May 2, 2025 • 15 mins
Fred asks the crew and the loyal 13 if they have ever caught someone cheating?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Have you, guys, ever caught a cheater? Have you ever
had to catch a cheater? Yes, yes, you've been cheating
on him.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yes, I know.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
I couldn't believe it either. I couldn't believe that man
fumbled like that either. I mean unbelievable. What must how
much you feel now?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I don't for him all this fame.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
You just maybe this is why you seem to wear
the pants in the relationship. But you're in now because
you just don't allow You're not going to allow yourself
to be put in that position together or something.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
For the last one seven or eight years, I figured
you got this man on lock, and so I guess
I just figured there was never a time where a
dude got to like go for far enough away to
be pulled a cheat on you.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I'm never at home. I'm the perfect person to cheat.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
I don't mean literally, I just mean like out of
your purview. But now you're distracted by TikTok all the time,
so anything anything of it. If I wanted to cheat
on you, I would just I'd be like, hey, look, baby,
I got you a bigger iPad with TikTok on it.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
In the meantime, I'm just.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Pumping jamb Beyonce, Shakira, kiki've all been cheated on and
Kalin but everybody.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
But never Paulina. Never, Paulina, You've never been cheated on.
Not that I know of, is what I say. I
don't know what.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Like your philosopher, you know, what I always say, is
not that I know of from open you know. I mean,
I'm fairly certain I've been. I mean, that's not true.
I guess it would depend on definition. But yeah, I've
been cheated on, for sure, But no, never in a
way that someone's like, yeah, I was cheating on you.
It's always like no, no, no, this is what's going on,
and there's something totally different is going on. But it's
(01:34):
never like I can't say I've been in a committed,
dedicated relationship.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
First of all, that's a sense by itself.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I can't say committed, committed, dedicated relationship period. But then
also I don't think I've been in one that where
somebody could actually betray me like that, if that makes sense.
People betray me, but not necessarily because we know everything
was hunky dory and you know we're this exclusive relationship
that I find out with it or not. I bring
(02:02):
this up because this morning, guys and people are gonna
hate me for this. They're gonna hate me for announcing this,
I guess, but I don't care if the cheaters are
mad at me about this, and let cheaters be mam.
Your supermarket loyalty card is the latest way to reveal
if you're cheating or not. A London Private London Private
investigator says that apps like club Card or similar grocery
(02:24):
reward programs wherever you are can actually help catch cheaters.
The app logs wear and win purchases are made.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Yes, it does.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
So.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
If your partner says, while I'm working late, then the
app shows that they bought snacks across town at a
grocery store or whatever, then that would be a red flag.
It says you were at work. Why are you in
a different part of town at a you know whatever store.
I'm not gonna pick on it. Whatever store tracks this
kind of stuff. Yeah. Tech experts also stay to watch
out for other red flags, hidden notifications, wiped search history,
(02:53):
and strange location check ins. Even if your grocery list
could be giving up the secrets, all that stuff could
be too.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
So valid, so valid.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
So I share the loyalty app for one of the
stores that my husband and I shop at, and I
wanted to buy strawberries because.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
They were on sale like ninety nine cents.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I'm like, not for your boyfriend who dip in chocolate,
right and then he'd eat off your body.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
That's that's what they were.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Yeah, you know me.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
I always doing the whip cream chew, but that was
an on sale today.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I see. So I'm like, okay, well, ninety nine cents.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
These are five dollars, like absolutely, so I'm all excited
at the checkout and it's not showing up as a
dollar and I was like, ma'am likes mismanager. Ma'am like,
this is not working. And she came up to me
and she goes, have you bought these already? And I'm like, no,
I didn't buy these. She looked at my history and
guess who bought the strawberries for ninety nine cents across town?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Xavier, Javier and Wo And for whom who was he
dining with to have said strawberries?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Dining with the fire department.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I don't know, Yeah, a bunch of firefighters. I want
to see this firehouse, a bunch of firefighters sitting around
eating strawberries.
Speaker 5 (03:54):
They gotta safe. Who's a visual I know, Well, like
they switch off so sometimes they'll go like stock up
or whatever whoever's on the ship, so like they switch
off every time or whatever. And he was the one
on that day who was going. So he took my
strawberries for a dollar.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I learned yesterday they got a whole gym in those firehouses.
Well obviously a kitchen, but I didn't know you could
like work out and cook and hang while you were
waiting for fires.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
Oh yeah, oh back in the day day this is
like years ago. Lived there for three years. Well yeah,
three days out of the week, not straight at least.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Well, I mean for people people live in the firehouse,
so they have to provide. He was a guy who
was like designated as a chef and the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, everybody's Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
I talked to a fire Friday yesterday. He's like, it's
a frat house without drinking, dude, we break each other.
I just didn't know that they had gym. I could
work out while I'm getting paid. I should have been
a firefighter and back in the day, like they would drink.
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Like wait, just like way back in the day or
like bring your kids or whatever, like and go fight
a fire.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
The one in the river north over here has a
full basketball indoor basketball court.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Yeah nice, and.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
They're always in lawn chairs as I walked by and oh,
yeah boys.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
One in Yeah. No, I went in there one day.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
My friend, my friend Chris is a firefighter there and
I went there for I've been there a couple of
times and he was a check this out and it's
like if you're looking at the building to the right,
you go kind of around the corner. It's like this
half court indoor basketball court. Because they're there all day
so and then it may I get you know, who
knows what not gonna get called. So there's a gym,
there's a basketball court in there. I'm sure they have
like TVs and video games. They get to occupy themselves
(05:19):
until someone is their lives save.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I almost was convinced to become a firefighter at this
career day, Like I it sounds great.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I mean they're risking their lives. No, of course, of course, Oh,
I think it's a great job.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
Like obviously, like there's a risk and yeah, you know,
better be ready for that.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
The cop was like, don't be a cop, like be
a firefighter.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I was like, okay, wow, with.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
The career change, she's going to be the volunteer fire
chief for her village and listen.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, I don't know. I just was really overthinking everything.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Yeah, those benefits, oh girl something, Yeah, they deserve it,
they do course, but you know, back to cheating.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I'm sorry, no, no, don't be I'm just trying to
think if I've ever caught anyone, I know that, Like,
I've been in some loose situations where I was told
that the previous person was no longer involved and that
turned out to like, for example, I have a history
of this. I dated one girl and she interviewed for
a job in another city, and I, again, we weren't
(06:15):
like in a we were messing around consistently. But the
most important part of the story is the only reason
we were doing that is because I was told that
the ex fiancee was no longer in the picture. And
so I sent Champagne to her room to celebrate her
job interview in this city, and he was there. So
the Champagne shows up at the door. I heard the
story later because she told it to someone else who
(06:36):
then told it to me. The champagne shows up at
the door and it's delivered and he accepts it, and
I guess I had there was a card, right have
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I didn't get all the details, but.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Like, that's happened more than once where I've done something
like that, only for the person who's not supposed to
be there to be there to see it. I mean, well,
where'd that come from? Always see the card? Who sent
you champagne to your room? She didn't get the job,
by the way.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Or the dang.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I walked in on cheating, and it's really content. It's
one of the worst pains that I've ever Like, no, you.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Were just like I have no idea, and then what happened?
Oh my gosh, can you relive it briefly or traumatic?
Speaker 3 (07:13):
It was really bad.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I walked in and this girl was in a thong
with her butt up in the air on top of
my man.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
It was, yeah, just making sure he didn't have any
like canter or something, That's what it was.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
I actually blacked out, like I don't even in that moment,
I was so like, oh my, it was this in college.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
So this was actually a year ago. Yeah this is no, yeah,
yeah it was.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
And yeah there it was a party and everyone was
there and so everybody saw me goobalistic and but it
just still I've never been.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
No, I haven't been cheated on. But I mean to
your to your point, and this is not the same.
But I have had, like in college, I have had
the nightmare of the girl that I liked, you like,
walk out of your fraternity bedroom or whatever, you know,
for Saturday morning you go to brunch or breakfast or whatever,
and the girl that I like, the girl that I
wanted to hook up with, is walking out of my
(08:11):
fraternity brothers and it's.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Like, oh, man, dune.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
First of all, I announced, I made the announce on
the bulletin board downstairs. I was targeting this young lady.
Second of all, but it's like heartbreaking. It's like, oh,
you chill somebody else. But no, that's nothing like being
in love with someone. And oh my god, I can't
imagine other ways that people get caught cheating. The one
(08:36):
that's uh, tails so old at time and if you've
got a good one eight five five five nine one
one o three five Not that I want to bring
back trauma, but if you've got a good way that
you cut someone cheating. The tale's the oldest time, and
I think people are getting smart to this is the
Apple idea. But for a long time people were idiots
because they'd have the same like their iPad that was
unlocked or that they gave the password to. They're like,
(08:56):
oh see, I'm gonna outsmart the system. You can have
my iPad password or my MacBook password, but you don't.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
You don't.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I'm not giving you my phone password. That's where all
this stuff is.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
No, it's not. It's on all of them.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
So like I know so many people who have been
on their iPad, married couple. They use one person's ID,
and they're just going through, you know, doing whatever, and
they're not.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Even trying to snoop.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
And then they see a little green message box down there,
because all your text if you set it up that way,
go right to that. And then people click on it
and they're like wait a minute, and then they read
a whole dialogue and that's its tales.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
The oldest time, so old.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
If you're going to be a cheater, different Apple IDs
or whatever, whatever, you use. The email trash folder is
a way that people go through stuff like do you
think that you deleted the evidence? But a lot of
people don't go as far as to like that's it's
sophisticated cheating.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Cheating, cheating over email.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
I always like to email ahead of time. I hope
this email finds you. Well, this evening, I plan to
cheat with you. And here's a calendar invite relationship. Let's
do all this shooting.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Seven o'clock alert fifteen minutes. You know.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I guess people think that like they're being Okay, well,
I erased the email and then I can't remember the last
time at work I do it, but because for so long,
you can only have so much storage. But like other emails,
I don't go in and delete the trash. Yeah, but
I'm also not doing anything I shouldn't do rouser history.
I guess, at how would you use this automatic logan
(10:30):
and passwords storage?
Speaker 3 (10:31):
How would you do?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Someone with physical access to your computer could use software
to discover passwords to various services and then log into
your accounts. Okay, I guess I don't know what I mean.
They could see if you were sending flowers or something.
They can see you know, where you were spending your money.
I suppose like so if I had your like if
I had your laptop password, then I could if I
got into that, then a lot of times I could
(10:53):
then log into anything else.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Because everything saved. Right, Yeah, okay, I get that.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Key loggers and stalking apps like you can put stuff,
I know on computers where it will just track everything,
everything that's been put in the keyboard and like print
it out for you or give it to you in
like a document, so you could see just the raw data,
like what you know what I mean, like what people
have been typing.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
I mean, I don't know if it's on there, but
you're deleted text folder. A lot of people don't even
know that that's a folder yet. Oh, better take a
look at that, right, Yeah, you want to clear that
out first.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, I knew about that. Yeah, let me see here.
GPS trackers. Of course, sexting apps give users a false
sense of security, like Snapchat.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I guess that's the same. I guess that's a sectioning app.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
According to these people, they allow you to send photos, captions,
and videos that self delete after a set amount of
time use after a few seconds.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Signal, Oh god, signal. We all know about that.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
In the government, say similar service, but for text messages
rather than images. I guess there's no guarantee that images
will be deleted, says the company's privacy policy. Oh that's
not it's encouraging.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Hey, Laura, Okay, Laura, how did you catch your eggs cheating?
What happened?
Speaker 6 (12:04):
Okay? So back in the day when flip phones were
a thing and you were able to call your voicemail
from another.
Speaker 7 (12:12):
Like your host phone. So one night I let my
ex use my phone because he.
Speaker 6 (12:16):
Didn't have one, and he said he needed to use it,
so I letn't use it. And that morning, when I
woke up, I called my phone to see if I
had any miss palls.
Speaker 7 (12:26):
There was a voicemail on there from the other woman's boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (12:31):
Saying you can go ahead and keep the bee. I
don't want her back. And when I ended up going
to the house, she was.
Speaker 7 (12:39):
There in bed with him.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
I'm so sorry. That's terrible.
Speaker 8 (12:44):
Sorry.
Speaker 9 (12:44):
Yeah, so thank the cell phones, they've been great.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
You threw it, s it somewhere? Yeah, what'd you do?
What was your reaction?
Speaker 9 (12:57):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (12:57):
I went there and I started taking all of my
stuff out of the house, and I packed up my vehicle.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
And never went back there you go, he was.
Speaker 9 (13:05):
She was so scared she would not come out from
underneath the blanket, and my ex at the time kept
pushing me out of the room while I was trying
to get my stuff because he didn't want me in
there seeing what was going on.
Speaker 6 (13:18):
My sister and her boyfriend were in the house and
they ran to the other.
Speaker 7 (13:22):
Side of the house with the kids. They had young
kids at the time. They took off the one to
the other side because they he let me in the
door when he wasn't supposed to.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Man, Laura, I'm sorry that happened, but thank you for calling.
Have a good weekend.
Speaker 7 (13:35):
Thank you you guys too. Love you guys.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
I love you too. Kenny G, Hi, Kenny G. It's
an honor man for my money. When you sing why
can't we be lovers? If we can't be friends, I mean,
for me on a Friday night, there's nothing better. But
how did you catch you? Your cousin's boyfriend.
Speaker 8 (13:55):
Yeah, so it's my cousin's boyfriend at the time, they're
not together.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
But I was actually this girl I went to college.
Speaker 8 (14:03):
With was like, yeah, I'm dating this guy, and she
tells me about him, and I'm like, wait a minute.
And then I see who it is and I'm like, oh,
that's my cousin's boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
So I'm like, we need to set this up. So
set it up. She was supposed to meet over to
his house, like and uh, well, he was supposed to
go to her house. I stayed a block away, saw
his car pull up. I pulled up behind him like
cheater style.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Oh yeah, and then had.
Speaker 8 (14:28):
Him come out of the house and I'm like, all right, dude,
we got to have a conversation.
Speaker 9 (14:32):
Man.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
This guy's Joey del Greco over here from Cheaters Man
on this day of the investigation.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:40):
And then the funny part is this now I'm married
to his sister.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Wow. Wow. Y'all keep in the family, don't you.
Speaker 6 (14:49):
Da.
Speaker 8 (14:50):
It's a little weird, but okay, see your Kentucky weird.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Clarifying Kenny g all right, well, keep making great music. Okay, bye,
have a nice day. I love this. This is from
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Have you, guys, ever caught a cheater? Have you ever
had to catch a cheater? Yes, yes, you've been cheating
on him.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yes, I know.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
I couldn't believe it either. I couldn't believe that man
fumbled like that either. I mean unbelievable. What must how
much you feel now?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I don't for him all this fame.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
You just maybe this is why you seem to wear
the pants in the relationship. But you're in now because
you just don't allow You're not going to allow yourself
to be put in that position together or something.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
For the last one seven or eight years, I figured
you got this man on lock, and so I guess
I just figured there was never a time where a
dude got to like go for far enough away to
be pulled a cheat on you.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I'm never at home. I'm the perfect person to cheat.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
I don't mean literally, I just mean like out of
your purview. But now you're distracted by TikTok all the time,
so anything anything of it. If I wanted to cheat
on you, I would just I'd be like, hey, look, baby,
I got you a bigger iPad with TikTok on it.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
In the meantime, I'm just.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Pumping jamb Beyonce, Shakira, kiki've all been cheated on and
Kalin but everybody.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
But never Paulina. Never, Paulina, You've never been cheated on.
Not that I know of, is what I say. I
don't know what.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Like your philosopher, you know, what I always say, is
not that I know of from open you know. I mean,
I'm fairly certain I've been. I mean, that's not true.
I guess it would depend on definition. But yeah, I've
been cheated on, for sure, But no, never in a
way that someone's like, yeah, I was cheating on you.
It's always like no, no, no, this is what's going on,
and there's something totally different is going on. But it's
(01:34):
never like I can't say I've been in a committed,
dedicated relationship.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
First of all, that's a sense by itself.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I can't say committed, committed, dedicated relationship period. But then
also I don't think I've been in one that where
somebody could actually betray me like that, if that makes sense.
People betray me, but not necessarily because we know everything
was hunky dory and you know we're this exclusive relationship
that I find out with it or not. I bring
(02:02):
this up because this morning, guys and people are gonna
hate me for this. They're gonna hate me for announcing this,
I guess, but I don't care if the cheaters are
mad at me about this, and let cheaters be mam.
Your supermarket loyalty card is the latest way to reveal
if you're cheating or not. A London Private London Private
investigator says that apps like club Card or similar grocery
(02:24):
reward programs wherever you are can actually help catch cheaters.
The app logs wear and win purchases are made.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Yes, it does.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
So.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
If your partner says, while I'm working late, then the
app shows that they bought snacks across town at a
grocery store or whatever, then that would be a red flag.
It says you were at work. Why are you in
a different part of town at a you know whatever store.
I'm not gonna pick on it. Whatever store tracks this
kind of stuff. Yeah. Tech experts also stay to watch
out for other red flags, hidden notifications, wiped search history,
(02:53):
and strange location check ins. Even if your grocery list
could be giving up the secrets, all that stuff could
be too.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
So valid, so valid.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
So I share the loyalty app for one of the
stores that my husband and I shop at, and I
wanted to buy strawberries because.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
They were on sale like ninety nine cents.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I'm like, not for your boyfriend who dip in chocolate,
right and then he'd eat off your body.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
That's that's what they were.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Yeah, you know me.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
I always doing the whip cream chew, but that was
an on sale today.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I see. So I'm like, okay, well, ninety nine cents.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
These are five dollars, like absolutely, so I'm all excited
at the checkout and it's not showing up as a
dollar and I was like, ma'am likes mismanager. Ma'am like,
this is not working. And she came up to me
and she goes, have you bought these already? And I'm like, no,
I didn't buy these. She looked at my history and
guess who bought the strawberries for ninety nine cents across town?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Xavier, Javier and Wo And for whom who was he
dining with to have said strawberries?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Dining with the fire department.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I don't know, Yeah, a bunch of firefighters. I want
to see this firehouse, a bunch of firefighters sitting around
eating strawberries.
Speaker 5 (03:54):
They gotta safe. Who's a visual I know, Well, like
they switch off so sometimes they'll go like stock up
or whatever whoever's on the ship, so like they switch
off every time or whatever. And he was the one
on that day who was going. So he took my
strawberries for a dollar.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I learned yesterday they got a whole gym in those firehouses.
Well obviously a kitchen, but I didn't know you could
like work out and cook and hang while you were
waiting for fires.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
Oh yeah, oh back in the day day this is
like years ago. Lived there for three years. Well yeah,
three days out of the week, not straight at least.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Well, I mean for people people live in the firehouse,
so they have to provide. He was a guy who
was like designated as a chef and the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, everybody's Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
I talked to a fire Friday yesterday. He's like, it's
a frat house without drinking, dude, we break each other.
I just didn't know that they had gym. I could
work out while I'm getting paid. I should have been
a firefighter and back in the day, like they would drink.
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Like wait, just like way back in the day or
like bring your kids or whatever, like and go fight
a fire.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
The one in the river north over here has a
full basketball indoor basketball court.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Yeah nice, and.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
They're always in lawn chairs as I walked by and oh,
yeah boys.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
One in Yeah. No, I went in there one day.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
My friend, my friend Chris is a firefighter there and
I went there for I've been there a couple of
times and he was a check this out and it's
like if you're looking at the building to the right,
you go kind of around the corner. It's like this
half court indoor basketball court. Because they're there all day
so and then it may I get you know, who
knows what not gonna get called. So there's a gym,
there's a basketball court in there. I'm sure they have
like TVs and video games. They get to occupy themselves
(05:19):
until someone is their lives save.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I almost was convinced to become a firefighter at this
career day, Like I it sounds great.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I mean they're risking their lives. No, of course, of course, Oh,
I think it's a great job.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
Like obviously, like there's a risk and yeah, you know,
better be ready for that.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
The cop was like, don't be a cop, like be
a firefighter.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I was like, okay, wow, with.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
The career change, she's going to be the volunteer fire
chief for her village and listen.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, I don't know. I just was really overthinking everything.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Yeah, those benefits, oh girl something, Yeah, they deserve it,
they do course, but you know, back to cheating.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I'm sorry, no, no, don't be I'm just trying to
think if I've ever caught anyone, I know that, Like,
I've been in some loose situations where I was told
that the previous person was no longer involved and that
turned out to like, for example, I have a history
of this. I dated one girl and she interviewed for
a job in another city, and I, again, we weren't
(06:15):
like in a we were messing around consistently. But the
most important part of the story is the only reason
we were doing that is because I was told that
the ex fiancee was no longer in the picture. And
so I sent Champagne to her room to celebrate her
job interview in this city, and he was there. So
the Champagne shows up at the door. I heard the
story later because she told it to someone else who
(06:36):
then told it to me. The champagne shows up at
the door and it's delivered and he accepts it, and
I guess I had there was a card, right have
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I didn't get all the details, but.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Like, that's happened more than once where I've done something
like that, only for the person who's not supposed to
be there to be there to see it. I mean, well,
where'd that come from? Always see the card? Who sent
you champagne to your room? She didn't get the job,
by the way.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Or the dang.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I walked in on cheating, and it's really content. It's
one of the worst pains that I've ever Like, no, you.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Were just like I have no idea, and then what happened?
Oh my gosh, can you relive it briefly or traumatic?
Speaker 3 (07:13):
It was really bad.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I walked in and this girl was in a thong
with her butt up in the air on top of
my man.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
It was, yeah, just making sure he didn't have any
like canter or something, That's what it was.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
I actually blacked out, like I don't even in that moment,
I was so like, oh my, it was this in college.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
So this was actually a year ago. Yeah this is no, yeah,
yeah it was.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
And yeah there it was a party and everyone was
there and so everybody saw me goobalistic and but it
just still I've never been.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
No, I haven't been cheated on. But I mean to
your to your point, and this is not the same.
But I have had, like in college, I have had
the nightmare of the girl that I liked, you like,
walk out of your fraternity bedroom or whatever, you know,
for Saturday morning you go to brunch or breakfast or whatever,
and the girl that I like, the girl that I
wanted to hook up with, is walking out of my
(08:11):
fraternity brothers and it's.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Like, oh, man, dune.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
First of all, I announced, I made the announce on
the bulletin board downstairs. I was targeting this young lady.
Second of all, but it's like heartbreaking. It's like, oh,
you chill somebody else. But no, that's nothing like being
in love with someone. And oh my god, I can't
imagine other ways that people get caught cheating. The one
(08:36):
that's uh, tails so old at time and if you've
got a good one eight five five five nine one
one o three five Not that I want to bring
back trauma, but if you've got a good way that
you cut someone cheating. The tale's the oldest time, and
I think people are getting smart to this is the
Apple idea. But for a long time people were idiots
because they'd have the same like their iPad that was
unlocked or that they gave the password to. They're like,
(08:56):
oh see, I'm gonna outsmart the system. You can have
my iPad password or my MacBook password, but you don't.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
You don't.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I'm not giving you my phone password. That's where all
this stuff is.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
No, it's not. It's on all of them.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
So like I know so many people who have been
on their iPad, married couple. They use one person's ID,
and they're just going through, you know, doing whatever, and
they're not.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Even trying to snoop.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
And then they see a little green message box down there,
because all your text if you set it up that way,
go right to that. And then people click on it
and they're like wait a minute, and then they read
a whole dialogue and that's its tales.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
The oldest time, so old.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
If you're going to be a cheater, different Apple IDs
or whatever, whatever, you use. The email trash folder is
a way that people go through stuff like do you
think that you deleted the evidence? But a lot of
people don't go as far as to like that's it's
sophisticated cheating.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Cheating, cheating over email.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
I always like to email ahead of time. I hope
this email finds you. Well, this evening, I plan to
cheat with you. And here's a calendar invite relationship. Let's
do all this shooting.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Seven o'clock alert fifteen minutes. You know.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I guess people think that like they're being Okay, well,
I erased the email and then I can't remember the last
time at work I do it, but because for so long,
you can only have so much storage. But like other emails,
I don't go in and delete the trash. Yeah, but
I'm also not doing anything I shouldn't do rouser history.
I guess, at how would you use this automatic logan
(10:30):
and passwords storage?
Speaker 3 (10:31):
How would you do?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Someone with physical access to your computer could use software
to discover passwords to various services and then log into
your accounts. Okay, I guess I don't know what I mean.
They could see if you were sending flowers or something.
They can see you know, where you were spending your money.
I suppose like so if I had your like if
I had your laptop password, then I could if I
got into that, then a lot of times I could
(10:53):
then log into anything else.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Because everything saved. Right, Yeah, okay, I get that.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Key loggers and stalking apps like you can put stuff,
I know on computers where it will just track everything,
everything that's been put in the keyboard and like print
it out for you or give it to you in
like a document, so you could see just the raw data,
like what you know what I mean, like what people
have been typing.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
I mean, I don't know if it's on there, but
you're deleted text folder. A lot of people don't even
know that that's a folder yet. Oh, better take a
look at that, right, Yeah, you want to clear that
out first.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, I knew about that. Yeah, let me see here.
GPS trackers. Of course, sexting apps give users a false
sense of security, like Snapchat.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I guess that's the same. I guess that's a sectioning app.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
According to these people, they allow you to send photos, captions,
and videos that self delete after a set amount of
time use after a few seconds.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Signal, Oh god, signal. We all know about that.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
In the government, say similar service, but for text messages
rather than images. I guess there's no guarantee that images
will be deleted, says the company's privacy policy. Oh that's
not it's encouraging.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Hey, Laura, Okay, Laura, how did you catch your eggs cheating?
What happened?
Speaker 6 (12:04):
Okay? So back in the day when flip phones were
a thing and you were able to call your voicemail
from another.
Speaker 7 (12:12):
Like your host phone. So one night I let my
ex use my phone because he.
Speaker 6 (12:16):
Didn't have one, and he said he needed to use it,
so I letn't use it. And that morning, when I
woke up, I called my phone to see if I
had any miss palls.
Speaker 7 (12:26):
There was a voicemail on there from the other woman's boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (12:31):
Saying you can go ahead and keep the bee. I
don't want her back. And when I ended up going
to the house, she was.
Speaker 7 (12:39):
There in bed with him.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
I'm so sorry. That's terrible.
Speaker 8 (12:44):
Sorry.
Speaker 9 (12:44):
Yeah, so thank the cell phones, they've been great.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
You threw it, s it somewhere? Yeah, what'd you do?
What was your reaction?
Speaker 9 (12:57):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (12:57):
I went there and I started taking all of my
stuff out of the house, and I packed up my vehicle.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
And never went back there you go, he was.
Speaker 9 (13:05):
She was so scared she would not come out from
underneath the blanket, and my ex at the time kept
pushing me out of the room while I was trying
to get my stuff because he didn't want me in
there seeing what was going on.
Speaker 6 (13:18):
My sister and her boyfriend were in the house and
they ran to the other.
Speaker 7 (13:22):
Side of the house with the kids. They had young
kids at the time. They took off the one to
the other side because they he let me in the
door when he wasn't supposed to.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Man, Laura, I'm sorry that happened, but thank you for calling.
Have a good weekend.
Speaker 7 (13:35):
Thank you you guys too. Love you guys.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
I love you too. Kenny G, Hi, Kenny G. It's
an honor man for my money. When you sing why
can't we be lovers? If we can't be friends, I mean,
for me on a Friday night, there's nothing better. But
how did you catch you? Your cousin's boyfriend.
Speaker 8 (13:55):
Yeah, so it's my cousin's boyfriend at the time, they're
not together.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
But I was actually this girl I went to college.
Speaker 8 (14:03):
With was like, yeah, I'm dating this guy, and she
tells me about him, and I'm like, wait a minute.
And then I see who it is and I'm like, oh,
that's my cousin's boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
So I'm like, we need to set this up. So
set it up. She was supposed to meet over to
his house, like and uh, well, he was supposed to
go to her house. I stayed a block away, saw
his car pull up. I pulled up behind him like
cheater style.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Oh yeah, and then had.
Speaker 8 (14:28):
Him come out of the house and I'm like, all right, dude,
we got to have a conversation.
Speaker 9 (14:32):
Man.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
This guy's Joey del Greco over here from Cheaters Man
on this day of the investigation.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:40):
And then the funny part is this now I'm married
to his sister.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Wow. Wow. Y'all keep in the family, don't you.
Speaker 6 (14:49):
Da.
Speaker 8 (14:50):
It's a little weird, but okay, see your Kentucky weird.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Clarifying Kenny g all right, well, keep making great music. Okay, bye,
have a nice day. I love this. This is from
HowStuffWorks dot Com. Ten ways the technology betrays cheaters. Reason
number one human error. Right, if you're going to be
a cheater, don't be a dumb cheater.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
That's the world of story right.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Human error number one biggest stories at the day headlines.
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