October 23, 2025 • 21 mins
How much money does the average bridesmaid spend? Fred tells the crew! Plus, Kaelin tells us about the unhinged question high schoolers asked her!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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But being a bridesmaid opec boy is now costing US
women as much as rent yep, and that sounds a
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little low based on the things I've heard around here,
fifteen hundred to twenty five hundred dollars on average for
local weddings. Well, no, this is more realistic. And then
for destination weddings that member can jump to between three
and five thousand dollars. The average rent monthly rent in
the US is two thousand dollars. So basically for a
local wedding, to be a bridesmaid, you'd spend as much
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as you do on your rent just said, there's a
math math on that.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Issue, A trigger warning before you do.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
That's what I just said. Well, what I just said
was I think you're gonna laugh when I say this.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
We laugh.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
I was ready to have some fun.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
That was my warning to you.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, no, I'm none of this is funny.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
As Jason said one day, I think it was Jason.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
I don't know who said that, but none of this
is funny, is it right?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I mean, I don't know. I've never been a bridesmaid,
not yet at Lisa.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I okay, So you obviously don't know how I deal
with my problems because I also have a ton of
unread emails, not workwise, but for other emails. And I
don't ever calculate how much it costs me in total.
I don't want to be hurt in that way, you.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Know, So you have no idea. Maybe that's why you
don't have any money.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
You know what you spent?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Well, no, you just said about ten seconds ago the way,
I have zero dollars.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
So that's why I was, Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
But you called yourself a broke so I don't know
how much that might be why I mean, who knows.
Maybe people are coming to take it money from you
left and right.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
You don't even know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Well, in your like logic, I got to pay it
either way, So why am.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I going to calculate the total and hurt my own feelings.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I got to pay it off somehow, so I know,
I just want to get to the number to zero.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Well, I guess if I don't have any if I
don't have enough money, then I might tell someone like,
I'm not going to do that.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
I would never dare oh someone down in that way, I.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Let someone down. So what are the expenses? How are
you letting someone down in your spending being a bridesmaid?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I just think it's an honor to be asked. I
know I might be in the minority.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Which is than just whatever I'm asking, though I'm not judging.
I don't know the answers. So then anything, anything they
say they want, then you just buy it because you've
been asked, because it's an honor. Yeah, I don't know
how it works. I don't know what you're expected to do.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Yeah, I've never been in a situation where it's like
I want this, I want that, But certainly there are
expectations at least that we've set amongst our friend group,
and there's usually a bachelorette trip, there's you know, and
there's a certain way that we do it in our
friend group. You really don't pay for anything but your
own flight of like, it's just how we do it.
And I would hope that people would do it for me.
(03:05):
I mean, I would be conscious of it.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
But it sounds like you should get married just to
get your money back.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Well, Hillary and I think I've talked about this on
the show. Hillary and I Hot Hillary as we call her,
have discussed, like actually discussed, not joking, having a bachelorette
party joint and taking our front and they just have
to celebrate us in that way because both of us
may never get married.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I don't think that's a bad idea. In fact, I'm
starting to think now who all I I had to
you know, do things for in that regard, Like whose
weddings have I stood in and had to go to
bachelor parties and things like that? Or excuse me, I
had the honor of being asked to go to bachelor
guards honor?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Is that weird to say?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
No, it's not that it's not an honor to be in.
No one's saying it's not an honor to be in
a wedding party. I think what I'm saying is it's
not necessarily because of that honor that I'm going to
go broke trying to make you happy on your bachelor party.
That's what I'm saying. If I don't have the money,
I can't spend it. That's just like if you were like,
we're going to santro Pei, I'd be like, we're not
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or for you are? I mean, I don't know what.
I guess the honor can extend to, Like, I'm your friend,
I've done enough for you that you're asking me to
be in it, So I'm going to do the best
I can. But I'm also going to stand there and
support you, which I thought was the point. Not necessarily
the beach vacation.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah, no one's asking for it to be an honor.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
It's just how I personally view it, and I'm just
willing to do whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Yeah that's true.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Well I'm not so sweet then, I guess.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
Well, no, I probably won't be in any weddings at
this point in my life because I'm thirty three. Honestly,
not my friends really got married like that except for me,
like I've never been in a wedding, Like I've been
a flower girl once and that's it. And that was
for my cousin. I think it was like last year.
Yeh yeah, yeah, literally last year it was by default.
They're like, you got to be in this, I guess,
and I'm like, I guess I got it because we're family.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
But I've never been asked.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
But when I had my wedding, I truly try to
be like the Chillis bride. It could be because well,
I was pregnant, I couldn't do much. But I also
felt like I didn't want to do the whole beach
vacation in Kanku wherever, like the other spot that to
Loom or whatever, because I'm like, i know it's going
to cost a lot of money, and I'm already asking
you guys to be a part of this.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I know, just to get to the wedding. It's going
to cost you money, you.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Know, Yeah, for a destination wedding. I would understand why
you would take that into consideration.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I don't know that I paid. We paid for food.
I think we paid for hotel. The last bachelor party
I went to. I don't think we paid. We didn't
pay for his flight.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
We don't pay for flights. That's like how we do it.
We pay for everything else.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, But I mean, I think if
someone in the group hadn't been able to afford it,
or didn't have the money, or it was too extreme,
then we would have figured that out. You know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I guess, I guess no one.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I'm honored that you asked me to be part of
that group, especially because most of the people in that
group had known each other a lot longer in this
particular group than I had known them, So it was
nice to have been included in that. I wasn't in
the wedding. I was invited to the bachelor party. I
wasn't invited. I don't. I don't know that anyone was
standing up there. I don't know. I didn't go to
the wedding. I couldn't go, But anyway, I guess I didn't.
(05:54):
That was the honor for me. It was the gesture.
The rest of it. I was not. I was not
asked to stand in my brother in law's wedding party,
and I also wasn't asked to go to the bachelor party.
I love the guy, but Shenanigan's I want to know
what sort of low rent trippers were there. That's what
I want to know. I want to know what was
going on at this bachelor party that I couldn't see
as the brother of the bride.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah, Amanda's nice because I would have forced you to go.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
Yeah, me too, literally, like I would have all my
spies at Timothy's bachelor right, that's right, girl.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
But we've talked about this before. I was not the
least beefendive. I would have found it disingenuous if he
had asked me to be in his wedding party because
I didn't know him that well. I'd only known him
for like a year. So you're saying, if you've only
got seven or eight spots, because I think it was
supposed to be even on both sides, and Amanda obviously
drove that. Then I take the spot of somebody that
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you've known since childhood because I'm the brother, Like.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
No, you're the exactly, you're the new brother. No people standing.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Up there should be the closest people to you. And
you know, I officiated the wedding, which was also my
sister's idea, which was very nice. But if I hadn't
been included, it wouldn't upset me at all. I should
not take a spot. He was in a band. He
toured the entire country for years with these people. The
fan broke up, so the white Arms of Athena are
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no longer with us. But that being said, I wouldn't
have been least offended because again, like I can come
up right now with five, six, seven guys that I
would ask, and I could probably come up with twenty. Honestly,
it was stand up there right. So then my future bride,
let's say I'm not all that close with the brother.
I haven't really met that, I've only met the brother
a handful of times. Whatever. If she wanted that, then
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she's going to get that. But I I would not
necessarily think, well, now you know, Steve can't stand up here,
because you know, Bruce has to stand up here instead
a guy who I just met. Oh So, like, if
if that's your request, fine, but I think that that's
a space that should go to someone who who represents
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what that's supposed to stand for, which are the closest
people in your life.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
My brothers will be included in my wedding.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
But period, I'm friends with them.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
He is, but if he wasn't, Bruce would have to
just sit it out or we would find another girl.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Go find a girl for Bruce the same.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
I know. Yes, it's weirder to care about, like the
numbers matching.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
I've always thought that is so odd.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Like figure out my best friend and I held hands
yeahing down my friend Mattie's aisle because it was an
uneven number.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Yes, what, you're never going to look back at your
wedding photos and go.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Wow when you were there.
Speaker 8 (08:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
And I also had two people take up hobby spots
because I had two men right on my side and
my other two men. So I was like, well, I
need those two spots. So you know, Bruce and whoever
failed can't go home anymore.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
But what if you'd been like, hey, hovey, they have
to be they have to be grimsmen, those two, because
we got to get them up there somehow. I did, no, no, no,
But but I thought they were on your side.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
No, they stood, they had to stay with the men.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
I can't remember. I thought you had men stand on
your side.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I can't remember.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
Jason was not in a pink power suit with shorts.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
No, I can't remember the layout.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Yeah, I to look at photos now, But.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I know of weddings where men have stood on the
women's side because they're close with the women.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Oh, I think they did another thing about it. I
think like Jonathan and Jason were on my side. But yeah,
they weren't in pink power suits. But you can tell
you about they absolutely should have.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Don't why they I thought that was what I spent
good money on that Paulina I wasn't even in the wedding.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
That's a out.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Oh will Ryan stand up there with the ladies.
Speaker 7 (09:25):
No, he has appointed himself as the chief of staff,
so he will walk down what he wanted. Yeah, with
his own moment in life, maybe sport the aunts or
something like. He's like, I'm the chief of staff. Because
I was like, would you like to be my man
of honor or? He was like, no, I'm giving more
(09:45):
chief of staff And I said, okay, whatever you want
to be.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
You invited him to be the man of honor. Yes,
I thought I was the main man in your life.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
You are my flatwer girl. We talked about this.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Happy to do it, Happy to do it? Honor what
an incredible back. I'm so excited about this.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
To show up right, please, I'm someone.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Texted, I definitely prioritize my bridemaid by by the way,
I will be at your wedding. I don't come to
a lot of stuff, but we invited. I wouldn't miss you.
Why you keep saying it after we see a video
about it? Then maybe looking to attend the exclusive screening
at AMC theaters like.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
That would be iconic.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
That's what That's what we're going to be invited.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
To do it.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
They don't want to support me the exclusive the screening.
I definitely prioritize my bridesmaids being able to afford going
to the Bachelor Red Party. We did it in Madison, Wisconsin.
We'll take us as close to where this person lives.
But yeah, because some people wouldn't be able to go.
I've also heard about I've told the story before, but
I've heard about people having not having to but offering
to pay for someone who couldn't attend a destination wedding.
(10:52):
There's the story about my buddy Grant who got married Sadley.
He's divorced. I'm tryl standing at his next wedding. Too,
but bless his heart. But one of the guys who
was there weren't people didn't stand at this wedding, but
we were honorary roomsmen, I guess, and one of them
we were all in college together, and one of them
couldn't afford to go because he was in dental school,
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so they picked it up so that he could go.
And then he's the guy that wound up with the
honeymoon suite. He wound up with the presidential suite because
because he got Louis, he got grouped into like the
wedding budget, so they somehow got the room mixed up.
So when the when the bride and groom checked in,
they were like, yeah, I don't know the presidential suite book. Sorry,
and they're like what was supposed to be ours? And
they're like, I don't know what happened, sorry about that.
Well turned out that the guy they were paying for
(11:34):
our fraternity brother got the presidential suite because they because
it was on the same like bill. And so this
dude like if he hadn't said anything, he would have
had the week of the long weekend from like you know,
of heaven, you know, because he goes to his he
comes down from seeing his room and he was like,
did I have four bedrooms? I have a pool? And
my buddy's like, wait what, I have a regular room?
(11:55):
What I'm paying for you? What are you talking about?
He's like, dude, double doors at the end of the hallway,
the whole thing I got a view of, like the
entire beach FM it. Guys like, get out of my room,
give me the key, like.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
That's my room.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
But if I hadn't said anything, then this dude would
have been just balling all weekend. They were like, dude,
they brought me like food and the studios like you're
feeding me things and there's all this champagne in the room.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Vary's congratulations and childlate like.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Like I didn't know I got to be congratulated.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
You don't get out of my room.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Hey, Valerie, Valerie, good morning. So you tell me about this.
This this is a bachelorette experience.
Speaker 8 (12:37):
Bachelor and wedding.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
What happened?
Speaker 8 (12:40):
So my best friend I met her down to Texas.
Her father was German Air Force Air Force, so he
was stationed over there, Okay, and then years down the
line while she got married in Germany and then her
bachelorette party was in London. So I did that whole
thing and they lasted like two whole weeks.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
And how much did that cost?
Speaker 8 (13:01):
Oh that was quite a bit.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yeah, and there was no part of you. It's like,
I can't if you didn't have the money, then would
you have said I can only do part of it
or do you just say forget about I'm going into
debt for this.
Speaker 8 (13:16):
I would have tried anything that I could have.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Yeah, that's kind of cool, friend. That's that's a two
week European vacation too, Like you know, you get to
that vacation but because you're probably doing stuff, but like
that's a cool experience as well. So I get that.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Thank you, have a good day, thank you, And I
love you guys.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
I thank you.
Speaker 8 (13:36):
I listened to you guys every single morning.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Thank you, appreciate that, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
I'd be so mad if I were, like, you know,
I don't know, in between jobs or something, and my
buddies like, hey, we're going to Dubai and you know
we're going and it's gonna cost eight thousand dollars and
we're going and like you better be there, buddy, And
here I am like, you know, taking up payday loans,
I could take up payday look about Yeah? Yeah, Hey Kim, Hi,
(14:05):
good morning, Hi Kim. So you're the you prioritize your bridesway.
You said, we're going to have a bachelor at party
that's closer to homes that everyone doesn't go broke on
this thing.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
Like three of my bridesmaids don't even live in Illinois.
So I was like, I'm already asking you to fly
in plus like multiple times. And I was like, if
I want everybody to show up and be there for me,
like when I'm having fun, versus like two or three
being able to come, Like, to me, that was more important.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
See. I like that.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I think you're asking, especially bachelorettes or bridesmaids. I should
say you're asking a lot. Is there's day of planning
this help with. I didn't realize how much goes into
this and how much is expected. You know, Kiki's developing
a little army here and they all have jobs and
positions and business cards and whatever else. But I mean,
you're asking a lot. So like I get it's your day,
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but the idea of you have to have this particular
drastic cost this much, or we have to do this,
or we have to do that, or we have to
go to this place. I mean, you're asking a lot,
so you got to make it like kind of user
friendly on the people who you're asking to help work
for you, basically.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Right, I think you should you consider it?
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Well, Kim, Yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
I was gonna say yeah for sure, because like, those
are the people that you want to be in your
life after the wedding too, Like you don't want to.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Make them made it.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Wouldn't that be something? Because by the time the wedding
comes and ends the next day, every it's like, byba way,
I'm not your friend anymore. I I want nothing to
do with you. You're absolutely terrible. Thank you, Kim. Have
a good day, you guys. I lost an entire friend
group because I couldn't afford to go on a bachelor party.
Speaker 4 (15:36):
That's insane.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
That's insane.
Speaker 4 (15:39):
You are better for it because they suck.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
That is terrible.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
I'm divorced now, but by ex wife, she wanted to
put her brothers, her friends and people I didn't know
on my side.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Oh yeah, that's what I mean, That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Like you should get to pick, and you shouldn't be
pressured to pick the weird random sibling.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Don't put them on Ye, you're not weird or random.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
But I'm just saying, like I was not the least
bit offended, and I wouldn't have been offended if I
had no role, because like again, I looked at everybody
up there, and everybody up there had a deep, significant,
long term meaning to my brother in law. They should
be up there. I shouldn't. No, you should go bare.
I didn't know the guy's middle name.
Speaker 7 (16:18):
You and Amanda are a package deal. You come with her,
yes exactly, Yes, you happy, but I'm not going anywhere.
You are her only begotten brother.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
This is a symbolic gesture I did. It's not like,
if you're not up there, we're gonna have to offer you.
We're gonna have to offer you and your forever. It's
really sad.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
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Speaker 3 (17:09):
So the other day, I don't even know which days
which around here anymore, but we were all collectively having
a day on the show.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
It's just one of those days. We were having some
technical issues, you know whatever.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
It's just a day that like it hits nine am
and you're like, today drained me and today hasn't even
happened anyways. So I was like, oh my goodness, I
totally forgot I have to talk to a group of
high school children today also, And by that time I
looked disheveled, like my hair was.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
Up, like we were all just like what just happened?
And I was a little bit nervous.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
I've talked about this before, but like, younger kids scare
the crap out of me.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
I think gen Z did that to me a little bit.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
They're very unfiltered, and it's not a them problem, it's
a me problem. I'm a little bit sensitive I'm working
on me. But so I was a little bit scared, like,
what are these kids going to say? Are they going
to find this interesting interesting? Of course the teachers want
it for them, but do they want it for them?
So I gave them a little tour and they actually
shout out Wheel High School, by the way, and they
actually were giving me like hope for the future.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Now.
Speaker 3 (18:05):
I don't know if they're a new generation or if
they are Gen Z, but they were actually really locked in,
they were excited, they were engaged.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
They asked really good questions while we were in.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
The studio, and there was never an awkward moment where
somebody didn't have a question. There was a few people
who asked multiple questions. However, we did at one point
get to something that if you've ever talked to kids
and you're talking about your career, you know it may
be coming and you kind of dread and it happened.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
I essentially got asked how much I make?
Speaker 6 (18:36):
I know that?
Speaker 3 (18:38):
And for us, like in our industry, it's always like
who's the coolest celebrity I've met, Like.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
You know, those kinds of things.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
And I took a second because I'm like, listen, like
everybody struggling right now.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
The economy is hard.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
I want to give these kids hope for the future,
a realistic expectation, and also not say how much I
make on the dot. So I like panic for a
little bit. And I was like, listen, you know, I'm comfortable.
I can do X, Y or Z. Now you should
always think that you're worth more. You should always strive
for more. I tried to turn it into like a
(19:09):
little lesson as opposed to like because the whole room
month island. They went, you know, like it got real weird.
But I danced around that one. Have you guys ever
been asked any like wild questions when kids the youth.
Speaker 7 (19:22):
And I get the stuttering like yeah, anyway, like that question,
how much do you make?
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Like it?
Speaker 7 (19:27):
I don't want to crush your dreams, you know, Like
I'm like, you know what, the the earning potential is endless.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
In this industry. If you put it one, if you.
Speaker 7 (19:38):
Put your mind to it, you can make whatever you
set your price by how you carry yourself to sail
out of one.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Do Yeah, you saw a lot of words that they
get tired. Yeah, And I was wondering what was going
on in here?
Speaker 7 (19:47):
Because you were in here a long time, and my
computer was still in here, and I was like, I
ain't going in there because I don't I didn't know
what y'all was doing in here.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
I was like, some kids roasted hers.
Speaker 7 (19:56):
She on her own, Okay, that's fair. I was speaking
through the window like, wow, I don't know. Maybe she
dropped them some real gyms on the children, But what
I dropped you survived, so you made it out.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
That's all that.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
Mattered, barely.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
And they were all making me feel very old, like
my mom wants a photo.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
She loves you guys, my aunt, you know.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
And I'm like, what about you guys.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
It's never the high school kid, it's always you know,
someone else. I'm like, whatever, they were very sweet. Is
your mom hot? You know? That's the question?
Speaker 1 (20:21):
You know?
Speaker 4 (20:22):
How do you know what I asked?
Speaker 2 (20:23):
Now? Yeah, well that's what that's what I asked, because
he has things going home with dad, like you go good?
She happy? You know?
Speaker 1 (20:32):
This is yet right.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
This is maybe why they don't ask me to to
lead the tour groups anymore. They asked the ladies to
do it instead. I don't know how I would have
answered that.
Speaker 3 (20:41):
Question, yeah, Like how because I mean on your feet.
It's like, oh my goodness, I'm telling you, you know,
just it's a long road.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
That's what I would have said. It's a long road.
Speaker 4 (20:49):
It's not about the destination, it's that's the journey.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
No, I don't, I don't. I really don't know how
I would have answered that question. And I said, you know,
like every other industry, this one's pressed, you know, to sure.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I don't know, I don't know. Good for you, Yeah,
I like yours. I like the you know, anything is
possible if you because.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
It is me exactly, and there are a lot of
opportunities for us to make extra money. So I kind
of highlighted that as well, you know, at
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will make some of you laugh in the room, I think.
But being a bridesmaid opec boy is now costing US
women as much as rent yep, and that sounds a
(00:45):
little low based on the things I've heard around here,
fifteen hundred to twenty five hundred dollars on average for
local weddings. Well, no, this is more realistic. And then
for destination weddings that member can jump to between three
and five thousand dollars. The average rent monthly rent in
the US is two thousand dollars. So basically for a
local wedding, to be a bridesmaid, you'd spend as much
(01:05):
as you do on your rent just said, there's a
math math on that.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Issue, A trigger warning before you do.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
That's what I just said. Well, what I just said
was I think you're gonna laugh when I say this.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
We laugh.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
I was ready to have some fun.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
That was my warning to you.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, no, I'm none of this is funny.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
As Jason said one day, I think it was Jason.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
I don't know who said that, but none of this
is funny, is it right?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I mean, I don't know. I've never been a bridesmaid,
not yet at Lisa.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I okay, So you obviously don't know how I deal
with my problems because I also have a ton of
unread emails, not workwise, but for other emails. And I
don't ever calculate how much it costs me in total.
I don't want to be hurt in that way, you.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Know, So you have no idea. Maybe that's why you
don't have any money.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
You know what you spent?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Well, no, you just said about ten seconds ago the way,
I have zero dollars.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
So that's why I was, Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
But you called yourself a broke so I don't know
how much that might be why I mean, who knows.
Maybe people are coming to take it money from you
left and right.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
You don't even know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Well, in your like logic, I got to pay it
either way, So why am.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I going to calculate the total and hurt my own feelings.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I got to pay it off somehow, so I know,
I just want to get to the number to zero.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Well, I guess if I don't have any if I
don't have enough money, then I might tell someone like,
I'm not going to do that.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
I would never dare oh someone down in that way, I.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Let someone down. So what are the expenses? How are
you letting someone down in your spending being a bridesmaid?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I just think it's an honor to be asked. I
know I might be in the minority.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Which is than just whatever I'm asking, though I'm not judging.
I don't know the answers. So then anything, anything they
say they want, then you just buy it because you've
been asked, because it's an honor. Yeah, I don't know
how it works. I don't know what you're expected to do.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Yeah, I've never been in a situation where it's like
I want this, I want that, But certainly there are
expectations at least that we've set amongst our friend group,
and there's usually a bachelorette trip, there's you know, and
there's a certain way that we do it in our
friend group. You really don't pay for anything but your
own flight of like, it's just how we do it.
And I would hope that people would do it for me.
(03:05):
I mean, I would be conscious of it.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
But it sounds like you should get married just to
get your money back.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Well, Hillary and I think I've talked about this on
the show. Hillary and I Hot Hillary as we call her,
have discussed, like actually discussed, not joking, having a bachelorette
party joint and taking our front and they just have
to celebrate us in that way because both of us
may never get married.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I don't think that's a bad idea. In fact, I'm
starting to think now who all I I had to
you know, do things for in that regard, Like whose
weddings have I stood in and had to go to
bachelor parties and things like that? Or excuse me, I
had the honor of being asked to go to bachelor
guards honor?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Is that weird to say?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
No, it's not that it's not an honor to be in.
No one's saying it's not an honor to be in
a wedding party. I think what I'm saying is it's
not necessarily because of that honor that I'm going to
go broke trying to make you happy on your bachelor party.
That's what I'm saying. If I don't have the money,
I can't spend it. That's just like if you were like,
we're going to santro Pei, I'd be like, we're not
(04:03):
or for you are? I mean, I don't know what.
I guess the honor can extend to, Like, I'm your friend,
I've done enough for you that you're asking me to
be in it, So I'm going to do the best
I can. But I'm also going to stand there and
support you, which I thought was the point. Not necessarily
the beach vacation.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah, no one's asking for it to be an honor.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
It's just how I personally view it, and I'm just
willing to do whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Yeah that's true.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Well I'm not so sweet then, I guess.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
Well, no, I probably won't be in any weddings at
this point in my life because I'm thirty three. Honestly,
not my friends really got married like that except for me,
like I've never been in a wedding, Like I've been
a flower girl once and that's it. And that was
for my cousin. I think it was like last year.
Yeh yeah, yeah, literally last year it was by default.
They're like, you got to be in this, I guess,
and I'm like, I guess I got it because we're family.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
But I've never been asked.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
But when I had my wedding, I truly try to
be like the Chillis bride. It could be because well,
I was pregnant, I couldn't do much. But I also
felt like I didn't want to do the whole beach
vacation in Kanku wherever, like the other spot that to
Loom or whatever, because I'm like, i know it's going
to cost a lot of money, and I'm already asking
you guys to be a part of this.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I know, just to get to the wedding. It's going
to cost you money, you.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Know, Yeah, for a destination wedding. I would understand why
you would take that into consideration.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I don't know that I paid. We paid for food.
I think we paid for hotel. The last bachelor party
I went to. I don't think we paid. We didn't
pay for his flight.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
We don't pay for flights. That's like how we do it.
We pay for everything else.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, But I mean, I think if
someone in the group hadn't been able to afford it,
or didn't have the money, or it was too extreme,
then we would have figured that out. You know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I guess, I guess no one.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I'm honored that you asked me to be part of
that group, especially because most of the people in that
group had known each other a lot longer in this
particular group than I had known them, So it was
nice to have been included in that. I wasn't in
the wedding. I was invited to the bachelor party. I
wasn't invited. I don't. I don't know that anyone was
standing up there. I don't know. I didn't go to
the wedding. I couldn't go, But anyway, I guess I didn't.
(05:54):
That was the honor for me. It was the gesture.
The rest of it. I was not. I was not
asked to stand in my brother in law's wedding party,
and I also wasn't asked to go to the bachelor party.
I love the guy, but Shenanigan's I want to know
what sort of low rent trippers were there. That's what
I want to know. I want to know what was
going on at this bachelor party that I couldn't see
as the brother of the bride.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah, Amanda's nice because I would have forced you to go.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
Yeah, me too, literally, like I would have all my
spies at Timothy's bachelor right, that's right, girl.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
But we've talked about this before. I was not the
least beefendive. I would have found it disingenuous if he
had asked me to be in his wedding party because
I didn't know him that well. I'd only known him
for like a year. So you're saying, if you've only
got seven or eight spots, because I think it was
supposed to be even on both sides, and Amanda obviously
drove that. Then I take the spot of somebody that
(06:43):
you've known since childhood because I'm the brother, Like.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
No, you're the exactly, you're the new brother. No people standing.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Up there should be the closest people to you. And
you know, I officiated the wedding, which was also my
sister's idea, which was very nice. But if I hadn't
been included, it wouldn't upset me at all. I should
not take a spot. He was in a band. He
toured the entire country for years with these people. The
fan broke up, so the white Arms of Athena are
(07:14):
no longer with us. But that being said, I wouldn't
have been least offended because again, like I can come
up right now with five, six, seven guys that I
would ask, and I could probably come up with twenty. Honestly,
it was stand up there right. So then my future bride,
let's say I'm not all that close with the brother.
I haven't really met that, I've only met the brother
a handful of times. Whatever. If she wanted that, then
(07:36):
she's going to get that. But I I would not
necessarily think, well, now you know, Steve can't stand up here,
because you know, Bruce has to stand up here instead
a guy who I just met. Oh So, like, if
if that's your request, fine, but I think that that's
a space that should go to someone who who represents
(07:57):
what that's supposed to stand for, which are the closest
people in your life.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
My brothers will be included in my wedding.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
But period, I'm friends with them.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
He is, but if he wasn't, Bruce would have to
just sit it out or we would find another girl.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Go find a girl for Bruce the same.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
I know. Yes, it's weirder to care about, like the
numbers matching.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
I've always thought that is so odd.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Like figure out my best friend and I held hands
yeahing down my friend Mattie's aisle because it was an
uneven number.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Yes, what, you're never going to look back at your
wedding photos and go.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Wow when you were there.
Speaker 8 (08:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
And I also had two people take up hobby spots
because I had two men right on my side and
my other two men. So I was like, well, I
need those two spots. So you know, Bruce and whoever
failed can't go home anymore.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
But what if you'd been like, hey, hovey, they have
to be they have to be grimsmen, those two, because
we got to get them up there somehow. I did, no, no, no,
But but I thought they were on your side.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
No, they stood, they had to stay with the men.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
I can't remember. I thought you had men stand on
your side.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I can't remember.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
Jason was not in a pink power suit with shorts.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
No, I can't remember the layout.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Yeah, I to look at photos now, But.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I know of weddings where men have stood on the
women's side because they're close with the women.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Oh, I think they did another thing about it. I
think like Jonathan and Jason were on my side. But yeah,
they weren't in pink power suits. But you can tell
you about they absolutely should have.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Don't why they I thought that was what I spent
good money on that Paulina I wasn't even in the wedding.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
That's a out.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Oh will Ryan stand up there with the ladies.
Speaker 7 (09:25):
No, he has appointed himself as the chief of staff,
so he will walk down what he wanted. Yeah, with
his own moment in life, maybe sport the aunts or
something like. He's like, I'm the chief of staff. Because
I was like, would you like to be my man
of honor or? He was like, no, I'm giving more
(09:45):
chief of staff And I said, okay, whatever you want
to be.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
You invited him to be the man of honor. Yes,
I thought I was the main man in your life.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
You are my flatwer girl. We talked about this.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Happy to do it, Happy to do it? Honor what
an incredible back. I'm so excited about this.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
To show up right, please, I'm someone.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Texted, I definitely prioritize my bridemaid by by the way,
I will be at your wedding. I don't come to
a lot of stuff, but we invited. I wouldn't miss you.
Why you keep saying it after we see a video
about it? Then maybe looking to attend the exclusive screening
at AMC theaters like.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
That would be iconic.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
That's what That's what we're going to be invited.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
To do it.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
They don't want to support me the exclusive the screening.
I definitely prioritize my bridesmaids being able to afford going
to the Bachelor Red Party. We did it in Madison, Wisconsin.
We'll take us as close to where this person lives.
But yeah, because some people wouldn't be able to go.
I've also heard about I've told the story before, but
I've heard about people having not having to but offering
to pay for someone who couldn't attend a destination wedding.
(10:52):
There's the story about my buddy Grant who got married Sadley.
He's divorced. I'm tryl standing at his next wedding. Too,
but bless his heart. But one of the guys who
was there weren't people didn't stand at this wedding, but
we were honorary roomsmen, I guess, and one of them
we were all in college together, and one of them
couldn't afford to go because he was in dental school,
(11:13):
so they picked it up so that he could go.
And then he's the guy that wound up with the
honeymoon suite. He wound up with the presidential suite because
because he got Louis, he got grouped into like the
wedding budget, so they somehow got the room mixed up.
So when the when the bride and groom checked in,
they were like, yeah, I don't know the presidential suite book. Sorry,
and they're like what was supposed to be ours? And
they're like, I don't know what happened, sorry about that.
Well turned out that the guy they were paying for
(11:34):
our fraternity brother got the presidential suite because they because
it was on the same like bill. And so this
dude like if he hadn't said anything, he would have
had the week of the long weekend from like you know,
of heaven, you know, because he goes to his he
comes down from seeing his room and he was like,
did I have four bedrooms? I have a pool? And
my buddy's like, wait what, I have a regular room?
(11:55):
What I'm paying for you? What are you talking about?
He's like, dude, double doors at the end of the hallway,
the whole thing I got a view of, like the
entire beach FM it. Guys like, get out of my room,
give me the key, like.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
That's my room.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
But if I hadn't said anything, then this dude would
have been just balling all weekend. They were like, dude,
they brought me like food and the studios like you're
feeding me things and there's all this champagne in the room.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Vary's congratulations and childlate like.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Like I didn't know I got to be congratulated.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
You don't get out of my room.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Hey, Valerie, Valerie, good morning. So you tell me about this.
This this is a bachelorette experience.
Speaker 8 (12:37):
Bachelor and wedding.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
What happened?
Speaker 8 (12:40):
So my best friend I met her down to Texas.
Her father was German Air Force Air Force, so he
was stationed over there, Okay, and then years down the
line while she got married in Germany and then her
bachelorette party was in London. So I did that whole
thing and they lasted like two whole weeks.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
And how much did that cost?
Speaker 8 (13:01):
Oh that was quite a bit.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yeah, and there was no part of you. It's like,
I can't if you didn't have the money, then would
you have said I can only do part of it
or do you just say forget about I'm going into
debt for this.
Speaker 8 (13:16):
I would have tried anything that I could have.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Yeah, that's kind of cool, friend. That's that's a two
week European vacation too, Like you know, you get to
that vacation but because you're probably doing stuff, but like
that's a cool experience as well. So I get that.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Thank you, have a good day, thank you, And I
love you guys.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
I thank you.
Speaker 8 (13:36):
I listened to you guys every single morning.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Thank you, appreciate that, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
I'd be so mad if I were, like, you know,
I don't know, in between jobs or something, and my
buddies like, hey, we're going to Dubai and you know
we're going and it's gonna cost eight thousand dollars and
we're going and like you better be there, buddy, And
here I am like, you know, taking up payday loans,
I could take up payday look about Yeah? Yeah, Hey Kim, Hi,
(14:05):
good morning, Hi Kim. So you're the you prioritize your bridesway.
You said, we're going to have a bachelor at party
that's closer to homes that everyone doesn't go broke on
this thing.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
Like three of my bridesmaids don't even live in Illinois.
So I was like, I'm already asking you to fly
in plus like multiple times. And I was like, if
I want everybody to show up and be there for me,
like when I'm having fun, versus like two or three
being able to come, Like, to me, that was more important.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
See. I like that.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I think you're asking, especially bachelorettes or bridesmaids. I should
say you're asking a lot. Is there's day of planning
this help with. I didn't realize how much goes into
this and how much is expected. You know, Kiki's developing
a little army here and they all have jobs and
positions and business cards and whatever else. But I mean,
you're asking a lot. So like I get it's your day,
(14:57):
but the idea of you have to have this particular
drastic cost this much, or we have to do this,
or we have to do that, or we have to
go to this place. I mean, you're asking a lot,
so you got to make it like kind of user
friendly on the people who you're asking to help work
for you, basically.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Right, I think you should you consider it?
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Well, Kim, Yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
I was gonna say yeah for sure, because like, those
are the people that you want to be in your
life after the wedding too, Like you don't want to.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Make them made it.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Wouldn't that be something? Because by the time the wedding
comes and ends the next day, every it's like, byba way,
I'm not your friend anymore. I I want nothing to
do with you. You're absolutely terrible. Thank you, Kim. Have
a good day, you guys. I lost an entire friend
group because I couldn't afford to go on a bachelor party.
Speaker 4 (15:36):
That's insane.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
That's insane.
Speaker 4 (15:39):
You are better for it because they suck.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
That is terrible.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
I'm divorced now, but by ex wife, she wanted to
put her brothers, her friends and people I didn't know
on my side.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Oh yeah, that's what I mean, That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Like you should get to pick, and you shouldn't be
pressured to pick the weird random sibling.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Don't put them on Ye, you're not weird or random.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
But I'm just saying, like I was not the least
bit offended, and I wouldn't have been offended if I
had no role, because like again, I looked at everybody
up there, and everybody up there had a deep, significant,
long term meaning to my brother in law. They should
be up there. I shouldn't. No, you should go bare.
I didn't know the guy's middle name.
Speaker 7 (16:18):
You and Amanda are a package deal. You come with her,
yes exactly, Yes, you happy, but I'm not going anywhere.
You are her only begotten brother.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
This is a symbolic gesture I did. It's not like,
if you're not up there, we're gonna have to offer you.
We're gonna have to offer you and your forever. It's
really sad.
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Speaker 3 (17:09):
So the other day, I don't even know which days
which around here anymore, but we were all collectively having
a day on the show.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
It's just one of those days. We were having some
technical issues, you know whatever.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
It's just a day that like it hits nine am
and you're like, today drained me and today hasn't even
happened anyways. So I was like, oh my goodness, I
totally forgot I have to talk to a group of
high school children today also, And by that time I
looked disheveled, like my hair was.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
Up, like we were all just like what just happened?
And I was a little bit nervous.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
I've talked about this before, but like, younger kids scare
the crap out of me.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
I think gen Z did that to me a little bit.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
They're very unfiltered, and it's not a them problem, it's
a me problem. I'm a little bit sensitive I'm working
on me. But so I was a little bit scared, like,
what are these kids going to say? Are they going
to find this interesting interesting? Of course the teachers want
it for them, but do they want it for them?
So I gave them a little tour and they actually
shout out Wheel High School, by the way, and they
actually were giving me like hope for the future.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Now.
Speaker 3 (18:05):
I don't know if they're a new generation or if
they are Gen Z, but they were actually really locked in,
they were excited, they were engaged.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
They asked really good questions while we were in.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
The studio, and there was never an awkward moment where
somebody didn't have a question. There was a few people
who asked multiple questions. However, we did at one point
get to something that if you've ever talked to kids
and you're talking about your career, you know it may
be coming and you kind of dread and it happened.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
I essentially got asked how much I make?
Speaker 6 (18:36):
I know that?
Speaker 3 (18:38):
And for us, like in our industry, it's always like
who's the coolest celebrity I've met, Like.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
You know, those kinds of things.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
And I took a second because I'm like, listen, like
everybody struggling right now.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
The economy is hard.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
I want to give these kids hope for the future,
a realistic expectation, and also not say how much I
make on the dot. So I like panic for a
little bit. And I was like, listen, you know, I'm comfortable.
I can do X, Y or Z. Now you should
always think that you're worth more. You should always strive
for more. I tried to turn it into like a
(19:09):
little lesson as opposed to like because the whole room
month island. They went, you know, like it got real weird.
But I danced around that one. Have you guys ever
been asked any like wild questions when kids the youth.
Speaker 7 (19:22):
And I get the stuttering like yeah, anyway, like that question,
how much do you make?
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Like it?
Speaker 7 (19:27):
I don't want to crush your dreams, you know, Like
I'm like, you know what, the the earning potential is endless.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
In this industry. If you put it one, if you.
Speaker 7 (19:38):
Put your mind to it, you can make whatever you
set your price by how you carry yourself to sail
out of one.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Do Yeah, you saw a lot of words that they
get tired. Yeah, And I was wondering what was going
on in here?
Speaker 7 (19:47):
Because you were in here a long time, and my
computer was still in here, and I was like, I
ain't going in there because I don't I didn't know
what y'all was doing in here.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
I was like, some kids roasted hers.
Speaker 7 (19:56):
She on her own, Okay, that's fair. I was speaking
through the window like, wow, I don't know. Maybe she
dropped them some real gyms on the children, But what
I dropped you survived, so you made it out.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
That's all that.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
Mattered, barely.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
And they were all making me feel very old, like
my mom wants a photo.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
She loves you guys, my aunt, you know.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
And I'm like, what about you guys.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
It's never the high school kid, it's always you know,
someone else. I'm like, whatever, they were very sweet. Is
your mom hot? You know? That's the question?
Speaker 1 (20:21):
You know?
Speaker 4 (20:22):
How do you know what I asked?
Speaker 2 (20:23):
Now? Yeah, well that's what that's what I asked, because
he has things going home with dad, like you go good?
She happy? You know?
Speaker 1 (20:32):
This is yet right.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
This is maybe why they don't ask me to to
lead the tour groups anymore. They asked the ladies to
do it instead. I don't know how I would have
answered that.
Speaker 3 (20:41):
Question, yeah, Like how because I mean on your feet.
It's like, oh my goodness, I'm telling you, you know,
just it's a long road.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
That's what I would have said. It's a long road.
Speaker 4 (20:49):
It's not about the destination, it's that's the journey.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
No, I don't, I don't. I really don't know how
I would have answered that question. And I said, you know,
like every other industry, this one's pressed, you know, to sure.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I don't know, I don't know. Good for you, Yeah,
I like yours. I like the you know, anything is
possible if you because.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
It is me exactly, and there are a lot of
opportunities for us to make extra money. So I kind
of highlighted that as well, you know, at
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