October 7, 2025 • 24 mins
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Speaker 1 (01:09):
For tell them guys that're frich.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Here you waiting by the phone? Is next? Why did
someone get ghosted? Will investigate headlines the biggest stories of
the day. The fun Fact is about a lady. It's
about a lady. Lady a lady, and the entertainer report
this hour too, What are you working on?
Speaker 5 (01:27):
K Diddy's latest request? Jack Osborne remembers his dad in
a really special moment, and Taylor Swift slams an offensive
fan theory.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Ever been left waiting by the phone?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It's the Fred Show. Tim How you doing?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I'm doing well about you?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
We are great? It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn
about this data. I'm going through your email here. You
went out with Roxy, you met on Tinder and then
what happened?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
We talked for that.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
We actually went out twice, and I don't, you know,
mean to get too much into things. But after the
second we hooked up, which I look.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
As a pretty good sign.
Speaker 6 (02:02):
I thought she was into it, but you know, she
started ghosting me after that, and I'm here to find
out why.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Okay, yeah, I see what. I don't hear you bragging
about hooking up on the second date. I think sometimes
on a second date, that's a good sign, right, I mean,
especially if you get a second date then you hook up.
It's like this is going in the right direction, except
she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah, all right,
we'll call her, we'll see if we can figure out
what's going on and put this to rest, and hopefully
(02:31):
we can straighten out whatever the issue is. Maybe nothing's
going on, maybe she's just been busy, or who knows,
And if that's the case, we'll set you up on
another date and we'll pay for that. Okay.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I really appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Part two of waiting by the phone, Tamm doing okay,
doing good.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
Little anxious to figure out what's going on here?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna
call rock Sy. We're gonna see what's going on. You
guys learn in a couple of dates you thought they
were successful. Now she's ghosting you, and you want to
know why.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
You got it?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Okay, good luck? Hello?
Speaker 6 (03:05):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Is this Roxy?
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Roxy, it's Fred from the Fred Show. I have to
tell you that we are on the radio right now
and I need your permission to continue with the call.
Is it okay? If we keep talking.
Speaker 7 (03:17):
Yeah, I guess that's okay.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
It's kind of awkward, but thank you. Yeah, I know,
I know, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf
of this dude named Tim who I guess you met
you on Tinder and you went on two dates. Do
you recall this guy?
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah, yeah, he's sound excited.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
We know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what
would happened with this guy? Because he described a couple
of really good dates, he liked you a lot, was
hoping to take you on a third date, says that
you're ghosting. Can we sort of get to the bottom
of why. It's like I still called out, but.
Speaker 7 (03:50):
I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, Tim is,
I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we
actually got along really well. He was a really nice guy.
We had gone on a couple of dates and we
had kind of polled around and stuff. And after one
of the hook up, this is like weird to even
talk about with how like I told my closest friends,
(04:11):
but he asked to keep my underwear? Did you call
them panties?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Got a lot of problems?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
What?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I hate that word? Second?
Speaker 8 (04:20):
Yeah, same, the.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Same. These so he what like he wanted them as
some kind of a souvenir.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
I don't know what he's gonna do with him, I was,
but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah, and so,
I mean that is just kind of how I felt
about the whole situation.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
You're like, I'm not doing this to spook.
Speaker 7 (04:44):
I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't
consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I
didn't know what the hell he was gonna do with it. Yeah,
So I was like, no, I'm going to go ahead
and keep the clothing that I.
Speaker 8 (04:57):
Yeah, let me expensive panties.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Oh yeah? Were they nice ones?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
I mean you know what was going to go down?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
But would you leave some behy if a guy asked you.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Yeah, he would, Yeah, little things to make people happy.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
You know what if they were expensive ones?
Speaker 5 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Yeah? What is an expensive What is an expensive pair
of underwear?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I don't know. I don't buy like expensive, Like yeah,
like the expensive ones I.
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Have are like in a set, you know, like like
pinky pinky or something.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Would those be like thirty bucks for underwear? Or tim
is here? I always leave that part out. Sim has
been listening to all this, Tim, what what do you?
I mean, Look, you're entitled to your own freaky but.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
So do you have a box full of them somewhere?
Like that's disgusting?
Speaker 8 (05:46):
Oh yeah, if I'm not special.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
It's something like that. Like what if I hook up
with somebody and like they give me their paint and
let me keep it. But if I'm seeing somebody else,
I throw the old ones away?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Oh that's that would be That would be creepy. I
had no question.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Yeah, And also I don't see what the big deal is.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
You know, a lot of people are.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Into this sort of thing. She told me no, and
I was totally cool with it. I didn't freak out
or anything like that. And also, aren't you supposed to
not kink?
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Shame?
Speaker 6 (06:12):
But I feel like I'm being very judged right now,
and that's not very cool, not very whole.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
On a second, I mean, I don't know that we're
judging you so much. She's allowed to judge you because
she doesn't have to do what you asked me to do.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
I'm not into it.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
Oh she does do it, and that like no, and
I respected you saying no. I didn't push the batter.
I just said, hey, by the way, I'm into this one.
Do you mind if I kept it? You said no.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I said, that's cool, okay.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
At the end of it, you could have just said afterwards, hey,
that really freaked me out. I didn't want to see
you again.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that.
Speaker 7 (06:46):
I didn't really well about it, so you.
Speaker 8 (06:48):
Can't let it go.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
I did want to chat about it, and.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
You didn't want to chat that.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
But this is my only recourse. I thought we had something.
I wanted to know what was going I thought maybe
you were.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You guys, you guys, we talk about this all the time, right,
I mean, you guys have only been out twice. There's
no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,
she doesn't she likes you, but she doesn't really, really
really like you to the point where you can bust
out something that's that that she thinks she is to
abnormal or uncomfortable with, and that she's just gonna get
over it. Like I understand what you're saying, which is
(07:20):
I asked you for something, she said no, and you
were cool about it, and you can communicate, but like,
you're not. I don't think you're there yet. You're still
getting to know each other. She can't get that out
of her mind. She doesn't know anything else about you.
She's just wanting a bunch of other stuff. If I'm
dating somebody for six months and they asked me to
do something weird that's different than two times, and I
(07:42):
found and.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
That was that.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
With my luck, I would ask for that and get kinky.
I'd forget I had them, and then I would meet
the woman of my dreams and she'd come over and
be like, what are these? And then I'm in trouble.
I got this is kind of weird. Rox Sye, any
chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
It's just not my thing.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
I think we'd both be better off found people that
are mold a little bit better.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
There you go, Well, if you will, Tim, Good luck
to you, Tim Okay, Sorry thanks.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Awen's Entertainment Report. He's on the Bread Show.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Diddy is asking to serve his fifty month sentence at
Federal Correctional Institute in New Jersey.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
It's called Fort.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
Dix, which kind of sorry on twelve Dix. His lawyers argue, Oh,
in that case, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
He wants to be moved to Fort Dicks.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
His lawyers argue that the low security facility, which makes
me a little nervous near his hometown, offers a top
drug treatment program, the Residential Drug Abuse Program, that could
help him remain sober and rehabilitate. They also say that
its proximity to New York would make family visits easier.
Diddy has already served about a year in custody and
(08:52):
could be released in roughly three years. A judge will
now consider that request, but the final placement, I guess
is on the Federal Bureau of Prison. By the way,
President Trump did confirm that did he asked him for
a pardon? Obviously he said no, But Trump says he
calls him puff Daddy, which was my favorite part. He's like,
I call him puff Daddy. And he did ask me
for a lot of.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Versions of his name. So it's good you subscribed to.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
So back in the day.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Apparently because he is no longer puff Daddy, but he
has been brother Love.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
He's rock Shaan. He did he sean, Yeah, right, So
I thank you for clarifying. That's the one the US
which area you're in Yes. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Jack Osborne tearfully recalled watching his dad's final concert on
July sixth, just seventeen days before his death, calling it
a living wake. In a new interview, he said he
hugged Ozzie backstage before the show, later cried with his
brother in the audience, realizing that it was his dad's
last performance, Jack said Ozzie got to say goodbye to
everyone that night, which is really special. As for his mom,
(09:51):
Sharon and how she's doing, he says he always answers
by saying she's okay, but not okay, but that the
whole family absolutely feels the outpouring of love from fans
and everybody who has, you know, said nice things and
done the memorials and all that. So she is, She's
hanging in there. And Swifties in a Jacksonville. Jacksonville theater
(10:12):
probably were pretty surprised when they went to see one
of her movie screenings and they saw her fiance and
his family in the audience.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
I would lose my ever loving mind.
Speaker 5 (10:21):
It is very sweet, Like couldn't you guys get it
on you know, Blu ray or DVD or something new
photos show Travis all smiles with his arms around his
mom Donna, along with his uncle and aunt on his birthday,
of all days. That's how he spent it at a
Florida movie theater, which made sense since he and the
Chiefs played the Jags last night. Travis and Donna even
had little props, including orange feather fans, to go with
(10:42):
the new album thing.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
It was. It's a very cute photo.
Speaker 5 (10:45):
I would have lost my mind if I look over
and see him in his redwood sitting right there while
we're talking about the couple. Though, Taylor did shut down
the popular fan theory suggesting that she would retire from
music once she gets married. She said it's actually pretty
offensive and rooted an outdated stereotypes that women give up
their careers after their marriage. She says her love life
does not dictate her creative work, and she plans to
(11:06):
keep making music for as long as it inspires her.
I don't know if you guys heard this theory, but
a lot of people thought we were getting the life
of the showgirl and then like the Death of a
Showgirl and it was gonna be her last album.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
But she's not slowing down.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
She's like, he's really passionate about his career, and he
supports that. I'm passionate about mine, so swifties can relax.
And I did not talk about her for any of
the other reports today, so I don't want to hear it.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
There was one complaint on the text too much tailor talk.
It's not like anything's going on with her right now,
so it's not like, you know, she had a new
album and.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Right you know she is in the news, and that's
kind of my job. But I do try to please
one off texters. It's a problem that I have. I
same same So for the one texture, I did not
talk about her that much today.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Not that much. No, not that much at all.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
And though there's so much stuff that I.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Should be talking, good job, no, thank you, the one
person should.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
Be very happy trying to keep it fair, at trying
to keep it even I'm a journal Also, if you
want to catch up on any of those other reports
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Speaker 2 (12:11):
Have you guys heard about the Taco Bell Ultra Marathon,
but it's not sponsored by Taco Bell.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
No.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Now, at first, I would say, Okay, I'm in except
I'm not. I'm not in it at all. As you know,
I'm on your two season two of trying to be
a runner, which means which means just more of a
frow out. My run is a fast is a high
exertion fast walk for some people. Okay, I'm really out here,
(12:35):
you know. And then we got personal trainer to the
stars except for me, Gideon, you know who this guy.
Yesterday we're running and I was like, hey, and he's
right about to run the Chicago Marathon, and I'm like,
give me to start running right now at your marathon pace,
and I want to see how far I can keep
up with it. And I would say, about three hundred
feet later, I was done.
Speaker 6 (12:55):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
And yet he would have had to do that, And
we'll do that this weekend for another six miles, So
there's that wow.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
Proud of you though, But.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Yeah, no, I mean, you know, it's something this, however,
I think would be difficult for a lot of people.
It's a fifty k. Okay, it's a fifty k, which
I don't know how to do the math on that.
It's I think it's eleven.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
I don't know what a fifty k is? Someone looked
at him. Please party one be right? Well, five k
is three times? So is that fifteen miles?
Speaker 3 (13:26):
About thirty one?
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Thirty one miles?
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Thanks?
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Okay, so you were right. The New York Coast reports
that Denver is preparing for an especially brute what must
be if is an ultra and especially brutal endurance race.
The Taco Bell fifty K is not sponsored by fifty K.
It's a demanding test of not only cardiovascular fitness but
also intestinal fortitude. You're required to stop at at least
nine of the ten Taco bells along the route and
(13:53):
consume food. This is the eighth such competition, and the
rules make this race the ultimate tests of athleticism. So
here are the rules if you want to do it.
First of all, thirty miles we just learned is what
a fifty k is. By the four stopped, all entrance
must have consumed at least one chilupa supreme or one
(14:14):
crunt trap supreme. Dietary restrictions will be allowed within reason.
By the eighth stop, all entrance must have consumed at
least one burrito supreme or one Nacho's Bell grande. You
have to finish in under eleven hours. Drinks don't count
as food unless you're trying to get clever, you know,
and like, oh, I'll get I'll get a Mountain dew,
you know, Baja blast and Nope, that doesn't count. Entrance
(14:38):
must keep receipts and wrappers for confirmation of stupidity. At
the end of the rum. No en course, pepto alcaceeltzer,
pepsid Ac or Mylanta will be allowed, and additional rules
could be added, amended, or change to promote the intent
of the run, which is to do something completely stupid apparently.
So yeah, you think, like, okay, I could do like
(14:59):
a maybe a five a taco bell five K. Now
the taco bell part, like, I don't know how long
I could the five K part. I could manage in
a diaper maybe though, maybe ron pants or something like that,
because I mean, you know, usually it's like, if I'm
gonna have Taco Bell, then we got to sort of
plan out the rest of the day, Yes you do,
you know, same with white Castle, like we gotta we
(15:19):
got to sort of Okay, I'm gonna do this, so
cancel the rest of my plans, like I need to
be at home. I'm not going on that's it's just
not something to play with, Like we're not just out
here Willy Neely just having taco bell, you know, and
then just going about our day. Some people can do that.
I'm not one of those people. But there are a
lot of layers here. Thirty miles of running in eleven hours,
and then you have to do all of them. I
(15:41):
think it's pretty wide.
Speaker 9 (15:41):
I could do a five k eleven hours. I me too,
mean that is my five K time. Actually, I'm actually yeah,
I'm actually still running a five k from yesterday as
we speak right now. I know it doesn't sound like
I'm breathing heavy, but that's because I'm on an hour ten.
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Speaker 1 (17:29):
Mat Yeah, they talk better than they say. These are
the radio blogs on the Fresh Show.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
You saw what happened when the guy allegedly did that
to Taylor Swift and he's I don't you know not
great the career aspirations after that.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
No, you shouldn't grab people that don't want to be grabbed.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
You're not supposed to know. No, no, no, don't do it.
That's the more, you know, moment of the day, like
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs. Caitlin, go deer blog.
Speaker 5 (17:55):
So I have to ask you, guys, if it is
ever okay for me to call out a friend's partner
husband in this case. Okay, So I was eating with
both of them recently and he set a comment that
made me want to jump across the table and smack him.
Speaker 8 (18:15):
But I did not. I did not choose violence that day.
Speaker 5 (18:19):
So we were eating and we sat down and he goes, Babe,
i'm starving.
Speaker 8 (18:25):
We didn't eat lunch today, and you never miss a meal.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
Excuse.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
Oh.
Speaker 5 (18:31):
So there's a couple issues that I have with this comment.
First of all, seeing their fridge. They have a ton
of food in their fridge, so if he was hungry,
he could have made himself some lunch.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
He doesn't need her to do that.
Speaker 5 (18:43):
Second of all, I don't need anyone tell me I
never miss a meal. I don't miss meals, but I
don't need someone reminding me of that.
Speaker 8 (18:51):
And third of all, we both smirked at each other.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
My friend and I because what he didn't know is
we snuck through the Taco Bell drive through, so we
were not starving.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Did not get him.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I remember rinook offended. Did she look sad by it?
Speaker 3 (19:03):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Well I do feel like it's probably for them to
work out. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know that
you need to step in. I mean, I understand that
the natural desire to want to defend your friend, but
I also think it's like, I don't know when you know,
probably when you left. He got an earful about it,
so I don't know.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
She actually asked me why I didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Really, yeah, I don't think that's your job.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
I don't think so either, and I didn't want to
get involved, but I was like girl, and she was like, yeah,
you should have said that, and I was like, oh,
really okay, I don't know the.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Rules, yeah, because I don't know, Like I mean, obviously
if it were something like really hurtful, I mean, which
could that could be interpreted really hurtful, but like a
physical or something else, like yeah, of course you intervene,
but I don't know. I don't necessarily want to get
involved in people's no sense of humor or passive aggressiveness
or whatever it is because I don't. I don't know,
and then I stand to alienate myself from that group
(19:59):
inadvertently if I'm overreacting. So I don't know. Maybe later
I would check with my friend and make sure that
she was okay, But no, I don't think it's fair
for people to expect you to jump in on their
relationship sort of squabbles.
Speaker 5 (20:12):
Yeah, no, she wasn't like upset with me or anything.
But like when we talked about it later, I was like, girl, yeah,
you know what did he say?
Speaker 10 (20:18):
I would just say one thing, okay, and I'm not
gonna go to the floor with it, but I will say,
let's normalize one thing, and that's making people uncomfortable when
they want to make someone else uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
Do you feel what I'm saying. I'm big on that.
Speaker 10 (20:31):
So like if Hobby ever said that, if he would never,
but if he did, I give you guys permission to
make him uncomfortable, like call him out on something, and
I will be right there, okay, tagging you on I
will cheer you on, because I feel like we give
people too much permission to, like just I don't know,
disrespect other people or say things like slick stuff, you know,
And if I don't stick up for myself in that moment,
I give you guys permission too.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
But we don't have any perspective now Pauline, like we
know now that she was upset and wishes that that
camin had come to her defense. But in the moment,
I don't know if that's not just some silly little
game that the two of them play, and then.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
We could be silly together and not being funny.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I think it's for me to again, short of something
that's like dire, I don't think, or dangerous, I don't
know that. I think it's for me to inject myself
and other people's relationships because I got to think, if
you're saying it in front of me, in front of me,
then you don't mean you're more than I would like
to believe. If I know all parties involved, that you're
not actually trying to be hurtful, that you're being silly,
(21:26):
even if you are being hurtful, but then that's for
the other that's for you to straighten out with your husband,
not me.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
But I give you permission to be just a silly back.
Speaker 10 (21:34):
And I'm only saying this because again, like we give
people too much permission and room and leeway to do.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
These kind of things. Just be silly back, be like,
oh how about you can't get up and make a
sandwich yourself? Yes, I can't.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
That's extremely combative what you do. I'm but that's how
I hate to say this, but that's how you get
yourself like not liked by the partner, and then that's
how it causes problems. And you can sit here and
say like, yeah, well, well that's their problem, but then
you're unfortunately, as we've all seen, their problem becomes your problem.
And I hear what you're saying, but like, yeah, I
(22:10):
don't know that in your home. It's for me to
be passive aggressive with you on your comment when I
don't have all the context.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
True, I don't blame you, Yeah, you don't blame you.
Speaker 5 (22:19):
We had just started in the night and like we
were going to be together all night, the three of us,
and actually for once I held my tongue, which I've
never done.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Because you could have made the evening very uncomfortable. I
understand both sides of this, but it's like I don't know.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
Yeah, but like with in certain situations and with certain
people and certain friends partners.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
Maybe I feel that I can.
Speaker 5 (22:36):
I didn't know what was going on, and honestly, the
comment stunned me so much that I was silent because
I was like, what, you can't say that, especially to
a woman, like don't say that.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I guess you could test it by doing by responding
self in a self different any way about yourself. I
guess you could be like, oh, I know, I'm kind
of hungry, or I don't know something. You could say
something like but I think if you're like, well, I
can't believe you just said that in defensive your friend,
it's like, oh whoa, because then all of a sudden,
making gas like you and make you look like you're overreacting,
(23:06):
and then before long you're right. The rest of the
evening sucks because because you had to open your mouth.
Speaker 8 (23:10):
Yeah, I just I was like, oh my goodness.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
But I sometimes I have to tell myself and I'm
not very good at this, and to your point, sometimes
I have to remind myself. I don't have to have
a comment about everything. I don't have to contribute to
every conversation. My voice doesn't always need to be heard
because I like to have something to say about everything.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
I'm learning. Oh, you're right, you're right, I'm learning.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
This is me. I'm talking about me. This is not
this is not me, like you know that projecting onto you.
It's like sometimes I want to have a comment about everything,
and sometimes it's like I need to say, Okay, I
was I was very proud of myself because you could
have made the rest of your night really bad.
Speaker 5 (23:49):
I resisted an urge and I had an urge. But yeah,
it's it depends on the the friend, the husband and
the situation. And I actually, for once in my life,
held my tongue and I'm proud. But I was just
wondering what you guys thought about calling out someone else's partner,
because just word of wisdom for men or anyone really
don't remind someone that they don't miss any meals.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Yeah that's but I think it's the level of comfort,
like if you knew, like there are people, there are couples.
I know them both well enough that I could say something.
There are some that I don't know the sense of
humor or the sensibilities or or the context, and then
I wouldn't say anything. But I think you have to
be self aware enough to know in my opinion, now again,
if it's if it's hurtful or abusive or someone, then
(24:28):
I'm a punch on his face. But I don't know.
For all I know, right before I walked in, she
made a fat joke to him, and you're him. It's
never like those jokes are usually not funny. But like again,
I don't know what happened earlier in the day or yesterday,
or like what their little stupid jokes, you know what
(24:51):
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Here you waiting by the phone? Is next? Why did
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Speaker 1 (01:37):
Ever been left waiting by the phone?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It's the Fred Show. Tim How you doing?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I'm doing well about you?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
We are great? It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn
about this data. I'm going through your email here. You
went out with Roxy, you met on Tinder and then
what happened?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
We talked for that.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
We actually went out twice, and I don't, you know,
mean to get too much into things. But after the
second we hooked up, which I look.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
As a pretty good sign.
Speaker 6 (02:02):
I thought she was into it, but you know, she
started ghosting me after that, and I'm here to find
out why.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Okay, yeah, I see what. I don't hear you bragging
about hooking up on the second date. I think sometimes
on a second date, that's a good sign, right, I mean,
especially if you get a second date then you hook up.
It's like this is going in the right direction, except
she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah, all right,
we'll call her, we'll see if we can figure out
what's going on and put this to rest, and hopefully
(02:31):
we can straighten out whatever the issue is. Maybe nothing's
going on, maybe she's just been busy, or who knows,
And if that's the case, we'll set you up on
another date and we'll pay for that. Okay.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I really appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Part two of waiting by the phone, Tamm doing okay,
doing good.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
Little anxious to figure out what's going on here?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna
call rock Sy. We're gonna see what's going on. You
guys learn in a couple of dates you thought they
were successful. Now she's ghosting you, and you want to
know why.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
You got it?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Okay, good luck? Hello?
Speaker 6 (03:05):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Is this Roxy?
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Roxy, it's Fred from the Fred Show. I have to
tell you that we are on the radio right now
and I need your permission to continue with the call.
Is it okay? If we keep talking.
Speaker 7 (03:17):
Yeah, I guess that's okay.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
It's kind of awkward, but thank you. Yeah, I know,
I know, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf
of this dude named Tim who I guess you met
you on Tinder and you went on two dates. Do
you recall this guy?
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah, yeah, he's sound excited.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
We know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what
would happened with this guy? Because he described a couple
of really good dates, he liked you a lot, was
hoping to take you on a third date, says that
you're ghosting. Can we sort of get to the bottom
of why. It's like I still called out, but.
Speaker 7 (03:50):
I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, Tim is,
I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we
actually got along really well. He was a really nice guy.
We had gone on a couple of dates and we
had kind of polled around and stuff. And after one
of the hook up, this is like weird to even
talk about with how like I told my closest friends,
(04:11):
but he asked to keep my underwear? Did you call
them panties?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Got a lot of problems?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
What?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I hate that word? Second?
Speaker 8 (04:20):
Yeah, same, the.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Same. These so he what like he wanted them as
some kind of a souvenir.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
I don't know what he's gonna do with him, I was,
but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah, and so,
I mean that is just kind of how I felt
about the whole situation.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
You're like, I'm not doing this to spook.
Speaker 7 (04:44):
I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't
consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I
didn't know what the hell he was gonna do with it. Yeah,
So I was like, no, I'm going to go ahead
and keep the clothing that I.
Speaker 8 (04:57):
Yeah, let me expensive panties.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Oh yeah? Were they nice ones?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
I mean you know what was going to go down?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
But would you leave some behy if a guy asked you.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Yeah, he would, Yeah, little things to make people happy.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
You know what if they were expensive ones?
Speaker 5 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Yeah? What is an expensive What is an expensive pair
of underwear?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I don't know. I don't buy like expensive, Like yeah,
like the expensive ones I.
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Have are like in a set, you know, like like
pinky pinky or something.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Would those be like thirty bucks for underwear? Or tim
is here? I always leave that part out. Sim has
been listening to all this, Tim, what what do you?
I mean, Look, you're entitled to your own freaky but.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
So do you have a box full of them somewhere?
Like that's disgusting?
Speaker 8 (05:46):
Oh yeah, if I'm not special.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
It's something like that. Like what if I hook up
with somebody and like they give me their paint and
let me keep it. But if I'm seeing somebody else,
I throw the old ones away?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Oh that's that would be That would be creepy. I
had no question.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Yeah, And also I don't see what the big deal is.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
You know, a lot of people are.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Into this sort of thing. She told me no, and
I was totally cool with it. I didn't freak out
or anything like that. And also, aren't you supposed to
not kink?
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Shame?
Speaker 6 (06:12):
But I feel like I'm being very judged right now,
and that's not very cool, not very whole.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
On a second, I mean, I don't know that we're
judging you so much. She's allowed to judge you because
she doesn't have to do what you asked me to do.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
I'm not into it.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
Oh she does do it, and that like no, and
I respected you saying no. I didn't push the batter.
I just said, hey, by the way, I'm into this one.
Do you mind if I kept it? You said no.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I said, that's cool, okay.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
At the end of it, you could have just said afterwards, hey,
that really freaked me out. I didn't want to see
you again.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that.
Speaker 7 (06:46):
I didn't really well about it, so you.
Speaker 8 (06:48):
Can't let it go.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
I did want to chat about it, and.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
You didn't want to chat that.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
But this is my only recourse. I thought we had something.
I wanted to know what was going I thought maybe
you were.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You guys, you guys, we talk about this all the time, right,
I mean, you guys have only been out twice. There's
no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,
she doesn't she likes you, but she doesn't really, really
really like you to the point where you can bust
out something that's that that she thinks she is to
abnormal or uncomfortable with, and that she's just gonna get
over it. Like I understand what you're saying, which is
(07:20):
I asked you for something, she said no, and you
were cool about it, and you can communicate, but like,
you're not. I don't think you're there yet. You're still
getting to know each other. She can't get that out
of her mind. She doesn't know anything else about you.
She's just wanting a bunch of other stuff. If I'm
dating somebody for six months and they asked me to
do something weird that's different than two times, and I
(07:42):
found and.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
That was that.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
With my luck, I would ask for that and get kinky.
I'd forget I had them, and then I would meet
the woman of my dreams and she'd come over and
be like, what are these? And then I'm in trouble.
I got this is kind of weird. Rox Sye, any
chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
It's just not my thing.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
I think we'd both be better off found people that
are mold a little bit better.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
There you go, Well, if you will, Tim, Good luck
to you, Tim Okay, Sorry thanks.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Awen's Entertainment Report. He's on the Bread Show.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Diddy is asking to serve his fifty month sentence at
Federal Correctional Institute in New Jersey.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
It's called Fort.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
Dix, which kind of sorry on twelve Dix. His lawyers argue, Oh,
in that case, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
He wants to be moved to Fort Dicks.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
His lawyers argue that the low security facility, which makes
me a little nervous near his hometown, offers a top
drug treatment program, the Residential Drug Abuse Program, that could
help him remain sober and rehabilitate. They also say that
its proximity to New York would make family visits easier.
Diddy has already served about a year in custody and
(08:52):
could be released in roughly three years. A judge will
now consider that request, but the final placement, I guess
is on the Federal Bureau of Prison. By the way,
President Trump did confirm that did he asked him for
a pardon? Obviously he said no, But Trump says he
calls him puff Daddy, which was my favorite part. He's like,
I call him puff Daddy. And he did ask me
for a lot of.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Versions of his name. So it's good you subscribed to.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
So back in the day.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Apparently because he is no longer puff Daddy, but he
has been brother Love.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
He's rock Shaan. He did he sean, Yeah, right, So
I thank you for clarifying. That's the one the US
which area you're in Yes. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Jack Osborne tearfully recalled watching his dad's final concert on
July sixth, just seventeen days before his death, calling it
a living wake. In a new interview, he said he
hugged Ozzie backstage before the show, later cried with his
brother in the audience, realizing that it was his dad's
last performance, Jack said Ozzie got to say goodbye to
everyone that night, which is really special. As for his mom,
(09:51):
Sharon and how she's doing, he says he always answers
by saying she's okay, but not okay, but that the
whole family absolutely feels the outpouring of love from fans
and everybody who has, you know, said nice things and
done the memorials and all that. So she is, She's
hanging in there. And Swifties in a Jacksonville. Jacksonville theater
(10:12):
probably were pretty surprised when they went to see one
of her movie screenings and they saw her fiance and
his family in the audience.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
I would lose my ever loving mind.
Speaker 5 (10:21):
It is very sweet, Like couldn't you guys get it
on you know, Blu ray or DVD or something new
photos show Travis all smiles with his arms around his
mom Donna, along with his uncle and aunt on his birthday,
of all days. That's how he spent it at a
Florida movie theater, which made sense since he and the
Chiefs played the Jags last night. Travis and Donna even
had little props, including orange feather fans, to go with
(10:42):
the new album thing.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
It was. It's a very cute photo.
Speaker 5 (10:45):
I would have lost my mind if I look over
and see him in his redwood sitting right there while
we're talking about the couple. Though, Taylor did shut down
the popular fan theory suggesting that she would retire from
music once she gets married. She said it's actually pretty
offensive and rooted an outdated stereotypes that women give up
their careers after their marriage. She says her love life
does not dictate her creative work, and she plans to
(11:06):
keep making music for as long as it inspires her.
I don't know if you guys heard this theory, but
a lot of people thought we were getting the life
of the showgirl and then like the Death of a
Showgirl and it was gonna be her last album.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
But she's not slowing down.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
She's like, he's really passionate about his career, and he
supports that. I'm passionate about mine, so swifties can relax.
And I did not talk about her for any of
the other reports today, so I don't want to hear it.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
There was one complaint on the text too much tailor talk.
It's not like anything's going on with her right now,
so it's not like, you know, she had a new
album and.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Right you know she is in the news, and that's
kind of my job. But I do try to please
one off texters. It's a problem that I have. I
same same So for the one texture, I did not
talk about her that much today.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Not that much. No, not that much at all.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
And though there's so much stuff that I.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Should be talking, good job, no, thank you, the one
person should.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
Be very happy trying to keep it fair, at trying
to keep it even I'm a journal Also, if you
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Have you guys heard about the Taco Bell Ultra Marathon,
but it's not sponsored by Taco Bell.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
No.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Now, at first, I would say, Okay, I'm in except
I'm not. I'm not in it at all. As you know,
I'm on your two season two of trying to be
a runner, which means which means just more of a
frow out. My run is a fast is a high
exertion fast walk for some people. Okay, I'm really out here,
(12:35):
you know. And then we got personal trainer to the
stars except for me, Gideon, you know who this guy.
Yesterday we're running and I was like, hey, and he's
right about to run the Chicago Marathon, and I'm like,
give me to start running right now at your marathon pace,
and I want to see how far I can keep
up with it. And I would say, about three hundred
feet later, I was done.
Speaker 6 (12:55):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
And yet he would have had to do that, And
we'll do that this weekend for another six miles, So
there's that wow.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
Proud of you though, But.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Yeah, no, I mean, you know, it's something this, however,
I think would be difficult for a lot of people.
It's a fifty k. Okay, it's a fifty k, which
I don't know how to do the math on that.
It's I think it's eleven.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
I don't know what a fifty k is? Someone looked
at him. Please party one be right? Well, five k
is three times? So is that fifteen miles?
Speaker 3 (13:26):
About thirty one?
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Thirty one miles?
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Thanks?
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Okay, so you were right. The New York Coast reports
that Denver is preparing for an especially brute what must
be if is an ultra and especially brutal endurance race.
The Taco Bell fifty K is not sponsored by fifty K.
It's a demanding test of not only cardiovascular fitness but
also intestinal fortitude. You're required to stop at at least
nine of the ten Taco bells along the route and
(13:53):
consume food. This is the eighth such competition, and the
rules make this race the ultimate tests of athleticism. So
here are the rules if you want to do it.
First of all, thirty miles we just learned is what
a fifty k is. By the four stopped, all entrance
must have consumed at least one chilupa supreme or one
(14:14):
crunt trap supreme. Dietary restrictions will be allowed within reason.
By the eighth stop, all entrance must have consumed at
least one burrito supreme or one Nacho's Bell grande. You
have to finish in under eleven hours. Drinks don't count
as food unless you're trying to get clever, you know,
and like, oh, I'll get I'll get a Mountain dew,
you know, Baja blast and Nope, that doesn't count. Entrance
(14:38):
must keep receipts and wrappers for confirmation of stupidity. At
the end of the rum. No en course, pepto alcaceeltzer,
pepsid Ac or Mylanta will be allowed, and additional rules
could be added, amended, or change to promote the intent
of the run, which is to do something completely stupid apparently.
So yeah, you think, like, okay, I could do like
(14:59):
a maybe a five a taco bell five K. Now
the taco bell part, like, I don't know how long
I could the five K part. I could manage in
a diaper maybe though, maybe ron pants or something like that,
because I mean, you know, usually it's like, if I'm
gonna have Taco Bell, then we got to sort of
plan out the rest of the day, Yes you do,
you know, same with white Castle, like we gotta we
(15:19):
got to sort of Okay, I'm gonna do this, so
cancel the rest of my plans, like I need to
be at home. I'm not going on that's it's just
not something to play with, Like we're not just out
here Willy Neely just having taco bell, you know, and
then just going about our day. Some people can do that.
I'm not one of those people. But there are a
lot of layers here. Thirty miles of running in eleven hours,
and then you have to do all of them. I
(15:41):
think it's pretty wide.
Speaker 9 (15:41):
I could do a five k eleven hours. I me too,
mean that is my five K time. Actually, I'm actually yeah,
I'm actually still running a five k from yesterday as
we speak right now. I know it doesn't sound like
I'm breathing heavy, but that's because I'm on an hour ten.
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Mat Yeah, they talk better than they say. These are
the radio blogs on the Fresh Show.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
You saw what happened when the guy allegedly did that
to Taylor Swift and he's I don't you know not
great the career aspirations after that.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
No, you shouldn't grab people that don't want to be grabbed.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
You're not supposed to know. No, no, no, don't do it.
That's the more, you know, moment of the day, like
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs. Caitlin, go deer blog.
Speaker 5 (17:55):
So I have to ask you, guys, if it is
ever okay for me to call out a friend's partner
husband in this case. Okay, So I was eating with
both of them recently and he set a comment that
made me want to jump across the table and smack him.
Speaker 8 (18:15):
But I did not. I did not choose violence that day.
Speaker 5 (18:19):
So we were eating and we sat down and he goes, Babe,
i'm starving.
Speaker 8 (18:25):
We didn't eat lunch today, and you never miss a meal.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
Excuse.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
Oh.
Speaker 5 (18:31):
So there's a couple issues that I have with this comment.
First of all, seeing their fridge. They have a ton
of food in their fridge, so if he was hungry,
he could have made himself some lunch.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
He doesn't need her to do that.
Speaker 5 (18:43):
Second of all, I don't need anyone tell me I
never miss a meal. I don't miss meals, but I
don't need someone reminding me of that.
Speaker 8 (18:51):
And third of all, we both smirked at each other.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
My friend and I because what he didn't know is
we snuck through the Taco Bell drive through, so we
were not starving.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Did not get him.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I remember rinook offended. Did she look sad by it?
Speaker 3 (19:03):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Well I do feel like it's probably for them to
work out. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know that
you need to step in. I mean, I understand that
the natural desire to want to defend your friend, but
I also think it's like, I don't know when you know,
probably when you left. He got an earful about it,
so I don't know.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
She actually asked me why I didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Really, yeah, I don't think that's your job.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
I don't think so either, and I didn't want to
get involved, but I was like girl, and she was like, yeah,
you should have said that, and I was like, oh,
really okay, I don't know the.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Rules, yeah, because I don't know, Like I mean, obviously
if it were something like really hurtful, I mean, which
could that could be interpreted really hurtful, but like a
physical or something else, like yeah, of course you intervene,
but I don't know. I don't necessarily want to get
involved in people's no sense of humor or passive aggressiveness
or whatever it is because I don't. I don't know,
and then I stand to alienate myself from that group
(19:59):
inadvertently if I'm overreacting. So I don't know. Maybe later
I would check with my friend and make sure that
she was okay, But no, I don't think it's fair
for people to expect you to jump in on their
relationship sort of squabbles.
Speaker 5 (20:12):
Yeah, no, she wasn't like upset with me or anything.
But like when we talked about it later, I was like, girl, yeah,
you know what did he say?
Speaker 10 (20:18):
I would just say one thing, okay, and I'm not
gonna go to the floor with it, but I will say,
let's normalize one thing, and that's making people uncomfortable when
they want to make someone else uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
Do you feel what I'm saying. I'm big on that.
Speaker 10 (20:31):
So like if Hobby ever said that, if he would never,
but if he did, I give you guys permission to
make him uncomfortable, like call him out on something, and
I will be right there, okay, tagging you on I
will cheer you on, because I feel like we give
people too much permission to, like just I don't know,
disrespect other people or say things like slick stuff, you know,
And if I don't stick up for myself in that moment,
I give you guys permission too.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
But we don't have any perspective now Pauline, like we
know now that she was upset and wishes that that
camin had come to her defense. But in the moment,
I don't know if that's not just some silly little
game that the two of them play, and then.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
We could be silly together and not being funny.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I think it's for me to again, short of something
that's like dire, I don't think, or dangerous, I don't
know that. I think it's for me to inject myself
and other people's relationships because I got to think, if
you're saying it in front of me, in front of me,
then you don't mean you're more than I would like
to believe. If I know all parties involved, that you're
not actually trying to be hurtful, that you're being silly,
(21:26):
even if you are being hurtful, but then that's for
the other that's for you to straighten out with your husband,
not me.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
But I give you permission to be just a silly back.
Speaker 10 (21:34):
And I'm only saying this because again, like we give
people too much permission and room and leeway to do.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
These kind of things. Just be silly back, be like,
oh how about you can't get up and make a
sandwich yourself? Yes, I can't.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
That's extremely combative what you do. I'm but that's how
I hate to say this, but that's how you get
yourself like not liked by the partner, and then that's
how it causes problems. And you can sit here and
say like, yeah, well, well that's their problem, but then
you're unfortunately, as we've all seen, their problem becomes your problem.
And I hear what you're saying, but like, yeah, I
(22:10):
don't know that in your home. It's for me to
be passive aggressive with you on your comment when I
don't have all the context.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
True, I don't blame you, Yeah, you don't blame you.
Speaker 5 (22:19):
We had just started in the night and like we
were going to be together all night, the three of us,
and actually for once I held my tongue, which I've
never done.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Because you could have made the evening very uncomfortable. I
understand both sides of this, but it's like I don't know.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
Yeah, but like with in certain situations and with certain
people and certain friends partners.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
Maybe I feel that I can.
Speaker 5 (22:36):
I didn't know what was going on, and honestly, the
comment stunned me so much that I was silent because
I was like, what, you can't say that, especially to
a woman, like don't say that.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I guess you could test it by doing by responding
self in a self different any way about yourself. I
guess you could be like, oh, I know, I'm kind
of hungry, or I don't know something. You could say
something like but I think if you're like, well, I
can't believe you just said that in defensive your friend,
it's like, oh whoa, because then all of a sudden,
making gas like you and make you look like you're overreacting,
(23:06):
and then before long you're right. The rest of the
evening sucks because because you had to open your mouth.
Speaker 8 (23:10):
Yeah, I just I was like, oh my goodness.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
But I sometimes I have to tell myself and I'm
not very good at this, and to your point, sometimes
I have to remind myself. I don't have to have
a comment about everything. I don't have to contribute to
every conversation. My voice doesn't always need to be heard
because I like to have something to say about everything.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
I'm learning. Oh, you're right, you're right, I'm learning.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
This is me. I'm talking about me. This is not
this is not me, like you know that projecting onto you.
It's like sometimes I want to have a comment about everything,
and sometimes it's like I need to say, Okay, I
was I was very proud of myself because you could
have made the rest of your night really bad.
Speaker 5 (23:49):
I resisted an urge and I had an urge. But yeah,
it's it depends on the the friend, the husband and
the situation. And I actually, for once in my life,
held my tongue and I'm proud. But I was just
wondering what you guys thought about calling out someone else's partner,
because just word of wisdom for men or anyone really
don't remind someone that they don't miss any meals.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Yeah that's but I think it's the level of comfort,
like if you knew, like there are people, there are couples.
I know them both well enough that I could say something.
There are some that I don't know the sense of
humor or the sensibilities or or the context, and then
I wouldn't say anything. But I think you have to
be self aware enough to know in my opinion, now again,
if it's if it's hurtful or abusive or someone, then
(24:28):
I'm a punch on his face. But I don't know.
For all I know, right before I walked in, she
made a fat joke to him, and you're him. It's
never like those jokes are usually not funny. But like again,
I don't know what happened earlier in the day or yesterday,
or like what their little stupid jokes, you know what
(24:51):
they're stilly little humor is
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