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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:39):
This Morning show.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
Do we have a thief in our midst again? First,
there is there a thief. There are people coming in
our house on the weekends stealing our things. Can you
hear me? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (00:53):
Sure, I'm say to your lips, guys, I don't know
someone in my headphones.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
I'm very upset. Let's have some headphone like tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
Man, Paulina. People are stealing from you.

Speaker 4 (01:04):
I'm putting a camera in here and it's not a joke,
that's that's that's a promise, not a threat.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
And they put a ring camera in our studio. Yes,
album who's stealing.

Speaker 4 (01:13):
My daughter's nanet camera? Every camera? You think there you
go for what nose the nanet? Oh that's the.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
One that we use.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
Like are your minds with the breathing, it's.

Speaker 5 (01:20):
Great to the breathing of the of the steeler.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
Yeah, the stealer, person who's taking our things? I'm so mad?
Morning everyone, Monday, October sixth Fred shows Hi, Kaitlin, good morning, Hi,
Jason Brown, Paulina, can you hear me here? A good high? Kiki?
Are you going June? They are?

Speaker 4 (01:40):
But I think I stolen myself.

Speaker 6 (01:43):
I hope they somewhere not in Crete, Illinois.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Oh no, no, boy, Mela means here in the front
of the text. Show b Shelley is here as well,
and she has money in the showdown this morning. Oh
she us on Friday. That's right. A hundred bucks is surprise,
no wind streak. Will you hand her lost number seventy five?
She's never lost to in a row? One hundred bucks?

(02:09):
That's what you can win. Waiting by the phone he's
doing this morning. Why does somebody get ghosted? But else
we do? On Mondays? What is Mondays? I don't know?
Oh that's right. Kiki's core evident of coffee at this morning.
Someone stole my coffee. He's going but a bump girl?

Speaker 4 (02:25):
Are you working or flirting?

Speaker 1 (02:28):
We'll get to headlines. We'll get to the entertamber report
and blogs this hour, guys, the latest dating trend. I'm
here for you. I want you to know what it is. Okay,
Each day I find these for you so you can
be on the pulse. What's happening in the dating world.
The zip coding This is a wild one. There's a
new dating discording to the USA today which I didn't

(02:50):
realize they printed that anymore. With you, but I don't
if they do. Maybe it's just on the internet. A
new dating trend called zip coding, where people look for
dates close to their own ZIP code. Isn't that called
convenience right?

Speaker 4 (03:02):
Normal?

Speaker 7 (03:03):
Right?

Speaker 1 (03:04):
As opposed to what like trying to find someone who
lives as far away as possible. I don't know if
that's a trend. I'm not sure. The idea is that
dating nearby makes it easier to meet in person and
share local experiences. This is a real article in the USA.
Maybe that's why I don't print it anymore, or I
can't find him. It can help build a sense of
community and convenience.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
I here me is the researcher because I could do
this and probably maybe a little bit better.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
But it might also limit your options since you're only
looking close to home. Basically, it's about dating local, but
you shouldn't ignore potential matches farther away. Thank you for that.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
Are straight people dating apps like Grinder where like it
gives you, oh, this person is two miles away.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Oh yeah, half a mile away, not quite like that.
You set your range and then you get people somewhere
that I've not seen a dating app where a dating app,
I'm not tating app where it gives you like actual
location right now? Oh okay, yeah, Grinder does it does.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Yeah, well, you can turn your location off, but it'll
put it like it'll organize it by like how close
they are to you.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
It's called zip coding. Yeah, the game's been doing it forever.
Catch up straight right.

Speaker 6 (04:10):
On like Twitter, and it's like, you know, Melissa is
two miles away.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
If you I don't.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Think Melissa is real. Ok I hate to break it
to you. I think Melissa might be an AI actress.
Oh okay, I think she may have a record deal coming.
Shit you just got signed to a major label in La.

Speaker 6 (04:28):
Oh, well they always two miles away from me for
some reason.

Speaker 5 (04:31):
Well they always the girls are always two miles away,
miles away. Yeah, I'm thinking maybe not, but may could be,
you know, because every now, you know, see an ad.
I'll see ad for like you know, one of the
dating apps. The person's hot, and I'm like, okay, great,
where's that person? I never see that person on there?
That's a model. It turns I turned out that person's
married with a kid, not even single. I wonder there's

(04:54):
a class action lawsuit to be had by that, like
I got hooked by them. I will tell you this,
I don't even know on the dating apps mean more,
how many people are actually real? Because there are bots
and I guess that you know there are plants, and
then people's profiles get left up longer than you know
because I've been paused forever, and I guess I still
show up on there, but I've been paused, So if
you're matching with me, I won't see it.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
But that is there a class action lawsuit there? When
I match with someone very hot only to find out
that they're not real or they're not even near me.
I'm trying to zip code your eyes but I can't.
But I wonder if because the straight because straits are
like more predatory if they can't put how close like
you actually are to someone? Straight guys are weird? Yeah? No,
I wonder, Yes they are. Yes, they are. I'm not

(05:38):
gonna say it's weird, but grinder, lets you know exactly
who could get there faster? Yeah, I mean, it really
does say something about about the culture. I suppose it's
like I'd be more likely to match with somebody who's
two miles away than four, because well, it's you know, traffic,
right exactly. Yeah. A twenty three year old woman has

(05:59):
shared on her twenty five year old boyfriend's loud reactions
during football games, like yelling at the TV and cursing
at players and cheering loudly, it's causing her anxiety. She
explained that her father had been abusive, and any raised
voices in her childhood home often followed by something worse.
Her boyfriend has never directed his anger at her. The
sound of him yelling at the TV made her feel

(06:20):
uncomfortable and triggered past trauma. When she asked him a
tona down, he became upset, claiming that she was overreacting
and expressing hurt over being perceived as aggressive. Since then,
he's been avoiding her, making her to feel guilty and
unsure if her request was reasonable. This was on rereadit,
most people empathized with her that a loving partner should

(06:41):
be sensitive to past trauma and willing to adjust behavior. Accordingly, Man,
he pointed out that passion for football shouldn't override someone
else's emotional well being. However, if someone is yelling at
the TV and not at you, do you think that
within the household relationship, we would have to your roommate,
can you say something? Or is it? Is it like,

(07:03):
is that you being a little dramatic because they're yelling
at the Lions? It's Kaylin actually, and she's and this
is from Shane, her boyfriend. Her boyfriend wrote this, and
he you know, he apparently you don't care. You just
ignore him now and continue to scream at the TV.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
He can leave.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
It's wildly triggerating for him.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
That's where you could go.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
I mean, I understand that this, you know that that
kind of behavior could be problematic for you, But I mean,
but when you're directing it at the sporting event and
and not at you, And it would be one thing
I think if like you're anger because I've had this.
I've had it where my team lost and I was
mad the rest of the day at everything, So that
that's like something you'd have to have under control, you know,

(07:42):
like if your team loses and then you're just you know,
sort of lashing out on people because you're in a
bad mood. You know, any for any reason that you're
in a bad mood. You go to work, have bad
day at work, you don't get a promotion, you I
don't know, lost something, your headphones got stolen, Yeah, and
then take it out on hobby all the rest of
the day. Like that's not cool. But I mean, if
I'm if I'm emotional about whatever I'm consuming, whatever content

(08:03):
I'm consuming, should that is that something that my partner
can say like, hey, I mean I can't do that.
I need you to stop doing that because well, it
brings up something from my past.

Speaker 3 (08:16):
See I'm somebody who also doesn't like the yelling, and like, yeah,
it does for me, It sparks a little something in me.
It's just my own personal issue that I'm dealing with.
As far as like childhood and the yelling and stuff.
But I just want to know, you know, how such
straight men are weird or whatever he said, I to go.
I want to know why men love being cheerleaders so
hard on weekends.

Speaker 4 (08:33):
It's for these sports devients.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
Like I'm so serious, Like I'm so tired of people
yelling and screaming over teams, Like it's not like you're playing,
Like how you are not playing on the Cubs, Like
you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
But you would think the passion.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
No, in the past, I thought he was a Cubs player.

Speaker 3 (08:45):
You would think with the way my basement looks and
like just the way that like he's got out the
jerseys and the hats and the bottle heads, but like.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
I those from all his teammates.

Speaker 3 (08:53):
Do you think I want to freak out every time
I just see him even watch a game, because to me,
it bothers me, like this it is not real.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Yeah, it's an outsider. Like if you were just to
look at dudes watching sports and like how they act
watching sports, Yeah, it's very interesting and I'm not and they.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Can't hear you. It's like you're not even there. If
you're a scream, if you're at the game and you're
getting into it. I mean, at least they could hear
you a little bit.

Speaker 4 (09:18):
Right right, you're at an event.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
But I see the problem, Like, I mean, I see
a problem. If it's that triggering for you, Can I
tone down my enthusiasm, my screaming at the television? Yeah,
I think I probably can. Or can I just move
it to a different venue. Maybe you know, like, hey,
you don't like that, Okay, maybe maybe you're you don't
hang out in the house while I watch the game,
or maybe I watch some of the games somewhere else
and then we don't have to do that. But I mean,

(09:42):
I'm directing it at the TV, like I don't know,
I'm into it. I'm passionate about him. I mean, you
watch a Bad Money concert, You're yelling and screaming and
freaking out. You get you get an emotional reaction from
watching that form of entertainment that's not stimulus at the events.

Speaker 3 (09:56):
When I'm there at the concert, if I'm in my
living groom, might be all shake a lit last. But
I'm not gonna like scream.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Can't see.

Speaker 4 (10:05):
I'm not hurting anybody.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
I don't think you're necessarily hurting anyone by getting into
a game, but you're looking at the TV.

Speaker 8 (10:12):
I'm not like, hey, moron, my team didn't score.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
I hate you. I mean that's different, that'll be way different.
I mean, I think it's difference between me annoying and
being like, you shouldn't do it, nobody.

Speaker 6 (10:26):
I don't have this problem in my house, but my
nephew with the video game is it's the next It's
next level. Like he's screaming at the TV. He's yelling
at the people on it, the Wendy's head set, Jess cursing.
It's like, you gotta relax, bro, Like, I don't know
what's going on on.

Speaker 4 (10:41):
You know what are you playing?

Speaker 1 (10:43):
G Yeah?

Speaker 4 (10:45):
Yeah, I don't know what's going on, But it doesn't
need all that.

Speaker 1 (10:47):
I'm more concerned about who they're talking to exactly. I
am about who they're yelling at. I mean, they're yelling
and getting into it whatever, but who is this person
on the other end, especially for kids? Yeah, like, are
you talking to some strangers somewhere? I've seen the ketchup
reredator con turning to me, Hey, Tessa, Hey, what's going on?
How your husband screams at the TV?

Speaker 9 (11:06):
Yes, he does every single weekend when his team is
on he has to watch the start of the whole
game plus highlights. If his team doesn't win, it puts
a damper on our whole day. It is the most
annoying thing, and our dogs always get so scared.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Well see now, but the whole affecting his mood for
the rest of the day. Like that's one thing. That's
a fair argument that Like, dude, I mean, why do
I have you don't take it out of me. What's
sixteen eighteen weeks a year, or however many games there
are for your team, Like that's that's not cool. But
if he wants to get into a sporting event because
he's passionate about it and he wants a team to

(11:47):
wait and like that's his release for him or something,
then I guess I don't see what you know. I
don't see how we can't come up with boundaries for
that or or why that activity has to necessarily, you know,
immediately puts me in the same realm as someone who
was sadly maybe abusive or or very unkind to you.

Speaker 9 (12:05):
Like he's never unkind to me, but he just gets
so into the games, and I just I'm not a
big sports person, and I just don't understand it's just
a game.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
Yeah, yeah, okay, Tessa, all right, well I'm sorry that happens,
and go whatever team for him. Okay, yeah, okay, all
right bye. Yeah. I was very I was displeased on
Saturday with the Cubs, but luckily I was only displeased
for about twenty minutes because the whole thing melted down
the first two innings, so you know, I could move
on to other things to be displeased about.

Speaker 4 (12:35):
Your life back after that?

Speaker 1 (12:36):
Well did I just I just stopped watching it, right,
I was very mad, but then I just moved on
to something else because it happened so fast. It was
it was almost painless, because you know, we got our
butts kicked so quickly that it was okay, you know,
but there's always tonight for me to not be mad again.
But again, if I'm not taking it out on other people,
just like, okay, well, I'm sorry that upset you, but
like go go to your set shut or your craft

(12:58):
room or something and like I don't know, a friendship
bracelet or I don't know, there's some pottery or whatever. Yeah,
I don't know. Maybe you're into something. Go go put
the Wendy's headsets on and go play grand theftonto what
I don't mean to you know, stereotype or whatever you're into. Like,
let me have my minute here where I think I
have an impact on this game and I don't. I
have no impact whatsoever. Let me pretend for one second

(13:20):
like my enthusiasm matters to anyone friend's biggest stories of
the day. See now you're going to do it right
here with this text. People yelling at the sporting events
and triggering people and you know, bringing up old emotional wounds.
Someone texted, that's how some people. This is how we feel.
But I don't want to say weak because I'm not
one of the week. This is how some people feel

(13:41):
listening to some of you talk about this swift chick boy,
and I have to say, and Jason, You've got very defensive,
very quickly. So I dropped it. But there were some
people I didn't see it. I saw a fair amount
of negative review on this album online over the weekend,

(14:01):
and these are from people who purport to be Swifties.
Now what I don't know is if they're telling the
truth or if they're just rage baiting. But there were
a lot of people who were like, man, this this
is actually not good, and I don't know. It's like,
are you required to say that it is if you're
a Taylor Swift fan. I didn't think it was bad
my mission. I implied this on Friday morning. I guess

(14:22):
I expected more like I thought it was good. Like
I thought it was fine, and I'm sure if you're
a Taylor Swift fan then you're obviously very excited. It
was not bad. Trust me, I've heard artists who crank
out albums and which she doesn't really do. She didn't
really crank them out per se. But you know, it's
not one a year. When was the last time she
had a new album three years ago?

Speaker 4 (14:42):
Fourteen months prior?

Speaker 1 (14:43):
Yeah, was it two years ago? So it's not every
like six months she's cranking out new albums or whatever.
But I don't know, I didn't feel like it was
I feel like it was garbage. I feel like it
was like a waste. But I also was I don't know.
Maybe I thought there would be like every song would
be a banger, and I didn't really feel that way. Yeah, guys, thoughts,
I think.

Speaker 2 (15:03):
It's like, I don't know, I think this happens every time,
like an album comes out, I feel like by her,
like people hate it, like reputation for example, like everyone
hated it, and then like, however, many years later, now
it's like everyone's favorite, Like it's just crazy. But I
also think there's like like I said last night, like
people just like to hate on her, and so given
like the littlest inch of like oh well, one Swift,

(15:25):
he didn't like it. So now here comes like everyone
posting videos about like it's awful and the writing is
awful in this, But then the last album where she
was very poetic and whatever, it's like, I don't understand.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
This is too deep, it's too so okay, it doesn't
really matter that it happens every album. I thought it
was good. I guess there were parts of that. I thought, well,
that seems a little beneath her, like some of some
of the some of it was a little like not juvenile,
but like elementary for someone who I think it gets
really does get really deep and thoughtful and clearly like
strategizes and comes up with all these someone I was like, oh,

(15:55):
and then other I thought others was good. I don't know,
but I always surprised. I guess you see, but this
was so hyped too, I mean, and the and the
relationship and then the potential Super Bowl halftime show, and
then I just feel like I feel like it's almost
she's a victim of her own success because she's she's
so oversaturated that now everybody does everything she does either
has to be like in their opinion, it's slam dunk

(16:18):
grand Slam, the most amazing thing ever, or it's like
ah more.

Speaker 2 (16:21):
Taylor, Yeah, when you're like the biggest touring artist of
however many last couple of years or whatever, like you
can't keep that up forever, Like that amount of exposure
and that many people loving you and being happy with
every move that you make, Like it's impossible to keep
that up.

Speaker 1 (16:36):
Like there's just too many people that want to say
negative things. All that said, though, she had an amazing weekend,
so ha ha ha do you I tell you what
I mean? I mean, like like like I like, could
you have a better weekend than Taylor Swift? Tad No,
I'll tell you in a minute. Why. So she's like
she listened to just going I don't care, right, I
don't care.

Speaker 10 (16:54):
Hyle, She's broken eight records since we started talking today.

Speaker 4 (16:57):
I mean, you know what I mean, like, she does
not get right, That's.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
What I mean. Yeah, I'll tell you. Okay, Well sorry,
but I guess that was a little surprised the people
who claimed to be actual and then these posts were
getting hundreds of thousands of likes, so it was like,
you gotta think somebody agreed with it. I don't know who,
but I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 10 (17:15):
I think she wanted this album to just be light
and airy and not so deep, and she said, I'm
just feeling that way. So you know, she switches it up.
She can do everything, in my opinions.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
We have the results from Jason's NFL picks. I believe
this was week I don't know where it was five,
four or five or giving yeah, whatever, it was week five.
So you picked even though the game was actually the
night before you made your picks, you still didn't pick
the right team. I gave you four Niners Rams. You
picked the Rams. I believe the four Niners had already

(17:45):
won that game when you made your picks. Jason Brown, though, yes,
this is a sports reportage to the stars, VP of
Sports Reporting and Sports Gambling, but that's the title that
shared with Gala, the president of the sports gambling and
then you're just the VP of that. Yeah yeah, yeah,
but let me just go through here. You can tell me, well,

(18:07):
how do you do overall?

Speaker 4 (18:08):
So overall, so far, he's got nine out of fourteen.

Speaker 10 (18:11):
We're waiting on the Jags, Chiefs games got doing bad
his parsley though he did have one player who was
in a bye week involved in his so that was
a little hard to get.

Speaker 1 (18:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (18:23):
So I lost a lot of money on that, Thank
you very much.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
Okay. Vikings over the Browns, Broncos over the Eagles, Saints
over the Giants, Cowboys over the Jets, because your cowboy
nat whatever, Buccaneers over the Seahawks, Commanders over the Chargers,
Colts over the Raiders, Texans over the Ravens, Panthers over
the Dolphins, Tightens over the Cardinals, Lions over the Bengals.
That makes that makes a good day for all of us.
Run your Kailin's happen. Taylor Swift is winning and the

(18:49):
Lions won, so we can all have a nice day.

Speaker 4 (18:51):
I'm not yelling at the time, not.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
No, no, Usually it's she's still yelling at it walking
here showing stuff for some reasons, she's still watching the
game here. I don't know. It's weird. Patriots over the Bills.
That's that surprised me a little bit. I didn't watch
that whole game though. And then you've got Chiefs Jags tonight,
which I'm sure you took the Chiefs I can't remember
right here as strong as possible. And then the parslay

(19:14):
was what even though he one of the people wasn't
even involved in this weekend's event.

Speaker 10 (19:18):
So he said that Darnell Mooney would get a touchdown,
but he was on a bye week, so maybe in
his you know, when he was practicing or in his.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
Personal kids, maybe on the backyard, there was a simulated
touchdown of some kind.

Speaker 4 (19:29):
Perhaps, Yeah, how did you find Darnell Mooney?

Speaker 1 (19:32):
I just googling hot football players?

Speaker 4 (19:34):
Okay, that's what That's exactly what I guess.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
MAE for sure you were typing this in Chad GPT Now, oh, well,
that's a good idea, GPTs Parsley this weekend, I can't wait,
call us.

Speaker 4 (19:49):
Don't put that on me.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
Would be like, wait a minute, he's not playing this
week bro. For any of the what were the other ones.

Speaker 10 (19:55):
So Taekwon Thornton will have two catches. We'll find out
tonight and then Gino Smith will not score it all.
And yes, he did not score it all. So you
got one part right. We need to find out the
second leg tonight and then Darneld Mooney again, is you
know drinking coffee at home on Yes.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
So you actually typed in hot NFL players and that's
how you Okay.

Speaker 4 (20:13):
It's literally what I guessed, un told Bella. It's so funny.

Speaker 1 (20:16):
I hate you. At least you did it yourself, your research.
So no, here you go, I got it. So here's
Taylor Swift's last three days. She's matched Prince in number ones.
Taylor Swift is now in the same company as Prince.
Back when Purple Rain came out, Prince became the first
album to have a film album and single be number
one at the same time. Now she's repeated the feat.

(20:37):
Her latest album, The Life of a Show Grow Perhaps
you heard about it sold two point seven million copies
on its first day of release on Friday. It also
became which that you got to remember that really said
something In a world where you don't have to buy
anything to hear it, you could just have a subscription
and listen to it. Imagine what this would have been
back in the day when the only way you were

(20:58):
going to hear it is you know, listening to it
records or right waiting line somewhere. So that, I mean,
that means a lot more than it means, like you know,
in itself. It also became Spotify's most streamed album in
a single day in twenty twenty five. On top of that,
the song The Fate of Ophelia became the most stream
song in a single day in the streaming platform's history. Meanwhile,

(21:18):
Taylor Swift the official release party of A Showgirl, topped
the weekend box office, bringing in thirty three million dollars.
And Swift Isn't done, and she announced four new versions
of the album, with two special acoustic versions of songs
she sold online Over the weekend. The Billboard charts showed
the album and Aphelia at number one. And then she

(21:39):
dropped a video for Aphelia yesterday. And then you went
to the movie theater you both of you did separately. Yeah,
okay badly I needed to be alone, right, you needed
to see this? Yes, So talking about screaming at the screen.
I mean, my god, that may have been triggering for
some people. What was the movie experience like for free

(22:00):
you both.

Speaker 10 (22:01):
I I went to the movies for the first time
by my loansome, so that was like a big step
for me.

Speaker 4 (22:08):
I loved it.

Speaker 10 (22:08):
The guy next to me was also alone, so we
kind of like, you know, I felt like I wasn't
a weirdo. I forgot my credit card so I couldn't
get a frozen coke. But the movie was good. It
was just like no big surprises or anything. She was
just explaining each song and then we got to see
the making of the music video.

Speaker 4 (22:22):
But I loved it.

Speaker 10 (22:23):
I mean, I think it's really cool to like ingest
the album and then hear her talking about everything. I
thought it was a cool idea.

Speaker 1 (22:30):
Was it packed?

Speaker 4 (22:31):
I want it too? So it wasn't super packed by
the kids were in school? Yeah, kids were in school.

Speaker 10 (22:37):
But I love that she bleeped out everything and made
it all pg for the parents who wanted to bring
their kids.

Speaker 2 (22:43):
But I wish there was like an R rated because
I have definitely bought tickets to that same because it
was worth hearing the swears yeah you know, or.

Speaker 1 (22:50):
Like would she really gets into that stuff like which
she probably isn't going to, but like it would have
been interesting if she'd had like another version, a Taylor's
version before we got to hear like version, Hey, you
want you want to throw shade on people, like, go ahead,
go to AMC theaters and tell us what you really did.
I can tell us what you really meant, so we
could stop speculating. I know there'll be more on that
and more on this story throughout the morning. But Sean

(23:11):
Didti Colms has been sentenced to four years and two
months in prison following his conviction on federal prostitution and
charges involving his two ex girlfriends, who also have to
pay five hundred grand in five hundred thousand dollars in fines.
I saw one person speculate that between different programs he's
eligible for and then time served, he could serve as
few as six months, six to nine months, which is

(23:32):
what I which is what I read. Now this is
one lawyer on TikTok, So I don't know if that's true.
You know, don't at me, but that would be very
disappointing if that's the case. But people have, you know,
varied opinions on this. So, another very strange story from
over the weekend. A former NFL quarterback and current Fox
Sports commentator named Mark Sanchez was arrested in an incident

(23:54):
in Indianapolis where he was also stabbed and taken to
the hospital. So, first, the story is this former NFL
quarterback is stabbed at night in Indianapolis. Oh my god,
it's crazy. You think like robbing it a lot of
different things, you think, like what happened. He was arrested though,
and taken to the hospital, or actually at the hospital

(24:14):
after being taken to the hospital, but he was not
booked into a detention center until last night. He's facing
charges of battery with injury on lawful entry of a
motor vehicle, and public intoxication. Police said that they're looking
into an incident between Sanchez and another man, a food
delivery driver. The other guy suffered lacerations in the incident.
Sanchez is in stable condition. I guess the details of

(24:36):
this that the driver parked his box truck at a
loading doc to collect used cooking oil from a hotel kitchen.
Sanchez appeared and then approached the driver and told him
he wasn't allowed to park there. The driver then said
that he would contact his boss to find out what
was going on. Sanchez then reportedly climbed into the guy's
truck and began looking around. The driver informed and he
wasn't allowed to do that. The victims said that Sanchez

(24:58):
smelled like alcohol and kept repeating that he had spoken
to a manager and they didn't want him to replace
the oil. Sanchez and reportedly began following the guy around
his truck, blocking him from entering the vehicle. Security footage
also appears to show Sanchez knocking the guy against the
wall and then onto the ground. The victim retaliated with
pepper spray, but it only momentarily faced Sanchez before he

(25:20):
resumed the pressure. Then, apparently fearing for his life, the
driver pulled out a knife and stabbed the former quarterback
two or three times in the chest, and then the
quarterback left the scene. And then people are not happy
with Fox yesterday because they had two different anchors and
two different clips. I saw read the same sort of befuddled.
It was the exact same wording, so they were obviously

(25:41):
reading it. They probably could have changed the wording, so
it looked like two different people had similar but different thoughts.
But it was we're all just scratching our heads here
at Fox the same way you are thoughts in prayers.
And it was kind of like I realized, as you know,
we've been through things around here where we're not allowed
to act actually say anything, a lot of things where

(26:02):
we can't actually say anything, and people don't really understand
that that we work for a company and we can't
really get into like particulars or give our opinions on
certain matters. So I empathize in that regard. But it
was like, hey, how about make it look like an
original thought as opposed to having Carrissa Thompson and someone
else it was exactly the same thing. Not great, right,
I didn't know, But in thoughts and prayers, how about

(26:24):
just like, yeah, we're aware of the incident and this
being investigated. I mean, they can't say nothing, I guess,
but like, at the same time, thoughts and prayers for who,
right the do the gut stabbed? Right? Yeah, that's just
a random thing. And unfortunately it seems like he was
just really drunk. And everyone online was going, well, how
about the statement that he's been fired? You know, but

(26:45):
it's been forty eight hours, So I guess they don't.
Their legal team is too busy screaming at the TV
for their favorite sporting event. They haven't had time to
look at it yet. It's so confusing. Yeah, I don't
know why to figure it right? Right?

Speaker 9 (26:55):
Right?

Speaker 1 (26:55):
They can't fire the guy until they are sure. I
would imagine what exactly happened, But yeah, it's a weird story.
Jeff Bezos, the billionaire founder of Amazon and rocket company
Blue Origin, so that millions of people will be living
in space in the next couple of decades. Take me.
Speaking at Italian Tech Week, Okay, he outlined a vision
of outer space inhabitants supported by advanced robotics and data centers,

(27:18):
emphasizing this could happen faster than many anticipate. He said
that space pioneers will mostly be living there because they
want to, But what about the other ones? Mostly be
living there because they want to? Well, who are the
ones that aren't wanting to? And how did they get there? Well?
You really, you're ready? You want to go now? All
of a sudden, you want to go to space?

Speaker 4 (27:37):
Get me out of here.

Speaker 1 (27:38):
No, you've had enough.

Speaker 4 (27:39):
I've had enough.

Speaker 6 (27:40):
I thought the rapture was coming, so like I was
really like, hey, it's time, and then that didn't go through.
So now I'm like, what's next? And you were sure
they were going to take you? Oh I know, I'm good. Yeah,
oh yeah, for sure. Okay, okay, ye stars, Yes.

Speaker 1 (27:59):
That's true, but not everyone will be able to go, Like, well,
maybe that's a good thing. Maybe that way you could
really slim down the budget and in the invite list,
op bar Yeah, can.

Speaker 10 (28:09):
I dress like Katy Perry and that fitted fashion nova
like space suits?

Speaker 1 (28:13):
Well I think she would be anat at that point,
like if you really lived in space, like you truly
are an astronaut.

Speaker 4 (28:18):
That's my dream.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
I mean, so is she of course. Yeah, and Gail King,
but you could be just like that. Okay, yeah, I
didn't realize Kiki, you were so committed to the idea
of moving away forever. Man, Because I know they got
a way to get us to Mars. I don't know
that they have a way to get us back yet, though,
not worried about Okay, I'm not sure yet. I mean,

(28:40):
this is kind of a bad deal in my opinion,
But Cracker Barrel fired the marketing gurus behind their rebrand disaster. Really,
here's my thing. I mean, the marketing company didn't go
to Cracker Barrel and knock on the door and go, hey,
Cracker Barrel, you must make these things look like Apple
stores immediately. I'm sure that somebody at Cracker Barrel hired

(29:03):
a bunch of marketing firms and said, hey, what should
we do to revitalize this brand and make it you
make it more appealing to people who've never been a
Cracker Barrel or who who think it's too old timing
for them, and then they wound up hiring the people
who had the best modernization ideas. That's what they did,
and now didn't make it look like it was their fault,
but they fired the marketing agency that they hired to
refresh their image. Following massive backlash over its rebrand, the

(29:25):
restaurant chain was criticized for its decision to update their
old timer logo. Cracker Barrel said Thursday it had ended
its deal with an international marketing agency. That move is
being a companied by changes to the restaurant change leadership
structure could fire some people too. The company scrambled to
try and undo any damage it may have done with
its fans. The logo revamp was discarded as were designed

(29:45):
for a modern restaurant layout and other policies. So, yeah,
a bunch of people getting fired, you know, the people
at the very top the board or whomever was like, look, guys,
we get we got to make this thing bigger. We
got to make this thing bigger. That Cracker Barel should
be like Denny's and there should be one everywhere and
everyone should be going there. Okay, So do what you
got to do. Make it look all shiny and nice
in there, and then people will totally love it. And

(30:07):
then that's what they did, exactly what they were told
to do, and then they fired everybody who didn't. It's
National Coaches Day, National Plus Size Appreciation Day day. There
you go, hey, shout out National Consignment Day, National Child
Health Day, and National German American DAYO. Okay, yeah, well
you celebrated Plus Size Appreciation Day, but the next to

(30:28):
German Day, it says, shout out to me. Okay, so
she's German American, so it's my day.

Speaker 5 (30:34):
Caitlin's Entertainment report, he's on the Fred Show.

Speaker 10 (30:37):
Has bred just mentioned Sean Diddy Combs has been sentenced
to four years two months in prison following his conviction
on federal prostitution charges involving two ex girlfriends, Cassie Ventura
and a woman who went by Jane Doe. You will
also have to pay five hundred thousand dollars in fines.
He's been held at the Brooklyn Metropolitan Detention Center since

(30:59):
being a rested last September, and the thirteen months that
he's already served behind bars will count towards his fifty
month sentence. The judge also ruled that he will have
five years of supervised release after getting out. Before being sentenced,
he apologized to his former girlfriends, his family, all the
victims of domestic violence, and his community. Bad Bunny hosted

(31:20):
Saturday Night Live over the weekend and address criticism over
his upcoming Super Bowl halftime performance. During his opening monologue,
switching to Spanish, he emphasized that his performance was a
victory for the Latino community in the US, highlighting their
contributions and resilience, and he told the audience if you
didn't understand what I just said, don't worry. You have
four months to learn with a big old smile. Now

(31:43):
I did hear something. As for now, it's just a rumor.
But I did hear that he actually asked Drake to
join him on stage during the halftime show. The rappers
collaborated in twenty eighteen on the song Mia and So,
I mean it wouldn't be super shocking.

Speaker 4 (31:56):
Drake loves like Latin music.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
I don't know, we'll see on ham on stage with
him because it has an element. He joked about one
Hamon he drove by some of the celebrities were at
his thirty one night residency and some of them were
on drugs, and then he was like, I'm not going
to say who John Hamm. And then they go to
an audience and there's John Hamm the front row. No,
I love him me too, and he has.

Speaker 4 (32:17):
The time of his life at those No, he does.

Speaker 1 (32:21):
One hamone at I'll bet at the super Bowl, right
because you know he'll be there.

Speaker 4 (32:26):
Oh, Juan Harmon will hung there.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
I need one Harmona on the stage without question exactly.

Speaker 10 (32:30):
Speaking of rappers, fifty Cent was absolutely jacked to be
the only person mentioned on the Life of a Showgirl.
After being mentioned on the song ruined the friendship, he
wrote on Instagram in the comments, Taylor Swift spit popping
right now. She shout me out, she don't shout you out. Lol,
this is for big timers only. Wait, I'm the only
shout out on the whole album. The song is about

(32:52):
a high school memory when she sings and it was
not an invitation, but as the fifty cent song played,
should have kissed you anyway for what it's worth. Her
high school bestie was also name in that song, but
fifty cent probably didn't realize that. Also elsewhere on the
album is a song called Wood about her fiance, Travis
Kelsey's member. So when he turned thirty six yesterday and
the Chiefs posted a TikTok to celebrate him, they call him,

(33:13):
I guess the Archer for like a bow and arrow
move that he does when he's running out of the tunnel.
But Swifty's flooded the comments, with one person saying I
can't even look at Travis without blushing anymore. Another says
that they are taking the day to celebrate quote the
biggest tree in the forest. In the song, she compared
his you know to a redwood tree.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
I'm gonna go with okay, but we all you know
how I feel about when people are too boastful about manhood.

Speaker 4 (33:39):
He's not boasting.

Speaker 1 (33:40):
Well, but what's she supposed to say? He has a
tiny tree, like that's not gonna be a song. I
just I don't know.

Speaker 4 (33:46):
She wouldn't write a song.

Speaker 1 (33:47):
Yeah, it's not giving that. I don't know. I feel
like I could usually tell you can't I'm gonna go
with Okay, I just I might have been. I might
have said, hey, Tay, we don't, we don't need that one,
because that one's just gonna lead to people saying that
if thou doth protest too much, which is another Shakespeare.
You know a lot about Shakespeare, Jesus, you learned a
lot about him. I don't know. I might have said,

(34:08):
we don't need to gash me up like that in
this public way, because because it seems like it's it's
over compensating.

Speaker 4 (34:17):
When your exada, you didn't seem too mad.

Speaker 1 (34:19):
I didn't ask her to write a song about it.
I didn't ask her to say it. I didn't ask
her to put the song on an album. I didn't
ask it to be widely publicized. And I was embarrassed
when it happened. Okay, I wasn't. I wasn't there. I
wasn't even there. It was an Ax. I would never
have expected that kind of press.

Speaker 4 (34:35):
I don't know about this.

Speaker 6 (34:36):
I feel like every six months, you'd be like, y'all
will never believe what was said about me?

Speaker 4 (34:41):
We say what was said about you?

Speaker 1 (34:42):
You say once, No, I tell a lot of other
stories over and over again. That is not one that
will tell about you.

Speaker 4 (34:49):
That is that is unreal. To get an AX to
speak of you in that way.

Speaker 1 (34:52):
You should take the w I realized that. But that's true. Okay,
so there you go. It would have meant more than
me if Taylor had written the song about him and
they weren't together, and he more because that means it's real. Yeah,
because she's giving good press to someone she's not with anymore.
But to be with someone to be like, oh yeah, yeah,
swinging around? You know, what are you gonna say what?

(35:13):
You don't have an option? You're marrying this guy. You
would not write a song about you know, it's an
average tree? Would you know?

Speaker 4 (35:22):
If it was average, you just wouldn't write a song.
You'd be like, I can't dedicate a whole song, or.

Speaker 1 (35:26):
Maybe you just don't write the song at all. I
don't like.

Speaker 6 (35:28):
Yeah, you do have to be careful with that, because
then it's really advertisement for these little skanks to come
after you.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
Manh Yeah, I'm going with it's probably true, but I'm
also going with not necessary. Okay, yeah, all right, I'm
just wrap it up. I don't know if.

Speaker 4 (35:46):
You want to catch up on anything you missed by
you take the French jointyman on the free I.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
Heard radio report. I don't know. You can tell me
when you're done.

Speaker 4 (35:52):
I just want to make sure you got it all out.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
No I did. I just I don't know. I might
have said we can go ahead with twelve songs we
don't need or even or maybe we one of the
other ones. Hey, you know where you just.

Speaker 10 (36:03):
Somebody else, somebody wants to write a song about how
good I am.

Speaker 4 (36:06):
They're welcome to I just.

Speaker 1 (36:07):
If you're together, then I just assume, like what else
we're just saying is all. That's all I'm saying about that.
Lets you blogg your audio journalist waiting by the phone.
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which you know, we're on the pulse of book events
on this show. But Naperville Anderson's bookshop. Bobby Brown, the

(37:10):
Bobby Brown, the world famous Bobby Brown. Bobby do you
know that you and Steve Jobs are the same person? Basically?
Do you know that?

Speaker 11 (37:18):
Well?

Speaker 1 (37:18):
I do like wearing a wardrobe. Oh yo, that's the thing.
If you just were all black all the time, how
easy was that me? Don't you know what are you
wearing on the cover of this book? I don't have
any front of me you were basically all black?

Speaker 12 (37:29):
Maybe then I know, maybe I've kind of botened my
black to maybe.

Speaker 13 (37:33):
It's much more flattering.

Speaker 1 (37:35):
Okay, that's good to know. She's Bobby Brown already giving
me advice. And I gotta say, I used to I
used to be a Bobby Brown cosmetics guy, but then
you sold it. And the comparison to Steve Jobs is
then they fired you from your own company. So now
you know me Jones Road all day. That's the only
thing I wear. But to get fired from your own company,
I know it's in the book, but how.

Speaker 12 (37:54):
It is definitely in the book, and it was a
definite first of well, when they bought Bobby Brown, I
stayed twenty two years as an employee, so from many
of the years it was great. And then at the
end it wasn't just like you know, many people's situation,
and we did.

Speaker 13 (38:11):
Not see eye to eye on most things.

Speaker 12 (38:13):
And they canceled my work contract one day unexpectedly, and
you know, honestly gave me an opportunity to stay around
but keep my mouth shut, and that really didn't work
for me.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
Yeah. See, Kiki, I know you, you know you, Paulina.
We have some women in here, you know, business moguls
in Chicago and surrounding you got to watch out. You
can get fired from your own named business. This is
not a good thing, listen.

Speaker 13 (38:36):
You know, yeah, but it wasn't my business.

Speaker 12 (38:39):
They bought me, so you know, they own they owned
the company, and they could do whatever they want. And honestly,
I'm not the only one that's been through things that happen.
But the book really talks about what you do with
this stuff when it's handed to you, Like, so what not?

Speaker 1 (38:54):
What? All? Right?

Speaker 13 (38:55):
Now? What am I going to do?

Speaker 12 (38:57):
I had four and a half years left on a
noncompete and I left, and I'm like, oh my god,
I was fifty nine years old. What was I going
to do?

Speaker 1 (39:05):
You were going to be a rich Bobby is what
you were going to do? But that you know, I
understand what you mean.

Speaker 12 (39:10):
You know, but it's honestly, yeah, I've been very successful.

Speaker 13 (39:13):
I've worked really hard for it.

Speaker 12 (39:15):
I've had people on my team, my husband, you know,
now my son runs our company. But you know, when
you're someone that has worked your whole life in addition
to raising three kids and you know, a long term marriage,
it's like, now what do I do? Like, I wasn't
about to go play pick a ball? Right, that's just
not me right right, So I had to figure stuff out.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
And you've done so much Bobby Brown Cosmetics. Of course,
you've been recognized by every major publication. Then you've gone
on to build another huge company, Jones Road, and you've
written nine books. This is the tenth. Will be at
Anderson's Bookshop in Naborville tonight from seven to eight. But yes,
we do have a lot of women who listen to
the show in business A couple in the room. What
would be and I know it's probably hard to narrow

(39:57):
it down, what would be a main sort of piece
of advice that you would give to really anybody, but
maybe especially a woman who's you building a brand and
trying to start a business.

Speaker 12 (40:08):
Well, first of all, your life is more important than
your work. Your health is the most important thing. If
you don't feel good and you don't eat right, and
you don't exercise, how are you going to have the
stamina to do all the things that needs to get done.
Because you can't ignore anything, you have to kind of
be over all of it. And for women particularly, I
really do believe women we are the ultimate multitaskers. So

(40:30):
we can do all these things if we're creative and
organized and just figure stuff out.

Speaker 13 (40:36):
I had to do it kind of on the run,
and so I've added.

Speaker 12 (40:39):
A whole bunch of hacks in my book for working moms,
like how you get how you do this, and mostly
like the real story about it's not all perfect. Sometimes
it's a big old mess and you just got to
get on with it.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
That's great advice. What is the worst advice anyone has
ever given you? In all the different ventures that you've
been involved with.

Speaker 12 (40:58):
No one wants to take advance from a soccer mom.
I've had so many like dumb advices. Someone once told
me that I was very demure. I'm five foot tall
and I need something so people notice me when I
walk in a room. Perhaps I get a hat with
a feather in it.

Speaker 13 (41:14):
Oh, I'm like, great advice, great advice.

Speaker 12 (41:18):
Yeah, can you imagine me walking into the hat and
a feather?

Speaker 1 (41:22):
You know, So you did some sort of signature and
that was it. Huh you do you do?

Speaker 12 (41:27):
But you know what, I didn't come to this, you know,
confidence when I was young. I mean, it really took
me a long time to realize. You know, guys, I
don't need to be what you are telling me to be.
I just need to be myself and that's really, you know,
the secret to being confident. So I do tell all
these all these stories in the book that somehow you know,

(41:47):
I still remember, thank goodness, because there's a lot of them.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
Yeah, it's Bobby Brown, It's still Bobby. That's the book.
Tonight Naperville Anderson's Bookshop. You'll be there from seven to eight.
And we also have a lot of young women who
listen to us. What would you tell yourself all these
years ago before you started down this road to learn
how to chill?

Speaker 12 (42:09):
I have not done that, by the way, That's the
thing I'm most unsuccessful.

Speaker 13 (42:13):
How to chill and how to you.

Speaker 12 (42:16):
Know, like lower my cortisol and you know, calm down.
It doesn't mean I can't do everything I want to do.

Speaker 13 (42:23):
So that's my biggest advice.

Speaker 12 (42:24):
And just just honestly, just know there are so many
possibilities out there and you could really like create your
own story. You just have to be comfortable that to
know that you're able to do this. And also you
don't know everything. Be a sponge and learn. I'm still learning.

Speaker 1 (42:41):
I've learned so much in the last five minutes. It's
and I don't mean to say, but navy being more
flattering than black is the main takeaway.

Speaker 12 (42:49):
And then I get to wear blue jeans, and then
you get to wear blue jeans all the time, and
I don't have to spend money dry cleaning my black pants.

Speaker 1 (42:56):
So you know this is I'm going to go read
the book. I'm sure I'm going to be inspired. This
changed things for me right now because I thought black
was the way to get away with it. But night
now Bobby Brown's telling me it's navy, So navy it is.

Speaker 12 (43:08):
And you can do navy and black if you're not
quite all navy yet.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
Okay, I think that's a little That's what that Matt's
getting risky for me because I'm not you. But go
see Bobby Brown tonight. Buy everyone, buy the book wherever
you are, but then Anderson's Bookshop in Aprilville from seven
to eight. You'll be there.

Speaker 6 (43:24):
I am not salty, okay, I am single and sweet.

Speaker 1 (43:27):
You should listen just to see what's going to happen
next Fred's show. Is I have to delete that one?
What I'm single and sweet? Technically we're still doing that.

Speaker 6 (43:38):
No, no, no, it's not I'm not doing anything.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
The rules change all the time.

Speaker 6 (43:43):
No, no, no, I am engaged, but when I file
taxes I am technically still single.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
Oh lord, yes, okay, it's Monday, October sixth of fread
shows on High Kayler Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, good morning.
She Shelley one hundred bucks in the show down lost
on Friday. She's never launched two in a row? Will
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Why does somebody get gohoes? Should be entertainment report? What's
in there? Case?

Speaker 10 (44:08):
I have your reason to be mad today it is
at Amazon Prime for something they did to a very
popular movie franchise.

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Speaker 6 (44:32):
Yes, dear blog. And I hope this is just a
safe space because honestly, the way this Morg did I
don't know, but I need it to be because the
way that this morning has gone for me. Please just
handle me with caution, because I am I am, I'm
at my wits end. Bro, Have you ever just like
waking up and it's like you should go to bed,
you should go back to bed and just start this

(44:54):
whole thing over, because it's just not it's not going well.
And that is how this morning has gone for me,
literally from the moment I opened these eyes, these hazel eyes.

Speaker 1 (45:04):
I behind them. What was happening behind them?

Speaker 6 (45:07):
First of all? And I won't I know, y'all get
mad when I bag on Big Tim. But the man
did a deep cleaning yesterday. Okay, that was his contribution
to the house yesterday. Nobody asked for that. So all
of my clothes are mixed up. I don't know where
anything is.

Speaker 1 (45:22):
Oh he organized your clothes, shoes, yes.

Speaker 6 (45:25):
Boy, And no one asks for this. I was out
looking at wedding venues with my sister. I come back,
I smell chlorocks. I'm already nervous, you know how I
feel about that. So I'm like, oh boy.

Speaker 4 (45:36):
Then I go into my glam room.

Speaker 6 (45:38):
I'm talking about this man has rearranged my wigs, my shoes.
I'm like, okay, you know, but I'm trying to be grateful,
So I'm like thanks, yes and so.

Speaker 4 (45:47):
And I lived in a denial room in the glam room,
I'm like, what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (45:51):
Should Why is he organizing your room? Like I could
see the house maybe like shared things, but like I
wouldn't want anybody touching the my stuff.

Speaker 6 (45:59):
I really think he was to prepare for my downfall, honestly,
because when I was like yesterday, I just lived in
a denial of it all right.

Speaker 4 (46:05):
I was on a waiting hide. So I came in.
I was like, oh, you're cleaning the house. Okay.

Speaker 6 (46:08):
In the back of my mind, I said, that's gonna
be terrible for you tomorrow morning, but let's just basking
it right now. So I wake up this morning. I
can't find a sock from a pair of underwear. I
don't know where anything is. So I'm running late, and
then my wig is lifting. Because I'm running late, I
haven't had enough time to lay it down. So then
I get in the car. This car almost ran me
off the road this morning on the expressway.

Speaker 4 (46:29):
Then I get downtown.

Speaker 6 (46:31):
They're filming some TV show somewhere, so I'm running into
Cones trying to get into the parking garage.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
I get into the.

Speaker 6 (46:40):
I get in the garage, somebody is in my parking space. No,
we don't have a signed parking sway, but I feel
like it's fine, you know, like any other day is mine.
Why are you in there? So then I gotta find
other parking space. I get on the elevator, I see
Jason's beautiful face.

Speaker 4 (46:54):
We ride up together. I tell him all of this.
Then I can get here.

Speaker 6 (46:58):
I try to be positive with my egg from Duckett,
like sitting here to start to show my.

Speaker 4 (47:02):
Headphones are missing.

Speaker 1 (47:03):
You're okay.

Speaker 4 (47:04):
Now I need to go home.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
These sorts of days are self fulfilling, and so I
am typically not kept in positivity. But you must change.
You must revert to a positive mental attitude, because what
happens is you start to piece these things together and
then you put this energy out and then everything you
start to see, things that wouldn't have irritated you before
that contribute to the kind of day you're having. We

(47:28):
must turn this around right now? How I don't know
how do we do it?

Speaker 6 (47:32):
And then I looked up to the moon because I
was like, somebody, come give me. The Lord got to
do something, and I look, it's a full moon. Now
I'm like, is that does that play a part in
all of this, Caitlin.

Speaker 4 (47:42):
I know you believe in.

Speaker 10 (47:43):
Us though, yes, but also it's just science. Think about
how much water makes up your body and then think
about the fact that the moon controls the tides, like and.

Speaker 1 (47:50):
It's pulling on your wig right now.

Speaker 4 (47:54):
Yeah, I just need to go to be it.

Speaker 6 (47:56):
And and I want to just say to anyone listen,
if you have this type of morning press on.

Speaker 4 (48:02):
It seems like Jason is too.

Speaker 2 (48:03):
So yeah, it's been a it's been a rough weekend,
a rough morning. But I'm having the same thing. So
we were trying to commission. We have to turn it around.
I don't know what I can do.

Speaker 1 (48:13):
I'm not sure what I could do, but you must
turn it around because again, like you, it's like like
that character in the Peanuts with little cloud over him
all the time, Like you can't have that. I think
it's dust or dirt over him. I think he's good,
he's dirty, is it pig pen, Yeah, it's good. He
didn't take it shut. But that's not what That's not
the case here. I just mean, like you can walk
around that little cloud just raining on you, but and

(48:35):
then everything sort of contributes, like you start looking at
it through that filter, and then you start noticing things
that wouldn't have because you know, like when you're on
cloud nine, you know, when it's the opposite of the
day you're having and someone like kicks you in the
balls and you're like, I didn't feel it, couldn't possibly
feel it, you know what I mean? But so we
need But then now, right now, you're in the mode
that like anything that's out of place, you see, it

(48:57):
contributes to this bad day. So we gotta turn it around.

Speaker 4 (49:00):
Guys, all right, I mean I'm trying. I'm trying, y'all.
Well you look pretty well. Thank you, enough of you.

Speaker 1 (49:07):
I couldn't even tell the wig wasn't sitting right, Yeah
it's Jason. I couldn't tell yours wasn't either. Hey, it's
barely hanging around.

Speaker 4 (49:12):
Bro, you got a wig after that bald spot?

Speaker 1 (49:15):
Yeah, it's my two pegs. I'm bald. What's funny is
you weren't bald until you stuck another piece of hair
on top of your hair. Right now, all of a sudden,
I think you have a problem. Ever been left waiting
by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Shannon, good morning,
Welcome to the show. How are you, Hey? Doing all right,
what's going on with this guy? Adam on waiting by

(49:35):
the phone? We got to know how you met? About
any dates that you've been on? Tell us about those,
and then why do you think maybe you're being ghosted? Okay?

Speaker 14 (49:43):
Yeah, I met Adam on Hinge. We matched, we started chatting.

Speaker 15 (49:49):
It was going well, we'll like shame send the humor,
same music taste.

Speaker 14 (49:57):
And then so after like.

Speaker 15 (49:58):
A week of talking, we went out for drinks and
I don't know, we had a really good time, and honestly,
like after like a couple of drinks, got like a
little touchy, and I was like, come back to my place.
And I normally wouldn't say that on the radio, but
I feel like it's really important to the story.

Speaker 1 (50:21):
I normally don't do this. I normally I don't normally
do this kind of thing. Yeah I've heard that before. Okay,
but normally that's true. You normally don't do this kind
of thing. So it was back to your place and
then what.

Speaker 14 (50:32):
Okay, So everything was going great.

Speaker 15 (50:35):
We were in the cab, it was a vibe, and
then once we got there everything changed, he like got
really weird.

Speaker 16 (50:48):
We didn't even get to the front door. And he
got really sweaty and told me that he wasn't feeling
well and had to leave, like super abroughly honestly, like
I thought like, okay, maybe he drank too much. But
then like when I checked on him later to see
if he was okay, he just didn't answer.

Speaker 1 (51:08):
Oh, so he goes from this, this is like gonna
be a lot of fun. We're going back to my place,
We're gonna do whatever. It goes from that too, he's sick,
has to leave, and now he's ghosting you. Yep, huh
how do we get there? Yeah? So let's yeah, that's interesting.
Let's call Adam. We're gonna play a song. We'll call Adam.
You'll be on the phone at the same time, and
we're gonna try and figure out what's going on, see

(51:30):
kind of what happened there, and hopefully we can straighten
things out and then set you guys up on another
date that we pay for. Sound good, okay? Yeah? Hey, Shannon, yep,
all right, let's call this guy Adam. You met on Hinge.
You went on a date. The date went well well
enough that you invited him back to your place. But
between the time that you invited him in the time
you got to your front door. The guy was like,
look visibly ill left and then now you have not

(51:53):
heard from him since he hasn't responded to you. You've
reached out to him to check on him. Nothing, he's
ghosting you. You want to know why? Yeah, all right,
let's call him right now. Good luck, Shannon. Hello, Hi,
is this Adam? Yes, Adam, good morning. My name is Fred.
I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show.

(52:15):
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now and I would need your permission to
continue with the call. Is it okay? If we ch
have for just a second, you can hang up anytime. Okay,
thank you. I know it's kind of an awkward thing,
but we're calling on behalf of a woman named Shannon,
who I guess you met on Hinge and you guys
went on a date recently. Do you remember her?

Speaker 17 (52:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (52:38):
That was a strange noise. Okay, Well, did I get
you in the middle of something or Hey, we're calling
because she reached out to us and said that you
guys had matched and that you went on a date
and that the date went well except somewhere between the
end of the date and maybe going back to her
place you were ill and that you you've been missing

(52:59):
an action and we had no problem getting hold of you.
So what's going on? Why are you ignoring her?

Speaker 17 (53:03):
It's not going to be a mask? Okay, it's why
is it?

Speaker 1 (53:09):
Why is it not going to be? Are you? Are
you okay right now? Like what's going on?

Speaker 17 (53:14):
Okay? This is gonna sound odd, but I I hate
those inflatable lawn decorations, hate and and and her entire
lawn is comfort with them for Halloween?

Speaker 1 (53:36):
Okay. So you so you go to her house and
she's got like a pumpkin and I don't know whatever
goblin or whatever. Yeah, yeah, like a skeleton or something
that's all blown up in the front yard. So she's festive.
She she got into Halloween a little bit. And but
why did you start sweating? And like and you sound

(53:59):
like things aren't okay right now? Like are you scared
of it? Or what's the problem?

Speaker 17 (54:03):
I I I dislike them. I I guess you could.

Speaker 18 (54:09):
Say I have more than just like I have a ptobia.

Speaker 10 (54:13):
Yeah, okay, are you are you having like an episode
right now?

Speaker 1 (54:19):
I mean, did she have like a like a coffin
and something like it with it. It was it was
it very realistic because the ones I've seen that you
buy it like Home Depot, are not they're not super realistic.

Speaker 17 (54:30):
She had every everything, pump and coffin.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
Are you did she have that DJ guy, you know,
the skeleton DJ that played music with the bluetooth, Because
that's kind of that's that's kind of cool, right, that's
new for this season, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (54:47):
I saw that when I hear music makes me dance.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
Yeah, I like that right right, Hey, Shannon, this dude's
having a real problem right now with your Halloween decorations,
which is a new one. We haven't heard that one before.
I mean he sounds like I'm actually little concerned, Adam,
Are you okay?

Speaker 17 (55:02):
Sure?

Speaker 4 (55:10):
My thoughts?

Speaker 1 (55:11):
I mean I'm confused, Like, I mean, how realistic are
these decorations? Like is it is like a man changing
people around with a change saw in your yard? Like
why why he's so scarred by this and the noises
he's making?

Speaker 15 (55:30):
I don't even really know what to say here, So
you I really don't even have that many like I
have like a witch, I have like a pumpkin.

Speaker 14 (55:40):
Oh my god, Okay, I don't know if.

Speaker 1 (55:42):
These noises are I'm not certain these noises are associated
with this call. I thought like.

Speaker 4 (55:50):
Phobia of some sort of I don't know.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
I don't want to make fun of you, man, but
it's just like I don't know, you sound uncomfortable, like
physically uncomfortable, and I don't want you to be that
way that.

Speaker 13 (56:00):
They're just they're discrusting, they're disgusting.

Speaker 14 (56:02):
Okay, okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 1 (56:06):
Like I've seen the light displays where it looks like
bugs are you know, all over you know what I mean. Like,
but none of that I have.

Speaker 15 (56:12):
Like your you have, like your standard like cute. It's
like cute, it's like family friendly, it's and it's nice.

Speaker 9 (56:21):
They're not.

Speaker 14 (56:22):
Oh my god, Okay, well this weird.

Speaker 1 (56:26):
Actually Okay, look I actually do. Yeah. I don't want
to continue to make you feel however you feel right now.
Yah seems excessive, but I don't want to make fun
of someone's phobia. Som Look, you must have a real
time with the month of October, like in general, are

(56:46):
you able to go to like a store?

Speaker 17 (56:48):
I hate you? No, I hate October.

Speaker 14 (56:52):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (56:53):
I guess it's all makes sense now, But look, Okay,
so Adam is scared of Halloween and and you're a
Halloween person and so and he's making strange noises still,
So I'm just gonna end this call because I don't
I don't want him to be in any you know.
And he could have hung up at any time he
wanted to. He okay, yeah, ok yeah, I got yeah, yeah,

(57:15):
I don't know. I wish you the best, man. I'm sorry.
I hope you you know, you work it all out.
And I'm sorry about the month of October for you
and Shannon obviously not a match.

Speaker 14 (57:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (57:25):
Caron is Entertainment Report. He's on the Bread Show.

Speaker 4 (57:28):
You can see this story.

Speaker 10 (57:30):
Actor and singer Tyrese Gibson was arrested Friday in Georgia
for misdemeanor animal cruelty after his four Cane Corso dogs
fatally mauled a neighbor's five year old King Charles.

Speaker 4 (57:42):
Tyrese initially missed a.

Speaker 10 (57:43):
Surrender deadline, but later turned himself in and was released
on twenty thousand dollars bond. He said he was away
at the time that the dogs attacked his neighbor's dog,
and he said the dogs have since been rehomed. He
expressed his condolences to his neighbor, but cops called the
in negligent, saying it is a pet owner's responsibility to

(58:04):
control their pets, and it's I cannot imagine what his
neighbor is feeling.

Speaker 4 (58:08):
Amazon, And this is your reason to be mad today.
I know the world.

Speaker 1 (58:11):
I was a just several Yeah, so she already mad,
but like, no, tell me.

Speaker 10 (58:17):
Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna give you a reason, because
we always need a reason to be mad in this climate,
I guess. Amazon Prime Video has re released the entire
James Bond film catalog, but fans notice a significant change.
The guns held by Double O seven on the movie
postered posters have been digitally removed. In some instances, the
firearms have been entirely cropped out, leaving Bond's hands awkwardly positioned,

(58:41):
so he'd be like this and the gun is just missing.
Of course, the decision sparked backlash among people who have
way too much time on their hands. During her performance
at the Austin City Limits Festival over the weekend, Sabrina
Carpenter surprised the crowd by bringing out the Queen Shania
Twain to do her that don't impress me much. During

(59:02):
the duet, Shaniah changed the lyrics from Okay, so You're
a Brad Pitt to okay, so You're from Austin, Texas,
and the crowd went absolutely crazy.

Speaker 4 (59:11):
Taylor Swift says she has.

Speaker 10 (59:13):
No plans to tour for her new album, The Life
of a Showgirl, which dropped on Friday. No one was
talking about it, so I'm sure you didn't hear. She
told BBC Radio. I'm gonna be really honest with you,
I am so tired when I think about doing it again,
because I would really really want to do it well,
which I'm happy to hear that she's finally tired, because
she never admits that. Remember, during the Eras tour, which
ran from March of twenty twenty three to December of

(59:35):
last year, she had one hundred and forty nine shows
in fifty one cities. Most of the time she did
three three and a half hour shows in a row,
back to back to back, and she called it the
most exhausting challenge ever physically.

Speaker 4 (59:47):
So I don't know.

Speaker 10 (59:49):
I don't know if she's telling the truth or not,
but I'm glad to hear she's finally tired.

Speaker 4 (59:53):
Over the weekend.

Speaker 10 (59:53):
Also, she became the first woman to have a number
one album, song, and movie in the US and the
first artist sent Prince to do that.

Speaker 4 (01:00:01):
I think he did it in the eighties.

Speaker 10 (01:00:03):
The official release party of a Showgirl top the off
box office charts with thirty three million. It collected another
thirteen internationally, leaving a total of forty six And if
you are a parent who wants to take a little swifties,
she did make it family friendly, family friendly for you.
And the other hit smash over the weekend, The Rocks

(01:00:23):
the Smashing Machine took third place with six million, if
you were wondering about that, and people are saying really
good things about the movie. If you want to catch
up on anything that you missed from our show, you
can do so by typing the Fred Show on demand
and setting us as a preset.

Speaker 4 (01:00:38):
If you can on the free iheartrate.

Speaker 1 (01:00:40):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Shelley in the show Biz Showdown.

Speaker 7 (01:00:49):
Shelley Oh coome winning high showbiz? Hi, how was your weekend?

Speaker 1 (01:00:55):
It was good?

Speaker 4 (01:00:56):
I would say the highlight. I got a Halloween decoration,
so that's exciting.

Speaker 1 (01:01:00):
Stay away from the guy from waiting on the phone,
he'll start making yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:01:06):
So yeah, I would say that's probably the highlight of
I mean, you do that for the last few weeks,
so well, I.

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
Mean you got to it at least, you know, you
got three weeks until Halloween.

Speaker 4 (01:01:15):
Well, you know, so do you put up any bread
or No?

Speaker 14 (01:01:18):
Not your little apartment.

Speaker 1 (01:01:19):
No, my little apartment doesn't tell me. I don't know
if I think the HOA would like find me or
something if I put anything up. I can't be the
one guy. But Halloween lights up on my balcony in
the building, I feel like they'd spot me or something. No,
I know, nobody really does.

Speaker 4 (01:01:35):
That probably would stick out.

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
I mean I live in a hotel. Basically, nobody really
does anything like that. Nothing festive. I think the lobby
puts up like a you know, some sort of non
offensive approved approved by the HOA board, you know, because
then comes a certain time of year. We have to
put up something for every possible holiday so that no
one's offended, you know what I mean, that kind of thing. Hey, Julie,

(01:01:59):
Hi Julie, good morning, Welcome, thank you for being part
of the thirteen Tell Me about You Fun fact about you.

Speaker 13 (01:02:04):
Is what I decided to go back to school this year.

Speaker 8 (01:02:08):
You did to become what acenographer? Okay, oh my god, wow,
good for you. All right, we look at it. We
got people who do it a little bit of everything.
Listen to this program. One hundred bucks is the prize today?
Which one went out?

Speaker 1 (01:02:22):
But Shelley has never lost this game twice in a row, Julie,
today this could be a historical day and you could
go into history books.

Speaker 14 (01:02:31):
I'm ready, Julie.

Speaker 4 (01:02:34):
Good luck.

Speaker 1 (01:02:36):
With all the respect Shelley, get the heck out. Question
number one for you, Julie. Miley Cyrus said her song
Secrets brought she and her dad closer? Who's her dad?

Speaker 13 (01:02:46):
Hilly?

Speaker 1 (01:02:47):
Singers from this popular movie sang Golden on Saturday Night Live.
Over the Weekend. What popular movie is that song? From
the internet continued to buzz over Taylor Swift's song actually
Romantic and rumors that it's about this pop star over
the weekend name a singer?

Speaker 14 (01:03:06):
Three oh Man two I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:03:10):
Speaking of Taylor, Curtis Jackson hopped online to brag about
being the only shout out on the life of a showgirl.
What is he better known?

Speaker 13 (01:03:18):
As Oh my god, I.

Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
Don't know, guess a rapper?

Speaker 8 (01:03:22):
Three?

Speaker 1 (01:03:23):
Two one okay? And which dancer TikToker and Diet Pepsi
singer is twenty five today?

Speaker 13 (01:03:30):
Three?

Speaker 1 (01:03:30):
All right? To three? Not a bad score. I'm not
sure if it's gonna be historical. You, Julie, are historically
you as an individual? Historical?

Speaker 8 (01:03:40):
Is this?

Speaker 1 (01:03:40):
I don't know? A? Three?

Speaker 15 (01:03:42):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:03:42):
Okay? Three is the score to meet? All right? You ready? Yes?
Amty Cyrus and her song Secrets brought she and her
dad closer? Who's her dad?

Speaker 4 (01:03:50):
Billy racers?

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Yeah, singers from this popular movie saying Golden on Saturday
Night Live over the weekend? What popular movie is that?

Speaker 4 (01:03:56):
From K pop demon Hunt?

Speaker 17 (01:03:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:03:58):
The internet continued to over Taylor Swift song actually romantic
in rumors that it's about this pop star named the
singer Charlie Yeah. Speaking of Taylor, Curtis Jackson hopped online
to brag about being the only shout out on the
life of a showgirl. What is he better known as? Yeah?
And which singer TikToker and Diet Pepsi singer is twenty

(01:04:19):
five today?

Speaker 14 (01:04:21):
Abson?

Speaker 1 (01:04:22):
That's all right?

Speaker 17 (01:04:22):
So five?

Speaker 1 (01:04:23):
That's a win. Julie, you did a good job, but
you're gonna have to say my name is Julie, I
got showed up on the showdown and you can't hang
with the gorilla.

Speaker 11 (01:04:30):
Go my name is Julie. I got showed up on
the showdown and I can't hang with the gorilla.

Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
Okay, It's all right, Julie. You can't hang with Rent
can't cash.

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Speaker 14 (01:05:28):
Hey, wake up week.

Speaker 4 (01:05:34):
Do you think I'm bilding a picture here? I'm on
the picture, so then.

Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
Building a picture?

Speaker 4 (01:05:40):
Yes, amazing a Yesing.

Speaker 1 (01:05:46):
Freends show is on. It's Monday. Kiggi's stay getting better.

Speaker 6 (01:05:50):
You know what it is. Shout out to the thirteen.
They sent me a lot of positive messages. Okay, good, Yes,
I feel I feel stronger, better.

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
We got to improve the mental attitude. Yes, we gotta
have a positive mental attitude.

Speaker 4 (01:06:07):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
I don't know why I'm the one saying it, but
I'm the one saying it because if you don't, then
you put it through the filter of having a bad day.
Everything's bad, everything's bad, so it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:16):
Can only get better from here.

Speaker 1 (01:06:18):
That's right. Yeah, there we go. There we are, Hiki Ki,
good morning, Hi, Caitlin, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Hey, Joby,
Shelley is here? Belahemin eight five five five nine one
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Watch throughout the morning, Listen throughout the morning, they catch
up all day. Kiky's Cordy's next, Mad, I'm pump girl?
Are you working or flirting? And you guys, guys of
the Jury will need you. Next, The Entertainment Report, Biggest
stories of the day, and the fun Fact coming up.
What are you working on?

Speaker 10 (01:06:54):
K We are talking Diddy as well as an iconic
K pop.

Speaker 4 (01:06:58):
Demon Hunter's reunion, The Fresh Show.

Speaker 1 (01:07:02):
It's oh all right, Chess, Kiki, all right, what say you?

Speaker 6 (01:07:10):
Let's get in the courtroom. The gabble has been hits.
It says, hey, Kiki, I need your honest opinion because
my family thinks I've lost my mind.

Speaker 4 (01:07:20):
I canceled my wedding three years ago.

Speaker 6 (01:07:22):
My fiance cheated on me while we were on We
were dating, we did the whole therapy forgiveness, rebuilding trust thing.
Eventually he proposed and I really thought we were in
a solid spot. Fast forward to last week. We were
at the bar with his coworkers and one of them
casually mentions, oh yeah, Carrie, the woman he cheated with,

(01:07:46):
joined our team a few months ago.

Speaker 4 (01:07:48):
I froze.

Speaker 6 (01:07:49):
He never told me that she worked there, and for
six months at that I felt humiliated, blindsided.

Speaker 4 (01:07:57):
So I left him at the bar, went home, and
off our wedding.

Speaker 6 (01:08:01):
Now my mom and sister are saying that I overreacted
because he didn't actually cheat again, and you can't control
where people work. But to me, the lion by omission
feels just as bad and if he was a trustworthy man,
why would he hide it? So am I wrong for
calling off our wedding over something that technically happened years ago?

Speaker 4 (01:08:21):
But it feels brand new all over again. What do
you think, Judge?

Speaker 6 (01:08:26):
Kiki girl almost called off my wedding over socks this morning?
So you know, sister, I feel you and you know
how I feel about withholding information in a relationship. You
know you can hide it from the world, but you
should tell your partner. I feel like I should have known,
or she should have known, that that woman is now
working at his job.

Speaker 4 (01:08:45):
I do think he made a big mistake by not
telling her.

Speaker 6 (01:08:51):
Well, technically I think you did, because you know, if
Carrie is now your coworker, and you know the history
that you and Carrie have, you don't think to bring
that up over dinner one night.

Speaker 1 (01:09:01):
Why would you do that to yourself? Though?

Speaker 4 (01:09:03):
But Dan, if you don't and your and your friend
tells me about it, now we're in a worse spot.
So I don't think.

Speaker 6 (01:09:08):
I think you're a little dramatic by calling off your
wed and I will be honest, I think this is
something that you guys can work through.

Speaker 4 (01:09:13):
But I don't feel that he was completely innocent by
not bringing this up.

Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
You guys are the jury eight five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five coll In textas say number No,
I don't know why you'd walk into that again. I
mean because it just it just sort of opens the wound. Okay,
you know if you're like, so he cheated, he got
caught or acknowledged it or whatever happened. They went through
the process. He's been forgiven. She she's good with him,

(01:09:38):
they're they're engaged, they're getting married. Everything is fine. So
why would he sit down and go, oh, by the way,
remember that threat from the past, Remember that that that
woman with whom I made poor decisions. Yeah, she's in
my life again now every single day, and so nothing
to worry about here, nothing to see. I just want
you to know that I don't know. I mean, I
can see both sides. I can see why you would

(01:10:00):
say something. I can very much see why you would not.

Speaker 6 (01:10:03):
But we moved past it, go on to the holiday party,
you know, and then it's like, oh, what is she
doing here?

Speaker 4 (01:10:09):
Or what is he doing here?

Speaker 6 (01:10:10):
You wouldn't want your partner to have given you a
heads up that this person is not working with them
every day.

Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
I just think you're asking for problems. I think you're
asking for it all to be dug up again. But
it's already been forgiven and we've moved past it. I mean,
if he wanted to cheat with this woman, he would
do it whether she worked there or not.

Speaker 4 (01:10:27):
I agree. How do I know you didn't get her
to get her the job?

Speaker 1 (01:10:30):
Well, to see, there you go. This is what I'm
talking about here, we go down this rabbit hole. This
is the rabbit hole where you're just saying things now, yes,
and you have no evidence of that, no proof of that.
He may have had nothing to do with it whatsoever,
And it doesn't matter because we've already forgiven him for
the indiscretion and we're trusting him moving forward. This is
the only way this works, except we're not if we're
saying things like that.

Speaker 4 (01:10:51):
Okay, But I just.

Speaker 6 (01:10:51):
Don't believe you should withhold information because you're worried about
my reaction.

Speaker 4 (01:10:55):
Tell me and let me process it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
Don't maybe world ask if it happened. He just tell her, Yeah,
you didn't tell me.

Speaker 4 (01:11:02):
Somebody else telling me.

Speaker 1 (01:11:02):
But withholding would mean that that you that you asked
and he said no, or that you know, lie no
because he does. Don't want to go there again, because
this is what happens. We started asking a bunch of
a bunch of crazy things start coming in your brain,
like oh, well night, now you're you're you're in close proximity,
so you're going to slip and fall in a meeting

(01:11:23):
and stick it in her or something like no, you're
not like you know, you're not. You're not going to
You're not going to do that. Hey Marcy, Hello, Hi
Marcy Kiki's court, you're the jury. What say you?

Speaker 19 (01:11:37):
Well, what I say is that on one end, I
do believe she's being a little over dramatic.

Speaker 18 (01:11:43):
However, he's also not completely off the hook with this one.

Speaker 20 (01:11:45):
I feel like transparency is to you to rebuilding that trust,
and the work was done for them to forgive and
rebuild the trust. Then, yes, being transparent, he's part of
the work that everybody put in.

Speaker 4 (01:11:56):
So why not bring it up?

Speaker 20 (01:11:57):
Why not say anything?

Speaker 1 (01:11:58):
Right?

Speaker 20 (01:11:58):
Unless somebody has something to hi, that's the only reason
they would keep that valuable information. I feel like we
which give the other person peace of mind.

Speaker 11 (01:12:05):
But yes, she is a but traumatic.

Speaker 21 (01:12:07):
I feel like this is something that could take a conversation.

Speaker 11 (01:12:09):
Clarity, maybe another couple of therapy sessions and uh, you know,
work through it.

Speaker 18 (01:12:13):
If the love is there, then just work through the issue.

Speaker 1 (01:12:17):
Yeah, okay, all right, thank you, Marcy.

Speaker 11 (01:12:20):
You're welcome.

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
You have a good day. Now, I'm here, I'm here,
I'm here in different respectives. Here, Hi, Lucy, how you're
going guys? God morning, Lucy, Good morning. Kiki's Court. So
basically peeboard together, male female there together, and dude cheated
with a woman. Now woman works, and they've moved on.
The couple's moved on, the forgiveness and the whole thing,

(01:12:41):
and they're engaged, are getting married, and now the woman
that dude cheated with now works with dude, and and
he didn't come home and just tell her that, and
now she's canceling the wedding and the whole thing. He
didn't necessarily go back there. We don't think he went
back there. We don't know that she's just mad because
this ladies at work every day and he didn't tell her.

Speaker 22 (01:13:01):
What do you think I think what he key said,
I mean, he could have avoided any type of even
minor and insecurity that the girlfriend's going to have the
fiance is going to have by saying, hey, babe, really quick,
super weird.

Speaker 21 (01:13:14):
She works here and I know what on happened, just
so you know, and you leave it there, and then
obviously she might be on guard.

Speaker 13 (01:13:22):
But I mean, that's what a relationship is.

Speaker 11 (01:13:24):
It's awkward.

Speaker 13 (01:13:25):
You know, you got to get through it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:27):
Yeah, I guess, I guess you could. But that means
that you trust that you're not going to continue to
be penalized for the past, or that you're not digging
up all this stuff again.

Speaker 13 (01:13:35):
Trust like, hey, I trust that you're working with her.

Speaker 11 (01:13:38):
Thanks for letting me know.

Speaker 18 (01:13:39):
Listen, I was previously married and a lot was withheld,
and if.

Speaker 21 (01:13:43):
It would have just been told to me, I'd still
be married. So let me just tell you that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
See, he screwed up, right, he screwed up by cheating,
But he I'm guessing he doesn't trust that bringing that
information up is going to result in her going Okay,
now I remember that we've moved ask this, So I'm
not saying it's her fault at all. But I think
the reason he's not telling her is because he's afraid
of her reaction. And I don't know that he should
be afraid of her.

Speaker 11 (01:14:09):
That's valid, But that's valid.

Speaker 21 (01:14:10):
We all have fears, Like if he loves her so
much and he's like, okay, chardy forgave me once. What
if his pushes are over the edge? I get all that,
But at the end of the day, like I guess,
we all don't have a handbook on what's right and
what's wrong. But I just honesty. I mean, if he
learns now like honesty will always win, even if it's
super awkward, you know, you'll feel better at the end.

Speaker 14 (01:14:31):
Of the day.

Speaker 1 (01:14:31):
Thank you, Lucy, have a good day. Thanks guys, adore you.

Speaker 19 (01:14:34):
Bye.

Speaker 18 (01:14:34):
I have a good more.

Speaker 1 (01:14:35):
Thank you. I adore you. That's nice thing to say.
Fred I. I don't disagree with you often, but Kiki
is right withholding is not telling your partner. Your partner
shouldn't have to ask. But if your partner does, as
you don't disclose, that's a lie. I guess what I
mean is if she asked me and I lied, But like,

(01:14:57):
what are you asking about this woman constantly? Because again,
we supposedly moved on here. That's the biggest part of this.
I'm not saying forgiveness is easy, but she forgave him.
There should be zero penalty for whatever happens moving forward
if she forgave him and he's holding up his end
of the bargain and there's trust. For whatever reason, he
thought he would be penalized for bringing this up again.

(01:15:17):
And I'm not saying that that's that she did anything wrong,
but I just think like he doesn't want he doesn't
want that smoke anymore.

Speaker 6 (01:15:24):
I understand what you don't want, but you brought the
smoke in the house, and so I need to know
that there's a new fire, and I need to know.

Speaker 1 (01:15:30):
But there isn't a new Fire's a fire.

Speaker 4 (01:15:32):
The house is on fire.

Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
Hey, Christina, Hi, good morning, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 15 (01:15:40):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (01:15:40):
It was Kicky's court. You're the jury, what say you?

Speaker 17 (01:15:44):
Okay?

Speaker 11 (01:15:45):
So I just called old Joss a couple of months
ago call off my wedding because I found out.

Speaker 13 (01:15:55):
Was cheating on me.

Speaker 1 (01:15:57):
I'm sorry that happened.

Speaker 11 (01:16:00):
I mean, that's his life, and I'm kinda the worst,
but for her, like I tried to make it work too.
And then you just find out new information and though
it's old information to them, it's new information to you.
And when you try to have moved past like the cheating.

(01:16:20):
The cheating is always there, but the transparency is what
helps gets you through it. And if he's nothing transparent,
especially about this person he cheated with now working with him,
like he's completely in the wrong, that is, she has
every right to be upset about that, because omission of
information is lying.

Speaker 1 (01:16:42):
But we're implying here, we're projecting onto him that this
is automatically a problem, that any overlap between these two
is going to be an issue. And this is a
guy who I don't know why we're not giving him
the benefit of the doubt. And again, the only reason
I would say this is because he screwed up for
how Connery came clean and she chose to forgive him.

(01:17:05):
What I cannot stand is situations where I forgive you,
but I'm going to it's going to be an issue
for the rest of our lives. Well, then you didn't.
Then you didn't, because this guy's got to have a
chance to redeem himself and you don't know him that,
by the way, But if you give him that, then
he can't be And I'm assuming he was afraid to
tell her, as he should be, but he lost.

Speaker 11 (01:17:26):
The benefit of the doubt once he jee did a
couple of years ago. So whatever you don't tell her,
she has all the right to be obsessed.

Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
I would agree that he doesn't need to fear her
reaction if in fact, he's living up to his end
of the bargain. So I don't know. I guess I
understand exactly what you're saying, because we have to because
we because we forgave and we're trusting now, or we're not.
And you again, I'm gonna say one more time, you
don't know anyone that you don't have to do that,

(01:17:57):
but then break up because it'll never work if we're
constantly living in a world where this person's a threat. Yeah,
that's all I'm saying about.

Speaker 11 (01:18:07):
She found she found out, so that is that is
a big deal. If you would have told her up front,
I feel like the transparency would have been more, okay,
work through this. But now she found out, so now
it's kind of like for me, I would be like,
you lost, you lost any chance of forgiveness, or we're

(01:18:28):
trying to make it work because you weren't being transparently.

Speaker 1 (01:18:32):
Yeah, here's what I would have done, Christina. I would
have said, I would have come clean if this woman
comes in my proximity ever again, whether I see her
at the mall or at the car wash or at Starbucks,
or if I see her if she now works at
my business, if if my hands are clean, I would
have been transparent. But if I were to pay any
penalty for that, now we have now gets to decide

(01:18:54):
that I do know Kiki, because because when you forgive
someone and you move on, that we can't every time
this person's name comes up, where every time you feel vulnerable,
make me pay again. But because we're moving forward.

Speaker 6 (01:19:07):
How I'm going to react if you don't give me
the opportunity. So give me the chance to see how
I'm going to react.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
But what I'm saying is if I if you do
react poorly beyond a certain point, now I have issue.
Now I have issue to say. Now, wait a minute.
I thought if I thought we were moving forward, I
thought we acknowledged that I screwed up. Did I acknowledge
that we went through the process? So I don't know.
I would cover my ass. But I also think I
would have every right if you freak out on me,

(01:19:35):
to be like, now hold.

Speaker 4 (01:19:36):
On, yeah, and I thought we were good. She may
not freak out on you though.

Speaker 1 (01:19:39):
If any right, And he doesn't know that because you
didn't tell her, so I would have said something.

Speaker 4 (01:19:44):
Yeah, yeah, you let someone else come into.

Speaker 11 (01:19:46):
So he wasn't wrong for not being transferred in the
first place.

Speaker 4 (01:19:49):
That's well, he was wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:19:51):
I'm telling you what I would have done, whether I what.
I don't think he's wrong or not, except to you,
and you think he's wrong, so that's fair. Thank you, Christina.
I'm sorry for what happened to you. But onward and upward, yeps.
More fish in a sea girl, a couple. You will
be okay, Christina, have a good day, okay, by she
gonna be fine. Ready, No, she's not ready to hear it. No,

(01:20:11):
she's not, But that's okay. She's gonna be fined. Uh. Noel,
how you doing good?

Speaker 8 (01:20:17):
How are you?

Speaker 11 (01:20:17):
I love you guys so much?

Speaker 19 (01:20:20):
You getting married?

Speaker 1 (01:20:22):
You are you excited that you're getting married after hearing
all these kiggies court stories about people doing this and that.

Speaker 4 (01:20:26):
Oh yeah, because it's strict in his courting room.

Speaker 1 (01:20:30):
Well let me let me just recap here quickly. And
this is kind of a hard one to recap. But
we have a couple. The dude cheated three years ago
with a woman. They moved past, it went through the process,
she forgave him, therapy, all these different things, and they've
moved forward. They're engaged, and there they had a wedding planned.

Speaker 17 (01:20:48):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:20:49):
This woman finds out that the woman with whom her
fiance cheated now works where he does, and he didn't
tell her, and so she cancels the wedding. I'm saying,
that's not I don't think that's fair to him if
in fact, we truly forgave and move forward. Noel, what
say you?

Speaker 17 (01:21:08):
Okay?

Speaker 19 (01:21:09):
So I'm getting married in two months and I found
out that the woman who my fiance teated on me
with is now working with him every single day and
he did not tell me. I would call the wedding
off because obviously I did forgive you in the past,
but you're still proving to me that I cannot trust you.
Because if you have nothing to hide and.

Speaker 18 (01:21:30):
We're going to be transparent and we're working on trust,
you should have told me in the beginning that she's
worked with you. Now, if he worked late at the
office or they go out for a company happy hours,
it's going to cripple you. Like it's going to literally
cripple your mental state and you're never going to trust
him again. And I love you, Fred with my whole,

(01:21:53):
entire heart. But no, my reaction is valid.

Speaker 4 (01:21:57):
It has you.

Speaker 19 (01:21:58):
Chose to not tell me, and you made this whole fire.

Speaker 18 (01:22:02):
Yourself, like you chose this life. And that's my reaction
is because I can't trust you anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:22:08):
I don't think this woman coming in my proximity three
years later or whatever makes me untrustworthy for not wanting
to open that wound again again. What would I do?
I would cover my butt and watch your reaction, and
if you flip off, if you fly off the handle,
then I know where I stand. You haven't forgiven me,
and we have a different problem.

Speaker 15 (01:22:29):
No, you didn't.

Speaker 6 (01:22:29):
She didn't just come in your proximity. You didn't just
see her at the stoplight, bro.

Speaker 13 (01:22:35):
I did every day.

Speaker 1 (01:22:36):
I'm just I'm going to give him the benefit of
the death. I'm going to give him bett. I'm going
because I don't think. I don't think he got her
the job. I don't think he's out seeking her and
communicated with her to being close. If he is, then
he's in the wrong, and then he he should have
been forgiven. If he kne all that the dump is
as But I don't know. I don't know how we

(01:22:57):
live in this world whereas I forgave you, but I
kind of well, there forever, but here's the term.

Speaker 4 (01:23:02):
It's forever.

Speaker 1 (01:23:03):
No one's asking you to forget, but we can't just
every time you feel like it, Pauline, it just well
I will, but.

Speaker 3 (01:23:10):
I'm not gonna freak out. But I just don't want
to be the clown in the background that I didn't know.
That's all this really is, Like, yeah, it might hurt
when you tell me I might throw a fit. I
might you know, punch a wall, I might do all
these things that I might just do. The point is,
if I forgave you, I'm with you, like, let me
work through my emotions. But be honest, just be straight up, like,
this is happening at the office. This person is here.
I don't talk to her whatever, I'm just letting you

(01:23:30):
know she is in the office withholding.

Speaker 10 (01:23:32):
Sometimes I feel feels like people are trying to control
the other person's reaction. Yes, fortunately, like you have to
do the right thing, but be prepared that they might
not react.

Speaker 4 (01:23:41):
Well, but that's not on you. And you can't control
that period.

Speaker 1 (01:23:44):
Thank you, Noell, have a good day, love. People are
blowing me up. Oh I'm so wrong. I'm strong. I
told you exactly what I would do, and it's the
thing that you want me to do. But what I'm
hung up on is that everyone is in here calling, going,
see he can't be trusted. What do you mean he
didn't do anything, but see what you're doing. But you're
doing the thing I'm talking about is we've jumped to

(01:24:05):
all these conclusions. We don't have any information. We automatically
assume that this guy went and called her up and
he was like physically humping her and was like, I'm
going I'm gonna get you. I gotta be next to
you every day so I can physically hump you some more.

Speaker 4 (01:24:23):
I'm you see, it's physically humping guys.

Speaker 12 (01:24:28):
This is what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:24:29):
You guys are saying you guys are telling me I'm wrong.
But you're saying that you're you're jumping to all the
conclusions that concerned.

Speaker 6 (01:24:34):
Me, and you told me the conclusions would not be
there because I would have you on FaceTime at work
all day.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
And then Calen's point is true, is I think he's
probably not telling her because of this.

Speaker 4 (01:24:47):
Yes, I understand, but no, but that's up to me.
I get to choose how I react. I don't care
what's fair to you.

Speaker 1 (01:24:56):
You guys are saying, you're saying all the things that
I'm saying would prevent would prevent a lot of people
from going back there. That's it, Hey, Jill, how do
you do it?

Speaker 18 (01:25:08):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (01:25:08):
Jill, I'm gonna give you. The final sake is the
gott to move on. What do you think?

Speaker 18 (01:25:13):
All right?

Speaker 11 (01:25:13):
So, I mean I'm all about this forgive and forget
because I've done it. My ex husband left me twice
for the same woman, and he's now happily married to
her and am happily with someone else. So it worked
out for the best good. And I will say I
forgave and I forget. And he didn't tell me when
she came back into his life, and I said, you

(01:25:33):
know what, I forget. It's okay, it didn't work out.
Bred he should have been honest with her if she's
back in his life in any capacity. Now those terms
have changed. She forgave and forgot, but she was gone.
The other part of the puzzle was removed.

Speaker 1 (01:25:49):
Here's my other question comes.

Speaker 11 (01:25:50):
Back into the puzzle. You have to communicate and you
have to.

Speaker 19 (01:25:54):
Work through it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:54):
I hear all that, and again, that's probably what I
would do in this situation. What I would do and
what and me try me understanding maybe where he's coming
from her? Two different things. But okay, So I come
home and I tell you, Hey, this woman who is
I caused you amends? I did it? She didn't, I mean,
she was part of it. But I was married to you.
I'm the or I'm with you, I made the commitment

(01:26:17):
to you. I cause you great pain by being with
this woman is now is now in my presence every
day at my work. What am I putting you? And again,
I'm assuming that you're going to dislike that most people would.
But now you get to relive all of that, and
for what Because I'm just assuming this guy's not going
back there now. If he is, we have a whole

(01:26:37):
different problem. But if we forgave him and we trust him,
then we're assuming that until we find out otherwise that
he is not. But now every day when I go
to work, you get to relive this until you don't.
And I'm saying that's not fair to her either.

Speaker 9 (01:26:51):
No, it isn't.

Speaker 13 (01:26:51):
But isn't it worse?

Speaker 11 (01:26:53):
Isn't it so much worse that she does go to
the holiday party? Someone said, go to a holiday party.
He's been working there for almost a year. You at what,
at some point found out this Carson had been sleeping
with your partner.

Speaker 1 (01:27:07):
But is it worse when you find out he didn't
he wasn't doing anything?

Speaker 4 (01:27:10):
Or better, you're back too.

Speaker 11 (01:27:12):
He cheated on you behind your back.

Speaker 1 (01:27:14):
But we're assuming he's not doing anything now just because
she's there. Yeah, I don't know sure, just because.

Speaker 11 (01:27:20):
She's there, but that it's the sense of betrayal that
he's now reignited by withholding the impromation.

Speaker 1 (01:27:26):
I hear, I hear all of this. I think he's
dan if he does, and dan if he doesn't. In
this honestly, i'd probably, you know what I'd do. I'd
get another job. I quit my damn Joe, I quit
my damn job.

Speaker 11 (01:27:37):
Sound terrible.

Speaker 1 (01:27:38):
I'm moving. I work at Wendy's now more important. Forget
Taco Bell. I've moved on. Jill, Jill, Jill, Jill. I
don't work there anymore. We're fine. I quit more important
Taco Bell. Have a good day, Jill, thank you for calling.

Speaker 18 (01:27:56):
Love you.

Speaker 1 (01:27:57):
I love Jill.

Speaker 4 (01:27:57):
Now I'm at the holiday party. We got shrimp cocktails.

Speaker 1 (01:28:01):
Come on going to a holiday party because I don't
work there.

Speaker 4 (01:28:04):
Yeah, you know, tell me and they now get a
job there now three of us.

Speaker 1 (01:28:09):
Now here we go Entertainer Report and he's on the
Bread Show.

Speaker 10 (01:28:13):
Bad Bunny hosted Saturday Night Live over the weekend with
one of the sketches featuring him, and he's playing a
dude with a major K pop demon hunter's obsession.

Speaker 4 (01:28:24):
It was hysterical.

Speaker 10 (01:28:25):
So we played this guy named Thomas meeting up with
his friends at a restaurant and they're catching up, but
he couldn't help but share his obsession with the Netflix
hit animated musical movie K Pop Demon Hunters, and they
kept telling him the movie was for kids. He started
getting pissed, but eventually the group needed saving when the
three singers who sing that hit song Golden from the
movie up here and they start to sing, making the

(01:28:48):
audience go absolutely crazy. As far as I know, this
was the first time they've ever performed live together. The
movie made history as the first soundtrack with four simultaneous
top ten songs on the Billboard Hot one hundred, racking
up over three billion global streams, with Golden being submitted.

Speaker 4 (01:29:05):
For some sort of awards consideration.

Speaker 10 (01:29:07):
So that song is really huge, and I know everybody's
obsessed with it and kind of went crazy over the
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Speaker 1 (01:29:22):
The Fread Show is on Fread's Fun Fact Fred Fun
so much, so much. Guys, did you know that Ben
and Jerry's made a graveyard for all of their former flavors?
So all the flavors consist of discontinued ice cream flavors.

(01:29:45):
Each flavor has its photo as well as its lifespan.
Each one even has an epitaph for people to remember
it by. So every time that they, I don't know,
stop making a flavor of some kind, then they put
it in their gravyar atah. Yeah, that's like a little
you never had, like a little slogan for like, yeah you,

(01:30:06):
what would yours be?

Speaker 7 (01:30:07):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:30:09):
I try a lot swifty and overly emotional what I
was going to say, swifty and overly emotional, but overly
Overleason tag that that would imply that you shouldn't be
that much. I wasn't going to say that loud.

Speaker 4 (01:30:18):
You should be less.

Speaker 1 (01:30:19):
You could be as emotional as you want.

Speaker 4 (01:30:21):
Thanks. I don't believe that, but thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:30:24):
Well, you're you and you can be as long as
you know. I don't have to feel bad about it private,
as long as it's that directed to me being swift
and overly Kaylin. But you're not dead, thank god. So yeah,
you're not in the Ben and Jerry's ice cream flavor.
If you were a flavor. If you were a flavor,
what would you be?

Speaker 4 (01:30:42):
I think I would be, Oh, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:30:46):
Sure, pickle flavored kailin a swifty and overly emotional wow
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