May 20, 2025 • 25 mins
Listen to the highlights where Fred tells us his biggest stories of the day including the latest news on the New Orleans jailbreak! Plus, what would you do if your partner kept up a two year lie... we discuss that on a new Stay or Go!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
My right show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
West Sloop. Tom knows the name of the place, West Sloop.
Tom's exton that was the place. I'm not gonna say
it because it's not there anymore, but yeah, he knows
West and Tom was. I think he was there in
the corner watching us eat.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Actually I almost set the place on air, and then
I was like, maybe I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
If it still exists anywhere, but yeah, or that place
in Salt Lake City that Kalen took us that we
were talking about off the air, where everything had elk
in it everything, which is nothing wrong with that. I mean,
I'm sure it's delicious, but everything everything. I'm like, guys,
what do you own an elk farm? And they were like, yeah,
we do. Actually, I was, oh, that makes perfect sense, everything,
every everything, And I was like, well, what if I
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don't want elk? Like you came to the wrong place,
Like y'all have a bunk soda with an elk beef
jerky stick in the middle of it.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I'm like, what are we doing? Guys?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I tell you I never wanted anything more than just
a cheeseburger in my life than when you told me.
All I could eat was that, and again apparently we
heard a whole speech about it. It's a very lean meat, delicious,
that very gamy, That's what I'm told. I just didn't
want it because I could not have it. I was like,
y'all have the chocolate cake. It has elk in it?
How how does it have elk? How did you get
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that in there?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
With elk? Milk right right right? We milked an elk?
Can we put it in there?
Speaker 4 (01:16):
We should have gone with the Italian spot, But.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Again, you know, it was like highly rated and beautiful
view and nice place, and that it made sense. I
can see why you'd choose that, And it was was
very nice there. It was just you know, had a
lot of option that a lot of variety on the menu.
So days before ten men broke out of a Louisiana jail,
officials asked for funding to fix faulty locks and cell doors.
(01:41):
According to the sheriff, yeah, that's probably a good idea.
The investigation into the Friday jail break, which the escapees
labeled as easy. So they cut a hole in the
wall behind a toilet, snuck out, and then wrote above
it easy lol. Too easy too to easy, So we didn't,
you know, a whole lot of attention and grammar school.
But that's okay, too easy, lol. And then they stuck up.
(02:05):
So they're not only that, but they're taunting the prison people,
which okay, So there are seven remaining fugitives or maybe
six is of this morning, but they have long raise concerts,
according to the sheriff about the jails defficiencies, adding that
breakout has once again highlighted the critical need for repairs
and upgrades to the infrastructure. While the sheriff said the
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locks played a key role in the escape, there are
other critical security lapses that officials have outlined indications that
the escape was an inside job, including three sheriffs employees
that are now on suspension. So it's like these guys
were in on it. They helped them, Oh is what
people are speculating. The whole that officials said may have
been formed using power tools. I don't know how that
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would have How would they have gotten the power tools.
A lack of monitoring of the cell pod. As an
employee that was tasked with the job, it stepped out
for food and law enforcement, not being aware of the
escape until the morning head count seven hours after the
guys got out. So you got one dude who like
took a two hour break of his job as the
security guy. You got seven hours go before they figure
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out these guys were gone, and then they had you know,
makita drills in there. I mean, I know they could
do some really improvisational things in prison. I mean I've
seen how they can make you know, toilet hooch and
pizzas and all kinds of different things on TikTok. But
I mean, you know, get cell phones in and all that.
A Chicago O'Hare International Airport Uber d well, I guess
(03:30):
I got driving around O'Hare. He got himself in a
little bit of trouble because the airport had a security
scare over the weekend. It was a door desk driver, actually,
not Uber. He was in Routius Destination when he accidentally
drove into an unauthorized security area within O'Hare and then
kept driving. The thirty six year old male went from
miles within the confines of the fence of the airport
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and incredibly may have even crossed active runways before being stopped.
No charges have been filed because it was accidental. No
word on whether the food eventually made it to the
right spot. But this is where you maybe don't trust
the GPS when it says like federal property, don't cross
this line.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
I mean, how like, how lost do you.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Have to be before you're crossing runways and stuff going.
I don't think anybody on that Southwest flight ordered this food.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
It's very confusing though, when you get to the airport,
you know, rivals and departures. I forget what I'm doing, Like,
am I arriving?
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I'm a department No, Kiki.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
The last time that we all ate together was at
the tallest restaurant in the city, I know, and you
had a hard time finding it. Yes, and it's literally
one of, not only one of the tallest buildings. The
restaurant was in the tallest building in the city. It's
one of the tallest buildings in the world, and you
still were not able to find it. So I guess
this is not surprising to me that you might have
issues navigating the airport.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Yes, because the GPS gets all confused whenever you get
around a bunch of towers you get downtown, so I
can imagine his GPS probably got so confused with the
planes GPS, and you know, what is.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It doing with the planes? GPS? What does that average
with you?
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Air traffic control has been all mixed up for the
last couple of weeks, so it might have told him
to go right on up there.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Just like the story of the.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Guy whose GPS led him into a lake. It's like,
just because the GPS tells you not to do, you
don't have to. I am directly. You can look out
the window and say, I don't think that's I don't
think that's right. I don't think that I don't think
I'm supposed to be on the other side of gate
B nineteen. I don't think I was supposed to pull
up to the jetway to deliver this food.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
That man deserves a big tip.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Oh well, yeah, he's probably like, he's not in jail.
A new TikTok trend is causing a big stir. Now, guys,
another week, another story about the thing that is obvious
that we do not need to do. Teen quote unquote
pranksters are pretending to steal money from unsuspecting strangers using
fake Apple Pay transactions. So, in one viral video, a
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teen approaches a guy as for the time and then
pretends to tap his phone while playing a fake apple
Play sound effect. The guy becomes visibly upset, demanding to
see the team's phone, and then the team just says,
I just stole twenty dollars from you. But it's all
a joke. This is how you get yourself stabbed, right,
you know what I mean? Like, this is not funny,
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Like you are pretending to rob someone, so you will
catch the wrong guy on the wrong day.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
And you'll deserve it. I'm sorry, don't do stupid stuff.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So, like, let's not pretend that we're sealing from people.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
These videos have guarded over nine hundred thousand views, have
also sparked backlash. Viewers are calling that pranks dangerous and embarrassing,
warning that such antis could lead to serious consequences. Critics
urge content creators to avoid targeting unsuspecting individuals and to
consider the real world implications of their actions. Yeah, someone's
gonna get beaten up at best. Oh if you snooze,
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which I do, they're saying it's a bad idea. A
new study shows that more than half of people worldwide
hit the snooze button, with heavy users averaging twenty minutes
of snoozing each morning, well, it might feel like a
few extra minutes of rest, sleep experts caution that snoozing
disrupts the critical rem stages of sleep, leading to grogginess
and and un less rest will start to your day.
(07:07):
The research analyzed over twenty one thousand sleep Cycle app users,
and it found that snooze habits vary by country. The US, Sweden,
and Germany lead, Japan and Australia snooze the least. Experts
recommend setting your alarm for the latest possible time and
then getting up immediately to optimize your sleep quality and
daily performance. Because you're already kind of awake, so the
alarm goes off, you're not in rem sleep anymore, so
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you feel like you're sleeping, but you're not actually really
getting any rest. So somehow you're best off just standing
right up, which takes I mean, that's that's incredible discipline. Yeah.
Can you imagine the alarm goes off and you just
stand right up and go, I can't know.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I don't lay there, I grab I turned the alarm off,
and I'm out of bad in seconds.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Oh seeh that's my bigger thing. I snooze. I wake
up in fear every day. I don't know if it's
like the best move.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
And then I lay there for thirty minutes and write
emails and like do prep and stuff of the show,
look stuff up, and like I've done everything, almost everything
before I even get out of bed. By the time
I come in here, it's like I've already written you back.
But they say it's a bad idea. You're supposed to
only use the bed for sleeping. I use the bed
for everything. I only need a bed. If there were
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a shower in the bed, I wouldn't leave the bed.
Like it's terrible. They call it sleep hy Jean's terrible
sleep hy Jens bad. Like my little I remember everything.
Everything happens in the except for eating. No eating in
the bed as well, no eating food in the bed.
And Fortune dot com posted a list of the top
ten college degrees that earned the least amount of money
straight out of college, that being somewhere between forty and
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forty two thousand dollars a year, So happy graduation.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Number one.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
The least amount of money that you're gonna make is
a foreign language. So if you made your in like French,
then that's the lowest amount of money that you're gonna
make general social studies. I didn't know you could get
a social studies degree, performing arts, anthropology, early childhood education,
family and consumer sciences, general education, by a lot sciences
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like lab tech or research assistant social services, and then
theology and religion. So if you have any of those degrees,
salvly you're going to make the least amount of money. Also,
the list of the lowest paying mid career degrees, meaning
you've been at it for a while and you're still underpaid,
radio is number One's not early childhood education ranks last,
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followed by elementary education are the two jobs at you know,
mid career you're still not making enough, so sorry about them.
STEM stuff like science, technology, engineering, and math. Those sorts
of degrees apparently pay the best. So if you just graduated,
then just start over again. It'll be fine. It's National
Rescue Dog Day. Yay Rescue Dog Day. The entertainer of
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for next in two minutes on the Frend Show.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
The Frend Show is on. It's Stay or Go.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Okay, Carrie's here, Hi, carry, good morning, good morning, Cherry.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Welcome, Stay or Go. Thank you for your note.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
You can hit us up A lot of different places
Fredshiw Radio, you can dee on us Fredshire Radio dot com.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
What's going on with this dude? This is your boyfriend
of two years? Right?
Speaker 7 (10:12):
Yeah, I need some advice right?
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
Yeah, I've been dating this guy for two years exactly
and he didn't exactly graduate college like he said he did.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
He didn't exactly graduate, Like, so he didn't graduate. Is
this the guy from is this the the expert witness
from the Karen Reid trail? He didn't graduate? Is that
who you're dating? So this guy says he graduated college,
but he didn't.
Speaker 5 (10:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (10:39):
For the entirety of our relationship, he's acted like he
did like rep in his school, like acting like he
had a Bacchelor's degree, like rooting for the team, wearing
the merch.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
So did he go to the school at all? Did
he do any of it?
Speaker 7 (10:58):
Yeah? Well it's it's not like entirely lie like he
did go there, He just like didn't graduate. And that's
what he said when I confronted him about it.
Speaker 8 (11:08):
And I was like, I never would have cared if.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
You didn't graduate, but like why lie?
Speaker 9 (11:14):
You know?
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Okay, so you would you would like ask him pointed questions,
and he like, it's just the story wasn't coming together.
I mean, because again, I don't really know how if
I said I went to college, and would you say,
can I see your diploma or something?
Speaker 1 (11:26):
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
I mean I guess other than that, how would you
know he could have kept this going forever?
Speaker 8 (11:33):
Yeah, there were just.
Speaker 7 (11:33):
Some things like some things and dates and stuff that
like didn't align. But I'm and so I just I
just I finally asked her, and it was it was
fucking me.
Speaker 9 (11:44):
And he said he was embarrassed and that lying felt easier, okay,
And I just like, I wonder if he can lie
about something that really doesn't matter, Like what else can.
Speaker 7 (11:56):
He lie about?
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Yeah, the guy's a liar. The guy's a liar to
you for two years about something very basic that he
could I mean, that would have bothered me so much.
I mean, I'm a lot of things, I'm not a liar.
So I think if I had lied and then you know,
we're still together in six months, and I mean, at
some point that's going to come up, and at some
point it's gonna again, where's your diploma? Like, I don't know,
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there are there are ways to No, I couldn't live
like that, but he just kept it going for two years.
So no, the guy's a liar. You have to dump him.
It's over anything else? Or should we just move on?
That's yeah, Okay, let me take some phone calls on this,
and I'm going to survey the room.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
But I want to.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
I want to see what people have to say, stay
or go on this one. Carrie, have the radio on
good luck, thank you? Eight five three five this so
this woman found out, you know, I guess by poking
around a little bit. Finally the guy came clean. The
guy should be dating for two years? Did that in
fact go to graduate from college? I guess maybe he
did attend at some point, but he did not graduate
from college.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Is his name? Break up a bowl? Dump a bowl? Offense?
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Yes? I have to say it has to be Oh, yes,
you could that easily lie about a major life event
like that.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
What else are you lying about?
Speaker 5 (13:06):
What if it was embarrassed, you shouldn't be embarrassed, right.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
So maybe he doesn't want to like, you know, say
he dropped out.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
How many people have started college and didn't finish lots?
That's nothing to be embarrassed about it. He was flexing,
he wanted to impress her with something that he didn't do,
and then as supposed to coming back and be like, hey,
you know what I told you something that wasn't true.
I mean, how long was he going to keep this
going forever? Were they going to get married and stuff?
Speaker 3 (13:30):
So we're we we forgive people for like making out
with someone one time and not leaving them, but we
won't forgive them for being embarrassed about something and coming
clean about it.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Events.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
I'm not sure that I did who made out with him?
I didn't. I didn't forgive it about it.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
I feel like talk about that, it's like, oh, it's
a one off, it's a makeout.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
Like for me, that'd be absolutely leave, But this one
I'm not necessarily like I need to know.
Speaker 9 (13:51):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
I think there's a difference between a bad decision one
time and an outright concerted, consistent lot.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
But how often are they talking about his like Alma mater?
Like how often is he lying about it?
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Like?
Speaker 4 (14:04):
Is it a few times?
Speaker 2 (14:05):
You know, you're claiming a major life accomplishment that you
didn't accomplish, and you're making me believe that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Why is that okay for me, that's okay.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
So if your boyfriend were like I went to college
and graduated and it turned out years later he didn't
if that'd be okay?
Speaker 3 (14:20):
If he came clean and said I was really ashamed
and it has nothing to do with you, Like, maybe
there'd be conversations for.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Sure, I'd question everything. Oh yeah, Like what else you
lye about?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
I don't know, but like for me a name, but
like cheating is I would that's a I don't care
if you peck kiss whatever I'm leaving, So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
That's an interesting I guess comparison. But is there a
difference between a bad choice and I would depend on
the severity of the choice. By the way, a kiss
would be different from me than would be a six
month emotional affair would be different than a physical Like, like,
you know.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
That's a lie though you're not telling me.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah, but i'd lie it's not a lie. I think
there are different levels of lies. I think I do
think there are different severity levels of lies. You telling
me that you accomplished something so that you can purport
to be someone you're not is way worse to me,
I think. And then to be consistent with it, like
just just turn around and say, you know, I mean,
just come clean.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
I mean, I guess sometimes people lie so much or
they or their lies get so deep that then they
can't find their way out of them, you know, but
that's pathological.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 10 (15:28):
You Jason this to me on like the I guess
the spectrum of offenses in a relationship is very low
for me, Like like, like Calen said, I think we
need to have a conversation of once it comes out,
like why, But I'm just assuming that he doesn't want
to own up to the fact that he dropped out
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of college. Yes, a lot of people do it, but
I don't think people are necessarily proud of it. So
it's like, Okay, let's have an actual conversation of why
and what were the reasons behind it, and then that
will probably bring us closer.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
I don't know. It doesn't seem like something that's like.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
A okay, but that's a conversation that you would follow
up with not long after you told the lie. You
wouldn't keep the lie going for all this time. I
think it's a conversation you have once it gets found out.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
But why do I have to catch you?
Speaker 2 (16:20):
I mean, you want you're mean to marry you, and
you're telling me that you accomplished something over the course
of four years.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
You didn't do FOS's valor.
Speaker 6 (16:28):
I mean also, I don't put a lot of weight
into college degrees, Like that's not something.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
That's an accomplishment.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
You're focused on the thing, and I'm focused on the
level of the lie. I mean, you lied to someone
and you kept it up for years and years and
years over something you simply didn't do. That wasn't a mistake.
That was a conscious choice to continue lying to me.
So what else is easy for you to lie about?
I don't like it, Jackie.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
How you doing, hello, Fred?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
How about you?
Speaker 1 (16:59):
I'm doing great, Jackie.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
So this this woman's calling it because you've somehow found
out that there her boyfriend of two years lied about
completing his college degree. And now you know these guys
in here, he's these guys in here are like saying, well,
worse than lion, better than that, But I don't know
about that.
Speaker 8 (17:17):
Yeah, he's a louserve because you know what you lie about?
Speaker 4 (17:20):
One thing, You're going.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
To watch jack do you keep do you.
Speaker 8 (17:29):
Uf? I have I don't have a Southern backbone. I
have an Alton backbone. And once a liars, you fall.
Speaker 11 (17:36):
Into the category of being a snitch.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
You know, no got Jackie?
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Wow? Aggressive? Thank you Jackie.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
Hey, Jackie, you and I are as long as we're
always good, you know, we'll be fine.
Speaker 11 (17:47):
To me, we'll be fine.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Bred.
Speaker 8 (17:49):
I listen to you every morning and keikey. I absolutely
love you. I think you're doing an awesome job.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
I love you. You wind up in a connect else somewhere, Jackie,
you have a good day.
Speaker 8 (18:04):
I'm conscious. I told my car when I talk on
the phone, I.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Do not No, no, I meant, I meant if we
disagree with you, we wind up dead.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
But no, that's never.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
I would never on anyone.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
Thank you, Jackie, have a good day. Love you. Love you.
Snitches over here, No snitches, I tell you. Hey, Stephanie, Hi, Wow,
follow that call up? How do you do?
Speaker 11 (18:29):
I don't want to get on her backside?
Speaker 5 (18:31):
No?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
No, What do you think? So if first of all,
I guess it's it's like kind of two parts. Here
is a lie A lie? I mean, are they all
the same? Is every lie said? Is there a difference
between a lie and a mistake. Is there a difference between,
you know, continuing to tell a lie or or letting
a lie persist? And what would you do in this
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situation if you're this woman who found out that her
boyfriend and two years didn't really graduate from college.
Speaker 11 (18:59):
I'm feel like we need more information. I mean, was
it did he actually flat out say I went to school,
I graduated, this is when I graduated? Or was it
I went to school there? And he just kind of
omitted the information of not graduating.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
You know something, Every Sunday, this dude slapped a sweatshirt
on and cheered for the team, like you know, like
like you know, like you've been going to games for
four years.
Speaker 11 (19:22):
You know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I
did the same thing.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
Did you lie about it or did you just post?
Speaker 7 (19:30):
No?
Speaker 5 (19:30):
You know.
Speaker 11 (19:31):
So, I grew up a fan and always wore the
merchandise I started school, but then I ended up transferring
to go to a different school, but I still wore
the merchandise from the previous school. And it's not like
I said, hey, I graduated from here, but I still
wore the merchandise.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
Stephanie, I got news for you. You can be a
fan of a school you didn't attend, right, I'm.
Speaker 11 (19:53):
Maybe that's what he was doing. He's just a fan.
He went there, but he didn't finish, So I mean,
maybe he wasn't really lying. He just didn't. It was
maybe like a white lie. You know, he didn't he
didn't share the whole tree.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, yeah, Elizabeth, thank you, have a good day. And yes,
someone mentioned the season one of the rehearsal, there's a
storyline like this where a guy lied to a new
group of friends about having a master's degree that he
didn't have. The problem was they were trying to help
him get jobs, and they were telling people that he
had a master's degree in the process of trying to
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link him up with a job. So he The whole
episode was about him coming clean to his friend about
how he in fact did not have a master's degree.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
But I don't think that. I don't know how long
this went on.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
But these were these were friends, they weren't lovers, and
I don't know. He did come clean finally on his own.
He didn't get caught, he came I just I don't
know if you could lie that easily about something, And
then it's pathological in some ways, like it sounds like
this dude was walking around purporting that he did this
because she was talking about he'd wear the gear and
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it was almost like he was. It was almost like
he was actively talking about this thing that never happened.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Like that to me is that's another level. Elizabeth, Hi, Hi,
how are you? Fred?
Speaker 2 (21:08):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Good morning? What do you want to say? Stare Go?
Speaker 8 (21:12):
I love you guys, And I'm going to say, stay okay,
why And the reason is I did that same thing?
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Okay, what'd you do? And exactly I I.
Speaker 8 (21:23):
Well, I went to school, but I had some things
going on in my life back in those days, which
would be a whole nother radio show. But everybody said, oh, did.
Speaker 4 (21:33):
You do this?
Speaker 5 (21:33):
Yay row Ron, I was like I did.
Speaker 9 (21:35):
I did.
Speaker 8 (21:36):
I put it on my resume at one point in everything.
And for me, I, like I said, I had some
things going on. I had to take classes, like outside
of the school I was going to and stuff and
trying to transfer them all in.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
Some of them got lost.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
One of the schools that I took some classes and
actually went bankrupt and I couldn't get those credits. But
in my mind, I was like you know what, I
did all the work, and I am intelligent and I
do have a good job, so I would just tell people, yeah,
I went to this school.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Okay, But here's my question, Holly, and the confines of
a relationship, a two year relationship, if you found out
that the man or woman that you were with, whatever
you're into, lied to you about something like that for
that long and kept it going. Because it's not even
like I told you that one time and then I
forgot about it or I felt bad about it and
just haven't had the chance to come back and fix it.
This sounds like this is a lie, he kept telling
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over and over again.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
No, I did the same thing until somebody. It was
actually my brother that called me out because he went
to the same school. He did graduate, and he was like, Elizabeth,
you never graduated. Why do you tell people?
Speaker 4 (22:46):
And I was like, okay, well, you know what.
Speaker 8 (22:48):
I had a reason, all right, And the reason is
you get you get wrapped into everybody you went to
high school with that's like yay, you know, with their
alma maters and everything. And it's funny. My dad graduated
from me Vers of Notre Dame and I'm a huge
Notre Dame fan, and they're like, did you go there?
That's where your grand friend? Like, no, I graduated it
and I went to the U of M.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Elizabeth.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
To most people I know that are Notre Dame fans,
you haven't step foot on the campus. So it's okay,
it's fine.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
They went to the other one. They went to, Uh,
I have Mary, what's the one that my dad?
Speaker 8 (23:19):
So I had to otherwise I was going to get
this on.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Lizabeth.
Speaker 8 (23:23):
I gotta go went to Minnesota. Why didn't you say it?
And I was like, okay, because it didn't matter.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Well, as far as I'm gonna start, you went and
you graduated. It does me?
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Okay, Lisabeth, thank you have a good day. I don't
want to know about that. Is there a harmless lie?
Bro Yes, that's I mean, I think there are.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
I don't think every lie is the same, but I
don't know. I mean, if you keep telling the same
stupid lie over and over again, I think it gets worse.
Speaker 5 (23:49):
I mean, lights of the world lie on your resume,
not lights of your partner.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
We sleep together, and that's what I mean, Like, what
else is so easy for you to lie?
Speaker 10 (23:56):
Bring me in a lie because everyone in a relationship
is one hundred percent with the other.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
All the what are you lying about, Jason? Do not
justify lie?
Speaker 6 (24:10):
You know who is honest to their partner one hundred person?
Come on, girl, Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
But so this person.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
But I think the part that's lost on you is
that this person's looking you in the eye every day
and telling you the same thing that's not true. It's
a conscious choice every day to lie to you. That
is different than a one time liar of fib oh. No,
I did switch the laundry. No, I went to college.
And I'm telling you this for two years.
Speaker 4 (24:39):
Did they talk about it every day?
Speaker 2 (24:41):
You guys?
Speaker 1 (24:42):
I cannot. You got me in the world time about
Jason went to Harvard? Yeah, you know, my man, Jason,
Yes he did. He went to Harvard.
Speaker 6 (24:48):
Girl, I didn't go to Harvard. I didn't graduate.
Speaker 5 (24:52):
You're at it, you guys, you're at I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I don't care the level of the lie.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
If if your partners were looking at you regularly and
telling you the same fake story, you would you would
be heard and upset, and you would question the validity
of a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
It was back out easy.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
You're looking at me every day pretending you didn't make
out with someone else.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
So it's not just a bad choice. I think that's
far worse.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
I just I disagree because I can't undo. I can
undo the lie. I can't undo the makeout. I can
never do that again.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
You're lying, looking at me, acting like you've been faithfulth
I mean, I you agreed?
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Are you faithful? I guess, but I can't. I can't
unfaithful my saying I can't. I can't.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
There something I can do about. I can tell you
I lied and didn't go to college. I can't unkiss
the person trust me. I wish I could unkiss a
lot of people. The entertainment of forty two minutes
My right show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
West Sloop. Tom knows the name of the place, West Sloop.
Tom's exton that was the place. I'm not gonna say
it because it's not there anymore, but yeah, he knows
West and Tom was. I think he was there in
the corner watching us eat.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Actually I almost set the place on air, and then
I was like, maybe I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
If it still exists anywhere, but yeah, or that place
in Salt Lake City that Kalen took us that we
were talking about off the air, where everything had elk
in it everything, which is nothing wrong with that. I mean,
I'm sure it's delicious, but everything everything. I'm like, guys,
what do you own an elk farm? And they were like, yeah,
we do. Actually, I was, oh, that makes perfect sense, everything,
every everything, And I was like, well, what if I
(00:39):
don't want elk? Like you came to the wrong place,
Like y'all have a bunk soda with an elk beef
jerky stick in the middle of it.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I'm like, what are we doing? Guys?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I tell you I never wanted anything more than just
a cheeseburger in my life than when you told me.
All I could eat was that, and again apparently we
heard a whole speech about it. It's a very lean meat, delicious,
that very gamy, That's what I'm told. I just didn't
want it because I could not have it. I was like,
y'all have the chocolate cake. It has elk in it?
How how does it have elk? How did you get
(01:11):
that in there?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
With elk? Milk right right right? We milked an elk?
Can we put it in there?
Speaker 4 (01:16):
We should have gone with the Italian spot, But.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Again, you know, it was like highly rated and beautiful
view and nice place, and that it made sense. I
can see why you'd choose that, And it was was
very nice there. It was just you know, had a
lot of option that a lot of variety on the menu.
So days before ten men broke out of a Louisiana jail,
officials asked for funding to fix faulty locks and cell doors.
(01:41):
According to the sheriff, yeah, that's probably a good idea.
The investigation into the Friday jail break, which the escapees
labeled as easy. So they cut a hole in the
wall behind a toilet, snuck out, and then wrote above
it easy lol. Too easy too to easy, So we didn't,
you know, a whole lot of attention and grammar school.
But that's okay, too easy, lol. And then they stuck up.
(02:05):
So they're not only that, but they're taunting the prison people,
which okay, So there are seven remaining fugitives or maybe
six is of this morning, but they have long raise concerts,
according to the sheriff about the jails defficiencies, adding that
breakout has once again highlighted the critical need for repairs
and upgrades to the infrastructure. While the sheriff said the
(02:26):
locks played a key role in the escape, there are
other critical security lapses that officials have outlined indications that
the escape was an inside job, including three sheriffs employees
that are now on suspension. So it's like these guys
were in on it. They helped them, Oh is what
people are speculating. The whole that officials said may have
been formed using power tools. I don't know how that
(02:47):
would have How would they have gotten the power tools.
A lack of monitoring of the cell pod. As an
employee that was tasked with the job, it stepped out
for food and law enforcement, not being aware of the
escape until the morning head count seven hours after the
guys got out. So you got one dude who like
took a two hour break of his job as the
security guy. You got seven hours go before they figure
(03:10):
out these guys were gone, and then they had you know,
makita drills in there. I mean, I know they could
do some really improvisational things in prison. I mean I've
seen how they can make you know, toilet hooch and
pizzas and all kinds of different things on TikTok. But
I mean, you know, get cell phones in and all that.
A Chicago O'Hare International Airport Uber d well, I guess
(03:30):
I got driving around O'Hare. He got himself in a
little bit of trouble because the airport had a security
scare over the weekend. It was a door desk driver, actually,
not Uber. He was in Routius Destination when he accidentally
drove into an unauthorized security area within O'Hare and then
kept driving. The thirty six year old male went from
miles within the confines of the fence of the airport
(03:52):
and incredibly may have even crossed active runways before being stopped.
No charges have been filed because it was accidental. No
word on whether the food eventually made it to the
right spot. But this is where you maybe don't trust
the GPS when it says like federal property, don't cross
this line.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
I mean, how like, how lost do you.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Have to be before you're crossing runways and stuff going.
I don't think anybody on that Southwest flight ordered this food.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
It's very confusing though, when you get to the airport,
you know, rivals and departures. I forget what I'm doing, Like,
am I arriving?
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I'm a department No, Kiki.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
The last time that we all ate together was at
the tallest restaurant in the city, I know, and you
had a hard time finding it. Yes, and it's literally
one of, not only one of the tallest buildings. The
restaurant was in the tallest building in the city. It's
one of the tallest buildings in the world, and you
still were not able to find it. So I guess
this is not surprising to me that you might have
issues navigating the airport.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Yes, because the GPS gets all confused whenever you get
around a bunch of towers you get downtown, so I
can imagine his GPS probably got so confused with the
planes GPS, and you know, what is.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It doing with the planes? GPS? What does that average
with you?
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Air traffic control has been all mixed up for the
last couple of weeks, so it might have told him
to go right on up there.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Just like the story of the.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Guy whose GPS led him into a lake. It's like,
just because the GPS tells you not to do, you
don't have to. I am directly. You can look out
the window and say, I don't think that's I don't
think that's right. I don't think that I don't think
I'm supposed to be on the other side of gate
B nineteen. I don't think I was supposed to pull
up to the jetway to deliver this food.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
That man deserves a big tip.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Oh well, yeah, he's probably like, he's not in jail.
A new TikTok trend is causing a big stir. Now, guys,
another week, another story about the thing that is obvious
that we do not need to do. Teen quote unquote
pranksters are pretending to steal money from unsuspecting strangers using
fake Apple Pay transactions. So, in one viral video, a
(05:53):
teen approaches a guy as for the time and then
pretends to tap his phone while playing a fake apple
Play sound effect. The guy becomes visibly upset, demanding to
see the team's phone, and then the team just says,
I just stole twenty dollars from you. But it's all
a joke. This is how you get yourself stabbed, right,
you know what I mean? Like, this is not funny,
(06:13):
Like you are pretending to rob someone, so you will
catch the wrong guy on the wrong day.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
And you'll deserve it. I'm sorry, don't do stupid stuff.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So, like, let's not pretend that we're sealing from people.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
These videos have guarded over nine hundred thousand views, have
also sparked backlash. Viewers are calling that pranks dangerous and embarrassing,
warning that such antis could lead to serious consequences. Critics
urge content creators to avoid targeting unsuspecting individuals and to
consider the real world implications of their actions. Yeah, someone's
gonna get beaten up at best. Oh if you snooze,
(06:46):
which I do, they're saying it's a bad idea. A
new study shows that more than half of people worldwide
hit the snooze button, with heavy users averaging twenty minutes
of snoozing each morning, well, it might feel like a
few extra minutes of rest, sleep experts caution that snoozing
disrupts the critical rem stages of sleep, leading to grogginess
and and un less rest will start to your day.
(07:07):
The research analyzed over twenty one thousand sleep Cycle app users,
and it found that snooze habits vary by country. The US, Sweden,
and Germany lead, Japan and Australia snooze the least. Experts
recommend setting your alarm for the latest possible time and
then getting up immediately to optimize your sleep quality and
daily performance. Because you're already kind of awake, so the
alarm goes off, you're not in rem sleep anymore, so
(07:29):
you feel like you're sleeping, but you're not actually really
getting any rest. So somehow you're best off just standing
right up, which takes I mean, that's that's incredible discipline. Yeah.
Can you imagine the alarm goes off and you just
stand right up and go, I can't know.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I don't lay there, I grab I turned the alarm off,
and I'm out of bad in seconds.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Oh seeh that's my bigger thing. I snooze. I wake
up in fear every day. I don't know if it's
like the best move.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
And then I lay there for thirty minutes and write
emails and like do prep and stuff of the show,
look stuff up, and like I've done everything, almost everything
before I even get out of bed. By the time
I come in here, it's like I've already written you back.
But they say it's a bad idea. You're supposed to
only use the bed for sleeping. I use the bed
for everything. I only need a bed. If there were
(08:15):
a shower in the bed, I wouldn't leave the bed.
Like it's terrible. They call it sleep hy Jean's terrible
sleep hy Jens bad. Like my little I remember everything.
Everything happens in the except for eating. No eating in
the bed as well, no eating food in the bed.
And Fortune dot com posted a list of the top
ten college degrees that earned the least amount of money
straight out of college, that being somewhere between forty and
(08:36):
forty two thousand dollars a year, So happy graduation.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Number one.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
The least amount of money that you're gonna make is
a foreign language. So if you made your in like French,
then that's the lowest amount of money that you're gonna
make general social studies. I didn't know you could get
a social studies degree, performing arts, anthropology, early childhood education,
family and consumer sciences, general education, by a lot sciences
(09:01):
like lab tech or research assistant social services, and then
theology and religion. So if you have any of those degrees,
salvly you're going to make the least amount of money. Also,
the list of the lowest paying mid career degrees, meaning
you've been at it for a while and you're still underpaid,
radio is number One's not early childhood education ranks last,
(09:22):
followed by elementary education are the two jobs at you know,
mid career you're still not making enough, so sorry about them.
STEM stuff like science, technology, engineering, and math. Those sorts
of degrees apparently pay the best. So if you just graduated,
then just start over again. It'll be fine. It's National
Rescue Dog Day. Yay Rescue Dog Day. The entertainer of
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for next in two minutes on the Frend Show.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
The Frend Show is on. It's Stay or Go.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Okay, Carrie's here, Hi, carry, good morning, good morning, Cherry.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Welcome, Stay or Go. Thank you for your note.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
You can hit us up A lot of different places
Fredshiw Radio, you can dee on us Fredshire Radio dot com.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
What's going on with this dude? This is your boyfriend
of two years? Right?
Speaker 7 (10:12):
Yeah, I need some advice right?
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
Yeah, I've been dating this guy for two years exactly
and he didn't exactly graduate college like he said he did.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
He didn't exactly graduate, Like, so he didn't graduate. Is
this the guy from is this the the expert witness
from the Karen Reid trail? He didn't graduate? Is that
who you're dating? So this guy says he graduated college,
but he didn't.
Speaker 5 (10:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (10:39):
For the entirety of our relationship, he's acted like he
did like rep in his school, like acting like he
had a Bacchelor's degree, like rooting for the team, wearing
the merch.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
So did he go to the school at all? Did
he do any of it?
Speaker 7 (10:58):
Yeah? Well it's it's not like entirely lie like he
did go there, He just like didn't graduate. And that's
what he said when I confronted him about it.
Speaker 8 (11:08):
And I was like, I never would have cared if.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
You didn't graduate, but like why lie?
Speaker 9 (11:14):
You know?
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Okay, so you would you would like ask him pointed questions,
and he like, it's just the story wasn't coming together.
I mean, because again, I don't really know how if
I said I went to college, and would you say,
can I see your diploma or something?
Speaker 1 (11:26):
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
I mean I guess other than that, how would you
know he could have kept this going forever?
Speaker 8 (11:33):
Yeah, there were just.
Speaker 7 (11:33):
Some things like some things and dates and stuff that
like didn't align. But I'm and so I just I
just I finally asked her, and it was it was
fucking me.
Speaker 9 (11:44):
And he said he was embarrassed and that lying felt easier, okay,
And I just like, I wonder if he can lie
about something that really doesn't matter, Like what else can.
Speaker 7 (11:56):
He lie about?
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Yeah, the guy's a liar. The guy's a liar to
you for two years about something very basic that he
could I mean, that would have bothered me so much.
I mean, I'm a lot of things, I'm not a liar.
So I think if I had lied and then you know,
we're still together in six months, and I mean, at
some point that's going to come up, and at some
point it's gonna again, where's your diploma? Like, I don't know,
(12:18):
there are there are ways to No, I couldn't live
like that, but he just kept it going for two years.
So no, the guy's a liar. You have to dump him.
It's over anything else? Or should we just move on?
That's yeah, Okay, let me take some phone calls on this,
and I'm going to survey the room.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
But I want to.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
I want to see what people have to say, stay
or go on this one. Carrie, have the radio on
good luck, thank you? Eight five three five this so
this woman found out, you know, I guess by poking
around a little bit. Finally the guy came clean. The
guy should be dating for two years? Did that in
fact go to graduate from college? I guess maybe he
did attend at some point, but he did not graduate
from college.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Is his name? Break up a bowl? Dump a bowl? Offense?
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Yes? I have to say it has to be Oh, yes,
you could that easily lie about a major life event
like that.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
What else are you lying about?
Speaker 5 (13:06):
What if it was embarrassed, you shouldn't be embarrassed, right.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
So maybe he doesn't want to like, you know, say
he dropped out.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
How many people have started college and didn't finish lots?
That's nothing to be embarrassed about it. He was flexing,
he wanted to impress her with something that he didn't do,
and then as supposed to coming back and be like, hey,
you know what I told you something that wasn't true.
I mean, how long was he going to keep this
going forever? Were they going to get married and stuff?
Speaker 3 (13:30):
So we're we we forgive people for like making out
with someone one time and not leaving them, but we
won't forgive them for being embarrassed about something and coming
clean about it.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Events.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
I'm not sure that I did who made out with him?
I didn't. I didn't forgive it about it.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
I feel like talk about that, it's like, oh, it's
a one off, it's a makeout.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
Like for me, that'd be absolutely leave, But this one
I'm not necessarily like I need to know.
Speaker 9 (13:51):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
I think there's a difference between a bad decision one
time and an outright concerted, consistent lot.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
But how often are they talking about his like Alma mater?
Like how often is he lying about it?
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Like?
Speaker 4 (14:04):
Is it a few times?
Speaker 2 (14:05):
You know, you're claiming a major life accomplishment that you
didn't accomplish, and you're making me believe that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Why is that okay for me, that's okay.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
So if your boyfriend were like I went to college
and graduated and it turned out years later he didn't
if that'd be okay?
Speaker 3 (14:20):
If he came clean and said I was really ashamed
and it has nothing to do with you, Like, maybe
there'd be conversations for.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Sure, I'd question everything. Oh yeah, Like what else you
lye about?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
I don't know, but like for me a name, but
like cheating is I would that's a I don't care
if you peck kiss whatever I'm leaving, So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
That's an interesting I guess comparison. But is there a
difference between a bad choice and I would depend on
the severity of the choice. By the way, a kiss
would be different from me than would be a six
month emotional affair would be different than a physical Like, like,
you know.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
That's a lie though you're not telling me.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah, but i'd lie it's not a lie. I think
there are different levels of lies. I think I do
think there are different severity levels of lies. You telling
me that you accomplished something so that you can purport
to be someone you're not is way worse to me,
I think. And then to be consistent with it, like
just just turn around and say, you know, I mean,
just come clean.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
I mean, I guess sometimes people lie so much or
they or their lies get so deep that then they
can't find their way out of them, you know, but
that's pathological.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 10 (15:28):
You Jason this to me on like the I guess
the spectrum of offenses in a relationship is very low
for me, Like like, like Calen said, I think we
need to have a conversation of once it comes out,
like why, But I'm just assuming that he doesn't want
to own up to the fact that he dropped out
(15:50):
of college. Yes, a lot of people do it, but
I don't think people are necessarily proud of it. So
it's like, Okay, let's have an actual conversation of why
and what were the reasons behind it, and then that
will probably bring us closer.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
I don't know. It doesn't seem like something that's like.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
A okay, but that's a conversation that you would follow
up with not long after you told the lie. You
wouldn't keep the lie going for all this time. I
think it's a conversation you have once it gets found out.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
But why do I have to catch you?
Speaker 2 (16:20):
I mean, you want you're mean to marry you, and
you're telling me that you accomplished something over the course
of four years.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
You didn't do FOS's valor.
Speaker 6 (16:28):
I mean also, I don't put a lot of weight
into college degrees, Like that's not something.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
That's an accomplishment.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
You're focused on the thing, and I'm focused on the
level of the lie. I mean, you lied to someone
and you kept it up for years and years and
years over something you simply didn't do. That wasn't a mistake.
That was a conscious choice to continue lying to me.
So what else is easy for you to lie about?
I don't like it, Jackie.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
How you doing, hello, Fred?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
How about you?
Speaker 1 (16:59):
I'm doing great, Jackie.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
So this this woman's calling it because you've somehow found
out that there her boyfriend of two years lied about
completing his college degree. And now you know these guys
in here, he's these guys in here are like saying, well,
worse than lion, better than that, But I don't know
about that.
Speaker 8 (17:17):
Yeah, he's a louserve because you know what you lie about?
Speaker 4 (17:20):
One thing, You're going.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
To watch jack do you keep do you.
Speaker 8 (17:29):
Uf? I have I don't have a Southern backbone. I
have an Alton backbone. And once a liars, you fall.
Speaker 11 (17:36):
Into the category of being a snitch.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
You know, no got Jackie?
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Wow? Aggressive? Thank you Jackie.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
Hey, Jackie, you and I are as long as we're
always good, you know, we'll be fine.
Speaker 11 (17:47):
To me, we'll be fine.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Bred.
Speaker 8 (17:49):
I listen to you every morning and keikey. I absolutely
love you. I think you're doing an awesome job.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
I love you. You wind up in a connect else somewhere, Jackie,
you have a good day.
Speaker 8 (18:04):
I'm conscious. I told my car when I talk on
the phone, I.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Do not No, no, I meant, I meant if we
disagree with you, we wind up dead.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
But no, that's never.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
I would never on anyone.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
Thank you, Jackie, have a good day. Love you. Love you.
Snitches over here, No snitches, I tell you. Hey, Stephanie, Hi, Wow,
follow that call up? How do you do?
Speaker 11 (18:29):
I don't want to get on her backside?
Speaker 5 (18:31):
No?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
No, What do you think? So if first of all,
I guess it's it's like kind of two parts. Here
is a lie A lie? I mean, are they all
the same? Is every lie said? Is there a difference
between a lie and a mistake. Is there a difference between,
you know, continuing to tell a lie or or letting
a lie persist? And what would you do in this
(18:54):
situation if you're this woman who found out that her
boyfriend and two years didn't really graduate from college.
Speaker 11 (18:59):
I'm feel like we need more information. I mean, was
it did he actually flat out say I went to school,
I graduated, this is when I graduated? Or was it
I went to school there? And he just kind of
omitted the information of not graduating.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
You know something, Every Sunday, this dude slapped a sweatshirt
on and cheered for the team, like you know, like
like you know, like you've been going to games for
four years.
Speaker 11 (19:22):
You know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I
did the same thing.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
Did you lie about it or did you just post?
Speaker 7 (19:30):
No?
Speaker 5 (19:30):
You know.
Speaker 11 (19:31):
So, I grew up a fan and always wore the
merchandise I started school, but then I ended up transferring
to go to a different school, but I still wore
the merchandise from the previous school. And it's not like
I said, hey, I graduated from here, but I still
wore the merchandise.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
Stephanie, I got news for you. You can be a
fan of a school you didn't attend, right, I'm.
Speaker 11 (19:53):
Maybe that's what he was doing. He's just a fan.
He went there, but he didn't finish, So I mean,
maybe he wasn't really lying. He just didn't. It was
maybe like a white lie. You know, he didn't he
didn't share the whole tree.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, yeah, Elizabeth, thank you, have a good day. And yes,
someone mentioned the season one of the rehearsal, there's a
storyline like this where a guy lied to a new
group of friends about having a master's degree that he
didn't have. The problem was they were trying to help
him get jobs, and they were telling people that he
had a master's degree in the process of trying to
(20:27):
link him up with a job. So he The whole
episode was about him coming clean to his friend about
how he in fact did not have a master's degree.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
But I don't think that. I don't know how long
this went on.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
But these were these were friends, they weren't lovers, and
I don't know. He did come clean finally on his own.
He didn't get caught, he came I just I don't
know if you could lie that easily about something, And
then it's pathological in some ways, like it sounds like
this dude was walking around purporting that he did this
because she was talking about he'd wear the gear and
(20:58):
it was almost like he was. It was almost like
he was actively talking about this thing that never happened.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Like that to me is that's another level. Elizabeth, Hi, Hi,
how are you? Fred?
Speaker 2 (21:08):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Good morning? What do you want to say? Stare Go?
Speaker 8 (21:12):
I love you guys, And I'm going to say, stay okay,
why And the reason is I did that same thing?
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Okay, what'd you do? And exactly I I.
Speaker 8 (21:23):
Well, I went to school, but I had some things
going on in my life back in those days, which
would be a whole nother radio show. But everybody said, oh, did.
Speaker 4 (21:33):
You do this?
Speaker 5 (21:33):
Yay row Ron, I was like I did.
Speaker 9 (21:35):
I did.
Speaker 8 (21:36):
I put it on my resume at one point in everything.
And for me, I, like I said, I had some
things going on. I had to take classes, like outside
of the school I was going to and stuff and
trying to transfer them all in.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
Some of them got lost.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
One of the schools that I took some classes and
actually went bankrupt and I couldn't get those credits. But
in my mind, I was like you know what, I
did all the work, and I am intelligent and I
do have a good job, so I would just tell people, yeah,
I went to this school.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Okay, But here's my question, Holly, and the confines of
a relationship, a two year relationship, if you found out
that the man or woman that you were with, whatever
you're into, lied to you about something like that for
that long and kept it going. Because it's not even
like I told you that one time and then I
forgot about it or I felt bad about it and
just haven't had the chance to come back and fix it.
This sounds like this is a lie, he kept telling
(22:31):
over and over again.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
No, I did the same thing until somebody. It was
actually my brother that called me out because he went
to the same school. He did graduate, and he was like, Elizabeth,
you never graduated. Why do you tell people?
Speaker 4 (22:46):
And I was like, okay, well, you know what.
Speaker 8 (22:48):
I had a reason, all right, And the reason is
you get you get wrapped into everybody you went to
high school with that's like yay, you know, with their
alma maters and everything. And it's funny. My dad graduated
from me Vers of Notre Dame and I'm a huge
Notre Dame fan, and they're like, did you go there?
That's where your grand friend? Like, no, I graduated it
and I went to the U of M.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Elizabeth.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
To most people I know that are Notre Dame fans,
you haven't step foot on the campus. So it's okay,
it's fine.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
They went to the other one. They went to, Uh,
I have Mary, what's the one that my dad?
Speaker 8 (23:19):
So I had to otherwise I was going to get
this on.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Lizabeth.
Speaker 8 (23:23):
I gotta go went to Minnesota. Why didn't you say it?
And I was like, okay, because it didn't matter.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Well, as far as I'm gonna start, you went and
you graduated. It does me?
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Okay, Lisabeth, thank you have a good day. I don't
want to know about that. Is there a harmless lie?
Bro Yes, that's I mean, I think there are.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
I don't think every lie is the same, but I
don't know. I mean, if you keep telling the same
stupid lie over and over again, I think it gets worse.
Speaker 5 (23:49):
I mean, lights of the world lie on your resume,
not lights of your partner.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
We sleep together, and that's what I mean, Like, what
else is so easy for you to lie?
Speaker 10 (23:56):
Bring me in a lie because everyone in a relationship
is one hundred percent with the other.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
All the what are you lying about, Jason? Do not
justify lie?
Speaker 6 (24:10):
You know who is honest to their partner one hundred person?
Come on, girl, Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
But so this person.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
But I think the part that's lost on you is
that this person's looking you in the eye every day
and telling you the same thing that's not true. It's
a conscious choice every day to lie to you. That
is different than a one time liar of fib oh. No,
I did switch the laundry. No, I went to college.
And I'm telling you this for two years.
Speaker 4 (24:39):
Did they talk about it every day?
Speaker 2 (24:41):
You guys?
Speaker 1 (24:42):
I cannot. You got me in the world time about
Jason went to Harvard? Yeah, you know, my man, Jason,
Yes he did. He went to Harvard.
Speaker 6 (24:48):
Girl, I didn't go to Harvard. I didn't graduate.
Speaker 5 (24:52):
You're at it, you guys, you're at I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I don't care the level of the lie.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
If if your partners were looking at you regularly and
telling you the same fake story, you would you would
be heard and upset, and you would question the validity
of a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
It was back out easy.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
You're looking at me every day pretending you didn't make
out with someone else.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
So it's not just a bad choice. I think that's
far worse.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
I just I disagree because I can't undo. I can
undo the lie. I can't undo the makeout. I can
never do that again.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
You're lying, looking at me, acting like you've been faithfulth
I mean, I you agreed?
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Are you faithful? I guess, but I can't. I can't
unfaithful my saying I can't. I can't.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
There something I can do about. I can tell you
I lied and didn't go to college. I can't unkiss
the person trust me. I wish I could unkiss a
lot of people. The entertainment of forty two minutes
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