July 22, 2025 • 26 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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January third, and March sixth through the twenty eighth Threeswatherspoon,
she was probably in the top five of celebrities in
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like film or TV that made me feel a certain
kind of way as a teenager.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Her parents met on you Know what movie The Men Ran.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Cruel Intentions, one of the one of the horniest movies
ever made sow which I'm sure now it looks ridiculous
In retrospect. But at the time, I was just like,
oh my god, I can't believe that. I can't believe
we're doing this on the movie. I can't believe we're
allowed to watch. I think I was, like, I think
I was I don't know, twelve. I was pretty young
when this movie came out, I think. But I would
have to say it was Kelly Kapowski first on Saved
(01:12):
by the Bell, Tiffany season, Yeah, no longer Amber, And
then I would say maybe maybe somebody on nine on
two one, oh, because I'm disasdating me now It's this
early nineties. Remember I'm young. I'm like just discovering, you know,
things are just starting to tingled. And then she that
movie definitely was like wow, Wow, Wow. Was more into
(01:33):
Reese than I liked Reese, and I liked Sarah Michelle
Michelle Gell. I liked him both. Sarah Michelle Geller was
a bad girl in that movie. She was not naughty one.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I'm innocent, right, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
I don't know, but they both made me feel a
certain kind of way. Who was it for you? Immediately?
Enrique Glessies, who comes to mind for you?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Honestly?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Bad buddy, no, who comes to mind for you immediately
like growing up right?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
So you know full House DJ Tanner's boyfriend Steve that
was like my guy win a minute boyfriend because he
would come to the house and his whole thing was
like he'd eat all the food in the fridge and
he was like the jacket school.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
But he was dating DJ Tanner.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Oh that guy. Yeah, I don't know it was being hail.
I know their relationship began in high school and continued
throughout this series, culminating in their engagement to be married
in Fuller House. Yeah, okay, who was it for you? Kiki?
The first thing you remember the first when it comes
to mind.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Stephan from the Steve Arkle Show, so like not arcle,
but when he would turn into Stefan, he like that, Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I saw him at the airport once on Southwest Airlines
checking his own bags and I was like wow, And
this was like kind of back in the day when
he was famous. He's famous for flying Southvist Airlines, so
he's like one of these guys. I guess that doesn't
blow all his money. Good for him. I was just like, WHOA,
that's crazy. I got a lot of weird celebrity sort
of things like like that night that we were at
a concert and uh, what's his face? Uncle Joey from
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Full House was in dressing room of the Emo band.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Yeah, we took him to a boss bar.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
He went to Boss Born and then he went to
Boss Bar with us, and I was like trying to
We were a little drunk, and I was like telling
all the bartenders, I'm like, do you know who this is?
And nobody knew who he was? And he was At
one point he was like you can stop doing that
because this generation has no idea who I am. I'm like, dude,
you are the most famous person on this block by
a mile. You know what I'm saying, Like, dude, you
were all one of the most iconic TV shows at
full House.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, he wasn't trying to talk about it then. No,
he was not really quick.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Selfie with him, but that was that was another random
I'm just like, what is happening? Who is it? What
are we doing? Where are we? Who was it for you?
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Leo and Titanic? He made me realize I was mostly straight,
Like when he put that like cigarette in his mouth.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah, honest question. I'm not even being funny. Was it
a guy or a girl friend?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
It was kind of split because I didn't really know
what was going on, But I think it was for
the guys it was Brian Latreue from the Backship Boyce.
It was like my guy. But for girls, I always
had a cushi on Jennifer. It like she was like
the first girl that I was like, Oh my god, she's.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Everybody thought she was. Everyone tried to get with her hot.
Her body's a wonderland. Am I The only fun fact
about Jennifer left Hewett that I know. I said that
that song we've written about her, Wow supposedly makes sense. Yeah, anyway,
Amanda says, boy meets world. Ben Savage, I think that
was true for a lot of people. Malcolm from Malcolm
in the Middle actually a good one eight five five
(04:24):
five nine one three five call in text the same number.
I'm just curious, first, the first thing that comes to mind.
Don't overthink it, but you know when you were sort
of transitioning, you know, from I'm not a girl, not
yet a woman, you know what I mean, Like when
you were sort of in that transition period, Like, what's
the first thing that came to comes to mind?
Speaker 6 (04:41):
For you the person you just thought, oh, what what
is the other one? I had like a weird obsession
with Fred Durst, Like I was like, oh bad, Yeah
he was hot.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Well, you know I had to think for Lady Elaine,
not the same.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Harus for my money.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah. I always had a little thing for the Redheads,
you know. It's a little bit of a weakness. Sadly
always ends the same way with the Redheads anyway, Yes,
and you.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Were absolutely convinced, like I was convinced that me and Leo,
like if I could just get in front of him,
we'd be together. Never Mind, I was like nine years old,
you know what I mean, Like I was like this,
this will work.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Well, it may have been possible at the time. And
still now you know you're a little old for him.
Actually sorry, too old for him.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I'm sorry to tell you he doesn't he didn't hold up.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Richard Mark. Somebody said, Richard Mark, what does he look like?
He looks kind of the same as he did back.
The guy hasn't really aged, and he's married to if
you were if you grew up with MTV. He's married
to what's her name? The v j Oh god, it
was escaping me. Really hot. Daisy Flentes. Yeah, he's married
to Daisy, he is, that's where Yeah, and she still
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looks good too. But he's a nice shot. Yeah, he
floats round every now and again. He's nice guy.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
He was just on one of the Real Housewives.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
He's got bangers, man, he really does.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
We've talked about him twice this month, and that's shouted
to him.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Kirk Cameron River, Phoenix, somebody sitting old Phoenix. My entire
sexuality was realized with the cast of The Mummy. Mario Lopez, Hold,
and I want to talk to Brenda Brandon. Brenda a.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Howl.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Yeah, okay, And that was just curious because you said
Richard Marx was was you know, you realize your sexuality
when you saw Richard Marks And I was just wondering,
you know, because I know he's trying to make a comeback,
so I didn't know if maybe, and I know that
sort of older guys and younger girls that's kind of
a thing, So I wasn't sure.
Speaker 7 (06:41):
Yeah, no, I think I was.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I think I found nine or ten.
Speaker 7 (06:46):
Yeah, so it was early for me, and I would
like light his fan club and oh my god, I
mean he just he oh Juscus. I saw it. I
saw him on Twitter and a few years ago, and
I was like, hey, I'm like, I joined your fan club,
I said, and I've never heard from you, like you know, wow.
(07:12):
I was like, how dare you? But then he was like, oh,
he's like Hi, I knew I was forgetting something. And
I was like that made my freaking day.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Like I was like, that's insane.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Yeah, he used to be pretty responsive on Twitter because
I somehow got attached to a tweet that went viral
with him on it, and then he like hit me
up personally and was like what is this And I'm like,
I don't know, but anyone walk I guess. I guess
he's got time on his hands. But thank you, Brenda,
Thank you guys. I have a good day. He also
I think he wrote a bunch of songs that we
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know too, like the guys. You guy's got some dough.
And then he's trying to I think he's trying to
release another album. So anyway, he's talking to come by
and sing right here waiting for you, right here waiting,
and he was the name of the song You're welcome
to Hey, Brittany, h good morning, Hi Jonathan Taylor Thomas
so tool time whatever that home improvement. Yes, yes, that's
(08:08):
what I did it for you.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Posters Cheambu Senboy, Oh yeah, JTT Man for me to
j T.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
T Yeah, yeah, thank you, Brittany, have a good day
you too, Thank you. Brendan Frasier. People are saying Christian Slater, Yeah,
I can see that. Another vote for River Phoenix. Oh
people from the Lord of the Rings. No one's gonna
say Britney Spears, Heath Ledger, Rob Low, Michael J. Fox,
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because you know what, you can almost immediately tell someone's
age when they answer this question. Yeah, well all right,
well everyone everyone knows everyone that is that is that
person that comes to mind immediately and you're like, oh yeah,
I remember.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Somebody said the pink power Ranger.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Yes, yeah, sing you can just say it outline. Nothing
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Speaker 3 (10:00):
So you.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Are married and you've been lied to? Straight up?
Speaker 8 (10:07):
I mean, that's it. That's exactly what it is.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Okay, how did your husband lie to you? What happened?
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Well?
Speaker 8 (10:13):
I mean to me, this is pretty major. Maybe it's
just me, but.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Hello, are you there your phone? Bit? Okay, so you
think this is pretty major? What happened?
Speaker 8 (10:29):
He's been on ozema for six months and he's been
not only not telling me, but he just straight up
lied to me about it.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
How did he lie to you about it?
Speaker 8 (10:38):
Well, because i mean, obviously if he's taking azembic, he's
losing weight. So I'm asking him. I'm like, how, hey,
you know you're doing oh, you know, just diet exercise,
diet exercise, which yeah, he does work out, but he's
not working out more than he normally does. One of
those people we eat we eat pretty well. I mean,
we eat pretty healthy. We don't eat out a lot,
we don't do fast food and stuff like that very much.
(10:59):
But he just told me that that's all he was doing.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Okay, So so he's losing all this weight. You're like, man,
you look great. It's wow. It's hard work. You know,
hard work in the gym. You know, hard work is
transformed in my life. You know, a boy God tails
old as time. Paulina. I mean, this is twice that
day I've said tale so old, This tale might be
and so, but you're not. You're not lying to people
and telling them that you're, you know, out here running
(11:23):
five case and marathons and iron Man's and stuff.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Correct.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
But when it comes to my husband, I do have
to fabricate some things or move some things around. When
it comes to him, I can't be straight up because
he doesn't understand. Okay, it's my own thing.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Okay. So you you find out that he's on a
How did you find out he was an ozampic?
Speaker 8 (11:40):
Well, it sounded in the bathroom, So that was a
little scary because you know, you walk in and there's
like a needle in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Okay, so explect our heroin or a zempic, yeah, right,
evils right, all right, So you say something to him,
You're like, wait a minute, I found ozampic. I'm not
taking it, so it must be you. Why are you
lying to me about it? Like, why wouldn't you just
tell me? I mean we're married.
Speaker 8 (12:04):
Well, because and that's that's my biggest sticking point, is
like he can do what he wants to do. That's fine.
But his whole thing was he actually said to me, well,
I didn't tell you because it's not your business. You're
my husband. It's absolutely my business. You know, what if
he has some kind of allergic reaction to it or something.
What if he had some kind of weird side effect
(12:24):
thing and we go to the hospital and they're like,
you know what medications is he on and I don't know,
and they treat him for something that interacts with you
know what I'm saying, Like, I know I'm probably worst
case scenario in it, but that can happen.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Why do you think that he was a shame to
tell you the truth? Is it because he doesn't really
want to do the work and he wants you to
believe that he's doing it? Is it because and there's
nothing wrong with that, Like the thing that people being
ashamed about at zembik, I don't really understand. Because it's like,
if it helps you and you think it's appropriate for
your body, then you should take it. I'm not a doctor.
(13:01):
I don't know much about it. I mean, I would
argue there are people taking ozempic who could probably work
out and be a little more healthy in their lives,
in accomplish something similar and maybe help themselves in the
long term, versus taking the shot for vanity but not
changing your life. And then I don't really know what
that means long to you know what I mean, It's
like I could take ozempic and eat Big Max all day,
(13:21):
my cholesterol is still through the roof, and I could
still have a heart attack, but I'd be skinny when
I had it. I mean, again, I don't I'm not
a physician. I don't know any of this for a fact,
but you know, that's what you hear, and especially in
the beginning, was that people who really needed it, diabetic
or people had diabetes or whatever, they couldn't get it
because it had become this kind of vanity miracle drug.
But why do you think, why do you think you
wouldn't tell you?
Speaker 8 (13:43):
Well, to be fair, he was doing the work like
he was working out, and we do eat pretty healthy,
but he did it on top of that too. He
actually told me it was none of my business, which
again I'm just and I know I've already brought that up,
but it just it really made me angry. And he
also said he had the nerve. This is what I
was like, Okay, I got to walk away from this
conversation because about to lose my mind. He actually says
(14:03):
to me, well, it's my body, my choice. It's none
of your business. I'm wanting to tell you.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Oh oh say, And I was like, sir, okay, sure,
so you for you. It's less about the ozembic use,
but it's the lies because you've asked him multiple times,
how are you doing this? And I mean, and he's, wow,
it's just you know, I'm doing everything right, but maybe
he is. Maybe he's not, but he's also doing this
and he didn't want you to know. So for you,
(14:27):
it's said lies. It's one hundred percent about the lies.
Speaker 8 (14:30):
Like he can it is. His decision to do. What
he wants to do is with body, as long as
it's not something dangerous, and it's not dangerous. He's doing
it under doctors supervision, not one of those like mail
order weird things where you can just get it from wherever.
Like he's doing everything right, but he first one he
lied to me by omission because he just didn't tell
me that he was doing it or was even thinking
about doing it. And then you know, I asked him
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and he lied to my face like multiple times.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Now people are texting. What one text here is is
asking about the money aspect of it, because it is expensive,
so is it such that maybe you both couldn't afford
to take it? So like he's using the money for
himself as opposed to you know, because maybe you maybe
you both can't afford it, So he doesn't want you
(15:18):
to know that he's spending all the money on it.
Is that a possibility or is that not an issue
he had?
Speaker 8 (15:23):
No, he actually got it covered by insurance because medical history. Yeah. No,
it had nothing to do with money. It's something he
wanted to do, which again I would have if he
sat down and told me or when I asked him
how he was doing it, he had told me the truth,
we would not be having this conversation right now.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Yeah. People are also texting that he's uh, he's probably well,
and I don't know that this is true, but he's
probably planning. He's trying to look good for somebody else
or something like he's trying to hyper speed this this
body transformation for someone I don't know. I mean, I
guess it lends itself to a lot of things when
he's lying about it, right, like if he just told
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the truth, or maybe if he just came out and
told you I'm kind of ashamed of it, or I'm
I'm embarrassed and I need this, or you know, I
didn't think he would support me in it, or you know,
I don't know what kind of conversations you've had. Maybe
you're like, really, are you really anti medicine and are
you somebody who know? Okay, so that's not it.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
No, No, I'm not like an anti vaxxer or anything
like that, like I know, not at all. It was
something that his doctor, his actual doctor. Like again, he
wasn't just going online and quicking a few buttons. He's
been doing this through his doctor, so the doctor felt
like it was medically necessary. He's doing the other work.
There's literally no reason he wasn't telling me. And kind
(16:41):
of with what you were just saying about, like he's
looking for somebody else or whatever, it's making me question
everything that he says. It's like, well, what else are
you lying to me about?
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I have noticed this though, like people who are very
clearly using ozebic right because I know them well enough
to know their lifestyles and their habits and things, and
but they want you to believe that it's not an exercise.
And I I just simply I don't know why people
are ashamed to just say no, I'm It's like, why
don't you say that, like it is what it is?
Speaker 5 (17:08):
It?
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Because you know that people are going to say that's
kind of the easy way out for you, is it?
Because people might judge you and is it because people
you know who are working out and trying to lose
weight and don't use those epic might resent you for
it because it's fun to get the compliments when you're
working out a losing weight, and it almost feels like
when people just take a shot and lose the weight
and aren't necessarily working towards it. I can see the resentment.
(17:31):
It's like, wait a minute, I'm out here dragging my
ass across his lakefront trying to lose weight and it's
very slow process, and you're taking a shot. Everyone says
how good you look. Instantly it's like, well, that sucks.
But that's that's not a reason to lie to your
partner about it. I don't think. But let me take
some phone calls on this. Let me see if people
have to say, Whitney, thank you for calling.
Speaker 8 (17:48):
Good luck, thank you so much. I appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
You know what to do, thanks for listening. I mean,
of course, the right thing to do is call the
radio show, call the friend show. When you don't know
what to do, you call the frend Show. And I'm
one of the seventeen of us on this show. We'll
give you the advice that you need eight five one
three five, Gabby, Gabby, you're of the camp that he's
up to something.
Speaker 8 (18:10):
I would say that. I mean, first of all, we
were Mary, what the reason there's no reason to lie?
Speaker 1 (18:18):
You'll be asking too, is what happens? I also you lie?
It's just yeah, go ahead, it's just by experience.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
I mean my fiancee, he was he started kind of
working out, blah blah blah, getting in shape.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Your Yeah, we thought that it was for the wedding.
Speaker 8 (18:36):
But then I went through his instagram all these women,
and I said, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Oh I know, yeah, not for our wedding. So okay,
so you think the reason.
Speaker 8 (18:48):
Why exactly, there's no reason why he has to lie.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
Yeah, I agree with you, Gab. I think I agree.
Thank you, Gabby. I'm glad you called. You know. I
feel the same way. And once you tell a lie
and then it compounds it and you've told me more
than one lie, well then I then I why why
wouldn't I assume you lying about all kinds of stuff?
Like I don't know, that's a good point, like why
lie about something like that? And she's right and to
a certain extent, if there were some sort of health
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complication with it and she was unaware of what he
was doing. Then, I mean that could be detrimental and
she could, you know, potentially help him, you know, if
if you had some issue and it's like, what is
he on it? What's he on? I don't know what
you mean. You don't know you're married to the guy. Well,
he lied to me about him. Lie to the world.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Don't lie to me.
Speaker 5 (19:32):
Like if you want, if you want to post on
Instagram holding a protein shake, acting like you're working out,
you know I'll be I'm your wife, I'll be in
the comments.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
You're looking good baby, good job. But let me in
on the lie. Once you out me on the light,
then I can't trust you and I don't know what
you're up to.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
Well, here's Luca, Luca turned your radio down. Luca and Luke,
you know, or you could hang up. You don't have
to hang up. Well, he Luca says, he lies about
being onebic, which is why I wanted to hear. Why. Yeah,
if you lie about being ozebic, then called up here.
I want to know why you do that and turn
your radio down when you do well, yeah, shame people. Well,
that's one part. What do you mean who's being shamed?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Well, people get decided for taking it because people are upset.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
You just went through this.
Speaker 5 (20:11):
People are upset because you may choose to lose weight
one way, somebody else is choosing another route. You feel
like they're taking the easy way out. So then you
get all this criticism about choosing the easier way out.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
But I'm not shaving people to their I'm being I'm
being honest about as someone who's trying to lose weight
and be more healthy, not only for the aesthetic, but
because I don't want to necessarily have a heart attack
at forty five and die. Right. This is what I'm
vocalizing to you, what's happening inside of me. I would
never actually shame someone for taking it.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
No, you wouldn't, but people.
Speaker 5 (20:42):
Do, and it's a negative connotation out there about it,
So people lie about it, and people get on Instagram
and pretend like they're working out, and they don't feel
comfortable to just say that they're not.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
And what's you're a husband's issue with it? My husband's well,
you're the one who has a husband.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
Yeah, I'm going to.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
Check the room.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
Yes, I am thinking so My husband is just like
your friend. We've talked about this money of time.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
So his whole thing is because he's very healthy, writing,
he works out, he's a fireman, and he says there's
no shortcuts in life. So that's his whole spiel on
the ozembic situation. I am on Munjaro and I was
prescribed that as a tool. So I work out, I eat,
I am six pounds down.
Speaker 8 (21:15):
I am.
Speaker 4 (21:16):
I am living my life right now, and I use
it as a tool because you're right, Fred, if I
get off of this, I am going to gain the
weight right back. If I don't change my lifestyle, if
I don't continue to work out.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
You have to do that.
Speaker 4 (21:25):
It's very important. So my doctor subscribed it to me.
Subscribed it. Yeah, subscribed it, scribe, subscribe, subscribed. He got
a subscription.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
I have a subscribed.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Get a subscription.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
You know, my husband doesn't believe in it, and listen,
that's his progative.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
He can do that. But I I don't lie to him.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
But I have told him before that I you know,
I'm taking a break from it. And now was that
one hundred percent true?
Speaker 5 (21:48):
No?
Speaker 7 (21:48):
It was not.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
So was it a lie?
Speaker 4 (21:50):
Perhaps it's sitting in my fridge. If he opens the
thing right now, you look right at it, so he
knows it's happening. However, he wants me to be very
careful because I have taken higher doses. I've gotten a
little take off of it. You know, we had to
kind of go back down at two point five. So yeah,
you gotta be honest with your partner.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Okay, Holly, So you're onozebic and lying about it?
Speaker 4 (22:09):
Yes, I am.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Who are you lying to.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
Everybody except accept one of my children?
Speaker 1 (22:17):
And why why are you like doctor right right?
Speaker 3 (22:24):
Because of the way people think of it. I mean,
I'm still trying to watch it, but I needed a
push start, and people just don't think you're also working
at it. They think you're just taking the easy way out.
And in my case, I'm not taking the easy way out.
And it's frustrating though, because I do need to be
on it.
Speaker 8 (22:43):
But the people that are, you know.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Weigh one hundred and thirty pounds and they just feel
like they need to lose five pounds and they're going
on this. I think that's absolutely ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
See, I think it's really honest. I know I know
some older people who have taken it who are less
inclined to work out or they're not physically able to
work out as much, and it's been a tool for
them too. And then it sort of starts the process
of wise, I'm beginning to look good, I'm beginning to
feel good. Now there's less weight on my body. Now
I can be more active. Now it's all good. It's
all good. It's just I guess, within the confines of
(23:13):
a relationship, if I'm lying about it, then what else
am I lying about? I think that's a fair.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
I wouldn't go, but I certainly would kind of keep
pushing the conversation. I just don't understand what you lie.
Why you're lying to me about it? I thought I
could do is just keep pushing it and then just
say I don't understand, Like, are you lying about anything else?
Like the other callers set too?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, and maybe why? I mean, I don't know that
I would jump to something nefarious, but like, why are
you I don't see so consumed with there with looking
good and lying to me about how you're doing it.
I don't. I think it's more it's more the fact
that you don't think you can tell me this because
you think that I'll judge you, or you think that
I'll have a negative reaction or whatever. And if it's
not about the money, then it would be one thing.
(23:59):
If it's a we can neither one of us can
afford this, so we're gonna have to do it the
old fashioned way, and then one of you goes and
does it like that would suck, right, But that's not
the case here because no one's paying for it, right.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
I do think maybe part of it is because he
wants to maybe kind of let her know that he's
doing it on his own and he wasn't. He might
just want to show that he is trying to lose
weight and he's needing the help with it, and he
might just be embarrassed about it too. He needs help.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Yeah, Holly, thank you and good luck to you. Okay, okay, thanks,
thank you. Maybe there's an this is kind of saying
the same thing. But I think sometimes when people get
healthy and work out and work hard at something and
they start to look good and see results, there is
a bit of a righteousness that comes with that because
you earned it right, and you feel good about it
and it was hard work. And then when someone else
(24:51):
maybe gets to share when they approach it with that
same righteousness, but they didn't necessarily do the work quote unquote,
I guess that's it. It can be irritating. I guess
I can see that, Like, you know, I'm out here
really working hard to do this and you aren't working
as hard, but you want the same level of praise.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
And it's like, but that's yeah, they don't take away
from your work. No you no, no, no, you're out there.
I see you out there on the lake.
Speaker 1 (25:15):
Well I don't mean, I don't mean me personally. I'm
just sicking. I'm speaking from the perspective of people who
are going about it a different way, and it's like
we're not necessarily well maybe we're not the same in
how hard we're working at this, but the end result
is the same. So that's where the resentment comes from.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
But that's that's something I keep to myself except for
when I'm at work. But that's something I mean, I
would never say that to somebody, but I would. I
would really question my relationship if somebody were taking steps
in their lives, you know, drastic steps to do something
and it wouldn't share it with me. I would. I
would worry about that.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
It's shady, no no way to look at it other
it's like it's shady.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
You cannot lie to your partner because you're worried about
their reaction to what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Like people loved, I.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
Didn't tell you because you know, I didn't want you
to get upset. I didn't know how you would react.
I didn't think you would support me. You can't think
for me. I'm your partner in life and I should
know what's going on with your body.
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she was probably in the top five of celebrities in
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like film or TV that made me feel a certain
kind of way as a teenager.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Her parents met on you Know what movie The Men Ran.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Cruel Intentions, one of the one of the horniest movies
ever made sow which I'm sure now it looks ridiculous
In retrospect. But at the time, I was just like,
oh my god, I can't believe that. I can't believe
we're doing this on the movie. I can't believe we're
allowed to watch. I think I was, like, I think
I was I don't know, twelve. I was pretty young
when this movie came out, I think. But I would
have to say it was Kelly Kapowski first on Saved
(01:12):
by the Bell, Tiffany season, Yeah, no longer Amber, And
then I would say maybe maybe somebody on nine on
two one, oh, because I'm disasdating me now It's this
early nineties. Remember I'm young. I'm like just discovering, you know,
things are just starting to tingled. And then she that
movie definitely was like wow, Wow, Wow. Was more into
(01:33):
Reese than I liked Reese, and I liked Sarah Michelle
Michelle Gell. I liked him both. Sarah Michelle Geller was
a bad girl in that movie. She was not naughty one.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I'm innocent, right, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
I don't know, but they both made me feel a
certain kind of way. Who was it for you? Immediately?
Enrique Glessies, who comes to mind for you?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Honestly?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Bad buddy, no, who comes to mind for you immediately
like growing up right?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
So you know full House DJ Tanner's boyfriend Steve that
was like my guy win a minute boyfriend because he
would come to the house and his whole thing was
like he'd eat all the food in the fridge and
he was like the jacket school.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
But he was dating DJ Tanner.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Oh that guy. Yeah, I don't know it was being hail.
I know their relationship began in high school and continued
throughout this series, culminating in their engagement to be married
in Fuller House. Yeah, okay, who was it for you? Kiki?
The first thing you remember the first when it comes
to mind.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Stephan from the Steve Arkle Show, so like not arcle,
but when he would turn into Stefan, he like that, Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I saw him at the airport once on Southwest Airlines
checking his own bags and I was like wow, And
this was like kind of back in the day when
he was famous. He's famous for flying Southvist Airlines, so
he's like one of these guys. I guess that doesn't
blow all his money. Good for him. I was just like, WHOA,
that's crazy. I got a lot of weird celebrity sort
of things like like that night that we were at
a concert and uh, what's his face? Uncle Joey from
(02:58):
Full House was in dressing room of the Emo band.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Yeah, we took him to a boss bar.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
He went to Boss Born and then he went to
Boss Bar with us, and I was like trying to
We were a little drunk, and I was like telling
all the bartenders, I'm like, do you know who this is?
And nobody knew who he was? And he was At
one point he was like you can stop doing that
because this generation has no idea who I am. I'm like, dude,
you are the most famous person on this block by
a mile. You know what I'm saying, Like, dude, you
were all one of the most iconic TV shows at
full House.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, he wasn't trying to talk about it then. No,
he was not really quick.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Selfie with him, but that was that was another random
I'm just like, what is happening? Who is it? What
are we doing? Where are we? Who was it for you?
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Leo and Titanic? He made me realize I was mostly straight,
Like when he put that like cigarette in his mouth.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah, honest question. I'm not even being funny. Was it
a guy or a girl friend?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
It was kind of split because I didn't really know
what was going on, But I think it was for
the guys it was Brian Latreue from the Backship Boyce.
It was like my guy. But for girls, I always
had a cushi on Jennifer. It like she was like
the first girl that I was like, Oh my god, she's.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Everybody thought she was. Everyone tried to get with her hot.
Her body's a wonderland. Am I The only fun fact
about Jennifer left Hewett that I know. I said that
that song we've written about her, Wow supposedly makes sense. Yeah, anyway,
Amanda says, boy meets world. Ben Savage, I think that
was true for a lot of people. Malcolm from Malcolm
in the Middle actually a good one eight five five
(04:24):
five nine one three five call in text the same number.
I'm just curious, first, the first thing that comes to mind.
Don't overthink it, but you know when you were sort
of transitioning, you know, from I'm not a girl, not
yet a woman, you know what I mean, Like when
you were sort of in that transition period, Like, what's
the first thing that came to comes to mind?
Speaker 6 (04:41):
For you the person you just thought, oh, what what
is the other one? I had like a weird obsession
with Fred Durst, Like I was like, oh bad, Yeah
he was hot.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Well, you know I had to think for Lady Elaine,
not the same.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Harus for my money.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah. I always had a little thing for the Redheads,
you know. It's a little bit of a weakness. Sadly
always ends the same way with the Redheads anyway, Yes,
and you.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Were absolutely convinced, like I was convinced that me and Leo,
like if I could just get in front of him,
we'd be together. Never Mind, I was like nine years old,
you know what I mean, Like I was like this,
this will work.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Well, it may have been possible at the time. And
still now you know you're a little old for him.
Actually sorry, too old for him.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I'm sorry to tell you he doesn't he didn't hold up.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Richard Mark. Somebody said, Richard Mark, what does he look like?
He looks kind of the same as he did back.
The guy hasn't really aged, and he's married to if
you were if you grew up with MTV. He's married
to what's her name? The v j Oh god, it
was escaping me. Really hot. Daisy Flentes. Yeah, he's married
to Daisy, he is, that's where Yeah, and she still
(05:56):
looks good too. But he's a nice shot. Yeah, he
floats round every now and again. He's nice guy.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
He was just on one of the Real Housewives.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
He's got bangers, man, he really does.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
We've talked about him twice this month, and that's shouted
to him.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Kirk Cameron River, Phoenix, somebody sitting old Phoenix. My entire
sexuality was realized with the cast of The Mummy. Mario Lopez, Hold,
and I want to talk to Brenda Brandon. Brenda a.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Howl.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Yeah, okay, And that was just curious because you said
Richard Marx was was you know, you realize your sexuality
when you saw Richard Marks And I was just wondering,
you know, because I know he's trying to make a comeback,
so I didn't know if maybe, and I know that
sort of older guys and younger girls that's kind of
a thing, So I wasn't sure.
Speaker 7 (06:41):
Yeah, no, I think I was.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I think I found nine or ten.
Speaker 7 (06:46):
Yeah, so it was early for me, and I would
like light his fan club and oh my god, I
mean he just he oh Juscus. I saw it. I
saw him on Twitter and a few years ago, and
I was like, hey, I'm like, I joined your fan club,
I said, and I've never heard from you, like you know, wow.
(07:12):
I was like, how dare you? But then he was like, oh,
he's like Hi, I knew I was forgetting something. And
I was like that made my freaking day.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Like I was like, that's insane.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Yeah, he used to be pretty responsive on Twitter because
I somehow got attached to a tweet that went viral
with him on it, and then he like hit me
up personally and was like what is this And I'm like,
I don't know, but anyone walk I guess. I guess
he's got time on his hands. But thank you, Brenda,
Thank you guys. I have a good day. He also
I think he wrote a bunch of songs that we
(07:43):
know too, like the guys. You guy's got some dough.
And then he's trying to I think he's trying to
release another album. So anyway, he's talking to come by
and sing right here waiting for you, right here waiting,
and he was the name of the song You're welcome
to Hey, Brittany, h good morning, Hi Jonathan Taylor Thomas
so tool time whatever that home improvement. Yes, yes, that's
(08:08):
what I did it for you.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Posters Cheambu Senboy, Oh yeah, JTT Man for me to
j T.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
T Yeah, yeah, thank you, Brittany, have a good day
you too, Thank you. Brendan Frasier. People are saying Christian Slater, Yeah,
I can see that. Another vote for River Phoenix. Oh
people from the Lord of the Rings. No one's gonna
say Britney Spears, Heath Ledger, Rob Low, Michael J. Fox,
(08:41):
because you know what, you can almost immediately tell someone's
age when they answer this question. Yeah, well all right,
well everyone everyone knows everyone that is that is that
person that comes to mind immediately and you're like, oh yeah,
I remember.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Somebody said the pink power Ranger.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Yes, yeah, sing you can just say it outline. Nothing
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Speaker 3 (10:00):
So you.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Are married and you've been lied to? Straight up?
Speaker 8 (10:07):
I mean, that's it. That's exactly what it is.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Okay, how did your husband lie to you? What happened?
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Well?
Speaker 8 (10:13):
I mean to me, this is pretty major. Maybe it's
just me, but.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Hello, are you there your phone? Bit? Okay, so you
think this is pretty major? What happened?
Speaker 8 (10:29):
He's been on ozema for six months and he's been
not only not telling me, but he just straight up
lied to me about it.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
How did he lie to you about it?
Speaker 8 (10:38):
Well, because i mean, obviously if he's taking azembic, he's
losing weight. So I'm asking him. I'm like, how, hey,
you know you're doing oh, you know, just diet exercise,
diet exercise, which yeah, he does work out, but he's
not working out more than he normally does. One of
those people we eat we eat pretty well. I mean,
we eat pretty healthy. We don't eat out a lot,
we don't do fast food and stuff like that very much.
(10:59):
But he just told me that that's all he was doing.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Okay, So so he's losing all this weight. You're like, man,
you look great. It's wow. It's hard work. You know,
hard work in the gym. You know, hard work is
transformed in my life. You know, a boy God tails
old as time. Paulina. I mean, this is twice that
day I've said tale so old, This tale might be
and so, but you're not. You're not lying to people
and telling them that you're, you know, out here running
(11:23):
five case and marathons and iron Man's and stuff.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Correct.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
But when it comes to my husband, I do have
to fabricate some things or move some things around. When
it comes to him, I can't be straight up because
he doesn't understand. Okay, it's my own thing.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Okay. So you you find out that he's on a
How did you find out he was an ozampic?
Speaker 8 (11:40):
Well, it sounded in the bathroom, So that was a
little scary because you know, you walk in and there's
like a needle in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Okay, so explect our heroin or a zempic, yeah, right,
evils right, all right, So you say something to him,
You're like, wait a minute, I found ozampic. I'm not
taking it, so it must be you. Why are you
lying to me about it? Like, why wouldn't you just
tell me? I mean we're married.
Speaker 8 (12:04):
Well, because and that's that's my biggest sticking point, is
like he can do what he wants to do. That's fine.
But his whole thing was he actually said to me, well,
I didn't tell you because it's not your business. You're
my husband. It's absolutely my business. You know, what if
he has some kind of allergic reaction to it or something.
What if he had some kind of weird side effect
(12:24):
thing and we go to the hospital and they're like,
you know what medications is he on and I don't know,
and they treat him for something that interacts with you
know what I'm saying, Like, I know I'm probably worst
case scenario in it, but that can happen.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Why do you think that he was a shame to
tell you the truth? Is it because he doesn't really
want to do the work and he wants you to
believe that he's doing it? Is it because and there's
nothing wrong with that, Like the thing that people being
ashamed about at zembik, I don't really understand. Because it's like,
if it helps you and you think it's appropriate for
your body, then you should take it. I'm not a doctor.
(13:01):
I don't know much about it. I mean, I would
argue there are people taking ozempic who could probably work
out and be a little more healthy in their lives,
in accomplish something similar and maybe help themselves in the
long term, versus taking the shot for vanity but not
changing your life. And then I don't really know what
that means long to you know what I mean, It's
like I could take ozempic and eat Big Max all day,
(13:21):
my cholesterol is still through the roof, and I could
still have a heart attack, but I'd be skinny when
I had it. I mean, again, I don't I'm not
a physician. I don't know any of this for a fact,
but you know, that's what you hear, and especially in
the beginning, was that people who really needed it, diabetic
or people had diabetes or whatever, they couldn't get it
because it had become this kind of vanity miracle drug.
But why do you think, why do you think you
wouldn't tell you?
Speaker 8 (13:43):
Well, to be fair, he was doing the work like
he was working out, and we do eat pretty healthy,
but he did it on top of that too. He
actually told me it was none of my business, which
again I'm just and I know I've already brought that up,
but it just it really made me angry. And he
also said he had the nerve. This is what I
was like, Okay, I got to walk away from this
conversation because about to lose my mind. He actually says
(14:03):
to me, well, it's my body, my choice. It's none
of your business. I'm wanting to tell you.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Oh oh say, And I was like, sir, okay, sure,
so you for you. It's less about the ozembic use,
but it's the lies because you've asked him multiple times,
how are you doing this? And I mean, and he's, wow,
it's just you know, I'm doing everything right, but maybe
he is. Maybe he's not, but he's also doing this
and he didn't want you to know. So for you,
(14:27):
it's said lies. It's one hundred percent about the lies.
Speaker 8 (14:30):
Like he can it is. His decision to do. What
he wants to do is with body, as long as
it's not something dangerous, and it's not dangerous. He's doing
it under doctors supervision, not one of those like mail
order weird things where you can just get it from wherever.
Like he's doing everything right, but he first one he
lied to me by omission because he just didn't tell
me that he was doing it or was even thinking
about doing it. And then you know, I asked him
(14:54):
and he lied to my face like multiple times.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Now people are texting. What one text here is is
asking about the money aspect of it, because it is expensive,
so is it such that maybe you both couldn't afford
to take it? So like he's using the money for
himself as opposed to you know, because maybe you maybe
you both can't afford it, So he doesn't want you
(15:18):
to know that he's spending all the money on it.
Is that a possibility or is that not an issue
he had?
Speaker 8 (15:23):
No, he actually got it covered by insurance because medical history. Yeah. No,
it had nothing to do with money. It's something he
wanted to do, which again I would have if he
sat down and told me or when I asked him
how he was doing it, he had told me the truth,
we would not be having this conversation right now.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Yeah. People are also texting that he's uh, he's probably well,
and I don't know that this is true, but he's
probably planning. He's trying to look good for somebody else
or something like he's trying to hyper speed this this
body transformation for someone I don't know. I mean, I
guess it lends itself to a lot of things when
he's lying about it, right, like if he just told
(15:57):
the truth, or maybe if he just came out and
told you I'm kind of ashamed of it, or I'm
I'm embarrassed and I need this, or you know, I
didn't think he would support me in it, or you know,
I don't know what kind of conversations you've had. Maybe
you're like, really, are you really anti medicine and are
you somebody who know? Okay, so that's not it.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
No, No, I'm not like an anti vaxxer or anything
like that, like I know, not at all. It was
something that his doctor, his actual doctor. Like again, he
wasn't just going online and quicking a few buttons. He's
been doing this through his doctor, so the doctor felt
like it was medically necessary. He's doing the other work.
There's literally no reason he wasn't telling me. And kind
(16:41):
of with what you were just saying about, like he's
looking for somebody else or whatever, it's making me question
everything that he says. It's like, well, what else are
you lying to me about?
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I have noticed this though, like people who are very
clearly using ozebic right because I know them well enough
to know their lifestyles and their habits and things, and
but they want you to believe that it's not an exercise.
And I I just simply I don't know why people
are ashamed to just say no, I'm It's like, why
don't you say that, like it is what it is?
Speaker 5 (17:08):
It?
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Because you know that people are going to say that's
kind of the easy way out for you, is it?
Because people might judge you and is it because people
you know who are working out and trying to lose
weight and don't use those epic might resent you for
it because it's fun to get the compliments when you're
working out a losing weight, and it almost feels like
when people just take a shot and lose the weight
and aren't necessarily working towards it. I can see the resentment.
(17:31):
It's like, wait a minute, I'm out here dragging my
ass across his lakefront trying to lose weight and it's
very slow process, and you're taking a shot. Everyone says
how good you look. Instantly it's like, well, that sucks.
But that's that's not a reason to lie to your
partner about it. I don't think. But let me take
some phone calls on this. Let me see if people
have to say, Whitney, thank you for calling.
Speaker 8 (17:48):
Good luck, thank you so much. I appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
You know what to do, thanks for listening. I mean,
of course, the right thing to do is call the
radio show, call the friend show. When you don't know
what to do, you call the frend Show. And I'm
one of the seventeen of us on this show. We'll
give you the advice that you need eight five one
three five, Gabby, Gabby, you're of the camp that he's
up to something.
Speaker 8 (18:10):
I would say that. I mean, first of all, we
were Mary, what the reason there's no reason to lie?
Speaker 1 (18:18):
You'll be asking too, is what happens? I also you lie?
It's just yeah, go ahead, it's just by experience.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
I mean my fiancee, he was he started kind of
working out, blah blah blah, getting in shape.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Your Yeah, we thought that it was for the wedding.
Speaker 8 (18:36):
But then I went through his instagram all these women,
and I said, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Oh I know, yeah, not for our wedding. So okay,
so you think the reason.
Speaker 8 (18:48):
Why exactly, there's no reason why he has to lie.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
Yeah, I agree with you, Gab. I think I agree.
Thank you, Gabby. I'm glad you called. You know. I
feel the same way. And once you tell a lie
and then it compounds it and you've told me more
than one lie, well then I then I why why
wouldn't I assume you lying about all kinds of stuff?
Like I don't know, that's a good point, like why
lie about something like that? And she's right and to
a certain extent, if there were some sort of health
(19:14):
complication with it and she was unaware of what he
was doing. Then, I mean that could be detrimental and
she could, you know, potentially help him, you know, if
if you had some issue and it's like, what is
he on it? What's he on? I don't know what
you mean. You don't know you're married to the guy. Well,
he lied to me about him. Lie to the world.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Don't lie to me.
Speaker 5 (19:32):
Like if you want, if you want to post on
Instagram holding a protein shake, acting like you're working out,
you know I'll be I'm your wife, I'll be in
the comments.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
You're looking good baby, good job. But let me in
on the lie. Once you out me on the light,
then I can't trust you and I don't know what
you're up to.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
Well, here's Luca, Luca turned your radio down. Luca and Luke,
you know, or you could hang up. You don't have
to hang up. Well, he Luca says, he lies about
being onebic, which is why I wanted to hear. Why. Yeah,
if you lie about being ozebic, then called up here.
I want to know why you do that and turn
your radio down when you do well, yeah, shame people. Well,
that's one part. What do you mean who's being shamed?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Well, people get decided for taking it because people are upset.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
You just went through this.
Speaker 5 (20:11):
People are upset because you may choose to lose weight
one way, somebody else is choosing another route. You feel
like they're taking the easy way out. So then you
get all this criticism about choosing the easier way out.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
But I'm not shaving people to their I'm being I'm
being honest about as someone who's trying to lose weight
and be more healthy, not only for the aesthetic, but
because I don't want to necessarily have a heart attack
at forty five and die. Right. This is what I'm
vocalizing to you, what's happening inside of me. I would
never actually shame someone for taking it.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
No, you wouldn't, but people.
Speaker 5 (20:42):
Do, and it's a negative connotation out there about it,
So people lie about it, and people get on Instagram
and pretend like they're working out, and they don't feel
comfortable to just say that they're not.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
And what's you're a husband's issue with it? My husband's well,
you're the one who has a husband.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
Yeah, I'm going to.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
Check the room.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
Yes, I am thinking so My husband is just like
your friend. We've talked about this money of time.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
So his whole thing is because he's very healthy, writing,
he works out, he's a fireman, and he says there's
no shortcuts in life. So that's his whole spiel on
the ozembic situation. I am on Munjaro and I was
prescribed that as a tool. So I work out, I eat,
I am six pounds down.
Speaker 8 (21:15):
I am.
Speaker 4 (21:16):
I am living my life right now, and I use
it as a tool because you're right, Fred, if I
get off of this, I am going to gain the
weight right back. If I don't change my lifestyle, if
I don't continue to work out.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
You have to do that.
Speaker 4 (21:25):
It's very important. So my doctor subscribed it to me.
Subscribed it. Yeah, subscribed it, scribe, subscribe, subscribed. He got
a subscription.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
I have a subscribed.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Get a subscription.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
You know, my husband doesn't believe in it, and listen,
that's his progative.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
He can do that. But I I don't lie to him.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
But I have told him before that I you know,
I'm taking a break from it. And now was that
one hundred percent true?
Speaker 5 (21:48):
No?
Speaker 7 (21:48):
It was not.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
So was it a lie?
Speaker 4 (21:50):
Perhaps it's sitting in my fridge. If he opens the
thing right now, you look right at it, so he
knows it's happening. However, he wants me to be very
careful because I have taken higher doses. I've gotten a
little take off of it. You know, we had to
kind of go back down at two point five. So yeah,
you gotta be honest with your partner.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Okay, Holly, So you're onozebic and lying about it?
Speaker 4 (22:09):
Yes, I am.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Who are you lying to.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
Everybody except accept one of my children?
Speaker 1 (22:17):
And why why are you like doctor right right?
Speaker 3 (22:24):
Because of the way people think of it. I mean,
I'm still trying to watch it, but I needed a
push start, and people just don't think you're also working
at it. They think you're just taking the easy way out.
And in my case, I'm not taking the easy way out.
And it's frustrating though, because I do need to be
on it.
Speaker 8 (22:43):
But the people that are, you know.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Weigh one hundred and thirty pounds and they just feel
like they need to lose five pounds and they're going
on this. I think that's absolutely ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
See, I think it's really honest. I know I know
some older people who have taken it who are less
inclined to work out or they're not physically able to
work out as much, and it's been a tool for
them too. And then it sort of starts the process
of wise, I'm beginning to look good, I'm beginning to
feel good. Now there's less weight on my body. Now
I can be more active. Now it's all good. It's
all good. It's just I guess, within the confines of
(23:13):
a relationship, if I'm lying about it, then what else
am I lying about? I think that's a fair.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
I wouldn't go, but I certainly would kind of keep
pushing the conversation. I just don't understand what you lie.
Why you're lying to me about it? I thought I
could do is just keep pushing it and then just
say I don't understand, Like, are you lying about anything else?
Like the other callers set too?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, and maybe why? I mean, I don't know that
I would jump to something nefarious, but like, why are
you I don't see so consumed with there with looking
good and lying to me about how you're doing it.
I don't. I think it's more it's more the fact
that you don't think you can tell me this because
you think that I'll judge you, or you think that
I'll have a negative reaction or whatever. And if it's
not about the money, then it would be one thing.
(23:59):
If it's a we can neither one of us can
afford this, so we're gonna have to do it the
old fashioned way, and then one of you goes and
does it like that would suck, right, But that's not
the case here because no one's paying for it, right.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
I do think maybe part of it is because he
wants to maybe kind of let her know that he's
doing it on his own and he wasn't. He might
just want to show that he is trying to lose
weight and he's needing the help with it, and he
might just be embarrassed about it too. He needs help.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Yeah, Holly, thank you and good luck to you. Okay, okay, thanks,
thank you. Maybe there's an this is kind of saying
the same thing. But I think sometimes when people get
healthy and work out and work hard at something and
they start to look good and see results, there is
a bit of a righteousness that comes with that because
you earned it right, and you feel good about it
and it was hard work. And then when someone else
(24:51):
maybe gets to share when they approach it with that
same righteousness, but they didn't necessarily do the work quote unquote,
I guess that's it. It can be irritating. I guess
I can see that, Like, you know, I'm out here
really working hard to do this and you aren't working
as hard, but you want the same level of praise.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
And it's like, but that's yeah, they don't take away
from your work. No you no, no, no, you're out there.
I see you out there on the lake.
Speaker 1 (25:15):
Well I don't mean, I don't mean me personally. I'm
just sicking. I'm speaking from the perspective of people who
are going about it a different way, and it's like
we're not necessarily well maybe we're not the same in
how hard we're working at this, but the end result
is the same. So that's where the resentment comes from.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
But that's that's something I keep to myself except for
when I'm at work. But that's something I mean, I
would never say that to somebody, but I would. I
would really question my relationship if somebody were taking steps
in their lives, you know, drastic steps to do something
and it wouldn't share it with me. I would. I
would worry about that.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
It's shady, no no way to look at it other
it's like it's shady.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
You cannot lie to your partner because you're worried about
their reaction to what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Like people loved, I.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
Didn't tell you because you know, I didn't want you
to get upset. I didn't know how you would react.
I didn't think you would support me. You can't think
for me. I'm your partner in life and I should
know what's going on with your body.
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