May 23, 2025 • 25 mins
Do you tell your significant other everything... Or do you keep somethings a mystery? Bella doesn't and Fred and the crew weigh in on it! Plus, find out why Jared got ghosted on an all new Waiting by the Phone!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Bellahamine contributed to our little little sheet here that we
have a little shared document and people write their ideas
for the show into or in contribute whatever. And you
said summon to the effect of who am I supposed
to share graphic details about my life with if not
(00:24):
my husband?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
So the question was how much mystery do you leave
in your relationship?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
So I'll put it out there?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Eight five's where's the line? Well, no, she'll tell her
story and she'll go back in. No, don't worry, Jason.
You're a full time member of the show. You get
to stay. Jason's immediate meet is to do someone else's job. No, No,
I want you to sit right there. She's gonna tell
her story and then go do her job. You don't
have to do everyone else's job. Do we have to
have that speech today? You do everyone else's job and
(01:00):
you don't have to. I want you to relax, put
your feet up if you want. Well, they're probably not,
because I don't worry about it, you know. I just
love how Jason's the first one to step up to
do somebody else's job. You don't have to do it. So, yeah,
what what is the situation ahead? What is the example
(01:20):
that you have when did this present itself in your relationship.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well, a couple of days ago, I had to use
the restroom and I'm scared, and I tell I'm not shy.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
No, well, I mean maybe a little shy. I remember
that this is the radio, but I mean not too shy.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I'm just like, I hope I can say this word
on the radio.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I can't.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Okay, medical thing. It's a medical okay, proving. So I
tell Ben everything, like literally everything. And so the other
day I went to it into the bathroom and I
had hemorrhoids.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
And I went and, well, I don't know if it's hemorrhoids.
I talked to my doctor.
Speaker 5 (01:58):
Yeah, you make things up.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, we don't.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
We don't.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
We don't have to get to and okay, we don't
have to get to in a detail about Okay. So
there's something going on in the in the in the
booty area, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
And so I went to tell him.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I went to tell him. The first thing you
thought to do is tell him, Yeah, of course.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I would tell him. And so I told him, I'm like, hey, baby,
I think I got him rights.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
And then he like turns to me and he's like,
you know, you don't have to tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And I was like, so who am I supposed to tell?
I have to tell somebody and you signed up for this?
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Well he did?
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Did he sign up to hear about everything going on
with you? I?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Sure, hope. So we've got eternity.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
That's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
We have eternity to.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Check him out. Like I stopped.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
It looks stop, yes, stop, but you've made Mike look
at your well.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
No, I've never had that problem. But like I would,
if he was like, there's something wrong with my bot,
I'd be like, okay, let me see.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
You can't see those.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I think you think you can. I think I think
you can.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Mine.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
We're okay.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I think they're like outside, I think I think you
can get both times. From what I understand, I too have.
I've thought I had all kinds of things going on,
and it turns out they took. I've had I've had
ganders of all parts of my body because I'm a
hypochondriac and I'm convinced that I've had everything.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I'm convinced that I had stars and you can see
everything bad ones.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Oh you just went ahead and googled that is that
what you did? I don't know why, don't know where
that came I can't see so I know where that
came from.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You can see the bad ones, pulled them up on
your phone or something.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
I don't actually know if I have them.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
I don't want to get to I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
We no, no, we don't. We don't.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Again, you don't need to tell us either. Okay, why
do you need to tell us everything?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
I need to tell him, but.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
I wanted to where's the line in your relationship? Thank you, Bella.
Now you can go into if anyone chooses about your issue.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
It's okay, but you.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Tell him everything?
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Oh yeah, everything everything you could think of. I tell them.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
But why okay, before you go answer the phone? Then
why why is it important for him to know? It's
not It's like, I don't know whatever's happening in your body.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
I just like telling him everything. I don't like being
the only one to know this stuff. But I'll tell
him anything.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Like I'll tell everyone anything.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But there's stuff going on with you. I'm sure that
there's nothing he can do about it. Yeah, he's not,
as though you're like sick and he can care for you,
like this is a personal issue, and at some point
you probably want him to do things in that area,
you know, that general area, and I don't know, and
I don't know about that, but you know what I mean,
the nether region.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I really've never done it before ever.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, And I don't know why a guy or a
girl needs to have that information. I believe that we
like to call it around here, preserving the sexy, like
there's there's such thing as too much information.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I honestly don't care. We've been together since we were seventeen.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
But that doesn't mean. I think the reason he's telling
you that is because he's like, I don't need it.
I don't need to know that, like he's he's the
one saying this, not me.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
He said, I was getting grafted. Think about it.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
He said, it was fine that I told him, but
the details were they should have.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Left them necessary necessary. Thank you, thank you, very nice,
thank you, yes, very nice.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Right now, we're going down with him, she said, don't
tell me.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
She said, I'll tell you on the radio, right, okay,
tells me that he does.
Speaker 7 (05:20):
He's held against as well, like he doesn't want to
know these things. But that is the type that will
like tell him just because she feels like it's the
right thing to do.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Like you come in here, Pauline and talking about all
kinds of different things, open, do you.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Tell all these things?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Absolutely not? Absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
And he clearly doesn't listen.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
No, no, he stopped doing that before we got married.
He's aing you better.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
He's smart.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Yeah, he is smart.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Smart man.
Speaker 8 (05:42):
Literally.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
I will tell him if things affect him or pertain
to him, but I don't get graphic, you know, I'll
just big this is happening right now.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Oh yeah, stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
You know. Well, I mean, yeah, I guess.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
I don't like explain or you know, make like a
power point for him and know him things.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Like that and do all that. Well that's good.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Yeah, I stopped doing that.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
And Jason, you would actually have you had to do
the inspection before. No, not there, nobody would if he
had a problem.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
But they have physicians for this, like there are people
whose job it is to go ahead and take a
look and help you, people who actually know what they're
looking at.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
But like you know, in the moment, we were like,
oh my god, what is that? We can't see it?
Like I'd be like, can you just look at this,
like what does it look like? Like what's going on
back there? And then I would let him take a look,
and then I would go to a doctor. I wouldn't
trust his medical advice, but like, what's going on back there?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Show me. I don't know, it's been almost.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
Fifteen years, like it literally there's nothing there.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
So we just give up.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Then we just give up after fifteen No, it's just
a lover of comfort, like there's nothing that he doesn't
know or hasn't seen in vice versa. I think it's comfort.
It's not giving up. I think it's comfort and trust. Caitlin,
I know I know the answer you probably well. I
mean he took your your vaginal suppot stories, so there's
obviously a lot of communication between the two of you.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
We ingested those.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Well, I said, I don't know if yeah, yeah, whatever,
he I don't think. I don't think you put him
in his vagina. So I think everybody knew what took meant.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
But well, I met like that was on his own time.
Speaker 9 (07:14):
I didn't know he was doing that or I would
have stopped him. But I know I still preserve some things.
But like we've already. I mean we've only been together
for a little over a year, but like we've already
like gone through some health issues where like I've had
to go to the emergency room with him, Like I've
had to help him throw up. So I mean we've
gotten there. But I don't do poop stuff. I don't
(07:35):
too in front of him. I will get a good
belt out. Yeah, so I tried to. But we have
a one bedroom. We have no fan in our bathroom,
which I am so pissed off about.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Still, so there's been a.
Speaker 9 (07:48):
Little you know, things that maybe he could have heard
on accident.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
But I don't do duty stuff, okay, and kiki.
Speaker 10 (07:55):
Oh, I don't do noneing. I don't play with bodily function,
thank you. But big T he's very open about anything
that he doesn't care.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
But I'm very like h No, like Jason.
Speaker 10 (08:06):
I will put a tripod on a phone and take
a picture of.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
The So I am trying to take pictures and place
it on my body. I can't see. Before I would
ask anybody to help me with that, I mean there's
no one in my house and by myself, but I
mean I would go to a doctor before I would
ask the person who I'm making love to now.
Speaker 9 (08:25):
With my girlfriends though it's any and everything. I mean,
my friend just offered to get an ingrown that I
had going on that I couldn't really see. So with
my friends were we've been through this life for too long.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Yeah, yeah, and people are texting like he watched me
have a baby. There's no line I was gonna say.
I mean, I guess, but we don't have to. We
don't have to, you know. I mean like there's certain
times where, yeah, that would be a time where you
know everything's out there because you don't want to miss
that moment.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
But I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I could miss the moment where you have a pimple
on your butt. I could miss that moment, Like I
don't need to.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
I don't. I'm not. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I think there's something to say that, Like it doesn't
disgust me, right, Like I think that just means that
like it's another level, right, Like I don't know.
Speaker 9 (09:08):
Yeah, think of relationships like video games, and like you
access different levels, like.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
I've reached the final boss.
Speaker 9 (09:14):
Right, and like there's like a love there that's like unconditional.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
You don't look at it. It's the same thing with my sister,
Like I.
Speaker 9 (09:20):
Don't look at you differently because I hit this level
of love for you that it's really not affecting.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
But that's the point. It's maybe we don't need to
cross that line. Maybe maybe we don't need to find
that level, that level of comfort, Like I don't need
you to have the same love that you have for
your sister for me.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
I need you to have the kind of love where
you want to like do it to me. It's all the.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Time, you know, and I don't need to remind you that, like, oh,
I don't know, my stomach hurts. You know, all day long,
I've had the stomach issue. But do it to me,
you know. It's like I can handle this myself, and
I don't necessarily need to tell you about it because well,
I you know it's going to go away someday and
I don't need you to remember it.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
Maybe sometimes you can't hide it.
Speaker 9 (09:57):
Like when you live with someone sometimes things accidentally, no,
but like full time, like sometimes like yeah, you really can't.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Like there's calamity the bedroom.
Speaker 9 (10:07):
It's like if you accidentally are doing one thing and
something else happens, like you know, I.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Must be some deity or something because I don't have
these I don't have these emergency situations on the regular.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
You're so lucky.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
I just don't. I don't know why. I don't understand,
like I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
I'm the same kind of human the rest of you
guys are, But I don't put my pants on a
regular I just don't.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
It never happens when you have.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
Like a lady of the night over or you want.
Speaker 10 (10:30):
To, let's lady one of those escorts.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Right right, the Asian ones. Yeah, No, I mean, what
are you talking about. I mean people already think a
lot of things about me. Let's not put that out there, okay.
I mean like when you have when I have a
gas you have a guess, someone who I'm interested in
there on their own, on their own volition, someone who's
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choosing to be there, and it's not being compensated.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Well, that's what a lady of the night is.
Speaker 9 (11:06):
Okay, say that, and I guarantee she didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Know what that meant.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
I mean so much idea.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I'm not I'm not above a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But I can honestly tell you that everyone who's who
stopped by the house has done so because they chose
to and wanted to correct. There was no currency exchange
of any kind, you know, friend, like when you have.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
When you order those ladies, you.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
Know, when you engage in prostitution.
Speaker 11 (11:37):
You know.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
No, I don't know just how people say things to me.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
None of that today.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Okay, so that that's never occurred. So now what so
when I have a guest over, what I know anymore?
Speaker 7 (11:53):
Well, we have a guest over, like you're telling me,
it's so easy to conceal everything, Like when you hold
in that one fart where like it pretty much goes
up your spine to your brain.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Like, yeah, well, if I was able to hold it
and went to my brain, then I guess I never
No one knew about it, none the wiser.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
There's like noises I get made.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
I don't know what I worry about is I can
conceal most of that stuff. I feel like I feel
and even if even if I'm not, I'm really trying hard.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
What is that ice cream or beer?
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Because I know those are issues for you for.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Both at the same time.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
Yeah, I mean sometimes I do that your your usual
beer and ice cream.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Times, I do ye.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
But yeah, it's a great Tuesday night for me. I
do my own kegstands by myself. You should see it.
I brought myself up and then and then I get
my soft served machine out and I just sit there
and just consume the dairy.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
You know. That's some people.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
That's what I figured you were like.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
That's what I do. That's why I come in here Wednesday.
I'm skinny, man. It's a calm, I don't. I just
make every effort to conceal it. And I don't know.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
I guarantee someone's heard you before, just so you know it.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Don't maybe, but at least I made every effort for
them not to.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
That's all you can do to say anything. It's them
out before I can hear any of it.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Your uper I mean, that might be a kind thing
to do if I'm not feeling well, it might be
a kind thing to do to be like you gotta.
Speaker 9 (13:18):
Go right, all right, I'll try to put my boyfriend out.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
Any of your out there.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
I mean, I'm I know I'm the weirdo, but I
just I don't I think there's It's not that I
don't care, it's not that I don't empathize, but like,
I don't know if you if you're having certain issues
like female issues or whatever, like tell me about it.
If there's something I can do for you, I will.
But other than that, there's I don't know what else
to say, Like I can't, like if you get into
graphic detail with me about it. It's like it's not
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that I don't, I don't know what I think. That's
I think sometimes, I mean, there are immature men out
there who like think it's gross or whatever. I don't
think that at all. I just I can't offer you anything,
you know, so like I think sometimes when we are
like my you know, guys don't understand and they don't
they don't they don't listen to me talk about this
stuff the way they should.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
It's not that, I mean, I grew up with women.
It's just I don't.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
I can't unless I can go buy you something or
give you medicine to help you get medicine, or like
warm up a heating pad for you or something like,
I don't know, Like this is it makes me uncomfortable
because it's like, uh, okay, I'm sorry, I mean, like
what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 5 (14:22):
Yeah, you know, and just listen to me.
Speaker 7 (14:24):
Nothing you can do you can't take these this pain away,
cramp away man.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
Nothing.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
What worries me, though, is the stuff that happens when
I'm asleep, because I'm sure that I toot when I'm asleep. Yeah,
and that's embarrassing and you can't obviously do anything about that.
But this is why I was saying yesterday, yesterday, yesterday,
where's this New York accent coming from? This is why
I was saying yesterday or the day before or whatever,
that I would probably be the skinniest person you've ever
(14:49):
seen if I live with somebody, because all this fat
stuff I do.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
That's not true that all of fat stuff I do.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
No, I'm serious, Like the stuff like I where I
just eat like with reckless of and like where I
order half the menu on a Friday night after I
may or may not have stumbled upon a gummy like
or eat ice cream or whatever it is. Like, I
would not be messing around with these things if I
were if I live with somebody, because I wouldn't want
you know, the aftermath.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Oh you do it in the car, Yeah, you do
it on the way home, but.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Then the aftermath still happens.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, would you go and do it?
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Okay, No, I wouldn't want the judgment. Honestly, I'm gonna
lose fifty pounds if I ever get married. I'm telling
you to because no, well no, because some people say
it's comfortable, I'll be uncomfortable really because.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
I don't want to get caught up. I don't want
to be tooting in my sleep.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
So I'm not going to eat the bag of Freedo's
before I go to bed or whatever I do occasionally
when I, you know, am indulging.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
What does this? Liz?
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I Liz? What is you do?
Speaker 12 (15:49):
What?
Speaker 3 (15:49):
And who did?
Speaker 8 (15:49):
What?
Speaker 3 (15:50):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Who?
Speaker 11 (15:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Are you in a hot tub right now? No wondering?
Are you taking a bath?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
No?
Speaker 11 (16:02):
My phone just sucks?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Oh not too okay? So what what is the level
of comfort in your relationship? Or I guess former?
Speaker 11 (16:10):
Yeah, so my ex had a hemorrhoid in her but
so she was like, can you put a hemorrhics cream?
And I was like yeah. So, bouncing back on what
Jason said, I feel like it's the level of comfort
and trust.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, we don't need it here. Yeah, we don't need it.
You're a nice person, but we don't. We don't need it.
Thank you, Liz, How can't I say, I just I
don't need their level of trust or comfort.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
We can we can stop right there, you know, like
right like like emergency contact status, but not putting things
in my butt kind of stuff.
Speaker 9 (16:42):
You don't you have something I need for you to
look at them during the song.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Well we're not intimately romantic, so go ahead, come over you.
I mean, I'll look at it and go oh damn
and then make you feel bad. Headlines are next.
Speaker 8 (16:57):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
It's the Fred Show, Jared, Welcome to the show. How
are you hey? I'm doing it all right? How are
you doing doing all right? What's going on with this woman? Rachel?
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Of course this is waiting by the phone, trying to
figure out if you've been ghosted by this person. But
we need to know how did you meet? Tell us
about any dates you've been on, and then where things
are now?
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Sure?
Speaker 13 (17:17):
Yeah, I met Rachel at a party and we really
hit it off, like the banter was really great between us.
I got her number, we went out for drinks a
few days after that, and I have not heard from
her since. I mean, she completely goes.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
To me okay, and you met her in the wild,
which means that you, you know, you were able to
kind of gauge what she looks like in person and
how the chemistry was and how the conversation was going
to flow, because I mean everyone I think ideally you
meet someone like that, because the dating apps can be
a little bit a little wild card, a little bit
of a wildcard.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
We say this all the time.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
It's like, you meet and then you get surprised, But
when you meet someone in person and hit on them,
you have a little bit better idea what your work with,
right exactly.
Speaker 13 (18:01):
Yeah, that's why it's so disappointing that she's just completely gone.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Well and she would too, righte So, like, if she's
not calling you, it's probably not because you weren't who
you said you were, because well, she knew when she
gave you her phone number and agreed to go out
with you. So let's play a song. Come back in
like two minutes, I'm gonna call Rachel. You'll be on
the phone at the same time. I'm gonna see if
we can figure out what's going on, and maybe she
has a good explanation for not reaching out, and if
that's the case it, we'll set you guys up on
(18:29):
another date and pay for that.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
All right, awesome, thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Let's find out what's going on Part two of waiting
by the phone. After this song, guy got Bruno Mars
back in three minutes Fred's Show, don't move, It's the
Fred Show, twelve hundred bucks, show Bizkiki, you can win
in ten minutes in the showdown the Entertainment Report before that, Hey, Jared, Yes,
all right, welcome back.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
Let's call this woman Rachel.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
You met out and you guys are Shag's phone numbers,
and you went on a date and you thought the
date went great. But you haven't heard from Rachel since then,
and you want to know why she has a resp
on it to you? Calls, text, whatever, nothing, she's it
looks like she's ghosting you. That's right, Yeah, all right,
well let's call her now. Good luck?
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Hello? Hi is this Rachel? Yeah, Rachel? Hi, my name
is Fred.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Can we chat for just a second? Would you mind?
Speaker 11 (19:28):
Is this a call?
Speaker 3 (19:30):
No?
Speaker 9 (19:30):
No.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
I mean, I'm really Fred and it's really the Fred
Show and we're really on the radio. I just need
a yes or no and then I'll tell you what
we're what we're doing here. You can hang up anytime, Okay, sure, well,
thank you. We're calling on behalf of a guy named Jared,
who I guess you met and went on a date with.
Do you remember a date with Jared?
Speaker 11 (19:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:47):
I remember, I remember.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Okay, Well, he reached out to us and he told
us that he really enjoyed meeting you, and I guess you.
Guys exchanged numbers and then planned a date and went
on the date. But he says he hasn't heard from
you since then, so he's kind of one and why
you know what happened because his impression of the date
was was that it went really well, So he can't
get a hold of you, and he's curious about it.
Speaker 12 (20:09):
Well, Jared was someone that I met at a party
and then we went out on a date a couple
of days later, and we were sitting at the bar
and when the check dropped, the bartender let us know
that some guy at the other end of the bar
had paid for it, and at that point Jared freaked out,
(20:31):
like lost it, and he claimed that I knew the
guy and that I was lying to him, and he
made a big scene at the bar, and so he
was even he was even accusing.
Speaker 5 (20:46):
Me of knowing him.
Speaker 12 (20:48):
So the bartender said that the guy just thought that
Jared was like my gay friend. Oh, so it was
just like a genuine misunderstanding.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
So the guy at the other the bar was really
hitting on you, like he bought your drinks because he
wanted to get to you, and he didn't realize you
were on a date, is what happened?
Speaker 12 (21:07):
But you were, Yeah, exactly. But I was just so
turned off by that reaction. It honestly scared me.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
So I want to fight this guy because he felt
like this guy was moving in on his territory essentially. Yes,
but I mean, this is our first date. So we're
seeing that Jared has a bit of a temper. Let's
ask Jared about this. I forgot to mention that Jared
is here. I'm very forgetful, Jared, is this is this
how it went down? A guy bought your stuff and
then you freaked out, and then you like the rage
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came out of you or something.
Speaker 8 (21:40):
Look, I mean she's describing me like I turned into
the incredible Hulk. But I'm not going to sit here
and to say that I'm going to let a guy
pay for me and my dates drinks when I want
to date.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
My I mean I probably would have been like, cool,
I'm going home with her or whatever. I'm even with her,
so nice, try a shot, But like you missed dinner.
And by the way, I didn't have to pay for this.
I mean I think I might be especially if I
don't know, I think I might be flattered.
Speaker 8 (22:10):
No, I what self respecting guy would do that?
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Well, I mean he could try. I guess he misread
the situation. He wasted his money. She didn't run over
to him and you know, hang out with him. She
still hung out with you, right, I mean, it wasn't
like she got him walked away.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
I mean, you're letting.
Speaker 12 (22:27):
Him get the you letting him get the best of
you was honestly disrespectful to yourself and everyone around you.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
And then the temper is probably not the hottest thing.
And the insecurity, which again, I mean, look, I can
understand why you wouldn't like it, but I mean I
don't think that's the time to like go off and
throw chairs and stuff.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
I mean, you just met her.
Speaker 8 (22:44):
Well, I honestly think that she knew the guy.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
You know, that's the part that we're not talking about.
So you think this was like you think that they
were in on this, Like why why would she lie
about that? Like, I don't understand why she was there
with you.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
I just say that she knew him.
Speaker 8 (22:57):
I mean, I've never heard of someone being out on
a date and another guy just buys the drinks.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
That's he thought that you were gay.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
He just he simply thought you were gay.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
Okay, all right, sure, yeah, I mean he thought you guys.
I guess to him it looked friendly. I don't know.
I mean people are stupid, like they do dumb Men
do dumb things. Women do.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
People do dumb things. He was trying to slide, you know,
it didn't work or whatever. He was trying to make
an impression and you were there with someone else romantically,
so he wasted his money. Okay, So I don't know why.
I don't know why you're freaking out, Jared. I mean
I might be like, yeah, I try, buddy, and then leave.
I don't think you have to go off on the dude.
Speaker 8 (23:37):
Look I'm a man and I'm not going to have
my manhood tested like that.
Speaker 10 (23:40):
Oh, Mar, why do you have trust issues like this?
Like she's telling you that she didn't know him. Why
don't you trust her?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Yea?
Speaker 3 (23:46):
Why would she pretend not to know? I don't understand it.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Like, what what would be the harm in her going yeah,
I know the guy at the end of the bar,
like he's a coworker, I don't know, he's whatever, like
thanks for dinner, but I'm on a date and then leave.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
I guess I don't you know.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
It would be one thing if she got him, walked
over there and like chatted the guy up or something afterwards.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
But she didn't do that, did she?
Speaker 1 (24:06):
No, she did it all right? Well, look, Rachel, I'll
ask the question. I think I know the answer. But
now let's say he takes you at face value, and
we do I believe you that you don't know this person.
I don't know where he's coming up with that. Would
you like to go out with him again? If he
can tone it down, we'll pay for it.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (24:23):
Well, you know what Rachel had.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Seriously you Oh oh, so there's that temper.
Speaker 5 (24:30):
I don't think it's a match.
Speaker 8 (24:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
Wow, Okay, hey Jared, I mean deep breath here, It's okay.
We were trying to help you. Remember it is so frustrating, okay,
all right, well hey we wish wow. Kind of scared
now myself. All right, Jared, good luck to you. Rachel,
thanks for your time, good luck as well. The Entertainmer
Report is next. It one thy two hundred bucks, five
(24:53):
questions in the showdown. If you listen, then you have
the answers from the Entertainmer Report and you could start
the weekend with that money.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
Next Fred Show
Bellahamine contributed to our little little sheet here that we
have a little shared document and people write their ideas
for the show into or in contribute whatever. And you
said summon to the effect of who am I supposed
to share graphic details about my life with if not
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my husband?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
So the question was how much mystery do you leave
in your relationship?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
So I'll put it out there?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Eight five's where's the line? Well, no, she'll tell her
story and she'll go back in. No, don't worry, Jason.
You're a full time member of the show. You get
to stay. Jason's immediate meet is to do someone else's job. No, No,
I want you to sit right there. She's gonna tell
her story and then go do her job. You don't
have to do everyone else's job. Do we have to
have that speech today? You do everyone else's job and
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you don't have to. I want you to relax, put
your feet up if you want. Well, they're probably not,
because I don't worry about it, you know. I just
love how Jason's the first one to step up to
do somebody else's job. You don't have to do it. So, yeah,
what what is the situation ahead? What is the example
(01:20):
that you have when did this present itself in your relationship.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well, a couple of days ago, I had to use
the restroom and I'm scared, and I tell I'm not shy.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
No, well, I mean maybe a little shy. I remember
that this is the radio, but I mean not too shy.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I'm just like, I hope I can say this word
on the radio.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I can't.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Okay, medical thing. It's a medical okay, proving. So I
tell Ben everything, like literally everything. And so the other
day I went to it into the bathroom and I
had hemorrhoids.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
And I went and, well, I don't know if it's hemorrhoids.
I talked to my doctor.
Speaker 5 (01:58):
Yeah, you make things up.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, we don't.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
We don't.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
We don't have to get to and okay, we don't
have to get to in a detail about Okay. So
there's something going on in the in the in the
booty area, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
And so I went to tell him.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I went to tell him. The first thing you
thought to do is tell him, Yeah, of course.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I would tell him. And so I told him, I'm like, hey, baby,
I think I got him rights.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
And then he like turns to me and he's like,
you know, you don't have to tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And I was like, so who am I supposed to tell?
I have to tell somebody and you signed up for this?
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Well he did?
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Did he sign up to hear about everything going on
with you? I?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Sure, hope. So we've got eternity.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
That's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
We have eternity to.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Check him out. Like I stopped.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
It looks stop, yes, stop, but you've made Mike look
at your well.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
No, I've never had that problem. But like I would,
if he was like, there's something wrong with my bot,
I'd be like, okay, let me see.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
You can't see those.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I think you think you can. I think I think
you can.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Mine.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
We're okay.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I think they're like outside, I think I think you
can get both times. From what I understand, I too have.
I've thought I had all kinds of things going on,
and it turns out they took. I've had I've had
ganders of all parts of my body because I'm a
hypochondriac and I'm convinced that I've had everything.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I'm convinced that I had stars and you can see
everything bad ones.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Oh you just went ahead and googled that is that
what you did? I don't know why, don't know where
that came I can't see so I know where that
came from.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You can see the bad ones, pulled them up on
your phone or something.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
I don't actually know if I have them.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
I don't want to get to I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
We no, no, we don't. We don't.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Again, you don't need to tell us either. Okay, why
do you need to tell us everything?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
I need to tell him, but.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
I wanted to where's the line in your relationship? Thank you, Bella.
Now you can go into if anyone chooses about your issue.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
It's okay, but you.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Tell him everything?
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Oh yeah, everything everything you could think of. I tell them.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
But why okay, before you go answer the phone? Then
why why is it important for him to know? It's
not It's like, I don't know whatever's happening in your body.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
I just like telling him everything. I don't like being
the only one to know this stuff. But I'll tell
him anything.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Like I'll tell everyone anything.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But there's stuff going on with you. I'm sure that
there's nothing he can do about it. Yeah, he's not,
as though you're like sick and he can care for you,
like this is a personal issue, and at some point
you probably want him to do things in that area,
you know, that general area, and I don't know, and
I don't know about that, but you know what I mean,
the nether region.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I really've never done it before ever.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, And I don't know why a guy or a
girl needs to have that information. I believe that we
like to call it around here, preserving the sexy, like
there's there's such thing as too much information.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I honestly don't care. We've been together since we were seventeen.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
But that doesn't mean. I think the reason he's telling
you that is because he's like, I don't need it.
I don't need to know that, like he's he's the
one saying this, not me.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
He said, I was getting grafted. Think about it.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
He said, it was fine that I told him, but
the details were they should have.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Left them necessary necessary. Thank you, thank you, very nice,
thank you, yes, very nice.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Right now, we're going down with him, she said, don't
tell me.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
She said, I'll tell you on the radio, right, okay,
tells me that he does.
Speaker 7 (05:20):
He's held against as well, like he doesn't want to
know these things. But that is the type that will
like tell him just because she feels like it's the
right thing to do.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Like you come in here, Pauline and talking about all
kinds of different things, open, do you.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Tell all these things?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Absolutely not? Absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
And he clearly doesn't listen.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
No, no, he stopped doing that before we got married.
He's aing you better.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
He's smart.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Yeah, he is smart.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Smart man.
Speaker 8 (05:42):
Literally.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
I will tell him if things affect him or pertain
to him, but I don't get graphic, you know, I'll
just big this is happening right now.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Oh yeah, stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
You know. Well, I mean, yeah, I guess.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
I don't like explain or you know, make like a
power point for him and know him things.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Like that and do all that. Well that's good.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Yeah, I stopped doing that.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
And Jason, you would actually have you had to do
the inspection before. No, not there, nobody would if he
had a problem.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
But they have physicians for this, like there are people
whose job it is to go ahead and take a
look and help you, people who actually know what they're
looking at.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
But like you know, in the moment, we were like,
oh my god, what is that? We can't see it?
Like I'd be like, can you just look at this,
like what does it look like? Like what's going on
back there? And then I would let him take a look,
and then I would go to a doctor. I wouldn't
trust his medical advice, but like, what's going on back there?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Show me. I don't know, it's been almost.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
Fifteen years, like it literally there's nothing there.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
So we just give up.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Then we just give up after fifteen No, it's just
a lover of comfort, like there's nothing that he doesn't
know or hasn't seen in vice versa. I think it's comfort.
It's not giving up. I think it's comfort and trust. Caitlin,
I know I know the answer you probably well. I
mean he took your your vaginal suppot stories, so there's
obviously a lot of communication between the two of you.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
We ingested those.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Well, I said, I don't know if yeah, yeah, whatever,
he I don't think. I don't think you put him
in his vagina. So I think everybody knew what took meant.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
But well, I met like that was on his own time.
Speaker 9 (07:14):
I didn't know he was doing that or I would
have stopped him. But I know I still preserve some things.
But like we've already. I mean we've only been together
for a little over a year, but like we've already
like gone through some health issues where like I've had
to go to the emergency room with him, Like I've
had to help him throw up. So I mean we've
gotten there. But I don't do poop stuff. I don't
(07:35):
too in front of him. I will get a good
belt out. Yeah, so I tried to. But we have
a one bedroom. We have no fan in our bathroom,
which I am so pissed off about.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Still, so there's been a.
Speaker 9 (07:48):
Little you know, things that maybe he could have heard
on accident.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
But I don't do duty stuff, okay, and kiki.
Speaker 10 (07:55):
Oh, I don't do noneing. I don't play with bodily function,
thank you. But big T he's very open about anything
that he doesn't care.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
But I'm very like h No, like Jason.
Speaker 10 (08:06):
I will put a tripod on a phone and take
a picture of.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
The So I am trying to take pictures and place
it on my body. I can't see. Before I would
ask anybody to help me with that, I mean there's
no one in my house and by myself, but I
mean I would go to a doctor before I would
ask the person who I'm making love to now.
Speaker 9 (08:25):
With my girlfriends though it's any and everything. I mean,
my friend just offered to get an ingrown that I
had going on that I couldn't really see. So with
my friends were we've been through this life for too long.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Yeah, yeah, and people are texting like he watched me
have a baby. There's no line I was gonna say.
I mean, I guess, but we don't have to. We
don't have to, you know. I mean like there's certain
times where, yeah, that would be a time where you
know everything's out there because you don't want to miss
that moment.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
But I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I could miss the moment where you have a pimple
on your butt. I could miss that moment, Like I
don't need to.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
I don't. I'm not. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I think there's something to say that, Like it doesn't
disgust me, right, Like I think that just means that
like it's another level, right, Like I don't know.
Speaker 9 (09:08):
Yeah, think of relationships like video games, and like you
access different levels, like.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
I've reached the final boss.
Speaker 9 (09:14):
Right, and like there's like a love there that's like unconditional.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
You don't look at it. It's the same thing with my sister,
Like I.
Speaker 9 (09:20):
Don't look at you differently because I hit this level
of love for you that it's really not affecting.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
But that's the point. It's maybe we don't need to
cross that line. Maybe maybe we don't need to find
that level, that level of comfort, Like I don't need
you to have the same love that you have for
your sister for me.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
I need you to have the kind of love where
you want to like do it to me. It's all the.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Time, you know, and I don't need to remind you that, like, oh,
I don't know, my stomach hurts. You know, all day long,
I've had the stomach issue. But do it to me,
you know. It's like I can handle this myself, and
I don't necessarily need to tell you about it because well,
I you know it's going to go away someday and
I don't need you to remember it.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
Maybe sometimes you can't hide it.
Speaker 9 (09:57):
Like when you live with someone sometimes things accidentally, no,
but like full time, like sometimes like yeah, you really can't.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Like there's calamity the bedroom.
Speaker 9 (10:07):
It's like if you accidentally are doing one thing and
something else happens, like you know, I.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Must be some deity or something because I don't have
these I don't have these emergency situations on the regular.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
You're so lucky.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
I just don't. I don't know why. I don't understand,
like I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
I'm the same kind of human the rest of you
guys are, But I don't put my pants on a
regular I just don't.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
It never happens when you have.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
Like a lady of the night over or you want.
Speaker 10 (10:30):
To, let's lady one of those escorts.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Right right, the Asian ones. Yeah, No, I mean, what
are you talking about. I mean people already think a
lot of things about me. Let's not put that out there, okay.
I mean like when you have when I have a
gas you have a guess, someone who I'm interested in
there on their own, on their own volition, someone who's
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choosing to be there, and it's not being compensated.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Well, that's what a lady of the night is.
Speaker 9 (11:06):
Okay, say that, and I guarantee she didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Know what that meant.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
I mean so much idea.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I'm not I'm not above a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But I can honestly tell you that everyone who's who
stopped by the house has done so because they chose
to and wanted to correct. There was no currency exchange
of any kind, you know, friend, like when you have.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
When you order those ladies, you.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
Know, when you engage in prostitution.
Speaker 11 (11:37):
You know.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
No, I don't know just how people say things to me.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
None of that today.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Okay, so that that's never occurred. So now what so
when I have a guest over, what I know anymore?
Speaker 7 (11:53):
Well, we have a guest over, like you're telling me,
it's so easy to conceal everything, Like when you hold
in that one fart where like it pretty much goes
up your spine to your brain.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Like, yeah, well, if I was able to hold it
and went to my brain, then I guess I never
No one knew about it, none the wiser.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
There's like noises I get made.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
I don't know what I worry about is I can
conceal most of that stuff. I feel like I feel
and even if even if I'm not, I'm really trying hard.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
What is that ice cream or beer?
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Because I know those are issues for you for.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Both at the same time.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
Yeah, I mean sometimes I do that your your usual
beer and ice cream.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Times, I do ye.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
But yeah, it's a great Tuesday night for me. I
do my own kegstands by myself. You should see it.
I brought myself up and then and then I get
my soft served machine out and I just sit there
and just consume the dairy.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
You know. That's some people.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
That's what I figured you were like.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
That's what I do. That's why I come in here Wednesday.
I'm skinny, man. It's a calm, I don't. I just
make every effort to conceal it. And I don't know.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
I guarantee someone's heard you before, just so you know it.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Don't maybe, but at least I made every effort for
them not to.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
That's all you can do to say anything. It's them
out before I can hear any of it.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Your uper I mean, that might be a kind thing
to do if I'm not feeling well, it might be
a kind thing to do to be like you gotta.
Speaker 9 (13:18):
Go right, all right, I'll try to put my boyfriend out.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
Any of your out there.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
I mean, I'm I know I'm the weirdo, but I
just I don't I think there's It's not that I
don't care, it's not that I don't empathize, but like,
I don't know if you if you're having certain issues
like female issues or whatever, like tell me about it.
If there's something I can do for you, I will.
But other than that, there's I don't know what else
to say, Like I can't, like if you get into
graphic detail with me about it. It's like it's not
(13:46):
that I don't, I don't know what I think. That's
I think sometimes, I mean, there are immature men out
there who like think it's gross or whatever. I don't
think that at all. I just I can't offer you anything,
you know, so like I think sometimes when we are
like my you know, guys don't understand and they don't
they don't they don't listen to me talk about this
stuff the way they should.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
It's not that, I mean, I grew up with women.
It's just I don't.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
I can't unless I can go buy you something or
give you medicine to help you get medicine, or like
warm up a heating pad for you or something like,
I don't know, Like this is it makes me uncomfortable
because it's like, uh, okay, I'm sorry, I mean, like
what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 5 (14:22):
Yeah, you know, and just listen to me.
Speaker 7 (14:24):
Nothing you can do you can't take these this pain away,
cramp away man.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
Nothing.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
What worries me, though, is the stuff that happens when
I'm asleep, because I'm sure that I toot when I'm asleep. Yeah,
and that's embarrassing and you can't obviously do anything about that.
But this is why I was saying yesterday, yesterday, yesterday,
where's this New York accent coming from? This is why
I was saying yesterday or the day before or whatever,
that I would probably be the skinniest person you've ever
(14:49):
seen if I live with somebody, because all this fat
stuff I do.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
That's not true that all of fat stuff I do.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
No, I'm serious, Like the stuff like I where I
just eat like with reckless of and like where I
order half the menu on a Friday night after I
may or may not have stumbled upon a gummy like
or eat ice cream or whatever it is. Like, I
would not be messing around with these things if I
were if I live with somebody, because I wouldn't want
you know, the aftermath.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Oh you do it in the car, Yeah, you do
it on the way home, but.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Then the aftermath still happens.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, would you go and do it?
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Okay, No, I wouldn't want the judgment. Honestly, I'm gonna
lose fifty pounds if I ever get married. I'm telling
you to because no, well no, because some people say
it's comfortable, I'll be uncomfortable really because.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
I don't want to get caught up. I don't want
to be tooting in my sleep.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
So I'm not going to eat the bag of Freedo's
before I go to bed or whatever I do occasionally
when I, you know, am indulging.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
What does this? Liz?
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I Liz? What is you do?
Speaker 12 (15:49):
What?
Speaker 3 (15:49):
And who did?
Speaker 8 (15:49):
What?
Speaker 3 (15:50):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Who?
Speaker 11 (15:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Are you in a hot tub right now? No wondering?
Are you taking a bath?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
No?
Speaker 11 (16:02):
My phone just sucks?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Oh not too okay? So what what is the level
of comfort in your relationship? Or I guess former?
Speaker 11 (16:10):
Yeah, so my ex had a hemorrhoid in her but
so she was like, can you put a hemorrhics cream?
And I was like yeah. So, bouncing back on what
Jason said, I feel like it's the level of comfort
and trust.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, we don't need it here. Yeah, we don't need it.
You're a nice person, but we don't. We don't need it.
Thank you, Liz, How can't I say, I just I
don't need their level of trust or comfort.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
We can we can stop right there, you know, like
right like like emergency contact status, but not putting things
in my butt kind of stuff.
Speaker 9 (16:42):
You don't you have something I need for you to
look at them during the song.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Well we're not intimately romantic, so go ahead, come over you.
I mean, I'll look at it and go oh damn
and then make you feel bad. Headlines are next.
Speaker 8 (16:57):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
It's the Fred Show, Jared, Welcome to the show. How
are you hey? I'm doing it all right? How are
you doing doing all right? What's going on with this woman? Rachel?
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Of course this is waiting by the phone, trying to
figure out if you've been ghosted by this person. But
we need to know how did you meet? Tell us
about any dates you've been on, and then where things
are now?
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Sure?
Speaker 13 (17:17):
Yeah, I met Rachel at a party and we really
hit it off, like the banter was really great between us.
I got her number, we went out for drinks a
few days after that, and I have not heard from
her since. I mean, she completely goes.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
To me okay, and you met her in the wild,
which means that you, you know, you were able to
kind of gauge what she looks like in person and
how the chemistry was and how the conversation was going
to flow, because I mean everyone I think ideally you
meet someone like that, because the dating apps can be
a little bit a little wild card, a little bit
of a wildcard.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
We say this all the time.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
It's like, you meet and then you get surprised, But
when you meet someone in person and hit on them,
you have a little bit better idea what your work with,
right exactly.
Speaker 13 (18:01):
Yeah, that's why it's so disappointing that she's just completely gone.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Well and she would too, righte So, like, if she's
not calling you, it's probably not because you weren't who
you said you were, because well, she knew when she
gave you her phone number and agreed to go out
with you. So let's play a song. Come back in
like two minutes, I'm gonna call Rachel. You'll be on
the phone at the same time. I'm gonna see if
we can figure out what's going on, and maybe she
has a good explanation for not reaching out, and if
that's the case it, we'll set you guys up on
(18:29):
another date and pay for that.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
All right, awesome, thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Let's find out what's going on Part two of waiting
by the phone. After this song, guy got Bruno Mars
back in three minutes Fred's Show, don't move, It's the
Fred Show, twelve hundred bucks, show Bizkiki, you can win
in ten minutes in the showdown the Entertainment Report before that, Hey, Jared, Yes,
all right, welcome back.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
Let's call this woman Rachel.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
You met out and you guys are Shag's phone numbers,
and you went on a date and you thought the
date went great. But you haven't heard from Rachel since then,
and you want to know why she has a resp
on it to you? Calls, text, whatever, nothing, she's it
looks like she's ghosting you. That's right, Yeah, all right,
well let's call her now. Good luck?
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Hello? Hi is this Rachel? Yeah, Rachel? Hi, my name
is Fred.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Can we chat for just a second? Would you mind?
Speaker 11 (19:28):
Is this a call?
Speaker 3 (19:30):
No?
Speaker 9 (19:30):
No.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
I mean, I'm really Fred and it's really the Fred
Show and we're really on the radio. I just need
a yes or no and then I'll tell you what
we're what we're doing here. You can hang up anytime, Okay, sure, well,
thank you. We're calling on behalf of a guy named Jared,
who I guess you met and went on a date with.
Do you remember a date with Jared?
Speaker 11 (19:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:47):
I remember, I remember.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Okay, Well, he reached out to us and he told
us that he really enjoyed meeting you, and I guess you.
Guys exchanged numbers and then planned a date and went
on the date. But he says he hasn't heard from
you since then, so he's kind of one and why
you know what happened because his impression of the date
was was that it went really well, So he can't
get a hold of you, and he's curious about it.
Speaker 12 (20:09):
Well, Jared was someone that I met at a party
and then we went out on a date a couple
of days later, and we were sitting at the bar
and when the check dropped, the bartender let us know
that some guy at the other end of the bar
had paid for it, and at that point Jared freaked out,
(20:31):
like lost it, and he claimed that I knew the
guy and that I was lying to him, and he
made a big scene at the bar, and so he
was even he was even accusing.
Speaker 5 (20:46):
Me of knowing him.
Speaker 12 (20:48):
So the bartender said that the guy just thought that
Jared was like my gay friend. Oh, so it was
just like a genuine misunderstanding.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
So the guy at the other the bar was really
hitting on you, like he bought your drinks because he
wanted to get to you, and he didn't realize you
were on a date, is what happened?
Speaker 12 (21:07):
But you were, Yeah, exactly. But I was just so
turned off by that reaction. It honestly scared me.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
So I want to fight this guy because he felt
like this guy was moving in on his territory essentially. Yes,
but I mean, this is our first date. So we're
seeing that Jared has a bit of a temper. Let's
ask Jared about this. I forgot to mention that Jared
is here. I'm very forgetful, Jared, is this is this
how it went down? A guy bought your stuff and
then you freaked out, and then you like the rage
(21:38):
came out of you or something.
Speaker 8 (21:40):
Look, I mean she's describing me like I turned into
the incredible Hulk. But I'm not going to sit here
and to say that I'm going to let a guy
pay for me and my dates drinks when I want
to date.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
My I mean I probably would have been like, cool,
I'm going home with her or whatever. I'm even with her,
so nice, try a shot, But like you missed dinner.
And by the way, I didn't have to pay for this.
I mean I think I might be especially if I
don't know, I think I might be flattered.
Speaker 8 (22:10):
No, I what self respecting guy would do that?
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Well, I mean he could try. I guess he misread
the situation. He wasted his money. She didn't run over
to him and you know, hang out with him. She
still hung out with you, right, I mean, it wasn't
like she got him walked away.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
I mean, you're letting.
Speaker 12 (22:27):
Him get the you letting him get the best of
you was honestly disrespectful to yourself and everyone around you.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
And then the temper is probably not the hottest thing.
And the insecurity, which again, I mean, look, I can
understand why you wouldn't like it, but I mean I
don't think that's the time to like go off and
throw chairs and stuff.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
I mean, you just met her.
Speaker 8 (22:44):
Well, I honestly think that she knew the guy.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
You know, that's the part that we're not talking about.
So you think this was like you think that they
were in on this, Like why why would she lie
about that? Like, I don't understand why she was there
with you.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
I just say that she knew him.
Speaker 8 (22:57):
I mean, I've never heard of someone being out on
a date and another guy just buys the drinks.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
That's he thought that you were gay.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
He just he simply thought you were gay.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
Okay, all right, sure, yeah, I mean he thought you guys.
I guess to him it looked friendly. I don't know.
I mean people are stupid, like they do dumb Men
do dumb things. Women do.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
People do dumb things. He was trying to slide, you know,
it didn't work or whatever. He was trying to make
an impression and you were there with someone else romantically,
so he wasted his money. Okay, So I don't know why.
I don't know why you're freaking out, Jared. I mean
I might be like, yeah, I try, buddy, and then leave.
I don't think you have to go off on the dude.
Speaker 8 (23:37):
Look I'm a man and I'm not going to have
my manhood tested like that.
Speaker 10 (23:40):
Oh, Mar, why do you have trust issues like this?
Like she's telling you that she didn't know him. Why
don't you trust her?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Yea?
Speaker 3 (23:46):
Why would she pretend not to know? I don't understand it.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Like, what what would be the harm in her going yeah,
I know the guy at the end of the bar,
like he's a coworker, I don't know, he's whatever, like
thanks for dinner, but I'm on a date and then leave.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
I guess I don't you know.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
It would be one thing if she got him, walked
over there and like chatted the guy up or something afterwards.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
But she didn't do that, did she?
Speaker 1 (24:06):
No, she did it all right? Well, look, Rachel, I'll
ask the question. I think I know the answer. But
now let's say he takes you at face value, and
we do I believe you that you don't know this person.
I don't know where he's coming up with that. Would
you like to go out with him again? If he
can tone it down, we'll pay for it.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (24:23):
Well, you know what Rachel had.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Seriously you Oh oh, so there's that temper.
Speaker 5 (24:30):
I don't think it's a match.
Speaker 8 (24:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
Wow, Okay, hey Jared, I mean deep breath here, It's okay.
We were trying to help you. Remember it is so frustrating, okay,
all right, well hey we wish wow. Kind of scared
now myself. All right, Jared, good luck to you. Rachel,
thanks for your time, good luck as well. The Entertainmer
Report is next. It one thy two hundred bucks, five
(24:53):
questions in the showdown. If you listen, then you have
the answers from the Entertainmer Report and you could start
the weekend with that money.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
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