married in two months and I
found out that the woman who my fiance teated on
me with is now working with him every single day
and he did not tell me. I would call the
wedding off because obviously I did forgive you in the past,
but you're still proving to me that I cannot trust you.
Because if you have nothing to hide and we're going
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to be transparent and we're working on trust, you should
have told me in the beginning that she's worked with you. Now,
if he works late at the office or they go
out for a company happy hours, it's going to cripple you,
Like it's going to literally cripple your mental state, and
you're never going to trust him again. And I love you,
(16:56):
Fred with my whole entire heart. But no, my reaction
is valid because you chose to not tell me, and
you made this whole fire yourself, like you chose this life.
Speaker 10 (17:09):
And that's my reaction.
Speaker 8 (17:10):
It's because I can't trust you anymore.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
I don't think this woman coming in my proximity three
years later, or whatever makes me untrustworthy for not wanting
to open that wound again again, What would I do?
I would cover my butt and watch your reaction, and
if you flip off, if you fly off the handle,
then I know where I stand.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
You haven't forgiven me, and we have a different problem.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Now.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
You didn't.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
She didn't just come in your proximity. You didn't just
see her at the stop line, Broy.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
I did every day.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
I'm just I'm going to give him the benefit of
the deb I'm going to give hi the bett.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
I'm going because I don't think. I don't think he
got her the job.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
I don't think he's out seeking her and communicated with
her to being closer. If he is, then he's in
the wrong, and then he he should have been forgiven
if he knew all that. The dump is as But
I don't know. I don't know how we live in
this world. Whereas I forgave you, but I kind of did.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
But here's the term. It's forever.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
No one's asking you to forget, but we can't just
every time you feel like it, Pauline, Well, I.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Will, but.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I'm not to run to freak out. But I just
don't want to be the clown in the background that.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I didn't know.
Speaker 12 (18:18):
That's all this really is, Like, yeah, it might hurt
when you tell me, I might throw a fit. I
might you know, punch a wall, I might do all
these things that I might just do. The point is,
if I forgave you, I'm with you, Like, let me
work through my emotions. But be honest, just be straight up, like,
this is happening at the office. This person is here.
I don't talk to her whatever, I'm just letting you
know she she is in the office withholding.
Speaker 5 (18:36):
Sometimes I feel feels like people are trying to control
the other person's reaction. Yes, fortunately, like you have to
do the right thing, but be prepared that they might
not react well.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
But that's not on you and you can't control that period.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Thank you. Noell, have a good day. I love. People
are blowing me up. Oh I'm so wrong. I'm strong.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
I told you exactly what I would do, and it's
the thing that you want me to do. But what
I'm hung up on is that everyone is in here calling,
going see he can't be trusted.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
What do you mean he didn't do anything but what
you're doing.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
But you're doing the thing I'm talking about is we've
jumped to all these conclusions.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
We don't have any information.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
We automatically assume that this guy went and called her
up and he was like physically humping her and was like.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
I'm gonna get you.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
I gotta be next to you every day so I
can physically hump you some more.
Speaker 5 (19:27):
I'm you see, it's CRA's physically humping her.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Guys, this is what I mean.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
You guys are saying you guys are telling me I'm wrong,
But you're saying that you're you're jumping to all the
conclusions that concerned me, and you.
Speaker 4 (19:39):
Told me the conclusions would not be there because I
would have you on FaceTime at work all days.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
And then Calen's point is true, is I think he's
probably not telling her because of this?
Speaker 4 (19:51):
Yes, I understand, but no, but that's up to me.
I get to choose how I react. You know, I
don't care what's fair to you.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
All me.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
You're saying all the things that I'm saying would prevent
would prevent a lot of people from going back there.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
That's it, Hey, Jill, how do you do it? Hi? Jill?
I'm gonna give you the final sake because they got
to move on. What do you think?
Speaker 10 (20:17):
All right? So I mean, I'm all about this forgive
and forget because I've done it. My ex husband left
me twice for the same woman. He's now happily married
to her, and I'm happily with someone else. So it
worked out.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
For the best good.
Speaker 10 (20:31):
And I will say I forgave and I forget. And
he didn't tell me when she came back into his life,
and I said, you know what, I forgave you. It's okay,
it didn't work out. Bred he should have been honest
with her if she's back in his life in any capacity.
Now these terms have changed. She forgave and forgot, but
she was gone. The other part of the puzzle was removed.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
Here's my other question comes back.
Speaker 10 (20:54):
Into the puzzle. You have to communicate and you have
to work through it.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I hear all that, and again, that's probably what I
would do in this situation. What I would do and
what and me try me understanding maybe where he's coming
from her two different things. But okay, so I come
home and I tell you, hey, this woman who is
I caused you amends? I did it she didn't. I
mean she was part of it. But I was married
to you. I'm the or I'm with you, I made
(21:20):
the commitment to you. I cause you great pain by
being with this woman is now is now in my
presence every day at my work?
Speaker 1 (21:28):
What am I putting you?
Speaker 2 (21:29):
And again, I'm assuming that you're going to dislike that
most people would. But now you get to relive all
of that and for what Because I'm just assuming this
guy's not going back there.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Now. If he is, we have a whole different problem.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
But if we forgave him and we trust him, then
we're assuming that until we find out otherwise that he
is not. But now every day when I go to work,
you get to relive this until you don't. And I'm
saying that's not fair to her either.
Speaker 10 (21:55):
No it isn't. But isn't it worse? Isn't it so
much worse that she does go to the hull party,
like someone said, goes to the holiday party and this
person's been working there for almost a year. You at what,
at some point found out this person had been sleeping
with your partner?
Speaker 1 (22:11):
What is it worse when you find out he didn't
he wasn't doing anything or better, you're back too.
Speaker 10 (22:16):
He cheated on you behind your back.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
But we're assuming he's not doing anything now just because
she's there.
Speaker 10 (22:22):
Yeah, I don't know, sure, just because she's there, but
that it's the sense of betrayal that he's now reignited
by withholding the importation.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
I hear, I hear all of this. I think he's Dan.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
If he doesn't Dan, if he doesn't in this, honestly,
i'd probably you know what I'd do, I'd get another job.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
I quit my damn jo.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I quit my damn job.
Speaker 10 (22:41):
Sound terrible.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
I'm moving.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
I work at Wendy's Now important forget Taco Bell. I've
moved on. Jill, Jill, Jill, Jill. I don't work there anymore.
We're fine.
Speaker 10 (22:52):
I quit more important than Taco Bell.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Have a good day to thank you for calling.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
I love Jill. Now I'm doing at the holiday party.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
We got shrimp cocktails. Come on going to a holiday
party because I don't work there?
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Yeah, you don't tell me? And they now get a
job there. Now three of us.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Down here we go. Can's Entertainer Report and he's on
the Bread Show.
Speaker 5 (23:17):
Bad Bunny hosted Saturday Night Live Over the weekend with
one of the sketches featuring him, and he's playing a
dude with a major K pop demon hunter's obsession.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
It was hysterical.
Speaker 5 (23:29):
So we played this guy named Thomas meeting up with
his friends at a restaurant and they're catching up, but
he couldn't help but share his obsession with the Netflix
hit animated musical movie K Pop Demon Hunters, and they
kept telling him the movie was for kids. He started
getting pissed, but eventually the group needed saving when the
three singers who sing that hit song Golden from the
movie up here and they start to sing, making the
(23:52):
audience go absolutely crazy. As far as I know, this
was the first time they've ever performed live together.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
The movie made.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
History as the first soundtrack with four simultaneous top ten
songs on the Billboard Hot one hundred, racking up over
three billion global streams, with Golden being submitted for some
sort of awards consideration. So that song is really huge,
and I know everybody's obsessed with it and kind of
went crazy over the weekend when that aired. If you
miss any part of our show and you want to
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catch up, it's all up there. Just type The Fred
Show on demand and if you couldn't really help set
us as a preset on the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
The Fread Show is on Fred's Fun Fact.
Speaker 5 (24:29):
Fred Fun so Much, So much.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Guys, did you know that Ben and Jerry's made a
graveyard for all of their former flavors? So all the
flavors consist of discontinued ice cream flavors. Each flavor has
its photo as well as its lifespan. Each one even
has an epitaph for people to remember it by time
(25:00):
that they, I don't know, stop making a flavor of
some kind, then they put it in their graveyard. Yeah,
it's like a little you never had, like a little
slogan for like, yeah you, what would yours be?
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Like? I cry a lot, swifty and overly emotional.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
What I was going to say, swifty and overly emotional,
but I overly overleason tag that that would imply that
you shouldn't be that much.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
I wasn't going to say that loud.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
You should be less.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
You could be as emotional as you want. Thanks.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
I don't believe that, but thank you.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Well, you're you.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
You can be as long as it you know, I
don't have to feel bad about it as long as
it's that directed to me being swift and overly Kaitlin.
But you're not dead, thank god. So yeah, you're not
in the Ben and Jerry's ice cream flavor. If you
were a flavor, If you were a flavor, what would
you be?
Speaker 3 (25:46):
I think I would be, Oh.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
Okay, sure, pickle flavored kailin a swifty and overly emotional
wow out of context.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Actually more Fred Show next right here,
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