May 27, 2025 • 22 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hannah, Good morning, Good morning, Hi Hannah.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
So you have this boyfriend a year and a half,
it says, and y'all are fighting, and so you thought, well,
I'm gonna call the Fread Show and these guys will
solve the problem for me. So yeah, sure, we'll brainstorm alltogether. Now,
what's going on? What are you fighting about with this man?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Well, like, we usually have a.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Really good relationship, but I really just want some advice
on like phone.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Etiquette, phone etiquette. Okay, what's this guy doing with his phone?
Speaker 4 (00:45):
So Lead and Night were sitting on the couch and
he just started laughing at his phone. So I asked
him what's funny, and he told me, oh, it's nothing,
it's just our boy chat, our boys group chat. And
I asked like, oh, well, can I see it? Like
I you know, I just want to understand like what
the joke is, because you're you seem to be having
a really good time. And he called it away and
(01:08):
was like, oh, it's private.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, Well, I mean you all right, so you he's
over there first of all. I mean, I guess you
could argue that it's rude if he's just sitting there
with you and then he's on his phone and obsessed
with that. But I mean, okay, it happens. I mean,
do you guys live together or or just spend a
lot of time together.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Yeah, we lived together. I don't know. I just felt like,
there's nothing on my phone I wouldn't share.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
So the guy's minding his own business.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
He's in the boys chat or whatever, the guy's chat,
and he doesn't really want to show it to you now.
And you're saying that he could see the girls chat,
because I mean, the group chat is a thing he could.
You wouldn't mind if he went into your phone and
read through that, scrolled through all the things that you've
said to them.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I don't really no, huh.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You know how I feel about this. So, guys, everybody
has a right to privacy. Everybody has a right to
an outlet. And I don't think that everything is I'm
looking at you, pump now. I don't think that everything
has to be seen by everybody.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
All the time.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Like, I think he has a right to have a
communication with his friends that he knows is a safe
place that he doesn't have to get, you know, spell
checked and content approved. And I think everyone's entitled to that.
And I'm sorry, but if someone tells you that they
don't have anything like that, I don't believe them. I
believe they have a fake email or you know, an
email somewhere you don't know about, or something not because
(02:30):
that there's necessarily anything nefarious going on. But I think
it's just human. It's human for people to have their
own stuff. I mean, how would you feel if he
kind of just lingered at girls' night when all you
guys are sitting there doing whatever you guys do, talking
about you know whatever. Would you want him just sitting
there drinking an icy just listening to that? I mean no,
because I would imagine I'm going to answer it for you.
(02:52):
I would guess no, because you want a place where
you can go and not that you're there trashing him
or anybody else. But don't you want to feel like
you can communicate freely without being judged?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Yeah, I guess I just worry that, like it's about
me or like something that is kind of bad, but
that is assuming the worst.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
If he's talking negatively about you to his friends, you
got bigger problems than the group chat, in my opinion.
So if you have no reason to believe that he
would say anything bad about you, then I don't. I
don't know why you bother yourself with it, like let
him have it right, right? But yeah, well see, let
me let me see, by the way, what everybody has
to say eight five, five, five nine one one o
(03:32):
three five. Do you think that if you're in a relationship,
that you should have access to your partner's group chat?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Now? I don't.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
We don't fly. I don't really have one. There's there's
not one chat in my phone. I mean there are
situational group chats where like three or four of us
are going out, so we're all on a message thing
or whatever, or like you know, if there's a bachelor
party or something, everyone's on the on a group chat.
But like I wouldn't say there's one consistent group chat.
But I have tech messages among friends that are just
(04:02):
stupid that I wouldn't want anyone to see because I
wouldn't want to be judged by that stupidity, But I don't.
I don't necessarily think that my phone should be a
fair game, not because I'm doing anything I shouldn't be doing,
but because it's kind of like that's mine, Like it's smile,
it's like it's a little bit of your phone's kind
of an insight into what's going on in your brain.
The same way that I wouldn't want people to see
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my searches, not because they're all porn, they're not all sexual,
but like, I don't know, if I have a question
in my brain about anything, I'll google it because I
want the answer, and I don't necessarily think the same
way that if you take an inventory of everything we
talk about on this show every day, it looks totally random.
I think if you looked at everything I searched in
a given day, it look totally random.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
I mean, yesterday it.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Was about horses, right, you know, the gestation period of
horses and why it took a year for this horse
to be born and why the mom doesn't like it,
among other things.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
But you might look at that and go, what the
hell are you doing? So I don't.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
I don't know, Hannah, I mean, would you want your
wait for to go through every inch of your phone.
I just feel.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Like, like you said, it's like someone's brain. So if
I can't know what's happening in his brain or his phone,
like I feel a distance.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
But maybe you don't want to know, you know what
I mean? Like, I don't think everybody wants to know
what's happening inside of me, as long as I'm being
faithful and honest and a good human being to you, Like,
let me have my my little space. Like if the
guy had a diary, would you want to read it?
I mean you woul might want to, but would you
think you have a right to read it? Because I
don't necessarily think this is all that different. I think
(05:33):
friendly communication is privileged.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
May maybe I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
All right, well, let me take some phone calls on
this hand, and I want to hear what Paulina has
to say because I know she disagrees with me. And uh,
and we'll go from there. But good luck, Hannah, thanks
for calling.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
I eight five five five one three five. You can
call and text this same number. Pe you go ahead.
Why do you think that you should be able to
see Hobby's group chat?
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Well, here's the thing. I feel like if you guys
know the thing is like, if you have nothing to hide,
then like whatever I see, I know hobbies. So if
they're talking about sports, which that's what they're talking about,
or this or that or some story something happened, like
I probably already know about it, and that's fine. I
don't read their messages because I can't dissect it. I
don't understand like sports talk and bro talk like when
straight men gets together. I don't understand sometimes and that's
(06:21):
what I've gotten from there. But I have been in
a situation where you know, he's slapping at his phone
and I was kind of like, what's so funny kind
of thing, and he was like, oh, it's just a
group chat. But I'm like, but what's so funny? And
then my insecurities kick in and I admit it, and
I'm like, oh, Mary, you're talking about like big boobs
and stuff. I know you are, like you're talking about
other women, Like I just like my mind went crazy.
And he was like, do you want to see? And
I was like, well I did, but I was like no,
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I don't. And he's like, we're talking about I don't
know something, some comedian things, something happened, I have some
scandal whatever in the sports world. I don't care. And
I was like, all right, cool, have your space, have
your whatever. The only thing is I know Freddie and
I talked about this too, like we don't have like
those like group chats, like my group chats are are
truly so silly, Like there's no scandal in the group chat,
there's no like crazy girl talk like it's honestly the
(07:01):
stupidest stuff you'll ever see. So if how he wants
to see it, like if he judges me, that's wild
because he already knows I've said most of this stuff
out out, or he knows how I think he can
look through whatever he wants. I truly don't care.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
I must say something, and I want you to hear
what I'm saying because I mean it wholeheartedly, even though
it might sound a little mean. You are well The
first part is, I mean, you are a capable, strong, confident,
powerful woman, seriously, and there's no button. When you do
stuff like that, it's devaluing all of those qualities about
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yourself because you're You're all it's giving is control and insecurity.
But you don't you don't need to see that you're
married to a guy who you're confident, I believe wouldn't
cheat on you. He's upholding his values. It's your desire
to have all the information, to have control, and I
don't think, and I think what happens is you're you're
actually devaluing your own self by doing that, because you
(07:54):
have all these other qualities.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
But when it's when it's let me see, let me see,
or what are you doing? What are you doing? You
want to see it?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
No, it's a game that you shouldn't play because you
don't need to play it because people are entitled to
have private communication. And if you don't trust what he's saying,
that's a completely different problem.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
I agree with that, And it's weirdly not even about trust.
For I think it's a control thing, Like I have
control issues, Like when we drive places, I have to
drive the vehicle. I won't be a passing your princess,
like I.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Have control issues.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
If you and I were married, I would never let
you drive the vehicle because I've seen you drive a vehicle.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah, thank you. So my control issue would be my
life and preserve it.
Speaker 5 (08:27):
Yes, well, tell that the hobby. But I just I
can't let him drive the car. I think it just
it could just be for me wanting to see what
they're talking about. Well, I trust him, I believe him.
I don't care they're talking about the stupidestuff I've ever
seen in my life.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
I don't care. Welln there you go. Well, then problem solved.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
But that only happened one time, and after that I
was like, Okay, I'm not even gonna like butt in
on these random combos.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Bridget how you doing, good morning, good morning, Hey, love
you too, thanks for listening. So this is this woman.
She's upset because she feels like something's going on in
the group chat, like she's missing out, like she's not
part of something, or or maybe they're talking about her,
and so she believes that she should get to see
it of her boyfriend of a year and a half.
And I argue, no, I don't think that she should.
(09:12):
What do you think?
Speaker 3 (09:14):
I'm actually with you on this one.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I have this one. I got to qualify it on
this one. On this one, I say a lot of
things that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Usually i'm with ladies, but I was actually in a
marriage where the expectation was that I show my phone.
I'm no longer in that marriage, and I'm in a
new relationships where there is absolutely no expectation because we
trust each other. And I'm not blaming the caller for,
you know, having concerns, but if there's concerns, there's a
(09:46):
deeper issue there, Like I have nothing to hide, and
I would happily show my partner on the phone at
any time, but there's no need or expectation for me
to do so.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I'll be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
If I were in a relationship, I don't necessarily think
every community I have with my closest friends would make
would make my partner feel good because I'm allowed to
have thoughts that about other people or other things. I mean,
I'm not on there saying like I'm with an awful
human being or something. But like, let's say I get
in a fight with my significant other, or let's say
my friend is having a tough time in his marriage
(10:18):
or something and he wants to he has every right
to have an outlet and to communicate those things. And
being as though he trusts me and I trust him, well,
that's that's a lock box, right, Like it's never getting anywhere.
But I agree, and if you were agree, his wife
or somebody. I'm making this up because it's not happening.
But if if his girlfriend or wife or somewhere to
read this communication that's between the two of us, it
(10:39):
could cause a lot of problems because it's what's going
on in his head that he probably wouldn't say to her.
But maybe saying it to me and working it out
before he says it to her is actually to her benefit,
right right.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
I agree? I agree, But that that goes back to
the whole problem of her concern that there's something there,
and if there is, that's a deeper issue that they
need to talk about.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, I agree with that. Bridget Thank you so much
for calling for listening. Have a good day.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
You gotta love the stuff. Go with his phone.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Doing better. I'm doing better, slowly, but surely therapy is helping.
This conversation is helping. I don't go through it like
that freely, because again, I don't want him to think
that exactly about me, like this little insecure woman that
I'm married to. I don't want my husband to think
of me like that. It's just very tempting when it's
sitting there and I'm like, what are the boys up?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
To today. What are y'all talking about? Why are you
so quiet? Kiky? I figured you have something to say
about this.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
Well, group chats don't really bother me because that's everybody
in there, just yeah, and I don't care about that.
I want to know why you text in pizza hood
like stuff like that, Like I'm looking who is actually
Buffalo Wow Wings in your phone? Because you know, yes,
I text Pizza Hut all the time. That's a green flag,
right like Pizza.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Hut and I are constantly. Actually it's more like Jet's pizza.
And you can text them, by the way, which is funny.
That's just an option to text them to deliver your pizza. Yeah,
so if you see Jet's pizza in someone's phone book,
that's real.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
See, I'm checking numbers and stuff like that. And then
I think Hannah's issue is girl, you never show it
in the moment you know he's over therekikikiki ha ha ha.
I'm going to be like, oh, I know what I'm
doing later. You know I would never do it. Wow,
you know, I would never be like.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
What are you doing? Are you guys? Snooping?
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Like it's never It's not good for so many reasons.
Hey Selena, good morning, how you doing.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
Good morning? What did you want to say?
Speaker 7 (12:26):
I just wanted to say that she really needs su
stop being so insecure, and not only should she respect
his privacy, but also the privacy of his friends. And
if you feel that you can't trust him because he's
laughing with his friends, and I think you're in the
wrong relationship, honey.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Because yeah, Selena, I'll tell you what is going on
in my messages. It's me, you know, spending all day
looking up content for the show, and I stumbled across
something that's funny, and I sent him to my friend,
and some of it is just ridiculous, Like some of
it is so ridiculous, stupid, immature, whatever.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I wouldn't want to be judged on that.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
But like my friend knows that it's you know, if
I see something against like ha funny to that person
and I send it to them. But I wouldn't want
to be judged on what I'm sending to my friends
or or every thought I have in my brain or
every dumb inside joke that we have. It doesn't mean
that I'm sleeping with ten other women, you know. But
I also don't want to have to explain the context.
Sometimes I shouldn't have to.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Well, here's another thing. What if one of his friends
is sharing something like that and she could be friends
with one of the friend's girlfriends or something, and.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
That's how you get your girlfriend. That's how you get
yourself kicked out. You know.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
It's like the rules of fight club, you know what
I mean? Thank you, still have a good day. You're
welcome calling across her arms.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
What So, I just had a thought because this actually
did happen to me, But what is what do you
do right when my husband asks me when I'm doing
the keky cock CODs myself.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
And I'm laughing because while you're going key.
Speaker 5 (13:56):
Co ha that one like this group in this room
the frend show, we have a group chat, and that's true,
we do. It's gone off a couple of times, and
I've actually laughed. I've giggled, and he's got He's asked me, oh, like,
what's so funny kind of things. I'm looking at my phone.
I'm laughing. I have no issue straight up telling him
like what is making me laugh? And there's usually a
story to it, so I'll big, Oh, this happened on
the show today. Or this happened behind the scenes and
(14:17):
this is why we're laughing about it. So like, why
can't he do that for me now that I'm thinking
about it. Why is it that like, oh, don't worry
about it, secularity like, But with him, he asked that
same question, and I have no problem telling him.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
I mean, because it's funny if a fight.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
If I'm sitting on the couch next to you and
I'm laughing hysterically at something and We're just sitting there.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
In quiet, and I'm just I'm staring at.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
My phone and laughing hysterically, I mean, that would be
rude not to include someone and in you know, whatever's
making you happy in that moment, that would be strange. Like,
but I'm you know, if I'm just sitting there texting
and we're just mine on our own business or whatever,
I don't think I should have to show you every
action I'm making on my phone, not at all, you
know what I mean. But like if I laugh out
loud in something, I mean, I might you an explanation
(15:00):
of some kind, but I'm not going to hand the
thing over for you to do a complete audit.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
No, just let me know the story. Just just like,
fill me in. I want to laugh with you too.
If it's that.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Funny, I I gee, yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2 (15:11):
It's a friendly conversations.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
That's different than being like hey, right, let me give
hey Carla, Hey.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Hey Carla.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
So, just to recap here, this woman's upset because she
feels like her boyfriend's in this group chat with his
buddies and she wants to know what's going on in there,
and she feels kind of like she has a right
to know, and you know, I argue that she doesn't.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Yeah, I think.
Speaker 8 (15:33):
I mean, okay, so how many times have you said
something to your partner and then they don't get it
and they're like that, or they'll give you a logical explanation.
Your group chat will give you all the dilulute stuff
that you want to listen to. Also, I am in
a group chat that's an all male group chat except
for me, and my husband's also in it, so I
get an insight into all the crazy stuff that they sink.
(15:58):
And let me tell you, you don't want to know. They
say such wild, crazy things. It's so unhinged, and I
feel privileged that I get to be in it, but
I have to remember sometimes like, oh snap, I.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
Am part of the group.
Speaker 8 (16:10):
I'm part of the boys.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
I have to be cool.
Speaker 8 (16:12):
I can't get mad about this. So sometimes it's better
that you don't know.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Yeah, I think there's probably stuff going on on both sides.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I just don't I don't need to be involved with.
I don't need to know what's going on. You know,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
I know, That's what I mean though, like, and it
wouldn't be there'd be no context, and it might be
funny for the girls, but it's not funny to me.
And I don't know. So I could just leve. I
don't need to see that. Thank you, Carl, I have
a good day.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
You all want to talk about girl stuff. I don't
have anything to contribute to that. I don't need to know.
There's probably that of information there. I don't need to know.
I mean, think about I don't know the last two
weeks of your girl group chats. Would you really want
a guy to read all that? Would your friends want
a guy to read all that?
Speaker 3 (16:54):
No?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Anyway, so there you go, prom solved.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Girl, Save the snooper for later. I'd still like to
know why you're going to do it. Like Big Team
is always sexting Pizza Hut though about breadsticks and dipping
sauces and things that i'd let you know, the entertainer
reportant and showed me is keeky.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Yeah, they talk better than they site tell me about.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
we're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, go.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
Thank you so much, dear blog man. My mom she's something, Marta,
My mom is something. I love her so much. She's
probably listening to us right now, live and local. And
the thing about my mom, though is, you know, parents
always say some crazy things. And I think she really
outdid herself yesterday because I was telling her we're on
the phone. She was driving and I was like, you know,
(17:45):
im like it's hard with Gigi, Like my baby is
fourteen months and i hate my parents do a whole
month thing. So I'm sorry, I know that's not cute,
but like she has fourteen months a little bit over
a year, and she is a lot. We're no longer
and like we're gonna sit here phase, you know, we're
gonna just do like no, we're not sitting anywhere there's
no sitting to be sat. Like we are moving everywhere,
(18:08):
and she's a lot you know, I'm trying to cook
and it's up up, and she said a lot of
words too for her age, and she's just like bawling
your eyes out because I'm not paying attention to her.
It's like it's it's getting really hard. And I told
my mom yesterday I need an event because parenting is
just so hard. Period. But I was like, yeah, it's
getting really difficult with her. I got to like find activities.
We got to sign up to like the park, dish,
we gotta do something. She has to go to school,
maybe go to like the military, go somewhere. I go somewhere,
(18:32):
like some camp, like I don't know. In this case, No,
it's just so hard. Somewhere where she'll go for like
a period of time, read our energy out, get it out.
It's too much for me.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Just kidding.
Speaker 5 (18:51):
I mean listen, And I said, Mom, it's getting hard,
and she goes, instead of you know, giving support or
things that I need, like at that moment, she goes, Oh, yeah,
she needs a sibling.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
I said, mother.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
I thought she was joking. I said, a sibling.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
I almost like I've never understood that my sister has
the same logic, and I think she's learning the hard
way that I'm not sure that's how that works.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
I don't think that works.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I don't think you just pop out another kid and
then they just occupy each other. That's just not how
that goes.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
You just gonna like, what feed my other newborn baby?
And chair and brazier? No, I agree, no, no, no, no,
I agree, ladies, enough out of you?
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Is there any chance you'd consider it? No?
Speaker 5 (19:31):
No, I'm trying to plan what I can do to
make sure it will never happen, like I'm yes, I'm
consulting medical professionals, like, what can we do too?
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Pretty? She's gorgeous.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
You can't not give us another pretty baby? Thank you,
thank you.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
You don't have to race, of course it is no,
you don't have to do that, no pressure, you don't
have to do one. And I don't think it makes
life easier. I don't, I really don't. That's two kids
to feed. And I said, well, when they get older,
they'll play with each other.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
Know, they'll fight with each exactly, and then I gotta go,
you know, get involved in that. They say that, okay,
think about the kids or I'm a one and done
kind of lady. They say that one kid is a vibe,
two kids is a lifestyle. I don't want a lifestyle.
I want a vibe. I want to vibe forever. You
know how easy it is to just get Jiji and
gold places and do things. Nothing parenting is easy, it's not.
It's the hardest thing I've ever done. But with one,
(20:20):
it's just doable. It's manageable. Like we're good either I
have or hobby. Grandma's are super involved right now, her
her teats, watching her her aunt, like we are a village.
We are strong, we are united. I think another baby
would destroy us all it maybe.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
The downfall of me.
Speaker 5 (20:35):
It would just be too much, you guys, No, I'm kidding.
I just I know I appreciate it because everyone's like,
she's so cute and this isn't mad, And I agree.
I think I made like.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
A good looking Let's just leave it there, because you
never know what could happen the second time. I mean,
it could be a disaster, you know what I say.
So let's just you hit it out of the park
the first time, and you know it's it's requiring a
lot of your focus and energy, and so if you're
not compelled to have another one.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
I I do not believe that it somehow is easier.
I don't. I just don't buy that. How is that? How?
It doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
It's more expensive, it's got to be more stressful, it's
more human.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
It's just I don't know. I don't don't. I don't
get that.
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Yeah, Jake, my best friend she came over and my
besties Lucy, and she has two little ones, the shoe
and one literally like, yeah, so now three of us
are in the house on Saturday. I after everyone left,
I was so overwhelmed and overstimulated. I was like, this
is why one one is good. You guys, I'm still saying,
I'm still here.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
Your mom she's crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Yeah, well, because you know, I mean, she can say
that and then she can be helpful, but then she
can go home exactly. You know, so your vote only
counts half. Sorry, she gets to sleep and rest, right.
I feel like you don't have to because she already
did it once.
Speaker 5 (21:47):
Yeah, she and this is the thing she did her time,
she did her thing. That's why you know, I'm grateful
that she was in jail. Right, like I'm so happy
that she's so helpful, but like exactly, like I can't
be responsible for two I am me and baby, it's
too cheer life about your sister.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
You know what?
Speaker 5 (22:02):
That's not about idea.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
I was gonna say. I was gonna say, that's not
the that's not.
Speaker 5 (22:07):
The example, that.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
That's not the example to use, because I think my
mom can picture that too. Actually, a Fred Show
Freads Show is only stay or go all right, Hannah
is here, by the way, you can always get as
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Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hannah, Good morning, Good morning, Hi Hannah.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
So you have this boyfriend a year and a half,
it says, and y'all are fighting, and so you thought, well,
I'm gonna call the Fread Show and these guys will
solve the problem for me. So yeah, sure, we'll brainstorm alltogether. Now,
what's going on? What are you fighting about with this man?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Well, like, we usually have a.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Really good relationship, but I really just want some advice
on like phone.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Etiquette, phone etiquette. Okay, what's this guy doing with his phone?
Speaker 4 (00:45):
So Lead and Night were sitting on the couch and
he just started laughing at his phone. So I asked
him what's funny, and he told me, oh, it's nothing,
it's just our boy chat, our boys group chat. And
I asked like, oh, well, can I see it? Like
I you know, I just want to understand like what
the joke is, because you're you seem to be having
a really good time. And he called it away and
(01:08):
was like, oh, it's private.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, Well, I mean you all right, so you he's
over there first of all. I mean, I guess you
could argue that it's rude if he's just sitting there
with you and then he's on his phone and obsessed
with that. But I mean, okay, it happens. I mean,
do you guys live together or or just spend a
lot of time together.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Yeah, we lived together. I don't know. I just felt like,
there's nothing on my phone I wouldn't share.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
So the guy's minding his own business.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
He's in the boys chat or whatever, the guy's chat,
and he doesn't really want to show it to you now.
And you're saying that he could see the girls chat,
because I mean, the group chat is a thing he could.
You wouldn't mind if he went into your phone and
read through that, scrolled through all the things that you've
said to them.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I don't really no, huh.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You know how I feel about this. So, guys, everybody
has a right to privacy. Everybody has a right to
an outlet. And I don't think that everything is I'm
looking at you, pump now. I don't think that everything
has to be seen by everybody.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
All the time.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Like, I think he has a right to have a
communication with his friends that he knows is a safe
place that he doesn't have to get, you know, spell
checked and content approved. And I think everyone's entitled to that.
And I'm sorry, but if someone tells you that they
don't have anything like that, I don't believe them. I
believe they have a fake email or you know, an
email somewhere you don't know about, or something not because
(02:30):
that there's necessarily anything nefarious going on. But I think
it's just human. It's human for people to have their
own stuff. I mean, how would you feel if he
kind of just lingered at girls' night when all you
guys are sitting there doing whatever you guys do, talking
about you know whatever. Would you want him just sitting
there drinking an icy just listening to that? I mean no,
because I would imagine I'm going to answer it for you.
(02:52):
I would guess no, because you want a place where
you can go and not that you're there trashing him
or anybody else. But don't you want to feel like
you can communicate freely without being judged?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Yeah, I guess I just worry that, like it's about
me or like something that is kind of bad, but
that is assuming the worst.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
If he's talking negatively about you to his friends, you
got bigger problems than the group chat, in my opinion.
So if you have no reason to believe that he
would say anything bad about you, then I don't. I
don't know why you bother yourself with it, like let
him have it right, right? But yeah, well see, let
me let me see, by the way, what everybody has
to say eight five, five, five nine one one o
(03:32):
three five. Do you think that if you're in a relationship,
that you should have access to your partner's group chat?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Now? I don't.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
We don't fly. I don't really have one. There's there's
not one chat in my phone. I mean there are
situational group chats where like three or four of us
are going out, so we're all on a message thing
or whatever, or like you know, if there's a bachelor
party or something, everyone's on the on a group chat.
But like I wouldn't say there's one consistent group chat.
But I have tech messages among friends that are just
(04:02):
stupid that I wouldn't want anyone to see because I
wouldn't want to be judged by that stupidity, But I don't.
I don't necessarily think that my phone should be a
fair game, not because I'm doing anything I shouldn't be doing,
but because it's kind of like that's mine, Like it's smile,
it's like it's a little bit of your phone's kind
of an insight into what's going on in your brain.
The same way that I wouldn't want people to see
(04:23):
my searches, not because they're all porn, they're not all sexual,
but like, I don't know, if I have a question
in my brain about anything, I'll google it because I
want the answer, and I don't necessarily think the same
way that if you take an inventory of everything we
talk about on this show every day, it looks totally random.
I think if you looked at everything I searched in
a given day, it look totally random.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
I mean, yesterday it.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Was about horses, right, you know, the gestation period of
horses and why it took a year for this horse
to be born and why the mom doesn't like it,
among other things.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
But you might look at that and go, what the
hell are you doing? So I don't.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
I don't know, Hannah, I mean, would you want your
wait for to go through every inch of your phone.
I just feel.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Like, like you said, it's like someone's brain. So if
I can't know what's happening in his brain or his phone,
like I feel a distance.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
But maybe you don't want to know, you know what
I mean? Like, I don't think everybody wants to know
what's happening inside of me, as long as I'm being
faithful and honest and a good human being to you, Like,
let me have my my little space. Like if the
guy had a diary, would you want to read it?
I mean you woul might want to, but would you
think you have a right to read it? Because I
don't necessarily think this is all that different. I think
(05:33):
friendly communication is privileged.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
May maybe I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
All right, well, let me take some phone calls on
this hand, and I want to hear what Paulina has
to say because I know she disagrees with me. And uh,
and we'll go from there. But good luck, Hannah, thanks
for calling.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
I eight five five five one three five. You can
call and text this same number. Pe you go ahead.
Why do you think that you should be able to
see Hobby's group chat?
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Well, here's the thing. I feel like if you guys
know the thing is like, if you have nothing to hide,
then like whatever I see, I know hobbies. So if
they're talking about sports, which that's what they're talking about,
or this or that or some story something happened, like
I probably already know about it, and that's fine. I
don't read their messages because I can't dissect it. I
don't understand like sports talk and bro talk like when
straight men gets together. I don't understand sometimes and that's
(06:21):
what I've gotten from there. But I have been in
a situation where you know, he's slapping at his phone
and I was kind of like, what's so funny kind
of thing, and he was like, oh, it's just a
group chat. But I'm like, but what's so funny? And
then my insecurities kick in and I admit it, and
I'm like, oh, Mary, you're talking about like big boobs
and stuff. I know you are, like you're talking about
other women, Like I just like my mind went crazy.
And he was like, do you want to see? And
I was like, well I did, but I was like no,
(06:41):
I don't. And he's like, we're talking about I don't
know something, some comedian things, something happened, I have some
scandal whatever in the sports world. I don't care. And
I was like, all right, cool, have your space, have
your whatever. The only thing is I know Freddie and
I talked about this too, like we don't have like
those like group chats, like my group chats are are
truly so silly, Like there's no scandal in the group chat,
there's no like crazy girl talk like it's honestly the
(07:01):
stupidest stuff you'll ever see. So if how he wants
to see it, like if he judges me, that's wild
because he already knows I've said most of this stuff
out out, or he knows how I think he can
look through whatever he wants. I truly don't care.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
I must say something, and I want you to hear
what I'm saying because I mean it wholeheartedly, even though
it might sound a little mean. You are well The
first part is, I mean, you are a capable, strong, confident,
powerful woman, seriously, and there's no button. When you do
stuff like that, it's devaluing all of those qualities about
(07:32):
yourself because you're You're all it's giving is control and insecurity.
But you don't you don't need to see that you're
married to a guy who you're confident, I believe wouldn't
cheat on you. He's upholding his values. It's your desire
to have all the information, to have control, and I
don't think, and I think what happens is you're you're
actually devaluing your own self by doing that, because you
(07:54):
have all these other qualities.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
But when it's when it's let me see, let me see,
or what are you doing? What are you doing? You
want to see it?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
No, it's a game that you shouldn't play because you
don't need to play it because people are entitled to
have private communication. And if you don't trust what he's saying,
that's a completely different problem.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
I agree with that, And it's weirdly not even about trust.
For I think it's a control thing, Like I have
control issues, Like when we drive places, I have to
drive the vehicle. I won't be a passing your princess,
like I.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Have control issues.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
If you and I were married, I would never let
you drive the vehicle because I've seen you drive a vehicle.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah, thank you. So my control issue would be my
life and preserve it.
Speaker 5 (08:27):
Yes, well, tell that the hobby. But I just I
can't let him drive the car. I think it just
it could just be for me wanting to see what
they're talking about. Well, I trust him, I believe him.
I don't care they're talking about the stupidestuff I've ever
seen in my life.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
I don't care. Welln there you go. Well, then problem solved.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
But that only happened one time, and after that I
was like, Okay, I'm not even gonna like butt in
on these random combos.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Bridget how you doing, good morning, good morning, Hey, love
you too, thanks for listening. So this is this woman.
She's upset because she feels like something's going on in
the group chat, like she's missing out, like she's not
part of something, or or maybe they're talking about her,
and so she believes that she should get to see
it of her boyfriend of a year and a half.
And I argue, no, I don't think that she should.
(09:12):
What do you think?
Speaker 3 (09:14):
I'm actually with you on this one.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I have this one. I got to qualify it on
this one. On this one, I say a lot of
things that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Usually i'm with ladies, but I was actually in a
marriage where the expectation was that I show my phone.
I'm no longer in that marriage, and I'm in a
new relationships where there is absolutely no expectation because we
trust each other. And I'm not blaming the caller for,
you know, having concerns, but if there's concerns, there's a
(09:46):
deeper issue there, Like I have nothing to hide, and
I would happily show my partner on the phone at
any time, but there's no need or expectation for me
to do so.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I'll be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
If I were in a relationship, I don't necessarily think
every community I have with my closest friends would make
would make my partner feel good because I'm allowed to
have thoughts that about other people or other things. I mean,
I'm not on there saying like I'm with an awful
human being or something. But like, let's say I get
in a fight with my significant other, or let's say
my friend is having a tough time in his marriage
(10:18):
or something and he wants to he has every right
to have an outlet and to communicate those things. And
being as though he trusts me and I trust him, well,
that's that's a lock box, right, Like it's never getting anywhere.
But I agree, and if you were agree, his wife
or somebody. I'm making this up because it's not happening.
But if if his girlfriend or wife or somewhere to
read this communication that's between the two of us, it
(10:39):
could cause a lot of problems because it's what's going
on in his head that he probably wouldn't say to her.
But maybe saying it to me and working it out
before he says it to her is actually to her benefit,
right right.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
I agree? I agree, But that that goes back to
the whole problem of her concern that there's something there,
and if there is, that's a deeper issue that they
need to talk about.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, I agree with that. Bridget Thank you so much
for calling for listening. Have a good day.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
You gotta love the stuff. Go with his phone.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Doing better. I'm doing better, slowly, but surely therapy is helping.
This conversation is helping. I don't go through it like
that freely, because again, I don't want him to think
that exactly about me, like this little insecure woman that
I'm married to. I don't want my husband to think
of me like that. It's just very tempting when it's
sitting there and I'm like, what are the boys up?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
To today. What are y'all talking about? Why are you
so quiet? Kiky? I figured you have something to say
about this.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
Well, group chats don't really bother me because that's everybody
in there, just yeah, and I don't care about that.
I want to know why you text in pizza hood
like stuff like that, Like I'm looking who is actually
Buffalo Wow Wings in your phone? Because you know, yes,
I text Pizza Hut all the time. That's a green flag,
right like Pizza.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Hut and I are constantly. Actually it's more like Jet's pizza.
And you can text them, by the way, which is funny.
That's just an option to text them to deliver your pizza. Yeah,
so if you see Jet's pizza in someone's phone book,
that's real.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
See, I'm checking numbers and stuff like that. And then
I think Hannah's issue is girl, you never show it
in the moment you know he's over therekikikiki ha ha ha.
I'm going to be like, oh, I know what I'm
doing later. You know I would never do it. Wow,
you know, I would never be like.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
What are you doing? Are you guys? Snooping?
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Like it's never It's not good for so many reasons.
Hey Selena, good morning, how you doing.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
Good morning? What did you want to say?
Speaker 7 (12:26):
I just wanted to say that she really needs su
stop being so insecure, and not only should she respect
his privacy, but also the privacy of his friends. And
if you feel that you can't trust him because he's
laughing with his friends, and I think you're in the
wrong relationship, honey.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Because yeah, Selena, I'll tell you what is going on
in my messages. It's me, you know, spending all day
looking up content for the show, and I stumbled across
something that's funny, and I sent him to my friend,
and some of it is just ridiculous, Like some of
it is so ridiculous, stupid, immature, whatever.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I wouldn't want to be judged on that.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
But like my friend knows that it's you know, if
I see something against like ha funny to that person
and I send it to them. But I wouldn't want
to be judged on what I'm sending to my friends
or or every thought I have in my brain or
every dumb inside joke that we have. It doesn't mean
that I'm sleeping with ten other women, you know. But
I also don't want to have to explain the context.
Sometimes I shouldn't have to.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Well, here's another thing. What if one of his friends
is sharing something like that and she could be friends
with one of the friend's girlfriends or something, and.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
That's how you get your girlfriend. That's how you get
yourself kicked out. You know.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
It's like the rules of fight club, you know what
I mean? Thank you, still have a good day. You're
welcome calling across her arms.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
What So, I just had a thought because this actually
did happen to me, But what is what do you
do right when my husband asks me when I'm doing
the keky cock CODs myself.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
And I'm laughing because while you're going key.
Speaker 5 (13:56):
Co ha that one like this group in this room
the frend show, we have a group chat, and that's true,
we do. It's gone off a couple of times, and
I've actually laughed. I've giggled, and he's got He's asked me, oh, like,
what's so funny kind of things. I'm looking at my phone.
I'm laughing. I have no issue straight up telling him
like what is making me laugh? And there's usually a
story to it, so I'll big, Oh, this happened on
the show today. Or this happened behind the scenes and
(14:17):
this is why we're laughing about it. So like, why
can't he do that for me now that I'm thinking
about it. Why is it that like, oh, don't worry
about it, secularity like, But with him, he asked that
same question, and I have no problem telling him.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
I mean, because it's funny if a fight.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
If I'm sitting on the couch next to you and
I'm laughing hysterically at something and We're just sitting there.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
In quiet, and I'm just I'm staring at.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
My phone and laughing hysterically, I mean, that would be
rude not to include someone and in you know, whatever's
making you happy in that moment, that would be strange. Like,
but I'm you know, if I'm just sitting there texting
and we're just mine on our own business or whatever,
I don't think I should have to show you every
action I'm making on my phone, not at all, you
know what I mean. But like if I laugh out
loud in something, I mean, I might you an explanation
(15:00):
of some kind, but I'm not going to hand the
thing over for you to do a complete audit.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
No, just let me know the story. Just just like,
fill me in. I want to laugh with you too.
If it's that.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Funny, I I gee, yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2 (15:11):
It's a friendly conversations.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
That's different than being like hey, right, let me give
hey Carla, Hey.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Hey Carla.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
So, just to recap here, this woman's upset because she
feels like her boyfriend's in this group chat with his
buddies and she wants to know what's going on in there,
and she feels kind of like she has a right
to know, and you know, I argue that she doesn't.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Yeah, I think.
Speaker 8 (15:33):
I mean, okay, so how many times have you said
something to your partner and then they don't get it
and they're like that, or they'll give you a logical explanation.
Your group chat will give you all the dilulute stuff
that you want to listen to. Also, I am in
a group chat that's an all male group chat except
for me, and my husband's also in it, so I
get an insight into all the crazy stuff that they sink.
(15:58):
And let me tell you, you don't want to know. They
say such wild, crazy things. It's so unhinged, and I
feel privileged that I get to be in it, but
I have to remember sometimes like, oh snap, I.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
Am part of the group.
Speaker 8 (16:10):
I'm part of the boys.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
I have to be cool.
Speaker 8 (16:12):
I can't get mad about this. So sometimes it's better
that you don't know.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Yeah, I think there's probably stuff going on on both sides.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I just don't I don't need to be involved with.
I don't need to know what's going on. You know,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
I know, That's what I mean though, like, and it
wouldn't be there'd be no context, and it might be
funny for the girls, but it's not funny to me.
And I don't know. So I could just leve. I
don't need to see that. Thank you, Carl, I have
a good day.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
You all want to talk about girl stuff. I don't
have anything to contribute to that. I don't need to know.
There's probably that of information there. I don't need to know.
I mean, think about I don't know the last two
weeks of your girl group chats. Would you really want
a guy to read all that? Would your friends want
a guy to read all that?
Speaker 3 (16:54):
No?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Anyway, so there you go, prom solved.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Girl, Save the snooper for later. I'd still like to
know why you're going to do it. Like Big Team
is always sexting Pizza Hut though about breadsticks and dipping
sauces and things that i'd let you know, the entertainer
reportant and showed me is keeky.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Yeah, they talk better than they site tell me about.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
we're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, go.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
Thank you so much, dear blog man. My mom she's something, Marta,
My mom is something. I love her so much. She's
probably listening to us right now, live and local. And
the thing about my mom, though is, you know, parents
always say some crazy things. And I think she really
outdid herself yesterday because I was telling her we're on
the phone. She was driving and I was like, you know,
(17:45):
im like it's hard with Gigi, Like my baby is
fourteen months and i hate my parents do a whole
month thing. So I'm sorry, I know that's not cute,
but like she has fourteen months a little bit over
a year, and she is a lot. We're no longer
and like we're gonna sit here phase, you know, we're
gonna just do like no, we're not sitting anywhere there's
no sitting to be sat. Like we are moving everywhere,
(18:08):
and she's a lot you know, I'm trying to cook
and it's up up, and she said a lot of
words too for her age, and she's just like bawling
your eyes out because I'm not paying attention to her.
It's like it's it's getting really hard. And I told
my mom yesterday I need an event because parenting is
just so hard. Period. But I was like, yeah, it's
getting really difficult with her. I got to like find activities.
We got to sign up to like the park, dish,
we gotta do something. She has to go to school,
maybe go to like the military, go somewhere. I go somewhere,
(18:32):
like some camp, like I don't know. In this case, No,
it's just so hard. Somewhere where she'll go for like
a period of time, read our energy out, get it out.
It's too much for me.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Just kidding.
Speaker 5 (18:51):
I mean listen, And I said, Mom, it's getting hard,
and she goes, instead of you know, giving support or
things that I need, like at that moment, she goes, Oh, yeah,
she needs a sibling.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
I said, mother.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
I thought she was joking. I said, a sibling.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
I almost like I've never understood that my sister has
the same logic, and I think she's learning the hard
way that I'm not sure that's how that works.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
I don't think that works.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I don't think you just pop out another kid and
then they just occupy each other. That's just not how
that goes.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
You just gonna like, what feed my other newborn baby?
And chair and brazier? No, I agree, no, no, no, no,
I agree, ladies, enough out of you?
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Is there any chance you'd consider it? No?
Speaker 5 (19:31):
No, I'm trying to plan what I can do to
make sure it will never happen, like I'm yes, I'm
consulting medical professionals, like, what can we do too?
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Pretty? She's gorgeous.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
You can't not give us another pretty baby? Thank you,
thank you.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
You don't have to race, of course it is no,
you don't have to do that, no pressure, you don't
have to do one. And I don't think it makes
life easier. I don't, I really don't. That's two kids
to feed. And I said, well, when they get older,
they'll play with each other.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
Know, they'll fight with each exactly, and then I gotta go,
you know, get involved in that. They say that, okay,
think about the kids or I'm a one and done
kind of lady. They say that one kid is a vibe,
two kids is a lifestyle. I don't want a lifestyle.
I want a vibe. I want to vibe forever. You
know how easy it is to just get Jiji and
gold places and do things. Nothing parenting is easy, it's not.
It's the hardest thing I've ever done. But with one,
(20:20):
it's just doable. It's manageable. Like we're good either I
have or hobby. Grandma's are super involved right now, her
her teats, watching her her aunt, like we are a village.
We are strong, we are united. I think another baby
would destroy us all it maybe.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
The downfall of me.
Speaker 5 (20:35):
It would just be too much, you guys, No, I'm kidding.
I just I know I appreciate it because everyone's like,
she's so cute and this isn't mad, And I agree.
I think I made like.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
A good looking Let's just leave it there, because you
never know what could happen the second time. I mean,
it could be a disaster, you know what I say.
So let's just you hit it out of the park
the first time, and you know it's it's requiring a
lot of your focus and energy, and so if you're
not compelled to have another one.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
I I do not believe that it somehow is easier.
I don't. I just don't buy that. How is that? How?
It doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
It's more expensive, it's got to be more stressful, it's
more human.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
It's just I don't know. I don't don't. I don't
get that.
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Yeah, Jake, my best friend she came over and my
besties Lucy, and she has two little ones, the shoe
and one literally like, yeah, so now three of us
are in the house on Saturday. I after everyone left,
I was so overwhelmed and overstimulated. I was like, this
is why one one is good. You guys, I'm still saying,
I'm still here.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
Your mom she's crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Yeah, well, because you know, I mean, she can say
that and then she can be helpful, but then she
can go home exactly. You know, so your vote only
counts half. Sorry, she gets to sleep and rest, right.
I feel like you don't have to because she already
did it once.
Speaker 5 (21:47):
Yeah, she and this is the thing she did her time,
she did her thing. That's why you know, I'm grateful
that she was in jail. Right, like I'm so happy
that she's so helpful, but like exactly, like I can't
be responsible for two I am me and baby, it's
too cheer life about your sister.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
You know what?
Speaker 5 (22:02):
That's not about idea.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
I was gonna say. I was gonna say, that's not
the that's not.
Speaker 5 (22:07):
The example, that.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
That's not the example to use, because I think my
mom can picture that too. Actually, a Fred Show
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