February 4, 2025 • 27 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the fread show. This is what's trending. Somebody text it,
put in a help desk ticket. They're tired of hearing that.
Oh well, yeah, we get that around here all the time.
I feel so bad for engineer Karen, the brilliant engineer.
Karen actually a member of MENSA. She's actually a genius,
of course. And I don't know, I'm not supposed to
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say this, because you're supposed to, like, if you have
a problem around here, like you could literally walk by
Karen or any of the engineers and be like, hey,
I have a problem. What you're supposed to do, though,
is not pretending they're not actually physically standing in front
of you. I don't know if everyone else's office is
like this. You're supposed to go into your office and
put if I had one of those, and then put
in a help ticket, but then gets assigned to one
of the humans that you just saw, and then they
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can come over to you and engage. But until then
they're not allowed to speak to you. Now, Karen, I
just I just email right, go ahead, look, and then
what's funny? And she'll go fix it and then put
in a help ticket. Oh yeah, for the thing that
she already fixed, because I guess that's how they try
to see like who's actually working her credit? Yes, give
her her credit, which is fine. I'm just like, I
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don't want to have to explain this twice. I know
I can. I just tell you and then you'll fix
it right now and everything's fine. Can you imagine like
on those days that you know, I'm saying the name
of the radio station, like right in the middle of
Kaylen's talking, and I have nothing and I'm not even
doing anything, and it's a computer in the back that
we don't have access to that needs to be you know,
somebody's like blowing the cartridge. It's like, I don't have
time for a ticket. No, I need to know. I'm
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gonna if you don't come and fix it, I'm gonna
go back there and hit recent in every single box
I see until it's fixed, which could be a real
problem for you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Karen's an angel. She hates to see me coming though.
There'll be days where I call her at six oh
one am. I'm like, oh, I'm sorry, Karen, but I
need you, and she's there.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
She is there. That's how I would feel if I
if I had a job like that where I was
the only person that could fix something, and if my
phone rang in the middle of the night, I'd just
be like, I'm up now, Like something's happening. I'm gonna
have to go up there and fix it, move the
tin foiler round on the antenna or whatever. So the
super Bowl is this weekend. Roger Goodell, the commission of
the NFL. He's shot down the popular conspiracy theory the
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Chiefs are getting favorable calls from the NFL officials in
order to make sure that Patrick Mahomes and Travis Kelcey
and Taylor's Swift and all that that the dynasty keeps
on going. So he says, that's a ridiculous theory. And
for anyone who might take that seriously, it sounds like
the script that I write a script, and that I
have a script for the entire season. A lot of
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these theories are things that happen on social media and
they get a new life. Huh. Theories on social media
that then become reality with no fact base basis. Huh.
Nobody wants it to be their theory. I understand it.
It reflects a lot of the fans' passion It's also
a reminder for us how important officiating is now. There
are stats that would support the Chiefs getting more favorable
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calls than every other team, but this guy's saying it's
not true. I could also see why they would want
as much Taylor Swift on national television as possible for
as long as possible, And I can see what they
would want. You know, these dynasties, these teams that win three, four,
you know, five in a row like the NBA had
for so long.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
What cracks me up is every time like something associated
with them post Tailor, the comments are no one cares,
who cares?
Speaker 1 (03:13):
No one cares? Who cares? Which I love that people
think they can speak for everyone.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
But also it's like you're engaging with the post so
it's gonna just keep getting posted because it's doing numbers every.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Time, and you obviously care if you feel the need
to get in there and say you don't care, right,
So you're the problem, right because you, right, the more
engagement than the bigger the post kits and keep doing
it exactly. The NFL is getting federal help for the
Super Bowl security this weekend ahead of Super Bowl fifty nine.
There saying it's gonna be very safe. League officials said
yesterday the safest place to be this weekend will be
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under the security umbrella around Caesar's super Dome. The plan
includes help from the Department of Homeland Security, which has
dispatched nearly five hundred FBI personnel in New Orleans to
investigate and prevent threats. Of course, there was an attack
not that long ago in New Orleans that was, of
course not anticipated, and it revealed some holes in the
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security process. So they're saying this week and is gonna
be very safe, and I hope that that's true. The
price of Super Bowl tickets has actually gone down. The
cheapest ticket for the Super Bowl this weekend in New
Orleans has fallen below four thousand dollars, which is a
thirty percent decline over a week and more than fifty
percent cheaper compared to last year's record breaking Super Bowl.
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Why the price drop, Well, people aren't that excited about
seeing the Chiefs play again. Supposedly, yeah, God, I guess so.
Two employees at the Metropolitan Washington Airport Authority have been
arrested over leaking video of the American Airlines passenger jet
colliding with an Army helicopter to CNN a twenty one
year old man and a forty five year old man
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who both work at the airport in Award, and if
they were paid for the video or how they got
it or where they were standing or whatever. But yeah,
I guess they immediately took the video that they had
captured and send it to the news network and now
they're under investigation. A TikTok is under pressure to find
a new owner by April, after President Trump signed a
seventy five day extension by the law that requires the
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app to be sold from its China based parent company,
Byte Dance or be banned in the US. He said
Monday that TikTok could be acquired by a newly proposed
US sovereign wealth fund to ensure the app remains accessible
to it's one hundred and seventy million American users, but
standing up a sovereign wealth fund and then using the
fund to acquire the platform is unlikely to happen anytime soon,
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according to analyst, it's not clear who would run the
fund or whether it could gather the tens of billions
of dollars estimated that it would be needed to buy
the platform. Kiki, how are you doing on the fundraising?
I know you have a go fund me going. Yes,
are we anywhere near the ten billion that we need? Yeah,
I'm just waiting on my taxes. Yeah, as soon as
my income taxes come, I plan to buy it. So
you have to file taxes though, in order to get
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a return.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Right, So I actually did that, you know you did?
My w two's dropped like an album. Get it, and
then I wouldn't found my Texas. Okay, Now, when I
get my income my return, I plan to officially submit
my offer.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
And then bowl. That is incredible. I am the owner.
You could have done one of those H and R
block things where you get the tens of billions a
little bit earlier than everybody else.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Well, no, I go to the place where I got
the little George Washington man out there, no statue of liberty.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah, doing a little twork, the waving one that waves
with the fan on the bottom. Yeah, that's where you
get you Texas done. Yeah, I'm sure that's reputable. The
Southwest is going to offer red Eye flights for the
first time ever in it's fifty year history. So if
you want to get crammed at the back of a
seven thirty seven from nineteen eighty four and fly all
night long from Phoenix to Baltimore. You can do it
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Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Phoenix to Baltimore, plus Vegas to
Orlando and LA to Nashville. And these flights would depart
the West coast like between nine thirty and eleven pm
and then land at six am local time on the
East coast. But Southwest has never offered those before. So
you can do that if you want to be in
boarding groups. I guess, well, now they're going to start
as signing seats.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I read that, yes, so I'm ready for the assigning seats.
I love Southwest personally. Took a giant school bus and
I like to get on and see where everyone's sitting,
where everybody's at. You know, we're all even, We're all
on the same plane.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
It's not true, you're not even because if you have
an a boarding group that you paid for, if you're
a one, you are not like everybody else. Yeah, you're
not like us, asked the guy. I'm not kidding you.
I had to go somewhere for work. They paid for
the ticket. They put me on Southwest, and I was
I checked in late. So I was like boarding group Z.
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So I was going to be sitting on the flight attendant,
the male flight attendant's lap, not even the female. Wasn't
gonna be great. And so I upgrade. So I didn't
pay the ticket. So I paid the money to get
a something. You know how you paid the money upgrade
the gate. So I got a three. I was so excited,
so excited. So I go to the front of the
line and then here comes A two and he's like, hey,
I'm a two. Like okay, well there are two hundred
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seats on the plane, but sure you're a two. Stand
in front of me that hey one comes along and
it's imperative that everybody knows he's a one and he
will be the first person on the flight. So then
he stands there. He kind of fumbles with something as
we're boarding, and so A two physically walks in front
of him, and we approached like the little door to
the airplane, and I kid you not, A one goes stop.
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I am a one. I will board the plane first,
And I kid you not, I'm a three. A two
turns around looks at him and it was like, are
you serious? What are the there's nobody on this plane.
Do you really think I'm gonna take the one seat
that you? And honestly, a flight attendant had to come
out and be like, is everything okay here? Because A
one had to get on before a two because he
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was a one. He was a one, and he told
y'all he was a one, like you would do that.
You would never do that, Kiki.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
And I'm just happy to get in there when I
get to be like, you know, first class on somebody
else's dime, or I am very much like can I
see your ticket?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Thanks? And I get my spot. Yeah, get to the bag, brokie,
you know that? Or like the r Asian, I have
an airline credit card if I get like an upgrade,
and I'm sitting in the front and everyone walks by,
and I'm like drinking my little my little like water
down orange juice with my little mixed nuts, and I'm like, yeah,
that's right, This right here is what you aspired to be.
C of course I'm never up there, but like the
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one time am I act like this is the way
I travel, Like the PJ is broken today, so I'm
gonna have to slum it like this, I guess I'll
have another water down orange juice, please, And a seven
eleven customer in Florida used a banana to batter a
store clerk. Even better, she's a stripper. Her name is
How would you say his name? Kiki? Come here? Look
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at that? How would you say this name? I'm almost
afraid to say that. It looks like a profane thing.
Put your hand on the dump calta via ya. I
doubt that that's your stripper name. It's a little doesn't
really roll off the tongue like a turquoise or a
you know, like a jade. You know, we need you
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know as many single syllable words. She had to a
verbal altercation with a female worker at a seven to eleven.
At one point, she became my rate, picked up the
banana from the cashier counter. Through the banana at the
victim's face. The fruit struck the employee on the cheek bone,
left of minor abrasion. The banana was not seize as evidence. Turner,
who is a stripper, we had to have that in
the story, was arrested for battery and booked into the
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county jail on a misdemeanor count. It's national homemade Soup
Day and National Thank a Mail Carrier Days. Oh and
if you're asking why we do those days, it's because
we did it to make fun of another show a
long time ago, like a decade ago. And now if
I don't do them, I will get emails? What about
the days? Same with the fun fact. We did a
fun fact later in the show, simply to make fun
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of a show that that was like their biggest bit.
They were so proud of it, so we just took it.
It moved over here and I was kidding. I was joking,
And now if I don't do it, people will email
me all I'm not kidding. I will get dms all day.
What was the fun fact? I was joking. I was kidding.
The Entertainment Reports. Next, It's the Friend Show. Good Morning,
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Freends Show is on. It's Stay or Go all right, Hellla,
good morning, Lola, Welcome to the show. How are you cool, Lola? Lola?
Speaker 6 (11:14):
Are you hi? Yes?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
You were mute. You just had a full conversation with yourself, Lola.
Speaker 6 (11:22):
I did.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
I'm a little embarrassed by that. I will. That should
just show you how how I'm doing well. I mean,
you know, these things happen so what's going on? First
of all, this is kind of a sad story, and
I'm sorry about that. But what's going on with your boyfriend?
And why don't you kind of fill us in?
Speaker 6 (11:40):
Yeah, so my boyfriend put our dog down without talking
to me while I was out of town.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
I'm sorry for your loss. I mean, I was talking
to someone about this last site. Losing humans is difficult,
but whatever he's Losing dogs and pets is as or
more difficult for some reason. So I'm sorry that happened
to you. What happened though, Why did he do that?
Speaker 6 (12:09):
You know, I mean I first got the dog, and
thank you for that, I appreciate. I mean, I'm so
out of sorts, I like can't even work my phone properly.
I I mean I first got the dog, you know,
about a year before I started dating my boyfriend. But
we've raised the dog for you know, about seven years,
and I knew, you know, she was having some health issues,
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and you know, I wasn't expecting it to be so soon.
And when I got home, my boyfriend told me that
I guess she was having seizures. And so my boyfriend
took her to you know, urgent care.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
And the vet said it was time to put her down,
and my boyfriend told me, uh, he didn't want to
ruin my trip.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
Well, yeah, look, I don't want to sound insensitive when
I say this, but unfortunately I've been part of this
process before, and I feel like when it happens, sometimes
the most humane thing to do is, you know, for
that for that to occur, Like I've been there when
I've taken a dog to the vet and the vet
has been like, there's nothing we can do. You've done everything,
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like the most you know, the best thing to do
at this point would be probably to consider putting him
or her down because and I suppose a couple of
days may not have mattered much, but what I would
imagine he was thinking. I got to think is that
that was the right thing to do for the dog
and it wasn't going to change whether you were there
or not. That said, how much longer, Like was it
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two days, three days a week? I mean, how long
was it before you got back? It was a couple
of days.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
And it's it's not even like I do I agree
with you, Like I do think he did the right thing.
There's no way I want my dog to suffer just
for my selfish reasons to like say goodbye, but the
fact that I wasn't called or consultancy that rare, Like
I just shut up, and if that wasn't he just
broke the news to me.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
That's what bothers me. I can't even look him in
the eye right now, and.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
So I just that's that's my main issues, Like, am I.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Ever gonna building it over this? Because Lola people are
immediately texting into this the station lego, I don't even
need to hear the whole story.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Leave.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
It's unacceptable. Again, I'm trying to see you know, my
mom was out of town once when we put one
of our dogs down, family dogs down, and it was
absolutely the right thing to do. The dog was having seizures.
It was really bad. My dad did call my mom
and say, we have Katie was her name, Kay kat
Won Katie the snaucher. She was sixteen, having seizures all
the time, but they were becoming so consistent that it
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was like okay, And so he called my mom and say, hey,
I'm going to take Katie to the vet, but I
think it's time. And my mom was obviously very sad,
but that was the right thing to do. And I
think she felt like she was involved in the decision,
which that would be the I agree that's the part
where it would have probably ruined your trip, But it
also is something that I feel like you should have
had some equity in the decision making process for right.
(15:11):
I agree, Thank you.
Speaker 6 (15:13):
I feel so validated because you know that was like
our baby, and and of course I would have been sad,
but you know, I'm an adult, like, yes, this is
my trip would have been. I would have been very sad,
but you know it was even more jarring was was,
you know, walking into our home and being like, where,
where's our fur baby?
Speaker 1 (15:35):
And then him being like, oh, I just.
Speaker 6 (15:38):
Made this decision without even consulting you.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
Yeah. Yeah, I mean again, I'm trying to see the
other side of this, where it's sometimes these things they
can't linger because it wouldn't be fair to the animal.
But at least he could have told you what he
was going to do or what was happening. I also
see that if there I'm trying to play devil's advocate here,
but if there was no alternative, if this was absolutely
what had to have happened, then I don't know where
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you where did you enjoy your trip for the last
few days, you know what I mean, Like everyone is
texting up here, going there's no way that's okay to do.
On the flip side, though, what was he He could
have called, he could have not called. But if they
were going to do it that day, they were gonna
do it that day, no matter what. Right, Yeah, So yeah,
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I would want to I would want to know. But
like if you're my parents, for example, my parents have
medical procedures apparently consistently, and then they just forget to
tell me. And then because they don't want me to worry. Yes,
they don't want me to worry. They don't want to
ruin my day, they don't want me to be concerned
all day whatever. And then that my mom will call
me and be like, yeah, Dad's recovering great from what.
Oh wow, yeah you had open heart surgery today and
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they you know, they put a new way, they put
a bad boon hard in and it's a great bat
boon though, and everything's fine. He's gonna live into me
two hundred and everything. It's like, well, I would have
liked to have known that, you know, so I could
have been supportive, but I also understand why they feel
like if if it's going to go well and fine
and everything, you know, I mean, if it's a normal thing,
then I don't know. I like the transparency though personally,
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but and are you thinking about leaving him for this?
Speaker 6 (17:09):
I mean it does sort of seem like it's something
so small, but it's also something so big at the
same time.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
You know, like he knows Daisy was my baby.
Speaker 6 (17:20):
You know, I mean, she was our dog, but you
know that was that was my baby.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
So it's just very I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (17:29):
I just think that is kind of a major red
flag that you wouldn't consult your partner even if, like
you knew they were on a trip, like I would,
I would have called him.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Do you feel like he is he considerate of you
in other ways? Is this the first time that you've
seen him do something without thinking at least optically with
because some could argue he was thinking about your well being.
Others would say that it was, you know, unacceptable of
him not to consult you. I mean, is he generally
a considerate guy or is it pretty common that he
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just does what he wants and then tells you about
it later.
Speaker 6 (18:03):
I would say he's consider it, but kind of like
on like it's now I'm looking at it through like
a different lens, and it's kind of like he has
good intentions. That's almost like in like like at a kid,
and I don't want to disrespect him, but like almost
like a kindergarten level, like like the emotional intelligence isn't there,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (18:23):
I don't know because I'm just thinking if it's a
global issue that he just does stuff and is he
going to do that with your kids some day? Is
he going to do that? You know, I don't know.
Is he going to do that with your lives and say, oh, yeah,
you know, we're doing this. Oh, by the way, I
took a job in San Antonio when we're leaving right,
you know kind of thing. If that kind of stuff's
going to pop up all the time where he doesn't
think about you, then that's a problem. But if yeah,
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in this one instance, he sounds like he didn't do
right by you, and I'm no winning though, to be honest,
like that's kind of where I'm at, Like I don't tell.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Her and then the thing is okay, Like if he
told her and she's on a trip right I think
for me personally, it would just kill me because I'm
not there to say goodbye.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
R I'm not there to you know, be there for
my dog's last breath. Oh yeah, trips over right, trips
over right? Done? Yeah, immediately exactly like immediately, Which that
may have been nice too, if you'd had the option
to say, all right, you know, give me twenty four hours,
I'm gonna come home. I want to be there for
this kind of thing. That's I agree with that too,
But let me take some phone calls on this, Lola,
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and I appreciate you what you callum, Sorry for your loss,
and now we're gonna talk about you behind your back,
so good luck. Well, thanks, I appreciate you, guys. Yes,
I appreciate you too. Thank you. Eight five five three five.
Let's see a vet tech here. A vet tech texted
vet tech for seven years. Unfortunately, with seizures and pets,
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depending on the length of them severity, it can lead
to brain neuro damage if numerous occur in a short period.
I agree she should have been told, but in the
middle of a seizure moment that may not have been
much time to There may not have been much time
to decide, especially if medication weren't stopping them once at
the vet. I've seen some dogs be unable to come
out of a seizure with iView medications and the post
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seizure face. See that's again, like if it happened, if
it had to happen, if the right thing to do was,
you know, hey, we need to end this, which was
the case I was involved with. But luckily everybody involved
was there, you know, in the room. But I mean,
if it had to happen, now, maybe you call and say, hey,
I have terrible news. I'm sorry, this is happening. It's
the best thing for the dog, Daisy, that's what you do, yes, yeah, and.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
Have to communicate right, No, you cannot just make that
type of decision and not consult her, Like what to me?
It says like he doesn't think she's emotionally strong enough
to handle certain things. So what else will you like
to me about or what else will you omit telling me?
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Okay, let's say though, let me ask you this, Kiki.
So you last year, it was last year you want
to Gracie award, right, big award? You want a big
award for females and media and you're at this thing,
God forbid. Let's I don't want to say Lock's your dog.
Let's just make it. You had a hamster named Ted
and you love that hamster. But this is your big
day and Ted's not doing well. And Tim takes Ted
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to the vet and say, a hamster, Ted's got to go.
I'm sorry, like he's in a lot of pain and
it's really inhumane and whatever. And Tim has a choice.
Do I call and make Keky cry before she goes
up on stage and wins as big a ward, or
do I do what has to be done?
Speaker 5 (21:18):
You know, you you call me, you communicate with me,
and even if you know I'm going out on stage
to do something, you call whoever's with me my sister,
You say, hey, let me know when she's done accepting
her award. I want to make sure I let her
know what's going on with Ted. You know, like you
can't just keep secrets from your partner because you're scared
of their reaction. I cannot stand that, Like when people
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try to overthink how I will feel or react to something.
Give me that's fan to feel how I want to feel, Indie,
that's fair?
Speaker 4 (21:45):
And how do you just exist for two days after
you just killed my dog, and you're just like, what
are you doing?
Speaker 5 (21:50):
Like just vibing, but you just let me walk in
the house to an empty house, right.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
What weird? Like you know, I would want to know.
I'm an animal lover, you know, I would want to
know and be involved, and I would get on the
first place lane and go. I would want to be there.
That being said, I can see a world where someone's
trying to protect your feelings at least when the decision
isn't a decision, right, it's not Hey, we could keep
the dog alive for another six months and maybe it
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gets better. No. I mean normally in these situations, they'll
say to you like, this dog's not going to improve.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
But you're trying to control my reaction to something like
as Pinky said, like please let me decide for myself please.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, I get that. Hey, Sarah, good morning, Good morning,
Hi Sarah. So just to recap here, Lola just called
and unfortunately Lola and her boyfriend of about eight years
had a dog together, and the boyfriend put the dog
down while she was on a trip because the dog
was having seizures and not doing well. And then she
returns to find this out. He says he didn't want
to ruin her trip. She says, well, I wanted to
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know what I wanted to know when it was happening,
So maybe she could have come home or I don't know,
I've been aware of what was going on. What do
you think.
Speaker 7 (23:00):
Something super similar happened to myself? We had our cat,
We were on a trip. We were about six hour
drive away up in Michigan, and our cat was a
little bit sick, like similar to what she Lola had
said about her dog being a little bit unwell. And
we had somebody watching her, and we got permission from
the vet that we could go. And then all of
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a sudden, five in the morning, we get a call
that you know, our cat is not going to make it,
like it's at death's door, out of vet. And it
was an extremely quick process, like we got in the
car to start leaving, and we ended up seeing her
for literally like two minutes.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
But like the decision was.
Speaker 7 (23:42):
Made whether or not, like we needed to make that decision,
and I had to ask someone else to.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Make that decision.
Speaker 7 (23:47):
But I cannot imagine that decision being made for me. Yeah,
and with my partner was with me, and like ultimately
it was you know, her cat, like she would.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Make the ultimate decision.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
But even like that was our cat, Like if that
was if someone made that decision without me, I would
feel so betrayed and so not important in such an
like that's kind of like a child in a lot
of ways, Like yeah, even if you were a parent
making a huge decision like that on your own, just
(24:22):
because you don't want to ruin a trip, like I understand,
and like it ruined our trip, like you know, driving
in pitch black in the middle of the night, no sleep,
not getting to do something we had planned to do
for you know, five plus years was super disappointing, right,
Not as disappointing losing our cat.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Yeah, I mean the situation I was in, I was
dating the woman and it was Sophie was a name.
She was a great dog. But Sophie wasn't doing well
for a couple of weeks in the last few days
were really bad, and but I could not be the one,
like I had to just watch this, he had to
make the call, like it had to be her, And
finally one afternoon it was like it was just time
(25:00):
and finally she said, like okay, and then we went
and did it. But like that was her decision to
make on her time frame, based on what she was
comfortable with for the dog, as she'd had for a
long time. So the fact that this woman, Lola, was
not even consulted, I do think it is traumatic. On
the flip side, you take the dog in hoping maybe
that's not the outcome, and if it's like the most
(25:21):
humane thing to do is this right now? I can
also see that world too, because obviously you want what's
most humane for the animal. But I'm sorry that happened, Sarah,
And thank you for calling all good. We're making it through. Yeah,
I have a good day. Thank you for listening. Thank you,
appreciate you. Hey Kia, Hi, Hey, So you're saying maybe
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these guys not so bad.
Speaker 8 (25:46):
Yeah, that's what I think. I think that she had
all right to Philippe, my sister and her wife lost
the dog and saying thing she was devastating. They had
to say, you know, I stayed on safe time, whether
there was a vay, you know, just to be supporting.
So I understand the upsetness about it, but also you
(26:07):
have to understand I think he was really thinking about
her feelings at the end of the day, like, Okay,
I don't want to ruin her trip. I don't know
if she was going to visit the trip or just
a fun trip, but either way, I think he just
didn't want to, you know, upset her.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
So I think she.
Speaker 8 (26:24):
Should, you know, just think about him considering her feelings
at the end of the day. I think that a
conversation should be had, like hey, future references. Don't make
decisions like that without me. Let me know regardless if
he's want to hurt my feelings or if it's want
to ruin the trip, let me know. But I don't
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think that's something to leave him over. Okay, all right,
a conversation.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I hear you have a great day, Thanks for listening.
Appreciate you, is it, Alicia? Yes, hey morning. What do
you think his as would be out the door? Like
I get that too. Yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 8 (27:08):
Had better call me because I will be on a
plane like in an instant.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
I don't care what is holding you, like I would
be there.
Speaker 8 (27:15):
That's my child chatter before he got together, like get
out of.
Speaker 6 (27:20):
Here, man.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Yeah, I'm trying to give this guy the benefit of
the doubt. But I know I'd be pissed. So there's
that he had so many opportunities, like to do the
right thing.
Speaker 6 (27:29):
For the dog and for Lola, like, oh my lord,
I would freaking beat his ass up.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
I hear you. Thank you, Alicia, have a good day
you too, and all that we've decided, leave his ass,
beat his ass, do what you had to do, but
leave his button now immediately. The Entertainment Report After old
School Bruno Mars
It's the fread show. This is what's trending. Somebody text it,
put in a help desk ticket. They're tired of hearing that.
Oh well, yeah, we get that around here all the time.
I feel so bad for engineer Karen, the brilliant engineer.
Karen actually a member of MENSA. She's actually a genius,
of course. And I don't know, I'm not supposed to
(00:20):
say this, because you're supposed to, like, if you have
a problem around here, like you could literally walk by
Karen or any of the engineers and be like, hey,
I have a problem. What you're supposed to do, though,
is not pretending they're not actually physically standing in front
of you. I don't know if everyone else's office is
like this. You're supposed to go into your office and
put if I had one of those, and then put
in a help ticket, but then gets assigned to one
of the humans that you just saw, and then they
(00:42):
can come over to you and engage. But until then
they're not allowed to speak to you. Now, Karen, I
just I just email right, go ahead, look, and then
what's funny? And she'll go fix it and then put
in a help ticket. Oh yeah, for the thing that
she already fixed, because I guess that's how they try
to see like who's actually working her credit? Yes, give
her her credit, which is fine. I'm just like, I
(01:03):
don't want to have to explain this twice. I know
I can. I just tell you and then you'll fix
it right now and everything's fine. Can you imagine like
on those days that you know, I'm saying the name
of the radio station, like right in the middle of
Kaylen's talking, and I have nothing and I'm not even
doing anything, and it's a computer in the back that
we don't have access to that needs to be you know,
somebody's like blowing the cartridge. It's like, I don't have
time for a ticket. No, I need to know. I'm
(01:25):
gonna if you don't come and fix it, I'm gonna
go back there and hit recent in every single box
I see until it's fixed, which could be a real
problem for you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Karen's an angel. She hates to see me coming though.
There'll be days where I call her at six oh
one am. I'm like, oh, I'm sorry, Karen, but I
need you, and she's there.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
She is there. That's how I would feel if I
if I had a job like that where I was
the only person that could fix something, and if my
phone rang in the middle of the night, I'd just
be like, I'm up now, Like something's happening. I'm gonna
have to go up there and fix it, move the
tin foiler round on the antenna or whatever. So the
super Bowl is this weekend. Roger Goodell, the commission of
the NFL. He's shot down the popular conspiracy theory the
(02:04):
Chiefs are getting favorable calls from the NFL officials in
order to make sure that Patrick Mahomes and Travis Kelcey
and Taylor's Swift and all that that the dynasty keeps
on going. So he says, that's a ridiculous theory. And
for anyone who might take that seriously, it sounds like
the script that I write a script, and that I
have a script for the entire season. A lot of
(02:25):
these theories are things that happen on social media and
they get a new life. Huh. Theories on social media
that then become reality with no fact base basis. Huh.
Nobody wants it to be their theory. I understand it.
It reflects a lot of the fans' passion It's also
a reminder for us how important officiating is now. There
are stats that would support the Chiefs getting more favorable
(02:48):
calls than every other team, but this guy's saying it's
not true. I could also see why they would want
as much Taylor Swift on national television as possible for
as long as possible, And I can see what they
would want. You know, these dynasties, these teams that win three, four,
you know, five in a row like the NBA had
for so long.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
What cracks me up is every time like something associated
with them post Tailor, the comments are no one cares,
who cares?
Speaker 1 (03:13):
No one cares? Who cares? Which I love that people
think they can speak for everyone.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
But also it's like you're engaging with the post so
it's gonna just keep getting posted because it's doing numbers every.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Time, and you obviously care if you feel the need
to get in there and say you don't care, right,
So you're the problem, right because you, right, the more
engagement than the bigger the post kits and keep doing
it exactly. The NFL is getting federal help for the
Super Bowl security this weekend ahead of Super Bowl fifty nine.
There saying it's gonna be very safe. League officials said
yesterday the safest place to be this weekend will be
(03:45):
under the security umbrella around Caesar's super Dome. The plan
includes help from the Department of Homeland Security, which has
dispatched nearly five hundred FBI personnel in New Orleans to
investigate and prevent threats. Of course, there was an attack
not that long ago in New Orleans that was, of
course not anticipated, and it revealed some holes in the
(04:07):
security process. So they're saying this week and is gonna
be very safe, and I hope that that's true. The
price of Super Bowl tickets has actually gone down. The
cheapest ticket for the Super Bowl this weekend in New
Orleans has fallen below four thousand dollars, which is a
thirty percent decline over a week and more than fifty
percent cheaper compared to last year's record breaking Super Bowl.
(04:28):
Why the price drop, Well, people aren't that excited about
seeing the Chiefs play again. Supposedly, yeah, God, I guess so.
Two employees at the Metropolitan Washington Airport Authority have been
arrested over leaking video of the American Airlines passenger jet
colliding with an Army helicopter to CNN a twenty one
year old man and a forty five year old man
(04:49):
who both work at the airport in Award, and if
they were paid for the video or how they got
it or where they were standing or whatever. But yeah,
I guess they immediately took the video that they had
captured and send it to the news network and now
they're under investigation. A TikTok is under pressure to find
a new owner by April, after President Trump signed a
seventy five day extension by the law that requires the
(05:11):
app to be sold from its China based parent company,
Byte Dance or be banned in the US. He said
Monday that TikTok could be acquired by a newly proposed
US sovereign wealth fund to ensure the app remains accessible
to it's one hundred and seventy million American users, but
standing up a sovereign wealth fund and then using the
fund to acquire the platform is unlikely to happen anytime soon,
(05:32):
according to analyst, it's not clear who would run the
fund or whether it could gather the tens of billions
of dollars estimated that it would be needed to buy
the platform. Kiki, how are you doing on the fundraising?
I know you have a go fund me going. Yes,
are we anywhere near the ten billion that we need? Yeah,
I'm just waiting on my taxes. Yeah, as soon as
my income taxes come, I plan to buy it. So
you have to file taxes though, in order to get
(05:54):
a return.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Right, So I actually did that, you know you did?
My w two's dropped like an album. Get it, and
then I wouldn't found my Texas. Okay, Now, when I
get my income my return, I plan to officially submit
my offer.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
And then bowl. That is incredible. I am the owner.
You could have done one of those H and R
block things where you get the tens of billions a
little bit earlier than everybody else.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Well, no, I go to the place where I got
the little George Washington man out there, no statue of liberty.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah, doing a little twork, the waving one that waves
with the fan on the bottom. Yeah, that's where you
get you Texas done. Yeah, I'm sure that's reputable. The
Southwest is going to offer red Eye flights for the
first time ever in it's fifty year history. So if
you want to get crammed at the back of a
seven thirty seven from nineteen eighty four and fly all
night long from Phoenix to Baltimore. You can do it
(06:41):
Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Phoenix to Baltimore, plus Vegas to
Orlando and LA to Nashville. And these flights would depart
the West coast like between nine thirty and eleven pm
and then land at six am local time on the
East coast. But Southwest has never offered those before. So
you can do that if you want to be in
boarding groups. I guess, well, now they're going to start
as signing seats.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I read that, yes, so I'm ready for the assigning seats.
I love Southwest personally. Took a giant school bus and
I like to get on and see where everyone's sitting,
where everybody's at. You know, we're all even, We're all
on the same plane.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
It's not true, you're not even because if you have
an a boarding group that you paid for, if you're
a one, you are not like everybody else. Yeah, you're
not like us, asked the guy. I'm not kidding you.
I had to go somewhere for work. They paid for
the ticket. They put me on Southwest, and I was
I checked in late. So I was like boarding group Z.
(07:33):
So I was going to be sitting on the flight attendant,
the male flight attendant's lap, not even the female. Wasn't
gonna be great. And so I upgrade. So I didn't
pay the ticket. So I paid the money to get
a something. You know how you paid the money upgrade
the gate. So I got a three. I was so excited,
so excited. So I go to the front of the
line and then here comes A two and he's like, hey,
I'm a two. Like okay, well there are two hundred
(07:54):
seats on the plane, but sure you're a two. Stand
in front of me that hey one comes along and
it's imperative that everybody knows he's a one and he
will be the first person on the flight. So then
he stands there. He kind of fumbles with something as
we're boarding, and so A two physically walks in front
of him, and we approached like the little door to
the airplane, and I kid you not, A one goes stop.
(08:15):
I am a one. I will board the plane first,
And I kid you not, I'm a three. A two
turns around looks at him and it was like, are
you serious? What are the there's nobody on this plane.
Do you really think I'm gonna take the one seat
that you? And honestly, a flight attendant had to come
out and be like, is everything okay here? Because A
one had to get on before a two because he
(08:37):
was a one. He was a one, and he told
y'all he was a one, like you would do that.
You would never do that, Kiki.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
And I'm just happy to get in there when I
get to be like, you know, first class on somebody
else's dime, or I am very much like can I
see your ticket?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Thanks? And I get my spot. Yeah, get to the bag, brokie,
you know that? Or like the r Asian, I have
an airline credit card if I get like an upgrade,
and I'm sitting in the front and everyone walks by,
and I'm like drinking my little my little like water
down orange juice with my little mixed nuts, and I'm like, yeah,
that's right, This right here is what you aspired to be.
C of course I'm never up there, but like the
(09:17):
one time am I act like this is the way
I travel, Like the PJ is broken today, so I'm
gonna have to slum it like this, I guess I'll
have another water down orange juice, please, And a seven
eleven customer in Florida used a banana to batter a
store clerk. Even better, she's a stripper. Her name is
How would you say his name? Kiki? Come here? Look
(09:37):
at that? How would you say this name? I'm almost
afraid to say that. It looks like a profane thing.
Put your hand on the dump calta via ya. I
doubt that that's your stripper name. It's a little doesn't
really roll off the tongue like a turquoise or a
you know, like a jade. You know, we need you
(09:58):
know as many single syllable words. She had to a
verbal altercation with a female worker at a seven to eleven.
At one point, she became my rate, picked up the
banana from the cashier counter. Through the banana at the
victim's face. The fruit struck the employee on the cheek bone,
left of minor abrasion. The banana was not seize as evidence. Turner,
who is a stripper, we had to have that in
the story, was arrested for battery and booked into the
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county jail on a misdemeanor count. It's national homemade Soup
Day and National Thank a Mail Carrier Days. Oh and
if you're asking why we do those days, it's because
we did it to make fun of another show a
long time ago, like a decade ago. And now if
I don't do them, I will get emails? What about
the days? Same with the fun fact. We did a
fun fact later in the show, simply to make fun
(10:41):
of a show that that was like their biggest bit.
They were so proud of it, so we just took it.
It moved over here and I was kidding. I was joking,
And now if I don't do it, people will email
me all I'm not kidding. I will get dms all day.
What was the fun fact? I was joking. I was kidding.
The Entertainment Reports. Next, It's the Friend Show. Good Morning,
(11:01):
Freends Show is on. It's Stay or Go all right, Hellla,
good morning, Lola, Welcome to the show. How are you cool, Lola? Lola?
Speaker 6 (11:14):
Are you hi? Yes?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
You were mute. You just had a full conversation with yourself, Lola.
Speaker 6 (11:22):
I did.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
I'm a little embarrassed by that. I will. That should
just show you how how I'm doing well. I mean,
you know, these things happen so what's going on? First
of all, this is kind of a sad story, and
I'm sorry about that. But what's going on with your boyfriend?
And why don't you kind of fill us in?
Speaker 6 (11:40):
Yeah, so my boyfriend put our dog down without talking
to me while I was out of town.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
I'm sorry for your loss. I mean, I was talking
to someone about this last site. Losing humans is difficult,
but whatever he's Losing dogs and pets is as or
more difficult for some reason. So I'm sorry that happened
to you. What happened though, Why did he do that?
Speaker 6 (12:09):
You know, I mean I first got the dog, and
thank you for that, I appreciate. I mean, I'm so
out of sorts, I like can't even work my phone properly.
I I mean I first got the dog, you know,
about a year before I started dating my boyfriend. But
we've raised the dog for you know, about seven years,
and I knew, you know, she was having some health issues,
(12:31):
and you know, I wasn't expecting it to be so soon.
And when I got home, my boyfriend told me that
I guess she was having seizures. And so my boyfriend
took her to you know, urgent care.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
And the vet said it was time to put her down,
and my boyfriend told me, uh, he didn't want to
ruin my trip.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
Well, yeah, look, I don't want to sound insensitive when
I say this, but unfortunately I've been part of this
process before, and I feel like when it happens, sometimes
the most humane thing to do is, you know, for
that for that to occur, Like I've been there when
I've taken a dog to the vet and the vet
has been like, there's nothing we can do. You've done everything,
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like the most you know, the best thing to do
at this point would be probably to consider putting him
or her down because and I suppose a couple of
days may not have mattered much, but what I would
imagine he was thinking. I got to think is that
that was the right thing to do for the dog
and it wasn't going to change whether you were there
or not. That said, how much longer, Like was it
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two days, three days a week? I mean, how long
was it before you got back? It was a couple
of days.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
And it's it's not even like I do I agree
with you, Like I do think he did the right thing.
There's no way I want my dog to suffer just
for my selfish reasons to like say goodbye, but the
fact that I wasn't called or consultancy that rare, Like
I just shut up, and if that wasn't he just
broke the news to me.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
That's what bothers me. I can't even look him in
the eye right now, and.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
So I just that's that's my main issues, Like, am I.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Ever gonna building it over this? Because Lola people are
immediately texting into this the station lego, I don't even
need to hear the whole story.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Leave.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
It's unacceptable. Again, I'm trying to see you know, my
mom was out of town once when we put one
of our dogs down, family dogs down, and it was
absolutely the right thing to do. The dog was having seizures.
It was really bad. My dad did call my mom
and say, we have Katie was her name, Kay kat
Won Katie the snaucher. She was sixteen, having seizures all
the time, but they were becoming so consistent that it
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was like okay, And so he called my mom and say, hey,
I'm going to take Katie to the vet, but I
think it's time. And my mom was obviously very sad,
but that was the right thing to do. And I
think she felt like she was involved in the decision,
which that would be the I agree that's the part
where it would have probably ruined your trip, But it
also is something that I feel like you should have
had some equity in the decision making process for right.
(15:11):
I agree, Thank you.
Speaker 6 (15:13):
I feel so validated because you know that was like
our baby, and and of course I would have been sad,
but you know, I'm an adult, like, yes, this is
my trip would have been. I would have been very sad,
but you know it was even more jarring was was,
you know, walking into our home and being like, where,
where's our fur baby?
Speaker 1 (15:35):
And then him being like, oh, I just.
Speaker 6 (15:38):
Made this decision without even consulting you.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
Yeah. Yeah, I mean again, I'm trying to see the
other side of this, where it's sometimes these things they
can't linger because it wouldn't be fair to the animal.
But at least he could have told you what he
was going to do or what was happening. I also
see that if there I'm trying to play devil's advocate here,
but if there was no alternative, if this was absolutely
what had to have happened, then I don't know where
(16:03):
you where did you enjoy your trip for the last
few days, you know what I mean, Like everyone is
texting up here, going there's no way that's okay to do.
On the flip side, though, what was he He could
have called, he could have not called. But if they
were going to do it that day, they were gonna
do it that day, no matter what. Right, Yeah, So yeah,
(16:23):
I would want to I would want to know. But
like if you're my parents, for example, my parents have
medical procedures apparently consistently, and then they just forget to
tell me. And then because they don't want me to worry. Yes,
they don't want me to worry. They don't want to
ruin my day, they don't want me to be concerned
all day whatever. And then that my mom will call
me and be like, yeah, Dad's recovering great from what.
Oh wow, yeah you had open heart surgery today and
(16:43):
they you know, they put a new way, they put
a bad boon hard in and it's a great bat
boon though, and everything's fine. He's gonna live into me
two hundred and everything. It's like, well, I would have
liked to have known that, you know, so I could
have been supportive, but I also understand why they feel
like if if it's going to go well and fine
and everything, you know, I mean, if it's a normal thing,
then I don't know. I like the transparency though personally,
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but and are you thinking about leaving him for this?
Speaker 6 (17:09):
I mean it does sort of seem like it's something
so small, but it's also something so big at the
same time.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
You know, like he knows Daisy was my baby.
Speaker 6 (17:20):
You know, I mean, she was our dog, but you
know that was that was my baby.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
So it's just very I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (17:29):
I just think that is kind of a major red
flag that you wouldn't consult your partner even if, like
you knew they were on a trip, like I would,
I would have called him.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Do you feel like he is he considerate of you
in other ways? Is this the first time that you've
seen him do something without thinking at least optically with
because some could argue he was thinking about your well being.
Others would say that it was, you know, unacceptable of
him not to consult you. I mean, is he generally
a considerate guy or is it pretty common that he
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just does what he wants and then tells you about
it later.
Speaker 6 (18:03):
I would say he's consider it, but kind of like
on like it's now I'm looking at it through like
a different lens, and it's kind of like he has
good intentions. That's almost like in like like at a kid,
and I don't want to disrespect him, but like almost
like a kindergarten level, like like the emotional intelligence isn't there,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (18:23):
I don't know because I'm just thinking if it's a
global issue that he just does stuff and is he
going to do that with your kids some day? Is
he going to do that? You know, I don't know.
Is he going to do that with your lives and say, oh, yeah,
you know, we're doing this. Oh, by the way, I
took a job in San Antonio when we're leaving right,
you know kind of thing. If that kind of stuff's
going to pop up all the time where he doesn't
think about you, then that's a problem. But if yeah,
(18:44):
in this one instance, he sounds like he didn't do
right by you, and I'm no winning though, to be honest,
like that's kind of where I'm at, Like I don't tell.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Her and then the thing is okay, Like if he
told her and she's on a trip right I think
for me personally, it would just kill me because I'm
not there to say goodbye.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
R I'm not there to you know, be there for
my dog's last breath. Oh yeah, trips over right, trips
over right? Done? Yeah, immediately exactly like immediately, Which that
may have been nice too, if you'd had the option
to say, all right, you know, give me twenty four hours,
I'm gonna come home. I want to be there for
this kind of thing. That's I agree with that too,
But let me take some phone calls on this, Lola,
(19:24):
and I appreciate you what you callum, Sorry for your loss,
and now we're gonna talk about you behind your back,
so good luck. Well, thanks, I appreciate you, guys. Yes,
I appreciate you too. Thank you. Eight five five three five.
Let's see a vet tech here. A vet tech texted
vet tech for seven years. Unfortunately, with seizures and pets,
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depending on the length of them severity, it can lead
to brain neuro damage if numerous occur in a short period.
I agree she should have been told, but in the
middle of a seizure moment that may not have been
much time to There may not have been much time
to decide, especially if medication weren't stopping them once at
the vet. I've seen some dogs be unable to come
out of a seizure with iView medications and the post
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seizure face. See that's again, like if it happened, if
it had to happen, if the right thing to do was,
you know, hey, we need to end this, which was
the case I was involved with. But luckily everybody involved
was there, you know, in the room. But I mean,
if it had to happen, now, maybe you call and say, hey,
I have terrible news. I'm sorry, this is happening. It's
the best thing for the dog, Daisy, that's what you do, yes, yeah, and.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
Have to communicate right, No, you cannot just make that
type of decision and not consult her, Like what to me?
It says like he doesn't think she's emotionally strong enough
to handle certain things. So what else will you like
to me about or what else will you omit telling me?
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Okay, let's say though, let me ask you this, Kiki.
So you last year, it was last year you want
to Gracie award, right, big award? You want a big
award for females and media and you're at this thing,
God forbid. Let's I don't want to say Lock's your dog.
Let's just make it. You had a hamster named Ted
and you love that hamster. But this is your big
day and Ted's not doing well. And Tim takes Ted
(21:05):
to the vet and say, a hamster, Ted's got to go.
I'm sorry, like he's in a lot of pain and
it's really inhumane and whatever. And Tim has a choice.
Do I call and make Keky cry before she goes
up on stage and wins as big a ward, or
do I do what has to be done?
Speaker 5 (21:18):
You know, you you call me, you communicate with me,
and even if you know I'm going out on stage
to do something, you call whoever's with me my sister,
You say, hey, let me know when she's done accepting
her award. I want to make sure I let her
know what's going on with Ted. You know, like you
can't just keep secrets from your partner because you're scared
of their reaction. I cannot stand that, Like when people
(21:39):
try to overthink how I will feel or react to something.
Give me that's fan to feel how I want to feel, Indie,
that's fair?
Speaker 4 (21:45):
And how do you just exist for two days after
you just killed my dog, and you're just like, what
are you doing?
Speaker 5 (21:50):
Like just vibing, but you just let me walk in
the house to an empty house, right.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
What weird? Like you know, I would want to know.
I'm an animal lover, you know, I would want to
know and be involved, and I would get on the
first place lane and go. I would want to be there.
That being said, I can see a world where someone's
trying to protect your feelings at least when the decision
isn't a decision, right, it's not Hey, we could keep
the dog alive for another six months and maybe it
(22:15):
gets better. No. I mean normally in these situations, they'll
say to you like, this dog's not going to improve.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
But you're trying to control my reaction to something like
as Pinky said, like please let me decide for myself please.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, I get that. Hey, Sarah, good morning, Good morning,
Hi Sarah. So just to recap here, Lola just called
and unfortunately Lola and her boyfriend of about eight years
had a dog together, and the boyfriend put the dog
down while she was on a trip because the dog
was having seizures and not doing well. And then she
returns to find this out. He says he didn't want
to ruin her trip. She says, well, I wanted to
(22:48):
know what I wanted to know when it was happening,
So maybe she could have come home or I don't know,
I've been aware of what was going on. What do
you think.
Speaker 7 (23:00):
Something super similar happened to myself? We had our cat,
We were on a trip. We were about six hour
drive away up in Michigan, and our cat was a
little bit sick, like similar to what she Lola had
said about her dog being a little bit unwell. And
we had somebody watching her, and we got permission from
the vet that we could go. And then all of
(23:23):
a sudden, five in the morning, we get a call
that you know, our cat is not going to make it,
like it's at death's door, out of vet. And it
was an extremely quick process, like we got in the
car to start leaving, and we ended up seeing her
for literally like two minutes.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
But like the decision was.
Speaker 7 (23:42):
Made whether or not, like we needed to make that decision,
and I had to ask someone else to.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Make that decision.
Speaker 7 (23:47):
But I cannot imagine that decision being made for me. Yeah,
and with my partner was with me, and like ultimately
it was you know, her cat, like she would.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Make the ultimate decision.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
But even like that was our cat, Like if that
was if someone made that decision without me, I would
feel so betrayed and so not important in such an
like that's kind of like a child in a lot
of ways, Like yeah, even if you were a parent
making a huge decision like that on your own, just
(24:22):
because you don't want to ruin a trip, like I understand,
and like it ruined our trip, like you know, driving
in pitch black in the middle of the night, no sleep,
not getting to do something we had planned to do
for you know, five plus years was super disappointing, right,
Not as disappointing losing our cat.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Yeah, I mean the situation I was in, I was
dating the woman and it was Sophie was a name.
She was a great dog. But Sophie wasn't doing well
for a couple of weeks in the last few days
were really bad, and but I could not be the one,
like I had to just watch this, he had to
make the call, like it had to be her, And
finally one afternoon it was like it was just time
(25:00):
and finally she said, like okay, and then we went
and did it. But like that was her decision to
make on her time frame, based on what she was
comfortable with for the dog, as she'd had for a
long time. So the fact that this woman, Lola, was
not even consulted, I do think it is traumatic. On
the flip side, you take the dog in hoping maybe
that's not the outcome, and if it's like the most
(25:21):
humane thing to do is this right now? I can
also see that world too, because obviously you want what's
most humane for the animal. But I'm sorry that happened, Sarah,
And thank you for calling all good. We're making it through. Yeah,
I have a good day. Thank you for listening. Thank you,
appreciate you. Hey Kia, Hi, Hey, So you're saying maybe
(25:44):
these guys not so bad.
Speaker 8 (25:46):
Yeah, that's what I think. I think that she had
all right to Philippe, my sister and her wife lost
the dog and saying thing she was devastating. They had
to say, you know, I stayed on safe time, whether
there was a vay, you know, just to be supporting.
So I understand the upsetness about it, but also you
(26:07):
have to understand I think he was really thinking about
her feelings at the end of the day, like, Okay,
I don't want to ruin her trip. I don't know
if she was going to visit the trip or just
a fun trip, but either way, I think he just
didn't want to, you know, upset her.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
So I think she.
Speaker 8 (26:24):
Should, you know, just think about him considering her feelings
at the end of the day. I think that a
conversation should be had, like hey, future references. Don't make
decisions like that without me. Let me know regardless if
he's want to hurt my feelings or if it's want
to ruin the trip, let me know. But I don't
(26:46):
think that's something to leave him over. Okay, all right,
a conversation.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I hear you have a great day, Thanks for listening.
Appreciate you, is it, Alicia? Yes, hey morning. What do
you think his as would be out the door? Like
I get that too. Yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 8 (27:08):
Had better call me because I will be on a
plane like in an instant.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
I don't care what is holding you, like I would
be there.
Speaker 8 (27:15):
That's my child chatter before he got together, like get
out of.
Speaker 6 (27:20):
Here, man.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Yeah, I'm trying to give this guy the benefit of
the doubt. But I know I'd be pissed. So there's
that he had so many opportunities, like to do the
right thing.
Speaker 6 (27:29):
For the dog and for Lola, like, oh my lord,
I would freaking beat his ass up.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
I hear you. Thank you, Alicia, have a good day
you too, and all that we've decided, leave his ass,
beat his ass, do what you had to do, but
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