June 24, 2025 • 43 mins
Have you ever convinced yourself you were dying because Dr. Google told you so? You're not alone! And what would you do if your significant other went on a lunch date with their coworker and never told you? Fred and the crew discuss that on Stay or Go!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:31):
Lady at Dunkin Donuts this morning. Duncan not dunkin Donuts.
It's just Duncan. They don't pay me anymore, so just
I don't have to get it right. But anyways, well
I used to feel bad because I dunkin Donuts. It
just rolls off the tongue. This is what I've always
said my whole life. And then you know it is
Duncan because they saw more than donuts. And then I
felt bad because I'm like, well they pay me, they
don't pay me anymore. Yeah, right, right, So that she's
(00:52):
right exactly. Shout out to her. Apparently, wait, Bellahmy, get
bellamin in here. Bellahmin has to tell the story because
I won't I won't do it justice.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But I just I just wanted.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
I want to thought some prayers to the lady Duncan
this morning because I'm feeling I'm feeling for her and
I'm feeling for Kiki. And I'll tell you why in
just a second. The entertainment report is on the way
we'll do stay or go well? Debates in relationship drama
that I mentioned waiting by the phone. I don't know
it's coming up to why did somebody get ghosted? What
are you working on for?
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Reports?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
K health update from Miss jesse Ja, a very long
awaited upcoming album, and I will tell you who invited
their ex to their wedding.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Okay, don't let it slam, don't Okay. We're learning.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
We're learning because why would we have soft quiet doors
in a radio station? Why would we do Bellahamine, you
went to get the coffee this morning, Yes, and and
and and what happened exactly like like the woman there
shared something very very private with you as she was
(01:52):
giving you things that she prepared for us to consume
in our bodies.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Very personal, which I kind of appreciate it. I was like,
she feels safe with me.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Okay, so you you walk up to get because she
didn't say it to me, because I went in there
got my cast, she didn't say anything, and she also
didn't have a lot to say. She wasn't real talkative.
And now I think I understand why all I said.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Was hey, how are you?
Speaker 6 (02:11):
Because I did that every time I pick.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Up my coffee and she goes, oh, I'm not feeling
too well, and I was like, oh no, like thinking
like maybe she's got a cold, like I was sick
last week when I was going.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Right, or I'm hot, you know it's so hot.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
She goes, oh, my stomach's not feeling too good, and
I was like, oh, that's too bad.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
She goes, yeah, like I had an I.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Was trying to get into a twenty four hour duncan
before I got here because I had to go to
the bathroom and apparently it was clothes, which is weird
because it's twenty four hours and I.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Didn't make it.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Oh no, she shared with you.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah that she she she she pooked herself. She did
this morning and then and then my first thought was
as I'm sipping, sipping my drink, I'm thinking, hmmm, yeah, wow, okay,
well that's thank you for the neurovirus that I just
got her whatever whatever it is.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
More questions.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Well, then thank you for the follow up, because I
might have walked away and just and as I walked away,
throwing the coffee out. But but but no, you asked
follow ups.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Which were, well, I wanted to make sure we were safe,
you know, like, how did she get this stomach virus?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
You know what was going on?
Speaker 4 (03:20):
I was like, you know, because I had neuro virus
a couple of weeks ago and it was terrible. So
I was like, you know, like did you eat something wrong?
And she goes, oh, yeah, like she had well I
don't want to well, like that's a long when.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
You say no one can tell, like what, Like, I'm
so glad. I'm so glad that you mumbled it like that,
because now nobody she had a particularly bad event with them.
But then she also shared with you that she she
did go home somehow, between between that incident and opening
her own duncan store this morning, she went home and
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took a shower.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
She did share that with you as well. Of her
very polite. I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Yeah, I think that's that's the only option. I mean,
if something like that happens to you, then you know
it sounds like.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
She needs to call off poisoning.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Okay, yeah, you're not going to have a good time.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I appreciate the dedication of the craft.
Speaker 7 (04:14):
I mean, yeah, you know, wait a minute, she got
to get it back up and then she can call off.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Ye see, you got a coffee.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
And I don't mean to I'm not going to really
get like too much into detail, but you guys get
a little a little risky with with that within the
how do I say it? With the number two type activities,
like if I wake up in the morning, right like
let's say I wake up at four thirty and my
belly and my little Tommy's not feeling well, or maybe
in the middle of the night, if I think that
we might have an issue that's going to prevent me
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from being able to sit here for forty five minutes
at a time, then you just get a text from me,
I'm not coming, Like I just don't leave. Like I'm
at a point in my life where I don't if
there's any chance that leaving the house is a dangerous activity.
If there's any chance that we might find ourselves banging
on the door of a twenty four hour duncan, that's
not open. If we're finding ourselves in a position where
(05:02):
the public bathroom is going to be a mandatory experience,
then I probably am not leaving the house. That's where
I'm at in my life.
Speaker 6 (05:09):
It never comes on fast for you, Like I've had.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Something come on, like within seconds, can then be time
to party?
Speaker 8 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
Oh yeah, not unless there were there were signs okay,
oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
No, Like I'm not just.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Sitting here right now drinking my coffee and I'm like,
in ten seconds, I'm gonna have to go home and
take a shower. Like no, that's never No, I wouldn't
say it's never happened, but no. But like if I wait,
if i'm if I know that we're a little touch
and go, of course, you know. If I know that, like,
oh boy, I don't think I can get till six
fifty four whatever, I don't think I can do it, well,
then then I'm I'm just gonna go ahead and not
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yeah for the day, and I'm not gonna I'm I'm
gonna stay at home and I'm I'm not gonna get
too far away.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
I followed that role, I'd never be here.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Yeah, what point do you ask yourself? Like self, that's
not a normal way to live. So maybe I'm allergic
to something. Maybe I'm consuming something I shouldn't. Maybe my
diet's not right, you know what I mean? Like, I guess,
at what point are we living under this sort of
direst before we say like lifestyle changes.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Are in order.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
I mean, there's always a chance.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
That's no way to live, like honestly, like I give
up cheese though, Like we're here because we care about you, Jason,
but your friendship is affecting me, affecting me negatively in
the following ways.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
There's a fifty to fifty shot.
Speaker 9 (06:29):
I might put myself every single time right every day,
depending on what I eat.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I don't know anyway. So she didn't look okay or
in a good mood. But we did get a shower
in like some handwashing.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Yeah, oh yeah, she's soy fine, Okay, she needs to
go home.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Yeah for her, there should be no part of this
coffee that she touched except for the cop So we
should be okay because no one got food.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't think she.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
Always use a clean honestly, you know, I love a clan.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Yeah what not like that that an emergency shower cleanse
either way, honestly.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
That weight shops then I'm very happy.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
That is not a healthy Wait, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Like after you know, a few weeks of healthy eating
and exercising. Sometimes I think I'm just one stomach clue
away from being like in Men's Health or something, or
like on the cover of Sports Illustrated for you know,
over forty crowd.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
But yeah, I'm real close.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Like that's all it would really take is maybe just
one night stomach flu. Yeah, you know, to get me
ready for a summer vacation kind of thing. But but
I don't. I don't wish it on anybody, especially the
Lady of Duncan, because an essential part of our day. Nice.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, well she's alive.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Whoa, I just had to grab I grab my pearls.
I clutched my p She's alive, said rip now someone'
sid to say, texted someone talking about going number two
for for some of reason, makes me have to go
some messed up all right, Well.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
That's all it takes.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
You're welcome, Yeah, right, if you're nearby the facilities.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
That's good now, Kiki, I'm worried about you because you said, wait,
I love how okay?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Guys that No it's not no no no, don't do it.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
No no no no no no no, you're bad now, you're
bad at all.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
But we I've shared it before.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
People ask sometimes the last meme over the weekend, the
guys the guys trip were like, hey, so how does
it work get a boys trip?
Speaker 10 (08:21):
How?
Speaker 8 (08:22):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (08:22):
I I got?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I got text alled because now I'm only I'm on
the boys trip. Yeah, I was.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I was.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I was accused of agism by the group like oh you,
oh you were old or whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I'm like, well, you're older than me. You are.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I mean, if you're close to sixty, you're significantly older
than I am.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
And there's nothing wrong with that. I'm I mean, that's you.
These are just facts.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
But but we have They're like, how do you guys
do like different topics and and stuff like that. I said, well,
you know, I go through a bunch of stuff and
then everybody contributes to we have this shared document. We
all have access to it and everyone writes their ideas.
For some people it's more of a diary. It's more
of a decompression sort of just a just a memory dump,
because sometimes I'll read the topics and say, now, how
(09:03):
exactly did you intend for me to use this on
the radio, Like this is just you talking, and I
love all of you. But sometimes I'm just like, now,
tell me again how you wanted me to incorporate that
into a topic. But then, but the funny part is
like you'll write something this morning on the sheet and
then I'll be like, yo, KICKI man, I'm feeling for you,
and you'll be, oh, what what do you mean?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Now You're not the.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Only one that does it, but it's like you forgot
what you wrote an hour ago.
Speaker 7 (09:29):
I did, Like, I just write it down and then
it's out of there, it's out of my brain.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
And then you get anxiety about me bringing up something
that you or people will act shocked like how did
you know that?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, you wrote it down, you owe it?
Speaker 6 (09:41):
Can I remember what we wrote?
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Oh gosh, I know.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Anyway, so it says here Google told me that I
have a blood clot so I'll be standing more one
his Google diagnosed you with she said, By the way,
can I also say thank you? For your for your thought,
and then how it could be implemented into a radio topic. No,
I usually can can can find a way, you know,
it's sort of what I'm paid for and doing it
for a minute.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
You're good, thank you, thank you. I know.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Yeah, people like to know the direction.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
That you would like us to incorporate it, you know,
so as opposed to just I went to the grocery
store yesterday, brain dump period a period. Body, Yeah, I
am queen of just writing things. Oh no, it didn't.
It'll be like Colina will be I rode a bicycle yesterday. Period.
Figure it out and then it's like, so, Paulina, now
to tell us about the last time that you wycle.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Everybody would call.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
They would for an hour, well they would for an hour,
and then Jason and I would sit around in the
in the writer's room and come up with a concept
that we thought was brilliant, and nobody would call. Nobody
would call, but then it would be call now the
last time that you pooped yourself? And the phones would
ring for three hours. Anyway, So why do you think
you have a blood clot?
Speaker 7 (10:51):
I don't know. Yesterday I got a real sharp pain
in my leg, and I just Google, you know, like
sharp pain and lag, and it was like, you know
it could be from exercise. Well, we know that's not
the reason. And then it was like, well, it could
be a blood clot and I said, and I went,
I searched the symptoms.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
I love how it's a dialogue between you and Google.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
And I said, and doing Google, and.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Then Google had some kind of exclamation.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Well, Google said, well that's how I read it, all right.
So first it was maybe an exercise related pain, but
that that couldn't.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Be could not be the case. So then I'm like, wow, okay.
So I Googled and he said, okay, it could be
a blood clot. So I looked up the symptoms of
a blood lite and I'm like, yeah, sits a lot.
It says, now you sit a lot. I said, yeah,
I do. I said a lot.
Speaker 11 (11:40):
I don't even get one, not a symptom of Well
that's what it said, okay, And so I'm at home
like wow, and then it starts it tells me that
your leg might get warm, and I run.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
I touched my leg. I'm like, oh man, it's warm.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I forget about the fact that it's ninety four degrees
yesterday that couldn't have had anything to do with it,
sort of warm sensation. But okay, all right, so now
your leg doesn't work, it's warm, and you go man.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
And then Google said, well, so.
Speaker 7 (12:11):
Man, I just figured I better get my affairs in order. Yeah,
so I wrote out, you know what lux will get.
It all goes down here, but you know, to cure this,
I'm going to be standing a lot more. I'm going
to walk during commercial breaks and stuff like that because
I happened. I got to work out this blood clot.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I'm curious though, quickly eight five five five nine one.
I think it's happened to all of us.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
But what have you?
Speaker 2 (12:35):
What did Google tell you that you had and you
didn't have it? Because I've anytime I don't feel well
for any reason, like pain in my in my left stomach,
bottom left stomach. That could be anything from you ate coffee,
from a woman who pooped yourself this morning, to you
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have pancreatic cancer. Yeah, honestly. And so I'll go to
the doctor and be like, doctor, it's over. Like it's over.
I'll tell him I only have three weeks to live
and he'll be like, okay, we'll tell me more. Why hot, Well,
because I have pancreatic cancer. It's obvious, Well you don't.
You don't like, well, you don't know that, you haven't
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investigated it yet, you haven't. Well, I just you don't.
You know, you don't have that, but it will tell you.
So basically, the rule I have with my doctor is
don't do not Google. Do not Google, don't do it.
Come here and I tell me, and I will look,
and I will tell you, and I will I will
look at the you know, we'll take tests or whatever,
and I will tell you if you have pancreatic cancer
or not. The Google will not know. So it's generally
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a good idea not to Google, because I think it
for whatever reason, Google it loves to just tell you
that you have the most extreme case of anything that
you type in.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
That's true.
Speaker 7 (13:49):
My doctor actually has a sign in her office that says,
don't confuse your Google search with my doctoral degree.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Oh yeah, that's a little that's a little sassy.
Speaker 7 (13:59):
Yeah, it is like she's sick of us coming in
there with ourselves diagnosis.
Speaker 6 (14:03):
Yeah, Jason and I used to be convinced that he
had lime disease.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I thought I had Oh yeah, that was two days ago.
Speaker 6 (14:10):
We thought that it used to be.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
I mean, like recently we were we were battling line possably.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
I was a survivor. Yeah, wow, wow, I had lime disease.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
It turns out that you don't. Though.
Speaker 5 (14:20):
I don't have lime disease. No, just some just some
bugs in my shirt one day that I thought were ticks.
They gave me lime disease.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Wow.
Speaker 9 (14:27):
Yeah, okay, so it wasn't for the bugs. I don't
think I would have thought lime disease, you know, but
that's how you get lie.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
But when all the signs are there, right, and then
I had joint.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
Pain, yep, it might be a book clucked.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I don't google symptoms like google issues wrong with my
car and I always need a new engine.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
What I mean, that's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
That's what I mean is if you type something in,
Google just loves to tell you the worst possible scenario
of whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
It could be.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Google told me I was pregnant, but you and you
have to happen first. Oh, I see, so you weren't
even there was no you know, shenanigan. There weren't even
to me shenanigans. But somehow you were pregnant. Google said
you were pregnant.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
I get that one though, Like they always test you
at the doctor, and like, even if I know there's.
Speaker 6 (15:11):
Not a possibility, I'm like, well I am I'm pregnant.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
I think.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Yeah, I've thought that a few times myself. Yeah, it's
just it's kind of amazing Alzheimer's because I keep forgetting things.
Speaker 5 (15:22):
Oh same yeah, early on set for sure.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah. Same.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Doctor just wants to make money for consultation. No, I
think doctor wants to accurately diagnose you because Google's not
going to do it. So you, uh, Nina, you google
what your car is doing. You're the one.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah. And every time it's a new engine, huh yes. Wow, man,
how many new engines have you bought?
Speaker 10 (15:47):
I've actually only bought one new engine, but not in
the car that I'm currently driving.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Because I would think once I bought the new engine,
then the problems would no longer be associated with set
engine because it was night you know, so I would
need to buy another one.
Speaker 10 (16:00):
Oh that's exactly what I thought too. So they replaced
the engine on my one car and it worked.
Speaker 8 (16:06):
Sure, the car drove, but.
Speaker 10 (16:07):
It messed up everything else inside my car.
Speaker 12 (16:10):
So I ended up having to get rid of that
car anyways.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Wow, well, and how did the dialogue go that? It
go like, sub's wrong with my car? And Google went, well,
I think you probably need a new engine, and you
were like, damn Google.
Speaker 10 (16:21):
Yeah, And then when I brought it to the shop
it actually was right.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
So well, now hold on a minute, here's the problem.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
And I'm sure this isn't true at mechanic Mike at
the Gay Rise, I'm sure he would never do this.
But let's be honest, there are some unscobul, unscrupulous folks
out there in the world. And if I walked into
it a garage and I said, Google says I need
a new engine, odds, guys.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Are gonna be like, yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, you do. Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
He came in here with new engine on the brain,
and so I sold it to her. You know, that's
why when I when stubs wrong my car, even if
I know what it is, I wait for them to
tell me because at first, I want to see it.
I want to see if I'm right, And second of all,
I want to see like if there's a cheaper fix
but they're giving it.
Speaker 10 (17:03):
Yeah, you know, that's kind of what I did. I
tried to tell him like I didn't tell him I
needed to edge right away. They're the ones who told
me I needed the end. And I was like, oh,
sounds about right because that's what Google said.
Speaker 8 (17:14):
So I just like a lot them do it.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Anyways, Well, thank you, Nina, have a good day too.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
This is a Sebastian Maniscalco bit about not only the garage,
and it's about the body shop, and then it's about
uh and he does a similar bit. I think it's
a different bit, but it's about when people come to
fix your house, and it's the same spiel. You know,
you'll go you'll go to the body shop and you
pull in and like everyone looks at your car like.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Oh my god, how did oh my god.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
And then there's always the one guy that they this
is his bit, and they pulled like the they pulled
the general manager of the office. And then he comes
out and he looks like you just got hit by
a truck. Oh my god, what oh wow, wow, man,
I don't think woo. You know, normally we'd be able
to buff this out, but it's an inch to the
all boy.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
We're going to have to replace old car.
Speaker 7 (18:02):
My favorite ism always being like, I don't know how
you're driving safe on the road like this.
Speaker 6 (18:06):
Yes, I'm just happy you made it here.
Speaker 9 (18:09):
I'm like sometimes people's tires be that ball to where
I'm like, you should not be dry, like you are
a hazard.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
I guess that could be.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
But the workman that comes over and is like, you know,
in thirty years, I've never seen anything like this really,
or the Semashian Maniscalco bit about the guy, and it's like,
you know, if you want this, this wall is crooked,
If you want it to be crooked forever, that's fine.
We'll leave it like this. We can leave it like this.
But if you if you want a crooked wall, that's fine.
And you looking at your wall like well, I don't
want a crooked wall. It looks fine to me, Like, hey, hey,
(18:43):
if you're okay with that, then we'll leave it. You know,
we'll leave it.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
We'll leave.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
And it's so true though, Yes, anyway, I don't know
how we got from lady at Duncan pooping herself to
crooked walls, but we did be careful out there, fam
when it comes to Google examinations. But I don't think
you have a blood cut. I don't But here's the thing.
If you thought you did.
Speaker 7 (19:01):
Now, why would you think not that you winked your eye?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Is it because I don't think you do? Because because
I don't think Google's right. Very often I think I think,
I think it goes to the worst extreme. But if
there's any possibility, why wouldn't you just go to the
doctor and then I'll tell you.
Speaker 7 (19:18):
Yeah, you're just talking crazy? You know how long man,
that's a whole process.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
That is, if your only symptoms are one shooting pain
and a warm leg, I would venture to say that
you're okay, I mean stretch.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Hey, Kim, good morning, how you doing.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
How are you hi, Kim? Google? Are you pregnant currently? No?
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Okay, but you were, and you were googling things all
the time. Do I want to know what you were googling? No?
Speaker 8 (19:45):
It was just like the randomst things like if I
had like a weird pain, I'd be like pain here
and here?
Speaker 5 (19:50):
While pregnant?
Speaker 6 (19:51):
Is this normal?
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Oh no?
Speaker 2 (19:54):
And before long it's like there are seven babies in
there with foreheads. Oh no, not the seven babies with
four heads. It's suation. I mean, it tells you the
worst thing.
Speaker 4 (20:02):
Right, Yeah, and then it's always like, okay, consult your
medical professional.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
And I'm like, they're gonna think I'm wild if I
call them.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Yeah, I'm surprised that the doctors aren't calling up people well,
mainly because they don't listen to us. But if they did,
I think they would be like that. They would tell
you that Google's the worst possible thing, because if everyone
walks you in thinking that it is the worst possible scenario,
and it is usual in my experience, it has never
been what Google said it was ever.
Speaker 13 (20:26):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
So anyway, everything's okay.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Yeah, everything's okay now, but you know the you know,
thinking about it in the past and like, uh this,
I just don't want it to get worse and keep
doing that.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
All right, Well, you stay off there, You stay off
of there, Kim. All right, have a good day, you too,
Love you guys, Thanks for listening.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Love you too. If you have an initial call here,
I'll tell you it's not what you think it is.
I'll tell you.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I'll talk you out the ledge, even though I'm doing
the same thing myself. Hey Karina, Hi, Hi, So what
happened with Google?
Speaker 14 (20:55):
So my friend has a thing with searching every sign
and symptom. Ever, so she would record herself crying at
three am and send it to us after convincing herself
that she's like, oh, I have cancer now, and then
we would have to talk her off.
Speaker 8 (21:10):
The ledge every single time for every new disease that
she has.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Di I think your friend needs to seeks a mental
health treatment because anyone who's taking video of themselves crying
and then sending it to is that necessary? Like can
you just call me crying and then I'll know you're crying?
Like why do I need to mass distribute my drama?
Speaker 14 (21:29):
The visual reference just always helps, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
Yeah, Like I would believe you, Like if you called
me a saidman, I was crying all night because I
think I have cancer from Google told me that, Like
that's good enough. I don't need to see the video
of your crying necessarily true, right, But anyway, she's okay,
though I bet she didn't have it, right.
Speaker 14 (21:45):
No cancer, no cancer. Yeah, because of Google search, she
did diagnose her for your husband with like a weird mole,
so she'd actually caught him.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Okay, well you've just done did everything we did for
the last twenty minutes. Here's that Google was right, So
Karina have a good day. She's like for the last
twenty minutes by Google's never right. Yeah, but then we did.
We were able to discover a very rare mole and
save the man's life. See okay, well, don't listen to us.
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what the instrument's called, but I play it. You just
hand me one. I just can do it, Jamie. Hi, welcome,
so welcome to stair Goo. Thank you for your note
(23:35):
to us Fredshire Radio on the socials freadshare Radio dot com.
You can get us that way too. You are married, right, yes, okay,
you're married and you recently got into your husband's car
and what happened?
Speaker 8 (23:52):
So I got into my husband's car and I saw
that another woman had connected to his bluetooth.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
No boy, and how did you see that? Because it said, like,
you know, big movie, big movie, Paulina his car phone
or again, I don't know, like what people people name
their phone right, so like sometimes people are funny about it.
But so, how did you know because it said someone's
iPhone or something.
Speaker 8 (24:16):
Yeah, I went to connect my phone so I could
play some music when we were going to the store,
and I saw that Stephanie's iPhone was the one to
last connect to his car.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
Okay, did he loan his car out? I mean, who's Stephanie? Okay,
I don't mean to bury the lead here. Who's Stephanie?
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Do we know?
Speaker 8 (24:37):
I I didn't know until I asked my husband. I
had never heard of a Stephanie. He had never mentioned
a Stephanie, and so when I asked him who Stephanie is,
he immediately told me that it was his coworker, and
he explained that they went one day to go get
lunch and she wanted to play music on the way.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
Okay, I mean, if Kaylin and I left here to
go to breakfast right now, we drove somewhere, that would
not necessarily be an uncommon thing for Kaylin to want
to do. Because Kaylen actually has great music taste and
and she takes over the ox court. I don't have
a problem with it because she has a good job.
Some people take over the ox cord, and I'm like, like,
my bluetooth doesn't I'm not looking at you. I'm just
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saying like, there I have friends who I'm like, yeah,
my bluetooth doesn't work, you know, or something so like
the fact. But but Cala and I aren't doing anything
like anymore. I mean we obviously we obviously used to.
But that was everyone's speculation. But but so that wouldn't
be I guess if I were seeing someone they got
in my car and I said, Kaylen's iPhone on my car,
I don't that wouldn't mean anything, right. That would mean
(25:40):
that she was in the car with me and wanted
to control the music. That's what that would mean. But
you're saying you didn't know who this woman was, and
you don't know why she's connecting to the phone and
and and so what else concerns you about this? Or
could the car phone to the car rather?
Speaker 8 (25:58):
I mean, even though he was honest right away, it's
just to me, it's unacceptable behavior to have another woman
in your car if you're married.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
I just don't think that's what.
Speaker 5 (26:10):
Okay, Now wait, whoa wa wa wa?
Speaker 15 (26:12):
Why wasn't he.
Speaker 8 (26:13):
Could have driven herself to lunch. She drove herself to work.
She clearly has a ride, so I don't understand why
she had a ride with my husband.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Do we not care about the planet lunch? We don't
care about the environment? Jamie? I mean, come on, not
really that, Jamie. Not Jamie.
Speaker 5 (26:28):
No, really, like Jamie, don't play.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Your husband is not allowed to have other women in
the car.
Speaker 8 (26:38):
Well, let me have this then, because this was the
other thing that really upset me was that he also
paid for her lunch. So not only did he have
her in his car playing music for him, but then
he went ahead and paid for his lunch.
Speaker 6 (26:51):
Like is this a date?
Speaker 2 (26:52):
Now?
Speaker 1 (26:53):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Well, now that you bring up the music and the
and the lunch, okay, well now now come on.
Speaker 6 (27:00):
Also pay for my lunch. And still nothing's happening.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
I don't think either one of those things speak to anything.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
What are you doing your stretches again? Over there? No,
Kiki go because.
Speaker 7 (27:16):
Sheet Now now we're not gonna just act like Stephane's
feelings aren't valid.
Speaker 5 (27:21):
That's she's right, You're.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Exactly right, Steveny. The coworker is getting free lunch and
control the music. Her feelings are valid. You're exactly right.
Jamie is the wise Jamie. So we're talking to you,
and Jamie is the one saying that this is inappropriate,
and I think that that is crazy talk.
Speaker 7 (27:41):
I think Jamie's feelings are valid though she knows her husband,
and there's a reason she feels this way about him
having another woman in the car.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
Yeah, why do you feel that way? Is there a reason?
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Like because you wrote in your note to us that
you've never suspected this guy of cheating. So again, I
feel like there's a common theme in a lot of
these things we talk about when it comes to cheating
or infidelity, and it's it's trust in context, it's history. Like,
so the guy has a female coworker he goes to
lunch with. You've never suspected him of cheating, Jamie, So
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why are we now saying that he is out of nowhere?
That's not fair to him.
Speaker 15 (28:18):
Because it sends the wrong message to his coworker, Like
I don't think he's cheating, but in her mind like, Okay,
you just got a ride with him. He's all letting
you pick some music and buying your lunch. It's just
it's a terrible way to be if you're married, I
feel like it sends the wrong message to her.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
I think I gotta be honest with you, Jamie.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
If I were married or in a relationship and my
wife found out that, I was like, no, you can't
get your bluetooth.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Are you trying to control my radio station out?
Speaker 2 (28:49):
Jamie's been trying to connect your trying to connect your
phone in my radio station. If my wife found out
that I a girlfriend or whomever that I I made
her drive a separate car and then wouldn't pay for
her lunch, all because I was afraid, and all under
the pretense that my wife would be upset. If I
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did any of that, I would think that anyone I
would be with and be like, you're an idiot, Like
that's ridiculous, and I'm not going to get I'm not saying, Jamie,
that you're an idiot or that you're being ridiculous. But
I guess what I'm saying is I don't think that
either one of those things inherently leads to cheating. I mean,
it's not like you found a hotel room key in
(29:31):
the car too, or like you know, condom wrappers or something.
I mean, I'm being serious and whatever your concerns are
can be your concerns. But I don't think those two
things in and of themselves mean that someone is cheating.
Speaker 8 (29:48):
Yeah, I just don't want his coworker, Stephanie to think
that he's interested in her, and I really think this
opens that door for her. I mean, oh, I'll just
take you to lunch and I'll drive you, like it
just seems I wouldn't do that with my coworker.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Did you get mad at him?
Speaker 8 (30:06):
I mean we talked about it and I had to
walk away because I felt like I was getting really
upset about it and it wasn't going to be productive.
So I guess yes, I'm kind of upset.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
With him because I'll tell you what happens then, is
now he's not going to tell you about stuff like
I don't know that he stops going to lunch with
a woman he's not cheating with. Let's just assume he's not,
because you don't suspect him of him infidelity and you
never have, so let's just give him the benefit of
the doubt for a second and say he's not cheating. Now,
he's probably not going to stop going to lunch with
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his teammate, and so now he's not going to tell
you because he doesn't want to fight with you about it.
And I feel like, sometimes, you know, and this is
from the male perspective here, any You're right, I'm not
in a relationship, So maybe I got this all wrong.
But if I'm being respectful and honest and transparent and
I'm not doing anything wrong, and then the person I'm
with tells me now all of a sudden, I can't
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do that thing, then am I gonna stop doing that thing?
I mean, I'm gonna I'm gonna listen to you, and
I'm gonna take into consideration you're needs and concerns. But
if I'm not doing anything wrong and it's a normal activity,
then maybe I keep doing it and just don't tell
you anymore because I don't feel like an argument. And
I think sometimes that's what happens when we get upset
about things that might not be sinister. Is that then
(31:20):
we want to know why there's not more transparency in relationships.
But it's because you're sort of penalizing the guy for
not necessarily doing anything wrong.
Speaker 8 (31:30):
Yeah, but it's not like he just straight up told
me you went to lunch with that girl. I had
to find out because of her phone being logged.
Speaker 15 (31:36):
Into his car.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
That's a good point.
Speaker 8 (31:38):
You know. If he would have been like, hey, I
went out to lunch with Stephanie today, or hey, I'm
going out to lunch with my coworker, it would be
different than me having to find out.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
So you want him to tell you every time he
does something with another woman, Yeah, so that.
Speaker 8 (31:54):
We can have a conversation, because I would have told
him this is unacceptable to do before he did it,
and then this wouldn't be a problem one.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Maybe that's a man.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
Maybe that's why he didn't tell you. And again, Jamie,
I'm not coming down on you, but like I get it.
You that's a fair that's a fair request. Have you
made that request before? Have you said to him, Hey,
if you're going to hang out with any women that
aren't me, I need to know about it. Have you
said that to him?
Speaker 1 (32:16):
Well?
Speaker 2 (32:16):
No, I know because by the way, I know we're
all laughing because in fairness, that sounds kind of ridiculous
to say out loud. But if he if you said that,
here are my concerns, and that he didn't, you know,
he wasn't receptive to communication. That's one thing but I
would imagine you've never said that to him, right, I mean.
Speaker 8 (32:35):
We had conversations about going and hanging out with women
outside of work, but we never talked about co workers.
I guess I should have included that because I wasn't
comfortable with him going out with like his little girlfriends
when we first got together, because some of them were
kind of into him at scenes. So like we had
that conversation of how I wasn't comfortable with him going
out with them alone. But I didn't think I needed
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to worry about coworkers. I thought he'd be professional at work.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Yeah, I h yeah, I don't know, Jamie. Let me
take some phone calls on it.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
I've said enough on the topic, but eight five five
five three five, Jamie, thank you for the call, And
I honestly no judgment here.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
I wish you the best.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
I'd be careful maybe with some of this, because it's
like it seems a little controlling, and it seems a
little bit like you're giving this guy, you're penalizing him,
when in fact he may have done nothing wrong. I
mean again, like if I go out with people from work,
or I go out with clients, or I go out
with you know whomever, and they're female, and I don't
(33:34):
run that by you before I go out with you.
That doesn't mean I'm cheating. It means I'm doing my job.
It means i'm It means I'm being a good teammate.
It means I'm bonding with the people I work with
every day and spend a lot of time with. I
don't think that inherently means that there's infidelity. But let
me take some calls and we'll see it. Maybe people
think I'm dead as wrong. Thank you, Jamie, have a
good day.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Thank you you as well.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
Yeah, all right, she's gone nowt what do we really
think she's been hurt before?
Speaker 5 (33:59):
And I think she needs to therapy and I think
she needs to work through stuff.
Speaker 9 (34:02):
Oh, because it just sounds like if you have that
heart of a you know, opinion about your partner hanging
out with people. Like every time another man gets in
my car, I have to let my boyfriend know, Oh
there's a man entering my car. You better like that's crazy, Like,
I'm sorry, that's a little over the line.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
I think it's just yeah, like what there's a common
theme in all of these and it's trust. Like if
you don't trust him, even though you said, she said herself,
I've never believed that he was cheating on me. I
have no reason to believe that he's cheating. Well, then
we got to have trust because this is a slippery slope.
Now he's not gonna tell you about Stephanie, and before
long you're gonna start finding things now that he's not
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telling you because he doesn't want to get yelled at
and or penalized. He's not doing anything wrong, so he's
protecting himself and he's protecting a relationship from unnecessary arguments.
But then you're gonna accuse him of lying or omission,
and then it's going to lead to you believing that
he's hiding something. But he's not really hiding anything. He
just doesn't want to fight.
Speaker 6 (35:00):
That's true. It's such a trust thing because in my
past relationships.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
I would have felt that way, but like now, I mean,
just the other day, my boyfriend needed a plus one
for some dinner and he couldn't find someone and I
couldn't go, and I literally was like, oh, just take
one of my friends. Like that's how trusting I feel now.
So I think that's a good point. Yeah, Michelle, Hi, Hi, Hey,
good morning. What do you think there? Go?
Speaker 1 (35:24):
I think go.
Speaker 13 (35:26):
I think that if Stephanie is such a good friend
of the husband, then why did she not know about
Stephanie Pryor too? And I'm going to lunch.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 13 (35:36):
My friends at work. My husband knows about them, so
it wouldn't be a surprise if he found out we
was out to lunch. I think that when you don't
communicate cane to day's stuff with your partner, it can
look like you're hiding stuff, to which you probably are.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
Now that's the jump, Michelle.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Michelle, I'm work in corporate, so let me ask.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
You anything like this, Like when I got up this,
I got plans. You know, I'm traveling today, but like
I don't know. Yesterday, I got up, I came to
work and we did our show. And then it's not
uncommon for us to be like, hey, you want to
grab lunch or go to go to breakfast, or hey
let's go do that whatever, hey whatever, And there's no forethought,
no planning, nothing, And people keep saying on the text
(36:19):
that the radio show example is not fair because we're
all close in friends in the back. But that's that's
that's no everywhere. That's no different than people people listening
have exposure to our relationship. But the fact is, there
are any business out there, there are friendships that exist
between men and women in the office that are not
crossing the line. And and maybe I didn't know, Michelle,
that I was going to go to breakfast, so I
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did not tell you because I didn't want you to know.
I didn't tell you because I didn't know.
Speaker 13 (36:45):
I understand that. But I think that the wife should
have already known that her husband is good friends with
a coworker named Stephanie, so that it doesn't seem on
warranton for them to be going out to lunch.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Yeah, I'm fair.
Speaker 13 (37:00):
Such if I'm such good friends with a man that
my core friend job, my huntsband knows about them and
knows their name because I'm talking about them and telling
them about what we do at work and different things.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
Like that, that's fair. That's fair. Thank you so much, Michelle.
Have a good day. I'm glad you called you too.
Speaker 13 (37:17):
Love you guys, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
Love you too. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
My whole thing when we get into this kind of
topic is I just don't want people to feed into
a narrative that wasn't there before that then leads to
a whole bunch of other issues, when really the issue
is that you're not trusting for some reason, and let's
talk about that, like, let's talk about why you don't
trust for whatever reason. We don't have to talk about
Stephanie or anything else, because I will say, the more
that you start to control someone's behavior or criticize benign behavior,
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then the more it starts to feed into this narrative
that something's going on. Because again, if I'm not doing
anything wrong and you're telling me I'm doing something wrong,
and now you're limiting my ability to make friendships at work,
then I'm going to stop telling you because I don't
want to fight with you when I'm not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (37:59):
That's not right now.
Speaker 7 (37:59):
But I think the issue here is being surprised. Right,
So we communicate every day when we go home, Hey,
how was your day?
Speaker 5 (38:06):
What'd you do?
Speaker 7 (38:07):
That would be something that you would bring up in
a conversation. I shouldn't get in your car and connect
my bluetooth and see Stephanie.
Speaker 5 (38:13):
Who is Stephanie?
Speaker 7 (38:14):
Because now now I got all kinds of things going
on in my mind, not that you've done anything wrong,
but you just didn't communicate that with me, And I'm like,
why why wasn't this communicated? Why you know, you didn't
think that was something to bring up.
Speaker 6 (38:25):
So that's all it is. It's not the being in
the car or the paying for lunch.
Speaker 7 (38:28):
It's just because I go out with my male friends
all the time and you know, we go to lunch
or whatever. But surprising. I just don't like being surprised
or left out. Who is Stephanie?
Speaker 8 (38:38):
You know what?
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Understanding I understand, like why do iant to know who
this person is? That's fair.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
But I also think that maybe when I if that happened,
and I have a good explanation and I tell you
who Stephanie is and why, then that's the end of it,
because again, if you don't have any reason to doubt me.
The worst thing in the world is when you're not
doing anything wrong and someone's telling you you're doing something wrong.
Speaker 1 (39:02):
That's terrible in a relationship. Hey, Maya, how you doing,
good morning.
Speaker 12 (39:06):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (39:07):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (39:07):
What do you think Sara?
Speaker 2 (39:08):
By the way, that the woman who called Jamie was
upset because she got in her husband's car. A woman
her phone was connected to the bluetooth or had been
connected to the bluetooth, and when she asked her husband,
it was, oh, that's my coworker.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
We went to lunch.
Speaker 2 (39:20):
I bought her lunch, and she connected her phone in
my car to listen to a song. And now Jamie's
saying that all of that was out of bounds.
Speaker 1 (39:26):
What do you think.
Speaker 12 (39:28):
I'm going to have to side with wife? It's wrong
what he did. I'm sorry. I'm not saying he necessarily
is cheating, but it's if you're married, you have no
business going to lunch with a woman coworker.
Speaker 5 (39:41):
You just don't want to do it.
Speaker 12 (39:44):
Yeah, I'm sorry. It's just it's a respect thing. You
should respect your wife. And the way that she found out.
I mean, if he came home and said, hey, I
went out to lunch you know with my female co worker,
that's different. But the way that she found out, I
think it's just it's not it's I just respectful.
Speaker 6 (40:01):
What if it slipped his mind?
Speaker 1 (40:02):
Like is that possible? Because there's nothing to it, right,
I mean, how.
Speaker 12 (40:07):
Does it suit your mind?
Speaker 2 (40:08):
Though?
Speaker 12 (40:08):
How is your day, honey? Oh I went to lunch
with my coworker.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
Oh, I mean, I don't know if it's benign, you
don't think about it.
Speaker 7 (40:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 12 (40:17):
I just I don't think.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
It just makes me. It makes me sad, Maya.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
It does make me a little sad that that's and
you're allowed to have whatever boundaries you want and establish them.
And by the way, if you communicate that, which she
admits she never did. She never said you can't go
to lunch with I'm uncomfortable with you having lunch one
on one with female coworkers. If you have gone to
your husband, Maya, and said, hey, this is what I
need from you, and he agrees to it, and then
he does it anyway, that's the thing, I guess if
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you both agree to it. But like, wouldn't you agree
that it kind of sucks that if you have a
husband that he's out there not able to make the
same kind of friendships and the same I have the
same kind of bonding experience with his coworkers because his wife.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Says, no, you know what, we live in a different world.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Now.
Speaker 12 (40:58):
It's sad, it really is, But I just I find
it to be a little bit disrespectful, just okay, that
she found out I feel if he came home and
told her, I feel she would feel differently about it,
do you know what I mean? But the way that
she found out, that's.
Speaker 2 (41:13):
What, okay, all right, fair enough, fair enough, There could
be more communication, and then that that that also takes
away from this sort of obscurity of it.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
Yeah, I got it. Thank you, Maya. I have a
good day.
Speaker 13 (41:23):
We can't thank you.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
I'm glad you called. I guess I'm team being a
relationship and team. I'm there because I trust the person
and team. I'm not going to ride ride them and
make rules for them that they can then walk them
walk into traps all the time for doing things that
are normal.
Speaker 6 (41:35):
Yeah, but team communicate as well, that's all.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
So if Hobby had lunch with a female firefighter is yeah,
and didn't and didn't necessarily announce to you that he
was doing it ahead of time, that.
Speaker 1 (41:45):
Would bother me.
Speaker 16 (41:45):
Just tell you because we communicate with him, and I
have a relationship where we've established communication.
Speaker 6 (41:50):
I'll say, oh, I'm going to lunch with Fred and
Jason whatever. I'll tell him because it's just how we talk.
Speaker 16 (41:55):
Maybe that's the thing when every marriage is the same, really,
Caya made a point we might have forgot. Maybe we
don't go home in debrief right and have like a
whole meeting of how your day was, me and my husband,
my husband.
Speaker 2 (42:04):
And I, we have that.
Speaker 16 (42:06):
I think it's important to communicate, especially because that's kind
of how we've built our relationship.
Speaker 5 (42:09):
It's always been very open communicator.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is jam Sarah, Hi, good morning,
good morning. How are you I doing well? So you
take the other side. You're saying stay, I'm saying stay.
Speaker 13 (42:22):
I don't think this is something that you get rid
of your husband for.
Speaker 8 (42:27):
But I do think that if this.
Speaker 13 (42:30):
Is an issue that she has, she just needs to
be honest.
Speaker 8 (42:33):
And.
Speaker 15 (42:35):
It's what we do for each other.
Speaker 13 (42:36):
We have to take in how.
Speaker 8 (42:38):
Other people feel and know that it's something that bothers
her and maybe something that he just has to do
to make her comfortable. Okay, I don't think it's something
I don't think it's something we we get rid of
our smiuse.
Speaker 1 (42:52):
For Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, Thank you, Stephanie.
I have a good day.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
Like I'll be honest with you. Like my someone just texted,
what happened to being a gentleman? Well, my mom taught
me that, you know, basically, it's a nice thing to
do as and again just gets into don't don't at
me for gender roles and all this stuff. But I
was raised if I take you guys to lunch, that
I should, I should make the move to pay for it.
And I'm not doing anything with any of you. It's
(43:18):
just a nice thing to do, right like, and I
like doing it. And so whether there's a sexual relationship
or not, if I go to lunch with a friend
of mine who's a female, I buy lunch. And if
that's objectionable to somebody, fine, and I would I would
do it if I were married, I would still buy
you guys lunch or dinner if we went out, because
I think it's a nice thing to do and it
was what I was taught and it has nothing to
do with sex.
Speaker 1 (43:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:39):
I think that's the problem is immediately when it comes
to men and women and gestures, we immediately jump to sex.
Speaker 1 (43:47):
Why because y'all nasty
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Speaker 2 (00:31):
Lady at Dunkin Donuts this morning. Duncan not dunkin Donuts.
It's just Duncan. They don't pay me anymore, so just
I don't have to get it right. But anyways, well
I used to feel bad because I dunkin Donuts. It
just rolls off the tongue. This is what I've always
said my whole life. And then you know it is
Duncan because they saw more than donuts. And then I
felt bad because I'm like, well they pay me, they
don't pay me anymore. Yeah, right, right, So that she's
(00:52):
right exactly. Shout out to her. Apparently, wait, Bellahmy, get
bellamin in here. Bellahmin has to tell the story because
I won't I won't do it justice.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But I just I just wanted.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
I want to thought some prayers to the lady Duncan
this morning because I'm feeling I'm feeling for her and
I'm feeling for Kiki. And I'll tell you why in
just a second. The entertainment report is on the way
we'll do stay or go well? Debates in relationship drama
that I mentioned waiting by the phone. I don't know
it's coming up to why did somebody get ghosted? What
are you working on for?
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Reports?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
K health update from Miss jesse Ja, a very long
awaited upcoming album, and I will tell you who invited
their ex to their wedding.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Okay, don't let it slam, don't Okay. We're learning.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
We're learning because why would we have soft quiet doors
in a radio station? Why would we do Bellahamine, you
went to get the coffee this morning, Yes, and and
and and what happened exactly like like the woman there
shared something very very private with you as she was
(01:52):
giving you things that she prepared for us to consume
in our bodies.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Very personal, which I kind of appreciate it. I was like,
she feels safe with me.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Okay, so you you walk up to get because she
didn't say it to me, because I went in there
got my cast, she didn't say anything, and she also
didn't have a lot to say. She wasn't real talkative.
And now I think I understand why all I said.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Was hey, how are you?
Speaker 6 (02:11):
Because I did that every time I pick.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Up my coffee and she goes, oh, I'm not feeling
too well, and I was like, oh no, like thinking
like maybe she's got a cold, like I was sick
last week when I was going.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Right, or I'm hot, you know it's so hot.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
She goes, oh, my stomach's not feeling too good, and
I was like, oh, that's too bad.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
She goes, yeah, like I had an I.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Was trying to get into a twenty four hour duncan
before I got here because I had to go to
the bathroom and apparently it was clothes, which is weird
because it's twenty four hours and I.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Didn't make it.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Oh no, she shared with you.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah that she she she she pooked herself. She did
this morning and then and then my first thought was
as I'm sipping, sipping my drink, I'm thinking, hmmm, yeah, wow, okay,
well that's thank you for the neurovirus that I just
got her whatever whatever it is.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
More questions.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Well, then thank you for the follow up, because I
might have walked away and just and as I walked away,
throwing the coffee out. But but but no, you asked
follow ups.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Which were, well, I wanted to make sure we were safe,
you know, like, how did she get this stomach virus?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
You know what was going on?
Speaker 4 (03:20):
I was like, you know, because I had neuro virus
a couple of weeks ago and it was terrible. So
I was like, you know, like did you eat something wrong?
And she goes, oh, yeah, like she had well I
don't want to well, like that's a long when.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
You say no one can tell, like what, Like, I'm
so glad. I'm so glad that you mumbled it like that,
because now nobody she had a particularly bad event with them.
But then she also shared with you that she she
did go home somehow, between between that incident and opening
her own duncan store this morning, she went home and
(03:56):
took a shower.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
She did share that with you as well. Of her
very polite. I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Yeah, I think that's that's the only option. I mean,
if something like that happens to you, then you know
it sounds like.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
She needs to call off poisoning.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Okay, yeah, you're not going to have a good time.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I appreciate the dedication of the craft.
Speaker 7 (04:14):
I mean, yeah, you know, wait a minute, she got
to get it back up and then she can call off.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Ye see, you got a coffee.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
And I don't mean to I'm not going to really
get like too much into detail, but you guys get
a little a little risky with with that within the
how do I say it? With the number two type activities,
like if I wake up in the morning, right like
let's say I wake up at four thirty and my
belly and my little Tommy's not feeling well, or maybe
in the middle of the night, if I think that
we might have an issue that's going to prevent me
(04:41):
from being able to sit here for forty five minutes
at a time, then you just get a text from me,
I'm not coming, Like I just don't leave. Like I'm
at a point in my life where I don't if
there's any chance that leaving the house is a dangerous activity.
If there's any chance that we might find ourselves banging
on the door of a twenty four hour duncan, that's
not open. If we're finding ourselves in a position where
(05:02):
the public bathroom is going to be a mandatory experience,
then I probably am not leaving the house. That's where
I'm at in my life.
Speaker 6 (05:09):
It never comes on fast for you, Like I've had.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Something come on, like within seconds, can then be time
to party?
Speaker 8 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
Oh yeah, not unless there were there were signs okay,
oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
No, Like I'm not just.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Sitting here right now drinking my coffee and I'm like,
in ten seconds, I'm gonna have to go home and
take a shower. Like no, that's never No, I wouldn't
say it's never happened, but no. But like if I wait,
if i'm if I know that we're a little touch
and go, of course, you know. If I know that, like,
oh boy, I don't think I can get till six
fifty four whatever, I don't think I can do it, well,
then then I'm I'm just gonna go ahead and not
(05:41):
yeah for the day, and I'm not gonna I'm I'm
gonna stay at home and I'm I'm not gonna get
too far away.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
I followed that role, I'd never be here.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Yeah, what point do you ask yourself? Like self, that's
not a normal way to live. So maybe I'm allergic
to something. Maybe I'm consuming something I shouldn't. Maybe my
diet's not right, you know what I mean? Like, I guess,
at what point are we living under this sort of
direst before we say like lifestyle changes.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Are in order.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
I mean, there's always a chance.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
That's no way to live, like honestly, like I give
up cheese though, Like we're here because we care about you, Jason,
but your friendship is affecting me, affecting me negatively in
the following ways.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
There's a fifty to fifty shot.
Speaker 9 (06:29):
I might put myself every single time right every day,
depending on what I eat.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I don't know anyway. So she didn't look okay or
in a good mood. But we did get a shower
in like some handwashing.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Yeah, oh yeah, she's soy fine, Okay, she needs to
go home.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Yeah for her, there should be no part of this
coffee that she touched except for the cop So we
should be okay because no one got food.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't think she.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
Always use a clean honestly, you know, I love a clan.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Yeah what not like that that an emergency shower cleanse
either way, honestly.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
That weight shops then I'm very happy.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
That is not a healthy Wait, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Like after you know, a few weeks of healthy eating
and exercising. Sometimes I think I'm just one stomach clue
away from being like in Men's Health or something, or
like on the cover of Sports Illustrated for you know,
over forty crowd.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
But yeah, I'm real close.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Like that's all it would really take is maybe just
one night stomach flu. Yeah, you know, to get me
ready for a summer vacation kind of thing. But but
I don't. I don't wish it on anybody, especially the
Lady of Duncan, because an essential part of our day. Nice.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, well she's alive.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Whoa, I just had to grab I grab my pearls.
I clutched my p She's alive, said rip now someone'
sid to say, texted someone talking about going number two
for for some of reason, makes me have to go
some messed up all right, Well.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
That's all it takes.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
You're welcome, Yeah, right, if you're nearby the facilities.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
That's good now, Kiki, I'm worried about you because you said, wait,
I love how okay?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Guys that No it's not no no no, don't do it.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
No no no no no no no, you're bad now, you're
bad at all.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
But we I've shared it before.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
People ask sometimes the last meme over the weekend, the
guys the guys trip were like, hey, so how does
it work get a boys trip?
Speaker 10 (08:21):
How?
Speaker 8 (08:22):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (08:22):
I I got?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I got text alled because now I'm only I'm on
the boys trip. Yeah, I was.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I was.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I was accused of agism by the group like oh you,
oh you were old or whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I'm like, well, you're older than me. You are.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I mean, if you're close to sixty, you're significantly older
than I am.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
And there's nothing wrong with that. I'm I mean, that's you.
These are just facts.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
But but we have They're like, how do you guys
do like different topics and and stuff like that. I said, well,
you know, I go through a bunch of stuff and
then everybody contributes to we have this shared document. We
all have access to it and everyone writes their ideas.
For some people it's more of a diary. It's more
of a decompression sort of just a just a memory dump,
because sometimes I'll read the topics and say, now, how
(09:03):
exactly did you intend for me to use this on
the radio, Like this is just you talking, and I
love all of you. But sometimes I'm just like, now,
tell me again how you wanted me to incorporate that
into a topic. But then, but the funny part is
like you'll write something this morning on the sheet and
then I'll be like, yo, KICKI man, I'm feeling for you,
and you'll be, oh, what what do you mean?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Now You're not the.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Only one that does it, but it's like you forgot
what you wrote an hour ago.
Speaker 7 (09:29):
I did, Like, I just write it down and then
it's out of there, it's out of my brain.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
And then you get anxiety about me bringing up something
that you or people will act shocked like how did
you know that?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, you wrote it down, you owe it?
Speaker 6 (09:41):
Can I remember what we wrote?
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Oh gosh, I know.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Anyway, so it says here Google told me that I
have a blood clot so I'll be standing more one
his Google diagnosed you with she said, By the way,
can I also say thank you? For your for your thought,
and then how it could be implemented into a radio topic. No,
I usually can can can find a way, you know,
it's sort of what I'm paid for and doing it
for a minute.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
You're good, thank you, thank you. I know.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Yeah, people like to know the direction.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
That you would like us to incorporate it, you know,
so as opposed to just I went to the grocery
store yesterday, brain dump period a period. Body, Yeah, I
am queen of just writing things. Oh no, it didn't.
It'll be like Colina will be I rode a bicycle yesterday. Period.
Figure it out and then it's like, so, Paulina, now
to tell us about the last time that you wycle.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Everybody would call.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
They would for an hour, well they would for an hour,
and then Jason and I would sit around in the
in the writer's room and come up with a concept
that we thought was brilliant, and nobody would call. Nobody
would call, but then it would be call now the
last time that you pooped yourself? And the phones would
ring for three hours. Anyway, So why do you think
you have a blood clot?
Speaker 7 (10:51):
I don't know. Yesterday I got a real sharp pain
in my leg, and I just Google, you know, like
sharp pain and lag, and it was like, you know
it could be from exercise. Well, we know that's not
the reason. And then it was like, well, it could
be a blood clot and I said, and I went,
I searched the symptoms.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
I love how it's a dialogue between you and Google.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
And I said, and doing Google, and.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Then Google had some kind of exclamation.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Well, Google said, well that's how I read it, all right.
So first it was maybe an exercise related pain, but
that that couldn't.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Be could not be the case. So then I'm like, wow, okay.
So I Googled and he said, okay, it could be
a blood clot. So I looked up the symptoms of
a blood lite and I'm like, yeah, sits a lot.
It says, now you sit a lot. I said, yeah,
I do. I said a lot.
Speaker 11 (11:40):
I don't even get one, not a symptom of Well
that's what it said, okay, And so I'm at home
like wow, and then it starts it tells me that
your leg might get warm, and I run.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
I touched my leg. I'm like, oh man, it's warm.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I forget about the fact that it's ninety four degrees
yesterday that couldn't have had anything to do with it,
sort of warm sensation. But okay, all right, so now
your leg doesn't work, it's warm, and you go man.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
And then Google said, well, so.
Speaker 7 (12:11):
Man, I just figured I better get my affairs in order. Yeah,
so I wrote out, you know what lux will get.
It all goes down here, but you know, to cure this,
I'm going to be standing a lot more. I'm going
to walk during commercial breaks and stuff like that because
I happened. I got to work out this blood clot.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I'm curious though, quickly eight five five five nine one.
I think it's happened to all of us.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
But what have you?
Speaker 2 (12:35):
What did Google tell you that you had and you
didn't have it? Because I've anytime I don't feel well
for any reason, like pain in my in my left stomach,
bottom left stomach. That could be anything from you ate coffee,
from a woman who pooped yourself this morning, to you
(12:55):
have pancreatic cancer. Yeah, honestly. And so I'll go to
the doctor and be like, doctor, it's over. Like it's over.
I'll tell him I only have three weeks to live
and he'll be like, okay, we'll tell me more. Why hot, Well,
because I have pancreatic cancer. It's obvious, Well you don't.
You don't like, well, you don't know that, you haven't
(13:16):
investigated it yet, you haven't. Well, I just you don't.
You know, you don't have that, but it will tell you.
So basically, the rule I have with my doctor is
don't do not Google. Do not Google, don't do it.
Come here and I tell me, and I will look,
and I will tell you, and I will I will
look at the you know, we'll take tests or whatever,
and I will tell you if you have pancreatic cancer
or not. The Google will not know. So it's generally
(13:40):
a good idea not to Google, because I think it
for whatever reason, Google it loves to just tell you
that you have the most extreme case of anything that
you type in.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
That's true.
Speaker 7 (13:49):
My doctor actually has a sign in her office that says,
don't confuse your Google search with my doctoral degree.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Oh yeah, that's a little that's a little sassy.
Speaker 7 (13:59):
Yeah, it is like she's sick of us coming in
there with ourselves diagnosis.
Speaker 6 (14:03):
Yeah, Jason and I used to be convinced that he
had lime disease.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I thought I had Oh yeah, that was two days ago.
Speaker 6 (14:10):
We thought that it used to be.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
I mean, like recently we were we were battling line possably.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
I was a survivor. Yeah, wow, wow, I had lime disease.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
It turns out that you don't. Though.
Speaker 5 (14:20):
I don't have lime disease. No, just some just some
bugs in my shirt one day that I thought were ticks.
They gave me lime disease.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Wow.
Speaker 9 (14:27):
Yeah, okay, so it wasn't for the bugs. I don't
think I would have thought lime disease, you know, but
that's how you get lie.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
But when all the signs are there, right, and then
I had joint.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
Pain, yep, it might be a book clucked.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I don't google symptoms like google issues wrong with my
car and I always need a new engine.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
What I mean, that's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
That's what I mean is if you type something in,
Google just loves to tell you the worst possible scenario
of whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
It could be.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Google told me I was pregnant, but you and you
have to happen first. Oh, I see, so you weren't
even there was no you know, shenanigan. There weren't even
to me shenanigans. But somehow you were pregnant. Google said
you were pregnant.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
I get that one though, Like they always test you
at the doctor, and like, even if I know there's.
Speaker 6 (15:11):
Not a possibility, I'm like, well I am I'm pregnant.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
I think.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Yeah, I've thought that a few times myself. Yeah, it's
just it's kind of amazing Alzheimer's because I keep forgetting things.
Speaker 5 (15:22):
Oh same yeah, early on set for sure.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah. Same.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Doctor just wants to make money for consultation. No, I
think doctor wants to accurately diagnose you because Google's not
going to do it. So you, uh, Nina, you google
what your car is doing. You're the one.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah. And every time it's a new engine, huh yes. Wow, man,
how many new engines have you bought?
Speaker 10 (15:47):
I've actually only bought one new engine, but not in
the car that I'm currently driving.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Because I would think once I bought the new engine,
then the problems would no longer be associated with set
engine because it was night you know, so I would
need to buy another one.
Speaker 10 (16:00):
Oh that's exactly what I thought too. So they replaced
the engine on my one car and it worked.
Speaker 8 (16:06):
Sure, the car drove, but.
Speaker 10 (16:07):
It messed up everything else inside my car.
Speaker 12 (16:10):
So I ended up having to get rid of that
car anyways.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Wow, well, and how did the dialogue go that? It
go like, sub's wrong with my car? And Google went, well,
I think you probably need a new engine, and you
were like, damn Google.
Speaker 10 (16:21):
Yeah, And then when I brought it to the shop
it actually was right.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
So well, now hold on a minute, here's the problem.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
And I'm sure this isn't true at mechanic Mike at
the Gay Rise, I'm sure he would never do this.
But let's be honest, there are some unscobul, unscrupulous folks
out there in the world. And if I walked into
it a garage and I said, Google says I need
a new engine, odds, guys.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Are gonna be like, yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, you do. Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
He came in here with new engine on the brain,
and so I sold it to her. You know, that's
why when I when stubs wrong my car, even if
I know what it is, I wait for them to
tell me because at first, I want to see it.
I want to see if I'm right, And second of all,
I want to see like if there's a cheaper fix
but they're giving it.
Speaker 10 (17:03):
Yeah, you know, that's kind of what I did. I
tried to tell him like I didn't tell him I
needed to edge right away. They're the ones who told
me I needed the end. And I was like, oh,
sounds about right because that's what Google said.
Speaker 8 (17:14):
So I just like a lot them do it.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Anyways, Well, thank you, Nina, have a good day too.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
This is a Sebastian Maniscalco bit about not only the garage,
and it's about the body shop, and then it's about
uh and he does a similar bit. I think it's
a different bit, but it's about when people come to
fix your house, and it's the same spiel. You know,
you'll go you'll go to the body shop and you
pull in and like everyone looks at your car like.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Oh my god, how did oh my god.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
And then there's always the one guy that they this
is his bit, and they pulled like the they pulled
the general manager of the office. And then he comes
out and he looks like you just got hit by
a truck. Oh my god, what oh wow, wow, man,
I don't think woo. You know, normally we'd be able
to buff this out, but it's an inch to the
all boy.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
We're going to have to replace old car.
Speaker 7 (18:02):
My favorite ism always being like, I don't know how
you're driving safe on the road like this.
Speaker 6 (18:06):
Yes, I'm just happy you made it here.
Speaker 9 (18:09):
I'm like sometimes people's tires be that ball to where
I'm like, you should not be dry, like you are
a hazard.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
I guess that could be.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
But the workman that comes over and is like, you know,
in thirty years, I've never seen anything like this really,
or the Semashian Maniscalco bit about the guy, and it's like,
you know, if you want this, this wall is crooked,
If you want it to be crooked forever, that's fine.
We'll leave it like this. We can leave it like this.
But if you if you want a crooked wall, that's fine.
And you looking at your wall like well, I don't
want a crooked wall. It looks fine to me, Like, hey, hey,
(18:43):
if you're okay with that, then we'll leave it. You know,
we'll leave it.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
We'll leave.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
And it's so true though, Yes, anyway, I don't know
how we got from lady at Duncan pooping herself to
crooked walls, but we did be careful out there, fam
when it comes to Google examinations. But I don't think
you have a blood cut. I don't But here's the thing.
If you thought you did.
Speaker 7 (19:01):
Now, why would you think not that you winked your eye?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Is it because I don't think you do? Because because
I don't think Google's right. Very often I think I think,
I think it goes to the worst extreme. But if
there's any possibility, why wouldn't you just go to the
doctor and then I'll tell you.
Speaker 7 (19:18):
Yeah, you're just talking crazy? You know how long man,
that's a whole process.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
That is, if your only symptoms are one shooting pain
and a warm leg, I would venture to say that
you're okay, I mean stretch.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Hey, Kim, good morning, how you doing.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
How are you hi, Kim? Google? Are you pregnant currently? No?
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Okay, but you were, and you were googling things all
the time. Do I want to know what you were googling? No?
Speaker 8 (19:45):
It was just like the randomst things like if I
had like a weird pain, I'd be like pain here
and here?
Speaker 5 (19:50):
While pregnant?
Speaker 6 (19:51):
Is this normal?
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Oh no?
Speaker 2 (19:54):
And before long it's like there are seven babies in
there with foreheads. Oh no, not the seven babies with
four heads. It's suation. I mean, it tells you the
worst thing.
Speaker 4 (20:02):
Right, Yeah, and then it's always like, okay, consult your
medical professional.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
And I'm like, they're gonna think I'm wild if I
call them.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Yeah, I'm surprised that the doctors aren't calling up people well,
mainly because they don't listen to us. But if they did,
I think they would be like that. They would tell
you that Google's the worst possible thing, because if everyone
walks you in thinking that it is the worst possible scenario,
and it is usual in my experience, it has never
been what Google said it was ever.
Speaker 13 (20:26):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
So anyway, everything's okay.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Yeah, everything's okay now, but you know the you know,
thinking about it in the past and like, uh this,
I just don't want it to get worse and keep
doing that.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
All right, Well, you stay off there, You stay off
of there, Kim. All right, have a good day, you too,
Love you guys, Thanks for listening.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Love you too. If you have an initial call here,
I'll tell you it's not what you think it is.
I'll tell you.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I'll talk you out the ledge, even though I'm doing
the same thing myself. Hey Karina, Hi, Hi, So what
happened with Google?
Speaker 14 (20:55):
So my friend has a thing with searching every sign
and symptom. Ever, so she would record herself crying at
three am and send it to us after convincing herself
that she's like, oh, I have cancer now, and then
we would have to talk her off.
Speaker 8 (21:10):
The ledge every single time for every new disease that
she has.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Di I think your friend needs to seeks a mental
health treatment because anyone who's taking video of themselves crying
and then sending it to is that necessary? Like can
you just call me crying and then I'll know you're crying?
Like why do I need to mass distribute my drama?
Speaker 14 (21:29):
The visual reference just always helps, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
Yeah, Like I would believe you, Like if you called
me a saidman, I was crying all night because I
think I have cancer from Google told me that, Like
that's good enough. I don't need to see the video
of your crying necessarily true, right, But anyway, she's okay,
though I bet she didn't have it, right.
Speaker 14 (21:45):
No cancer, no cancer. Yeah, because of Google search, she
did diagnose her for your husband with like a weird mole,
so she'd actually caught him.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Okay, well you've just done did everything we did for
the last twenty minutes. Here's that Google was right, So
Karina have a good day. She's like for the last
twenty minutes by Google's never right. Yeah, but then we did.
We were able to discover a very rare mole and
save the man's life. See okay, well, don't listen to us.
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Speaker 1 (23:12):
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Speaker 2 (23:15):
Keeping that a secret because there was a non disclosure
and stuff because I think the guy who actually plays
the bongos, who is sick that day, he don't want
people to know. Hey, Jamie, good morning. I don't know
what the instrument's called, but I play it. You just
hand me one. I just can do it, Jamie. Hi, welcome,
so welcome to stair Goo. Thank you for your note
(23:35):
to us Fredshire Radio on the socials freadshare Radio dot com.
You can get us that way too. You are married, right, yes, okay,
you're married and you recently got into your husband's car
and what happened?
Speaker 8 (23:52):
So I got into my husband's car and I saw
that another woman had connected to his bluetooth.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
No boy, and how did you see that? Because it said, like,
you know, big movie, big movie, Paulina his car phone
or again, I don't know, like what people people name
their phone right, so like sometimes people are funny about it.
But so, how did you know because it said someone's
iPhone or something.
Speaker 8 (24:16):
Yeah, I went to connect my phone so I could
play some music when we were going to the store,
and I saw that Stephanie's iPhone was the one to
last connect to his car.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
Okay, did he loan his car out? I mean, who's Stephanie? Okay,
I don't mean to bury the lead here. Who's Stephanie?
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Do we know?
Speaker 8 (24:37):
I I didn't know until I asked my husband. I
had never heard of a Stephanie. He had never mentioned
a Stephanie, and so when I asked him who Stephanie is,
he immediately told me that it was his coworker, and
he explained that they went one day to go get
lunch and she wanted to play music on the way.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
Okay, I mean, if Kaylin and I left here to
go to breakfast right now, we drove somewhere, that would
not necessarily be an uncommon thing for Kaylin to want
to do. Because Kaylen actually has great music taste and
and she takes over the ox court. I don't have
a problem with it because she has a good job.
Some people take over the ox cord, and I'm like, like,
my bluetooth doesn't I'm not looking at you. I'm just
(25:18):
saying like, there I have friends who I'm like, yeah,
my bluetooth doesn't work, you know, or something so like
the fact. But but Cala and I aren't doing anything
like anymore. I mean we obviously we obviously used to.
But that was everyone's speculation. But but so that wouldn't
be I guess if I were seeing someone they got
in my car and I said, Kaylen's iPhone on my car,
I don't that wouldn't mean anything, right. That would mean
(25:40):
that she was in the car with me and wanted
to control the music. That's what that would mean. But
you're saying you didn't know who this woman was, and
you don't know why she's connecting to the phone and
and and so what else concerns you about this? Or
could the car phone to the car rather?
Speaker 8 (25:58):
I mean, even though he was honest right away, it's
just to me, it's unacceptable behavior to have another woman
in your car if you're married.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
I just don't think that's what.
Speaker 5 (26:10):
Okay, Now wait, whoa wa wa wa?
Speaker 15 (26:12):
Why wasn't he.
Speaker 8 (26:13):
Could have driven herself to lunch. She drove herself to work.
She clearly has a ride, so I don't understand why
she had a ride with my husband.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Do we not care about the planet lunch? We don't
care about the environment? Jamie? I mean, come on, not
really that, Jamie. Not Jamie.
Speaker 5 (26:28):
No, really, like Jamie, don't play.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Your husband is not allowed to have other women in
the car.
Speaker 8 (26:38):
Well, let me have this then, because this was the
other thing that really upset me was that he also
paid for her lunch. So not only did he have
her in his car playing music for him, but then
he went ahead and paid for his lunch.
Speaker 6 (26:51):
Like is this a date?
Speaker 2 (26:52):
Now?
Speaker 1 (26:53):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Well, now that you bring up the music and the
and the lunch, okay, well now now come on.
Speaker 6 (27:00):
Also pay for my lunch. And still nothing's happening.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
I don't think either one of those things speak to anything.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
What are you doing your stretches again? Over there? No,
Kiki go because.
Speaker 7 (27:16):
Sheet Now now we're not gonna just act like Stephane's
feelings aren't valid.
Speaker 5 (27:21):
That's she's right, You're.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Exactly right, Steveny. The coworker is getting free lunch and
control the music. Her feelings are valid. You're exactly right.
Jamie is the wise Jamie. So we're talking to you,
and Jamie is the one saying that this is inappropriate,
and I think that that is crazy talk.
Speaker 7 (27:41):
I think Jamie's feelings are valid though she knows her husband,
and there's a reason she feels this way about him
having another woman in the car.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
Yeah, why do you feel that way? Is there a reason?
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Like because you wrote in your note to us that
you've never suspected this guy of cheating. So again, I
feel like there's a common theme in a lot of
these things we talk about when it comes to cheating
or infidelity, and it's it's trust in context, it's history. Like,
so the guy has a female coworker he goes to
lunch with. You've never suspected him of cheating, Jamie, So
(28:14):
why are we now saying that he is out of nowhere?
That's not fair to him.
Speaker 15 (28:18):
Because it sends the wrong message to his coworker, Like
I don't think he's cheating, but in her mind like, Okay,
you just got a ride with him. He's all letting
you pick some music and buying your lunch. It's just
it's a terrible way to be if you're married, I
feel like it sends the wrong message to her.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
I think I gotta be honest with you, Jamie.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
If I were married or in a relationship and my
wife found out that, I was like, no, you can't
get your bluetooth.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Are you trying to control my radio station out?
Speaker 2 (28:49):
Jamie's been trying to connect your trying to connect your
phone in my radio station. If my wife found out
that I a girlfriend or whomever that I I made
her drive a separate car and then wouldn't pay for
her lunch, all because I was afraid, and all under
the pretense that my wife would be upset. If I
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did any of that, I would think that anyone I
would be with and be like, you're an idiot, Like
that's ridiculous, and I'm not going to get I'm not saying, Jamie,
that you're an idiot or that you're being ridiculous. But
I guess what I'm saying is I don't think that
either one of those things inherently leads to cheating. I mean,
it's not like you found a hotel room key in
(29:31):
the car too, or like you know, condom wrappers or something.
I mean, I'm being serious and whatever your concerns are
can be your concerns. But I don't think those two
things in and of themselves mean that someone is cheating.
Speaker 8 (29:48):
Yeah, I just don't want his coworker, Stephanie to think
that he's interested in her, and I really think this
opens that door for her. I mean, oh, I'll just
take you to lunch and I'll drive you, like it
just seems I wouldn't do that with my coworker.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Did you get mad at him?
Speaker 8 (30:06):
I mean we talked about it and I had to
walk away because I felt like I was getting really
upset about it and it wasn't going to be productive.
So I guess yes, I'm kind of upset.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
With him because I'll tell you what happens then, is
now he's not going to tell you about stuff like
I don't know that he stops going to lunch with
a woman he's not cheating with. Let's just assume he's not,
because you don't suspect him of him infidelity and you
never have, so let's just give him the benefit of
the doubt for a second and say he's not cheating. Now,
he's probably not going to stop going to lunch with
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his teammate, and so now he's not going to tell
you because he doesn't want to fight with you about it.
And I feel like, sometimes, you know, and this is
from the male perspective here, any You're right, I'm not
in a relationship, So maybe I got this all wrong.
But if I'm being respectful and honest and transparent and
I'm not doing anything wrong, and then the person I'm
with tells me now all of a sudden, I can't
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do that thing, then am I gonna stop doing that thing?
I mean, I'm gonna I'm gonna listen to you, and
I'm gonna take into consideration you're needs and concerns. But
if I'm not doing anything wrong and it's a normal activity,
then maybe I keep doing it and just don't tell
you anymore because I don't feel like an argument. And
I think sometimes that's what happens when we get upset
about things that might not be sinister. Is that then
(31:20):
we want to know why there's not more transparency in relationships.
But it's because you're sort of penalizing the guy for
not necessarily doing anything wrong.
Speaker 8 (31:30):
Yeah, but it's not like he just straight up told
me you went to lunch with that girl. I had
to find out because of her phone being logged.
Speaker 15 (31:36):
Into his car.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
That's a good point.
Speaker 8 (31:38):
You know. If he would have been like, hey, I
went out to lunch with Stephanie today, or hey, I'm
going out to lunch with my coworker, it would be
different than me having to find out.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
So you want him to tell you every time he
does something with another woman, Yeah, so that.
Speaker 8 (31:54):
We can have a conversation, because I would have told
him this is unacceptable to do before he did it,
and then this wouldn't be a problem one.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Maybe that's a man.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
Maybe that's why he didn't tell you. And again, Jamie,
I'm not coming down on you, but like I get it.
You that's a fair that's a fair request. Have you
made that request before? Have you said to him, Hey,
if you're going to hang out with any women that
aren't me, I need to know about it. Have you
said that to him?
Speaker 1 (32:16):
Well?
Speaker 2 (32:16):
No, I know because by the way, I know we're
all laughing because in fairness, that sounds kind of ridiculous
to say out loud. But if he if you said that,
here are my concerns, and that he didn't, you know,
he wasn't receptive to communication. That's one thing but I
would imagine you've never said that to him, right, I mean.
Speaker 8 (32:35):
We had conversations about going and hanging out with women
outside of work, but we never talked about co workers.
I guess I should have included that because I wasn't
comfortable with him going out with like his little girlfriends
when we first got together, because some of them were
kind of into him at scenes. So like we had
that conversation of how I wasn't comfortable with him going
out with them alone. But I didn't think I needed
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to worry about coworkers. I thought he'd be professional at work.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Yeah, I h yeah, I don't know, Jamie. Let me
take some phone calls on it.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
I've said enough on the topic, but eight five five
five three five, Jamie, thank you for the call, And
I honestly no judgment here.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
I wish you the best.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
I'd be careful maybe with some of this, because it's
like it seems a little controlling, and it seems a
little bit like you're giving this guy, you're penalizing him,
when in fact he may have done nothing wrong. I
mean again, like if I go out with people from work,
or I go out with clients, or I go out
with you know whomever, and they're female, and I don't
(33:34):
run that by you before I go out with you.
That doesn't mean I'm cheating. It means I'm doing my job.
It means i'm It means I'm being a good teammate.
It means I'm bonding with the people I work with
every day and spend a lot of time with. I
don't think that inherently means that there's infidelity. But let
me take some calls and we'll see it. Maybe people
think I'm dead as wrong. Thank you, Jamie, have a
good day.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Thank you you as well.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
Yeah, all right, she's gone nowt what do we really
think she's been hurt before?
Speaker 5 (33:59):
And I think she needs to therapy and I think
she needs to work through stuff.
Speaker 9 (34:02):
Oh, because it just sounds like if you have that
heart of a you know, opinion about your partner hanging
out with people. Like every time another man gets in
my car, I have to let my boyfriend know, Oh
there's a man entering my car. You better like that's crazy, Like,
I'm sorry, that's a little over the line.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
I think it's just yeah, like what there's a common
theme in all of these and it's trust. Like if
you don't trust him, even though you said, she said herself,
I've never believed that he was cheating on me. I
have no reason to believe that he's cheating. Well, then
we got to have trust because this is a slippery slope.
Now he's not gonna tell you about Stephanie, and before
long you're gonna start finding things now that he's not
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telling you because he doesn't want to get yelled at
and or penalized. He's not doing anything wrong, so he's
protecting himself and he's protecting a relationship from unnecessary arguments.
But then you're gonna accuse him of lying or omission,
and then it's going to lead to you believing that
he's hiding something. But he's not really hiding anything. He
just doesn't want to fight.
Speaker 6 (35:00):
That's true. It's such a trust thing because in my
past relationships.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
I would have felt that way, but like now, I mean,
just the other day, my boyfriend needed a plus one
for some dinner and he couldn't find someone and I
couldn't go, and I literally was like, oh, just take
one of my friends. Like that's how trusting I feel now.
So I think that's a good point. Yeah, Michelle, Hi, Hi, Hey,
good morning. What do you think there? Go?
Speaker 1 (35:24):
I think go.
Speaker 13 (35:26):
I think that if Stephanie is such a good friend
of the husband, then why did she not know about
Stephanie Pryor too? And I'm going to lunch.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 13 (35:36):
My friends at work. My husband knows about them, so
it wouldn't be a surprise if he found out we
was out to lunch. I think that when you don't
communicate cane to day's stuff with your partner, it can
look like you're hiding stuff, to which you probably are.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
Now that's the jump, Michelle.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Michelle, I'm work in corporate, so let me ask.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
You anything like this, Like when I got up this,
I got plans. You know, I'm traveling today, but like
I don't know. Yesterday, I got up, I came to
work and we did our show. And then it's not
uncommon for us to be like, hey, you want to
grab lunch or go to go to breakfast, or hey
let's go do that whatever, hey whatever, And there's no forethought,
no planning, nothing, And people keep saying on the text
(36:19):
that the radio show example is not fair because we're
all close in friends in the back. But that's that's
that's no everywhere. That's no different than people people listening
have exposure to our relationship. But the fact is, there
are any business out there, there are friendships that exist
between men and women in the office that are not
crossing the line. And and maybe I didn't know, Michelle,
that I was going to go to breakfast, so I
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did not tell you because I didn't want you to know.
I didn't tell you because I didn't know.
Speaker 13 (36:45):
I understand that. But I think that the wife should
have already known that her husband is good friends with
a coworker named Stephanie, so that it doesn't seem on
warranton for them to be going out to lunch.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Yeah, I'm fair.
Speaker 13 (37:00):
Such if I'm such good friends with a man that
my core friend job, my huntsband knows about them and
knows their name because I'm talking about them and telling
them about what we do at work and different things.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
Like that, that's fair. That's fair. Thank you so much, Michelle.
Have a good day. I'm glad you called you too.
Speaker 13 (37:17):
Love you guys, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
Love you too. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
My whole thing when we get into this kind of
topic is I just don't want people to feed into
a narrative that wasn't there before that then leads to
a whole bunch of other issues, when really the issue
is that you're not trusting for some reason, and let's
talk about that, like, let's talk about why you don't
trust for whatever reason. We don't have to talk about
Stephanie or anything else, because I will say, the more
that you start to control someone's behavior or criticize benign behavior,
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then the more it starts to feed into this narrative
that something's going on. Because again, if I'm not doing
anything wrong and you're telling me I'm doing something wrong,
and now you're limiting my ability to make friendships at work,
then I'm going to stop telling you because I don't
want to fight with you when I'm not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (37:59):
That's not right now.
Speaker 7 (37:59):
But I think the issue here is being surprised. Right,
So we communicate every day when we go home, Hey,
how was your day?
Speaker 5 (38:06):
What'd you do?
Speaker 7 (38:07):
That would be something that you would bring up in
a conversation. I shouldn't get in your car and connect
my bluetooth and see Stephanie.
Speaker 5 (38:13):
Who is Stephanie?
Speaker 7 (38:14):
Because now now I got all kinds of things going
on in my mind, not that you've done anything wrong,
but you just didn't communicate that with me, And I'm like,
why why wasn't this communicated? Why you know, you didn't
think that was something to bring up.
Speaker 6 (38:25):
So that's all it is. It's not the being in
the car or the paying for lunch.
Speaker 7 (38:28):
It's just because I go out with my male friends
all the time and you know, we go to lunch
or whatever. But surprising. I just don't like being surprised
or left out. Who is Stephanie?
Speaker 8 (38:38):
You know what?
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Understanding I understand, like why do iant to know who
this person is? That's fair.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
But I also think that maybe when I if that happened,
and I have a good explanation and I tell you
who Stephanie is and why, then that's the end of it,
because again, if you don't have any reason to doubt me.
The worst thing in the world is when you're not
doing anything wrong and someone's telling you you're doing something wrong.
Speaker 1 (39:02):
That's terrible in a relationship. Hey, Maya, how you doing,
good morning.
Speaker 12 (39:06):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (39:07):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (39:07):
What do you think Sara?
Speaker 2 (39:08):
By the way, that the woman who called Jamie was
upset because she got in her husband's car. A woman
her phone was connected to the bluetooth or had been
connected to the bluetooth, and when she asked her husband,
it was, oh, that's my coworker.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
We went to lunch.
Speaker 2 (39:20):
I bought her lunch, and she connected her phone in
my car to listen to a song. And now Jamie's
saying that all of that was out of bounds.
Speaker 1 (39:26):
What do you think.
Speaker 12 (39:28):
I'm going to have to side with wife? It's wrong
what he did. I'm sorry. I'm not saying he necessarily
is cheating, but it's if you're married, you have no
business going to lunch with a woman coworker.
Speaker 5 (39:41):
You just don't want to do it.
Speaker 12 (39:44):
Yeah, I'm sorry. It's just it's a respect thing. You
should respect your wife. And the way that she found out.
I mean, if he came home and said, hey, I
went out to lunch you know with my female co worker,
that's different. But the way that she found out, I
think it's just it's not it's I just respectful.
Speaker 6 (40:01):
What if it slipped his mind?
Speaker 1 (40:02):
Like is that possible? Because there's nothing to it, right,
I mean, how.
Speaker 12 (40:07):
Does it suit your mind?
Speaker 2 (40:08):
Though?
Speaker 12 (40:08):
How is your day, honey? Oh I went to lunch
with my coworker.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
Oh, I mean, I don't know if it's benign, you
don't think about it.
Speaker 7 (40:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 12 (40:17):
I just I don't think.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
It just makes me. It makes me sad, Maya.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
It does make me a little sad that that's and
you're allowed to have whatever boundaries you want and establish them.
And by the way, if you communicate that, which she
admits she never did. She never said you can't go
to lunch with I'm uncomfortable with you having lunch one
on one with female coworkers. If you have gone to
your husband, Maya, and said, hey, this is what I
need from you, and he agrees to it, and then
he does it anyway, that's the thing, I guess if
(40:41):
you both agree to it. But like, wouldn't you agree
that it kind of sucks that if you have a
husband that he's out there not able to make the
same kind of friendships and the same I have the
same kind of bonding experience with his coworkers because his wife.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Says, no, you know what, we live in a different world.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Now.
Speaker 12 (40:58):
It's sad, it really is, But I just I find
it to be a little bit disrespectful, just okay, that
she found out I feel if he came home and
told her, I feel she would feel differently about it,
do you know what I mean? But the way that
she found out, that's.
Speaker 2 (41:13):
What, okay, all right, fair enough, fair enough, There could
be more communication, and then that that that also takes
away from this sort of obscurity of it.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
Yeah, I got it. Thank you, Maya. I have a
good day.
Speaker 13 (41:23):
We can't thank you.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
I'm glad you called. I guess I'm team being a
relationship and team. I'm there because I trust the person
and team. I'm not going to ride ride them and
make rules for them that they can then walk them
walk into traps all the time for doing things that
are normal.
Speaker 6 (41:35):
Yeah, but team communicate as well, that's all.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
So if Hobby had lunch with a female firefighter is yeah,
and didn't and didn't necessarily announce to you that he
was doing it ahead of time, that.
Speaker 1 (41:45):
Would bother me.
Speaker 16 (41:45):
Just tell you because we communicate with him, and I
have a relationship where we've established communication.
Speaker 6 (41:50):
I'll say, oh, I'm going to lunch with Fred and
Jason whatever. I'll tell him because it's just how we talk.
Speaker 16 (41:55):
Maybe that's the thing when every marriage is the same, really,
Caya made a point we might have forgot. Maybe we
don't go home in debrief right and have like a
whole meeting of how your day was, me and my husband,
my husband.
Speaker 2 (42:04):
And I, we have that.
Speaker 16 (42:06):
I think it's important to communicate, especially because that's kind
of how we've built our relationship.
Speaker 5 (42:09):
It's always been very open communicator.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is jam Sarah, Hi, good morning,
good morning. How are you I doing well? So you
take the other side. You're saying stay, I'm saying stay.
Speaker 13 (42:22):
I don't think this is something that you get rid
of your husband for.
Speaker 8 (42:27):
But I do think that if this.
Speaker 13 (42:30):
Is an issue that she has, she just needs to
be honest.
Speaker 8 (42:33):
And.
Speaker 15 (42:35):
It's what we do for each other.
Speaker 13 (42:36):
We have to take in how.
Speaker 8 (42:38):
Other people feel and know that it's something that bothers
her and maybe something that he just has to do
to make her comfortable. Okay, I don't think it's something
I don't think it's something we we get rid of
our smiuse.
Speaker 1 (42:52):
For Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, Thank you, Stephanie.
I have a good day.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
Like I'll be honest with you. Like my someone just texted,
what happened to being a gentleman? Well, my mom taught
me that, you know, basically, it's a nice thing to
do as and again just gets into don't don't at
me for gender roles and all this stuff. But I
was raised if I take you guys to lunch, that
I should, I should make the move to pay for it.
And I'm not doing anything with any of you. It's
(43:18):
just a nice thing to do, right like, and I
like doing it. And so whether there's a sexual relationship
or not, if I go to lunch with a friend
of mine who's a female, I buy lunch. And if
that's objectionable to somebody, fine, and I would I would
do it if I were married, I would still buy
you guys lunch or dinner if we went out, because
I think it's a nice thing to do and it
was what I was taught and it has nothing to
do with sex.
Speaker 1 (43:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:39):
I think that's the problem is immediately when it comes
to men and women and gestures, we immediately jump to sex.
Speaker 1 (43:47):
Why because y'all nasty
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