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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 3 (00:26):
Well go then the city.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
I'll then do straight Jason. Let's hear how that sounds?
Hey girl, I like them jeans. Let me get up
in them.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yeah, I would feel fairly confident that you were not,
in facts hitting on a woman if you were to
deliver the message in that way. Well, Fred's show is
Have you ever had an issue with your phone such
that you had to carry your iPad with you because
that was all you had? They tried to suggest that
to me when I accidentally dropped my phone at a
very high intensity, I may have accidentally dropped it right right,

(00:56):
I dropped it. It was going very fast speed when I
dropped it into a wall, and I dropped it damage wall.
But anyway, so I may have done that once and
I went to the store and there may not have
been much phone left from the dropping that I dropped it.
I know, it's crazy. I was just what an accident,
and I may truly have only been able to provide

(01:18):
the SIM card kind of. So I may have walked
in with the SIM card and they were like, well,
why don't you bring us the phone and we can
I'm like, well we can trade that in.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
I'm like you anymore. And then they understood.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
They understood the assignment like they knew like immediately they
work in a phone store, Like okay, got it. Well,
you know, here's what we can do. We can get
you a warranty phone, I guess or something. You can
buy a new phone, but the one phone's gonna take
a while. So what you could do is just carry
your iPad around for a while and like that'll, you know,
until Monday, because I think this was a Saturday when
the dropping of the phone occurred, and then it was like, hey,

(01:52):
we'll get your phone by monday, but like you can
just carry your iPad around like you want me to
carry my iPad around like a phone, Like you want
me to go to a date with my iPad and
its case like, how you doing, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Well?

Speaker 2 (02:04):
What's that about? Well is in case it gets boring,
I'm gonna watch it. I'm right in the middle of
something on Netflix, and I really didn't want to have
to interrupt it. So if you, you know, if you
see me look down at the iPad, that means you're
boring as hell. Y. I'm going to Phoenix, okay, whatever
you're going to here. Like like most cities, it's uh,
it's kind of like they all kind of blend together

(02:25):
yet Phoenix, Scottsdale, Masa, Glendale. I can go on and on,
but they just there. It's all kind of like one big,
big thing, not separated, kind of like Chicago, kind of
like a lot of places, it's kind of all this
one big thing. There's not a whole lot of separation.
Like you could drive down one road, if you drove
down to Scottsdale Road, you could go from Fountain basically
from Fountain Hills Cave Creek all the way to like

(02:46):
I don't even know where Tasa Grande, and you wouldn't
necessarily even though you left one town and went to
the other.

Speaker 4 (02:51):
Oh's and the spring training going on there too. Yeah,
it is my in laws, all the baseball players and
all the grow girls. Okay, not me, like, look at
my lists?

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Can you me relax?

Speaker 5 (03:06):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
I just did that to her. I took my tongue
and I lifted my lips.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Well, heyt's remember Kiki's going to Phoenix, so you know
she won't see them, right if it's in one of
the neighboring cities.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
She did no idea, So you do you know where
you're staying in Phoenie. I don't have to say exactly,
because we have psychos that listen. Some psychos that listen,
but we have a couple of psychos. I shouldn't say
that of the thirteen, we might have a psycho that listens.
So generally speaking, where are you staying, like in a
big hotel or any airbnb?

Speaker 1 (03:33):
Or what are you doing?

Speaker 3 (03:33):
We're doing an airbnb with a pool in the backyard.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh yes, okay? And what kind of activities you have planned?
Because you wrote today that you wanted me to tell
you where to go.

Speaker 6 (03:43):
They at some like indoor adult water park, which is
like a They also have a spa there.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
And an indoor is that like hedonism? Water park is
like every is everyone naked at this thing?

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Like? What is it an indoor adult water bark? Ope?

Speaker 6 (03:56):
So I don't know, but it's like they have cabana,
they have bar, you know, yeah, bring you drinks. It
sounds like a resort but inside of beach club. Yeah yeah,
So we'll do a day there because I think.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Water park, I think like a gigantic water slide and
just naked grown ups, which would be sort of a
weird thing.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
Now why do you hang out?

Speaker 2 (04:16):
Well, you said an adult water park. I mean if
it's an adult. If you have to put the word adult
in front of water parks, then I feel like we're
specifying that whatever's going on kids shouldn't see.

Speaker 6 (04:26):
Because I'm trying to make I'm trying to get you
the like the picture a bunch of women by a
pool with drinks in a cabana with a water slide.

Speaker 7 (04:35):
There.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay, you're going to like, yeah, you're going to a
day club.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yes, Sky Island Bungalow.

Speaker 8 (04:43):
Oh wait, okay, because in my mind I had like
it's a lazy river thereat you will fledge for grown
ups like where you're like naked at the bottom of
the slide and the next guy that comes down like
you guys gotta make out of it.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
I don't know, maybe this is just my fantasy, but
you're saying adult water park, and immediately I'm going to,
you know, to kind of place at our friendly on
Rodgers hangs out where everyone's just walking around naked all
the time.

Speaker 9 (05:06):
No, we won't have on swimsuit just like kids aren't allowed.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yeah, because it's a barn.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
Just braight the naked Like, I.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
Don't forget you.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
This looks nice.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
I like my version of it.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
Then I like the Kiki's going to an adult naked
porny water park this weekend.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
That's what I like.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Are you on the slide, this huge slide? You know
I'm not I'm too small, all.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
Right, So you're doing that? Are you hanging out with
my mom? Because nothing would surprised me more than if
you went to Arizona and then you wind up meeting
up with mom of Fred and and you know, moving
in on my inheritance.

Speaker 6 (05:38):
I know, I can't tell you because you will try
to fly there. I can't tell you. Why would I
try to think I would try to intervene. She couldn't
hang out with my mom.

Speaker 3 (05:45):
Yes, you would.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
You talked at my mom probably more than I do.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
You would try to get in the middle of our date,
and we can't have that.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Don't take my mom.

Speaker 2 (05:53):
To the adult naked porny website, water slide wherever you're going.

Speaker 3 (05:57):
Oh, she didn't want to set it up.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
Set it up. Yeah, she's a regular. That's my name
at the door, she said, right, Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
Have you ever have you ever found out something like
that about your parents? Have any of you were I'm
just curious eight five five five three five have you
ever found out that, like your parents, who you believe
to be unassuming whatever, you're you're grown up now you're
not in the house anymore, and you find out that
like they go on vacation to one of those hedonism places,
or they go to like a swinger's place, or I'm

(06:31):
not even trying to be like, well, yeah, there's a place.
There's a place in Illinois called the Ciberis, which is
a hotel that is exactly what I'm imagining Kiki's going to,
except hers has water slides, And then again, I think
this one does too. Actually, but Essentially, it's a hotel
where the rooms are.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
It's set up to go do that. It's set up
to go that. That's the persons like hot tub.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
In the room and like your ears are the ceilings
and whatever, like the cibber. It's intended for you to
go just to grown up stuff that you don't go there,
like that's not the place you stay on a road
trip when you're on your way to you know, Tuscaloosa
or whatever. Like you you don't just pull over there,
you know, for a nice rest, like you're going there
to have an affair. You're going there to do something crazy.

(07:18):
It turns out Jason's parents used to hang out there
when he was growing up, and they had no idea.

Speaker 9 (07:21):
Frequent fires or he had no idea he had the
rewards club card.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
I feel like your dad, Klein would be because your
parents should divorce, you have your stepdad and then you
have your dad. I feel like the way that you
describe your dad, he'd be the kind of guy that
you would find out, you know, goes to one of
these like I don't know, has some sort of riskue
hobby or something.

Speaker 3 (07:41):
Oh, I mean my dad.

Speaker 10 (07:42):
I can remember my dad going to Raves, like, my
dad is a partier. He was rather so, Yeah, I
mean I definitely believe that, and he spares no detail,
so I do know about it. Unfortunately I didn't have
to find out from anyone else.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
I'm pretty sure that this person, pretty sure this person
did not mean what they just texted. It surprises me
to hear that Fred says an adult porn naked water
park would be his fantasy, considering how homophobic he is. Oh,
but the next sentence is, imagine the nastiness I'm assuming
you met germophobic?

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
Yeah, because I'm very much not homophobic. So again I
would have nothing nothing on the text line, which surprised
me these days, except the next line says, can you
imagine the nastiness?

Speaker 1 (08:28):
I mean, I assume you mean. I assume you mean germophobic.
Let's go with that.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Yeah, because I am not the ladder or the former.
I am the ladder, so I assume. Yeah, And honestly,
it is not, in fact my fantasy. And no, I
would not go there because of the germs, because imagine
if you went to a place where that's all that
they that's what it's intended to be, and that's all
they do there, you know. Then I mean hotels are
like that anyway. But if you went to a hotel

(08:54):
that's specialized in just being nasty, then yeah, you can
assume there's DNA everywhere. So anyway, okay, So I was
just curious if anybody knew of any sort of like,
oh wait, we do Oh hold on a second, Lizzie, Hey, Lizzie,
Good morning, Good morning, Lizzie. So I was just curious
if you since we're talking about where Kiki's going this weekend,

(09:15):
which is a quote unquote adult water park.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
I still don't know what that means.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
But did you have and then Jason's parents went to like,
you know, the Freaky hotel. Did your parents ever did
you find out that your parents are into something that
you're like, what on earth?

Speaker 11 (09:30):
So my parents are the epitome of old people couples.

Speaker 12 (09:33):
There's seventy four.

Speaker 11 (09:35):
They met at the Playboy Club in Chicago.

Speaker 1 (09:39):
Oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 13 (09:42):
And apparently there was a hot salt and that's where
they met.

Speaker 7 (09:45):
And then they were engaged on.

Speaker 11 (09:47):
Their second date, and my dad bought a ring to
the second date.

Speaker 3 (09:51):
Wow, wow, wow.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
So they used to have these things all over the country.
My dad.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
My dad was a I guess you got you were
like a key member something and you got a key,
and the key got you into these places all over
the country. So my dad had a membership to one
of these, like in the seventies, and so you'd go
to you know, big cities, and they would have these
Playboy clubs, right exactly, And so I guess you'd go
there and it was like a bar and a hangout.
Wasn't necessarily sallacious, but yeah, so your parents met at

(10:17):
the Playboy Club and then look at you. How long
did it take to for them to make you? Soucidly?
They didn't waste much time.

Speaker 7 (10:24):
I actually am adopted.

Speaker 11 (10:26):
So twenty years later they adopted me, and now they've
been married for forty five years.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Wow. Okay, so romance starts at the Playboy.

Speaker 3 (10:33):
Club obviously, Yeah, boy club.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
I love that. Lizzie.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
All right, well i'll meet you there, have a good day.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
Well, Kicky'll be there before me. But anyways, I hate
the same story, Debbie. I mean, that's love, by the way.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
That's I mean when I think of like Cinderella stories,
I think of just the ones she just told. Hey, Debbie, Hey, Hey,
good morning. Did you what did you find out about
your parents or or people who were important to you
later at life and you were born away.

Speaker 7 (11:01):
It was it was kind of my daughter.

Speaker 13 (11:04):
Finding out about me.

Speaker 11 (11:05):
I went to an adult only, clothing optional resorts with
a male friend of mine and my daughter was about
nineteen twenty and she had called me while I was
there and asked me how it was going, and I said,
it was really nice.

Speaker 5 (11:20):
Solve it.

Speaker 11 (11:20):
And then I slipped up because she was really into tattoos,
and I mentioned.

Speaker 7 (11:25):
That there was a guy there, so, yeah, you wouldn't
believe it.

Speaker 11 (11:28):
There's this guy here and he's literally got tattoos everywhere.

Speaker 14 (11:32):
He didn't, you know, down there.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
And she's like, wait a minute, what didn't.

Speaker 13 (11:37):
The place very nice?

Speaker 11 (11:38):
And I was like, well, you know, you know, never mind,
So yeah, it was.

Speaker 7 (11:46):
It was a little awkward, but wow.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
That's that guy. Must have been a good friend, a
good friend of yours.

Speaker 11 (11:52):
He was a very well, yeah, my friend was a
very good friend. He got me there by telling me
when I said I wasn't sure I could go to
a place to be naked and pulbrick, he said, well,
it's not like you're going to be naked in Walmart.

Speaker 14 (12:04):
You know, he was right, Wow, it's different.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
Now, were you guys?

Speaker 2 (12:09):
Now, when you you use the term friend loosely, I
mean in this case, I'm assuming or do you? Were
you actually friends with this guy? And he was like, hey, Debbie,
what are you doing this weekend? We should go to
a naked adult resort together. And then all of a
sudden you realize, oh, we're more than friends.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
I guess, well.

Speaker 11 (12:25):
No, we were, you know, kind of friends with benefits.

Speaker 14 (12:29):
You know, he's my fun friend.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Hey, everybody needs a fun friend. Yeah, but thus, of
course you're married or in a relationship. But anyway, Hey Debbie,
thank you. I have a great day you too. One
of my favorite parts about doing this show is it
doesn't matter what we're talking about. I can, for the
most part, say call now and somebody can somebody can
tell us something about something, And it turns out we
got a bunch of freaky people out there listening to us.

(12:54):
It makes me wonder how much stuff our parents have
done that we don't know.

Speaker 3 (12:57):
About that I'm good unknowing, Like.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
Paulina, you know, I love Mama Marta deeply, but I
can see it. I can see a world where Mama
Marta may have gone to a place like this and
you never knew about it, and she.

Speaker 15 (13:11):
Still might be you guys, Like she tells me all
the time, I am living my best life right now
in my fifties.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
Divorce like doing my thing.

Speaker 15 (13:18):
You know, I got my little granddaughter, Like she's really
living her best life.

Speaker 3 (13:21):
And she goes missing on weekends. You guys know that. Yeah,
i't where she goes sometimes, So she just might be
getting Martahi.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
Do you think she has a boyfriend she won't tell
you about? And if she does, why wouldn't she tell you?

Speaker 3 (13:32):
So Marta.

Speaker 15 (13:33):
One thing about Marta that I knew before children, so
b c before kids or be yeah, before children, she
used to get it like that, like she had these men.

Speaker 3 (13:41):
Running circles around her. That's what my aunt literally told me.

Speaker 15 (13:44):
They're like, yeah, she was that girl obviously, so and
she should be.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
So I feel like she's bringing that back. So I
don't think she.

Speaker 15 (13:48):
Would have a serious relationship like a boyfriend, but she
probably got a couple guys in rotation, a couple of
good morning texts.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
Wow, she got a couple good morning texts.

Speaker 3 (13:59):
I wouldn't be surprised. Yeah, she'll get married again.

Speaker 15 (14:03):
She's a smart woman, like she's like I would.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
Well, I'm gonna tell my mom not to hang out
you this week and Kiki, because I don't necessarily need
to know if you guys are going to be a
built water park together.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
It's really none of my business.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
She is not your business.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
I want to know, and I think I know the answer,
but I want to know if this gesture would ever
work on really anybody. But this was from last week.
I didn't get to it, but a plane passenger said
she received a note from a pilot while waiting for
a flight, So I guess this wasn't on the plane.
This woman named Steph, is from New Jersey. She shared
the handwritten message and was flooded with comments. The content

(14:39):
creator posted the video to her one million followers with
a text that read, I guess this was handed to
her on a napkin by a pilot walking by, and
it said I'm just what she said. I'm sitting at
the airport and a pilot just placed this on my
table and walked away. On the note, it said, I

(15:00):
have seen the whole world and you are the most
beautiful woman in it. And then he signed it with
the signature that's not legible, and that was it. No
phone number, no Instagram handle, no email address, nothing. It
was just that's what he wrote, said it there and
walked away. And I don't know what the intent was.
Was it simply to pay a compliment. It sounds a

(15:21):
little romantic for just to compliment. Yeah, And also, I
mean calling a woman beautiful, saying you're the most beautiful
woman in the world is clearly a line. I mean,
you're obviously like picking up on it. I mean, I
don't know why you would just say that and walk
away and that I mean, and there are a lot
of things you could say to somebody, right if you
weren't trying to get with them.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
But then again, he didn't put any sort.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
Of identifying, truly identifying feature on the note, so she
would have unless she chased him down, which I guess
he was hoping maybe she would. I don't know, there
would be no way for her. I mean, I could
see maybe put his phone number right right, No next
steps none.

Speaker 3 (15:58):
How do I follow up?

Speaker 2 (15:59):
Right, I'm trying to circle back on this man, and
I'm not able to. So you know, viewers had all
kinds of comments. Of course, he's probably married with five kids.
He didn't leave a number because he's somebody's husband, me
thinking he has three families in three different stays. Now,
my question is does this kind of thing ever work?

(16:19):
And I think I know the answer. Like most things,
it would work for the right guy in the right situation.
The problem is as a man, I don't know if
I'm the right guy in the right situation. But here's
the other problem is if you do stuff like this.
Let's say this dude was actually just a sweet man
who was single and thought she was the hottest thing
he's ever seen. Now he's getting roasted online like he's

(16:41):
got a wife and kids, and he probably does, because
otherwise I think there would be a different process here.
But then again, if you got a wife and kids,
and why you even put yourself a risk like this,
and why would you even sign it?

Speaker 9 (16:52):
Yeah, I mean, maybe he's part of my family and
he just wanted to let her know that, Hey, girl,
you're killing it to the stand right, we stand, You're
eating leaving no crumbs down boots.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
You know, here's a little note just to make you
feel special.

Speaker 9 (17:05):
Uplift some of my female counterparts in this world, because.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
The problem is a lot of guys are gonna do
this even if they are in a position to get
with you or date you or court you or whatever
you want to say, because they're fredy getting roasted and so.
And I'm not saying like the plight of the man,
it's so hard to be a man or whatever, but
like that's the thing is if you do something creative,
you know, and I hate to be this way, but
you do hear women say all the time, I wish

(17:29):
guys would approach me. I wish guys were more creative.
I wish guys would go, you know, try a little harder.
I wish which which But then and I think we
I don't think it's as much anymore. But there was
a time period there where we were also talking about
stories about how normal, normal things were considered creepy, like
dudes walking like like we've over the years talked about

(17:51):
a guy walked up to me and started speaking to
me and it was so creepy and it's like, well,
or a guy held the door for me and it
was like so demeaning, or I mean, we've heard these
things over the years where it's or a guy looked
at me on the sidewalk and he made me like
he smiled at me, and that was just so creepy.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
It's like, well, maybe he just was smiling.

Speaker 2 (18:09):
At you because like he's a nice person, or maybe
he held the door because that's what his mom taught
him to do. And no, I'm not talking about myself,
Like you know, I don't walk up to people, so
it couldn't have been me. I don't talk to strangers,
so it couldn't have been me. But I will be honest,
I'm I don't know what the proper etiquette is anymore
or what generation considers creepy and what another generation does it,

(18:31):
because I do think there's a whole generation of folks
that think they're just interacting with people that you don't
know is weird. But then again, how are you ever
going to get the guy to walk up to you
in the bar, you know, or whatever else if that's
what's being perpetuated. So I don't know, was this just
a really sweet move or is this guy a total
creep And would it work? But here's the thing, be honest,

(18:52):
would it work? Would it only work if you were
wildly attracted to the guy who did it to you?
Or would it be the kind of move where you
might see a guy to be more attractive because he
did it because it was bold.

Speaker 10 (19:04):
I mean, there's nothing left to do with his situation,
Like he just said I was beautiful in this scenario,
and so I'd be like, okay, thanks and like keep
it moving. So I don't know about working quote unquote,
but I would think it was very nice.

Speaker 2 (19:16):
Is there a world where you would have like stood
up and followed the guy and been like, hey, wait
a minute.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
Probably not, because that's the thing. I think this was
a flawed taxtic.

Speaker 3 (19:24):
He am creepy.

Speaker 1 (19:27):
But no, but see I don't I think I don't.

Speaker 2 (19:29):
I don't know that I would have thought that was
that was what I would have hoped you would have
done if I did something like that. So here you are,
like you're thinking that it would be creepy for me
to then follow up with the guy, but obvious, I mean,
I gotta think that's what he was hoping was going
to happen, that it would form some kind of dialogue.

Speaker 10 (19:43):
But because there was no number and there was no
you know, other instructions, I would think he just.

Speaker 3 (19:47):
Wanted me to know that he thought I was beautiful
and I.

Speaker 1 (19:49):
Just move on, or you would have had to have
stood up and gone and talked to.

Speaker 3 (19:52):
Him right, which I would not ever do.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
So there was a flawed tactic to begin with, so
that maybe that was it then, I'm not sure.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
Yeah, but i'd be like, oh, that's so nice.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
I did someth like this once and it did work.
My sister was with me. Actually it was a long
time ago. I can't remember I have. I took a
picture of the note. I have it somewhere. I just
I was somewhere and I saw somebody and it was
in a restaurant. The person worked at the restaurant, and
then we, my sister and I went and had drinks.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
She say that girl was cute. I'm like, she was cute,
and she's like, write her.

Speaker 3 (20:20):
A note, and you said, I've been all around the world.

Speaker 1 (20:23):
Yeah, actually it was this note.

Speaker 14 (20:24):
This guy.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
Yeah, this guy copied me, Like, what's it watching? Is
he know this person? Now?

Speaker 2 (20:29):
I don't know IF's because my sister was there when
I went back and handed it to her. I don't
know if like that made me feel disarming, even though
for a long time people thought I was dating my
sister because I don't know why they the same. Apparently
every female and male that are together who might be
in this similar age demographic and there maybe you know,
attractive people, they must be getting it on.

Speaker 1 (20:51):
There's no way that they're like.

Speaker 2 (20:52):
Friends or coworkers or family, right, there's no way possible.
But I worked, I mean probably three minutes later my
phone went, but there was I put my number on it. Yeah, yeah,
So I don't know, would does ever work on anybody?
And would as as as womankind, would you encourage men

(21:13):
to be this bold?

Speaker 3 (21:15):
I do.

Speaker 15 (21:16):
I think it's kind of cool, like I'm here for
like the vintage of it, the vintage part of it
of just you know, sliding a note, leaving your number.
I need next steps though, because again, if I see
a woman chasing a man down the whatever, the terminal,
because you know, the pilot's already down the terminal and
he didn't leave next steps, like no, mam, sit down,
because I feel like he just did it just surely
to be nice or just I don't know, to leave

(21:36):
a compliment, or maybe he does have three families. I
don't know, but it's not giving he wanted to pursue
this because he would have left, wouldn't you leave?

Speaker 3 (21:43):
Next steps of like here's my even, here's my Instagram
even like anything, right my email.

Speaker 1 (21:48):
It's weird that he signed it, though, because somebody's going, like,
somebody out there knows what that signature looks like. So
it does kind of say his name sort of only
if she posts it, you know what she did?

Speaker 2 (22:00):
Well, yeah, which he did, so someone knows that we're
talking about this guy. Though, someone knows who this guy is,
and and there's probably somebody out there who looked at that.

Speaker 1 (22:08):
But what if the guy is married?

Speaker 2 (22:09):
So I guess I don't know why you'd sign it
if you were trying to be if you were trying
to be discreet, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (22:16):
Maybe you just have to know.

Speaker 15 (22:17):
Yeah, maybe I don't know. I need next steps if
this is like something you're trying to pursue. If you
want Dace, you need to come tell me and.

Speaker 3 (22:24):
Leave me a phone.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
I don't want to run after him.

Speaker 3 (22:26):
I'm not running.

Speaker 1 (22:27):
And then it turns around and you have this romantic embrace.

Speaker 3 (22:33):
One's never chasing me. Yeah, I'll never chase a man that.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
He doesn't want you to chase them. Someone's section.

Speaker 2 (22:42):
I've had men compliment me just to say I'm beautiful
and nothing else. It's a nice feeling.

Speaker 3 (22:46):
Okay, nice, that's nice. I don't know nice though.

Speaker 9 (22:52):
I always try to give compliments to girls. I wonder
if they think I'm hitting on them. We want to
to you like you're like your new color. I think
that alone, just the way you said it right there
and gives it. Yeah, yeah, I would feel fairly confident
that you were not, in fact hitting on a woman
if you were to deliver the message in that way.

Speaker 1 (23:14):
Just one more time, give me an example. Okay, Like, girl,
I love your nail color. It's so cute.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
Right, yeah, so I'm confident that you are not right
right exactly.

Speaker 1 (23:24):
There's nothing about that, right.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
I feel good about that, not being threatening whatsoever?

Speaker 1 (23:30):
Got it?

Speaker 14 (23:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (23:31):
Good, I'm glad. But then do straight, Jason, let's hear
how that sounds. Hey, girl, I like them jeans. Let
me get up in them, you know.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
Also confident that nobody would believe me, Also quite confident that, yeah, no,
I think you're fine all around. You can give all
the compliments you want in whichever character voice you want.
It is the frend show. Good morning. Thanks for having
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by Gideon Person Trainer to the Stars and me, uh,

(24:02):
is your.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
High, Gideon?

Speaker 7 (24:04):
What's going on?

Speaker 1 (24:06):
Look? Look at this guy? Look at this guy? Can
you do?

Speaker 2 (24:09):
He just radiates happiness and positivity, And it's so annoying
because he's so good looking, and he has this great
smile and he sounds like that. Well I'm huffing and
puffing and having a heart attack and needing resuscitation. He's
still smiling and sounding like that. Like it's so frustrating.

Speaker 7 (24:26):
Gideon, Fred is not frustrating.

Speaker 16 (24:29):
We have a good time when never wear together.

Speaker 7 (24:31):
It sometimes you just don't realize it until it's over.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
You're right, you're right.

Speaker 2 (24:35):
But we have a we have our intern here, Bellahamine,
who answers the phone and responds to many of the
text messages.

Speaker 1 (24:41):
And you said to me the other day that you
want to go couch to Chicago marathon, right right.

Speaker 3 (24:47):
Well, not Chicago. I'm doing a half marathon at the
end of September.

Speaker 2 (24:51):
Okay, So you haven't from now May, June, July, August.
So you have five months. Yeah, I've been a while
to run a half marathon. And so now tell Gideon
where we're at, because you've run how many marathons?

Speaker 3 (25:03):
Now?

Speaker 1 (25:03):
Six? Seven?

Speaker 7 (25:05):
I run seven?

Speaker 16 (25:06):
But who's counting me?

Speaker 1 (25:08):
I'm counting. This guy's been la this guy's done Chicago
many times, he's done Houston, he's done New York. Wow,
he ran around the world one time.

Speaker 3 (25:18):
Yeah, I could see that.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
He climbed out Everest six times. It's crazy and all
while I ran one mile, So it's crazy. So where
are we at in our journey so far? Two days in?

Speaker 17 (25:29):
We're about two days in right now. My back is
hurting like no other. I didn't know your back hurts
when you run, you guys, I didn't know the spots, everything,
everything hurts.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
So how much have we run? Cumulatively?

Speaker 11 (25:39):
Like?

Speaker 1 (25:40):
What kind of running? What have we accomplished in two days?

Speaker 3 (25:42):
We've done?

Speaker 17 (25:43):
Like a run walk walk walk run kind of a
situation where I start to get embarrassed. The people behind
me are looking at me, They're like, why is this
girl just running and walking? So I like motivate myself
to keep running. But then I stopped because we had
to learn.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
Gideon and said to teach me this is no one's
actually looking at you. You should just know. And they
might be, but they're not really internalizing, so no one's
really judging you.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
There's that that the right right indion, that's.

Speaker 7 (26:08):
The one correct. Everybody has their own problems and struggles,
and no one's concerned about the other person.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 17 (26:14):
That's my biggest thing is I feel like I look
like an idiot out there because I also run, like
my legs go like side to side, like they just
look a little silly.

Speaker 1 (26:21):
They go side to side.

Speaker 3 (26:23):
Yeah, that might be a something are.

Speaker 17 (26:28):
And I just always ran like this and like people,
my friends always make fun of me, and it's like,
you know, I feel like people look at it when
they like I run, my legs go out.

Speaker 7 (26:36):
See.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
But here's the good news. The good news is that
you can blend in.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
Imagine me six five and forty pounds, like trotting down
the Lakers, like, who is this NBA player who's out
of clearly out of shape and hasn't been in the
league in fifteen years, Like that's what they look when
they think of me. And then they see this very
good looking, fit guy, and they're like, he must be
paying him. You know what it looks like more on
the lakefront. It looks like I hired someone to go
on a date with me, you.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
Know what I mean? Because like one is, no one
is saying like this guy, the tall like guy that
looks like a moron running that that man is not
electively training with him, Like no one thinks that I'm coming,
that he's coming to me for any.

Speaker 17 (27:13):
Form of inspiration. Yes, so don't worry about how you look.
But I look like a sad child, you know. It's
like running away from home on the past, like.

Speaker 3 (27:26):
Their parents ever taught how to run? Like it just
running away from her trouble.

Speaker 1 (27:30):
So Gideon, what should she do? Like, what's the progression here?

Speaker 18 (27:33):
Well, first and foremost, congratulations on making a decision and
working towards that, because a lot of people don't give
themselves credit for the fact that it takes some courage.

Speaker 7 (27:44):
To kind of put yourself out there, especially on the
radio on the Fread show, I know, and just tell
your friends and family that you have this audacious goal
and you're actually doing something to work towards it. So
make congratulations to you and then I would say that, like,
this is a journey and it's not going to be perfect.
I say this in print all the time. You're going
to stumble a little bit, you may feel awkward or

(28:04):
it's a cure at times, but you're doing something good
for yourself, and you're doing something that's going to challenge
you and change you positively.

Speaker 3 (28:11):
So she's crying a lot.

Speaker 7 (28:12):
That to be a reward, you know what I mean,
and its process and you'll learn so much about yourself
as you go through it. So it's not going to
be perfect, but.

Speaker 16 (28:19):
You will grow and you will be glad that you.

Speaker 7 (28:21):
Took that first step.

Speaker 3 (28:22):
Thank you, Gideon.

Speaker 17 (28:23):
I have one question for you that's really like keeps
me up at night about running. So I look close
to a path on the lake, but I would like
to run to the path, but there's lights, like traffic lights.

Speaker 3 (28:35):
What do you do there as the stop light? Like
do I stop running?

Speaker 1 (28:39):
You do what I do, and.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
You pray that it goes longer. But the traffic light
lasts longer. You just pray. You pray that like not
that anyone gets hurt in the accident, but you pray
for an accident that blocks the road.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
And then you have to go home. Now what do
you do? Get it?

Speaker 7 (28:55):
So it depends on how you want to approach it.
So you can stand at the light and jog. I'm
sure you've seen it many times. But what I like
to do is I double back. You generally are going
to figure out how long these lights are, especially if
that's a normal path for you. So if I'm coming
up on the red light, out, circle around, run back
from where I just came from, I kind of time
it up so that that lights in his drain, I'm pretty.

Speaker 16 (29:16):
Close to circle back again, and now just.

Speaker 7 (29:19):
Make that cross. So this way, I didn't break stride
and I'm keeping my energy moving forward.

Speaker 2 (29:22):
Oh yeah, we don't want to break strid. We never
we never do that. Never do we break the stride
to stop at the hot dog standing. I have a
little something to eat. You know that, No man, because
somettimes he tricks me and he says we're running to
raising canes and I'm like, we are, and then we
never get there. We never we never go there. Exit
Yeah exactly. Okay, So then as far as getting like

(29:44):
for people who want to get off the couch and
then go to a like, let's say a five k
or me next month, there you go do it? So like, okay,
so maybe five k's like the first goal, So then
what would be like how would we, in simple terms,
get there from couch to with a stroller?

Speaker 3 (30:01):
Because that's.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
Okay.

Speaker 16 (30:04):
By the way, I think you should share those details
on when this five k is going to be because
I may show up and we may have some of
the thirteen that want to join you in support too.

Speaker 2 (30:20):
That's not the thing, very illegal now that the biggest
past it in the city council.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
Yeah, how do you do that?

Speaker 7 (30:25):
I'll say this, anybody, anybody who's looking to get off
the couch and get going needs to do just that. Bella,
I love your approach of running and walking. People don't
give walking enough credit. Like that is a great way
to start, a great way to break up your run
so that you're not doing too much too soon. I
know you were saying that your back is hurting, and
I know you're pushing yourself at certain times because you
maybe feel insecure that other people are watching and judging.

(30:48):
But take those walks, take those breaks, and watch how
your endurance improves.

Speaker 16 (30:52):
And then you can actually.

Speaker 7 (30:53):
Make a note on how you're improving in the fact
that you don't have to walk as much or walk
along time. So just getting started and giving yourself a
lot of grace in this process, especially if it's something
that you haven't done in a while or ever have done,
because you just need that great that time that's going
to allow you to make those developments and changes later.

(31:13):
So just get going.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
Just get going.

Speaker 7 (31:15):
Grab a friend or two, a family member, some type
of support system, right, and like I said, do something
that's going to be fun, encouraging with your dog, with
your child, by yourself, with friends, and put it out there.
Like oftentimes, we hold ourselves accountable more when other people
know that we had this big goal and they're going
to be checking in on us.

Speaker 2 (31:36):
See, I agree with what he said because you and
I have the same problem, Bill, and we're worried about
what other people think.

Speaker 1 (31:41):
Yeah, and you should see me.

Speaker 2 (31:43):
Like when a pretty girl's running like the opposite direction
like towards us. Oh my god, my form is on point.
I'm running like the wind. I'm running. I look like
Usain Bolt for the amount of time until the very
moment she crosses and her back is and then I collapse.
Ex I physically collapse and I need to be resuscitated.
Gideon knows CPR. I learned, so that's exciting. And he

(32:03):
carries a depibulator with him, which is wild. I didn't
know that until I needed so that's true. But Gideon
is the best, and we're holding you accountable.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
You can do this, you're doing.

Speaker 17 (32:13):
That's why I'm telling people, because I want to be
held accountable.

Speaker 2 (32:16):
What I did do I want the radio and said,
I'm gonna lose thirty pounds because I want to guess it.

Speaker 1 (32:20):
I had to because then he looks stupid. If you
don't in your shirt right now, Fred, I'm swimming in
my you can barely see me. I disappeared.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
Well, this guy, this guy, you know, I pay him
to be my friend and he shows up and I
had no choice and he doesn't let me make excuses.
I'll be like, I don't know. He's like, all right,
we're going, and then before long I'm dead. How do
people so get fit with giddy right on the socials?

Speaker 16 (32:45):
Yes, sir, that's right, that's me all right.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Any other way they get a hold of you, don't
give out your phone number. You won't like the closer again.

Speaker 7 (32:53):
Now hit me up on the ground. That's the best way.
You can also check out my website Gideon dot com
g I D E went the a k A n
d e dot com for all types of workouts fitness advice.

Speaker 18 (33:05):
I'm here for you.

Speaker 1 (33:06):
Ye, Kiki's on there looking at you right now.

Speaker 3 (33:08):
I've never felt more motivated in my life.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
So see this is what I mean.

Speaker 3 (33:11):
Yeah, I'm about to get you run.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
It is this man radiates it.

Speaker 2 (33:14):
It's impossible, Like right now, you want to run a marathon,
don't you.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
Well, I was thinking run down the hallway, but you.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
Know, we got to start somewhere. We got to start somewhere.

Speaker 7 (33:25):
K I am so glad you're motivated right now.

Speaker 16 (33:27):
Let me know when we have our first session.

Speaker 7 (33:28):
I've been waiting for that.

Speaker 3 (33:29):
Okay, I'm waited soon.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
I'll see you later.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
This is what I mean like it's it's it's irritatingly positive.

Speaker 4 (33:42):
Oh yes, yes, he's very positive, very mean you.

Speaker 3 (33:46):
Well, it's just like I'm positive what you are. I
feel like I am you are like in certain things.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
All right, Well, there you go, marks mark the tape.
Mark today. It happened. You committed. Now it's how you're
doing it.

Speaker 3 (34:01):
I'm doing it.

Speaker 1 (34:02):
Yeah, you're doing it. More fread show next, well up
in the city.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
Why are people taking anything they don't know what they're taking,
asked questions before you put things in your mouth?

Speaker 6 (34:17):
Now Fread's show, is your partners us?

Speaker 3 (34:21):
Your tooth brush almost broke up? Yeah, I'm some of
you does.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
I had. I had a girl to do that one time.

Speaker 2 (34:29):
We were in a hotel and she wasn't expected to
be there and she just I see her brushing her
teeth and I was like, did you bring a toothbrush
for you? And she's like, no, I'd the one that
was in your thing. And I was like, I realized
that we were just very close to one another. But
I wasn't between your teeth.

Speaker 3 (34:44):
Right, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (34:45):
Like the activities that took place were unspeakable moments ago.
But I mean, I mean that's different than my plaque.
It really can we just examine we have.

Speaker 9 (34:58):
The same, like power to brush and I have them
labeled like one has an M, one has a J,
so there is no room for error.

Speaker 6 (35:06):
He almost broke up in Mexico over this over international border.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
You know, I threw that thing. I threw that toothbrush
away went and got another one.

Speaker 3 (35:15):
Yep, but he had to go find me another toth brush.

Speaker 6 (35:18):
He had to go downstairs and bye at the little bar, and.

Speaker 1 (35:22):
He went to the bar.

Speaker 3 (35:23):
Right we were about to break up over that.

Speaker 6 (35:26):
He went to the bar and got you another toothbrush. Yes,
but you guys do like other and that's what he's saying.
He's like, come on, but there.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
Is a difference between what is between my teeth and
in my mouth almost.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
Well, I'm not at all detailed, but I know.

Speaker 1 (35:42):
And I'm not a German phoe.

Speaker 9 (35:43):
But that even drove that is gross because it's literally
like a device that removes dirt.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
Ever been left waiting by the phone.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
It's the Fredshell and good morning, welcome to the show.

Speaker 14 (35:57):
How are you hey, I'm good good, how are.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
You doing great? Welcome to waiting by the phone.

Speaker 2 (36:02):
So the objective here is we're trying to figure out
what happened with this woman Sabrina, who you haven't heard
from since you went out on a date. So can
you start to give us the backstory here? How did
you meet Sabrina? Tell us about any dates you've been on,
and then kind of why you think you're being ghosted.

Speaker 14 (36:16):
Okay, So we met unhinged and we went out twice,
and you know, we we just cut to the chase.
Right after we met on the apps, we were really
really just like, hey, let's hang out, like, you know.
So we had some drinks at a bar. We had
so much fun, We got along so well, and I asked,

(36:38):
I asked Sabrina, I'm like, hey, do you want to
come back to my house and hang out on the patio,
have some wine, you know, just chill. And it was
a beautiful fall night, you know, And so we talked
for a while. And then the second time that we
hung out, I invited her over for a movie and dinner,
and she there's just something off with her that night

(37:03):
and I couldn't quite tendpoint it. And ever since she
left from our second day to dinner movie, she's not
called me back, she's not texted, she's not reaching out
or answering, and I just like left here wondering what
the heck happened?

Speaker 2 (37:20):
Okay, Yeah, I mean it does happen sometimes that we
hear about people who have gone on two dates. I mean,
the first one was good enough for a second one,
and then things seem to go wrong after the second one,
and so you've reached out to her. I assume you've
tried to get a hold of her to schedule another
date and she's not responding.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 14 (37:37):
I mean I haven't been like harassing her hounding her,
but like, it's definitely a different change. Its shifted. It
used to be like quick communication, and now I'm getting nothing.

Speaker 2 (37:47):
Okay, So something happened. Well, let's play a song and
we'll come back and we'll call Sabrina. You'll be on
the phone. We'll ask all these questions and we'll try
and see if we can figure out what's up. And
you know, the hope is always is that we could
set you guys up on a third date in this case,
and we'll pay.

Speaker 14 (38:01):
For it, all right, I hope no?

Speaker 18 (38:02):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (38:03):
Hey Anne? Yeah, I always called Sabrina.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
You guys, you met at one of the dating apps,
you went out a couple times, you thought everything was
going well, I mean, two dates, that's usually a good sign,
except you tried to schedule a third date and you
haven't gotten any response from Sabrina and you want to
know why.

Speaker 14 (38:18):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know what happened, right, Okay.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
Well, let's call her now. Good luck.

Speaker 14 (38:22):
Thanks.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
Hello. Hi is this Sabrina?

Speaker 3 (38:37):
Yes, this is Who's this?

Speaker 1 (38:39):
Hi Sabrina, Good morning. My name is Fred.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which chat for just
a second? You can hang up at any time?

Speaker 14 (38:51):
Uh?

Speaker 19 (38:52):
Yeah, yeah, I can.

Speaker 1 (38:53):
Well, thank you very much.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
I know it's a little bit weird to get called
by a radio show, but we are calling on behalf
of someone.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
I guess you went out with race. Her name is Anne.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
You met on one of the apps and went on
a couple of times. You remember meeting her?

Speaker 19 (39:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 18 (39:06):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (39:06):
Two?

Speaker 1 (39:07):
Okay, good, good? Good?

Speaker 2 (39:08):
Well, So what happened because we talked to Anne for
a little while and she was telling us that she
was excited about you, liked you, thought there was a connection,
and I guess you went back to her place at
one point on the second date I think it was,
and she says she's reached out to get a hold
of you for a third date and that you've gone silent,
and you know it's bother.

Speaker 1 (39:26):
She wants to know why.

Speaker 19 (39:27):
Yeah, okay, you guys, there's just something I could not
get over, which is okay. So, uh, I don't I
don't know. I mean, I'm assuming she's told y'aul.

Speaker 20 (39:42):
I don't know how much she told, y'all.

Speaker 19 (39:43):
But so we met on the app on an app
and we went out twice and it was really great,
and we went to a bar once and then back
to her house. And then the second time she invited
me back over to her house again for a movie.
So now I mean I've gone to her house now
t on the seat. And both dates were a couple

(40:04):
weeks apart. They weren't like back to back, you know,
on the same weekend or anything. And so while I
was at her house and like, I go to the bathroom,
there is absolutely no soap anywhere, like no handsup, she
has zero handsop in the bathroom, on the sink. In
the kitchen, I looked like under the sink. I was

(40:25):
in the trash thinking like.

Speaker 20 (40:27):
Oh, maybe she just went through the soap already.

Speaker 19 (40:30):
And there is zero signs of soap even in the
shower and there was nothing. And I was like so
creeped out because I mean, like I said, there was
time in between so it's not like, oh, okay, she
just like ran out of soap yesterday and it's like
you've got to.

Speaker 14 (40:46):
Go get it.

Speaker 19 (40:46):
No, this was like a couple weeks in between, and
I was just so grossed out. And then Anna of course,
is like reaching from my face and wanting to touch
me and things that I'm like, ew, you're.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
You know you soap, so get your nasty hands off,
no soap having hands off me?

Speaker 20 (41:04):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was super good.

Speaker 1 (41:08):
Let me tell you, well, let me see I there's
an explanation here, because you know, and I'm very forgetful.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
I get caught up in the story. I forgot to
tell you that. And what's up with no soap? What
I mean did you did you run out and for
weeks didn't get anymore in the shower? I mean maybe
maybe hands will be ran out, but like I would think,
you know, when you're bathing, if you do that, I hope.

Speaker 14 (41:29):
I just can't believe that is being sewing nitpicky about.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
My hat picky. I mean, I mean, hygiene is an
important thing. Do you not have soap? Do you not
ever have soap?

Speaker 14 (41:41):
Okay, look, so it's on my list and and it's
been a little bit of an off time. But like,
soaps are pretty awful for you in general. There's chemicals,
you know, I think Americans overwashed anyways, And you know,
how do you think we got COVID?

Speaker 1 (41:58):
I don't you need like covid? Not enough soap? Maybe
I don't.

Speaker 2 (42:02):
I mean, I'm not a scientist and not doctor Fauci,
but I don't. I know a lot of people think
I am. But so wait, so for look, maybe you're
right about Americans overwatching, but for two weeks or something,
you didn't have soap, and you just it's just not
a priority.

Speaker 14 (42:16):
That's that's not necessarily the case. I don't just not soap.
I think there's just like a need for germs, and
I think our immune systems are boosted by having more germs,
and I just don't have. I'm sorry, I don't satisfy
your soap requirements.

Speaker 1 (42:34):
I don't know if they're mine. I think they're kind
of everybody's. Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (42:38):
What about do you orderate another sort of uh products
for sanitation?

Speaker 1 (42:42):
Are we are we into that or are we not
really into that either?

Speaker 14 (42:45):
I mean, less chemicals the better, really, Okay, So.

Speaker 2 (42:48):
We don't know but here's the thing, Sabrina, did he
smell bad? I mean you didn't notice that. I guess
you noticed there was no soap, But I mean you
did hang out with her twice.

Speaker 19 (42:56):
And no, I know I did go out with her
twice and like, yeah, no, there was smell bad.

Speaker 11 (43:02):
No, But like I'm like, no.

Speaker 20 (43:06):
If you're not going to be washing your hands, like,
I don't know now her response. Honestly, I'm sorry. It's
kind of the nail in the coffin, like definitely not.

Speaker 1 (43:16):
Yeah, we need soap, think, I mean, like, you know,
sometimes are.

Speaker 3 (43:21):
You washing your hands? Ain't watching a cat out here, Dayton.
People don't put soap in there.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
Yeah, I don't know if cat, I don't know if
water just alone. I don't know if you can just
sort of I don't know. Well, I don't know about
that at all. But I okay, yeah, I really am.
I just I would agree with you.

Speaker 2 (43:44):
I mean, I've heard you know you should wash your
hair every day and that we probably take too many
showers our skin gets dry. I get all that, but like,
as far as most people, I know, you soap that
I'm aware of at least sometimes, so I'll ask the
question Sabrina, she was getting around to it. So if
she gets around to the soap, would you this is
such a weird thing to say, if she gets around

(44:05):
to buying soap, would you go out with her?

Speaker 1 (44:07):
Again?

Speaker 19 (44:08):
No, because it sounds like she has a moral dilemma
with soap, and I have a moral dilemma with that
moral dilemma.

Speaker 14 (44:16):
So unfortunately this will.

Speaker 2 (44:17):
Be enough for It's quite a dilemma indeed. All right,
So she's not interested. Look, Anne, I don't know. I'm
not here to judge. She has a smell bad somehow,
which is interesting. So and I mean, she's not interested
soap in the kitchen.

Speaker 14 (44:30):
There's soap in the kitchen, Like you could have worked
your hands in the kitchen.

Speaker 3 (44:33):
She said, there wasn't She said, she checked your kitchen.

Speaker 19 (44:36):
No, I checkt the kitchen for sure, and there was
absolutely nothing that I would qualify it.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
So what do you want to use, dawn or something?

Speaker 5 (44:43):
Like?

Speaker 2 (44:44):
When are we using like those little those little things
that little things that explode, you know what I'm talking
about a little what.

Speaker 3 (44:49):
Are those pots?

Speaker 1 (44:50):
Yeah? What are we using spots?

Speaker 15 (44:51):
Like?

Speaker 1 (44:52):
What is she supposed to do? Like?

Speaker 2 (44:54):
I don't use windecks or something. I mean, I want
to imagine you probably don't have that.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
That's chemical cat certainly windows that hard way, certainly not windows. Man,
what do you use on this point?

Speaker 3 (45:07):
Soft us list soap?

Speaker 14 (45:14):
I think that you just have like you'd have a
stronger immune system. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (45:18):
I don't believe immune system. And that's saying you can Yeah, right, guys,
I don't know what to tell you. It's not going
to work out. And I wish you both the best
of block, thank you for your time.

Speaker 10 (45:30):
On the Fresh show, Golden Bachelor, Jerry Turner is being
accused by his ex Teresa Niss And this is the
one that he chose on the show of or met
on the show, rather of.

Speaker 3 (45:41):
Threatening to chop her up and hide her body in
a shed.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
So that's the very boy go bachelor.

Speaker 3 (45:48):
Is this is true?

Speaker 1 (45:49):
That is just someone's grandfather.

Speaker 21 (45:51):
No idea, right, And the fact that I'm saying Golden
Bachelor is wild. So she was on a podcast called
Deer Shandy I think it's called and recalled visiting at
his lake house.

Speaker 3 (46:01):
This sounds like that waiting by the phone recently.

Speaker 10 (46:03):
But she said, we took a walk around this lake
called Pretty Lake and we were coming to the end
of it, and he said, this is really bizarre. He said,
you see that shut up there, and she said, yeah, well,
I'm going to hide your body after I kill you
and chop you up there. She said, he was not
laughing when he shared this scary sentiment, and she said, well,

(46:25):
if this was his idea of a joke, that was
pretty dark humor. She thinks that no, he was never
going to actually do that, but he was trying to
express some sort of like dark kid in hostility towards her.
She's not worried for her life, which is good, but
that's that's insane if true. Sounds like the waiting by
the phone they met, Like I said, while competing on

(46:46):
The Golden Bachelor in twenty twenty three, he got down
on one knee and they did end up getting divorced,
But that's not great. Kanye West is reportedly behind on
property taxes for his childhood home in Chicago, the same
house he once restored as part of a community project
honoring his late mother, Donda West. Now records show that

(47:08):
more than like eight thousand dollars in unpaid taxes on
the Southside property now owned by his Donda House Charity.
The home purchased by that foundation in twenty eighteen was
meant to become a community arts hub, but neighbors say.

Speaker 3 (47:21):
It's been sitting empty, boarded up for months.

Speaker 10 (47:24):
The nonprofit, I guess, has been inactive recently after internal debates,
which is why the home is vacant. The city is
now issuing some warnings, saying that continued non payment could
lead to a lean or even foreclosure Atlanta's public transit
I Think their Buses specifically unveiled a custom Outcast theme

(47:45):
bus celebrating the twenty fifth anniversary of one of their albums,
This is Amazing.

Speaker 3 (47:49):
The black and.

Speaker 10 (47:49):
White wrapped bus honors Andre three thousand and Big Boys
cultural legacy and coincides with their upcoming Rock and Roll
Hall of Fame induction. Big Boy actually made a surprise
appearance at the unveiling, where they said the tribute recognizes
the group's deep ties to Atlanta and even referencing public

(48:10):
transit in their lyrics. The bust will cruise through Southwest
Atlanta routes for the next year, keeping their legacy kind
of rolling through the streets.

Speaker 3 (48:19):
And in similar news, I did hear that Cardi B's voice.

Speaker 10 (48:22):
Is officially now out on the subway system in New York,
which is pretty crazy. I mean, if she told me
to keep it moving or the doors are close closing,
like that would be that. I mean, can you imagine
like be on public transit in the city you're from.

Speaker 7 (48:35):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (48:36):
I just think that's that's very cool.

Speaker 15 (48:37):
I know, CTA call me, Yeah, I mean, I am
a recording artist.

Speaker 1 (48:41):
No, it should be you. It really should be on
the Orange line, the red line, every line.

Speaker 10 (48:47):
Some of them give us one quick announcement of how
you would do it.

Speaker 3 (48:51):
We are here, we have made it to our destination.
Now get the hell off. Oh. I kind of like it,
like close to the point.

Speaker 1 (48:57):
I think any city could use that. Yeah, right, pick
up your garbage.

Speaker 3 (49:01):
Oh my god, that's a big one. I would say
that to you the Frend Show.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
Yeah great.

Speaker 10 (49:06):
This is like when you did traffic after coming here
from the club and you said, if you haven't left yet,
just turn around.

Speaker 3 (49:12):
Just stay no, really, don't go, don't go stay home.

Speaker 7 (49:14):
Right.

Speaker 1 (49:15):
Good advice. I mean, hey, that's relatable advice.

Speaker 19 (49:17):
There.

Speaker 3 (49:17):
You go, call her, call her right now. Call me
if you want to catch up on anything.

Speaker 10 (49:22):
You missed, by the way, from our show type the
Fred Show on a Man on the Free I heard radio.

Speaker 2 (49:26):
If you're driving to work right now and maybe your
kids around, you can't do this. I want to talk
to the people who are like, my kid's kind of
a dumb ass.

Speaker 1 (49:32):
Oh my god, you say it like that, but you
know what I mean, Like, yeah, everybody love this. I
love everybody knows.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
Everybody knows the parent, and it's more than not that
it's like my kid is exceptional. The teachers just saying
or like it's it's sports. Because I have friends now
who have kids that are four or five, six, seven,
like they're getting into this state where they're we're beginning
to see what they're made of. And I don't have
very many people in my life who are like everybody's

(50:06):
oh my god. The t ball coaches are saying this.
The scouts are watching him over, but we're scouts. I
don't know that he's even going to I think he
might go t ball right to the majors, like, and
we're having these conversations and I'm like, really, dude, you
know or it's like this. The teachers are saying that
this kid is exceptional. Like, honestly, like the teachers are saying,

(50:26):
they've never seen intelligence like this before. You know, but
very rarely do you hear somebody say a parent, go, honestly,
we're we're truly hoping to get through the day.

Speaker 1 (50:39):
We very rarely hear that.

Speaker 2 (50:41):
I'd love to hear it, if anyone's willing to be like,
I love my child deeply, but I have serious concerns.

Speaker 1 (50:50):
I would love to hear him. I wrapped this up.

Speaker 2 (50:53):
The nine hundred and eighteen people they played monopoly to
break the world record. How much time did they have?
It's for a good cause, though, I mean, is anyone
ever finished a Monopoly? That's maybe a topic in itself.
Has anyone finished a Monopoly game in the history of
the world? Is there ever an end? Where is the
end to Monopoly?

Speaker 1 (51:08):
I've never play.

Speaker 2 (51:09):
You win well because you can keep buying stuff, you
can keep building stuff. What is it if you run out?
If everyone runs out of money.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
Except for you, you're the only one left with money.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
I guess I've never ever been close to that. A
total of nine hundred and eighteen people sat down at
one hundred and fifty tables to play simultaneous games of
monopoly to break a Guinness World Record in Australia. The
record attempt was organized by the Little Legs Foundation, a
charity that raises funds and awareness for children with brain cancer,
which is a great cause.

Speaker 1 (51:33):
So why by all means it's good to know your
customer's day.

Speaker 2 (51:36):
It's National Haiku Poetry Day and National Ellis Island Family
History Day. He's able talking to someone who's actually willing
to admit.

Speaker 22 (51:44):
No, but Marta and Linda Brown get off off the line,
Martha and lean never Hey, Lisa, y your kids a
dummy kna kinda.

Speaker 19 (51:57):
He's looking at me funny right now.

Speaker 1 (52:00):
Oh, he's there for this.

Speaker 7 (52:03):
I did a way to school.

Speaker 2 (52:04):
I did say don't do it in front of your kid.
I did suggest.

Speaker 7 (52:08):
That I told him I should call him.

Speaker 1 (52:10):
He said, yeah, you should. Now explain to me how
old is is this child, Lisa.

Speaker 11 (52:16):
He's thirteen.

Speaker 1 (52:17):
He's thirteen, and he's dumb, sort of sort of.

Speaker 13 (52:21):
He's one of those smart dummy What does that.

Speaker 20 (52:24):
Mean, like like the kids like he's got honor roll right, dumb.

Speaker 14 (52:32):
No, but listen, this is the same kid who thought
that the slave days were the eighties.

Speaker 6 (52:37):
Oh okay, so history is not little mixed that his sick. Okay,
and I understand, yes, I you know the confusion.

Speaker 9 (52:43):
My my knowledge of geography, history, common sense has ever
been there.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
However, I was on honor roll, so I'm not wow
wow wow.

Speaker 2 (52:52):
Okay, So maybe not doesn't have all the facts straight.

Speaker 11 (52:56):
He's up my freshman yearbook picture and thought that everything.

Speaker 23 (53:01):
Was in black and white then because it just so
happened to have been in black and white.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
Oh this year books are oftentimes in black and white. Yeah, okay,
all right, Well I wish him the best with supportive
parents like you.

Speaker 3 (53:12):
I don't know, I mean, the only child.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
Do you have a mother home? He has a sister,
and do we have more hope for her? Lisa, your
fault because there's only one you and two of them.
So okay, thank you, Lisa, have a good day. Glad

(53:38):
you called right there.

Speaker 2 (53:42):
Hey Ricky, oh my god, Hey Ricky, So just real
talk here. You say, you know how many kids you have?

Speaker 12 (53:51):
I got four all together.

Speaker 1 (53:52):
Now you have four.

Speaker 2 (53:53):
Kids, and you can look at these kids, and I
think it's just very honest. And you can look at
the kids and you can tell which ones are going
to succeed in which one and you have questions about?

Speaker 12 (54:02):
Correct. I got my oldest one. Now, she's really smart,
really book smart, not just not not super street smart. Okay,
you got my firstborn son, he's uh, well it's such,
say he's probably gonna go.

Speaker 24 (54:14):
To trade school. School's not for everybody, wrong with make money.
And then I got his younger brother, he's, uh, that's
the lazy one.

Speaker 12 (54:26):
He's a smart one, but he's the lazy one.

Speaker 1 (54:27):
Okay, if he.

Speaker 12 (54:29):
Applied himself, he'd be pretty special.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
Okay, all right, so waste youngest potential.

Speaker 12 (54:34):
My youngest Yeah, my youngest one is only three months.

Speaker 7 (54:37):
Oh so we don't know.

Speaker 1 (54:39):
So we don't know yet. It's as up that one
could go either way. But school's not.

Speaker 24 (54:47):
School's not for everybody. I mean I was in the
same bowl with my siblings. I'm the youngest one, and
I was lazy, but I.

Speaker 3 (54:53):
Was all right.

Speaker 24 (54:53):
And then you had my middle brother.

Speaker 21 (54:55):
Well, same thing.

Speaker 24 (54:56):
It's not. School's not for everybody.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
Parents.

Speaker 2 (55:01):
Rick's honest, it's honest, Ricky, Thank you, have a good day.

Speaker 14 (55:06):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (55:07):
I thought he was gonna tell me my three my
three month old is and mensa or something like.

Speaker 1 (55:10):
Okay, now, come on, how do you know it's not
very honest.

Speaker 2 (55:14):
I mean, I'm sure as a parent, you can look
at your kid you love them more all equally, hopefully
except for Lisa she doesn't. But and you can be like, look,
I think this one is you know, this one has
the potential to be an accountant or a scientist or
a doctor, and this one doesn't.

Speaker 1 (55:28):
Now, I gotta be honest as a parent.

Speaker 2 (55:30):
If I were a parent, I think I would want
I mean, you of course want street smart, and you
want it all right, yeah, but I would be happy
with enough enough intelligence to get you through school, you know,
such a we don't have issues.

Speaker 1 (55:43):
But I think I.

Speaker 2 (55:43):
Would want a heavy emphasis on the street smarts. I
think that's what that would be. I could trade every
day because if I had a genius kid that like
couldn't put his or her own shirt on or something,
you know what I mean, Like we have a like
that's going to be challenging. I want my kid to
have both, yeah, commonsense ideally smart enough to not be stupid,

(56:05):
but also enough that I can I can push you
out of the door and I don't have to worry
that you know that you're not going to get taken
advantage of or scammed or whatever.

Speaker 1 (56:14):
Hey Kayley, good morning.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
So this is what the this is what bellotype in
and you tell me this is right, says Kaylee. Adopted
her sister and realized she's kind of dumb.

Speaker 3 (56:27):
Yea, Lena, is that you?

Speaker 1 (56:30):
Now?

Speaker 7 (56:30):
Tell me?

Speaker 2 (56:31):
Tell me more, a little bit more for me, just
if you could expound on that a little bit.

Speaker 14 (56:36):
So I told her it was about a chapter book.

Speaker 19 (56:38):
But I'm sitting here thinking, I'm like, those are other
things that added up to cheese.

Speaker 3 (56:42):
I should have recognized the sign.

Speaker 13 (56:46):
One was one day we were going to Chick fil
A and she.

Speaker 14 (56:49):
Was like, how come Chick fil A is an Indian food?

Speaker 3 (56:51):
And I was like, what are you talking about right now?

Speaker 14 (56:54):
And she was like, you know the three dots that
they put on letters.

Speaker 1 (56:58):
In India, Why isn't it Indians?

Speaker 14 (57:00):
Due it's chicken.

Speaker 13 (57:00):
And I was like, oh my god, not an.

Speaker 14 (57:05):
Indian dot and the letters?

Speaker 1 (57:07):
Oh boy. So we have a number of issues. And
another one I'm feeling stupid right now actually, so yeah, huh.

Speaker 19 (57:17):
She came to me while I was at work and
brought me a gift and I was like, oh my gosh,
thank you.

Speaker 1 (57:22):
So much.

Speaker 20 (57:22):
She was like, yeah, happy Veterinarians Day.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
And I'm like, what.

Speaker 1 (57:28):
Veterans Day? Wow? So we have some history to learn
and we have some.

Speaker 3 (57:33):
Okay yeah the signs.

Speaker 2 (57:37):
Oh boy, all right, Chayley. We got a lot of
issues here, Kaylee, I wish I wish you well with that. Okay,
thank you. Wow, Okay, we needed a little social studies class.

Speaker 1 (57:50):
Maybe I have no room. Maybe okay, one more.

Speaker 2 (57:56):
Hey, I mean I just love hearing parents talk about
how dumb there's kids have bridge it.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
Hello, bridge it high. You have a thirteen year old yes,
no common.

Speaker 14 (58:08):
Sense, no common sense whatsoever.

Speaker 1 (58:11):
Give me an example.

Speaker 14 (58:14):
In school. It's like one of the hardest things for
him to do is like read and like just just.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
Normal common sense, right, like.

Speaker 3 (58:24):
As a thirteen year old boy.

Speaker 19 (58:26):
But the kid could lay like a hardware floor, like
he's like the rain man.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
Okay, okay, skills really.

Speaker 14 (58:35):
Makes us like he needs like military.

Speaker 13 (58:39):
But I told them, like do military like colleges and
take whatever comes to you more than like who You'll
probably be the army instead of the Marines.

Speaker 2 (58:49):
Oh oh wow, wow, so we just did. We're going
to insult branches of the military now coming you get
me in trouble here.

Speaker 14 (59:00):
I love military.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
You're just saying that, Okay, family does it.

Speaker 14 (59:04):
My family doesn't. But I mean when it comes to him,
I'm hoping for the army at least.

Speaker 1 (59:11):
Oh no, oh no, all right, Bridget thank you.

Speaker 2 (59:15):
Have a good day. I'm scared of the stopping now.
I mean, how many people can can our callers insult
so far this morning?

Speaker 1 (59:23):
I don't either. I don't.

Speaker 3 (59:24):
I'm on the front line.

Speaker 11 (59:30):
I'm on a front line that is cold, hard.

Speaker 1 (59:38):
Someone to say, so, my kid needs some merry rich
more fresh shell next, Hey, wake up?

Speaker 2 (59:51):
Why would I Why would I do seventy five to
get soft? I would do seventy five to get hard,
I guess, But I wouldn't do seventy five to get Yes. Same,
I am soft to medium, so I'm not trying to
get soft. I mean the seventy five soft. He's going
to Colvert's every day or something like her. You know
Fred Show? Are you watching the rehearsal on HBO?

Speaker 7 (01:00:11):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:00:12):
Are you really?

Speaker 20 (01:00:12):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:00:13):
What's wrong with you today?

Speaker 2 (01:00:17):
You're paying attention to the stuff that you're not doing,
and then you don't remember the stuff that you did do.

Speaker 1 (01:00:22):
So excited I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:00:24):
And the truth of the matter is I knew the
I knew the answer before I even asked the question.

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
But you were not watching it, are you. Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:00:30):
I'm right, you're gonna laugh, and that just that tickled me.
Your face.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
Order, it's a Fred show.

Speaker 2 (01:00:37):
It's Kiki's Court, Judge, Kiky all rise for the honorable
judge Kiki your honor.

Speaker 3 (01:00:44):
Yes, take it away? All right, let's step into the courtroom.

Speaker 6 (01:00:47):
The gavel has been hit, it says, hey, kikey am
I wrong for making my husband miss his interview. Okay,
My thirty five year old husband has been out of
work for six months. I've been carrying the bills on
my salary and working overtime.

Speaker 3 (01:01:02):
To keep us afloat.

Speaker 6 (01:01:03):
Last week, he finally got an interview for a job
he's been chasing for years, which has truly been a
dream opportunity for him. I was excited and relieved, and
the interview was scheduled at nine am. He said he'd
wake up by seven point thirty to prepare. However, the
night before he stayed up until two am playing video games.

(01:01:24):
I was reminding him twice that he needed to get up,
and he waved me off and got snappy. So the
next morning I got up at six forty five to
go to work.

Speaker 3 (01:01:34):
He was still dead asleep.

Speaker 6 (01:01:36):
His alarm started blaring at seven point thirty and I
watched him snooze it three times. At this point, to
avoid an argument, I decided I'm not waking him up
and I left for work. He finally woke up at
nine point fifteen, missed the interview, completely freaked out and
called me at work, asking me why didn't I wake him?
And I told him you're not a child. He was

(01:01:57):
livid and said that I was passive, a great unsupportive,
and that I sabotaged him. Now he's not talking to me,
and even his mother called me to say I should
have had his back. I think he needed this wake
up call. But now I'm wondering if I crossed the line.

Speaker 3 (01:02:14):
Am I wrong?

Speaker 6 (01:02:16):
Judge Kiki Girt, You're not wrong, girl, You are not wrong.
If his mother want to get involved, she should have
called these people.

Speaker 3 (01:02:23):
I don't know your mother's always.

Speaker 6 (01:02:27):
Yeay, I backed off right, Yes, but no, you're not wrong.
This is a grown man who has been unemployed for
six months. You don't have anything else to do, but
prepare for this interview. Okay, you have no other obligations
right now.

Speaker 1 (01:02:42):
Yeah, a lazy person with no job is that's a
bad combination.

Speaker 3 (01:02:45):
I mean, and things happen.

Speaker 6 (01:02:46):
People lose their jobs every day, so it's I don't
want to even say it's just a lazy person.

Speaker 3 (01:02:50):
But this story over.

Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
Here, you're right, no, yeah, I'm talking about this. I mean,
six months no job, and then when you have the
job interview, you don't take it seriously right, That to
me is not responsible.

Speaker 6 (01:03:03):
And then your wife is warning you, like women tend
to do, you know, give you a little reminder and
you get snapped me.

Speaker 2 (01:03:10):
She did, and she did look out for him. She
was like, hey, let's get some rest before this interview.

Speaker 5 (01:03:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:03:15):
And then you're like nah, and you keep playing your
video games.

Speaker 6 (01:03:18):
And then now now, since you were a little petty
because you were there as the alarm was going off,
that was a little petty, you know. She watched the
she watched some snooz of the alarm. But she was like,
I'm not arguing with you, and she left.

Speaker 3 (01:03:30):
It's not up to her.

Speaker 2 (01:03:32):
The her argument that I would make, though, is a
about this sleeping through the alarm and her being aware
of that is this affects her negatively too, So you know,
she may have taught him a lesson, but it doesn't
sound like he's someone who's going to interpret that lesson
very well. And ultimately, now this is another job he
won't get. So how does that affect her negatively? How
did that behavior really? Did it really penalize him or

(01:03:55):
did it really penalize her?

Speaker 7 (01:03:56):
Well?

Speaker 6 (01:03:57):
I think at this point she I would be considering
some other things because if this is maybe this may
not be a first time offender where you're sleeping through alarms.
You might sleep through alarms all the time, and maybe
that's why you don't have a job.

Speaker 2 (01:04:08):
Oh you guys at the jury eight five, five, five, nine,
one one three five she could have woken him up.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
I wouldn't have either.

Speaker 2 (01:04:15):
But then I guess if I don't wake him up
and he doesn't have a job and I want to
stay with him, then that's on me at some point,
like I've chosen this life, did you though?

Speaker 1 (01:04:24):
Well?

Speaker 2 (01:04:25):
Yeah, because again no job for six months. I know
that it's hard to get a job. Yeah, it's very
difficult to get a job right now, But the behavior
like this is not going to your point, might be
the reason why he doesn't have a job exactly. And
so then the question is, is she gonna motivate him, she's
gonna wake him up, Is she gonna you know, push
him out the door, try and help him? And she

(01:04:46):
doesn't have to do that, but if she doesn't do that,
then he's probably never going to get one. And then
if she stays with him, then she's choosing that life.

Speaker 6 (01:04:55):
So you say leave him all together, divorce, Yeah, but
you just said that too, So no, you'll talk about
like I'm the only one that said that.

Speaker 3 (01:05:02):
You're not wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:05:03):
You said the same thing.

Speaker 2 (01:05:04):
I think, honestly, at some point you got to ask
you And if this is a one time deal, maybe
he didn't want this to I don't know, there could
be other parameters here, but I wonder, I wonder if
this is just kind of not his mentality. And if
that's the case, then maybe this is what you're up
against for, you know, as a mentality, and maybe this
is you know, if you choose to continue to be

(01:05:27):
with this person, they choose to make those kind of choices,
and you can't really complain too much to other people.

Speaker 15 (01:05:32):
Right, but tough priorities though, like instead of maybe playing
video games at night. And maybe this is a little different,
but why don't you do some side hustle like go,
you know, drive for uber, or do door dash or
do something and bring an income. Again, Yes, getting a
job is very hard, it's not like they're just handing
them out these days.

Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
But I think you can still bring in some income.
I think you can still have that drive to do it.

Speaker 15 (01:05:51):
He seems like he doesn't want to do it, right,
That's what I'm getting.

Speaker 3 (01:05:54):
I don't know this man.

Speaker 15 (01:05:55):
I don't want to know this man, but it just
seems like he doesn't want that.

Speaker 2 (01:05:59):
Because if jobs are hard to get and you want
a job and you're well intentioned, and you have a
job interview, that might be the one night that you
take it seriously, yes, and that you don't stay up,
and that you make sure that you're awake and that
you're at the job interview and you and you do
your best to get the job. But again, I gotta
wonder does this guy even care?

Speaker 3 (01:06:15):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:06:15):
And then I remind you about it and I'm up
late telling you to go to bed, and you get
snappy with me, and I've been paying these.

Speaker 3 (01:06:22):
Bills for six months alone working over.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
Time, sir, Yeah, yeah, and then for him to turn
around and gaslight her and be like, somehow this is
your fault.

Speaker 3 (01:06:31):
Right, No, you sabotage. He was waiting for an opportunity.

Speaker 1 (01:06:34):
Abatag no.

Speaker 2 (01:06:36):
But I will say, and this is that this is
not her fault. But how long does this go? And
we don't have all the context, but how long does
this go on before you need to start making choices
for you that may not involve this person anymore?

Speaker 1 (01:06:47):
That's real, you know? Hey, Brian, Yes, how you doing? Brian?
Good morning? Kei Key's Court. You're the jury? What say you?

Speaker 5 (01:06:55):
I wanted to know would it be the same if
the show was on all the footnet with the woman
out at work? Because me and get a bad rep
sometimes and my wife has been out of work for
over two years, and I'll still pay the bills and
do what I got to do for my family, and
that's considered being a man. But when it's when it's
turned around, you know, why don't we put as much
heat on a woman not being able to find a job. Well,

(01:07:17):
sart out here for everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:07:18):
I hear what you're saying. But doesn't.

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
But doesn't that depend on sort of the parameter within
your relationship and what you guys have decided. For example,
if you two have decided together collectively that you both
need to work to maintain your lifestyle, and there's no
intensity for her to live up to her end of
the deal, I don't I don't necessarily know that this
has to be gender based. Right If you have agreed

(01:07:41):
to take care of the family and she's taking care
of the house and the kids, well that's a job,
so that you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:07:46):
So I guess I guess.

Speaker 2 (01:07:47):
What I said is is, yeah, he sounds like a deadbeat,
But I don't know. You know, your wife, is your
life predicated on her working too? Are you having to
do twice as much now?

Speaker 20 (01:07:59):
Or or or?

Speaker 1 (01:08:01):
Or is that not the deal that you have?

Speaker 5 (01:08:03):
We we we downgraded our lifestyle, so it's a lot
of things that we don't do in order to in
order for us to stay financially safe. But it's a
lot of things that I would like to like for
my family to go back to doing. My wife would
see it back to work, But for right now, we're
maintaining everything. We have a home through cars and we're
doing okay.

Speaker 1 (01:08:24):
Because I get the whole men her work.

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
Yeah, I hear, I hear you, right, I hear the
men providing, the man providing thing and whatever. But I
guess what I would be thinking about is, regardless of
your gender, what what are our roles? What have we
decided we're going together? Who's going to pay what bills?
What have we decided? And are you living up to
what you agreed to do? And if the answer is no,
then that would be my problem. I wouldn't necessarily be well,

(01:08:47):
you're the man, so you should or whatever, only if
that's what we decided.

Speaker 1 (01:08:50):
But thank you, Brian. Having the day, no problem.

Speaker 6 (01:08:53):
Brian had some job links Bryan, Bryan will how to
get back to work.

Speaker 3 (01:08:57):
Yeah, he do. Kids, though it sounds like she's holding
it down at home.

Speaker 15 (01:09:01):
He didn't seem to upset that when Fred was kind of,
you know, explaining that situation.

Speaker 1 (01:09:05):
But yeah, again, it's what did they agree to?

Speaker 3 (01:09:07):
She's playing video games that night, That's what I really
wanted to know. I'm very triggered.

Speaker 2 (01:09:10):
By this, Yeah, right, because and is she's still expecting
the same life that they had before, but yet she
doesn't have a job. I mean, there's so many different
aspects of this, but I guess I would say, whatever
relationship you're in, if you live with someone else and
you're expected to do this, and you're expected to do that,
and then you stop doing the part that we agree
to together that you're going to do, that would be
my problem.

Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
I agree with that. As a wife, I agree with them.

Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
If I if we say, hey, I'm going to stay
home and I'm going to take care of the kids,
and I'm going to take care of the house, and
I'm gonna take care of all these other things, and
I'm not going to bring in an income. I need
you to go make up make the income, well, then
I don't. I wouldn't pressure her to make money because
we agreed that she can do the other things that
we'd have to pay someone to do exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:09:49):
And all parties need to be clear on the agreement.

Speaker 6 (01:09:52):
Yes, you know, sometimes people just wake up and decide
that they're done working.

Speaker 3 (01:09:56):
Like, excuse me, excuse.

Speaker 1 (01:09:58):
Me, crue.

Speaker 2 (01:10:01):
Somebody said she could have woke him up. It could
have relieved the press, it could have relieved the pressure
off of her. Again, I mean, what she did didn't
exactly help her, cause but she didn't have to do
it right.

Speaker 6 (01:10:13):
She shouldn't be obligated to wake a grown man up
who has been off for six months.

Speaker 3 (01:10:18):
What else are you doing, my boy?

Speaker 1 (01:10:20):
Yeah, I would have been.

Speaker 6 (01:10:21):
I would have been sitting on a computer waiting at
four in the morning.

Speaker 5 (01:10:25):
You know.

Speaker 10 (01:10:26):
My touch and the alarm thing triggers me to like,
who can't wake up to an alarm?

Speaker 3 (01:10:31):
Yes, Like, even when I had roommates, it's going off,
it's going on, Get up.

Speaker 2 (01:10:36):
I would have woken him up and left for work.
This way, it's on him. She's also married to a
man child. Yeah, I mean, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, you're saying,
leave this man. Yeah, yeah, I mean, just.

Speaker 5 (01:10:52):
He didn't sleep through the alarm.

Speaker 16 (01:10:53):
He snoozed it three times.

Speaker 1 (01:10:55):
That's a good point.

Speaker 2 (01:10:56):
He did wake up, so this is not he's just
not motivated. You're saying a good likelihood that this isn't
going to change.

Speaker 5 (01:11:03):
I'm like you, guys, I got a four m alarm
every day.

Speaker 1 (01:11:06):
That's right, Go.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
Off, king, put your boots on the ground, go to work.

Speaker 1 (01:11:09):
Yeah yeah, and that turns killing on junk mail delivery
chunk man. Why I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:11:14):
Hey, Hey, we need you.

Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
Yes, no, thank you, thank you, yes, thank you so much.
Have a good day, Mike. That's right, thank you, hard
working man. Right there, he said, enough of us, Mike.
He said what he said.

Speaker 3 (01:11:32):
On his own. That's right. Yeah, Mike was triggered too.

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
He was lost for words almost day period.

Speaker 3 (01:11:43):
Right, good man, Samannah, he's a little bit speechless.

Speaker 1 (01:11:47):
Hey, Sarah, Sarah, how you doing.

Speaker 3 (01:11:52):
I'm doing well? Are you guys?

Speaker 1 (01:11:54):
Great?

Speaker 2 (01:11:54):
Thank you for calling him for listening. So Keky's basically
this woman is with a guy. He's been out of
work for six months, job interviews, chose to stay up
all night playing video games. Long went off, He didn't
get up of the interview. She watched it all go down,
didn't do anything about it. Now he's mad at her.

Speaker 1 (01:12:09):
What say you?

Speaker 19 (01:12:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 20 (01:12:11):
Not okay.

Speaker 13 (01:12:13):
My husband had the same issue when we first had
our twins. He lost his shop during COVID. We had
our twins in twenty twenty, and he would stay up
late playing video games because we thought he could handle it.
He was so sleep deprived that he ended up sleepwalking.
And he wasn't helping me at all with the twins,
and they were newborns, and it got so bad that

(01:12:34):
we were fighting every day, and I finally told him
I'm not your mother, and if you want to go
have someone be a mother to, you can move back in.

Speaker 18 (01:12:42):
With your mother.

Speaker 13 (01:12:43):
And I think he realized that I was serious, and
he shaped up and never even touched a video game
at all after that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:51):
Yeah, and that sucks that you kind of had to
put the fire under his butt, but sometimes people need that.

Speaker 1 (01:12:56):
I mean, at least you gave him a chance to
clean it up. Yeah, not acceptable, because you know.

Speaker 2 (01:13:02):
People go through stuff in life and they get depressed
or whatever, and your job as a partner, I'm sure
would be to lift him up, but for how long?

Speaker 13 (01:13:09):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:13:10):
Right?

Speaker 13 (01:13:11):
And shame on the mother in law for even stepping in. Honestly,
if that was one of my boys, I would have
been like, you're not moving back in here. Fixed it
with your wife to better.

Speaker 3 (01:13:19):
I raised you.

Speaker 18 (01:13:20):
Better than that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:20):
Well, yes, I'll go ahead and say it. Maybe we
know where the problem lies. Hello, you know, Yeah, thank you, Sarah,
I have a good day.

Speaker 1 (01:13:28):
Thank you, because we all I think.

Speaker 2 (01:13:31):
Sometimes people think they're doing kids a favor when they
always have their back, But I think sometimes people are
they're going to be a product of what of what
they were raised as and what their parents continue to enable. Right,
So if every time he screws up he calls mom,
and mom calls and yells at the wife, well then
what is why would he where is he getting the

(01:13:51):
idea that he needs to do better?

Speaker 3 (01:13:53):
Exactly?

Speaker 2 (01:13:54):
Because it's like, no, no, that's my baby boy. He's perfect. Well,
he's not taking care of his obligations, so he's not perfect.
He's hurting her, yes he is, but maybe he feels
enabled by it because Mom's going to solve his problems
every time.

Speaker 1 (01:14:07):
Hey, do you wanna?

Speaker 16 (01:14:09):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (01:14:09):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
Hi, what do you think?

Speaker 14 (01:14:12):
Good morning?

Speaker 23 (01:14:13):
I love you guys. I want to say that he
totally is gaslighting her. Yeah, he is just fifting the blame.
He hits snooze three times, like it's not her responsibility.
I agree with you, guys. Yeah, he's totally guess lit her.
It's not her responsibility to make sure that he gets

(01:14:33):
up and goes to the interview.

Speaker 1 (01:14:35):
Like Ki said, Mommy solving your problems. Come on, I'd
be so embarrassed.

Speaker 3 (01:14:41):
I didn't raise him like that. Oh yes you did.
And I feel.

Speaker 10 (01:14:45):
Sometimes as women, we feel like we're the moms of
our partners sometimes in certain situations.

Speaker 3 (01:14:50):
And we shouldn't. Yeah, that's true. You know what I mean,
I'm not your memory.

Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
Do you want to thank you so much for listening
for Colin, have a good day.

Speaker 1 (01:14:58):
Thank you you guys.

Speaker 15 (01:14:59):
Do love you.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
I love you too. It is the frend Show.

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on
the iHeart app live and anytime search for the Fred
Show on demand.

Speaker 1 (01:15:07):
This comes from our friends. It read it.

Speaker 2 (01:15:11):
And he says, I bought a house a couple of
years ago. I go through hundreds of these. I mean,
I truly curate these. Okay, I want you to know, really,
I don't just take the first you mean, really business,
there's thousands of them. I don't keep them in business.
I'm saying, I don't just pick the first one I see.
I'm going to read a bunch of them to find
the one that I think is appropriate.

Speaker 3 (01:15:29):
I got you.

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
That's good, you know. I mean it's like Kiki, she
goes through thousands of cases.

Speaker 3 (01:15:33):
Yeah, man, it's hard.

Speaker 2 (01:15:34):
It is to pick the ones worthy of your courtroom.
I bought a house a couple of years ago, and
I've been working on making it look nicer. I spent
a lot of time redoing the front gardens, trying to
make it look neat and nice. A few weeks ago, rather,
I was at a greenhouse buying some plants for the
garden and I saw two yard flamingos marked down on clearance.

(01:15:55):
I knew that they belonged in my garden. They're not
everyone cup of tea, but I think they are a
lot of fun, so I set them up when I
got home, and a couple days later, my neighbor was
knocking on my doorm and she was demanding I take
down my flamingos because they're ugly and lowering the property
value of the neighborhood. The neighbor said, I told her
I am not taking them down because I like them

(01:16:17):
and the property value isn't going to be hurt by
two yard flamingos. I also live in Hoa, and as
far as I'm aware, there are no town ordinances about
yard flamingos. She's posted pictures of my house, the street
that I live on, in a closeup of my flamingos
in our town's Facebook page to complain about them. Some
people agreed I should take them down. After that, another

(01:16:39):
neighbor came over to tell me to get rid of them.
My mom also agreed that I should take them down
to keep the peace with my neighbor. I like them.
I smile when I see them when I pull my driveway.
I have no plans to take them down. Should I
take down the yard flamingos? Well, okay, so we have
a case here. We have an issue of a person

(01:17:00):
who apparently can put whatever they want in their front yard.
And I'm sure there are people listening who it's the
same way now. I'm also sure there are people listening
who live in an Ahoa, which means, you know, some
people get elected and they decide that they're like you know,
the police, and they come around and they get to
tell you what to do. You can't do this, you
can't do that.

Speaker 3 (01:17:17):
I'm on you are Yeah, I'm the treasurer.

Speaker 1 (01:17:20):
Stop it.

Speaker 3 (01:17:22):
I like when you look at me, stop it. Hey,
I don't play about my bag or my hoa.

Speaker 1 (01:17:26):
Stop. They put you in charge of the money.

Speaker 3 (01:17:29):
I think nobody wanted to do it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:30):
Like I think nobody wanted to do it either as well.
I'm on it though.

Speaker 15 (01:17:35):
I stepped up and I said I'll be your girl,
I don't even live there anymore.

Speaker 2 (01:17:38):
And I'll be your girl, and you're in charge of
the money for the Aha you are, I am. Now,
you're a smart lady. But like, we can't get you
to tell us what number the showdown is every day? Right,
and some money be missing, money be up and down?
How much money we have? It depends on the day.

Speaker 1 (01:17:55):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:17:55):
See money moves around for a reason.

Speaker 15 (01:17:57):
And if you guys might see a new fence that
they away at the new property, mind your business.

Speaker 3 (01:18:01):
If you do, mind your business. If you don't.

Speaker 2 (01:18:05):
That's actually not allowed to use Venmo because she was
trying to money launder using it.

Speaker 3 (01:18:09):
Or her credit card. I'll love her husband. Yeah it'sband's
credit card.

Speaker 1 (01:18:13):
Oh wow, that's okay. All right. So you like yard flamingos.
You put yard flamingos up, you want them in your yard.
There is no one that can tell you that you
cannot have them. However, your neighbors all apparently think they're ugly,
and even your mom is like, it's not worth it
to make all the neighbors mad. What do you do?

(01:18:37):
What do you do? Do you keep them up?

Speaker 2 (01:18:40):
I might suggest maybe the backyard or something where everyone
doesn't have to look at them, because is it really worth?
I mean, you bought these things on clearance. It wasn't
like it was your life ambition to have a yard
with garden or with flamingos in them, or garden homes
or whatever your thing is. So why not put them
somewhere where everyone doesn't have to look at them? An

(01:19:00):
ire and then your neighbors don't hate you.

Speaker 25 (01:19:02):
No, you're not gonna tell me what color to paint
my house, how to have my lawn. If I want
my flamingos, I own this heer yard, I'm gonna have
my flamingos. I do also feel envious of the woman
whose biggest problem is her neighbor's lawn flamingos, Right, Like,
go out and find a real problem in your life.
That's ridiculous, right, that's my that's my experience.

Speaker 15 (01:19:20):
Yeah, you work really hard to save up for this
house or whatever it is, like, and you're gonna tell
me I can put my clear and flamingos up.

Speaker 3 (01:19:25):
But that makes me so angry.

Speaker 2 (01:19:27):
Yeah, I feel like, but it's that ugly that everybody
seems to agree. Then I might say, is it really worth?

Speaker 1 (01:19:35):
It? Is it really worth it. Is this the hill
you want to die on with your neighbors?

Speaker 3 (01:19:38):
Is this the hill they want to die on?

Speaker 1 (01:19:40):
Yeah? But I mean whether it's fair or not. If
the entire neighborhood turns on you, you have a problem,
whether it's right or not.

Speaker 3 (01:19:46):
I'd be like, are you guys okay?

Speaker 19 (01:19:48):
Right?

Speaker 13 (01:19:48):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (01:19:49):
You can't control everybody, and everybody doesn't have to be
the same.

Speaker 3 (01:19:53):
Mm this is my house.

Speaker 2 (01:19:54):
Is this any different than a person who doesn't take
very good care of their lawn? Is this any different
than a person who doesn't take very good care of
their house and you do? Is this any different than that?
I mean it's creating an eye sore, right, So if
people don't like.

Speaker 3 (01:20:08):
It, even then I don't care. Like it's your lawn.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Okay, wonderful, right,
So thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
I want to see your front lawn. What was in
your front yard that.

Speaker 6 (01:20:21):
A couple of bushes? And I keep my lawn trimmed,
and that's it. I don't I'm not getting jazzy with it.
But if I wanted to get jazzy with it, I
would I pay these property sexes that's right girl.

Speaker 1 (01:20:31):
Do you have an chi a no? H a man,
they won't let you get away with anything.

Speaker 7 (01:20:35):
No, we won't.

Speaker 1 (01:20:37):
No, she won't. Hey, Jessica, you say, go buy more?

Speaker 14 (01:20:44):
I absolutely do you know what?

Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
It's my yard.

Speaker 12 (01:20:47):
I pay for this stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:20:48):
I'm buying more.

Speaker 3 (01:20:50):
Go off.

Speaker 1 (01:20:51):
I mean, I guess, I guess. You know me.

Speaker 2 (01:20:53):
I'm not much of a rule follower, but I also
would be like, okay, is this really worth it? Because
if everyone's ganging up on me and it's an untenable situation,
you do not want the whole neighborhood against you.

Speaker 1 (01:21:05):
You simply don't bad.

Speaker 23 (01:21:07):
It's you know, it's more worth it to do it then,
because you know what.

Speaker 7 (01:21:11):
I didn't do nothing put up with you?

Speaker 16 (01:21:14):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:21:14):
All right, fair enough, thank you, Jessica.

Speaker 7 (01:21:17):
You're good.

Speaker 20 (01:21:17):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:21:18):
If you remember, Jason's having an issue in his backyard
with his coy pond, which just sounds so boogie to
say it. And you've got pterodactyl birds flying down trying
to eat the koi fish, right, so you put up.
You've tried many different things, and what you what you've
landed on is one of those. If you like drive
by like an auto part store, the place where they

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still tires or whatever, like the big tall looking thing with.

Speaker 1 (01:21:41):
The than on the bottom of it. Yeah, and it's
sort of like it looks like it's having convulsions or whatever.
Is it working? It seems to be working.

Speaker 2 (01:21:49):
Yeah, that being said, all your neighbors get to see
the sky dancer.

Speaker 1 (01:21:53):
Yeah if you look at it.

Speaker 9 (01:21:54):
Luckily it's in our backyard and not in front of
our house, which would be wild. But yeah, I'm sure
everyone that has a backyard near ours is like, what
the helly?

Speaker 2 (01:22:04):
You know, And if someone has a problem with it,
I know you. If someone has a problem with that,
you're going to consider their.

Speaker 1 (01:22:08):
Problem, you know what. I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:22:11):
I feel like there's I am a people pleaser, but
like you don't own a lot of things in life, right,
like and if you can get to a point where
you own your own property, like I feel like within
the law, like.

Speaker 1 (01:22:22):
You you should be able to do what you want.

Speaker 9 (01:22:24):
Like if you're talking about like your house being like
run down or busted, or your.

Speaker 2 (01:22:28):
Law running a meth operation or something, you shouldn't do that, like.

Speaker 9 (01:22:32):
Your lawn being unkept or something like that, Like those
are ordinances against that like the village, but like just
some decorations like that's not against any rules, or.

Speaker 1 (01:22:41):
Have flamingos in front of my my meth RV cooking.

Speaker 9 (01:22:47):
The flamingos are not the problem at that point, it's
the myth. Yeah, like the f show is on Friends,
fun fact, Fred.

Speaker 2 (01:23:05):
Learn so much. Guys, did you know that hippopotamuses can't swim?
Hippot which there's a fun fact right there, there's hippopot
Hippopotamuses doesn't even something.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
Of a real word. Oh, it's not hippopotami, it is
not Hippopotamuses cannot swim.

Speaker 2 (01:23:27):
You see them in the water, but they can't really swim.
Their bones are large and dense, making it hard for
them to float. Instead, they do kind of a slow
motion gallop on the riverbed or the seafloor. I'll say
something else I didn't know is there are people that
can't float like humans that are like very dense and muscle.
I guess they can't float and they have a hard
sound learning how to swim, which yeah, I've heard about

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like a few like my friend Gideon, I don't have
that either, who have like no fat in their body,
like zero fat you know percentage. He doesn't float very well,
so he doesn't swim. He doesn't really swim. I never
knew that Gideon couldn't flow. I know, it's fascinating.

Speaker 1 (01:24:05):
Yeah, more Fred Show next