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January 5, 2026 34 mins

Find out why Natalie got ghosted on an all new Waiting by the Phone! Plus, would you move your wedding date if it was the same date as your sister's due date? Judge Keke weighs in! 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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the Fread Show. Hey Natalie, good morning, Welcome to the Progrum.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
How are you?

Speaker 3 (00:39):
I'm good, Thank you?

Speaker 1 (00:41):
How are you doing all right?

Speaker 2 (00:42):
I want to hear what happened with this guy Evan,
because we're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted
here it looks like maybe you have, but I need
to know the backstory. How did you meet? Tell us
about any dates you've been on, and then where things
are now?

Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yeah, I have to agree, I do think I'm being ghosted.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
We met at.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
One of those like obsessive holiday pop up bars, you know, right,
which I go to every year, so I'm obsessed with them.
But we've changed numbers. And the next day he texted me,
he asked me out, and I honestly thought we got
along great and we had great chemistry from the first

(01:22):
two times you know, we hung out. Aside from making
sure that I got home safe after our date, I
have not heard from him at all.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Okay, So I mean you felt like the conversation flowed you.
I mean because the topics were good. You guys seem
to have similar interests. I mean you walked away from
this date thinking that you would hear from him again,
Like nothing, a fancy of nothing weird, nothing crazy you did.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
There's so many different ways that we've heard over the
years that you could talk about something that would turn
somebody off or do something, but like he didn't see
that you know, you're Barbie collection at your house, or
you didn't bring up any streams like political stance or
conspiracy theory.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
I mean, like it was all this very normal.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Very very normal, just like a good old fashioned fun time.
We didn't talk about politics, you know, that never came up.
That rarely comes up. On a first date for me anyway,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
We've heard so many things over the years, ways that
people have messed themselves up. But nonetheless, you felt like
everything went great. You were looking forward to seeing him again.
It's frustrating when you feel like you have a connection
with someone and then you don't hear from them again.
So that's where we come in. We're gonna play one song,
come back, call this guy, Evan. Natalie, you'll be on
the phone at the same time, and the hope here
is that we can figure out what's going on. Maybe

(02:47):
he's been busy, maybe he's been distracted with the holidays,
family stuff, who knows, and hopefully we can straighten everything
out and set you guys up on a second date.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
And pay for it.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Oh my gosh, I love that.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Hey, Natalie, Hi, welcome back. Let's call it Evan.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
You guys met at a holiday pop up bar and
you exchange numbers, You went on a date.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
You felt like the date went great.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
You were attracted to him, the chemistry was there, the
conversation was there, and you expected that he would follow
up and ask you on another date. But he hasn't
done that, and you haven't heard from him in days,
and you want to know why, I.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Really really want to know why. I honestly, well so
do I.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
So do we Let's call this guy Evan. Now, good luck, Natalie,
thank you? Hello, Hi is a seven, I haven't good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I have to tell you that we are on the

(03:42):
radio right now and I would need your permission to
continue with the call, which haf for just a little
bit on the show.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Would you mind.

Speaker 4 (03:49):
By sure?

Speaker 2 (03:51):
I guess so, thank you very much. I'll get right
to it. We're calling on behalf of a woman named Natalie.
I guess you guys met at a bar and recently
went on a date. Do you remember Natalie?

Speaker 4 (03:59):
I hope, yes, yes I do remember Natalie.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay, So she reached out to us and kind of
told us how you met and said that you guys
had gone on a date that she thought went really
well and she was excited to sort of connect with
you and was looking forward to a second date. But
says you haven't reached out to her in days since
the date, and I guess haven't responded to her. Either,
So she feels like she's being ghosted. You know, did
you ghost her? Are you ghosting her? What's going on?

Speaker 4 (04:27):
I don't, I guess I don't.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, yeah, why like what happened? Because her impression of
this was that everything was great? So then I mean,
what's your hesitation.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Well, I mean, in.

Speaker 4 (04:40):
The beginning, everything was fine. But I took her to
my company's holiday party, and in the beginning things were fine,
and then she proceeded to getty pretty inebriated.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
This is it's why you don't take a stranger chance
company holiday.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
But okay, I don't take any date, right, it needs
to be.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Someone you know how they're gonna act. But okay, so
mistake number one evan kind of on you. But you
took Natalie to the party, she had too much to drink,
So so what does that mean?

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Well, okay, so at.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
One point, I go to the bathroom and I come
back out and there's this circle that's kind of formed
on the dance floor, and I go, I go to
this circle because I can't find her anywhere, and there
she is doing the worm in front of everybody. I mean,

(05:39):
like my top manager is there, laughing his face off.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Okay, wait a minute, were entertained, Like it wasn't like,
you know, she didn't do anything offensive. It sounds like
it went overwhelm laughing at her. Okay, all right, so
you're embarrassed because here she is a little overserved and
she's doing the worm and you're you're watching.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
So that's it. That's enough.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
Like, I mean, okay, people have a little too much
to drink. You left her own supervise. It's your fault.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
No, No, it got worse. I wish that was I
wish that was it. Unfortunately, we went on the rest
of the night and she was going on, carrying on
and whatnot, and to the to a point where I
was kind of ignoring her to a certain extent. And
then she kind of disappeared again on me, and I

(06:30):
went looking for her, and she was outside with all
the it guys and smoking a joint.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Oh it looks like she made herself right home. Guy,
I got to say, at least you didn't have to
babysit her. I mean, everyone seemed to love her.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
She was alive with the party, yeah, I mean sort
of until her rendition of metallicas enter Sandman.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh wait, when did that happen.

Speaker 4 (06:55):
Yeah, it was. We had a karaoke section at the party.
As a nice little carryo.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Sort of character, I would have to smoke say something
you certainly made Evan. I'm sorry, I forgot that Natalie
is yours. You've been listening. I'm very forgetful, Like I
so cut up in the story, enter Sandman.

Speaker 5 (07:14):
Huh yeah, but hold on.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
This has nothing to do with the song. It has
nothing to do with karaoke. It has everything to do
with that. Like I guess, I just I'm sorry that
like your coworkers like me more than you, that's it.
But like I'm fun, like everyone there loved me, Like, I.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Just get it.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
It does sound fun, honestly, like it. I love that
you know you made yourself right at home, And I don't.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
Know, I smell jealousy. Jealous? Is that diseasing? You think
they like? They like Natalie more than haven't.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Already hung out with I've already hung out with two
of his coworkers, like after the.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
Party, your friends now, so we don't even need Evan anymore.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Forget about Evan.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
We've gotten together.

Speaker 1 (08:02):
Did you know that, Evan? Did you know that you
made friends?

Speaker 6 (08:05):
Now?

Speaker 1 (08:05):
This is news to me and they actually, Natalie, what
were you saying?

Speaker 3 (08:08):
They actually they want me to apply for a job there.

Speaker 6 (08:11):
They like, this is exactly why will never come because
you know what, you know what happened.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Maybe that just means that they didn't hate me, or
I didn't embarrass you as much as you just felt
embarrassed on your own.

Speaker 2 (08:31):
Nothing to do with me, Big tim you know, I've
known you for years. I don't even know this man.
But he comes to the holiday party or the potluck
or whatever. I'm gonna get his number. He are gonna
be boys. We're gonna go out and have dinner, talk
about you. It's gonna be great. That's what happened here.
So Evan, you're you'll be doing their up in here.
It sounds like it sounds like this wasn't really as

(08:53):
bad for you as you think.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
It was.

Speaker 5 (08:56):
Great for him and me.

Speaker 4 (08:58):
They're still talking about it. I'll never live this down never.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
They're talking about it because they had a good time.

Speaker 1 (09:06):
You're the only one.

Speaker 3 (09:08):
That I guess didn't enjoy themselves, and that's unfortunate because
everyone else did.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
I would want to they And the thing is they
reached out to me. I didn't. They asked me for
my number, they followed me on Instagram, they reached out
to me, They asked if I wanted to go get coffee,
Like it was not my instigation.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
To watch out right.

Speaker 3 (09:36):
Perhaps it wasn't as embarrassing as you are leading them
to believe.

Speaker 4 (09:43):
Okay, look over there, we're just embarrassed by yourself.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
Can you get over this?

Speaker 2 (09:47):
Like apparently people had a good time with her and
she's fun.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Is is she too much for you? Is that what
this is?

Speaker 6 (09:53):
Like?

Speaker 2 (09:53):
You want some you want someone who subdued, someone's gonna
follow you around on say anything?

Speaker 1 (09:57):
Is that? Is that what this is about?

Speaker 2 (09:58):
Because I mean, I don't think it would were as
poorly as you think it did, or at least according
to her, it didn't.

Speaker 7 (10:03):
No, but you know what, it didn't go over poorly,
but this did.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
And I'm out, oh wow, And you're about to get
to motive when she gets that job as a supervisor
at your office cubicle.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Yeah, I see.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
I'm professional enough to not allow my emotional feelings to
interfere with my work.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
She's a professional who can do the worm and apparently
relate to all sorts of people. Those it guys are
hard to crack.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
Man.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
Yeah, welcomed you in the circle exactly. That's so that
didn't happen around here. I've known these people for years
and not invite me to hang out smoke weed. But
I'm gonna tell you that Slavy ain't hanging out with me.
You kidding me, Engineer Karen not inviting me out? I know,
I know, all right. Look, so she's not interested in

(10:50):
you anymore? Which is this? This happens sometimes but not
very often where the person who asked to figure this
out now is out. So Evan, I'm sorry I wasted
your time, but I guess it doesn't matter. She doesn't
want to go out with you anyway.

Speaker 1 (11:02):
That's totally fine. The ceilings mutual.

Speaker 2 (11:05):
But when you see her in the break room, Natalie,
good luck to you. Thank you for your time as well.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
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Speaker 1 (11:44):
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Speaker 2 (11:48):
Honorable Judge, Kiki is here now if you would, all right, let's.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
Get into the court room.

Speaker 6 (11:54):
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Speaker 1 (12:00):
Kiki k e k E.

Speaker 6 (12:02):
It says Kiki, Am I wrong for not changing my
wedding date because my sister is deciding to have a
baby Over the holiday break, my sister decided to surprise
our family with a pregnancy announcement, and while I'm happy
for her, she revealed that her due date falls on
the exact day of my wedding. However, my destination wedding

(12:25):
has been planned for months. I already booked the venue,
made deposits in scheduled travel arrangements. What's really bothering me
is that when I called it out, my mom, with
no hesitation, said, oh, you'll just have to change your
date or push the wedding back because your father and
I will be at the hospital with your sister.

Speaker 1 (12:43):
I was crushed.

Speaker 6 (12:44):
After talking it over with my fiance, we've decided that
we are not changing our wedding date and causing all
of our guests and inconvenience simply because my sister decided
to steal my moment once again?

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Am I wrong?

Speaker 2 (12:58):
M I mean, wow, you got to the jury eight
five five five three five Judge Kiki?

Speaker 1 (13:05):
What say you?

Speaker 3 (13:06):
Look?

Speaker 1 (13:06):
I know you know I never made a baby before.

Speaker 6 (13:09):
Ye never did that, But I feel like you decided
to make this baby when you knew your sister was
getting married.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
Like, come on, bro, well, I mean, what are you saying?
Did a get masked?

Speaker 8 (13:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (13:21):
Sometimes no ovulation schedule occasional nine months. You're suggesting that
she had the baby, or made the baby, or tried
to make the baby to upstage the wedding.

Speaker 1 (13:35):
I do on purpose. That's what she said in her life.
I believe she played that. Well. Yes, you you you
scared out of the day to.

Speaker 6 (13:42):
Come out and then the pair your mother. Oh, I'm
so triggered by the mother because you don't even take
into consideration. I've already both traveled and destination and makeup
artists and all this stuff, and you just tell me
I needed to change my date and you won't be
at my wedding. You you have all your life to
not this baby. Okay, I have one wedding day, mar
let me have something. I don't know, am I missing something?

Speaker 9 (14:06):
Because like it's not so easy sometimes to make a baby,
So if she's trying every time she's opulating, I don't
think there's a way to do it on purpose you
get one.

Speaker 3 (14:18):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (14:19):
Man, Like, if you're trying, you just start trying.

Speaker 1 (14:22):
Well, fertile myrtle. The odds of nailing the day are
not very good. Yeah, then you're gonna go.

Speaker 6 (14:31):
Like the mom didn't even consist, Like it's just change
your date.

Speaker 1 (14:34):
Like I'm not even arguing.

Speaker 2 (14:36):
And I hate to say this, but short of of
the of the daughter wanting the mom in the room,
I mean, there's nothing stopping them from going to the
wedding and then flying to meet their grandchild the same
day or next day.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
Like it's possible to just do all of this, That's
what I think. But no, you don't, we.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
Don't just move weddings around because someone else is having
a baby.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
No, exactly, No, that's what I say.

Speaker 6 (14:58):
I think the parent I mean, no, one's taking the
bride into consideration here.

Speaker 1 (15:02):
And I feel bad about this.

Speaker 6 (15:03):
And I love that she's hear and her fiance are
standing on business and they're like, listen, if you want
to miss our wedding, hey, go for it, you know.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
But I don't think it's right.

Speaker 10 (15:13):
Yeah, she will miss the wedding because she'll be about
to pop, like the day of the wedding.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Right, whether, first of.

Speaker 10 (15:18):
All, she's probably not gonna have the baby on the
wedding day. The little chances are also very slim and low.
I mean it could happen, of course, but very slim.
But she is not gonna fly when she's you know,
forty weeks pregnant or whatever, so she won't be there.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
But yeah, I think the grand personships forty weeks.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
How many weeks is? Isn't it forty weeks? It is?
I mean I should know this. Yeah, I've been forty weeks.
I don't do fast math.

Speaker 10 (15:42):
No, I was induce at thirty nine weeks because my baby,
yeah it was a week early, right.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
So yeah, well she's not going to the wedding. That's no, Yeah,
she won't be there. Don't save her a plate.

Speaker 6 (15:51):
That's terrible though, your only sister not able to be
beside you at your wedding. On top of that, your
parents completely just say for at you, Holleina is not
at her sister's wedding. I was not because mom was.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
You were the system.

Speaker 10 (16:05):
I was a sister.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
Well, I didn't plan it this way, and you know
it hadn't yet.

Speaker 10 (16:10):
I was pregnant my own wedding too, But I where
did you get a schedule? I didn't follow my schedule
for sure, but I didn't want my sisters because I.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
Couldn't go for that. Yeah, yet I didn't download it
in time, and now here we are.

Speaker 10 (16:22):
I didn't go to my own sister's wedding, and she
she came to mind.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
But like she could and all. But I feel bad.
I still do feel bad about it.

Speaker 10 (16:29):
But I, for medical reasons, couldn't travel after I think
it's like thirty five weeks or something.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
I don't expect people to be planning because to Caitlin's point,
like it usually doesn't work, like you know, the first
time we try it happens.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
For some people.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
It does, but usually it's a bit of a process,
and so you don't really know, and you know, you're
probably not thinking that way, like, well, you know, if
we do it now, it's possible if I'm pregnant, it
done right, right.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
I don't. I don't think it's that like that, but
I don't. You're right.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
I hate to say this, but the wedding will happen once.
Hopefully the baby will be around for a long time.
You could meet the baby later in the day. I mean,
you're not unless you're delivering the baby physically, the obgyn
delivering the baby. You don't have to be there right then.
Everybody can have everything here.

Speaker 4 (17:13):
That's what I say.

Speaker 6 (17:14):
We don't need to do one or the other. The
baby can't even see you, like you're blur. They don't
know who you are. You know, like you don't need
to do skin this game with the baby.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
And the grand reaper. You're supporting your daughter giving birth.

Speaker 6 (17:26):
Put me on a FaceTime call mom. We got one
day in Cabo for the wedding. Come on now, it's tough.

Speaker 2 (17:34):
Yeah, I'm going through these texts eight five five five
nine three five. You can call on text. Keep the
wedding day. I mean, come on, you can't make everybody happy.
Nina says, I'm with Kiki danit an uninvited end of story.

Speaker 1 (17:47):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Uh, Lana says, I don't buy that the sister did
it on purpose, but I feel like the parents are
in the wrong.

Speaker 1 (17:55):
Yeah, that was just me wild key well the goalie
leading up to the way. All right, guys, let me
take care so to the math forty weeks backwards the
camp and then all right.

Speaker 6 (18:09):
Nobody needs to be getting busy around my wedding day,
like you know, I get it together.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
Yeah, okay, so I'll be sure, okay, roughly when you're getting.

Speaker 6 (18:18):
Married September of twenty twenty seven.

Speaker 1 (18:20):
All right, so let me think about this. Was that nice?

Speaker 2 (18:21):
So I will not be having I will not copulate
in January of twenty twenty seven, just in case. Shot
close up shot right, and everyone around me has to
be sterile. Yes, no one here is having any kind
of intimate relations in December or January. Way this time
next year, we're we're doing dry January. But it's a

(18:42):
different kind of drive.

Speaker 1 (18:43):
I already stopped. We ain't have no babies, yeah, right,
you hear.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
Me, k J J. No one's getting pregnant that out.
You know what, I'm just gonna get a preemptive vasectomate.
Yes you need to, just so there's no way I
have any kind of baby and miss your wedding.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
I'm not playing with y'all.

Speaker 2 (19:07):
Lana, So you're it was on purpose, Lina, You're in
the no on purpose camp.

Speaker 1 (19:13):
Okay, my bad, Lana.

Speaker 7 (19:15):
That was me.

Speaker 11 (19:17):
It's really hard to get pregnant on purpose, Like to
plan that out so far in advance, I'd be like diabolical. Honestly,
I feel like the only.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
People who get pregnant that the moment, like that, the
very second they possibly can. Of the people who the
doctor said that they couldn't, like my sister, we were
talking about this over the break. My sister got married
and got pregnant almost like boom boom, and so the
doctor was saying that she may never be able to
get pregnant, like this is gonna oh man, this is
gonna take years if it happens at all.

Speaker 1 (19:47):
Boom.

Speaker 2 (19:47):
First try so this whole thing where people are looking
at the calendar, and I think you got to be
like ultra fertile for that to happen. No one's doing
it on purpose. Yeah, so wait, but what do you
do though, Like do you how do you do? You
try and do it both both things? You go to
the wedding and then jump on a plane and fly

(20:09):
and you know, I mean, how do you You can't
pick one.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
Or the other.

Speaker 11 (20:13):
Yeah, I mean it's unfortunate that they're both happening on
the same day. But like, presumably the sister who's pregnant
had a wedding and her parents were there, so I
think it's fair. It's only fair for the parents to
be at their daughter's wedding and then they can go
see the baby after the fact. To immediately say, just
immediately say yeah, that's not we're not coming to your

(20:34):
wedding anymore. That's really like a heart for these things
to hear.

Speaker 2 (20:38):
Yeah, yeah, thank you, Lana, have a good day you too.
I can't believe the number of people who are in
the she did it on purpose?

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Can't? That's right?

Speaker 2 (20:46):
We stand strong, Ashley. You're saying the same thing. How
do you do it on purpose? I mean, look, I
am not a woman. I act like you know, I'm
very moody.

Speaker 8 (20:58):
Yes, because being is what.

Speaker 2 (21:00):
I'm saying about you and I can be equally booty,
which is why I can say it.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
You know she planned it, yeah, asked, but you don't.

Speaker 9 (21:07):
It's so difficult for some women though you don't know
that it's going to be that.

Speaker 2 (21:11):
My not misunderstanding about how this all works is that
it's a very small window of opportunity.

Speaker 3 (21:16):
Correct.

Speaker 12 (21:17):
If she knew that her sister was having a wedding
soon within a year at least, I wouldn't even have
tried to have a baby. I would have been like, no,
there's no way I'm going to try to have a
baby right now, just in case I get pregnant.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
I'm upstaining.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
Yes, I mean, I suppose it's like I don't want
to be pregnant in the photos. Maybe I guess, but
I don't know that people are thinking like that.

Speaker 6 (21:40):
Well, I mean, you are my maid of honor, you
are my girl, you're my right hand bro.

Speaker 2 (21:45):
But nine months out, so I'm supposed to know the date,
and then I'm supposed to do what we're joking about,
and I'm supposed to say, Okay, Keik is getting married
in September of next year, which means December and January.
Nobody be doing anything around here that would potentially affect
my availability in September of twenty twenty seven.

Speaker 11 (22:06):
That is the rule for us and all.

Speaker 13 (22:07):
There's a lot of factors that mean it's not always.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
You can't always do this.

Speaker 6 (22:14):
I mean, but also as a sister, right and also
as a sister, you should say, Mom, I appreciate you
wanting to be there to support us, but please go
to my sister's wedding. You came to my wedding.

Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, I understand.

Speaker 6 (22:28):
Like the sister's not even standing up for her and
saying like, no, Mom, the right thing to do is
be there for my sister.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
The baby will be here when you get back.

Speaker 2 (22:37):
You don't have to be there right at that moment.
I agree, you can be there within twenty four hours.
And I don't know that people wouldn't appreciate that. Again,
it's sad if the plan was that they would be
in the room, the mom would be there with it.
But I don't maybe that, maybe that's not a necessary
part of this, and everybody can get what they want
all within in you know, in expedient manner, I'll go

(23:00):
to your wedding. I'll jump on a plane, I'll fly home,
I'll meet my grandkid and it will all happen, and
everybody went right.

Speaker 12 (23:06):
That was exactly what the figure should have said.

Speaker 2 (23:08):
Yeah, thank you, Ashley, have a good day.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
You can Wh'm sorry. Try for years and then you're
saying she planted too, You're.

Speaker 5 (23:21):
Sorry, sorry, my god, sorry, not sorry. I need a
doctor though, so I know when the sister actually found
out she got pregnant. Because how you're telling me that,
all of a sudden, your d day's exact same day
as my as my wedding, I don't believe.

Speaker 2 (23:35):
Well, what difference does it make the days you found out?
How like she can go to the days you found out
she can go. I'd like to schedule this for you.
Can They wouldn't the thing is growing in you only
within a certain period of time, like.

Speaker 13 (23:47):
A baby, because I feel like you wouldn't be saying
this stuff if you.

Speaker 5 (23:49):
Have Okay, totally no, I don't do kids.

Speaker 2 (23:52):
Okay, okay, you need to call my g.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
On the phone.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
Yeah, I saw him recently. By the way, get doctor mat.
It's so weird to me that I'm friends with your gynecologists.
It's very strange. And he comes up to me at events,
and I'm like, you know some stuff, but any and
he delivered your baby. But it's not that simple. And
I understand that you can schedule a C section or
you can schedule an inducement, but the act is that
the clock is already ticking, the bomb is already going

(24:25):
to go off.

Speaker 1 (24:25):
It's not like I can move that around scheduling.

Speaker 5 (24:28):
It's not the scheduling, but it just sounds interesting, because
then why would I plan my wedding when I already
know my sister is pregnant and do around that day?

Speaker 1 (24:36):
And how vindictive?

Speaker 2 (24:37):
Ay for a different day, Tierra, How how vindictive are
you that you say, oh, my sister's getting married?

Speaker 1 (24:42):
Watch this?

Speaker 12 (24:43):
Well?

Speaker 5 (24:45):
I love my biblings, but my momble name is Petty Webell,
so I.

Speaker 13 (24:48):
Will at least you're honest.

Speaker 2 (24:51):
But this is shocking information. Tierra, Thank you so much.
Have a great day. I did love you too.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
This is wild. Christina, good morning.

Speaker 7 (25:00):
How are you you know?

Speaker 1 (25:02):
Help? I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
I can understand a guy calling up here like like
a dummy, like one of us going on, But ladies,
I guess I think you guys understand how difficult this
would be to accomplish if it's on purpose.

Speaker 7 (25:16):
Oh, I guess like it can't be on purpose because
you can't you know, you can't time pregnancy.

Speaker 6 (25:22):
But like.

Speaker 7 (25:24):
Having having had a traumatic birth, do you want your
mom there?

Speaker 14 (25:29):
Like I understand you're getting married and that's beautiful and
and everything, but like if you if your parents travel
to your destination wedding and you and your other daughter
who's pregnant dies or is this the baby or both
are very very sick.

Speaker 7 (25:44):
Like your mind is not going to be on the wedding.
Your mind is only going to be on the daughter
who's in the hospital way or whatever, because you cannot
guarantee to help. My son was born, was born lifeless.
I almost led to death, Like you don't, you don't
know what's going to happen.

Speaker 2 (25:59):
I got to think if that's sorry, Yeah, of course,
of course I got to think so that.

Speaker 7 (26:03):
If that's.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
But if we're high risk, or if there's any sort
of like indication that we're there's an emergency, I gotta
think the wedding gets canceled at that point. And you
can be mad about that if you want, but like
that isn't necessarily within her control. Now you know that
there could be a catastrophe, but like the fact that
they're just happening around the same time, Like especially consideringly,

(26:27):
look at you. You have a wedding date almost two
years ahead. So if I then come to you and
say in you know, I don't know a few months,
not even that it's nine eight months from your wedding,
and go, yeah, sorry, I know you've had it for
two years, but I'm planning something at the same time,
and I'm not going to be able to go.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
That's on me. That makes me the jerky. Yes, yes, absolutely,
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (26:53):
And I just want to add though, like so she
can have a perfect pregnancy, because my pregnancy was perfect,
So you can have a perfect press but no indication,
go to your thirty eight week appointment and your doctors
like go to the hospital, like you just you don't know,
And like I feel sympathy because this is definitely a
very tough situation for both of ladies. Like you can't

(27:13):
plan pregnancies. You do plan weddings, but it's like it's
just this unfortunate unfolding and I think that the parents
need to be with a daughter that.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
Got that could be at rech All right, fair enough,
Thank you, Christina. I have a good one, have a
good day, all right. Now, we got some expertise here, Ashley.
You are a labor and delivery nurse. Hey, yeah, and
we love nurses around here. Apparently some doctors listen to this,
but they don't want to admit it.

Speaker 1 (27:39):
Remember that one lady came up to.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
Us at the children's hospital for the fundraiser we did,
and this lady comes up and she's like, basically, she
said to us in the nicest way, I'm way too
smart to be listening to you, But you know your
you dummies make me make my day easier because then
I go have to go do smart like life saving stuff.
But on the way to do that, you dummies make
me feel you know, normal, is what she based you
said to us. But actually you you are not a dummy,

(28:03):
and you understand how this all works. Please give us
some perspective.

Speaker 7 (28:07):
Okay, So to get that specific date, I'll admit it's
hard to do.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
It's I'm purpose, but like the.

Speaker 7 (28:13):
General area, you kind of knew when you were trying
to get pregnant that it was going to happen around
that time. But I will say she should not change
her date. She should keep her wedding as it is,
because the likelihood of her sister having that baby on
that exact date is low.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
You know, you don't always have.

Speaker 7 (28:32):
Your baby exactly at your du date.

Speaker 10 (28:34):
So the mom has the.

Speaker 7 (28:35):
Grandma has the chance to have like maybe see the baby.
Who knows, like even a month before, like some babies
come early. So she should keep her date. And then
who knows that she might be able to get both
see her baby at the hospital and go to the
other sister's wedding.

Speaker 2 (28:53):
Okay, yeah, I like it to actually thank you, have
a good day. Yeah, we're not moving anything. We're leaving
it all right there, and we're hoping.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
For the best. Hey, Data, that's hard to Hello.

Speaker 2 (29:04):
I'll turn your radio down please. And you also are
a labor and delivery nurse. Shouldn't you be delivered a baby?
Is anyone delivering a baby right now? Is anyone attending
to anyone?

Speaker 5 (29:13):
No?

Speaker 11 (29:14):
No, no.

Speaker 8 (29:15):
I used to be a labor and delivery nurse for
a long time, and I hear what everyone is saying,
but I kind of think that parents are in the
wrong here. They need to attend the sister. I always
said in the delivery room. If you were there for conception,
then you should be there for delivery. If you weren't

(29:35):
there for concession, there is no reason for you to
be in that room when the baby is born. You
can see the baby after after the wedding. That's a
big like, that's a big thing. That's just my thought
on it.

Speaker 2 (29:47):
Well, and I hear, I hear the emergency situation, But
if it's really dire, I got to think there's not
going to be a wedding anyway, which is unfortunate as
that is, I'm not going to have my wedding if
my sister's under you know, in an emergency situation that
we're not celebrating. In that case, we're probably rethinking the
whole thing. But we're hoping and assuming that everything's going

(30:07):
to go well and normally right, So that's not really
in consideration because again, if I'm not yeah, wow, that
timing is unfortunate.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
But like if if we're days out and.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
It's like this isn't going well, my sister's in the hospital,
you know, we have serious life threatening complications or we're
thinking about that, that's different. It sucks.

Speaker 13 (30:27):
So because both girls deserve to have their mom with
them at those moments if they want that, I understand,
like she feels differently, but you both deserve to have
your mommy if you want her. You know, I agree
your mommy, Yeah, Mom, sometimes you need your mommy.

Speaker 6 (30:42):
Yes.

Speaker 8 (30:43):
But I also think if the mom doesn't go to
this girl's wedding, like down the road, there is going
to be this little bit of resentment towards the mom
and dad for not attending this big life event, and
it's going to affect when they have kids. And it's
like it's like the first sister is the number one

(31:03):
sister is what I'm like getting this.

Speaker 1 (31:08):
Unfortunately they are big.

Speaker 8 (31:10):
Both like they are both big life events. But I
still think the mom and the dad can go see
the grandchild after the baby's born. They need to attend
the wedding the baby is because here's the thing, mom
and dad, when that baby comes out, you never ever
get those moments back alone as a family for the

(31:32):
very first time ever again in your life. And if
you immediately pull out your phone and start taking pictures
and facetiming and hear Grandma like here Grandpa, it just
takes away that stuck give yourself that time. This is
to anyone having a baby. This is just my thought, Like,
I just think you should take that time to be
a family of three. Grandma doesn't live with you, Grandma

(31:56):
is not the caregiver. Like Grandma can come later in
the after the wedding is over and hop on a
plane and do the things. Because she was a you know,
she had little kids at one point.

Speaker 5 (32:05):
She can manage.

Speaker 8 (32:06):
Like I just I just don't think she should miss
the wedding.

Speaker 2 (32:10):
I think it's possible, it's very possible that they can
have the wedding, and even if that's the day that
labor takes hours and hours and hours, and then you're
right jump on the plane after the wedding and then
you're there and everybody, everybody wins. And I know that
there's a timeline, like a ticking timeline on this, like
once you're pregnant, it's happening in a certain period of time.
But I also think like whoever announced the big event

(32:33):
first takes precedence because it's like no meaning that Mom's
going to the wedding, and because I imagine if and
I guess the reason I bring this up is because
you could say, well, you could move yours but like
if you say you're pregnant and then I say, oh good,
I'm gonna have my wedding in nine months, then like
that makes me a jerk. So I just think, like we,

(32:55):
I don't know, maybe be considerate of the fact that
these major life events are happening as much as we
oak about maybe not having a baby on purpose around.

Speaker 1 (33:03):
This time, right because it's so easy. Maybe we do.
I don't. Yeah, this is complicated.

Speaker 8 (33:08):
Just like Kiki, that wedding was planned way longer tine
months ago.

Speaker 1 (33:12):
Okay, book the DJ girl. I'm trying to picture someone.

Speaker 9 (33:16):
Tell Paulina that Gigi's having a baby and she wants
her mommy in that room, and Paulina, Oh.

Speaker 10 (33:22):
I'm going I'm going listen, like get the passport ready,
like mom's got to hop plain hop because that's what
we're doing, Like your mom are going to both if
I if I'm the daughter, I'm having a baby and
I want my mom there, and I did. My My
mom was holding my leg okay, like I wanted her there,
like she was gonna hop on.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
I want to how it make it?

Speaker 10 (33:36):
Sometimes isn't the most helpful, No, my mom, she had
to be there.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
I was weird part as I was holding the other
one than having a day. The first responder was in
the lobby with the cigar.

Speaker 13 (33:50):
His voice was there in his boots and docksboard.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
Oh it's the fun fact is more bread show next

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