August 4, 2025 • 26 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
But I had dinner with some people over the weekend,
and we've done had dinner before. It was, I guess
more of like a business setting kind of thing, and
it was the thing that you do when you eat
with people. And it was like, hey, do you want
to order some stuff and then we'll try you know
what I mean? Like not that share. It's more like
a romantic thing, I think. But it was like, hey,
what if we get a bunch of things and we
all eat it? Say hey, Fred, what don't you like?
(00:22):
And I generally think I'm not all that picky, like
I'll eat a lot of different things, okay, But as
I started to list the things I don't want, I
realized that I am picky in a strange way. And
I've been listening for a while. You know this. I
don't want any kind of meat that looks like it
did when it was alive. Okay, Okay. So like, for example,
(00:42):
there was branzino and they didn't have the head on it,
but essentially they cut the head off, they leave the
tail on. They cut the thing in half, and then
it's like a butterfly branzino and it still sometimes has
little bonies in it and stuff it might taste delicious.
I don't know. I didn't need the tail on it,
and I don't need the head. And I know that
they're your pions listening right now and people going, hey, dude,
you from the Mediterranean. Hey, you're missing out. It's delicious.
(01:05):
You know, fish with a head on it is good.
I don't need to look in the eye at the fish.
It's a weird thing to ask the server though, you know, hey,
does is that fish going to have the head on it?
You know what I mean? Like, it's a strange thing,
especially when you're trying to act cool kind of or
act chill. And then it was like, why don't like eel?
They didn't have a eel on the menu. But then
it kind of became a top. It came like what
(01:27):
don't you like?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
And you know, Calamari don't comm at him with calm.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I don't understand Kalamary. I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Oh yeah, yeah, you don't get it.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I don't get Calamaria. I don't understand why it's necessary.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
For me too, because now I'm thinking, like this could
be a rubber brand just in matter.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
That's what I mean, Squid, I'm sorry. The texture of
squid on its own is gross and then so okay,
So then we just go deep fry it because that's
more palatable to a lot of people. Fine, but then
deep fry a vegetable and give it to me. I
don't need it. It's I don't get it. And then
somebody we had this conversation because kalamari was on the menu.
(02:04):
I'm like, I don't like the way it smells, I
don't the texture, I don't like. I don't get it.
Go ahead and order I don't want it. I'm not
having it. And then people dip it in marinara or whatever.
It's like, Well, then now we're tasting now it's fried marinara.
What is the purpose of the calamari even at all?
Why is it even there? Have you had it in
strips deep fried air and then get that in calamari,
(02:26):
and then I get my deep fright in my air.
I don't know if I've had it in strips, I
don't If it's on the menu, you guys always order it.
It's wonderful, have ad it. I's just I'm not going
to partake. I've never said don't get it. Go ahead
and be in bet you don't let us get interested.
You did, We're forbidden eels a texture thing for me.
But then after a little while, I'm like, I guess,
(02:49):
I guess I am kind of picky. Now if someone
had ordered it, I wouldn't have said a word. I
just wouldn't have eaten it. Oysters. I like oysters, except
I got sick not that long ago after eating oysters.
I can't confirm that it was from the oyster, but
I have that now I have the association, you know,
where it's like, yeah, now I see them and I'm like, oh,
I was really sick for two or three days after
(03:10):
I bring this up because you gov has they guess
they serve it a bunch of people, and they have
the list of the most hated foods. This is other
people hate anchovy's, liver, sardines, and oysters. Strong or slimy flavors,
weird textures are the main deal breakers. Most people say
they've warmed up to something if they used to hate,
(03:31):
so the opinions can change. But anchovy's, liver, sardine's, oysters
most dislike foods. Do you guys have any eight five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five You can context the same number.
Do you guys have any food stuff where it's like
I'm just I'm not. I'm not gonna enough for canin
just gets cows, anything cow that was once a cow.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Yeah, and I don't get I don't get can tuna
or like bag tuna, like no one's ever like, oh
it smells like tuna in here, and that's a good thing.
Why do you want to eat something that smells like that?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
That's fair?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Okay, thank you, that's fair.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
However, just prepared European like tinfish, like or if you
go to Spain or you go to Portugal that somehow
Stuf's pretty.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Good eats tin fish and it's actually like his biggest
run flag really because.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Some of it's like super high quality and really good.
But I would agree that the smell is not is
not ideal.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I don't want to eat anything that smells like I
don't want it to smell like.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
But any hardlines on food like we okay, sushi.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
I know that's so popular. I don't like sushi, you know,
I guess I hate anything. I eat everything that comes
to my face, but no cold shrimp.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
No cold shrimp. I don't like the little seaweed thing.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
In there.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Cold shrimp is typically cooked, not at a sushi restaurant,
but like the cold cold shrimp they bring, like for shrimp,
cocktail has been boiled.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
I'm not dipping it in What is that the cocktail sauce.
I'm not dipping it in there.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I don't like that.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
I need like like cold shrimp, like put it with
rice and stuff like make it yummy.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
It's just cold.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I don't like cold. Oh that's the yeah, the coldness
is not cure.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Okay, all right, Jason, surely you have a lung. I
do I do.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
I don't like onions, raw onions.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I don't like that.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
I don't like barbecue sauce of any kind or anything
that tastes like barbecue sauce or barbecue.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Flavored or like smoked that.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I don't like runny eggs, Like my eggs have to
be shaped and formed like an omelet. They can't be
like all flopping all over the place. I have to
have compact shaped eggs. Okay, so over hard then is
the way you would? Yes? Oh, I will not eat
anything off a bone, not a.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Bit that that that comes back to the thing where
if it looks like its original form, like it's a
little tactile for me. Like I like wings, But every
now and again you're eating a wing, I'm like, what
is this? What did I just alm? What is it?
This looks like it shouldn't be here, you know.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Then you're like you have to like pick the bones
apart to get the meat out of it, Like it's
so yeah, wrong, not for me. Then you don't look
good while you're doing it, anyone.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Just know. I like, I like slightly overcooked chicken, like
like chicken that's borderlined. I know you're supposed to be
one hundred and sixty degrees whatever it supposed to be,
But if I need like a little firmer firmness to
my chicken, because chicken that's like right there, the texture
can be a little like a little i don't know,
(06:31):
like a little slimy almost.
Speaker 7 (06:32):
So you like fried hard? You want your wings fried hard?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Why not?
Speaker 5 (06:35):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I don't want them. No, you have the wings, I mean,
like a chicken breast like you grill it like you
grill it like grill it. It needs to be cooked.
Speaker 6 (06:43):
I always overcook it because I'm afraid of undercooking. So
I make sure it's like.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, that well, that too, that too, Kiki.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Macha, I get it away from me. I don't want it.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
That's a totally much as that's showing up every day.
It is that like, hey, Macha for the table, you
know like that.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
It's not it's the new pumpkins spice. Get it away
from me.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
I don't want to try it. I tried to get
into dire. People are like, oh, it's so healthy. I
tried it for a while. I really tried it, and
I agree with you. I couldn't do it.
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Why are we doing this? Like now, y'all just doing.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Stuff now, Jackie, we talked about this late late last week,
I guess. But cottage cheese for you.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Jackie, yep, that's an absolute path For me.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
I don't understand why it's all curdly and everything.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
It should not be edible.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, I agree. I mean it tastes like cheese, which
is fine, But I agree with you, like what's up
with the texture.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
It's gross. Same thing looks like mazzarella sticks for me too.
I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
You see mozzarella stick. I do get because now talk
about something, you take something great, deep fry to make
it greater. Then dip it in marinera to make it greater.
Now we got greatness, so that makes sense. But that's
the same like Calamari.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Though Calamario is pretty great.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Yes, some low ocean and it wasn't slimy to begin with,
and it wasn't reading. I don't. You don't need there,
Thank you, Jackie, have an icy glad you called? Now
this is an interesting one. Whoa, hey, Kylie, how you doing?
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Hi good?
Speaker 3 (08:17):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Hi? Kylie? Weird food for you? You're not, You're not.
You're just not gonna do it.
Speaker 8 (08:22):
I don't understand raw corn like what you know, like
corn on the cob, corn in salsa. I don't if
it's not a tortilla.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
I don't want oh icye so like ground up corn
turned into something else like a bread or a chip
or something. But you don't need like the kernels. Is
what you're saying, right, It like.
Speaker 8 (08:44):
Goes in the same way it comes out and there's.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
No personal value.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Why are we studying that? By the way people say that,
I'm like, I'm not really looking that hard at what's
coming out.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
If you even take a gander, you'll know you.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Have You'll need to take a gander. Well, that's necessary.
I don't need to want to be proud of myself. No,
I'll take a glance to see if we're like, you know,
if the form is right, because that's if you drink
it of water and you you know, your nutrients. But
like if you're digesting things. Probably, but I'm not like, oh,
look there's lunch. No, you guys are gross for that.
(09:19):
Thank you, Kylie. Have a good day, you too, Sierra.
I Siera, good morning, good morning? Hi? What is it
for you? Food stuff? You're you're not having it?
Speaker 8 (09:29):
I can't stand peas and lama babies.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Yeah, my mom's saying, pea lady either what's up with?
What's up with peas? What's your issue with them?
Speaker 9 (09:37):
It's the mush?
Speaker 8 (09:38):
The texture is I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The texture. You don't like that mush? Okay, okay, well,
thank you, Sierra. Have a good day. What'd you called?
I said, gino? You know, and here's another one, gino, Hi, geno.
Speaker 9 (09:55):
Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 7 (09:56):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
You know, and your culture or where you're from or
where you eat, maybe there's this is a regular occurrence. But
you're about to tell me, you bless you that you
don't like something that that we don't. This is not
showing up all the time, but what is it for you?
Speaker 9 (10:10):
So all my friends and family love langua tacos.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, they already give me.
Speaker 9 (10:15):
A right time because I don't speak Spanish, but I'm
like the darkest, darkest Mexican. But it's disgusting man to
tacos there, they're ton tacos.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
It's telling Lingua.
Speaker 9 (10:24):
Yeah, okay, much salca or lemon you put on it.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
I'm not I'm not eating I won't do it.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
And if you go to like an authentic Tacorea, they'll
they'll always have them, and people see it. They must
they must love them.
Speaker 10 (10:36):
You know, your friends and your cousins will trick you
and they'll be like, eat this taco and you won't
see what if there's so much stuff on it?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
And I won't do it.
Speaker 9 (10:42):
I'm inspecting the taco every I won't do it.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
You're not falling for that trick. You're not falling with
the langu and the taco trick't I feel you? Thank you, Gino,
have a good day, all right. Yeah, so that's another one,
like like you might be listening now, going, hey Fred
and gino. Those are delicious, like they taste really good.
What do you care like? You can't it's chopped up.
What do you know like? Just eat it, enjoy it.
(11:04):
You know you're you're too much in your head about it.
I don't eat it. I don't. I'm not injured. I'm sorry.
I guess I'm gonna get more langua for you. You know,
I'm going to go my whole life, but I'm just not.
I'm just not going to happen because I I don't.
It's just too no, no, no, it's too no anything
else for you, Caitlin, I feel like everyone else listened
a whole long thing.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
You got the cows.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
You know, I don't want part of a cow.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Salmon is too fishy for me.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
I wish I liked it because it's healthy, but I
was scarred by a bite of salmon a long time ago.
You had no cooked fish. But I'm pretty easy. Other
than that, I'm now learning like I thought I was picky,
but I don't think.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I am, because I really thought like I could always
find somebody to eat, no matter where I say, find
somebody eat on fine. I've never been to a restaurant
where I just can't eat anything. I've never been to
a restaurant where I have nothing. I haven't missed me
neither away, because wherever you go, they gotta have a
full breakfast. That's right. Threads Show, Next Fresh Show, It's
(12:06):
K's Judge, Kinky All rise for the honorable judge, Kiki
your honor, Yes, take it away?
Speaker 7 (12:14):
All right, let's step into the courtroom.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
The gavel has been hit, it says, hey, KIKEI am
I wrong for making my husband miss his interview. Okay,
my thirty five year old husband has been out of
work for six months. I've been carrying the bills on
my salary and working overtime to keep us afloat. Last week,
he finally got an interview for a job he's been
chasing for years, which has truly been a dream opportunity
(12:39):
for him. I was excited and relieved, and the interview
was scheduled at nine am. He said he'd wake up
by seven point thirty to prepare. However, the night before
he stayed up until two am playing video games. I
was reminding him twice that he needed to get up,
and he waved me off and got snappy. So the
(12:59):
next morning I got up at six forty five to
go to work. He was still dead asleep. His alarm
started blaring at seven point thirty and I watched him
snooze it three times. At this point, to avoid an argument,
I decided I'm not waking him up, and I left
for work. He finally woke up at nine point fifteen,
missed the interview, completely freaked out and called me at
(13:21):
work asking me why didn't I wake him? And I
told him you're not a child. He was livid and
said that I was passive, aggressive, unsupportive, and that I
sabotaged him. Now he's not talking to me, and even
his mother called me to say I should have had
his back. I think he needed this wake up call,
But now I'm wondering if I crossed the line.
Speaker 7 (13:42):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Judge Kiki, girl, you're not wrong, girl, you are not wrong.
If his mother want to get involved, she should have
called him. I don't know, mother's always called.
Speaker 8 (13:56):
Yay.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
I backed off, right, But no, you're not wrong. This
is a grown man who has been unemployed for six months.
You don't have anything else to do but prepare for
this interview, Okay, you have no other obligations, right, now, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
A lazy person with no job is that's a bad combination.
Speaker 7 (14:13):
I mean, and things happen.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
People lose their jobs every day, so I don't want
to even say it's just a lazy person, but this
story here.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
But you're right, no, yeah, I'm talking about this. I mean,
six months no job, and then when you have the
job interview, you don't take it seriously. That to me
is not responsible.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
And then your wife is warning you, like women tend
to do, you know, give you a little reminder and
you get snappedy.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
She did, and she did look out for him. She hey,
let's get some rest before this interview. Yeah, and then
you're like nah, and you keep.
Speaker 7 (14:45):
Playing your video games.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
And then now, now, since you were a little petty
because you were there as the alarm was going off,
that was a little petty.
Speaker 7 (14:52):
You know, she watched the alarm, she watched some snoozy alarm.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
But she was like, I'm not arguing with you, and
she left. It's not up to her. The terror argument
that I would make, though, is abo about this sleeping
through the alarm and her being aware of that is
this affects her negatively too, so you know she may
have taught him a lesson, but it doesn't sound like
he's someone who's going to interpret that lesson very well.
And ultimately, now this is another job he won't get.
(15:16):
So how does that affect her negatively? How did that
behavior really? Did it really penalize him or did it
really penalize her? Well?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
I think at this point she I would be considering
some other things because if this is maybe this may
not be a first time offender where you sleeping through alarms.
You might sleep through alarms all the time, and maybe
that's why you don't have a job.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Are you guys with the jury eight five, five, five, nine,
one one three five. She could have woken him up.
I wouldn't have either. But then I guess if I
don't wake him up and he doesn't have a job
and I want to stay with him, then that's on
me at some point, like I've chosen this life, did
you though? Well? Yeah, because again no job for six months,
I know that it's hard to get a job. Yeah,
(15:57):
it's very difficult to get a job right now. But
the behavior like this is not going to your point,
might be the reason why he doesn't have a job exactly,
And so then the question is is she gonna motivate him,
She's gonna wake him up, Is she gonna, you know,
push him out the door, try and help him? And
and she doesn't have to do that, but if she
doesn't do that, then he's probably never going to get one.
(16:19):
And then if she stays with him, then she's choosing
that life.
Speaker 7 (16:23):
So you say leave him all together.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Yeah, but you just said that too, So no, you're
talking about like, don't even say I'm the only one
that said that. You're not wrong, you said the same thing.
I think, honestly, at some point you got to ask
you and this is a one time deal. Maybe he
didn't want this. I don't know, there could be other
parameters here, but I wonder, I wonder if this is
just kind of not his mentality. And if that's the case,
(16:47):
then maybe this is what you're up against for, you know,
as a mentality. And maybe this is you know, if
you choose to continue to be with this person and
they choose to make those kind of choices and you
can't really complain too much to other people.
Speaker 5 (17:00):
Yeah, right, but tough priorities though, like instead of maybe
playing video games at night, and maybe it's a little
bit different. But why don't you do some side hustle
like go, you know, drive for uber, or do door
dash or do something to bring an income.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Again, yes, getting a job is very hard. It's not
like they're just handing them mouth these days. But I
think you can still bring in some income. I think
you can still have that drive to do it.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
He seems like he.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Doesn't want to do it, right, That's what I'm getting.
Speaker 7 (17:23):
I don't know this man.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
I don't want to know this man, but it just
seems like he doesn't want that.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Because if jobs are hard to get and you want
a job, and you're well intentioned, and you have a
job interview, that might be the one night that you
take it seriously, yes, and that you don't stay up,
and that you make sure that you're awake and that
you're at the job interview you and you do your
best to get the job. But again, I gotta wonder
does this guy even care? Right?
Speaker 3 (17:43):
And then I remind you about it and I'm up
late telling you to go to bed, and you get
snappy with me, and I've been kee paying these meals
for six months alone, working over time, sir.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Yeah, yeah, Then then for him to turn around a
gaslight her and be like, somehow this is your fault?
Speaker 4 (18:00):
Right?
Speaker 7 (18:00):
Do you sabotage? He was waiting for an opportunity, avatar.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
No, but I will say, and this is that this
is not her fault. But how long does this go?
And we don't have all the context, but how long
does this go on before you need to start making
choices for you that may not involve this person anymore?
That's really you know, hey, Brian, Yes, how you doing? Brian?
Good morning Kikey's Court. You're the jury? What say you?
Speaker 9 (18:23):
I wanted to know what it would it be the
same if the show was on all the footnet of
the woman that was out of work, Because me get
a bad rep sometimes and my wife has been out
of work for over two years, and I'll still pay
the bills and do what I got to do for
my family, and that's considered being a man. But when
it's when it's turned around, you know, why don't we
put as much heat on a woman not being able
(18:44):
to find a job well out here for everybody.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I hear what he's saying, but doesn't But doesn't that
depend on sort of the parameter within your relationship and
what you guys have decided, For example, if you two
have decided together collectively that you both need to work
to maintain your lifestyle, and there's no intensity for her
to live up to her end of the deal. I
don't I don't necessarily know that this has to be
(19:07):
gender based. Right If you have agreed to take care
of the family and she's taking care of the house
and the kids, well that's a job. So you know
what I mean? So I guess I guess what I
said is is, yeah, he sounds like a deadbeat. But
I don't know. You know, your wife, is your life
predicated on her working too? Are you having to do
twice as much now or or or is that not
(19:30):
the deal that you have?
Speaker 9 (19:32):
We we downgraded our lifestyle, so it's a lot of
things that we don't do in order to in order
for us to stay financially safe. But it's a lot
of things that I would like to like my family
go back to doing, if my wife would see it,
back to work. But for right now, we're maintaining everything.
We have a home, two cars, and we're doing okay
(19:53):
because I get the whole men work.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Yeah, I hear, I hear you, right, I hear the
men providing, the man providing thing and whatever. But I
guess what I would be thinking about is, regardless of
your gender, what what are our roles? What have we
decided we're going together? Who is going to pay what bills?
What have we decided? And are you living up to
what you agreed to do? And if the answer is no,
then that would be my problem. I wouldn't necessarily be well,
(20:15):
you're the man, so you should or whatever, only if
that's what we decided. But thank you, Brian having the day,
no problem, Brian her.
Speaker 7 (20:22):
Some job links, Brian will how to get back to work?
Yeah he does, he does.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
What if she's raising kids? Though it sounds like she's
holding it down at home.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
He didn't seem to upset that when Fred was kind of,
you know, explaining that situation.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
But yeah, again, it's what did they agree to if
you're playing.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Video games at night? That's what I really wanted to know.
I'm very triggered by this.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Yeah, it's right because and is she still expecting the
same life that they had before, but yet she doesn't
have a job. I mean, there's so many different aspects
of this, but I guess I would say whatever relationship
you're in. If you live with someone else and you're
expected to do this, and you're expected to do that,
and then you stop doing the part that we agreed
to together that you're going to do, that would be
my problem.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I agree with that. As a wife, I agree with them.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
If if I if we say, hey, I'm going to
stay home and I'm going to take care of the kids,
and I'm gonna take care of the house, and I'm
gonna take care of all these other things, and I'm
not going to bring in an income. I need you
to go make up make the income, well, then I don't.
I wouldn't pressure her to make money because we agreed
that she's going to do the other things that we'd
have to pay someone to.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
Do exactly, and all parties need to be clear on
the agreement. Yes, you know, sometimes people just wake up
and decide that they're done working. Like excuse me, excuse me, cue.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Like somebody said, she could have woke him up. It
could have relieved the press, It could have relieved the
pressure off of her. Again, I mean, what she did
didn't exactly help her cause, but she didn't have to
do it.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Right, She shouldn't be obligated to wake a grown man
up who has been off for six months.
Speaker 7 (21:47):
What else are you doing, my boy?
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Yeah, I would have been.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
I would have been sitting on a computer waiting at
four in the morning, you know, on my.
Speaker 4 (21:55):
Tux and the alarm thing triggers me to like, who
can't wake up to an alarm? Yes, Like even when
I had roommates, it's going off, it's going on, Get up.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
I would have woken him up and left for work.
This way, it's on him. She's also married to a
man child. Yeah, I mean, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, you're saying,
leave this man. Yeah, yeah, I mean, just he didn't
sleep through the alarm. He snoozed it three times.
Speaker 7 (22:24):
That's a good point.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
He wake up, So this is not he's just not motivated,
you're saying, And it's a good likelihood that this isn't
going to change.
Speaker 9 (22:31):
I'm like you, guys, I got a four m alarm
every day.
Speaker 7 (22:34):
That's right, go off, king, put your boots on the ground,
go to work.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Yeah yeah, and that turns killing you on chunk mail delivery,
chunk mail, I don't know. Hey, we need you, yes, no,
thank you, thank you, yes, thank you so much. Have
a good day, Mike. That's right, Thank you, hard working man.
Right there, he said enough, Yeah, Mike. No, he said
(22:59):
what he said right on his own.
Speaker 9 (23:01):
That's right.
Speaker 7 (23:03):
Yeah. Mike was triggered too.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
He was lost for words almost already period, right, like a.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
Good man, Savannah.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
He's a little bit speechless. Hey, Sarah, Sarah, how you doing.
Speaker 10 (23:21):
I'm doing well?
Speaker 9 (23:22):
Are you guys?
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Great? Thank you for calling him for listening. So Keikey's court. Basically,
this woman's with a guy has been out of work
for six months, had a job interview, chose to stay
up all night playing video games. Lauren went off. He
didn't get up for the interview. She wants it all
go down, didn't do anything about it. Now he's mad
at her. What say you? Yeah?
Speaker 7 (23:40):
Not okay.
Speaker 10 (23:41):
My husband had the same issue when we first had
our twins. He lost his job during COVID. We had
our twins in twenty twenty, and he would stay up
late playing video games because he thought he could handle it.
He was so sleep deprived that he ended up sleepwalking.
And he wasn't helping me at all with the twins,
and they were newborns, and it got so bad that
(24:02):
we were fighting every day, and I finally told him
I'm not your mother, and if you want to go
have someone be a mother too, you can move back
in with your mother. And I think you realized that
I was serious, and he shaped up and never even
touched a video game at all after that.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, and that sucks that you kind of had to
put the fire under his butt, but sometimes people need that.
I mean, at least you gave him a chance to
clean it up.
Speaker 10 (24:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
No, I not acceptable, because you know, people go through
stuff in life and they get depressed or whatever, and
your job as a partner, I'm sure would beat it
to lift him up, but for how long?
Speaker 10 (24:38):
Right? Right? And shame on the mother in law for
even stepping in. Honestly, if that was one of my boys,
I would have been like, you're not moving back in here,
fix it with your wife to better. I raised you
better than that.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Well that, yes, I'll go ahead and say it. Maybe
we know where the problem lies. Hello, you know, thank you, Sarah,
I have a good day. Thank you, because we all
I think some people think they're doing kids a favor
when they always have their back, but I think sometimes
people are they're going to be a product of what
of what they were raised as and what their parents
(25:11):
continue to enable. Right, So if every time he screws
up he calls mom, and mom calls and yells at
the wife, well then what is why would he Where
is he getting the idea that he needs to do better?
Speaker 7 (25:22):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (25:22):
Because it's like, no, no, that's my baby boy. He's perfect. Well,
he's not taking care of his obligations, so he's not perfect.
He's hurting her, yes he is, but maybe he feels
enabled by it because Mom's going to solve his problems
every time. Hey, do you wanna? Yes?
Speaker 9 (25:38):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (25:38):
Hi, good morning? What do you think?
Speaker 8 (25:40):
Good morning? I love you guys. I want to say
that he totally is gaslighting her. Yeah, he is just
shifting the blame. He hits snooze three times, like it's
not for a responsibility.
Speaker 7 (25:53):
I agree with you, guys.
Speaker 8 (25:56):
Yeah, he's totally guess lit her, not for possibility. To
make sure that he gets up and goes to the interview,
like said, he has.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Not Moby solving your problems. Come on, yeh, I'd be
so embarrassed.
Speaker 7 (26:09):
I love to say I didn't raise him like that.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Oh yes you did.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
Shirley and I feel sometimes like as women, we feel
like we're the moms of our partners sometimes in certain situations,
and we shouldn't.
Speaker 7 (26:20):
Yeah, that's true. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
I'm not your memory.
But I had dinner with some people over the weekend,
and we've done had dinner before. It was, I guess
more of like a business setting kind of thing, and
it was the thing that you do when you eat
with people. And it was like, hey, do you want
to order some stuff and then we'll try you know
what I mean? Like not that share. It's more like
a romantic thing, I think. But it was like, hey,
what if we get a bunch of things and we
all eat it? Say hey, Fred, what don't you like?
(00:22):
And I generally think I'm not all that picky, like
I'll eat a lot of different things, okay, But as
I started to list the things I don't want, I
realized that I am picky in a strange way. And
I've been listening for a while. You know this. I
don't want any kind of meat that looks like it
did when it was alive. Okay, Okay. So like, for example,
(00:42):
there was branzino and they didn't have the head on it,
but essentially they cut the head off, they leave the
tail on. They cut the thing in half, and then
it's like a butterfly branzino and it still sometimes has
little bonies in it and stuff it might taste delicious.
I don't know. I didn't need the tail on it,
and I don't need the head. And I know that
they're your pions listening right now and people going, hey, dude,
you from the Mediterranean. Hey, you're missing out. It's delicious.
(01:05):
You know, fish with a head on it is good.
I don't need to look in the eye at the fish.
It's a weird thing to ask the server though, you know, hey,
does is that fish going to have the head on it?
You know what I mean? Like, it's a strange thing,
especially when you're trying to act cool kind of or
act chill. And then it was like, why don't like eel?
They didn't have a eel on the menu. But then
it kind of became a top. It came like what
(01:27):
don't you like?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
And you know, Calamari don't comm at him with calm.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I don't understand Kalamary. I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Oh yeah, yeah, you don't get it.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I don't get Calamaria. I don't understand why it's necessary.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
For me too, because now I'm thinking, like this could
be a rubber brand just in matter.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
That's what I mean, Squid, I'm sorry. The texture of
squid on its own is gross and then so okay,
So then we just go deep fry it because that's
more palatable to a lot of people. Fine, but then
deep fry a vegetable and give it to me. I
don't need it. It's I don't get it. And then
somebody we had this conversation because kalamari was on the menu.
(02:04):
I'm like, I don't like the way it smells, I
don't the texture, I don't like. I don't get it.
Go ahead and order I don't want it. I'm not
having it. And then people dip it in marinara or whatever.
It's like, Well, then now we're tasting now it's fried marinara.
What is the purpose of the calamari even at all?
Why is it even there? Have you had it in
strips deep fried air and then get that in calamari,
(02:26):
and then I get my deep fright in my air.
I don't know if I've had it in strips, I
don't If it's on the menu, you guys always order it.
It's wonderful, have ad it. I's just I'm not going
to partake. I've never said don't get it. Go ahead
and be in bet you don't let us get interested.
You did, We're forbidden eels a texture thing for me.
But then after a little while, I'm like, I guess,
(02:49):
I guess I am kind of picky. Now if someone
had ordered it, I wouldn't have said a word. I
just wouldn't have eaten it. Oysters. I like oysters, except
I got sick not that long ago after eating oysters.
I can't confirm that it was from the oyster, but
I have that now I have the association, you know,
where it's like, yeah, now I see them and I'm like, oh,
I was really sick for two or three days after
(03:10):
I bring this up because you gov has they guess
they serve it a bunch of people, and they have
the list of the most hated foods. This is other
people hate anchovy's, liver, sardines, and oysters. Strong or slimy flavors,
weird textures are the main deal breakers. Most people say
they've warmed up to something if they used to hate,
(03:31):
so the opinions can change. But anchovy's, liver, sardine's, oysters
most dislike foods. Do you guys have any eight five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five You can context the same number.
Do you guys have any food stuff where it's like
I'm just I'm not. I'm not gonna enough for canin
just gets cows, anything cow that was once a cow.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Yeah, and I don't get I don't get can tuna
or like bag tuna, like no one's ever like, oh
it smells like tuna in here, and that's a good thing.
Why do you want to eat something that smells like that?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
That's fair?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Okay, thank you, that's fair.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
However, just prepared European like tinfish, like or if you
go to Spain or you go to Portugal that somehow
Stuf's pretty.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Good eats tin fish and it's actually like his biggest
run flag really because.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Some of it's like super high quality and really good.
But I would agree that the smell is not is
not ideal.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I don't want to eat anything that smells like I
don't want it to smell like.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
But any hardlines on food like we okay, sushi.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
I know that's so popular. I don't like sushi, you know,
I guess I hate anything. I eat everything that comes
to my face, but no cold shrimp.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
No cold shrimp. I don't like the little seaweed thing.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
In there.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Cold shrimp is typically cooked, not at a sushi restaurant,
but like the cold cold shrimp they bring, like for shrimp,
cocktail has been boiled.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
I'm not dipping it in What is that the cocktail sauce.
I'm not dipping it in there.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I don't like that.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
I need like like cold shrimp, like put it with
rice and stuff like make it yummy.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
It's just cold.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I don't like cold. Oh that's the yeah, the coldness
is not cure.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Okay, all right, Jason, surely you have a lung. I
do I do.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
I don't like onions, raw onions.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I don't like that.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
I don't like barbecue sauce of any kind or anything
that tastes like barbecue sauce or barbecue.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Flavored or like smoked that.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I don't like runny eggs, Like my eggs have to
be shaped and formed like an omelet. They can't be
like all flopping all over the place. I have to
have compact shaped eggs. Okay, so over hard then is
the way you would? Yes? Oh, I will not eat
anything off a bone, not a.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Bit that that that comes back to the thing where
if it looks like its original form, like it's a
little tactile for me. Like I like wings, But every
now and again you're eating a wing, I'm like, what
is this? What did I just alm? What is it?
This looks like it shouldn't be here, you know.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Then you're like you have to like pick the bones
apart to get the meat out of it, Like it's
so yeah, wrong, not for me. Then you don't look
good while you're doing it, anyone.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Just know. I like, I like slightly overcooked chicken, like
like chicken that's borderlined. I know you're supposed to be
one hundred and sixty degrees whatever it supposed to be,
But if I need like a little firmer firmness to
my chicken, because chicken that's like right there, the texture
can be a little like a little i don't know,
(06:31):
like a little slimy almost.
Speaker 7 (06:32):
So you like fried hard? You want your wings fried hard?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Why not?
Speaker 5 (06:35):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I don't want them. No, you have the wings, I mean,
like a chicken breast like you grill it like you
grill it like grill it. It needs to be cooked.
Speaker 6 (06:43):
I always overcook it because I'm afraid of undercooking. So
I make sure it's like.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, that well, that too, that too, Kiki.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Macha, I get it away from me. I don't want it.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
That's a totally much as that's showing up every day.
It is that like, hey, Macha for the table, you
know like that.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
It's not it's the new pumpkins spice. Get it away
from me.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
I don't want to try it. I tried to get
into dire. People are like, oh, it's so healthy. I
tried it for a while. I really tried it, and
I agree with you. I couldn't do it.
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Why are we doing this? Like now, y'all just doing.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Stuff now, Jackie, we talked about this late late last week,
I guess. But cottage cheese for you.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Jackie, yep, that's an absolute path For me.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
I don't understand why it's all curdly and everything.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
It should not be edible.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, I agree. I mean it tastes like cheese, which
is fine, But I agree with you, like what's up
with the texture.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
It's gross. Same thing looks like mazzarella sticks for me too.
I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
You see mozzarella stick. I do get because now talk
about something, you take something great, deep fry to make
it greater. Then dip it in marinera to make it greater.
Now we got greatness, so that makes sense. But that's
the same like Calamari.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Though Calamario is pretty great.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Yes, some low ocean and it wasn't slimy to begin with,
and it wasn't reading. I don't. You don't need there,
Thank you, Jackie, have an icy glad you called? Now
this is an interesting one. Whoa, hey, Kylie, how you doing?
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Hi good?
Speaker 3 (08:17):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Hi? Kylie? Weird food for you? You're not, You're not.
You're just not gonna do it.
Speaker 8 (08:22):
I don't understand raw corn like what you know, like
corn on the cob, corn in salsa. I don't if
it's not a tortilla.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
I don't want oh icye so like ground up corn
turned into something else like a bread or a chip
or something. But you don't need like the kernels. Is
what you're saying, right, It like.
Speaker 8 (08:44):
Goes in the same way it comes out and there's.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
No personal value.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Why are we studying that? By the way people say that,
I'm like, I'm not really looking that hard at what's
coming out.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
If you even take a gander, you'll know you.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Have You'll need to take a gander. Well, that's necessary.
I don't need to want to be proud of myself. No,
I'll take a glance to see if we're like, you know,
if the form is right, because that's if you drink
it of water and you you know, your nutrients. But
like if you're digesting things. Probably, but I'm not like, oh,
look there's lunch. No, you guys are gross for that.
(09:19):
Thank you, Kylie. Have a good day, you too, Sierra.
I Siera, good morning, good morning? Hi? What is it
for you? Food stuff? You're you're not having it?
Speaker 8 (09:29):
I can't stand peas and lama babies.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Yeah, my mom's saying, pea lady either what's up with?
What's up with peas? What's your issue with them?
Speaker 9 (09:37):
It's the mush?
Speaker 8 (09:38):
The texture is I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The texture. You don't like that mush? Okay, okay, well,
thank you, Sierra. Have a good day. What'd you called?
I said, gino? You know, and here's another one, gino, Hi, geno.
Speaker 9 (09:55):
Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 7 (09:56):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
You know, and your culture or where you're from or
where you eat, maybe there's this is a regular occurrence. But
you're about to tell me, you bless you that you
don't like something that that we don't. This is not
showing up all the time, but what is it for you?
Speaker 9 (10:10):
So all my friends and family love langua tacos.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, they already give me.
Speaker 9 (10:15):
A right time because I don't speak Spanish, but I'm
like the darkest, darkest Mexican. But it's disgusting man to
tacos there, they're ton tacos.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
It's telling Lingua.
Speaker 9 (10:24):
Yeah, okay, much salca or lemon you put on it.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
I'm not I'm not eating I won't do it.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
And if you go to like an authentic Tacorea, they'll
they'll always have them, and people see it. They must
they must love them.
Speaker 10 (10:36):
You know, your friends and your cousins will trick you
and they'll be like, eat this taco and you won't
see what if there's so much stuff on it?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
And I won't do it.
Speaker 9 (10:42):
I'm inspecting the taco every I won't do it.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
You're not falling for that trick. You're not falling with
the langu and the taco trick't I feel you? Thank you, Gino,
have a good day, all right. Yeah, so that's another one,
like like you might be listening now, going, hey Fred
and gino. Those are delicious, like they taste really good.
What do you care like? You can't it's chopped up.
What do you know like? Just eat it, enjoy it.
(11:04):
You know you're you're too much in your head about it.
I don't eat it. I don't. I'm not injured. I'm sorry.
I guess I'm gonna get more langua for you. You know,
I'm going to go my whole life, but I'm just not.
I'm just not going to happen because I I don't.
It's just too no, no, no, it's too no anything
else for you, Caitlin, I feel like everyone else listened
a whole long thing.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
You got the cows.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
You know, I don't want part of a cow.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Salmon is too fishy for me.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
I wish I liked it because it's healthy, but I
was scarred by a bite of salmon a long time ago.
You had no cooked fish. But I'm pretty easy. Other
than that, I'm now learning like I thought I was picky,
but I don't think.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I am, because I really thought like I could always
find somebody to eat, no matter where I say, find
somebody eat on fine. I've never been to a restaurant
where I just can't eat anything. I've never been to
a restaurant where I have nothing. I haven't missed me
neither away, because wherever you go, they gotta have a
full breakfast. That's right. Threads Show, Next Fresh Show, It's
(12:06):
K's Judge, Kinky All rise for the honorable judge, Kiki
your honor, Yes, take it away?
Speaker 7 (12:14):
All right, let's step into the courtroom.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
The gavel has been hit, it says, hey, KIKEI am
I wrong for making my husband miss his interview. Okay,
my thirty five year old husband has been out of
work for six months. I've been carrying the bills on
my salary and working overtime to keep us afloat. Last week,
he finally got an interview for a job he's been
chasing for years, which has truly been a dream opportunity
(12:39):
for him. I was excited and relieved, and the interview
was scheduled at nine am. He said he'd wake up
by seven point thirty to prepare. However, the night before
he stayed up until two am playing video games. I
was reminding him twice that he needed to get up,
and he waved me off and got snappy. So the
(12:59):
next morning I got up at six forty five to
go to work. He was still dead asleep. His alarm
started blaring at seven point thirty and I watched him
snooze it three times. At this point, to avoid an argument,
I decided I'm not waking him up, and I left
for work. He finally woke up at nine point fifteen,
missed the interview, completely freaked out and called me at
(13:21):
work asking me why didn't I wake him? And I
told him you're not a child. He was livid and
said that I was passive, aggressive, unsupportive, and that I
sabotaged him. Now he's not talking to me, and even
his mother called me to say I should have had
his back. I think he needed this wake up call,
But now I'm wondering if I crossed the line.
Speaker 7 (13:42):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Judge Kiki, girl, you're not wrong, girl, you are not wrong.
If his mother want to get involved, she should have
called him. I don't know, mother's always called.
Speaker 8 (13:56):
Yay.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
I backed off, right, But no, you're not wrong. This
is a grown man who has been unemployed for six months.
You don't have anything else to do but prepare for
this interview, Okay, you have no other obligations, right, now, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
A lazy person with no job is that's a bad combination.
Speaker 7 (14:13):
I mean, and things happen.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
People lose their jobs every day, so I don't want
to even say it's just a lazy person, but this
story here.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
But you're right, no, yeah, I'm talking about this. I mean,
six months no job, and then when you have the
job interview, you don't take it seriously. That to me
is not responsible.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
And then your wife is warning you, like women tend
to do, you know, give you a little reminder and
you get snappedy.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
She did, and she did look out for him. She hey,
let's get some rest before this interview. Yeah, and then
you're like nah, and you keep.
Speaker 7 (14:45):
Playing your video games.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
And then now, now, since you were a little petty
because you were there as the alarm was going off,
that was a little petty.
Speaker 7 (14:52):
You know, she watched the alarm, she watched some snoozy alarm.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
But she was like, I'm not arguing with you, and
she left. It's not up to her. The terror argument
that I would make, though, is abo about this sleeping
through the alarm and her being aware of that is
this affects her negatively too, so you know she may
have taught him a lesson, but it doesn't sound like
he's someone who's going to interpret that lesson very well.
And ultimately, now this is another job he won't get.
(15:16):
So how does that affect her negatively? How did that
behavior really? Did it really penalize him or did it
really penalize her? Well?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
I think at this point she I would be considering
some other things because if this is maybe this may
not be a first time offender where you sleeping through alarms.
You might sleep through alarms all the time, and maybe
that's why you don't have a job.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Are you guys with the jury eight five, five, five, nine,
one one three five. She could have woken him up.
I wouldn't have either. But then I guess if I
don't wake him up and he doesn't have a job
and I want to stay with him, then that's on
me at some point, like I've chosen this life, did
you though? Well? Yeah, because again no job for six months,
I know that it's hard to get a job. Yeah,
(15:57):
it's very difficult to get a job right now. But
the behavior like this is not going to your point,
might be the reason why he doesn't have a job exactly,
And so then the question is is she gonna motivate him,
She's gonna wake him up, Is she gonna, you know,
push him out the door, try and help him? And
and she doesn't have to do that, but if she
doesn't do that, then he's probably never going to get one.
(16:19):
And then if she stays with him, then she's choosing
that life.
Speaker 7 (16:23):
So you say leave him all together.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Yeah, but you just said that too, So no, you're
talking about like, don't even say I'm the only one
that said that. You're not wrong, you said the same thing.
I think, honestly, at some point you got to ask
you and this is a one time deal. Maybe he
didn't want this. I don't know, there could be other
parameters here, but I wonder, I wonder if this is
just kind of not his mentality. And if that's the case,
(16:47):
then maybe this is what you're up against for, you know,
as a mentality. And maybe this is you know, if
you choose to continue to be with this person and
they choose to make those kind of choices and you
can't really complain too much to other people.
Speaker 5 (17:00):
Yeah, right, but tough priorities though, like instead of maybe
playing video games at night, and maybe it's a little
bit different. But why don't you do some side hustle
like go, you know, drive for uber, or do door
dash or do something to bring an income.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Again, yes, getting a job is very hard. It's not
like they're just handing them mouth these days. But I
think you can still bring in some income. I think
you can still have that drive to do it.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
He seems like he.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Doesn't want to do it, right, That's what I'm getting.
Speaker 7 (17:23):
I don't know this man.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
I don't want to know this man, but it just
seems like he doesn't want that.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Because if jobs are hard to get and you want
a job, and you're well intentioned, and you have a
job interview, that might be the one night that you
take it seriously, yes, and that you don't stay up,
and that you make sure that you're awake and that
you're at the job interview you and you do your
best to get the job. But again, I gotta wonder
does this guy even care? Right?
Speaker 3 (17:43):
And then I remind you about it and I'm up
late telling you to go to bed, and you get
snappy with me, and I've been kee paying these meals
for six months alone, working over time, sir.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Yeah, yeah, Then then for him to turn around a
gaslight her and be like, somehow this is your fault?
Speaker 4 (18:00):
Right?
Speaker 7 (18:00):
Do you sabotage? He was waiting for an opportunity, avatar.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
No, but I will say, and this is that this
is not her fault. But how long does this go?
And we don't have all the context, but how long
does this go on before you need to start making
choices for you that may not involve this person anymore?
That's really you know, hey, Brian, Yes, how you doing? Brian?
Good morning Kikey's Court. You're the jury? What say you?
Speaker 9 (18:23):
I wanted to know what it would it be the
same if the show was on all the footnet of
the woman that was out of work, Because me get
a bad rep sometimes and my wife has been out
of work for over two years, and I'll still pay
the bills and do what I got to do for
my family, and that's considered being a man. But when
it's when it's turned around, you know, why don't we
put as much heat on a woman not being able
(18:44):
to find a job well out here for everybody.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I hear what he's saying, but doesn't But doesn't that
depend on sort of the parameter within your relationship and
what you guys have decided, For example, if you two
have decided together collectively that you both need to work
to maintain your lifestyle, and there's no intensity for her
to live up to her end of the deal. I
don't I don't necessarily know that this has to be
(19:07):
gender based. Right If you have agreed to take care
of the family and she's taking care of the house
and the kids, well that's a job. So you know
what I mean? So I guess I guess what I
said is is, yeah, he sounds like a deadbeat. But
I don't know. You know, your wife, is your life
predicated on her working too? Are you having to do
twice as much now or or or is that not
(19:30):
the deal that you have?
Speaker 9 (19:32):
We we downgraded our lifestyle, so it's a lot of
things that we don't do in order to in order
for us to stay financially safe. But it's a lot
of things that I would like to like my family
go back to doing, if my wife would see it,
back to work. But for right now, we're maintaining everything.
We have a home, two cars, and we're doing okay
(19:53):
because I get the whole men work.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Yeah, I hear, I hear you, right, I hear the
men providing, the man providing thing and whatever. But I
guess what I would be thinking about is, regardless of
your gender, what what are our roles? What have we
decided we're going together? Who is going to pay what bills?
What have we decided? And are you living up to
what you agreed to do? And if the answer is no,
then that would be my problem. I wouldn't necessarily be well,
(20:15):
you're the man, so you should or whatever, only if
that's what we decided. But thank you, Brian having the day,
no problem, Brian her.
Speaker 7 (20:22):
Some job links, Brian will how to get back to work?
Yeah he does, he does.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
What if she's raising kids? Though it sounds like she's
holding it down at home.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
He didn't seem to upset that when Fred was kind of,
you know, explaining that situation.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
But yeah, again, it's what did they agree to if
you're playing.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Video games at night? That's what I really wanted to know.
I'm very triggered by this.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Yeah, it's right because and is she still expecting the
same life that they had before, but yet she doesn't
have a job. I mean, there's so many different aspects
of this, but I guess I would say whatever relationship
you're in. If you live with someone else and you're
expected to do this, and you're expected to do that,
and then you stop doing the part that we agreed
to together that you're going to do, that would be
my problem.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I agree with that. As a wife, I agree with them.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
If if I if we say, hey, I'm going to
stay home and I'm going to take care of the kids,
and I'm gonna take care of the house, and I'm
gonna take care of all these other things, and I'm
not going to bring in an income. I need you
to go make up make the income, well, then I don't.
I wouldn't pressure her to make money because we agreed
that she's going to do the other things that we'd
have to pay someone to.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
Do exactly, and all parties need to be clear on
the agreement. Yes, you know, sometimes people just wake up
and decide that they're done working. Like excuse me, excuse me, cue.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Like somebody said, she could have woke him up. It
could have relieved the press, It could have relieved the
pressure off of her. Again, I mean, what she did
didn't exactly help her cause, but she didn't have to
do it.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Right, She shouldn't be obligated to wake a grown man
up who has been off for six months.
Speaker 7 (21:47):
What else are you doing, my boy?
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Yeah, I would have been.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
I would have been sitting on a computer waiting at
four in the morning, you know, on my.
Speaker 4 (21:55):
Tux and the alarm thing triggers me to like, who
can't wake up to an alarm? Yes, Like even when
I had roommates, it's going off, it's going on, Get up.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
I would have woken him up and left for work.
This way, it's on him. She's also married to a
man child. Yeah, I mean, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, you're saying,
leave this man. Yeah, yeah, I mean, just he didn't
sleep through the alarm. He snoozed it three times.
Speaker 7 (22:24):
That's a good point.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
He wake up, So this is not he's just not motivated,
you're saying, And it's a good likelihood that this isn't
going to change.
Speaker 9 (22:31):
I'm like you, guys, I got a four m alarm
every day.
Speaker 7 (22:34):
That's right, go off, king, put your boots on the ground,
go to work.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Yeah yeah, and that turns killing you on chunk mail delivery,
chunk mail, I don't know. Hey, we need you, yes, no,
thank you, thank you, yes, thank you so much. Have
a good day, Mike. That's right, Thank you, hard working man.
Right there, he said enough, Yeah, Mike. No, he said
(22:59):
what he said right on his own.
Speaker 9 (23:01):
That's right.
Speaker 7 (23:03):
Yeah. Mike was triggered too.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
He was lost for words almost already period, right, like a.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
Good man, Savannah.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
He's a little bit speechless. Hey, Sarah, Sarah, how you doing.
Speaker 10 (23:21):
I'm doing well?
Speaker 9 (23:22):
Are you guys?
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Great? Thank you for calling him for listening. So Keikey's court. Basically,
this woman's with a guy has been out of work
for six months, had a job interview, chose to stay
up all night playing video games. Lauren went off. He
didn't get up for the interview. She wants it all
go down, didn't do anything about it. Now he's mad
at her. What say you? Yeah?
Speaker 7 (23:40):
Not okay.
Speaker 10 (23:41):
My husband had the same issue when we first had
our twins. He lost his job during COVID. We had
our twins in twenty twenty, and he would stay up
late playing video games because he thought he could handle it.
He was so sleep deprived that he ended up sleepwalking.
And he wasn't helping me at all with the twins,
and they were newborns, and it got so bad that
(24:02):
we were fighting every day, and I finally told him
I'm not your mother, and if you want to go
have someone be a mother too, you can move back
in with your mother. And I think you realized that
I was serious, and he shaped up and never even
touched a video game at all after that.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, and that sucks that you kind of had to
put the fire under his butt, but sometimes people need that.
I mean, at least you gave him a chance to
clean it up.
Speaker 10 (24:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
No, I not acceptable, because you know, people go through
stuff in life and they get depressed or whatever, and
your job as a partner, I'm sure would beat it
to lift him up, but for how long?
Speaker 10 (24:38):
Right? Right? And shame on the mother in law for
even stepping in. Honestly, if that was one of my boys,
I would have been like, you're not moving back in here,
fix it with your wife to better. I raised you
better than that.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Well that, yes, I'll go ahead and say it. Maybe
we know where the problem lies. Hello, you know, thank you, Sarah,
I have a good day. Thank you, because we all
I think some people think they're doing kids a favor
when they always have their back, but I think sometimes
people are they're going to be a product of what
of what they were raised as and what their parents
(25:11):
continue to enable. Right, So if every time he screws
up he calls mom, and mom calls and yells at
the wife, well then what is why would he Where
is he getting the idea that he needs to do better?
Speaker 7 (25:22):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (25:22):
Because it's like, no, no, that's my baby boy. He's perfect. Well,
he's not taking care of his obligations, so he's not perfect.
He's hurting her, yes he is, but maybe he feels
enabled by it because Mom's going to solve his problems
every time. Hey, do you wanna? Yes?
Speaker 9 (25:38):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (25:38):
Hi, good morning? What do you think?
Speaker 8 (25:40):
Good morning? I love you guys. I want to say
that he totally is gaslighting her. Yeah, he is just
shifting the blame. He hits snooze three times, like it's
not for a responsibility.
Speaker 7 (25:53):
I agree with you, guys.
Speaker 8 (25:56):
Yeah, he's totally guess lit her, not for possibility. To
make sure that he gets up and goes to the interview,
like said, he has.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Not Moby solving your problems. Come on, yeh, I'd be
so embarrassed.
Speaker 7 (26:09):
I love to say I didn't raise him like that.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Oh yes you did.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
Shirley and I feel sometimes like as women, we feel
like we're the moms of our partners sometimes in certain situations,
and we shouldn't.
Speaker 7 (26:20):
Yeah, that's true. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
I'm not your memory.
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