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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Fred's Show is on Friend's Biggest Stories of the Day.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I did this.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
I had a flight attendant leave me a note, and
I left a different flight attendant note one time. Actually
mine was a paper I made a little paper airplane. Oh,
and I tossed it at her on the way out,
and she texted me to tell me she had a boyfriend.
But I did think it was kind of I mean,
it was nice of her, I guess, like, yeah, to
reach out and say, hey, I really appreciated that, but
I have a boyfriend. But I also thought it was like,
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I guess that's better than not hearing anything. But if
I'd heard nothing, I would have assumed she had a boyfriend.
So but I almost felt like she was sort of saying,
like I would be interested if I didn't, because otherwise
why would you take the time.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Maybe she just wanted you to know that there was
a nice gesture and creative, you know.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I also was on a flight once and the flight
attendant was passing out notes to like the frequent flyers.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I guess they're supposed to do that.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
They don't do it very often, but like if you were,
I don't know, like a status you fly a lot
and you're like a platinum, diamond, aluminum you know, tootsy pop. Yeah,
you know, ring pop level status person. And so the
person next to me she added one to him too,
but mine had a heart on it and her last
name and his didn't.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
So I was at a crossroads on that because I'm like, now,
wait a minute, because I did. I looked at his
and his was shorter and it didn't have a heart
and there was no last name. Mine had her full
name and a heart. So I looked her up on Instagram.
I followed her and I thought, now, this is gonna
go one of two ways. I'm the biggest creep on
earth and she's gonna think I'm a creep. But I
don't know her, so who cares or too? She'll follow
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me back, and I'm in followed me back. I was
in whoa Yeah, never saw her again? Oh slips in Miami,
but never saw again.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Do you guys still follow each other?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:45):
I love having people like that on social that I
just don't talk to.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
You met one time, but that was that was a
borderline creepy move on my part. But I mean, if
you just if you type her name and Instagram it
popped right up. So it wasn't like I had to
hire someone to find her addresser. I mean, but that
was like, wait a minut, It like did she without
an accident or on purpose? You know, like did she
write her whole name? Did she mean for me to
get that so I could find her or not? I
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don't know. Anyway, I thought worst case she was private.
Worst case she just never approves the request, right, I guess,
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Yeah, you got to charge it to the game. When
you shoot, you got to just accept it. Doesn't matter
what they say or what happens. You just got to
accept all that comes with shooting.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well, it's nice for you to say that, but I
will say I have a low gun shy over the
years because my definition of creepy and other people's definition
of creepy is different in different generations. I mean, again,
I think creepy is I don't know, say, hanging out
someone's work all day till they show up, that's creepy.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I would say, creepy is.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I don't a lot of things are creepy, but I
don't necessarily think looking at someone smiling or calling them pretty,
or giving them a compliment I don't think that's that's creepy,
but some people do.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Yeah, I'm not like trying to say, like, you know,
men have it so hard like you mentioned before, but
I just like I couldn't be a man in today's.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Day and age.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
There are mixed signals.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I will admit, like, people will say I want this,
but they don't necessarily want it from everybody. They want
it from the people they want it from. But the
problem is you're gonna get it from people you don't
along with people that you do, and you have to
just be like, Okay, you know, I.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Don't know, you have to.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I guess you got to figure out if you want people,
if you really want to be approached and hit on
in a respectful manner, then guys are going to do
it who you don't want to go out with, and
you're gonna have to say no, thank you or not.
But I guess, as like a society, I guess we
have to be nicer to that kind of behavior if
we want it to happen. And I don't necessarily think
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most of my male friends would would even bother anymore
because they'd be afraid of being shamed on the internet somehow,
or something like that. So again, not that the guys
have it hard, but I guess that is one thing
that most women never have to do is figure out
in a male female dynamic is figure out how to
get the attention of the girl they like in a
way that is acceptable but aggressive enough that the person
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knows what you're trying to do.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Now, we're too busy trying to stay safe from the
men that we do tell no too.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Well, there you.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Go, see, And that's the other thing is you're exactly right.
The flip side is dudes are ruining it for the guys.
Guys are ruining it for the guys who have good intentions,
you know. Or how about as men when a woman
tells you no, the answer is no and then we
leave it to it goes both ways.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
You're exactly right. Plus you hit on you you're ugly.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Yes, I've seen that one too, where it's like you know,
I've seen it. You guys have gotten it before. All
the time. Guys will DM you and be like, hey,
you want to you know, you want to hang or whatever,
and you're like, no, I have a boyfriend, and then
it's like, well, I think you're ugly anyway.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Why did her dummy?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Like, yeah, right, like just take the l, right, Like
we have to know how to take the L. And
I think you guys have to know how to serve
up a nice l.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
You know.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Yeah, if you're shutting.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Someone down, you can package it in a nice way.
I think there's no reason to be rude to a
stranger who thinks you're hot and they want to go
out with you.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
No, you know?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, okay, so most people one daylight saving to end.
Which one do we want?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Though?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I'm confused do we want this version or the other version?
It doesn't matter. Once we make the decision, then it
just is what it is, and we get used to it.
We never have to worry about it again because if
you recall, if you've been listening for a minute, I
grew up in Arizona.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
We never did this. We never did this.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I learned that this weekend.
Speaker 8 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I've been knowing me for ten years and you've just
learned that this week I've said it every year when.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
We do this, every single year, you broke it down
every time.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I'm like, it's amazing that we don't do this in Arizona.
And I just learned and there's a couple other places.
I think maybe one or two other places where they
don't do it, but uh no, we never. We never
did this like the clock. For the first eighteen years
of my life, the time was what the time was,
and everybody else changed around us.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, I learned that from my psychic medium. I was
talking to her this weekend, and she's not.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
For me, the guy who's been saying it for the
last ten years.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Oh, my psychic told me and I was like, oh,
I think Fred told me about that once.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah, yeah, idea, he doesn't do it either. Oh, why so,
which one do we want?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Sundays starts to delay saving time is renewing the annual
debate over ending the practice for good. More than half,
or fifty four percent of Americans support doing away with it,
according to a recent Gallup poll. That's a sharp change
from seventy three percent who supported daylight saving time in
nineteen ninety nine, the last time they asked about a
Medical experts say standard time promotes better sleep and lowers
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health risks like heart attacks and workplace accidents.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
I mean, we probably want the one where it gets
dark earlier because we have to go to bed earlier.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
That's true, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Like in the summer, it's bright to like ten pm,
and I can't go to sleep, which I love it
when I'm not working.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
It's hard, but I get.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Depressed though when you look out the window it's like
four thirty and it's starting to get dark in the
middle of December. Like, we can let that go. Let's
just skip all this time saving crap.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
I'm done with it. I'm done, all right, I'm protesting.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
You can run on that, Paulina. That'll be your platform,
you know it. This Gene Hackman death is getting very
I mean, it was weird, and it's getting even weirder now,
if that's the word as the details come out. Of course,
Hacken an actor, a classic actor. He and his wife, Betsy,
died of natural causes, they're saying a week apart. The
(07:08):
two were found dead in their Santa Fe home on
February twenty six, so the State Medical Examiner's Office said
that she died first, probably around February eleventh, of a
rare viral infection. The actor then died seven days later,
which is when the last activity of his pacemaker was recorded.
Their bodies were found in separate rooms. The chief medical
investigator so that Hackman may not have even known that
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his wife had died because he showed evidence of advanced
Alzheimer's disease. The investigator said that he was in a
very poor state of health. He had significant heart disease,
and ultimately that's what resulted in his death. His death
was attributed to heart disease, with Alzheimer's as a contributing factor.
She died from this handsa virus pulmonary syndrome, which is
(07:50):
spread through infection by rodents, including deer mice. So crazy, like,
I mean, he was gone and then he died later,
no one cared for him.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
He didn't know. I mean, it's a very sad story.
Speaker 9 (08:05):
It is.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Because then he was pretty much living with her deceased, right.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
And somehow maybe he didn't know. I mean, because you
would have thought maybe he would have called somebody or
correct somebody.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Very so have you ever been so mad at a
store that you would do something like this? Police saying
that an upset customer intentionally drove through a Carmack store's
showroom in southern California, injuring eight people. The suspect had
just had his vehicle appraised in the Inglewood location. There
was some form of business dispute. I'm assuming he didn't
agree with the appraisal, and so he argued with the person.
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The customer left and then returned in the vehicle, drove
it through the showroom like I guess, through the window
in one side, out the other. The silver Subaru was
captured on video backing into the showroom through a door,
turning and then driving through another door. The suspect initially fled,
but then later turned himself in. What's the most aggression, Jason,
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You've ever shown? Oh my god, towards a business. There's
a business, Like, have you ever like stood on business
and been like no, no, no, no, that's not right.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I don't think so.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I don't think I've ever done that in my life ever.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
I just take what's given to me and chalk it
up to the game, like, well I wasn't meant to
have that, because it was meant for me or not
meant for me.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
I have to do it every year when I make
an insurance claim. Oh, every year, every single year I call.
It's the same insurance claim about the same thing. I
call every year, and every year, I'm like, they're talking
and I'm like, but what you're saying doesn't make that,
do you? And then they'll just keep repeating the same thing.
I'm like, can you I Finally, I think it was
last year where I said to a guy, I'm like,
I'm not trying to be rude, but can you stop
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for one second repeating the same thing over and over
that doesn't make any sense? Like can you look at
the information and then can you use your brain and
instead of using the saying the same line over and over,
can you realize that what you're saying doesn't make sense.
I'm terrified you've never had to say them because I
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think I think people, you know, to the point about
people like being weird when they approach you know, men
or women or whatever. I do think that there are
certain people who want to stand on business for everything,
Like they're mad about everything. Nothing's right, you know what
I mean. I don't know if that happens with age
or what, but like people just constantly complaining. It's like
we all know that person who nothing's ever right and
they have to make sure everybody knows it.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
That's not me.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
But every now and again, like you you're not going
to get any Honestly, if I just accept this slugline answer,
then I did, and we just hang up the phone.
Then nothing, nothing happens. So every now and again, you're
going to stand on business. You guys, never do it.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
I got into a fight one time with UH, and
this is not my fault, but like UH a furniture store.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
I want to call them out, but I won't.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
And they like scratched my floor because they've delivered a
couch and they came to fix it a week later
because like the back was all torn or whatever, like
we can either take this back or we can come
fix it. I said, come fix it's on the second
floors whatever, And they scratched the crap out of my floor.
And I'm telling you, I turned in to a whole
another woman just talking to them because I was upset
because I'm like, it's a new house, new floor, all
these things. But also like you guys just don't care.
(11:07):
You're very careless, and that really ticks me off. And
I was I was a Karen Times ten, like I'm
in my Karen era. You guys know, Kaylin knows this.
I'm about to complain about everything the elevator in our building.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Like I'm just complaining you, right, person.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Then you're the person I was just referring to.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Okay, yeah, but like, how do you make a mistake
and then not want to fix it?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Is my question?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
You know, I mean they don't want pay for it,
but like I'm gonna stand on it, Like you did this.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
I didn't do this. You did this.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
You know you think we pick up my own couch,
scratch my own floor.
Speaker 8 (11:34):
Right?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Probably not right?
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Probably didn't match. Group that owns Hinder and Hinge is
introducing an AI chatbot that will help the single people
decide which pictures would be the most popular, how to
write messages to people, and how to do like the
little prompts or whatever else effective coaching For struggling users,
You can rely on the chat pot to help guide
you through the conversations. The chatbot will flag messages that
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are off color, which I thought was the point of Tinder,
so don't do that, and then prompt the user to
reconsider sending it. One fit that people who receive the
notification will rethink the note. Oh no, I meant that.
That's like the iPhone when you change my certain things
to duck no, I didn't. I didn't want to. I
certainly didn't say duck. I've never really typed duck.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
Ever message duck for one time, it auto corrects it
to that other word like wait, okay, come on no.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Or like sometimes on a Hinge, it'll be if you
write anything like even suggest like remotely suggestive, it'll be
like are you sure you want to send this?
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (12:32):
I'm positive like that new yeah, yeah, yeah, Because I
think they're trying to cut down on like the weirdos
that say like really dirty stuff. Yeah, but no, trust me,
the person who typed the really dirty thing that was
flagged by Hinge, they meant to write that, And you know,
I appreciate your own risk. I guess we have to
have a food story and what's trending every single day
if we can. Wendy's now has more frosty flavors to
(12:55):
offer you, not just chocolate or vanilla. The fast food
chain is giving its iconic ice cream treat a makeover
in the coming months. They're rolling out new ways to
customize the treat, frosty swirls and frosty fusions. This is
this is giving mcflurry. It is in a lot of
ways listening. They're not saying exactly what they're gonna make
available to you. But if the fact that they have
(13:16):
the little girl scout thin Min's frosty right now, if
that's any kind of hints of what's to come, I
also send to you, Jason.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Maybe I don't know who else. Apparently Taco Bell.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Has an annual like Steve Jobs rollout of new menu
items where they have an auditorium full of people, and
then they said except for the people that they I
don't know where they found these people to present, but
it was not giving inspiration. I mean they had like
the whitest white lady out there going who like the
maxicam panth ha, Oh my god, maxicon Pantha. Now we're
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going to roll it up and I ah. And it
was like this, no passion, no excitement, death right, like
you're you're the marketing directors that you had to put yourself. No, like,
let's get some real passion Taco Bell people up there.
Me you anyone in this room could have done a
better job. I mean I would have been so excited
to tell you all what other variations are the same
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seven ingredients I could stuff in my face, but not
these people.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
It's just us wasn't giving you saw it? I did?
Speaker 4 (14:14):
I need passion, I need more energy.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
It's just I'm like, who are these people? Where did
you find these people? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (14:20):
They were smart.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
They would call everyone in this room to come and
make a presentation, and we can really show them.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
We can show up and show out.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Have auditions.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Why don't you go on the app and see like
who orders the most socco bell. Let's use these people
obviously know they're excited about it. You know, auditions, Let's
audition for that. I would have loved to go up
there and tell you about the new Mexican pizza roll
up or whatever it is that's going on. An eighteen
year old from India has earned the Guinness World Record
for the hairyest face on a human being.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
Oh no, I hate these and it's like a werewolf.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
I mean, I'm not making fun of the guy, but
like literally there's there's almost no part of his face
doesn't have hair on it. Officials determined that he had
two hundred and one points seven to two hairs per
square centimeter of skin. The team has hair all over
his face. Ninety percent of his face is covered. It's
been that way since he was a child, and he
wins the record and the Top Secret comedy club in
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London has banned people who have had botox from coming
to their comedy club. Guests whose faces seem frozen from
votas and injections are not allowed in the world famous
comedy club. The team began conducting expression tests along with
standard ID checks at the front or to guarantee that
anybody who enters can depict how funny or not funny
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they find a joke. Can you imagine, you know, you're
on stage, you tell a funny joke, the person can't
really smile because they're too frozen. They're too you know,
full of the botulism. It's kind of a funny thing.
I don't know you really enforced this, but it's now
we're talking about them.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So it was smart.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
National pack your Lunch Day is today, National Napping Day,
National Mario Day, and in parentheses thanks to Caitlin, the
video game character. So if you're not a video game Mario,
then you we're not talking about you. It ain't your day,
So let's not get fired up about it. The weekend
now the Entertainment Report in two minutes. It's the Fresh Show.
So no Kiki's Court this week in staid Morality Monday
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on a Monday, It's incredible. And this is from the
Reddit forum. Am I the a hole? And I want
to know what you guys think about this? Eight five
five five one oh three five. I feel very strongly
about this, very strongly on one side, very very strongly.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
So here it is.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
A thirty two year old female says, I lost my
mom four years ago. It was devastating, and I inherited
a lot of her stuff, including her wedding dress. My
mom and I were incredibly close, and she always talked
about how much she wanted me to wear her dress
when I got married. I'm not married yet, but I've
been saving the dress for my special day. Long comes
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my brother. A twenty nine year old male who is
getting married next year and his fiance recently asked if
she could wear my mom's wedding dress. She said it
would mean a lot to her because she never got
to meet my mom and she wants to feel connected
to her on the big day. This woman says, I
understand it's a sweet gesture, but I don't feel comfortable
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with her wearing something that's so sentimental to me, especially
since my mom always wanted me to wear it. When
I told her I wasn't okay with it, she got
upset and said that I was being selfish. Now my
brother is mad, saying it's just a dress and that
I'm ruining their wedding over something that isn't a big deal.
I offered to help her find a similar dress or
even incorporate a piece of my mom's dress into her
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own gown, but she refused, and my family is now divided,
with some saying I'm in the right, others saying I
should let it go for the sake of family harmony.
Am I the a hole for refusing to let her
wear the dress? Absolutely?
Speaker 10 (17:45):
Not?
Speaker 3 (17:46):
Absolutely not your mom. You guys had a bond. You
guys had a deal. You know what her wishes were.
She wanted you to wear the dress. And that's that
eight f three five you can call hi text the
same number.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
I mean, why does the the fiance of the brother right,
Why does she even feel so comfortable as to asking
that like that? People who have nothing to do with
the family always it to get involved and like ask
these questions and make everybody uncomfortable. My thing is like
take your ask David's bride or wherever, Like get a dress,
Like why do you have to wear my mother's.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
Who is deceased?
Speaker 6 (18:22):
Her?
Speaker 4 (18:22):
You never you never knew her.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I understand, maybe want to incorporate her into your day?
Love that I can get you a nice picture, you know,
framed of her.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
We can do something sweet for my mother.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
But what about a piece of jewelry, jewelry?
Speaker 2 (18:35):
What about another clothing item?
Speaker 7 (18:37):
I think.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
You know something. There are a lot of other ways, but.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Wearing this wedding dress that means a lot to me
when I'm you know, on my day when I'm going
to wear it. Obviously it's my mother's and she wanted
me to wear it. Like why are we Like are
you putting this position?
Speaker 4 (18:51):
I'm so tired of people just getting involved.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
That's also something that needs to be offered to you.
Speaker 4 (18:56):
Yes, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (18:57):
The brother like or like someone needs to say, hey,
it would a lot to me if you incorporated a
piece of my mom since you never met her. You
can't like be like, well, I want to wear her
wedding dress, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Wild? And I can't.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
I can't play Devil's advocate here because I feel so
strongly about it because I'm a sentimental person and I
you know, heirlooms. You know, I feel about heirloms and
things like that.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
You're a purist. I am a purist.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
That being said, you know, it was his the fiance
was his mom too, So I understand that it might
mean something to him, But he's not really even standing
on business. He's basically just saying, don't don't upset my fiance.
It's not like it meant to me. If it meant
something to him, why didn't they have a conversation. Why
didn't he and his mom have a conversation about that prior,
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you know, and say like hey, someday when I get married, right,
or hey, I know you're giving the dress to my sister,
but like I want to make sure that you're represented
in my wedding too, or something like that. But no, no, no,
there wasn't that conversation.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
And now this woman is going to cause issues between
the you know, me and my brother in this scenario,
and then we're gonna have issues. And because at the
end of the day, like yeah, as the man or
the fiance, right, he wants to make his future wife happy.
Speaker 4 (20:02):
Like happy wife, happy life.
Speaker 6 (20:03):
But this isn't it. This is not the pause, this
is not it. It's a weird thing to stand on too.
Like for the fiance again, you I get that the
mom meant something to your soon to be husband, but
like you didn't know her, you don't get to stay
claim to things that were hers. I mean, if anything,
he should be coming up with this solution, he should
be saying, well, this, there's another item that meant something
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to me, you know, because there's there's stuff of my
mom's that that I want someday in a million years
when she goes to heaven that meant something to me
that has more significance to me than my sister, and
vice versa.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
I'm sure, so you.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Know, like and there's and there's stuff that is more
feminine that my sister should have and then she should
give it to her daughters or whatever.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
But I don't like this, said, oh hey, Susan.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
Yes, Susan, unbelievable, right, it's crazy.
Speaker 7 (20:57):
It's in vane to think that it's okay to the dress.
What if his mother was still alive and she didn't
even like her.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
Well, I mean that's yeah, right, I mean, I just
I know, and didn't the mom.
Speaker 5 (21:11):
Didn't the daughter say that the mom always saved it
because she wanted.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
Her away very specifically. That's her wish, right so then and.
Speaker 7 (21:20):
Away from her. They can't wear the same dress.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
I mean, I guess they could in this case, but
like that, I don't think this one should be in
that position. I don't think this woman should be in
a position to have to tell someone else, you can't
have my mom's stuff that was given to me.
Speaker 7 (21:35):
Tell her to go ask her mom for her wedding dress.
Speaker 9 (21:38):
We wear that one.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Don't you got a mom?
Speaker 7 (21:40):
Where's your mom or an auntie or a grandmother or somebody.
But she absolutely I would not give anything that was
from my mom or my father to someone that's marrying
into the family that was not already in the family.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Well, it also sounds like she's already causing drama because
she's fixated on this dress when she has no right
to the dress. So there is a compromise here, But
the fiance has decided that she won't compromise, and I
don't think she's in a position to tell the actual
daughter what she should or shouldn't have on her wedding day.
I mean again, there are probably fifty other things that
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they could do to incorporate mom and to accomplish the
thing that this fiance is saying. She wants to feel
closer to this to the mother on the wedding day,
but no, she decided, like a brat, that it has
to be the one thing. You know what I'm saying.
I don't like this at all. I don't like I
don't like the fiance anymore. I don't like I mean,
I don't know her, but I don't like her.
Speaker 7 (22:37):
Me either, And we don't even know her. She's already
got thirteen listeners against her.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
Good luck, good luck, you know, thank you, Susan. Right,
you're thirteen of the fiercest, most intelligent, attractive listeners.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I'll have you know.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
Hey, Kim, Hey, Hello, Kim, Hi, what do you think
morality Monday?
Speaker 7 (22:56):
You know, I just real.
Speaker 8 (22:57):
Quick, you're mentioning at thirteen. I'm I'm one of the thirteen.
My friends and I way back we were on drunk Jeopardy, Like,
how long ago was that?
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Yeah? Yeah, oh god, no, I recall that part of
the history of the show.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
Yeah, this was a long time ago.
Speaker 8 (23:13):
So one of the thirteen right here. But this woman
is absolutely crazy that she's even making this suggestion. Man,
I don't even understand, like, how how you would even
think to ask somebody for that.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
Yeah, I think it's it's quite the asking.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
Again, there are other things, there are other things they
could do, but no, it has to be that, right,
and once she and now it's like, honey, it has
to be that you fix it. And so now we're
now we have this big divide in the film.
Speaker 8 (23:43):
It's very telling that this woman's asking for this and
and uh, you know, demanding it. It just seems like
she wants a lot of drama. And if I was
this woman with the dress, I don't think i'd be
able to even look at at the sister in law
the same way. The fact that she keeps demanding that
she gets the dress, it just seems like too much drama.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Yeah, I think if you wanted to do that, then
you have to accept what the family is willing to
give you and you don't get to stand on business
on this.
Speaker 8 (24:11):
I think it's crazy too that the brother is going
along with this instead of trying to figure out something
else to do or some other item of his mother
if his future wife really wants to feel connected in
this way, which is honestly very odd that she needs
some material objects to connect to the mother in law
that's no longer here and that seems strange in the
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first place. But then the husband to be should really
be the one to figure out what he has that
he can lend her or whatnot. Not the man that
the sister give up the dress.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Well, and that's one of that's his sister too, Like
you would. I mean, I get I guess he's being
married and his fiance's you know whatever, but like you're
not going to stand up for your sister on this
that's your blood.
Speaker 9 (24:56):
It's crazy.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
Yeah, I don't like it. Thank you, Kim, thank you.
I think someone was messing with me because this is
the name of a friend of mine. It can't be though. Hello, yes, hello,
yeah what did you I think?
Speaker 2 (25:12):
What did you want to say? Go ahead? Morality Monday
on The Fred Show.
Speaker 9 (25:15):
Oh yeah, I don't get this. This lady, how can
she ask to wear to dress that that just doesn't
make any sense.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
No, it doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 9 (25:25):
I mean even the sister even offered to incorporate part
of the dress for her. She was like no, offered
to find another dress, and she still is like no, Mary,
she didn't get.
Speaker 7 (25:36):
Out of here with that.
Speaker 9 (25:37):
There's no going with someplace. And the brother, like you said,
the brother's not even taking up for a sister and
deceaseed mom. I don't I don't get it. I don't
get it at all.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Yep, I don't get it either, Thank you. And you know,
this name is the name of a I'm not saying
the name. Maybe that guy just happens to have the
same name as my friend who is also a competitor.
So I don't know why I would say that. It
just seemed weird. I feel like if I had said
the actual and maybe that guy has the same name.
But if I had said that, I feel like I
could have gotten somebody in some trouble.
Speaker 4 (26:04):
Is it like a unique name?
Speaker 3 (26:07):
No, No, it's also a fake name, so I don't know, Alice,
I was very confused, Alice in Hi, Hey Alison, good morning.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
What do you want to say. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 7 (26:17):
By the way, So first thing, dress is a no go?
That is her dress and no is a full sentence.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
Yeah, yeah, that's right.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
I mean, I'm glad that No one's calling up here
trying to convince this otherwise, because there is no other argument.
Speaker 7 (26:32):
You know, something borrowed, something blue. Mom has got to
have something else.
Speaker 10 (26:35):
She has got jewelry, she has got to she has
got scarred.
Speaker 7 (26:39):
There's another way to incorporate that mother.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Yeah, I agree, I agree completely. You could do it.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
But no, this girl's being a brat now because she's
saying no, it has to be that because because I
was told no, I don't like this.
Speaker 7 (26:51):
What's next it maybe you're wedding. It's not your dress.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Amen, Amen, thank you, have a good day. Love you guys,
I love you.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Alison. Misty, Hi, Missy, good morning, Hi, good morning. So
that's just real fast on, Missy.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
Let me do my little radio host job here and
just recap. A woman is upset because she and her
mom had a deal that her mom's wedding dress would
be hers to wear. The mom passed away, and now
the brother is getting married and this other woman, the fiance,
is like, I want the dress to wear to the wedding.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
I don't think that's fair. Now you could go, Missy.
Speaker 7 (27:31):
Okay, so good morning everyone.
Speaker 10 (27:33):
So the fiance is insane, first of all, for even
thinking to ask that. But in order for her to
wear it, that means she has to get a tailored
for her body. And then what happens if she ruins
the dress or doesn't give it back.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
Yeah, because you could argue that they could both wear it,
but I don't know if they're even similarly shaped or whatever.
I mean, I guess if she thinks it will fit her,
then maybe, But I still I see it's principle like
does it doesn't it kind of take away the sentimentality
of it.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Yes, thank you?
Speaker 10 (28:07):
Yes, yeah, it definitely does. And I think it's more controled.
Does she really want the dress or does she want
to say I was able to get this from you?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Well, at this point it sounds like she's she's fixated
on it, and it's like yeah, and now and now
the fiance has to fix it. So now he's going
to be in trouble if he doesn't get it wrong.
And he doesn't get it right, and then the sister's
now the villain. And the sister didn't do anything. She's
just like, I'm not giving it to you.
Speaker 10 (28:34):
Yeah, I don't like her.
Speaker 3 (28:35):
I don't like her, miss Yeah, I don't either. I've
called the whole thing off. Forget about it. I'm not
going to a wedding anymore. I was gonna go to
this wedding. I'm not going anymore, thank you, missy. It no,
I'm not doing it. Have a good day.
Speaker 10 (28:48):
You know I'm not going either.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
No, don't go.
Speaker 9 (28:50):
Man.
Speaker 3 (28:50):
You know what we're gonna do. We're taking back our
honey fund donation too.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
You know what?
Speaker 10 (28:54):
You know what? Good point?
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Yeah, you pay for your own damn honeymoon. Now, I'm
sure she wants the sister to pay for it. Probably
what does she want?
Speaker 10 (29:03):
Mom?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Swimsuit to wear there too? To Hawaii? Nasty? Thank you, missy.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
He's that's my swimsuit too. You can't wear can't wear
dance swimsuit together. That's kind of a gross thing to
ever rewear of anyone else. The entertainer of four.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
It's next,
The Fred's Show is on Friend's Biggest Stories of the Day.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I did this.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
I had a flight attendant leave me a note, and
I left a different flight attendant note one time. Actually
mine was a paper I made a little paper airplane. Oh,
and I tossed it at her on the way out,
and she texted me to tell me she had a boyfriend.
But I did think it was kind of I mean,
it was nice of her, I guess, like, yeah, to
reach out and say, hey, I really appreciated that, but
I have a boyfriend. But I also thought it was like,
(00:29):
I guess that's better than not hearing anything. But if
I'd heard nothing, I would have assumed she had a boyfriend.
So but I almost felt like she was sort of saying,
like I would be interested if I didn't, because otherwise
why would you take the time.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Maybe she just wanted you to know that there was
a nice gesture and creative, you know.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I also was on a flight once and the flight
attendant was passing out notes to like the frequent flyers.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I guess they're supposed to do that.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
They don't do it very often, but like if you were,
I don't know, like a status you fly a lot
and you're like a platinum, diamond, aluminum you know, tootsy pop. Yeah,
you know, ring pop level status person. And so the
person next to me she added one to him too,
but mine had a heart on it and her last
name and his didn't.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
So I was at a crossroads on that because I'm like, now,
wait a minute, because I did. I looked at his
and his was shorter and it didn't have a heart
and there was no last name. Mine had her full
name and a heart. So I looked her up on Instagram.
I followed her and I thought, now, this is gonna
go one of two ways. I'm the biggest creep on
earth and she's gonna think I'm a creep. But I
don't know her, so who cares or too? She'll follow
(01:36):
me back, and I'm in followed me back. I was
in whoa Yeah, never saw her again? Oh slips in Miami,
but never saw again.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Do you guys still follow each other?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:45):
I love having people like that on social that I
just don't talk to.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
You met one time, but that was that was a
borderline creepy move on my part. But I mean, if
you just if you type her name and Instagram it
popped right up. So it wasn't like I had to
hire someone to find her addresser. I mean, but that
was like, wait a minut, It like did she without
an accident or on purpose? You know, like did she
write her whole name? Did she mean for me to
get that so I could find her or not? I
(02:09):
don't know. Anyway, I thought worst case she was private.
Worst case she just never approves the request, right, I guess,
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Yeah, you got to charge it to the game. When
you shoot, you got to just accept it. Doesn't matter
what they say or what happens. You just got to
accept all that comes with shooting.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well, it's nice for you to say that, but I
will say I have a low gun shy over the
years because my definition of creepy and other people's definition
of creepy is different in different generations. I mean, again,
I think creepy is I don't know, say, hanging out
someone's work all day till they show up, that's creepy.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I would say, creepy is.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I don't a lot of things are creepy, but I
don't necessarily think looking at someone smiling or calling them pretty,
or giving them a compliment I don't think that's that's creepy,
but some people do.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Yeah, I'm not like trying to say, like, you know,
men have it so hard like you mentioned before, but
I just like I couldn't be a man in today's.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Day and age.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
There are mixed signals.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I will admit, like, people will say I want this,
but they don't necessarily want it from everybody. They want
it from the people they want it from. But the
problem is you're gonna get it from people you don't
along with people that you do, and you have to
just be like, Okay, you know, I.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Don't know, you have to.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I guess you got to figure out if you want people,
if you really want to be approached and hit on
in a respectful manner, then guys are going to do
it who you don't want to go out with, and
you're gonna have to say no, thank you or not.
But I guess, as like a society, I guess we
have to be nicer to that kind of behavior if
we want it to happen. And I don't necessarily think
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most of my male friends would would even bother anymore
because they'd be afraid of being shamed on the internet somehow,
or something like that. So again, not that the guys
have it hard, but I guess that is one thing
that most women never have to do is figure out
in a male female dynamic is figure out how to
get the attention of the girl they like in a
way that is acceptable but aggressive enough that the person
(04:05):
knows what you're trying to do.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Now, we're too busy trying to stay safe from the
men that we do tell no too.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Well, there you.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Go, see, And that's the other thing is you're exactly right.
The flip side is dudes are ruining it for the guys.
Guys are ruining it for the guys who have good intentions,
you know. Or how about as men when a woman
tells you no, the answer is no and then we
leave it to it goes both ways.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
You're exactly right. Plus you hit on you you're ugly.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Yes, I've seen that one too, where it's like you know,
I've seen it. You guys have gotten it before. All
the time. Guys will DM you and be like, hey,
you want to you know, you want to hang or whatever,
and you're like, no, I have a boyfriend, and then
it's like, well, I think you're ugly anyway.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Why did her dummy?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Like, yeah, right, like just take the l, right, Like
we have to know how to take the L. And
I think you guys have to know how to serve
up a nice l.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
You know.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Yeah, if you're shutting.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Someone down, you can package it in a nice way.
I think there's no reason to be rude to a
stranger who thinks you're hot and they want to go
out with you.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
No, you know?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, okay, so most people one daylight saving to end.
Which one do we want?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Though?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I'm confused do we want this version or the other version?
It doesn't matter. Once we make the decision, then it
just is what it is, and we get used to it.
We never have to worry about it again because if
you recall, if you've been listening for a minute, I
grew up in Arizona.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
We never did this. We never did this.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I learned that this weekend.
Speaker 8 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I've been knowing me for ten years and you've just
learned that this week I've said it every year when.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
We do this, every single year, you broke it down
every time.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I'm like, it's amazing that we don't do this in Arizona.
And I just learned and there's a couple other places.
I think maybe one or two other places where they
don't do it, but uh no, we never. We never
did this like the clock. For the first eighteen years
of my life, the time was what the time was,
and everybody else changed around us.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, I learned that from my psychic medium. I was
talking to her this weekend, and she's not.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
For me, the guy who's been saying it for the
last ten years.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Oh, my psychic told me and I was like, oh,
I think Fred told me about that once.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah, yeah, idea, he doesn't do it either. Oh, why so,
which one do we want?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Sundays starts to delay saving time is renewing the annual
debate over ending the practice for good. More than half,
or fifty four percent of Americans support doing away with it,
according to a recent Gallup poll. That's a sharp change
from seventy three percent who supported daylight saving time in
nineteen ninety nine, the last time they asked about a
Medical experts say standard time promotes better sleep and lowers
(06:20):
health risks like heart attacks and workplace accidents.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
I mean, we probably want the one where it gets
dark earlier because we have to go to bed earlier.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
That's true, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Like in the summer, it's bright to like ten pm,
and I can't go to sleep, which I love it
when I'm not working.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
It's hard, but I get.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Depressed though when you look out the window it's like
four thirty and it's starting to get dark in the
middle of December. Like, we can let that go. Let's
just skip all this time saving crap.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
I'm done with it. I'm done, all right, I'm protesting.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
You can run on that, Paulina. That'll be your platform,
you know it. This Gene Hackman death is getting very
I mean, it was weird, and it's getting even weirder now,
if that's the word as the details come out. Of course,
Hacken an actor, a classic actor. He and his wife, Betsy,
died of natural causes, they're saying a week apart. The
(07:08):
two were found dead in their Santa Fe home on
February twenty six, so the State Medical Examiner's Office said
that she died first, probably around February eleventh, of a
rare viral infection. The actor then died seven days later,
which is when the last activity of his pacemaker was recorded.
Their bodies were found in separate rooms. The chief medical
investigator so that Hackman may not have even known that
(07:30):
his wife had died because he showed evidence of advanced
Alzheimer's disease. The investigator said that he was in a
very poor state of health. He had significant heart disease,
and ultimately that's what resulted in his death. His death
was attributed to heart disease, with Alzheimer's as a contributing factor.
She died from this handsa virus pulmonary syndrome, which is
(07:50):
spread through infection by rodents, including deer mice. So crazy, like,
I mean, he was gone and then he died later,
no one cared for him.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
He didn't know. I mean, it's a very sad story.
Speaker 9 (08:05):
It is.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Because then he was pretty much living with her deceased, right.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
And somehow maybe he didn't know. I mean, because you
would have thought maybe he would have called somebody or
correct somebody.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Very so have you ever been so mad at a
store that you would do something like this? Police saying
that an upset customer intentionally drove through a Carmack store's
showroom in southern California, injuring eight people. The suspect had
just had his vehicle appraised in the Inglewood location. There
was some form of business dispute. I'm assuming he didn't
agree with the appraisal, and so he argued with the person.
(08:40):
The customer left and then returned in the vehicle, drove
it through the showroom like I guess, through the window
in one side, out the other. The silver Subaru was
captured on video backing into the showroom through a door,
turning and then driving through another door. The suspect initially fled,
but then later turned himself in. What's the most aggression, Jason,
(09:01):
You've ever shown? Oh my god, towards a business. There's
a business, Like, have you ever like stood on business
and been like no, no, no, no, that's not right.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I don't think so.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I don't think I've ever done that in my life ever.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
I just take what's given to me and chalk it
up to the game, like, well I wasn't meant to
have that, because it was meant for me or not
meant for me.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
I have to do it every year when I make
an insurance claim. Oh, every year, every single year I call.
It's the same insurance claim about the same thing. I
call every year, and every year, I'm like, they're talking
and I'm like, but what you're saying doesn't make that,
do you? And then they'll just keep repeating the same thing.
I'm like, can you I Finally, I think it was
last year where I said to a guy, I'm like,
I'm not trying to be rude, but can you stop
(09:43):
for one second repeating the same thing over and over
that doesn't make any sense? Like can you look at
the information and then can you use your brain and
instead of using the saying the same line over and over,
can you realize that what you're saying doesn't make sense.
I'm terrified you've never had to say them because I
(10:03):
think I think people, you know, to the point about
people like being weird when they approach you know, men
or women or whatever. I do think that there are
certain people who want to stand on business for everything,
Like they're mad about everything. Nothing's right, you know what
I mean. I don't know if that happens with age
or what, but like people just constantly complaining. It's like
we all know that person who nothing's ever right and
they have to make sure everybody knows it.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
That's not me.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
But every now and again, like you you're not going
to get any Honestly, if I just accept this slugline answer,
then I did, and we just hang up the phone.
Then nothing, nothing happens. So every now and again, you're
going to stand on business. You guys, never do it.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
I got into a fight one time with UH, and
this is not my fault, but like UH a furniture store.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
I want to call them out, but I won't.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
And they like scratched my floor because they've delivered a
couch and they came to fix it a week later
because like the back was all torn or whatever, like
we can either take this back or we can come
fix it. I said, come fix it's on the second
floors whatever, And they scratched the crap out of my floor.
And I'm telling you, I turned in to a whole
another woman just talking to them because I was upset
because I'm like, it's a new house, new floor, all
these things. But also like you guys just don't care.
(11:07):
You're very careless, and that really ticks me off. And
I was I was a Karen Times ten, like I'm
in my Karen era. You guys know, Kaylin knows this.
I'm about to complain about everything the elevator in our building.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Like I'm just complaining you, right, person.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Then you're the person I was just referring to.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Okay, yeah, but like, how do you make a mistake
and then not want to fix it?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Is my question?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
You know, I mean they don't want pay for it,
but like I'm gonna stand on it, Like you did this.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
I didn't do this. You did this.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
You know you think we pick up my own couch,
scratch my own floor.
Speaker 8 (11:34):
Right?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Probably not right?
Speaker 3 (11:36):
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You can rely on the chat pot to help guide
you through the conversations. The chatbot will flag messages that
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are off color, which I thought was the point of Tinder,
so don't do that, and then prompt the user to
reconsider sending it. One fit that people who receive the
notification will rethink the note. Oh no, I meant that.
That's like the iPhone when you change my certain things
to duck no, I didn't. I didn't want to. I
certainly didn't say duck. I've never really typed duck.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
Ever message duck for one time, it auto corrects it
to that other word like wait, okay, come on no.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Or like sometimes on a Hinge, it'll be if you
write anything like even suggest like remotely suggestive, it'll be
like are you sure you want to send this?
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (12:32):
I'm positive like that new yeah, yeah, yeah, Because I
think they're trying to cut down on like the weirdos
that say like really dirty stuff. Yeah, but no, trust me,
the person who typed the really dirty thing that was
flagged by Hinge, they meant to write that, And you know,
I appreciate your own risk. I guess we have to
have a food story and what's trending every single day
if we can. Wendy's now has more frosty flavors to
(12:55):
offer you, not just chocolate or vanilla. The fast food
chain is giving its iconic ice cream treat a makeover
in the coming months. They're rolling out new ways to
customize the treat, frosty swirls and frosty fusions. This is
this is giving mcflurry. It is in a lot of
ways listening. They're not saying exactly what they're gonna make
available to you. But if the fact that they have
(13:16):
the little girl scout thin Min's frosty right now, if
that's any kind of hints of what's to come, I
also send to you, Jason.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Maybe I don't know who else. Apparently Taco Bell.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Has an annual like Steve Jobs rollout of new menu
items where they have an auditorium full of people, and
then they said except for the people that they I
don't know where they found these people to present, but
it was not giving inspiration. I mean they had like
the whitest white lady out there going who like the
maxicam panth ha, Oh my god, maxicon Pantha. Now we're
(13:46):
going to roll it up and I ah. And it
was like this, no passion, no excitement, death right, like
you're you're the marketing directors that you had to put yourself. No, like,
let's get some real passion Taco Bell people up there.
Me you anyone in this room could have done a
better job. I mean I would have been so excited
to tell you all what other variations are the same
(14:07):
seven ingredients I could stuff in my face, but not
these people.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
It's just us wasn't giving you saw it? I did?
Speaker 4 (14:14):
I need passion, I need more energy.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
It's just I'm like, who are these people? Where did
you find these people? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (14:20):
They were smart.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
They would call everyone in this room to come and
make a presentation, and we can really show them.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
We can show up and show out.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Have auditions.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Why don't you go on the app and see like
who orders the most socco bell. Let's use these people
obviously know they're excited about it. You know, auditions, Let's
audition for that. I would have loved to go up
there and tell you about the new Mexican pizza roll
up or whatever it is that's going on. An eighteen
year old from India has earned the Guinness World Record
for the hairyest face on a human being.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
Oh no, I hate these and it's like a werewolf.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
I mean, I'm not making fun of the guy, but
like literally there's there's almost no part of his face
doesn't have hair on it. Officials determined that he had
two hundred and one points seven to two hairs per
square centimeter of skin. The team has hair all over
his face. Ninety percent of his face is covered. It's
been that way since he was a child, and he
wins the record and the Top Secret comedy club in
(15:13):
London has banned people who have had botox from coming
to their comedy club. Guests whose faces seem frozen from
votas and injections are not allowed in the world famous
comedy club. The team began conducting expression tests along with
standard ID checks at the front or to guarantee that
anybody who enters can depict how funny or not funny
(15:35):
they find a joke. Can you imagine, you know, you're
on stage, you tell a funny joke, the person can't
really smile because they're too frozen. They're too you know,
full of the botulism. It's kind of a funny thing.
I don't know you really enforced this, but it's now
we're talking about them.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So it was smart.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
National pack your Lunch Day is today, National Napping Day,
National Mario Day, and in parentheses thanks to Caitlin, the
video game character. So if you're not a video game Mario,
then you we're not talking about you. It ain't your day,
So let's not get fired up about it. The weekend
now the Entertainment Report in two minutes. It's the Fresh Show.
So no Kiki's Court this week in staid Morality Monday
(16:13):
on a Monday, It's incredible. And this is from the
Reddit forum. Am I the a hole? And I want
to know what you guys think about this? Eight five
five five one oh three five. I feel very strongly
about this, very strongly on one side, very very strongly.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
So here it is.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
A thirty two year old female says, I lost my
mom four years ago. It was devastating, and I inherited
a lot of her stuff, including her wedding dress. My
mom and I were incredibly close, and she always talked
about how much she wanted me to wear her dress
when I got married. I'm not married yet, but I've
been saving the dress for my special day. Long comes
(16:50):
my brother. A twenty nine year old male who is
getting married next year and his fiance recently asked if
she could wear my mom's wedding dress. She said it
would mean a lot to her because she never got
to meet my mom and she wants to feel connected
to her on the big day. This woman says, I
understand it's a sweet gesture, but I don't feel comfortable
(17:11):
with her wearing something that's so sentimental to me, especially
since my mom always wanted me to wear it. When
I told her I wasn't okay with it, she got
upset and said that I was being selfish. Now my
brother is mad, saying it's just a dress and that
I'm ruining their wedding over something that isn't a big deal.
I offered to help her find a similar dress or
even incorporate a piece of my mom's dress into her
(17:32):
own gown, but she refused, and my family is now divided,
with some saying I'm in the right, others saying I
should let it go for the sake of family harmony.
Am I the a hole for refusing to let her
wear the dress? Absolutely?
Speaker 10 (17:45):
Not?
Speaker 3 (17:46):
Absolutely not your mom. You guys had a bond. You
guys had a deal. You know what her wishes were.
She wanted you to wear the dress. And that's that
eight f three five you can call hi text the
same number.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
I mean, why does the the fiance of the brother right,
Why does she even feel so comfortable as to asking
that like that? People who have nothing to do with
the family always it to get involved and like ask
these questions and make everybody uncomfortable. My thing is like
take your ask David's bride or wherever, Like get a dress,
Like why do you have to wear my mother's.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
Who is deceased?
Speaker 6 (18:22):
Her?
Speaker 4 (18:22):
You never you never knew her.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I understand, maybe want to incorporate her into your day?
Love that I can get you a nice picture, you know,
framed of her.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
We can do something sweet for my mother.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
But what about a piece of jewelry, jewelry?
Speaker 2 (18:35):
What about another clothing item?
Speaker 7 (18:37):
I think.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
You know something. There are a lot of other ways, but.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Wearing this wedding dress that means a lot to me
when I'm you know, on my day when I'm going
to wear it. Obviously it's my mother's and she wanted
me to wear it. Like why are we Like are
you putting this position?
Speaker 4 (18:51):
I'm so tired of people just getting involved.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
That's also something that needs to be offered to you.
Speaker 4 (18:56):
Yes, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (18:57):
The brother like or like someone needs to say, hey,
it would a lot to me if you incorporated a
piece of my mom since you never met her. You
can't like be like, well, I want to wear her
wedding dress, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Wild? And I can't.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
I can't play Devil's advocate here because I feel so
strongly about it because I'm a sentimental person and I
you know, heirlooms. You know, I feel about heirloms and
things like that.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
You're a purist. I am a purist.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
That being said, you know, it was his the fiance
was his mom too, So I understand that it might
mean something to him, But he's not really even standing
on business. He's basically just saying, don't don't upset my fiance.
It's not like it meant to me. If it meant
something to him, why didn't they have a conversation. Why
didn't he and his mom have a conversation about that prior,
(19:38):
you know, and say like hey, someday when I get married, right,
or hey, I know you're giving the dress to my sister,
but like I want to make sure that you're represented
in my wedding too, or something like that. But no, no, no,
there wasn't that conversation.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
And now this woman is going to cause issues between
the you know, me and my brother in this scenario,
and then we're gonna have issues. And because at the
end of the day, like yeah, as the man or
the fiance, right, he wants to make his future wife happy.
Speaker 4 (20:02):
Like happy wife, happy life.
Speaker 6 (20:03):
But this isn't it. This is not the pause, this
is not it. It's a weird thing to stand on too.
Like for the fiance again, you I get that the
mom meant something to your soon to be husband, but
like you didn't know her, you don't get to stay
claim to things that were hers. I mean, if anything,
he should be coming up with this solution, he should
be saying, well, this, there's another item that meant something
(20:24):
to me, you know, because there's there's stuff of my
mom's that that I want someday in a million years
when she goes to heaven that meant something to me
that has more significance to me than my sister, and
vice versa.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
I'm sure, so you.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Know, like and there's and there's stuff that is more
feminine that my sister should have and then she should
give it to her daughters or whatever.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
But I don't like this, said, oh hey, Susan.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
Yes, Susan, unbelievable, right, it's crazy.
Speaker 7 (20:57):
It's in vane to think that it's okay to the dress.
What if his mother was still alive and she didn't
even like her.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
Well, I mean that's yeah, right, I mean, I just
I know, and didn't the mom.
Speaker 5 (21:11):
Didn't the daughter say that the mom always saved it
because she wanted.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
Her away very specifically. That's her wish, right so then and.
Speaker 7 (21:20):
Away from her. They can't wear the same dress.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
I mean, I guess they could in this case, but
like that, I don't think this one should be in
that position. I don't think this woman should be in
a position to have to tell someone else, you can't
have my mom's stuff that was given to me.
Speaker 7 (21:35):
Tell her to go ask her mom for her wedding dress.
Speaker 9 (21:38):
We wear that one.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Don't you got a mom?
Speaker 7 (21:40):
Where's your mom or an auntie or a grandmother or somebody.
But she absolutely I would not give anything that was
from my mom or my father to someone that's marrying
into the family that was not already in the family.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Well, it also sounds like she's already causing drama because
she's fixated on this dress when she has no right
to the dress. So there is a compromise here, But
the fiance has decided that she won't compromise, and I
don't think she's in a position to tell the actual
daughter what she should or shouldn't have on her wedding day.
I mean again, there are probably fifty other things that
(22:18):
they could do to incorporate mom and to accomplish the
thing that this fiance is saying. She wants to feel
closer to this to the mother on the wedding day,
but no, she decided, like a brat, that it has
to be the one thing. You know what I'm saying.
I don't like this at all. I don't like I
don't like the fiance anymore. I don't like I mean,
I don't know her, but I don't like her.
Speaker 7 (22:37):
Me either, And we don't even know her. She's already
got thirteen listeners against her.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
Good luck, good luck, you know, thank you, Susan. Right,
you're thirteen of the fiercest, most intelligent, attractive listeners.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I'll have you know.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
Hey, Kim, Hey, Hello, Kim, Hi, what do you think
morality Monday?
Speaker 7 (22:56):
You know, I just real.
Speaker 8 (22:57):
Quick, you're mentioning at thirteen. I'm I'm one of the thirteen.
My friends and I way back we were on drunk Jeopardy, Like,
how long ago was that?
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Yeah? Yeah, oh god, no, I recall that part of
the history of the show.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
Yeah, this was a long time ago.
Speaker 8 (23:13):
So one of the thirteen right here. But this woman
is absolutely crazy that she's even making this suggestion. Man,
I don't even understand, like, how how you would even
think to ask somebody for that.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
Yeah, I think it's it's quite the asking.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
Again, there are other things, there are other things they
could do, but no, it has to be that, right,
and once she and now it's like, honey, it has
to be that you fix it. And so now we're
now we have this big divide in the film.
Speaker 8 (23:43):
It's very telling that this woman's asking for this and
and uh, you know, demanding it. It just seems like
she wants a lot of drama. And if I was
this woman with the dress, I don't think i'd be
able to even look at at the sister in law
the same way. The fact that she keeps demanding that
she gets the dress, it just seems like too much drama.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Yeah, I think if you wanted to do that, then
you have to accept what the family is willing to
give you and you don't get to stand on business
on this.
Speaker 8 (24:11):
I think it's crazy too that the brother is going
along with this instead of trying to figure out something
else to do or some other item of his mother
if his future wife really wants to feel connected in
this way, which is honestly very odd that she needs
some material objects to connect to the mother in law
that's no longer here and that seems strange in the
(24:32):
first place. But then the husband to be should really
be the one to figure out what he has that
he can lend her or whatnot. Not the man that
the sister give up the dress.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Well, and that's one of that's his sister too, Like
you would. I mean, I get I guess he's being
married and his fiance's you know whatever, but like you're
not going to stand up for your sister on this
that's your blood.
Speaker 9 (24:56):
It's crazy.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
Yeah, I don't like it. Thank you, Kim, thank you.
I think someone was messing with me because this is
the name of a friend of mine. It can't be though. Hello, yes, hello,
yeah what did you I think?
Speaker 2 (25:12):
What did you want to say? Go ahead? Morality Monday
on The Fred Show.
Speaker 9 (25:15):
Oh yeah, I don't get this. This lady, how can
she ask to wear to dress that that just doesn't
make any sense.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
No, it doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 9 (25:25):
I mean even the sister even offered to incorporate part
of the dress for her. She was like no, offered
to find another dress, and she still is like no, Mary,
she didn't get.
Speaker 7 (25:36):
Out of here with that.
Speaker 9 (25:37):
There's no going with someplace. And the brother, like you said,
the brother's not even taking up for a sister and
deceaseed mom. I don't I don't get it. I don't
get it at all.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Yep, I don't get it either, Thank you. And you know,
this name is the name of a I'm not saying
the name. Maybe that guy just happens to have the
same name as my friend who is also a competitor.
So I don't know why I would say that. It
just seemed weird. I feel like if I had said
the actual and maybe that guy has the same name.
But if I had said that, I feel like I
could have gotten somebody in some trouble.
Speaker 4 (26:04):
Is it like a unique name?
Speaker 3 (26:07):
No, No, it's also a fake name, so I don't know, Alice,
I was very confused, Alice in Hi, Hey Alison, good morning.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
What do you want to say. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 7 (26:17):
By the way, So first thing, dress is a no go?
That is her dress and no is a full sentence.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
Yeah, yeah, that's right.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
I mean, I'm glad that No one's calling up here
trying to convince this otherwise, because there is no other argument.
Speaker 7 (26:32):
You know, something borrowed, something blue. Mom has got to
have something else.
Speaker 10 (26:35):
She has got jewelry, she has got to she has
got scarred.
Speaker 7 (26:39):
There's another way to incorporate that mother.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Yeah, I agree, I agree completely. You could do it.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
But no, this girl's being a brat now because she's
saying no, it has to be that because because I
was told no, I don't like this.
Speaker 7 (26:51):
What's next it maybe you're wedding. It's not your dress.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Amen, Amen, thank you, have a good day. Love you guys,
I love you.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Alison. Misty, Hi, Missy, good morning, Hi, good morning. So
that's just real fast on, Missy.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
Let me do my little radio host job here and
just recap. A woman is upset because she and her
mom had a deal that her mom's wedding dress would
be hers to wear. The mom passed away, and now
the brother is getting married and this other woman, the fiance,
is like, I want the dress to wear to the wedding.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
I don't think that's fair. Now you could go, Missy.
Speaker 7 (27:31):
Okay, so good morning everyone.
Speaker 10 (27:33):
So the fiance is insane, first of all, for even
thinking to ask that. But in order for her to
wear it, that means she has to get a tailored
for her body. And then what happens if she ruins
the dress or doesn't give it back.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
Yeah, because you could argue that they could both wear it,
but I don't know if they're even similarly shaped or whatever.
I mean, I guess if she thinks it will fit her,
then maybe, But I still I see it's principle like
does it doesn't it kind of take away the sentimentality
of it.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Yes, thank you?
Speaker 10 (28:07):
Yes, yeah, it definitely does. And I think it's more controled.
Does she really want the dress or does she want
to say I was able to get this from you?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Well, at this point it sounds like she's she's fixated
on it, and it's like yeah, and now and now
the fiance has to fix it. So now he's going
to be in trouble if he doesn't get it wrong.
And he doesn't get it right, and then the sister's
now the villain. And the sister didn't do anything. She's
just like, I'm not giving it to you.
Speaker 10 (28:34):
Yeah, I don't like her.
Speaker 3 (28:35):
I don't like her, miss Yeah, I don't either. I've
called the whole thing off. Forget about it. I'm not
going to a wedding anymore. I was gonna go to
this wedding. I'm not going anymore, thank you, missy. It no,
I'm not doing it. Have a good day.
Speaker 10 (28:48):
You know I'm not going either.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
No, don't go.
Speaker 9 (28:50):
Man.
Speaker 3 (28:50):
You know what we're gonna do. We're taking back our
honey fund donation too.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
You know what?
Speaker 10 (28:54):
You know what? Good point?
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Yeah, you pay for your own damn honeymoon. Now, I'm
sure she wants the sister to pay for it. Probably
what does she want?
Speaker 10 (29:03):
Mom?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Swimsuit to wear there too? To Hawaii? Nasty? Thank you, missy.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
He's that's my swimsuit too. You can't wear can't wear
dance swimsuit together. That's kind of a gross thing to
ever rewear of anyone else. The entertainer of four.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
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