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Fred goes on a rant about wedding etiquette. Plus, we're still not over the Coldplay concert cheating scandal! Find out why Iris got ghosted on an all new Waiting by the Phone. And, Judge Keke weighs in on helping your neighbor catch their cheating husband, listen now!

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Speaker 1 (00:46):
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daughter a job with benefits, with benefits, and somehow I'm
on her crap litt How can this be?

Speaker 3 (01:40):
What can I do right?

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Don't never mind. I'm not asking that question because I'm
sure some wild requests will come. My god, my mom
would be so happy when a young Fred got a
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I have to do it for this woman. Do you think?

Speaker 3 (02:02):
I don't know? Maybe work a little harder.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
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before you don't like me? What am I bruised or something?
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It really works well. Waiting by the phone is knew.
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Speaker 3 (02:20):
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Speaker 1 (02:22):
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and the entertainer report. What do you have in there?

Speaker 2 (02:27):
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up with a really big time movie director. And you know,
a couple of laughs as well. We're gonna have a
good time, a couple of giggles. We're gonna have some fun,
a couple of gigs.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah, Okay, you went to a wedding this weekend, which
I gotta be honest with you. Congratulations to the person.
I know the person. That's wonderful. But but the wedding
was a Friday and Saturday affair.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
This was a two day wedding.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
I gotta be honest with you. Too much, too much
pick one, pick one, and don't pick Friday. So let's
pick on. A Friday wedding is upsetting to me, especially
if it's out of town.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
So the tough part is since actually before they even
got engaged, she went on a bachelorette and someone told her, yo, girl,
if you want to get married in the summer at
a nice church downtown, you are going to need to
get your date like yesterday. So they called before they
were even engaged, and they were like, oh, we have
like a nine am on a Sunday, Like they had

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zero times, and they had like one Friday at four
pm and that is why they did that. And then
if people were coming from out of town, they were like, okay,
well you're already here, let's throw one more party.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
So they okay, so it's a Friday night church wedding. Yes,
and then we were done.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Well, then we went to the wedding party.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
What it was the next day?

Speaker 3 (03:44):
It was like just an portion. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, we did like the whole traditional wedding stuff on Friday.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Then we had a party on We had a casual.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
Party in a sports bar where like there was you know,
karaoke and fun vibes.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
I don't know, I wasn't mad at it, but I
was a little hungover, so I was like I looked rough.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Yeah, that's a lot, that a lot, that's a lot. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah, I thought it was fun like before it all started.
And then on Saturday, I was like, wow, but I
went and I had a good time again.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
But I guess this isn't is that that much different
from like rehearsal dinner, Friday wedding, Saturday or Saturday wedding
and then like Sunday morning brunch thing. But the thing
about the brunch thing is I feel like people throw
that because either like the groom's parents didn't do anything,
or or it's just like we have to do something
because we made everybody come to this random town, so

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we have to feed them breakfast. I don't think my
parents did that. I don't think there was any kind
of Sunday morning breakfast to provide it.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
I've been known to miss that because that that I
think is too much Sunday morning to get me up early.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
That's all right, I'm also on there.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
But like Friday or Saturday, and you get your day
and then we have the nice wedding and we have
the nice reception and then we're and then that's what
we're doing. I got to go to another thing the
next day already.

Speaker 3 (05:00):
I know they would trust you out.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
I like the idea though as a bride, Like I'm
not a bride, but I would like that I got
all the stressful stuff out of the way one day,
and then I could just like party with my friends.
Like Paris Hilton got married on a Thursday, and then
through a couple of parties after that, people could or
could not come to if they didn't want to. She
gets to like wear you know, comfy clothes and really
get down and dirty.

Speaker 4 (05:20):
You know.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
The wedding day you have to like be like, I'm
still pretty in the big white dress.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
I guess maybe what the engagement parties for. Like the
engagement parties kind of like more casual, and then there's
the wedding. I mean, I'm overthinking it.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
There's always engagement.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
It happened, it's done, it's over. They decided on that,
and say, yeah, no, I would have attended the I
don't know that you would have seen me the next day.

Speaker 3 (05:45):
Next say, I probably wouldn't. I would have I would
have vanished there were some people missing.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, I would have attended the wedding, and I would
have attended the required portion of the like the dinner. Yeah,
there was like a you know, well if there was
like a plate, you know, and I it looked like
there was I think I saw a picture. I think
I saw a picture of maybe you and Ryan. So
it was like there was sit down portion of it.
So maybe I would have attended that because they like
were counting on me. But then after that I may

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have I may have vanished, and then you wouldn't have
seen me. The rest of them wouldn't do the macarena
with us. He's so crazy because I'm busy for the macarena.
Every time the Macarena, I'm on call and the doctor's
the hospital post.

Speaker 3 (06:21):
The bar a kind of organized dancing.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yeah, I always get a call from the hospital. I
gotta go take the get patient and off in the
r I gotta hit out, you know, and operate. That's
what happens every time the makarena comes on. Yeah, okay, okayngratulation.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
She like beautiful, No, I know, she's a Barbie for real,
she is Barbie.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
And then did you wind up? This was on the
thing last week. We never got to it, but you
were considering a wardrobe change, uh mid event.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Yeah, that's and I have done it before.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
Where like the there's a little time in between, and
there's a church portion, and it was a full Catholic Mass,
so we were doing all the core know the up down,
you know, I practice. I had to tell my boyfriend
about the changes because he has not been since we
have changed and with your.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
Spirits, your spirits, and I was like, you're goofy. You
didn't know that there were a couple other line changes
that I don't remember being sent any kind of memo
about it.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
You need a pamphlet.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
So sometimes I will be known to wear something a
little bit more conservative at church or comfyre and then
switch into a different dress for the party.

Speaker 3 (07:24):
I decided not to do that because not even.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
Alyssa changed her dress or was changing her dress, So
I was like, I should probably just stick to one.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
Typically, where's the wedding dress the whole night, right, Usually you.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
Come out in like a more comfortable, shorter outfit for
the reception.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yeah, I don't, I.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
Don't know these are all these wardrobe changes.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
I mean, I get it, like you've been in it
all day.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
Yeah, but no, she's like, I look good and I'm
keeping it on as she should have.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
Yeah. I would think so too. And the wedding dress
was expensive, and yeah, you get your face beat and
the whole thing, the whole thing's coordinating the hair and
the deal. Like, yeah, yeah, her.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
Sister's getting married too, I said to her dad, like,
I'm sorry about.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, that guy's gonna have to delay retirement for quite
some time.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
Well, he's gonna have to git another speech.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
And what if it's like, you know, better, different or
longer than any boy with the first sister you know.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
Oh yeah, I don't know. My parents won't have that problem,
So it's all good. No speech is no wedding. They
don't have to pay for anything at this point. At
this point where I fumble the bag is that if
I get married at this point in my life, I
have to pay for it. No one's, no one else,
No one's parents is paying for a wedding. If I
get married at.

Speaker 4 (08:30):
Forty four years, you would offer to cover something, Yeah,
I know, we would all should be in Actually at
this point that what really?

Speaker 5 (08:38):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (08:39):
Twenty wow the show pay for my wedding. That's that's
how unlikely.

Speaker 3 (08:45):
Hey, we'll cover the entertainment. I have a friend that sings,
Oh she may be in this room right now. DJ
T free.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
Yeah. I've always thought that a DJ ban combo is
the way to go. Yeah, I've always thought that a
lot of people will disagree with me on that. But
if you got the dough. If you've got the dough
a DJ band combo, if you're rich rich, that's what
you got to do, because you mix it up a
little bit. You know, you don't have we got like
live entertain and a good band too, not you know

(09:13):
when you know what I mean. I've seen it done
before and I was like, this is classy.

Speaker 2 (09:18):
I'm always left wanting with a band, even though they
do the song. Sometimes I just want to hear the songs, you.

Speaker 1 (09:23):
Know, Okay, yeah, But then you know the thing is
like when the band's done, the night's not over because
here comes DJ Spin again to come out. You know,
can we get you know that era in this case
DJ Era former two. So somehow you're gonna have to
do all of it, which is crazy. That's a big ask.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
That's my gift to you and Jason can marry you guys.
Daht Wow.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
You'd have to have multiple outfits to then, because we
need the wedding planner outfit and the black jeans, the
combat boots in the earpiece. But then you'd have to
have something else, right, we'd need the whole thing. I
thought it was weird that you wore that hat that
curves at I thought that was strange. But I don't
even know where you got that.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
That's my favorite one.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah, but you made people call you his holiness. I
thought that was really weird and bowing. I thought it
was strange. But whatever, whatever it is, you know, command respect.
You and I are rigained by the Universal Life Church
and we should be respected as such. Spreads Show is
on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day. So a car
drove onto the sidewalk outside the Vermont Music Venue in

(10:25):
East Hollywood on Saturday. He hit about thirty people who
were waiting to enter. The incident happened about two am
after somebody was removed from a nearby business. The driver
was a twenty nine year old man. He then drove
into the crowd after crashing into I guess into a vehicle.
Then bystanders pulled him out of the car and beat

(10:46):
the guy down. An unknown man then shot the guy
and wounded him. He was taken to the hospital later
booked on suspicion of assault with the deadly weapon, with
the possible attempted murder charges being looked. At at least
one woman in her twenties was in critical condition. In
twenty four people we're taken to hospitals. No one but
the driver of the vehicle was shot. If you tried
to fly Alaska Airlines last night, I know you guys

(11:06):
are always trying to go to Seattle. All of you.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
Constantly wait Alaska Airlines.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Alaska Airlines.

Speaker 4 (11:11):
Oh I think I'm flying them soon. Okay, Well listen it.
Well that was last night.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
I know.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
But I'm scared last night.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
So you didn't do as soon as in last night,
and you should be okay. On Sunday, they requested a
groundstop for its entire fleet of planes. According to the FAA,
the fifth largest airline in the US, which has of
April operated two hundred and thirty eight planes, plus another
forty five under the Horizon air brand, requested the stop
for its aircraft as well as those belonging to its subsidiary.

(11:39):
According to The New York Times, the problem was with
the airlines IT systems. We requested a temporary system wide
groundstop for Alaska Horizon flights until the issue is resolved.
There will be residual impacts to our operating or operation
throughout the evening. It lasted three hours. They did open
it up again, so they're flying again. Okay, yeah, but

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it was with the IT system. Yeah, but it we
were good to go. It was the computers. The planes
are flying just fine, and computers weren't working, so they
couldn't do it.

Speaker 3 (12:07):
That's a big part.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
So I'm going to be up there with my GPS
open trying to figure out where we need to go.

Speaker 3 (12:12):
Make a right.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Yeah, that's like, you know, I appreciate like transparency, and
I'm a pilot, so I guess I understand a little
bit more. But like I appreciate when they get on
the thing and they're like, hey, this is what's going on,
we're trying to fix it whatever, or when they're trying
to explain to you in the air why you know
they can't land or whatever. But sometimes I think it's
a little too much information for people.

Speaker 3 (12:32):
I agree.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
You know, it's like Cay when you were trying to
go to Brazil. You're ago and GPS doesn't work. We're
trying to fix the GPS. When we get it fixed,
well we'll get going. Yeah, that's important. I mean it's
the middle of the night and unless you're using some
kind of a good sexton or something. I don't know
what you're doing up there, but like we need that.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
So I already had.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Some wine and took my sleeping pills, so I was like,
you guys, use my ways.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
We don't need that. Just head towards Brazil and we'll
figure it out.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
And see. I also know that you know these these airplanes,
the stags are just big comput But I'm the door
who listens to there's an app you can listen to
air Traffic Control on your phone, and you kind of
have to know a little bit about what you're listening
to because you have to know what to select. But
so I'm in Brazil, we're getting ready to take off.
It's like ten o'clock at night. I'm not gonna say
the airline or the kind of plane, but I'm listening
to ATC on my phone on the internet because i'm

(13:18):
And it's actually amazing because all pilots is supposed to
speak English. The official KO language is English, but in
certain like for example, in Brazil, they would speak Portuguese
air traffic Control to the local carriers. Like so like
a zul airizes it would speak Portuguese to them and
then go right back to English for like the dummies
from you know America. You know this, But it was
amazing how the person could go back and forth that

(13:40):
fast between both languages and directing all this traffic. So
they're like, okay, you know whatever, flight one two three, Uh,
you're clear for takeoff. And they're like, all right, got cliff,
take off one two three, And then this is our plane.
And then the guy comes out and goes, oh, now
hold on, I'll we get an issue. We need a minute,
and we slam on the brakes and I'm like that's
not good. And then two seconds later he goes, nop,
never mind, We're good. We're gonna go.

Speaker 5 (14:02):
Back.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
Now, hold on, let's not be let's not be hazy here.
I know we all want to go home, but like
what just happened, but now it is not happening anymore.

Speaker 3 (14:11):
All right, let's make double check please right right.

Speaker 1 (14:14):
Like we we went from we cannot leave the ground
three seconds later not not. We're good And it's all
good though, but you don't.

Speaker 3 (14:24):
Ended up on a plane, like everybody, let me tell
you what's going on.

Speaker 1 (14:27):
You see, we made it, we made it, but like
my friends, like, why do you listen to that, like
you know better, Like who knows it could have been anything?
Obviously it was fine. I'm like, but yeah, I didn't
need to. It's especially with the news these days of
you know, things that working and whatever. It's like, I
just thought it was. It was a little quick. I thought,
how can we pull over and we just check it
out and put the flashers on. Let's just run through it.

(14:51):
Let's let's shut it down and start it up again.
Let's blow in it, you know what I mean? Like,
I don't know anyway, Everything worked out fine, but.

Speaker 4 (14:58):
They're like, why is she sitting there in her life jacket.

Speaker 3 (15:03):
Right told me is going down.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
It's gonna be fine. But I mean everything is controlled
by the dispatched and controlled and everything the computers, so
the computer's break right, You can't you can't do anything, guys,
the coldplay cuddler Man the astronomer CEO Andy Byron has
resigned from his position. Man and by resigned. That is,

(15:27):
you're fired, but will because you're having the worst week ever,
then we'll go. Let you say you resigned. And he
probably made out too. They probably paid the guy a
lot to go away. I'm bad, like that's just how
these things work. You know, you're you're smart and rich.
You screw up, so we'll just make you richer to
go away because we don't want to deal with it.
The married tech CEO who was caught on the kiss

(15:48):
cam at the Coldplay concert UH in Boston last week
embracing his companies human resources chief, has resigned. He exits
his position after being put on administrative leave. As they
looked into the incident, they said no other employees were
president of the concert. Now that's another controversial thing here,
because there was a woman a screen left in the

(16:09):
kiss cam who looks a lot like somebody who works there,
and everybody was saying that like this was a subordinate
and so there was another employee that had to witness
all this and the thing now they're saying that wasn't
that wasn't anyone who works there, But that person very
clearly knew what was going on, because the look on
that person's face was like, oh my god, I can't
believe this is happening. Yep, So whoever that is is

(16:31):
involved somehow. But Astronomer said that they are now looking
for their next CEO and someone else is taking over
in the interim. The guy went viral last week for
being caught on a kiss cam and a Cold Play
concert with his arms wrapped around a female coworker. After
realizing they were on the camera, the woman covered her
face and then he ducked out of sight. I guess

(16:51):
she gets to keep her job though as of right now,
HR's got a gig and the CEO man is gone.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
So interesting.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
Over the weekend, everywhere I went it was people talking
about this, and we were saying this too on Friday.
If they had just played it off, if they had
just acted normal, there's a chance that they would have
gotten away with it. It would have been ten seconds on
the screen. People could have been like, hey, is that Andy,
and nah, it couldn't be, you know, and then whatever.
But the whole thing, the whole fiasco, the reaction, that's

(17:21):
why everyone's talking about it, because it's like, immediately you
knew something was happening there that wasn't supposed to be happening.

Speaker 2 (17:27):
I would have slowly dropped my hands if I were
him and just smiled, hey, look at these two.

Speaker 1 (17:32):
Yeah I don't get Yeah, I'm really not sure what
you do. But and then they were asking the person
who initially posted it if they feel bad. I guess
I don't know TMZ or somebody. I didn't see this.
A friend of mine was telling me that whoever posted
it to Instagram, like, do you feel bad about this?
And I believe the quote was play stupid games, win
stupid prizes.

Speaker 3 (17:51):
Curious.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
It's not anyone's fault for exposing that. Don't be that emboldened.
You know, they were a full on act, like a
couple with PDA and the whole thing in public. You're
asking for it now. Psychology Today has issued a little
bit of a little piece on why people do this,
Why people cheat in public so publicly. The key reasons,

(18:16):
according to Psychology Today, emotional neglect at home, craving excitement
or novelty, the thrill of getting caught, or a subconscious
cry for change. Now the other three maybe, but emotional
neglect at home does not excuse cheating. I just if
that's the case, didn't break up with them. And I
know it's easy for me to say, because I'm not.

(18:37):
You know, I'm not being emotionally neglected at home because
no one's at home but I. But in that way,
I guess I am. But there's no one to cheat on. Well,
what I'm saying is like, you don't get to cheat,
and this guy can't issue a statement and go, yeah,
but I'm really unhappy my wife does. She doesn't love me,
she doesn't like, you know, I make love to me
or whatever. It's like, Well, that may be, but that

(18:59):
doesn't if she doesn't know what you're doing, that doesn't
excuse the betrayal, like work on the issue or get
a divorce. Thank you is my thing and in public
stupid Well, I mean they were awfully comfortable. And the
other thing was every time I see something like this,
I think was there some kind of an arrangement, you know,
like maybe the wife knew. Well I'm guessing the wife

(19:21):
didn't know. If this guy doesn't have a job, well
that's maybe she did know. He shouldn't. Of all the
people to pick to have a relationship with extramaritially, if
that's a word, it would not be the director of HR.
That's why he doesn't have a job. But I feel
like if she knew, if they had some kind of arrangement,
then we would know that by now.

Speaker 4 (19:40):
He wouldn't have dropped to the floor like that current, right, exactly, stop,
drop and roll, or he saw his career flash before
his eyes one or the other his wife, I think
flash before his eyes.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
Because again, you know, in twenty twenty five, when I
see somebody out with somebody else and I've seen it before,
I try and avoid the situation. I don't say anything
anybody the most part, because I don't know what people's
deals are anymore. I know a lot of people, and
when I say a lot, I mean a lot. I
know a lot of people who are in relationships and
they have arrangements and everyone's on the up and up
about it, but at least inside the relationship. But like

(20:13):
other people from the outside wouldn't necessarily know. So I
don't want to be the one right to see something
I wasn't supposed to see or what was supposed to see. Like,
do you feel an obligation if you saw someone that
you know in this in this fashion, maybe not on
the big screen, but you saw someone at this concert
you all up on somebody, but you also know that
they're married or in a relationship. Do you feel that
it's your need to like call that out or do

(20:35):
you keep to yourself.

Speaker 4 (20:36):
Oh, I'm gonna but you have to do it in
a certain way. I'm not just gonna tell you that
I saw your spouse cheating, and I have to give
you proof, So I'm gonna send you a video or
a photo of what I saw.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
Hmm, Okay, yeah, I guess I don't know anymore. I
don't know that I would say anything to anybody. I
feel like I am staying out of it. Yeah, because
I don't know what I don't know. I don't know.
You know, maybe the deal is, don't I don't want
to divorce you, or you know, we're friends, we get along,
we're cool with each other, but like, I don't really

(21:07):
want to get with you anymore. So if you want
to go, I know of more than one situation like
this where it's like, look, we have a life together.
It would be too messy to divide it. I don't
dislike you, I don't not love you. I just don't
want to do that with you anymore. So go do
what you got to do. Just don't anybody find out.
Will and Jada and so. Then who am I? Well, right,
we know some celebrity examples like this too. So then
if I'm the one going here, so so and so

(21:29):
so and so I mean, maybe I'm not supposed to.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
Be involved in that, but if they have an arrangement,
they'll be like, we have an arrangement or I already
know all good.

Speaker 1 (21:37):
But I don't think people necessarily want you to know
that they because I think that's embarrassing to you.

Speaker 2 (21:41):
They're doing this as a couple. It's not on you
to like know the rules.

Speaker 4 (21:45):
And don't get me wrong, if it's just I saw
Todd's wife cheating, you know, Barbara was out cheating. But
everybody's Kaitlin's man out or Paulina's man out. And I
know that they're in a committed relationships, right, I'm not
a good friend if I don't provide her with fact.
Now whatever she does with that after that's not my business.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
But I think to your point, I think would also
depend on how close I am with someone, Like I'm
close enough with you guys to know that none of
you have that arrangement.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yeah, now you better tell me.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
But here's the thing. If there's something that I don't know, like,
God forbid, I don't want to use anybody always, any
anyone here as an example, God forbid, my good friend
significant other is out with someone else and they they
did have this, there was an understanding inside of there,
or they were in a fight or something, there was
a reason why that would have been acceptable. And then

(22:34):
I say something and then they get back together. Well,
now I'm I'm gonna wind up being the odd man
out because the other person, even if they weren't supposed
to be doing it, and they get back together, I
run the risk of getting locked out of the friendship
because now that person's embarrassed by their behavior and they
know that I know, you've never been part of that before,
you've never been part of because I have too, I
have to where I wind up the bad guy. What

(22:57):
I didn't. All I was doing was looking out for
my friend, and the other person would do something they
weren't supposed to be doing, and then I call it
out to my friend like, hey, look, I don't know
if that's right, Like my obligation is to you, and
then they they wind up making up, and then it's like, oh, well,
we don't want him around because he's he you know,
he snitches, he talks too much, you know, or there
or they're both embarrassed about the whole things. And then

(23:19):
so somehow you are the one out. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
No, I know that's a common reaction, but if it's
a good friend, Like if you did that to me
and we got back together, I would not allow you
to feel weird for what you did. You did the
right thing. That is the right thing to do in
my eyes. So I know you don't want to get involved,
but I'm asking you guys.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
To get involved.

Speaker 6 (23:36):
Same.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (23:36):
And if you and if we get weird on you,
like if it backfires and your friend is starting to
act weird towards you, I feel like that was never
your real friends, and BEGIN would agree.

Speaker 3 (23:44):
You know, you did yourself a favor.

Speaker 1 (23:46):
Guess this is why Kiki, you need to produce big
tim for all of us, not just some of us,
Because because I wouldn't know if I saw the guy
I acted a fool, I wouldn't know. I've never seen
the man full, I've only seen like pictures of him.
I would only know if his left arm was cheating.
I wouldn't know if his whole body was. And uh, finally,
in headlines, Vanilla is still the number one ice cream flavor.

(24:07):
Vanilla ice cream is America's favorite. Data from instacart, so
it's Vanilla was the most ordered ice cream flavor on
the platform in summer of twenty twenty four. It also
top the list for summer twenty twenty three. Now see,
I would have thought that this was because vanilla ice
cream is the base of like everything, right, like cookies
and cream, vanilla, you know, whatever, whatever other kind of

(24:30):
stuff in there, vanilla, But that's not it. It's vanilla.
People ordering vanilla the flavor, that's it. So this is Instacart.
This isn't like Briars or somebody saying, well, we sell
the most vanilla because they mix it with stuff. Well
it's delicious, no, Jason, there's so many options, Like why
just vanilla?

Speaker 3 (24:46):
It's I think it's the best flavor.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
It is delicious, is yeah, nice, It's like a nice
French vanilla or someplaces very nice. Like it's fine. I
drink French vanilla coffee every single day.

Speaker 6 (24:55):
But like, if you're ordering from instacart and there's a
thousand different flavors, you don't want a little bit of
re season there.

Speaker 1 (25:01):
You don't want a little bit of chocolates. But if
you have vanilla nothing, you can add whatever you want
to it, but you're already buying it. Adventure. You could
make it anything you want. You could do caramel, you
could do chocolate. It's harder to do if you've already
got chocolate. You can't really add vanilla to it.

Speaker 3 (25:15):
I'm like a nana.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
I like neopolitan, like I you know, No, it's it's
vanilla chocolate strawberry all lined up.

Speaker 1 (25:23):
It's too much of a way to.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
Strawberries.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
I'm trying to get focused on one flavor and then
boom more onto another. It's like it's too much of
a flavor swing for me. Okay, it's too I need
more consistency in my ice cream eating than that.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
You will order just a vanilla cone and like sit
on your couch, make it because it's Saundry Day.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
Well, first of all, my new couch never a cone.
It would be a cup. Okay, it's like a pint
of vanilla ice cream. Like you just order that.

Speaker 3 (25:52):
You're like, let me mow this down.

Speaker 1 (25:54):
Yeah, no, I would get that and get that. We
get that. I'm also I'd shared this with you before,
but I was very upset to learn many years ago
that like whatever the is it like a half a pint?
Or is that a pint? The one that's about this big,
maybe three or four inches tall. They sell them like
inconvenience stores. And I don't mean the mini one. I
mean like the one that you can hold in your hands.

(26:15):
I think that's a pint. I was very upset to
learn that's not a single survey, because I would go
to the grocery store and I would see that and
be like, okay, and then I'd sit down the front.
I just that's gone. Yeah, boom, I'm gone. And that's
I think that's for four people. Yeah, I think it's
for four people. Yeah right, Oh, dare you? Well? I

(26:36):
just I didn't want you to be surprised in the
way that I was. I'm sorry. How many calories? Oh
my god? Okay, well he was delicious. It's National get
out of the Doghouse Day. Well, that's very appropriate, National
be someone Day, okay, take time out of your day
to make a difference in a child's life, and National
Junk Food Day. Calon's entertainment report is on the fresh.

Speaker 2 (27:00):
A pawnshop owner has pled guilty.

Speaker 3 (27:04):
Excuse me, I confused myself in New York. He's in
New York.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
Has pled guilty to a federal conspiracy charge for accepting
a and reselling rather high end stolen goods. Some that
trace back to that December break in at Bengals QB
Joe Burrows Ohio home. Remember, while Joe was in Dallas
for a road game, thiefs made off with around three
hundred thousand in luxury watches, jewelry, handbags, and memorabilia.

Speaker 3 (27:28):
That's when he accidentally revealed that.

Speaker 2 (27:31):
He's dating that model Olivia Ponton, remember, because she was
at his house. Oh yeah, she called the cops and
he was like, oh no, she's on my payroll.

Speaker 3 (27:39):
She works for me.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
It's interesting now because they're dating, right, So that's really interesting.

Speaker 3 (27:44):
Well, I think at the.

Speaker 2 (27:45):
Time he didn't want anyone to.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
Know that they were together, you know.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
But Dimitri and Azinski, along with co defendant Juan Villar,
operated a pawn shop in Manhattan's Diamond District as part
of a black market pipeline source stole and they get
these stolen items from South American theft cruise targeting athletes
during these games, so he's directly linked. Allegedly, authorities also
discovered stolen property and burglary tools in storage units that

(28:12):
are linked to this pawnshop owner.

Speaker 3 (28:13):
So he he sounds like he got a lot going on.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
He faces up to five years in prison, roughly two
point five million in restitution, and obviously possible deportation, and
he's just waiting to see how long he's locked up.
So this case is part of a excuse me, a
broader probe that has already led to six arrests and
thefts targeting high profile athletes like Patrick Mahomes, Travis Kelcey,

(28:37):
and Moore. So these are all linked together, and they
were all happening in a certain timeframe.

Speaker 1 (28:41):
I mean, I guess you could like launder the items,
like if I like, let's say I steal Kalan's roll
X from our house. Yes, it says like Kalin's rolex
on it. She has anything great it just so everybody knows,
you know, like the ters, and then I go to
sell it. I could sell it to someone who sells
it to someone who sells it, and I could distance
myself from the eye. But eventually, if it winds up,

(29:02):
you know, in a pawn shop, or if someone goes
to sell it in a more public fashion and it's
Caitlyn's rolex, well then you're going to get it back.
And I'm going to wind up not getting any money
out of the deal. So how do you I've always
wondered how you do that? Like if I steal an
athlete super Bowl ring, or like an art an artifact,
it's like a one of one unless I keep it
underground forever. Then I saw how I can just go, oh,

(29:25):
look at this artifact, it's one of the look at
this dinosaur ahead I have. I'm going to sell it
to a pun shop, going to be like, wait, mane
that's missing. You stole it and only so I guess.
I wonder like what you're going to do with some
of that stuff.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
I mean literally, you'd have to keep it in your
house and just brag and hold.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
And everybody else would have to keep it quiet too
forever because it's like I can't even show my friends,
Like look at Caitlyn's roll, Like.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
Someone stole a Gym Morrison statue off of his gravesite
and like they just found that when they were arresting
him for something else.

Speaker 3 (29:50):
So I think he just kept it in his house.
But it's like, I don't think that's worth it to me.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
You know, where people steal really signature stuff, It's like, well,
I don't know how I'm gonna go to jail for something.
I have to just keep in like my house for him,
and I can't even show my friends.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
And remember when these dudes got got pulled over, they
were rocking.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
His like hat like you guys, like, don't put the
hat on when you're driving getaway car.

Speaker 3 (30:11):
That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
During her concert in England over the weekend, Billie Eilish
announced that she's teaming up with iconic Titanic director James
Cameron for a very special three D project. She's filming
all four Manchester stoves, so it will likely be a
three D concert film or documentary elsewhere. At Katie Perry's
San Francisco concert, her giant butterfly prop malfunction during her

(30:33):
show while she was performing Roar Because I feel like
she always is somewhere in the world.

Speaker 3 (30:39):
The prop jolted into.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
One picture given time, right now somewhere.

Speaker 2 (30:46):
Yeah, I just feel that way about her. I don't
know why, but the prop jolt. She was like riding
this big butterfly. The prop jolted to one side and
then plunged for a moment was scary. She was hanging
on real tight, checked the cables before telling fans she
was okay and kept going on with the show. But
after the show, she shared an up close photo of
her very shocked face on our Instagram stories and captioned it,

(31:06):
good night San fran So that was pretty scary.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
I know we have very uh skilled like stage hands,
they can assemble all this stuff. But I mean, when
you think about it, you know, these guys are going
on tour and they're in a different place every night
or every other night, and we got the flying contraption
getting set up and taken down every night or every
other night. I gotta trust these people. I need to.

(31:30):
I mean, I'm gonna personally interview the Flying Butterfly guy.
Oh yes, I mean because like I mean, I've seen
like the State Fair when they go like city to
city and you see these rides and you're.

Speaker 4 (31:40):
Like they put them up real Yeah, like you sure,
we don't really need it, honestly, Like stop flying, just
stick to dance and do a little backflip on the
stage or something. We really don't need y'all to fly.
Chris Brown Beyonce, Now, Katiper, everybody's falling, so let's just.

Speaker 1 (31:54):
Stop, like and shout out to the stage Union and
the people who put all this stuff together, Like this
is incredible that there aren't more issues. But me, for
my money, I need to be flying anywhere. No, we'll
just do this old school me and a microphone and
my guitar on my guitar. Yeah, right, Like we'll just
keep it on the ground because I don't know every
you know, in Toledo, we're flying, in Wichita, we're flying

(32:17):
in Santa Fe. We're flying. Well, when are we not?
We don't fly right?

Speaker 2 (32:22):
You know, it doesn't matter, you know what I mean,
how famous you are, how rich you are.

Speaker 3 (32:26):
Everybody.

Speaker 2 (32:27):
I mean, Taylor Swift's little rumba on her tour stopped
working one night and she had to protect this building.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
Like I've seen some of the back of somebody these
buildings before. Like, I don't think I want to. We're
trusting that thing. The roof in this place. It's tripping
on me right now, Like I don't try to. We're
not flying in here. They're trying to get me to
fly in his studio. Not if it works, I'm not
doing it.

Speaker 3 (32:48):
He's done. Please, don't trust it.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
Brought the butterfly here with the butterfly guy, and they
wanted me to fly during the show for YouTube. I said, no,
we can hardly stay on the radio.

Speaker 3 (32:57):
Yeah no, I wouldn't. These escalators here never working there.

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Waitay Morning Everybody. Monday, July twenty first is The Fred Show.
Hi Kalin, Good Morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina Hike,
Gem Good Morning, Shelby. Shelly will be hearing about twenty minutes.
Four hundred and fifty bucks is the prize if you
can beat her in five pop culture questions. Waiting by
the phone isn't And why don't somebody get ghosted? Kiki's
corner is coming up? Butt up, bump girl? What in

(35:01):
the chat GPS is going on? And the entertainer report
this hour too? What are you working on?

Speaker 2 (35:05):
K We're talking a Bratt wedding, a thirty third birthday party,
and Cold Place first concert since the cheating scandal.

Speaker 7 (35:14):
Talk.

Speaker 5 (35:15):
Yeah, they talk better than they sided tell me about.

Speaker 1 (35:18):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. I
wonder if some people had tickets, They're like, Nope, not going,
We'll go somewhere else, babe.

Speaker 2 (35:28):
That's how you know that you're the side piece that
they're like, never mind, we're not going to Cold Play.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
Oh yeah about that, We're not gonna be able to go. Sorry,
Let's go somewhere more privately, hotel room in another state, somewhere.
Audio journals like we're writing in our diaries, except we
say them aloud. We call them blogs. Kaylin, go dear blog.

Speaker 3 (35:46):
So I feel like all I've.

Speaker 2 (35:47):
Been doing lately, and by lately, I mean like the
last five to seven years is going to weddings.

Speaker 3 (35:53):
I go to a lot of weddings. It's kind of
my second job.

Speaker 2 (35:57):
And you know, we've seen the changes in the trend
evolve We've talked about on the show. You know, do
you give a cash gift? Do you still stick with
the registry?

Speaker 8 (36:05):
You know?

Speaker 3 (36:06):
And I think think things have evolved.

Speaker 2 (36:08):
So one trend I have noticed is that not a
lot of people some people still do will bring their
cards to the actual wedding.

Speaker 3 (36:16):
Typically they'll mail it before.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
Or afterwards, which I feel like is nice, especially if
it's out of town.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
You don't have to lug that whole box home.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
But I know, you know, for the Nanas and the Aunties,
they still want to bring their card and put it
in a box. Well, I prefer to send it later,
but I do like to get a good card, write
something in there, and give a little cash.

Speaker 3 (36:36):
I will always give cash for a wedding.

Speaker 2 (36:39):
My boyfriend always wants to send the cash via Venmo
or Zelle. And I think we're getting a little too lax,
a little too informal. I don't know what you guys think,
but I know some people are doing this. It just
makes me feel a little icky to just like send
you some cash, you know, for your.

Speaker 1 (37:01):
Wedding, because I send people money like when they when
they like buy me breakfast, right, you know I don't Yeah, yeah,
I think it's still at a little informal. It's like, oh, here,
here's some more like it's like throwing money at someone
like yeah, here's money here, whatever, and it takes two
seconds and there's no real effort involved. Yeah, I don't
think we're there yet for weddings, No.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (37:23):
Now there were people in between the at the wedding,
I was at last between the church and the party
that were running to buy their cards and stuff. Then
I'm like, you don't need to just mail it afterwards.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
As long as you do it, because trust me, we
all know people will remember if you don't do it.
Everyone remembers the people who didn't give gifts. Right or wrong,
everybody remembers the people who didn't give gifts.

Speaker 3 (37:44):
I've noticed that I haven't really noticed that.

Speaker 2 (37:47):
And I and for friends that I've heard talk crap
about like wedding gifts situations, I'll give them a little
more because I very much don't want to be talking
no me into it.

Speaker 1 (37:57):
And well, I don't think that we should have to
give based on what we think are Like I've heard
we've been over this a million times. But I've heard
the thing where it's like, you should give the amount
of money that you think it cost for you and
your guests to attend. Now, I'll give you whatever, because
I might want to give you more than I think
your wedding cost. I don't know. It's not my job
to pay for myself at your wedding. No, but no, no, no,

(38:19):
I do think people will judge you based on what
they've done for you in the past. Like my mom
is like this. My mom, My mom is given to
cousins graduations and friends kids graduations, and she remembers who
gave to us, and she remember my grandma, my nana
was really about this, and then she remembers who thanked
her and who didn't. Oh, oh, that's a big one.

(38:41):
The thank you is a big one from my mom.
If she sends you something and you don't say thank
you in any form, she doesn't like that, even if
it's just I don't know. You were supposed to send
a gift because it was a graduation. You were supposed
to send a gift because it was a wedding. She
wants to thank you, and she'll remember if you didn't
do it. So these are all the things I think
people consider. But I don't know that a ze you
can't just zell I can just zell you fifty bucks

(39:03):
at your birthday and go here.

Speaker 2 (39:04):
I don't love it. And well, by the way, I
do always give more if I have a date with
me regardless. You know, I don't think you should pay
for plates you.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
Give on behalf of because there were two of you. Yeah, yeah, no,
I think that makes sense.

Speaker 2 (39:15):
Pee would you be You're the only married person in
the room. Would you be offended if someone zell do No,
I've had people do that.

Speaker 3 (39:21):
Really.

Speaker 9 (39:22):
A family friend actually did because she lives in Florida
and she couldn't go to my Vegas wedding. I totally understand,
so she zeld me and I thought that was really sweet.
Oh I don't care, but I also I get the
feeling I wouldn't do it personally. I'm not there yet,
but I think the next twenty maybe thirty years, I
think that's going to be the new.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
Trend because millennials don't have checks, like we just don't
have that. We're Shelley. But you know, I just I
know it's hard, and I usually give cash, so I
hand it to the person, like directly if I see
them after or whatever. But I don't know if I'm here,
I don't given what's in the line like ingrats and
the rest of your life.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
Yeah, I don't know. That's a good question, because you're right.
I mean, I guess I have I have to dig
for my checks. Yeah, you'll find them because I have
so rarely use them. Yeah, and then I'll put money
in the envelope because if it gets lost and that's gone.
But yeah, I don't know what you do, because you're right.
I mean everyone that is really how it's going. But
at the same time, it's just so impersonal. It's like
you could send a card and then wait a few

(40:17):
days and then zell and hope the card and the
zell land at the same time. But like, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (40:22):
That's what you say, like, hey, did you get myzelf?
You know what I mean? Like you feel silly.

Speaker 9 (40:26):
But I can also argue right and say that some
people do like an online account or a wedding whatever.
It's called a honeymoon fund, and some people will give
their gift.

Speaker 3 (40:34):
That way is done. None of the same almost almost
kind of said.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
You're saying that's how I want you to give it, Like, yeah,
you know, yeah, that's a nice thing to do though.
I think that's a nice thing to do if you're
having a wedding, is have some form of like digital
way that I can do it, because that way I'm
doing the efficient thing. But then I don't feel like
it's informal because you're saying do it this way.

Speaker 3 (40:56):
I agree.

Speaker 4 (40:57):
Yeah, it's also tacky to like put your your cash
app code on the invite or something like I see that.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
Yeah, people do that now.

Speaker 4 (41:05):
They'll put like happy birthday to me, and then they'll
put their cash app in the corner like that's so tag. Yeah, no,
I don't know, but actually I don't care how you
give me the money. Okay, cash app means it you
put it in my hand.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
It just seems like, I know, how fast please make
I'm gonna get some money. Oh my god, I get
on my app boom boo boom here. So I don't know,
here's two hundred bucks whatever. It just seems so sort
of like an afterthought, you know what I mean. But
I guess it's better than nothing. Yeah, what do you
guys do with the cards? After polle do? You still
have your wedding cards.

Speaker 10 (41:37):
I do.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
I'm such a like little dork.

Speaker 9 (41:39):
I keep all my cards Birthday, I have communion cards
for my Baptists.

Speaker 3 (41:43):
I have it all.

Speaker 4 (41:43):
Okay, Yeah, I like to look at that stuff later,
so be classy. Get a car from the dollar store.

Speaker 2 (41:49):
Yes, the cards are expensive too, I got to that.

Speaker 1 (41:52):
Yeah, ninety nine cents.

Speaker 3 (41:54):
Yeah, yeah, that's the value area.

Speaker 1 (41:55):
The last card I bought was seven dollars.

Speaker 3 (41:58):
It works.

Speaker 1 (42:01):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Frend
Show Iris, Good morning, welcome to the program. How are
you good?

Speaker 3 (42:10):
How are you We're.

Speaker 1 (42:11):
Doing great, Thanks for being here. What's going on with
this dude, Matt? We got to know how you met
about any dates you've been on. Give us some context,
some backstory, all that good stuff, and then what's going
on now? Yeah?

Speaker 11 (42:23):
Thank you? So yeah, we met on we met online.
We met on Facebook dating actually, so.

Speaker 1 (42:32):
You don't know about that one too often.

Speaker 3 (42:33):
I heard there's a lot of people in there, though.

Speaker 1 (42:35):
I said people, Yeah, you know, is it like I don't.

Speaker 4 (42:40):
I don't know how I know this, but I saw
that there was a part on there that you can
make it. You don't know anybody, like, it'll never pop
up in anyone that you know.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
Oh that's a good idea. Not that anyone will be
surprised to see me on any form of a dating app.
I mean, I'm single, but I guess if you weren't
single and you were trying to poke around on that
thing anyway. Okay, so facebook dating, we don't hear a
lot about that. But you you you met someone on
their yeah no.

Speaker 11 (43:03):
And and like actually went out on a date, which
is rare. Like meeting someone you know online and then
actually having it results in a in a real life
date feels feels pretty rare.

Speaker 1 (43:17):
So why is it rare? Date very much? Or why
is it rare for you to go on a date?

Speaker 11 (43:21):
I mean, I feel like dating these days, especially online
dating in general, is really hard to actually meet someone
who wants to meet in real life. I'm also a
single mom, which complicates things, right, So it's like two strikes.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
Yeah, and that could be hard to coordinate. All right,
So you met this guy, you had a great date,
You felt like everything went really well, things kind of
came together, except you have not heard from him since then,
and that's bugging you, as it would anybody Yeah.

Speaker 12 (43:51):
It feels especially weird because I have to say it
was a pretty great date, Like it wasn't just okay,
it was a really good date, so do not hear anything, okay.

Speaker 11 (44:03):
To have him ghost me after that just feels very odd.
He'd also been really responsive, like up to the date,
you know what I mean, like as we were planning it,
as we were talking, you know, texting, So I okay, yeah,
just it feels odd. It feels very odd.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
Well, let me call Uh, We're going to play a song.
Come back. We'll call Matt. You'll be on the phone.
We're going to ask these questions at some point. You
welcome to jumping on the call, and I hope Iris, Yes,
all right, let's call Matt. You guys met on Facebook dating,
which is not a dating app that we hear about
very often on waiting by the phone. But you guys connected,
you went out, you had great conversation, You really felt

(44:41):
like the date went well, and you don't date a
whole lot, so you were excited about the prospect here.
But you have not heard from this guy since the date,
and you want to know why that is it? All right,
let's call him now. Good luck, Iris, Thank you. Hell,

(45:04):
Hi is Matt. Yeah, this is Matt. Hey, Matt, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can
which for just a second on the show? Uh yeah,
I guess.

Speaker 10 (45:19):
I mean it's a little weird.

Speaker 1 (45:21):
You said you're a radio show. I know it's a
little awkward. Thanks for listening, by the way, But no,
we're calling on behalf of a woman named Iris, who
I guess you met recently on on maybe on Facebook
dating or something, and then you guys went on a date.

Speaker 10 (45:35):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I went out with her.
What's right going on? What's a question here?

Speaker 1 (45:41):
Okay?

Speaker 13 (45:41):
Oh we're going to we love bossing over here?

Speaker 1 (45:46):
Okay. Well, she called us, Matt and told us had
a lot of nice things to say about you, said
that she enjoyed meeting you and enjoyed the date and
was hoping to hear from you again. Says you were
very communicative before the date and and she's confused as
to why you haven't reached out or responded to her
since you guys went out.

Speaker 10 (46:04):
Uh yeah, okay, I mean it's okay, it's a little awkward, but.

Speaker 1 (46:10):
You know, Iris was was really nice.

Speaker 10 (46:13):
I mean I really liked her when we were talking
on Facebook dating. We went on the date, the conversation
was good. I mean, we had good banter, you know,
and she's gorgeous, She's absolutely.

Speaker 1 (46:22):
Beautiful's the problem? This all checks out? What's the problem? Then? Yeah? Okay.

Speaker 10 (46:27):
I knew that she's a single mom, you know, and
she doesn't get out much for the dating. So but
that didn't bother me, you know, I it was fine
hearing her talk about her son. She was very proud,
and I was totally fine. At the end of the date,
you know, we were I drove her home. We were
kissing in my car before we you know, kind of

(46:47):
said goodbye, and things were getting hot and heavy. But
then she told me like, okay, well, unfortunately I can't.
I wish I could bring you up, but my son's
sleeping in my bed. Okay, okay, And when I you know,
she she's yeah, she said her son was sleeping in

(47:07):
her bed. But she already told me that her son
is seventeen and in high school and he sleeps in
bed with her every night and so that Oh.

Speaker 1 (47:22):
No, it's in my mind where I was in my bed.
I'm like, oh, mom's out, kids five, six, seven years
old something like that. You know mom's in. Yeah, oh boy, okay,
oh my.

Speaker 3 (47:35):
We if we want to go down this bed.

Speaker 1 (47:38):
So anywhere, like.

Speaker 10 (47:40):
You guys agree here that.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
Seventeen year old or not. I didn't know where this
is going. I didn't know. I didn't know if maybe
you're going to wind up in like the kids' bed
or something like. I didn't know where this was going
because okay, no, no, let me bring iris in. I
got iris. You have a lot of playing to do. Girl,
Like your seventeen year old son sleeps in your bed

(48:04):
and you're there.

Speaker 11 (48:05):
Yes, he does. There is Look, it's it's complicated, sounds
like it, you know. I feel like when you're a parent,
there're certain thing that you have to do for your child.
And what would be for.

Speaker 10 (48:24):
Your seventeen year old sleeps in your bed every night.
That's a big issue.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
I don't immediately take this to like a criminal place
or anything like that. It's in my mind, it's well, well,
I mean, we live in a Yeah, sadly, this is
the world. We live in. But I guess I'm really
concerned about boundaries here, Like seventeen years old, there's quite
the attachment. I mean, what happens? I mean, what is

(48:49):
he a junior in high school? Senior in high school?

Speaker 13 (48:52):
No?

Speaker 1 (48:52):
Yeah? I mean like what yeah, Like what happens when
it's time to go to college and move out and
things like that. I mean, it seems like, you know,
help me out here.

Speaker 11 (49:02):
First of all, he's a he's a rising senior.

Speaker 7 (49:05):
Second of all, look, I I'm not I'm not trying
to get feisty here, but I'm very surprised that that's
the reason, especially because.

Speaker 11 (49:17):
You're not a parent and you don't understand and there's
a lot of history and context here that I'm not
going to go into about my son's means, and that
that would be a deal breaker for you how I
choose to parent my child.

Speaker 1 (49:38):
Wait a minute, you can't. Honestly, look, no one's judging
you or whatever your story is, but you can't possibly
tell me that that is something that someone who you're
going to date would find to be you know, commonplace,
and like, so what happens if this relationship goes somewhere?
We have to he has to be out of the
house then, like, because he's taking your respot in the bed,

(49:59):
like to do, what do you do that if.

Speaker 11 (50:02):
Things were to progress, it would be a while before
you meet my son, for you know, obvious reasons. I'm
very protective of him. I thought that was understood in
terms of like intimacy. There are ways to work around that.

(50:23):
Bedtime is our special time. But you know, their afternoon,
their mournings, there.

Speaker 1 (50:30):
Are other I can't.

Speaker 10 (50:34):
I'm sorry, guys, I can't. I mean, this is this
is the dilemma, and I think that I am going
to withhold the judgment, but just on.

Speaker 1 (50:46):
We're going to get into studies now. I'm not sure, honestly,
I don't know if this is the Sun's thing or
the moms. I don't know who, like a whole yeah,
and I'm sorry for whatever you've been through or however
we got here, genuinely, But I can also, in fairness,
I can see why somebody from the outside would look
at this and say where do I fit in? Oh?

Speaker 11 (51:05):
I mean, I would just think, especially because we did
have such a great date and you did seem really
supportive of me being a single bomb, which I don't
know maybe that was, maybe that.

Speaker 1 (51:18):
Was, but uh no, yeah, you are welcome. I'm thinking
me as a back guy.

Speaker 10 (51:25):
But I'm I'm just doing what I know is right
for me. Yeah, I think you're Yeah, I'm sorry, Max.
Somebody finds it understandable. I and I totally support that
you are supportive of.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
Your son, just not in that way.

Speaker 10 (51:42):
And granted, like you said, I'm not a parent myself,
but I think that I am justified in not wanting
to be a part of that situation.

Speaker 1 (51:53):
In fairness, there are a lot of well okay, honestly,
I'm not even gonna argue with you, but so it's
not for Matt. Iris, I'll ask the question, Matt, would
you like to go out with her again? We'll pay
for it, maybe a hotel room too, I don't know.
In the middle of the day, didn't look Iris. I'm

(52:23):
I wish you the best, and I just you know,
I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't know, I
don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (52:28):
I just don't.

Speaker 1 (52:29):
I don't know. I don't know. And so that's not
he's not going to be interested. And Iris, I wish
you the best in whatever's going on. And uh and
and thank you so much for sharing with us Entertainment Report.
He's on the Fresh show.

Speaker 2 (52:44):
Cool boyfront man Chris Martin jokingly warned fans that they
might be about to end up on the jumbo tron
during their first concert since that whole cheating scandal that
broke I believe it was the first one while playing
in Wisconsin over the weekend.

Speaker 3 (52:57):
Instead of just going right into the section of the.

Speaker 2 (53:00):
Show where they show various couples on the big screen,
he warned the crowd what was coming. He said, we'd
like to say hello to some of you in the
crowd and put some of you on the big screen.
How we're gonna do that is, we're going to use
our cameras and put some of you up on the
big screen.

Speaker 3 (53:16):
He reiterated it.

Speaker 2 (53:17):
Please, if you haven't done your makeup, wink wink, do
so now. Last week, of course, astronomer CEO Andy Byron
was caught on the kiss cam with his arms around
coworker Christen Cabot. She even worked in HR even though
they are both married to other people. Andy has since
resigned and I'm doing that in quotes he resigned. So

(53:38):
Selena Gomez celebrated her thirty third birthday with her fiance
Benny Blanco excuse me, Benny Blanco, and lots of friends,
including Taylor Swift. The party was a seventies disco theme
and photo show Taylor and Selena in a pool of balloons.
Selena posted an Instagram carousel, writing, this past here has
truly been the most beautiful of my life, and I

(54:00):
owe so much of that to you all.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
Thank you for your unwavering love and kindness.

Speaker 2 (54:04):
Whether you cheered me on from the sidelines, shared in
my highs and lows, or simply offered a listening ear,
you have made this year unforgettable. And she does look
so happy. Her actual birthday is tomorrow. And also, by
the way, Selina and Bennie are doing a two day wedding.
I just read so they are also doing a two
day wedding.

Speaker 1 (54:24):
Please, let's just do it in one everything I gotta
do just one day, just one day, get it all done. Yeah, yeah,
just bang it out.

Speaker 3 (54:32):
They're doing that. I guess it's a new trend. I
don't know.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
Then there were rumors that she picked her wedding date
based on when Taylor could attend her. People say that's
not true, but I kind of like, could I believe that?
I see that maybe being true? And speaking of weddings, lastly,
it was a brat wedding, y'all. Charlie XCX and the
nineteen seventy five drummer George Daniel tied the not Saturday
in a low key London town hall ceremony. She wore

(54:58):
a short Vivian West would they dj their own reception?
And yes, there will be a second wedding planned in Sicily.
I think I saw they were on vacation there, so
they must be doing some planning. She even did a
little TikTok to one of her own songs right before
she married him, and it was very very cute.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
That's only the only way that I can understand a
multi day wedding is if you have to get married
for some reason, like in town hall, yeah, town hall,
in the square, I don't know, Like if you got
to go to the Justice of the Piece for some reason,
you invite a few people and we show up a
week because we have to formally get it done, or
maybe you go off and do it and then we
have a wedding. But that's the only way I'm going

(55:36):
in too, and we got to separate them. It can't
be one consecutive weekend. It's too much to ask of
one person. It's too much. I'm very triggered, but I
don't want too much.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
Okay, all right, good to know if you.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
Can make it on a on a Saturday, ideally, Oh,
if you could. I understand it's little cheaper on other days,
but like, you know, if you love me, let's have
a Saturday wedding just for you.

Speaker 3 (56:04):
Fred.

Speaker 1 (56:05):
Yeah, well, because Friday can be a little tricky because
people have to work, and especially if it's a destination wedding. Now,
I got ticket day off to get there, and then
what happens if i'm you know, my flight's running late
or something like that. I gottaet the day before. I
can't miss it. And then a Sunday wedding means I can't. Yeah,
I don't know, I can't really partake.

Speaker 3 (56:22):
And okay, any other stipulations that you want to leave
right after you say, I do right?

Speaker 1 (56:28):
Not even gonna say.

Speaker 3 (56:29):
I'm gonna have the chicken parmesan.

Speaker 1 (56:31):
He's out the door, the chicken barbage. Hopefully you have
chicken parmejo. Yeah, as long as there's little bit that's
the asterisk. If there's chicken barbiago, stay then then you
can have it on a Thursday if you want. If
there's chicken parmesan there.

Speaker 2 (56:48):
Chicken boy and marketing, all right, perfect, shut it down,
I have all my notes down and get never in
my life.

Speaker 1 (56:54):
Or anyone refer to it as chicken parmesan, you know, okay?

Speaker 2 (56:58):
Anyway, and okay if you you are new, or if
you missed any part of the show and want to
catch up type of freend show on demand on the
free I heardy where the.

Speaker 1 (57:06):
Show is brought to you by Chicken Patmajo. And if
you want me to go to your Thursday wedding, chick
and Papa Jean better be on the menu. Do you
have what it takes to battle show biz? Shelley in
the show Biz Showdown? Hey, Hi, show Shelley.

Speaker 10 (57:24):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (57:26):
Let's get Brittany on here. Hi Brittany, Hey Brittany, good morning.
How are you?

Speaker 4 (57:33):
I'm good?

Speaker 1 (57:33):
How are you great? Welcome? Fun fact about you? E what.

Speaker 8 (57:38):
I'm actually getting married September twentieth.

Speaker 1 (57:40):
Okay, now, hold on what day of the week is that?

Speaker 3 (57:43):
Saturday?

Speaker 1 (57:44):
Thank you? Thank you?

Speaker 5 (57:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (57:46):
But is there chicken on the menu.

Speaker 8 (57:49):
There's not, but it's actually you're gonna hate it because
it's an all weekend event.

Speaker 1 (57:53):
No, hold on, hold on, Hold on a second. Now,
explain to me, now why does it need to be
in all week like what what is happening? So if
I were to be invited and explained to me, like
what what are we doing?

Speaker 8 (58:04):
So our thought process was, you spend so much on
a wedding and I can't fathom the idea of it
being one day. So I we like camping. We're very
out doorsy people. So one of our things was, if
we're going to make it an all weekend event, why
not go camping? That way kids are involved. We both
have a lot of kids in our family, and a
lot of venues we looked at. Their max was like

(58:27):
one fifteen. That just didn't work. So we decided to
do a camping event. So we actually basically rented out
like half of a campground and so we have our
own little section and so everybody that's staying there gets
to see all weekends. So the kids are involved. And
then that Saturday, we're actually getting married at a golf
course because we like the golf too, so we're going
to like golf during the day and so be it'll

(58:47):
go to see a.

Speaker 1 (58:48):
Whole all right, Well, okay, I see that. Now what
if I don't What if I were invited, I don't
want to camp? Can I do? I just show up
to the wedding then yeah, so there's cabins.

Speaker 8 (58:58):
Yeah, if you don't want to do that whole weekend,
you don't. Some people are staying hotels too. There's a
casino nearby, so a lot of people like to gamble phone.
They can do that.

Speaker 3 (59:06):
It's fun.

Speaker 1 (59:06):
Yeah. Well, and I suppose if you're making me go
somewhere for your wedding, then we may as well have options.
But if it's in my town and I got to
show up to three different things on two different nights,
I'm like, you know, it's too much. It's too much
for me. For me too, You're right, I don't.

Speaker 8 (59:26):
So it made sense.

Speaker 1 (59:27):
But if, like, if we're doing it like an excursion,
why then then I understand that I got that. Well,
if you're making me go to Mexico, you're making me
go to campground, you're making me pitch a ten, you're
making me grill, get out there, kill mountain food. I
mean you're making me survive. I got to repel down
the mountain to get to the whatever. Then, okay, fine,

(59:48):
but I don't know you know what. I'm just bitching
to bitch because I don't. I don't get any saying this,
and I if you invited me, i'd go. So it's fine,
let's play the game. Five questions, four hundred and fifty bucks.
I think you should let her win this because she's
getting married at a campground. She needs some money.

Speaker 2 (01:00:04):
Okay, I can't promise, all right, good luck, Shelley.

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
Shows no mercy to anyone. You got to go to
the soundo if you go, brittany question number one. A
new book claims Gwyneth Paltrow was upset about Brad Pitt's
marriage to this friend's actress.

Speaker 3 (01:00:21):
Three.

Speaker 8 (01:00:23):
You said, poo, I know, I didn't hear the guy's
name going for.

Speaker 3 (01:00:30):
Which friends actress?

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
Three?

Speaker 3 (01:00:34):
Two?

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
No, I actually forgot about that marriage, by the way,
the whole thing which Bratt Singer married her fiance George
Daniel over the weekend, Charlie. Yeah, you ru on hold
for this one. So you gotta know which Singer's butterfly
prop malfunctioned while she was writing it. At a recent
Lifetime's tour stop, Katy Perry, Jimmy Kimmel went off on

(01:00:59):
CBS over the firing of this late show host uh
uh Colbert wollatip, then that's fine, and which late comedian
and missus Doubtfire star has a birthday today?

Speaker 8 (01:01:13):
Oh oh my god, I want him? What is the name?

Speaker 1 (01:01:21):
Okay? No, I was that was extremely slow counting to
I know, all right? So three you got three? Three?

Speaker 3 (01:01:29):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:01:30):
With some very generous counts.

Speaker 7 (01:01:33):
I have you.

Speaker 3 (01:01:34):
I try to help the listener.

Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
I did jamji, I.

Speaker 3 (01:01:39):
Don't give don't.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
Give it away, don't give it away. A new book
claims Gwyneth Paltrow was upset about Brad Pitt's marriage to
This Friend's actress Jennifer and which Bratt Singer married her
fiance George Daniel over the weekend Charlie X, which Singer's
butterfly prop malfunctioned while she was writing it. At a
recent life Times tour stopped, Katy Perry, Jimmy Kimmel went

(01:02:02):
off on CBS over the firing of this late show.

Speaker 3 (01:02:05):
Host Stephen Colbert, and which.

Speaker 1 (01:02:07):
Lake comedian a missus doubt Fire star has a birthday today,
Robin William that's a five. That's a win. Brittany, you
did a good job. But you're gonna have to say,
my name is Brittany. I got showed up on a showdown.
You know, the rest.

Speaker 3 (01:02:21):
Showed up on the showdown.

Speaker 1 (01:02:24):
And you, Britney, who's getting married at a campground with
tents and golfing. Can't hang can't cats? Cat?

Speaker 3 (01:02:37):
Can't cats shout out to the weekend wedding.

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
It's Monday. That one was a struggle. That was a struggle,
Michael Lot you there's a struggle. Brittany. Hey, congratulations and
have an amazing wedding, all eighteen days of it and
hang on all right. You know, culturally there are I
believe it's is it Indian weddings. It can often go
on for days and days and days. So you know
what I do then, I mean I'd have to just
go and then I'll have to deal with him. You

(01:03:09):
know what day are we? What day are we on
the tenth day of this wedding. We'll give you a
roll at each day? Yeah, I guess bright has to
be there, right. Five hundred bucks is the price tomorrow?
Win number oney twenty seven and seven straight good job, Shelly,
Thank you will come back tomorrow? Yes, okay, good We'll
see tomorrow on the show for five hundred bucks.

Speaker 3 (01:03:29):
Bye, okay bye.

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this hour too. What are you working on? Kay?

Speaker 2 (01:05:38):
An update on that major Shannon Sharp lawsuit. Also very
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Speaker 1 (01:05:45):
It's a Fred show. It's Geeky's court. All rise, the
honorable Kika league foul at the bench, Judge Kiky, all right,
what's say you?

Speaker 4 (01:05:55):
Let's get into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit,
it says Kiki. Am I wrong for not sharing my
ring camera footage with my neighbor because chat GPT told
her that her husband is cheating. My neighbor, who I
am not friends with but seeing passing from time to time,
came to my door last week in tears asking if
she could look at my ring camera footage. When I

(01:06:17):
asked her why, she said that chat GPT told her
that her husband is cheating. I tried my hardest not
to laugh in her face, but she was so serious.
She said that she believed that her husband may be
sneaking a woman into their house while she's at work.

Speaker 3 (01:06:32):
I told her I didn't feel.

Speaker 4 (01:06:33):
Comfortable getting involved in a marriage situation and I didn't
want to be a part of a potential legal drama
or domestic issues, and I politely declined. She begged, saying
I could save her months of doubt and pain, and
I still said no. Now she's furious with me, calling
me selfish, heartless and saying that women like me enable
men like him. After she left, I did feel bad,

(01:06:55):
so I went back to review the footage, and sure enough,
her husband was on my camera in four K taking
a younger looking woman into their home.

Speaker 1 (01:07:04):
Boy.

Speaker 4 (01:07:04):
I know I went against girl cold, but I still
feel like I made the right decision.

Speaker 3 (01:07:09):
Am I wrong?

Speaker 1 (01:07:10):
Wow? Wow? Yeah, wow, Kiki? What do you judge? Kiki?
What you're ruling?

Speaker 3 (01:07:17):
You know how I feel about this girl.

Speaker 4 (01:07:20):
I've seen lifetime movies on stuff like this, you know,
and hey, I'm not gonna get involved in that. And
then he chop you up and come chop me up.
Because the camera footage came from my angle. I don't
want to be.

Speaker 3 (01:07:30):
A part of this.

Speaker 1 (01:07:31):
This is what you gotta do.

Speaker 3 (01:07:32):
Yeah, I'm not giving up my footage.

Speaker 1 (01:07:34):
No, you gotta get a wildlife camera. This is what
you mean, Because here's the thing. If you get like
a like a ring camera, then your husband's gonna know
that you did that. Like if you put cameras, there's
a good chance. Now wildlife camera, this is where they
put out like in the forest, so they can see
like migration hunters can see like migration patterns of animals.

(01:07:55):
You stick that in the tree. It's camouflage, it blends him,
and it's motion activated. Now that's how you find out.
You set up your own surveillance. Do not rely on
to the people to get involved in your drama. I
agree with you. I'm sorry, but I don't want any
part of this. All you gotta do is out this
guy and before long he shows up with a shotgun
at your front door, and you got a problem.

Speaker 3 (01:08:16):
I've seen the movies.

Speaker 1 (01:08:18):
I have too. Can you take light NBC episodes have
started and ended this way.

Speaker 3 (01:08:22):
Yes.

Speaker 4 (01:08:22):
If you think your man is cheating while you're at work,
here's what you do.

Speaker 3 (01:08:25):
Girl, Go to work or act like you're going.

Speaker 4 (01:08:27):
To work, spend the block, come back around the time
you think that he's cheating.

Speaker 3 (01:08:32):
Boom, it's all there.

Speaker 1 (01:08:33):
I think you're on your own to come up with
your own evidence and your own proof.

Speaker 4 (01:08:37):
Like you can't say I enable men and I'm the problem. No,
your husband is the problem. You know I'm creeping around.
I would not give up this footich. It can give
you really messy for you. I can understand if we
were friends, you know, if I had some type of
investment in y'all relationship. But I don't know you girl.
You just a neighbor across the street. That's not go
at somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:08:59):
Someone just caught assuming it's me that someone has called
me a dell hole. I heard that one.

Speaker 3 (01:09:05):
Sorry about that.

Speaker 1 (01:09:06):
Yeah, Calyn, get off your phone.

Speaker 4 (01:09:07):
Honestly, I think they're talking to the listener that wrote it. Oh,
because she said, yes, you're wrong, you're dual.

Speaker 1 (01:09:14):
Well, you're wrong, you're wrong not to give it to someone.

Speaker 3 (01:09:17):
I guess I agree. Okay, Caylen, let me let me
hear it now.

Speaker 1 (01:09:22):
Thank you. We're back to trail cams is what they're.

Speaker 3 (01:09:24):
Called, Okay, not a lot a wildlife.

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
I think it's the same. Everyone knew what I was
talking about. Everybody knows. I'm just go to mass pro
shop whatever and get you one.

Speaker 5 (01:09:34):
I am.

Speaker 1 (01:09:34):
It blends right in with the tree.

Speaker 3 (01:09:36):
Have you done this before?

Speaker 1 (01:09:37):
It is not recently. I don't have a lot of
trees in my building that I can blend it into too.
You know, I'm just saying, come up with your own method.
If you just first of all ched GPT thinks you're cheating,
what does that even mean? I don't know what did
you type in there?

Speaker 3 (01:09:53):
Said that Jack told her that, yes, girl, the.

Speaker 1 (01:09:55):
Sign do not involve me in your drama. But Caitlyn,
you say you say that?

Speaker 3 (01:10:00):
What I say that?

Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
If a woman who is distraught shows up at my
front door and wants to see my cameras, I'm going
to let her see my cameras. I could not to
someone's face say no, sorry, can't help you, even though
I might have the answer. Sorry, go off on your.

Speaker 3 (01:10:17):
Own, invite her inside. We're gonna have a nice I
don't open some wine. No you were doing wine because yeah,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:10:25):
We need we need to drink for this one, honey,
because he's cheating and already.

Speaker 3 (01:10:29):
Knew what if he comes back with the knife.

Speaker 2 (01:10:32):
Then I I know that I can sleep because I
did the right thing. Like I'm not I I hold
myself to a certain standard and I would not be
able to look in the mirror if I didn't help
a cheating a woman with her husband cheating.

Speaker 1 (01:10:42):
We don't, we don't, We don't know until we knew,
Like we don't know for a fact. We had to
go look, and we had to go dig up the footage.
We had to go do all this stuff. It wasn't
like we knowingly said, I'm he's cheating with me, or
I'm personally involved and I'm not gonna tell you.

Speaker 3 (01:10:57):
I think the.

Speaker 2 (01:10:57):
Problem with our world today is that everyone is extremely
selfish and don't want to get involved in things. And
I think that we need to go back to helping
each other and being there for each other.

Speaker 4 (01:11:06):
I don't know, just my my opinion, because if it
was me, I would want you to help me. But
if it was me, I know.

Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
I think a reactive world where people do stupid things
as opposed to being accountable for.

Speaker 3 (01:11:19):
Their own fear.

Speaker 2 (01:11:20):
You cannot not do something that's good because you're scared
of the outcome. I would I would never walk outside
downtown if I lived in fear, you know what I mean, Like,
you have to live your life, be a good person.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
It's my time, it's my time. Yeah, that's where you
and I I don't know that I'm a bad person
for not wanting to get involved in your drama. I
don't think that makes me. I don't think that. But
you just said be a good person, if you don't
implying it.

Speaker 3 (01:11:44):
If you define be a good person, I'm not calling
you a bad person. I'm just we have our own
moral codes well.

Speaker 1 (01:11:51):
Very upsetting sometimes. Hey Jack, Hey Jack, Okay, so you
heard Kiky Score. You're basically a woman thinks that her
husband's cheating. Ask chech ept. Chech Ept's infinite wisdom was
to basically go ask her neighbor if she has any
video proof of it. I guess I don't know. It
turns out she doesn't want to be involved, but she

(01:12:12):
did go look and it does look that way. It
does appear the dude is cheating. What do you think
she should do?

Speaker 5 (01:12:21):
I don't know. I climb back and forth, But if
it was me, I don't know. I originally said to
stay out of it, but I'm honestly going back and forth.
What I said earlier was what I told Bella was
I saw this thing online where somebody ordered The person
who thought they were being cheated on ordered uber or
door Dash, and they in the notes told the person
to keep the food, but just drive by the house

(01:12:42):
and say if there was a certain kind of car there,
and that's how they find out if it was really going.

Speaker 10 (01:12:49):
On or not.

Speaker 1 (01:12:50):
Yeah, I don't know. Maybe the neighbor can tip her
off or something, but I don't providing footage how you're
getting involved. And then I don't know if that court.
It makes me so uncomfortable. Someone text you this is
how you wind up in verse forty eight. It's true.
I've seen it. I'm serious, Jack, Thank you, have a
good day. Thank you, Because you gotta member people who

(01:13:11):
cheat are not accountable people, so they're not gonna go, oh,
neighbor caught me, gap, you got me. You know what.
I'm so sorry. I'm a bad person. I'm wrong. They're
gonna spin it. They're gonna make you out to be
a bad person. They're gonna drag you into it. They're
gonna do all kinds of things. We're expecting everyone's going
to behave appropriately and they're not because people don't. You

(01:13:31):
guys are the jury eight five five five three five Cam, Hi, Hi, Cam,
you say tell the neighbor.

Speaker 2 (01:13:40):
Yeah, I say what you say about how it could
like definitely be a scary situation.

Speaker 3 (01:13:46):
But I feel like that's if you actually like.

Speaker 1 (01:13:48):
Send it to her with the angles, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:13:51):
But I'm kind of like, I'm kind of like I'm
a married woman. If I if I was in that situation,
I would want somebody to help me out.

Speaker 4 (01:14:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
Yeah, I'm trying to think of a way that you
could do it and have your hands clean on it.
Because I agree if if I know someone's being cheated
on and they asked me to confirm it, and I
know it and I don't say anything that would make
me feel bad, But I also think I would be
justified in not wanting to be involved in a situation
that could be potentially problematic for me.

Speaker 4 (01:14:22):
Because what if they work it out like we've always said,
you know, then now they joined forces and I'm the
nosy neighbor that was medaling.

Speaker 1 (01:14:29):
Or you know, yeah, it's my neighbor too. It's not
like it's it's not like it's a stranger. I mean,
it's somebody crossed the street from my house, like they
they they could do a lot of things.

Speaker 2 (01:14:39):
Well with that logic, the wife could do something to
you for not helping her.

Speaker 3 (01:14:42):
If we're you know, I mean, everybody, go care you
know what.

Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
But I guess what I'm saying is if you and Kim,
thank you so much, have a good damn glad you
call it, than what I'm saying. What I'm saying is
why is it? Why is it the neighbor's responsibility to
be involved in this thing? If you think you're has
been cheating, then you figure out how to catch him,
right you in chat GPT, like why you gotta dragged
me into this? I set up your own camera, But
you know I do.

Speaker 4 (01:15:08):
I see what Kayln is saying, like we do want
somebody to help us.

Speaker 2 (01:15:12):
But it's like girl, like I've been cheated on and
I mean to you know, so like I know how
bad that hurts.

Speaker 3 (01:15:19):
And another thing, sometimes you don't need confirmation.

Speaker 4 (01:15:21):
If chat GPT told you and it's your woman didsuish
and told you that he was he's cheating, you don't
need my footage. Go ahead and divorce and you already know,
you already know. That's how I would talk to her.

Speaker 1 (01:15:35):
Maybe if I saw it, like if I were looking
at my ring camera and I saw like a pattern,
maybe I'd say anonymous. Maybe I'd put a little note
on everything and be like, I don't know, maybe maybe
Wednesday's around one o'clock you should stop by your hand.
I don't know. There's gotta be a way that I
can help without implicating myself because I don't trust anybody. Hey, Melissa,

(01:15:55):
this happened to you.

Speaker 14 (01:15:56):
Oh yeah, so I have a neighbor reach out on Facebook,
and she asked if I could check my ring cameras
because she knew I had them set up. And it
was months later and I went back months to go
find that footage and my husband was like, yeah, I
actually saw a couple of cars pull into the driveway.

(01:16:17):
She was in the hospital at the time, and she
reached out to me and we were like, yeah, he
was having cars coming and out of the driveway.

Speaker 3 (01:16:26):
At Dirty Dog. She's in the hospital.

Speaker 14 (01:16:29):
Yes, she was in the hospital. And it was very
sad because but we kind of played it like I
think it was his family.

Speaker 3 (01:16:39):
Also, you covered for him, we.

Speaker 6 (01:16:41):
Did a little bit.

Speaker 14 (01:16:43):
I was like, I don't know, there was this black car,
there was a white one.

Speaker 1 (01:16:49):
Yeah, I mean I see both sides of this, I
really do, but I'm also not trying to die. So
thank you, Melissa, have a good day.

Speaker 14 (01:16:56):
You too bye.

Speaker 4 (01:16:59):
That husband needs to paid him some you know they
kept them right right right, they did above and beyond
for him.

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
Yeah, or or you could we've had this kind of
conversation before. You could go to the husband and be like, look, oh,
homegirl asked me for some information. I didn't give it
to her, but I went and looked, and I think,
I don't know what you're up to, but you need
you need to fix it. I don't want anything to
do with this, but I'm just telling you right now,
she's asking questions. She wants me to get involved. I

(01:17:26):
don't want to be involved. Handle your business, or I'm
turning this stuff over. You could do something now that's
more confrontational, right, But I mean, at least at least
it's like you're on You're sort of on both sides here,
like you're being fair. Like she asked for the information,
you have the information, you go to the person response
on me, I don't know what you're doing, but you
need to have an explanation for what I saw.

Speaker 4 (01:17:48):
But then you see you mess around and have both
of them at your door. Yeah, well, he's trying to
get the footage from you.

Speaker 3 (01:17:54):
She wants this is like Oh, this is some mess.

Speaker 1 (01:17:55):
And you could say, like turn the footage over anonymously,
but they're gonna know where it came from, what direction
you know exactly?

Speaker 4 (01:18:05):
That's a camera, right, and you know I would just
burn my ring camera. I just burned the whole house down. Actually,
this is too stressful as the neighbor.

Speaker 1 (01:18:14):
I mean, if it were here's the thing, if it
were a crime, I would absolutely turn my ring camera
footage joke, right, But this is this isn't a crime.
This is a moral indiscretion.

Speaker 3 (01:18:23):
Haven't you read the Bible?

Speaker 1 (01:18:25):
No, hey, Laura, as a matter of fact, I have it. Laura, Hi,
it's been a minute. I mean you know I haven't ye.
What do you think here Kiki's court? I totally yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:18:37):
I totally agree with Kaitlin. I think that she has
to help her neighbor. I also think she could just
say here's the footage, and you know what, if the
guy and the lady want to kill her, then you
know what, you shouldn't have been cheating, or you shouldn't
have been cheating at your house. Okay, thank you kind
of you kind of set yourself up for that.

Speaker 1 (01:18:59):
Thank you, Laura. Have a good day.

Speaker 3 (01:19:01):
You too, that's a good neighbor.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
Okay, But well, okay, what about this? And we were
talking about somebody that affected this earlier, but like we've
talked about on the show before too. But okay, so
you have footage of a girl going to the house
with a guy, so you give it to her. She
watches that and they watch it together and it's, oh, no,
that's actually his niece or that's my whatever. It turns
out that it was it wasn't in fact nefarious, that

(01:19:24):
there was an explanation. Now he knows that you're a snitch. Yeah,
so let's say he's not actually doing anything, but he
knows what you're capable of, which is you're willing to
get involved in my business. So now he doesn't like
you. You have a problem at marriage. There's a lot of
ways this winds up in your face for doing the
right thing.

Speaker 3 (01:19:43):
Sure, are you a snitch?

Speaker 2 (01:19:44):
If you're you're getting someone intel for cheating, that's wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:19:47):
But if they're but if he's not cheating, well.

Speaker 3 (01:19:49):
Then he's like, okay, good, I'll continue to.

Speaker 1 (01:19:51):
Cheat if he has a good explanation. But then but
then I would be like, what is she getting involved
in this for? You know what I mean. Like, if
it turned out that I wasn't doing anything wrong, what
is get this? And she'd be like, well, I went
to the neighbor and the neighbor's in on this with me. Great,
So now the neighbor thinks I'm a cheater and she's
willing to turn over footage of everything I do.

Speaker 3 (01:20:08):
Cool, but now everyone knows you're not. And I'd be like, good,
that's a good friend, I'm not cheating.

Speaker 1 (01:20:13):
No, I think you'd be totally annoyed. You'd be annoyed
that you were being spied on. You'd be annoyed that
this person doesn't I don't know. I can see this
being a problem no matter how it turns out true,
that's the problem. Hey, Jasmine, Hi, Hey, how you doing.

Speaker 3 (01:20:28):
I'm good.

Speaker 1 (01:20:29):
How are you guys doing well? Kiki's Court? What say you? So?

Speaker 15 (01:20:33):
I actually feel like, you know, I've been in that situation.
I've been cheated on, and I didn't go looking around,
you know, asking people for footage or anything like that.
But if someone's asking you, it's better to help them out.
Because in my situation, it was actually the friend of
the girl that was cheating on me. With thinking that
she was doing me a favor. I don't think she
was doing me a favor, but she sent me a picture.

(01:20:55):
She sent me, you know, everything that the girl had.
I don't know why the girls didn't reach out to me.
But it's always better to have about the woman because
she's asking you for than having her find out from
someone else that's you know, not coming from a good place.

Speaker 1 (01:21:09):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. She has been thank you
have a good day. There's a lot. There's a lot
on the show today. I don't know about it. I
don't know about her waiting by the phone. I don't
know about this, Richard. I don't know. I don't know
what what say you? That's to me, it's just devil's advocate.
I'm just playing that side of it. Is that could
be his sister. That all she saw was some young

(01:21:34):
woman going into the house with him, his sister and cousin, niece.
I mean, that could be anybody.

Speaker 4 (01:21:41):
His hairstyless sure, I mistress.

Speaker 1 (01:21:49):
So why is that, Richard? Why is it on the
neighbor to solve the If you think you're being cheated on,
then you catch the guy, Like, why do I have
to get in? She should not give up any footage
because it is none of her business. I would be like,
I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I don't
want to be involved. This isn't fair. I'm your neighbor.
I don't want to be involved. This is my home.

(01:22:09):
I can't just move, you know what I mean. So
if this goes wrong, this is a big problem. Here
are some things I might do if I were you
trail camera, my camera girl. Yeah yeah, or something like that. Hey, Richard,
thank you, have a good day. Love you guys, Yeah,
I love you. I don't know. It's an unfair position

(01:22:30):
to put someone in, oh, to put someone else in.
Cameron's entertainment report is on the Bread Show.

Speaker 3 (01:22:36):
I have to start out with such a tragic story.

Speaker 2 (01:22:38):
Gregory Zecha, stepson of Duyane Dog the bounty hunter Chapman,
accidentally shot and killed his thirteen year old son, Anthony
inside their apartment. Authorities responded to a shooting call around
eight pm, which has since been classified as an isolated incident.
No arrests have been made as far as I've seen,
and the investigation remains ongoing. But of course the family

(01:23:00):
is deeply mourning the loss and is asking for prayers
as they cope with this heartbreaking tragedy. Moving back to
Shannon Sharp, who settled that fifty million dollar sexual assault
lawsuit that was filed against him earlier this year by
a woman that he was in a relationship with. Her
lawyer said that both sides have quote reached a mutually
agreed upon resolution, but didn't give any details.

Speaker 3 (01:23:21):
I know that we knew.

Speaker 2 (01:23:22):
The original number that he offered her and turned down
was I believe millions, So I have to assume it's
more than that. Shannon's lawyer, it's declined to speak about
the entire settlement. During Morgan Wallen's concert Friday in Arizona,
he joked about that viral Cold Blake kiss cam moment
which revealed an affair allegedly. I have to say, I
guess between a tech ceo and one of his employees.

(01:23:43):
While Morgan didn't reference the band by name or call
out the moment directly, he did tell concert goers anybody
in here with their side check or whatever, I think
you're safe. But then he also said, I don't condone
cheating anymore.

Speaker 3 (01:23:55):
So he used to condone it, but he doesn't anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:23:57):
I guess. He also did two nights. In the first
night was really bad, like he said, the fans, he
didn't like the fans. Morgan, Yeah, he was upset about
and then he went on stage Saturday, and so I
was thinking about not even doing this show tonight because
you guys, I didn't like yesterday and I wasn't even
gonna come back to Arizona. People like were throwing stuff
at him and like maybe not paying attention. And I
saw some of the video and it was like, I
don't know, you wasn't happy about it. I don't know

(01:24:19):
why you'd go and spend money to see someone, especially
now as expensive as shows are. If I'm close enough
to the stage to throw something at you, like, I
don't know why I wouldn't go. But anyway, he said
he didn't like the vibe on night number one, and
night number two is much better.

Speaker 2 (01:24:32):
I guess, jam you better act Ray if you're you're
gonna go see him, then I guess so, yeah, I
don't know why we waste money to do that. And
really quick, lastly, Superman showed its staying power in its
second weekend at the box office. Uh they collected or
the movie rather fifty seven million in ticket sales and
it remains number one, so that means none of the
week's new releases.

Speaker 3 (01:24:51):
Aka, I Know what you did last summer? Excuse me?

Speaker 2 (01:24:54):
I saw a little cold, Smurfs and Eddington didn't even
come close. Superman was one. Jurassic World, then I Know
what you did last summer? Smurs and then F one
rounded out the top five. By the way, if you
missed any part of our show and want to catch up,
everything is up there. Just take the Fred Show on
demand unless we could get a copyright infringement.

Speaker 3 (01:25:12):
But the Fred Show on demand on the free I
heard right, The.

Speaker 1 (01:25:15):
Fread Show is on Fred's fun fact fredge fund so
much guys. Kiki's favorite fan The Beatles. Yeah, the Beatles
officially broke up at Disney World.

Speaker 3 (01:25:35):
Do you see my shirt today?

Speaker 1 (01:25:36):
Who you want a Beatles shirt? Look at that Jim jan.

Speaker 8 (01:25:41):
Ut.

Speaker 1 (01:25:42):
Although they had unofficially gone their separate ways in nineteen seventy,
the Beatles legal dissolution didn't occur until December twenty ninth
of nineteen seventy four, when John Lennon signed the official
paperwork while vacationing at Walt Disney.

Speaker 3 (01:25:56):
World, the happiest place on Earth.

Speaker 1 (01:25:58):
Maybe not for them, but it more. Cred Show Next