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Speaker 2 (01:35):
But Shelley told me she was very impressed with my record,
And if Shelley is happy with me, that's all the matter.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
My daddy's a lawyer, so okay, what does he show
Bi Shelley. There's only one he showed be Shelley's lawyer
also there. Okay, my daddy's not a lawyer. Sometimes they
wish you were. You saved me a lot of money.
The entertainer report, what are you working on for? This morning?

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Came the Blake Lively justin Baldoni.

Speaker 4 (02:01):
Drama has seemingly ended, and people are pissed about the
way that it did end.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Eight five five five one one oh three five. I
saw this this morning, and I'm just curious about, as
a person who's not in a relationship, if you didn't
know that, not that I mention it every day or anything,
but I'm not. And then, well what happened next? Are
the people that will write and go it don't happen
to you. Someday it don't happen. No, Like it's good,
Like I'm fine with it, Like I'm it's I know

(02:26):
it's hard for people to believe, but I choose this
life like it's saif chose you. I say this, though,
I preface this because there are things about relationships that
I don't understand, having really like hardly ever been in one.
And one is how do you guys choose who gets
to sleep on which side of the bed?

Speaker 5 (02:44):
Like?

Speaker 1 (02:44):
What happens if you get into a relationship and you
both sleep on the same side of the bed? How
does one negotiate that? Like, because I mean if you
were to say to me, now you have to sleep
on the other side of the bed for the rest
of your life. I mean eventually, I think I would
get used to it, but I mean that would be
a that's a big ask, that's a big Now you
only to switch side to the bed. You want me

(03:05):
to just just think my whole life, right, if you
look at the bed, I'm on the left side of
the bed. Basically my whole life left side. Okay, if
you're staring at the bed, I'm on the left side
of the bed. I don't know or no in this case, Yeah,
but that's not why. I mean, I guess this is
where I've always slept, like always, And I guess that's
why doing a hotel too, I guess for the most part. Yeah,

(03:28):
that's why doing a hotel. So what do you do?
What do you do if you meet somebody like, did
all of you just just worked where the person who
you're with slept on the other side of the bed? Immediately? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (03:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (03:39):
For me, it's like where is the dog? And then
I'll readjust myself, so I don't really have a side
of the bad.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
She it's her bed right, to be honest. And then
he is.

Speaker 4 (03:49):
He goes to bed later than me, so then he
tries to squeeze in wherever he can.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
I see.

Speaker 4 (03:53):
Yeah, so you just sleep wherever there's room. Yeah, because
I'm a sucker. Most people would move their dog.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Sometimes it's the left side, sometimes it is the right side.

Speaker 4 (04:01):
Sometimes Yeah, I know, don't trust me.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Yeah, I think I moved the dog. I moved the dog.
I think I know. Yeah, I'm so comfort looking at
I think I would. I think I would. I think,
you know, I say that but then when I'm at
home and my my mom's dogs get in the bed,
they sleep, and the cats too, and I'm allergic to cats.
But moose the main coon, like, he's just a monster

(04:26):
of a cat. He does whatever he wants. He'll and
then he'll find like the crevice, like if your legs
are kind of a part or whatever, he'll sleep in there.
And then you're right, No, I don't move. Then, like
if I wake up and discover this, I'm like, I
better not move. He looks very comfortable right there, Moosey does,
and so and then I don't. I don't. You're right,
So I guess I'm no different. But at least I'm
on the right side of the bed or the left

(04:48):
side of the bed in this case. So this is
not really the debate. That's not really an issue.

Speaker 7 (04:53):
No, I made Hobby go wherever the door is because
we've moved twice now, so like wherever the door is,
if there's danger, you're going first needs to be by
the door.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
That's how I think. Okay, Right, so I'm not sure.
I'm pretty sure if there were a killer and the
killer showed up and the killer were going to kill,
I'm pretty sure that the several feet maybe two or
three feet, you know, between you and and Hobby. I
don't know if that make much difference in the killing spree.
It was going to happen he die a hero because
he was by the door.

Speaker 8 (05:21):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Well, I don't know that he would if he's not
a hero. If everybody dies, I hate to say this
to you. Wow, everybody's supposed to go. But you just
said he would die a hero. I wouldn't because he would.
But if he's dead, then he can't be a hero
to you. And I mean I guess, I guess he could.
I don't know. Hey, Chloe, how you doing?

Speaker 9 (05:44):
I'm whoe?

Speaker 1 (05:46):
How did this work? How did this work? When you
got into a relationship with someone I assume you are
and and you both sleep on the same side of
the bed.

Speaker 9 (05:55):
Yeah, I mean, we compromise in a lot of ways.

Speaker 8 (05:58):
But I was just like, I just.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Feel this is where you need to change.

Speaker 9 (06:03):
And he was just like, I, I guess I will.
And I was like, okay, sounds great, so you know it.
I gave him a choice and he made his choice.
But I mean the main reason why we sleep where
we sleep now is because I'm like, listen, you need
to be closer to the door because, like heaven forbid

(06:24):
a break in occurs, like you're the first person to
get got Like you need to be my alarm system
if I need to like get up and be running,
like I need to hear you first. So really that's
one of my reasons. But like it was very simple.
I was just like, listen, I'm not changing in this regard,
so I think you should, And he said, I guess

(06:45):
I will because it was Chloe.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
You say you gave him a choice, but you infected
not it was this so you can say place.

Speaker 9 (06:53):
Exactly, like you either sleep here next to me on
this side of the bed, or you don't sleep here
at all.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
Oh well, I guess it is a choice. Yeah. Now
what if he had chosen Oh, so I don't have
to sleep in this room, then you're saying I could
sleep in a different room because it might be better
because I would be both like the same side of
the bed. That's that wouldn't have gone over.

Speaker 9 (07:10):
Well, I'm not gonna lie. It's he ever came to
me and was like, I think we should sleep in
separate rooms. I think I would be okay with it.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Because I think I would be okay with it too, honestly, Like,
sometimes we sleep in the same room, and then sometimes
when I had text Mex before, we don't, you know,
maybe because I don't want you to catch me doing
anything while I'm asleep that I didn't know that I did.
And there's a higher percentage of that happening if I
eat certain food, So I maybe in those nights I
sleep in a different bed, or if you're not feeling well,

(07:40):
you sleep in a different bed because you're sick, and
you're like, ah, you know, I don't want to deal
with this. I don't want my partner to have to
deal with it. So okay, wait a minute, Maybe that's
a whole different conversation. How many of you would sleep
in separate rooms if you could. I don't like that
with the option of going back. Noah, interesting, Chloe, Look
at you, Chloe. You're changing the changing the direction of
the show right now. I like it. Have a good day,

(08:00):
Thank you for calling, thanks to Yeah, that's a different conversation.
Like and each person gets in an equal sized room
in their own bathroom in this dynamic. I mean, I'm
not saying someone that's sleep in a guest room all
the time. Like that's you know what I mean. Like,
let's just say hypothetically, like no one's sacrificing anything. The
bads are equally comfortable. But let's say, like maybe like

(08:21):
I like it very cold where I'm sleeping. I like
it very cold. Some people don't like it that cold.
Well they're wrong, But well I agree those people would
be wrong. I totally agree with them. But wrong people
are out there. People are wrong exist. A lot of
people are wrong. I see them every day. They call,
appear to you know, they say stupid things, they text
them like you know you're wrong, and that's very sad
for you, right right, I feel bad if I didn't

(08:42):
say it and you disagreed, and that's a horrible place
to a horrible place to be in life. But but yeah,
I mean, like let's say so instead of arguing about
that or living your life sort of dissatisfied because you
know your partner needs at seventy and you want it
in sixty six or whatever it is, or or warmer,
then you just separate sleeping environments and you can still
do that, you know, do the things that you do

(09:03):
in the bed together and then you can just say okay,
all right, now I'm gonna go to sleep, and then
we don't have these problems. Then no, No, there's never
a time where you don't want him to wait. Wait,
but he's not in the bed because he works all.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
Night, right, but I want him there. I would prefer
that he'd be there for sure.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Now.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
I do like having separate like dressing rooms, so like
I have a glamor room and there is the guest
room where he can go, you know. But I think
as long as we have that like where my things
aren't being touched all the time and they can you know,
jury and stuff, it.

Speaker 1 (09:37):
Could just be. But I think you should sleep in
the bed together. Okay, so he can sleep in the
bed with you, but don't get anywhere near your jewelry. Yeah,
well I've heard that about. Yeah, and your wings too.
When he shows up at the factory, would like do
you have diamond? Yeah? Hell? Yah, you are unaware something

(10:02):
I hate. Brian. Hey, Brian, So you sleep between your
partner and the door. And that's because you're going to
save the day if anything happens.

Speaker 10 (10:12):
Okay, not because I want to leave first in case
of an emergency. But if there's an intruder, I feel like,
whoever it is is going to have to go through
me before they get to my spouse.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
I see. And so you're ready to save the day
right there. But it has nothing to do with the
fact that you could make a quicker exit.

Speaker 6 (10:29):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 10 (10:30):
It's just to be the hero and save the day.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
I see. But it would. It's a nice side effect
or a nice side you know, the thing that you
could also be the first out in the events of
an emergency.

Speaker 10 (10:41):
I guess that is true, but I'm thinking of it
more in the sense of, like even when we're walking
down the sidewalk on the street, you know, I'm always
on the street side. My wife's always on the inside,
closer to the buildings in case something happens. I feel
the need to constantly be.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
As a protector. Now, Brian, that's why I don't understand. Okay,
I will do it now, except I'm definitely my left ear.
So it does depend on the side of the street
that we're like the direction in the side of the street,
because if you want me to hear what you're saying,
which most I found most women enjoyed me hearing them
and acknowledging what they're saying to me. Then I have
to be on one side of you. So sometimes it

(11:18):
doesn't work that way. Like if we're walking, you know
what I'm saying, Like if we're walking in a direction
where I would be on the inside and you'd be
on the outside, but you're on my left side, well,
then you know, then i'd say why I'm talking to you.
I'm like, I'm protecting you. You know, That's what I
say to them, I'm protecting you. But then if a
car hits us, Brian, then all we're going to become

(11:39):
is a heavy projectile to then in pale the person
next to us. So I don't understand logic.

Speaker 10 (11:47):
The logic is that the husband always dies first. Friend.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
Sorry, yeah, I guess. So if a car hits me,
it's a very small likelihood that I'm going to physically
stop the car from hitting you. Probably not gonna happen.
I'm just saying. I'm just saying I might wind up
being the reason that you're dead. Oh no, no, thank you, Brian.
Good to hit you first?

Speaker 4 (12:09):
Probably wait, would you honest question, would why do you want.

Speaker 1 (12:12):
To hit me first?

Speaker 11 (12:14):
You're saying, like, well, it hits me, it's probably gonna
kill you anyway, so it should definitely hit you first.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
I'm just saying the logic doesn't make sense, Like he's
gonna protect me from a car you know that runs
off the road. Logic, that's not gonna happen, Like I'm
not I'm not a brick walls. The car is not
going to run into hobby and then just stop. You
would push me? What if you see it coming and
then you have the opportunity to push? Oh great, now
now I assaulted you. Great, this is great. Now you're

(12:42):
gonna be done anyway.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
Can't a puddle Like if a car drives in a puddle,
the water will.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Hit you, not it will, it will just hit me
and the puddle thing. Yeah yeah, Bailey, Hi Bailey, Hey,
you and your boyfriend sleep in different I like this.

Speaker 12 (13:01):
Yes, it's kind of funny how it started. I recently
just moved in with him, and you know, he had
his set of furniture. I had my set of furniture,
and when I moved in, my bedroom set just went
into the guest bedroom. And like for me, it was
just like an easier transition, like here's kind of my things.
You're kind of your things, but like we don't do

(13:23):
it every night. If there's nice like I'm restless and
want to sleep in that room, I go there and
vice versa. So it actually works out really nicely for us.
And I'm kind of a person who likes to sleep
with the room freezing hold with the fans blowing some
nice piece nuts, which just it works out for us.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
There you go, thank you, Baylor. It works. Let's great,
Thank you. This is what I'm going to do. I
have a nice day. I'm glad you called me goodbye.
See works fine.

Speaker 4 (13:50):
So we're really rearranging our entire like sleep placement over
like weather like at the chance that someone may break
in and try to kill us.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
That's what I'm saying. This is what I'm saying. Like
it's not I'm sorry, but like if you're standing over
my bed, well and first of all, good luck waking
me yup, what are you really going to do? Exactly?

Speaker 5 (14:09):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (14:09):
This is one time somebody things are dumb. Everyone thinks
they're heroes. Like if someone walks in your room, what
are you going to do? The strap? That's right, you're
actually okay, Well let me let me I'm getting the
strap now now, now he's messing with you, like.

Speaker 7 (14:23):
Takes every night where you sleep every night, just the
small possibility that someone may come in the room.

Speaker 1 (14:29):
If they break it and stand over the bed like
they've got both of us by the right right. If
they want to kill us, we're dead and now we're
asleep harmony. But being closer to the door is not
going to accomplish it. It's just answer the same way
that me being closer to the curb is not accomplishing.
I disagree with you there, but I agree with you
like I don't. Why do you disagree with it? What

(14:50):
what is me walking closer to the road actually accomplishing
from a safety standpoint?

Speaker 4 (14:55):
Are you open to like? Are you open to maybe
seeing it our way?

Speaker 1 (15:02):
Are you am? I I'm listening.

Speaker 4 (15:05):
Okay, okay, because I I know sometimes like if I
don't want my mind to be changed, I'll be like, no,
I'm closed off from that. But no, listen. So, like
I said, you could push me out of the way.
You definitely could soften the blow for sure. And the
puddle thing, I think it's just like a nice sign
of chivalry. But if my date is deaf in one year,
I'm totally fine with him switching sides.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
I'm fine to be on the side where I don't
have to listen. It's fine, but I'm saving your lives.

Speaker 4 (15:31):
We like also, like, if I'm standing behind you, you
can't even see me behind you, Like you're a big dude,
You're definitely protecting me.

Speaker 1 (15:37):
I'm definitely two hundred and forty pounds into you at
that point, I become a projectile. But then tapples you over.
But you get crushed by the car and just you
get crushed by me.

Speaker 11 (15:47):
Oh baby, if the exact trajectory sends you into her,
or it could send you forward or back, but it's
definitely going to go right next.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
To the car, drive sideways.

Speaker 11 (15:58):
If a car claps from behind me, you it's gonna
hit you, and you're gonna.

Speaker 1 (16:01):
Go four hit both, Jason, I'm not that a car
is ten feet wide at a whiteboard. I'm sorry, you
guys are not right about this. If a car, if
we are walking next to each other and a car
hits us, it's hitting both of us. That's just the.

Speaker 4 (16:15):
Bottomless a chance that you might be able to protect us.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
Like, there's not even a slight chance.

Speaker 2 (16:21):
Knock the car your hand out to.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
I think what I'm saying to you is whatever makes
you guys feel better, is fine. It's a ridiculous argument.
It's ridiculous. The same the same way to being close
to the door is ridiculous. Like if we're in a
if we're in a hotel room, that's what twenty by
twenty or thirty by thirty, wherever a hotel room is,
and a guy comes in and stands over us, My
being closer proximity to the door is going to do nothing.
But I'm sorry, I'm not going to save your life

(16:46):
if a car hits and we're walking next to each other,
I'm sorry. Hey, Melissa, Him.

Speaker 8 (16:52):
Melissa, Yeah, good morning.

Speaker 13 (16:54):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
So you are a very courteous person. You would just
switch sides of the bed no matter what.

Speaker 8 (17:00):
Absolutely, if you're moving in someone, you're gonna adjust to them.
But if they're moving in, you rule your house.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Okay, interesting, Melissa, So it would depends then who who
moves into who's house?

Speaker 8 (17:13):
Correct? Okay, But if you guys are buying a house
together and you guys already lived together, then going into
a room, however you set it up, it's gonna be
whatever side you picked.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
Before here, I see. So if we move into a
news space together, then we had we each have like
an equal vote. But if you come to my house,
then you're getting on whatever side I'm not correct. Okay, perfect,
thank you, Melissa, problem solve a good day. Yeah, I'm
not gonna save your life. I'm simply not. If just
because I'm on the inside of the room, I'm simply
not going to save your life from a from a

(17:44):
car that hits us square on. I'm simply not. But
but this is not why I am. See people are
so mean, you think, well, maybe maybe you don't have
an opinion, and that's why you're in a miserable relationship.
I don't know. Red Show on the biggest stories of
the day. I don't go after people who are unhappy

(18:04):
in relationships. I don't say anything to anybody about anything.
So I am a very logical person. I have been
my whole life. I will do what you want me
to do. Do you want you know? Again? The big
hurdle for me is the fact that I physically can
I hear in my left here. So if you ever
see me, why and I'll say it to people, I'll
be like, Hey, you want me to walk on this
side or do you do you want to have a
conversation really, because truthfully, if you're on the other side,

(18:26):
I cannot hear you. So that's fine if that's what
you want, I'll do it. But if you but it's
just like what you were saying before. If you sleep
next to the door, or if you sleep or if
you walk closer to the street and you believe that
that's going to save your life, I think you are mistaken.
That's all I'm saying. Okay, So biggest stories of the day,
minus a lot of stories that are sad and that

(18:48):
are no fun to talk about. How about that? You know,
I say biggest stories of the day, there are I'm
waiting for the person to text, who are bigger stories?
There are bigger stories. You're absolutely right. But you can
listen to CNN for that if you want to if
you feel like being sad. NFL or excuse me. I said,
I'm looking at NHL, and I said NFL, So now
I don't know what I'm going on with me. I'm

(19:09):
like physically looking at the NHL. The Stanley Cup Finals,
the Panthers routh the Oiler six to one in Game
three to take a two to one lead in that series.
How much would you guess the average American would pay
for peace and quiet? And I think this is a day,
is what they're saying, Like a day of peace and quiet?
I think is how they how they did this?

Speaker 2 (19:31):
What?

Speaker 1 (19:31):
But see, you're the person who needs stimulus all the time.
You're on TikTok constantly.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
But that's my piece in my quiet. I need TikTok,
my couch, that's it.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
But that's not what peace and quiet means. It is
for me. I don't want to hear nobody else all
that in Holland. I don't want to hear you. Just
want to hear the hooton and holler in on the
TikTok all this, yeah, and I don't want to hear Okay, okay,
all right. So for the rest of for the rest
of you, who actually would prefer that you're not get
emails all the time and calls all the time and

(19:59):
still boss is calling you telling you what to do
and whatever whatever. How much how much is it worth
would it be worth to you for one day of
peace and quiet? Paulina like money wise, right currency?

Speaker 7 (20:11):
Yeahs USD, Yeah, I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (20:15):
We could not work in Canadian dollars. I'd have to
figure out the exchange, you know, right, is that great?
One point it's better for us? No, yes it is.
I got less in Canada. It's the other way. It's
the other way. I was just there the other way
around one point four. You're over there, correct, But when
you bring it here, I think Canadian dollars. Yes, Why

(20:35):
are you shopping in Canadian dollarsy? That is okay? I
told you, well, they're a lot tougher when you do
it that way. So yeah, I don't money, yeah, right,
don't worry about it. Why why are we moving money
to Canada and back? I told you money around?

Speaker 7 (20:52):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (20:52):
Don't move it that way. Okay, that's not a good
way to do it. Our money is worth more than
their money right now, girl, okay. And the way that
they were telling eating is by sending smoke right into
our faces. Girl, what Chris hand? Sometimes I know I
love you, I love you deeply, but you like stand

(21:13):
on business and it's exactly the opposite. Yeah, they're tough
when you when you're when you're spending money in Canadian dollars,
times would be tough. For you when you're walking around
hand and out Canadian dollars to people like, yeah, you
know what, that's it. You're at a disadvantage that stop

(21:40):
converting all your money. You're playing in their economy. Is like,
I got it out Schmart, this company, you know what,
guys pay me in Canadian dollars. That take that. That
might be your problem. Yeah, I think it might have
a lot to do with what's going on with you already. Yeah,

(22:04):
you'd like to ask me. I don't know why I'm here.
I don't know why I bother with this. I don't
know why I bother. He's a quiet well. Twenty five
hundred bucks is the number US d United States dollars. Okay,
Paulia's over here spending paysos. She's like, I'm a gazillionaire.
Listen to me. They pay me four million pesos a year. Man,

(22:28):
Why do you keep transferring your Canadian dollars? Why are
you taking your payots in Canada? I don't understand. Leave it.
Jesus actually runs down to O'Hara gives all her money
to the people with the little booth. Look, I'm sorry
about that. Keep saying I'm like, my god, anyway, twenty

(22:49):
five hundred bucks is the amount of money that Americans
would pay for a day of peace and quiet. Twenty
five hundred dollars sounds like we need it bad, yeah,
I think so. Passenger on Kikey's favorite airlines, Spirit Airlines,
he showed up late, and I guess he wasn't gonna
be able to go on the plane. So he decided
to do what any logical person would do, and let's

(23:10):
walk on the side of the street that the cars
are on and sleep on the side of the room
with the door, so he could save people's lives. A
twenty three year old traveler from Monroe, Michigan, missed his
Spirit Airlines flight to la and got blocked from rebooking
at Detroit Metro. In frustration, he decided to call on
a bomb thread, claiming that somebody would blow up the
plane and the airport, and even that the bomb could

(23:30):
buy past TSA Screening authorities then had to evacuate all
the passengers, They had to get bomb sniffing dogs, they
had to rescreen everybody. They had to delay in the
flight for six hours. No explosives were found. The guy
was arrested later that day as he tried to board
another flight. He's now facing federal charges for making a
false bomb threat and he's been released. So if you
missed your flight, you could get on another one a

(23:51):
little bit later. If you do this, you'll never fly again, right,
So there's that so dumb. Yeah, yeah, you deserve whatever happens.
You better used to walking on any side of the street,
because he's gonna be walking everywhere he goes from now on.
Let's go right to Canada. Now where apparently Pauline has
been doing. Apparently her financial advisor is there and she
wants to know where she's broke. Some Montreal dog owners

(24:14):
were stunned this week to learn the dog park they've
been taking their dogs to for some time now has
outlawed barking. A dog park where a dog can't bark.
Violators would be fined between five hundred and two thousand
dollars Canadian dollars, that is, which is a little less
in the United States. According to a new sign posted

(24:34):
on the you're just talking now, You're just saying words.
Not great too much on that, did you like, are
you really?

Speaker 5 (24:47):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (24:50):
Are you identifying as a Canadian now?

Speaker 5 (24:51):
Too?

Speaker 1 (24:53):
Sundays are you Mexican, Polish and Canadian and American might
move over there some days some days to be looking
like that, as long as you can spend America, Jesus,
I don't know. I'm so scared. Anyway, there's a dog park.
If you're not allowed to bark there crazy and that's
a real thing, and right, so you take your dog

(25:17):
to a dog park. Apparently it has something to do
with the nuisance experienced by the dogs in the neighborhood. Well,
they don't have a dog park there, or if you
don't like dogs, don't live near a dog park. Like
it seems pretty simple. They want some and quiet. Yeah,
I guess so. And a twenty one year old from

(25:37):
Florida Clearwater in Florida, and got arrested after attending an
adult establishment. An adult you know, ladies of the evening
were performing on a stage. Not fully of the evening,
but you know what I'm saying, more of the entertainment purposes.
It's called the OZ Gentlemen's Club. He called by one
one because the stripper wouldn't get with him. Oh yeah,

(25:58):
he's from Saudi Arabia. I guess they don't have clubs
like that. So he said he wasn't familiar with how
things work, but apparently he went to the club, he
went to the VIP room and he paid for that,
and then he called nine to one one when the
stripper wouldn't go all the way with him, and he
was very upset. The cops got there and arrested him
from misusing nine to one one and released him on

(26:19):
the same day. Five hundred dollars bail. That would be
uh around I think six hundred Canadian dollars. And you
just so that Paolina can understand that.

Speaker 7 (26:26):
One hundred Canadian five hundred American correct?

Speaker 1 (26:31):
Right? That means their money is worth less than ours. Correct.
I don't even know any You don't you don't know
what you're saying. It's National egg roll Day, National iced
t Day, National ballpoint pen Day, and I'm going to
go home now. Canada just called, Actually I just took
a call from Canada. They said, Paulina police, come over
and bring all of your money with you. Is on

(26:54):
the press show.

Speaker 4 (26:56):
The Legal Battle between It Ends with us CO stars
Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively took another turn in Blake's favor,
so yesterday, a New York judge dismissed Justin's four hundred
million dollar countersuit against Blake and her husband Ryan Reynolds.
Justin was accusing them of defamation and extortion, but the
judge found that his claims were not supported. The judge

(27:18):
also dismissed Justin's related two hundred and fifty million dollar
defamation case against The New York Times, because remember that's
who Blake did her first article with. Now Justin has
until June twenty third two file any amended claims, so unfortunately, like,
if he does do that, this won't be over.

Speaker 1 (27:36):
But if he doesn't, it will be over, and that
will be really nice.

Speaker 4 (27:40):
And my goodness, I posted this yesterday and people really
hate Blake Lively. Like the responses were a little scary,
but like to disdain someone that you don't know is
a little scary to me.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
But here all the time, Yeah, you're right, it is
you're right, you're right. What's part of our lives? She
chose this life, shy, Like, oh god, really, that's great.
Has to meet me first. You texted me every day
for the past four years, and yeah, you still hate me.
It's unbelievable. Blake Lively, I think hates like extreme, and

(28:10):
that's really extreme my opinion.

Speaker 7 (28:12):
But I think it's okay to like not be crazy
about a celebrity, especially when they show time after time
that there may not be a good person or a
nice person.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
I think that rubs people the wrong way.

Speaker 7 (28:21):
And like the fact that even like Taylor Swift takes
out with her or used to hang out with her
blew my mind because I'm like Taylor cool chick. She
seems like she's down on her for the girls, Blake
Lively not so much. So I'm like, how has this happen?
How does this work?

Speaker 1 (28:32):
Like? What do you guys talk about the same?

Speaker 6 (28:34):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (28:35):
Well, now, yeah, they're you know, they're not really speaking
at this time.

Speaker 1 (28:39):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (28:40):
I just feel like, really disliking someone that I don't
know feels odd to me. But people really don't want
good things to happen to her, so yeah, there you go.
Jonathan Davis, known for his breakout role as Pope in
Outer Banks, has been tapped to play Snoop Dogg in
a forthcoming movie produced by Snoop himself about his life.
This marks the first movie centered fully on Snoop's life,
not like his cameo intro in Straight Out of Compton

(29:02):
or other movies.

Speaker 1 (29:03):
The project will cover his rise from.

Speaker 4 (29:05):
Long Beach hype man to global music mogul and cultural icon.
Two masked men broke into Maclamore's home in Seattle and
stole thousands of dollars of valuables. But this is crazy,
So cops say the men got in through a patio
door and sprayed their nanny in the face with bear spray.
And we know what bear spray tastes like around here
because somebody let it off on accident one day, but

(29:28):
it temporarily blinded her.

Speaker 1 (29:30):
That actually did happen here. Yes, someone's bear spray, Yes,
expelled all over the building, which then got into the
ventilation system, which means we all got partially bear sprayed. Yes,
someone who works here carried bear sprays. All the things

(29:51):
I forgot about that story. I need to write this
stuff down for the book. Yeah, but I'm going to
be writing. Oh, that'll have its own chapter. But yeah,
like I feel this nanny. I think it's in the eyes,
but it tastes really bad.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
May as well have they made off with jewelry, shoes,
watches before pushing this poor nanny to the ground, they
took her phone. They were able to escape and have
not been found. But cops say that their three children
were home during the break in, but they were not hurt.
So very scary, but I'm glad everyone's okay, And keep
your bear spray locked up.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
That's my partying message.

Speaker 4 (30:21):
By the way, if you missed any part of our show,
you can either type the Fred Show on demand on
the free I heeart app, or you can go to
YouTube and maybe you could see our little faces there.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
Someone said, these kind of unhinged days are why I
love you all so much? Yeah? Is it?

Speaker 14 (30:35):
Is it?

Speaker 1 (30:36):
Or is it? Like? Are these the days that no
one's listening? I have no idea. That's a lot of days,
I think.

Speaker 7 (30:40):
Yeah, I like to apologize. You've red about my currency exchange. No,
you just kind of made a point that I didn't realize.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
Yeah, yeah, you made it. I did what I want.
Probably sometimes I should just well, you believe whatever. How
you've investing in a Canadian dollar? Hey, how the politics
to Canada too? Pauline is like, I insist my four
K must be in Canadian. It's like, okay, yeah, sweet,

(31:10):
are you going to do the story at some point
this morning about h Taylor Swift and cool Comet. Did
you see this?

Speaker 9 (31:16):
Yes?

Speaker 13 (31:16):
It did.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
We can do it, we can, we can do it later.
I just I've been thinking about it for the last
hour you have. Are you stressed?

Speaker 6 (31:24):
No?

Speaker 1 (31:24):
I'm just like, was that on purpose? Or is that
just kind of how people do weddings? Yeah, because I don't.
I don't know that. I think that they thought that
went out like, oh, we're gonna go viral for that.
I don't think that's what happened. Probably not. I don't know. Anyway,
we'll get to that story. How's our YouTube thing going?
Our little YouTube endeavor going terrible? Is it really?

Speaker 7 (31:42):
Yes?

Speaker 8 (31:42):
It is?

Speaker 1 (31:43):
Okay, still it is. It's ridiculous at this point. Okay,
it's a new day and a new experiment with our
YouTube streaming. Yeah, I've had it not lie Okay, good?
But how is our AOL streaming going though? Is that
looking goodat Yeah? You can we can instant message each other.
That's good. That's about the speed a prodigy, that's about
compu serve. That's about where we're at for today. We'll

(32:04):
stop then you try again tomorrow. Okay, yeah, you know. Okay,
So what's the issue. They We are trying to stream
on YouTube, which apparently is revolutionary. Right. I didn't realize this.
I didn't realize like Christopher Columbus and Albert Einstein, they've
been trying to do this forever, and now they put
Kiky in charge of it because they couldn't get it done.

(32:25):
And so, okay, So we were trying to do the
show so that it's live on YouTube so you could
watch us talk, which they don't need to do because
there's an audio medium. But okay, and so what's happening
is that our lips are not matched with the with
the words right exactly. Okay, So it's like a silent
film kind of you're talking right now? Kayleb's entertainment report

(32:48):
is probably all And that happened fifteen minutes ago. I
see that's not good, right, Okay, but you come out
of him. Does anybody work in that department? You know?
I thought so many people were in that department. You know,
you don't say, Okay, well, the iHeart works. I think
the iHeart radio app works. I think we have that today.

(33:10):
I believe the Internet has turned on today, which is
a great thing. That's a plus that's nice that we
got the auto pacee sorted out on that.

Speaker 5 (33:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
Yeah, we'd actually lose the internet yesterday, which is a
weekly occurrence around here in the middle of a major
metropolitan city anyway. So yeah, good morning everyone. The iHeart works.
You can search for the Fred Show on demand. You
can make us a preset the tangent new episode of
that are off their Uncentered podcast. I think that works.
Fread show on demand that works the station where you're listening.
We think that works, but we don't know because sometimes
we don't know. And you can win a trip to

(33:40):
see Kelly Clarkson if you listen to us on the podcast.
Oh is that going? It's up and going. Okay, So
and that's for everybody. So if you listen to the
iHeartRadio app, to Fred Show on demand, to our podcast,
even if you're listening to this now, if you go
back and re listen, somewhere in there is a little
easter egg. It's a little prompt that will say, hey,
this is how you want a trip to see Kelly

(34:00):
Clarkston Las Vegas. So there's a bonus incentive to listen
to the iHeartRadio app. And I'll put it this way,
you don't have to listen for very long. No, and
why we get this whole YouTube thing figured out?

Speaker 5 (34:11):
Just go do that?

Speaker 1 (34:12):
Yes, thank you. I'm good to know that is. I'm
sure it's here on my sheet of many a sheet
of sheets. But that's why Jason need you here to
remind me, not only that everything is going to be okay,
which lately, you're not the person to remind me that.
I need someone else to do that. Mcgik. That's going
to become your job. Jason's not the beam of positivity

(34:34):
that I have come to know him. Now, you know,
it's that when Jason and I have been long suffering. Yeah,
it's for you right when YouTube around the edge, then
that's what I know. I'm the one who's one foot
off right. I've been hanging here for a long time. Yeah, okay,
as your venerable leader, I've been hanging here by a
thread for some time, just hanging on, just with two

(34:56):
fingers thumb and four fits is a four finger pointer
whatever it is. I've just been doing miss now for years,
just hanging off. And then all of a sudden I
see Jason Kicky next to me. I say, what's going on? Guys,
it's going to be okay. Are you going to be
Captain Positivity?

Speaker 15 (35:11):
Now?

Speaker 9 (35:12):
Wow?

Speaker 6 (35:14):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (35:15):
Were blogs? The next We'll do stair go debates and
relationship drama. The entertainer of Fort the Cole comment Taylor
Swift story they're doing it now? No they're not. And
that's how I get Col's attention for him to text
me and go, dude, I just stop it. I just
got American bro, like, what are you doing? In seven
fifty show me Shelley is back. She reclaims her game
and already a tiebreaker. Will do that next time? More

(35:37):
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(35:58):
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(36:20):
Music Festival, all expenses paid with some of the biggest
artists in music, Tate mcra edge here and lo Wayne,
jelly Roll, Maroon five, Mariah Carey, fifteen artists two nights,
one stage, and Jason Brown in combat boots and a
near piece and a clipboard. Y. Yeah, we'll get you there.
That's exactly there's no doubt about that. Nine one and five.

(36:42):
It still cracks me up when I go to this
thing that you Jason are on arguably one of the
top five biggest radio shows in the format in the company.
Yeah maybe, yeah, yeah, maybe we might be considered number
three on that list. I know what, I know, that's
seems impossible the way they treat us. But you go

(37:03):
there in a marketing role because you're also the marketing director,
and so you go there as you know, they ask
you to go and help with like some behind the
scenes stuff, and you've been doing this forever. You do
such an amazing job. But what's funny to me is
the way that people who are technically beneath you, like
you're a big deal on a big show, and people
will like hand you their empty you know, glass or

(37:24):
their Kleenex and they have no idea that like, they
don't bother to ask. It's like and then when I
tell them, like, oh, you know, he's on the show,
he is e freething changes in. It's like all respect, you.

Speaker 11 (37:37):
Know, it's all about humility. You see how people really are.
Oh no, and then you never really forget that, do
you know?

Speaker 1 (37:46):
But you are such a humble guy and you do
go and you work so hard and you do all
this behind the scenes stuff, but you and you refuse
to tell anyone like, actually I have a larger role
on my show than you do on yours. But you
don't tell anyone that because you're a good guy. It's interesting,
But I do it for you. Now I walk around
and do the cleanup. I go, that's Jason, he's he's
on the show. And then people look at me like

(38:08):
I probably should have not handed you my dirty cleanex.

Speaker 6 (38:13):
Boy.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
That happened once too. I saw it. I saw it.

Speaker 13 (38:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:19):
My favorite was the guy backstage of the iHeart Radio
Music Festival, which you can get to you at nine
by the way, and by the way is something that
can and I are both saying now NonStop. I need
to stop saying by the way, So I say, but
I've said it by the way four times in this
break Alom, I need to stop. Yeah, it's terrible. My
favorite was the guy who works for our company who
had someone whose job it was and I am not

(38:39):
making this up to follow him around with a hot
and a cold drink. He had a hot and a
cold drink because we couldn't be certain. I asked, I said,
what are you doing? What exactly is it you do here?
And oh, no, no, no. I was standing at the
refreshment table when this person was making this and and

(38:59):
he was saying like, I need to make sure that
I always have a hot and a cold drink for
so and so, because well, we don't know, we never know.
And I'm like, huh, wow, that's funny because I I'm
here alone. I really you had a glam squad? You did?
I did. I did my own makeup today. We are

(39:21):
doing them. Okay, let me get to the other stuff
we got top. If you listen to us on the
iHeart app on the podcast on to man, it goes up.
It goes up every hour, but then at ten the
whole show is there. If you listen to that, Somewhere
in there is a secret message, but you will hear,
which is the instructions, the word that you need, the
instructions that you need to get to Vegas to see
Kelly Clarkson a whole different thing, her residency in Vegas.

(39:43):
But if you listen, we're rewarding you by that. What
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lots of reasons to listen in addition to whatever this is,

(40:04):
this is actually I think a difficult week. I'll be honest.
I think it's a difficult week. I think he's a
tough song. So we like to make it hard and
run here every now and again. I'm sure that clip
will be isolated.

Speaker 5 (40:16):
Right.

Speaker 1 (40:16):
Show is on today morning, everyone Fred Show's commercial free
the next fifteen minutes five zero. That would be something
to know. I'm bragging about fifteen minutes. Fifteen minutes, no commercials,
that's later. Don't worry, that's later in the show. We'll
get to blogs in just a second. Stay or go,
we'll debate some relationship drama show mis Shelley is back
at tie already at time with Brianna. Seven fifty is

(40:38):
the prize and the entertainer report this hour? What are
you working on? K A couple things.

Speaker 4 (40:42):
So we were talking the BET Awards and they it
was a very special anniversary, very nostalgic. Also a secret wedding,
possibly for Travison Taylor.

Speaker 1 (40:53):
I will tell you why people think that. Okay, tell them, Yeah,
they talk better than the excited. Tell me.

Speaker 14 (41:00):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
writing in our diaries, except we stay them aloud.

Speaker 1 (41:05):
We call them blogs. And now with a financial reports
and international financial report, here is funny. Now take it
away live from Canada. Do you blog?

Speaker 7 (41:14):
So this is not financial advice I'm looking for. It's more,
I guess, like parental advice. That could be American, human, Canadian,
whatever you want it to be.

Speaker 1 (41:21):
I hope you're asking for the audience. Parental advice from
us wouldn't be very valuable since none of us have kids. Well,
I still think you guys have an input and maybe
some good advice.

Speaker 7 (41:30):
Obviously you're an uncle to two small children's and you know,
and they're the same age as my daughter, or at
least Mayve is, who's your niece.

Speaker 1 (41:37):
So my daughter, Jigi is fourteen months.

Speaker 7 (41:40):
I hate that I'm that parent, but like, I guess
I get the whole month thing now, because if you
say a year, it's like, well she's a little more
than a year.

Speaker 1 (41:46):
But uh yeah, we're in a very tough spot.

Speaker 7 (41:48):
And I remember, Fred, you saw a video on my
Instagram too, would be like a couple weeks ago, and
you were like, damn, like I'm surprised that, like you know,
she's kind of having this kind of a meltdown at
this young age. And I was like, I know, why
are we melting down at one year old? I don't know,
and I need advice. I need help because it's getting
really hard and I don't know what to do at

(42:08):
this point, Like you don't discipline a toddler. I could
put her in time out in the chair in the
corner and she'll end up right back on the couch,
Like that's not gonna happen. And also I don't think
she understands that. I don't know if I even want
to do that that way. So I'm trying to figure
out a balance of like how do you I don't know,
how do you train like a train of dog?

Speaker 1 (42:26):
Like how do you how do you like work with
a one year old so that the one year old stops.

Speaker 7 (42:29):
Doing things like she does a thing where she hits
now and I know a lot of babies do this,
like she'll get but only when she's mad. If I
take away my phone, which I can't stand when she
grabs my phone or anyone's phone, I take it away.

Speaker 1 (42:39):
Okay, we're taking this away. And she just hits and
we look at her and we're like, Gigi, no, And
then she goes nice and she rubs your head nice.
I mean, there you go. You're you're doing something because
it's almost like if I'm interpreting it correctly, like she's
saying that wasn't nice and I need to be nice,

(43:01):
Like she knows the difference. She's okay, so we're smarter
than I think. I don't know, I mean if I mean,
I haven't I haven't seen her do this, but it
almost it feels like she knows what's nice and what's
not nice.

Speaker 7 (43:11):
Yeah, but when she gets mad, like I mean, she'll
start even like fisting and shaking, Like she'll start shaking
her fists at me, and I'm like.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
Whoa, I mean you do that to me? So that's
where she's getting it.

Speaker 7 (43:21):
Yeah, I mean maybe was it my temper because like
I try to be calm around her. I don't want
her to be overwhelmed and like anxious like me. But
I don't know, I just want her to kind of,
I don't know, stop with the hitting obviously, and kind
of stop with the meltdowns and like we're not doing
full meltdowns at Target yet, you know, when the kid
doesn't get what they want, they just like, we're not
doing that yet, but I can tell it's coming and
it makes me nervous.

Speaker 1 (43:41):
And I know kids are kids, but I just I
don't know. I don't want that.

Speaker 7 (43:44):
Plus she looks like my mam a lot and my
in law my mother in law, and I feel like
we all kind of parents parents, we all kind of
do things different.

Speaker 1 (43:51):
Oh oh oh yeah, my guess would be that your
beer mom and Hobby's mom. My guess would be they
let her do it like this shit, it's just like here,
take it, take the phone or whatever.

Speaker 6 (44:04):
I think.

Speaker 1 (44:05):
So yeah, but I think you also from I don't
know what I'm talking about here, but my guess would
be some of these melts that you have to just
let them do it and then walk away and just
let them process the meltdown. That's where I'm at. I've
read about that in the mel Robins book Let them.
I don't know she I mean she did reference like
children like sometimes when in the aisle or whatever, and
when they want the toy, you don't want to buy
them the toy, Like yeah, sometimes you know. I think

(44:26):
what would be frustrating for me, Pauline, it is that
like they're not of the age yet where you can
have a conversation even begin to reason with them, you
know what I mean. Like this whole this whole theme
of today has been about reasoning with people. But it's like,
I don't think like you get to a certain age
where you can say, you know, and I hear my
sister do it with my niece and she's a therapist,
so it's like, got it wildly annoying and the kid's
gonna be so screwed up. But it's like, you know,

(44:47):
you can make a choice. You know you have a
choice here. Your choices are, you know, and like so
Polly can talk back about the toy, but you can't
really do that necessarily with toddler, No, not not like
at one.

Speaker 7 (44:58):
And that's the thing too, It's like I I want
her to like vocalize what she wants, right, but they
can't do that. So I think it's where a lot
of meltdowns come from. Right, even though I'm an adult
who has full meltdowns too, I can at least vocalize
front I don't want this, or hey, Caylen, can I
have this, Like I don't just like throw my.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
Vocalizing all right, she's given the phone, I'm gonna punch
in the face. That's what she said, that's for sure.
But I'm like, I don't want to.

Speaker 7 (45:20):
Raise a brat, but I also don't want to, like,
I don't know, like not give her what she needs.
So I don't know, I'm having a really hard time
with this. She's only one, so yay, we're just getting started.
Like it's only I think gonna get a little bit
worse before it gets better.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
Before she understands right. People are saying the power of distraction.
I have two under two, Oh my gosh. None of
the tricks worked other than distracting the energy to get
back into a good headspace under three. They don't understand
traditional punishment. Yeah, yeah, that's true too. I do a
lot of like redirecting. And my doctor asked, is she
good with that? And I said yeah. I mean she's
like me.

Speaker 7 (45:52):
It's like, hey, we're here, squirrel, look this way, now,
look over here, like if I want her to like
stop doing what she's doing, I'm really good at like
kind of being like, hey, look over there.

Speaker 1 (46:00):
Outside. Meltowns are normal. Those are big emotions for a
kid who doesn't have the tools to express how they're feeling.
These are texts that we're getting and hasn't learned yet
how to regulate their emotions. Supporting them through the meltdown,
teaching them little by little coping skills will make them
emotionally balanced. As for hitting, it sounds like you're doing
everything right. I would make sure that they understand that

(46:21):
hitting hurts and maybe look sad. Tell them that that hurts.
Please don't hit me. I didn't hit you et cetera.
It sounds like you are a great mom. Someone said
this personal said, I'm impressed by friend's parenting advice, right, like,
I know what the hell I'm talking about. Please don't
hit me. I didn't hit you. Yeah, that's hardly Chris Hansen.

(46:43):
I'm gonna try all this thing. She's sitting and telling
you that it's nice, right, she hitting you and then
you tell her no, and then she's like showing you
what nice, because like rubbing her face would be like
a nice feeling, or she'd be like, no, this is
nice to me. Slapping you in the face. I don't know.
I can't understand Gigi. I don't speak her language. Same

(47:05):
so once I come from a school counselor start teaching
her emotional regulation skills, books, modeling, sign language, there are ways. Yeah,
tell her to read a book about it. Read this book?

Speaker 6 (47:14):
Have you read?

Speaker 1 (47:15):
Let them stay or Go? The reason I think modeling
has got to work is because I see this in
my nieces, And I think the reason this is more
pronounced to me is because I don't see them every day,
you know, maybe once a week or whatever. But like
the stuff they pick up on is incredible, Like it's
so I feel like that. That's that's how you got

(47:35):
to do it when they're not talking to you, is
you just got to model the behavior that you want,
because like, where did you come up with that? Like
how did you notice say that? Man? No, it's crazy.
It's like a little psychology experiment. Hilas, good morning, Hi,
good morning him, welcome to say her go. So you
need some advice. This is about your boyfriend and sadly

(47:58):
last year you guys broke up out of nowhere, like really,
like truly. You know, we have people on the show
all the time, all waiting by the phone and like
the self awareness is lacking. But you're like, one day
everything's fine, the next day he's breaking up with you.
That's how it.

Speaker 16 (48:09):
Happened, literally, like it came out of left field.

Speaker 1 (48:13):
I did not expect this, okay, And what was his
reasoning for breaking up with you?

Speaker 16 (48:20):
Basically he told me that he wasn't in love with
me anymore and then he just cut off all communication.

Speaker 1 (48:28):
Hmm okay, So so oh wow, all right, so you
guys are together and then he comes to you and
see the matter love with you anymore?

Speaker 9 (48:36):
Bye?

Speaker 1 (48:37):
So you're upset about this and you have to move on.
And I assume you did that. Yeah, obviously I.

Speaker 16 (48:44):
Was devastated, but I had to pick myself up and
get my life together. So you know, I started to
move on, but like a few months ago, he reached
back out to me and he's like, oh babe.

Speaker 12 (48:56):
I want to win you back, and I'll do whatever
it takes.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
Tails so old as time, Alyssa, the grass was in
fact not greener elsewhere, right.

Speaker 16 (49:07):
Right, So initially, like I told him, I wasn't sure
that I could do that, but you know, he's been
trying really hard and he seems to have changed. But like,
so you know, slowly I've been letting heck in.

Speaker 1 (49:21):
Wow, Okay, so you're gonna take it back. So after
all this, you you you hear what he's saying. You
believe that he in fact maybe learned his lesson, or
at least you're willing to let him show you that.
So you you have slowly let him back in. So
where what do you need to know from us?

Speaker 16 (49:37):
Well, you know, I he says he wants to be together,
he wants to get married, the whole thing. But like
my problem is, like I'm having a hard time trusting him,
and that like he won't just out of the blue
break up with me again. Yeah, yeah, Like I just
I just need advice as to like, am I dumb

(49:58):
to get back with him?

Speaker 1 (49:59):
It's not like he cheated or he didn't. He said
he wasn't with.

Speaker 16 (50:03):
Anybody in between like us being separated, so like, but
I still feel betrayed by him, and I just like
I don't know if I can get over it.

Speaker 1 (50:11):
Okay, I'd love to know what people have to say
five five five nine three five in our little group
therapy thing here, what is his justification? Like when he
comes back to you and says I screwed up? Did
he get scared? Did do you think he thought maybe
he likes someone else better? I mean, does he is?
Did he explain to you why he was so abrupt?
Because I'm with you, like if someone's if I'm if

(50:32):
I'm invested in someone and they that abruptly can walk
away and then they come back and say, nah my bad,
then I'm probably always going to be you know, unless
you can justify why you did that in some way,
I'm probably always going to wonder when that she was
going to drop, the next she's gonna drop? Like, what's
the next time you're gonna come to me and be like, eh,
I'm out again, right, and like.

Speaker 16 (50:54):
He didn't actually give me a definitive answer.

Speaker 1 (50:58):
You gotta go? Why exactly to go? You gotta go?
I'm sorry. I mean, this isn't you know. I'm not
currently licensed as a therapist. We're working on getting it back,
but I you gotta go because if this dude didn't
have a very good reason why he was able to
discard you like that in that way, if he can't,
I got scared. I had a tragedy happen in my life.

Speaker 6 (51:21):
You know.

Speaker 1 (51:21):
For example, I'll give you an example from my life.
Like I was dating a girl a few years ago,
and she was lovely and didn't do anything wrong. There
were some things about it that were a little mysterious
to me, things that didn't really add up. And it
was moving at at pace that was a little abnormal
for me. I mean, we were talking she'd live somewhere else.
There was talking about her moving across the country. And
this is not my talk. This was her talk. I'm

(51:43):
gonna move there, I'm gonna live with you. We're gonna,
you know, do this and that, and I liked her
a lot, so I got it. Around that same time,
I lost two very close people to me. I lost
one of my closest friends and I lost someone else
very very suddenly, and I just I retreated, Like I
just it was too much. It was moving too fast
of a pace. People in my life that I cared

(52:04):
about were just disappearing, you know, they died. It wasn't
any wrongdoing of their own, and I was just overwhelmed
and I just had to pull away at that moment.
Months later, I went back and explained all that, and
sadly this person was no longer interested, and that's fine
and fair, but I also felt while I could have
handled it better, I felt very justified. And this was like,

(52:25):
this was two months old, and it was moving at
a very quick pace, and I felt abandoned by a
lot of people. And I just couldn't imagine putting putting
my heart into something else only for someone else to
disappoint me or leave me, you know kind of thing.
But for this, that woman was not willing to hear
that that wasn't good enough for her, and she moved on.
And that's I completely understand that. I also felt justified,

(52:48):
not necessarily in the way I handled it, but in
the way that I was feeling. But this dude has
no explanation. He just left you hanging, and he's like, yeah,
I don't know. I want you back now. That's not
good enough. Yeah, you're right.

Speaker 16 (53:02):
I mean, it's it's hard because I do love him,
like I really.

Speaker 1 (53:07):
Fell in love with him, but I don't know that
I could spend.

Speaker 16 (53:09):
A lifetime just absolutely in the back of my mind
worrying that, Okay, he today is going.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
To be the day that he just is like tired
of me, you know, and knowing that he's able to
be that cold and calculated and not explain why. I mean,
what's going on? Is it a you thing? Is it
a hymn thing? It's probably a hymn thing?

Speaker 17 (53:27):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (53:28):
What happened? Why? How are you going to work on it?
How are you going to get better? Are you going
to go to therapy? Is this some kind of an
abandonment thing? What is it? And if he's not, if
he has no explanation, how do you trust this person?

Speaker 12 (53:42):
You're right, You're You're absolutely right.

Speaker 6 (53:44):
I mean that's not what I wanted to hear, but
it's what I need.

Speaker 14 (53:47):
To see here.

Speaker 1 (53:48):
Let me get some phone calls on this listen, maybe
someone else will have a different perspective. But I appreciate
you a good luck, have a good day, Thank you much.
I mean, I've been talking a bunch of what do
you guys think? I mean, what does your gut tell you?
Is anyone in here of them said that you can
take this guy back with good conscience.

Speaker 2 (54:02):
I wouldn't because she's already established what she feels. And
I think you should trust your gut feeling on most things.
You know, like you're trying to trick yourself into believing
something else, or that he's a different person.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
But he's shown you who he is, and if you
feel that way, you should take that and leave.

Speaker 4 (54:18):
I feel like she'll always wonder, though, And I think
that's the hard part, is like, are it would be
really difficult to walk away from.

Speaker 1 (54:25):
Someone that you loved and wanted to be with And
I wouldn't want that.

Speaker 4 (54:29):
I would maybe try again, and if I got hurt,
it would be on me, so I didn't have to wonder.

Speaker 1 (54:35):
I think it would be hard to give yourself to
that the way that you once did with no explanation, right,
You know again, if this guy wou show Grandma or something.
If this guy wants to right come up with something, Man, Grandma,
I missed my grandma, you know, because when I think
of you, I think of my nana, right, and I
was missing her a lot. But you know I'm over
it now. Okay, Yeah, give me something this very much
and someone texted this. It very much gives to me

(54:56):
that he thought there was something better, went and realized
there wasn't exactly and then now he now, oh my
bad because he doesn't have an explanation, and that one's
not going to work. If he went to her and said, no,
I there was a shiny new object that I was
going to chase after and now I decided I don't
want that anymore, that's not going to help his cause.
But he doesn't seem to have any other story, so

(55:18):
you know what I mean, Like maybe if he wants
to get vulnerable and sit down and really like bear
his soul and right, make up. Dog, I miss my childhood.

Speaker 8 (55:29):
Dog.

Speaker 1 (55:29):
You know we're whiteboarding here. We're going to need to
improve the story a little bit, but you know we'll
get there. Marabelle, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 17 (55:37):
Why how are you good?

Speaker 18 (55:38):
Morning.

Speaker 17 (55:38):
I'm one of your thirteen listeners here.

Speaker 1 (55:40):
Well, thank you. So what you hear this story? You
hear this woman she was dating a guy, he suddenly
they were in love, she thought. He suddenly says I'm out,
no communication, and then he reappears, I'm sorry, I'm gonna
make it all right now, except we don't know why.
It's still no explanation. What do you think?

Speaker 18 (55:57):
Absolutely, do not get back together with Heavy. Obviously showed
you his true colors. It took you a while to
pick yourself back up, and it is very hard to
come back from when you're broken in a relationship. He
obviously went no contact, no communication, He could care less if.

Speaker 17 (56:13):
You were okay, and then all of a sudden he
loves you again.

Speaker 18 (56:17):
Yeah, I don't think so.

Speaker 17 (56:18):
I think that you honestly, you got to follow your
gut feeling.

Speaker 8 (56:21):
Don't do this again.

Speaker 1 (56:23):
You do not want to fall.

Speaker 18 (56:24):
Back in that hole where you're going to have to
pick yourself up again, especially if he's trying to get
married with you. You cannot trust a person who cannot
both with you through sick and thin and file through
their struggles as supposed to just running away from you
every single time, he feels like he's there's something better
on the other side.

Speaker 1 (56:41):
It's very Merville is very much giving that his his whatever,
whatever his agenda is, is more important than yours. It's
not an equal thing. And he's not willing to admit that.
He fully that he made a mistake and why that's
the thing. Maybe he's saying, he made a mistake, but
why help me understand why you were able to do that.

Speaker 18 (57:00):
I think there was someone out there. There was He
was probably you know, going before someone else and that
person probably kick them to the curve, and all of
a sudden, now he wants to come back.

Speaker 17 (57:08):
I really think that's what happened.

Speaker 1 (57:10):
Yeah, it's giving that. Thank you, Maraville, have a good day,
you have a good one. It is giving that. Uh
hot girls summer. As somebody said, yeah, yeah, get out
there girl. Hey Rosie, Hey, hi Rosie.

Speaker 6 (57:24):
What do you think I think she should head out?

Speaker 17 (57:27):
No, like, do not stick for that. He broke up
with you. He hurt you ount know where, and like
just wants to get back with you. I have a
feeling that he shown somebody and then that's why he
decided to break up with her, and that didn't work out,
and then now he wants to come back. I don't
think that's cool, Like that's not okay. And then for
you to earn that trust again and just be okay

(57:50):
with that, and I don't think that's gonna end up
working out because she can't constantly have this doubt and
then like trust is shoes.

Speaker 1 (57:57):
Yeah, yeah, I think you're right. I think you're right.
Thank you, Rosie, have a good Yeah, thank you, glad
you called, Thank you for listening. Hi, I'm ALEI good morning.

Speaker 8 (58:05):
Hey, i's done.

Speaker 1 (58:06):
Hey, great, Thanks for Colin, Thanks for listening. What are
you think is going on here? Or what would you do?

Speaker 19 (58:11):
I think it's like that thing, you know where you
get in a relationship and it's like your exes all
had that like sixth sense that you know you're happy
or whatnot. So she absolutely needs to run hide. Just
don't put yourself through it again, especially you know, I
agree with everything that's since said, Like I just can't
reason out like if he's not going to at least
give her some sort of conversation to get like an

(58:34):
insight to his mind, like just like where his mind
was at when he broke it off, Like there has
to be something.

Speaker 1 (58:39):
It can't just be.

Speaker 6 (58:40):
I got bored.

Speaker 8 (58:41):
And if it is that, then like the horrible back
together with him, my guess is.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
The real story is just is just not justifiable. My
guess is it is about another person or something that
he did swung and missed and failed or whatever, or
thought the grass was greener, because if it were something
more emotional and the guy was willing to be vulnerable,
and I think, you know, there's a chance, there's a
chance somebody could hear you and realized that you were
weak and made a mistake. But the fact that there's

(59:05):
no explanation. Either he's a narcissist and doesn't care about you.
It just expects that you'll take him however he is,
or somehow his problem was yours. And again she didn't
say any of that, so I don't know if that's true,
but it definitely is giving. I don't have a good
story for you. I just I just want you back,
and that's not good enough for me.

Speaker 8 (59:26):
I agree percent Love you guys, Thank.

Speaker 1 (59:28):
You, Emily, have a good day. Crazy glad you called Jackie.
Hi Jackie, Hi, Oh my god, I love you, guys.

Speaker 8 (59:34):
I'm so nervous.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
I don't be nervous, love you too, but you get
the final say in this, this actually happened to you.
And then the dude came back, and then what happened.

Speaker 20 (59:43):
Yeah, So we broke up suddenly a few weeks into
the pandemic who had made everything a lot worse. It
was super sudden. We got back together a year later,
and he was like, I'm so sorry. I regret everything.
You know, I want to be better, but I never
truly like learned to trust him fully again. I and
I told him as much. When we broke up again.
I was like, I've been waiting for the other shoe

(01:00:05):
to drop for the last year, and I just it
was never the same. And so I just I think
she's always going to be waiting for something to happen,
and she's always going to be like tiptoeing around this guy,
especially if he hasn't given her like a true reason
for having broken up in the first place. So like
it sucks and I understand, like I totally understand where
she is where she is right now, but I just

(01:00:29):
for me, it was too much to get over, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
And I'm sorry you mentioned this to go eventually, you
just you called it like we can't do this.

Speaker 20 (01:00:37):
Yeah, basically because I was just like it had just
gotten to the point where I was like, all right,
We're going to see each other like once a week,
and I was suddenly okay with that, and then I
wasn't okay with that. It was just once a week.
So when I thought about why, you know, we went
from like I need to see you every day, it's
just once a week. It was kind of like something changed,

(01:00:58):
and it just I always thought about what he said
while we broke up.

Speaker 6 (01:01:02):
Yeah, it was just always in the back of my head.

Speaker 1 (01:01:04):
Yeah, makes makes sense. Thank you, Jackie. Have a good day.
Caitlin's Entertainment report. He's on the Bread Show.

Speaker 4 (01:01:11):
The BT Awards went down from LA last night, hosted
by Kevin Hart, who opened with some digs at the
Ditty Trial, Jamie Fox's health, and Kanye West, all while
working in a Sinner's reference. Speaking of Jamie, Stevie Wonder
helped to present him with one of The Knight's Ultimate
Icon Awards, and then Ashanti, Jim Jones, Amory bow Wow,

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Maya Ti and a B two K Reunion helped to
headline a tribute to one O six in Park in
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I missed that show. I missed Tierra was that show?
It was Lala who was the other guy? Oh no,
it was right Hear and See and Terrence Free and AJ.
They were the original And I.

Speaker 1 (01:01:53):
Thought Lala was on one O six in Porter Tierro. Yeah,
I remember when she got engaged. I remember that episode.

Speaker 17 (01:02:02):
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Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
But I would flip back and forth between TRL and
one O six in Park based on just to see,
you know, if I didn't like something on one or
the other. But twenty five years they also brought back
former hosts like you just mentioned Terrence Jay and then
Cam Newton and Ashley Nicole. Moss announced the launch of
a sports themed spinoff, one O six in Sports, So

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dre Snoop Dogg took the stage as well with a
run of class classic hits like drop It Like It's
Hot and Nothing but a g Thing, guest appearances from
Charlie Wilson, Corrupt, Warren G. Kendrick took home Album of
the Year, Video of the Year, Best Male Hip Hop Artist,
and Best Collab for Luther with Sizza, who also took

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home an award. Chris Brown Doci also took home some
as well, and Mariah Carey, who will be at our
iHeartRadio Music Festival, did her new song type Dangerous and
today at nine, one and five is your last chance
for to win a trip to that. The lineup is stacked,
by the way, I'm getting choked up, how good it is.
Taylor Swift was granted a temporary restraining order against a

(01:03:09):
man who visited her La home multiple times and claims
that she's the mother of his child. Taylor filed the
restraining order on Friday after alleging that he made statements
about living on her property and needing to see her
in person. Luckily, Taylor has been living in Florida with
her man, Travis Kelcey. And while we were talking about them,
this is the story that Fred was referencing earlier. I

(01:03:31):
want to mention that some people think they are secretly married.
And this is because event planner Ali Nitali said that
at NFL player Colcomett's wedding envelopes addressed to quote Taylor
and Travis Kelcey were placed at table thirteen, written in
elegant calligraphy, setting off lots of whispers.

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
Taylor and Travis actually ended up skipping that wedding.

Speaker 4 (01:03:54):
They were seen photographed the night before at Travis cousin's
wedding in Tennessee, but some fans were pointing out that
it's normal to name couples that way, even if they're
not married.

Speaker 1 (01:04:05):
I've never heard of that or seen that. Yeah, I
don't know. I'm trying to think, like when I've been
asked to go to a wedding and I bring somebody along,
if they really even bother to ask what the other
person's information is.

Speaker 9 (01:04:20):
And I don't know that.

Speaker 1 (01:04:20):
I'm trying to think of times when I brought someone
it was like the person knew who I was bringing,
but the little card that would get passed on to
the person who makes the calligraphy stuff would just say
me and guest, right, so they would probably refer to
them under my name, even though we're not married.

Speaker 4 (01:04:38):
No, because like I get addressed to my boyfriend and
me and both of our last names every single time.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
Yeah, well, well but you guys are together, and I
don't know, I don't know, I don't know. I'm not
sure what the etiquette is on that, but it sounds
to me like it was just an easier way to
do it.

Speaker 17 (01:04:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:04:54):
Maybe, but that's why people think they secretly got married.
I personally do not think they did that as a
swifty but I don't know. By the way, if you
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let's welcome you a challenger for day number two is
a tale Yesterday, Hi Brianna. Good morning, guys, How are

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you good morning? So you might have earned yourself fifty
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(01:06:29):
you go sholly down, boof boof Brianna Question number one.
Which award show hosted by Kevin Hart went down from
LA last night.

Speaker 6 (01:06:37):
The BP Award.

Speaker 1 (01:06:38):
We just talked about it? Why you were on hold?
Which actor has seemingly lost his legal battle with Blake
Lively after his lawsuits were dismissed. Justin Valgerini, The Birds
of a Feather singer seemingly confirmed her relationship with Nat
Wolfe after they re spotted making out in Italy Billie Island.

(01:07:01):
Which actor and comedian told Raven's running back Derrick Henry
that he would put him in a movie if he
rushed for over two thousand yards this season, and which
children's movie dominated the box office for a third weekend
in a row. Movie dominated the box office for a

(01:07:25):
third weekend in a row three and I have two,
you have one, and I had to. I had to, uh,
you know, offer my apologies to this movie because I
thought there's just no way that it would be mission
impossible and it has. I hate to say this to you, Brianna,
but you got one. Two was closed but not correct.

(01:07:46):
You got three, so you got two? Right, yeah, yeah, yeah, unfortunately.
But anyway, let's see how this goes. It's gonna be okay.
I don't think we'll have any controversy today, but let's try. Shelley,
which award show hosted by Kevin Hart went down from
LA last night. The bet Award YEP which actor has

(01:08:06):
seemingly lost his legal battle with Blake Lively after his
lawsuits were dismissed. Justin Baldoni, Justin Baldoni, I think you
said Balderini or something. This Birds of a Feather singer
seemingly confirmed her relationship with Natt Wolfe after they were
spotted making out in Italy. Billie Eilis Yeah, which actor
and comedian told Raven's running back Derek Henry that he

(01:08:27):
would put him in a movie if he rushed for
over two thousand yards this season Adam Sandler. Yeah, and
which children's movie dominated the box office for a third
weekend in a row? Leland Stitch. That's it, and that's
a five. That's a when there's no doubt about it. Hey, Brianna,
you did a great job. We'll get you some kind
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(01:08:47):
but we'll see. But you have to say, my name
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Cat shut up, so Briann.

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No, you are, in fact not a loser because you
this is your second appearance. You did a great job. Yeah,
baloniy hang on a second. Have a great day. You
and the kids?

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Thank you?

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Right?

Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
I love that I have kids. Yeah, I guess they
don't know about Lelo and Stitch. Yeah, Shelley, you weren't here,
but I was a couple of weeks ago. I'm like,
there is no way that, Like, why would Leelo and
Stitch even bother to go up against Mission Impossible, that
you guys are dummies. Go the next weekend like you
all are crazy nooked? It as oh yeah he killed
him huge. Oh my neighbor's kids saw. It's what I mean.

(01:10:03):
Why would you go up against Mission Impossible? That's crazy? No, No,
Mission Impossible should have caught up against them, exactly. It
turns out all right, eight hundred tomorrow. That's win number
one thousand, eleven and a seven game win streak. So
how's this back to work stuff going for you? Good?
Are you? Are you currently energized? But like maybe later you'll.

Speaker 15 (01:10:23):
Be like, no, I think maybe, but it was more
like overwhelmed, like I forgot passwords to something like it
was just trying to figure everything out.

Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
So I'm slowly getting back into it. I feel like
I feel like it's that week after vacation, except yours
was three months and not to vacation. But it's like, oh,
the first couple of days, you're like, oh, I good
to be back, and abo the third day you're like,
I liked it better.

Speaker 15 (01:10:43):
But I know because the first few weeks sub materially
I was like, oh my god, this is wonderful. And
then I was like, you know what kind of miswork
a little bit and then yeah, we'll see I'll keep
you posted.

Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
It's like, sorry, kids, Mom's got to go to work.
We're gonna have to fend for yourselves. I guess all right,
we'll see you tomorrow. Have a good day. You bye.
Waiting on the phone from the vault. Give us a hint, girl,
that is not enough money, so stop playing. Okay, period.
I guess I'll stick around more. Pread Show. Next, this

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(01:12:01):
the Fred Shows here, Hi Kaalen good morning, Hi Jason Brown,
Hi Kiki, good morning. I mean is here on the
phone in the text eight five five five nine one
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in the last hour you've gained faith.

Speaker 2 (01:12:20):
Man here I started sending text with no emojis.

Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
Oh no, these people know that you mean business now
standing on it. So we're trying to make it so
you can watch some of the show on YouTube and
listen at the same time, you know, real time, but
you have to subscribe and then you'll know when that's happening.
The Fred Show on YouTube, on Facebook, all the different
places we are there. We'll get you waiting by the
phone from the vault. Why does somebody get ghosted? Headlines

(01:12:45):
and biggest stories of the day, fun facts and the
entertainment reports coming up? What's in there?

Speaker 4 (01:12:49):
Came p Diddy is allegedly paying the lawyer's fees of
someone who is testifying against him.

Speaker 1 (01:12:56):
Oh my lord, how does that work?

Speaker 4 (01:12:59):
That came out in court because of her recent relationship
with him?

Speaker 1 (01:13:05):
Oh yeah? Would that influence as she talks about that
or is it no, she's talking. Yeah, she's definitely saying
things that are not favorable, right, that's what That's what
I thought. I was like, well, okay, good, let's get
to it in just a second. You've ever been left
waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Bryce, Good morning,
welcome to the show.

Speaker 6 (01:13:24):
Oh, thank you very much, good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:13:26):
We're happy to have you waiting by the phone. Is
what we call this. Trying to figure out why you
may have been ghosted? Bryce, So why don't you fill
us in? Tell us about Sabrina, how you met, about
any dates that you've been on, and then where you
guys are now?

Speaker 6 (01:13:37):
Sure?

Speaker 5 (01:13:38):
Sure, So I'm gna on rumble and I'm kind of
like a like, you know, the momentum can can go
downhill if.

Speaker 6 (01:13:48):
You talk too much. So I was just pretty much
being I thought she was a huge the nights over
the messages immediate like you know, let's grab let's grab dinner,
and so like she seemed all about that. Actually met
up and like honestly had a good time. Like we
just kind of like kept like chatting.

Speaker 5 (01:14:06):
It turned out we had a ton to talk about.
It just seemed like like I'm like kind of a
good girl, you know.

Speaker 6 (01:14:14):
It's very very sweet, like a little bit demure, and
I don't know, I'm not like used to that.

Speaker 5 (01:14:21):
Like a lot of like women I meet her a
very forward. I kind of do like you're kind of well,
so I say, they're like, you know whatever. Anyway, So
I like had a great time, and I've like, honestly, I've.

Speaker 6 (01:14:37):
Never been ghosted before, but after the night ended, I.

Speaker 5 (01:14:40):
Was kind of like, oh, yeah, for sure, like second
date and you can't wait to go on, like really
want to get her, know her more. And I have
not heard a word since, and I like, honestly, I
can't I can't think of.

Speaker 6 (01:14:53):
Like what what it could be.

Speaker 1 (01:14:54):
Yeah, you seem perplexed here. I mean it's like most
women they kind of fall for you, or they they
maybe they compete for you. Is kind of what I
hear you saying. You're just not used to somebody not
being super forward about seeing you again. Yeah, yeah, no,
I'm You're a catch, Bryce.

Speaker 5 (01:15:11):
I mean, you know, like I'm doing them the best
year and like usually yeah, usually, yeah, I don't have
I don't have a problem with this, So I guess think.

Speaker 1 (01:15:19):
You know, that's fair, first time for everything, right, but
not a fan of it.

Speaker 6 (01:15:24):
And I figured, you know, i've heard you guys help
people out before. I figured you could help me out.

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
Yeah, okay, So let's call this one. Her name is Sabrina,
and you guys went out and we'll see we can
figure out what's going on. You know, maybe she's been busy,
maybe she's not been feeling well, maybe something's going on
in her life. Hopefully, whatever it is, we can straighten
it out and then we'll set you up on another
date and we'll pay for that. All right, for sure?
That sounds great, Bryce, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's
call Sabrina. You guys, you met Unbumble the dating app.

(01:15:49):
You kind of were aggressive about getting together with her
because you kind of have to be truthfully on these apps,
like you got to move fast otherwise you get lost
in the shuffle. So you went out. You felt like
things went way well, except you haven't been able to
get a hold of her sense and you're not used
to that. You feel like most women are responsive to
you in this case, though she's ghosting. It looks like
and you want to know what Yeah exactly, All right,

(01:16:10):
let's call her now. Good luck. Hello, Hi, is this Sabrina.
It's Fred from the Fred Show. Everybody's here if I'm
starting to bother, but I do have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now and I
need your consent to continue with the call. Can we

(01:16:33):
talk for a couple of minutes? I guess, well, thank
you very much. We're calling on behalf of a guy
named Bryce who says he met you on bumble and
you guys went out for dinner. Do you remember? Oh? Okay,
you know the guy? Why is he gross? Because I
will tell you that he described it was a very
different story from him. He thought it was a successful date.

(01:16:53):
He likes you a lot and was hoping to see
you again, and says, you're not responding, so what happened
on your end?

Speaker 22 (01:17:00):
So at the beginning of the date, I asked him,
so tell me about yourself so we could get to
know each other. And the first thing he said was
how much money he makes, which is around two hundred thousand,
oh and he didn't really have much more to say
about himself. It's obviously a lot of money, but it
should be like one of the first things you say

(01:17:21):
about yourself on a first date, like, oh, this was
my salary boom.

Speaker 1 (01:17:25):
He didn't even tell you like what he did or anything.
He just was like, you say, tell me about yourself,
and he goes, I make two on a grand Oh.

Speaker 22 (01:17:31):
Well, he kind of did say it in different variations,
like instead of saying exactly how much he made a year,
he brought it up a few more times and.

Speaker 8 (01:17:40):
Said, well, I make six figures.

Speaker 22 (01:17:42):
So it was just such a turn off.

Speaker 1 (01:17:44):
It was justugh, that's crazy growth for a first date.

Speaker 7 (01:17:47):
I'm in a relationship for two years and I don't
even know how much my partner makes.

Speaker 1 (01:17:50):
That's crazy. Really yeah, interesting, okay, all right, Bryce, what
we were doing?

Speaker 5 (01:17:56):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:17:57):
Like, I think doesn't everybody know that there are a
few topics that are not you know, they're just not
really appropriate to talk about, you know, money, religion, politics,
I mean, it's just what you don't talk about, how
much you make.

Speaker 6 (01:18:08):
Yeah, I'm sorry, I didn't realize that, like hard work
and success. It's such a turnoff. Oh my god, I like,
why should I like not say something about something. It's
actual that we were having an honest conversation.

Speaker 1 (01:18:23):
I'm not interviewing you from like alone.

Speaker 6 (01:18:26):
What it usually damnier works all the time, it really well.

Speaker 1 (01:18:30):
But hold on. You say it works, but I mean
it works for what here you are single, It works
for girls that are after you for money, I guess,
but it it probably turns lofts yeah off too like
people who aren't after you for money exactly.

Speaker 6 (01:18:43):
Like I know I've been in I've been in relationships
that have been great like yeah, no, apparently right now,
but that happens like young guy in the city, Like,
I'm sorry, I'm not going to get tied down right away.
It's usually my choice.

Speaker 22 (01:18:54):
I literally know nothing about you except how much money
you freaking make. Not seem a little odd to you
that we went through the whole.

Speaker 6 (01:19:03):
Dinner, like the dinner that we had and the drinks
that I bought that like we're not like no one
earning like less than six figures is going to that place.

Speaker 1 (01:19:13):
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 22 (01:19:14):
Talking about money is gross to me.

Speaker 1 (01:19:17):
Well, then there you go. If nobody making less than
six figures is eating at that place, so you don't
have to tell her, you don't even have to take
as you should already know because it was a boogie place.
So so I don't know why you have to tell
her how much you unless you're insecure, unless you have
I mean Bryce, thank you, it would come off like
you have nothing else to offer but how much money
you have, which is if that's not true, then I
don't know why you lead with it.

Speaker 20 (01:19:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:19:37):
Yeah, you guys have listened to me. Does it seem
like I have nothing else to offer of just like
letting this is like a complete package?

Speaker 1 (01:19:44):
Well, I mean a complete package. What else is there?

Speaker 6 (01:19:47):
Because I don't know your doll.

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
I mean, you sound like enough guy, but like you
if that's all you're talking about is how much money
you have, then I mean I would think there's nothing
else there.

Speaker 6 (01:19:58):
You're not talking a yeah, like I don't have like
a ton of hobbies and stuff because I'm like, you know,
working my ass off to make a ton of money
in order to like eventually like like support a family someday,
you know, to like like go on nice trips. Like, yeah,
I work hard, but I and I and I'm proud

(01:20:18):
of it, and I'm proud of how much I make.
But it's also like, you know, it's going to do
good stuff in the future.

Speaker 1 (01:20:22):
I feel like you could say all that if you
really wanted to you could say all that and notice
none of that included what's on your W two.

Speaker 6 (01:20:30):
Yeah, like not all six figures are made the same
by you know, two hundred thousand and eight one hundred thousand.

Speaker 1 (01:20:37):
It ain't. No, that's true. I don't know about either. Okay, Well,
look Sabrina got another chance. I mean, so now he's
aware that that was the wrong approach. It sounds like
it's an approach it's worked for him in the past.
But I mean, would you consider another date? Obviously he's
got the money. We're not paying for it anymore. So
I'm not because he got two hundred grand, so he
doesn't need our money.

Speaker 22 (01:20:58):
No, I think that you need different girl that cares
about that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:02):
I don't. Okay, Now, I care about quality, not quantity.

Speaker 6 (01:21:07):
Clearly you're intimidated by my income and my stack clearly.

Speaker 1 (01:21:11):
Yeah, it's very cooch. Oh yeah, super intimidated. The other
little all those little listen to on a carry. Best
of luck to both of you. Calin's entertainment report and
he's on the Bread show.

Speaker 4 (01:21:25):
Be Ditty's federal trial continued yesterday with testimony from one
of his exes, who's been going by Jane Doe who
testified that Ditty began paying rent for she and her
son in twenty twenty three, which made her feel obligated
to participate in sexual encounters after he started doing that.
She even testified that Ditty is still paying for her

(01:21:46):
attorney fees as we speak, as she is testifying against him,
which is very interesting. Jane also mentioned having met with
Ditty's lawyers multiple times between his arrest and the trial,
So I don't know if they were trying to get
her get their story straight, or.

Speaker 1 (01:22:04):
Like manipulate of course the story. Yeah, they're his lawyers
right for sure.

Speaker 4 (01:22:09):
Her testimony, along with other evidence, painted a picture of
significant control over her life, and I think we figured
out who it is, but I will not say because
she wants to keep it anonymous.

Speaker 1 (01:22:19):
So there you go. I'll keep you updated all week.
We'll still be doing the Diddy thing.

Speaker 4 (01:22:24):
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Speaker 1 (01:23:07):
And his last Red Rock show was unreal.

Speaker 4 (01:23:09):
It was you can watch it on YouTube, but it
was just snowing like crazy and they still played and
snow they were like covered, like his beard was frozen,
but they still sounded great.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
So I really want to go see a show at
Red Rocks. I have not done it yet. It's on
my bucket list, thy two, it's on my little list.

Speaker 4 (01:23:26):
And lastly, Sidney Sweety soap that collab that she did
with Doctor Squatch contains some of her bathwater. We know this,
but we didn't know that it's selling on eBay for
over two thousand dollars. So the soap went on sale Friday.

Speaker 1 (01:23:40):
You know you could just come over to my house
and get the bathwater that she uses in my house.
Well you I mean, oh, you could just get it
out of there. Oh yeah, if you wanted to. Okay,
you could. I thought you were going to say you
had all the soap. But well, I mean, where do
you think they get the bathwater from? Okay, doctor Squatch
came in your apartment, it came over. Yeah, Squatch is

(01:24:01):
always in my ause.

Speaker 4 (01:24:03):
Okay, Well she was selling it for eight dollars for
the rest of us who aren't so lucky. Now, if
you want to buy it, because they didn't make a
lot two thousand bucks, it's probably going to run you.

Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
So I don't know if anyone's backwaters. I just get
in the bath after her. I just don't drain that,
and I just get in right aft and you like
japtize yourself, yeah, right, just so I can immerse myself
and everything that's her, you know, the good and the bad.
Oh well, a bath is going to be covered with
you know, the good and the bad, right because if
you're cleaning yourself, so bath water is going to contain
good and bad. Okay, you never thought of it that way.

(01:24:33):
I mean, bath water is going to be dirty after
you were in it. That's fair. I usually shower after
a bath to get all and oh I don't if
it's her bath water, I just get in it and
I soak myself and then I go about my day.

Speaker 4 (01:24:44):
If I'm in there with Sydney, yeah, I'm going to
come to work right with Sydney.

Speaker 1 (01:24:48):
Yeah, okay, you get it?

Speaker 5 (01:24:49):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:24:50):
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Please set us as a preset as well, that'd be nice.
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Speaker 18 (01:25:13):
Fred fun.

Speaker 1 (01:25:20):
Learn it so much? Guys? Did you know? And if
you do, then pretend that you didn't. The longest time
between two twins being born is ninety days? What how
are you playing energy?

Speaker 21 (01:25:35):
You know that?

Speaker 1 (01:25:36):
No, I'm for real.

Speaker 2 (01:25:40):
Doing No, I'm really shook ninety days. It's not my
twenty that's my brother.

Speaker 1 (01:25:45):
But sis, you remember I did this before? Do you remember?
I don't remember why I did it? Yeah, Oh damn,
I thought it was a really good one. But I
can't remember when I did it last. So I was like, Okay, no,
it is a good one. Because a lot of this,
a lot of my sources for facts, they repeat the
same facts I'm trying to, like, I heard did that
one a ready? Anyway, this is crazy. The longest time
between two twins being born is ninety days. Molly and

(01:26:06):
Benjamin West He didn't know that. Their names their diet
die zygotic, fraternal twins who were born in Baltimore, Maryland,
on January first and March thirtieth, respectively, of nineteen ninety six.
Molly was three months premature, but doctors were abra to
hold off Benjamin's birth for ninety days. Stick a plug

(01:26:27):
in there and be like, now you don't, no, you don't, No,
you don't. That's are you staying in there? You bake
it a little bit longer. I don't know how they
were able to do that. Maybe I don't know. I
don't know. I don't know. I haven't I haven't delivered
a baby in a while, so I don't remember how
that works. But yeah, so the longest time between two
twins being born is ninety days blown away? Yes, blown away?
More Pread Show.

Speaker 14 (01:26:46):
Next, I'm telling these are the radio blogs on the
Fred Show.

Speaker 1 (01:26:52):
It's like we're writing in our diaries, except we say
them aloud. We call them blogs. Klin's got one.

Speaker 4 (01:26:56):
Go yes, dear blog. So it has been gosh, I'm
trying to think just under a year. I think that
I've been living with my boyfriend. Well, we moved September,
I think August September. Anyways, we've been living together for
under a year. And there's certainly things that you learn

(01:27:16):
along the way, and about each other and just about
living with someone of the opposite sex.

Speaker 1 (01:27:23):
And there is this phenomenon that I've heard Jason speak about.

Speaker 4 (01:27:27):
I think I've heard Keeky speak about where and I
always thought, oh, well, like that wouldn't be me, Like
that wouldn't be me.

Speaker 1 (01:27:34):
It's me. Okay, So anytime Shane.

Speaker 4 (01:27:38):
My boyfriend, is coming home, and I have already worked
a full day, like I have done a chores work whatever,
I've gotten stuff done, but I will not let him
see me lounging. When he gets home, I start acting
like I'm like a housewife in the fifties, and I
got to like get up and like put something on,

(01:27:59):
and I'm like, you know, I look like I'm vacuuming.
I work very hard, Like I'm not insecure about how
hard I work. But for some reason, like I don't
think that it's okay for me to be chilling at
like seven pm when he comes home, I.

Speaker 1 (01:28:13):
Feel like I gotta look busy. Hmmm. And I don't
know why I'm turning into a housewife in the fifties,
don't you didn't you say you do that? Jason?

Speaker 9 (01:28:22):
Yeah, I do it.

Speaker 1 (01:28:24):
You do this kicking I I want to hear. I
want to hear. I'm just surprised Kiky doesn't. But yes, Jason.

Speaker 11 (01:28:28):
Mike actually called me out on it the other day
because like the way our house is set up, if
it's dark, you could like see shadows.

Speaker 1 (01:28:35):
So like he like walked in and I like jumped
up and I was like folding laundry.

Speaker 11 (01:28:39):
He's like, I know you weren't, just like I know
you weren't sitting here holding laundry, Like, yeah, I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:28:44):
Know why, Like, well, I know why I do it.

Speaker 11 (01:28:47):
Because if he walks in from like working on the
yard or whatever, and I'm just like lounging on the bed.
I'll get a it must be nice like that thing,
and I don't want to hear it. I want to
hear his mouth.

Speaker 1 (01:28:57):
So look, I might understand, Like if its house yours
and someone else is working around you and you're not
doing anything like that, I might understand. But you know,
for us, we get here between four and five ish,
and we're you know, by eleven, we've worked you know,
five six steps, but whatever it is, and we still

(01:29:17):
got more to do. But like, for the most part,
our day could be done by the time some people's
day even starts are like the middle of the day.
So we would have every right to like lay around
the same way you would when you get home at
five or six o'clock, if you have that luxury, if
you don't have kids and whatever else. So I guess
I don't. I don't understand why you'd feel bad. The
only reason I would feel bad is if someone were
like cleaning the house around me, Like if i'm if

(01:29:38):
I'm you know, on the couch with my feet up,
and if I have someone living with me and you know,
she's running around mopping and cleaning and I'm just doing
nothing that I might understand. But I don't feel bad
when my day's over. Your day has to continue because
most of the time when I leave, your asses sound asleep. Yeah, yeah,
I mean I didn't think I would either.

Speaker 4 (01:29:55):
Yeah, we hit eight hours at one pm, and I'll,
you know, I'll continue working after the show.

Speaker 1 (01:29:59):
Then I'll do some stuff around the house.

Speaker 4 (01:30:01):
So I don't know why I'm jumping up and doing that,
like as if I'm not going to just go back
right down, like to lounging the second he gets home,
you know what I mean, Like, I'll top what I'm
doing and then I lounge and he doesn't get mad.

Speaker 1 (01:30:13):
At me over it, because that's normal. He got a
lounge together. Yeah, I did it a girl once, so
we would. She worked from home at the time. Actually
it was COVID. I think she was unemployed. But anyway,
but I would come back from work at like eleven,
and I'm taking a nap and she I remember one
time she said to me, you know, you could accomplish
a lot more in your life if you just didn't nap.

(01:30:33):
And I was like, yeah, because when I left at
four point thirty this morning, you could have accomplished a
lot more if you were up. I don't know, investing
in the stock market in Japan or so, I don't know.
I don't say anything to you when you get up
at eight. Things you know and like roll over and
you know log in at nine. I don't say anything
to you. Great girl, you know, don't try it right,
Sit this one out, go back to bed. Yeah, and
maybe I don't want to accomplish it when I accomplish

(01:30:57):
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