August 19, 2025 • 25 mins
Paulina needs a new hangover remedy because she can't hang with her in-laws. Plus, we debate relationship drama on an all new Stay Or Go!
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are the radio blogs on The Fresh Show. So it's
like we're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs. Paulina go Yes, thank you so much,
dear blog.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
So you know, hangovers in your twenties, in my opinion,
are different than in your thirties, and then obviously when
you add life, work, kids, whatever on top of that,
I'm I'm struggling to figure out a way to overcome
them quicker because I feel like I'm down bad. And
I know we've talked about this, but like I really
am down bad for like maybe two days. And my
(01:18):
new thing now for some reason on the weekends is
hanging out with my in laws until like two am.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
And you know, it's like amazing, and like.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
We talk about life and the stock market, like well
anything anything, Wow, We'll talk about it.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
It's great. Well life in the stock market. I should
ask you for tips.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
No, not me, not me.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I don't know nothing. I'm trying to learn.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
But like and then like they've got their friends or whatever,
and like these people, like I love my in law
so much and their their crew.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I mean, they they go hard.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Okay, they're all in the fifteen up club, but they
go hard.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
So I'm over here, thirty three years old, trying.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
To keep up with them, okay, and I try my best.
I've been doing good. And it's nice too when my
husband's not there because he likes to go to bed early.
He's that person that it's like he's in a certain
mindset and a certain time, and he's you know, in bed.
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
I'm not like that. So I like to just you know,
hang out with them.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
So I'm trying to figure out what remedies are we
using in our thirties when you are hungover, because for me,
what I've kind of found to work and it's still
not really doing the job is.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
A couple of things.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Right, I like my dia coke in the morning of
I don't know if I just need to like burp
it out or something.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Yeah, I know it sounds weird, but.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Like I need that like fizz, And then I do
I do the manula, which is like a like a
Mexican soup. I've been doing that. That's kind of like
the go too. They say it's for the hangover. It
sure is for the hangover. I said, hobby to eighteen
Street the next morning to go get me some. But
the thing is, I feel like that's that's still not enough.
And then not with a kid, I have to send
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her on her way, Like my child is sent out
of the house or her backpack and she goes to
Grandma bof.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Torm get out of here. Yeah, I think that's probably
the key hangover here is to get rid of your
child for the morning. You have to.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
It's very impossible to have them around because well, hey,
they don't care. They don't care if you've been up
all night or not. Like they're up right and they
wake up at six seven am. Most babies, toddlers do
ready to start a business, Like that's their mindset, Like
they are ready to go at seven am. So I'm
not if I'm hungover, and I'm older now I'm thirty three, so.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Like it really hurts. Yeah, the hangover, it just changes
at thirty. It's like overnight. And so does your metabolism.
Those two things seem to just it's just something. This
switch is flicked, yes, switch to whatever it is at thirty,
and it all just goes. I always say he goes
downhill because in some ways life got better, but the
hangovers and the metabolism definitely changed. My sister and my
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brother in law are they enjoy you know, they like
to partake in many many things. They like to have
themselves a nice Friday and Saturday night with their neighbors,
especially the same kind of thing. But they said this
all the time is at you know, Sunday morning, six
seven am, the kids wake up, they don't care that
you're hungover. They don't They got to go about their business,
they got stuff to do, and they don't care that
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you only got four hours of sleep and no rem sleep.
And so I think, yeah, I think being able to
you know, take the kids of the in laws as
one thing. But none of these hangover cures ever worked
for me. Like it's just a lot of drink, a
lot of water. I mean, sure, I guess, eat some
greasy food maybe. But I think that what you're talking about, Paulina,
honestly is why people are going away from alcohol at
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the levels that they are. I feel like this is
one of the reasons because people are realizing there, you know,
are other substances you can take, like crack cocaine for example. Hell,
I mean, there's other things you can do. I mean,
I think a lot of people are where it's legal,
are using THHD, right, and yeah, it gives you like
a you know, whatever kind of feeling you're looking for
(04:42):
if it's of course legal where you are, and and
then you don't wake up with that awful feeling anymore.
I think people are figuring out that it's not really
worth the hangover.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
It's really not and I think, obviously being a mom
to a one and a half year old, I definitely
feel like this isn't worth it. Do I like to
stay up and you know, have a little cocktail with
whoever's around. Yes, that's always a good time, But I
don't know. At the same time, I'm kind of like
trying to lose weight too, and I know that's probably
not the greatest thing. So I've got other priorities. Get
better sleep, i want my skin to look good. Yeah,
(05:14):
well it's balanced. I want to buy one of those
hangover caps. Have you ever seen that?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Now?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
What is that?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Like?
Speaker 5 (05:19):
You can put it on your head and I think
you put it in like the fridge or freezer, and
it's supposed to help a lot. I don't know if
they have other elements that go into it, but I
want to try one of those.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
You're a real drinker, hangover cab girl, Yeah I am.
We're getting somewhere. I like, Wow, I know people get
like ivs. You know, they'll go to those places and
the you know, overhydrate and vitamins and whatever else. Oh yeah,
I don't know, but I mean what percentage of the time,
because I know it's not zero, but what percentage of
the time do you guys go out and have a
big night and wake up the next day and say, man,
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that was worth it. I really needed to have seven
shots of tequila, Like it was really necessary. Like in
the moment, it seems like a great idea, but you
know maybe ten percent of the time would you say
fifteen where you're like that was I feel terrible, but man,
that was a good time. The other eighty percent of
the time for me, I was like that that the
train was off the tracks, you know, hours ago, and
(06:13):
it didn't need We could have stopped. We could have
stopped at the first station. We have to go all
the way to the end of the line.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
You have a.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
Shot when you're drunk, though, so like I feel like
sometimes like if I'm with you, I'm like, I know
I'm getting because you'll be like, let's do a shot,
and that's what gets me in trouble.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Oh it's always a shot. It's always a shot. Yeah,
it's so fun at the time. And people have these
wild concoctions for hangover cures, and I don't know if
that's psychosomatic or what if it's just something that works
for you, But you know, people will say, oh, you
got to you gotta drink a mountain dew and I
have to do I have a cheeseburger and you know whatever.
It's like, Okay, well if that works for you, great,
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go Okay, guys, Let's meet Janelle? Shall we Janelle is
here on the program this morning. You can always hit
us up, by the way, if you've got a situation
in your life, you'd like us to opine about it
with you, and then also behind your back, because we
hang up on you and then we talk about you.
It's judgment free. But we have lots of opinions on
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all of the socials. You can find us. Search for
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give them all?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
I think?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
So?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Is there any There's got to be something else. Okay,
you can write us a letter because that might be
the only thing that consistently works. But I'm not even
sure about that. Stamps are expensive. Don't write us a letter. Hey, Janelle,
good morning, Welcome.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Good morning.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
So I'm glad you're here. What's going on? This is
a situation with your husband, right.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yeah, I just we had a discussion about some decisions
that we made as a family, and honestly, I've just
become really upset with him about it.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Okay, So I've got your note here. Your husband or
the two of you decided collectively that he would get
a sect to me because you have kids and you're
done having children, and that's the decision that you guys
made as a couple. Hey, you know, go go get
a little go get a little ball snipped and then
you know, no more kids, and that that seems like
the best method for you guys, right correct? Okay, So
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where did the problem begin then? Because I know a
lot of people in relationships they have an issue for
whatever reason, getting the dude to go do that. And
it's like that, I gotta be honest with you. I
don't understand that. You know, if you don't want to
take birth control, and if the choices are the dude
goes and gets snipped or you have to go have
some sort of invasive abdominal surgery that is extracurricular and
(09:22):
has nothing to do with teld birth or c sections
or whatever else. I think that's unfair. I think the
dude should go get snipped and not be a big wooss.
But anyway, you decided on this, So where's the problem.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Yeah, So the other day he just kind of off
handedly made a comment that he told a female coworker
about this procedure. So and I just feel like he
didn't think it was a big deal. I think it's
a huge deal. It's not like he went and told
a bunch of guys at work. He told somebody who
(09:53):
was female at his work. And I think that if
you're having a apseectomy, that's not something you discussed with
the female co work.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
What do you think he's gonna do You think he's
advertising the fact that he can now you know, to
his deal and not get anybody pregnant, Like, is it
is this a big billboard for what? You know, what
he plans to do now? Like, I mean, I don't
know what was it. I don't understand the problem.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Really, honestly, I don't know. Like, I don't understand why
we're bringing attention to anything about him the waist down.
I think that that just should not be discussed. And
so I went one step further and I'm like, hey,
I want to see the text that you sent her.
I want to know what they were about, and I
want to know the details.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Well, now, hold on, No, that changes things a little bit.
So he's texting. I mean, I don't think it changes much,
but he's I guess it'd be one thing if you're
all at work, you know, eating your subway sandwiches at
lunch or whatever, and it's like, ah, you know, I
got to take a couple of days off. You know,
I'm getting to a sectomy. I don't know if that would
be too crazy. But he's texting a coworker like that
does seem like a very personal thing to have a
(10:57):
one on one text conversation about. But anyway, so you said,
let me see these texts. And then what happened.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
So they're joking around about how he's going to be
out of commission, and the chick, the co worker, she
jokes that she's going to bring him a bag of
peas over so he can use it down there as ice.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Oh no, also that the peas, there's the word Kiki
goes off the rails.
Speaker 7 (11:23):
It was the piece for you, Yeah, girl, you bringing
peace to my man's marvels. No, I got a big
problem with this is not the.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Piece exactly, all right, So then what does he say
to you, Like, so you say, let me see the text.
I don't think this is an appropriate conversation to have
with a coworker. And then and then what does he say?
Speaker 3 (11:42):
So, well, now I'm off rails and he is just
kind of laughing at me and saying it's a procedure
that he's getting. It's his private parts. If he wants
to talk about it, he can talk about it. He's
the one that's getting snapped. And I just find that
to be incredibly unacceptable. And I don't know, I just
I don't think that he's not he thinks he's allowed
to talk about it. I agree he can talk about it,
(12:04):
but this is not how we talk about it.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
And what is your concern with him sharing this?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
I think that it's it's just opening up Pandora's box. Yeah,
I think it's like it just it takes it to
a whole new level. Does he want her to know
so that she knows that he's absolutely protected and can't
get her pregnant? Or does he just want to just
talk about his nuts? Like I don't get it and
I just want advice about.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
It, Jane. One thing I found about cheaters is they
don't really seem to care about whether their potent or not.
I don't necessarily think that he's been waiting all his
life to get an exectomy so he then can go
out and cheat.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Okay, so tell me at the man, why else would
you be talking about your jewels?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Because and I hate to generalize old men. There are
obviously men who are not, but I think a lot
of us are averse to getting things done to that
part of our body. Ladies are used to it. We're
not it. You know it it's an I don't. I
think it's a strange experience for men to experience, for
men to encounter, and I think, you know, we probably
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make a bigger deal out of it than we should,
considering all the things that women have to go through.
And it's it's, I don't know, e comical in some
ways for some guys, like, yeah, I canna go down
there and snip my stuff. You know, I don't. I
think it's more experiential than it is. Uh that he's
advertising to everyone that he can spread his non seed.
(13:35):
I mean, I just I don't. I don't think it's like, hey, everybody,
I got him a sectomy, so now I can I'm
I'm open for business. You know, I don't, I don't necessarily,
you know, I just I think maybe he's looking for
sympathy or it's kind of a monumental thing that he's doing.
I know, I don't inherent I don't think there's inherent Uh.
(13:56):
Uh you know what's the word I'm looking for. I
don't think this is inherently him do it trying to
do anything wrong? Nefarious?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
So you think I should just blow it off and
chalk it up to him being a big baby.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
I do. Let me. I don't know what's the equivalent.
What if you went and got a boob job and
you were talking to your male co workers about getting
a boob job, like I mean, I don't think.
Speaker 7 (14:17):
Exactly out of all the people he could text, you're
texting your female call worker.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
You don't want to text your dad or your brother.
Speaker 6 (14:25):
You could tell you.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I might argue that the intimacy of the of the
of the female text thread is interesting, but I don't
necessarily think that the subject matter itself is problematic. But
I don't know. I'm gonna take some phone calls on this.
I might be way off, Jane, and we got the
of course, everyone in the room, but eight five five, five,
nine one three five hit us up. I'd love to
hear people have just you know, good luck to you
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and thank you for sharing. Have a good day.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
Thanks guys, you too.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Hold on, let's see what tie has. I want to
know what you guys think but Tye, Hey morning, Ti, Hey,
good morning.
Speaker 6 (14:59):
So here go.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
This woman is upset because her husband sharing with a
female coworker in a one on one text conversation that
he's getting of a sectomy and they're making jokes about it.
What do you think?
Speaker 8 (15:10):
I'm definitely thinking that she should stay. I mean, I
worked at a grocery store with one hundred and eighty
employees and I had probably I don't know thirty different
contexts that we're all female and I have four kids.
You know, it was definitely a conversation to go around,
so you know, I don't think it's anything too serious.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah, I don't know why. For guys, it's like I
don't know why. That's just somebody that comes up. But
most of the people I know who've had a aaseect
to me talked about it pretty openly, and I don't
know why that is, but it is a thing. So
thank you man, have a good day.
Speaker 8 (15:48):
Absolutely, you two.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
I don't know, ladies, what do you guys think? And Jason, uh,
does this bother you? I actually think it would bother me.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
I feel like mentioning it flippantly at work is very
different then texting someone directly about it, and we're joking
that you're like out of the game.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Now.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (16:06):
I actually usually I don't lean this way, but it
kind of bothers me, Kiky, it bothers you.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
You seem to have an issue. It seemed to bother
when when she offered to, you know, provide him with aid,
and she didn't say I'm going to come over and
personally hold them there like she didn't, or she didn't say,
let me come over and look at the scar, like
she didn't say, you know, let me let me let
me treat your incision, or hey, let's see if it worked.
She didn't say any of that. She's I don't know.
(16:35):
I mean, what was she supposed to say? Nothing?
Speaker 7 (16:37):
He wasn't supposed to be talking to her about that.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
That's very odd to me.
Speaker 7 (16:41):
I feel like we have a lot of other people
in our lives that we can text other than are
you know, co ed coworkers. I just don't think that
that was very wise on his part at all. And
just friends, well you can't open up about like most
of my friends are female.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
So like I'm saying, if I was a street, if
I was a straight man, like and I have the
same friends, Like I would be talking to you guys
about the same stuff, and you would probably joke about
bringing me peace.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
I don't know if we would, like if I'm that female.
If I'm on the other side of this, right and
I'm being texted this by a male coworker, I'm calling
the police, like, we don't.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Have to discuss this. It doesn't sound like you just
sprung this on a random coworker, you know. It doesn't
say like you know, just I didn't. I didn't text
a random girl in sales. I've never talked to you
before and been like, hey, just a heads up and
getting snipped, you know, like right, just done. So I'm
a bad example.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Would you, But would you text a straight male coworker like, hey,
I'm getting my boobs done?
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Absolutely not, mariss I'm not texting me.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
You told Michael Coolina you did. I know. I know
every procedure you've had done in the last couple of years,
and we're not involved in any way.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Well because well a like, I work very closely with you.
You're like a brother to me, and number two were okay,
so you go post procedure different, you don't tell me
you're gonna bring me like peace.
Speaker 7 (18:03):
If went in your phone, he would know exactly who
Freddie is. He would know you all's relationship. This woman
went in this phone, She don't know that, lady. Are
you talking about her? You talking about your jewels with
her and pea and jewel.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Yeah, I'm more can I think with Calen, I think
we're saying the same thing. I'm a little more concerned
about the intimacy of the one on one conversation than
i am the subject matter. But I'm also not really
concerned about that because I just I think that in
this segment we tend to jump very quickly to all all.
I'm uncomfortable he's cheating, you know. Yeah, and I don't
(18:39):
know any think that's fair. Hey, Jenna, let's take the female.
We'll take another female perspective. Hi, Jenna, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 6 (18:47):
I love you guys.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Hey, thank you, love you too. So yeah, basically, you know,
this woman who called in her husband's getting of his ectomy,
and he was sharing that with a female coworker of his,
and they were joking and text about how she was
going to bring him peas to sit on, which is
a commonway that I guess men deal with the aftermath,
and and she doesn't like it, what do you think?
Speaker 6 (19:07):
I don't like it either. I don't think it's worth
breaking up over necessarily, but it's definitely worth a conversation.
I think he's seeking attention and wants coddling and sympathy
from other women, which isn't a great feeling.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Yeah, I could see that. I could see that he's
But I again, I think that men. This is just
procedures on the male anatomy, for whatever reason, are typically
hopefully pretty foreign for men, and I think that we
all become big babies about it and talk about it.
I don't know why that is, but most people I
know who've gotten to a sectomy I know about it
(19:41):
because it was all I'm getting to Azam, going to
get neutered, or you know, whatever it is. I'm not
saying that we should. Yeah, right, that a cold too, right, right?
So I mean, don't I don't necessarily hear this and
go he's looking for sympathy from one particular woman and
then he's going to cheat. But I mean, I guess
she could, as his wife, say I'm not really comfortable
(20:05):
with that conversation with that woman, and maybe that's the
end of it. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (20:10):
Maybe that's what I'm leaning towards. It's worth a conversation.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
I don't think a breakup over but yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Thank you Jenna. I have a great day you too.
M glad you called. Thank you for listening to me
part of the thirteen. Hey, Karen, see Hi, how are
you hi? Can you t any radio down? Please? Yes?
Speaker 4 (20:28):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Perfect? Thank you. I love what I said forty seconds ago,
but I'd much rather hear what you have to say
about a lady coworker and the ps and the dude
with a vasecto me.
Speaker 9 (20:39):
I agree that some men, you know, with the previous
caller said once attention, some women are like, you're such
a big baby, blah blah blah blah blah. But not
all men share personal intimate things with other women coworkers,
especially through text. Now when you're having lunch with people
in your office, I'm getting a sectomy.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Like you said, I'm going to.
Speaker 9 (20:59):
Be out for a few I'm going on vacation, whatever
that happens. But something's raising a red flag with me,
and I feel like when you're in a relationship, you
should have, you know, respect and boundaries and there's just
a lack of event right now. So I don't think,
you know, she should leave, but definitely say, what's going on,
why are you texting this woman? Because not all men.
(21:19):
I mean I've dated you know, men, and some men
would do that. Some men would never ever disrespect and talk.
Speaker 8 (21:25):
To another woman like that.
Speaker 9 (21:26):
So it just depends on what's going on I think
with this guy.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah, I would also be curious Karen, to your point
about how this dude, how this dude kind of is,
what his personality is like, you know, and what is
coworkers think of him, because for example, you know, I've
had I've been in relationships before where people can't believe
the things I share on the radiar with other people,
but like, that's what we do. That's that's right, That's
that's always kind of been my thing. It's you know,
(21:51):
I'm very open and so so then when someone comes
along and says I don't like that openness, it's like, well,
but that's kind of my personality. And not only that,
but it's the way that I share with the audience
and stuff. So if you don't like that, then I'm
not for you. So I would be curious, is this
how he always has been and now she doesn't like
it because she doesn't like this one woman, or is
he only like that with her, in which case I
(22:11):
would say, why are you so? Why are you sharing
so intimately with her when you normally don't talk about
this stuff. I think that's.
Speaker 6 (22:17):
Important, absolutely.
Speaker 9 (22:19):
And I you know, I work in a school, and
people in schools talk about everything.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
There's no boundaries. But to text my coworker.
Speaker 9 (22:24):
About this a male coworker is different than being with
a guy coworker because I have like a lack of boundaries.
I can talk about anything like you. But it's different
when you're in a relationship and then you're texting another
guy something. What's the function of the behavior, like why
is he doing that?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Yeah? I get I would yeah, I would love to
know if it's abnormal. I agree with you. Thank you, Karen,
have a good day.
Speaker 9 (22:45):
Thank you, have a great day.
Speaker 6 (22:46):
Love you by bye.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
I love you too. I think that's fair. Now here's Bob, Now,
Bob really, Bob, go ahead, now tell me what you think.
I appreciate you, man, Yeah, No, I love you guys.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
You guys are awesome. Okay, So two things. Number one,
I've gone through this procedure before. Would I tell in
my line of work, would I tell my coworkers, No,
just I just would not. But number two, I think
he's dropped in subliminal messages here. So, like you said, Fred,
you know, the conversation that's going on that is more
(23:22):
concerning than him actually telling that coworker what he's going through. Now,
maybe it's a coping mechanism, maybe he's scared. Maybe you know,
he feels a certain type of way that he can't
talk to his wife or whatever. But at the same time,
I think the intimacy of that conversation he is definitely
there's another intent. And coincidentally, he's just sharing his procedure
(23:44):
about his nuts.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Let's say, so, I guess I would be equally concerned
if he were sharing his deep fears about any kind
of procedure with this woman when maybe he should be talking.
Is like, let's say, God forbid this guy. We're having
sarge about his brain or something, and he's texting with
this Yeah, he's texting with this lady going I'm so
scared about you know what? You know this and that
(24:06):
those are conversations you probably have with your wife. I
think that we're hyper focused on the fact that we're
talking about his balls. Yes, yeah, so.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
With what's going on, so it's irrelevant. Even though it's relevant,
it's irrelevant. But even the whole you know, you could
tell there's an intimacy because of her saying, hey, I'll
bring the peas over, and this is and that, So
there's something else going on. There's another intent because I
wouldn't go to none of my female coworkers and say, hey,
you know, guess what I got clipped, you know, over
(24:34):
the weekend, because also too, because of my line of work.
So what do you do, Bob, I'm on your team
right now, okay, right, perfect, all right, I work and
I'm in I'm in the banking industry, so okay, females
a lot of respect, a lot of you know.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Yeah, no, that makes sense. And and and you know what,
I appreciate that your job is to listen to us,
because boy do we need it. So thank you.
Speaker 8 (24:57):
Have a good day, all right, you too, Love you guys.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I'm glad you called. Yeah, there you go. It's always
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are the radio blogs on The Fresh Show. So it's
like we're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs. Paulina go Yes, thank you so much,
dear blog.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
So you know, hangovers in your twenties, in my opinion,
are different than in your thirties, and then obviously when
you add life, work, kids, whatever on top of that,
I'm I'm struggling to figure out a way to overcome
them quicker because I feel like I'm down bad. And
I know we've talked about this, but like I really
am down bad for like maybe two days. And my
(01:18):
new thing now for some reason on the weekends is
hanging out with my in laws until like two am.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
And you know, it's like amazing, and like.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
We talk about life and the stock market, like well
anything anything, Wow, We'll talk about it.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
It's great. Well life in the stock market. I should
ask you for tips.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
No, not me, not me.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I don't know nothing. I'm trying to learn.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
But like and then like they've got their friends or whatever,
and like these people, like I love my in law
so much and their their crew.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I mean, they they go hard.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Okay, they're all in the fifteen up club, but they
go hard.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
So I'm over here, thirty three years old, trying.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
To keep up with them, okay, and I try my best.
I've been doing good. And it's nice too when my
husband's not there because he likes to go to bed early.
He's that person that it's like he's in a certain
mindset and a certain time, and he's you know, in bed.
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
I'm not like that. So I like to just you know,
hang out with them.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
So I'm trying to figure out what remedies are we
using in our thirties when you are hungover, because for me,
what I've kind of found to work and it's still
not really doing the job is.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
A couple of things.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Right, I like my dia coke in the morning of
I don't know if I just need to like burp
it out or something.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Yeah, I know it sounds weird, but.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Like I need that like fizz, And then I do
I do the manula, which is like a like a
Mexican soup. I've been doing that. That's kind of like
the go too. They say it's for the hangover. It
sure is for the hangover. I said, hobby to eighteen
Street the next morning to go get me some. But
the thing is, I feel like that's that's still not enough.
And then not with a kid, I have to send
(02:39):
her on her way, Like my child is sent out
of the house or her backpack and she goes to
Grandma bof.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Torm get out of here. Yeah, I think that's probably
the key hangover here is to get rid of your
child for the morning. You have to.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
It's very impossible to have them around because well, hey,
they don't care. They don't care if you've been up
all night or not. Like they're up right and they
wake up at six seven am. Most babies, toddlers do
ready to start a business, Like that's their mindset, Like
they are ready to go at seven am. So I'm
not if I'm hungover, and I'm older now I'm thirty three, so.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Like it really hurts. Yeah, the hangover, it just changes
at thirty. It's like overnight. And so does your metabolism.
Those two things seem to just it's just something. This
switch is flicked, yes, switch to whatever it is at thirty,
and it all just goes. I always say he goes
downhill because in some ways life got better, but the
hangovers and the metabolism definitely changed. My sister and my
(03:35):
brother in law are they enjoy you know, they like
to partake in many many things. They like to have
themselves a nice Friday and Saturday night with their neighbors,
especially the same kind of thing. But they said this
all the time is at you know, Sunday morning, six
seven am, the kids wake up, they don't care that
you're hungover. They don't They got to go about their business,
they got stuff to do, and they don't care that
(03:57):
you only got four hours of sleep and no rem sleep.
And so I think, yeah, I think being able to
you know, take the kids of the in laws as
one thing. But none of these hangover cures ever worked
for me. Like it's just a lot of drink, a
lot of water. I mean, sure, I guess, eat some
greasy food maybe. But I think that what you're talking about, Paulina,
honestly is why people are going away from alcohol at
(04:20):
the levels that they are. I feel like this is
one of the reasons because people are realizing there, you know,
are other substances you can take, like crack cocaine for example. Hell,
I mean, there's other things you can do. I mean,
I think a lot of people are where it's legal,
are using THHD, right, and yeah, it gives you like
a you know, whatever kind of feeling you're looking for
(04:42):
if it's of course legal where you are, and and
then you don't wake up with that awful feeling anymore.
I think people are figuring out that it's not really
worth the hangover.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
It's really not and I think, obviously being a mom
to a one and a half year old, I definitely
feel like this isn't worth it. Do I like to
stay up and you know, have a little cocktail with
whoever's around. Yes, that's always a good time, But I
don't know. At the same time, I'm kind of like
trying to lose weight too, and I know that's probably
not the greatest thing. So I've got other priorities. Get
better sleep, i want my skin to look good. Yeah,
(05:14):
well it's balanced. I want to buy one of those
hangover caps. Have you ever seen that?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Now?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
What is that?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Like?
Speaker 5 (05:19):
You can put it on your head and I think
you put it in like the fridge or freezer, and
it's supposed to help a lot. I don't know if
they have other elements that go into it, but I
want to try one of those.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
You're a real drinker, hangover cab girl, Yeah I am.
We're getting somewhere. I like, Wow, I know people get
like ivs. You know, they'll go to those places and
the you know, overhydrate and vitamins and whatever else. Oh yeah,
I don't know, but I mean what percentage of the time,
because I know it's not zero, but what percentage of
the time do you guys go out and have a
big night and wake up the next day and say, man,
(05:50):
that was worth it. I really needed to have seven
shots of tequila, Like it was really necessary. Like in
the moment, it seems like a great idea, but you
know maybe ten percent of the time would you say
fifteen where you're like that was I feel terrible, but man,
that was a good time. The other eighty percent of
the time for me, I was like that that the
train was off the tracks, you know, hours ago, and
(06:13):
it didn't need We could have stopped. We could have
stopped at the first station. We have to go all
the way to the end of the line.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
You have a.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
Shot when you're drunk, though, so like I feel like
sometimes like if I'm with you, I'm like, I know
I'm getting because you'll be like, let's do a shot,
and that's what gets me in trouble.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Oh it's always a shot. It's always a shot. Yeah,
it's so fun at the time. And people have these
wild concoctions for hangover cures, and I don't know if
that's psychosomatic or what if it's just something that works
for you, But you know, people will say, oh, you
got to you gotta drink a mountain dew and I
have to do I have a cheeseburger and you know whatever.
It's like, Okay, well if that works for you, great,
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go Okay, guys, Let's meet Janelle? Shall we Janelle is
here on the program this morning. You can always hit
us up, by the way, if you've got a situation
in your life, you'd like us to opine about it
with you, and then also behind your back, because we
hang up on you and then we talk about you.
It's judgment free. But we have lots of opinions on
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all of the socials. You can find us. Search for
the Fred Show, Fred Show Radio, the Fred Show, TikTok,
all the different places, Fresher Radio dot com. Did I
give them all?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
I think?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
So?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Is there any There's got to be something else. Okay,
you can write us a letter because that might be
the only thing that consistently works. But I'm not even
sure about that. Stamps are expensive. Don't write us a letter. Hey, Janelle,
good morning, Welcome.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Good morning.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
So I'm glad you're here. What's going on? This is
a situation with your husband, right.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yeah, I just we had a discussion about some decisions
that we made as a family, and honestly, I've just
become really upset with him about it.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Okay, So I've got your note here. Your husband or
the two of you decided collectively that he would get
a sect to me because you have kids and you're
done having children, and that's the decision that you guys
made as a couple. Hey, you know, go go get
a little go get a little ball snipped and then
you know, no more kids, and that that seems like
the best method for you guys, right correct? Okay, So
(08:59):
where did the problem begin then? Because I know a
lot of people in relationships they have an issue for
whatever reason, getting the dude to go do that. And
it's like that, I gotta be honest with you. I
don't understand that. You know, if you don't want to
take birth control, and if the choices are the dude
goes and gets snipped or you have to go have
some sort of invasive abdominal surgery that is extracurricular and
(09:22):
has nothing to do with teld birth or c sections
or whatever else. I think that's unfair. I think the
dude should go get snipped and not be a big wooss.
But anyway, you decided on this, So where's the problem.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Yeah, So the other day he just kind of off
handedly made a comment that he told a female coworker
about this procedure. So and I just feel like he
didn't think it was a big deal. I think it's
a huge deal. It's not like he went and told
a bunch of guys at work. He told somebody who
(09:53):
was female at his work. And I think that if
you're having a apseectomy, that's not something you discussed with
the female co work.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
What do you think he's gonna do You think he's
advertising the fact that he can now you know, to
his deal and not get anybody pregnant, Like, is it
is this a big billboard for what? You know, what
he plans to do now? Like, I mean, I don't
know what was it. I don't understand the problem.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Really, honestly, I don't know. Like, I don't understand why
we're bringing attention to anything about him the waist down.
I think that that just should not be discussed. And
so I went one step further and I'm like, hey,
I want to see the text that you sent her.
I want to know what they were about, and I
want to know the details.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Well, now, hold on, No, that changes things a little bit.
So he's texting. I mean, I don't think it changes much,
but he's I guess it'd be one thing if you're
all at work, you know, eating your subway sandwiches at
lunch or whatever, and it's like, ah, you know, I
got to take a couple of days off. You know,
I'm getting to a sectomy. I don't know if that would
be too crazy. But he's texting a coworker like that
does seem like a very personal thing to have a
(10:57):
one on one text conversation about. But anyway, so you said,
let me see these texts. And then what happened.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
So they're joking around about how he's going to be
out of commission, and the chick, the co worker, she
jokes that she's going to bring him a bag of
peas over so he can use it down there as ice.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Oh no, also that the peas, there's the word Kiki
goes off the rails.
Speaker 7 (11:23):
It was the piece for you, Yeah, girl, you bringing
peace to my man's marvels. No, I got a big
problem with this is not the.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Piece exactly, all right, So then what does he say
to you, Like, so you say, let me see the text.
I don't think this is an appropriate conversation to have
with a coworker. And then and then what does he say?
Speaker 3 (11:42):
So, well, now I'm off rails and he is just
kind of laughing at me and saying it's a procedure
that he's getting. It's his private parts. If he wants
to talk about it, he can talk about it. He's
the one that's getting snapped. And I just find that
to be incredibly unacceptable. And I don't know, I just
I don't think that he's not he thinks he's allowed
to talk about it. I agree he can talk about it,
(12:04):
but this is not how we talk about it.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
And what is your concern with him sharing this?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
I think that it's it's just opening up Pandora's box. Yeah,
I think it's like it just it takes it to
a whole new level. Does he want her to know
so that she knows that he's absolutely protected and can't
get her pregnant? Or does he just want to just
talk about his nuts? Like I don't get it and
I just want advice about.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
It, Jane. One thing I found about cheaters is they
don't really seem to care about whether their potent or not.
I don't necessarily think that he's been waiting all his
life to get an exectomy so he then can go
out and cheat.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Okay, so tell me at the man, why else would
you be talking about your jewels?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Because and I hate to generalize old men. There are
obviously men who are not, but I think a lot
of us are averse to getting things done to that
part of our body. Ladies are used to it. We're
not it. You know it it's an I don't. I
think it's a strange experience for men to experience, for
men to encounter, and I think, you know, we probably
(13:14):
make a bigger deal out of it than we should,
considering all the things that women have to go through.
And it's it's, I don't know, e comical in some
ways for some guys, like, yeah, I canna go down
there and snip my stuff. You know, I don't. I
think it's more experiential than it is. Uh that he's
advertising to everyone that he can spread his non seed.
(13:35):
I mean, I just I don't. I don't think it's like, hey, everybody,
I got him a sectomy, so now I can I'm
I'm open for business. You know, I don't, I don't necessarily,
you know, I just I think maybe he's looking for
sympathy or it's kind of a monumental thing that he's doing.
I know, I don't inherent I don't think there's inherent Uh.
(13:56):
Uh you know what's the word I'm looking for. I
don't think this is inherently him do it trying to
do anything wrong? Nefarious?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
So you think I should just blow it off and
chalk it up to him being a big baby.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
I do. Let me. I don't know what's the equivalent.
What if you went and got a boob job and
you were talking to your male co workers about getting
a boob job, like I mean, I don't think.
Speaker 7 (14:17):
Exactly out of all the people he could text, you're
texting your female call worker.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
You don't want to text your dad or your brother.
Speaker 6 (14:25):
You could tell you.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I might argue that the intimacy of the of the
of the female text thread is interesting, but I don't
necessarily think that the subject matter itself is problematic. But
I don't know. I'm gonna take some phone calls on this.
I might be way off, Jane, and we got the
of course, everyone in the room, but eight five five, five,
nine one three five hit us up. I'd love to
hear people have just you know, good luck to you
(14:48):
and thank you for sharing. Have a good day.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
Thanks guys, you too.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Hold on, let's see what tie has. I want to
know what you guys think but Tye, Hey morning, Ti, Hey,
good morning.
Speaker 6 (14:59):
So here go.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
This woman is upset because her husband sharing with a
female coworker in a one on one text conversation that
he's getting of a sectomy and they're making jokes about it.
What do you think?
Speaker 8 (15:10):
I'm definitely thinking that she should stay. I mean, I
worked at a grocery store with one hundred and eighty
employees and I had probably I don't know thirty different
contexts that we're all female and I have four kids.
You know, it was definitely a conversation to go around,
so you know, I don't think it's anything too serious.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah, I don't know why. For guys, it's like I
don't know why. That's just somebody that comes up. But
most of the people I know who've had a aaseect
to me talked about it pretty openly, and I don't
know why that is, but it is a thing. So
thank you man, have a good day.
Speaker 8 (15:48):
Absolutely, you two.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
I don't know, ladies, what do you guys think? And Jason, uh,
does this bother you? I actually think it would bother me.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
I feel like mentioning it flippantly at work is very
different then texting someone directly about it, and we're joking
that you're like out of the game.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Now.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (16:06):
I actually usually I don't lean this way, but it
kind of bothers me, Kiky, it bothers you.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
You seem to have an issue. It seemed to bother
when when she offered to, you know, provide him with aid,
and she didn't say I'm going to come over and
personally hold them there like she didn't, or she didn't say,
let me come over and look at the scar, like
she didn't say, you know, let me let me let
me treat your incision, or hey, let's see if it worked.
She didn't say any of that. She's I don't know.
(16:35):
I mean, what was she supposed to say? Nothing?
Speaker 7 (16:37):
He wasn't supposed to be talking to her about that.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
That's very odd to me.
Speaker 7 (16:41):
I feel like we have a lot of other people
in our lives that we can text other than are
you know, co ed coworkers. I just don't think that
that was very wise on his part at all. And
just friends, well you can't open up about like most
of my friends are female.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
So like I'm saying, if I was a street, if
I was a straight man, like and I have the
same friends, Like I would be talking to you guys
about the same stuff, and you would probably joke about
bringing me peace.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
I don't know if we would, like if I'm that female.
If I'm on the other side of this, right and
I'm being texted this by a male coworker, I'm calling
the police, like, we don't.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Have to discuss this. It doesn't sound like you just
sprung this on a random coworker, you know. It doesn't
say like you know, just I didn't. I didn't text
a random girl in sales. I've never talked to you
before and been like, hey, just a heads up and
getting snipped, you know, like right, just done. So I'm
a bad example.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Would you, But would you text a straight male coworker like, hey,
I'm getting my boobs done?
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Absolutely not, mariss I'm not texting me.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
You told Michael Coolina you did. I know. I know
every procedure you've had done in the last couple of years,
and we're not involved in any way.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Well because well a like, I work very closely with you.
You're like a brother to me, and number two were okay,
so you go post procedure different, you don't tell me
you're gonna bring me like peace.
Speaker 7 (18:03):
If went in your phone, he would know exactly who
Freddie is. He would know you all's relationship. This woman
went in this phone, She don't know that, lady. Are
you talking about her? You talking about your jewels with
her and pea and jewel.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Yeah, I'm more can I think with Calen, I think
we're saying the same thing. I'm a little more concerned
about the intimacy of the one on one conversation than
i am the subject matter. But I'm also not really
concerned about that because I just I think that in
this segment we tend to jump very quickly to all all.
I'm uncomfortable he's cheating, you know. Yeah, and I don't
(18:39):
know any think that's fair. Hey, Jenna, let's take the female.
We'll take another female perspective. Hi, Jenna, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 6 (18:47):
I love you guys.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Hey, thank you, love you too. So yeah, basically, you know,
this woman who called in her husband's getting of his ectomy,
and he was sharing that with a female coworker of his,
and they were joking and text about how she was
going to bring him peas to sit on, which is
a commonway that I guess men deal with the aftermath,
and and she doesn't like it, what do you think?
Speaker 6 (19:07):
I don't like it either. I don't think it's worth
breaking up over necessarily, but it's definitely worth a conversation.
I think he's seeking attention and wants coddling and sympathy
from other women, which isn't a great feeling.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Yeah, I could see that. I could see that he's
But I again, I think that men. This is just
procedures on the male anatomy, for whatever reason, are typically
hopefully pretty foreign for men, and I think that we
all become big babies about it and talk about it.
I don't know why that is, but most people I
know who've gotten to a sectomy I know about it
(19:41):
because it was all I'm getting to Azam, going to
get neutered, or you know, whatever it is. I'm not
saying that we should. Yeah, right, that a cold too, right, right?
So I mean, don't I don't necessarily hear this and
go he's looking for sympathy from one particular woman and
then he's going to cheat. But I mean, I guess
she could, as his wife, say I'm not really comfortable
(20:05):
with that conversation with that woman, and maybe that's the
end of it. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (20:10):
Maybe that's what I'm leaning towards. It's worth a conversation.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
I don't think a breakup over but yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Thank you Jenna. I have a great day you too.
M glad you called. Thank you for listening to me
part of the thirteen. Hey, Karen, see Hi, how are
you hi? Can you t any radio down? Please? Yes?
Speaker 4 (20:28):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Perfect? Thank you. I love what I said forty seconds ago,
but I'd much rather hear what you have to say
about a lady coworker and the ps and the dude
with a vasecto me.
Speaker 9 (20:39):
I agree that some men, you know, with the previous
caller said once attention, some women are like, you're such
a big baby, blah blah blah blah blah. But not
all men share personal intimate things with other women coworkers,
especially through text. Now when you're having lunch with people
in your office, I'm getting a sectomy.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Like you said, I'm going to.
Speaker 9 (20:59):
Be out for a few I'm going on vacation, whatever
that happens. But something's raising a red flag with me,
and I feel like when you're in a relationship, you
should have, you know, respect and boundaries and there's just
a lack of event right now. So I don't think,
you know, she should leave, but definitely say, what's going on,
why are you texting this woman? Because not all men.
(21:19):
I mean I've dated you know, men, and some men
would do that. Some men would never ever disrespect and talk.
Speaker 8 (21:25):
To another woman like that.
Speaker 9 (21:26):
So it just depends on what's going on I think
with this guy.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah, I would also be curious Karen, to your point
about how this dude, how this dude kind of is,
what his personality is like, you know, and what is
coworkers think of him, because for example, you know, I've
had I've been in relationships before where people can't believe
the things I share on the radiar with other people,
but like, that's what we do. That's that's right, That's
that's always kind of been my thing. It's you know,
(21:51):
I'm very open and so so then when someone comes
along and says I don't like that openness, it's like, well,
but that's kind of my personality. And not only that,
but it's the way that I share with the audience
and stuff. So if you don't like that, then I'm
not for you. So I would be curious, is this
how he always has been and now she doesn't like
it because she doesn't like this one woman, or is
he only like that with her, in which case I
(22:11):
would say, why are you so? Why are you sharing
so intimately with her when you normally don't talk about
this stuff. I think that's.
Speaker 6 (22:17):
Important, absolutely.
Speaker 9 (22:19):
And I you know, I work in a school, and
people in schools talk about everything.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
There's no boundaries. But to text my coworker.
Speaker 9 (22:24):
About this a male coworker is different than being with
a guy coworker because I have like a lack of boundaries.
I can talk about anything like you. But it's different
when you're in a relationship and then you're texting another
guy something. What's the function of the behavior, like why
is he doing that?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Yeah? I get I would yeah, I would love to
know if it's abnormal. I agree with you. Thank you, Karen,
have a good day.
Speaker 9 (22:45):
Thank you, have a great day.
Speaker 6 (22:46):
Love you by bye.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
I love you too. I think that's fair. Now here's Bob, Now,
Bob really, Bob, go ahead, now tell me what you think.
I appreciate you, man, Yeah, No, I love you guys.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
You guys are awesome. Okay, So two things. Number one,
I've gone through this procedure before. Would I tell in
my line of work, would I tell my coworkers, No,
just I just would not. But number two, I think
he's dropped in subliminal messages here. So, like you said, Fred,
you know, the conversation that's going on that is more
(23:22):
concerning than him actually telling that coworker what he's going through. Now,
maybe it's a coping mechanism, maybe he's scared. Maybe you know,
he feels a certain type of way that he can't
talk to his wife or whatever. But at the same time,
I think the intimacy of that conversation he is definitely
there's another intent. And coincidentally, he's just sharing his procedure
(23:44):
about his nuts.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Let's say, so, I guess I would be equally concerned
if he were sharing his deep fears about any kind
of procedure with this woman when maybe he should be talking.
Is like, let's say, God forbid this guy. We're having
sarge about his brain or something, and he's texting with
this Yeah, he's texting with this lady going I'm so
scared about you know what? You know this and that
(24:06):
those are conversations you probably have with your wife. I
think that we're hyper focused on the fact that we're
talking about his balls. Yes, yeah, so.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
With what's going on, so it's irrelevant. Even though it's relevant,
it's irrelevant. But even the whole you know, you could
tell there's an intimacy because of her saying, hey, I'll
bring the peas over, and this is and that, So
there's something else going on. There's another intent because I
wouldn't go to none of my female coworkers and say, hey,
you know, guess what I got clipped, you know, over
(24:34):
the weekend, because also too, because of my line of work.
So what do you do, Bob, I'm on your team
right now, okay, right, perfect, all right, I work and
I'm in I'm in the banking industry, so okay, females
a lot of respect, a lot of you know.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Yeah, no, that makes sense. And and and you know what,
I appreciate that your job is to listen to us,
because boy do we need it. So thank you.
Speaker 8 (24:57):
Have a good day, all right, you too, Love you guys.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I'm glad you called. Yeah, there you go. It's always
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