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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Fred's show is on.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
I'd like to start the program by thanking Rufio for
giving me my mail today. You're welcome, and uh what
do we receive today in the mail? You're the Fred Show.
Couldn't find any extra hats, but hope you like the
T shirts instead from Jen B and F Fabricating.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
There you go. What do these shirts look like? Let
me see?

Speaker 2 (00:24):
All right, long sleeves, you got Xcel.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Give me that.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Give me that big ass one man, because you know
I'll dry it and then it would be an Excel
immediate couple larges here. So because I'm an idiot, all right, Jen,
thank you being F Fabricating brother, Fred Fabricating. I know
you know I found it, found it before my radio
career began.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
I didn't know.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
I didn't know when I might need to be in
the steel business. But you know, beams. It looks like
from the T shirt looks like steel beams of some kind.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
Yeah. So it's exciting.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
It's an emerging business for me because when you think
of me, you think steel beams, welding, construction, construction.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Yeah, without question, Yeah, that's fabricating.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
No, it doesn't know, it doesn't it doesn't say how
many times I had to fabricate it to get ruddy,
or how many things you got messed up in the process,
or how many professionals had to come in and undo
the fabricating idea. But other than that, yeah, Kevin, you.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
You hurt yourself over the weekend. I did.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
What What sort of high intensity activity were you involved
with that caused you to injury? And first of all,
what did you injure my back? You injured your back right,
So you must have been you were squatting, doing doing weight,
You must have been working out, you must have been
constructing something.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
Yeah, something like that. You know, it always happens every
year and the weather changes, I end up getting sick.
You know what I'm saying goes because I continue to
wear shorts until it's like today. But uh, you know,
I get sick and I get over the sickness, but
this cough just lingers with me, like I can't get

(02:15):
rid of it throughout the winter or whatever. And over
the weekend, I was coughing so bad that I blew
my back by yourself, Yes, so like I pulled the
muscle so bad, Like I was in.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Pain, like off just coughing, Yes, just coughing. Uh, I
have no other explanation for it.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
Like I was coughing, and then I was just like, oh,
my back start hurting, and then like all of yesterday,
I was in so much pain.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
Now, Jason and I have injured ourselves sleeping. Yeah, I
mean literally, there's just no embellishment. I woke up this
might remember this. I talked about it on the air
maybe a year ago. I woke up from sleeping and
I honestly couldn't move, like I genuinely I was like,
how am I going to get out of bed?

Speaker 1 (03:06):
Am I going to die? Here? Am I going to
get bed sores? Like?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
I couldn't get out of bed. And then finally I
got out of bed and I couldn't. I couldn't even
like put on pants. I was so messed up from
and I was. It wasn't like I was so messed
up because it was a wild night or I was alone.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Just sleeping. That's all I did, Jason.

Speaker 5 (03:24):
I've sprained my ankle now twice, just sleeping, like and
I'll wake up and I'll feel fine when I go
to bed, and then I wake up and I have.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
To like hobble.

Speaker 5 (03:33):
So you take a shower or get dressed or whatever,
like it's the weirdest thing.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
And I don't move like I literally said, that's the thing.
I wasn't even doing anything. Yeah, eight three five? What
is like the almost insane way that you injured yourself?
Like it's almost unexplainable, Kaylin. You hurt yourself so many times.
I broke my ankle just dancing.

Speaker 6 (03:55):
One time I busted my knee when we were at
that climbing.

Speaker 4 (03:59):
Thing on a skateboards.

Speaker 6 (04:03):
I just I'm cracking up because all the people that
made fun of me for dislocating three ribs putting leather
of pants on, now it's happening to you guys.

Speaker 1 (04:12):
Yeah, like yourself leather pants on.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
Literally that was that was bad.

Speaker 6 (04:17):
I had to go see a doctor like a lot
to get that fixed.

Speaker 7 (04:20):
That was the worst pain ever.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
Kiki, How do you introduce so I'm sure you have no.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
I think I'm Bill Ford tough.

Speaker 8 (04:30):
Watched I walk, watched I walk right out of here
today and hurt myself.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
But no, I haven't really done that.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yeah, really you've never Just because I just like, again,
i'd like to be able to tell you a story
about Oh yeah, I was down the wild being chased
by a rabbit kangaroo.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Yeah, and I was helping this lady. She was stuck
under the car, and I had first chase my rabbit kangaroo.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
And then as I'm being chased, I find this woman
stuck under her car, and I had to find the
strength to save her and then continue running from the
rabbit kangaroo. And my back hurts because of it. No,
that's not what happened. I just slept and then I
woke up, and that was it. I broke my foot
getting out of a chair. Jackie said, let me see here, Rufio,

(05:15):
check out Delo's Delos Therapy. I'm a pain therapist and
specialized in mushless muscles.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
Muscles.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
I threw my back out from a sneeze. Somebody said,
oh uh yeah, I mean this is what I'm talking about. Hey, Hobby,
what's up, Hobby? Hey man, how'd you hurt yourself?

Speaker 1 (05:34):
What'd you do?

Speaker 9 (05:36):
I just located my shoulder pretty bad from ultimate frisbee?

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Whoa, I mean, at least that's somewhat athletic. I mean
those you're running around, you're throwing stuff. I mean, at
least you're doing something. I mean you're not putting pants on,
but it's.

Speaker 9 (05:51):
It's It was during eighth grade, so they look like
the coolest injury. I went to go swat a frisbee
out of the air and I guess they swamped too
hard and it.

Speaker 10 (05:59):
Just stopped out.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
Man.

Speaker 9 (06:04):
Yeah, well I didn't even realize. I tried walking it off.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
I was like, all right, this doesn't feel right.

Speaker 9 (06:08):
Once the nurses and they took off my shirt, there's
my shoulder coming out.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
No, it's funny that you me ultimate frisbee because what
do they call it? Like I saw it on ESPN
this or one of the ESPNS this weekends, but they
called something it's almost like Frisbee's trademark. They called disc
something disc golf, No it was, but it was ultimate frisbee.
But they couldn't use the word Frisbee. I don't think
it was an ultimate disc or something. And like literally
these are like the Raleigh somebody against on the football field,

(06:38):
right yeah, or a soccer field yeah whatever, But it's
like like they're actually it's traveling Ultimate Frisbee team basically,
and they these guys were athletic, Like it didn't look easy,
but I'm going wow, I mean I would much rather
say that I'm a professional ultimate frisbee player than like
a professional cornhole player.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
You know that.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
I mean once sounds a little bit more legitimate than
the other in my opinion. Thank you, Hobby, you have
a good day.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
I'm just like, it's amazing what's on TV now? I'm
watching this thing?

Speaker 2 (07:08):
But they were I saw one guy make an amazing catch,
like and he had to do it all NFL style
where he had to plant his feet to stay in
bounds and stuff.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
I'm like, okay, all right, good for you man.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
Hey Jason, Yeah, Hi, So you're a chiropractor and you're
saying it's not uncommon for people to hurt themselves doing
basically nothing.

Speaker 9 (07:28):
Pretty much.

Speaker 11 (07:29):
Yeah, especially sleeping. And we always yell at our patients.
We teach our kids how to stand up straight and
sit up straight, but we never teach them how to
lie in bed. And you spend a third of your
life in bed, so back is best.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Guys.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
Oh, you're supposed to lay on your back, hails, It's
too hard, yes, sir, yes, sir, I can't do it.
I lay on my stomach or in the fetal position,
which I think is part of the reason why I
have a problem.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
Yeah, well go ahead, Yeah, you know where.

Speaker 11 (07:57):
I'm at, especially now with the uh.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Oh lord, what's that?

Speaker 2 (08:02):
I was wondering if he knew where he was? But anyway,
Uh okay, no, please sound like my father would if
I knew where he was.

Speaker 11 (08:09):
Go ahead, especially especially with pat neck now sitting at
a computer looking down forward. Every day, if you think
about sleeping on your side or stomach, you're just misaligning
things all over the place. And even if you're sleeping
on your back with a towel to support your neck,
that's where people say, oh, I snore and my wife's
you know, kicks me. So we always teach you to

(08:31):
put a towel or something up under your neck so
that your chin is to the ceiling, your airway is open,
so you won't you won't snore, and you're supporting the
normal natural curves of the spine. Fighting that whole tech
neck computers, texting the whole whoah.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
So yeah, me and Heather Man, I tie myself into
a knot and sleep in like a small ball.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
Yeah that can't be good for you.

Speaker 11 (08:54):
Well, well, listen, give yourself twenty minutes every night before
bed sleep on your back. Relax your body do its thing,
and after the twenty minutes, if you can't fall asleep,
do your pretzel thing. But believe it or not, after
about thirty days, your body will actually go, oh there's
something too. Sleeping on my back because I wake up
feeling refreshed. I feel good, and god forbid, I'm not

(09:15):
waking up in painting.

Speaker 4 (09:16):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
All right, well, thank you, have a good day. All right,
look at that, Jason. I love you too, Call anytime, fran.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
Y, thank you. Good morning. How'd you hurt yourself?

Speaker 9 (09:27):
Good morning?

Speaker 12 (09:28):
Well I didn't actually hurt hurt myself, but it was
during COVID and you know the whole hand sanitizer thing.
I put hand sanitized hand sanitizer on, went outside, lit
my cigarette and.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
No, like, how on fire was your Did you burn
yourself severely?

Speaker 11 (09:49):
No?

Speaker 9 (09:50):
No, not at all.

Speaker 11 (09:51):
But the tops of my hands were flings.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
Blue flames because it's wow, wow.

Speaker 13 (09:57):
Child, Yeah I was.

Speaker 12 (10:00):
I was like working out, I stopped, stropped and was
rolling around on my debt.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
I bet that's happened a lot.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
I bet that's happened a lot with smokers, because you
wouldn't necessarily think about those two things being interconnected, right right.

Speaker 11 (10:16):
So yeah I did smell some hairbo wow.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
Well yeah, well thank you friend. Yeah, glad you have
a nice day, you too. Sarah. Hi, Sarah, Hi, Sarah,
good morning. How did you hurt yourself in sort of
a way that we can laugh about now?

Speaker 14 (10:35):
I broke my nose opening my own car door?

Speaker 1 (10:39):
Now, how does that are you? Okay? I need to understand.

Speaker 14 (10:42):
Okay, So I have terrible death perception. I had a
lazy eye that wasn't created properly when I was a kid,
so as an adult, I have learned to like compensate
for that. And I was very quickly opening the door
and did not measure the distance of which my face

(11:04):
was from the door and hitting myself straight in the
base and it immediately bruised. But it wasn't like terrible,
like it wasn't super alarming. And then a week later,
my face was still hurting and I was like, I'm
going to go to the doctor, and so of course
I did, and they were like, you need to have
surgery tomorrow before your nose sets like this. So that

(11:25):
I had surgery.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Wow, Well I'm glad you're okay.

Speaker 9 (11:29):
Yeah, I'm okay.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
Definite watch out for the car door today.

Speaker 9 (11:34):
Everyone, I will thank you.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Have a good one you guys.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
Love you. Okay, I'm going through somebody these texts too.
I entered myself multiple times in the dumb way. One
time a screen door closed on my shoulder, strained my shoulder.
Also pulling the shower curtain open after I finished showering.
Let me see here, walked into a cornhole box. Someone

(12:00):
second degree burns after driving a pizza on it. I
dislocated my knee dancing the Cotton Eyed Joe at my
high school homecoming. I was like, went sneezed and pinched
a nerve in my right shoulder. M yeah, it goes
on and on. Here my brother's not dislocated. It is

(12:21):
me reaching down for the remote. Yeah, we're putting on
leather pants.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
In Kalin's case. I'm just trying to figure out the
nose of the door.

Speaker 9 (12:31):
Things.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
I might need a picture.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
The Fred Show was on Good Morning on the radio
and the iHeart app anytime search it for The Fred
Show on demand. I got absolutely roasted last night by
someone that I don't know that it was like a
dating app thing, you know. So we're just texting and
like I I will admit that my sense of humor

(12:55):
is not for everybody, you know, but I also am like,
I think I get myself in trouble more off than
not because I'm programmed not only to say whatever comes
to my mind, but also the whole improv yes and thing.
And I think it gets one. I think it gets
lost in text. But two, I think it just some
people just don't have that kind of sense of humor.

(13:16):
They just can't. And that's you know, it's my fault
as the person doing the talking, Like, I don't blame
that on someone else. But what I what I will
say is I think some people need to just chill
the hell out, Like some people take things way too seriously.
But I get a bad rap for saying just crazy stuff.
I mean, I'm not crazy. Look at Kanye West. That's
crazy stuff. I mean I just say silly things because

(13:38):
it's like the first thing comes to mind, yes, and
you say something, and I'll just say something, just put
something out there that's just crazy. And anyway, this particular
person roasted me, like served me last night, and part
of me is like, hey, sorry, I offended you, and
then the other half of me is like dude, it
was a joke, like it's we're being silly here like this.

Speaker 13 (13:56):
I'm not.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
I'm not out here like, uh, you know, it wasn't
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (14:00):
It wasn't.

Speaker 2 (14:01):
Wasn't that bad, I don't think. But I'll tell you
later what I said, because it did. It was in
u there was innuendo. So I'll tell you later what
I said when there maybe aren't as many kids listening.
And then you can, as you always do, you can
give me your honest opinion about it.

Speaker 1 (14:16):
Yeah, but I already know what I think. For most
of you.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
I think most of you are going to go, yeah,
I can see how that didn't land. But like it was,
that was that's silly, Like it was silly.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
I got your message. You want me to do it now, Yeah,
I'll do it.

Speaker 4 (14:33):
Then we might roast you. Let's go.

Speaker 1 (14:36):
You know you might, you might, you might, you might.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
So I I'm back on the I'm back on the
dating app.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
I go on and off all the time.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
I go off because I just don't like it, and
I'm not whining and complaining. I've seen a bunch of
comments on like message boards about our show. It's like, oh,
Fred's always wanted about. I'm really not always whining about
being single, like I'm really I think that the I
am more than happy to be single. I'm a very
happy person. I think sometimes I feel fomo if I'm
not doing something proactive to maybe find partnership, because it's

(15:12):
not just gonna this person, sadly is not gonna be
my doordass driver one day. I mean, how awesome would
that be? Knock knock, knock, here's my you know, Taco
bell And by the way, you're the woman of my dreams.
Come on in and have a burrito with me. It
hasn't happened yet. It's probably not gonna happen.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
Doesn't work that way.

Speaker 2 (15:30):
But I'm on the dating app and I see this
girl and a lot of times now they'll put people
and I do this, but they'll put their Instagram in there.
And so I went to the and she was one
of the featured because on Hinds you've got like they
changed them. I think every day there's like eight or
nine featured people. And in order to match with a
featured person, you have to give them a rose. Well,

(15:53):
you only get one rose a week if you don't
pay okay, or you pay three dollars per rose, but like,
you can only match with them if you have a rose,
which I think comes off a little thirsty anyway, especially
if people don't realize that they're featured, meaning I can't
match with you normally.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
So I see this girl.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
I don't have any roses, but she has her Instagram
on there, so I hit her up on Instagram. She
follows me back right away, so we start messaging, and
then we start texting and she's like, oh, a friend
of mine thought that you know, I've heard your radio show.
She's heard your radio show. Friend of mine thought we
would get along. And she's younger, I think she's twenty
eight something. So we're texting back and forth and it's
going on like maybe like a half an hour and

(16:31):
then and it's like playful whatever. And so I asked her,
I'm like, so, what are you looking for, like in
a dude, And I don't remember what she said, but
she listed a bunch of stuff. And then my response
was like, to add one more item. Because she listed
a bunch of things, I put oral fixation and she goes,

(16:54):
of course, and then kept going and then about fifteen
minutes later, decided that that was the most disgusting thing
she'd ever heard and just served me. But it was
like a joke. Like it was like she's like, oh,
I'm looking for, you know, an independent guy. I could
probably even read you the text. I'm looking for an
independent guy who like you know, has health insurance. And
I mean, just like a bunch of like worlds, like
a bunch of just like normal things. And then I

(17:17):
and then just to be like silly, I just threw
around like and an oral fix like like that he
would have it, not that I have it, not that
anybody is it. I was just literally just throwing something
outrageous out there. And she told me that I was
like truly one of the most disgusting people that she'd
ever heard, and like that I wasn't funny and that
I was disgusting, And all of a sudden, I'm like,

(17:37):
wait a minute. First of all, you you said yes
to that, like you wrote back like naturally because you
understood that it was a silly comment. I wasn't like
going to get into oral fixations with you, nor was
I discussing my.

Speaker 1 (17:50):
Own or anyone else's.

Speaker 4 (17:52):
Oh yike, if I already.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Know calein that you would have laughed that off because
that's your personality.

Speaker 6 (17:57):
Yeah, I mean I I enjoy a good joke.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
Yeah, because it's like here she was like, I wish
she could find the actual text. But it was like
there's like a bunch of just like normal stuff that
everybody would say. And then I'm like, oh Anna oral fixation.

Speaker 4 (18:09):
Yeah, like ha ha ha.

Speaker 7 (18:11):
I mean I think just like, I don't know, I
don't know why.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
That's a little weird that I said that.

Speaker 7 (18:18):
Yeah, I think it is.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
Wait, of all the things that you said on the
radio and that I said on the radio over the year,
so that was weird.

Speaker 3 (18:25):
Weird, that's a that's a weird text message to start
off a conversation with.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
I guess, well, it wasn't the first message I have
to see. I have to see the text, like it
was about thirty messages in. But like I could have
said a guy driving a clown car. I mean I
could have said I could have said a guy with it.
There's a million things I could have said. I just
was being silly, like it's not real.

Speaker 8 (18:50):
She's up here listing her desires and wants of this.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
And then and by the way, she's lying if she
says it's not on the list, So that's a that's
but I wasn't being like grotesque. I wasn't being like
I didn't dig into it. I just threw it out there.
But I don't think that's the point. Is I just
I just say stuff and ninety five percent of the
time people are like, either you're an idiot or they laugh. Yeah,

(19:14):
but no one's like really internalizing it, yeah, because I'm not.
It's not like it's like I sent a picture of
my dingling, right, I mean you the stuff that people
send us, that people say on social media. I mean
it's a million times worse than that. I mean I've
seen screenshots at what guys say. Oh yeah, I was
just being silly anyway, you don't think it was funny.

Speaker 8 (19:38):
I just want to know what jumped in your spirit.
You have the need that moment. It was just I
was looking for something outrageous. So see, she probably was
like he might be the one. Let me really list
what I'm looking for, and you didn't take it serious.
That's what I think she's really mad at, because I
wouldn't have been mad at what she said. But just like, dang,
I'm trying to really get to notice man, he played,

(19:59):
but I'm.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
Not sure that I I wasn't getting to know her.
I just I don't know. But is that not my
sense of humor? It is like anybody who knows me,
like I just say whatever. And I understand that a
lot of it's lost in text. Yes, like you don't
know me, you don't you don't know the delivery.

Speaker 1 (20:14):
You know.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
Maybe you're used to guys being like, Hi, how you doing,
come over and do some stuff. I don't know which
I was not doing. But this girl and then she
just kept going. I'm like, I'm like all right, like hey,
I'm sorry. And then it was like and by the way,
and then she just like kept like like you know,
I know your egos bruise. Now like my egos, my
egos bruise. I'm like, I said something funny. You didn't laugh.

(20:35):
We can move on now, No we can't. And it
was just like you're a terrible person.

Speaker 4 (20:40):
She just wanted to curshy you out anyway.

Speaker 8 (20:41):
I was like, you know, she knew who you When
she found out who you were, she was like, oh yeah,
I mean if I.

Speaker 2 (20:45):
Had a dollar for every time I wasn't funny. Kiki
like I would be not here. But I also think, like,
why are people so damn serious? Like it's just I'm
just being silly.

Speaker 15 (20:55):
Yeah, I feel like the cursing out was unnecessary because Okay,
if she didn't think it was funny whatever, she could
have been like, oh that, by way, that wasn't funny,
but like to go off and tell you you're this horrible
person and the hell with you or whatever she said.

Speaker 4 (21:07):
Like that's too much.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
It was just it was just an improv It was
just riffing, like I'm like sorry, and then she just
kept going. I'm like and I said, I'm no, hey,
I said I'm sorry, like I I didn't mean to
offend you, Like that's the end of it.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
I was just being silly.

Speaker 6 (21:21):
Did she say she was offended or like? What was
she saying when she was cursing you out? Like what
was she just liked that.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
I was disgusting basically, And I'm like, but that was
after she that was after she said yes to my
like I was after so I thought, so I thought
we were riffing, right because she writes back obviously and
I'm like, oh ha ha oh I get it.

Speaker 1 (21:40):
So okay.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
Anyway, we're moving on. It wasn't like then I shift to,
so send me your pictures. I don't know, but I don't.

Speaker 3 (21:46):
I just maybe she was with her friends, and you
know them little friends, those little friends. She probably showed
me like that's disgusting, and then she's like, that is disgusting.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
It's not disgusting though. He was funny and true right well,
and the reality is like by it. I do stand
by it because it.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
Wasn't that bad.

Speaker 2 (22:04):
So you Caitlin were like whatever on this Rufio of
all people thinks it's weird, I mean.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
Weird thing to add to I don't know. I don't
but our sense is of humor, I guess are different.
I don't know that in a like I don't know somebody,
you don't really even know.

Speaker 2 (22:19):
You're just like yeah, But you also have to understand
too that you haven't played this yeah textrue correct, and
I do. I do sometimes lose sight of the fact
that people don't know who they're talking to, so they
don't know the difference between being just stupid and being gross,
which I wasn't trying to be great.

Speaker 7 (22:35):
We save that joke for the first date or something.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
Yes, so I can get cuts out in person.

Speaker 2 (22:41):
But if a dude had written that, I know you
Kalin of all people would have been like okay whatever,
and I just rolled with it.

Speaker 6 (22:47):
I just kind of let I don't like like write
people off for one thing. I don't know, like if
even if something pissed me off, I would kind of
just like let it go, like I don't you know
what I mean, Like I would still see like what
the person was about. I guess I don't really curse
people out that I don't know.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
I also tend to have kind of like a I mean,
Mike sort of unfiltered approach. I think is I suppose
it can be misleading, It can give you, It could
give someone the wrong impression. People who know me know
that this is the game all morning. It's do you
say something? I say something back, and I don't think
about I'm not getting too deep into it, like I'm

(23:23):
not you know, if you say you're a clown and
I'm like, yeah, I got a big, big red shoes
and a nose, you know, it's like I don't but
I mean, I just I don't know it just I
just say stuff some people, So it would never work,
I guess. Is the moral of the story, because I
would say something every day that would wide be in
like in your discussing purgatory hell. Every day she would

(23:46):
just tell me I'm the worst human who ever lived.

Speaker 6 (23:49):
So is it like you guys aren't going to talk anymore?

Speaker 1 (23:56):
It's a frend show.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
Good morning on the radio and the iHeart app as well,
search for the French She'll on demand, all right for you, Fred?
Not really, that's okay. You don't have to not all
the time, not all the time. I just I think
sometimes I think it's a general theme these days. People
are just a little too serious. There's a lot of

(24:17):
stuff to be worried about. Let's just I don't know,
let's just be silly sometimes, can't we can't we be silly?

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Can you know?

Speaker 16 (24:25):
Man?

Speaker 4 (24:26):
Yes we can. Can't we be your silliest with the
people that know you better?

Speaker 12 (24:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (24:31):
I know. And I lose I lose sight of that.
I just I don't. I don't.

Speaker 2 (24:34):
I'm not selective about it. I mean, I'm appropriate around
like old people and children.

Speaker 7 (24:38):
That's good.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
But that's it, really, Yeah, that's.

Speaker 4 (24:41):
All that matters.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
Everybody else. I just say whatever comes in my mind,
and I don't know it's like you not.

Speaker 1 (24:47):
People might be like extra.

Speaker 2 (24:50):
It doesn't have to mean anything more than just you're
an idiot, like you know, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (24:54):
Like it doesn't I don't know.

Speaker 7 (24:56):
You don't know her, she doesn't know you.

Speaker 1 (24:58):
He's a silly guy. You know, I'm just a silly guy.

Speaker 3 (25:03):
What I thought you were going to quote? A Was
it a movie you love? Not a hill?

Speaker 4 (25:07):
Is it not a hit?

Speaker 2 (25:08):
No, I'm just a guy looking for it looking at
a girl asking I'm just a girl looking at a
guy asking him to love her.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
That's the line. And that's noting hill, isn't it. Yeah?

Speaker 7 (25:20):
I think so I.

Speaker 6 (25:21):
Should send her a Freud book since that's like where
the joke came from, so she understands it.

Speaker 2 (25:28):
That's the thing, is I wonder? I thought it was
kind of funny. And by the way, you'd be lying
to me if you say that's not on your list
of priorities.

Speaker 7 (25:37):
Not everyone likes that.

Speaker 2 (25:38):
But and I wasn't even talking about myself. I mean
we were talking about an imaginary human. Yeah, would that be?
That would be on your top five, wouldn't it though?
Top five? Top ten?

Speaker 7 (25:51):
I guess I.

Speaker 4 (25:52):
Never really thought about it.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
I guess I did. I thought about it for you.

Speaker 7 (25:56):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 6 (25:57):
I think it's important that matter giving in relationships.

Speaker 8 (26:02):
I don't know, quad Kiki, I have nothing. It's number
two on my list, pension number one.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
Pension is number one and it's number.

Speaker 4 (26:12):
One, and that is number two.

Speaker 9 (26:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (26:17):
Not no cheating, no, nothing of that, you know me
if we're just dating.

Speaker 1 (26:22):
But you know what, you know what my problem is.
My problem is I.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
Is I don't have a filter, and I think I'm
kind of testing people too. But where it upsets me
is when it becomes a judgment of my character, which
is not unfair for someone who doesn't know me to do,
I guess. But I also like, why do we jump
to that? Why do we immediately jump to like the worst?
Like you know what I mean, I just I don't know,
because if you if you can't laugh at that, we

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would never we could never date.

Speaker 7 (26:50):
Yeah, it's a weed out process then for you, and I.

Speaker 2 (26:52):
Think in my mind that's that's a little bit of
what I'm doing. But then I get upset when people
are like that you know you're guy because you said that,
I'm like, well, wait a minute, that's not true. I'm
just being silly. And trust me, the stuff that people
send us it over is happening online. It's a million
times worse than my my little thing, my little comment.

(27:12):
I'm like, are you you're upset about that? You better
get off the dating abs then, because you about to
just get a random picture of some guys junk. Yeah,
which I would never do really good. No, never, would
never have.

Speaker 1 (27:30):
Just curious. I can't say the same.

Speaker 2 (27:36):
Well, yeah, I see in a lot of ways, I'm
a huge fruit. That's the funny part is I would.
I would never. There's no that's I'm if I'm going out,
it ain't gonna be like that.

Speaker 4 (27:45):
Okay, okay, well how.

Speaker 7 (27:46):
And they know it's yours?

Speaker 2 (27:47):
Though?

Speaker 7 (27:47):
How can you go out if your face isn't it
checkered vans?

Speaker 1 (27:50):
Yeah? Exactly exactly. That is good?

Speaker 2 (28:00):
Who said that that was good? Remember, I'd be like,
that's definitely not me. They're like, oh, yeah it is.
You're wearing nothing but checkered vance.

Speaker 1 (28:10):
Checkered vance.

Speaker 6 (28:12):
That was wearing like bright yellow cracks in his I
do remember that. It was like take off your crocks
fanfore you said, I do remember that.

Speaker 2 (28:20):
Yeah, I would do something like that fans off.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
Yeah, I wish I would.

Speaker 2 (28:28):
Do something like or there would be some idea, some
very clear identifying feature I would.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
That's something I would the one time.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
And I can honestly tell you my whole life, I've
never sent a picture never.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
Never.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
But you know, and I'm not saying it. I'm not
saying it like as a bragging thing. I just I
just haven't because I draw the line way before that.
Oh but if I but if I say something off
color to someone and I get they don't know me,
that's fair. But if I either either you got to
be like you're an idiot, don't say that, or laugh

(28:59):
at it, one or the other. Then I realized that
maybe then I I it's like, okay, we understand each other.
I don't have to I don't have to tiptoe around you.
But you're right about that. If you don't know someone
and they say certain things that can be triggering, I
get that. But I say crazy stuff all day, every day.
None of it's hurtful. It's just weird. And so you
either you know, like you're an idiot, laugh and just whatever,

(29:22):
or it would never work.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
They never work.

Speaker 2 (29:25):
Kaylin k A I l y m hot take Fred
and Kaylen No oh no, it's another one of these
that we should be together. Yeah, metrimon, we've been We've
been married for years already.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
What was their reason, We've already gotten divorced. She didn't
like my jokes.

Speaker 4 (29:46):
Anything divorce?

Speaker 2 (29:48):
Yeah, you got screwed. I took it all. I took
the kids. I took I took the dogs.

Speaker 7 (29:55):
Please, No, you're gonna like God, it's I mean.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
At least it's at least it's ca at least they wrote.

Speaker 2 (30:01):
I mean, it's I've spelled correctly, but at least it's
not Caitlyn or Catherine or any of the many other
things that people I've seen people say, go down Kate
c a l I y I don't, Kay, I don't know. No,
you don't. But she's very good at being like you're

(30:22):
an idiot walking away. I mean, she is good at
that part. So you gotta do a lot of that
if you work here me, Rufio, Paulina, you just got
to be able to be sometimes you just got to
be like, you know.

Speaker 7 (30:34):
What, just give people the benefit of the job.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
Man, no o blow You know some days with Rufio,
I just it's like I'm just in one ear out
the other. You know what I'm saying. And then this
guy's school of me over here on morality? How much
sick this guy's worth?

Speaker 1 (30:53):
Yeah, all of a sudden it was a Texas active
is so weird whiskeys like, y'all, Yeah, that's what happened.

Speaker 2 (30:59):
This guy takes one sip of whiskey.

Speaker 7 (31:03):
This man is worth Hi when we can text now?

Speaker 2 (31:12):
And by the way, someone said, I'm saying a world
fixation to someone you just met us, no different than
sending a d pic. I completely disagree with that. Oh
my god, waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted?
We'll do it next on the Fred Show.

Speaker 16 (31:25):
More Fread Show Next, Well up in the city?

Speaker 1 (31:32):
Am I the ahole? Finally?

Speaker 4 (31:35):
Now I'm never working find the station.

Speaker 2 (31:38):
I love how people are like, man, I'm impressed with your.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
Advice for once, Fred a Fread's show is.

Speaker 2 (31:43):
A person riding a horse through traffic and refusing to
pull over for police was arrested on suspicion of driving
under the influence following a brief pursuit in California. The
horseback rider was galloping through traffic and refusing to pull
the horse over. Eventually the rider surrendered, it was taken
into and given a d U y.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
Y. Is that possible?

Speaker 2 (32:04):
Yeah, but you can get one on a bike, and
you can get one. You can get one on anything,
because you could hit somebody. Golf cart, bike, yeah, bicycle actor.

Speaker 4 (32:13):
I mean like, the horse is going his own.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
Man. I don't know what it's doing, but the horse
station received lots of love and the horse is okay.

Speaker 1 (32:20):
In case you were wondering, I.

Speaker 2 (32:22):
Was watching US Vacation and I were sort of texting
with each other watching whatever that thing is on Patrol
Live this weekend, you know, formally live pet.

Speaker 1 (32:32):
It's on the Reels network. Trying to find your favorite network.

Speaker 2 (32:40):
I can't stand Danny Abrams. I can't attitude. He's just
a lot. He's just kind of a little twirpy, kind
of a goof. And then he thinks he's funny with
puns and stuff, and it's like, dude, you're not. It's
not funny, you know, it's like, just just just throw
to the next clip, dude, whatever. And then Sticks is
a legend of course, and then the other guy, you know,

(33:01):
Sticks retired from the Tulsa Police Department. He's famous now,
so he didn't need that.

Speaker 5 (33:05):
It's flying in between like yeah, they're on their last
oh yeah, so yeah, we got tired of that.

Speaker 2 (33:10):
But there's some wild stuff on there, Like they had
a there was a dude on an ATV that was
like they were chasing him, and I didn't realize that
at a certain point. It's a lot of these police
departments policy to just let him go, yeah, because because
it's like too dangerous to chase after him. So these
dudes are just like one guy was in a motorcycle.
He was just baiting the cops. He's just being like
an idiot. And then finally at one point they're like,

(33:32):
you know what, screw it, and the guy they just
turned their cars around and go the opposite direction.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
They're like, we're not even bothering with this.

Speaker 2 (33:37):
But I've never really understood the whole police chase thaying
like you're not gonna get away, I mean, unless you
can get them to disengage. But like by the time
you got drones, now you got news helicopters, you're not
getting away. You're not just gonna disappear. They're not gonna
not find you. And by the time those police chases
are over. There's like forty people and they got all

(33:58):
the cops. Like, you're not getting it's not going to work.
Same with bank robbery. I don't think that's a smart crime.
I don't think very few. I'm not familiar with very
many bank robbers that actually like got the money and
they're like living on.

Speaker 1 (34:12):
An island now, Like I'm dope.

Speaker 2 (34:14):
I have no issues in my life whatsoever, because they
can track it, they can diet, they can you know whatever.
They got little air tags in the bag they give you.
You're not just gonna walk out. That's all right, twenty
grand we.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
Didn't need that.

Speaker 2 (34:28):
You know, they're not gonna do them. It seems like
a dumb crime to be Just go back to scammon, Paulino.
Why did somebody get ghosted waiting by the phone on
the Fread Show?

Speaker 1 (34:38):
We'll do it next.

Speaker 16 (34:41):
You've never been left waiting by the phone.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
It's the Fred Show.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
Hey, Caleb, welcome, good morning, Hi, thank you for having me. Yeah,
so let's hear more about this story. You met a
girl named Stephanie on Fumble. I've got your email here,
but why don't you tell us then? What happened after that?

Speaker 17 (35:00):
I mastered her on Bumble and like I guess, I
was floored.

Speaker 11 (35:03):
It was.

Speaker 17 (35:04):
She was great, you know, reconnected, and I immediately wanted
to get her number, like as soon as I can, you.

Speaker 9 (35:10):
Know, I wanted. I didn't want to miss my chance.

Speaker 17 (35:12):
So yeah, after I getting her, I got her number,
I asked her out and you know, we went out
with drinks at a dive bar on my favorite places actually,
and it was great, Like I was, I was having
such a good time and I thought she was too.
And now she's just not answering anything any of my
messages or.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
Anything like that.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
Yeah, because anybody who's been on these dating apps knows
you kind of have to act prematurely, like kind of fast,
because you'll get just get lost in the shuffle, like
if you don't, if you don't sort of get to
the point quickly, and you're not on that first like
four or five matches, then you moved down and you're
not on the first page anymore, and people have to
scroll and then you're kind of like forgotten. So you

(35:51):
were you were on here trying to get something going,
like get her number, get her out, hang out with her,
see what's going on.

Speaker 9 (35:57):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 17 (35:57):
I didn't want to get losing the shuffle, and especially
with bub where you know they have to message first.

Speaker 9 (36:01):
Any want to like, you miss out my shot?

Speaker 1 (36:04):
Yeah, and you can get your day land and yeah
you got you gotta move, that's what. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
Okay, So but now you're being ghosted and you want
to know why. So that's where we come in. We're
gonna call this girl, Stephanie. You'll be on the phone.
I don't want you to say anything until we get
some info for you. But hopefully we can straighten this
whole thing out and set you guys up on another date.

Speaker 1 (36:23):
That we pay for.

Speaker 9 (36:24):
All right, thank you so much.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
All right, let me play one song and then we'll
come back and do it. Sit right there, let's see
what happens next. Part two of Waiting by the Phone
After this song on The Fred Show. Good morning, It's
the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.
Hey Caleb, Hey, all right, welcome back. Let's call Stephanie.
You met on bumble, you moved quickly to get her number,
ask her out. You went to a dive bar. You

(36:47):
had a lot of fun. You thought the date went
even better than expected. Except now you're being ghosted and
you want to know why?

Speaker 4 (36:54):
That's it?

Speaker 1 (36:55):
All right, let's call her now? Good luck many.

Speaker 14 (37:07):
Hello?

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Hi is this Stephanie though, Yeah, this is hi Stephanie.
Good morning, gets spread from the Friend's Show. The whole
crew is here. I'm sorry to bother but I'm sorry
to bother you, but I do have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call.

Speaker 1 (37:21):
Is that okay if we talk for a second.

Speaker 4 (37:22):
Oh yeah, yeah, of course, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (37:24):
What's what's up? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (37:26):
Well, we're calling on behalf of this guy named Caleb
who he says he met you on bumble and you
guys went out on a date.

Speaker 18 (37:34):
Oh yeah, yeah, wow, that's disappointing to take leave?

Speaker 2 (37:38):
Yeah, why this part is disappointing the fact that that's
what we're calling about, or him or what?

Speaker 1 (37:44):
What? Why is that disappointing him?

Speaker 11 (37:45):
All him that you're just you're calling about him.

Speaker 18 (37:48):
I was hoping it was something you know, good remotely,
but no, he's awful. No I I yeah, we went out.

Speaker 19 (37:56):
It was it was just time.

Speaker 4 (37:58):
Sorry, yeah, it was it really was.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
Why not what happened?

Speaker 10 (38:02):
Well, so we were having a good time, going.

Speaker 18 (38:04):
Out, having a few drinks, having a few left and I,
you know, as I do on first dates, I brought
up the fact that I have a kid, I have
a son, and his first The first thing he said,
the first thing he said, is oh, was he a mistake?

Speaker 1 (38:20):
What? Wow?

Speaker 15 (38:21):
What?

Speaker 20 (38:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (38:25):
Being you Caleb, like, I mean, what is going on?

Speaker 4 (38:28):
He but I was, I'm bed.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
The first thing that comes out of his mind, Stephanie,
is was your child a mistake? How insensitive?

Speaker 13 (38:38):
I know, incredibly rude.

Speaker 18 (38:39):
I've never it's just it's just yeah, so I I was.

Speaker 19 (38:42):
I was immediately intensed and.

Speaker 9 (38:43):
Really over the whole date.

Speaker 18 (38:45):
He's just he's just crappy, and I just I'm.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
Done with him.

Speaker 2 (38:49):
I don't even know where to begin with this. First
of all, child's not a mistake. Second of all, there's
so many other possibilities. You could have been seeing someone,
you could have been married before you even if it
was an accident, it wasn't a mistake.

Speaker 1 (39:02):
Which is it? Well, I don't know.

Speaker 18 (39:04):
Exactly what what what don't I wanted to say to me?
I mean, that's my kid, I'm clearly proud of him,
and I why why, why the world would you think
to say that.

Speaker 2 (39:15):
He clearly, but I don't want I don't want to no, no, no,
I don't want to just give you any further on
this call because I can't stand this guy. Now Caleb
is here and he wanted to know why you didn't
want to talk to him anymore while you were ghosting.

Speaker 1 (39:27):
Caleb, What the hell are you?

Speaker 9 (39:29):
Are you kidding?

Speaker 11 (39:30):
I think that's a perfectly reasonable question.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
To that.

Speaker 13 (39:34):
Reasonable, I hadn't really young, and sooner or later someone
was going to ask that I rather find out something shooters,
I ratter to find out I had never about her shoogar.
There's no way, is the It's absolutely that's ridiculous.

Speaker 11 (39:50):
You're kidding.

Speaker 9 (39:52):
You've never been asked that, but you have on question.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
It's on question, you know.

Speaker 9 (40:00):
I want to know if she's intentional or not.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
No, you don't ask somebody business, Caleb. You do not
ask someone of their child.

Speaker 9 (40:11):
I need to know that how responsible she is.

Speaker 10 (40:13):
That's a very reasonable question.

Speaker 18 (40:14):
Oh my god, what, oh my god, why are you
doubling down on this?

Speaker 2 (40:19):
I mean, is what you meant to ask? Did you
mean to ask if she had been married before, if
she had a good relationship with the father.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
Did you mean to ask if?

Speaker 2 (40:29):
I mean, there are a lot of other ways to
get to what I think you're trying to figure out
without asking if a mistake, because the child's never a
mistake of the child.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
Itself, not a mistake.

Speaker 4 (40:40):
That's what you ask, idiot.

Speaker 13 (40:43):
I meant all right, Mine meant okay, I meant to ask,
all right, we're done, We're done.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
We're done, We're done with him. We can hang up
on Caleb. I'm finished with him, thank you. I don't
like him. Yeah, yeah, Caleb is the mistake here, Stephanie.
I'm sorry that happened to you, and I don't appreciate
the way he was speaking to you. And it's very
obvious why he's not getting another date and may not
ever get a date again. Its like that, so so

(41:12):
looks Stephanie. I'm sorry to bother, but thanks for talking
to us and uh wow, unbelievable.

Speaker 20 (41:17):
Oh no, I mean I appreciate you guys.

Speaker 18 (41:19):
Yeah, but that's exactly why.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
Wow wow. I wish you the best out there. Okay,
thanks Stephanie.

Speaker 18 (41:25):
Thank you, guys, appreciate you.

Speaker 1 (41:27):
Caitlin's entertainment report is on the Fred Show.

Speaker 7 (41:31):
Now I want to know what you guys think about this.

Speaker 4 (41:33):
Kaylee Quoco, who you love, She's not for you.

Speaker 6 (41:37):
So she says she's gained and added are appreciation for
flight attendants after playing one on TV, which is like hilarious,
like now you go closer to them. I don't know,
but she says we all need to be tipping them. Okay, sure,
interesting take. Kailee was out at LAX. She was asked
about the show, and she said that we all need
to be doing more for our flight attendants, especially now.

Speaker 4 (41:57):
So she is literally suggesting that we tip.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
Let me just say I don't have a problem with
Kaylee Quoco. I did not find her interpretation of a
of a scandalous flight attendant slash what.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
I couldn't get very far through that show.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
Because I just didn't I didn't buy the fact that
she was kind of like not slutty. Yeah, Like I
just what. I didn't. I wasn't sold right, I don't.
It would be like Kristen Bell playing a slutty character
like sorry, you're a Disney princess.

Speaker 1 (42:28):
I just I don't buy it.

Speaker 2 (42:29):
And some people are just typecast as sweet people and
I just did Anyway, the second thing about tipping flight attendants.
You know, I would say more than ever, that is
a very difficult job, a very demanding job.

Speaker 1 (42:42):
You know.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
Now not only are you you know, because people forget
they're there primarily for safety reasons, right, you know, and
then secondarily for customer service, you know, drinks and food
and whatever else. But like really, for the most part,
they're there for our safety. And now they're security guards,
they're they're peacemakers, they're mediators. They're like, yeah, they're exposing

(43:04):
themselves to you know, people like this who go on
planes with Oh I got sick on vacation. I definitely
have COVID, but I got to get home, So I'm
gonna jump on a plane and let everybody you have it.

Speaker 1 (43:13):
Yeah, so I get all of that.

Speaker 2 (43:15):
But tipping, You know how I feel about the tipping,
Like if I could give more money, if I had
enough money that I could give more money to every
single person who works hard and does anything for me
any day, I would I'd pass money out. I really would, like,
honest to god, if I had unlimited funds and I
can have everyone who ever did anything for me one
hundred dollars bill, I would do it. I really would
love it would make me feel really good, but I can't.

(43:38):
Most of us can't. So it's like, it's where do
we draw the line?

Speaker 6 (43:41):
I know, I mean, listen, I think we're getting a
little wild. I mean, she definitely can afford it more
than we can. But I do think maybe you buy
like some sort of we talked about in the past,
like a gift card, and keep it in your wallet,
and if you get exceptional treatment or service, maybe give
it to one.

Speaker 4 (43:55):
I can't be tipping all. I already paying for the flight,
and it's expensive, you know.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
I a year or so ago, I rode on a
flight one way. Somebody, a flight attendant friend of mine,
flew with me in Airfred somewhere we dropped Airfred off
and she just wanted something to do for the day
and she could ride for free. So we rode on
Southwest or something back to Chicago after we dropped the airplaneoff,
and she brought because she flew for free. So she

(44:20):
brought like little chocolates and gift cards as a flight
attendant as a token to a fellow flight attendant. Sweet
and she had enough for I think there were four
of them. And then they do that for her it's
an industry courtesy, especially when you're flying for free. She
also offered to help, and she does even worked for
that airline. That's awesome, you know, So I get that situational,
but like, okay, so coffee's ten bucks, let's say buy

(44:43):
a ten dollars gift cards, so now I got a
forty dollars I got to go in. Sure, that's a
nice thing to do, but like every single time.

Speaker 6 (44:49):
Now I'm adding no, just I would say, just have
like one or two emergency ones and then like just
wait until the time.

Speaker 1 (44:55):
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (44:56):
Sure, you can't do it for everyone, and I've.

Speaker 2 (44:58):
Heard I've heard of people like they'll give a gift
to a flight attendant when they get on the plane
and then that they get like a little bit better
treatment or something like maybe you get free drinks or
something out of the deal. Like okay, maybe maybe if
that's how you look at it. But I trust me,
I wish I could do it.

Speaker 4 (45:12):
Hey, miss a lot.

Speaker 17 (45:13):
I wish if if.

Speaker 3 (45:16):
You got to tip the flood attend and then you
gotta tip the pilot, then you gotta tip the people working.

Speaker 2 (45:21):
See me here, becaues the planet's making more than a
flight attendant. So he's gets into this whole thing. It's like, well,
technically my life is in their hands. I mean, if
anybody should be tipping anyone, I guess it's the guy
flying the plane. We'll know because they make more than
a flight Well, who says how much is enough?

Speaker 7 (45:34):
Listen?

Speaker 2 (45:35):
I just trust me if I had to tip everybody everyone.
Basically that's what it's become is everybody gets a tip. Yep,
just flip that little pad around.

Speaker 4 (45:44):
Now you're going to have.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
Them better make them seats cheaper than.

Speaker 6 (45:51):
Well, they don't decide the prices either. I don't know
they were doing too much. I think if you want
to keep one gift card and somebody you know you
fall in love with their service, then maybe do.

Speaker 2 (45:59):
That flaightet ten and just according to it text flats
already interrupt you. But flight tenans cannot accept tips. They
can accept little gifts. And again, if you want to
do that, I think that's really cool. If you're in
the industry, you want to do it. If you if
you're that thoughtful and you do it all the time,
that's really cool. But I also it's like us asking
for a tip because we're No, it's not. We're on
the radio and we're helping you with your commute every day, you.

Speaker 4 (46:20):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (46:21):
So I understand what's your take on tipping Uber drivers?
I always tip on Uber, oh yeah, and apparently some people,
according to this, most people don't. I always it's not
a lot. I don't tip a lot. But I treat
an uber the same way that I treat a cast ser. Yeah,
you're providing me a service. I'm in your car, especially,
you know. Yeah, yeah, always tip, but hey, and if

(46:41):
you're nice and if you're you know, I don't know,
then you might get a little more even. But that
is not the purpose of tipping. It's like, I understand
that everyone is pressured now that everything's more expensive, and
I understand that everyone wants it, probably needs to make
more money, and it's tough time, I really, but isn't
that pressure applied to everybody? So like, whose job is

(47:04):
it to We're all supposed to supplement that, Like it's
my job to give you three dollars more for my
coffee because I know I sound elite as saying this,
but like it's not just one coffee. It's now if
I tipped every single person that now flips the iPad
over and wants a tip, then everything is going to
cost twenty percent more than it already costs.

Speaker 1 (47:26):
I don't know, I just.

Speaker 2 (47:27):
I just I wonder at what point, like it's it's
just got a little out of control, That's that's all
I'm saying. And I also wonder if the definition of
what a tip is has changed, you know, because it
used to be I tip better if you do better, right,
But now I feel like you tip automatically a certain amount,
as like almost like a search charge, and then if

(47:49):
you do well, then I'm supposed to tip even more.

Speaker 8 (47:51):
And you guys even sip well, you fray, you even
tip when they do horrible and.

Speaker 4 (47:55):
Treat you back.

Speaker 7 (47:56):
I do too, Yeah, yeah, yeah I do.

Speaker 2 (47:57):
And then I make a decision about whether I'm going
to go back or not. But I you know, I don't.
I don't.

Speaker 1 (48:02):
Look.

Speaker 2 (48:03):
I come in here some days I'm not in the
best mood, and I try and do the best job
I can. But like, I don't know, I understand that
people have bad days. If it's habitual, if I go
back multiple times and a person's root to me multiple
times and I'm definitely not going to go back. But
I assume that when I go out to eat and
someone serves me food, that I'm paying a search charge
in some ways for service. But it's like you, now

(48:24):
you're cheap if you don't tip everybody twenty percent? Right,
I get that, But like if you do a crappy job,
why am I paying? Why am I so? Now it's
supposed to tip you thirty percent if you do a
good job. I mean, where does it end exactly? Or
while an I get it?

Speaker 1 (48:37):
Do I tip my queen lady for holidays? Yes?

Speaker 7 (48:40):
I do, Yes, you do?

Speaker 1 (48:42):
I do.

Speaker 6 (48:42):
If you can afford to have, those are the things
that you don't need. So I think if you can
afford to have, like some kind of luxury service, then
you need to be tipping as well.

Speaker 4 (48:50):
Hair nails.

Speaker 2 (48:51):
But I will say, I will say weekend and week.
And by the way, she doesn't come every week. Whatever
it's that is a luxury for me. She comes once
a month. She charges, but she charges what she charges,
and I pay that now on special occasions or if
she comes an extra time, or if I ask her
for something extra, then I will put extra on. But
I do think it's her responsibility for a normal continuous

(49:13):
service to charge me what's.

Speaker 1 (49:15):
Fair for sure?

Speaker 4 (49:16):
Yeah, because you.

Speaker 2 (49:18):
Know, I mean, let's say she charges me one hundred
dollars and I pay her one hundred and thirty every
week and then she charges then she ups.

Speaker 1 (49:24):
I don't know it.

Speaker 2 (49:24):
Could like please charge me what's responsible and let me tip.
You win absolutely when I can, for something like a
Christmas or Thanksgiving or you're going like she went on
a trip and I put more on because that kind
of thing, like, let it be something special from a
because otherwise it's not even a gesture anymore. It's just

(49:46):
a thing that everyone expects expectation. Yeah, the Fred Show
is on Good Morning on the radio, and the iHeart
app anytime search for the freend Show on demand. I
saw a video the other day made me happy, And
there's a few of them on tikto, but there was one.
It was apparently a bachelor party, and they walked in
the casino on the bachelor party, like on the Friday
Thursday whenever it started, and they were like eleven of

(50:07):
them and they all put one hundred dollars each on
like whatever it is, red eleven or whatever. Eleven was
and they hit, So what do you get twenty eight
times thirty times the number?

Speaker 1 (50:19):
Yeah, whatever it is.

Speaker 2 (50:20):
So that turned into that eleven hundred bucks turned into
like thirty two grand or whatever. And I mean you
got to think that that bachelor party just got real lit,
like whatever whenever all those pipe fitters were gonna do
or you know whatever, all those dudes from high school.
I don't know how they all got together, but whatever
whatever their plan was for the weekend now involves a

(50:41):
different kind of lady.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
I don't know what.

Speaker 2 (50:44):
But I was so happy for these guys because they
were truly so elated. Because it's not like the rich
guy who walks in there and puts a bunch of
money and doesn't kick drake. It doesn't matter if he
wins or loses on these things, really, but these guys
were just like, I don't know, everyone puts on a
hundred bucks. It's probably a lot of money, a lot
of money for most people. And then you hit, and
then all of a sudden, your weekend just became absolutely epic.

(51:05):
I mean, thirty two grand, that's a nice afternoon at
one of the pools.

Speaker 7 (51:09):
You know, Like for all the times I've been to Vegas.

Speaker 6 (51:11):
I have never won so much as even put Oh
actually maybe I did once, but I never gamble when
I'm there, Like it just doesn't really, I don't like
to like like I didn't.

Speaker 2 (51:20):
The last time. I don't know what's happened to me,
but I didn't the last time. Like this, for iHeart,
I didn't put one You're up till five am. I
didn't know. I didn't put one dollar on anything. No,
I was up till five am with the drinking drink.
Oh yeah, so.

Speaker 1 (51:34):
I haven't done that either. I haven't done that.

Speaker 2 (51:36):
And I can't even tell you how long it stayed
up till five o'clock in the morning. It was seven
o'clock in the morning Chicago time.

Speaker 21 (51:41):
It was.

Speaker 2 (51:41):
It was almost exactly like a thirty hour day, just
straight through. I don't know what gotten into me, what
gotten into me? What it amazes me about Vegas is
watching people spend money. And these are people who I'm
pretty sure don't have it.

Speaker 1 (51:58):
You know you.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
No, No, It's like like buddy of mine and I
used to meet in Vegas. He's an airline pilot, just
I don't know, like middle of the road white dude
like me and we would meet in for spring break.
I'm just saying, like, like you never heard middle of
the Road is a figure of speech, just an average
white dude. We're just average white guys, like I don't know,

(52:21):
sure no, but you know what I'm saying, Like, we're
not loaded, we're not not we're not we're not like
your own subscription. We're not super hot, we're not not attractive.
I mean, we're just like average dudes, not nice. And
so we go to the pool, right, we're going to
the pool and there's no spot at the I don't
remember what pool this was, Mando a bay. Maybe no
spot at the pool. Some promoter walks up to us,
some good looking young like riped guy. Hey, you want

(52:42):
to go to the club pool. We're like how much.
He's like thousand bucks. You got to spend a thousand
bucks And I'm like, what do you get for a
He's like, well, thousand bucks, it gets like a bottle
of booze and some shots.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
And my buddy's like, dude, five hundred bucks a piece,
Like what you got to see? What kind of people
watching goes on in there for five hundred bucks?

Speaker 1 (53:03):
Ape? So we did it.

Speaker 2 (53:04):
We go in there, and then immediately they start to
upsell us. They're like, what do you want girls, And
it's like, well, what do you mean, what are you
talking about? Like are we talking about He's like, well, yeah,
I mean we There are apparently women, female dancers who
during the day you can pay to come hang out
at your little day bed that you get if you
want to. They also bring like normal So then that's

(53:24):
the other thing is to get you to spend more.
They'll go out and find like a bachelorette party, bring
them in for free to hang out at your little area.
But then eight hundred dollars bottles of Tito's or whatever
it is Gray Goose. That's the men use outrageous, Like
for five thousand dollars at this pool, they'll come four
women will come and spray you in the face with champagne.

(53:46):
That's an actual menu item. I'm like, how much what
kind of corporate account do you have that you can
burn five thousand dollars to have somebody spray cheap champagne
in your face? Right, Like it's the craziest thing. So anyway,
so my buddy and I are like no to all
this because I'm like no, because because right in front
of us were watching these two guys, they couldn't have
been twenty five bottle after bottle bachelorette party from Kansas City,

(54:11):
Bottle after bottle.

Speaker 1 (54:12):
These dudes, I don't know what they're thinking.

Speaker 2 (54:15):
I probably watched them more to five bottles at seven
hundred bucks apiece. And then four o'clock that pool closes,
four o'clock, twelve women out the door, and these two
guys are sitting there by themselves and overcomes the bill
and my buddy and I watching this going dude, not
even one stage, like they don't. They just want to
drink for free. But where are you coming up? Who

(54:36):
has the money to spend that by the pool?

Speaker 1 (54:39):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (54:41):
I mean, I just four thousand dollars by the pool
because you got tipped to yeah, to hang out next
to a pool for five hours a week and feed
people alcohol.

Speaker 6 (54:50):
I feel very bad for men in Vegas, like very bad, truly,
because it's such a different experience for women.

Speaker 1 (54:56):
I'm so cheap.

Speaker 3 (54:57):
I'll go play the slots for like ten minutes and
they get the free drench.

Speaker 4 (55:01):
They don't, No, I.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
Don't think they do. But they're they're they're not as generous.

Speaker 7 (55:07):
Right a table and like a high roller drink.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
They'll come around, but it's there. They spend a lot
more time.

Speaker 7 (55:14):
It's changed.

Speaker 2 (55:15):
If you're gambling a lot, that that servers there a
lot more. If you're gambling enough. I've learned, unfortunately that
you uh, they'll give you anything, like if you're like
when I was losing one time in the iHeart.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
I had my little bad streak and.

Speaker 2 (55:29):
I wasn't winning, and and it was like the tequila
became It went from cosamigos to like they were bringing
me a bottle and pouring it, like yeah, they wanted
me to stay there because it wasn't going well. The
next time it went really well. The third time, they
thought I was a high roller. The fourth time they
realized I was a scammer because you lose a lot

(55:49):
and then I win a lot. Now i'm even, but
now they think I'm good for that. So the third time,
it's like, here's a sweet here's a limo, we'll meet
you at the door. I ate all the food, I
drank all the booze in the hotel room. Yeah, I
took all the candy home with me. And then they're like, yeah,
you're not actually a gambler, are you. I'm like, nope,
I'm really unlucky and really lucky, and now I'm lucky again,

(56:12):
and now you'll never pay for anything ever again.

Speaker 1 (56:14):
I just don't know how people can afford this, But
I'm with you.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
If I'm going to spend a couple hundred bucks at
the bar in Las Vegas, I would rather, I guess,
sit at the table and try and gamble. Yeah, because
at least then I'm not because cocktails twenty dollars in
the casino, so I may as well just sit there
and see how long I can make that money last.
Maybe I'll win something. At least i'll pay for the drinks,
I guess, but yeah, a lot, because we were up

(56:40):
till five am in Vegas. We were sitting in the
casino bar and I get the tab at the end,
I'm like, how much is it?

Speaker 1 (56:47):
What?

Speaker 2 (56:47):
Like?

Speaker 1 (56:48):
No, I was playing slots the whole time.

Speaker 2 (56:51):
I'm like, how much you get like twenty five dollars
for I'm like, what are we doing? I?

Speaker 7 (56:54):
Oh, it's so expensive.

Speaker 2 (56:56):
I feel so cheap. But yeah, it's like you want
the ladies. I'm like no, And this guy looks at us,
It's like, what's wrong with you? I'm like, what's wrong
with me? Is I want to leave here with some money?
I gotta pay my Netflix subscription and Ki's apparently.

Speaker 1 (57:10):
More Freadshew next wait, Freads show is on the Hottest
Money Show.

Speaker 2 (57:21):
But Buddy, or as they say, where they really make it. Marilla,
Italy's number one brand of fasta, is being sued for
not making products in Italy. They claim that the people
who are suing that they're upset because it's Italy's number
one brand of pasta, but it's made in Iowa and

(57:42):
New York, not in the motherland of pasta in fact,
and so I guess they're going to pursue this this
federal lawsuit. The judges decision comes out of the heels
of a similar complaint filed against the makers of Texas
Pete hot sauce after a California man learned that Texas
Pete isn't in Texas. So Texas Pete, who's I don't

(58:03):
even know the story. Pete lived in Texas and he
had some good hot sauce, and now they don't make
it in Texas. So now we're gonna sue. But if
that's the guy's nickname, Pete Dude once lived in Texas.
I got some fire hot sauce.

Speaker 9 (58:15):
Cool.

Speaker 2 (58:15):
We're suing pasta people the choice of me. I don't
know how much more I will say not buy that pasta.
I don't know how much more expensive it actually is.
But if it's significantly more than other pasta and people
are spending more because they think that it's important, I
guess that's a thing. But I also don't know if
i'd sue for that. I might just buy another kind.

Speaker 4 (58:34):
Of pasta to move on with your day.

Speaker 1 (58:37):
Exactly. That's what I was.

Speaker 3 (58:38):
It's like, you're gonna get whatever you're gonna buy the
You're gonna get mad for buying this pasta, but then
you're gonna buy like canned can tomato sauce.

Speaker 2 (58:49):
Pasta you're pouring, uh, you know whatever over you.

Speaker 1 (58:57):
Think that's made damn in the factory. That exactly.

Speaker 4 (59:01):
Or go to Italy and you shut your mouth.

Speaker 2 (59:05):
You want to people have too much time and money,
or I don't know what it is.

Speaker 1 (59:11):
It's order a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court, all.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
Right, doll rise the honorable Yeah, yeah, what you got
tell me? Tell me what he's on the docket today.

Speaker 4 (59:25):
Okay, well let's hit the gabble. You're honor there, it
is all right? Well that is hey, ki Key.

Speaker 8 (59:30):
I love the show and I'm hoping that this makes
it to key key court. I went to my husband's
event at his job where I was introduced to one
of his co workers and she called herself his work
wife in the moment. I laughed it off at the
party and kept things friendly, but was that was instantly
a red flag for me. I'm gonna stay at home,
so maybe I'm not hit to the office lingo. But

(59:52):
I let my husband know that I did not appreciate
her labeling herself his work wife, and we moved on
until last week when I grabbed my husband's phone to
use his cash app account to pay for something, and
I noticed his little work wife had her name all
up and through the transaction history I saw over six
cash app transactions and in the notes sections it read

(01:00:15):
lunch on me.

Speaker 4 (01:00:16):
I was livid.

Speaker 8 (01:00:17):
So in less than a month, I totaled it up
and my husband has sent little miss workwife over one
hundred and eighty dollars okay, in a month. So I
decided to send her a request for all of the
money back, and I put in the notes, this is
Mike's wife, Please return all of the money my husband
has sent you and never asked my husband for anything else.
Now my husband is bad at me and says I overreacted.

(01:00:41):
Please give me your thoughts on this.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
This dude has paid one hundred and eighty bucks in
a month for another woman's lunch, the work wife.

Speaker 8 (01:00:48):
See uh huh oh No, I don't play that. I
don't play the work wife stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:00:54):
You know.

Speaker 8 (01:00:54):
I can't get a ring in real life so bad.
I'm for sure not gonna have big tim at work
talking about his work.

Speaker 1 (01:01:01):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 4 (01:01:02):
I wish she would.

Speaker 2 (01:01:04):
That bothers me less than the find this woman lunch
every day six times.

Speaker 8 (01:01:09):
So he's like sending her what thirty dollars for every
time and putting lunch on me?

Speaker 4 (01:01:13):
And what are you crazy? All these uber eats and
inst the cars?

Speaker 20 (01:01:17):
She better?

Speaker 4 (01:01:18):
No, absolutely not. I don't think she overreacted.

Speaker 20 (01:01:21):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:01:21):
That was very petty to take his phone and send
a request for all the money back. That was like
a savage move, sis. But I can't blame you because
he's so out of order in this.

Speaker 4 (01:01:30):
To me, I don't.

Speaker 9 (01:01:31):
I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:01:31):
I don't like it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:32):
Eight five five five one three five called the Fred Show.
He can text the same number. But you guys are
the jury among among others in the room here. But
the work life thing doesn't bother me anywhere near as much.
I mean, sort of boasting to his actual wife about
that is kind of silly. But I don't know, like
why why is a married man? I mean maybe once, sir,
every now and again, or maybe she buys lunch one day,

(01:01:53):
he buys lunch another day, or something like. I could
see that if you if a bunch of coworkers go out,
are you order in or whatever? But like everything six
times exactly in a month, baby, Like he's flirting with her,
that's flirting.

Speaker 4 (01:02:05):
No kidding.

Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
Yeah, I don't. Also don't.

Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
I don't mind the work wife title either, But like
the lunch thing is a little shady, right, your your
wife is a stay at home wife already.

Speaker 1 (01:02:15):
Why don't you send her lunch?

Speaker 8 (01:02:16):
You know what I'm saying, Well exactly, you know what
I'm saying, send her lunch?

Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
Was she at home?

Speaker 4 (01:02:20):
That's right?

Speaker 1 (01:02:21):
Me? And you gotta eat?

Speaker 2 (01:02:22):
Yeah, yeah, yes, I don't know any other reason why
you would be consistently buying somebody food unless you were
trying to get something out of them or flirt with
them or impress them. I don't know why else you would.
That's flirting, Yes, I think so.

Speaker 8 (01:02:35):
It's out of order, and to accept that from a
married man, Like he's wrong for sending it. Obviously, he's
wrong for engaging in this, and I feel like his
intentions are not clear. But also as a woman who
knows that you are talking and dealing with a married
man every day at work, Like, how are you comfortable
with this man sending you over one hundred and eighty
dollars in less than a month, Like he just paid
a light bill?

Speaker 4 (01:02:57):
That is true.

Speaker 15 (01:02:58):
Yeah, I'm not a fan of the I'm gonna get
paid for this. I'm not a fan of the work
wife or husband thing. I don't really get it, Like
I know what it is, but like I think it's
kind of lame. I'm just like I don't really get it.
Like we're lol, we're work friends, but like.

Speaker 1 (01:03:15):
Right right, yeah, wait a minute, I have a text
write you said we're.

Speaker 4 (01:03:17):
Family, it's our family. Say it out loud. I said
it out loud at the at the reception.

Speaker 15 (01:03:21):
I'm like, you can just writing so it's framed me.
Maybe on the air I did. I was like, because
I don't like having the best.

Speaker 4 (01:03:26):
Day in my life.

Speaker 1 (01:03:26):
I know, the we made it.

Speaker 4 (01:03:29):
Yeah, Caitlin was like, we're family.

Speaker 15 (01:03:30):
Finally, I was like, yeah, but I don't get the
work wife, and it's time being married or not. I
just like never understood that if it's just like an office,
like I guess we work in an office, but not
really we do. Radio's a little different. I don't get
the work wife like hysteria. That's not funny to me.

Speaker 2 (01:03:44):
I mean, that's kind of corny, like it's supernacular. Is
that people say like, oh, you know, I spend more
time at work with this person of the opposite sex
that I do my actual spouse.

Speaker 1 (01:03:53):
Like, okay, but you don't.

Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
Don't you don't go bragg into the actual wife about
how as if you have some kind of cloud, if
you have some kind of status, you know what I mean,
because you don't.

Speaker 4 (01:04:05):
Work, wife starts at work. Next thing. I know, y'all
let the motel six. I don't. I'm not here for
what you no, you know, no, absolutely, that's lunch.

Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
Maybe that's the lunch.

Speaker 15 (01:04:13):
You're talking about you, Jason is here that I call
you my work wife.

Speaker 5 (01:04:22):
But also like there's a coworker here that I like
jokingly call my work cousin just because he like helps
me and does everything, like but we'll buy each other lunch,
like if he does something nice to me.

Speaker 1 (01:04:31):
But he's also a straight man.

Speaker 4 (01:04:32):
So like, obviously that's not going to happen, so like.

Speaker 5 (01:04:34):
Now, so so they're not that I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:04:41):
You guys are obviously doing it, Jason. Any time a
man and a man, or a man and a woman,
anytime they're together in any sort of stands, they.

Speaker 1 (01:04:52):
Must be they must be, Oh, yeah, I'm cheating.

Speaker 2 (01:04:56):
Yeah, I know you are on the radio on cash
app to listen Chris by the way, Well no, Chris, Hi,
I would know. I was going to go on a
sidebar about how I never put the real purpose of
of if I'm cashaping somebody, I never put the real
purpose in any way you write opium, like when you're
saying like crack, yeah, I don't know, like where is

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my thanks for the sex?

Speaker 4 (01:05:22):
You know that is very show there.

Speaker 2 (01:05:26):
I haven't put that for me that will start.

Speaker 20 (01:05:29):
The room.

Speaker 1 (01:05:33):
Exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:05:35):
It's a great work situation, work life balance. Hey Chris, okay,
so this is just a recap if you're just tuning
in eight five five five nine three five Kiki Scord.
So this this woman is upset because it would appear
that her husband is buying lunch, a lot of lunch
for a woman at his office that claims to be

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his quote unquote work wife. And this woman wants any
She cash after her with a request and give me
the money bag for all this lunch that my husband
been buying for you, which I don't know about that.
I probably wouldn't go that far with it. That just
shows that you're annoyed. But I I you know, he
comes home, we're having a conversation that's about that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:14):
But what do you think, Chris.

Speaker 9 (01:06:16):
Well, I'm wondering, is I want looking at half the
story here? Maybe they bought out to lunch a lot,
but maybe he's paid for six lunches. Maybe she's paid
him back for six other lunches. And granted now you're
talking about going out to lunch for versus all times.
Maybe that's their first story. But just because he's playing
a piece of lunch on me and he paid for him,

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maybe she pade him six times and just trading dollars
back to fourth and it.

Speaker 1 (01:06:43):
Is innocent, that could be.

Speaker 2 (01:06:44):
But Chris, how about how about to your point, how
would we feel if we found out that that? And
again I don't know the answer, but how would you
feel if you found out that your wife was having
lunch with the same man every single day, one on
one every day?

Speaker 9 (01:06:59):
Well, well, I should essentially a homeother candle rooms, you know.
I uh, I'm luckily married thirty years under by phone
with a wonderful woman. Congratulations, I could still keep going
for Hey, I still window shop? Going wrong with that?

Speaker 1 (01:07:20):
What are you catch having these chicks them Chipotle every day?

Speaker 13 (01:07:23):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:07:27):
I mean yeah, you keep the gun in the host
of there, Chris, We don't. We don't want that they
getting one. I only pay cash.

Speaker 1 (01:07:32):
Yeah, that's another thing, pay trail.

Speaker 2 (01:07:38):
No, Christ was smarter than that. Hey, thank you, have
a good day, Chris. Yeah, no, what are we doing? Yeah,
that's almost like, yeah, you're you're asking for it. If
you get that, that's almost even flirty lunch on me
and the and the money. And then you put that
in writing in the comments so people can see that.

Speaker 4 (01:07:55):
That is flirty, right, yes, friends money for fun?

Speaker 15 (01:07:58):
I mean, if you do send it to me like
this is really fun, Like that's flirting to me.

Speaker 2 (01:08:03):
It sounds like yeah, ah Anna, good morning, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 9 (01:08:08):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (01:08:08):
So you have a work husband. This is your own
by your own admission.

Speaker 11 (01:08:13):
Yes, my boss is my work husband.

Speaker 2 (01:08:16):
Right, describe how does the relationship work? Are you you're
married as well?

Speaker 16 (01:08:21):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
Okay, so you're married and you got a work husband,
and what is the nature of the relationship, Like, how
how does it work?

Speaker 10 (01:08:27):
Okay, so we're best friends.

Speaker 13 (01:08:29):
I'm his right hand, I'm his work wife. He's my
work husband. And yes, we buy each other lunch.

Speaker 11 (01:08:35):
Today's bosses day.

Speaker 13 (01:08:37):
I've made him lunch and I'm bringing it into the office.

Speaker 1 (01:08:41):
Did you make your husband?

Speaker 13 (01:08:43):
You can make us a lunch?

Speaker 1 (01:08:50):
No, no, no, I love.

Speaker 9 (01:08:54):
Boundaries.

Speaker 13 (01:08:54):
It's not a sexual relationship by a nature. Well that's
we've got all day together from eight thirty to five,
you know, except there's no sexual relationship. You know if my.

Speaker 1 (01:09:08):
Husband does your husband have a problem with it? You know?

Speaker 13 (01:09:13):
He jokes with me with this little undertone about oh
your boyfriend, this your what your you know, your girlfriend?

Speaker 4 (01:09:22):
Yeah, girl, he's a.

Speaker 13 (01:09:24):
Little undertone of jealousy. But you know what, we're together
all day. We have a great relationship. We trust each other.
And he's got my back at work, and I have
this back at work, and we have voluntary you there's
no there's there's absolutely nothing going on.

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
Is your boss married but.

Speaker 13 (01:09:43):
He has a girlfriend.

Speaker 8 (01:09:44):
And when you come to the office that friend. Let
me ask you this, if you were single, would you
hit it? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:10:00):
The boss like, I don't know.

Speaker 6 (01:10:01):
I feel like it's got to be like an equal
work situation.

Speaker 2 (01:10:04):
If I if I'm your husband, if I get up
this morning and I go to work and I'm getting
ready to leave, and I see you walking out and
you got a lunch you know, pale or something, and
I don't thank you, honey, And no, this is not
for you.

Speaker 1 (01:10:16):
This is for another man at work. And then lunch
pale the construction site.

Speaker 13 (01:10:24):
Sometimes I do make my husband lunch sometimes, but not
today today. And he's a great boss.

Speaker 11 (01:10:32):
We have a great relationship.

Speaker 13 (01:10:34):
And as Copra knows that if she brings him lunch,
she brings me lunch too.

Speaker 7 (01:10:37):
How is he in bed though?

Speaker 8 (01:10:39):
Okay, a generous Okay, have a good day, Anna, And.

Speaker 2 (01:10:47):
Yeah, you like her here here's the text right here.
I am the workwife. Let me tell you he isn't
just paying for my lunch. We're sleeping together too, girl
right or something on her? But what the hell husband thing?

Speaker 9 (01:11:13):
This is wild?

Speaker 10 (01:11:14):
So my husband, I had an issue with this and
I put my flight down, like we're not doing that.
Why it just bothers me because it implies that people
think that you guys are so close that that could
be your work wife or you could be her work husband.
Like that just implies that you guys are going a
little step further than just co workers or even friends,
because of course you become friends with people.

Speaker 4 (01:11:33):
You work with.

Speaker 10 (01:11:34):
But to say like, oh, that's like his work wife
or his that's that's doing too much. And then I
would go wild if my husband's buy someone much every day,
Like I could see if everybody's stitching in and we're
just exchanging money, like maybe somebody use their grub hub
and I'm just sending you the money back, but like
launch on me, like it specifically says lunch on me. Yeah, No,
we're not doing that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:53):
That's rights. Does launch sure?

Speaker 2 (01:11:56):
If it's if it's I don't know, it could be
anything like imagine if you were paying for any other
convenience of hers, like you know, so it's lunch now,
you know what if it's your name something else, it's
like that doing that work.

Speaker 9 (01:12:08):
I'm hungry.

Speaker 10 (01:12:08):
Send me was the other random person.

Speaker 11 (01:12:10):
Life like that?

Speaker 1 (01:12:11):
How does he send money to his wife? It's your
time right.

Speaker 15 (01:12:16):
Like it?

Speaker 10 (01:12:17):
I love you, guys, I love you.

Speaker 2 (01:12:20):
Have a good day. See Lisai Lisa. Hi, Hey, so
what do we thinking about this work wife work husband thing?
Turns out that this dude is my lunch pretty much
every day for this this woman at work, and his
wife is not having it.

Speaker 22 (01:12:34):
Well, I think it just depends on the confidential are
the confidence you have in your relationship. Because my husband
had three work wives as at a school.

Speaker 19 (01:12:42):
He was a high school teacher.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
And three.

Speaker 4 (01:12:48):
Exactly.

Speaker 10 (01:12:49):
He had his sister heard of traveling lives.

Speaker 4 (01:12:50):
So yeah, you're better than me. You're better than me.

Speaker 22 (01:12:54):
I had no problem with it. When they had babies,
we got them gifts. When we got married, they had
all their students send us, like write out marriage advice
to us. We still have signs that we have hanging
with all the kids from their classes.

Speaker 19 (01:13:10):
So I had no problem with his three work wives at.

Speaker 8 (01:13:13):
All, But would you have been okay with him like
consistently sending one of them money every day?

Speaker 22 (01:13:20):
I mean, I guess if they were going out to
lunch and I mean I don't know. I mean they
brought their lunches though, so it's like we had lasagna
or something for dinner.

Speaker 19 (01:13:29):
Like he sometimes would bring leftovers and he would.

Speaker 1 (01:13:32):
Share with them.

Speaker 19 (01:13:32):
They never really got to leave school, So I guess
I don't know how I feel about that, But I
mean I guess different that he's sending her money versus
just yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:13:44):
If now and again, and somebody else's point before about
like well, I mean I bought this day, you bought
that day, and that's fine, I get it, But like
at the same time, it sounds like it's a one
way transaction.

Speaker 1 (01:13:57):
It's happening all the time.

Speaker 19 (01:13:58):
Yeah, right, but does she do you know if she
was buying at all?

Speaker 8 (01:14:04):
She didn't say anything about seeing her in the cash
apt she just saw him sending it out, you know.

Speaker 18 (01:14:08):
All.

Speaker 8 (01:14:09):
Yeah, so he's definitely guilty. Now, your husband sounds like
a nice man. We're going to make an exception for
all teachers. Y'all can do whatever y'all want. Because we
love the teachers. But outside of that, everybody cheating.

Speaker 2 (01:14:19):
Okay, we figured it out, Thank you, Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:14:25):
We really got to the bottom of it. Hey, shame.

Speaker 2 (01:14:29):
Now, Ship, I'm good morning, I'm along. I think you're
right about this, the point you're about to make, go ahead.

Speaker 11 (01:14:37):
I think this.

Speaker 20 (01:14:37):
I think we're missing the point. I think those notes
are cover up for Hail's hair.

Speaker 1 (01:14:42):
Nail.

Speaker 20 (01:14:43):
Come on, ye, spending two hundred dollars a month on
launch for your for your work, you.

Speaker 8 (01:14:51):
Want something, you know, it might have made lunch, and
he probably for her waxes.

Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
I was gonna say enough, she always groomed. Yeah, I
don't think. I don't think a dude should be sending
another woman money consistently if he's married, consistent exactly.

Speaker 20 (01:15:14):
How so, so that's what lunch two to three times
a week that you're paying for lunch on me? So
that means why is he cash apping her, having her
pay and so that it doesn't show up on his
credit card that he's cash apping her back?

Speaker 9 (01:15:27):
Like why are the subtrifute He's right, lunch?

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
I mean you you just got to turn those comments
off man blessed, or just pay cash responsibly. Thank you
the day. Everybody knows. It's on the constitution of the
show cheat responsibly. Hey, Catherine, Hey, hey, so your husband

(01:15:52):
has a work wife, and how do you feel about it?

Speaker 9 (01:15:56):
I think it's fine.

Speaker 14 (01:15:58):
We have a very like open communication.

Speaker 13 (01:16:01):
And at first I did think it was weird because
I saw a lot of text messages and.

Speaker 19 (01:16:07):
Like the text each other constantly.

Speaker 2 (01:16:08):
They're really they're close.

Speaker 12 (01:16:10):
And then I like, I.

Speaker 14 (01:16:12):
Was like, do you think she has a crush on you?

Speaker 19 (01:16:14):
Because she's always.

Speaker 9 (01:16:16):
Getting you coffee?

Speaker 19 (01:16:18):
And and then he's like, well, she's a lesbian, so.

Speaker 8 (01:16:24):
Trying we confirmed that.

Speaker 1 (01:16:29):
I need you to come over here, my god, get
over here.

Speaker 2 (01:16:38):
I'm gonna need to witness it.

Speaker 13 (01:16:45):
Is that right?

Speaker 4 (01:16:47):
Good at?

Speaker 2 (01:16:48):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (01:16:48):
Keep you're good at?

Speaker 1 (01:16:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:16:50):
Okay, thank you Kayla, excuse me, Catherine, thank you, Catherine,
have a good Yeah. I'm gonna need to see this
first animal.

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
Hey, Kayla, good morning.

Speaker 12 (01:17:03):
Hey, good morning, guys.

Speaker 9 (01:17:04):
How are you hi?

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
Great? Thank you for calling. This is a work life situation.

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
This woman's upset because her husband has uh she's with
the coworkers referring to as a work relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:17:15):
She's the work wife.

Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
And then it turns out he's sending money all the
time on the cash app to this work wife for lunch, right,
And it's like, was he sending money to this woman?
He's a married man, and he's also not doing it
for his wife, which I think is sus Maybe he's
the most generous man alive, but he's only being generous
to her, right, you know what I mean? Like, you
know people that are always given to others, Like maybe
that's he's that kind of person, but he's not doing

(01:17:37):
it with his wife.

Speaker 1 (01:17:37):
Why not?

Speaker 21 (01:17:39):
Right now? I hear you, and I think the calls
that you've had so far, you know, we've kind of
heard from both sides, and I think what I'm hearing
is just it comes down to how the mutual person,
the work life or husband that has a work and
a real life work husband or wife.

Speaker 10 (01:17:54):
Is prioritizing the actual husband or wife.

Speaker 21 (01:17:57):
And then you know, if there's any insecurity on that,
I could totally understand, where you know, the people that
are calling in the saying, oh, it's no big deal,
and it's probably because they know that their partner prioritizes
their actual marriage over anything else and there's no insecurity there.
If it's the opposite, though, I can get where you
kind of suss about things and are kind of looking
extra depth into maybe oh there's a couple of text

(01:18:18):
messages and lunch.

Speaker 2 (01:18:20):
Now, if it were you and you're the wife, do
you do you respond? I mean, that's that's pretty petty
to reach out to the woman and say, you know,
give me my money back. Basically, I probably leave it
alone because the issue you got to handle the issue
with the husband, not this woman.

Speaker 1 (01:18:34):
Right.

Speaker 21 (01:18:34):
I agree, Tiki. I get where you're coming, where you know,
your your support and the savage move. I don't want
to do that too, but yeah, I think that's something
you got to You got to leave.

Speaker 13 (01:18:45):
It at home.

Speaker 21 (01:18:45):
You got to have a discussion at home, rooted there.
It's really not about what's happening at work. I think
it's really about what's happening at home.

Speaker 4 (01:18:53):
Yeah, that's true, that's mature.

Speaker 8 (01:18:54):
But it's either going to give me that money back
through cash out, but I'm pulling up to your house,
which would you like?

Speaker 21 (01:18:59):
You know, you got you got to turn this around
and use us an opportunity and say, hey, all right,
the one hundred and eighty bucks, what's you getting me now? Right?

Speaker 4 (01:19:06):
Oh? Yeah, I'm getting half in the divorce, because that's
where we're.

Speaker 1 (01:19:09):
Going to be much left you spending on her. Thank you, Kayla,
take it.

Speaker 9 (01:19:15):
You have a good day.

Speaker 1 (01:19:16):
Glad you call it. I like you. I like you.
I don't know if we solve the problem.

Speaker 4 (01:19:20):
Or what divorce court. Next episode that one was.

Speaker 1 (01:19:22):
About, She's like, would you get with her with your boss?

Speaker 2 (01:19:25):
She's like silent, Yeah, it's the friend Shiel good Morning
on the radio and the iHeart app as well, search
for the Friendshiel on demand. I think you gotta you
gotta not engage with the work wife scenario. And if
you don't know what we're talking about, you can go
back on the iHeart app and listen to it. But
you're giving her too much credit, you know, doing the

(01:19:45):
petty thing, reaching out, trying to get the money back
and whatever. Like you're giving her. You're almost giving her weight.
You got to ignore that lady.

Speaker 8 (01:19:51):
Oh no, my husband or her husband was giving that
lady weight. Okay, one hundred and eighty dollars worth of weight.

Speaker 1 (01:19:56):
No, but you handle it with him, handle it with him.

Speaker 4 (01:19:58):
I'm handling it with I'm not engaging.

Speaker 2 (01:20:02):
I'm not engaging with the side piece. The side piece
doesn't get my time. The side piece is not credible
to me.

Speaker 8 (01:20:06):
I say that too, And then if it actually happens,
everybody's in trouble.

Speaker 4 (01:20:10):
Oh yes, everybody.

Speaker 8 (01:20:11):
But this is why I say ladies, check them phones,
check them cash apps.

Speaker 4 (01:20:15):
It's called a quality control check.

Speaker 2 (01:20:16):
I mean, I could see, you know, on a birthday
or a special occasion. And by the way, to cash app,
people are sleeping on the on those on Venmo and
the cash app, you can there's a lot to discover.

Speaker 6 (01:20:27):
Oh my god, that's one of the first places I
creep when I'm dating someone.

Speaker 2 (01:20:30):
There's a lot of discovery in those comics. Just be like, oh, now,
why is so and so, so and so and so much?

Speaker 18 (01:20:34):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:20:35):
Yeah, you can look at friends.

Speaker 6 (01:20:36):
You can find out how I found out how an
Ax looked on a Venmo.

Speaker 7 (01:20:39):
Yeah, I don't find her anywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:20:41):
And nex of mine Kandla was was paying for half
the rent and they I guess they were living together.

Speaker 6 (01:20:46):
And I was like, oh, what was she writing rent
or like, yeah, yes, you would write there.

Speaker 2 (01:20:51):
It was the amount too, It was like a pretty
large amount. And I was like, wouldn't have been happening
if you were with me. See, you gotta pay for
half nothing, the whole thing.

Speaker 4 (01:21:03):
A uber riot.

Speaker 2 (01:21:06):
I mean, who were talking about? Who were there? How
much they got? Okay? No, hey, the uber getting people
an uber? I got somebody in uber recently, getting somebody
an uber and makes me very nervous because, as you remember,
the last time I did that, somebody puked in the
uber without me on my account. So I had to
pay the two fifty and I got like, I have

(01:21:28):
like a negative thirty Uber score now And I don't
really blame them, but it wasn't me. There needs to
be a way that I can pay for your uber.
But you, you're the one that gets the zero stars.

Speaker 4 (01:21:39):
Send it through cash, shut it in a note.

Speaker 1 (01:21:41):
That's why you open up their phone. You open up
their phone.

Speaker 4 (01:21:45):
Oh nob, did that get your phone? Let me get
your uber.

Speaker 1 (01:21:50):
But I got it for you. I ordered it for you.
That's what you asked me to do. I can't. I did.

Speaker 2 (01:21:56):
Look, my my Uber score is in a dire We're
in a dire situation with the uber score, and I
just can't. I can't afford to have people get in
there and ask for the ox cord and be rude
and puke.

Speaker 6 (01:22:07):
You know for you is that one day you let
it go, your uber story. You stopped thinking about it.

Speaker 2 (01:22:12):
It's so bad. I think it's a four point eighty five.
It's terrible. It's a terrible score.

Speaker 1 (01:22:17):
Terrible.

Speaker 4 (01:22:17):
It's fine five, you're right there.

Speaker 2 (01:22:21):
But it's hard to get that bat of a score.
It's hard to get that load. I mean, people gave me.
I know, if somebody gave me a one, my.

Speaker 4 (01:22:26):
God, it's fine.

Speaker 7 (01:22:27):
It doesn't reflect anything about you as a person.

Speaker 1 (01:22:31):
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(01:23:10):
but one in ten European babies is conceived in an
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about the assembly of that bed.

Speaker 1 (01:23:23):
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Speaker 2 (01:23:25):
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