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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:43):
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Speaker 3 (00:45):
I don't know if anyone else plays this little skit
in their lives that I do. But if I make
plans with you and they're far out, so for instance,
you know, we set a dinner for two months from now,
which we did as a show like two months ago.
We said we're going to go to dinner in July,
at the end of July, because.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
That's how long it takes to find a day that
everybody can do it. Yeah, yep, literally a new slash.
I'm not the hold up since I have zero social
plans anyway, go ahead, same.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
But so we set this date two months ago and
I've been looking at it all week on my calendar,
but no one on the show has said anything all
week about this dinner. And I am the type of
person if we set plans two months out and it
comes to the week of, you don't mention anything, even
the day before. If you don't say anything, and my mind,
we're not going what Yes.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
What am I supposed to say to you?
Speaker 4 (01:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
The calendar invite to the follow up? Apparently I'm supposed
to ask her if she got hit by car twenty
years ago, so.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
You can talk about it at dinner.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
No, But okay, So you guys aren't like this, Like
if you have a date with somebody right and they
don't text you the day of to say like, hey
can't wait to catch up later, or hey can't wait
to see you tomorrow or can't wait to go out tomorrow.
In my mind, we both forgot about it, so it's
not I.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
Mean maybe with that, but we have a calendar invite,
so I know it's no it's real.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
But nobody said anything all week.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
What do you want me to say?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
I'm so excited to spend time with you?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yes, I am.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
If anybody's like, what have anybody looked at the me
and you? Or you know, are we still on for
said day that we plan months ago?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I don't feel this way about this dinner.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And I joke about how antisocial I am. I am.
I am fairly introverted, which seems to surprise a lot
of people. I think I use all of my talkie
talkie at work and then I'm kind of out of words. Yep,
And that's the real thing. But I do this all
the time where I'm like, oh, it's eight weeks away,
or sure, I'll do it. Yeah, great, and then I
(02:42):
don't remember that I agreed to it, and then every
Sunday I look at my calendar to see what I
have and I'm like, oh my god, I did agree
to that, didn't. I don't feel that way about this dinner.
But I did pop up and I was like, oh, yeah,
that's right, we're going to dinner. This I forgot about it.
I did forget right.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
But if anyone so say, no one said anything, because
the only reason it got brought up today is because.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Bella is extremely exciting.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
I saw Bella from fifty feet away and going up
the escalator we get to fun tonight.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
So if she hadn't said anything and no one mentioned anything,
were we all just going to show up at the restaurant?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yes, I mean I was.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I was going to be there.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
It's on my calendar. I was. I was assuming that
we were going. The only thing I was wondering about
was are we really going at four? See see yourself?
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I was just making sure because I love that. I'm
all about going to dinner at four o'clock. This makes
me very happy.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
It makes to hate it.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
We're going to go to dinner at four. Paulina will
show up around five fifteen, the first time that they'll
serve dinner.
Speaker 7 (03:36):
By the way, that Jason, I wanted to go at noon. Oh,
but they don't open until four. So that's what we're
going there for. I'm not trying to be in the
city until nine o'clock and I got to get up
at three am. Yes, oh this is great.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I mean we go at four, I'll probably be in
bed by six thirty. This is amazing. Yeah, watching Netflix
or something that fully my little bellies full. Oh, I'll
be so excit. I'll just be so full of energy
from all my social interaction, or I'll be completely exhausted
one of the others the bonding. Either way, the bonding
will be exhausting.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I'm sure.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
So what you're saying, Kiki, is that you need like
a daily reminder.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Not a daily reminder, but like if we plan this too,
even my dentist office, we put sales out six months aday.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
So you need Jason to call from the Friends show.
I just wanted to confirm your reservation to have dinner
with us on Thursday.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Yes, Like, let me know that you remember, because in
my mind, if I send.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
You a calendar, but I remember.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
But Jason, it's a dinner though it's not a meeting,
it's a family It's all.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
That's going to me.
Speaker 8 (04:36):
If it's in the calendar, we're going. If we're not
all right, good to know. I just like a little
confirmation to make sure we're still friends. You still want
to go, you still I'm still invited.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
You know things, I'll tell you what I would never
survive in the real world. And this is a fact.
I've never had another job I have in college or
high school, whatever, but my knocking wood in my professional
career or this is only job I have had some
form of radio personality. And we don't do the corporate
rules like we never just it's not we don't work
(05:08):
the same hours as everybody else, or you know, what
we're asked to do is different. And I'm not saying
it's harder or less hard, it's just the parameters of
a nine to five. I don't know how I would
conform after twenty five years of doing this because I've
never had to. In some ways it might be easier,
and in some ways it would be very difficult. Right,
this is not a hard job, but it's a job
(05:28):
where you're on There is no downtime really unless we're
playing a commercial, of which we play many. But but
but you know what I mean, Like, I'm not suggesting
that at work you don't do anything, but you know,
so I would imagine if you have an office job.
There are times where you can close the door and
do something at your own pace. We don't really have
them what I would. What drives me absolutely crazy is
(05:49):
when people put things on my calendar without asking me
if I'm available. Now I know why they're doing it.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I can't say that I.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Know why they're doing it because in the corporate world,
they go into their little teams or a little loud
look or whatever the hell it's called the little I
don't even know what it's called the calendar, and they
can see, right, can't they see what I'm available and
when I'm not.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
What's blocked off and what's free.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
And I don't participate in that, Like I don't. I
don't block things off. I don't I don't put little
messages up Hey, I don't use teams chat, I don't
do anything. I don't do any of this. I don't
do it because I don't have to, because we don't,
you know, Like, if I need something, I'm looking at
everybody who's important to me at work right now except
for mellows in the other room, and I just say, hey,
we're doing this. Whatever can you do this? Can you
ask me? Yeah? Is that simple?
Speaker 9 (06:32):
So?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Like but I noticed in the corporate world it's very
common if you if you're if you're open on the calendar,
somebody can put something on them because the expectation is
that you're you know, you're there from eight to five
or whatever it is, and we just it just does
not operate like that. So, like last week, someone just puts
something on my calendar, I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, everybody
calm down.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Who who do you think you are?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Who do you think you are? A life?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Now?
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Do you know I'm available? Well, because your schedules open,
But that doesn't mean I don't. I didn't put in
there my wax or whatever I write. It just so happens.
You wanted to meet during my weekly Brazilian. Yes, it's weekly.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
It's crazy. This sextor has a great boy and Kiki.
If you didn't forget, why didn't you confirm with us?
Speaker 9 (07:14):
Like?
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Why is it on us to confirm with you?
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Wow invited me?
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Jason invited me, so firm Jason's meeting like or his plans.
You know, he's the captain. So he just tells me
where to go and I have the show up. And
if Jason doesn't say anything, I'm like, man, I wonder
if we're still doing it?
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Is that like inviting you for fun? My choice? One
thing I know about this show is we just come
up with this. We do love a calendar invite on
this show. We love a calendar invite and we need
it and it don't work. So it doesn't well for me.
But when they come, when they go up, they'll come
down right. So, like you know, Jason and Cameland are
(07:57):
very thorough about the calendar invites, and so do you guys.
Need If the dinner had been canceled, then it would
have come off the schedule. So the fact that it
was still there meant it was happening and I didn't
have to ask anybody about it. Well, damn my bad,
because I'll say you right now, I want to hear
if I had come in here and said the same
thing you said, I would have heard somebody's feelings. I
promise you we're still having dinner. Of course we are.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
It's on your calendar full unexpecting like uh one to
two pm text from Kiki, hey are we doing this?
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Like it was already like in my head that it
was coming. I'd like to make sure it doesn't a
fund to me, I'd just be like, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
People change their mind, you know. I don't know if
you have a friend, are you still like me at
one o'clock today?
Speaker 6 (08:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
This is a work.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
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Speaker 1 (11:17):
Something so well? Oh yeah we Hey Christian, all right,
let's call Ellen. You guys met on bumble, you went out.
You thought there was a lot of chemistry, had a
great date. I wanted poking up, except you've reached out
(11:38):
since that date, trying to set update number two, and
she's not responding to you at all. Exactly exactly.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
We had a good time. We had a good time,
and I'm looking forward to the day two.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
You just at least you want to know, you know
why she's not calling or if something happened or whatever.
So let's call her now. Good luck Christian hisus Ellen, Yeah, Ellen, Hey,
(12:09):
good morning Fred from the Fred's Show. The whole crew
is here. I have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now, and I would you, I
would thank you. Woh my god, I don't know if
that's a compliment. I don't know if that was an
Oh my god, like I love the show, and notice
I just say thank you right away, Like that's what
that meant. I love the show, genuinely surprised. Okay, well
then you know the rest of the deal. So you're
(12:29):
on waiting by the phone right now. A guy him Christian,
reached out to us so that you guys met on
bumble and went out. Do you remember this guy? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
You do?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Okay, So he called us, and if you listen to
the show before, then you know why he called. He
wants to know why you aren't calling him back. He
described to us what he thought was a very successful date.
He did mention that you guys got intimate, and it's like,
why did all that happen if you weren't interested? So
what's your side of the story.
Speaker 11 (12:56):
Well, I would bet that he didn't actually tell you
the whole story. We went out for drinks.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Never do.
Speaker 11 (13:04):
Yeah, we went out for drinks and then we like
had to sleep over and I don't know whatever, Like
I would have hooked up with him even if we
hadn't had drinks, just because like.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
I don't know, maybe we weren't, like because he was
worried about that. He was like, well maybe it was
maybe this whole thing is because everybody had too much
to drink and now people are regretting things. But you're
saying that's not the reason you're not calling him.
Speaker 9 (13:26):
Well, well, I mean, like I would have hooked up
with him either way, but because of the drinking, we
weren't like as space as.
Speaker 11 (13:39):
Probably should have been.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Okay, we'll leave it at that, Okay, yep.
Speaker 11 (13:43):
And then in the morning he asked me if I
was on birth control and I was like no, So
we were like, okay, you know, we decided together we
should go get a plan B I like need to
go buy it, and he just keeps like blow washing
out my phone, demanding that I send him a video
of me opening the package and putting the tillt.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
In my mouth and swallowing it to make sure you
get it. Yeah. I wasn't convinced exactly that you're going
to buy it meant that you were going to utilize
the product, So he needed proof that you were going.
Speaker 9 (14:15):
To do it.
Speaker 11 (14:15):
Oh, and he needed like the date somewhere shown in
the video. It was just completely insulting. He didn't trust me,
and he thinks that she's so great that I would
like want to have his data. What is wrong.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
So you know, the Christians here, Christian what's your side
of the story. I mean, it wasn't good enough for
you guys just to make that decision and to let
you know, let her say what she said she was
going to do, or do what she said she was
going to do.
Speaker 10 (14:40):
Yeah, no, no, no, I just kind of what I
wanted to cut you off because you're really like putting
all of all of my business out there.
Speaker 11 (14:47):
Okay, So just like, oh and you when you called
a radio.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Station, Yeah, I mean, what did you think? What I mean,
you knew you had the story. You're on the radio now.
Of course she's gonna put your business out But I
didn't think that this.
Speaker 10 (14:58):
I didn't think that she would go on talk about
the night before, not the morning after. I didn't think
anything else.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
And I'm just asking you for a little.
Speaker 10 (15:07):
At No, it's after the date, Ellen, and I just
wanted to know if, like you wanted to go out again.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
But here you are accusing me of like.
Speaker 10 (15:17):
Some sort of like phone harassment like I just I
don't know. I just I wanted to call you to
see if you want to go out again. And the
whole thing that happened like after the dating. Again after
the date. Okay, well that's great, I guess.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Okay, so you guys don't know each other and this
all goes down, and I mean, you haven't developed any
form of trust. You don't probably even know each other's
last names or middle names or whatever. And that's okay.
Things happened, but it wasn't good enough, Christian for you
and Ellen to just decide that you were going to
take this path to be extra safe. After the fact,
(15:53):
I also.
Speaker 11 (15:54):
Was like, hell, yeah, we need to get something done
about this.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yeah, but great, I also need to protect I felt.
Speaker 10 (16:00):
So I'm just asking for a seat.
Speaker 11 (16:02):
Listen to Ellen.
Speaker 10 (16:02):
All I'm saying is that I think my request is
well within my right. I've told you that my family
has a lot of money and I have to go
to like extra lank. I don't want to be taking
advantage of.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
How does that come up on the day I'm extremely rich.
I mean, once you do that, I can see why
you're paranoid now, because you're telling everybody how rich you are.
Speaker 11 (16:20):
I'm not telling everybody how I'm not trying to procreate
with a douche like you.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Amen. You both made this decision, but you're out here
willing billy, knowing that feeling as though you could be
exposed at any time, but you're not taking any precaution.
Speaker 10 (16:36):
Not that night, no, which is why I'm trying to
do the next morning again, not part of the date.
We're past the date. We're into the next phase of
whatever this was going to be okay, And.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
So for you, Ellen, that's too much in a word,
yet because of that and because of a lack of trust,
and you just thought the whole thing was not cool.
So you're never going to talk to him again. I mean,
the video was a little much, but I guess I
can see I mean, can you guys see the paranoia
maybe that that there was no follow up. I mean,
it's kind of the decision that you make when you
(17:06):
were grown up and you put yourself in that position
that like you relinquished a little bit of power by
not being thoughtful.
Speaker 5 (17:13):
Yeah, he made that decision, though I don't think he
can demand that.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yeah, I don't know about the video and the rest of.
Speaker 5 (17:17):
It doing too much. Yeah, you know, you made the
mistake and you're going to have to just trust.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
But so did she. If you want to call it
in the control I mean devil's advocate. You know, there's
no basis for him to believe what she's saying. So
I mean, I'm not saying I agree with him.
Speaker 5 (17:30):
I think he really wants to be one hundred percent
sure that he doesn't have a baby, then he shouldn't
do that.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Well, I agree with that. I agree with that.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
So it's not on him anymore, like it's not in
his control.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Okay. So basically she didn't like the approach, thought it
was insensitive, thought it was uncool and Christian. There you go.
That's why she's not calling and there's not going to
be a second date.
Speaker 10 (17:49):
Yeah, obviously I can't. I didn't think I was being
insensitive at all, just just to trying to. I don't know,
I'll get some bases and trust going.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
I don't know that the video she could have she
could have taken anything. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 11 (18:03):
It's her lost.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Okay, Well, there you go, Ellen, it's your lost. You
hear that
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Speaker 2 (00:43):
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Speaker 3 (00:45):
I don't know if anyone else plays this little skit
in their lives that I do. But if I make
plans with you and they're far out, so for instance,
you know, we set a dinner for two months from now,
which we did as a show like two months ago.
We said we're going to go to dinner in July,
at the end of July, because.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
That's how long it takes to find a day that
everybody can do it. Yeah, yep, literally a new slash.
I'm not the hold up since I have zero social
plans anyway, go ahead, same.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
But so we set this date two months ago and
I've been looking at it all week on my calendar,
but no one on the show has said anything all
week about this dinner. And I am the type of
person if we set plans two months out and it
comes to the week of, you don't mention anything, even
the day before. If you don't say anything, and my mind,
we're not going what Yes.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
What am I supposed to say to you?
Speaker 4 (01:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
The calendar invite to the follow up? Apparently I'm supposed
to ask her if she got hit by car twenty
years ago, so.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
You can talk about it at dinner.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
No, But okay, So you guys aren't like this, Like
if you have a date with somebody right and they
don't text you the day of to say like, hey
can't wait to catch up later, or hey can't wait
to see you tomorrow or can't wait to go out tomorrow.
In my mind, we both forgot about it, so it's
not I.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
Mean maybe with that, but we have a calendar invite,
so I know it's no it's real.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
But nobody said anything all week.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
What do you want me to say?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
I'm so excited to spend time with you?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yes, I am.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
If anybody's like, what have anybody looked at the me
and you? Or you know, are we still on for
said day that we plan months ago?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I don't feel this way about this dinner.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And I joke about how antisocial I am. I am.
I am fairly introverted, which seems to surprise a lot
of people. I think I use all of my talkie
talkie at work and then I'm kind of out of words. Yep,
And that's the real thing. But I do this all
the time where I'm like, oh, it's eight weeks away,
or sure, I'll do it. Yeah, great, and then I
(02:42):
don't remember that I agreed to it, and then every
Sunday I look at my calendar to see what I
have and I'm like, oh my god, I did agree
to that, didn't. I don't feel that way about this dinner.
But I did pop up and I was like, oh, yeah,
that's right, we're going to dinner. This I forgot about it.
I did forget right.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
But if anyone so say, no one said anything, because
the only reason it got brought up today is because.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Bella is extremely exciting.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
I saw Bella from fifty feet away and going up
the escalator we get to fun tonight.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
So if she hadn't said anything and no one mentioned anything,
were we all just going to show up at the restaurant?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yes, I mean I was.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I was going to be there.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
It's on my calendar. I was. I was assuming that
we were going. The only thing I was wondering about
was are we really going at four? See see yourself?
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I was just making sure because I love that. I'm
all about going to dinner at four o'clock. This makes
me very happy.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
It makes to hate it.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
We're going to go to dinner at four. Paulina will
show up around five fifteen, the first time that they'll
serve dinner.
Speaker 7 (03:36):
By the way, that Jason, I wanted to go at noon. Oh,
but they don't open until four. So that's what we're
going there for. I'm not trying to be in the
city until nine o'clock and I got to get up
at three am. Yes, oh this is great.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I mean we go at four, I'll probably be in
bed by six thirty. This is amazing. Yeah, watching Netflix
or something that fully my little bellies full. Oh, I'll
be so excit. I'll just be so full of energy
from all my social interaction, or I'll be completely exhausted
one of the others the bonding. Either way, the bonding
will be exhausting.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I'm sure.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
So what you're saying, Kiki, is that you need like
a daily reminder.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Not a daily reminder, but like if we plan this too,
even my dentist office, we put sales out six months aday.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
So you need Jason to call from the Friends show.
I just wanted to confirm your reservation to have dinner
with us on Thursday.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Yes, Like, let me know that you remember, because in
my mind, if I send.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
You a calendar, but I remember.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
But Jason, it's a dinner though it's not a meeting,
it's a family It's all.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
That's going to me.
Speaker 8 (04:36):
If it's in the calendar, we're going. If we're not
all right, good to know. I just like a little
confirmation to make sure we're still friends. You still want
to go, you still I'm still invited.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
You know things, I'll tell you what I would never
survive in the real world. And this is a fact.
I've never had another job I have in college or
high school, whatever, but my knocking wood in my professional
career or this is only job I have had some
form of radio personality. And we don't do the corporate
rules like we never just it's not we don't work
(05:08):
the same hours as everybody else, or you know, what
we're asked to do is different. And I'm not saying
it's harder or less hard, it's just the parameters of
a nine to five. I don't know how I would
conform after twenty five years of doing this because I've
never had to. In some ways it might be easier,
and in some ways it would be very difficult. Right,
this is not a hard job, but it's a job
(05:28):
where you're on There is no downtime really unless we're
playing a commercial, of which we play many. But but
but you know what I mean, Like, I'm not suggesting
that at work you don't do anything, but you know,
so I would imagine if you have an office job.
There are times where you can close the door and
do something at your own pace. We don't really have
them what I would. What drives me absolutely crazy is
(05:49):
when people put things on my calendar without asking me
if I'm available. Now I know why they're doing it.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I can't say that I.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Know why they're doing it because in the corporate world,
they go into their little teams or a little loud
look or whatever the hell it's called the little I
don't even know what it's called the calendar, and they
can see, right, can't they see what I'm available and
when I'm not.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
What's blocked off and what's free.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
And I don't participate in that, Like I don't. I
don't block things off. I don't I don't put little
messages up Hey, I don't use teams chat, I don't
do anything. I don't do any of this. I don't
do it because I don't have to, because we don't,
you know, Like, if I need something, I'm looking at
everybody who's important to me at work right now except
for mellows in the other room, and I just say, hey,
we're doing this. Whatever can you do this? Can you
ask me? Yeah? Is that simple?
Speaker 9 (06:32):
So?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Like but I noticed in the corporate world it's very
common if you if you're if you're open on the calendar,
somebody can put something on them because the expectation is
that you're you know, you're there from eight to five
or whatever it is, and we just it just does
not operate like that. So, like last week, someone just puts
something on my calendar, I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, everybody
calm down.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Who who do you think you are?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Who do you think you are? A life?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Now?
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Do you know I'm available? Well, because your schedules open,
But that doesn't mean I don't. I didn't put in
there my wax or whatever I write. It just so happens.
You wanted to meet during my weekly Brazilian. Yes, it's weekly.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
It's crazy. This sextor has a great boy and Kiki.
If you didn't forget, why didn't you confirm with us?
Speaker 9 (07:14):
Like?
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Why is it on us to confirm with you?
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Wow invited me?
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Jason invited me, so firm Jason's meeting like or his plans.
You know, he's the captain. So he just tells me
where to go and I have the show up. And
if Jason doesn't say anything, I'm like, man, I wonder
if we're still doing it?
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Is that like inviting you for fun? My choice? One
thing I know about this show is we just come
up with this. We do love a calendar invite on
this show. We love a calendar invite and we need
it and it don't work. So it doesn't well for me.
But when they come, when they go up, they'll come
down right. So, like you know, Jason and Cameland are
(07:57):
very thorough about the calendar invites, and so do you guys.
Need If the dinner had been canceled, then it would
have come off the schedule. So the fact that it
was still there meant it was happening and I didn't
have to ask anybody about it. Well, damn my bad,
because I'll say you right now, I want to hear
if I had come in here and said the same
thing you said, I would have heard somebody's feelings. I
promise you we're still having dinner. Of course we are.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
It's on your calendar full unexpecting like uh one to
two pm text from Kiki, hey are we doing this?
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Like it was already like in my head that it
was coming. I'd like to make sure it doesn't a
fund to me, I'd just be like, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
People change their mind, you know. I don't know if
you have a friend, are you still like me at
one o'clock today?
Speaker 6 (08:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
This is a work.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
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Speaker 1 (11:17):
Something so well? Oh yeah we Hey Christian, all right,
let's call Ellen. You guys met on bumble, you went out.
You thought there was a lot of chemistry, had a
great date. I wanted poking up, except you've reached out
(11:38):
since that date, trying to set update number two, and
she's not responding to you at all. Exactly exactly.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
We had a good time. We had a good time,
and I'm looking forward to the day two.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
You just at least you want to know, you know
why she's not calling or if something happened or whatever.
So let's call her now. Good luck Christian hisus Ellen, Yeah, Ellen, Hey,
(12:09):
good morning Fred from the Fred's Show. The whole crew
is here. I have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now, and I would you, I
would thank you. Woh my god, I don't know if
that's a compliment. I don't know if that was an
Oh my god, like I love the show, and notice
I just say thank you right away, Like that's what
that meant. I love the show, genuinely surprised. Okay, well
then you know the rest of the deal. So you're
(12:29):
on waiting by the phone right now. A guy him Christian,
reached out to us so that you guys met on
bumble and went out. Do you remember this guy? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
You do?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Okay, So he called us, and if you listen to
the show before, then you know why he called. He
wants to know why you aren't calling him back. He
described to us what he thought was a very successful date.
He did mention that you guys got intimate, and it's like,
why did all that happen if you weren't interested? So
what's your side of the story.
Speaker 11 (12:56):
Well, I would bet that he didn't actually tell you
the whole story. We went out for drinks.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Never do.
Speaker 11 (13:04):
Yeah, we went out for drinks and then we like
had to sleep over and I don't know whatever, Like
I would have hooked up with him even if we
hadn't had drinks, just because like.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
I don't know, maybe we weren't, like because he was
worried about that. He was like, well maybe it was
maybe this whole thing is because everybody had too much
to drink and now people are regretting things. But you're
saying that's not the reason you're not calling him.
Speaker 9 (13:26):
Well, well, I mean, like I would have hooked up
with him either way, but because of the drinking, we
weren't like as space as.
Speaker 11 (13:39):
Probably should have been.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Okay, we'll leave it at that, Okay, yep.
Speaker 11 (13:43):
And then in the morning he asked me if I
was on birth control and I was like no, So
we were like, okay, you know, we decided together we
should go get a plan B I like need to
go buy it, and he just keeps like blow washing
out my phone, demanding that I send him a video
of me opening the package and putting the tillt.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
In my mouth and swallowing it to make sure you
get it. Yeah. I wasn't convinced exactly that you're going
to buy it meant that you were going to utilize
the product, So he needed proof that you were going.
Speaker 9 (14:15):
To do it.
Speaker 11 (14:15):
Oh, and he needed like the date somewhere shown in
the video. It was just completely insulting. He didn't trust me,
and he thinks that she's so great that I would
like want to have his data. What is wrong.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
So you know, the Christians here, Christian what's your side
of the story. I mean, it wasn't good enough for
you guys just to make that decision and to let
you know, let her say what she said she was
going to do, or do what she said she was
going to do.
Speaker 10 (14:40):
Yeah, no, no, no, I just kind of what I
wanted to cut you off because you're really like putting
all of all of my business out there.
Speaker 11 (14:47):
Okay, So just like, oh and you when you called
a radio.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Station, Yeah, I mean, what did you think? What I mean,
you knew you had the story. You're on the radio now.
Of course she's gonna put your business out But I
didn't think that this.
Speaker 10 (14:58):
I didn't think that she would go on talk about
the night before, not the morning after. I didn't think
anything else.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
And I'm just asking you for a little.
Speaker 10 (15:07):
At No, it's after the date, Ellen, and I just
wanted to know if, like you wanted to go out again.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
But here you are accusing me of like.
Speaker 10 (15:17):
Some sort of like phone harassment like I just I
don't know. I just I wanted to call you to
see if you want to go out again. And the
whole thing that happened like after the dating. Again after
the date. Okay, well that's great, I guess.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Okay, so you guys don't know each other and this
all goes down, and I mean, you haven't developed any
form of trust. You don't probably even know each other's
last names or middle names or whatever. And that's okay.
Things happened, but it wasn't good enough, Christian for you
and Ellen to just decide that you were going to
take this path to be extra safe. After the fact,
(15:53):
I also.
Speaker 11 (15:54):
Was like, hell, yeah, we need to get something done
about this.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yeah, but great, I also need to protect I felt.
Speaker 10 (16:00):
So I'm just asking for a seat.
Speaker 11 (16:02):
Listen to Ellen.
Speaker 10 (16:02):
All I'm saying is that I think my request is
well within my right. I've told you that my family
has a lot of money and I have to go
to like extra lank. I don't want to be taking
advantage of.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
How does that come up on the day I'm extremely rich.
I mean, once you do that, I can see why
you're paranoid now, because you're telling everybody how rich you are.
Speaker 11 (16:20):
I'm not telling everybody how I'm not trying to procreate
with a douche like you.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Amen. You both made this decision, but you're out here
willing billy, knowing that feeling as though you could be
exposed at any time, but you're not taking any precaution.
Speaker 10 (16:36):
Not that night, no, which is why I'm trying to
do the next morning again, not part of the date.
We're past the date. We're into the next phase of
whatever this was going to be okay, And.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
So for you, Ellen, that's too much in a word,
yet because of that and because of a lack of trust,
and you just thought the whole thing was not cool.
So you're never going to talk to him again. I mean,
the video was a little much, but I guess I
can see I mean, can you guys see the paranoia
maybe that that there was no follow up. I mean,
it's kind of the decision that you make when you
(17:06):
were grown up and you put yourself in that position
that like you relinquished a little bit of power by
not being thoughtful.
Speaker 5 (17:13):
Yeah, he made that decision, though I don't think he
can demand that.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yeah, I don't know about the video and the rest of.
Speaker 5 (17:17):
It doing too much. Yeah, you know, you made the
mistake and you're going to have to just trust.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
But so did she. If you want to call it
in the control I mean devil's advocate. You know, there's
no basis for him to believe what she's saying. So
I mean, I'm not saying I agree with him.
Speaker 5 (17:30):
I think he really wants to be one hundred percent
sure that he doesn't have a baby, then he shouldn't
do that.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Well, I agree with that. I agree with that.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
So it's not on him anymore, like it's not in
his control.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Okay. So basically she didn't like the approach, thought it
was insensitive, thought it was uncool and Christian. There you go.
That's why she's not calling and there's not going to
be a second date.
Speaker 10 (17:49):
Yeah, obviously I can't. I didn't think I was being
insensitive at all, just just to trying to. I don't know,
I'll get some bases and trust going.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
I don't know that the video she could have she
could have taken anything. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 11 (18:03):
It's her lost.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Okay, Well, there you go, Ellen, it's your lost. You
hear that
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