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Have you ever creeped on someone and it worked? Fred and the crew discuss. Plus, we debate relationship drama with Serena on an all new Stay Or Go. And, find out why Pete got ghosted on a Waiting by the Phone from the vault, listen now!

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Speaker 1 (02:26):
Okay, So this woman is on TikTok and she is
sharing with everyone the current state of dating in New
York City. This is apparently where people are at women,
I guess specifically trying to find a date.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
Now.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
I just want to say, and I'm going to be
that guy and I don't like to argue this way
or I don't like to, you know, position this way.
But if a guy did this, he's a total creep. Okay,
But apparently if a girl does this, then we're good.

Speaker 4 (02:54):
Dating scene is getting so bad in New York City
that I am seeing on TikTok there are girls going
into Midtown during the week and stealing Finance Bros Salads
for lunch and then looking their name up from the
salad order on LinkedIn and then messaging them through there
and being like, hey, we got so sorry.

Speaker 5 (03:15):
Grabs your solid Like, let me just make it up
to you and buy you a new one. And that's
how they're like sliding it, which honestly smart. Why are
we stealing men's salads like that's you have?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
But we have no idea who this man is. I mean,
I guess you run, he's a finance I suppose it's
an end. But I mean, yeah, okay, But if I
grab you know, Jake chad Z's, you know, lunch, and
then I got to go home, and first of all,
it's a bad lunch. What if you're the guy who
he likes raisins and grapes in his salad and nuts
in his salad. He likes one of those kind of Waldorf.

(03:49):
You ever had a what was it called a Walldorf?
It's like it's like Mayo. No, it's yogurt, raisins, nuts
and marshmallows. You ever had one of those? It sounds
good to me.

Speaker 2 (03:59):
There's marshmallows.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
It's a sound that has yogurt and marshallows. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Is it a waldor ie like ambrosia?

Speaker 1 (04:06):
Yeah? Maybe, I don't know. What if the guy has
bad tastes a salad and he's an idiot and he's
not cute, and he's that cute, Now you got this
bad salad you stole it. You ruined somebody else's day
because their lunch isn't there.

Speaker 6 (04:18):
Oh you're right, Waldorf. Sorry, okay, sure, thank you. I
didn't I've never had that. And and then I mean,
come on, like, I don't, I don't know. I don't
think this is a great strategy. I mean, what are
the odds that you're going to get a good looking
guy's salad who's single and receptive and it's a good salad.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
It sounds like, yeah, well that that would be hard.
It sounds like they just want someone who makes a
lot of money. That's how desperate we're getting in New York.
This is very thirsty.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Yeah, I don't. I don't know how I would respond
to this. I don't. I don't know especially respond well maybe,
but then if I found out, okay, so if it
were like an accident, because you know me, I'm into
the happenstance, you know, yeah, I I'm into like the
Hallmark movie sort of thing. So I still believe I'm
going to meet someone at an airport. I really do.
And you guys don't agree with me. But the airport's

(05:08):
are not only a horny place, but it's the kind
of place where you meet someone who's I don't know,
that's where that's where love stories begin. In the airport.
I believe this every time I go to the airport
get on a flight, I look around and I survey
my surroundings and I see what might be available to me,
you know, and what could be. There was a very
very hot girl that was one like I was on

(05:29):
the aisle and she was on the other aisle on
the flight back from South Paulo, Brazil. I don't know
what her story was. I never really got it. I
think language may have been a barrier there too, but
she was good looking. You never know, it could have
been that could have been missus Fred. Yeah you know,
I could have been said in Abuda got to her
all the time. Yeah, you know, and chow chow all

(05:51):
the time. But anyway, what are the odds though that? Okay?
So I would get the LinkedIn message, I would be like,
this is so cute, Oh my gosh, she's good looking.
She got my salad first of all. I would never
it would have been like a gigantic sandwich or some
like four meals breakfast. I got your team's lunch. It
would have been like that was all for me, but anyway,
and then and then I would have I would have

(06:13):
been been this is so cute, and then we maybe
would have gone out, and then I would have gone
on TikTok and found out this is just something. It's
his strategy. It wasn't cute, it wasn't happenstance, it wasn't
meant to be. You wouldn't care how many times did
you do this, and you know, to come upon me,
and then I would I would find it less sincere
and I would be upset about it, right, because it's

(06:33):
it's just simply a game.

Speaker 7 (06:34):
Yeah, they're gonna start locking up the salads now, like
at Walgreens.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Like the soap. Yes, yes I have my salad. Some
man has to come around unlock it and hand it
to me.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
It's crazy, Yeah, learning for everybody.

Speaker 1 (06:46):
Yeah, I don't, I don't. I don't know. But if
a guy, if a guy did this and it wasn't
an accident, we would get killed. It would be gross.
I'm sorry, it's true. It would be gross. It would
be it would be thirsty, it would be gross, it
would be intrusive, it would it would be violating. And
maybe because maybe men have just made that reputation for

(07:08):
ourselves by being those things. And I'm you know, taking
not personally taking credit, but yeah, I think a lot
of nice things have been ruined for the guys who
are well intentioned. That's a good point, but yeah, I
don't think this would go over very well if if
dudes were doing this consistently. I think women would be like,
first of all, worth my salad, That's what I would
be mean about it. Yes, like that was a good
salad I ordered, and it was like twenty four dollars.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Yes, just out like we're very specific, keeking eye, but
what we want in there?

Speaker 1 (07:34):
You know, I understand that. I understand it. One a
week and there and they're eighty four dollars.

Speaker 8 (07:39):
Yes, on Tuesday is a salad day. And I take
that very serious.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
That's what I mean because you had to save up
hoping right right in order to get it. But that's
what I guess. That's where we're at. Have you guys
ever done anything well? Jason's been dating the same person
for eighty seven years and he moved in correct, as
we learned yesterday in the in the tangent Are off
their Uncentried podcast, he is a U haul lesbian, I am,
because he went on one date and then lived.

Speaker 9 (08:03):
There already had it packed.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
But if you guys are being as well, and I've
probably I've definitely done things that would be defined now
as cringe but used to be considered cute or romantic.
And again I'm not blaming women for this, but I'm
saying I think guys have screwed up what what could
be a sincere gesture from a man, because because now

(08:28):
the perception is if a stranger talks to you that
that's creepy, which is a shame or or threatening or something.
But will any of you women admit, any of you
ladies admit that you've done something somewhat sort of stalker
ish or creepy, or like set yourself up to meet
the guy you wanted to meet. I mean, I'm wondering

(08:49):
if anyone wants to admit to this eight five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five Have you ever like gone
to the same place he saw a guy at a place,
and then you went there every day for a week,
or to see if he shows up, or I don't know,
somehow position yourself in a way that he had to
bump into you, so you had to talk to him
or anything. Have you ever done something like this to
put yourself in a position?

Speaker 7 (09:09):
I mean yeah, Like I like there was a DJ
thought that was cute, like back in the day, like
back in my do you.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
Have a money mouth tattoo?

Speaker 7 (09:15):
He did not have that tattoo, soffuse them, Yes, and
we did an idea. I'm actually about that yesterday with
the Mighty Mouse side one of our listeners hang out
with it.

Speaker 2 (09:23):
Oh okay, it was really fun with him. No, no,
not him himself, but he doesn't have the internet in jail,
he has no act.

Speaker 7 (09:30):
But like with the DJ, I thought he was cute,
so I would like go to the spots that I
knew he was DJing at and like nothing happened, but
I was like, hey, like you're kind of a cool DJ,
Like I don't know, I like your style, and that
kind of just went from there.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
I figured out someone's schedule at a bar, and I've gone,
I haven't done this in a while, but I would
make sure that I just happened to stop in when
that person was there. It worked, Yeah, it definitely worked.
You never done something like this though, You've never You've
never I'm trying to think of another example of where
you you just make sure that somehow done something or

(10:02):
maybe you had to take some sort of creepy method.
We'll be defined as creepy today, but it worked well.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
I've done things like this to Taylor Swift, Like I
befriended someone she went to high school with, just because
they went to high school together and.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
You were hoping that you two would become friends.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
Well, you know, I'm still in the process, so you're.

Speaker 1 (10:20):
Befriending her, right, Yeah, okay, did you talk regularly?

Speaker 2 (10:22):
Yeah, we became online friends. She doesn't know why I'm
being her friend.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
Well she does, now, okay, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
I've like had my makeup done and then on purpose,
like made sure I run into a guy, you know,
because you know, when you get a beat done, you
can't waste it. But that's like the creepiest thing I
can probably think of. But let me think, because maybe
I'll be creepier if I remember.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
I'm trying to think, I've probably looked people up on
social media and make sure, like I've definitely I've probably
friend I've probably found people on social media and then
just shot my shot by requesting them and I didn't
necessarily have like a reason to know to do, you know,
like I didn't. I didn't. I wasn't invited to do that.

(11:03):
So but my thing is either you're going to accept
it and then that might mean that you want some
form of interaction or you're not. But you have the choice,
like you know what I mean, Like you have the
option to not friend me or not respond. I'll shoot
my shot one time. I don't care. Uh and now
sometimes it winds up on message boards, but I don't care.
I'll shoot my Well, that's another kind of crappy thing,
is you know, you shoot your shot and and then

(11:25):
you just if you don't want to someone to Sometimes
it works, sometimes it doesn't. Right, I've gotten responses, I've
gotten I've gotten non responses, But like I shot, you
know what I mean, because because when I was much younger,
I would not talk to people because I was afraid
of getting rejected. And I think now it's like oh yeah,
and then people will later brag like so so and
so yeah he slipped my DMS. I didn't respond. It's

(11:46):
like that's not cool, like love to do that. It's
like a minute, if I'm not good enough to go
out with you. Why am I good enough for you
to brag that you shot me down right? You know
what I'm saying, Like, why why would that be? Because him?
By the way, for every couple that don't work, sometimes
it works. So you know she did. But is that creepy?
Because I feel like you have the option. But some
of some would argue, you found me on the internet.

Speaker 2 (12:07):
That's what it's for. I don't that that's not creepy.
Shoot on the internet all the live long day.

Speaker 1 (12:12):
But I will say this, and guys I'm talking to,
no one who listens to this show would be this
way because everyone has taste, fine, fine discerning taste, yes,
But if you shoot your shot. If you find if
you see a cute person and you're resourceful and you
find them and you request them, that's it. If you
DM them one time, something very kind, not a picture

(12:32):
of your genitalia, like just be nice and respectful one time.
If you do not get a response, we are done.
We are done. We don't continue to write over and
over and then what we definitely don't do. This one's
a classic. I've seen this one on the interweb so
many times. Is once we we've written to several times
and really really like released all all forms of dignity.

(12:56):
Then we start dissing the person. Yeah, yeah, for not like,
oh you want that hot any way? I see this
with you guys all the time. They'll DM you guys. Hey,
you know, Kaitlin, they'll shoot their shot. Then you don't respond.
I see it on the text all the time. Oh
sweet Kalin, how I would love to do this. And
then and then you don't respond because you have a
boyfriend whatever. And then and then like three texts after

(13:18):
they're like, you're so hot, you're so smart, you're so good,
you know what, You're an ugly bee and I hate you.

Speaker 10 (13:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
I got me the other day for not answering like
fifteen messages. I'm like, I just saw these you a whole.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
He's like, oh right right, so like let's be respectful,
you know. But it's funny how quickly you go from
being the woman of their dreams to a witch of
a human being, an awful heathen, is terrible person, Gabby,
what did you know? It's true? Though? Don't So if
we lead with oh sweet Klein, you know, and then

(13:50):
we shoot our shot, that's very nice. Good for you
and now maybe you'll get a response to maybe you won't,
but we are done.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
I shot people downkind I don't want people to stop shooting,
so I try really hard to like all good, like
you know what I mean, I'm really flattered.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
And the same is true with women to men, like
shoot your shot, be empowered, ask for what you want. Really,
but if you don't get a response, or if the
response isn't what you want, then then then we're done
and you did it and we're good. But then when
it starts to get into this debate or when it's
like no, but really change your mind and stuff, it's like,
oh boyd now hold on, like, don't do that to yourself. Okay.

(14:26):
If someone doesn't think that you're there for you or
whatever you're for them or whatever, then that's their loss
and we move right on and we shoot our shots
to the next person. Hey Gabby, yeah, Gabby, what did
you what did you do? You look somebody up? What
is this sort of creepy method that you used?

Speaker 11 (14:45):
Now that I think, glad, it is creepy. But a
couple of years ago, I used to work for a
bank and I had a really good conversation with a
guy like he was just there for like a good
fifteen minutes, and when he left, I was like, man, like,
that was such a good conversation. I should have just
gave him my number, And then I didn't, so I

(15:06):
still had his profile up and I'm like, boy, I'm
going to shoot my shot, and I did, and it
was so weird because I was like, why did I
do that. He ended up texting me back and he goes, well,
this is like my dad's phone number or something, and
my dad told me and I was like so embarrassed.
But actually it worked because we ended up going in

(15:28):
a couple of days after that. But now that I
look back, I'm like, yeah, that was really weird for
me to do.

Speaker 1 (15:36):
Technically, you could have gotten fired for that, right, because
you were using someone's personal information for your personal game.

Speaker 11 (15:42):
True.

Speaker 12 (15:43):
Yes, I guess there's like kind of like a line
of boundaries because but it works, so no, found right, Yeah,
I mean he could have like, I mean he could
have been like he could have been married or something
with kids, and like at the end of the day,
like could have been his wife who came to the
bank and been like, who is this.

Speaker 1 (15:58):
Yeah, you're right, it could have been bad. But I
suppose you could have disguised it as oh, no, I was,
It's my job. I was checking up on his experience
or something like, you know, I was making sure or
hey he forgot something. You could have made something up
that was like official business.

Speaker 11 (16:11):
Yes, yes, I mean okay it ended up well, but yeah,
definitely very odd.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
Okay, well, fair enough, Thank you, Gabby, and you're welcome.
Have a good day. What someone do memorizing people's schedules
to make sure they're at work when you stop in?
Is the creepy way? I don't know, I say, is
that is it? I mean, I suppose my definition? But like,
am I being that? The part that the part that

(16:39):
people seem to miss is am I being creepy?

Speaker 8 (16:41):
Like?

Speaker 1 (16:41):
Am I actually being great?

Speaker 5 (16:43):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (16:43):
That is kind of creepy, I suppose, But am I
being creepy? Am I going every time? Or is it
just like, hey, I know she's here on Thursdays, I'm
stopping yin?

Speaker 2 (16:51):
Yeah every time would be a little much, but like, yeah, I'm.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
There every if she works two to seven and I'm
there at one fifty nine every day? Right right?

Speaker 2 (17:01):
My friend, one of my guy friends, met a girl
at a wedding, and it was an out of town
wedding and her parents were also there, and he remembered
when she just said her room number, and which is
very creepy. He was very drunk and knocked on the
door and she was saying her parents' room number. Her
dad answered no, no, shirt out and chased him down

(17:23):
the hallway because he was like looking for her in there.
You can't do that. You can't listen to somebody's room
number and knock on the door.

Speaker 1 (17:30):
This was a lot of years ago in our different town,
but it is. I was messing around with the girl,
and it was kind of more like a situation ship
before they called it that way back in the day.
And she was a bank teller, and I never went
to the bank where I didn't even know. I knew,
I knew which bank, I knew why she worked, I
didn't know which location. So this kind of goes on
for a while and then it stops and I'm through

(17:51):
drive through bank, and I drive through the bank and
there she is. She's the teller, and I was like
making a deposit or something. I'm like, oh, hey, whatever,
your name is whatever, and then we do the deal
and she kind of looks at me, and we did
a deal and then I leave and then I get
this text from her. You know you sob you terrible person.
You didn't tell me you were married. I cannot believe you.
You know I've been having an affair this whole time.

(18:12):
I knew you. I knew that it was whatever. I go,
what are you talking about? Well, I've had the same
bank account since I was eight years old. My mom
is a co signer, or was a co signer, and
we have the same last name because I have her
maiden name is my legal last name. So she saw
my mom's name on my bank account and thought that
was my wife and lost your mind. I go, one,

(18:33):
why do you snoop it through my profile? And two,
this is why we don't make assumptions. It's my mom.
My wife has a different last name. Fred's show is
on Fred's The Biggest Stories of the Day. Now, the
gym one is pretty common. So if I go to
someone's work, if I find out their schedule and I

(18:54):
show up occasionally when they're working because I want the
exposure to them, that's creepy. But I know a lot
of people will try and figure out when people work
out and then they'll show up at the same time
and work out the only thing and apparently that's not creepy.
It's the same level of it. Creepy is not the word.

Speaker 8 (19:08):
Do women like being approached in the gym?

Speaker 5 (19:10):
Now?

Speaker 1 (19:10):
That would be my second thing is how many you know,
how many people men or women are prepared to be
approached at the gym? And a lot of people don't
wear their rings when they're at the gym because they're
working out, so you don't you know, that's usually my tell,
but you don't know. And then it's like, I'm working out,
I haven't showered, I don't look that good. Now, some
people go to the gym to meet someone, but you

(19:31):
don't know the difference.

Speaker 8 (19:33):
Way these gym outfits are set up, the little leggings
that you know, tighten everything on your body and show
off every curve. Yeah, it's like I think some people
really go for that reason, like look at.

Speaker 1 (19:45):
Me, Yeah, that's why I know, that's why you go.
Oh yeah, But Kiki wears the boots with the fur
and actually Kiki is one of the few people I
know who works out in denim, which is make Yeah.
My trainer has been asking me about that, Like, how
does she how is she able to stay so fit
in full denim head to toe?

Speaker 8 (20:05):
It is hilarious.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
The flexibility is incredible. It's not a moisture, you know,
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(21:10):
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(21:51):
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as the company pushes to revive lacking sales and restore
its in person culture. Starting in October, employees must be
in the office at least four days a week. The
CEO Brian Nichol, who was the former CEO of Chipotle,

(22:12):
he was the guy who was telling everyone to do
the head nod. When you can remember this, it was
like a year ago, maybe it was a little longer
than that, but he'd say, you know, if you want,
he's kind of a good looking guy and he was
making videos and do interviews. He was like, you know,
if you want a little more, a little more salsa,
a little more pico, just you know, just give him
a head nod. So people were going to and be like,
I'll take a little more guacamole. Would like the wink

(22:34):
and the head nods. And that was his advice though,
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person culture, arguing that face to face collaboration fuels creativity
and quicker problem solving, qualities he says are essential as

(22:54):
the company seeks a turn around. We do our best
work when we're together. Now, this guy got the ji.
I think he makes one hundred million dollars a year
I saw the other day, so he's getting paid pretty well.
That's pretty good. And then I remember when he got
the job. He lives in California, but the headquarters is
in Seattle, so the company flies him on a jet

(23:15):
so that he can get to work. I don't know
if it's every day or every couple of days, but
part of his agreement with the company was, I'll you
can open me a little office in California, so I'm
in the office, and then they fly him on the
corporate jet to Seattle. Yeah, so I don't I don't
know how that's gonna work if he needs people to
be in the unless he's counting his California office the office,

(23:37):
I think, you know, collaboratively, he probably needs to be
in the Seattle headquarters. So I don't know if that
means he has to move now or they're just going
to fly him in like you know, the rest of
us drive every day.

Speaker 8 (23:46):
That's insane.

Speaker 1 (23:46):
But I would imagine that there's some employees using that
as an argument, like wait, a minute, Brian.

Speaker 8 (23:51):
Where's yourfice?

Speaker 11 (23:52):
Right?

Speaker 1 (23:52):
Exactly exactly, But this is beginning to happen a lot
of places, Amazon, JP, Morgan, Chase, Google, Walmart, They're all
rolling back their pandemic era flexibility. India's government is seeking
to limit the temperature settings of new air conditioners to
save electricity in the country that is considered the fastest
growing market for them. The Power Minister proposed to rule

(24:15):
in June requiring that air conditioners sold in the country
have thermostats that can be set to no lower than
sixty eight degrees. So here's my question. I mean, sixty
eight that's pretty low. If as the low as it goes,
we'll really get that cold, I would wonder. But then
you know, what if I want sixty What if I
want sixty five? What if I'm in a hotel room? Now, look,

(24:36):
I realized it's extremely wasteful. But the first thing that
I get it we're trying to save the environment here.
But the first thing that I do when I check
into the Marriod is go all the way down as
far down as it will go, all the way down,
sixty five, sixty four, whatever it is. I mean, we're
making that thing in ice box. That is part of
the luxury experience is I can turn that thing all

(24:57):
the way down. That little thing will get so quick,
go to Vegas all all the way down.

Speaker 9 (25:01):
That Yeah, because it's hot, yes.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
But sixty eight, I mean it's sixty eight going to
be cold enough.

Speaker 9 (25:08):
But my house is at seventy and it's fine all
the time.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
Seventy Yeah, you sleep with seventy degrees cold and we
have the fan on.

Speaker 9 (25:18):
Yeah, fez there, I'd.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
Rather work, Denim, you sleep at seventy degrees.

Speaker 9 (25:24):
I just chocked at seventy right now?

Speaker 8 (25:25):
When is yours?

Speaker 11 (25:26):
Fred?

Speaker 1 (25:26):
I'm scared as low as it will go, like sixty
five ish. Well, that's not true because that's tactically probably
bad for the air conditioner. I think I said it
at sixty seven. Okay, it doesn't get that, but it
doesn't get that cold because you know it's so hot outside.
They tell you can get maybe twenty degrees out of
your air conditioner from the outside temperature. Got it twenty ish.
So if it's ninety and if I can mean so,

(25:47):
if I put it at sixty seven, I know it's
working like that, but I can you know, I can't
get my house to do. But it needs to be
cold at not in the sleepy time. It needs to
be cold. There is nothing worse than hot sleeping. I'm sorry,
that is a that would relationship ender you are trapped.
If I met someone they're like, oh no, seventy degrees
seventy two. Absolutely, I'm sorry, nice meeting you. I'm gonna

(26:09):
go back to the gym now and creep on somebody
else and find somebody else that has you know, that's
not that's a human and that some form of robot.
Because my thing about sleeping is if it's if it's
cold and you're in the bed, you can warm yourself off.
If it's hot, there is no reprieve, there's no way
around it.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
You're supposed to sleep in cold. It's better for you.

Speaker 1 (26:27):
Thank you. Well, this is and that's why I do it.
But this is no this is this is not something
I could negotiate on, Like this would be the end
of a relationship for me.

Speaker 10 (26:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (26:36):
And that's a bill that I don't even think twice about, Like,
just throw it in a bag. The bill can be
one hundred thousand dollars. At this point, I don't care,
Like I'm not thinking twice about it. I'll figure it out.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (26:44):
But for some reason growing up like that was a
thing in the house, like don't touch to.

Speaker 1 (26:48):
A c Like are you right now?

Speaker 8 (26:50):
Oh you can't either.

Speaker 9 (26:52):
I have to wait till it's eighty degrees in the
house to turn the air on. And then I text
Mike and I'm like, the dogs are really hot, like
the girls are panting. I think they're like really hot.
We should probably turn the air on. So he wants
it even hotter. Well, he's like, I work in the
heat all day, Like why do you guys get to
sit in there?

Speaker 2 (27:12):
My design?

Speaker 9 (27:13):
But once it goes on, it's on, like the whole summer.
It never comes off. So I'll take I'll take seventy.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
Mechanic had to go to school uppeal both ways in
the snow, yeah, lord. And mental health experts reveal why
some people cannot help being late to everything. Paulina he late.
Experts say it might not be laziness, but a condition
called time blindness, and that's where people genuinely struggle to

(27:39):
estimate or manage time. It's linked to eighty HD and
other conditions like autism, OCD, depression, and anxiety. It's an
executive function issue affecting parts of the brain like prefrontal
cortex and cerebellum. Common sciences include underestimating task durations, frequent lateness,
and difficulty switching between activities. How to cope, experts say

(28:02):
using timers, building consistent daily routines, breaking tasks into smaller steps,
and setting external reminders all methods proven to reduce lateness.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
We were just talking about this this morning.

Speaker 11 (28:14):
You have it.

Speaker 1 (28:15):
You have time blindness.

Speaker 13 (28:16):
I do.

Speaker 7 (28:17):
I'd like to call it running on Mexican time. Like
when you do you know you're going to be an
hour late. You tell everybody to come at three because
the party's really at four, because you know everyone's going
to walk in at four.

Speaker 9 (28:25):
You have a problem switching between tasks, like you're switching
all the time.

Speaker 1 (28:29):
I also except you forget to return to the previous task.
So there's that. You know, you you can pivot, but
it's sometimes going on.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
Do things guys done?

Speaker 10 (28:37):
Though?

Speaker 8 (28:37):
Are things I think functioning? Can you hear us O
right today?

Speaker 3 (28:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (28:43):
I'm currently no hear us No, It's true. Yeah, I'm
working on me. But I have add I got the
whole thing. I got all those probably I'm working on me.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
If dinner's at seven thirty, we expect to see Paullin
at eight fifteen.

Speaker 11 (28:55):
It just is.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
It just is correct, So so we don't even. But
the thing is, if I told you was eight teen,
you show at nine. So like the whole thing about
I'd have to tell you is a five for you
to show up at something.

Speaker 2 (29:04):
Oh that's what I meant.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
Yes, it has to be the other way.

Speaker 7 (29:07):
Yeah, And I think I'm getting a little tiny better
just because every kid.

Speaker 2 (29:11):
Yeah, a little tiny better because ever since.

Speaker 7 (29:12):
Having a child, I feel like, you know, we got
to get to things, appointments, and I can't miss though
it was like baby stuff.

Speaker 2 (29:18):
So I'm like, you know what, I like being on
time now it's my new personality.

Speaker 1 (29:22):
My issue is not that I want to be late
or that I am not considered considerate of other people's time.
My issue is I don't I don't want to be
so early that I feel that I'm wasting time. I
want to arrive when it's time.

Speaker 2 (29:33):
That's how I feel.

Speaker 1 (29:34):
I don't like being somewhere ten minutes early and then
just standing around waiting. I feel like and then I
can I can't do anything like I'm not being productive.
So I try and do like one more thing, like oh,
that wall needs to be painted. I got ten minutes,
I can, you know, Like I try and do one
more thing at home. But the problem is, you know
you it could take in a big city, it could

(29:55):
take the ten minutes that you that you think it's
going to take to get there, it could take thirty.
And so sometimes I'll just cut, I'll just split the
difference and say, Okay, I'm gonna get myself fifteen, and
then it still takes thirty, you know what I mean.
Like I never seem to hit it right, but I'm
always about five minutes late. I feel like to like
dinners and things in the evening because I'm trying to
get one more thing done.

Speaker 8 (30:15):
Yes, that's like me joining a teams meeting or a
zoom meeting. Like I'm not joining early, bro, I'm not
doing the whole.

Speaker 9 (30:22):
I just want to talk to you for so h forgot.

Speaker 1 (30:27):
I'm just gonna give it a couple more minutes to
make sure everybody joins nothing. There's nothing more desperate sounding
than that. Let me just give this a couple more minutes,
hoping people show up some meaning We're just gonna give
everybody a couple more minutes. Okay, Well I should have
come out. I should have commented seven o four. Then
if we're gonna give but a couple more minutes, But
then if I come at seven oh four, we didn't
give everybody a couple more minutes, and the meeting has

(30:49):
already started. Now I'm late. M M. You see, this
is the story of my life. Favorite report is on
The Fresh Show at this one.

Speaker 2 (30:55):
Host Joy Taylor has been dropped five Fox Sports after
being named in a very high profilei sexual battery and
harassment suit filed by a hairstylist, and that hairstylist is
accusing her of dismissing her claims against ex executive Charlie Dixon,
telling her to quote get over it when she confide
it in her Fox also canceled three shows that she
was involved in, but Joy has denied all allegations. The

(31:17):
accused executive, Charlie Dixon, was already terminated, and sports commentator
Skip Vayalis, also named in the suit, has denied any
involvement and actually a year ago he said he quit,
but now we're learning that he was fired. So there's
a lot of moving parts and a lot of things
going on. But if you saw that trending, that is
what's going on with all that mess. Unreleased Beyonce music

(31:38):
was stolen in Atlanta after people broke into her choreographer's car,
grabbing flash drives with songs, tour footage, and setless The
break in happened outside of a food market while Beyonce
was in town for her Cowboy Carter tour. Cops tracked
a suspects car and issued a warrant, but no arrests
have been made yet. The hard drives also contain stuff
like future set lists for her tour, all and stuff.

(32:01):
I don't know if someone's gonna get fired over that.
Why are we keeping that in our car? It feels
like that needs to be kept somewhere else.

Speaker 8 (32:08):
And I don't know if it's all of those things
because I feel like Beyonce is very selective. It's our files.
I'm like, she carries our files.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Yeah, I don't know. I'm surprised all of our show
ideas in the car. So if you know, our competitors
go ahead and break in there and take them.

Speaker 8 (32:24):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
I to take them out of the car because they
probably will break in and take them.

Speaker 14 (32:28):
Yeah, I mean do the same show. Oh yeah, well,
good luck to them, go ahead and try it. Maybe
that's what happened. Maybe they broke into my car and
I took all of our ideas. Yeah, I probably shouldn't
keep them all written in a notebook, says all of
our ideas.

Speaker 8 (32:40):
Ye do not open secret.

Speaker 2 (32:44):
It was one of those like pink diaries that we
have in the nineties that you could just pick a
bobby pin.

Speaker 1 (32:48):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 8 (32:49):
It had a lot my Princess diary the front and
really quick.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
Lastly, actress Suki Waterhouse was hospitalized after a pair of
pants were so tight they gave her a hernia. And
I feel you, girl, because remember when my leggings I
dislocated three ribs just trying to put on leather leggings.
She said that it happened when the pants constricted her abdomen,
leading to her having to go to the emergency room,
and she emphasized being more cautious with wardrobe choices going forward.

(33:18):
If your pants are so tight they're causing a hernia
and she's tiny, like, it's time for some new pants,
baby girl. And lastly, if you want to enhance her
listening experience, or you know, just see what we look
like today. You can go to YouTube and type Fred
Show Radio and we'll be live on and off throughout
the show.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
All right, I want to hear Kiki about your sudden
need for responsibilities. Yeah, they talk better than you are,
the radio blogs on the Freadh Show. What's interesting though,
is that you you are like at work, you're so responsible,
it's weird. So responsible. But then when it comes to
things like paying bills, yeah, not so much. Take it away.

Speaker 8 (33:57):
All right, Well, dear blog, you know I specialize and
protecting my piece and picking.

Speaker 1 (34:03):
The stressors by just not paying people.

Speaker 8 (34:06):
But okay, yeah, like I will work hard to get
the money. What happens after I get it? That's between me,
Like I just got to figure that out.

Speaker 1 (34:14):
It's between you, between the left and right of you.
Who's it? Between you and you?

Speaker 8 (34:19):
Between me and me? Because you know, Kaitlin has been
warning me about this student loan that for years now, Joe,
I've really been thinking that it's just a joke, Like
Jason's always saying, like, you know why I gotta pay
my bill, I gotta pay my student loans.

Speaker 1 (34:38):
And Jason Jason's we're all always saying that.

Speaker 8 (34:42):
God, He's like, can I get for a coffee? Because
I had to pay my student loan And I'm just
looking at him, like, why are you doing that? Bro
buy the coffee?

Speaker 1 (34:53):
So Kik, He's like, why are you so broke? Turns
out Ky hasn't paid a bill in three years. O.
It's not an invitation the.

Speaker 8 (35:02):
Hard way, y'all. I learned the hard way because it's
something going on in the government.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
Now, is that right?

Speaker 8 (35:12):
Don't say with credit scores. Now, I know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (35:16):
They're messing with them. Yes, it turns out if you
don't pay your bills, your credit score goes down. There's
something in the government, like the sock market.

Speaker 2 (35:25):
Mind lef from like a good one all. I was like, oh,
they're not playing They're.

Speaker 8 (35:29):
Not playing with me. And I was like, you know,
I'm walking around thinking that I'm that girl. You see.
I think I'm any job I can get, like I'm
going to make this money, man, But I'm not that girl.
My credit score right now is not that girl.

Speaker 1 (35:42):
So that might be the Kiki. That might be the
one thing that has nothing to do with the government
that's entire we can complain about some anything that has
one hundred percent to do with youth. I thought I
was that girl I had to pay my bills. I
thought it was that girl.

Speaker 8 (36:00):
So finally I had to call the number, and I
called and you know, the guy was so nice.

Speaker 1 (36:06):
You called the guy.

Speaker 8 (36:07):
The guy his name is Nailed Net and he was
so nice and he was walking me through all my
options't been looking for you for years. She turned herself
in the.

Speaker 1 (36:23):
Most wanted. He got a bounty bonus to me through everything.

Speaker 8 (36:31):
And long story short, I'm going back to school in
a couple of months because I'm not paying to I'm
going to get an art degree.

Speaker 1 (36:39):
If you just keeping so, if you just keep going,
you don't have to pay.

Speaker 8 (36:42):
Yes, yes, He's like, he's like, okay, these are your options.
He went down the payment He's like, this is a
payment plan because you have a job and I can
see what you're doing over there. Oh no, I said,
we can't do that payment plan. I said, what's the
next option? He said, well, are you thinking about going
back to school? So it said, as a matter of fact,
I am, It's funny you mentioned that. Oh yes, I'm

(37:06):
going to get my art degree.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Wow, you've been talking about that basket weaving master's degree
for some time.

Speaker 14 (37:12):
Now.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
I'm glad that you're finally pursuing your dreams.

Speaker 8 (37:15):
I'm out here, man, that's what I Hey, I gotta
do what I gotta do. It's an American way and more. Yeah,
more debts, more degree.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
That's a racket I didn't know about. So Jason, you
could just keep going to school and then avoid the.

Speaker 15 (37:28):
Whole thing forever, this course together, Jason, Wow, so yeah wow,
but no, for real, for real, I am now on
a plan.

Speaker 8 (37:39):
Okay, I will too be scraping for coffee Jason.

Speaker 9 (37:42):
Girls here.

Speaker 8 (37:43):
Yeah, it's real out here, man, I got sugar, daddy.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
Are you done with the toll plan that we're on?

Speaker 8 (37:49):
So the toll plan is still it just happens, not
a lot of plans. I don't even see the toll plan.
I don't think I'll ever be done planning to pay
in the Illinois tollway. Shout out to them. But that
made me.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
You're driving on it, so it doesn't work the same way.
It's just keep going to school. It doesn't quite work out.
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Good morning on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one
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(39:06):
iHeart Radio Music Festival. We are adding another huge name
to our iHeart Radio Music Festival tomorrow at eight. We'll
tell you about that. We got talk back for tickets today,
which which ticket is a jacent day? Okay, all right,
because just allright, do Aleipa today and then tomorrow. Jonas Brothers, Yes,

(39:28):
Jonas Brothers. I gotta get all my days straight. I
got my little I got my little thing here. I'm
good to go. So yeah, we'll give you a keyword
so that you can win. Do Aleipa tickets at about
eight o'clock or just after eight guys, speaking of the
toll way, can we just talk about the tollway quickly,
because because I have a I don't even know how

(39:48):
they managed to bill you, Kiki, because it never works
for me. I'm I tend to be every time I'm
driving a toll way, which is about once or twice
a week, I tend to be that guy with my
flashers on in the lane because my tag won't work.
I guess they call them tags in Texas, but my
toll I pass whatever it's called. I am. You have

(40:09):
my credit card, I have the transponder, take my money,
take it here it is it doesn't and then I'll
call I'll push the help. Then I'll go hello, we
can't hear you because I'm in the middle of a
road right now. The toll white people, we can't hear you.
That's because a motorcycle getting next to me. I just

(40:31):
open the gate, right, A truck is honking, and then
they'll be like, well, give us your the last four
of your transponder. And then I do that, like yeah,
well it doesn't register with us what I'm holding, it
doesn't register. It's getting my hands.

Speaker 8 (40:43):
Oh you bought one of those fake ones. Yeah, you
got from the flea market.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
But it works sometimes, it doesn't work other times, and
it's like, guys, can we get it together? Like, first
of all, you have potholes in your road. I tell
you why my my thing doesn't work. It's because I
can't invent new technology. Because Kiki won't pay them.

Speaker 8 (41:00):
Oh, they get more than enough money. Okay, this is
the biggest scam.

Speaker 1 (41:03):
It cost fifteen dollars to drive on the thing. Can
you at least take my money? Probably? Like what is
going on? Really?

Speaker 9 (41:10):
Does I have a confession to make Kiki? I pulled
the U because I don't have a transponder. I normally
just paid by the plate. So but we took the
skyway the other day and there's a gate.

Speaker 1 (41:20):
You can't That's what I mean, I'm talking about the Skyway. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (41:23):
First one I paid with my credit card, like, I
pulled up to the booth legs to my credit card.
The second one, there was one with a broken gate, so.

Speaker 8 (41:31):
I just drew as you show.

Speaker 9 (41:34):
I was like, you guys need to get open tolling
because every other road has it.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
But I was utterly freaked up. I see that's what
I'm I'm dead. I should have specified. I'm not talking
about like you know, the Kennedy or whatever. I'm not
talking about like it out bio hair. No, I'm talking
about like the Skyway, because they got the gate so
so you know, if the transplanter doesn't work, then it
won't open. And then everyone behind you is in the

(41:59):
fast lane and and they're they're like they hate you.
And then I'm pushing a button because I pay it
and it does work like it worked on the gate
before me. And then every now and again you get
to one where the gate has been ripped off. I
think as someone just was like screw this, and they
just drove.

Speaker 8 (42:14):
Joy came behind me.

Speaker 1 (42:17):
But guys, it's not my job to tell you how
to take my money, Like I am a customer, Okay,
you have my credit cardage current, take my money. That's
your job.

Speaker 8 (42:26):
Make it easy. Illinois Away has figured it out.

Speaker 1 (42:29):
Are no gates, You just drive right through your computer
either works or it doesn't. I don't know. But you
guys with the Indiana guys or whoever, we gotta come on, yes,
please come on, like take my money.

Speaker 8 (42:42):
Yeah, you never agree to this. I don't know who
was on the board. You know what, Let's make a
toll way.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
My friend Bill Barker, our friend Bill Barker, not Bob Barker.
He just texted me and said, after that last segment,
can you just get these guys raises? Please? Like we
sound like total brokies. I'm like, dude, if you only
if you only knew, if you only knew, right, we've

(43:11):
raised money for everything else, now we're raising money for us.
Please wait wait, you know there are a lot of
hot threads. I don't know if there are.

Speaker 8 (43:30):
Was kind of fine.

Speaker 2 (43:31):
Oh yeah, he was. I like a man and go
to work.

Speaker 15 (43:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (43:35):
He beat him at his feet on the ground. That's
he gets there, you know.

Speaker 1 (43:39):
That's all. Fred's show is on Tuesday, July fifteenth morning.
Every one, The Fred Show's here. Hi, Kaitlin Hi Brown, Hi, Paulina,
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(43:59):
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Speaker 2 (44:09):
The singer that got drunk and is posting screenshots about
his axe. Also, Kim Krnes, the singer of Betty Davis Eye,
has officially commented on Jojos he was covered.

Speaker 1 (44:19):
Oh boy, yeah, she sum Yeah, I have to confess something.
I'm so glad that you and I have something in common.
What we already got the same birthday, we get the
same I'm so glad that you and I have something
in common.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
Nothing beat you today.

Speaker 1 (44:43):
I never done nothing Holidays.

Speaker 11 (44:48):
I won't get that.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
Never I've holiday that. Whoever came up with that, I
don't think they realized how brilliant they were, but they
have gone wildly viral. Yes, I guess it's a thing
in Europe. It's like a vacation package. It would be
like Apple vacations. I'm not plugging anyone in particular, but
like where you you know, you pay them whatever and

(45:10):
you get the flights and the hotels and the whole thing.
But it's got that. There's jets Glynn, that song and
then the voiceover lady who now is making appearances at
clubs like in the middle of songs that like the
beat will drop and she'll go nothing be to holiday
And people are doing it all over the place.

Speaker 16 (45:28):
A couple of new friends. And last night you will
not believe what they said to me. They said, Nicole,
what is a Jet two holiday?

Speaker 11 (45:35):
What is it?

Speaker 16 (45:36):
I don't stop laughing because clearly the Jets too Holiday
sound has made it to America. It has had no
idea what on earth a jetsoo holiday is? And why
you can get two hundred pounds off.

Speaker 1 (45:48):
For a family of four.

Speaker 16 (45:49):
Jess Glynn and Jet two, you've made it to America.

Speaker 1 (45:52):
The people love it, but they want to know what
you are. They have no idea. See it's brilliant, Oh
my god, it's brilliant. But yeah, I guess these commercials
are like we were talking about this. I guess it
was last week about the jingles that just stick in
your head, you know, for the commercial campaigns that you know,
it doesn't even matter what it is, it's just you
just you know it immediately. And I guess the people
of Europe they just know this immediately, like this is

(46:14):
their thing.

Speaker 8 (46:15):
It's so wild. It has gone viral on TikTok, so
like all these people are taking this sound and putting
together videos of like terrible things, right, people almost drowning,
people falling, stages breaking, like, but I will never miss
a video now me and probably we're talking about this
morning like I'm it just it keeps playing on a
loop in my.

Speaker 1 (46:33):
Head, which I'm sure Jet two is ecstatic that they're
getting all this press. Except the problem is when I
first saw the videos, I thought, is this a jet
to holiday? Like is this what happens if I go
on a jet to you know what I mean? Like,
I don't know what the hell it is. Then I
see all these like catastrophic things happening to people, and
I'm like, oh, so are they are they telling us
what happens if I go on a Jet two holiday?

(46:55):
Or are they just making fun of the jingle, which
I think they are. But if I'm Jet two, I
want to be like, hey, guys, this hold up the
just so you know, like this is nothing. This is
in our trips. Our trips are way better than this. Yes,
fifty dollars per person. That's two hundred dollars for a
family of four.

Speaker 8 (47:13):
We need her at the iHeart Festival.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
Well, yes, there is a big announcement tomorrow. I don't
want to sell you. I'm just gonna go ahead and
say it. Sorry, Tom Pullman, It's Jess Glynn and the
Jets too. Holiday lady, it's stay or go, all right.
Serena is here. Good morning, Serena. Welcome, Hi, how's it
going doing great? Serena? What's going on in Sierrago? This is,

(47:36):
I mean a headline here is that you just had
a baby two months ago.

Speaker 17 (47:41):
Yeah, two months ago, a little baby boy.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
Congratulations, that's exciting you and your husband's need a little beach.

Speaker 18 (47:48):
So what what?

Speaker 19 (47:49):
Well?

Speaker 1 (47:49):
Yeah, well no, here and tell the story, Serena. So
you had this baby, which is wonderful, and your husband
he's acting not acting right about this, She's not.

Speaker 17 (47:59):
And listen, you know, to be clear, I'm not you know,
considering leaving my husband. But lately, you know, he told
me he doesn't want the baby sleeping in our room anymore.
And you know that's tough because you know, we had
the baby two months ago. And he says that if
I cared about our relationship at all, I'll move the

(48:19):
baby into his own room.

Speaker 1 (48:21):
Okay, so you know, and that is I'm sorry to
rupt you, but is it the disruption? Is this sleeping disruption?

Speaker 11 (48:29):
Is it?

Speaker 13 (48:29):
Like?

Speaker 1 (48:29):
What is his issue? What does he want the baby
in the room?

Speaker 2 (48:32):
No, I you know, I'm not totally sure.

Speaker 17 (48:35):
Like he just like gets visibly upset, like I think,
you know, he thinks I'm hogging the baby. And he
gets visibly upset when, you know, when I kiss the
baby and hug the baby, and he says, you never
cuddle me as much as him.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
He's jealous of the baby.

Speaker 17 (48:50):
He's jealous of the baby.

Speaker 1 (48:54):
I mean, what does he what does he expect you
to do exactly two months postpartum? Does he expect you
to guess at this point, just to banish the child,
but the child in another room? Like we didn't do this?
Oh my god, it's I.

Speaker 17 (49:05):
Know, I know, I don't know you know, he's saying that, like,
ever since I gave birth, all I wanted to be
is a mom and not a wife.

Speaker 2 (49:12):
And you know that's pretty intense.

Speaker 1 (49:14):
And he also gets upset because you know.

Speaker 17 (49:17):
We decided, I decided to breastfeed, even though we had
originally talked about not doing it.

Speaker 2 (49:24):
That was an issue for him. That was a really
big issue for him.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
Affect him. I'm asking that question, uh, Paulina, as a mom,
I'm asking that question. Honestly, I don't know the answer,
but how does it negatively affect him?

Speaker 7 (49:36):
It showed in first and foremost mom can make that choice.
So and I congrats on doing that because the full
time job to breastfeed. The only issue quote and I'm
using it this quote, is that he might not be
able to feed the baby at night via bottle or whatever. Right,
because sometimes they say mom wants to rest, How is
dad going to.

Speaker 2 (49:51):
Feed the baby? But that you guys can figure that
all out.

Speaker 1 (49:53):
Later your baby or just more time. Mom has to
dedicate to the baby. As if there were it was
model feeding, then I suppose anybody could feed the baby.

Speaker 2 (50:02):
Correct, Okay, right right?

Speaker 17 (50:04):
You know, so it's just like, you know, he says,
I treat him like an absentee father because I don't
tell him when the baby's getting a bath or when
you know, when he's going down for a nap, Like
I make the decisions myself. But obviously i'm you know,
I'm not doing that on the purpose.

Speaker 1 (50:21):
And I have a feeling that someone texted this. But
this has something to do with intimacy as well, which
you're two months postpartum, so I mean, aren't we a
little again. I'm not going to get too detailed about that,
but don't we wait a little longer than that anyway,
isn't it? Is it sixty days?

Speaker 7 (50:34):
Well, typically six weeks you have a good checkof you
go to a checkop, but they kind of clear you
or what not, depending you know, if you have C section,
if you have the vaginal birth. But in two months
you can still be in divers So I don't understand
what his way is. So we're not even really there yet,
not there yet necessarily well.

Speaker 17 (50:48):
Not yeah, yeah, so you know, and obviously we're both
just exhausted and I'm really trying my best, and I
just never imagined in a million years he'd react like this.

Speaker 1 (51:00):
I don't mean to be insensitive, Serena. But what did
he think was going to happen? I mean, you and
I realized it's an adjustment, but he's you know, you guys,
I assume discussed having children and you and you and
you conceived one, and for the last nine months you've
been you know, pregnant, you know, baking this this this
little guy, and now maybe so I would think that

(51:20):
the transition would be sort of happening, right, like, Okay,
we're adding to the family. There's going to be a
new obligation here, there's going to be someone something dividing
our attention a little bit. We have another. But I
guess I don't understand why he's surprised that you have
to raise the kid and that you can't just put
the kid in another room and pay attention to me
all the time. Like it's it's very much me behavior.

Speaker 2 (51:44):
Yeah, totally.

Speaker 17 (51:45):
And you know, like you said, it's not like we
just decided to do this overnight. You know, this was
a discussion. This was many months of talking about it,
and obviously the baby needs more right now at this stage,
and like it's just temper goes by so quickly, and
I just he just can't see that, and I think

(52:05):
he's taking it really personally, and I did not expect
to set off from him, and I just don't I
just don't know what to do.

Speaker 1 (52:12):
I'm sorry to be negative, but this is him making
this about him. He's not being considerate of you. He's
not being considerate of what you're going through. He's not
being considerate of what the child needs.

Speaker 11 (52:22):
It.

Speaker 1 (52:22):
Clearly isn't ready to make the adjustment that he's going
to have to share your attention now with another human.
He's acting like this is a surprise, like he wasn't
involved in the process of making the kid through postpartum.
I don't know the answer either, but I mean I
get that someone just said mental health as well as
a new debt. I don't know if that means that

(52:43):
a man's mental health is wild. Look, this is a transition,
for sure, but making her feel bad about tending to
the child, I think is really the wrong way to go.

Speaker 2 (52:55):
I agree.

Speaker 7 (52:56):
I mean, listen, everyone's world is upside down right now,
right especially you as a brand new mom.

Speaker 2 (53:01):
Just everything you're going through.

Speaker 7 (53:02):
I mean, you are in the thick of it, and
I feel like, if anything, the husband has to your
husband has to be so supportive of anything that you
need in that moment, and because he's not, he's focused
on his I don't even know what he's focused on.
If he just wants you, you know, intimately, or whatever
like that that needs put to the side. I'm sorry
you guys. Well, once again, have all the amazing sex
and all the amazing times together and dance and all
of that, but right now I think like your focus

(53:24):
should be truly both on.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
The baby y geat two months out, honestly, and not
that his needs don't matter. I don't mean to just
dump on this guy, but two months after having a baby,
he needs to be focused on what's best for you
and the baby and and his needs can be met
down the road. And yeah, and I don't I don't
think his needs are gonna any closer to being met
when he's just acting like the baby. Yeah, these are

(53:48):
not This is not a good sign for me. And
again I don't have any experience in any of this,
but it just doesn't feel right to me, and the
texts are overwhelmingly in favor of This is really bad.
And I'm sorry to say that to you because I
know you just had a baby with this guy. But
this is really not the kind of supportive, you know,
selfless behavior that you would hope from someone after what

(54:10):
you just went through. But let me take some phone
calls on this and see if you and by the way,
you're welcome to feel differently about it, and maybe you
can enlighten us in some ways because the men in
the room here have never had a baby, so I
don't I admittedly do not know. To me though, my
thought is it feels bad.

Speaker 8 (54:26):
Yeah, I feel so. I feel so bad for you, mama.

Speaker 17 (54:28):
I'm sorry, yeah you And you know again, I'm not
like thinking about leaving him, but just like, I just
feel like this confirms everything that I've sort of been thinking,
and you know, I don't want to lose myself or
my marriage. You know.

Speaker 1 (54:41):
Well, good luck to you and let's see what some
people have to stay here. And I appreciate you sharing
and all the best. Have a great day, Thanks you too.
Y serena maternal mental health professional. Men go through postpartum
mood changes, in postpartum depression. It's a maternal mental I'm
a maternal mental health professional.

Speaker 8 (55:01):
Okay, so that may be what he's experiencing.

Speaker 1 (55:05):
But it doesn't necessarily change the negative effect it's having
on her and the pressure it's adding to what has
to be done. It's not a choice to care for
the baby, correct, And you know it's not like she
can just go I'll do a little less of that. Hey, Julie,
good morning, Good morning. How are hi, Julie. So you
just heard this this situation, but this woman is is

(55:27):
experiencing sort of a negative reaction from her husband that
all of a sudden, there's this new being that she's
having to devote so much attention to. What do you
think when you hear tell the story.

Speaker 20 (55:38):
It's very reminiscent. We have three kids and they do
get jealous, and that's the bottom line. And he's going
to have to figure out. I'm gonna have to talk
to somebody and deal with his emotions because this is
a newborn. They need they need the parents. There's no
one taking care of the baby, and he's just gonna

(56:00):
have to step up a little bit and do what's
best for the family right now. Now, I'm not saying
that marriage doesn't come first, but you know, dude needs
to wait four months.

Speaker 1 (56:11):
Yeah, you know, with that.

Speaker 20 (56:12):
Extra special attention that he really is craving, that's all.

Speaker 1 (56:16):
It's funny you mentioned that, Julie, because a lot, a lot,
a lot, a lot of years ago. I think it
had to do with a politician cheating on his wife
or something, and someone brought this up. This was a
long time ago. I heard this, and the person hosting
the debate was saying, you know, people say when it
comes to marriage, they'll most people will answer the question
when asked, you know, what's the most important part of

(56:36):
your family, they'll say, well, the kids. My kids are
the most important thing to me. And because that sounds right,
but or it sounds harsh to say that my spouse
is the most important thing. But the fact of the
matter is, this person was arguing, that's the right answer,
my spouse is the most important thing in the relationship,
because if that's not solid, then my kids, who come
to it at a close second, will not necessarily have

(56:57):
a good upbringing. Mike, I would think the ass to
that would be when the kid is literally an infant
and the mom is literally post part part of I mean,
it's like, you can wait, you can wait sixty ninety
days for us to get this together. This this baby
relies on me for absolutely everything. It's not a choice,
it's not a preference. It is a mandate, right, Like

(57:20):
if we don't do it, it's not happening. Correct, So
your husband can be the most important thing to you
once we get this baby, like you know, with a
with a hard head. Once it's once its skull forms
tolling you. Yes, right, I guess that's where I'm at

(57:40):
with this. But Julie, thank you for calling. Thank you,
have a good day. It's like, guys, you know, this
isn't a this isn't a ten year old. You know.
It's like I'd rather drive the kid to practice and
have sex with you. Like that's that that would indicate
something I think a lot deeper. This is, Hey, I'm
going through all this stuff emotionally and physically and and
and we're figuring figuring out how to raise human and

(58:00):
you're worried about whether you're getting cuddled.

Speaker 7 (58:02):
Or those It takes two years for a mom to
really get back to her quote normal self.

Speaker 8 (58:06):
I'm gonna say that.

Speaker 7 (58:07):
So I'm not even there yet myself, So I can't
even imagine how she feels.

Speaker 1 (58:11):
Again, I don't mean to be like anti male here,
I just I think a lot of guys listening now
would have who've been through this. I gotta think they're thinking, like, dude,
it's not about you right now, Like it's it can't
be about you right now. Emily, Hi, Hi, Hi? What
do you think?

Speaker 21 (58:30):
So? I have two babies.

Speaker 22 (58:32):
I had two babies under and under two years, and
I think I've reasty both of them. And the breasting
issue is the thing that really sticks out to me
is like sticky, I'm this situation. I really don't understand
what his problem with her breastfeeding is. What I love
to say, though, is while I think this is like

(58:54):
a weird situation and he's definitely putting a lot of
unnecessary liket on a new mom, I am sympathetic to
the fact that, like having a baby is an adjustment
for both partners, and there is definitely a point where
you want to kick the baby out of your room
because you're ready to have some space back. But two

(59:14):
months plus part them is not that time. Maybe four
to six months.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
Is a more I think That's what I'm saying is
right now would not be the time to put pressure.
I don't think on the relationship to make it about you,
because I just feel like there's so much adjustment going on.
And I don't think it's necessarily personal. I don't think,
but I think I think that one way it could
create a tremendous amount of divide is by behaving this

(59:39):
way right now, right right.

Speaker 22 (59:42):
And I think that a lot of time, well more
often than not, we are very focused in that nine
months of growing a baby on the needs that the
baby will have, but there's not a lot of support
about like what a new mom needs, especially a breastating mom,
or women at with their hormones and postpart of issues,

(01:00:03):
and how to be like partners in that situation. And
so I do think there are ways to move past it.
Like when I was pregnant with our second baby, our
first baby was had just turned one, and we decided
to do some couple counseling courses that are about like
bringing home Baby, that like focus less on the like
how to feed and diaper and take care of your

(01:00:25):
baby and more on like how to be partners.

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
In That's interesting, that's a good idea.

Speaker 22 (01:00:31):
Yeah, there's one specifically by the Gotman. They're like pretty
famous couple counselors, and it's called Bringing Home Baby. So
like I do think there's ways to work past it,
but he has to be willing to like listen and
hear her.

Speaker 2 (01:00:47):
He needs good points.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Good points, Emily, thank you for calling, Thanks for listening.
Have a good day. Yeah, you too, appreciate you, Julian. Julian,
we're not considering his feelings really.

Speaker 19 (01:00:59):
Because focusing more on him. I want to be intimate
with him. I had a baby too, and the father
of my daughter was really involved with the child. I
tell him when I'm.

Speaker 10 (01:01:11):
Going to feed the baby, I tell him when the
baby's going to sleep, and everything else in between.

Speaker 19 (01:01:16):
It's the community.

Speaker 23 (01:01:17):
I believe her issue is no one had to communicate
with the father of putting him involved actually in the
baby's child. And when I had my first baby, I
was very insac care because I will call her father
through the trauma that I've been with.

Speaker 22 (01:01:32):
All the time.

Speaker 19 (01:01:33):
But I do understand when you said that it's an
intimate issue and everything. But she did mention of him
feeling absent in the child's life.

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
You know that's fair, that's fair much. Maybe and someone
text right, Julia, I'm someone texted. Maybe maybe he hasn't
bonded with the child yet. I think For me, it
was the comment about you don't cuddle me, you've never
cuddled me as much as you've cuddled him. Well, my

(01:02:03):
daughter will.

Speaker 19 (01:02:04):
Feel like that. But at the same time, I had
my daughter in certain place in a toy band. I
apologize my English is my second language.

Speaker 23 (01:02:16):
My daughter in a in a play band by the
by the bed, so he wasn't she wasn't in the
bed with us.

Speaker 10 (01:02:25):
So maybe other than putting the child in it on
his own room, maybe you know, put a little band
or something next to next to her, or something in
the womb and that and whatnot. But at the same time,
she they just had the baby with him too much.
So maybe he will probably do some research and see
a way to make her feel better with him being

(01:02:48):
in the in the intimacy as well, because at the
time is not really sex. Really is more over the
sitting together and talking the person there.

Speaker 1 (01:02:59):
I appreciate good have a good day, of course, thanks
for listening. I think for me it's the sixty days.
You know, if we're talking about this after three years,
you know my needs are being met, you're not paying
attention to me, We're not you know, our partnership has falling. Apart,
like okay, okay, like the kid's a little bit more independent.
It's been years of this now, you know, he doesn't
feel like he's part of the process. I mean all
of that is fair, but I mean we are. It

(01:03:21):
is just so new and we're to your point, we're
still physically healing from what happened. Yeah, Kathy, Hi, Kathy, Hi,
good morning, Hey, good morning. And just to recap here,
this woman, Serena Coled, and she just had a baby
sixty days ago and her husband's not adjusting well. Essentially,
he's throwing a temper tantrum, saying, hey, you're not paying
enough attention to me. I want the baby out of

(01:03:42):
the room. I want to be cuddled more, I want
to be held. But whatever he wants, he wants all
the things that baby's getting. But I don't know that
she's necessarily I mean, maybe she's choosing to do this,
but at the same time, I think she kind of
has to write.

Speaker 21 (01:03:56):
Yeah, and something similar happened to me. I was married,
I had a baby, so excited the whole time and everything,
but then he got really insecure after the baby was born, because, yeah,
you don't go out to dinner every night, you know,
you don't have all that free time for yourself. And
he ended up, you know, it drove a wedge between us.
He ended up having an affair, and then when we

(01:04:17):
were splitting up, he said that it was the lack
of attention and more attention on the baby, and it's
just you know, like hindsight, it was all just a
lot of insecurity, Like you're so jealous of a little baby,
like a sweet little baby.

Speaker 1 (01:04:30):
Well, it's all just gaslighting. Right again, I've said it
fifty times in the last fifteen minutes. What are you
supposed to do, especially in these really early stages, what
are you supposed to do? Just okay, you know what,
baby's crying and needs to eat and it requires me
to do everything. But no, let me make sure that
I hold you a little longer. And it's just a
tough spot to put her in.

Speaker 21 (01:04:51):
Yeah, I'm sorry. Time to put your big boy pants on,
like you're a dad now, Like it's time to provide
and you know, intimacy will come later. Right now, it's
all about your baby. You cannot me about you, And
like I said, just a lot of insecurity.

Speaker 1 (01:05:03):
Yeah, yeah, I think so. Thank you Kathy and I'm
sure that happened to you, but thanks for sharing.

Speaker 11 (01:05:07):
It was all for the best.

Speaker 1 (01:05:08):
There you go, have a good day. Did you have
any final thoughts?

Speaker 7 (01:05:14):
I do, because people are saying, you know, maybe dad
doesn't feel like he's bonding with baby. I think mom could, okay,
maybe give him, like, hey, do bath dough, little things
like that.

Speaker 2 (01:05:21):
People have to understand it.

Speaker 7 (01:05:23):
Two months postpartum, you feel like you don't want to
be away from your baby, like it's I don't know
if it's just like this, I call it a primal feeling,
Like I feel like I just like I had to
grab her all the time, if somebody was holding her,
I needed her back instantly. So like we have to
give grace to the mom to understand that these are
her hormones. This is how she's feeling.

Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
I mean, we're talking about a chemical reaction. We're talking
about human chemical reacity. We're not it's not necessarily all
a choice, correct, So my understanding at least, So yeah,
Camlon's Entertainment report, he's on the Bread Show.

Speaker 2 (01:05:52):
Chris Stapleton and his wife donated one million to support
the victims of those devastating bloods in Texas. The couple's
shared outlaw. State of Kind announced the donation will be
split among several charities like Texas Search and Rescue, World
Central Kitchen, and a few others. And if you want
to donate and anything helps, any amount helps, you can

(01:06:12):
head to Community Foundation dot net if you want to
get involved. Moving on to singer Zach Bryan, who has
seemingly started coming for X and barstool employee Brianna chicken
Fry out of nowhere. It seems like, I don't know
what has gotten his his little self so upset, but
his army of fans started coming for her as well,
saying she's lying about how things went down during the breakup.

(01:06:36):
She ignored it, ignored it, ignored it. And remember she
was the one who said she was offered an NDA
in exchange for her silence. So she decided to share
screenshots from what she says was his team texting her
outlining the terms. Now, first of all, she said, his
team is not really like the sharpest tool in the shed.
Why are we texting the terms of an NDA like that,

(01:06:57):
with like bullet points and typos? It just seems if
that's true crazy. But according to the message, here's what
the deal included she had two options ten million or
three million, plus the Massachusetts house that Zach bought them,
which costs seven point five million in return. Here's the
bullets of what she would have to do. Now, this
is allegedly what they texted her. Number one promised not

(01:07:19):
to speak about Zach or his quote non public cheating,
So I guess if he publicly cheated, she could speak
about that. That's a private.

Speaker 12 (01:07:28):
I got it.

Speaker 2 (01:07:28):
Guarantee A specific recording where Zach yelled at her friends
and family at a bonfire never sees the light of day.
She was also asked to publicly defend Zach if questioned
by media or fans, and she has always said that
she turned it down so she could speak about her
own experience, really own that, and share only the parts
that may help other women. Now, as for Zaki, does
have a new woman in his life. Her name is

(01:07:49):
Samantha Leonard, and she looks so much like Breonna that
it's actually scary. And I just showed Jason. I don't
know what's going on there, but there's something and that
just freaks me out when people date someone else after
and it's like, that's the same person that is the
same person. And lastly, singer Kim Carnes, who you know
she sings Betty Davis's Eyes of course if you don't
know that name. She's sharing how she really feels about

(01:08:11):
Jojo Siwa's cover of the hit Now. She said, I
can only speak to how it initially struck me. The phrasing,
the tone, even the inflections. It all felt a little
too close. I'm all for female artists lifting each other up.
This business can be brutal, and I strongly reject any
kind of hate and personal attacks that I've seen online.
But at the same time, I believe artists have the
right to speak openly about how something makes them feel,

(01:08:34):
especially when it's a little personal and close. And I
think even the way she dressed up everything kind of
freaked her out. She initially posted her first reaction and
then she deleted it and elaborated on her feelings. But
remember that was the cover was man Dave.

Speaker 1 (01:08:48):
Sas and it was going very Actually I played the
audio just then, Yeah, you were quick on that. I
was it really was, that was that was her singing it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:56):
Yeah, so she doesn't love it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
It's not day everyone. Thank you, Thank you so much.
Stopping you do I do love her.

Speaker 17 (01:09:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
It's so camp. But that wasn't good. You can you
can love someone and then you cannot love everything.

Speaker 2 (01:09:15):
They do actually ate with that cover.

Speaker 1 (01:09:17):
It was really bad.

Speaker 8 (01:09:20):
Tomato.

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
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Speaker 1 (01:09:44):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Shelley in the Showbiz Shohow Now military Mike didn't have
any issue when you first had babies, right? He was well?

Speaker 2 (01:10:00):
But other than that, yeah, I was gonna.

Speaker 24 (01:10:01):
I feel like my relationship isn't a good barometer because
she's just gone a lot, so.

Speaker 2 (01:10:07):
I feel like it's it's just a little bit different.

Speaker 24 (01:10:09):
But man, I feel for her that that's sad because
it's such a hard time after you have a baby
for lots of reasons.

Speaker 2 (01:10:15):
I think I told you guys, like from going from zero.

Speaker 24 (01:10:17):
Kids to one kid, it's a lot like you know,
you hear like, oh, it's a lot of work, but yeah,
it's a lot of work, and it.

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
Changes like it changes the dynamic of everything.

Speaker 1 (01:10:24):
So yeah, it's a hard thing for everybody. But like
especially the when you add the human chemical component, it's like,
have some grace here, you know, it's yeah, time at all?
Right exactly. Margo, Hi, Margo, what's up? Margo? Fun facts
about you?

Speaker 23 (01:10:42):
Ease. I'll be sixty this year.

Speaker 1 (01:10:46):
Oh my god, Margo, Well happy, almost sixtieth.

Speaker 11 (01:10:50):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:10:51):
Let's see how well you do here? Five questions against
our pop culture expert showb is Shelley. Two hundred and
fifty bucks is the price? Three game wins, streak one,
twenty three wins, sick sixty nine losses? You ready, Yes,
I'm right it, okay, good luck? All right, with all respect, Shelley,
you got to go into the sound booth. Poof question
number one. Margo Rihanna walked the red carpet with her

(01:11:12):
kids for the premiere of the Smurfs movie. How many
kids does she have? Two? Okay? Which actress was spotted
with Top Good actor Danny Ramirez after her divorce from
Cash Warren, Jessica Alma, Amaya Espinol, and Brian Arenalez were

(01:11:34):
announced as the winners of This Peacock Show and awarded
one hundred thousand dollars Love Island. You are killing it, Margo,
which DC movie broke box office records after its release
over the weekend. Superman and HBO's Harry Potter series is
officially in production. Who played Harry Potter in the movie series.

Speaker 2 (01:11:55):
Daniel Radcliff.

Speaker 8 (01:11:56):
That's five.

Speaker 1 (01:11:57):
That's a five.

Speaker 2 (01:11:59):
Oh boy, no way, Marco.

Speaker 1 (01:12:02):
I am so proud of you. She got a five.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
Oh Margaret.

Speaker 16 (01:12:06):
I felt that.

Speaker 19 (01:12:07):
I remembered that.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
That is really really good. Okay, let's see how you do, Shelley.
We got a focus. I am, I know, I know.
Rihanna walked the red carpet with her kids for the
premiere of the Smurfs movie. How many kids does she have? Well?

Speaker 8 (01:12:24):
That are like out in Rebelly?

Speaker 1 (01:12:27):
Two yeah, two, with one on the way, that's right,
which actress was spotted with Topkun actor Danny Ramirez. Made
her divorce from Cash Orrin, Jessica Alba, Yes Amaya Espinal
and Brian Arnalis, who announced as the winners of This
Peacock Show and awarded one hundred thousand dollars. Love Island, Yeah,
which DC movie broke box office records after its release

(01:12:49):
over the weekend.

Speaker 2 (01:12:51):
Superman yep n.

Speaker 1 (01:12:52):
HBO's Harry Potter series is officially in production. Who played
Harry Potter in the movie series, Daniel Record, that's a five.
That's a time, Margot. You gotta come back tomorrow, Okay,
all right, Wow, I'm still impressed with you. Marko showed
three hundred bucks. You may earn yourself an extra fifty
and we're still out at the three game win streak.
So three hundred bucks tomorrow, hang on, okay, all right, Shelley,

(01:13:15):
good work.

Speaker 24 (01:13:16):
Wow, thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:13:16):
I need to watch Love Island, right like I That's
a show I would like, right, Cayle, Yeah, you just
need a lot of time, which I don't know if
you have as a mom of ta right.

Speaker 1 (01:13:25):
No wonder I even't started it right all right, I
don't know if I can bring myself. I've said, okay,
I'm gonna do it, and then I can't.

Speaker 8 (01:13:31):
You promised me tried. No, there's too much dancing in
the intro, like everybody's what now?

Speaker 1 (01:13:39):
You told me that there was a choreographed number, I
said in the beginning.

Speaker 2 (01:13:42):
Forward through that and I don't like a number.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
I'm not a number guy, I don't like a number.

Speaker 8 (01:13:47):
You're not gonna like you, brother. They're jumping out of
trees like twirl in everybody's.

Speaker 1 (01:13:50):
They why why is it necessary?

Speaker 14 (01:13:52):
Let's get to the smut right because there are a
bunch of hot people hikinis.

Speaker 1 (01:13:55):
I've already seen the TikTok parodies. Hey, can I pull
you aside.

Speaker 2 (01:13:58):
Please for a chat? He gotta text.

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
Bachlor like, okay, put you put your like I'm really
into like another like four or five other girls here, Like.

Speaker 2 (01:14:10):
I'm a mommy. You've not seen that? No TikTok.

Speaker 1 (01:14:17):
I don't know. How would I know the reference. I
haven't watched the show.

Speaker 2 (01:14:20):
Oh it's like this is like how you when we
didn't know the plane thing and you thought we were crazy? Yeahsita,
except no one told us that Ms. Huddah is one
of our mary own from Raleigh.

Speaker 16 (01:14:30):
Oh is she?

Speaker 2 (01:14:31):
Yes, she is from Raleigh.

Speaker 3 (01:14:32):
She lives there.

Speaker 2 (01:14:32):
At least I didn't know the yes, one of us.
Maybe she's one of the thirteen.

Speaker 1 (01:14:37):
Then I take it back then one of the thirteen,
and you're gonna pack otherwise otherwise I'm not sure. I
just don't know. No, I didn't know that reference. Oh wow.

Speaker 2 (01:14:45):
Yeah, there was a really dumb conversation when she was
trying to tell another islander that she is a real
life mom and he like it didn't compute. So he
was like, mommy, a mom of what mamasita? And she's like, no,
like I have a human child.

Speaker 1 (01:14:58):
Oh I did see that. I just wouldn't. I wouldn't
know the reference. Kind of watch the show. I mean,
you know, that's why there's eighty seven of us on
this show, because everybody watches different stuff. And then we're covered. Shelley.
I want you to have a great day, and Margo's
coming for you tomorrow.

Speaker 8 (01:15:11):
I know she's good. All right, she is good.

Speaker 1 (01:15:13):
Okay, talk to you late, all right? Waiting at the phone.
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I actually do. I do have a burner from I
do have a burner? You do?

Speaker 11 (01:16:09):
You do?

Speaker 1 (01:16:10):
I've never used it, but I have one.

Speaker 2 (01:16:11):
I know you was sex in the show?

Speaker 1 (01:16:13):
Yeah, I've been.

Speaker 2 (01:16:14):
No I s here that is so hands.

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
I say, how terrible we are. Fred's show is on.
It's Tuesday, July fifteenth, of morning. Every one the Fread
Show is not hig Kaleb Hello, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Pauline, Hey,
Kiki show b Shelley Bellahamine eight five five five nine
three five. You can call him text the same number. Guys,
I guess there's an imposter me again, this time on TikTok.

(01:16:39):
How long have you been a fan of mine? Would
you like to buy my laptop? And again, I am
Fred Show Radio on TikTok. I am Fred on air
on the others and the Fred Show TikTok. He is
the official show TikTok. Accept no imitation, there is no
other No. I will probably not DM you and asked

(01:17:00):
you for money. Yet we are not there yet. It's
possible that that time would come, but it would come
from Fred Show Radio if it does, just so you know.
But I guess this person's hitting people up. And then
now I'm getting dms like, hey, you know, I thought
I was talking to you for a while. Stopped doing
that to people, and stop with your fake account. This

(01:17:21):
is how you decided to do it. Yes, yeah, hey, Hi,
I'm Fred. I have a go fundme paid for myself. No,
don't believe it. It's not true. It is not true.
Only only associate with the sanctioned official platforms. Also on
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Fred Show Radio and on the iHeart app search for
the Fred Show and make us a preset, and a

(01:17:42):
new episode of the Tangent Our author Uncentered podcast is up.
Jason had to go to a meeting, so we talked
about lesbian terms without him. Oh no, I think we
did a good job. But you know, you have to
listen to be the judge, all right, I will, I hope. So,
but I learned a lot. I learned a lot, a
lot of new terms I didn't know about. I've ever
been left to wait. It's the Fredshell. Hey Pete, good morning,

(01:18:04):
welcome to the show. How are you, Hey, good morning?
I'm all right. So Pete, tell us what's going on
with this woman Brinn? How did you meet? We got
to know about any dates you've been on, any details
you can give us, and why you think she's ghosting you? Okay,
So we met.

Speaker 18 (01:18:19):
At we were watching the playoffs.

Speaker 1 (01:18:21):
We're at a bar.

Speaker 18 (01:18:21):
The playoffs were on. I was watching the game and
she seemed pretty great.

Speaker 8 (01:18:27):
We hit it off.

Speaker 18 (01:18:29):
I got her number and we plan to go out again,
not football oriented, and grab some drinks and dinner. A
few nights later, and it was I don't know. We
just hit it off, Like I don't know what happened
because afterwards she just starts acting a little off and
she's not really in a rush to go out another date.
And I thought we were connecting. I don't know, we

(01:18:52):
could talk about all these other things, and then she
just kind of ghosted, And I'm just I'm hoping you
guys can help me figure out why.

Speaker 1 (01:18:59):
I do love it a meeting in the wild situation.
You know, we don't hear about a lot of those.
I feel like all of these start on an app,
which is how everybody meets. I got that, But like
the thing about meeting in the wild is it sort
of takes away that is there going to be chemistry?
Does the person look the same We've obviously heard that
one before. They don't look the same as their pictures
or whatever. So there's a lot that you kind of
can read when you first meet somebody that you don't

(01:19:21):
know when you meet on the apps, which I think
if that works, then you're off to a better start.
But in this case, you're saying you did actually hang
out separately, and now she's not calling you exactly.

Speaker 18 (01:19:32):
Like it's we got to know each other, we were
laughing like I think laughter's great. On a day you
realize like, oh I can connect with this person.

Speaker 1 (01:19:42):
And I just I.

Speaker 18 (01:19:44):
The silence afterwards is also like did I do something? Yeah,
I'm okay if I did, but I just want to
know what I was so I don't do it again.

Speaker 1 (01:19:52):
Yeah, right, Well I get it, Pete, it's not a
nice guy. Let's call this woman Brinn in just a second,
well place long will come back. You'll be on the phone.
I don't want you to say anything right at first,
but at some point you're welcome to jumping on a call.
And the hope, as always is that we can straighten
this out and then set you up on another date
that we pay for.

Speaker 18 (01:20:08):
Sound good, awesome, Thank you, Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (01:20:10):
The Fred Show We're on the radio live every morning,
Live on the iHeart app each morning as well, and
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Show radio. Hey, Pete, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's
call it Brin. You actually met out in person. You

(01:20:31):
were watching football games you got her number. You guys
went on a date. The date went well, but you've
been reaching out since the date, trying to get a
hold of her to plan another one because you thought
there would be another one. Except she's not responding to you,
and you want to know why. That's exactly exactly it.
We're gonna call it Brin right now. Good luck?

Speaker 5 (01:20:48):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:20:54):
Hello, Hi is this Brin? Hey Brian, good morning. My
name is Fred calling from the Fred Show, the Morning
radio Show, and I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now and I do need
your permission to continue with the call. Can which that
for just a second, would you mind?

Speaker 21 (01:21:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:21:09):
Thank you very much for calling on behalf of a
guy named Pete. I guess you guys met in person
and then went on a date recently. Do you recall Pete?

Speaker 3 (01:21:19):
I recall a Pete, but but I wasn't a date.

Speaker 1 (01:21:25):
Well, what do you mean? Because he we just talked
to this guy Pete. He says he met you at
a bar, you were watching football, and then he asked
you on a date. And then he says you went
on a date, and so now.

Speaker 3 (01:21:36):
Thought I want to hang out like you know, like
dinner drinks, maybe watch another game or something.

Speaker 1 (01:21:41):
Sounds like a date though, like dinner and drinks.

Speaker 2 (01:21:44):
It's possible.

Speaker 3 (01:21:45):
Why because because Pete's a guy and I've been a
lesbian for as long as i can remember.

Speaker 8 (01:21:53):
Oh minor detail that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:58):
Is a twist in the star story that I did
not see. It is Pete aware of your interests?

Speaker 3 (01:22:05):
I mean, we didn't talk about that kind of thing.
I just, I don't know, thought I was making a
new friend.

Speaker 1 (01:22:11):
So this dude approaches you asked what he thought he
was doing was asking you out, And you're just like, no,
this is a nice man in a bar who wants
to buy me dinner. And you're like, okay, I don't
have to disclose that I actually don't like what he
has to offer. I mean, that's you're right, by the way.
You don't You don't have to like qualify anything, Like
you know, someone can ask you to hang out and
that doesn't mean that anything is happening. But I guess

(01:22:32):
that it would be safe to assume that if a
dude approaches you he's a stranger and wants to take
you to dinner. I don't know that it's unfair for
him to assume that was a date, right, Well, that doesn't.

Speaker 3 (01:22:42):
Happened that often. I guess, okay, I just thought we like,
we're just clicking and yeah, that's all.

Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
Okay, Well, I mean d's cool. Yeah, I mean that's
that's honest and it's fair. I got to bring Pete
in though, I forgot to mention that Pete is here
with us. I I get caught up in a streng
so forgetful Pete turns out, so we just learned a
piece of information that would have been vital to this
whole thing. Turns out she doesn't like men. Oh no, listening?

(01:23:21):
Am I the first to tell you that?

Speaker 2 (01:23:23):
Maybe she does?

Speaker 5 (01:23:24):
Hold it?

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
Where you been?

Speaker 2 (01:23:26):
I mean we were wearing the same shoes.

Speaker 1 (01:23:31):
Oh well, in that case, gay, you both wear like birkenstocks.

Speaker 8 (01:23:38):
Like, what kind of shoes?

Speaker 1 (01:23:39):
What was the dead giveaway there? I don't understand bred
what kind of shoes? Were we both wearing?

Speaker 8 (01:23:44):
Steel toe boozy?

Speaker 1 (01:23:48):
I guess, honestly, I don't. I don't know that the
footwear would have given it away. I don't, That's what
I'm saying. No one gave me the guide book on
what lesbian shoes looked like.

Speaker 2 (01:24:01):
We got to look at her shoes.

Speaker 1 (01:24:03):
I've gotten the look book on that yet. But what
what shoes were you wearing, Brinn? That would have given
it all the way.

Speaker 3 (01:24:09):
They were definitely Nikeys from the men's section.

Speaker 1 (01:24:17):
The women in this room Nikes from the men's section.
So I don't okay, Peter, are you okay over there?
Because you're not saying much. You seem a little stunned,
Like are you okay? It's just an honest mistake.

Speaker 18 (01:24:28):
It's I mean, it makes so much sense now, but
I can't believe I called this in and now everybody
gets to hear it.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
Oh no, no, don't worry about that. Is this is
the least sinister of all of them. Like, we've heard
a lot of really bad stuff. What do you want
to say, Brin?

Speaker 3 (01:24:44):
Oh, I just say you have my number if you
still to hang out.

Speaker 1 (01:24:46):
Oh friends, Wait a minute, how about that? Like I
don't think that's ever happened before, where people at the
end of waiting on the phone wind up being actual friends.
Like she's not saying she doesn't like you as a human,
she just doesn't like your parts. Uh yeah, I mean
I might I might.

Speaker 18 (01:25:05):
Need some time just so every time I see you,
I don't think about how uh embarrassed I am.

Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
Eventually, you didn't know, you didn't know, you got your hopes,
but that's not your fault. Just hit me up.

Speaker 8 (01:25:19):
I'll tell you what.

Speaker 1 (01:25:20):
If you guys want to go on again, let me know.
We'll pay for that. You guys can go a little
friendly date. And uh, I'm sure that was embarrassing. You know,
I might have asked a few more questions like I
don't know who's your favorite w NBA.

Speaker 2 (01:25:31):
Players, not the lesbian screening questions.

Speaker 1 (01:25:42):
Well, we were trying to This would have avoided this situation.

Speaker 9 (01:25:47):
Needs something, something needs to happen. Go to the next situation.

Speaker 1 (01:25:51):
Yes, I guess My point is I feel like Pete
may have missed some obvious clues, but he's a sweet man.
But Brin, hey, I think you've been very cool about this,
and Pete, I don't think you should be embarrassed. And
I think that I think if you guys choose to
go out again and be friends, which you should, let
us know and we'll pay for the date or not date,
we'll pay for the outing, right, the activity or whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:26:12):
Okay, badges, Oh my god, I'm just see suggesting things
A friend do they're bros. They're bros what watching sports?
When they met.

Speaker 1 (01:26:27):
Women who like men watch sports. I don't think that's
the giveaway. I'm just saying you like sports and you're
very very stra.

Speaker 7 (01:26:34):
I wouldn't say very very straight sports guys.

Speaker 1 (01:26:37):
Watch for her.

Speaker 2 (01:26:38):
Yeah, I've seen her shoes.

Speaker 1 (01:26:41):
You guys, thank you for being this Sports entertainment reports
on the PREAD.

Speaker 2 (01:26:46):
Show, Justin Timberlake got into some sort of heated exchange
with some crew members at a recent concert over audio issues,
and yes, it was all on video. JT was performing
in England when he was seeing Look a Real ticked
off with a couple of members of his crew on stage.
He was about to perform Crime in a River when
the sound suddenly cut out, and that's when the video

(01:27:07):
picks up. You see the crew members telling Justin something
about timing, which doesn't seem to sit well with him.
Some are ripping him in the comments, with others saying
that he has a right to be upset about technical issues.
And I don't often defend Justin, but technical issues are
very frustrating, as we know around here. However, you cannot
speak to your crew in that sort of way, but

(01:27:27):
I do understand him getting frustrated.

Speaker 1 (01:27:29):
I wouldn't want to make the people, Yeah, when you
look stupid when something happens technically. Yeah, maybe I should
take a little bit of my own advice, because I
just rip everybody not in here, Ara, I rip all
the antillary people when things don't work here, especially when
we did software updates during the show. That's usually what
I have an issue with. Yeah, the middle of the
night would be a good time for even but you

(01:27:50):
probably don't want to make the people mad. The only
people who can fix it to mad, correct, because they
could make you look like big dumb if they wanted to.

Speaker 2 (01:27:57):
Yeah, so be nice here. There is true here, but
audio issues are very frustrating. Moving on. Yeah, I'm in
love with both of you. You and guys are the best.
If you heard the rumors that Britney Spears is adopting
a baby girl named Lennon London Spears, those are not true.
The rumors were started by Brittany herself after she posted
a video claiming that she adopted a baby girl. Now,

(01:28:20):
I try to not do stories about her, but I'm
just I'm just spelling these rumors. I am now hearing
that she was just kidding because there's no record of
an adoption of even a pet, no less a human child,
nor are their plans to move to Italy. As she
also mentioned in the clip, I want.

Speaker 1 (01:28:37):
To start doing that. I want to start I'm going
to start the rumors about myself as opposed to the haters.
I'm going to start them say things.

Speaker 2 (01:28:44):
Yeah, she's just trolling, guys, She's just kidding about that
about adoption.

Speaker 1 (01:28:50):
That was just a silly SI girl.

Speaker 2 (01:28:54):
Sandra Vergara, cousin and adoptive sister of Modern Family Start
Sophia Vergara, isining selling Sunset as a new agent at
the Oppenheim Group. Jason, have you seen this for season nine?
She's a veteran actress, former et host and our team
at Tonight and a luxury real estate pro and obviously
she's hot, because you have to be to be hired there.
Returning cast members include Krishelle, Emma, Chelsea, Nicole Brie, and

(01:29:18):
the very short Oppenheim Brothers. Season nine is in production
now and scheduled to stream later this year. They just
keep pumping those out. And lastly, the dad of NFL
stars I'm and Ra and equamanias Saint Brown is going
viral after telling his sons to avoid sleeping with white
women in order to quote breed better athletes. John Brown
told his sons that a man should consider physical traits
of women because he wants athletic grandchildren. He did the same,

(01:29:40):
he says, as a former Mister Universe and Mister World
in the early eighties, he emphasized selective breeding, and he
has for a long time, AKA choosing partners based on
traits he believe would produce elite athletes. I always feel
this way about you, Fred, like if you do make
love and produce someone, I wanted to be another tall
woman so we can either an w NBA player or

(01:30:02):
an NBA player. By the way, I think amen Ra
and Equimanius are the coolest names in the NFL. That's
just a side note.

Speaker 1 (01:30:08):
No, they are cool names. No, for me, it's more like,
do we care enough about our physical appearance? I really
care more about our even the physical appearance. Do we
care enough about our health that we just don't want
to die young?

Speaker 19 (01:30:21):
You know?

Speaker 1 (01:30:21):
I'm just like, we're just but can we also enjoy?

Speaker 5 (01:30:26):
You know?

Speaker 1 (01:30:27):
Can you can you competitively eat taco bell on the couch?
Watch those are the kind of thing I'm looking for.
I'm looking for that balance between Sure, we could go
around a little a little flirty five k r you know,
if we wanted to, if we had to, and we're
going to live to be at least seventy five, you know,
at least we're gonna try. But then also we can

(01:30:47):
crush some taco bell on the couch, maybe a nice
you know, pizza, that kind of thing, you know, Like
I'm just I'm looking for that.

Speaker 2 (01:30:54):
Kind of ballant. Hey, everybody has something that they're looking for.

Speaker 1 (01:30:57):
Yeah, so here you go.

Speaker 2 (01:30:58):
By the way, if you missed any part of our
type the Fread Show on demand and set us as
a preset on the Free I Heard radio app The Fread.

Speaker 1 (01:31:04):
Show is on Fread's Fun Fact Fred Fun so much. Okay.
Today's fact is it is a fast forward to one
of my favorite seasons, that is the fall. And we're

(01:31:25):
gonna talk about male reindeer today. So okay, you ready,
I drew you in? Yes, I sucked you in. Okay, Kiki.
Male reindeer shed their antlers in the winter, while females
typically retain theirs until giving birth in the spring. Therefore,
if Santa's reindeer are depicted with antlers in December. It's

(01:31:47):
a female squad women in stem. Yes, this means that
Santa Slay is indeed pulled by a team of strong
female reindeer. And this is according to science.

Speaker 8 (01:31:59):
We always got to do the work.

Speaker 1 (01:32:02):
I do more. Fread show next.

Speaker 13 (01:32:06):
Yeah, they talk better than the excite. These are the
radio blogs on the Fred Show. Okay, like writing in
our diaries, except we say them aloud. We call them blogs.
I'm taking this one, dear blog. So, after my little
venture to South America to visit Saint Todan In in Uruguayguay,

(01:32:29):
I have decided that I am going to.

Speaker 1 (01:32:34):
Start speaking Spanish. I love it permanently, for no right,
it is my first language. I'm good. I'm going to
do the whole show in Spanish, starting right out.

Speaker 11 (01:32:45):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:32:45):
So, for twelve years growing up in Arizona, I took
Spanish and because we had to, and I didn't take
it very seriously. And it's amazing what I remember, but
it's amazing what I don't by not practicing it. So
I've decided I'm going to take this seriously and I'm
going to figure out a way to speak Spanish, Jason,
you're on over eighteen hundred days of dua lipa. Yes,

(01:33:06):
uh huh do a lingo? I know it's called do
a lingo. You don't have to text me. I'd say
it on purpose like that, would you say that you're fluent?
Uh no, I'm not fluent.

Speaker 9 (01:33:17):
No, but I feel like I could make my way
round a conversation yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:33:22):
Past yeah no no no no no no no. So
I'd like googled, like basically, how to learn to speak
Spanish is fast if you have it, like if you're
at an intermediate level, okay, And so many different options
came up, I mean literally everything from there's a ninety
episode series on YouTube. I forget what it's called. I

(01:33:44):
don't have it right in front of me, but it's
like you watch that and you no memorization, no writing
anything down. It's like if you follow their methods, supposedly,
like at the end of it, you are really good.
I don't know how that's possible. There's, of course, you know,
do a lingoes and babble. I saw that one a lot.
Uh People, as simple as watching Destinos on YouTube, which

(01:34:07):
is a soap opera. I don't think that's gonna work.
I can see why watching videos of people speaking Spanish,
if you know a little bit of Spanish, might help
because you could sort of maybe deduce things from that
context clues. And then of course everyone's like immersion, which
is not an option. What you mean house that I
can't move to, Well, you're gonna move, but.

Speaker 2 (01:34:28):
Get you some friends.

Speaker 8 (01:34:29):
Go out to the restaurant that first.

Speaker 1 (01:34:32):
Get me some friends. But that's that's just a hard stop.
Where you go. You guys are gonna go any friends
would be great, but I guess that we're starting from scratch.
To Spanish speaking friends would be awesome.

Speaker 2 (01:34:45):
You pick yours up. You guys are gonna go to
totally your favorite.

Speaker 1 (01:34:48):
Spot every day there, every single day before I.

Speaker 7 (01:34:56):
Would know how to order and only speak Spanish the
whole time. I basically that you'll be fluf.

Speaker 1 (01:35:01):
Tacos alpus store and boom. At least I can eat.

Speaker 8 (01:35:04):
Okay, you can't take my baby too, that she can
learn everyone learning.

Speaker 1 (01:35:07):
Yeah, all of a sudden, a babysitter out. She can
be my only friend. It's fine. We communicated by it
at the same level as she might have known more
statush to me at this point actually and a half
year old. No, but I'm serious, So if anyone has
any like thoughts about this, Yes, I realized I could
move to Mexico and and I would. Honestly, I think
I know enough that if I moved to Mexico and

(01:35:28):
took lessons, I think within six months or a year,
I'd be in pretty good shape. I'm serious. That's not
an option because I do have a good foundation, I
just don't remember it. And also, the tenses are a
little bit questionable, Like I can pretty much tell you
what's happening right now, what's happening right here. Do not
ask me what happened yesterday or what I plan to
do tomorrow. I know. And the other tricky thing is,

(01:35:51):
and I don't mean to be controversial with this, but
the dialects are different. My ant speaks Argentine Uruguayan Spanish, yes,
which has they used a different vocabulary, not entirely different,
but there are words that, like my aunt I would
say something in my aunt would be like, oh, we
don't use that word here, we use this. It's kind

(01:36:11):
of I be honest with you, it's a little bit elitist.
It's a little bit eladist. It's like, oh, that's that's
this kind of Spanish. We speak this kind of Spanish.
And then if you're here, they'll say, oh, well that
kind of Spanish is fancy. And and you know, I
dated a Nicaragua girl for a while and when we
went to Mexico together, like it was almost like she
was speaking like with the British accent or something, because

(01:36:32):
the person, you know, the person of Mexico step back,
was like, oh, you're fancy.

Speaker 9 (01:36:35):
Yeah, it's like proper, that's what you learn is proper.

Speaker 1 (01:36:39):
And so that's kind of the challenges. I speak Spanish
from Mexico primarily, and so but as far as I'm concerned,
that's that's valuable. And then I could adjust, you know.
But and she has my my end after ten years
of living in South America still has it's a tutor,
and she's like, well you can, you can use my tutor.

(01:37:00):
I need to get myself to a conversational level before
I think the tutor would be helpful. So I'm very
serious about this. I just I want to I want
to be efficient and I want to do the right thing.
But you know, I don't think watching Telenovellas is going
to do it. I don't necessarily think that it would
be appropriate for me to like go to class yet

(01:37:21):
or at all, because I think I don't know, and
I also don't think I would stick with that. So
I'm curious if anyone's done this before. I'm very sincere.
You know, did you use one of the apps? Did
it work? You know, Jason's been doing it for two
thousand days and it's somehow not fluid, and that's you know,
I'm a little confused about that.

Speaker 9 (01:37:39):
But we'll only do it like five minutes a day
just to keep the streak, like I do one lesson.

Speaker 1 (01:37:45):
You've you've been doing this for six years consecutive.

Speaker 9 (01:37:47):
I know, but you could do endless amounts of lessons
in a day like hours.

Speaker 11 (01:37:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:37:53):
No, No, I'm for fun, like there's no endgame for me.
I'm very proud of you for doing it. But I
have to tell you something, Jason. If I spend every
day for six years working on something.

Speaker 2 (01:38:03):
Damn, but I'm not working towards fluid.

Speaker 1 (01:38:07):
No, I'm giving you. I'm giving you a hard time,
which I know, and so I'm very serious about this,
and so I and I think I said that four
or five times, but I tend to not be very serious.
But I'm very sincere that this is something that I
really want to pursue, and I just want to do
it the right way. And so if anyone has done
this successfully and again, moving somewhere would be perfect not

(01:38:31):
an option, at least not until January first, then it
might be an option. The way things are going, I
might be moving somewhere else January first, so it's very possible. Again,
I do have it, because.

Speaker 9 (01:38:47):
That's like actual like you're like learning learning, like it's
like real school, right, So if that's effective, then sure,
I mean I guess again, like you can you can
hit me up on social fred on air.

Speaker 1 (01:38:59):
But if that's the way to do it, find if
it's one of these apps, fine, if it's if there's
another method that you've used. I see ads sometimes on
TikTok as. Now it's part of my I've been searching
for it, so it pops up and it's like, you know,
I learned to speak Spanish fluently in ninety days doing
this thing. And it's like if I don't know how
that's possible, but if it is, I do know enough

(01:39:20):
that maybe something like that would work. I don't know,
so I'm actually asking for some help here, and I
would love your feedback on this.

Speaker 7 (01:39:27):
I think it's awesome and I think too like it's
about confidence, is what I've been told a lot of
times because I'm so shy, because I'm like, I'm gonna
say this wrong, so I'm gonna just keep quiet, you
know what I mean. But if you're willing to put
yourself out there and actually because you have to speak otherwise,
you're not gonna learn.

Speaker 8 (01:39:39):
That's the thing too.

Speaker 7 (01:39:40):
We think we can retain it. Okay, I could hear
it all day, but until you open your mouth that
actually say sentences and say words, you're really not going
to learn how to speak and communicate properly.

Speaker 1 (01:39:48):
Yeah, what I say, I'm fully willing to try. And
I've found in my experience for the most part, with
Spanish in Mexico and other places I've traveled, people are
very willing to be patient. I did not find that
in resilt to be honest with you, like, and I'm
I'm not knocking Brazil, but they were not patient with
me attempting to fumble through Portuguese. They weren't interested and
I've been other places too where they're just not interesting.

(01:40:08):
Like France, I noticed they don't they prefer you just
speaking English. They would actually prefer that. Now, when I
go someplace, I try, because you know, I'm so paranoid
about being the six or five white dude that is
like ultra American and ignorant and doesn't try, and so
I do try. But I've noticed there are places where
they're and I've noticed in Mexico or when I speak
to Spanish speakers, they're often very willing to be patient.

(01:40:32):
I've noticed, and again this is not universal, but I
have noticed in other places they're a little bit less
likely to work with you, and they just let's just
get to it. So anyway, open a suggestion that.

Speaker 8 (01:40:43):
Lady on their plane must have been really fair, because
I know that that's why you're doing it.

Speaker 1 (01:40:48):
It was such Portuguese, maybe, like we don't even good
luck with that, right, Yeah, girl

Speaker 6 (01:40:55):
I can't make my mouth dudo thing like I just
immerse yourself in Portuguese

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