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Speaker 1 (00:06):
Wait, this Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years.
This is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in
ten years this was a science experiment. No, it's just like,
let's just let's just mess with everything and see if
they can manage to get people to continue listening. Fred's
show is on anything more frustrating, like anything at all

(00:29):
than trying to reset a password on something.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Don't even get me started.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
It's like the password has to have a symbol, and
it has to have a number, but it can't be
two numbers consecutively, and it has to have a capital
letter and lower case letters. And then the passwords don't match.
And then I try to get cute, you know, with
the different passwords to because I'm running out of the
same I'm running out of combinations of the same thing.
But then I can't remember which combination I used on what,

(00:58):
so I'm constantly resetting it because apparently all the Apple
devices don't talk to each other. I thought they did,
but they don't somehow. Sometimes it's like I remember that password.
Other times it's like, eh, you gotta say And then
you know, no one knows. It's a wild world. And
then I have to reseat and start over again. Then
I can't remember. This is what I'm dealing with. Start

(01:19):
the week. I can't remember my passwords to anything. Okay, good,
I'm glad. I'm glad that doesn't upset. When else to wait?
Upset to me?

Speaker 3 (01:25):
Oh, I've been there already. I've worked through it, I've
processed it. I've talked it over with the lady. It's
just the lady. Yeah, the lady. Password, Lady, password, lady.
I had to talk it through because I'm out of options.
I've gone down to Jason and Kaitlin's name, I've uve
you and Paulina's name. Now I gotta use Bella figure
out her birthday.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
It's just a lot like why do we do?

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Just hack me?

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Bro, take whatever you.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
Want to access my work email. Have at it like
a look at you. You're not gonna like what you see. No,
I don't like what I see. You're not gonna like
what you see. It's just stuff you gotta do. Inbox
is a sad, depressing place full of nightmares.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
If that's really what you want to break into, by
all means you want to get along.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Some work, do it? Take a peek? Fineay, right, Hi
k On, good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina Hikky,
Good morning, Shelby. Shelley will be here with money next
hour in the showdown. She is our pop culture expert.
If you can beat her in five questions, then you win.
I think we're up to two fifty was it? Yes?
Two fifty, one thousand and four wins only sixty eight losses,
three straight wins for the show biz bellaheminez here as well.

(02:30):
We'll get to trending stories, the day's top headlines, the
entertainment of port end blogs at this hour this morning,
new waiting metaphone. Yeah, Stairgo, you're excited about that one?
So excited? Okay, good, I'm glad I got some feedback
on that. Stairgo. Will debate some relationship drama and what
are you working on for reports?

Speaker 5 (02:49):
K We got to talk about the sn L fiftieth
anniversary because it was all weekend and it was wild.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Blake Lively was there.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Wild it was it was every day of the weekend
because I felt like it was just like new content
on my TikTok, just over and over again.

Speaker 5 (03:04):
I didn't have to watch it Saturday, watched it on
TikTok Sunday.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
I believe there was like a.

Speaker 5 (03:09):
Music one, there was a sketch one, then there was
the actual episode, and there had been specials prior to that.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
So they're doing a lot of celebrating.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Okay, yeah, well congratulations to them, because I don't know
what I watched. I guess I watched bits and pieces
of all of it. Okay, I didn't watch what did
you call it? This is what I watched it. Yeah,
I don't worry. I watched a lot of things this weekend.
Clearly Fred show, a fresh show. This is what's trending.
It's cold. It's gonna be cold. A lot of places

(03:37):
where you can hear us today. Harsh freezing temperatures hit
the nation's midsection on Mondays, a polar vortex gripped the
Rockies and northern Plains on the heels of weekend storms
that hummeled the eastern US with floods, killing at least
fourteen people. It's the tenth polar vortex of the season.
The National Weather Service warned if life threatening cold is

(03:58):
windshiels dropped to minus sixty fahrenheit in parts of North
Dakota on Monday and minus fifty in parts of Montana
minus fifty wow. This morning was forecast of even colder.
Extreme cold warnings were issued for an eleven state swath
of the US stretching from the Canadian border to Oklahoma
and central Texas, where the Arctic front was expected to

(04:20):
bring near record cold temperatures and windshields in the single digits.
By midweek. Meteorologists had predicted that parts of the US
would experienced the tenth and coldest polar vortex event this season.
So it's cold a lot of places. It was cold
in Canada. Yesterday. In Toronto, a Delta Airlines flight forty
eight nineteen operated by Endeavor Air crashed while landing at

(04:41):
Toronto Pearson Airport. The flight was arriving from Minneapolis with
eighty individuals on board, including seventy six passengers and four
crew member. During the landing at approximately two to fifteen
local time, the plane flipped upside down on the runway
and then caught on fire. Eighteen people injured, no fatalities.
If you look at this thing, it's amazing that that

(05:02):
people survived. It is truly amazing.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
I couldn't wrap my mind around how the plane perfectly
ended up on its upside down like that, Like when
did the wing stop?

Speaker 6 (05:13):
It?

Speaker 2 (05:13):
When the tail?

Speaker 1 (05:15):
I think did the wing break off? One of the Yeah,
both broke off.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
I thought of you.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
I was why, because airplane, an airplane flips over? Last episode,
man was fronts flying that thing over there. I haven't
seen him in a while. I know he's been in
Salt Lake City, But like, did you get a.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
Job over there?

Speaker 6 (05:33):
No?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
No, No, you're my play friend though, Like you know
anything I want to know about an airplane?

Speaker 2 (05:39):
I can. Actually you're a pilot.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
Yeah, I don't. I don't know what I even called
a friend of mine. I was like, what the what happened?
I mean it was snowy and it was windy, but
I mean flipping completely over? I don't, I don't know.
The incident led to a temporary suspension of airport operations,
which resumed last night. So there was somebody. There was
a TikTok video yesterday. Nobody's sitting at the gate in

(06:01):
Toronto on a plane watching the CNN coverage of the
crash and then looking out the window and there it wasn't.
Look I'm a pilot, I'm an aviation guy. I might
take a break. You know, if if the plane just
lived over, I might, you know, granditative everybody had to
go home. I guess because the airport was closed, but
I might just say, you know what, today is not
going to be the day. Like I'm not going to

(06:21):
Toledo today. You know, I'm gonna go home and I'm
gonna have a nice coffee or something and take a nap,
and I'll come back later and coffee and take a nap.
Becas I don't know. I'm just gonna have a nice
I'm gonna have a nice stroll this afternoon in the
polar vortex, and I'm gonna come back tomorrow. We'll try
this again. Today might not be the day.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
I'm nervous, man.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
No, don't be okay, it's very safe. Air travels very safe.
I know it doesn't look like it lately, but you know,
I thought it was just.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
A bowing thing.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
But no, that's where one of the people on CNN,
one of the you know whatever reporters said that like
when they look at that, they see that like this
catastrophe happened and like there were no casualty. It's like
that just shows how safe the airplane really is. That
the fact that that happened like whatever was like, oh,
that's a different way of looking at it, but positive way.

Speaker 1 (07:08):
It's a miracle. It's extruly like it's a miracle. And
I don't I don't know. I think I think, honestly,
I think people just got lucky. Airplane flips over, wings
break off, there's fuel on the wings, you know, the
thing didn't burst into flames. It makes amazing like it
truly is. I don't want to go through all the
bad things it could have happened, because I'm glad that
they didn't. But uh, yeah, no fatalities, I know. But
I don't know if they have video of this, because

(07:31):
we were all kind of trying to figure out like wow,
I mean, you know, because the wind would have to
be really strong to flip a plane over, you know,
without the without the pilot being able to do anything
to correct it. So I have no idea if there's
an IRS rebate scam. Uh, it's texts that are going out.
This is for you kick you know, you'd have to
fail your taxes in order to actually I don't know

(07:52):
if you do have to fail your taxes because it's
a scam. The scammers are at it again, and this
time they want you to believe that they're the I R. S.
So there are Reportedly the text message is going out
they say that they have to do that. You would
need to click a link to receive a fourteen hundred
dollars payment from the IRS. I think you know when
it says hello, sir or madam. But that's the first

(08:13):
giveaway for me that it's not exactly the IRS. They're
not that polite. Plus, they don't text, they call. They
call a lot, and then when you don't answer, not
that I know this for any particular reason, but if
you don't answer, then they just come take the money.

Speaker 6 (08:24):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
They ask you nicely at first, kind of, and then
they don't ask you nicely anymore. Then they just come
and take him. But the scammers are playing off recent news.
In late December, the agency said it was sending out
two point four million dollars in total to a million
people who didn't get all of their federal stimulus checks
during the pandemic. However, those payments are happening automatically, and
the link in the text takes you to a fake

(08:46):
site that looks like an official website. The IRS is
warning that the only way that anyone will contact you
is through the postal service, never text or emails. They
will call you. People have said they won't call you
anym or they'll call you.

Speaker 4 (09:00):
I don't think I would believe it if the I
r S called me, I wouldn't like, I wouldn't trust that.

Speaker 1 (09:05):
It was a long time ago. But I did get
a call from the IRS. Could I was ignoring their
invitation to be audited? Oh my god, I didn't really know.
I didn't really realize what was happening, but I just
I said, this must be a mistake. It was. It
was something wacky. It was a long time ago, but
it was like, and I have a guy that does
my taxes, so I called him. But it was like

(09:26):
I deducted something on a rental property at the time
that they said you can't. I mean they wanted, they
didn't want much. It wasn't a lot, but they were
trying to get me for the penalties. Could I've been
ignoring them just the offshore accounts?

Speaker 7 (09:37):
Right?

Speaker 1 (09:37):
Well? They about one of the offshore accounts. I had
to move some money around me. Yeah, I called Colina,
I said hey, and then I got banned from Venmo.
Just like you for moneylaundering using Venmo. But then my
my tax guy was like, okay, well then we'll pay them.
But like then, but then whatever was they wanted it
was it write off the next year. So it was like, okay, yeah,

(09:59):
write them to check, then well get it back next year.
It was like dumb. I don't even remember what it was.
But it was something we tried to do and it
didn't work. I honestly have no idea and it wasn't
that big a deal. But they wanted all these penalties
because I, you know, ignored them. Well, I don't want
to talk to them.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
Sounds scary.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
I don't want to I don't want this letter.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
What does to sound like you? I feel like you
wouldn't answer that.

Speaker 1 (10:20):
I don't know why I was ignoring it. I was like,
there's just no way, though, there's no way this is right,
like this in a way, and I just threw it away.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
Audit if I got anything that's an audit that it
was there was a discrepancy. I think that was the
next step though. Anyway, I got an illustraightened out. But
this is a long time ago, and you know I'm
able to vote, then let me vote again now I
can vote.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
A lot of talk about asteroids lately, guys, and I
just want you to know that the odds of an asteroid
striking Earth, they keep going up. So we got planes
flipping over, We got all kinds of crazy stuff happening,
you know. We got people being swallowed by by whales.
We got people trying to take pictures. Which did you
hear about this? This is over the weekend. I guess
the one was trying to take a selfie with a shark.
It bit both of her hands off. Why would we

(11:07):
take a picture with sharks? If you see a shark,
why are you like, hey, hold on one, sead, Hey
grab the phone, guys, let's take it. But no, I'm running,
I'm swimming fast. I'm running.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
Yeah, she kind of had the day she deserved at
that point.

Speaker 1 (11:19):
I mean, you hate to see it, but like.

Speaker 2 (11:21):
Right, you hate to see it, but you see it.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
And you, guys know, if you've been listening for any
period of time, you know that I believe that I
can I can reason with most wild animals. I do
believe that a shark is not one of them. No,
I don't believe I can reason when the shark I
also don't think the shark could hear me if I
tried to. It's in the water. Hello, and I'm out
of the water. Probably. But my feet, of all things,
don't taste good. My hands don't bite them. They don't
even taste good. It's not worth them. Like I guess, honey,

(11:46):
bees if they sting you, don't they die instantly? Yea, yeah, honey,
And I see it. I don't like bees. And they're
swarming around, swarming whatever they're doing, and I'm like, don't
even bother, don't sting me. I don't taste good, and
you're gonna die. Yeah, you know. So that works sometimes
with with a b with me reasoning with wild animals.
But the chances of an asteroid hitting Earth in twenty

(12:09):
thirty two were going up. A new estimate from NASA's
Jet Propulsion Laboratory says the asteroid, called the twenty twenty
four y R four, has a two point six percent
chance of an Earth impact, which is up from two
point three last week. If you were worried about this,
if you're betting on it, like Caitlin probably is. NASA
says that near Earth asteroid measures up to three hundred
feet across and has a very small chance of hitting

(12:31):
Earth December twenty second of twenty thirty two. That said,
the probability has been increasing since the asteroid was discovered
weeks ago. In late January, the chance of a hitting
Earth was only one point two percent, so it's going
up quickly. And a therapist who treats phone addictions, Kiki,
says that the withdrawal symptoms that people suffer are similar
to those experienced by drug addicts.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
Yes, oh yes, this is what happened when TikTok win now.

Speaker 8 (12:57):
So.

Speaker 1 (12:57):
Lee Fernandez says that in the last five years he's
seen a significant rise in phone technology and social media addictions,
with one of his recent clients spending between fifteen and
seventeen hours a day on YouTube. Oh wow really yeah,
I guess so. And for those who try and quit,
you can suffer withdrawal symptoms which are as serious as
those experienced by drug users trying to quit heroine, like shaking, sweating,

(13:22):
and insomnia. All jokes aside, you were not shaking or
sweating the insomnia Maybe fred.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
I was shaking this way.

Speaker 3 (13:30):
Stop now it's real, je I'm not alone, Jason, I cried, Yeah,
it's for real. It was like I got into an
argument with my man, Like it was just I wasn't myself.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
I wasn't myself all because you knew you couldn't look
at TikTok. Yes, oh boy?

Speaker 7 (13:45):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (13:46):
When did he get you a hobby or something? No,
people gravitate to their phones and social media for a
quick hit of dopamine, a hormone that boosts your mood. However,
he warns that doing this can actually burn out the
rewards centers in your brain, making it more difficult to
enjoy other acts. Are you able to enjoy life?

Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (14:03):
I love life? Yeah, tig time okay, Ti Tek National
Drink Wine Day Today. The Entertainmer Report will do it next.
Blogs after that are audio journals. It's Tuesday, which means
Tuesday stuff say or go? Coming up on the Fread Show.
Kaitlyn's Entertainment Report, and he is on the Fread Show.

Speaker 5 (14:21):
Have you guys been following this? Elon Musk Baby Mama stuff?
WHOA A lot was going on over the weekend and
I realized it's Tuesday, but there's just so much happening.
Elon muss alleged new baby Mama says she was all
about keeping their little one under wraps, but now that
the cat's out of the bag, she's claiming he is
coasting her. So a rep for Ashley Saint Clair says

(14:43):
that she had been respecting his wish to keep their
supposed baby news private, but things took a turn when
a reporter started hounding her, hinting that they were hours
away from dropping this huge story.

Speaker 2 (14:54):
Now, her rap says that Ashley, who.

Speaker 5 (14:57):
You may have seen on Fox News, she is a
regular com imitator on there. She wasn't about to let
a reporter run the story, so she took matters into
her own hands and drop this news herself on X Friday.
At least she did it on his platform, so he
will get money for that. I guess Elon and Ashley
were supposedly in the loop with each other throughout this
entire pregnancy, but Ashley, in a rep say that Elon

(15:17):
and his team have completely ghosted her. By the way,
the only thing that Elon said publicly so far as
far as I've seen, correct me if I'm wrong, but
he commented WHOA under an ex post claiming that Ashley's
been chasing after him.

Speaker 2 (15:28):
For years, So not a denial I guess.

Speaker 5 (15:31):
Ashley says that she's not after his cash, she just
wants what's best for their baby, which would be the
billionaire's number thirteen if her claim is true.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
So I don't know what's going on.

Speaker 5 (15:42):
But and he he wants to have all these kids,
so I don't know why he wouldn't claim it if
it was his.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
Kid, right, Yeah, because he's got one of those complexes
right where he wants to like pro create till he's replicated,
like his own planet or something like he wants to
make enough people that he overtakes the world or something. Yeah,
taking that up. I don't know if that's true, but.

Speaker 4 (16:01):
Giving that ladies like stop, please stop. This is all
women in the world. Stop looking up with Elon Musk,
God anybody else.

Speaker 2 (16:13):
Right, and the money is right.

Speaker 5 (16:17):
Grimes has said, like he doesn't give you cash, like, so,
I don't know why.

Speaker 1 (16:20):
We're doing here, not getting anything out of it.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (16:22):
And then obviously his son Pemdas was at the White
House like may or may not have said, you're not
my president, but his mom, Pemdas's mom or x y
Z or whatever the hell his name is, was like
I didn't even know he was there. Thanks for letting
me know.

Speaker 4 (16:34):
She's like, why are you putting him in these situations
like stressed?

Speaker 1 (16:38):
But so he revealed to The Wall Street Journal in
twenty twenty two, ony he's had so many kids. He says,
there are not enough people. I can't emphasize this enough.
There are not enough people. So there are many people
believe that the population is growing out of control, but
it's completely the opposite. If people don't have more children,
civilization it's going to crumble, mark my words. He says,

(17:01):
I'm just trying to set a good example and practice
what I preach.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
Okay, you've you've shown us, right, So.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
He's trying to he is trying to like recreate you know,
the world's population himself.

Speaker 9 (17:13):
Okay, well it's good to have goals, I guess, but
whatever I'm trying not to, right, Well, he's making up
for you.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
Well, but yeah, and Elon would have a problem with that.
He would think that was very selfish of me to
actively try not to. But thank you, Yeah, thanks for
doing it for me. That's good.

Speaker 5 (17:29):
Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds were among the many celebrity
guests in the audience. During SNL's fiftieth anniversary so show,
and all I could picture while I was watching this
was like all of their entourages, all of their people.

Speaker 2 (17:42):
How did they have the room for that?

Speaker 5 (17:44):
I mean, there were so many stars in one place,
like a security nightmare I had to imagine. But of
course this couple was there, and they very much made
their presence known. I mean they kind of I mean,
Ryan kind of spoke about the legal battle, but where
does that? Everyone else who was there was really confused
as to why they showed up to this taping amid

(18:05):
this ongoing legal battle with Justin Beldoni that everyone is
talking about. One person who was at Thirty Rock for
the taping says that they were the talk of the
entire evening. Many people avoided them. Another said that at
the after party they overheard someone saying who told them
to come? Who invited them? But they were talking and schmoozing.
After the show wrapped, they stayed at the studio for

(18:26):
an hour, mingling, taking selfies with other actors, cast and crew.
I'm told that they left the studio with Paul McCartney
of all people, before they skipped the after party and
went home because it was already late.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
But plus all the egos and all the the you know,
beef and all the rest of it, Like, how were
they able to keep people that didn't like each other?
Like I saw Pete Davidson walking away from an interview
on the Red Carpet and Kim Kardashian walk by. He
had to just be like, Okay, cool.

Speaker 2 (18:50):
Yeah, they a lot of the room.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
You had to know, you had to know that X's
baby mom is baby daddies.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
Yes. I just couldn't stop thinking about it.

Speaker 5 (18:58):
And they did that bit where you know, you have
the celebrities in the audience and then you go do
a question time something they always do.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
But anyone who as anyone was there. It was crazy.

Speaker 5 (19:08):
And now speaking of this after party was at the
Plaza Hotel and again it was probably a security nightmare.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
Kim Kardashian, Lady God got Dave Chappelle.

Speaker 5 (19:16):
A ton of people were there, Robert de Niro, Jenna Ortega, Halsey,
Meryl Streep who Meryl Streep was even in the episode
the iconic alien abduction episode. I love that all of
them were breaking character and couldn't stop laughing. Martin Short,
Paul Rudd, craziness, and I'll probably have to talk about
this again next hour because there.

Speaker 2 (19:37):
Were so much going on.

Speaker 5 (19:39):
Also, Miley Cyrus covering Shinead O'Connor was very, very powerful.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
I saw people arguing that she was doing Prince's version.

Speaker 5 (19:47):
I don't think so, because I think the Shanade thing
is very timely for SNL and she passed away, so
I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
But it was a lot. So I'll talk about the
rest next hour. But did you guys watch it at all?

Speaker 6 (19:59):
Anyone?

Speaker 2 (20:00):
Just on TikTok?

Speaker 1 (20:01):
I didn't have to watch it. I just watched all
the clips.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
There's a lot.

Speaker 5 (20:04):
The music one is really good if you haven't seen
that yet. By the way, you can catch up on
anything you missed from our show by getting the free
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Speaker 1 (20:12):
I can context the fread show anytime. Eight five five
one three five. I have no idea who made this
this list, and if these people, I assume that they
were women, get to speak for all of womenkind. So
I want, like the real list. I'll tell you what
was on theirs, but I want the real Fred Show
list from you guys. Eight five five, five three five.

(20:34):
But this article is titled so of course you got
my attention. Fifteen things that men are required by law
to know about women.

Speaker 6 (20:43):
Fifteen.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
Well, I think they took some liberties there, but fifteen
things that men are required by law to know about women.
So now do you want to hear what they think this? Like?
These are the things that men, all men it must
know about women? I want to know. Should I tell
you the list? See what you think of it? But
what I really want to know is what should be
on this I think there are more practical things that
should be on this list? Okay? Number one? And by

(21:09):
we I mean women, So I'm speaking from a female perspective? Now,
which is which is not? I often come from? Yeah,
I am, it's all in, that's right. Okay. So these
are the things that men are required to know about women.

(21:31):
Number one, We cry, We as women cry for no
reason sometimes. Okay, okay, now that's the reason always you've
never found yourself just crying? Like, why am I crying?

Speaker 2 (21:42):
It might be a dumb reason, but it's the reason.

Speaker 1 (21:45):
What was the dumbest thing you can remember crying for lately? Lately?

Speaker 2 (21:49):
Hmmm? TikTok TikTok was a dumb reason.

Speaker 1 (21:53):
Lord.

Speaker 3 (21:55):
One day, I just looked at my dog and I
was just like, man, I love you, bro happy like
lex Mann is off of you.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
Man, you started crying?

Speaker 2 (22:06):
Yes right now?

Speaker 1 (22:08):
Okay, the dumbest reason you cried lately?

Speaker 9 (22:11):
Oh well, Hobby decided that he didn't want to put
like a larger amount of pasta on my plate. And
I got really offended because I was like, I'm hungry
and he didn't give me as much as he gave himself.
I won't eat it all, but I want the same
amount as he wants.

Speaker 1 (22:24):
Does that make sense? Was there some left over or
did he just take Oh no, we had a lot
left over three days, so you were like, give me more.

Speaker 9 (22:31):
He said no, Well, things I know, but he was
just confused because you're not going to eat all this,
which is true.

Speaker 2 (22:35):
He does eat more than I do. But I wanted
to match his plate.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
So you start crying.

Speaker 2 (22:38):
I was very offunded.

Speaker 1 (22:40):
I don't I don't know if I'm worthy of this.
I don't know if I'm worthy of the right of
having that in my home.

Speaker 2 (22:48):
Like, no, I don't want that in my home.

Speaker 1 (22:49):
No I'm not. I'm not saying that you're wrong to
express your emotion however you want. I know, Oh no, it's.

Speaker 5 (22:58):
Just the literal, like you're so literal and I and pragmatic.
I just I don't know if we're gonna ever see
eye to eye on the emotions thing.

Speaker 1 (23:07):
In fairness, though in all fairness, can we can cut
the bs for one second? Like I love you? But
if a woman is crying because I didn't put one
extra thing of pasta, like that's not I know, that's
not really defensive, Like we're not talking about logic, but
you're admitting what I'm saying like that, that's not what

(23:28):
we're you going, Oh no, Like that's a ridiculous reason
to cry. There's nothing I can do about that, because
I could get you're crying and I go one more scoop,
here you go, and you're still crying.

Speaker 9 (23:36):
Like problem solved. Why are we crying? Well, he forgot
to make the garlic bread. He forgot to make it too.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
I want to cry about that. But like my whole
thing about logic versus reason or whatever, that's that's not
that's that's this is nothing to do with that.

Speaker 5 (23:51):
But was it a certain time of the month, did
she have a hard day taking care of the baby.

Speaker 2 (23:55):
Like That's what I'm saying, is like there's layers. There's
layers to the crying. Ish. I mean, I know this
is my every day at home.

Speaker 3 (24:02):
Guys, I don't want to see the I wouldn't want
this in my house either.

Speaker 10 (24:10):
Day.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
I don't know, man, like I know a dog.

Speaker 9 (24:15):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (24:17):
But here's the problem. The problem is like if I
see a woman crying, or anybody really, but if I
see a woman crying, like I'm going to do everything
I can to fix it. But like if it's something
like that where it's that easy to fix and that
inadvertent and not intentional and whatever, it's like I don't
know what to do with that. And if I if
I were doing that all the time, I would just
be like I don't know what to do with this,
like like penalize like cry, like if you expressive emotions,

(24:42):
if I screw something up, so then I know that
I can fix it. But like if you cry about
a lot of stuff, then I don't know what you're
really crying about and what you know what I mean,
Like I don't know what I'm supposed to prioritize here
another scoop of pasta, or like you know, I don't know,
not forgetting our anniversary, you know, something way worse. I
guess that's what I'm It wouldn be very confusing to me.
I'm not criticizing it. I would just be like, is

(25:03):
this are you being hormonal? Or are you being this?
Or did I really upset you? Which one is it?
I don't know how do I what do I do well?
And then I can't ask questions? So I can't ask questions.
I can't be frustrated.

Speaker 2 (25:18):
Learning it's exactly right?

Speaker 3 (25:21):
What does hovey do in that situation? Like what does
he do well?

Speaker 1 (25:25):
First?

Speaker 2 (25:25):
The first thing is for ust He'll say what's wrong?
Like that's where we started? Which is any question?

Speaker 9 (25:29):
Right?

Speaker 1 (25:29):
Very nice question where I would start?

Speaker 9 (25:31):
Yes, And then that does leave the door open for communications. So, yes,
it was a hard day with the baby, or this
happened you know earlier today, I got this email and
I'm so upset, And yes, emails make me sad sometimes,
so like I know the time, so I'm just like,
you know, I want to just vent, But then you know,
when I'm not logical, I have to hear about how
it doesn't make sense to him and he can't really

(25:52):
wrap his head around it, and.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
Then I figure there's a circle of that.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
No, but here's the thing. Here's what I appreciate about
that scenario is that if I I'll give you enough
pasta and you start crying, but then you tell me
that it's because of something else, I can live with
that because I I this, men are no different Like
I will go if something happens here that that upsets
me or somewhere else. I will probably go into my
day with an attitude, and I find myself having to

(26:18):
check myself. And then if I do show somebody some
attitude I didn't mean to, I try and go back
and tell that, hey, my bad. I'm you know. That
wasn't done you.

Speaker 11 (26:25):
That was on me.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
So at least there's some communication. But do you always
do that or do you sometimes cry and then like
don't tell him why and then he thinks it's about him.
I'm sure that's happened, because that's the frustrating part is
what I think you're emoting about me, and I don't
know how to fix it because I didn't necessarily do it.

Speaker 5 (26:44):
Yeah, I think that's another big issue between men and women. Traditionally,
if you're in that sort of relationship, is you guys
always want to fix it, and sometimes we don't want
you to fix it.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
We just want to talk and be heard.

Speaker 5 (26:55):
So like my boyfriend goes into like fix it mode
and we're rushing around and we're doing things, and I
don't want you to fix it. I just want you
to hear me. And I think that that's like the
fundamental difference. So if you ask, like do you want
me to help you solve or do you want someone
to listen?

Speaker 2 (27:08):
That's always really hard.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
I guess just those differentiating factors will be helpful for
us to know on the other side, like, hey, is
this about me? Is this about something else? I did
this thing that made you cry? But are you really
crying about me? And do you want me to do
anything about it? Because if I don't ask questions and
I don't do anything about it, then I'm insensitive. But
I so it's a very difficult spot, it is. I mean,
we've only gotten through number one, Okay, number two, we

(27:33):
also liked to events, Okay, fine, number three. We have
fears you might see as irrational, Okay, but I don't
think that's a gender thing. I have fears that people
think are irrational. So yeah, okay, we love it when
you call us. These are fifteen things that men are
required by law to know about women. See, I don't
think that's true.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
Don't ever call me.

Speaker 1 (27:53):
Oh no, I always call you me.

Speaker 12 (27:56):
No, okay, there's way, Okay, you're fine.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
We prefer that you let us know if you're not
into us. I mean the iguin. That'd be nice to
know in any circumstance.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
Yeah, you might cry in vent but but you want
me to call you and tell you. Would you prefer Hey,
I'm not into you. We don't require grand gestures, but
they're nice. See. Now that's another one. I've dated people
who do want the grand gesture. I've dated people who don't.
I've dated people who want to be doted on. I've

(28:34):
dated people who don't like it's case by case's true.
I don't know if these are all universal. We don't
define a relationship by the size of a ring.

Speaker 12 (28:42):
No, don't Who wrote these? Yeah, it's not universal. I'm
wondering at this point. It says we, But again I'm
saying we, you know, I don't. I don't represent you
guys at all.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
We love babies, but that doesn't mean that we want
to rush into things.

Speaker 5 (29:00):
I mean, okay not oh women like love are obsessed
with babies like that, So.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (29:07):
True, Yeah, I guess I don't assume that every woman
wants a baby. But when I go when I'm on
my second day with you and you say, so, where's
this headed because I want to have a kid like
that typically indicates to me that you would like to
have a baby. Because you just said that, we aren't
comparing you to our exes, yeah you are. That's the lie.
And I think that happens all the time. I think

(29:29):
people compare the people they are with the their exes
all the time. Can't deny it, No, But except that's
that's a that's a confirmation, because you would just deny
it so exatly. Some one says that, I'm like, well,
you would just deny it if it weren't true. We
tend to overanalyze, Okay, we prefer direct communication.

Speaker 2 (29:52):
I do like that.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
Yeah, okay, okay, but okay, but then the direct communication
means that I'm asking questions about things you said. I've
just been told by you guys not to ask questions about.
So I'm trying to communicate, but now I'm annoying because
I'm asking why you're crying. But I just gave you
more posita Paulinas. It's not crying. That's why I don't
mess with y'all. Thank you for at least thank you

(30:15):
for it, maing. It could be a little confusing because
these are contra even these, even this list contradicts itself.
So we appreciate courtesy. Okay, we still want to feel feminine,
beautiful and safe. Yes, okay, we hold you in high regard.
Not always. No, I don't think so, I mean, like
anybody else. I don't think everyone's all you know. I

(30:38):
think that's that's situational, and we can still tie our
shoes and do any number of other complex, herculean things.

Speaker 2 (30:45):
H hercules.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
I don't know who's if you're If you're someone questioning that,
then your misogynists, your terrible human being. Of course women
can do many, many, many things. You do it every day,
So I don't I don't know.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
Oh that was for me, like I tie my shoes.

Speaker 1 (30:59):
No, I'm I'm Paulina. Just welcome to the show. I'm
reading you a list of We've been talking about the
same thing but last time, but I didn't know this
is this is the same perspective as the other fourteen.
I don't like it either, But I'm He says we
can still tie our shoes and do any number of
other complex, herculean things.

Speaker 2 (31:20):
I said complex, Like I'm concerned. Is that complex to do?

Speaker 1 (31:24):
I mean, you guys can create life and extract it
from your body. And I don't know why anyone's not
impressed by that. Yeah, maybe not in that moment. You
can't tie your shoes. But I don't understand this. Last
I don't want it. Somebody said how many tampons will use?
Man needs to know that?

Speaker 2 (31:41):
Oh he doesn't.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
Come on, I don't know why I would need to.
I mean business, I would.

Speaker 5 (31:47):
Like I'll tell you what flavor I want if I
need to send you to get some.

Speaker 2 (31:50):
But no, I'm kidding. You don't need to know how many.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
Yeah, I don't know, really individuals. I think it's nice
if a guy has some perspective on that, but like,
I don't. I don't know why I need to know
the ins and outside because I don't know what that
offers to you. At all. But at least you can
still tell your shoes some days.

Speaker 2 (32:10):
That's a good thing, you know, not every day.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
I don't know. I don't know about this list, right, no? Wow?

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Watch, I mean the list is just is just I'm
with Jason.

Speaker 1 (32:20):
Okay, well then give me one. Okay, I'm gonna push
the button. But you guys, each give me one that
wasn't on the list that you really want to know, Like, like,
what is something that a man needs to know about
you by law that wasn't on this list? So you
can't come up with anything else. But you don't like
this list.

Speaker 2 (32:37):
I don't like the list at all.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
Don't you say that I'm a princess and I deserve
whatever I want, whatever I want a queen? Yes, and
I should be treated as such at all time period, Boots, Yes, wow.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
And if I'm crying, it's something you did, right.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
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Speaker 2 (34:19):
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Speaker 1 (34:22):
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Speaker 2 (34:28):
I'm crazy. Ah yeah, painting.

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(34:52):
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Speaker 11 (34:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (34:53):
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Speaker 1 (34:55):
Little bit of time, ye, squeeze for another day, a
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Speaker 5 (35:09):
And artists who performed at the Grammys is calling people
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Speaker 2 (35:17):
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Speaker 5 (35:19):
SNL fifty special at oj Simpson's expense and his family
thinks it's hilarious, which.

Speaker 1 (35:27):
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take it away.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
Dear blog.

Speaker 5 (35:47):
So we've been talking about women all morning, and one
thing about us, women who want to be mothers one
day is we are going to have our babies named.
Since we're children, we are going to have Okay, you agree,
you feel this, Okay, So we're going to have. Some
women it's their wedding. Some women it's neither, and that's okay.
But if you want to have children's, if you want

(36:09):
to have children's, if you want to have children's, if
you want to be a mom, you're.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
Going to have them named. Okay.

Speaker 5 (36:15):
I have had my children's named since God for years
and years and years.

Speaker 2 (36:20):
My whole friend group knows it.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
You have a boy and a girl name.

Speaker 2 (36:23):
I have twins runs in my family.

Speaker 5 (36:25):
So at first I named twin girls because I keep
getting told but yes, I have boy names and girl names,
and since I've started a list, so I have a
whole long list, but I have, you know, obviously, names
that are my top priority. So I get a text
from one of my best best friends from college the
other day and she said, hey, are you still going
to name your baby X? Which I will not be

(36:46):
saying the baby name because I know well.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
Because it would go viral if you said it totally,
if you said, if you said your baby name, everybody
born today would named exactly totally.

Speaker 5 (36:56):
And so she asked me that, and I was like,
what the why are you asking me this? First of all,
I said, second of all, no, I don't think so,
because another celebrity, not another celebrity, took the baby name.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Another celebrity. Yeah, I'm I'm a fellow celebrity.

Speaker 2 (37:12):
Celebrities.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
Celebrities are always badly over the names, you guys.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
I'm so tired.

Speaker 5 (37:18):
I had I had a weekend, but a celebrity named
their baby girl the name that I wanted to name
my baby girl. And then the name got really popular,
it kind of died down again. Because so that's why
I'm not saying it because I might, you know, it might. Yeah,
thanks a lot. I said no because the celebrity named

(37:39):
it that and the name has been played out.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
And she said okay, because I wanted to name my
dog that, right, And I was like, okay, So it's nice.

Speaker 5 (37:48):
That she's asking, But what kind of person would I
be if I'm not even pregnant? And I'm like, you
can't name your dog that name. So I was like,
deep sigh, all right, go ahead, name your dog that name.

Speaker 2 (37:57):
What am I going to say?

Speaker 8 (37:58):
No?

Speaker 2 (37:58):
It's my name?

Speaker 5 (38:00):
And then she like reversed psychology psychologied me and was like, well, no,
I don't want to take that name, give me another
name for the dog.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
I'm like, I don't know what we're doing here.

Speaker 1 (38:09):
Wow, So you confide it in your friend what you
want to name your baby? And then she goes, now
I want to name my dog that. That's okay, it's
different category. If she named her kid that, I would
be more offended than if she named her dog that different.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
Category, different category, which is why I said yes. I mean,
who am I to like hold on to a name?

Speaker 5 (38:28):
But I just I thought it was interesting and kind
that she asked but then also, like I don't know,
it's very interesting.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
In our family, it's dog names. We have dog names
that we've set aside for each other. Like I have
a female dog name that I would like to name
my first dog of my own. Huh, And no one
in the family is able to name their dog that
because that will be mine and I don't yet have
a dog, but everyone knows I will at some point
and then that will be my dog's name, so nobody
else can name their dog that.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
I feel that I have a list of dog names
in my phone too.

Speaker 8 (38:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (38:58):
I mean when we first got our family dog, Chance.

Speaker 5 (39:00):
They wanted to name him one of the boy names
that I have, and I had to put the kebash
on that.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
Oh wow, they went to your baby list name. Who
are these people?

Speaker 2 (39:09):
They're oh my, that's why you can't tell them. You
can't tell you can't share this kind of information. That's
why I learned my lesson.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
Yeah, you have to keep it to yourself. I think, yes,
I am so.

Speaker 2 (39:18):
I don't know. You guys, get one of those.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
Diaries with like a little lock on it, like we
had when you were kids, and so that nobody can
open it up and look in there read that because
you couldn't use a paper clip and just pop it open.
It certainly couldn't. I'm sure nobody did that and read
what I was writing about the parents divorced and number
camp experiences, and you know, you.

Speaker 2 (39:38):
Know what trauma.

Speaker 1 (39:40):
The frend show is on. It's stay or Go the
same way about vacation spot. Someone texted that too, like
that's terrible when you say this just happened to my mom.
My mom was like, my dream trip is x y
Z no joke. Her best friend took the.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
Trip without her yep, jny dog wow, took.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
Her entire family on the that trip that my mom
specified was her dream trip, and then didn't invite her
to come alone doing that. Yeah yeah, Now, not that
this woman had any obligation to invite my mom, but
it's like you could have or pay for her whatever
she You could have at least said, wan't you this
is your dream trip, we're planning it. But I got
the inspiration from you. Why don't you join us? You know,

(40:19):
pay your own way or whatever, but why don't you
join us?

Speaker 2 (40:21):
Your mom gave her that idea.

Speaker 1 (40:22):
Yes, yes, yes, so it's the same thing. It was
a very very similar thing where it's like, well, wait, mante,
that was that's my dream. Why are you doing it?
I told you about him? Hi, Rebecca, good morning.

Speaker 7 (40:35):
Good morning.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
How are you good?

Speaker 7 (40:38):
Thanks?

Speaker 1 (40:38):
How are you guys doing doing great? Thanks for being
part of the show, Systarego. It's kind of like group
therapy here. You you've been married to this man. I
don't know for how long. I'm not even sure if
that's relevant, but you're you're a married woman and you're
having an issue within your relationships. What's going on?

Speaker 7 (40:54):
Yeah, thanks so much. It's so here's the thing. My
husband and I have been married ten years, and we've
got two kids, and he's he's been working downtown for
quite a while, and of course with the kids and
their activities and all, you know, keeps them away from
a lot of that. So you know, he's started to

(41:16):
look at the idea of maybe getting a place downtown
for the nights when he needs to stay in because
the community's gotten really long.

Speaker 2 (41:24):
It's over an.

Speaker 7 (41:25):
Hour each way, and it's just you know, takes a
lot out of him, but it's expenseful and all of
those things, so you know, it's something we really can't
consider moving right now because the kids are in school
and that's just not really a feasible option. And you know,
he's doing well enough, we're in good shape. We could
really afford to either buy or rent another place. But

(41:47):
the only thing that's kind of you know, it all
sounds great, but you know, with things going on these days,
all of a sudden, I had this, you know, question
that came up in my mind. I'm wondering, is this
a red flag? Is something else going on?

Speaker 1 (42:02):
Is it normally?

Speaker 7 (42:03):
Is what people are doing now because they can.

Speaker 1 (42:06):
So this dude's you know, spending what ten plus hours
a week going back and forth that partly alone, going
back and forth from from the suburbs wherever you live,
to the city to work. And so this guy he's like, look,
I'm just going to not do that every day and
I'm going to stay downtown sometimes not. Is he start
trying to do this like Monday through Friday or is

(42:28):
he just saying like certain days because this is I've
heard of this happening. You know.

Speaker 7 (42:33):
Sometimes it just you know, something comes up, it's a
there's a deadline, or there's a client meeting, and something
runs over and by the time he gets home. He
wouldn't even see the kids. So you know, it's it's
reasonable that you know, it's his time and his where
it's wear and tear on him.

Speaker 1 (42:51):
Yeah, and well I know of I actually know of
a guy who used to do this. He lives in
New York and so every day, whatever that process was,
it was too much, so he would you know, I
think it was like Tuesday through Thursday. He would stay
in the city in like a studio and he had
all of his clothes there and he could work out,
he could do whatever he did, and then he worked,
you know, most of the time, because a guy was
working like seven am to seven pm. So the idea,

(43:14):
I mean, even if he did go home, to your point,
he wouldn't see his kids, he wouldn't be there for
very long, and then you have to turn around to
do it again. So he would work. I think it
was Mondays and Fridays from home, and then Tuesday through
Thursday he lived in this apartment and then you'd go
back for so I don't I mean it's efficient. I
get that. I feel for people. I'm grateful for people
who sit in drab it because you have to listen

(43:34):
to us. But I feel for people who that is
a component of their day, you know, because it's like
you work all day and then in my mind I'd
be thinking and then whatever time I have to deal
with all that, and then I'd wake up in the
morning I have to deal with all that. So I
don't people are texting immediately it's a red flag. I'm
not sure that inherently it's a red flag. Now I

(43:54):
have to ask the question, Rebecca, is there anything else
going on? Do you have any other reason if he
hadn't come to you and said I want to live
in the city during the week, would you have any
other reason to suspect that he was up to something?

Speaker 7 (44:06):
No, I don't really think so. I mean, he used
to travel a lot for work before we had kids,
so I know what that kind of time away is
like too. So you know, it's it's kind of just,
you know, you hear things in the minute. You sort
of say, you know, to a friend, oh, you know,
John's thinking maybe we should get a place in the city,
and then I, you know, and the kids and I

(44:28):
go in and all of that, and you know, I
saw an eyebrow goal office ask why. So you know,
it's just I don't know why somebody else would even
plant that seed. But you know, all of a sudden,
there's some more information to be considered because I guess.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
If it went from Okay, I'm going to stay down
there a couple couple of nights a week, so then
I'm staying down there for a whole week, and all
I got to say it for the weekend too, you know,
if it if it turned into that, but it will, yes,
we don't know. Then I'm a conspiracy there is here,
And I don't know that it necessarily does. I Look,
if he's got money like that and you guys are

(45:03):
doing that, well, I could see it every now and again, like, okay,
so the guy he's got working maybe a work dinner
or something, and then he doesn't want to drive all
the way home, Like if you got the money like
that and he's and he's that successful that I don't
necessarily think this is a red flag in and of itself, Kiki,
How would this be any different than somebody who's on
the road two or three days a week for their
for their job, which is very common.

Speaker 2 (45:24):
Yeah, but he's not on the road. He's not on
the road. And if you have this much money and income,
then move your family closer to your job.

Speaker 3 (45:30):
But she just said that they don't want to move
the kids. Well, get another job or sit in traffic.
I feel like letting him stay out of his home
is a big red flag because it starts with okay,
he's going to spend the night.

Speaker 2 (45:43):
The next thing you know, the DoorDash lady's getting invited in.

Speaker 1 (45:50):
As a person, as a person who doesn't leave his
home and is hoping that one day the DoorDash lady
is going to be my wife, because that's the only
way I'm going to meet somebody. It hasn't happened yet
in a lot of years and a lot of orders. Okay,
look what if they just they established boundaries and then
if he violates the boundaries, well then I think they
have to revisit the no.

Speaker 2 (46:11):
I don't like it, Problena, you a married one, Yes,
I sure am.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
Okay, Well he goes to the quote unquote firehouse.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
He has to sleep there. He has no choice, save
it lives, right, Okay, But.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
I don't know what if we found out so there's
any number of things. I'm picking up a shift and
he's not. I don't know for sure. All kinds of variables.

Speaker 9 (46:30):
I don't think that this is a cheating situation. I
don't think he's gonna have a whole other family. I
just I just see it as the mental load is
gonna fall way more on Rebecca. I don't know if
you work, Rebecca, but I see it as like, Okay,
it's not a vacation, but it's a vacation if dad
gets to be away for whatever Monday through Friday or
money through Thursday. Because at the end of the day, yes,

(46:50):
he doesn't see the kids, he gets home too late,
but there's still things to do at home. We do dishes, laundry,
all these things, and everything's gonna fall on Rebecca.

Speaker 1 (46:58):
You know, I've heard that argument before, but it's well,
that's real. Okay, Well I'll finish my thought anyway. But yeah,
I hear that. Yeah, but I also you're not giving
and this is a different conversation. I don't think you're
giving the man or the woman on the other side
of that argument any credit when you say that, because
you're assuming let's say this guy has the best intentions,

(47:19):
and let's say this guy really does feel that the
commute is affecting his life negatively. He doesn't get to
see his kids, his heirs. He wants to spend a
couple of nights a week, And the thing is that
a vacation, maybe, But you're assuming that that dude doesn't
want anything to do with his family and doesn't want
to be at practice and doesn't want to pick the
kids up from school. And I know a lot of
folks that wish they had that opportunity, but they don't.

(47:39):
So I don't think it's fair to say that a
parent who's not at home doing the parenting job every
day is just off willy nilly having a great old time,
because I think there are men and women out there
who wish that they could be doing a lot of
that work and they don't get to do it.

Speaker 9 (47:57):
Yeah, and no, I'm not discrediting anything he's doing because
he's making a sacrifice too.

Speaker 2 (48:01):
Parenting is sacrifice.

Speaker 9 (48:02):
It's a lot of sacrifices, whether you're at home, you're working, whatever,
it's all sacrifice. But what I'm saying is that there's
still more to do than than just you know, drop
off the kids whatever, which he's already missing that, and
I'm sure it's hurting him.

Speaker 2 (48:13):
I'm sure it bothers him. Like he's a father.

Speaker 9 (48:14):
I'm sure he wants to see his kids go to
practice and dribble the ball and do all these things.
I'm sure he wants to see that, but he can't
as of right now with his job situation, he can't
do that. He can't be there, But he sot needs
to come home at night and still be a husband still,
you know, be a part of this household, because I
do believe even though he works full time, he works
a lot, he saw us to contribute to the home.

Speaker 1 (48:33):
Reckon, let me let me take some phocos on this
and and thank you for calling. Have the radio wanting
good luck?

Speaker 11 (48:39):
Thank you eight.

Speaker 2 (48:41):
Five check that phone. Oh my god, No, he's not nice.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
I don't know. Like I have a friend who's a
pilot and he's been a pilot his whole life and
for twenty something years it's been an issue in his
relationship because it's like, well, I have to drive the
kid to school every day. Well you're in you know,
santrope or whatever. And he's like, you know what, I
am in santrope because I fly for a gazillionaire who
wants to be in santrope. But I also don't get

(49:08):
to sleep in my own bed. You're not here, my
kids aren't here.

Speaker 11 (49:12):
You know.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
Do you want me to sit in my room for
a week and cry? You know? But like yet I'm
sending you. You know, the life that we're living is
provided by this job. So you're right. I didn't have
to sit in the pickup line today, and I didn't
have to go get groceries. But what is the alternative? Right,
because you know, he's married to a lovely woman, but

(49:33):
like there's no income coming from that side, and he's
not discrediting. That's the biggest thing for me is he
doesn't discredit how hard her life is.

Speaker 2 (49:41):
Either exactly, that's a good man. Exactly a good man.

Speaker 1 (49:45):
That's exactly the opposite of what you were just complaining about.

Speaker 2 (49:48):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 1 (49:48):
He is not discrediting what she does, So why does
she get to discredit what he does? Simply because they
might at times wish that the roles were reversed.

Speaker 9 (49:56):
I don't think that Rebecca our caller is discrediting her husband.
I just think that she, in my opinion, would prefer
her husband to come home at night. I know it's
hard on the commute is a pain in the ass.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
It is. I don't think Rebecca is. I think the
argument that he can't stay in the city because he's
not doing anything at home and she has to do
all of that is discrediting potentially what he's doing to
provide for the family. Is Well, they're both making sacrifices.

Speaker 2 (50:19):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (50:20):
They're sacrifices. But I still think he needs to come
home at the end of the night. He doesn't live
in a different city, that's different, then he really can't
come home.

Speaker 1 (50:27):
Hey Lindsey, Yeah, Hi, Lindsay, good morning. Hey, what'd you
want to say? So?

Speaker 13 (50:33):
I don't think it's a Doe situation. I think it's
just communication. He had this job obviously.

Speaker 14 (50:38):
Before they had kids.

Speaker 13 (50:39):
They knew what it did entailed, so he knew he
was going to be leaving early homely, but me having
three children and my husband leaning before, Like, he was
gone at five o'clock this morning and no one has
seen him since yesterday morning.

Speaker 1 (50:50):
Just because of work.

Speaker 13 (50:51):
But if he doesn't come home and kids his kids
and while they're sleeping and get in better with me
because I myself am trying. Baby, it was it would
be a problem. But yeah, he he you know, he provides,
he brings all the money, she does all the stuff.
But he, you know, should know that he should be
coming home every night, regardless of the drive. It's not

(51:11):
like he's in a different state. He should be coming home,
whether it's to pick up a little bit asna and
do whatever he needs to do. But you're a family,
you're a unit. You come home and you you start
your day in the morning off from home, and you
come home at night to home to your family, whether
they're sleeping or not.

Speaker 1 (51:27):
All fair enough. Thank you, Lindsey, Thank you have a
good day. Yes, thank you you too. Hi Phil, Good
morning Phil. How you doing.

Speaker 6 (51:35):
I'm good.

Speaker 1 (51:36):
How are you guys? Hey, I'm doing great. If you
just tuned in. This woman is concerned or wants to
know if she should be concerned because her husband of
a long time, who's been making at least an hour
drive each way to and from work, has decided that
he wants to get an apartment or something closer to
work so that he's not making that drive every single
day because it's wearing him out, and you know, he

(51:56):
thinks it's having a negative effect on his life. He
doesn't get to see his family on those days, and
so the debate is is this a good or a
bad idea? What do you think?

Speaker 6 (52:04):
So I've been doing this for fifteen years. I have
an apartment up in the city, but my home is
three hours away, so the commute is that that's not possible.
But we have four kids, we've been married for twenty
nine years and it works. But because of the distance,
it's impossible. Now given their circumstances with him only being

(52:25):
an hour away, and if they can afford rent or
buying in the city, my suggestion would be for him
to contract a black car service that he could call
when he's ready to come home, because then he's not
doing the driving. Then he can work the drive in
and he can work the drive out, but then he's
home every night with with his kids. You know, the

(52:45):
problem that we see nowadays is everybody says you have
to have a work life balance, and that means you
balance life around work, and that's wrong. You should have
a life work balance where you balance work around life
because those kids are going to be grown up and
out of the house much fatter than any time he's
going to spend griping about the commute back and forth.
If they've got the money and it's only an hour,

(53:07):
If it was three hours, I would say, yeah, absolutely,
But if it's only an hour, he should contract a
black car service that can pick him up and deliver
him back and forth every single day, because there's cars
out there that will do that. But additionally, in my industry,
I've seen a lot of guys try this, and what
happens is they gain an independence on their own and

(53:28):
they start creating a life on their own outside of
the life they should be having with their family.

Speaker 1 (53:33):
Yeah, that's an issue. Obviously, that would be a serious issue.

Speaker 6 (53:36):
When it gets doing this. But given the fact that
he's only an hour away, I would say that to
save I mean not only to be there for his wife,
but to be there for his family and to live
like we work to live, we don't live to work,
And so he needs to prioritize it, and he needs
to put the money into hiring someone to pick him

(53:57):
up at his house and take the load off of
him driving drive them into the city, and when he's
done on a late night, have someone drive them home.
But you know what, he's going to be at home
at night and he's going to be at home in
the morning and his kids will at least know he
was present.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
Thank you, Phil, that's a good idea. Thanks man. Have
a good day.

Speaker 2 (54:16):
He was a life coach.

Speaker 1 (54:17):
No, it feels good.

Speaker 2 (54:18):
I'mired.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
I just my issue is if the argument is that
he's going he's going to cheat, or he's going to
disconnect her, he's going to do all these bad things.
I don't necessarily think that's the reason not to do this,
because if you're in a relationship and you trust the
person that you're we talk about this all the time.
It's like, just because he has a place in the
city does not mean that he's to someone's point on
he wants to stab in cabin someone texted. I mean,

(54:40):
it's not necessarily And if they can establish boundaries again,
you know, ground rules on this, Hey, once a week, okay,
twice a week maybe under these circumstances for these things.
If they can come up with that on their own
and then they can stick to it, then I don't
think this is inherently a problem. But if maybe it
goes outside those lines and then maybe she has to

(55:02):
reel it back in, I don't know, but just for
the argument for everybody going, well, he's not at home
at night, then he's not this, and he's not that.
I don't know. That's not fair. Hey missy, hey, I
missed you. Good morning, Good morning.

Speaker 6 (55:16):
How are you guys?

Speaker 11 (55:17):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (55:17):
Great? What'd you want to say?

Speaker 6 (55:19):
So?

Speaker 14 (55:20):
Okay, my husband and I we've been together for twenty years.
We have a beautiful little seventeen year old almost eighteen
year old, and he's been a truck driver for the
past oh, I don't know, fifteen years or so, and
you know, he is rarely home during the week and everything.
Do I automatically assume that he's treating Absolutely not, because

(55:42):
I mean you have to have like that trust. He
does come home once in a while when he can,
you know, pops in each shower, sleeps a little bit,
whatever he can do. But on the weekend, he's always
there taking care of things that have to be done
around the house and taking care of his family. Okay, Yeah,

(56:03):
he does feel bad sometimes that you know, he can't
be around and he can't be like involved in like
a lot of her stuff because you know, now that
she's growing up and she's stopped the college and everything,
it's a little bit harder. But the man is busting,
is behind working and everything to provide for our family.
And now one single time have we thought or have

(56:24):
I even thought that he's cheating. Now, if he's going to,
well good luck to him because God only knows what
could happen.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
But yeah, people are people have found much more creative
ways to cheeve than to say, you know, to announce
they're getting an apartment to stay in the city, if that's.

Speaker 14 (56:37):
The concern, exactly, And I mean mine's the chuck driver,
so I mean mine.

Speaker 8 (56:43):
Right exactly.

Speaker 2 (56:48):
But like I said, he does come.

Speaker 14 (56:50):
Home when he can, and I mean he's always providing
and everything for us and stuff, and I mean he's
still taking care of stuff.

Speaker 6 (56:56):
Around the house.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
So I mean it's just I mean, you can't auto
assume that you.

Speaker 14 (57:00):
Know they're going to cheat on you.

Speaker 1 (57:02):
Yeah, thank you, missy, have a great day.

Speaker 14 (57:05):
Thank you you as well.

Speaker 1 (57:05):
Glad you call a problem solve Boom, here you go.

Speaker 2 (57:08):
I just think comparison, no idea is the thief of joy.

Speaker 5 (57:10):
So like we should never whether it be at work,
comparing who works harder, whether it be in your relationship,
until you walk in someone choose you just don't know,
and so why are we going down that slipper?

Speaker 2 (57:20):
Like, what where's the respect for people? And how you know?
I don't know what your day is like, but we
we both have to do things to contribute, so I
don't know. I think it's a slippery slope.

Speaker 1 (57:28):
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Speaker 5 (57:37):
Miss Doci is setting the record straight about her Grammy's
performance not being live. So I don't know if you
guys heard this at all, but in a new TikTok,
the rapper addressed her followers amid all of these claims
that she was lip syncing during her performance of Catfish
and Denial is a River at the award show, and
she said, I can't possibly get on here and say

(57:57):
this calmly or nicely. She's pissed by the way y'all
are stupid as hell, so slow. That's my DJ's voice
picking up some lines that I can't say because I'm
doing a summersault. And she yelled that very loudly.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
I don't know why you can't sing in summersault the
same time. Everybody can do that.

Speaker 2 (58:13):
Goodness, I don't know why. Yeah, you were really tickled
by that. I was doing a summer salt and if
you if you saw.

Speaker 5 (58:21):
That performance, you know she had acrobatics, complex choreo and yes,
at one point she sumrsaults off dancer's shoulders and then
walks up a human staircase.

Speaker 2 (58:31):
And was she lip sinking.

Speaker 6 (58:33):
No.

Speaker 2 (58:33):
She went on to say that entire performance was live.

Speaker 5 (58:35):
I was sick as a dog with bronchitis and the flu,
performing my booty off in a straddle on top of
human men. I worked my butt off to build a
stamina for that, for y'all to play in my face.
I don't lip sync. Don't ever effing play with me
like that ever.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
So she wasn't.

Speaker 5 (58:50):
She was sick, and she's pissed that you're accusing her
of that from your couch with your bomb bomb.

Speaker 8 (58:54):
So there you go.

Speaker 5 (58:55):
During one of the many S ANDL specials over the
weekend to celebrate their fiftieth and of her, the show
made light of its more controversial moments over the years,
with an in memorium segment highlighting its problematic guess like
r Kelly Diddy, OJ Simpson, Jared Foegel, and Robert Blake.
So the clip featuring R Kelly shows him on stage
with Leta Gaga during a twenty thirteen episode, where she

(59:17):
thanks him for performing and leaning into that.

Speaker 2 (59:19):
A twenty ten clip.

Speaker 5 (59:20):
Shows Ditty saying, don't judge a book by its cover.

Speaker 2 (59:23):
My man is like R Kelly.

Speaker 5 (59:25):
So it's very interesting the things people say before they
get caught up. But R Kelly's lawyer, Jennifer Bongean says
she's really pissed, and she finds it rather arrogant that
SNL sees it as their job to decide belatedly who
should and shouldn't be canceled. She thinks that they're getting
a little cocky. I think Jennifer and Robert should worry
about his case and him being locked up.

Speaker 2 (59:47):
Yeah, it's like you got bigger things to worry about,
my girl.

Speaker 5 (59:50):
And yeah, and if R Kelly's upset, like you do too, Yeah,
we got to get you out if you want to
get out, and I don't think that's happening anytime soon.

Speaker 2 (59:58):
So don't worry about SNL now while we're talking about it. O. J.

Speaker 5 (01:00:01):
Simpson was the butt of a John mullaney joke and
it made the head of his estate laugh.

Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
Oh, so he didn't mind.

Speaker 5 (01:00:10):
So in the opening monologue, mulaney said, eight hundred and
ninety four people have hosted SNL, and it amazes me
that only two of them have committed murder. So OJ's
longtime lawyer and current executor of his estate, Malcolm Laverne,
says John's joke about accused murders hosting the show is
very funny. He says, John's delivery force viewers to think

(01:00:31):
about it for a second, and his thoughts led to laughter.
So that's very interesting to me. One person's piss and
one person's not. And they were referring to OJ and
Robert Blake. Of course, lots of controversial moments. I also
showed something that was cut. Kanye goes on this rant
and they had to go to commercials because he was
ranting at the end of the show. I know if

(01:00:52):
you guys remember that, and you heard from the actors
who were on stage going, wait, I don't want to
co sign this.

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son Patrick had a fully nude scene in the season
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Speaker 2 (01:03:01):
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its All star festivities in San Francisco over the weekend?
The NBA, which Bodak Yellow rapper was spotted out with
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And which famous rapper and producer who goes by doctor
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(01:03:48):
TV show celebrated it's fiftieth anniversary over the weekend with
multiple specials set out? Yeah, Arnold Schwarzenegger's son Patrick had
a fully nude scene in the season three premiere of
this Max show.

Speaker 2 (01:04:00):
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Which professional sports league had its All star festivities in
San Francisco over the weekend?

Speaker 2 (01:04:12):
Three The NFL?

Speaker 1 (01:04:16):
No, No, the NFL season is over. That was the NBA. Yeah?
Which Bonak Yellow rapper was spotted out with Texans wide
receiver Stefan Diggs on Valentine's Day Cardi B. And which
famous rapper and producer who goes by doctor is sixty
years old today?

Speaker 2 (01:04:37):
Doctor?

Speaker 1 (01:04:38):
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to the program Intentley, he is coming back tomorrow. So Shelley,
don't have a baby yet. Okay, oh yeah, not quite yet.

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We got to solve this problem.

Speaker 6 (01:05:03):
I know.

Speaker 2 (01:05:03):
Okay, sounds good.

Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
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Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
All right, you too?

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The Entertainment rep Board, trending stories and fun fact and
we're commercial free for the next forty minutes. What are
you working on? K?

Speaker 5 (01:06:18):
So the assistant living facility where Wendy Williams is has
a very different story for why she's in a particular
area in a particular room.

Speaker 2 (01:06:26):
So I want to hear from them because it's very interesting.

Speaker 1 (01:06:28):
All right, that's coming, that show is on. It feels good,
good news, happy stories every day on the show. Kay,
letting go?

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
What the hell is this?

Speaker 8 (01:06:36):
So?

Speaker 5 (01:06:37):
A delivery driver in Arkansas walked space heaters to a
family during a very bad snowstorm after his delivery car
crashed into a ditch. So the woman was expecting heaters
and she said that this delivery app showed that he
was two minutes away, and after.

Speaker 2 (01:06:54):
A half hour, she called the driver to see if
he was lost.

Speaker 5 (01:06:56):
When she talked to him, she learned that he had
crashed into a ditch because of the bad snowstorm, but
after he learned that the woman's home lost heat and
that her husband is undergoing chemo, he told her that
he would take the heaters himself and walk them the
rest of the way.

Speaker 2 (01:07:11):
After the heaters were dropped.

Speaker 5 (01:07:13):
Off, the woman promised him that she would tip him
in the app, but then she found out she wasn't
able to tip him in the app, so she used
social media to track him down, which is a good
example of using it for good. The driver then said,
I'll only accept your tip if our families can meet
and we can support each other as your husband continues
his cancer treatment.

Speaker 2 (01:07:30):
So it's a very sweet story. Now they're cool and
showing each other support.

Speaker 6 (01:07:34):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (01:07:37):
Yeah, So a dog named Baghira. I don't know about
the name, but b A g h E E r A.
How would you say that they hear? I don't know
about the name, but a dog has been adopted if
you're living in a shelter for over nine hundred days.
So the dog came to the Bangor Humane Society. Where
is that, Jason? Where Angor? Yeah, Maine, you know, close

(01:08:02):
close up. But the year of the dog came as
astray just about a year old, and a resident there
has officially adopted the dog last month. Again, I'm not
sure today when you have a rescue though, it must
be a struggle to come up with names, because if
you got hundreds of dogs a year, animals whatever, So

(01:08:25):
I'm not sure if they have just like a list
and that there's some significance. I don't know. But anyway,
after almost three years, finally adopted, which I think is
very sweet. Waiting metaphone is brand new, a little bit
bonus new waiting metaphone on Tuesday one, because well we
didn't work yesterday, so we got one for you next
after and two minutes on the Fread Show. Ever been

(01:08:48):
left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Mitch,
good morning, welcome to the show. How are you.

Speaker 15 (01:08:54):
I'm doing good man, Just have a little issue.

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
Yeah, yeah, So Giselle is a woman that you met
at a bar. So you guys met out in the wild,
you met in public, which I think, yeah, you would
think that would make a big difference, right, You would
think it would make a difference that uh you know
that that that you meet someone out actually so you
like you kind of get a vibe for the chemistry
and stuff, because it can be hard to do on
the apps you don't know who you're dealing with. Yeah,
one hundred percent.

Speaker 11 (01:09:17):
I prefer I prefer to like connecting real time, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
Yeah, so what happened? Where are we at?

Speaker 6 (01:09:22):
So?

Speaker 15 (01:09:23):
Yeah, like we met at a bar and you know, uh,
just like off the jump, I thought she was cute.
We I felt like we had it off exchange numbers
and you know, we're flirty on text, Like.

Speaker 11 (01:09:34):
The vibes are good.

Speaker 15 (01:09:35):
We even started planning like like our first date, but uh,
you know, it just kind of completely disappeared and there's
like with no rhyme or reason.

Speaker 11 (01:09:44):
There wasn't like a follow up. So I just feel like,
you know, I could tell if like I can vibe
if it's if it's not working.

Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 11 (01:09:51):
But it just felt like it was cool and then
it just stopped.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
Okay, I'm just kind of confused. Let's do this. We're
gonna call Giselle. You'll be on the phone at the
same time. We're gonna ask some questions on your behalf.
At some point you're welcome to jump in on a call.
And the hope is that we can figure out, you
know why you've never heard from her again after what
you thought was a successful date. Hopefully we can come
up with something, you know, a good response she's been
busy or not feeling well or something came up, and

(01:10:14):
then we'll set you guys up on another date that
we pay for us. How good?

Speaker 10 (01:10:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:10:18):
Perfect, Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting
metaphone after Gaga and Bruno Mars in two minutes Fred's Show,
Lady Gag got Brudo Mars. HiT's the Fred Show. Hey, Mitch,
let's call this woman, Jaselle. You guys met at the bar.
You thought she was cute. You guys exchanged numbers and
you started planning your your first date, I guess. But
then you've reached out to her since then, trying to

(01:10:40):
you know, you met in person, right, so now you're
trying to plan the date you talked about and she
gave you her numbers. So these are all good signs,
except she's not responded to you since then, and you
want to know what's going on? Yeah, exactly, All right,
let's call Let's call Jazelle now, good luck, Mitch, HEMI
is this Justelle? Yeah?

Speaker 8 (01:11:02):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (01:11:03):
Youzel Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from
the Fred's Show. The whole crew is here. It's the
morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the call.

Speaker 2 (01:11:12):
Is that okay?

Speaker 1 (01:11:12):
If we chat for a little bit? Okay? Yes, So
we're calling on behalf of a guy named Mitch. I
guess you guys met out at a bar recently, exchanged numbers,
talked about going on a date. Do you remember her?

Speaker 6 (01:11:25):
For him?

Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
Him? Him, Mitch is a big guy. Sorry, I guess
I thought that was implied. But anyway, you remember the guy?
All right? So what happened? Because he, I mean, he
said he went up to you. You guys chatted in person,
you changed numbers, talked about a date. I mean, you
knew what you were dealing with. I guess you probably
didn't have to give him your number or agree to
a date. But then you've disappeared. So what's going on?

Speaker 8 (01:11:47):
Sorry?

Speaker 1 (01:11:47):
This is weird. No, it's weird. No, it's definitely weird,
no doubt about that.

Speaker 8 (01:11:53):
Right, Mitch. So well, whatever, I recently got out of
a four year relation and like it was bad. My
ex cheated on me. It was awful. The breakups been
along a lot of hard work for me to get through.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
Okay.

Speaker 8 (01:12:09):
I met Mitch and yeah, he was really cute and
I thought we had a connection. But like on the
night that we went out, I I don't know, I
started kind of like piecing some things together throughout the night,
things started kind of clicking. Okay, I realized how small
this world is. Mitch, it turns out is the ex

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boyfriend of the girl that my boyfriend cheated on me with.

Speaker 1 (01:12:36):
Okay, Mitch is the ex boyfriend of a woman who
your ex boyfriend cheated on. Okay, I'm just having clear here.
So you were cheated on by Mitch's ex girlfriend. What
was I have to do with him?

Speaker 11 (01:12:49):
Though?

Speaker 8 (01:12:49):
Well, like the connection, the situation, like, it's been really
hard for me to get through. I don't know how
you would feel. But if your wife cheated on you
and then you started dating, it's just so complicated.

Speaker 1 (01:13:03):
I can't even like, do you understand me?

Speaker 8 (01:13:05):
You get it like you're in a long relationship with
the one and they cheat on you, and then you
go on a date with the person that that person
was in a relationship with. That connection is not okay
in my world.

Speaker 2 (01:13:16):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:13:16):
I mean, you both couldn't you commiserate over both being
cheated on? I mean, I've heard of this happening, by
the way, I've heard of you know, it does seem
a little strange, but I've heard about people's axes getting together.

Speaker 5 (01:13:26):
Right, Well, we don't have to do Mitch was cheated
on by the girlfriend. Maybe they had already broken up, right,
I guess we don't know.

Speaker 8 (01:13:32):
I don't know for sure, but I'm pretty bud of
them either way. It's too close to home. Yeah, it's
I have too many feelings about the situation to go
on a date with somebody that is remotely connected to
the woman that helps my boyfriend cheat on me.

Speaker 2 (01:13:46):
I get that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:46):
Let me. Mitch is here. I forgot to mention the
mitches here. I'm very forgetful. I apologize. Mitch. Did you
did you put that together? Did you? I guess I'm
assuming you didn't. And and by the way, were you
cheated on when you were active in a relationship with
this woman the other one?

Speaker 15 (01:14:01):
Well, hey, Joe, I had no idea. So wait, no,
me and Allison weren't together. But wait, went like I mean,
that's still weird, like it's Allison right, like you with Allison?

Speaker 8 (01:14:16):
Oh yeah, how could I forget?

Speaker 1 (01:14:19):
Well, I guess I don't know why he's being penalized for.
That is my thing. Why are we taking this out
on him? He didn't do anything.

Speaker 8 (01:14:24):
It's not that. It has anything to do with Mitch
and has everything to do with the hoe bag and
the X and looking at the situation, it's too close
to home. This is a huge city and that's the
person I went on a date with. Are you kidding me?

Speaker 10 (01:14:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (01:14:43):
That was kind of what I was going to say.
I mean, you could have told me that, I'd understand.

Speaker 1 (01:14:47):
You know, you're still there, Like, how's that for?

Speaker 8 (01:14:50):
How do you bring that up on a first date? Like, hey,
i know we've been talking for like an hour, but
I'm pretty sure the last person you banked banged my
last person I banged, just like that.

Speaker 2 (01:15:01):
Is it a good time? Is it a good time
to date it? You're still so hurt by it? I
wonder like I'm saying that.

Speaker 8 (01:15:06):
No, it's not, which is why I stopped talking to
this person. I'm clearly not ready to be in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
So well, that's fair that's fair. In a perfect world,
you have that conversation with him, and I understand you're
not obligated to do that, but I suppose you could
have maybe and I'm not criticizing you, but you could
have maybe not given him your number or or release.

Speaker 8 (01:15:26):
Yeah, this is a soft crash in my world, like, yeah,
let me just do I know, I'm going to deal
with it.

Speaker 4 (01:15:31):
Personally, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:15:32):
Yeah, I get that, and I guess the communication here
was was broken down. But that is a very small world,
I will say, And I think, you know, flex would
be for you two to hook up and then, you know,
maybe send some pictures accidentally, you know, and be a
little little ketty about it.

Speaker 8 (01:15:47):
It's that crossed my mind.

Speaker 1 (01:15:49):
I was thinking about all the ways we could revenge.

Speaker 8 (01:15:51):
But man, I'm trying to be a better person.

Speaker 1 (01:15:54):
Why what exactly what good does that do? All right?
Because by the way you were so I think, you know,
and this wouldn't be wrong. You were wronged by being
cheated on. This wouldn't be wrong, and it would be
pretty good, you know, pretty sweet revenge. However, I assume
you're not interested in going out with him now if
we pay for.

Speaker 8 (01:16:13):
It, Mitch I think we could be friends and definitely
plan retaliation. But yeah, I'm sorry if it hurts you
in any way, I'm just not ready for gating. Thank you.

Speaker 11 (01:16:23):
Okay, Yeah, I don't want to. If someone's not emotionally available,
I don't want to. You know, invention that either, you know,
I understand. I guess. Just you know, it's okay if
we stay in touch and you know, if you want
to talk about it or whatever, I'm here for you.

Speaker 1 (01:16:37):
We have a great budget for this because we very
rarely hooked people up. So if you guys want to
go on a friend date and plan retaliation and hit
us up, we'll pay for it. But thank you both
for your time. That's to look to both of you.
Calin's entertainment report is on The Freas Show.

Speaker 5 (01:16:53):
Wendy Williams ended up blocked in the memory unit of
the assisted living facility that she's called home for eight months,
but they say it's not because of her dementia diagnosis.

Speaker 2 (01:17:02):
It's because she got drunk in the building's restaurant.

Speaker 5 (01:17:05):
So an employee at the facility who's had numerous interactions
with Wendy from the time she got there, said she
was initially placed on the third floor of the building,
which doesn't have any restrictions on a residence coming or going.
But early on in her stay, she went up to
the top floor restaurant bar for lunch and she got
pretty hammered. She was there for a long time and
when super advisors found out that they.

Speaker 2 (01:17:25):
Were serving her alcohol, they were furious.

Speaker 5 (01:17:28):
Shortly after that, they decided to move her to the
fifth floor memory unit, where she would not have free
access to the elevator. The reason is they didn't want
her going up to the restaurant and getting drunk again.
The problem was the memory unit was full, so while
super advisors waited for a room to become available, they
kept her on the third floor, but had employees stand
guard outside her room so she couldn't wander upstairs. I

(01:17:50):
guess the employees told Wendy that the restaurant was under
construction and was not operating. Days later, a room became
available on the fifth floor and she was moved.

Speaker 2 (01:17:59):
And she's been there from a mine.

Speaker 5 (01:18:00):
As you hear and that TMC documentary, she says that
she only gets fresh air twice in thirty days, and
she only gets let out for a dentist appointment, but
there might have been a little bit more to the
story than just they put her there again though she is.

Speaker 3 (01:18:17):
What No, I just believe this, and I've been saying this, like,
I think Wendy deserves to be freed in some aspect,
but I do believe she needs a sober coach if possible,
because she has struggled with sobriety her entire career.

Speaker 2 (01:18:28):
She's been very vocal about that.

Speaker 3 (01:18:30):
And you don't just end up in these conservatives ships
for no reason all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:18:36):
Yeah, yeah, I agree with you too.

Speaker 5 (01:18:38):
I mean, she should certainly have been allowed to go
to her dad's birthday, and I saw her in Miami,
so she was there, right.

Speaker 3 (01:18:42):
Yeah, she's like finessing her way out of this conservative
ship really quickly.

Speaker 2 (01:18:46):
Girl, do your thing.

Speaker 3 (01:18:47):
But I really hope that if anyone cares about her,
they will get her a sober coach.

Speaker 8 (01:18:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:18:50):
I mean, she certainly if she doesn't want to have
those issues, needs to go to.

Speaker 5 (01:18:54):
Meetings and work a program and all of that stuff.
So I agree with you, and I do know alcohol's
been an issue, So there may be little more to
the story, like Keiki said, than just what we heard
Aubrea Paza paid tribute to her late husband, Jeff Baina
during her SNL fifty the Anniversary special appearance. And this
was her first appearance since he committed suicide, and I
was honestly very shocked to see her, but happy that

(01:19:16):
she agreed to do something like this. Now while introducing
performers Miilee Cyrus and Brittany Howard on Sunday, she wore
a pink tiight eyed shirt underneath a black blazer. And
like I said, this was her first public appearance, and
people were digging up old interviews and they found one
when she was on the Drew Barrymore Show back in
December of twenty twenty one.

Speaker 2 (01:19:36):
She was talking about her husband and said, we got
married on a whim.

Speaker 5 (01:19:39):
We literally decided around five pm and got married at
eight thirty. But she was telling a story saying, Jeff
and I got really into ty dying during the quarantine,
so I decided that Jeff and I were gonna wear
tight ighted pajamas that he made for us.

Speaker 8 (01:19:51):
So on that.

Speaker 5 (01:19:53):
Appearance, she was wearing these pajamas. And now people think
that she was paying tribute to her husband with one
of the shirts he made during the pandemic under that blazer,
which is, you know, a nice nod.

Speaker 2 (01:20:04):
But I can't imagine what she's going through. And like
I said, I was.

Speaker 5 (01:20:07):
Surprised to see her, but happy that she's sort of
getting out and doing things that maybe.

Speaker 2 (01:20:11):
Are good for her spirit.

Speaker 5 (01:20:12):
So there you go. On a letter note, Kim Kardashian
and Fred you brought this up earlier and Pete Davidson
ran into each other and it didn't seem like they
were on the best of terms, like it was just
very odd, just so quickly, like you date someone for
so many months and then you see, how are you doing?

Speaker 2 (01:20:29):
So I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:20:30):
She also talks about an ex during The Kardashians on
Hulu and they bleep out the name, but it seems
like it was one syllable, so I wonder if they
aren't on great terms. She talked about how it didn't
look like no on the and during her interview she
was talking about how one of her exes didn't like
how much she worked, and she said that that was
the beginning of the end. And like I said, they

(01:20:51):
bleeped out the name, but it was one syllable, So
I'm wondering if it was old Pete and also so
many people in the same room, Blake Lively, Justin beld Zy,
just everyone, the fuse, the everything. I don't know how
they organized that. They must have had a million producers
on that special, but I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:21:09):
It was amazing.

Speaker 5 (01:21:09):
The music was amazing. So if you missed it, I
highly recommend watching it. By the way, if you missed
any part of our show, The Fred Show, you can
catch up on everything. It's all up there. Definitely gonna
be Paulina Kiki karaoke. Fred's Fun Fact. Just get the
free new and Improvedayheart Radio app and search The Fred
Show on demand.

Speaker 1 (01:21:24):
It's a fun fact today. Let me see. Oh, it's
about gambling. So this is for you, Kailin and only you. Okay, yes,
you read the hotline thumb. Yeah, well I read this.
I read this morning. That a lot of a lot
of gambling addictions. The number I guess of. I'll get
the story for you, just so I'm you know, so
I'm factually accurate here like that? Well, I try to

(01:21:46):
be factually accurate. Yeah, I don't know where it is.
I have to find it. I have a deep well
I looked well, I can't really talk and look at
the same time. I'll find it later. So I have
a deep ethical question for you. Eight five. I have
five three five, and it's a Bagheera. By the way,
was the name of the dog from Feels Good? I
was saying it wrong. I believe it's Bagheera, and that

(01:22:08):
is a the panther from the Jungle Book, which I
haven't read the Jungle Book in a long time, so
I didn't know that. But thank you for the million
people that inform you in them My deep ethical question.
So last week we were we were traveling. We're in
Salt Lake City doing the show from there because our
show is on there now, which is apparently unbannounced. Whoever
won in Utah our show is on there now because

(01:22:30):
we have zero well, we have two listeners, maybe three.
We have we have Jerrem, we have Wendy, and then
maybe one more. We're not sure who that person is anyway.
So I get on the plane and the plane my
seat was a two to two configuration, two seats on
each side. Okay, So I get on the plane and
there's a guy in the aisle and a woman in

(01:22:52):
the other aisle, and I'm in the window okay, okay,
you got me. So two aisles are filled in my
row and two windows are open. Okay, okay, so she go.
So I walk up and the woman goes, excuse me,
I need you to sit here, and she points to
the window across the way. I need you to She goes,

(01:23:13):
excuse me, I'm gonna need you to sit here. I
want to sit next to my husband. Oh girlfriend. And
I look at her and I and I'm I'm halfway
in my seat at this point. I'm putting my stuff away,
I'm organizing. And I said, you want me to sit
in the other window. She goes, no, no, no, no, no,
you need to sit in the other aisle because the
other window's not my seat. You need to sit in
the aisle. I'm going to take the window so my
husband and I can sit next to each other. And

(01:23:34):
I looked at her and I said no. You literally
said I said no. And she goes, well, what difference
does it make? And I said, because I a week
ago selected a window, I felt like a jerk. I'll
be honest, but I'm like, I want to sit next
to a window. I like sitting next to the window.
I don't want to sit on the aisle and so,

(01:23:56):
and you're telling me to go sit in someone else's
seat entirely, like you're because if I if it had
been a windows swap, I would have done it. Of course,
I also can only hear out of one ear, so
I purposefully put myself on the side of the airplane
where I would be able to hear the flight attendant
or whatever for whatever reason. So anyway, I'm like, but
now you're telling me to go sit in someone else's
seat entirely. So somebody was going to show up and

(01:24:18):
be like, you're in my seat. I was gonna have
to move to the aisle esus. So I said no,
and she looked at me, and her husband looked at
me and was like, I guess we'll just ask the
other person. But you're gonna have to ask the person
whose seat that is, because it's not my seat to move,
you know what I'm saying. So then anyway, someone came
in and then they worked it out with the other
person because the other person was like, yeah, fine, whatever,

(01:24:39):
I don't care because they were swapping aisle for aisle,
so it didn't matter. But I thought about this for
three hours. I stewed on it a little bit. I'm like, no, no,
like I chose this seat I got on the website,
I chose this seat. I'm sorry that you didn't you
know that you weren't that organized. Yes, Paulina, I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:24:58):
I just have to read this to you.

Speaker 1 (01:24:59):
Friend.

Speaker 9 (01:24:59):
I want you to take this with you in the
next time this happens. If it does hopefully doesn't. Your
lack of planning is not my emergency.

Speaker 1 (01:25:05):
See like they.

Speaker 2 (01:25:06):
Didn't plan right.

Speaker 9 (01:25:07):
You want to be by each other till that's to
us part or whatever. Then you buy seats. You physically
go put your credit card in and you buy seats
next to each other. That's not your problem now.

Speaker 1 (01:25:16):
The only the only time I might have been amy
more amiable would have been if it were a child.
But I will also make this argument. If you're traveling
with your kid and you're booking a flight, then I
would encourage you at that time to find seats together. Yes,
And because you can do that, because when I booked

(01:25:36):
the ticket, you know, a month ago, it gave me
the option to choose seats. Yes, and so I did.

Speaker 16 (01:25:41):
But it wasn't even like a request. It was, Hey,
you're going to sit over there. Now, did you tell
them you're deaf in one ear? Because that is the
perfect time. I wasn't going to drop that one on them,
but you deserve, you have. You have to live with that.

Speaker 2 (01:25:53):
You're able to drop that. That is insane.

Speaker 11 (01:25:56):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:25:56):
But I also don't think this person was at least
bit concerned about about anything that.

Speaker 11 (01:26:01):
Had to do with me.

Speaker 2 (01:26:01):
Well, they might start once they realize you have a reason,
but I'm like.

Speaker 1 (01:26:05):
Working out with the person whose seat you actually want, Like,
you don't get to just put me, but.

Speaker 9 (01:26:09):
What possess is right to act someone to switch like
before a flight.

Speaker 2 (01:26:13):
That is your poor planning.

Speaker 1 (01:26:15):
You know, I'm work. I figured somebody in here would
be like, oh, come on, but good. I'm glad that
you agree with me.

Speaker 5 (01:26:21):
It's a pressure too, because I was hungover. I want
an aisle and you're asking me to switch and sit
in the middle.

Speaker 2 (01:26:27):
I'm gonna yack.

Speaker 1 (01:26:28):
Okay, good, okay, that's just good. I thought when I
was gonna bring it up that somebody would be like,
oh man, really you can't do it.

Speaker 2 (01:26:34):
Just like iron, I'm proud of you for standing on business. Yes,
you're proud of you.

Speaker 3 (01:26:38):
There's no way you wake up with the audacity that
you're gonna tell me. You're not even gonna act me nicely,
You're not even gonna offer me a drink before you say,
you're just gonna sign my seat?

Speaker 1 (01:26:50):
Did I pay for?

Speaker 2 (01:26:51):
And I went to TSA absolutely absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:26:54):
Next a Wild World too, because I got upgraded because
of my credit card. So that's what I was doing
in this world. And you know, I felt very, very fancy.
I felt like, if you've seen that Key and Peel
skit where he gets the Continental Breakfast, that's what I
or he gets he gets upgraded to Premium Economy, That's
what I felt like. But I you could also order
food on the on the app, it like what meal

(01:27:15):
do you want to eat? Okay, and it specifically said
there was shrimp and grits available, but you had to
pre order it if you wanted that, Otherwise you had
two other options. So anyway, so the lady comes around
and she starts with our row and the flight attendant
and she says, hey, for whatever reason, I didn't get
any of the pre orders, Like, I don't know what
everybody pre ordered, but you can just tell me. And

(01:27:36):
but we only have one of the shrimp and grits.
So somebody here must have ordered that, and the woman
next to me goes, I'll take that, And then the
guy crossed the aisle goes, I pre ordered that, and
she goes, well, she asked me first, No, it's like
we don't do we live in a society people, And
the flight atendant was like, well, you did have to
pre order that, and you you clearly didn't, so really

(01:27:59):
is it okay with you are? And the guys like,
I guess, But again it's like people are so rude,
Like when did people become so damn rude?

Speaker 3 (01:28:06):
This is why they get in duct taped to the
seats on planes, because they would have went down.

Speaker 2 (01:28:09):
You took mushup and grades.

Speaker 1 (01:28:14):
You could get that duct tap Like you know what
I've heard about these stories before? More Fread Show. Next,
The Fread Show is on Fread's fun Fact Fred.

Speaker 4 (01:28:33):
So much?

Speaker 1 (01:28:35):
Did you know? Did you know that the opposite sides
of a die, like of dice, the opposite sides of
a single die will always add up to seven? Did
you know that? So if you take a look, you'll
see that like one in six are opposite sides, two
and five are opposite sides three, and four and they

(01:28:57):
all add up to seven. Yeah, and I'm sure you
knew that as a gambler, Caitlin.

Speaker 5 (01:29:03):
Well, yeah, I have a Vegas trip coming up and
I'm going to take that there, yeah, and bring home
the money.

Speaker 1 (01:29:08):
So you're expanding from from just sports betting now to
the casino games as well. I I yeah, And that's
where that's the that's the gateway drug is the sports betting.
And before long, you know you're in the high limit
room and you don't have a you don't have like
a watch anymore, like shooting dice on a corner, or
once they kick you out of the casino. Then right now,

(01:29:29):
all of a sudden, we gotta find other places that
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Speaker 3 (01:29:46):
So I'm over here having a slight panic attack. And
I don't know if this happens to anyone else, but like,
please stop texting me asking me if I'm free? Okay,
don't I feel we should as a society, as a
race and people, we should just not lead.

Speaker 17 (01:30:04):
With that, like people are texting you are you free?
Like can I call you right now? It's my brother,
just one person. Actually, nobody cares about a guys. But
like when anyone just says are you free today? Or
are you free at whatever?

Speaker 3 (01:30:19):
Like don't I can't answer that because I don't know
how to respond because maybe I am, but depending on
what you want, maybe I'm not.

Speaker 1 (01:30:26):
So like, tell me what you want first. This always
I need to be able to make a decision on
whether I'm free or not.

Speaker 2 (01:30:33):
Yes, yeah, it's entrapment, Okay, I agree with you. Yeah,
they just want you to say yes to whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:30:39):
But it's you're right because you're right because once I
say I'm free, well then how do I get out
of what whatever you serve me up? Then I guess
I can do because because now if I tell you no,
it's just simply I don't want to do it for you, right,
I have no room for excuses. No, no, no, I'm
with you. I agree, Nope, so I should be against
the law. Honestly, thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:30:59):
We need to just completely stop doing this to each
other because it's very rude. It's hurtful, you know, And
now I got to figure out another way to lie
to you because I don't want to do whatever you
just asked me to do.

Speaker 2 (01:31:10):
I just feel frozen.

Speaker 3 (01:31:11):
I feel like I'm stuck the moment you say, are
you free, because like maybe I am, maybe I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:31:16):
Are you looking at me?

Speaker 3 (01:31:17):
I have this other thing that when people text me
and I'm about to lie, I feel like they're looking
like they're in the restaurant, They're in the room somewhere,
watching me ignore their text and watching me come up
with this story.

Speaker 1 (01:31:29):
It's bad now that step is crazy. Okay, the first
part of it was normal, but the second part is
that RelA and I'm a crazy person that.

Speaker 2 (01:31:38):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:31:38):
I just feel like I don't know, Like people like, hey,
are you at work? And I'm looking around like what
if they're behind me?

Speaker 6 (01:31:44):
And I.

Speaker 4 (01:31:46):
Well, that's weird itself that they're behind you, asking you
where you're at?

Speaker 1 (01:31:49):
Why am I texting you? If I can see you?

Speaker 14 (01:31:51):
Right?

Speaker 4 (01:31:52):
But like conversely, can we stop the lying responses like maybe?

Speaker 6 (01:31:55):
Like no?

Speaker 1 (01:31:58):
Like you being weird to me?

Speaker 4 (01:32:00):
He makes me act weird when I'm going to ask
you a question. If I think I'm going to get
a weirdo answer back right, So, like, maybe.

Speaker 2 (01:32:07):
Would you suggest are you suggesting that I tell the truth?

Speaker 1 (01:32:10):
I would say I don't want to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:32:12):
Jon. When you are something you you are.

Speaker 1 (01:32:16):
The king of skins, giving advice of things you wouldn't do.

Speaker 4 (01:32:20):
I'm not saying I would do it. I'm talking about
thinking specifically. She's calling out her brother. I could call
it thinking out. You should just say I don't want
to do it instead of us going on this like
long diet dribe of like maybe maybe I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:32:32):
No, I want to know what you're asking me to
do before I can tell you if I'm available for
that thing.

Speaker 2 (01:32:37):
Yes, you just say you.

Speaker 1 (01:32:39):
Don't want to go because I don't know what I'm
not going.

Speaker 4 (01:32:42):
To yet, But like, why don't you wait to hear
the question and just answer, say you don't want to go?

Speaker 6 (01:32:47):
But you can't.

Speaker 3 (01:32:48):
The people pleaser in me can never say no just
because it's my no is my no. I always have
to have a great reason why I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:32:56):
Telling somebody, Like what you're saying is but I'm never
gonna believe you. Whatever you tell me, I'm not going
to think is true. What you're saying is rude. My
lie is not rude. What you're saying to do, that's rude.
But when I lie to you, that's not rude. God,
that's just me protecting my peace.

Speaker 2 (01:33:11):
And we care about your feelings. We care about how
you feel on the other end of that.

Speaker 1 (01:33:15):
No, right, you lie to me, Yeah, got it, it's okay.

Speaker 6 (01:33:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:33:19):
But also conversely, we know that you're lying. Right, the
people that are lying, We know you don't have a
doctor's appointment at midnight.

Speaker 1 (01:33:24):
We know, don't. I don't know that. I often, I
often schedule my doctors a play for midnight. They're easily get. Yeah,
it's easy to get. That's even if it sounds that crazy.
I immediately don't believe you, like, no matter what you say.

Speaker 4 (01:33:40):
So why you don't come up with the story, because
I'm already not believing that that's rue?

Speaker 3 (01:33:44):
Actually, No, and you do this, Jayson, you come up
with skits. If I do, no, doesn't it hurt somebody's
feelings like I'm hurting you?

Speaker 4 (01:33:52):
No, I would rather, I would rather you say I
don't want to do.

Speaker 13 (01:33:55):
This one time.

Speaker 2 (01:33:58):
A lie hurts a thousand times.

Speaker 4 (01:34:01):
If you don't know I'm lying, See, but Jason knows,
I'm already assuming you're longing everything you see.

Speaker 1 (01:34:07):
You assume I lie to you, but everything I assume.

Speaker 4 (01:34:09):
If someone says they don't want to go, and they
come up with this really long story, you're lying.

Speaker 1 (01:34:13):
You make Oh, I don't come up with the story.
I just I'm not free to begin with. And then
you don't even have to tell me anything else. You
tell me what it is. I'm not free that way,
I don't have to come up with a story. I
am not free. I cannot attend end of story. I
don't have to tell you instead of your freaking business.

Speaker 4 (01:34:28):
That would be a lie. I'm not That would be
a lot. Good answer. No, you're not being free is
a lot. We're doing nothing, you know what, and that
takes a lot of my concentration. Okay, so I'm not
available to you at that time.

Speaker 1 (01:34:48):
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