July 15, 2025 • 16 mins
Fred asks the 13 if they've done anything weird in order to get the attention of someone they thought was attractive.
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Speaker 1 (00:40):
Okay, so this.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Woman is on TikTok and she is sharing with everyone
the current state of dating in New York City. This
is apparently where people are at this women, I guess
specifically trying to find a date.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Now.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I just want to say, and I'm gonna be that
guy and I don't like to argue this way or
I don't like to, you know, position this way. But
if a guy did this, he's a total creep. M okay,
But apparently if a girl does this, then we're good.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Dating scene is getting so bad in New York City
that I am seeing on TikTok there are girls going
into Midtown during.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
The week and stealing finance bros.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Salads for lunch and then looking their name up from
the salad order on LinkedIn and then messaging them through
there and being like, hey, my god, so sorry grabs
your solid Like, let me just make it up to
you and buy a new one. And that's how they're
like sliding it, which honestly smart. Why are we stealing
men's salads?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Like that's you have?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
But we have no idea who this man is. I mean,
I guess you run, he's a finance I suppose it's
an end but I mean, you know, okay, but if
I grab you know, Jake chad Z's, you know, lunch,
and then I got to go home, And first of all,
what it's a bad lunch. What if you're the guy
who he likes raisins and grapes in his salad and
nuts in his salad. He likes one of those kind
(02:02):
of Waldorf. You ever had a what was it called
a Waldorf? It's like it's like Mayo. No, it's yogurt, raisins,
nuts and marshmallows. You ever had one of those?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
It's so good to me.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
There's marshmallows in it's a sound that has a yogurt
and marshallows.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I don't know, is it a Waldorf?
Speaker 4 (02:19):
I mean like ambrosia?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Yeah, maybe, I don't know. One if the guy has
bad tastes of salad and he's an idiot and he's
not cute, and he's that cute. Now you got this
bad salad, you stole it. You ruined somebody else's day
because their lunch isn't there.
Speaker 5 (02:32):
Oh you're right Waldorf? Sorry, okay, sure, thank I didn't
never had that. And then I mean, come on, like,
I don't I don't know. I don't think this is
a great strategy. I mean, what are the odds that
you're gonna get a good looking guy's salad who's single
and receptive, right, and it's a good sound.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
It sounds like, yeah, well that that would be hard.
It sounds like they just want someone who makes a
lot of money. That's how desperate. We're getting in New York.
It's very thirsty.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, I don't. I don't know how I would respond
to this. I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Exactly respond well maybe, but then if I found out, Okay,
so if it were like an accident, because you know me,
I'm into the happenstance, you know, yeah, I'm into like
the Hallmark movie sort of thing. So I still believe
I'm going to meet someone at an airport.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
I really do. And you guys don't agree with me.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
But the airport's not only a horny place, but it's
the kind of place where you meet someone who's I
don't know, that's that's where, that's where love stories begin
in the airport. I believe this every time I go
to the airport a get on a flight. I look
around and I survey my surroundings and I see what
might be available to me, you know, and what could
be There was a very very hot girl that was
(03:42):
one like I was on the aisle and she was
on the other aisle on the flight back from South Paulo, Brazil.
I don't know what her story was. I never really
got it. I think language may have been a barrier
there too, but she was good looking. You never know,
it could have been that could have been missus Fred.
Yeah you know, I could have been said and Abu
I got to her all the time, yeah you know,
(04:03):
and and chow chow.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
All the time. But anyway, what are the odds though that? Okay?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
So I would get the LinkedIn message, I would be like,
this is so cute, Oh my god, she's good looking.
She got my salad first of all. I would never
it would have been like a gigantic sandwich of some
like four meals.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Breakfast, I got your team's lunch. It would have been
like that was all for me.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
But anyway, and then and then I would have I
would have been been, this is so cute, and then
we maybe would have gone out, and then I would
have gone on TikTok and found out this is just something.
It's his strategy. It wasn't cute, it wasn't happenstance, it
wasn't meant to be. You wouldn't care how many time.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Did you do this?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
And you know, to come upon me, and then I
would I would find it less sincere and I would
be upset about it, right because it's it's just simply
a game.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
Yeah, they're gonna start locking up the salads now, like
at Walgreens, like the soap.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yes, it's yes, I have my salad. Some man has
to come around unlock it and hand it to me.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
It's crazy running for everybody.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Yeah, I don't, I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
But if a guy, if a guy did this and
it wasn't an accident, we would get killed. It would
be gross. I'm sorry, it's true, it would be. It
would be it would be thirsty, it would be gross,
it would be intrusive, it would it would be violating,
and maybe because maybe men have just made that reputation
(05:22):
for ourselves by being those things. And I'm you know,
taking not personally taking credit, but yeah, I think a
lot of nice things have been ruined for the guys
who are well intentioned.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
That's a good point.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
But yeah, I don't think this.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Would go over very well if if if dudes were
doing this consistently, I think women would be like, first
of all, worre's my salad?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
That's what I would mean about it.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yes, like that was a good salad I ordered and
it was like twenty four dollars.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Yes, just out like we're very specific keiking eye. But
what we want in there, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
I understand that. I understand it. One a week and there,
and they're eighty four dollars.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
On Tuesday is a salad day and I take that
very serious.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
That's what I mean because you had to save up
hope right right in order to get it. But that's
I guess that's where we're at. Have you guys ever
done anything well? Jason's been dating the same person for
eighty seven years and he moved in correct, as we
learned yesterday in the in the Tangent or off their
Uncentered podcast, he is a U haul lesbian I am
because he went on one date and then lived.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
There already had it packed.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
But if you guys are being as well, and I've
probably I've definitely done things that would be defined now
as cringe but used to be considered cute or romantic.
And again I'm not blaming women for this, but I'm
saying I think guys have screwed up what could be
a sincere gesture from a man, because because now the
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perception is if a stranger talks to you that that's creepy,
which is a shame or threatening or something. But will
any of you women admit, any of you ladies admit
that you've done something somewhat sort of stalker ish or
creepy or like set yourself up to meet the guy
you wanted to meet.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Hm, I man, I'm wondering maybe and if anyone wants
to admit to.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
This eight five, five, five, nine one one oh three
five have you ever like gone to the same place
I saw a guy at a place and then you
went there every day for a week or to see
if he shows up, or I don't know, somehow positioned
yourself in a way that he had to bump into
you so you had to talk to him or anything.
Have you ever done something like this to put yourself
in a position?
Speaker 7 (07:23):
I mean yeah, like I like there was a DJ
thought that was cute, like back in the day, like
back in my do.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
You have a money mouse tattoo?
Speaker 4 (07:29):
He did not have that tattoo.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
A different confused them.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yes, and we did an I Da'm actually about that
yesterday with.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
The Mighty mouth side one of our listeners hang out
with it.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Oh okay, it was really fun him no, no, not
him himself, but he doesn't have the internet in jail,
but anyway, he's sick.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
But like with the DJ, I thought he was cute,
so I would like go to the spots that I
knew he was DJing at, and like nothing happened, but
I was like, hey, like you're kind of a cool DJ,
Like I don't know, I like your style, and.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
That kind of just went from there.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I figured out someone's schedule at a bar and I've gone,
I haven't done this in a while, but I would
make sure that I just happened to stop in when
that person was there. It worked, Yeah, it definitely worked.
You never done something like this though, You've never I'm
trying to think of another example of where you just
make sure that somehow done something or maybe you had
(08:17):
to take some sort of creepy method. We'll be defined
as creepy today, but it worked well.
Speaker 6 (08:24):
I've done things like this to Taylor Swift, Like I
befriended someone she went to high school with, just because
they went to high school.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Together and you were hoping that you two would become friends.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Well, you know, I'm still in the process.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
So you're befriending her, right, Okay, do you talk regularly?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah, we became online friends. She doesn't know why I'm
being her friend.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Well she does, now, Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:43):
I'd like had my makeup done and then on purpose,
like made sure I run into a guy, you know,
because you know, when you get a beat done, you
can't waste it. But that's like the creepiest thing I
can probably think of. But let me think, because maybe
I'll be creepier if I remember.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I'm trying to think.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I've probably looked people up on social media and make sure,
like I've definitely I've probably friend I've probably found people
on social media and then just shot my shot by
requesting them. And I didn't necessarily have like a reason
to know to do, you know, like I didn't. I didn't.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I wasn't invited to do that.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
So but my thing is either you're going to accept it,
and then that might mean that you want some form
of interaction or you're not. But you have the choice,
like you know what I mean, Like you have the
option to not friend me or not respond.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
I'll shoot my shot one time. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Uh now, sometimes it winds up on message boards, but
I don't care. I'll shoot my Well, that's another kind
of crappy thing is, you know, you shoot your shot
and and then you just if you don't want to
someone to. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Right, I've
gotten responses, I've gotten I've gotten non responses, but like
I shot, you know what I mean? Because because when
I was much younger, I would not talk to people
because I was afraid of getting rejected. And I think
(09:53):
now it's like, oh yeah, and then people will later
brag like so so and so, yeah he slipped my DMS.
I didn't respond. It's like that's not cool, like love
to do that.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
It's like, wait a minute.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
If I'm not good enough to go out with you,
why am I good enough for you to brag that
you shot me down?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Right? You know what I'm saying, Like why why would
that be?
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Because, by the way, for every couple that don't work,
sometimes it works.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
So you know she did.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
But is that creepy? Because I feel like you have
the option. But some would argue you found me on
the internet, that's.
Speaker 6 (10:21):
What it's for. I don't that that's not creepy. Shoot
on the internet all the live long day.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
But I will say this, and guys, I'm talking to
no one who listens to this show would be this way,
because everyone has taste, fine, fine discerning taste. Yes, but
if you shoot your shot, if you find if you
see a cute person and you're resourceful and you find
them and you request them, that's it. If you DM
them one time, something very kind, not a picture of
(10:46):
your genitalia, like, just be nice and respectful one time.
If you do not get a response, we are done.
We are done. We don't continue to write over and
over and then what we definitely don't do. This one's
a class. I've seen this one on the interweb so
many times. Is once we we've written to several times
and really really like released all all forms of dignity,
(11:10):
then we start dissing the person. Yeah for not like,
oh you want it that hot anyway? I see this
with you guys all the time. They'll DM you guys. Hey,
you know Kaitlin, They'll shoot their shot. Then you don't respond.
I see it on the text all the time. Oh
sweet Kalin, how I would love to do this? And
they and then you don't respond because you have a
boyfriend whatever. And then and then like three texts after
(11:32):
they're like you're so hot, you're so smart, you're so good.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
You know what, You're an ugly bee and I hate you.
Speaker 6 (11:37):
Yeah, I got the other day for not answering like
fifteen messages.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
I'm like, I just saw these you a whole.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
He's like, oh, you're right right, so like let's be respectful,
you know. But it's funny how quickly you go from
being the woman of their dreams to a witch of
a human being, an awful heathen is terrible person, Gabby,
what did you know?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
It's true?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Though, don't So if we lead with those week Kaitlin,
you know, and then we shoot our shot, that's very nice.
Good for you, and now maybe you'll get a response
and maybe you won't, but we are done.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
I shot people downkind I don't want people to stop
shooting their shot.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
So I try really hard to like all good, like
you know what I mean, I'm really flattered.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
And the same is true with women to men, like
shoot your shot, be empowered, ask for what you want. Really,
but if you don't get a response, or if the
response isn't what you want, then.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Then then we're done and you did it and we're good.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
But then when it starts to get into this debate
or when it's like no, but really change your mind
and stuff. It's like, oh, boyd now hold on, like,
don't do that to yourself.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
If someone doesn't think that you're there for you or whatever,
you're for them or whatever, then that's their loss and
we move right on and we shoot our shots to
the next person. Hey, Gabby, Gabby, did you what did
you do? You look somebody up? What is this sort
of creepy method that you used?
Speaker 8 (12:59):
Now that I think got it? This creepy. But a
couple of years ago, I used to work for a
bank and I had a really good conversation with a guy,
like he was just there for like a good fifteen minutes,
and when he left, I was like, man, like, that
was such a good conversation. I should have just giggled
my number. And then I didn't, so I still had
(13:20):
his profile up and I'm like, boy, I'm gonna shoot
my shot and I did, and it was so weird
because I was like, why did I do that? He
ended up texting me back and he goes, well, this
is like my dad's phone number or something, and my
dad told me and I was like so embarrassed. But
actually it worked because we ended up going to a
(13:43):
couple of dates after that. But now that I look back,
I'm like, yeah, that was really weird for me to do.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Technically, you could have gotten fired for that, right, because
you were using someone's personal information for your personal game. True.
Speaker 8 (13:57):
Yes, I guess there was like kind of like a line.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Of boundary, but it works, so no harm, no foul, right.
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Yeah, I mean he could have like, I mean, he
could have been like he could have been married or
something with kids and like at the end of the day,
like it could have been his wife who came to
the bank and been like, who is this?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Yeah, you're right, it could have been bad.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
But I suppose you could have disguised it as oh, no,
I was it's my job. I was checking up on
his experience or something like, you know, I was making
sure or hey he forgot something. You could have made
something up that was like official business.
Speaker 8 (14:25):
Yes, yes, I mean, okay, it ended up well, but yeah,
definitely very odd.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Tell you well, fair enough, thank you, Gabby, and you're welcome,
have a good day.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
What someone do.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Memorizing people's schedules to make sure that at work when
you stop in is the creepy way.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I don't know. I say, is that is it?
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I mean, I suppose by definition, but like, am I
being that? The part that the part that people seem
to miss is am I being creepy? Like am I
actually being great?
Speaker 1 (14:56):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (14:57):
That is kind of creepy, I suppose, But am I
being creepy? Am I going every time? Or is it
just like, hey, I know she's here on Thursdays, I'm
stopping in.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Yeah, every time would be a little much, but like.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
I'm there if she works two to seven and I'm
there at one fifty nine every.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Day staring at right right.
Speaker 6 (15:15):
My friend, one of my guy friends, met a girl
at a wedding and it was an out of town
wedding and her parents were also there, and he remembered
when she just said her room number, and.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
Which is very creepy.
Speaker 6 (15:28):
He was very drunk and knocked on the door and
she was saying her parents' room number.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Her daddy answered no, no shirt on and chased him
down the hallway because he was like looking for her
in there. You can't do that. You can't listen to
somebody's room number and knock on the door.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
This was a lot of years ago in our different town,
but it is I was messing around with the girl,
and it was kind of more like a situation ship
before they called it that way back in the day.
And she was a bank teller, and I never went
to the bank where I didn't even know. I knew,
I knew which bank, I know she worked, I didn't
know which location. So this kind of goes on for
a while, and then it stops and I'm through drive
(16:06):
through bank and I drive through the bank and there
she is. She's the teller, and I was like making
a deposit or something. I'm like, oh, hey, whatever, your
name is whatever, and then we do the deal, and
she kind of looks at me, and we do the
deal and then I leave and then I get this
text from her. You know you sob you terrible person.
You didn't tell me you were married. I cannot believe you.
You know, I've been having an affair this whole time.
(16:26):
I knew you, I knew that it was whatever. I go,
what are you talking about? Well, I've had the same
bank account since I was eight years old. My mom
is a co signer, or was a co signer, and
we have the same last name because I have her
maiden name is my legal last name. So she saw
my mom's name on my bank account and thought that
was my wife and lost your mind. I go, one,
(16:47):
why you snoop it through my profile? And two, this
is why we don't make assumptions.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
It's my mom. My wife has a different last name.
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twenty six at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace. Text Palace
to three seven three three seven right now for a
chance to win two tickets to the March thirteenth show
a two nut hotels day March twelfth through the fourteenth
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Speaker 1 (00:40):
Okay, so this.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Woman is on TikTok and she is sharing with everyone
the current state of dating in New York City. This
is apparently where people are at this women, I guess
specifically trying to find a date.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Now.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I just want to say, and I'm gonna be that
guy and I don't like to argue this way or
I don't like to, you know, position this way. But
if a guy did this, he's a total creep. M okay,
But apparently if a girl does this, then we're good.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Dating scene is getting so bad in New York City
that I am seeing on TikTok there are girls going
into Midtown during.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
The week and stealing finance bros.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Salads for lunch and then looking their name up from
the salad order on LinkedIn and then messaging them through
there and being like, hey, my god, so sorry grabs
your solid Like, let me just make it up to
you and buy a new one. And that's how they're
like sliding it, which honestly smart. Why are we stealing
men's salads?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Like that's you have?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
But we have no idea who this man is. I mean,
I guess you run, he's a finance I suppose it's
an end but I mean, you know, okay, but if
I grab you know, Jake chad Z's, you know, lunch,
and then I got to go home, And first of all,
what it's a bad lunch. What if you're the guy
who he likes raisins and grapes in his salad and
nuts in his salad. He likes one of those kind
(02:02):
of Waldorf. You ever had a what was it called
a Waldorf? It's like it's like Mayo. No, it's yogurt, raisins,
nuts and marshmallows. You ever had one of those?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
It's so good to me.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
There's marshmallows in it's a sound that has a yogurt
and marshallows.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I don't know, is it a Waldorf?
Speaker 4 (02:19):
I mean like ambrosia?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Yeah, maybe, I don't know. One if the guy has
bad tastes of salad and he's an idiot and he's
not cute, and he's that cute. Now you got this
bad salad, you stole it. You ruined somebody else's day
because their lunch isn't there.
Speaker 5 (02:32):
Oh you're right Waldorf? Sorry, okay, sure, thank I didn't
never had that. And then I mean, come on, like,
I don't I don't know. I don't think this is
a great strategy. I mean, what are the odds that
you're gonna get a good looking guy's salad who's single
and receptive, right, and it's a good sound.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
It sounds like, yeah, well that that would be hard.
It sounds like they just want someone who makes a
lot of money. That's how desperate. We're getting in New York.
It's very thirsty.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, I don't. I don't know how I would respond
to this. I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Exactly respond well maybe, but then if I found out, Okay,
so if it were like an accident, because you know me,
I'm into the happenstance, you know, yeah, I'm into like
the Hallmark movie sort of thing. So I still believe
I'm going to meet someone at an airport.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
I really do. And you guys don't agree with me.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
But the airport's not only a horny place, but it's
the kind of place where you meet someone who's I
don't know, that's that's where, that's where love stories begin
in the airport. I believe this every time I go
to the airport a get on a flight. I look
around and I survey my surroundings and I see what
might be available to me, you know, and what could
be There was a very very hot girl that was
(03:42):
one like I was on the aisle and she was
on the other aisle on the flight back from South Paulo, Brazil.
I don't know what her story was. I never really
got it. I think language may have been a barrier
there too, but she was good looking. You never know,
it could have been that could have been missus Fred.
Yeah you know, I could have been said and Abu
I got to her all the time, yeah you know,
(04:03):
and and chow chow.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
All the time. But anyway, what are the odds though that? Okay?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
So I would get the LinkedIn message, I would be like,
this is so cute, Oh my god, she's good looking.
She got my salad first of all. I would never
it would have been like a gigantic sandwich of some
like four meals.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Breakfast, I got your team's lunch. It would have been
like that was all for me.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
But anyway, and then and then I would have I
would have been been, this is so cute, and then
we maybe would have gone out, and then I would
have gone on TikTok and found out this is just something.
It's his strategy. It wasn't cute, it wasn't happenstance, it
wasn't meant to be. You wouldn't care how many time.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Did you do this?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
And you know, to come upon me, and then I
would I would find it less sincere and I would
be upset about it, right because it's it's just simply
a game.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
Yeah, they're gonna start locking up the salads now, like
at Walgreens, like the soap.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yes, it's yes, I have my salad. Some man has
to come around unlock it and hand it to me.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
It's crazy running for everybody.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Yeah, I don't, I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
But if a guy, if a guy did this and
it wasn't an accident, we would get killed. It would
be gross. I'm sorry, it's true, it would be. It
would be it would be thirsty, it would be gross,
it would be intrusive, it would it would be violating,
and maybe because maybe men have just made that reputation
(05:22):
for ourselves by being those things. And I'm you know,
taking not personally taking credit, but yeah, I think a
lot of nice things have been ruined for the guys
who are well intentioned.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
That's a good point.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
But yeah, I don't think this.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Would go over very well if if if dudes were
doing this consistently, I think women would be like, first
of all, worre's my salad?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
That's what I would mean about it.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yes, like that was a good salad I ordered and
it was like twenty four dollars.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Yes, just out like we're very specific keiking eye. But
what we want in there, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
I understand that. I understand it. One a week and there,
and they're eighty four dollars.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
On Tuesday is a salad day and I take that
very serious.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
That's what I mean because you had to save up
hope right right in order to get it. But that's
I guess that's where we're at. Have you guys ever
done anything well? Jason's been dating the same person for
eighty seven years and he moved in correct, as we
learned yesterday in the in the Tangent or off their
Uncentered podcast, he is a U haul lesbian I am
because he went on one date and then lived.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
There already had it packed.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
But if you guys are being as well, and I've
probably I've definitely done things that would be defined now
as cringe but used to be considered cute or romantic.
And again I'm not blaming women for this, but I'm
saying I think guys have screwed up what could be
a sincere gesture from a man, because because now the
(06:42):
perception is if a stranger talks to you that that's creepy,
which is a shame or threatening or something. But will
any of you women admit, any of you ladies admit
that you've done something somewhat sort of stalker ish or
creepy or like set yourself up to meet the guy
you wanted to meet.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Hm, I man, I'm wondering maybe and if anyone wants
to admit to.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
This eight five, five, five, nine one one oh three
five have you ever like gone to the same place
I saw a guy at a place and then you
went there every day for a week or to see
if he shows up, or I don't know, somehow positioned
yourself in a way that he had to bump into
you so you had to talk to him or anything.
Have you ever done something like this to put yourself
in a position?
Speaker 7 (07:23):
I mean yeah, like I like there was a DJ
thought that was cute, like back in the day, like
back in my do.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
You have a money mouse tattoo?
Speaker 4 (07:29):
He did not have that tattoo.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
A different confused them.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yes, and we did an I Da'm actually about that
yesterday with.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
The Mighty mouth side one of our listeners hang out
with it.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Oh okay, it was really fun him no, no, not
him himself, but he doesn't have the internet in jail,
but anyway, he's sick.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
But like with the DJ, I thought he was cute,
so I would like go to the spots that I
knew he was DJing at, and like nothing happened, but
I was like, hey, like you're kind of a cool DJ,
Like I don't know, I like your style, and.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
That kind of just went from there.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I figured out someone's schedule at a bar and I've gone,
I haven't done this in a while, but I would
make sure that I just happened to stop in when
that person was there. It worked, Yeah, it definitely worked.
You never done something like this though, You've never I'm
trying to think of another example of where you just
make sure that somehow done something or maybe you had
(08:17):
to take some sort of creepy method. We'll be defined
as creepy today, but it worked well.
Speaker 6 (08:24):
I've done things like this to Taylor Swift, Like I
befriended someone she went to high school with, just because
they went to high school.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Together and you were hoping that you two would become friends.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Well, you know, I'm still in the process.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
So you're befriending her, right, Okay, do you talk regularly?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah, we became online friends. She doesn't know why I'm
being her friend.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Well she does, now, Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:43):
I'd like had my makeup done and then on purpose,
like made sure I run into a guy, you know,
because you know, when you get a beat done, you
can't waste it. But that's like the creepiest thing I
can probably think of. But let me think, because maybe
I'll be creepier if I remember.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I'm trying to think.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I've probably looked people up on social media and make sure,
like I've definitely I've probably friend I've probably found people
on social media and then just shot my shot by
requesting them. And I didn't necessarily have like a reason
to know to do, you know, like I didn't. I didn't.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I wasn't invited to do that.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
So but my thing is either you're going to accept it,
and then that might mean that you want some form
of interaction or you're not. But you have the choice,
like you know what I mean, Like you have the
option to not friend me or not respond.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
I'll shoot my shot one time. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Uh now, sometimes it winds up on message boards, but
I don't care. I'll shoot my Well, that's another kind
of crappy thing is, you know, you shoot your shot
and and then you just if you don't want to
someone to. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Right, I've
gotten responses, I've gotten I've gotten non responses, but like
I shot, you know what I mean? Because because when
I was much younger, I would not talk to people
because I was afraid of getting rejected. And I think
(09:53):
now it's like, oh yeah, and then people will later
brag like so so and so, yeah he slipped my DMS.
I didn't respond. It's like that's not cool, like love
to do that.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
It's like, wait a minute.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
If I'm not good enough to go out with you,
why am I good enough for you to brag that
you shot me down?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Right? You know what I'm saying, Like why why would
that be?
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Because, by the way, for every couple that don't work,
sometimes it works.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
So you know she did.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
But is that creepy? Because I feel like you have
the option. But some would argue you found me on
the internet, that's.
Speaker 6 (10:21):
What it's for. I don't that that's not creepy. Shoot
on the internet all the live long day.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
But I will say this, and guys, I'm talking to
no one who listens to this show would be this way,
because everyone has taste, fine, fine discerning taste. Yes, but
if you shoot your shot, if you find if you
see a cute person and you're resourceful and you find
them and you request them, that's it. If you DM
them one time, something very kind, not a picture of
(10:46):
your genitalia, like, just be nice and respectful one time.
If you do not get a response, we are done.
We are done. We don't continue to write over and
over and then what we definitely don't do. This one's
a class. I've seen this one on the interweb so
many times. Is once we we've written to several times
and really really like released all all forms of dignity,
(11:10):
then we start dissing the person. Yeah for not like,
oh you want it that hot anyway? I see this
with you guys all the time. They'll DM you guys. Hey,
you know Kaitlin, They'll shoot their shot. Then you don't respond.
I see it on the text all the time. Oh
sweet Kalin, how I would love to do this? And
they and then you don't respond because you have a
boyfriend whatever. And then and then like three texts after
(11:32):
they're like you're so hot, you're so smart, you're so good.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
You know what, You're an ugly bee and I hate you.
Speaker 6 (11:37):
Yeah, I got the other day for not answering like
fifteen messages.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
I'm like, I just saw these you a whole.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
He's like, oh, you're right right, so like let's be respectful,
you know. But it's funny how quickly you go from
being the woman of their dreams to a witch of
a human being, an awful heathen is terrible person, Gabby,
what did you know?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
It's true?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Though, don't So if we lead with those week Kaitlin,
you know, and then we shoot our shot, that's very nice.
Good for you, and now maybe you'll get a response
and maybe you won't, but we are done.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
I shot people downkind I don't want people to stop
shooting their shot.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
So I try really hard to like all good, like
you know what I mean, I'm really flattered.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
And the same is true with women to men, like
shoot your shot, be empowered, ask for what you want. Really,
but if you don't get a response, or if the
response isn't what you want, then.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Then then we're done and you did it and we're good.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
But then when it starts to get into this debate
or when it's like no, but really change your mind
and stuff. It's like, oh, boyd now hold on, like,
don't do that to yourself.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
If someone doesn't think that you're there for you or whatever,
you're for them or whatever, then that's their loss and
we move right on and we shoot our shots to
the next person. Hey, Gabby, Gabby, did you what did
you do? You look somebody up? What is this sort
of creepy method that you used?
Speaker 8 (12:59):
Now that I think got it? This creepy. But a
couple of years ago, I used to work for a
bank and I had a really good conversation with a guy,
like he was just there for like a good fifteen minutes,
and when he left, I was like, man, like, that
was such a good conversation. I should have just giggled
my number. And then I didn't, so I still had
(13:20):
his profile up and I'm like, boy, I'm gonna shoot
my shot and I did, and it was so weird
because I was like, why did I do that? He
ended up texting me back and he goes, well, this
is like my dad's phone number or something, and my
dad told me and I was like so embarrassed. But
actually it worked because we ended up going to a
(13:43):
couple of dates after that. But now that I look back,
I'm like, yeah, that was really weird for me to do.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Technically, you could have gotten fired for that, right, because
you were using someone's personal information for your personal game. True.
Speaker 8 (13:57):
Yes, I guess there was like kind of like a line.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Of boundary, but it works, so no harm, no foul, right.
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Yeah, I mean he could have like, I mean, he
could have been like he could have been married or
something with kids and like at the end of the day,
like it could have been his wife who came to
the bank and been like, who is this?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Yeah, you're right, it could have been bad.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
But I suppose you could have disguised it as oh, no,
I was it's my job. I was checking up on
his experience or something like, you know, I was making
sure or hey he forgot something. You could have made
something up that was like official business.
Speaker 8 (14:25):
Yes, yes, I mean, okay, it ended up well, but yeah,
definitely very odd.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Tell you well, fair enough, thank you, Gabby, and you're welcome,
have a good day.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
What someone do.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Memorizing people's schedules to make sure that at work when
you stop in is the creepy way.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I don't know. I say, is that is it?
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I mean, I suppose by definition, but like, am I
being that? The part that the part that people seem
to miss is am I being creepy? Like am I
actually being great?
Speaker 1 (14:56):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (14:57):
That is kind of creepy, I suppose, But am I
being creepy? Am I going every time? Or is it
just like, hey, I know she's here on Thursdays, I'm
stopping in.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Yeah, every time would be a little much, but like.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
I'm there if she works two to seven and I'm
there at one fifty nine every.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Day staring at right right.
Speaker 6 (15:15):
My friend, one of my guy friends, met a girl
at a wedding and it was an out of town
wedding and her parents were also there, and he remembered
when she just said her room number, and.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
Which is very creepy.
Speaker 6 (15:28):
He was very drunk and knocked on the door and
she was saying her parents' room number.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Her daddy answered no, no shirt on and chased him
down the hallway because he was like looking for her
in there. You can't do that. You can't listen to
somebody's room number and knock on the door.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
This was a lot of years ago in our different town,
but it is I was messing around with the girl,
and it was kind of more like a situation ship
before they called it that way back in the day.
And she was a bank teller, and I never went
to the bank where I didn't even know. I knew,
I knew which bank, I know she worked, I didn't
know which location. So this kind of goes on for
a while, and then it stops and I'm through drive
(16:06):
through bank and I drive through the bank and there
she is. She's the teller, and I was like making
a deposit or something. I'm like, oh, hey, whatever, your
name is whatever, and then we do the deal, and
she kind of looks at me, and we do the
deal and then I leave and then I get this
text from her. You know you sob you terrible person.
You didn't tell me you were married. I cannot believe you.
You know, I've been having an affair this whole time.
(16:26):
I knew you, I knew that it was whatever. I go,
what are you talking about? Well, I've had the same
bank account since I was eight years old. My mom
is a co signer, or was a co signer, and
we have the same last name because I have her
maiden name is my legal last name. So she saw
my mom's name on my bank account and thought that
was my wife and lost your mind. I go, one,
(16:47):
why you snoop it through my profile? And two, this
is why we don't make assumptions.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
It's my mom. My wife has a different last name.
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