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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Fred Show is on. I don't want a new trend,
but a new ish trend. Would you prefer? I want
to take a little a little poll eight five five
three five interned Venom and not Benjamin this year. I
want to just see my poll informal poll on the
Fread Show. Would you rather a text or a voice note?

(00:22):
Because voice notes have become the new way to communicate
among gen z and people say that sending audio is
more personal than texts. The message is called voice notes
or voice texts, short audio recordings that people send to
each other and have been around for years but have
been growing in popularity. So now people as opposed to
texting will send a voice note. I don't want that

(00:44):
I love. I send them to you people love them.
You Feelin sends them.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Then I reply in a text, and I'm like, I
wonder if she's like mad that I am texting back.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
It's like speaking to me.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
But then if you look at our text, it's just
me saying I.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Don't want to voice note most of the time. I
don't want to face time either, unless it's my sister,
which means my aunts, which means that my niece is
right there. Then I'm not interested.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Right, But if you're like me and hate phone calls,
they're a lot easier because you can, like you don't
need to time out your day and be on the
phone wasting time. You can like say what you need
to say, they can say what they need to say,
and you could be doing other stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
I just hate the voice not because then too.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
Like if I if I missed a part, I gotta
go back.

Speaker 1 (01:20):
I don't know how to get to the spot that
I missed. Someone'sten the whole thing again, Like if you're
with other people, then they have to hear they get
to hear it two A lot of times I'm like, no,
look here, the rule. The rules are simple. It's a text.
It is a text unless it is an emergency. No, no, wait,
it is a text unless you're important to me and
you have something important to tell me. Then it's a

(01:41):
phone call. Come out.

Speaker 5 (01:43):
I hate phone calls.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
And you do not leave a voicemail unless we really
got something to talk about, like unless unless you are
pretty sure I don't have your number saved. Like I
got a lot of calls last week when we made
our big announcement about the growth of the show, and
there were people calling me whose numbers I didn't have saved,
So they left me voicemail because they knew that I
probably wouldn't know who it was. That's fair. Like if

(02:04):
I haven't talked to you in five years plus, I
might leave you a voicemail sent or I'll hang up
and send you a text and go, hey, it's you
know me, or whatever voicemail. I had to convince my
mom we had to have a long, very serious intervention
about voicemails, because what she would do is leave like
three or four minute long voicemails, and then once wanted
to know why I wasn't urgently calling her back, And

(02:26):
I'm like, Mom, because you left me all the information,
Like it's all right there. I don't need to call
you back because if you said what you wanted to,
we had a whole you had a whole conversation with yourself,
and and I didn't say anything back to you. I
heard it all already. So don't leave a long voicemail
if you expect people to call you back. That makes sense,
doesn't it.

Speaker 6 (02:46):
I mean, I like a voicemail from older people in
my family specifically, just so I can have them.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Yeah. Secondly, I don't.

Speaker 6 (02:53):
I must be I'm the problem because I like to
send voice notes, but I don't like to get them same,
So like I.

Speaker 7 (02:58):
Like to.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Say and then that's it, yeah.

Speaker 5 (03:02):
Yes, yeah, text like that's fine, but I don't need
one back.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
I like, if I have something big or long to say,
I'm not and I can't call you, like that's the
only way I'm not typing the whole thing.

Speaker 4 (03:13):
Talk to text you, guys, I've been trying to.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
No, that's way worse. That's that's one of your things, Pauline.

Speaker 8 (03:20):
And then you also you'll text me and be like hey,
and I'll be like yes, and then it's a phone
call like.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Oh, that's the worst thing. They want to know if
you have your phone, because trust me, this is not
a test. I'll always lie, I trust me. I'm in
a lot of meetings these days, like when people do
that when they text me and then the phone rings
and I'm like, no, we're texting. I don't have to
talk to you. Already have my attention. And then I'll
be like, sorry, I'm texting from a meeting. Now, I'm

(03:48):
texting from my bag. I'm watching Succession right now. I
just don't want to talk to you. Yeah, you gotta
warm them up. People like voicemail. Someone text your more quiet.
Sometimes texts can be misunderstood. That's that's very true. That's
very true. I've got I've gotten into that. I've fallen
for that trap before where I'm having a heated conversation

(04:09):
with someone where I really should just pick up the
phone and call them because clearly we're not on the
same page about the texting, but I just keep texting,
make it into a big thing. I prefer having someone
send me a text or a voice note compared to
being alone.

Speaker 5 (04:25):
Okay, I guess, yeah, I'll send you a voice note.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
I can. I prefer being alone. I don't know, it's
like one more step, like just send me the information,
like what are we doing? Are we are we talking
or are we texting? And the other thing that drives
me crazy is when someone calls me and I don't
like I'm in the bathroom or I'm on another call,
or I'm in the middle of something, and I call
them right back and they don't answer. I get so angry.

(04:50):
It's like you just called you that way, you just
called I mean, it was like that was like thirty
seconds ago. What happened to you in the last thirty seconds.
You get on an international flight and you're flying to
d Bay and you're unavailable now for sixteen hours. It's impossible.

Speaker 6 (05:06):
I instantly think you're playing a game with me, like
you're trying to get me back because I didn't answer.
I instantly get an attitude like what kind of game
are we playing?

Speaker 1 (05:14):
I know she's going to call you. You just called
me right Where are you hating so much? But the
other thing I know is people in my family, my
sister does this, my mom does this, my sister. More
is if she calls me and I call her right
back and she doesn't answer, I know she's driving, and
I know she just called my mom or me in
the opposite order, because my sister cannot for some reason drive,

(05:37):
Like she won't take a call at her house, Like
if you call her and she's at home, she oftentimes
won't answer if she's driving, though we're all supposed to
entertain her while she's driving. I guess the same. Yeah,
she gets in the car and she said, I got
twenty minutes, I better talk to someone the whole damn way.
And that's when I get the call.

Speaker 5 (05:53):
Oh yeah, when I'm driving to Michigan. My friend's better
get ready.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
You get a whole call list.

Speaker 6 (05:58):
Oh, yes, very much. He's so mad that they're not answering.
You know, I'm in the car. This is time time
and then.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
Not no way, I'm not like that. Nope, No, me
and the music. You know what I'm saying. You one
with the tesla, Yeah, I mean whenever he's asleep while
the tussle drives for music. Yes, the French show is on,
It's the Fresh Show. This is what's trending. So the

(06:27):
US Surgeon General calls loneliness a public health crisis. If
you feel like you're missing upon with people, that you're
not alone, because they've released an advisory calling attention to
isolation and the lack of connection that they're seeing in America.
He says that even before the COVID nineteen pandemic, about
half of all adults so they were experiencing loneliness every
single day. He says that the Surgeon General says that

(06:50):
loneliness can raise the risk of premature death by twenty
six percent and social isolation by twenty nine percent. These
conditions have also been linked to increased risk of stroke, disease, dementia, anxiety, depression,
and self harm. Americans spent about twenty minutes a day
in person with friends in twenty twenty, which is down
from about sixty minutes a day nearly two decades earlier.
So that's a serious thing. And I guess I don't

(07:14):
really know what is the what is the solution if
you feel lonely? I mean, they don't have those those uh,
those party lines anymore. I saw one on TikTok the
other day. It was like from the eighties. It was
one of the commercials about it. And this is before
my time even, but I guess, and if if you're
old enough to have ever done this, I would love
to hear about it. Eight five five five nine one

(07:34):
one oh three five. But I guess back in the day,
like in the eighties, you would call a number and
I guess pay, and then you'd have access to it
was like a chat room on the phone, and there'd
be a bunch of other people on the phone, and
then you'd be like, hey, what's up, and then you
try and like get I guess, get one of the
people like talk to you offline, and then you'd you know,
because a party line is a week. Yeah, that kind

(07:56):
that kind of thing. Yeah, you did.

Speaker 6 (07:58):
It was free though. Yeah, we were on the party
line talking to people we had no business talking to.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
Absolutely reallynger than me. So what what on earth? I
never did this? You did it?

Speaker 6 (08:09):
It was Yeah, it was called the party line, Rofia.
Did you know about it?

Speaker 1 (08:11):
Yeah, the party line. Yeah, that's what I was talking about.
They had various versions of it. Okay, So you call the.

Speaker 6 (08:16):
Number, call the number, you dial in, and you would
be in a room when you can go in different
rooms too, like you mentioned, and you would talk to
different people from around the world or wherever they were,
and like some of my friends met up with these
guys or girls or Yeah, it.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
Was the thing.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
I did that in my aim chat rooms, Like I
had no business to be in there.

Speaker 5 (08:35):
My friends and I would Yeah there were real creeps
in there, yes.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
Absolutely, Yeah, no, I that I did do. But I
never called any of these numbers. But just every now
and to get on TikTok, there's a feed that will
show like really old commercials or those old like I
guess you used to be able to subscribe or go
to a business and watch video like video profiles of
men and women for dating and then like so they
would be like a dude being filmed in nineteen eighty

(09:04):
two or something in front of it like a blue
like literally not a blue screen, like a blue background,
and he would be like, hey, ladies, you know, and
they would come up with like clever, like little stuff
to say to try and catch people's attention. And I
guess you'd be like that video and that video and
then they set you up with those people. But every
now and again they'll put those up on TikTok and
it's hilarious because they got like, you know, eighties hair,
and they're trying to be all suave and stuff. I'll

(09:26):
have to find some audio. They're pretty good.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
I do remember also seeing like the phone sex commercials
later at.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Oh now for a hot girls call it to hang
up you.

Speaker 9 (09:37):
I wanted to hear it, so I'd like call it
and then they'd be like, hi, enter your credit card, Like.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
Wow, you might have explained a lot of things. Then
you know that reaction, you.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Would try to come up with like seven digit words
that you could like like I would like try to
like make the one up.

Speaker 9 (10:00):
Just to see if they exist. It's I can't say
any of them, but try to spell it out. Well,
this is this will age all of us too. But
I think everybody in this room can relate to a
Collect call. Like when you when you were four mobile phones,
you know, and you didn't have a quarter or something,
and there are these things called payphones, and now you
can like they're a big hole.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Like if you go to old hair. Now there's just
like faded paint where there used to be phone or
little bays. Yeah in the building, yeah right right right.
And and the other thing we have in the building,
they've covered up our ass trays. Have you seen that
they put like they've tried to like put stone in,
but they used to just have ass trays in the
wall where you just yeah, what was going on?

Speaker 7 (10:42):
But Collect?

Speaker 1 (10:45):
Yeah, you would call one hundred collect and in the
moment in a little space where you say your name,
you just say the whole message, Hey mom, come pick
me up? Yes, oh yeah, I would.

Speaker 10 (10:54):
I would.

Speaker 8 (10:54):
You would be I'd be at them all and I
down one collect and be like at the tone, please
say your name, Mom, it's it, come pick me up.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
I'm ready to be picked up.

Speaker 8 (11:01):
And then and then they would call your home your
parents and they'd be like, you have a collect call
from mom to pick me up, and then you'd be like,
do you want to accept? You Then they'd be like, no,
because my mom knows to come pick me.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
Up, because you know, you won't have to pay for
the call that yes says your name.

Speaker 10 (11:17):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
It would be like you have a collect call from Christopher.
If you'd like to accept, press one and then it
gets builled to whoever picks up the phone. But instead
you'd be like, pick me up Mom, and the moment
and then yeah, you go a message receipt.

Speaker 5 (11:30):
And you just like wait outside, yeah, with friends to
come pick you up. That's a lot of trust, like
in the system, you.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Know, so have you every time you left your home
in your life, Camlin, did you have a mobile phone?

Speaker 11 (11:42):
No?

Speaker 3 (11:42):
But I definitely like I missed the payphones. But I
think there was like times that the movies maybe where
like we would pick a time when it.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Was over and my mom would pick me up.

Speaker 5 (11:50):
But I don't think I ever used to pay phone.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
But sounds lit. I think it was college before it
was like here's a mobile phone.

Speaker 5 (11:57):
Yeah, No, I didn't like and.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
Here you go, like take this with you, and it
was big. It wasn't like brick big, but it was
still like not going in your pocket.

Speaker 10 (12:04):
Really.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
The first one was a star Tech motor star Tech. Yeah,
those were kind of fan.

Speaker 12 (12:13):
First.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Hey Lewis, good morning Lewis, till good morning.

Speaker 10 (12:17):
Guys.

Speaker 1 (12:18):
Hey you used the party line?

Speaker 13 (12:21):
Oh man?

Speaker 10 (12:22):
We all used to is it? When I was younger?

Speaker 14 (12:24):
I remember a.

Speaker 10 (12:24):
Buddy of mine shirt. It's mean. It was funny because
for guys it wasn't free. You got a couple of minutes,
but if you called in and said you were a girl,
it was unlimited.

Speaker 8 (12:35):
For girls, it was Vegas just like everywhere every club.

Speaker 1 (12:39):
Yeah, well, free means some dude from Kansas City. He
thinks he's gonna get hooked up and buying all your drinks.
That's what that's what's free to you means in Vegas,
it's not free. Tell you that there charging triple Excuse me.
I'm smarter than that. I don't fall for that. Okay,
So you'd collin say you were a girl, and then
you'd get on there and not be a girl. And

(12:59):
what was the endgame like to try and get someone's
number and go out with them.

Speaker 10 (13:04):
It's for fun, but the best part would be when
you'd find somebody that you know on there. I remember
I showed up at work and this girl was like,
did I talk to you on the party line? I
was like, yeah, we were bored and drunk or being
stupid old call Sometimes. My buddy used to meet girls
on it all the time, take them out, and then
you know, I'd be like, they always ghost them. He

(13:26):
would ever call them back, and I'm like, oh, it's
kind of could.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
You lie on the party you said your name was
Louisa Louis. Yeah, there you go, Hey man, have a
great day. Thanks for listening. I appreciate you. Yeah, those
were the days. I guess a lot of that predated
even me. But but every now and again on TikTok
you'll see these old commercials and be like, whoa the
frend shows on Good Morning on the radio and the

(13:50):
iHeart app anytimes search it for the French show on demand,
calling it. But this made me laugh this morning. You'd
mentioned on our little little ideas sheet that we have.
Me have a little ideas sheet just shared. It's very fancy,
just share document. We type stuff into it that we
might want to talk about. And I laughed out loud
when I read it. But you were talking about as

(14:11):
I do with most things that you do, whether you
intend for it or not. But I I you were
talking about the smell of your childhood. Oh yeah, And
I feel like there are certain like it's a fact
I think that our old factory, our nose, you know,

(14:31):
Like memories are associated with certain smells, which I think
is why, like I don't know, certain foods they are
sentimental to people, or like I think the same can
be said about music, is that you hear a song
and people associate really closely associated memories can be taken
back right back to where they were when they heard
that song. Yeah, whatever song it is, but for you,
the smell of your childhood. So my personal smell of

(14:53):
my childhood is Salem some lights.

Speaker 15 (14:59):
Yeah, I know, I guess still smell of on my
jacket going into school, and like in high school, kids
asking me if I smoked cigarettes just because like the
smell was so happy at my clothing.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
This was Mama March, it was. It was a smoker.

Speaker 4 (15:13):
She was a smoker, no longer a smoker. We love
that for her, yes, but it was bad her and
my stepdad. I mean, I could really go on and
on like about the smells of my childhood, like vodka
smelled on the carpet, stuff like that, you know.

Speaker 1 (15:25):
Just like little But this is interesting though, because I'd
be curious. There was probably a bunch of random stuff.
But eight five five five three five is I called
the friendsheet? Can texta the same number? But what comes
to my My grandparents' house always had a smell and
I never knew what it was, and it couldn't be duplicated.
It just was I don't know, you know, they no

(15:45):
matter where they were living. They lived in Peoria for
a while, Illinois. They lived in Scottsdale, Arizona for a while.
You walk in her house, it smelled like my grandparents,
and it was a good smell, but it was sort
of like a I don't know, it wasn't a they
ate or I don't know what the hell it was.
It just smelled like them their house. Kiki white diamonds perfume.

Speaker 6 (16:08):
I don't know if anyone white. I think you could
get it at Walgreens. She toilet tissue, But that smell
is so distinct to me. My mom used to bathe
in it like she that was her. That was the
thing back then, Like, yeah, all the queens had the
white dimes.

Speaker 1 (16:27):
White diamonds. That was ther childhood for me.

Speaker 8 (16:32):
I spent a lot of time at my grandma, my
grandma's house and uh, two things stick out words are original.
She had the little caramel bowl and the bowl used
to eat those like like obviously candy. And then it's
a Filipino thing. It's called Filipino spaghetti. You could get
into places like Jolly be but like it's like made
with banana ketchup, so it's like a sweet sauce.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
And then with hot dogs. You had to have hot
dogs in spaghetti. Huh. So that was my childhood growing up. Wow, right, Jason.

Speaker 2 (17:03):
Yeah, So this is so funny that we're talking about
this because I just thought about the other day.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
I'm currently driving around with this in my car.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
But for some reason, I was always like doing yard
work with my parents, like gra I was always outside.
So fertilizer, which it literally is in my car as
we speak, like grass fertilizer. It like brought me back
to having to do yard car Wow, fertilizer.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
So you go white diamonds to cover up the fertilizer
to cover up the the Marlboro light and Salem slim
smells that were going on. Aleen, good morning, Good morning.

Speaker 11 (17:39):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
What's this smell that comes to mind the smell of
your childhood?

Speaker 14 (17:44):
Okay, so it's kind of a funny story.

Speaker 5 (17:46):
Was at my best friend's house in high school. She
was a lifeguard, hanging out with.

Speaker 14 (17:50):
All the older lifeguards fonfire, no parents home.

Speaker 16 (17:54):
And.

Speaker 5 (17:55):
They were passing something around the bonfire, and I go,
oh my god, why does it smell like my childhood?

Speaker 1 (18:04):
Interesting?

Speaker 5 (18:05):
Something something green?

Speaker 14 (18:08):
You're hippie?

Speaker 1 (18:10):
Wow? Oh man. So that so that was just the
way that your house smelled, but you didn't necessarily know
what it was.

Speaker 11 (18:18):
No.

Speaker 14 (18:18):
It was down in down in Texas at the softball fields.

Speaker 17 (18:22):
My daddy would.

Speaker 14 (18:22):
Play softball every Friday night, and I thought all us
kids were running around and.

Speaker 7 (18:28):
You know, and.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
I've missed the damn ball. He was getting hits all
right after the game would right.

Speaker 14 (18:41):
Words the tailgated.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
Five seconds later. I swing at it, Elean, thank you
have a good day, you too? Think glad you called?
Is that right? It's well for some reason spelled with
an F right now on my computer screen. So anyway
I might I call you football. Yeah, yeah, you don't

(19:09):
mind have change your name? Do you anyway? Tell me
here's my question for intern benamine that Benjamin's answering the phones.
Have you ever met a faban? Multiple times? Names? Everybody here.

Speaker 4 (19:30):
Kyle turns into like a Sean like it's a whole
different name, and he.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Even put the phonetic for me. I have to take
a picture of this because he even wrote B A
H A N and then oh Jesus, Lord, Jesus, take
you all right? So anyway, shove on if you would

(19:55):
the the the smell of your childhood.

Speaker 18 (20:00):
My dad raced, so.

Speaker 19 (20:02):
Anytime I am around, like the exhaust and dirt smell together,
it throws me way.

Speaker 6 (20:09):
Back to my childhood.

Speaker 14 (20:10):
Like I can smell it anytime you go to a
racetrack or something.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
It's amazing how that works.

Speaker 14 (20:16):
Yeah, I took my I started taking my sound race
tracks now and I actually saw it one racetrack.

Speaker 1 (20:20):
They made a candle that smell nice.

Speaker 10 (20:23):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (20:24):
I love the smell of gasoline. People are all upsetting
it gasoline on their hand of someone like I'm gonna
washing my hand for a minute. I want to soak
it in a little bit. Art footbon, have a good day.
Never met at football until today. But it's a beautiful name.
Really rolls off the tongue. Hey, Jory, Yes Hi, good morning, welcome.

Speaker 17 (20:43):
How are you Goomory?

Speaker 1 (20:45):
I'm good?

Speaker 14 (20:45):
How are you?

Speaker 1 (20:46):
Boys? Are good? What's the smell of your childhood?

Speaker 14 (20:49):
Fun fact?

Speaker 7 (20:50):
First, Fred, you and I have the same birthday.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
Oh mank so that's the three of us. Yeah, shout out.
We are We're brilliant.

Speaker 7 (20:59):
Yeah, we are, we are, we are for sure. So
my father used to smoke a pipe and smell it
was Bond Street tobacco and it was amazing.

Speaker 1 (21:11):
Yeah yeah wow. Could you ever find yourself smoking a
pipe just to just to get that smell back?

Speaker 16 (21:16):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (21:17):
Absolutely not. But I can recognize it if I ever
smell it for sure.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
Wow wow, Okay, thank you, Jory, have a good day.
Happy birthday on our birthday in advantage, Why Anna, good morning?
Yes Hi, good morning. Is that really your name or
is it like Chelsea?

Speaker 20 (21:35):
No, it's really my name. When I'm playing games, I
use an alias.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
What the games are we playing? And requiring alias?

Speaker 19 (21:45):
Well?

Speaker 20 (21:45):
If I get them wrong, I don't meet people who
know it's me.

Speaker 1 (21:48):
Oh I see, I see my name is Yeah, I'm
going to write that one down. I may name my
daughter that. It's just beautiful. What does the smell of
your childhood?

Speaker 20 (22:03):
So definitely like Kiki, My mom used to love white
diamonds and thous herself in it. But my grandmother's hallway
always smelled.

Speaker 17 (22:11):
Like Murphy's oil, and I didn't figure it out.

Speaker 20 (22:13):
And so like two weeks ago, I was shopping and
I smelled it, and I'm like, oh my instantly was
like in my childhood my grandmother's.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
Wow, Murphy's oil. Yeah, okay, thank you so much, have
a good day, Love you too. Martin says dad's work, boots.
Daniel says fresh baked, sweetbread, dove's soul. Oh my god.
There's so many texts, pine salt, garbage, fried chicken and collard, greens,

(22:41):
homemade tortillas. Somebody said butterscotch candies. What guys garbage?

Speaker 16 (22:47):
Like it?

Speaker 5 (22:47):
Was it not a good childhood? Or like living amongst
the traps?

Speaker 1 (22:50):
We get back to that the smell of garbage I
grew up or the garage says, you know what, I know,
he really put fabon, she really put garage. For the record,

(23:11):
Fred Show eats the frend show Good Morning on the
radio and the iHeart app as well search for the
Freend Show on demand. Working remotely has saved the average
New York City employee three hundred and thirty one hours
a week. Think about that for a minute. Three hundred
and thirty one hours a week saved by not having

(23:32):
to commute in New York. The lowest is South Dakota
one hundred and forty five hours a week. But still,
that's a lot of time that you're not doing whatever
is required for having to get to and from work
to and FRO. Research shows working from home saves time
at different parts of the US. In the Midwest they
saved the least. New Yorkers saved the most. Workers in India,

(23:54):
for example, one hundred and ninety six hours. So this
is per year, this is per year that week, that'd
be a lot twenty four times. I know this doesn't
work three years still though, no, I did the math. Though,
it's like, what is that I did the math earlier.
It's a lot of hours a week. Yeah, it's very precise.
I could do the math roofew. I was actually thinking,

(24:16):
as I said per week, I'm like, hold on, I'm
over here, like yeah, like, how many eight is like
three hundred hours a week? There aren't three other three
hundred hours in a week. It saves you all the week.

Speaker 8 (24:24):
One sixty eight fooled me? What is one sixty eight
twenty four time seven?

Speaker 1 (24:29):
Oh? Okay, no, I was I was wondering. So divide
three thirty one by fifty one uh or fifty two?
Uh whatever? Six six and a half Okay, So six
and a half hours a week. That's still a lot.
That's not three thirty one. But it's uh, we sound
like totally it. I sound like a total idiot this morning.
It's a lot. It's a lot of time that you're

(24:49):
saving not having to drive to work every single day.
But yet most places are making people start to come
back to work. Now Here, we thought we had this
work from home efficiency down and it was like, oh, well,
we'll never have to go back because look we've made
it this far. And now it's a lot of businesses,
I think this one included, they're like, no, you should
come back in and people don't like it. The other
funny thing is a lot of businesses have downsized significantly

(25:12):
their their workspace and then they want everyone to come
back even on certain days and they don't have room
for everybody, so well that's not going to work. So
now I've heard that certain businesses are expanding again. They're
like adding floors and stuff because it's like, well, we
may have overcorrected and now we want everyone to come together.
And the management argument is that there's a collaboration that

(25:35):
happens when we're all together in a room that wouldn't
happen otherwise. Do we agree, yes, So if you were,
I mean, we've come in this whole time. We never stopped.
That's why I agree the whole pandemic. We never stopped
coming to work like everybody else whatever. But if you
were somebody who's been working from home five days a week, Kiki,
and they said you've got to come back in three
days a week, you'd be okay with them. It depends

(25:56):
on the job. It really depends on the job.

Speaker 6 (25:58):
Like I was in the digital department before I got
on the show with you, and as a digital person,
you need to be here, you need to shoot content,
you need to do things. Now, when I was in
the commercials department and all I was doing was putting
commercials on a log and looking at the.

Speaker 1 (26:12):
Wall here, you can look at anything. I can look
at the wall at home, so yeah, I don't need
to be here.

Speaker 6 (26:16):
Yeah, okay, so they should, you know, should be up
to the discretion of the department heads. And if it
makes sense, let people stay at home. Companies don't want
to pay you what you probably should be paid for
your job, so the at least you can do is
let me save money on my commute.

Speaker 1 (26:31):
Mm hm, that's not too much to ask, but I mean, okay,
so now that we got the math right, it only
took about ten minutes to work this out, carry the
one and then we you know, we wrote it all down.
So basically, in New York, if you consider five days
a week, that's over an hour a day that you
would get back. That's a pretty good quality of life.
I mean, plus not to mention the stress. I'm actually

(26:52):
surprised though it's not higher in like a Chicago or
Los Angeles, which isn't included here because I mean, especially now,
people hour and a half each way on the road. Yeah,
and I mean, can you imagine like and people listening
to us right now. I mean, that's one thing about
getting up early. We don't have far to go, but
and there's not much traffic on the road. But I mean,
if I I don't know that, i'd I would rather

(27:14):
stay at home not to have to sit in traffic
an hour and a half each way. I mean, I
don't know how people do it. I love I love
that you do because you have to listen to us,
your captive audience. But that's got a weigh on you
over time. Yeah, especially give him been doing it for
like what two years?

Speaker 4 (27:30):
Is you know what I mean, You've been working from
home and now you're going back into this transition. My
best friend does a hybrid role, and I love that
because it's like I think, two days at home, three
days in the office.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
I think he loves it. I love it. I think
it's great. I love it for him.

Speaker 4 (27:43):
Yeah, because I think you then get out of the
house and that kind of like helps you.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (27:48):
Some people may disagree, but it's like that mental health
aspect of like, you know, getting out and.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
Like seeing humans interacting. You're not just it's not just
you in the laptop all day. That's my opinion. The
other funny thing is most people I know who work
or work from home, we'll tell you they got more
done and did more than they do in the office.
It's the reason I don't hang around this place because
I get nothing done here. I mean, Rufio' is like, oh,
I'm here till four o'clock every day. I'm like, dude,

(28:14):
how many bowls and cup of noodles did you eat?

Speaker 5 (28:16):
Right?

Speaker 1 (28:16):
Four? That's what I'm saying. Like you know, with everybody,
you know this and that, and before long it's like, oh,
I didn't get anything done. No, that's very true.

Speaker 6 (28:25):
When I worked from home, I felt like I worked
non stop, Like it was I was checking that laptop
every day that all day. That little tune it still
stuck in my head, the team's call tune.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
It's still there.

Speaker 2 (28:38):
Yeah, bubbles, Yeah, what a nightmare.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
We tried to do our show remotely for like two
days and we all said, no, COVID is better.

Speaker 13 (28:49):
It was.

Speaker 1 (28:49):
It was chaotic. Yeah, But I just for the people
who do have the commute, I feel for you and
thank you for listening to us. And I think that's
our only utility. I think that's all that's left for us,
is to keep people company on the commute. That's all
that we can offer you that nobody else can and
math very good math and very good. I read good.
You can tell Hey, Liz, good morning.

Speaker 14 (29:11):
Good morning. How are you guys?

Speaker 1 (29:13):
Hi, You're going back to the office for the first
time in three months?

Speaker 12 (29:16):
Right?

Speaker 14 (29:17):
This is the first time only because I'm getting lunch
with a friend. Otherwise, I wrote. I work remote five
days a week, and for months my bosses have been
telling me that I need to go into the office.
I have no obligation go in there though I have
no manager to watch me. My manager works remote from Michigan,
and her boss works and my entire team, the remainder
of them, are in New York, and I still have

(29:38):
to come in because it looks good for the company.
So I'm just so dumbfounded. What exactly is so important
for me to come in when I literally work a
lot longer working from home than I do in the office.
I'm going to go in there and probably talk to
everybody because everybody wants to catch up, and then like
I won't even get like anything done that I would

(29:59):
have when I'm like would have been at home.

Speaker 1 (30:01):
Yeah, yeah, so you're needless to say you're a little
resentful about this.

Speaker 10 (30:05):
Oh?

Speaker 14 (30:06):
Absolutely, Yeah, It's like a waste of time, like for
who just to show face and make people like like
the managers and like the head honchos look good. This
is so stupid.

Speaker 8 (30:15):
I ended up.

Speaker 14 (30:16):
Paying like a student loan because we work from home.
Like that's like like ten grand I was be able
to pay it off and like that's where I see
like the benefit and like I'm starting to save up
money now, like saying God, like in this economy, like
woman millennial is like able to do anything. And so
now I'm just kind of like why do this. I'm
like saving money. I'm being productive, like you know, I'm

(30:37):
doing my work. Otherwise you would have fired me by now.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
Right, Well, that's the thing we're not talking about the cost.
Starting to re li with the cost. I mean, I
don't know how much you know gas it takes you
to drive to work, but that's you know, think about that, right, Yeah,
to your point about it.

Speaker 14 (30:53):
One thing you go out the clothes either like you
save money. I have no idea what to wear into
the office, and I have to give the decision in
like twenty minutes. I that's like a hold person every
day and like now I'm like having to go in
and work like and like look business casual.

Speaker 1 (31:06):
But good point.

Speaker 14 (31:08):
I don't even know how to practice this casual anymore.
Like where are the kids wearing these days? I don't
freaking know.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
Well, hey, Liz, well, thank you for you know, listening
to us at least, and and we appreciate you.

Speaker 14 (31:20):
Oh, I appreciate you too.

Speaker 1 (31:22):
Have a good day, like man be able to have
to go back to work. I'm like, please go back
to work. Actually right, we need the ratings, We really,
we really need the ratings. William, Hi, what's going on?

Speaker 17 (31:34):
Gentlemen?

Speaker 1 (31:35):
Heh? And ladies and ladies, Yes, okay, so you're you're
on your way back to work today.

Speaker 13 (31:44):
I am on my way back into the office. But
I was just going to make the comparison that, you know,
I work in sales, so it's like before, before the pandemic,
I'd have to get up an hour before work. You
got to press my clothes, iron things, drive forty five
minutes into the office, sitting in.

Speaker 10 (32:00):
Front of a computer.

Speaker 13 (32:02):
Working in sales, you create sales. People are over your
back looking for the next sale, and then there's constant
pressure versus working from home. Just became much easier, easier
kind of process. You get up, you get ready to work,
you kind of manage your own time. Gets a little
too stressed, you could take a break on your own breather.

(32:23):
So I think it definitely benefited the people that are
independent and self motivated.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
I guess, and thank you William, have a great day man,
thanks for listening to yep. I guess I figured after
three years of people working remotely, or two and a
half or however long it was before they started sort
of peeling that back, I figured that that was just
the way it would be forever, because you know, a
lot of companies figured out how to do it. You
figured it out, you got the technology, we have the
efficiencies now, So I guess I'm surprised we're unwinding that

(32:51):
at this point. Hey, Kate, Hi, Hi Kate. Commuting an
hour and a half both ways, yikes.

Speaker 11 (32:59):
Yeah, I'm actually I'm a certain teacher, so I don't
even go into an office. I go into a school
every day, but it takes me a really long time
in the morning, and then it takes me like an
hour and a half in the afternoon, and I'm expected
to like do homework and lesson plant when I get home.
But it's like it's too much I'm dead by the
time I get home, because it's.

Speaker 1 (33:17):
Yeah, I believe in but there's no one. You really
can't do your job without being face to face with folks, right,
Oh yeah.

Speaker 11 (33:24):
That's like working at education. You definitely have to like
be a person. I can't imagine going back to like
teaching remote because.

Speaker 1 (33:30):
No, Well, okay, thanks for having us on while you
do it, and we love you. Have a good day.

Speaker 11 (33:36):
Thank you too.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
Bye, yeah bye. I got more thread show next.

Speaker 8 (33:42):
Every day, every day in the moment, it's the Fread
Show in.

Speaker 20 (33:46):
The one three five kids at m.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
The Fread Show is on Friday show. This blew my
mind this morning. And it's not his fault. But and
I didn't. I only walked into half of it because
you guys were in the in the meat in the
office in the French Show office, which is the hallway here,
and uh. And it was intern Benjamine, who is twenty
one years old, talking with Kiki who is twenty two. Yes,

(34:19):
and apparently intern Ben hemen not Benjamin has never heard
this thing, this song? Are you kidding me? He's never
heard Cisco Tong song? What are you surprised? As young?
This is very upsetting to me as you might imagine.
But then it dawned on me. This song came out

(34:40):
in ninety nine. He wasn't alive. He wouldn't even a
thought in his mommy's hands. That sounded weird the way
I said that, whatever, he wouldn't have thought in mommy's
head or daddy's head for that sentit. But I mean,
here's my thing is. People will say, well, he wasn't

(35:01):
born when that song came out, But where the hell
have you been for twenty one years? I mean, this
thing's been in commercials, it's been played on radio stations,
and me se, I just don't know how you could
not know this song. I mean, he's sitting there laughing,
he thinks this is a joke. I'm like, this is
not a game. This was a year I graduated high school. Dog, Yeah,

(35:24):
a real song, you know. And I don't consider myself
that old, I really don't, but I feel very old
when I realized that there were songs that I grew
up with that people who weren't even born when they
came out. How could this be? How I feel like
when you're born and you come out of the womb,
they should ask you basic questions like do you know
who Cisco is? No stuffy ass back in you know, Like, yeah,

(35:50):
I think there should be some you know, it's like
a citizenship test. I think there should be some kind
of like, oh, you know, welcome to the world test,
Like what do you think of this song? You don't
like it, go back, think about it, marinate a little longer,
you know, like cook it up a little longer in
the oven, and then come back and answer that question again.

Speaker 8 (36:06):
Yep, maybe there should be a test to just get
an internship here, Like I mean, well.

Speaker 1 (36:11):
That is the fact. There should be that. There should
be that. But it really upset me this morning, Like
I was, I was very upset for a minute, right
for Cisco. No, it's not even that, it's just actually
everyone at all. I I don't like, really, I don't
like that. So I just it's just I don't dislike it.

(36:31):
I guess it's just kind of played out in Myra.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
I'm not like I have to hear thongs on every
day if you listen to it every days.

Speaker 1 (36:39):
Okay, American.

Speaker 8 (36:43):
That man is doing cart wheels over people in the
video because I want.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
To beach dated the pledge of allegiance to the national anthem,
and I stand there naked and I put my hand
over my heart. I do naked though, because just because
I am Okay, I want I want to. I want
to praise the like in all my glorious But now
I think I might add Thong song to the rotation
and stand there with my hand over my hand a
little bit longer. I think I might do that. God boy, Yeah,

(37:10):
someone said Benjamin Well Bennett intern Ben had been that
Benjamin was made to the Thong song. It's very possible.
Oh gosh, I just I don't think there's any excuse
not to know that song, No matter when you were born.
I can't give you a pass waiting by the phone.
Why did somebody get ghost people to do it? Next?
On The Fred Show? Ever been left waiting by the phone?

(37:33):
It's the Fred Show. Hey Sean, good morning, Welcome to
the show.

Speaker 10 (37:36):
Hey, thanks for having me.

Speaker 1 (37:37):
Guys. So what's going on with this woman? Minka? That's
not I named me here very often? Minka? So how
did you meet? Tell us about any dates that you've
been on, and then what's going on now?

Speaker 19 (37:46):
Well, we haven't been on any dates yet, that's the problem.
But we met at the club and we can't all
night together, and she was super hot and I thought,
you know, sparks were flying and everything, and you know,
we started texting because we exchanged numbers at the club
and we were planning our dates and whatnot, and we

(38:06):
were getting really excited. And then all of a sudden,
she just stopped like she was ghosted me, and he
just like, well, what's going on here?

Speaker 1 (38:12):
That guys was electric on the dance floor. Yeah. I
just the visual in my head is I don't know,
like you doing the I don't grease dance and I
don't know what it is like the dance floor had
like different colors and I don't know why this is
my visual of Sean right now. Yeah, and then Minka
like their eyes met from across the room, and then.

Speaker 5 (38:33):
It was choreography.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
Yeah, you know they both knew it exactly.

Speaker 10 (38:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
Yeah, they just they knew how to dance, They knew
how to move each other's bodies. Yeah.

Speaker 19 (38:44):
I mean you guys, you guys know, like you know
the fishing move, you know where she's adopted dance floor.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
You know, if you did that and she still gave
you her number, then you must you must be a
very good looking man or something. I'm not very charismatic,
but so is this woman. She gave you her number,
but yet she's not responding to you, and so you
want to know why.

Speaker 17 (39:06):
Well, I mean she was responding to me at first.
That's the thing.

Speaker 19 (39:08):
It's like, well, are we gonna get drinks? Or are
we gonna go out to dinner?

Speaker 17 (39:11):
Are we gonna, you know, do dinner? In a mood
like what are we gonna do?

Speaker 19 (39:15):
And then all of a sudden, like two or three
texts in, she's just.

Speaker 1 (39:18):
Like dead radio stylence and she disappears. Okay, so let's
see if we can get her on the phone. We're
gonna call Minca. You'll be on the phone as well.
Let's try and get some info for you. At some
point you're welcome to jump in and you know, hopefully
we can straighten this out and set you guys up
on another date that we pay for. All right, Oh,
let's see what happens next, Part two of Waiting by
the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning,

(39:41):
It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.
Hey Sean, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Minka.
You guys met at the club and I don't know,
you can sort of vibed in the club and you
were dancing, having a great time. She gave you her number.
You texted her a couple of times. There was a dialogue,
but then it stopped completely. And you want to know why.

Speaker 19 (40:01):
Yeah, because I didn't do anything wrong at the club
and I thought, I thought, you know, it was it
was going.

Speaker 1 (40:08):
To go somewhere. Okay, all right, so let's see if
we can figure out what's up. Good luck, Sean, thank you.

Speaker 7 (40:19):
Hello.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
Hi is this Minka. Yes, it is hi Minka. Good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling for the French show.
It's a radio program and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now and I
would need your permission to continue. Is that okay if
we chat for just a second on the air. Yeah, sure, Well,
thank you very much. I'm not sure if you've heard

(40:41):
this before, but it's it's called waiting by the phone,
and we're trying to figure out why you're not responding
to a guy named Sean who says he met you
at a I had about a club and you gave
him your number, and I guess you texted briefly, but
then you stopped. Yeah, okay, I remember him right. So
when he reached out to us and he was I
guess super into you and was hoping that it would

(41:02):
go somewhere and says, it's not, so what happened? Why
aren't you texting him back?

Speaker 18 (41:08):
I don't, you know, It's just like didn't work out,
just didn't work out.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
So I what does that mean though, because well we
got to tell him why it didn't work out, or
that's what we're trying to do is offer him some closer.
I mean, how does it go from here's my number,
you know, we hung out all night to now I
don't want to talk to you anymore.

Speaker 18 (41:28):
I mean I just I you know, I figured something
out about him and that it just doesn't it just
didn't really vibe.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
Well now what I'm going for? Mean, you cannot just
leave it there. What did you find out about him?
We're all on the edge of our seats.

Speaker 12 (41:46):
I mean, okay, yeah, I found so my best friend
was on Grinder, which, if you know, Brian, it's for
gay men, and Sean had a profile on there, and it.

Speaker 18 (42:05):
Was like the same photos, name.

Speaker 12 (42:07):
Age, everything, like it was him and I totally.

Speaker 18 (42:12):
Respect that, and you know, I love that for him,
but I don't need to. I don't think that.

Speaker 4 (42:18):
I'm what he's looking for.

Speaker 1 (42:19):
So what's the deal. Like you showed your friend a
picture of him, like I don't know his Instagram or something,
and then she's like, wait a minute.

Speaker 18 (42:25):
I was kind of excited, yeah, and I was like
look at this yeah, and I was like, look at
this guy in d and he was like, oh, I
he looks really familiar. And they had actually like been.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
Chatting on the grinder.

Speaker 10 (42:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:42):
Interesting. So let me just bring Sean. I'm sorry, mank
I forgot to mention that Sean. I'm so freakful Sean Grinder.
Let's tell me tell me more.

Speaker 17 (42:52):
So, I don't know what there is to tell. I
don't know what you're talking about me.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
Oh oh, so you're not on Grinder. I mean I
was your profile ger. You don't think so you don't
think you're on Grinder?

Speaker 17 (43:08):
I mean what if I don't remember if they were
on Grinder?

Speaker 1 (43:11):
Well I would, yes, that's what I would agree. I
would agree. I don't I don't think I accidentally have
ever been on Grinder before. So you you are or
you are not on Grinder.

Speaker 19 (43:22):
I mean, listen, you know, uh, people sleep, walk, people sleep, text,
people sleep, get on Grinder.

Speaker 17 (43:29):
Maybe I did that.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
So you're saying you're like you absent mindedly, you created
a full profile on a on a dating app and website.
That's I answer. Is an app? Is it just an
app or whatever?

Speaker 19 (43:40):
You Yeah, it's definitely not a dating It's definitely not
a dating app.

Speaker 1 (43:45):
It's not How would you know? You seem to know
more about it than I do. Yeah, so it's not
okay twenty twenty.

Speaker 19 (43:52):
Sorry, and I understand what what dating apps are and
what they aren't.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
Oh you do so Grinder. So you are on Grinder,
but it's not a dating app.

Speaker 17 (44:02):
No, it's a hookup app but.

Speaker 18 (44:08):
Super Clarify just to.

Speaker 1 (44:09):
Hook up with men. So we've gotten that far. We're
acknowledging that.

Speaker 19 (44:13):
I mean, look, I'm an opportunist.

Speaker 17 (44:15):
I'll tell you that right now.

Speaker 19 (44:17):
I'm curious. Some friends were telling me that, uh, you know,
they had a good time on there, and uh, I
got drunk one night and I made a profile.

Speaker 17 (44:28):
Is that an issue?

Speaker 7 (44:29):
Like?

Speaker 1 (44:31):
Oh, you're not. What's here's the thing? Nobody nobody cares like.
It's fine, there's yeah, there's no reason for you, you
pirms that make a you care.

Speaker 12 (44:42):
I mean, I'm happy for you, Sean, but I don't
need to be part of your journey.

Speaker 7 (44:48):
It's we have.

Speaker 1 (44:50):
To Grinder has nothing to do with you, and well
it doesn't. You're right, but.

Speaker 19 (44:58):
You're saying are you saying you let eight for the
bisexual party?

Speaker 17 (45:01):
Is that what's going on?

Speaker 1 (45:03):
We're clearly coming out now is bisexual, which is wonderful, but.

Speaker 19 (45:07):
Ago, everyone everyone runs the section, They had tons of
movies about it. Right, nobody is fully gay, nobody is
fully straight.

Speaker 1 (45:16):
But like, are you right now?

Speaker 18 (45:23):
Oh boy?

Speaker 1 (45:24):
Okay, yeah, I don't mean to interrupt you. I'm sorry.
Here's the problem. The problem is not that you may
or may not be bisexual or whatever. Nobody cares and
no one's judging you for that, do you. The problem
is that we went in the last four minutes from
you're not on grinder. You might be on grinder to

(45:45):
you are, but you're not dating to you are, but
you're just hooking up to you are, but you're by curious.
That's where we've gone in the last in the last
couple of minutes. I think maybe that's your problem, is
that she's not really interested in investing in a new
relationship when you might be trying to figure out you know,
a lot of other things.

Speaker 17 (46:06):
Yeah, that's exactly right, because I'm maintained.

Speaker 19 (46:09):
I'm maintained monogamy. Right, so if I'm if I'm in
a relationship, I'll be in a relationship with a woman
and not you know, messed.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
Around or whatever. What you will do.

Speaker 17 (46:31):
Any kind of respect for people.

Speaker 18 (46:39):
I'm just gonna say, I will not be going out
with him again. There will be no second date.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
On your journey. But you got to understand.

Speaker 17 (46:48):
Journey, journey.

Speaker 1 (46:50):
You're not dependent John, It's not personally. If you're on
a public forum, you have to understand that we're not
trying to expose you. You know this is we're asking questions
and you're it's not a secret. Your picture is on
Grinder and you put it there allegedly, right.

Speaker 17 (47:09):
I mean I didn't put it there, But that's neither
here nor there.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
Fine, what is going on? I think?

Speaker 13 (47:18):
I think?

Speaker 8 (47:19):
But grinder's his main one and he stumbled onto hing
or whatever. You know what I'm saying, he's got this reversed.

Speaker 6 (47:24):
Who knows what his main his side when he's into,
but he's not on the dance floor, Like.

Speaker 1 (47:29):
What is it? You do understand, Sean? The problem is
that you haven't told the same story twice.

Speaker 17 (47:39):
So that's what I need to do. I need to
strut telling stories that are the same.

Speaker 1 (47:42):
Probably, yeah, well the truth would be great.

Speaker 17 (47:44):
All right, all right, I appreciate that. I appreciate that
constructive critical.

Speaker 1 (47:50):
Is your name even, Sean? Like we do it all right? Look,
so she's not interested, that's the bottom line, Sean. Look,
I wish you the best of luck, honestly, whatever it is,
and we support you fully. And you know, Mink is
looking for something else, so it's not going to work out, guys,
good luck.

Speaker 17 (48:06):
I feel like she's just a little bit intolerant, you know.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
Oh, now she's intolerant the thing that doesn't exist.

Speaker 17 (48:11):
I mean, there's.

Speaker 19 (48:12):
Multiple realities, there's multiple dimensions. Which one are we in
right now?

Speaker 1 (48:16):
None of us know?

Speaker 8 (48:17):
Right it's not a Marvel movie, homie. This is not
a multiverse over here. What are you talking about?

Speaker 1 (48:24):
Bro? It's the Fred Show? Do you have what it
takes to battle show biz?

Speaker 21 (48:31):
Shelley in the show Biz Showdown Show.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
Mariam Hey Showby is good morning, Hello, all right, let's
do this long weekend ahead here. We got yeah, six
hundred bucks, that's the prize. Eighty nine and fifty eight
is your overall record, Very very impressive. We'll get to
nine hundred here soon. Nine straight wins, and your challenger
is a man name Jonathan. Hi Jonathan, Good morning in

(49:00):
the morning. How are you, Jonathan, Welcome to the program.
Tell us about you?

Speaker 10 (49:05):
So, yeah, my name is Jonathan. I live in Chicago,
I have two kids, and I work in pediatric dentistry.

Speaker 1 (49:14):
Oh wow, oh wow. That was quite the reaction from Shelley.
I got it all some questions from him at some point. Yeah, okay,
all right, well you guys can offline that one. There's
another a corporate term we can offline. We'll take it
off the low hanging through it. Yeah. Yeah, we've got
that PRESO coming up. Yeah. We gotta work on that

(49:36):
deck for the pivot table because you know what we
need to well, what are some of the other ones?
And people are so proud to use these stupid corporate terms.
You know, it's like, we got to circle the wagons, guys,
we gotta circle the wagons. I don't even know. Yeah,
we gotta get our ducks in a row here?

Speaker 10 (49:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (49:55):
Yeah, what do they call the we gotta fill up
the ocean? Or what is it like?

Speaker 8 (49:58):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (49:59):
The thing, the thing? Take make sure we're aligned in
the thin thing. There's another one though, it's like empty
the ocean or I don't know, something like that empty.
I don't know it. I don't get invited into this crap.
That's that's fine of the reason.

Speaker 10 (50:11):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (50:11):
If I don't know all the proper terms, Jonathan, I
don't know. Five questions, six hundred bucks is surprise? Good luck, guys?
All right, good luck, thank you, good luck? All right,
with all due respect, shall we get the hell out Jonathan?
Question number one, Jojo Siwah says she's recovering after getting
punched on her twenty first birthday. What reality show brought
her to fame? Which Deadpool actor danced around questions about

(50:38):
whether or not Taylor Swift will be in the new
Deadpool and Wolverine movie.

Speaker 10 (50:43):
Brian Reynolds.

Speaker 1 (50:45):
Adele gave a shout out to this Espresso singer during
her Vegas residency, saying she can't get the song out
of her head. The question, Adele gave a shout out
to this Espresso singer during her Vegas read it and
he's saying she can't get the song out of her head?

Speaker 5 (51:02):
Who sings Espresso?

Speaker 1 (51:04):
Three?

Speaker 5 (51:05):
Two one?

Speaker 1 (51:07):
New Photo Show, Sarah Jessica Parker filming the new season
of this Sex and the City spin off. What's it called? Three? Okay,
you're right, it's a public and the family of this
late singer has been fighting over his Graceland home. Name him?

(51:28):
Whoa one more time? Elvis is correct? All right? That's
a three. That's a three. That's not bad. It's not bad.
It's all right. Bringing Shelly bad? He got a three? Okay,
all right? Question number one for you, Shell Jojo seas
that she's recovering after getting punched on her twenty first birthday,
which reality show brought her to fame. Dance Mott, That's right,

(51:51):
which Deadpool actor danced around questions about whether or not
Taylor Swift will be in the new Deadpool and Wolverine movie.

Speaker 5 (51:58):
Ryan Reynolds, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
Dale Gavin out to this Espresso singer during her Vegas residency,
saying she can't get the song out of her head.
Sabrina Carpenter, That's right. New Photo Show, Sarah Jessica Parker
filming the new season of this Sex and the City
spin off, and just like that. Yes, and the family
of this late singer has been fighting over his Graceland home.
Name him Elvis. That's right, that's the way, my man, Jonathan.

(52:22):
Three is a respectable score. You did well, and but
you do have to say it. My name is Jonathan.
I got showed up on a showdown, and you know
the rest.

Speaker 10 (52:30):
My name is Jonathan. I got to s up on
the showdown and I can't hang with good.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
Really, you're at work. That was pretty good. That was
good for a guy who's not supposed to be screaming
right now, right, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 10 (52:47):
Yeah, Oh my god, I've been wanting to screaming so long,
but I have patients.

Speaker 1 (52:51):
That's all right, patients are you doctor? Oh yeah, I
missed that part. Jonathan. You I'll screaming for you. Can't
hang with got rid of Jonathan? Can you finish my canal?

Speaker 22 (53:12):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
Man, what a what a stir ROUFIO has created in
the dentistry community too. I think about this story is wild,
fraudulent root canal. The guy's got a wrench in his
molar somewhere man, Jonathan, it's bad. The guy dropped something
in there.

Speaker 10 (53:31):
I've been, I've been, I've been keeping up with that story.

Speaker 1 (53:33):
And it's not good man. But Jonathan, great job, thanks
for being part of the thirteen. Hang on one second, Okay,
thank you all right, good to stay right there. Show
bees well done. We're up to six fifty next week,
so Tuesday will play again. Six hundred and fifty bucks
is the prize, and we got big plans for the
long weekend or what. No, I don't.

Speaker 22 (53:57):
I think it probably like a barbecue and neighbor You know,
I'm a big like neighborly woman now, so probably do something.

Speaker 1 (54:02):
With the neighbor neighborly woman.

Speaker 22 (54:06):
But besides that, Oh, I might go see my husband
recently started playing hockey.

Speaker 1 (54:11):
Oh military, Mike's a hockey player now. He used to
play hockey.

Speaker 22 (54:15):
He stopped for a while and now he's taking it
up again. So I might go to a game or
yeaheah ice.

Speaker 1 (54:20):
At least he's not playing pickleball, because I I'm getting
a little tired of hearing about pickleball to everybody does it.
It's way over the top. It's like guys want to Okay,
you're gonna get injured. That's that's what happens, well injured
playing that game, Like, how is how can it possibly
be that? Okay? Movements? Yeah, hey, look good for you.
If you love the pickleball, then you do it. But

(54:42):
it's just it's everywhere they have the kitchen. Yeah, just
stay out.

Speaker 8 (54:47):
There's a place called the kitchen and the game.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
I was going to say, can you be clear on
what you meant? Look here Benson? But yeah whatever his name?
All right, good, well, shout out love, you have a
great weekend. We'll see you next week.

Speaker 5 (55:07):
Sounds good.

Speaker 1 (55:08):
Indeed, it's the Fread Show. It's the Fresh Show Good
Morning on the radio, and the iHeart app as well.
Search for the Fread Show on demand. We were talking
about this the other day. It's like us, as the
fearless leader of this of this pack I have. I've
had to learn what each of your like love languages are,
and like what each of you like, how each of
you are motivated, and you're You're all so incredibly different

(55:32):
in like the way that you go about doing things,
And the hardest part for me is trying to figure
out the custom way that I'm going to get you
to do the thing I need you to do without
being a jackass. But that Rufio is the kid who
did his homework right before it was due, or as
it was due, or slightly after it was due, but
around the same time that it was due. That was you,

(55:53):
for sure, Caitlyn. You were You got your homework done
on time right. You didn't have late homework, did you?

Speaker 21 (55:58):
No?

Speaker 3 (55:58):
I did all my homework, but I was a really
bad test taker because of my ADHD and anxiety. So
I had like good grades because of my homework, but
then when it came to sus that was not great.

Speaker 1 (56:07):
Jason's a rule follower one hundred Yeah, Jason, you are
a rule follower. He loved you. It was on time
or early. And like if it says, if it says
in the thing that you're supposed to do it this
way or that you're not supposed to do it this way,
then he's always the first to remind me, Well it
says here, you can't say that. Fred I'm like, well,
we're gonna pretend we didn't see that.

Speaker 8 (56:28):
That's why that's why I was sitting next to Jason too,
because like in school.

Speaker 1 (56:31):
And be like you copy. Yeah, he's he's got all
the work done and be like, hey, Jason, right.

Speaker 2 (56:37):
You gave me anxiety because I'm like, oh my god,
what I'm a people pleaser.

Speaker 8 (56:41):
Soor okay, it's okay, Colleena.

Speaker 1 (56:46):
I think you and I mean this in the best
way because I respected so much, But I feel like
you would have figured out a way to get it
done without having to do it absolutely. Yeah, Like, and
you work hard here. I'm not saying this is nothing
about your work ethic, but I'm saying, like, if you
could figure out out a way to delegate but still
be involved but like but not actually do it, it's
which you know, which is smart? I mean that's like,

(57:08):
that's I was never smart enough to like tell anyone
else to do my stuff for me and then say.

Speaker 10 (57:13):
That I did.

Speaker 1 (57:15):
Yeah. Well, it doesn't translate here. I don't. I don't know.
I don't think it doesn't. But I could see that
being you, like, yeah, smart, savvy.

Speaker 4 (57:23):
What I'm saying like, like, let someone else handle it
the stuff that I don't need to put my time into.

Speaker 1 (57:26):
See, look at this, I just like And then Kiki,
you you strike me as the as the person growing
up who could talk your way into and out of anything.

Speaker 6 (57:34):
Oh, yes, that was like I used to eat lunch
in the teacher's lounge because I would go in there
just like converse, like I was supposed to be there.

Speaker 17 (57:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (57:42):
But and I think I think many of you share
that same quality of being able to like Rufio has
it too, of being able to charm your pants out
of it, like when someone when someone's about to yell
at you because you because you, I think, Paulina, what
you do is like I know that you need the
positive affirmation. So I can't get mad at you because
I don't want to make because I don't. I want

(58:03):
you to have the positive affirmation, like I know the
negative affirmation is way worse. So I can't get mad
at you. Well that's nice, I can't. I try and
get mad at him, yeah, but he then does some
kind of puppy eye look at me or yeah right,
and then all of a sudden it's like, well, I guess,
and then I don't. I don't know. You're emotionless sometimes, so.

Speaker 6 (58:21):
I oh my job as well, So I don't really
think we have none.

Speaker 1 (58:27):
Let me be clear. Let me be that's one thing
about me. Let me be clear, though. None of this
is about none of you. This isn't about you not
doing your job. It's about how each of you go
about it. In my opinion, I see that, and I
think some are like, how do we do this intelligently? Yeah?
Such that you know that's a great word, intelligently. I
prefer that not as much of an impact on my schedule.

(58:48):
Is you're not lying? Where is the lie? I see none?
And then you just put your head down and do it.
But but the inner monologue is what I'd love to hear.
You can't just says that all the time.

Speaker 6 (59:01):
But you, guys, it's not as crazy as my facial
expressions make you.

Speaker 1 (59:05):
I hope control. I hope none of you. This wasn't
intended to be negative at all. It's just it's just
as I sit here in the middle of this room
and look at each of you, it's just each time
that I each time I have something to say, I
have to think about how to say it like a parent, right,
So I cut sort of yes now, but here what
do you think of me? Though? And you can tell
the truth because here I am saying, like as the
as the quote unquote leader like here's and I don't

(59:26):
know if you. I think, if you're a parent, if
you lead a team at work, you're listening right now
and you probably know like what I'm talking about. It's
like you can't approach every single person on your team
if you know them or take the time and know them,
you can't motivate them all the same way. Not everybody's
here for the I mean, everyone's here for like a
common goal, but the reasons that everybody gets up and
comes in here and does this are very different the

(59:47):
way that it fulfills people. I think. But what's me
going telling you not.

Speaker 5 (59:50):
To do something you'll do?

Speaker 1 (59:52):
You'll do it, yes, so that you know.

Speaker 5 (59:54):
So we have to work around that verse psychology. Yeah,
so tell you to do the thing I don't want
you to do.

Speaker 1 (01:00:00):
And then you'll do it.

Speaker 11 (01:00:01):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (01:00:02):
But I don't do it on purpose, Like if if
you said don't do this, I don't do it because
you said don't do it. But most of what I
don't know about that, But most of what I'm told
not to do so was dumb. I should I should
do it? Hey, lease your hands up, don't talk about
the suits today, all these suits today. That's what I'm
saying every time, like that's a dumb thing to say.

(01:00:24):
Don't do like most like sometimes when you're like, don't
do this, Like when you're like, I don't know, don't
say what time we're going to give away the the
you know, the the vacation that you know, Zimbabwe or whatever,
don't don't don't tell everybody what time it is, because
it's going to ruin it. I'm like, are you sure, okay? Fine?
But if you're like, don't talk about the suits who
are idiots, then I'm that's dumb. I'm going to talk

(01:00:45):
about them, you know. Or if you're like, don't ask
that question because that because the paper says don't ask it,
I'm like, but that's the only question I want to ask,
So I ask it. What else? Do I think?

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
It's about timing with you, like I have to if
I'm going to hit you with something, like I have
to weigh until the vibe is right, Like I have
to until the timing is right, because I'm the type
of person like if I need to say something, I
don't want to forget it, so I want to say
it right away. But I've learned that I have to, like,
let's feel it out and see where we're at on
this emotional scale before we like, that's very.

Speaker 6 (01:01:15):
Fair hit you with something that's you know, I'm still
learning that and you don't like surprises at least in
my opinion, Like I got to prep you for stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
If I tell you some.

Speaker 4 (01:01:23):
Big news or something, I need to like prep you, like,
I can't just.

Speaker 1 (01:01:26):
Like show up and say it. That's all. That's all fair.
But I haven't thrown a CD at you in a
very long time, Jason, you don't have an I haven't
if we had CDs though, Yeah, I haven't thrown it
cassette tape. Sometimes you act like you act like if
you don't hit me at the right moment that I'm
going to have like an actual it's not an explosion.
It's more of an implosion, wouldn't you agree? Yeah, it happens.

(01:01:49):
It happens like internally with I fold into myself and
I don't want to put you through that. So that's
why it's about finding the right.

Speaker 5 (01:01:56):
You're like a storm, like I can feel it coming,
you know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:59):
Like a bird. I've heard that before. Your bad knee. Yeah,
that's exactly why I come in here and something's rumbling. Yeah,
there's a tornado on its way. I'm telling you right,
it's gonna be a windy day to day. Fred's no, no,
he says, not sure.

Speaker 5 (01:02:18):
It's a slow breakdown for you sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:02:21):
Yeah. No, So at least the brunt of the of
the pain uh falls within me and not because you know,
some people like it's all external, like if some's going
on inside of them, they just make everybody else pay.
And maybe that maybe that's true with me too, But
I feel like I just I like I fold into myself,
which I'm sure is uncomfortable for other people too. But
at least it's not you know what I mean. You

(01:02:42):
know the people who like yell and scream, and then
they are the people who, like I don't know, it
lives within them. I'm the guy who lives within, deep
deep within. I wish it would eat I'm sure it's
eating away at my organs and lifespan or whatever. This
this this beer belly I got going, I wish it
would eat away at that. But it doesn't doesn't seem
to do that. It seems to make it. It seems

(01:03:02):
to enhance the dad body does. Your court is all.
It makes your tummy bigger when you're stressed. But I'm
an intermitted intermittent fasting all week, so I'm basically yeah,
I basically thank you for yeah. I am thank you
and thank you for pointing out yere absolutely shirt. I know,
I know they're they're rock hard. I can watch someone
of those. I know you could you walk up to
any time? Okay, cool? Keep things clean, which you Rufio

(01:03:22):
won't because he doesn't wear clean clothes. But that's something
else I know about him, something else. Rufio is not
motivated by cleanliness and Hijian.

Speaker 21 (01:03:34):
More Fred show next right here. Wait, Fread's show is
on the Hottest Morning show.

Speaker 1 (01:03:45):
Text to eighty five five five one one oh three five.
I've text college volleyball and club volleyball for fifteen years
and that was a fantastic segment. It's true. I don't know,
probably my sister a lot of years ago, who was
like really big on the love language thing. It's important, no,
and it's true though, Like, and if you don't know
what I'm talking about, there are five love languages. Right,

(01:04:07):
acts of service, time spent, gift, words of affirmation, and
physical touch. And you can take a little test. You
can do the same with personality testing too, but you
can you take the test and then I don't know.
It's interesting when when you know for sure the order
in which your partner or teammates or whatever, the order

(01:04:28):
in which they sort of prioritize things, and then when
you appeal individually to that, it's amazing the result, Like
you get much better results from people that way. That's true,
and I never really thought about it before. Yeah, But
then also I think sometimes you got to be aware
of how people are giving love.

Speaker 5 (01:04:45):
Yeah, that's different.

Speaker 3 (01:04:47):
Honestly, you give your love in one love language and
you receive it in another.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
I agree, But sometimes it's as important to know how
someone's giving it love, even if it's not the way
that you want to receive it, because that means something
to them. My mom is a giver, Like she gives
and gives and gives and gives and gives, and then
the one time she wants something, you better do it
because because in her mind, and she's not wrong, but
in her mind, she's been giving and giving and giving,

(01:05:12):
and even if he didn't ask for it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:13):
I struggle with that because like people didn't ask for it,
you know, So then I sometimes get resentful because I
do all this stuff, but it's like I'm putting that
on myself to do.

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
Right, it's nothing.

Speaker 10 (01:05:21):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:05:21):
I don't. Sometimes people are ungrateful, but I think for
the most part, it's probably not the people are ungrateful.
They just they didn't necessarily need to receive that from you.
So so yeah, I think, I.

Speaker 7 (01:05:34):
Don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:05:34):
I think I'm I'm that way with words of afformation,
Like I will give words of afformation and I mean them,
but I really want them back to I don't know.
But I'm also very bad at taking compliments, so I don't.
I don't know. It's it's a complicated thing, it is.
But like if someone's giving me gifts or something like,
that's nice, but that wouldn't be the same. That wouldn't
do for me what a genuine word of affirmation would

(01:05:57):
do for me from a partner to be giving me
gifts all day.

Speaker 10 (01:06:01):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:06:02):
The other thing though, is that like, like acts of
service is a big one for people I've dated, but
like to an extreme, like almost to the point where
I become resentful of them because I'm like, I'm not
your I'm not your assistant, you know, Like there's a
line too. It's like, I know you like it when
stuff's done for you, but I'm not going to do
it everything. Like, I'm also not a I don't you know.
I'm not your post Mates driver. I don't know. I

(01:06:25):
guess it's finding that balance too. But this is all
very complicated, you guys. Maybe this is why I'm not
in a relationship because I sit around. I think about
these things, but I can't put them into action, you know.
That's the other thing. I'm a thinker. Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (01:06:37):
Yeah, I destroyed myself many times just by thinking.

Speaker 1 (01:06:40):
Overthinking is too stressful and stressful out here. I think
there are a lot of thinkers in this room. Yes,
actually we all overthink. I think not healthy. Accept this
guy right here for fe. I just think out loud,
you know, and then I can't think. None of us
are No. No, there's no internal monologue. Everything is external.

Speaker 10 (01:07:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:07:05):
No, it's true. You never really have to know what
Rufio's thinking or he'll pout. He'll either say everything or
he'll pout and say nothing, and you're being punished. There's
that too. Yes, you look at this stuff that we
pay attention to about each other. This is this is
another thing, like like Kiki, when you came along whatever
a year ago or something. I'm like, walking into this
room is not easy, and you did it masterfully. But

(01:07:27):
but you cannot come in here like a bowl in
a china shop with a bunch of people who know
each other. I know what you're thinking. I can look
at you, Pauline, and I already know what you're thinking, right,
I don't even have to ask. It's just because we've
known each other for so long, and like the fact
that we're sitting here for five hours a day and
just bs, it's like you cannot not sort of you know,
absorb things about people that like it's just an intangible

(01:07:47):
h you know. So if you come in here and
you're like you try and take over, it's like, nuh uh,
that ain't gonna work. Yeah, now, don't want to stress
myself out. No no, no no. But then and you
sing to us in You're beautiful, the falsetto tones and everything,
and it just it makes up for all the lost time.
It's the charm. Yeah, that's what that's went back to
the chart. DJ Neurotic the Friday Throwback dance party that

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Friday Throwback Dance Party on the French Show. Thank you Neurotic.
Apparently the corn hole is the hotness on TV. CBS
and ESPN have deals with the cornhole people and the prize,

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like the bounty went up from a million to eight
million dollars if you're a good corn hole player million dollars.
These guys got skills, man, I know they're all sponsored
by like sausage company, Yeah, by Johnsonville. Yeah. Okay, nothing
says pickleboard and nothing says a corn hoold of me
like a breakfast sausage. More Pread Show.

Speaker 16 (01:09:14):
Next, the fread show is on Yeah Fread's Fun Fact
Rereads fund.

Speaker 1 (01:09:30):
Greenland sharks. Greenland sharks, which are also known as gurry
sharks or gray sharks, tend to live very long lives,
as the longest living vertebrate on the planet. They can
swim in the ocean for up to four hundred years,
and they don't reach sexual maturity until they're one hundred

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and fifty. So you're not getting You're not you're hitting
puberty until you won fifty, and you're gonna live for
four hundred I gotta wait one hundred and fifty years
to you know, you know, as a woman, I was
thinking procreation myself, obviously, which is the only reason that
people when a man loves a woman, Kaylin, the only
reason that you would engage in something like that is

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to make a child, obviously. But if you're a greenland
if you're a gurray shark, a gray shark, you got
to wait one hundred and fifty years for that. It's
almost like my true life story. I had to wait
almost one hundred and fifty years too.

Speaker 10 (01:10:24):
Well.

Speaker 1 (01:10:24):
Jason Brown was in the streets. Yeah, yeah, what's my
memoir called at home and interested in? I'm home alone?
And Interested in Sex, with a foreword by Kaylyn and Kaylin,
and one chapter will be called Fred the Greenland Shark
who didn't reach sexual maturity until one hundred and fifty.
Done with the book at this point, yeah, I mean
we've we've written the whole thing. Yeah, we have. It's

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a fread show. We're back in a minute. More Fread show. Next.
You've got to wait.

Speaker 21 (01:10:56):
Wait Freads show is on the Hottest morning show.

Speaker 1 (01:11:05):
Yeah. Nothing makes nothing makes me more uncomfortable than a
woman crying. Oh really, I didn't know. I mean to you, uncomfortable,
that uncomfortable extent. I don't know what it's like. I
want to solve the problem and I don't. I guess
I revert immediately to my mom and my sister, and
I think, like, like seeing them sad, Like nothing makes
me more unhappy than that, But usually there's nothing I
can do about it. And I'm not like a big
touchy feely emotional guy, so like it just kind of

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like that, I'm like, uh, what do I do?

Speaker 11 (01:11:31):
What do you?

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
What I do? How do I make it stop? It
doesn't happen very often, so that means like when it
does happen that I really got to do something, but
I don't know what to do. I want your emotions
so bad. I want to be used. I don't think
you do.

Speaker 5 (01:11:44):
I want to begged up.

Speaker 1 (01:11:46):
I don't think you do. I would take I would
take twenty percent less stone.

Speaker 10 (01:11:51):
I would.

Speaker 1 (01:11:51):
I mean, at least privately and within control. I'd like
the ability to have a good cry every now and again.
It just doesn't happen. It just I just can't do it.
You are you are blessed. I don't think that's true, though.
I think that it says something that's like very wrong
about me, very broken. And I go to therapy and
I discussed this. No, no, I don't cry. It's not

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it's not I'm not proud of it. It's not like
something I'm bragging about. I just I don't. It has
to be very very bad, like very very very bad
for me to cry. I don't know why. Just and
when it happens, it's like it's like an explosion of crying,
like it comes out of nowhere, and it's it's like bad.
It's like fifteen years built up and right, yeah, can
you imagine you know anything else you build up for

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fifteen years and it's it's going to be it. I mean,
I'm just talking about it. I mean, why do you
have to take you don't have to take it there.
My favorite is that one leading what I do? Yeah,
because you, oh perve such a perv. I'm not the
biggest person. Somebody the other day was like, freend takes
everything second like I do. You haven't been listening long enough.
Apparently that is way worse sculprits than me. Stick around

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a little longer and you'll be more offendive. Stay around