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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Fred's Show is on, Hey, good morning everybody, Tuesday,
September twenty thirty. It's The Fred's Show. Hi Klein, good morning,
Hi Jason Brown, Hi Publica, Hi Ki Ki, Good morning Shelby. Shelley.
Is here. New player in the showdown next hour and
you could win two hundred bucks. Two hundred bucks is

(00:21):
the prize two game win streak. Belahminus here on the
phone in the text eight five five five nine one
one three five. She asked me all of us if
we had something to say to her this morning, because
it's Rashashana and we were supposed to acknowledge her. I'm
sorry I didn't. I didn't. I didn't know. I mean,

(00:41):
I knew, but I didn't know because there were so
many things it could have been. You know, where we
were we consoling her because her four nine ers lost
a key player, as you know Jason yesterday and that
and that player was that guy? Yeah? Guy guy yeah?
Or was it something else? I mean, when somebody walks

(01:04):
up to you and says, do you have something to
say to me? It's a very dangerous thing, very dangerous
situation to find yourself in. I felt right, I did too, actually,
and It's almost like when someone walks up to you
and says like, like, do you have something to tell me?
And then it's like, oh no, because you're thinking of
all the things that you've been lying to them about,
you know, and all the things that you've been keeping

(01:24):
from them that you'd like to say. But maybe they know.
So it's like do I do I tell them? Because
I which of the things that I don't actually want
to say to them? Should I say? Right?

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:33):
Do they know? Because the rapture is coming? And maybe
they know?

Speaker 2 (01:36):
Well?

Speaker 3 (01:37):
Did you see the videos I'm sending you? Lesslie? I
could not stop watching the rapture tiktoks.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
I don't know. I saw at least one of them.
I don't I don't know which one I saw.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
It's okay, I was on a rapture of TikTok hole
last night and I just like people are talking about
what like how they're leaving their houses or those I
did see.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
That, and then what they're taking with them.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
It's like a backpack.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
I was like, okay, so a.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
Year I thought they were all with the first one
was real, Oh no, so some people are still here.
So when the rapture comes what I've gathered through my
research on TikTok is that the people who I guess
deserve to go or whatever, I think it's just devout Christians.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:16):
I think I thought it was like the end of everything,
like it's a rap. So if you're left here, oh, okay.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
No, I think it's just some folks get to go. Yeah,
and the rest of us.

Speaker 5 (02:25):
I don't know what a chance I might still have
to be here after the rapture.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
Well, are you a devout Christian?

Speaker 1 (02:30):
No? Oh yeah, And I wouldn't imagine I'm towards the
top of the list. No, I wouldn't say that, you
know more. I'm a Christian, you know, and I do pray,
believe it or not. A lot of people might be
surprised to know that. But I don't know if my
Nanna can pull this one off. I mean, if anybody
could do it. I mean, she's on the board of director,
she's way up there. She's hanging out with popes and stuff.

(02:50):
I know it because she was the most Catholic of
all Catholics. But I don't even think she can pull
this one off. I don't think she can convince the
hiring board. I don't think she can, like, you know, like, look,
can we do a solid for this guy? Like, I
know he's highly imperfect and he's done a lot of
stupid stuff, but like, hey, hey, I tried, you know,
can you do me a solid? And by the way,
between anyone in my family, i'd be the one to

(03:12):
get the solid. I would. She'd pull me up there
first if she could. Oh yeah, that was Nana's favorite.
So oh yeah, yeah. Just just in case we're wondering,
I'm but speaking of the rapture, I guess today it
might happen today. It could also happen tomorrow. We were
given a two day window for that. I don't know
what time zone. I'm not sure. If it's you know,
if we're doing more of like a European thing first,
or perhaps perhaps to Italy in the Vatican, I don't

(03:34):
I don't really know where we start, or if it
all happens at the same time, or if it's like
you know, if it's universal time. I don't know. I'm
not sure. But I have a morality Monday on a
Tuesday about the rapture because I thought it was very timely.
We'll get to that in a little bit. The Entertainer Report,
This Hour blogs Stair Goo Will debates in relationship drama
Waiting by the Phone as well what are you working on?

Speaker 4 (03:54):
K the singer that met a bride at a hotel
she was staying at, found out that she was her
first dance with her dad, and then came back to
the wedding the next day and sang the first dance
Oh wow, yeah, and we already love her, but you're
gonna love her way more.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Lamar Jackson is a quarterback in the NFL. Also, you
knew that Jason and he's a peace stud. The guy's
a stud. But I want to know what you think
about this. He apparently maybe is talking about releasing his
own fragrance. Maybe I'm not sure if that's what this
is about or why he was asked about this, but
he prefers to wear female perfume, and so I'm curious

(04:36):
about this. Is Lamar Jackson very masculine NFL player. Apparently
he likes to smell like what one would say a
woman smells like, or at least he likes to wear
the product that fragrance, that is that is a directed
at intended to be sold to women.

Speaker 6 (04:53):
Well made me want to meet my uncle own is
he just wanted to smell good. Okay, people might not
notice about me.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
But prefer like girl perfume with something like some real saft.

Speaker 6 (05:04):
So that's what made me want to create something unisex,
you know, instead of just all about us men. You know,
I was like, man, I to smell a female some
posts you get something back in you know, in between.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, I like the smell of a female as well.
I do whatever that is. But but how would we feel?
I mean, if I were to like go to Sephora,
you know, or Alta or something, and I were just
to pick the fragrance I like the best, and it
happened to be that it is. It's a girl smell
like it smells like a female fragrance, right, and some

(05:36):
of them are various signatures, same with male fragrances. Like
people know where they are. I don't. I'm not that
my nose is not that savvy, but like some people
can smell and fragrance and be like, oh, that's you
know whatever. I don't know, But what do you have
a problem with that? If I came in here, because
I wouldn't you immediately be like, why do you smell
like a girl, Like what girl you've been rubbing up on? Like,
isn't that? What? Isn't that what most women would think

(05:58):
if you recognize the frame grensident we're on a man.

Speaker 4 (06:01):
I met an X of mine and started dating him
because we were wearing the same fragrance. But I don't
necessarily wear super girly fragrance like I think it was
unisex the one I was wearing, So I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
I just thought it was interesting. I don't I feel
like that's what would happen though. If I showed up
to a date and I was wearing whatever that the
hottest hotness ariana Grande's fragrance, that would have been an
excellent time to say that you're a man wearing a
female I'm talking about you. I so this would have
been that would have been an excellent opportunity to say,

(06:32):
this topic is about me. Actually, do you want to
smell it?

Speaker 3 (06:35):
Yes? We love that one. I haven't cloud yet. And
which one do you have?

Speaker 5 (06:40):
I think the same one? Yeah, the blue bend a
little rainbow at the top, smell good. But I'm just
curious how that would go over with the ladies. I
don't know would you even care? I mean, if it
smells good, it smells good. I Like I said, I
feel like people if they didn't know me, and they
didn't know that I was doing this, they might say
why are you wearing? Like where did you get the
girl's fragrance from? Why do you smell like a girl's fragrance?

(07:01):
I'm like a girl per se well, to.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
Be honest, everybody's pheromones makes things smell differently anyways, so
it would smell different on you than it would smell
on him me whoever, So I think it would be
okay unless it was like, like I said, like flower
bomb or something that I'm like.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
What do you know?

Speaker 7 (07:14):
And if you're my man, don't come home just smelling
like a woman, right, because you need to know where
he didn't know that you are in this journey of
going to get perfumed the bottle, I need to know
where the bottle lies.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
Let me ask you that, Like, if I'm in a relationship,
do I need to take the lady that I am with?
Do I need to take her to do the fragrant
shopping with me? Absolutely?

Speaker 3 (07:35):
I would like some Chanel or something mm hmmm, Sure.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
Okay, well for you, No, no, no, no, no, I don't
mean to buy you something. I mean because do you
get a vote in the fragrance that I wear? Well?

Speaker 3 (07:45):
And we go into the store together, I know I'm
leaving here with something.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Okay, well, that's fine, but that's that's separate. We obviously,
but that's separate. I can't imagine being in a relationship
with you, Kiki, and we go to the store and
I buy something and you don't.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
So can you imagine that?

Speaker 1 (08:01):
That's not even a world I could imagine. No, the
rapture would happen before you know that, that before I
would get out of there was just something for me.
But but I'm just do I need to run and
buy you because you got to smell it the most
of anybody. Yes? Absolutely, Do you just go buy it?
Does Big tim even get a vote like? Or you

(08:21):
just come home with it because that's what you want
him to smell like? So you buy the fragrance?

Speaker 7 (08:25):
Okay, Yes, I can buy the fragrance. My thing is
I don't need Timothy alone in Sophara Alta Walgreens buying perfume.
That is not for me because if I just happen
to get in his car and see ariana grande cloud
right in the.

Speaker 8 (08:41):
Seat Jason was here, thank you, would happen right then
and there in that right right there, the rapture would
in fact be a real thing.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
Okay, I got it a text eight five five five
nine one one three five Fred my sister, who is
a huge Fred shows supporter. Okay, so that I feel
like we're running for office or something like probably if
you're a big supporter of the show, like we're running
for mayor or something collectively, which that would be just
a disaster. I think we'd win, Honestly, I think we

(09:12):
could easily win. But can you imagine if all of
us had to come together to make every decision collectively?
You know, one of us can run and win, and
I think it's probably Paulina. I'll tell you what. You
can be the older men, the city council woman, and
then I'll be the mayor, and then we'll we'll attempt
to work together on things.

Speaker 3 (09:29):
That's a tough job, yea of us.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah, that's the worst job ever. I have zero I
believe I could win. Actually, sorry, sorry, Mayor Johnson. I
believe I could be the mayor of I believe I
could win. Wow, I think I had the name recognition.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
Yes, of course you do.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
I think in this city all you have to do
is get you don't You only have to win the
runoff of the runoff of the runoff. So I think
the name recognition alone, would I'd have to quit my job.

Speaker 3 (09:51):
Yeah, don't do that.

Speaker 1 (09:52):
But I think enough people would see on the ballot
and be like this guy, you know, may and then
maybe it's possible. I would never do it. I don't
want to do it. And by the way, that's not
because I'm qualified or because i'd be good editor, because
I should. I just think that, you know, you know,
we talk enough and we say fred enough. I think
I could Probably, I think I could win. I think
I really could. Yeah, no, I'm not. No, I shouldn't.

(10:14):
It's a terrible job. Being a politician is an awful job.
But but that's none of this matter.

Speaker 3 (10:19):
A change be the change you want to see. Oh
that's beautiful.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
It doesn't matter. Like you you have to pick a
party and then you know I'm I'm and then immediately
I'm here by half of the people. The only way
I would do it is if I could start my
own party of like people that makes like the people
that make sense to be the people that make sense party.
It would be like reasonable be the reasonable people party.
It would be Can we just be reasonable? That's all
I'm asking for? Can we just can you? Can you

(10:45):
stop being a holes on both sides and just be
reasonable party? The non a whole party that would be Yeah,
exactly that. None of this matters though, because the text says,
my sister is a huge Fred Show supporter, is having
a baby today. She being induced this morning and could
use your motivational vibes. Can you shout around? Her name
is Jackie. You want you want us to motivate you

(11:09):
as you go into the room and they and they
make the baby come out of you, and you you
want us to motive because they're inducing for Jason. Yeah,
I know that. Yeah, and I know that. It's just
a yeah, you see what's puzzled look on your face
with a gracious hit me because that's exactly what happens.
I just yeah, makes the baby come out of you.
That's that's what an induction is.

Speaker 9 (11:30):
You.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
No, I knows what happens, but that's just a startling
phrase to me. I don't know they're gonna give her
and potosin baby come out. A been there then and
then the baby comes out. It could be it could
be an hour, it could be nineteen hours.

Speaker 3 (11:45):
When you see doctor Mike walk in with that cape,
but Harry Potter cape and he's ready.

Speaker 9 (11:48):
To go with the gloves he is, yeah, he was
a cape and he says, baby's coming right now.

Speaker 1 (11:52):
Oh so he didn't put the gloves on until it's time.
Oh no, it's go time. When the gloves come on.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
Do you don't even see him until it's go time?

Speaker 10 (11:58):
This smoke, yeah, like and this music and then this
music you know plays Hello, I guess you can do this, Jackie,
you can do this girl.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
Yeah, it's not gonna take a long time. It's not
gonna take it a long to it's not gonna hurt
at all. And everything's gonna look normal in three to
six months afterwards, gonna look like it did before. It's
gonna look totally normous. Right even then, it might even
look better better, right, right, I know that's right. The

(12:32):
only one has had a baby and I get tested.

Speaker 3 (12:34):
To that's true. Never looked better, It never looked better.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
How long does it take to go back to normal
three to six months.

Speaker 3 (12:40):
You know, ask a professional for that girl that's your obi.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
Everybody's different. I've never gotten to the end of the
Alan Parsons Project Eye in the Sky. But what we
get down with a guitar, don't we know? Because normally
Michael Jordan's been introduced by now, you're already playing the game.
Scottie Pippin's Dennis Robbins alread out there, We're already doing
it all right. You got this, okay, Jackie, you got this.
Everything look great, Everything's gonna be great, baby's gonna be healthy.

(13:07):
Notice I'd go right to what huhas gonna look like
in three to six months? That's right. I assume that
the baby's gonna be perfectly Outfreads.

Speaker 11 (13:14):
Show is, of course Friend's Biggest Stories of the day.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
That you are so fired up now as a Friend
Show supporter, yep, that'd be the song on stage I
would use when I was on stage, you know when
they bring me out every time. And then of course
Alan Parsons Project would say they would like send me
a season assist and be like, we don't agree with you.
Reasonable person, party, you know, a whole party, you know,

(13:39):
going to Facebook and bitching party. That's what I would be.
I'd be the no Facebook having party. Yeah no, I
made actually a city council a city councilman, friend of mine.
I made him very angry by I don't really believe this.
I was just talking, but I told him I think
I could win the mayor race. He got so mad.

(14:00):
Oh no, no, no, you wouldn't know the first thing. You
don't know anything, you couldn't know. I'm like, he was
just mad because I mean, you know, I think there
are people that would be dumb enough to see a
name they know and go oker, you know, and oh, yeah,
that's what I'm saying. That's what I mean. So I
feel like.

Speaker 5 (14:17):
It's kind of a learn on the job sort of thing,
like you don't get like trained to be made clearly.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
Not clearly, we're seen, they know. We're still learning. In
some cases, yeah that's fast, and we may never learn.
In other cases. It depends where you are. But no, yeah, no,
I think. But he was so mad at me. Oh
you think you think? No, I don't, actually I don't.
I'm not qualified. Nobody should vote for me. I don't
know what I'm doing. But I just think that there
are enough people out there who might recognize the name
to go, really that guy, okay, and then boom and

(14:45):
then I have to do it for what three to
six years or however long you have to do it for.
I don't even know how long the job I guess anyway, No,
it's not happening all right, headlines the biggest stories today.
I hope that was. I hope that was what you
were looking for. Jackie's sister. I hope that was the
kind of inspis that you needed to go into the day.

Speaker 3 (15:01):
She wanted you to talk about her. Hu huh.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
She did well and I was successful him, Yeah, I did.
I always deliver, kidd me. I'll tell you what's weird though,
is that I have friends who have like ten year
olds and we've done this for them when they were
walking around the hospital trying to get the baby to
fall out, and now the kid is like going to
high school, and it's like, remember, hey you Fred, uncle Fred.

(15:24):
Remember when you talked about me when I was like,
oh god, like you're a grown you're a grown woman.
Like we've been doing this that long. I mean it's
a good thing, right, Like say that's what you want,
Like when you get into the radio business, you know,
the media business, you want to hang around for a
long time. But then you realize, like, man, it's been
a long time. Yeah, oh boy, Jimmy Kimmel's back, guys,

(15:45):
Which it didn't take long. I kind of saw this coming.
But Jimmy Kimmel sets a return to ABC tonight after
being suspended from making controversial comments about conservative activist Charlie
Kirk's death. Kimmel had falsely claimed that Kirk's alleged killer
was a sootiated with the MAGA movement, despite authorities clarifying
that the suspect may have had left wing views. At

(16:06):
least that's the way that some people characterize what happened here.
In response to ABC temporarily pulled Jimmy Kimmelive from the air,
replacing it with other programming, Kimmel has negotiated his return
but will refuse, has refused and will not apologize for
his remarks. There are still thirty eight ABC affiliates owned
by Sinclair Broadcast Group that have announced they will not
air the upcoming episode, signing the need for an apology

(16:28):
and a donation to Turning Point USA, the organization founded
by Kurt, so he's back tonight, and I had a
feeling this would happen, to be honest with you, because
I don't think it was necessarily the best look for
ABC and Disney to say, Okay, we're going to be

(16:48):
influenced here, potentially influenced by the government. Now, if they
had said we don't like what you said, you're an
employee of ours, we don't like what you said, We're
going to fire you. Now, that's bad for people. And
by the way, I'm coming from the perspective of someone
who talks for money for a company, right like, we
don't own this place. I've learned this year. A lot

(17:09):
of people think. A lot of people think I own
the place. A lot of people think I own the show.
A lot of people think I write the checks. A
lot of people think I have any power to make
any executive decision around here. I have none of that.
I do none of that. I have an employee, just
like everybody else in this room. That being said, it's
a scary thing if you're in the broadcasting world to
think that I could share my opinion short of alienating

(17:30):
an advertiser or the company or saying something hateful or
spiteful or inaccurate. It's just my opinion about something, especially
in a comedic sense. It's almost scary to think that,
you know, that some government influence could say, we don't
like that he said that, fire him, and then we
get fired, Like that's not great. Now the company deemed
that what I said was inappropriate, Well then I guess

(17:50):
they can fire me, and that sucks. But I signed
a contract that we all sign a contract that says
that they can do that, and it's a shame. But
I guess for me, it's just how about we let
the viewers and the listeners decide whether you think that
the thing that was said was inappropriate. Like, hey, you
might be listening now and saying what Jimmy Kimmel said
was abhorrent. He never should have said that. It wasn't
funny and it was inaccurate. Well then don't watch then
don't watch ever again, you know. And by the way,

(18:11):
this is not a new thought from me. You know, people,
every now and again, we'll come we'll text up your eye,
you know, like Fred sucks and you know so and
so sucks and these comments. Okay, well, I'm sorry that
you feel that way, and it's not our intent, but
you know, hey, you can do that all day or
if you must, and I don't want this, but if
you must, and don't listen anymore, and then maybe we'll
get fired because the ratings will be bad. I don't know,
like that isn't that ultimately? Don't we all decide as

(18:34):
consumers what we're willing to consume and what we're not.
So I guess I don't know. And it's it's murky
because it depends who you ask about this.

Speaker 4 (18:41):
Yeah, the free speech line seem I don't understand the rules.
It seems like confusing to me. I think a lot
of people also don't realize that it's not just ABC,
it's not just Disney and you touched on this, but
like Sinclair, like on the smaller markets are running that show.
And so that's the issue, is like they were going
to lose advertisers. Yeah, YadA, So it's not just as

(19:01):
black as what and white as people thought it was.
But yeah, I don't understand the guidelines for free speech.

Speaker 3 (19:08):
I'm confused a little bit. I need to go a
playbook or something.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
At this point, Well, this was complicated because they're you know, again,
it's political right, It depends who you If you talk
to two people who have two different political viewpoints, they'll
describe this whole thing to you differently. And you know,
it's well, the government was saying that he needs to
be fired. Well, it did seem like the government was,
you know, FCC was involving them, saying, hey, we're going

(19:31):
to we're going to eliminate this sort of smut or
whatever the terminology was from the airwaves. It did seem
that way. But then on the flip side, it's like,
you know, but but they don't have the right to
do that, and I don't. I don't think they should, right.
I think, I think, short of something that's obscene, and
there are guidelines and regulations about this, but I don't
necessarily think that, you know, the government should be able
to come in and start firing shows or dictating who's

(19:54):
on the air and who's not. Again, I think it
should be up to the audience to decide what you
want to listen to and what you don't. And that's
not a political it's an a political statement. That's I
think that's the easiest way to handle this. Again, short
of misinformation propaganda. You know, there are protections in place
already for things that we can and can't say, So
maybe we leave it there exactly. But then you've got

(20:14):
you know, people saying, well, Disney can Firement if they
want to, they can, and then they could say, well,
advertisers of advertisers don't like it, and then you can say,
well if individual broadcast companies, if they don't want to
air the show, they don't have to, Well they don't.
That's true. It's just there are a lot of different
angles here, and it really depends, you know, you know,
from what perspective you view it. It's just for me
at the in in summation, in conclusion, as a dude

(20:38):
who talks for a living, I got a little scared.
I got a little worried, and you know, I don't know,
and we don't say like crazy things on this show.
In fact, like the design of the show is not
to be that way. It's to sort of be the
antithesis of all of that, antithesis of all of that,
because there's so many places you can go for the polarity.
But it's just like, well, what are we doing here?

Speaker 3 (20:58):
Right?

Speaker 7 (20:59):
And the more you talk you can't please everybody, And
we have to be okay with not being pleased. If
I'm not being pleased, somewhere there are other options.

Speaker 1 (21:07):
Right, And you know, again it appears what he said
may not have been totally accurate and that's not great again,
and then don't watch the show if you don't like
it or whatever. I guess I know business, Yeah, because
you do have power in that. You could just say
I'm not going to support that anymore and then don't.
And I'm not saying you shouldn't speak up if you
think that someone said something you don't agree with. But

(21:28):
as far as like, we're firing people now and we're
taking people off the air, and I don't know, it's
just need.

Speaker 4 (21:34):
To stop wanting big changes to happen just because of
their own personal preferences. I think we all need to
individually support and not support who we would like to
and who we would not, and stop trying to have
others join us.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
The Detroit Lions have defeated the Baltimore Ravens. To hear
that Monday night football, Yeah, we're not doing it anymore.
You're making your own pict from now on. Okay, even
though I think you I don't think you would have
picked it I don't think you would have pickn I
don't think you would have what's wrong. I was gonna
be may I going to be a mayor, and and
I'm trying not to get canceled and I'm picking stuff.
You would have picked the Ravens anyway, because you don't

(22:05):
pick the Lions for some reason, even though your friend's
right there. No, the only time I don't.

Speaker 5 (22:08):
Pick the Lions is when they're playing the Bears, right,
and normally pick you tell.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
Me anyway they won, and you didn't pick that. I
don't think like you had the Ravens.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
When she told me.

Speaker 4 (22:20):
I want them to win for you because on a
personal level, but I don't think that's going to happen.
And I have to make the pick that's correct.

Speaker 3 (22:29):
That's how I feel.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Take that, Yeah, all right, which is not as good
as I thought.

Speaker 11 (22:36):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
Gabrielle has intensified into a Category four storm, which is
east of Bermuda. Two more potential tropical systems in nearby
one year the Caribbean and another further east, could develop
later this week. The storms are not an immediate threat
to land, but the area of activity near the Leeward
Islands in Bahamas is the wild card, with the future
US impact possible if atmospheric conditions align. You're a weather guy, Jason, Yes,

(23:01):
it all makes sense to you. Yeah, atmosphere, you know,
we don't want them. Forecasts indicate that Bermuda could experience rain,
gusty winds, and large swells from the storm. The hurricane
will also generate rough seas and dangerous rip currents along
much of the US East Coast from North Carolina, New
England through midweek. A teenager is in custody for a
twenty twenty three cyber attack on MGM Resort casinos. And

(23:22):
in fact, I think we had to go there, weren't we. Yes,
the festival was right around this time, and it was
a complete disaster.

Speaker 5 (23:28):
Yeah, like none of the machines were nothing more cards
where the Wi Fi was down, like nothing worse gosh,
But anyway, as a teenager who did this and is
in custody reportedly cause at least one hundred million dollars
in losses. The hackers gained access by tricking MGM's IT
team into resetting a password and then disabled slow machines,
hotel key cards, employee emails, and booking systems. Jason were

(23:51):
you working there like a freelance guy.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
Huh did you fall for the facts of the email scheme?
I picked us and this is what happened. Also access
some customers personal data, including driver's licenses and social security numbers.
The team turned himself in last week and could be
tried as an adult on charges including extortion, identity theft,
and computer related crimes. I don't know a lot about this,
but I feel like and I'm not sure how sophisticated

(24:15):
this was, but maybe maybe we hire the team. Maybe
we hire the team to work at MGM, and then
then maybe you know, this sounds like a pretty smart
group of kids. You know, you're not supposed to be
stealing people's identities and information. Again, I don't know the
full extentive, but I know what I just read to you.
But I don't know, you know, I know that there
are companies I think Apple's, won maybe Google, where if

(24:35):
you can hack them and you can identify to them
how you did it, they'll pay you. You know, so
you find a whole And then I read about this
before because they don't want you to hack them. They
because if all you want is money, then they'll they'll
say thank you. For telling us where the hole was.
Here's money, and now we'll fix the whole.

Speaker 3 (24:52):
We got to try this for the wedding from let's
do it.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
Yeah, you guys are going to be bickers now.

Speaker 3 (24:57):
Well they need to get this wedding done.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
Well, then buy a T shirt just like I did. Yeah, yeah, no, Kiki, Yeah,
that's how you do it. Don't become hackers. I don't
need you guys going to jail or being canceled for
any reason. Nearly ninety percent of daily life runs on autopilot,
according to a new study. Research is found that eighty
eight percent of what we do everyday happens out of habit.
Two thirds of our actions triggered automatically by our surroundings.

(25:22):
Nearly half of these habits still match our intentions, meaning
they help us reach goals without much thought. Experts say
that this explains why change is hard routines are deeply ingrained,
but also why building good habits works best when we
set up cues in our environment to trigger them. It's
a little scary if you think about it, but I mean,
if I don't like stop and actually am conscious for

(25:45):
a second. The process of getting up every day and
getting ready and coming to work and doing it and
sitting here. I don't. It's about eight thirty before I
realize what I've done, and I've done a whole radio
show by that point. It's just automatic, you know. You
get up, you take a shot, you do those things,
whatever you drive, and then you drive to work. You're
in a car, you're in a large object. You move
that object. They're weighed thousands of pounds, and like I

(26:07):
wasn't I mean, I was paying attention right obviously, because
but I also wasn't fully conscious for that because it's automatic.
So you think about like your routines and stuff. It's
just a little bit scary. You're like half awake doing
all this stuff. It'll be like four o'clock and it'll
be like what did I What happened today? Right? Because
you just get up and you just know what to do.
It's like you just I gotta do this and that
and the other thing. And Americans are rethinking their subscriptions

(26:30):
is rising costs to make them harder to justify the
average person has one hundred and twenty dollars in unused
services every year, and new survey shows at households have
trimmed their average from just over four subscriptions last year
to fewer than three and twenty twenty five, with spending
dropping slightly to about thirty seven bucks a month. Streaming
services and food delivery perks are the first to go,

(26:50):
as price hikes and password crackdowns push many to cancel
or turn to piracy. I guess using other people's stuff,
but on average one hundred and twenty bucks a year
and unused subscriptions, so you gotta think about that. Yeah,
that's probably true.

Speaker 5 (27:04):
I think I have like multiple, like Netflix subscriptions or
something like I signed up and then I forgot.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
This is why you're broke. You don't pay a mortgage,
but you're broke. It's because you have seven Netflix subscriptions.
Probably also the worst memory.

Speaker 5 (27:16):
So I feel like I signed up for stuff and
then I forget, and then it's I sign up again,
and now I'm paying again.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
This is my pro tip for you, and this might
be the most valuable thing I've said in forty two
minutes today, is is go, like, if you have a
credit card, go look at the like look it up
on the website, the benefits of your credit card. Because
I don't really I hadn't really done this for a while,
and then I went looked at like, wait, mant, I
can get door Dash like my credit card. I can
get DoorDash monthly for free. If I get the subscription

(27:43):
thing and I put it on my credit card, I
take it off a TSA pre check free. I think
Clear is f I don't know. A bunch of stuff
is free. There's like Lululemon credit on one of them.
There's all this stuff. You got Uber credit per month
on it. I didn't know about any of this because
they don't They don't really tell you. It's almost like
they don't really want you to know. But if if
you go like, I'm like, well, I can get Disney
Plus for free, you know, which is why I didn't

(28:04):
have to cancel it.

Speaker 3 (28:04):
Can I see what kind of card do you have?

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Yeah, no, you can't a it's a it's a gift card.

Speaker 4 (28:13):
The official release party of A show Girl sold fifteen
million in tickets.

Speaker 3 (28:18):
In just twenty four hours.

Speaker 4 (28:19):
The eighty nine minute film showing October third through the fifth,
celebrates Taylor Swift's twelfth album, The Life of a Showgirl,
and includes a new music video, behind the scenes footage,
and yes commentary from mother herself. It'll play in over
five hundred and forty theaters across North America actually some
international locations as well, with twelve dollars tickets and no ads.

Speaker 3 (28:40):
Thank you for the twelve.

Speaker 4 (28:41):
Dollars tickets, Taylor, I'm broke from buying all your CDs
And yes, Fred, this is your nightmare because fans are
encouraged if they want to sing and dance along.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
So are you coming with me? I got two tickets,
I have an extra one?

Speaker 1 (28:54):
Yeah, yeah, what is it again?

Speaker 3 (28:56):
I'm not telling you because you're gonna tell me you
have something.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
I do have.

Speaker 3 (28:59):
I got, but there's multiple showings.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
No, every day, I got something.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
Come on your bracelet, on your sweatshirt.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
Yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not entirely opposed to the
idea of people getting into that. I mean, I believe you.
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
No, I'm not going okay, all right.

Speaker 4 (29:18):
By the way, Taylor just was granted a five year
restraining order against a forty five year old man named
Brian Jason Wagner. He's an ex convict who just repeatedly
shows up at our La home. Zaane Malick has announced
his first ever Vegas residency except for January at Park MGM.
The seven night run from the twentieth to the thirty
first is happening, of course next year. The set list

(29:42):
is expected to span all four of his albums. I
Love Zane, so I might be going to this. Pre
sale tickets will be available starting tomorrow, with general sales
opening Friday. To access the pre sale, Zane fans must
sign up for a VIP key by tonight at.

Speaker 3 (29:57):
Ten Pacific time. Tickets can be purchased through ticket Master.

Speaker 4 (30:00):
By the way, and this is the story that I
tease and the story that made Jason Brown cry Yesterday,
Yes Puddles, Camila Cabello turned a chance encounter with a
fan into an unforgettable moment for her wedding.

Speaker 3 (30:14):
For the bride and her dad.

Speaker 4 (30:15):
So they were both The bride and Camila were both
staying at this hotel.

Speaker 3 (30:18):
I guess when they met by chance. And the bride goes, oh.

Speaker 4 (30:22):
My gosh, my first dance with my dad is your
song first man, And this is what happened. And the
clip's a little long just because I included her singing
Fred But you can bounce along as you please.

Speaker 12 (30:32):
I will Yesterday and I run into Kelly and her
family and she's like, that's what I'm doing, my father
daughter dance.

Speaker 3 (30:41):
To your song first Man and that song.

Speaker 12 (30:46):
And I got to meet Kelly, I got to meet
her family, I got to meet her.

Speaker 4 (30:49):
Amazing dad, Mike.

Speaker 3 (30:53):
There's a really special song to me.

Speaker 12 (30:55):
It's a song that I wrote about my dad and
about you know, the moment that I get married. Was
I have not been married yet, but I wonder if
those would be my father No, but I was like,
we kind of planned this and it was kind of
a little last minute kind of thing.

Speaker 3 (31:13):
That we that we put together.

Speaker 12 (31:15):
And I'm I'm really honored to be a part of
this moment for you, Kelly, And I'm happy to be
a part of this specifically this father daughter dance moment
because I'm such a daddy's.

Speaker 3 (31:24):
Girl and I feel like your dad.

Speaker 12 (31:28):
If you're lucky, is your first love, is your first hero,
and he's the man that kind of sets the stage for,
you know, for the next.

Speaker 3 (31:39):
The next man in your love.

Speaker 1 (31:41):
Wow, that's really that's very sweet.

Speaker 3 (31:42):
And then she goes on the same Yeah, she is
just I mean, we've met her.

Speaker 4 (31:45):
She is just the sweetest, kindest and that just speaks
to that. I mean, she didn't just go and hey,
I'm gonna do myself like she did a whole wedding speech.

Speaker 3 (31:52):
She very much.

Speaker 4 (31:53):
She remembered everyone's name. I just I love seeing stuff
like that. We need more nice things in the world,
and so shout out to Camilla Kabaya.

Speaker 3 (32:02):
We love her.

Speaker 4 (32:02):
By the way, if you missed any part of our
show and you want to catch up, it's all up
there the stuff that we can afford. Type the Fred
Show on demand and if you could set us as
a preset, it really helps.

Speaker 3 (32:11):
On the free iHeartRadio app.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
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(32:33):
and more. We're back in a couple of minutes, and
we're commercial free when we come back. Stay here more.

Speaker 11 (32:38):
Fread Show Next, You've got to wait. Fread Show is on.

Speaker 3 (32:46):
The Honest Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
Good morning everyone. Tuesday, September twenty third, The Fread Show's on.
Hi Kailin, good morning, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, pullin up, Hikki,
good morning. She'll be shelling in about twenty minutes. Two
winter Bucks's the Prize to and wind Streaking a showdown
five pop culture questions against our pop culture expert there
Go will debate the relationship drama and the entertainer report
this hour.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
What's in their k Diddy is trying another creative.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
Way to get out of being locked up. Also, someone
tried to serve Taylor Swift at Travis Kelce's house. It
didn't go well for the guy trying to serve her,
like serve her papers.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
Oh oh yeah, that's coming. Yeah, they talk better than they.

Speaker 11 (33:30):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

Speaker 1 (33:33):
So it's like we're rinning in our diaries, except we
say them aloud. Kiki yo, your blog, take it away.

Speaker 3 (33:38):
Dear blog.

Speaker 7 (33:40):
So we've all been chatting about rapture TikTok. You put
us onto the story yesterday, and so it was my
entire algorithm last night, which was surprised.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
Don't put the raps are on me?

Speaker 3 (33:50):
Oh you started this mess.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
You did here we go.

Speaker 3 (33:54):
You got Kaylin.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
Now the RAPS is on me, and now the SCC's
on me, and now they didn't.

Speaker 3 (34:00):
Yeah it's all your fault, is what they're saying on
the streets.

Speaker 4 (34:02):
Well, I didn't hear about it until you brought it
up to be hon me.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
Neither of you, guys. I'm just trying to make sure
everyone's educated on the biggest stories of the day. Okay,
That's that's all I'm here to do. Yeah, I don't
have any agenda other than that, because because if the
rapture comes, I'm I'm getting left behind. I'll tell you
that right now. You always if the FCC comes, I'm
getting left behind, I'll tell you that right now. Well,
actually I get they'll swoop me up. But anyway, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (34:25):
Yeah, So now that.

Speaker 7 (34:26):
It's here, today is the day, or maybe tomorrow, depending
on where you are.

Speaker 3 (34:30):
I have my affairs in.

Speaker 7 (34:31):
Order, but I wanted to make sure everybody else on
the show has their affairs in order.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
What's in order do you have? You know, like Lux
is good.

Speaker 7 (34:39):
You know he's gonna go with me with me, I
don't know what's gonna happen with Big Tim.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
You know, if we were.

Speaker 7 (34:44):
Married, then I can guarantee. But since he waited so long,
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (34:48):
See, so you're going so he would have been grandfathered
in right right, he would have had the same rights
and privileges. But he waited too long, too late. I
see now I need.

Speaker 7 (34:58):
To know what are you all affairs look like? How
we spending our last day? What are you eating? What's
your last meal?

Speaker 3 (35:04):
Yeah? Because it's here.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
Well in that case, man, I'm gonna get meat, big breakfast.
You know, it was all I'm like, I'm gonna get
I'm gonna get pancakes and waffles. In that case, I
may go on a little shopping spree too, if that's
the if, Hey, if this is it, if we're done
after this, you should take all of us. You're gonna
see me driving around town in a lambo. Because I
leverage everything I have. I wouldn't get a lambo. I'd

(35:27):
get a Ferrari. But anyway, actually I think I would
get either because at this point in my life, people
might think I have a little wei if I did that,
so I or that I was trying to get like
twenty year olds, you know, and so I know what
I get.

Speaker 7 (35:39):
It's your last day? What we what are we doing,
what are we eating? Where we going? What would you do?

Speaker 1 (35:45):
Well, I don't just don't matter. Would you go do
like blacks our heroin or something like? If it just
didn't matter, what would you do? Like you'd walk out
right now? Which is something you've always wanted to buy
that you can't afford? You like, forget it, I'll go
get it, you know what.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
That's a good idea. Yeah, I did up the old
Chanelle store. See what was going on down there?

Speaker 1 (36:04):
Hey? Whatever, Just get what you can get and then
get what I can get. Yeah, right, who cares, You'll
never see the bill. It's a rapture.

Speaker 4 (36:08):
Yeah, and then calories don't count right before the rapt exactly.

Speaker 1 (36:11):
That's what I mean. If you're up there, Yeah, Jason,
what would you do? I go to Taco Bell and
I would just spend the whole day there. You could
do that if there's no rapture, just so you know, but.

Speaker 3 (36:20):
Go to a cantina.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
That's how I want to go out. Yeah, Margarita isn't
Taco Bell?

Speaker 5 (36:24):
Oh yes, Okay, to be sucked up into the sky
or wherever you're going.

Speaker 1 (36:29):
Yeah, I got it.

Speaker 9 (36:30):
Paulina, you know what I always said in this radio
and I would never ever ever skydive just because you
talk about it a lot.

Speaker 3 (36:37):
Fred, you do it. You're professional at it. I believe right.

Speaker 1 (36:39):
I'm not a professional. I'm not a professional professional. I've
gotten one hundred times, even one hundred professional No no, no, no, no,
you need thousands of.

Speaker 3 (36:48):
Be well, that'd make you well with me.

Speaker 9 (36:50):
You can do one hundred one times just because I
want to go out doing something big.

Speaker 1 (36:53):
Yeah, I mean I could be a tandem master if
it's the last day on Earth. I'm not qualified, but
I could be on your back. We can we pull
it off. We'd be fine. I mean, it's the last
dan Earth. So if we go splat itesn't matter.

Speaker 3 (37:05):
I'm getting there early.

Speaker 1 (37:06):
Yeah, right, you don't want to wait to mine?

Speaker 3 (37:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (37:12):
What a good idea?

Speaker 3 (37:15):
Cool up to.

Speaker 1 (37:18):
Going to be early to something? Yeah, you can't just
come through? Yeah, wow, Paulina, not going to be early
to No, this is not even funny to joke about.

Speaker 11 (37:28):
The show is on. It's stay or go all right?

Speaker 1 (37:32):
Max is here turning to a likely source for advice. Hi, Max,
how you doing?

Speaker 2 (37:39):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (37:40):
Hey, I'm all right? How are you guys. Oh my gosh, Max, here,
we are to help you. So stairgo. You can hit
us up fred shirt radio dot com, you can d
m us and all the different socials which Max did.
What's going on with your with your girlfriend? Yeah, I
appreciate your guys' help. And I know it's gonna sound harsh.
I'm about to say so, just you know, no no judging.

(38:04):
So if this is about jim Kimble, hang up. If
this is about Jimmy Kimble, hanging up, I'm not I'm
not doing it. I'm not doing it with you. Max.
I'm not doing it with you. I just want to
be clearing me. Okay, good, all right, because I'm not
doing it.

Speaker 2 (38:15):
Okay, No, No, you don't need to. It's not about that, okay.

Speaker 13 (38:20):
So I started dating a girl about five six months ago,
and I.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
Really like her.

Speaker 13 (38:26):
I'm not going to say her name just out of
you know, respect for her privacy. But there's one issue
I'm running into over and over again, and that is
actually her health.

Speaker 14 (38:37):
I don't know how to say.

Speaker 1 (38:38):
Okay, she has she has severe ib s.

Speaker 2 (38:42):
Okay, okay, and that effect I don't mean to laugh,
but it affects pretty much every aspect of her life,
and now it's kind of affecting mine since we've been
together all these Now, why.

Speaker 3 (38:55):
Would you call my name out?

Speaker 1 (38:57):
Why would you do that?

Speaker 3 (38:59):
I get at Jason, who was laughing at this lady.

Speaker 7 (39:03):
You called him outcause I'm signing in trouble.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
I look over kicking out of the lemon, and then
she calls him out. Okay, I think the same. Well
I was gonna say, Jason, Jason diagnosed has this issue. Okay,
So so she don't know I don't even know how
to appropriately describe i BS. It's so she needs to
access a bathroom regularly needs and this is this is

(39:30):
not a fun thing. And I feel bad for anybody
who encounters a Kiki and Jason. Okay, so she has
this issue and and you know that, So why is
this a problem for you? Exactly just like you said,
it's not fun.

Speaker 13 (39:44):
She's the bathroom everywhere we go, everywhere we go, every
place we go, she's got to figure out where's the
closest bathroom.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Every place we.

Speaker 13 (39:50):
Eat, you've got to know the menu ahead of time,
make sure she can eat something there. And there's just
a lot of places we can't go together, like we
can't I can't take her to whatever, the theme park festival.
So it's because of the bathroom situation, and we can't
travel so many places, and so it's just becoming a lot.
I don't know, as the months go on, and I

(40:11):
and I feel bad. I really like her, but you know,
I know there's obviously, like there's no cure for ibs,
you know, the only things you can do to prevent
flare ups. And I just you know, there's a lot
that comes with it, and I didn't expect it, and
it would be the rest of my life, and I

(40:32):
just don't know, like I don't know if i'm I'm
not KA so far enough.

Speaker 1 (40:37):
Yeah no, So I'm sorry to interrupt you with Max. So,
you're your girlfriend has this this condition that that's limiting
to her lifestyle in a lot of ways. Now people
live with this and and they deal with it. But
you're saying that for you, the limitations may sort of
you are already are a burden to you, or may
forever be a burden to you. I hate to use

(40:57):
the word burden, but you know, for whatever reason, for
various reasons, rather you think it's holding you back, and
so you're asking yourself, and you're being honest and transparent.
Is this something that I want to deal with for
the rest of my life? Like, do everywhere we go
do I want to have to consider these things? Do
I want to be limited to where we can go
and what we can do? And you know things you

(41:19):
brought up theme parks and festivals and things like that,
and so you're asking yourself, this is this something I
can commit to you for the rest of my life?
That you got it exactly.

Speaker 13 (41:28):
I feel terrible, but that's what I'm asking.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Yeah, And I think the reason that this is not,
I mean, is not an easy thing right to consider.
But I think it's not coming to you naturally. I'm
beginning to my gut tells me that the answer is no,
you can't and you're not going to. And there's your answer.
I hate to say it. That's just me being honest.
The fact that you're considering this, the fact that you
wrote us, the fact that you're calling. And I'm not
judging you for this, I mean again, I appreciate the transparency.

(41:52):
I feel like the fact that you're thinking about this
is already saying to me, this isn't something that you
want to deal with and you want someone to tell
you it's okay.

Speaker 13 (42:02):
Oh, I mean god maybe, I mean I really like her,
I like spending time with her. It just kind of
affects everywhere we go.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
Because I wonder, I wonder if you if you were
just head over heel. And again, I don't know, I've
never dealt with this before, but I wonder if you were,
you know, if you were sure about this relationship and
you were sure about every aspect of it, then maybe
I don't know, my gut tells me that you wouldn't
see this as a barrier. That means that you would
eliminate her from your life or and the relationship. That's

(42:31):
what you're talking this.

Speaker 7 (42:33):
This is not Is it really something to leave off
because you need a little alone time in the bathroom?

Speaker 1 (42:36):
And see, I don't know the answer eight five five
five nine three five. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (42:40):
I'm not minimizing ibs.

Speaker 7 (42:42):
Oh yeah, I think it's really severe, Like yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (42:45):
Think so, yeah, Well I'm not minimized. I don't I
don't know. I don't know. I've never dealt with this.
I've never known anyone to be super communicative, and I
know I've known people who have dealt with it. No
one's ever fully communicated to me their issues or said
to me, Hey, we can't do X y Z because
of it. But it sounds to me like the cost
benefit doesn't work for you. That's what it. That's that's

(43:06):
what my gut is telling me about this situation. And
it's really severe. Ibs. I think there's different levels of it.
She's got really severe. Okay, all right, well let me again.
There are people out there listening who have perspective on this,
who either deal with it or have dealt with it,
and I'd rather hear from them because I don't I
don't have enough information to really be able to speak

(43:27):
on this. But Mike, I think that if you weren't
really sort of strongly contemplating ending the relationship, then I
don't think that this phone call would even take place.
That's that's that's what I'm I'm not judging you for that.
That's just that's where I am on this is you
wouldn't call us and have this conversation with us if
that were bec otherwise, I think you would just we

(43:50):
wouldn't have to talk about it. It would just be
something that you'd have to deal with. And that that's
a shame. But that's that's where I'm at. Let me
take some phone calls. Max, have a good day, Thanks
for calling. Thank you. Yeah. I mean, look, and again,
this is this is his it's his life and his feeling,
and he has every right to live his life how
he wants to. I just think he's looking for validation

(44:10):
because I think we've probably all encountered folks in our
lives who have different situations that are limiting or complicated,
and we have to make a decision if it's something
that we want to deal with, you know, together, And
I think if the answer is yes, then you just
do it. If the answer is maybe or no, then
you start asking other people what you should do, right, Yeah,

(44:30):
because you don't know, right, you would think it would
be organic.

Speaker 5 (44:34):
I guess that's where I'm getting, Like, like what you said,
like if it's something you would you wouldn't even question it.

Speaker 1 (44:39):
It would just be something that you would accept and
like keep it moving.

Speaker 5 (44:42):
I guess that's what I That's what I mean judgment
or shade to exactly. Everyone has their preferences and what
they can deal with and what they can exactly.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
But he's calling up here, you know, looking for some feedback,
and my feedback is you're asking us because you already know.
Hey Donna, Hey Donnah. Okay, So I have to be honest.
It says on the screen, Donna in PARENTHESI has IBS.
So yes, I just you're I'm not going to call
you IBS, Donna, but you know that's what it says
on the screen, and it might forever unless we are

(45:10):
resee the part that says has IBS. So I just
want to say thank you for your freeing candid, and
we really appreciate that about you, Donna. Okay, Okay, good.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 15 (45:18):
So I have IBS and IBD.

Speaker 14 (45:21):
So I have Crown's disease as well, and.

Speaker 16 (45:24):
So it's been severe. It's a severe saying it's something.

Speaker 3 (45:27):
You have to deal with.

Speaker 17 (45:29):
But honestly, I feel like he should go for her sake.
I'm married, I've had I've been with my husband since
high school.

Speaker 3 (45:37):
He's seen it all, through everything.

Speaker 17 (45:40):
I've gone through, and he's always been supportive. So if
this dude isn't able to be supportive and it is
worried about having to find a different restaurant for a
different bathroom, that's just crazy and she honestly, she does
not he did not deserve her.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
Okay, yeah, because I want to. I hope you don't
and you can tell us, but I hope no, you
don't feel that we're true but trivializing this at all.
You know, his perspective is that this is limiting to
him and I and my thought is that he's focused
more on how this limits him than how much he
values her. And that tells me everything I need to
know about what he thinks about this relationship.

Speaker 14 (46:18):
No, yeah, exactly. I feel like a lot of people.

Speaker 17 (46:22):
I mean, I don't I don't get offended if people
minimize it or trivialize it, but I feel like a lot.

Speaker 14 (46:27):
Of people don't understand the severity of it.

Speaker 17 (46:29):
And like he was even saying, there are different levels
to it. So she might have something that's to per severe,
whereas like some people might just have a stomach ache
every once in a while, But if he's not willing to.

Speaker 14 (46:39):
Work through that or like deal that. It's really honestly,
it's really not that hard.

Speaker 17 (46:45):
Like finding a bathroom.

Speaker 14 (46:46):
It's easy.

Speaker 17 (46:48):
I look at the menus before we go anywhere, and
if it's something that I can't have, like my husband's
willing to like adapt to it.

Speaker 14 (46:56):
There's so many options. So if this is a deal
breaker or a possible deal breaker for him, he just
he should go and not even waste her time.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
There you go. Hey, Donad, thank you and thanks for
calling in for the transparency and authenticity. Appreciate that. Yeah, yeah,
you too, appreciate it. See again, like, I don't know
anything about this. So the fact that you're calling and
a lot of people are texting and you know, being
very transparent about their journey with the two, I don't.
I don't, I don't know. I've not dealt with this,
So I'd rather hear from you, is it? Reeve? Yes?

(47:25):
Ree Hey, good morning, welcome. So you heard the guy
max on waiting by the phone or excuse me on
ustre go. This guy, you know, he's been dating a
woman and she has IBS and he feels it's very
limiting to her and he's not sure if he can
do it for the rest of his life, if he
can not go to festivals in this case, and it
was an example that he used in theme parks. Apparently,
you know, it's a big problem. What do you think?

Speaker 16 (47:47):
Okay? I found it really interesting my girlfriend has chronic
health issues. So for me, like I was just hearing him,
I was like, oh wow, sounds like he's really not
ready to be in a relationship at all, because for
me to love someone is to consider them, to consider
them like always, and it just sounds like he doesn't

(48:07):
want to consider her. And it's like I can appreciate
that it's difficult or whatever, but you know, I don't know.
It sounds like he just wants someone that's like less serious,
more of a fling whatever.

Speaker 1 (48:21):
But yeah, I mean, I feel like everybody comes with
something right, and I'm not going to list things because
I'm not. I'm not equating one with another, but you know,
we all we all come with things right, and I
think we all as we're dating and meeting people, we
have to make the determination whether those things are things
that we want to deal with or we don't, and
that's our choice. And he might be missing out on
an amazing person because he feels inconvenienced. That's on him,

(48:44):
I guess. But better that he identify that and move
on and let her move on and find somebody else.
Then I suppose continue to tread water on this because
he's obviously thinking about it? What's that I said?

Speaker 16 (48:57):
Free her?

Speaker 1 (48:58):
Yeah, thank you for calling her, for listening. Have a
great day, Yeah you too. Uh Joanna, Hi, Joanna, how
are you? Hey? Good morning? So you this dude's already
got one foot on the door, you think absolutely.

Speaker 18 (49:12):
I think in two seconds of hearing his story, I'm like,
he's already at the door.

Speaker 14 (49:16):
He just wants us to tell him it's okay. Not
to be fair. As someone in my fifties and.

Speaker 18 (49:21):
Who's single, I always ask about chronic illnesses before I
get too far into it.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
Oh do you okay? So you you know a couple
of dates and you're like, hey, so what about anything
deadly going on?

Speaker 14 (49:33):
Yeah? No, kind of like if.

Speaker 18 (49:35):
They're like got a whole list of meds that they're
on and they're sick, and yeah, I don't want I
don't want to.

Speaker 14 (49:41):
Deal with that.

Speaker 1 (49:42):
Okay. I mean that, you're right. I suppose, yeah, you
got to.

Speaker 14 (49:46):
Like get into that before you fall in love with him.

Speaker 18 (49:48):
But if he's already been dating her and he's feeling
like this and he doesn't love her enough, I can't believe.

Speaker 1 (49:54):
I'm the one making this argument because I tend to
be a little sort of not cold, but unemotional about things.
You know, who's to say, Joanna, you don't fall in
love with someone who also happens to have these issues,
like you're preventing yourself from you But what is that
how love works? And I'm asking. I don't hate all people.
I don't know, but I mean, is is that how
it works? Like I can't fall in love with you

(50:16):
because you you you might die?

Speaker 18 (50:20):
Yeah, you just remove yourself from the aquaintance.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
Okay, well, I mean, hey, that's you're right. I guess
the way that I understand love would be that I
fall in love and then those are challenges that we overcome.
But maybe that's a Hallmark movie. Maybe that's something I
saw with Rebecca Remains Demos or something.

Speaker 14 (50:35):
I'm with them.

Speaker 3 (50:36):
Have you been burned by them to fall in love?

Speaker 10 (50:38):
No?

Speaker 14 (50:39):
Not at all?

Speaker 1 (50:39):
Okay, yes them again? This is her right, I mean,
fall in love with you? Now you're about that?

Speaker 13 (50:46):
That?

Speaker 1 (50:46):
Oh my god, that's terrible. That's an awful thing. That's
bad luck.

Speaker 3 (50:51):
I'm before you fall in love, she adult with already
and she don't know.

Speaker 15 (50:55):
Maybe I have.

Speaker 18 (50:56):
I have been burned, but in just like family and
personal life.

Speaker 14 (51:00):
Yeah, not so much as a partner.

Speaker 1 (51:02):
Okay, yeah, you feel like people would take it from
you or something. No, there's always more to the story here.
I appreciate you calling. You have a good day. You know,
I can understand that. You know, you fall in love,
you felt like somebodyho's taken from you early, and or
you felt I don't know, like so you were shorted
in some way, and then you don't want to deal
with that again, so you sort of block that. You
prevent that from happening in your life.

Speaker 4 (51:23):
Because like, if you have been a caretaker, it's a lot,
and so maybe people would be a little gunshy about
going into that situation again.

Speaker 1 (51:31):
My mom loves my dad deeply, Like they have a
wonderful thirty five years. They've been through ups and downs
and whatever. But my mom would tell you in front
of him, he's twelve or twelve years older than she is.
And now you know that she's her age and he's
his age. She would tell you if she had to
do over again, she wouldn't choose somebody who's that much
older because she's having just sort of you know, everyone's

(51:53):
getting older now, and it's happening for him faster because
he's older. Again, this is no slam on him, and
she's not slamming. And when she's saying, but you know,
when people look back on life, I think it's like, well,
I probably would have chosen someone my age or younger
even I mean, that's not how love works. I guess
It's the point I was making to her is you
fall in love with who you fall in love with.
But you know, odds are she's going to be present

(52:15):
for his aging process before hers, and that's hard to watch. Yeah,
So I I see what she's saying. It just sounds
a little harsh. Hi Jenna, Hi, Hi, good morning. So
you you've been in this situation before I have.

Speaker 3 (52:33):
Yeah, and I.

Speaker 15 (52:35):
Actually feel like such a horrible person with what I'm
going to say after hal of the No, nobody.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
Should feel like a horrible person, like, yeah, this might
be one of our last yays, you know, for one
reason or another. Either the raptures coming from one place
or it's coming from another, I don't know. But no,
I mean, look, I wanted to be really clear here.
Like this guy called he was transparent. People are calling
they're being honest. Everyone's entitled to whatever their limitations are

(53:02):
or however they want to live their lives. And even
if it doesn't sound good, I never want to make
anyone feel bad. Well I shouldn't say anyone. Occasionally I
want to make you feel bad for being a moron,
but not you gonna go ahead.

Speaker 15 (53:14):
Yeah, So, I mean so I definitely feel like after
what I was listening to, like love is not enough
all the time, and like there's so many different fish
in the sea, and there's so many different situations that
fit for different people. So for me, you know, like
I mean i'm a single mom, I'm dating, and I

(53:36):
don't know, I'm a foodie, Like I love going out
to restaurants and eating like all different types of food.
And like the guy who you know, I was just
went on some dates with he could only eat like
chicken fingers and mazrostics, and you know, like I just
don't know if that's what I want for the rest

(53:56):
of my life. And I think that it's okay to
be like, no, that's just.

Speaker 11 (54:02):
Not what I want.

Speaker 15 (54:04):
Yeah, his stuff was limiting, and I mean I didn't
take it, like I kind of cut it off at
the beginning because I knew that wasn't right for me.
But I don't know.

Speaker 5 (54:15):
Just.

Speaker 15 (54:15):
I mean, I think he is looking for validation, so
I want to validate him, and just being like, if
this doesn't work for your lifestyle, just that's okay, Like
there is going to be somebody else who works for
her lifestyle and your lifestyle and for me, just the
fact that he could only eat off the kid's menu, you.

Speaker 1 (54:30):
Know, Just and Jenna, I don't I'm not putting I
said this earlier, I'll say it again and people still
won't hear it. But I'm not. I'm not putting all
these things on the same level, Like it's different health
versus versus lifestyle versus whatever. I'm not saying these are
all the same. But how how would you feel? And
I'm sure it's happened to you where you've met men

(54:50):
since you're dating and you're a single mom who has said, Hey,
I don't I don't necessarily I like you, but I
don't necessarily want what comes with your obligation as a parent.
I mean, how does that make you feel? Because because
you're sort of saying the same thing.

Speaker 15 (55:04):
Thank you so much for just letting me know, because
I get it, you know, like I want someone who
wants all of those things. But just like the girl
who I was just listening to, like, yeah, maybe prerequisites
are smart, especially when you're like a little bit older.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
So you're not being a hypocrite about this, Jenna, You're
being You're open minded about the fact that people need
different things for their lives.

Speaker 15 (55:27):
Yeah, one hundred percent, you know, And I would much
rather someone be like, listen, I like you who you are,
but I'm not ready to, you know, step in and
for me.

Speaker 19 (55:38):
Listen.

Speaker 15 (55:39):
I've got a great situation, you know, So I'm not
looking for some of this step and being dad. But
I one hundred percent like that comes with you know stuff,
So I am much more Just let me know, because again,
there are just too many.

Speaker 14 (55:52):
Fish in the sea.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
Because you know, I think about this as a single
guy in my in my mid forties. It's like, I'm
probably not having kids of my own. The demographic, there's
a demographic of people that I would date who had
been married and have kids. And I think about that, like,
I'm not opposed to one or the other. I was
that kid, right I was adopted. I was that kid
At one point my dad chows to marry my mom

(56:13):
and then take us all in as his family and
treat us as his own. So, I mean, I've been
through this, but I think about it, like my life
would change drastically if I fell in love with someone
who had a kid, But like, would I limit myself
from falling in love with that person? I would like
to believe no, But I mean if I married or
dated somebody or was with someone as a partner who didn't,
then my life looks completely different. So I don't know

(56:34):
it's right. But am I a bad person if I
choose not to date the person with a kid? And
I don't think I'm a bad person, but I mean,
you say it out loud, it kind of sounds bad,
but listen, no, I mean we all have choices, right yea, Jenna,
thank you. I appreciate you. Have a good day you too.
Oh oh okay, I misread that someone said. I thought

(56:58):
I said my wife has cancer, I'm leaving her. Oh no,
it was what if she gets cancer? Will he leave her?
Is what it says. I misread that. I was like, oh,
oh my, we're taking this call so like destroy this
human being. But I'm not going. I don't have to
because is that what it said?

Speaker 3 (57:11):
Perfect?

Speaker 4 (57:12):
I think the difference is like, this guy is getting
into something knowing what comes with this person. And if
you are in love with someone in marriage to them
for years and they get cancer, it's a different story.

Speaker 3 (57:23):
And I agree with the last caller. Love is not
always enough.

Speaker 4 (57:26):
You can have love, but there can be a lot
of things that come with a person that it just
doesn't work for long term.

Speaker 3 (57:32):
And that's also okay.

Speaker 11 (57:33):
You know, Calin's entertainer reports on the Press show.

Speaker 4 (57:38):
After struggling to turn a profit, the Sphere in Las
Vegas might have found its savior, the Wizard of Oz.
So if you have not heard about this, Jason just
got back from Vegas said, it's all everyone is talking
about freaking out. Yes, but the Wizard of Oz at
the Sphere is a one hundred million dollars Google AI
generated or enhanced version of the ninety thirty nine classic,

(58:01):
formatted to the venues one hundred and sixty thousand square
foot projection space. And they've been selling as much as
like two million in tickets each each day since opening
in August, and it's actually expected to take in more
than one billion over a run expected to last years.
And I think I heard tickets are somewhere around like
two hundred something.

Speaker 3 (58:20):
Did you hear that?

Speaker 1 (58:21):
I think so, yeah, I'm going to pay two hundred
bucks to watch a Wizard of Oz.

Speaker 3 (58:24):
To watch the Wizard of Oz.

Speaker 4 (58:26):
People are raving about it, Like I said, This Sphere,
the two point three billion dollars sphere, the brainchild of
billionaire James Dolan, has yet to reach a profit since
opening two years ago.

Speaker 3 (58:37):
This month, I think it is our next month.

Speaker 4 (58:39):
But the success of The Wizard of Oz, which debuted
on August twenty eighth, might give the sphere.

Speaker 3 (58:44):
It's yellow brick road to financial stability.

Speaker 4 (58:47):
But the venue reported an operating loss of eighty three
point four million in the last quarter. So yes, people
are raving about the literal movie that we've all already seen.

Speaker 1 (58:56):
I want to go to the Sphere in the worst way,
but I don't think it's for that.

Speaker 5 (58:59):
Yeah, I guess it's like all like I don't know
what it's called, like encompassing, Like there's like wind when
there's like the tornado thing that's like sent like all
yourselves is like apples fall like during like that part,
and people are like selling the apples for like fifteen
thousand dollars like on eBay or whatever, like because they
don't know if they're going to keep doing that or
not complaining about it. But like it's like they're supposed

(59:20):
to be all all your senses are supposed to be.

Speaker 4 (59:21):
Like wrap out of me, you know, off, go me
in an apple fell on my head.

Speaker 3 (59:29):
But yeah, people are raving about a movie. Have you
seen The Wizard of Us?

Speaker 2 (59:31):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (59:32):
I have seen that. Goodness.

Speaker 4 (59:33):
Yeah, Okay, So a process server got arrested while trying
to serve miss Taylor Swift deposition papers from Justin Beldoni's
legal team at Travis Kelsey's house. So this, I guess
went down earlier this month, but we're just hearing about
it now. A man named Justin Lee Fisher got busted
at the NFL Stars House in Kansas. According to documents,
he was charged with jumping the fence onto a private

(59:55):
residence in a private neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (59:58):
I can speak.

Speaker 4 (59:58):
He was arrested around two am September fifteenth. Remember she
got dragged into the whold Blake Lively. Just In Baldoni
Drama and his side filed these documents claiming that Taylor
was set to give a deposition and was available to
do so at the end of October, but they were
late on it and she is not doing that, and
this server got arrested, so there was a whole scene

(01:00:19):
going down at his house.

Speaker 1 (01:00:21):
Do we have time?

Speaker 3 (01:00:22):
We have time for one more? Okay and really quick?

Speaker 4 (01:00:24):
Sean Dittycombs P Diddy has asked the court to consider
his time that he's already spent in custody since September
as enough punishment for his conviction under the Man Act,
which is transporting people across state lines for prostitution.

Speaker 3 (01:00:37):
His lawyers argue that.

Speaker 4 (01:00:38):
He's already served over a year in jail time, his
reputation is ruined, and it would be fair to release
him immediately at his sentencing on October third. Although he
was acquitted of the serious charges, he is still convicted
under two lesser counts and he could serve up to
years in prison. But they want them to consider the
time he has already served. But remember, he's been locked

(01:00:58):
up because people felt that he was dangerous. So I
don't know if the judge is going to go for this,
but I have to give it to them because they
are creative. By the way, if you want to see
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It's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes
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I'm probably one of the thirteen listeners.

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We only have thirteens to welcome. It's amazing to have you.
Five questions against show Bich. Shelley are pop culture expert.
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Question number one, which Spider Man actor was briefly hospitalized
after getting a concussion on set, Lebron James Lebron Jurams
joke that he's broke compared to what people online think

(01:02:27):
he makes. What NBA team does he currently play for?

Speaker 20 (01:02:34):
To one?

Speaker 1 (01:02:36):
I don't know, which former One directioner ran the Berlin
Marathon and beat his personal record on Sunday Show off
Harry Styles speaking of One Direction, which former band member
announced a mini Vegas residency yesterday, and which TGIF and
let Her Cook Wrapper brought the house down in Vegas

(01:02:58):
during Night two of the iHeartRadio Music Festival over the weekend.

Speaker 21 (01:03:02):
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We'll see, Shelley.

Speaker 3 (01:03:09):
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Trace?

Speaker 3 (01:03:12):
Chris?

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I did you know in college?

Speaker 1 (01:03:18):
But yes, yes, Which Spider Man actor was briefly hospitalized
after getting a concussion on set, Tom Holland, Yeah, Lebron
James said he joked actually that he's broke compared to
what people online think he makes. What NBA team does
he currently play for?

Speaker 3 (01:03:34):
The Lakers?

Speaker 1 (01:03:34):
Which former One Direction ran the Berlin Marathon and beat
his personal record on Sunday hair Styles. Yeah, yeah, he did.
Speaking of one direction, which former band member announced the
Mini Vegas residency yesterday Ze Mountain Yeah, and which TGIF
and let Her Cook Wrapper brought down the house in
Vegas during night two of the iHeartRadio Music Festival over
the weekend.

Speaker 3 (01:03:57):
Three two.

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Jason Brown. The answer is Jason Brown. With Jason Brown,
he brought the house down.

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is a win. Samantha. You have to say, my name
is Samantha, I got showed up on a showdown, and
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hang on a second. Thank you for being part of
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we only have thirteen, so you have to be two
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have a good day you too. We'll see you tomorrow.
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Speaker 1 (01:05:28):
Okay, good morning everyone. It's Tuesday, September twenty third, The
Fred Show. He is not Hi, Kaitlin, No Hi, Jason Brown,
Hilin shoe by Shelley is here? Bellahamen as well. Waiting
by the phone from the Hall of Fame. Why does
somebody get ghosted? That is next Headlines the Biggest Stories
of the day, The Fun Fact, He's about relationships, and

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the Entertainment Report. This hour too, What are you working on?

Speaker 3 (01:05:50):
K I have to play you guys.

Speaker 4 (01:05:52):
Pink's daughter covering one of her songs good.

Speaker 3 (01:05:57):
Yeah, called the Cleanup.

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
Do you think I'm gonna cry? It's gonna take take
a whole lot more to pick though. I'll tell you
that right now, I've.

Speaker 11 (01:06:06):
Ever been left waiting by the phone.

Speaker 1 (01:06:10):
It's the Fred Show asking, good morning, welcome to the show.
How are you good for you doing great? Man? What's
going on with this woman Anastasia? We got to hear
how you met, about any dates you've been on, and
then kind of where things are now and how we
can help you.

Speaker 22 (01:06:24):
Yeah, so I met her on this app, like a
dating app.

Speaker 1 (01:06:29):
Okay, I'm vaguely familiar with those. Yeah, I've been been
known to, you know, frequent, but anyway, yeah, okay, so
on an app you met her? Then what?

Speaker 22 (01:06:38):
Yeah, we went to a like a coffee place and
then we got some food later.

Speaker 1 (01:06:46):
The date was pretty nice. I was really into her.
I thought it went well.

Speaker 22 (01:06:50):
I thought she had a good time too, because we
good good night and goodbye. But now she's ghosting me,
so I don't know why.

Speaker 1 (01:07:00):
All right, Well that's where we come in. Of course,
we're gonna call Anastasia, get her on the phone if
we can. We're gonna ask these questions on your behalf,
and the hope is always is that we can straighten
us out and set you up on another date, and yeah,
let's call Anastasia. This is the woe. When you met
on one of the apps, she went on a nice
coffee date. You thought everything went really well. You're a

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little confused, though, because you've reached out to her to
plan another date and she has not responded to you
at all, and you want to know why. Yep, that
sounds right. Okay, well, let's call her now. Good luck.
He Hi, is this Anastasia? It is Hi, good morning.

(01:07:43):
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I do have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which have for just
a second, would you mind?

Speaker 19 (01:07:54):
I guess I have time. What's up?

Speaker 1 (01:07:56):
Well, thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of
a dude day Ash and he says he met you
on a dating app and you, guys went on a
coffee date recently. Do you remember him?

Speaker 14 (01:08:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 21 (01:08:06):
I remember, And I'm really be honest, I'm not sure
I'm actually comfortable being on the radio talking about this anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
Oh well, you can hang up any time, I mean,
if you want to, but we'd love to get the
story because he reached out to us and he says
that he thought the date went really well and he
liked you, except he is confused, he says, because he
can't get a hold of you. So I mean, you
can tell us and then we'll tell him, and then
you know, this whole thing can be over.

Speaker 21 (01:08:29):
I guess yeah, okay, well, I mean I guess you're right.
It's very this is very awkward, but I guess nothing
illegal happened.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
So sure.

Speaker 21 (01:08:39):
Yeah, Ashton and I met on We met on Bumble
and we were like flirting and stuff, and he asked
me out for coffee and at the time he said
it's because oh, I'm taking a break from drinking, right okay.

Speaker 19 (01:08:51):
Which is no, that's like, no problem. I don't need
to go out and drink.

Speaker 1 (01:08:55):
So I was going to ask that question too about
the coffee, like does he not drink or was he
not drinking or you know who knows? Yeah, but anyway,
so he's taking a break.

Speaker 19 (01:09:03):
Yeah, I mean that's what he told me, And yeah,
that's great. I support that, So totally fine.

Speaker 11 (01:09:09):
We go.

Speaker 19 (01:09:10):
We had ooh, we got the coffee. We walked in
my car, and you gave me a case before saying goodbye,
and everything was fine, but I don't know, my sixth
cents kind of went off and things took a turn. Basically.
I know. It's weird that I did some creeping on
him on social and I found his.

Speaker 21 (01:09:29):
Facebook with his photo, but it said he was much
younger than.

Speaker 19 (01:09:35):
What he told me.

Speaker 1 (01:09:36):
I mean, how much younger, like you're going to jail
younger or you know, no.

Speaker 21 (01:09:40):
But I have some friends who are cops and I
reached out to them and they told me that he's twenty.

Speaker 1 (01:09:46):
Oh. Also we all wow, so we like did a
background check on the guy. Okay, so he's twenty. I
mean he's twenty years old. And how old are you?
I'm thirty four, okay, And how old did he tell
you he was?

Speaker 21 (01:10:00):
He didn't exactly say, And I guess that's kind of
like what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (01:10:04):
I mean the whole like, oh, I'm taking a break
from drinking.

Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
Now, spent a tying on your break. Actually he's take
it because he right, not legally right, he can't he
can't physically buy a drink. Okay, wow.

Speaker 21 (01:10:15):
I and my bumble profile says that my age range
is thirty to fifty.

Speaker 19 (01:10:20):
So it means in order for us to have matched
up on bumble, he.

Speaker 3 (01:10:23):
Had to have lied.

Speaker 1 (01:10:24):
Oh so he consciously said his age older. Okay, Now
this isn't against the law. He's over eighteen, he's an adult.
I mean, it's not like you did anything wrong. But
I can also understand that you.

Speaker 3 (01:10:33):
Like I kissed the boy.

Speaker 1 (01:10:35):
Yeah, well you know I could have babyshat this kid. Yeah,
I mean you were you were fourteen years old, you were,
you know, a woman, presumably when he was born. Let
me bring I forgot to mention that Ashton is here,
and I'm very forgetful, and I apologize for that. Ashton,
how old are you? I'm twenty, okay, And and you're
purporting to be much older than that to match with

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older women, which I must say is a genius move. Yes,
that's a that's a pro that's a pro level move.
I'll be honest. It's very very creative. And if you
know you you were indeed taking a break from drinking
because you can't. So there's but also if I had
to do over again when I was twenty, I would

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have been dating much older women to In fact, if
you've been listening for a while. You know, I did
have a transformational story when I was around twenty one
and I went out with someone significantly older. Now, I
did not lie about my she knew. If anything, I
think she lied about hers among other things. But anyway,
that was a transformational experience for me. And I can

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see why you might want to do this. But what
were you going to do when you eventually had to
tell her how old you were?

Speaker 22 (01:11:45):
Oh, honestly, I didn't really think that far ahead, obviously,
but shocking I would have.

Speaker 1 (01:11:54):
I would have. I would have been honest about it,
and hopefully that did Mom. Forget to put your cell
phone bill. I mean, what's what's going on here? Like
if you're breaking up a whole bit, Anastasia. So you kiss,
you kiss a twenty year old you're thirty four? I
mean I can see that age.

Speaker 3 (01:12:12):
No, you, when someone's twenty, I think.

Speaker 1 (01:12:17):
There's nothing wrong with it. I think that I think
that the person needs to not pretend to be ten
plus years older. I think it's obviously very dishonest. That's
the line for me, right, And so I don't think
he's anything. And you could go out with a much
younger man if you chose to, And he can go
out with a much older woman if he chooses to.
But I think it's the dishonesty. It's the lack of
transparency that's the issue here, right, I mean, that's.

Speaker 14 (01:12:39):
The reason he'll never see me again.

Speaker 21 (01:12:41):
But like I mean, to each their own. I'm not
bashing people who date people that are much.

Speaker 19 (01:12:46):
Younger than them.

Speaker 21 (01:12:47):
But I was pretty upfront that it's not for me,
and then he like circumvented.

Speaker 19 (01:12:52):
The system so that he could slip through the cracks anyway.
You no, never again.

Speaker 1 (01:12:56):
So it was it was intentionally, it was manipulative, It
was intentionally dishonest because he knew, he knows that most
thirty four year old women are not going to go
out with a twenty year old man. Most, I want
to say all but most, And so you would never
have accepted a date with him if you had known
that he was twenty.

Speaker 19 (01:13:11):
No, I mean, there'd be no point.

Speaker 21 (01:13:12):
We're not even on the same playing field, like mentally,
life wise, it's.

Speaker 1 (01:13:17):
True to talk about I think it's fair to say
that's not a diss that's just the facts exactly. Ashton.
How often has this worked for you and do you
ever get caught weld was really my first time? No
you car Man, Yeah yeah, I don't know, but hey,
I will say the whole takeing a break from drinking, Well,

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it's multi fascinating because not only is it's it's smooth,
but it's highly dishonest, like you know what you're doing,
like you know that you're lying to these women. You're
not being deceptive, you're being dishonest.

Speaker 22 (01:13:50):
Yeah, yeah, you know.

Speaker 21 (01:13:54):
I'm glad I took this call now because I hope
you learned a lesson today, Ashton.

Speaker 1 (01:13:59):
It's giving, like, yeah, maybe maybe this is what he's
into actually, like, yeah, you're going you're going to bet
without dinner to night, asker and I'll tell you what. Boy, Yeah,
you've been, you've been, you've been. Okay, wait a minute,
this is turning into okay anyway, so ana stage. I mean,

(01:14:21):
I have to ask the question. It's my job. I
know the answer. Would you like to go out with
him again? We'll pay for it, perhaps with nice chuck
e cheese or something. I don't know, Oh my god,
McDonald's with a place.

Speaker 4 (01:14:36):
I feel if I kiss a twenty year old, I
would be like I would feel like.

Speaker 3 (01:14:40):
I guess a child. Yeah, I mean, let's just be clear.

Speaker 1 (01:14:45):
He obviously looked old enough to her, and he obviously
she was obviously into it. There's nothing wrong with this,
It's just it's a lie. She didn't This is not illegal.
It's a lie that I would have an issue with,
and it would also make me wonder what else are
you not telling me? How in what other ways you're
being deceptive? But I mean, and you didn't let me
ask you this, Anastasia. You couldn't tell that he was
fourteen years younger.

Speaker 21 (01:15:05):
I mean, I wasn't going to say it, but maybe
work on your skincare regimen, Ashton.

Speaker 19 (01:15:09):
Oh like you pulled it off, but it's not a
good thing.

Speaker 1 (01:15:14):
Oh wait, so now okay, so now you can kiss
the pimplely kid like I don't know, I'm confused. I'm confused.
I'm trying to give you the benefit of doubt here.
And then you look like a very mature twenty year old.

Speaker 3 (01:15:25):
And that's how they say he had.

Speaker 19 (01:15:26):
He had a beard, So like that helps too.

Speaker 21 (01:15:29):
I've seen sixteen year olds with a full beard and
they can they can pull it off.

Speaker 1 (01:15:33):
Well, I couldn't bring bed at twenty, so you know,
he says, well ahead of me. I guess I still can't.
All right, Look, so no for a second date, Ashton. Look,
I bet you there are people who would be into
it if you just told the truth. Maybe not as
many as you'd like, but you're good. The problem with
these kind of lies is eventually you're going to have
to tell the truth and then you have a problem.

(01:15:55):
So why not just tell the truth from the beginning? Yeah, well,
definitely doing that more. He should start doing that more. Yeah,
I would recommend it. Okay, a stage up, Storry, this
happened to you. Good luck to you. Thank you for
answering as shouldn't tell the truth. Good luck to you
as well.

Speaker 3 (01:16:11):
Love your show.

Speaker 11 (01:16:12):
Cawen's Entertainment report. He's on the Bread Show.

Speaker 4 (01:16:16):
The following Carti B's recent announcement that she's expecting a
child with NFL wide receiver Stefan Diggs, OnlyFans creator Britney
Jones says that he cheated.

Speaker 3 (01:16:25):
On Carti with her.

Speaker 4 (01:16:27):
She even shared some alleged screenshots on social that are
now going viral. Of course, she wrote guess I'm the
baby daddy snatcher, accompanied by a screen recording of what
appears to show Steffan sending over two thousand dollars via
direct message on Twitter.

Speaker 3 (01:16:42):
Now Britney is not.

Speaker 4 (01:16:43):
The only woman who filed a or I'm sorry, she's
not the woman who filed a paternity suit back in
December for Steffan. But Carti jokingly responded to her on
Instagram saying that's our baby daddy.

Speaker 3 (01:16:58):
Now we're going to work it out, which made me
chuck and happier.

Speaker 4 (01:17:00):
Cardi news she is set to headline the Global Citizen
Fest in New York on Saturday, September twenty seventh this Weekend,
I believe, replacing the Weekend who with Drew Judo personal reasons.
The festival, held annually in Central Park, aims to address
global issues like extreme poverty, education, and climate change.

Speaker 3 (01:17:20):
Now, joining Cardi on the lineup is pretty lit.

Speaker 4 (01:17:23):
It's Shakira, Tyla, Maria the Scientist and more, and the
event will be hosted by Hugh Jackman and co hosted
by Bill Nye to Adam Lambert and Moore.

Speaker 3 (01:17:33):
So this is a real motley crew handling this.

Speaker 4 (01:17:36):
Yeah, it's really cool And you can earn free tickets
by taking action through the Global Citizen app, which involves
participating in advocacy efforts like signing petitions, also contacting officials,
and the festival will also be live streamed on the
free iHeartRadio app. By the way, and also yesterday, And
this is not an ad at all, but I was
scrolling through door dash and I saw that they set

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up a Cardi b bodega storefront where you can directly
buy her new album am I the Drama, along with
a couple other like snackis or whatever directly on door Dash.

Speaker 3 (01:18:06):
I thought that was pretty cute.

Speaker 1 (01:18:08):
I love it.

Speaker 21 (01:18:09):
She is.

Speaker 4 (01:18:09):
And she's also doing the classic like she's from New
York of course, so she's doing the classic.

Speaker 3 (01:18:13):
Selling her albums on the street.

Speaker 4 (01:18:15):
You know, Okay, I can't pay my rent if you
don't buy this album, which is actually a pretty cute
and funny roll out.

Speaker 3 (01:18:20):
I haven't seen anyone do that. She's cute. Yeah, hey,
I bought one worked on me. Do you like it?

Speaker 1 (01:18:24):
I love it. I got this Kiky shirt from door dash.

Speaker 3 (01:18:27):
You, oh yeah, we need a Kiky bodega.

Speaker 13 (01:18:30):
We do.

Speaker 1 (01:18:32):
He Kiki shirt and then Taco Bell same thing, same time.
It was cool.

Speaker 3 (01:18:37):
That's awesome. That's efficiency right there.

Speaker 4 (01:18:39):
Speaking of Hugh Jacksman, Jack okay, hold on speaking of Huge.

Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
No, start over again, it's good Jacksman.

Speaker 3 (01:18:46):
Speaking of Huge Jacks, I've.

Speaker 1 (01:18:48):
Seen his work before. It's a different that's a whole
different person.

Speaker 3 (01:18:50):
No, don't look him up. He was for some reason
on stage with Pink.

Speaker 4 (01:18:54):
Actually, of course he was, but also joined by her daughter, Willow,
and Willow Pink to tears. Her mom did tears by
covering one of her songs. Here listen, Well that's pretty good.

(01:19:23):
How does she twelve? Willow is fourteen?

Speaker 23 (01:19:32):
Both of them, Wow, that's pretty darn good.

Speaker 3 (01:19:44):
That's really good.

Speaker 1 (01:19:44):
So good. Yeah, honestly sweet too.

Speaker 3 (01:19:47):
Oh, I love it. It was really sweet.

Speaker 4 (01:19:50):
Yeah, like I said, fourteen and also the daughter of
Carrie Hart, Pink's long term husband.

Speaker 3 (01:19:55):
But that was amazing.

Speaker 4 (01:19:57):
I mean, to have Pink have a good voice and
then your daughter has and she's covering a song with you.
I cannot imagine how that feels, or like how Beyonce
feels when her daughters join her on stage. But I
don't know if they can sing. I just know they.

Speaker 3 (01:20:10):
I mean Kelly Clarkson's son, I think it was one.

Speaker 4 (01:20:12):
Yeah, Frank Sinatra, Yeah, yeah, I love when I see
that stuff. By the way, if you miss any part
of our show you want to catch up, type The
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Speaker 11 (01:20:25):
The Fread Show is on Fred's Fun. Fact, Fred fund.

Speaker 1 (01:20:36):
You so much? Guys? Did you know? And this? It
seems obvious, but maybe people need to hear this, need
to hear me say it out loud. But studies indicate
that negative emotions lead to lower immune responses against diseases,
and staying in a negative relationship can lower your immune system.

(01:20:57):
Other studies support this by stating that stress and emotions
can adversely affect your immune system. So today's fun fat
not so fun. But you may maybe somebody out there
needs to hear me say it because I think we've
all probably experienced this before. Staying in a negative relationship
can lower your immune system and make you sick.

Speaker 3 (01:21:19):
Y's sick of someone's dusty son is making you sick?

Speaker 1 (01:21:22):
Who's that boor daughter.

Speaker 2 (01:21:25):
Show? Next?

Speaker 11 (01:21:27):
Yeah, they talk better than the excited. These are the
radio blogs on The Fresh Show, like you're writing in
our diaries, except we say them aloud.

Speaker 1 (01:21:35):
We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, you've got one go.

Speaker 9 (01:21:38):
Thank you so much, dear blog. We've discussed this when
my baby Gigi was born. She is a year and
a half years old today as I speak at this moment,
and I'm revisiting something because it's really bothering me.

Speaker 3 (01:21:49):
And I really really really want to get my baby's
ears pierced.

Speaker 9 (01:21:53):
Okay, I've had my ears piers when I came out
of the womb, like I think I was three days
old when I.

Speaker 3 (01:21:57):
Got my ears piers.

Speaker 1 (01:21:58):
You can't pre installed.

Speaker 9 (01:21:59):
Pretty um, yeah, Martha made sure that was like a
part of the package when you get to like select
your baby and stuff and like yeah, when I come
with yeah, that was that was the thing I can
when you build it, yeah a bear Tesla, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:22:09):
Build a bear La Tesla, build your baby.

Speaker 9 (01:22:11):
So like I love my ear spirits, my mom says
I didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:22:15):
I don't believe that's because, yes.

Speaker 9 (01:22:16):
I know, sometimes when the baby's changing out of like
a onesie or something, or you're changing your baby's clothes,
sometimes the earrings get caught in the clothing.

Speaker 3 (01:22:24):
I understand these things happen. I will be very careful.

Speaker 9 (01:22:27):
I wouldn't be reckless with my baby's ears. I'm very aware,
but I feel i'm demir.

Speaker 3 (01:22:32):
But my thing is.

Speaker 9 (01:22:34):
That I'm not releasing eye to eye with my baby's father,
baby daddy, husband, Javier.

Speaker 3 (01:22:40):
I'm mad, so I call him baby's father.

Speaker 1 (01:22:42):
Yes, I love how the last thing that you call
him as your husband because.

Speaker 3 (01:22:45):
I'm mad right now.

Speaker 1 (01:22:46):
Husband, I'm very upset, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:22:49):
So we are budding hens right now.

Speaker 9 (01:22:51):
We are not well because I want to do when
he doesn't, and I don't understand why, like you get me.
I'm just I'm just why, Like I had mine peers
like a lot of people do, like my mom's polish way.
I'm not polish. Like that's like a thing that we do.
It's very common to in Hispanic culture. My baby seventy
five percent of Mexican, like, let's do this, like this
is like a baptism of its own.

Speaker 3 (01:23:12):
And he won't let me.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
The belly button is weird. I think that you want
that too.

Speaker 3 (01:23:16):
I was thinking more of her nose.

Speaker 1 (01:23:18):
I think that's strange. The ears are one thing I'll
connected to the belly button. That's weird. With the chain,
you know, I think that's strange. Oh too soon, Yeah,
I think more. It's like a five or six year
old thing to do.

Speaker 3 (01:23:31):
Yeah, well wait, well wait, you do go through that.

Speaker 4 (01:23:34):
Make sure that you like where the dots on her
tiny little ears are because my best friend, God love her,
got it done where her family's from in Mexico where
they live, and she did not like the placement.

Speaker 3 (01:23:44):
So our little goo kaya got three holes in her
ears instead.

Speaker 4 (01:23:47):
You're kidding, Yeah, she was like, can you readjust so
make sure that we figure out she does.

Speaker 3 (01:23:56):
And she's fine.

Speaker 4 (01:23:56):
Their babies, they're resilient, but you got to make sure
that they you like where they put it.

Speaker 9 (01:24:00):
What is the objection? Like, what is his issue? I
really don't know. It's just that he just doesn't want media.
We don't need to do this, and I think we
absolutely need to do this. She's my little daughter, my
little angel, and I want to get our little ear rings.
She's already got the gold earrings, the little gold hoops,
she got them all like I love gold, so I
want her to wear it.

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
Without his blessing.

Speaker 9 (01:24:23):
Okay, so his mother and I are on the same page.
You know, we do hang out often. There might be
a day where we're just out and about. We'll just
walk into a Clare's or maybe not Claire walk into
the pediatric's office and you want to go pediatrician.

Speaker 3 (01:24:39):
They can.

Speaker 9 (01:24:40):
We'll just happen to stroll by, you know, for a walk,
and we'll go to the doctor planned. It might be,
there might be some planning. I really want to do it,
but I know it's not the right thing to do.
Me and Hobby we have a very honest relationship. We're
very much on the same page about everything. Not always
like mentally, but we come to you're very much not
a I have a good relationship, but you're right because

(01:25:03):
we meet each other halfway and I'll give us that.
You know, we're really good at that part. I don't
know this one. I gotta win this one. Like I
don't win much in my marriage. I'm gonna be very honest,
I don't win much. This is what I need to win.

Speaker 1 (01:25:14):
So you're you're just gonna go do it.

Speaker 3 (01:25:16):
I'm thinking about it.

Speaker 9 (01:25:17):
Yeah, everybody's on my side, But but why now, Like
why do we have to do it now if he
has an objection? Because I would have done it like
a year and a half ago. But now I'm revisiting this.
I'm seeing all her little ear rings and I'm like well,
she has them. They were gifted, you were.

Speaker 1 (01:25:31):
She was traumatic now and probably less traumatic now than
when you're you know, thirteen years old.

Speaker 3 (01:25:36):
I remember mine and I was fine. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:25:39):
I mean, I know it's no I did it with
a gun and it was completely fine.

Speaker 3 (01:25:44):
But I don't know. I mean, I I see both sides.

Speaker 4 (01:25:46):
I see people being able to wait and let the
child make the choice.

Speaker 3 (01:25:50):
And I also know it's a cultural thing. But poor
Hobby is gonna yeah, yeah, it's not gonna be great.

Speaker 7 (01:25:55):
Well tell me, like, hey, I could be taken her
to go get a tattoo.

Speaker 3 (01:25:59):
I cannot say every audience like I could be worse.
It couldn't be cracked. We're gonna get your spears. I mean,
come on, look at the bright side.

Speaker 1 (01:26:07):
We could be going to Vegas. Yes, get hammered and
gamble all your money away. Actually, he'd probably be into that,
that you're going to Vegas.

Speaker 2 (01:26:15):
Really