July 21, 2025 • 24 mins
Kaelin and her boyfriend have completely different ideas on how to give a bride and groom their wedding gift. Plus, listen to an all new Keke's Court that involves ChatGPT and cheating!
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Speaker 4 (01:12):
So I feel like all I've been doing lately, and by.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Lately, I mean like the last five to seven years,
is going to weddings. I go to a lot of weddings.
It's kind of my second job. And you know, we've
seen the changes and the trends evolve. We've talked about
on the show. You know, do you give a cash gift?
Do you still stick with the registry?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
You know?
Speaker 4 (01:32):
And I think think things have evolved.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So one trend I have noticed is that not a
lot of people, some people still do will bring their
cards to the actual wedding. Typically they'll mail it before
or afterwards, which I feel like is nice, especially if it's.
Speaker 5 (01:47):
Out of town.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
You don't have to lug that whole box home.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
But I know, you know, for the Nanas and the Aunties,
they still want to bring their card and put it
in a box. Well, I prefer to send it later,
but I do like to get a good card, write
something in there and give a little cash.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
I will always give cash for a wedding.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
My boyfriend always wants to send the cash via Venmo
or Zelle. And I think we're getting a little too lax,
a little too informal. I don't know what you guys think,
but I know some people are doing this. It just
makes me feel a little icky to just like send
you some cash, you know, for your wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, because I send people money like when they when
they like buy me breakfast, right, you know I don't Yeah, yeah,
I think it's still at a little informal. It's like,
oh here, here's some money. It was like it's like
throwing money at someone. Oh yeah, here's money here whatever,
and it takes two seconds and there's no real effort involved.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Yeah. I don't think we're there yet for weddings.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
No, I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Now, there were people in between the at the wedding
I was at last and between the church and the
party that were running to buy their cards and stuff.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Then I'm like, you don't need to just mail it after.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
As long as you do it, because trust me, we
all know people will remember if you don't do it.
Everyone remembers the people who didn't give gifts. Right or wrong,
everybody remembers the people who didn't give gifts.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I've noticed that I haven't really noticed that.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
And for friends that I've heard talk crap about like
wedding gifts situations, I'll give them a little more because
I very much don't want to be talking no.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Met it, And well, I don't think that we should
have to give based on what we think it are.
Like I've heard We've been over this a million times,
but I've heard the thing where it's like, you should
give the amount of money that you think it cost
for you and your guests to attend. Now, I'll give
you whatever because I might, I might want to give
you more than I think your wedding cost.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
It's not my job to pay for myself at your wedding.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
No, no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I do think people will judge you based on what
they've done for you in the past.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Like my mom is like this.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
My mom my mom is given to cousins graduations and
friends kids graduations, and she remembers who gave to us,
and she met my grandma, my nana was really about
this and then she remembers who thanked her and who didn't. Oh,
that's a big one. The thank you is a big
one from my mom. If she sends you something and
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you don't say thank you in any form, she doesn't
like that. Even if it's just I don't know, you
were supposed to send a gift because it was a graduation,
you were supposed to send a gift because it was
a wedding. She wants to thank you, and she'll remember
if you didn't do it. So these are all the
things I think people consider. But I don't know that
a zel. You can't just zell. I can just zell
you fifty bucks at your birthday and go here.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I don't love it. And well, by the way, I
do always give more if I have a date with me,
regardless you. I don't think you should pay for plates you.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Give on behalf of because there were two of you. Yeah, yeah, no,
I think that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Pete, would you be You're the only married person in
the room. Would you be offended if someone zell do you?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
No?
Speaker 5 (04:46):
I've had people do that. Really.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
A family friend actually did because she lives in Florida
and she could have go to my veigas wedding. I
totally understand. So she zelled me and I thought that
was really sweet. Oh I don't care, but I also
I get the feeling I wouldn't do it personally, I'm
not very Yeah, but I think in the next twenty
maybe thirty years, I think that's going to be the
new trend because millennials don't have checks, Like we just
don't have that.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
We're Shelley.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
But you know, I just I know it's hard, and
I usually give cash, so I hand it to the
person like directly if I see them after or whatever.
But I don't know if I'm here this guess what's
in the line, like congrats and the rest of your life.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
That's a good question, because you're right. I mean, I
guess I have I have to dig for my checks. Yeah,
you'll find them because I have so rarely use them. Yeah,
I don't put money in the envelope because I think
it's lost and that's gone. But yeah, I don't know
what you do because you're right. I mean, everyone, that
is really how it's going. But at the same time,
it's just so impersonal. It's like you could send a
card and then wait a few days and then Zell
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and hope the card and the Zell land at the
same time.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
But like, I don't know.
Speaker 7 (05:48):
That's what you say, like, hey, do you get Myzell?
Like you know what I mean, Like you feel silly.
But I can also argue right and say that some
people do like an online account or a wedding whatever.
It's called honeymoon fund, and some people will give their
gift that way.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Is none of the same almost almost kind of you're saying,
that's how I want you to give it, Like yeah,
you know, yeah, that's a nice thing to do.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Though.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I think that's a nice thing to do if you're
having a wedding, is have some form of like digital
way that I can do it, because that way I'm
doing the efficient thing. But then I don't feel like
it's informal because you're saying do it this way.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I agree.
Speaker 8 (06:23):
Yeah, it's also tacky to like put your your cash
app code on the invite or something.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
I mean, yeah, people do that now.
Speaker 8 (06:31):
They'll put like happy birthday to me, and then they'll
put their cash app in a.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
Corner like that's a tag.
Speaker 8 (06:37):
Yeah, No, I don't know, but actually I don't care
how you give me the money. Okay, cash app means it,
put it in my hand.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
It just seems like I know how fast I'm gonna
give some money.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Oh my god, I get on my app boom boom
boom here So I don't know, here's two hundred bucks whatever.
It just seems so sort of like an afterthought, you
know what I mean. But I guess it's better than nothing.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:59):
What do you guys do with the cards? After Paullem?
Do you used to have your wedding cards?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I do.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
I'm such a like little dork.
Speaker 7 (07:05):
I keep all my cards Birthday, I mean, I add
communion cards for my Baptists. I have it all at Okay, Yeah,
I like to look at that stuff later, So be classy.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Get a car from the Dallas store. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Cards are expensive too, I got to that.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Yeah, ninety nine cents.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
Yeah yeah that was the value area.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Last card I bought was seven dollars.
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Speaker 1 (08:07):
It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
All rise, the Honorable Kiki League out at the best.
Shout Judge, Kiki. All right, what's say you?
Speaker 8 (08:17):
Let's get into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit,
it says Kiki. Am I wrong for not sharing my
ring camera footage with my neighbor because chat GPT told
her that her husband is cheating. My neighbor, who I
am not friends with but seeing passing from time to time,
came to my door last week in tears asking if
she could look at my ring camera footage. When I
(08:38):
asked her why, she said that chat GPT told her
that her husband is cheating. I tried my hardest not
to laugh in her face, but.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
She was so serious.
Speaker 8 (08:48):
She said that she believed that her husband may be
sneaking a woman into their house while she's at work.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
I told her I didn't feel.
Speaker 8 (08:54):
Comfortable getting involved in a marriage situation and I didn't
want to be a part of a potential legal drama
or domestic issues, and I politely declined. She begged, saying
I could save her months of doubt and pain, and
I still said no. Now she's furious with me, calling
me selfish, heartless, and saying that women like me enable
men like him. After she left, I did feel bad,
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so I went back to review the footage, and sure enough,
her husband was on my camera in four K taking
a younger looking woman into their home.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Boy.
Speaker 8 (09:26):
I know I went against girl cold, but I still
feel like I made the right decision.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Wow? Wow? Yeah? Wow, Kiki? What do you judge? Kiki?
What you're ruling?
Speaker 5 (09:39):
You know how I feel about this girl.
Speaker 8 (09:42):
I've seen lifetime movies on stuff like this, you know,
and hey, I'm not gonna get involved in that. And
then he chopped you up and come chop me up
because the camera footage came from my angle. I don't
want to be.
Speaker 5 (09:52):
A part of this.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
This is what you gotta do.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Yeah, I'm not giving up my footage.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
No, you gotta get a wildlife camera. That's what you
because here's the thing. If you get like a like
a ring camera, then your husband's gonna know that you
did that. Oka Like if you put cameras, there's a
good chance. Now, wildlife camera, this is where they put
out like in the forest so they can see like
migration hunters can see like migration patterns of animals. You
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stick that in the tree. It's camouflage, it blends in
and it's motion activated. Now that's how you find out.
You set up your own surveillance. Do not rely on
the people to get involved in your drama. I agree
with you. I'm sorry, but I don't want any part
of this. All you gotta do is out this guy
and before long he shows up with a shotgun at
your front door, and you've got a problem.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
I've seen the movies.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
I have too.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Can take let NBC episodes have started and ended this way.
Speaker 8 (10:44):
Yes, if you think your man is cheating while you're
at work. Here's what you do, girl, Go to work
or act like you're going to work. Spind the block,
come back around the time you think that he's cheating. Boom,
it's all there.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
I think you're on your own to come up with
your own evidence and your own proof.
Speaker 8 (10:59):
Like you can't say I enable men and I'm the problem. No,
your husband is the problem.
Speaker 5 (11:04):
You know around.
Speaker 8 (11:05):
I would not give up this footach it can give
it really messy for you. I can understand if we
were friends, you know, if I had some type of
investment in y'all relationship. But I don't know you, girl.
You're just a neighbor across the street. That's not go
at somebody else.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Someone just Cli'm assuming it's me that someone just called
me a deal hole.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
I heard, sorry about that.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Yeah, get off your phone.
Speaker 8 (11:29):
I think they're talking to the listener that wrote in
oh because she said, yes, you're wrong, you're a deal.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Well, you're wrong, you're wrong not to give it to someone.
Speaker 8 (11:39):
I guess I agree. Okay, Caitlyn, let me let me
hear it now.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Thank you. We're back. A trail cams is what they're
called cas.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
Okay, not a lot of wildlife.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I think it's the same. Everyone knew what I was
talking about. Everybody knows them. Just go to mass Pro
shop whatever and get you one of them. It blends
right in with the tree.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
Have you done this before?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
It's not I don't have a lot of trees in
my building that I can blend it into too. You know,
I'm just saying, come up with your own method. If
you just, first of all, GPT thinks you're cheating, what
does that even mean?
Speaker 8 (12:12):
I don't know what in there that Jack told her that, yes,
you're out the sign, do not involve me in your drama.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
But caln you say you say that?
Speaker 5 (12:22):
What I say that?
Speaker 3 (12:24):
If a woman who is distraught shows up at my
front door and wants to see my cameras, I'm going
to let her see my cameras. I could not to
someone's face say no, sorry, can't help you, even though
I might have the answer.
Speaker 4 (12:38):
Sorry, go off on your.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Own, invite her inside. We're gonna have a nice.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Open some wine. No, you're doing wine because yeah, maybe
I don't know. We need we need to.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Drink for this one, honey, because he's cheating and already knew.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
But what if he comes back with the knife.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Then I I know that I can sleep because I
did the right thing. Like I'm not I I hold
myself to a certain standard, and I would not be
able to look in the mirror if I didn't help
a cheating a woman with her husband cheating.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
We don't, we don't. We don't know until we knew,
Like we don't know for a fact. We had to
go look, and we had to go dig up the footage.
We had to go do all this stuff. It wasn't
like we knowingly said I'm he's cheating with me, or
I'm personally involved and I'm not gonna tell you.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
I think the problem with our world today is that
everyone is extremely selfish and don't want to get involved
in things. And I think that we need to go
back to helping each other and being there for each other.
Speaker 8 (13:28):
I don't know, just my my opinion, because if it
was me, I would want you to help me.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
But if it was me, I know.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
I think we want a reactive world where people do
stupid things as opposed to being accountable for their own behay.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Fear you cannot not do something that's good because you're
scared of the outcome. I would I would never walk
outside downtown if I lived in fear.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
You know what I mean? Like, you have to live
your life, be a good person.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
It's my time, it's my time. Yeah, that's where you
and I did.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
I don't know that I'm a bad person for not
one to get involved in your drama.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I don't think that makes it. I don't think that.
But you just said to be a good person. If
you don't implying.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
It, if you define be a good person, I'm not
calling you a bad person. I'm just saying we have
our own moral coach.
Speaker 9 (14:11):
Call me.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Well, yeah, it's very upsetting. Sorry sometime. Hey Jack, what's
up Jack?
Speaker 7 (14:18):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Hey Jack?
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Okay, so you heard Kieky's court Here, Basically, a woman
thinks that her husband's cheating, asked chechipt chatch ept's infinite
wisdom was to basically go ask her neighbor if she
has any video proof of it. I guess I don't know,
And turns out she doesn't want to be involved, but
she did go look and it does look that way.
It does appear the dude is cheating. What do you
think she should do?
Speaker 10 (14:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (14:43):
I I'm back and forth. But if it was me.
I don't know. I originally said to stay out of it,
but I'm honestly going back and forth. What I said
earlier was what I told Bella was I thought this
thing online where somebody ordered the person who thought they
were being cheated on ordered uber or door Dash, and
they in the notes told the person to keep the food,
but just drive by the house and say if there
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was a certain kind of car there, and that's how
they find out if it was really going on or not.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Maybe the neighbor can tiper off or something, but I
don't providing footage how you're getting involved and then I
don't know. It makes me so uncomfortable. Someone texted, this
is how you wind up on first forty eight. It's true.
I've seen it. I'm serious, Jack, Thank you, have a
good day. Thank you to cause you gotta remember people
who cheat are not accountable people, so they're not gonna
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go oh, neighbor caught me.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
G yep, you got me. You know what.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I'm so sorry. I'm a bad person. I'm wrong. They're
gonna spend it. They're gonna make you out to be
a bad person. They're gonna drag you into it. They're
gonna do all kinds of things we're expecting everyone's going
to behave appropriately and they're not because people don't. You
guys are the jury eight five five five five Cam, Hi, Hi, Cam.
You say tell the neighbor.
Speaker 11 (16:02):
Yeah, I say what you say about how it could
like definitely be a scary situation.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
But I feel like that's like you actually like send
it to her with the angles, you know.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
But I'm kind of like, I'm kind of like I'm
a married woman. If I if.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
I was in that situation, I would want somebody to
help me out.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Hmm.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to think of a way that
you could do it and have your hands clean on it.
Because I agree if I know someone's being cheated on
and they asked me to confirm it and I know it,
and I don't say anything that would make me feel bad,
but I also think I would be justified and not
wanting to be involved in a situation that could be
potentially problematic for.
Speaker 8 (16:43):
Me, because what if they work it out, like we've
always said, you know, then now they joined forces and
I'm the nosy neighbor that was medaling.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Or you know, Yeah, it's my neighbor too. It's not
like it's it's not like it's a stranger. I mean,
this is somebody crossed the street from my house. Like
they they could do a lot of things.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
Well with that logic, the wife could do something to
you for not helping her.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
If we're you know, I mean, everybody gonnakill me. You
know what she needs.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You. But I guess what I'm saying is if you
and Kim, thank you so much, have a good damn
glad you call.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
What I'm saying is why is it Why is the
neighbor's responsibility to be involved in this thing? If you
think your husbands cheating, then you figure out how to
catch him, right you in chat GPT, like why why
you gotta dragged me into that?
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I set up your own camera, But.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
You know I do. I see what Kayln is saying,
like you want somebody to help us.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
But it's like, girl, like I've been cheated on and
I mean to you know, so like I know how
bad that hurts.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
And another thing, sometimes you don't need confirmation.
Speaker 8 (17:43):
If chat GPT told you and you're it's your woman's
it's a wish and told you that he was girl.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
He's cheating. You don't need my footage, go ahead and divorce,
and you already know, you already know. That's how I
would talk to her.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
I'm maybe if I saw it, like if I were
looking at my ring camera and I saw like a pattern,
maybe I'd say, maybe I'd put a little note on
her thing and be like, I don't know, maybe maybe
Wednesday's around one o'clock, you should stop by your house.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
There's gotta be a way that I can help without
implicating myself because I don't trust anybody.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Hey, Melissa, this happened to you.
Speaker 5 (18:18):
Uh oh yeah.
Speaker 11 (18:19):
So I had a neighbor reached out on Facebook and
she asked if I could check my ring cameras because
she knew I had them set up. And it was
months later and I went back months to go find
that footage and my husband was like, yeah, I actually
saw a couple of cars pull into the driveway. She
was in the hospital at the time, and she reached
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out to me and we were like, yeah, he was
having cars coming and out of the driveway.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
At Dirty Dog.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
She's in the hospital.
Speaker 11 (18:51):
Yes, she was in the hospital, and it was very
sad because but we we kind of.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Played it like I think it was his family.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
Also, you covered for him, we.
Speaker 10 (19:03):
Did a little bit.
Speaker 11 (19:05):
I was like, I don't know, there was this black car,
there was a white one.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
I mean, I see both sides of this, I really do.
But I'm also not trying to die. So thank you, Melissa,
have a good day.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
You too. Bye.
Speaker 8 (19:20):
That husband needs to pay them some you know, they
kept them right right right, they did above and beyond
for him.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Yeah, or or you could we've had this kind of
conversation before. You could go to the husband and be like, look, oh,
hombrol asked me for some information. I didn't give it
to her, but I went and looked, and I think,
I don't know what you're up to, but you need
you need to fix it. I don't want anything to
do with this, but I'm just telling you right now,
she's asking questions. She wants me to get involved. I
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don't want to be involved. Handle your business, or I'm
turning this stuff over. You could do something now that's
more confrontational, right, But I mean, at least at least
it's like you're on You're sort of on both sides here,
like you're being fair, Like she asked for the information,
you have the information, you go to the person response
on me, I don't know what you're doing, but you
need to have an explanation for what I saw.
Speaker 8 (20:10):
But then you see you mess around and have both
of them at your door. Yeah, he's trying to get
the footage from you.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
She wants this is like, oh, this is something mess
and you could say, like turn the footage over anonymously,
but they're gonna know where it came from, what.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Direction, right exactly? I mean that's a camera, right, and
you know.
Speaker 8 (20:29):
I would just burn my ring camera, like just burned
the whole house down. Actually, this is too stressful as
the neighbor.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
I mean, if here's the thing, if it were a crime,
I would absolutely turn my ring camera footage over, right,
But this is this isn't a crime.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
This is a moral indiscretion.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
Haven't you read the Bible?
Speaker 1 (20:46):
No?
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Hey, Laura, as a matter of fact, I have it, Laura, Hi,
it's been a minute. I mean you know I haven't yea.
What do you think here Kiki's cord?
Speaker 10 (20:58):
Yeah, I totally agree with Caitlin. I think that she
has to help her neighbor. I also think she could
just say, here's the footage, and you know what, if
the guy and the lady want to kill her, then
you know what, you shouldn't have been cheating, or you
shouldn't have been cheating at your house.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 10 (21:18):
You kind of set yourself up for that.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
Yeah, yeah, thank you, Laura. Have a good day you too.
Speaker 5 (21:23):
That's a good neighbor.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Okay, But okay, what about this?
Speaker 2 (21:26):
And we were talking about somebody that affected this earlier,
but like we've talked about on the show before too.
But okay, so you have footage of a girl going
to the house with a guy, so you give it
to her. She watches that, and they watch it together
and it's oh, no, that's actually his niece or that's
my whatever. It turns out that it was It wasn't
in fact nefarious, that there was an explanation.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Now he knows that you're a snitch.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Yes, so let's say he's not actually doing anything, but
he knows what you're capable of, which is you're willing
to get involved in my business.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
So now he doesn't like you. You have a problem
trying to here.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
There's a lot of ways this winds up in your
face for doing the right thing.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Sure, are you a snitch? If you're you're getting someone
intel for cheating, that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
But if they're But if he's not cheating, well then.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
He's like okay, good, I'll continue if not cheat.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
If he has a good explanation. But then but then
I would be like, what is she getting involved in
this for?
Speaker 1 (22:18):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Like, if it turned out that I wasn't doing anything wrong,
what did you get this? And she'd be like, well,
I went to the neighbor and the neighbor's in on
this with me. Great, So now the neighbor thinks I'm
a cheater and she's willing to turn over footage of
everything I do.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Cool, but now everyone knows you're not. And I'd be like, good,
that's a good friend.
Speaker 5 (22:34):
I'm not cheating.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
No, I think you'd be totally annoyed. You'd be annoyed
that you were being spied on. You'd be annoyed that
this person doesn't I don't know. I can see this
being a problem no matter how it turns out true,
that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Hey Jasmine, Hi, Hey, how you doing. I'm good. How
are you guys doing well? Keiki's Court. What say you?
Speaker 5 (22:54):
So?
Speaker 6 (22:55):
I actually feel like, you know, I've been in that situation.
I've been cheated on, and I and go looking around,
you know, asking people for footage or anything like that.
But if someone's asking you, it's better to help them out.
Because in my situation, it was actually the friend of
the girl that was cheating on me with thinking that
she was doing me a favor. I don't think she
was doing me a favor, but she sent me a picture,
(23:17):
she sent me, you know, everything that the girl had.
I don't know why the girl didn't reach out to me,
but it's always better to help out the woman because
she's asking you for it than having her find out
from someone else that's you know, not coming from a
good place.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. You guys been thank you
have a good day. There's a lot. There's a lot
on the show today.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
I don't know about it. I don't know about the
waiting by the phone. I don't know about this Richard.
I don't know. I don't know what what say you?
That's to me, it's just Devil's advocate. I'm just playing
that side of it.
Speaker 9 (23:49):
Is that could be his sister that as she saw
it was some young woman going into the house with him.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
His sister is the niece. I mean, there could be anybody.
Speaker 8 (24:03):
His hairstylice, mistress.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
But why is that, Richard?
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Why is it on the neighbor to solve the If
you think you're being cheated on, then you catch the guy, Like,
why do I have to get in that? She should
not give up any footage because it is none of
her business. I would be like, I'm so sorry this
is happening to you. I don't want to be involved.
This isn't fair. I'm your neighbor. I don't want to
be involved. This is my home. I can't just move,
(24:33):
you know what I mean. So so if this goes wrong,
this is a big problem. Here are some things I
might do if I were you trail camera camera girl, yeah,
or something like that.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Hey, Richard, thank you, have a good day. I love you. Guys, Yeah,
I love you. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
That's it's an unfair position to put someone in, to
put someone else in
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Speaker 4 (01:12):
So I feel like all I've been doing lately, and by.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Lately, I mean like the last five to seven years,
is going to weddings. I go to a lot of weddings.
It's kind of my second job. And you know, we've
seen the changes and the trends evolve. We've talked about
on the show. You know, do you give a cash gift?
Do you still stick with the registry?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
You know?
Speaker 4 (01:32):
And I think think things have evolved.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So one trend I have noticed is that not a
lot of people, some people still do will bring their
cards to the actual wedding. Typically they'll mail it before
or afterwards, which I feel like is nice, especially if it's.
Speaker 5 (01:47):
Out of town.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
You don't have to lug that whole box home.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
But I know, you know, for the Nanas and the Aunties,
they still want to bring their card and put it
in a box. Well, I prefer to send it later,
but I do like to get a good card, write
something in there and give a little cash.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
I will always give cash for a wedding.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
My boyfriend always wants to send the cash via Venmo
or Zelle. And I think we're getting a little too lax,
a little too informal. I don't know what you guys think,
but I know some people are doing this. It just
makes me feel a little icky to just like send
you some cash, you know, for your wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, because I send people money like when they when
they like buy me breakfast, right, you know I don't Yeah, yeah,
I think it's still at a little informal. It's like,
oh here, here's some money. It was like it's like
throwing money at someone. Oh yeah, here's money here whatever,
and it takes two seconds and there's no real effort involved.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Yeah. I don't think we're there yet for weddings.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
No, I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Now, there were people in between the at the wedding
I was at last and between the church and the
party that were running to buy their cards and stuff.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Then I'm like, you don't need to just mail it after.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
As long as you do it, because trust me, we
all know people will remember if you don't do it.
Everyone remembers the people who didn't give gifts. Right or wrong,
everybody remembers the people who didn't give gifts.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I've noticed that I haven't really noticed that.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
And for friends that I've heard talk crap about like
wedding gifts situations, I'll give them a little more because
I very much don't want to be talking no.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Met it, And well, I don't think that we should
have to give based on what we think it are.
Like I've heard We've been over this a million times,
but I've heard the thing where it's like, you should
give the amount of money that you think it cost
for you and your guests to attend. Now, I'll give
you whatever because I might, I might want to give
you more than I think your wedding cost.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
It's not my job to pay for myself at your wedding.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
No, no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I do think people will judge you based on what
they've done for you in the past.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Like my mom is like this.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
My mom my mom is given to cousins graduations and
friends kids graduations, and she remembers who gave to us,
and she met my grandma, my nana was really about
this and then she remembers who thanked her and who didn't. Oh,
that's a big one. The thank you is a big
one from my mom. If she sends you something and
(04:10):
you don't say thank you in any form, she doesn't
like that. Even if it's just I don't know, you
were supposed to send a gift because it was a graduation,
you were supposed to send a gift because it was
a wedding. She wants to thank you, and she'll remember
if you didn't do it. So these are all the
things I think people consider. But I don't know that
a zel. You can't just zell. I can just zell
you fifty bucks at your birthday and go here.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I don't love it. And well, by the way, I
do always give more if I have a date with me,
regardless you. I don't think you should pay for plates you.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Give on behalf of because there were two of you. Yeah, yeah, no,
I think that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Pete, would you be You're the only married person in
the room. Would you be offended if someone zell do you?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
No?
Speaker 5 (04:46):
I've had people do that. Really.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
A family friend actually did because she lives in Florida
and she could have go to my veigas wedding. I
totally understand. So she zelled me and I thought that
was really sweet. Oh I don't care, but I also
I get the feeling I wouldn't do it personally, I'm
not very Yeah, but I think in the next twenty
maybe thirty years, I think that's going to be the
new trend because millennials don't have checks, Like we just
don't have that.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
We're Shelley.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
But you know, I just I know it's hard, and
I usually give cash, so I hand it to the
person like directly if I see them after or whatever.
But I don't know if I'm here this guess what's
in the line, like congrats and the rest of your life.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
That's a good question, because you're right. I mean, I
guess I have I have to dig for my checks. Yeah,
you'll find them because I have so rarely use them. Yeah,
I don't put money in the envelope because I think
it's lost and that's gone. But yeah, I don't know
what you do because you're right. I mean, everyone, that
is really how it's going. But at the same time,
it's just so impersonal. It's like you could send a
card and then wait a few days and then Zell
(05:44):
and hope the card and the Zell land at the
same time.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
But like, I don't know.
Speaker 7 (05:48):
That's what you say, like, hey, do you get Myzell?
Like you know what I mean, Like you feel silly.
But I can also argue right and say that some
people do like an online account or a wedding whatever.
It's called honeymoon fund, and some people will give their
gift that way.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Is none of the same almost almost kind of you're saying,
that's how I want you to give it, Like yeah,
you know, yeah, that's a nice thing to do.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Though.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I think that's a nice thing to do if you're
having a wedding, is have some form of like digital
way that I can do it, because that way I'm
doing the efficient thing. But then I don't feel like
it's informal because you're saying do it this way.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I agree.
Speaker 8 (06:23):
Yeah, it's also tacky to like put your your cash
app code on the invite or something.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
I mean, yeah, people do that now.
Speaker 8 (06:31):
They'll put like happy birthday to me, and then they'll
put their cash app in a.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
Corner like that's a tag.
Speaker 8 (06:37):
Yeah, No, I don't know, but actually I don't care
how you give me the money. Okay, cash app means it,
put it in my hand.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
It just seems like I know how fast I'm gonna
give some money.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Oh my god, I get on my app boom boom
boom here So I don't know, here's two hundred bucks whatever.
It just seems so sort of like an afterthought, you
know what I mean. But I guess it's better than nothing.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:59):
What do you guys do with the cards? After Paullem?
Do you used to have your wedding cards?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I do.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
I'm such a like little dork.
Speaker 7 (07:05):
I keep all my cards Birthday, I mean, I add
communion cards for my Baptists. I have it all at Okay, Yeah,
I like to look at that stuff later, So be classy.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Get a car from the Dallas store. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Cards are expensive too, I got to that.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Yeah, ninety nine cents.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
Yeah yeah that was the value area.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Last card I bought was seven dollars.
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Speaker 1 (08:07):
It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
All rise, the Honorable Kiki League out at the best.
Shout Judge, Kiki. All right, what's say you?
Speaker 8 (08:17):
Let's get into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit,
it says Kiki. Am I wrong for not sharing my
ring camera footage with my neighbor because chat GPT told
her that her husband is cheating. My neighbor, who I
am not friends with but seeing passing from time to time,
came to my door last week in tears asking if
she could look at my ring camera footage. When I
(08:38):
asked her why, she said that chat GPT told her
that her husband is cheating. I tried my hardest not
to laugh in her face, but.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
She was so serious.
Speaker 8 (08:48):
She said that she believed that her husband may be
sneaking a woman into their house while she's at work.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
I told her I didn't feel.
Speaker 8 (08:54):
Comfortable getting involved in a marriage situation and I didn't
want to be a part of a potential legal drama
or domestic issues, and I politely declined. She begged, saying
I could save her months of doubt and pain, and
I still said no. Now she's furious with me, calling
me selfish, heartless, and saying that women like me enable
men like him. After she left, I did feel bad,
(09:17):
so I went back to review the footage, and sure enough,
her husband was on my camera in four K taking
a younger looking woman into their home.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Boy.
Speaker 8 (09:26):
I know I went against girl cold, but I still
feel like I made the right decision.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Wow? Wow? Yeah? Wow, Kiki? What do you judge? Kiki?
What you're ruling?
Speaker 5 (09:39):
You know how I feel about this girl.
Speaker 8 (09:42):
I've seen lifetime movies on stuff like this, you know,
and hey, I'm not gonna get involved in that. And
then he chopped you up and come chop me up
because the camera footage came from my angle. I don't
want to be.
Speaker 5 (09:52):
A part of this.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
This is what you gotta do.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Yeah, I'm not giving up my footage.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
No, you gotta get a wildlife camera. That's what you
because here's the thing. If you get like a like
a ring camera, then your husband's gonna know that you
did that. Oka Like if you put cameras, there's a
good chance. Now, wildlife camera, this is where they put
out like in the forest so they can see like
migration hunters can see like migration patterns of animals. You
(10:17):
stick that in the tree. It's camouflage, it blends in
and it's motion activated. Now that's how you find out.
You set up your own surveillance. Do not rely on
the people to get involved in your drama. I agree
with you. I'm sorry, but I don't want any part
of this. All you gotta do is out this guy
and before long he shows up with a shotgun at
your front door, and you've got a problem.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
I've seen the movies.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
I have too.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Can take let NBC episodes have started and ended this way.
Speaker 8 (10:44):
Yes, if you think your man is cheating while you're
at work. Here's what you do, girl, Go to work
or act like you're going to work. Spind the block,
come back around the time you think that he's cheating. Boom,
it's all there.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
I think you're on your own to come up with
your own evidence and your own proof.
Speaker 8 (10:59):
Like you can't say I enable men and I'm the problem. No,
your husband is the problem.
Speaker 5 (11:04):
You know around.
Speaker 8 (11:05):
I would not give up this footach it can give
it really messy for you. I can understand if we
were friends, you know, if I had some type of
investment in y'all relationship. But I don't know you, girl.
You're just a neighbor across the street. That's not go
at somebody else.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Someone just Cli'm assuming it's me that someone just called
me a deal hole.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
I heard, sorry about that.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Yeah, get off your phone.
Speaker 8 (11:29):
I think they're talking to the listener that wrote in
oh because she said, yes, you're wrong, you're a deal.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Well, you're wrong, you're wrong not to give it to someone.
Speaker 8 (11:39):
I guess I agree. Okay, Caitlyn, let me let me
hear it now.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Thank you. We're back. A trail cams is what they're
called cas.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
Okay, not a lot of wildlife.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I think it's the same. Everyone knew what I was
talking about. Everybody knows them. Just go to mass Pro
shop whatever and get you one of them. It blends
right in with the tree.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
Have you done this before?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
It's not I don't have a lot of trees in
my building that I can blend it into too. You know,
I'm just saying, come up with your own method. If
you just, first of all, GPT thinks you're cheating, what
does that even mean?
Speaker 8 (12:12):
I don't know what in there that Jack told her that, yes,
you're out the sign, do not involve me in your drama.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
But caln you say you say that?
Speaker 5 (12:22):
What I say that?
Speaker 3 (12:24):
If a woman who is distraught shows up at my
front door and wants to see my cameras, I'm going
to let her see my cameras. I could not to
someone's face say no, sorry, can't help you, even though
I might have the answer.
Speaker 4 (12:38):
Sorry, go off on your.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Own, invite her inside. We're gonna have a nice.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Open some wine. No, you're doing wine because yeah, maybe
I don't know. We need we need to.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Drink for this one, honey, because he's cheating and already knew.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
But what if he comes back with the knife.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Then I I know that I can sleep because I
did the right thing. Like I'm not I I hold
myself to a certain standard, and I would not be
able to look in the mirror if I didn't help
a cheating a woman with her husband cheating.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
We don't, we don't. We don't know until we knew,
Like we don't know for a fact. We had to
go look, and we had to go dig up the footage.
We had to go do all this stuff. It wasn't
like we knowingly said I'm he's cheating with me, or
I'm personally involved and I'm not gonna tell you.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
I think the problem with our world today is that
everyone is extremely selfish and don't want to get involved
in things. And I think that we need to go
back to helping each other and being there for each other.
Speaker 8 (13:28):
I don't know, just my my opinion, because if it
was me, I would want you to help me.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
But if it was me, I know.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
I think we want a reactive world where people do
stupid things as opposed to being accountable for their own behay.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Fear you cannot not do something that's good because you're
scared of the outcome. I would I would never walk
outside downtown if I lived in fear.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
You know what I mean? Like, you have to live
your life, be a good person.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
It's my time, it's my time. Yeah, that's where you
and I did.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
I don't know that I'm a bad person for not
one to get involved in your drama.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I don't think that makes it. I don't think that.
But you just said to be a good person. If
you don't implying.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
It, if you define be a good person, I'm not
calling you a bad person. I'm just saying we have
our own moral coach.
Speaker 9 (14:11):
Call me.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Well, yeah, it's very upsetting. Sorry sometime. Hey Jack, what's
up Jack?
Speaker 7 (14:18):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Hey Jack?
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Okay, so you heard Kieky's court Here, Basically, a woman
thinks that her husband's cheating, asked chechipt chatch ept's infinite
wisdom was to basically go ask her neighbor if she
has any video proof of it. I guess I don't know,
And turns out she doesn't want to be involved, but
she did go look and it does look that way.
It does appear the dude is cheating. What do you
think she should do?
Speaker 10 (14:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (14:43):
I I'm back and forth. But if it was me.
I don't know. I originally said to stay out of it,
but I'm honestly going back and forth. What I said
earlier was what I told Bella was I thought this
thing online where somebody ordered the person who thought they
were being cheated on ordered uber or door Dash, and
they in the notes told the person to keep the food,
but just drive by the house and say if there
(15:04):
was a certain kind of car there, and that's how
they find out if it was really going on or not.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Maybe the neighbor can tiper off or something, but I
don't providing footage how you're getting involved and then I
don't know. It makes me so uncomfortable. Someone texted, this
is how you wind up on first forty eight. It's true.
I've seen it. I'm serious, Jack, Thank you, have a
good day. Thank you to cause you gotta remember people
who cheat are not accountable people, so they're not gonna
(15:36):
go oh, neighbor caught me.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
G yep, you got me. You know what.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I'm so sorry. I'm a bad person. I'm wrong. They're
gonna spend it. They're gonna make you out to be
a bad person. They're gonna drag you into it. They're
gonna do all kinds of things we're expecting everyone's going
to behave appropriately and they're not because people don't. You
guys are the jury eight five five five five Cam, Hi, Hi, Cam.
You say tell the neighbor.
Speaker 11 (16:02):
Yeah, I say what you say about how it could
like definitely be a scary situation.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
But I feel like that's like you actually like send
it to her with the angles, you know.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
But I'm kind of like, I'm kind of like I'm
a married woman. If I if.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
I was in that situation, I would want somebody to
help me out.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Hmm.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to think of a way that
you could do it and have your hands clean on it.
Because I agree if I know someone's being cheated on
and they asked me to confirm it and I know it,
and I don't say anything that would make me feel bad,
but I also think I would be justified and not
wanting to be involved in a situation that could be
potentially problematic for.
Speaker 8 (16:43):
Me, because what if they work it out, like we've
always said, you know, then now they joined forces and
I'm the nosy neighbor that was medaling.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Or you know, Yeah, it's my neighbor too. It's not
like it's it's not like it's a stranger. I mean,
this is somebody crossed the street from my house. Like
they they could do a lot of things.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
Well with that logic, the wife could do something to
you for not helping her.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
If we're you know, I mean, everybody gonnakill me. You
know what she needs.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You. But I guess what I'm saying is if you
and Kim, thank you so much, have a good damn
glad you call.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
What I'm saying is why is it Why is the
neighbor's responsibility to be involved in this thing? If you
think your husbands cheating, then you figure out how to
catch him, right you in chat GPT, like why why
you gotta dragged me into that?
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I set up your own camera, But.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
You know I do. I see what Kayln is saying,
like you want somebody to help us.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
But it's like, girl, like I've been cheated on and
I mean to you know, so like I know how
bad that hurts.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
And another thing, sometimes you don't need confirmation.
Speaker 8 (17:43):
If chat GPT told you and you're it's your woman's
it's a wish and told you that he was girl.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
He's cheating. You don't need my footage, go ahead and divorce,
and you already know, you already know. That's how I
would talk to her.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
I'm maybe if I saw it, like if I were
looking at my ring camera and I saw like a pattern,
maybe I'd say, maybe I'd put a little note on
her thing and be like, I don't know, maybe maybe
Wednesday's around one o'clock, you should stop by your house.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
There's gotta be a way that I can help without
implicating myself because I don't trust anybody.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Hey, Melissa, this happened to you.
Speaker 5 (18:18):
Uh oh yeah.
Speaker 11 (18:19):
So I had a neighbor reached out on Facebook and
she asked if I could check my ring cameras because
she knew I had them set up. And it was
months later and I went back months to go find
that footage and my husband was like, yeah, I actually
saw a couple of cars pull into the driveway. She
was in the hospital at the time, and she reached
(18:42):
out to me and we were like, yeah, he was
having cars coming and out of the driveway.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
At Dirty Dog.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
She's in the hospital.
Speaker 11 (18:51):
Yes, she was in the hospital, and it was very
sad because but we we kind of.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Played it like I think it was his family.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
Also, you covered for him, we.
Speaker 10 (19:03):
Did a little bit.
Speaker 11 (19:05):
I was like, I don't know, there was this black car,
there was a white one.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
I mean, I see both sides of this, I really do.
But I'm also not trying to die. So thank you, Melissa,
have a good day.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
You too. Bye.
Speaker 8 (19:20):
That husband needs to pay them some you know, they
kept them right right right, they did above and beyond
for him.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Yeah, or or you could we've had this kind of
conversation before. You could go to the husband and be like, look, oh,
hombrol asked me for some information. I didn't give it
to her, but I went and looked, and I think,
I don't know what you're up to, but you need
you need to fix it. I don't want anything to
do with this, but I'm just telling you right now,
she's asking questions. She wants me to get involved. I
(19:47):
don't want to be involved. Handle your business, or I'm
turning this stuff over. You could do something now that's
more confrontational, right, But I mean, at least at least
it's like you're on You're sort of on both sides here,
like you're being fair, Like she asked for the information,
you have the information, you go to the person response
on me, I don't know what you're doing, but you
need to have an explanation for what I saw.
Speaker 8 (20:10):
But then you see you mess around and have both
of them at your door. Yeah, he's trying to get
the footage from you.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
She wants this is like, oh, this is something mess
and you could say, like turn the footage over anonymously,
but they're gonna know where it came from, what.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Direction, right exactly? I mean that's a camera, right, and
you know.
Speaker 8 (20:29):
I would just burn my ring camera, like just burned
the whole house down. Actually, this is too stressful as
the neighbor.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
I mean, if here's the thing, if it were a crime,
I would absolutely turn my ring camera footage over, right,
But this is this isn't a crime.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
This is a moral indiscretion.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
Haven't you read the Bible?
Speaker 1 (20:46):
No?
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Hey, Laura, as a matter of fact, I have it, Laura, Hi,
it's been a minute. I mean you know I haven't yea.
What do you think here Kiki's cord?
Speaker 10 (20:58):
Yeah, I totally agree with Caitlin. I think that she
has to help her neighbor. I also think she could
just say, here's the footage, and you know what, if
the guy and the lady want to kill her, then
you know what, you shouldn't have been cheating, or you
shouldn't have been cheating at your house.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 10 (21:18):
You kind of set yourself up for that.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
Yeah, yeah, thank you, Laura. Have a good day you too.
Speaker 5 (21:23):
That's a good neighbor.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Okay, But okay, what about this?
Speaker 2 (21:26):
And we were talking about somebody that affected this earlier,
but like we've talked about on the show before too.
But okay, so you have footage of a girl going
to the house with a guy, so you give it
to her. She watches that, and they watch it together
and it's oh, no, that's actually his niece or that's
my whatever. It turns out that it was It wasn't
in fact nefarious, that there was an explanation.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Now he knows that you're a snitch.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Yes, so let's say he's not actually doing anything, but
he knows what you're capable of, which is you're willing
to get involved in my business.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
So now he doesn't like you. You have a problem
trying to here.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
There's a lot of ways this winds up in your
face for doing the right thing.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Sure, are you a snitch? If you're you're getting someone
intel for cheating, that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
But if they're But if he's not cheating, well then.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
He's like okay, good, I'll continue if not cheat.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
If he has a good explanation. But then but then
I would be like, what is she getting involved in
this for?
Speaker 1 (22:18):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Like, if it turned out that I wasn't doing anything wrong,
what did you get this? And she'd be like, well,
I went to the neighbor and the neighbor's in on
this with me. Great, So now the neighbor thinks I'm
a cheater and she's willing to turn over footage of
everything I do.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Cool, but now everyone knows you're not. And I'd be like, good,
that's a good friend.
Speaker 5 (22:34):
I'm not cheating.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
No, I think you'd be totally annoyed. You'd be annoyed
that you were being spied on. You'd be annoyed that
this person doesn't I don't know. I can see this
being a problem no matter how it turns out true,
that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Hey Jasmine, Hi, Hey, how you doing. I'm good. How
are you guys doing well? Keiki's Court. What say you?
Speaker 5 (22:54):
So?
Speaker 6 (22:55):
I actually feel like, you know, I've been in that situation.
I've been cheated on, and I and go looking around,
you know, asking people for footage or anything like that.
But if someone's asking you, it's better to help them out.
Because in my situation, it was actually the friend of
the girl that was cheating on me with thinking that
she was doing me a favor. I don't think she
was doing me a favor, but she sent me a picture,
(23:17):
she sent me, you know, everything that the girl had.
I don't know why the girl didn't reach out to me,
but it's always better to help out the woman because
she's asking you for it than having her find out
from someone else that's you know, not coming from a
good place.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. You guys been thank you
have a good day. There's a lot. There's a lot
on the show today.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
I don't know about it. I don't know about the
waiting by the phone. I don't know about this Richard.
I don't know. I don't know what what say you?
That's to me, it's just Devil's advocate. I'm just playing
that side of it.
Speaker 9 (23:49):
Is that could be his sister that as she saw
it was some young woman going into the house with him.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
His sister is the niece. I mean, there could be anybody.
Speaker 8 (24:03):
His hairstylice, mistress.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
But why is that, Richard?
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Why is it on the neighbor to solve the If
you think you're being cheated on, then you catch the guy, Like,
why do I have to get in that? She should
not give up any footage because it is none of
her business. I would be like, I'm so sorry this
is happening to you. I don't want to be involved.
This isn't fair. I'm your neighbor. I don't want to
be involved. This is my home. I can't just move,
(24:33):
you know what I mean. So so if this goes wrong,
this is a big problem. Here are some things I
might do if I were you trail camera camera girl, yeah,
or something like that.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Hey, Richard, thank you, have a good day. I love you. Guys, Yeah,
I love you. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
That's it's an unfair position to put someone in, to
put someone else in
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