October 7, 2025 • 33 mins
Do you think it's weird to ask your waiter what the best thing is on the menu? It drives Paulina crazy! Plus, we debate relationship drama on an all new Stay or Go!
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I think you donned in it with this one again
on the sheet this morning. The first thing I see
is that you're annoyed when you go to I want
to know how this came up, But you're annoyed when
you go to a restaurant and when what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah, I don't like it when I go to restaurants
to go you with somebody and they feel like they
need to ask and bother our waiter or waitress and
ask them what's good here?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Or like what do you like?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
What is wrong with you?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
You?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I love you deeply, but like what what is wrong
with you?
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Like? Why what is the problem with asking people who
work at the place what they're known for or what
the best singing you?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
No, like knocking off, just like what do you want
to eat?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Because I can recommend like beef to you, Kaylen, and
you're gonna look at me and be like, okay, but
I don't eat beef.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
But I tell the server like, here's what I'm into,
Like what are your highlights on the menu?
Speaker 4 (01:20):
What do you work there? That's true?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
What do you like?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
A taste for something very specific? And I'm over here
telling you like about you.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
If I have a taste for something very specific, I'm
gonna order that thing. But if I don't know what
I want, then I might ask the person and I
know this before I asked the person, and then they
tell me stuff and none of that really sounds good
to me, so I don't order any of it, and
I usually joke about it like all right, well thanks
for that, but I'm ordering this instead, ha ha whatever.
But like, what what is what is the problem these
people see all day? Lord, they've eaten most of the
(01:47):
food there. Yes, damn, you have to assume and if
they're lying to you, then they're liars.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
But whatever, that's that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
They can deal with that, you know, the next time
the rapture comes around, they can deal with that.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
But what is that? I do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, I go to a place it never gone, and
I'll be like, what, what?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
What do you like on the menu? What's good?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I am you so annoyed if I was your waitress
and you asked me that, because I'd be like, yes,
because you.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Are you also annoyed if you're the waitress and I
ask you for water and like that annoying to you
as well?
Speaker 4 (02:18):
That is universal.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
We all need to live, like we needed to drink
your water. I'm more concerned about if you don't like scallops,
I'm not going to give you a presentation about it
and like waste your time.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And like you said, what if I.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Turn around and go, actually, I'm gonna try the other
thing that I thought of first, like do your reputation.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
They're not still a paying customer and everything's okay.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Well, I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
I do it all the time.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Even worse.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Sometimes I'll give them two options and ask them to
choose for me. Now, how triggered would you be for that?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I like that because I'm I'm not putting out of
work into that. You're like, hey, what's a beoutter, the
beef barley or the whatever?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Right?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
The other soup plat a tomato basil. Then I'll say,
I like tomato basil. But see, my.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Taste buds are very different other people's, right, we're when.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
I'm going into the question, So I take that into
considerracy than you.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
I shouldn't ask that question, but other people who have
a less particular taste could very easily ask that question.
And then you might say that the best thing on
the menu is something that I wasn't even looking at
or wouldn't normally order. But if it's like, no, no,
this is what we're known for, you know, then I
might try it because you suggest it. Also might not
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because it's not a contract, because I didn't agree to
a contract with the waitress.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
We didn't sign anything.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Okay, yes, some with her?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Why little bit?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, thank you?
Speaker 6 (03:29):
Now I am the person I will do this, probably
the soule. Let me just be honest there. I do
this all the time. But you know I hate a
skit at dinner, Like, let's get this over with. You know,
I looked at the menu before we got here. You
looked at the menu before we got here.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
No, I didn't.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
We know what we want.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
So no, I didn't just done. I didn't look at.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Them guessing on what you want.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
You, Yes, I am. I went to the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I look at the menu for the first time, and
I'm going to I'm going to assess my mood at
the time, because what I want right now might be
different than what I want at six pm or seven pm.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
When I go to them telling you that you don't do.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
That myself the waitress or a waiter, You're like, bro,
I don't want to do this, like I don't want
to play this.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Game with you.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Tell but this is there a different.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I know you don't like the presentation, like the meat presentation.
You don't like that, like when we go to a
steakhouse or something with the suits and then they come
out and they show you like, you know, the whole cow,
the cat.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I know you don't like that.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
No, I don't need that.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Fine, But that's different.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
I think that's very different than me going like, well,
I don't know, I mean, what's no, But.
Speaker 6 (04:36):
I feel Paulina on the waitress side, like if I'm
the waiter, bro, I have seven of the tables I
gotta work on. I don't have time to play this
game with you. What do you want off this menu?
You want to ask me all these questions?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
What do I think?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
You don't care what I see for they work in
the service industry, like they work there, they're ambassadors of
the place.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
But if I bed this whole like lamb, you know
whatever poor chops to you and you get something the
bletely different, I'm going to be so bothered.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
You are bothered.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I ask you what's the best thing is?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
And if it's not, if it's not what I want,
then I'm not going to order an end of story,
we move on.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
But maybe you'll inspire me to order something.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
No what Okay, stop the Shenanigans.
Speaker 6 (05:24):
Take something off this paper. I just gave you a
paper with seven options.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Pick one.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Some of us go out to dinner to like relax
and enjoy, have a glass of wine, like enjoy your company.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
You want to get something you like?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
You want to chat like why why are we going out.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
To dinner with such anger? Who make?
Speaker 2 (05:42):
And then like sometimes if I'm choosing between two things,
I'll be like what about these? And then sometimes if
the person like is really nice and honest, that the
server will be like, yeah, I definitely would go with
the other thing, because they've had it and they don't
like the thing, right book. I mean, if you're an
honest server, not everything on the mat, on every menu
is going to be like you know, Michelin Star. Not
everything is the best thing. You know, there are things
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that are better. Hey, a lot of people like this, right, Okay? Good, Well,
then I might order that because if you sell a
lot of them, then they must be pretty good. I mean,
but how would I know that. I don't get their
p and L. They don't little POS system doesn't print
out for me and send to my email before I arrive.
You know, the most popular things at the restaurant.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
I've been betrayed by waiters and waitresses because they gave
me what their recommendation is and I didn't like it.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
So like, that's why I don't, like, why are we
business for trusting them if you already know.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
What you're wanting?
Speaker 1 (06:34):
A room pulled?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
So I don't want to give my trust to Mike
do that, but other people.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Okay, what I'm waitressing on the weekend. I won't do it.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
No, I don't.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
I just feel like, well, you don't ask someone who
knows what you want. You don't ask the waiter. But
like other people might not know.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Wild for this, Like why would I not ask the
person who's there all the time if I'm not sure about.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Something, the waitress. I ask the questions.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
All they do all day is this food?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Right? And then and then you also have to again
you have to assume they've tried a lot of this stuff.
And some people will be like I have never heard that.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
On the flip side, I love when the winter will
be like, don't get that.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
That's not good.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
That's what That's what I'm just That's what I just said, Yeah,
exactly the same thing. It's like, well these you think,
oh no.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Not that yeah, or when they point, don't pick the
most expensive thing, like they're honest, sparkling.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
I don't have to. I asked the questions. I'm the waitress.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah, it's not a fun restaurant. Y, what's wrong with
these people?
Speaker 7 (07:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:28):
What is wrong with you? I guess I'm supposed to
go to the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
I'm supposed to go to the restaurant, and I'm not
supposed to ask any questions. I'm supposed to have the
menu memorized, yes, and then I'm supposed.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
To just know.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And if I don't get it right, if I don't
order everything properly the first time, right, Oh boy, Paulia
is gonna be mad. You're gonna get up and leave
after she eats the food I'm about to buy her.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
That's portrayed before I have.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You know, it's no problem for you because you show
forty five minutes late, so you never saw me do that,
so it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
That's true.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
But Jed, what did you want to say? Please?
Speaker 8 (08:00):
So I'm with Kiki. I definitely review every menu before
I go to any restaurants to make sure I like
what's on the menu, because I prefer to want to.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Eat good food.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
My husband is horrible.
Speaker 8 (08:11):
I said, please do not ask the waitress what their
favorite item is, and he goes, I'm not going.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
To what does he do?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
What's your favorite?
Speaker 8 (08:18):
Two options? And then they get their options and they
say their favorite and he picks the opposite.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
So embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah, I mean, I definitely have done it where people
I'm like, what is what is the best thing here?
Speaker 1 (08:28):
What do you like? And then they say two things,
and it's like.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
You know the Pheasant, and I don't know when I'm
meeting with Pheasant, but you know, I don't know the
famous send burger or something, and I'm like, I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Okay, thank you for that. I don't want either one
of those things, so I ordered something else.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
That's why you.
Speaker 8 (08:40):
Review the menu before you go.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
I guess it doesn't tell you like the best thing
or the most ordered or customer reviews.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Oh yeah, it tells you the I look at the pictures. Yeah,
you gotta go down to I mean from the waiter.
I don't those Google reviews.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
I don't have forty five minutes to research the restaurant,
especially if it's already been just it's not like I'm
going to call my friends and go, oh, that place
that we mutually decided upon.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I don't want to go now.
Speaker 6 (09:06):
No, you just do your research before you get there,
exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I like to just experience things in real time. But
thank you, Jen, have a good day. Okay, So how
about this? So I've got this guy right now. Oh, Paulina,
you'd hate this guy. I need to look up his name.
I was talking to my friend Gideon about this yesterday.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
I love this guy. He's in Houston.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
He's a Texan, older guy, and his his content is
that he goes to restaurants for cuisine he's never had
before ever, and he walks in and basically just says like, Hey,
I've never eaten Palestinian food before, I've never eaten Jamaican
food before, I've never eaten Filipino food before. What should
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I have? Do you have a beer that's you know,
from this place? Whatever? And then he eats it and
people love it. People love this man because he's asking
questions about their culture and he doesn't know anything ab
about the food is what to order? They give him choices,
he makes a choice. That's the same thing that don't say.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Not going to Chili's or Applebee's like and asking the
waitresses crazy, Like, that's different. That's the whole experience. You're
also doing video content, you know what I mean. You're
you're putting these these small businesses on.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Like also holding a selfie camera stick up to.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Myself on a chain.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
It can't be a change, can't.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Be a chain, right, But like what if the buffaloed
the new Buffo on that new anymore with the buffalo
Monzarelli sticks, right, Like, what if they're disappointing? You know,
I don't know, And honest server would tell you, yeah,
they're kind of mid but these are really good.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Get these Boom.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
TikTok would have told you that a day ago.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
But you've already spent four hours on TikTok on the
way there.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
I have a life. Okay, I don't have a life,
so I probably have plenty of time for this. But hey, Nancy,
this is one of the wildest takes I've ever heard.
We are not supposed to ask people who work at
the restaurant what is good at the restaurant.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
According to Paulina, well.
Speaker 9 (11:02):
What I usually do, especially if I'm on vacation, I
will be like, hey, if I never come back here again,
what do I have to try before?
Speaker 4 (11:11):
I love that?
Speaker 1 (11:13):
See, I don't see a problem with this.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
And then if they tell you something that you don't
feel like trying, you know all the you know the
frog legs are great, Well I don't. I don't really
want them, and so then you order something else. No
big deal, No big deal.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Exactly exactly. I agree, Okay, we can got Nancy.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Thank you. Yeah, yeah, you're welcome.
Speaker 9 (11:32):
To have a wonderful day.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
You too, And Nancy, I love you, appreciate you.
Speaker 6 (11:36):
Now I want to tell you with Nancy, I told
you I do this, But I do feel Paulina, it's dumb.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
I'm really wasting these people time on both sides. I
don't understand.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Okay, but even if I look at the menu ahead
of time and I know what I want walking in,
what if it's not good and what if the server
is like mmm, I'll tell you.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
What I don't like.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
What I don't like is when a server tells everyone
that they made the best order, like oh, excellent order,
you know, or like excellent choice. It's like, wait, would
you tell me a bit we're a bad choice, Like
you're saying that ahead of time. I didn't ask you,
which means you wouldn't tell me if I made a
bad choice. And I don't like that, like I would
rather I would rather a server be like, yeah, I
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don't know, but this is actually better than that, you know,
if it's like in the same category, like oh you
ordered this, that's great, this one. Actually I think this
one's a little bit better, and then I would be
like great, and then I have a choice. Then I'm educated.
I have knowledge that I cannot have. And the other
thing is one more time about reviews. God, you got
me going already. Reviews or bs, reviews, or bs. Almost
(12:42):
nobody takes the time to go say I had the
best club sandwich today at this place. It was the
best I've ever had. No, you said it was there
was a hair in my club sandwich today, you know,
and it was it your hair was someone else's hair.
We don't really know, okay, but no one takes the
time to go. I would say it's not eighty percent
people complaining about something and ten percent people saying how
(13:04):
good things were. So you can't really go to the
reviews to find out what's good.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Yes, you can't.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
And don't you know that I go to TikTok. Don't
you know that pretty well? What about reviews?
Speaker 6 (13:15):
Oh yeah, I make good reviews. I make TikTok videos.
If I really love you, okay, and if I hate you,
Veronica or whatever's going to make a review.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
I see a lot of reviews from Veronica, not nearly
as many from what.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
The negative reviews, whatever her name, you can't even keep
us trade.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Hey, Bridget, hi, Bridget, this is a crazy thing, Paulina
and Kiki.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Now apparently who does it?
Speaker 2 (13:41):
You're not allowed to ask the server at the restaurant
what's good there?
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Yeah, I don't believe in that.
Speaker 7 (13:49):
I actually think that going to restaurants, you're supposed to
go with your friends and sit and enjoy, take your time,
you know, enjoying each other's company, peruves the menu. Yeah,
I don't believe, And like, all right, listen, I want
to know exactly what I want to eat.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
I want to get in, I want to get out.
Speaker 7 (14:04):
I want to like, what is the point of enjoying
if you want to be in and out?
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Is what I'm talking about. So apparently, Bridget, we're supposed
to go. We're supposed to go on the reviews. We're
supposed to read the menu. I'm supposed to try and
dig up any TikTok about the place he's.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Ever been made.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I got to take three or four hours before I
go to the restaurant to make sure I'm fully briefed,
and then when I walk in there, I better have
the order memorize, and I better spit it out, and
I better not say anything. I better not ask anybody
any questions. But lord knows, if I don't like it,
I can then go home and tear them a new
one without ever having spoken a word or asked a question.
That's what I've learned this morning, bridget I want you
to have a great day. No way.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Yeah, that's crazy, right, this is my life.
Speaker 7 (14:49):
Like honestly, that's what happens when social media and Google
takes over the world. There's no such thing as just
wandering into a restaurant and enjoying the experience, or maybe
not enjoying the experience and having a story. I mean,
there is something that's to be sad about old school
dining and old school activities. Or you don't have to
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like be an investigator over every little thing.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
That you can. You better have your order memorized.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
You better have it memory, and you better not change
your mind. And if something else looks good, don't you
dare ask if it is not you bridge it, No,
do ask servers.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
I do ask servers what's good on the menu bought?
In my defense, I'm gonna tell you I was in
the service industry for a very long time as a
server and a bartender. And I actually enjoyed it when
people ask me what I enjoyed to eat?
Speaker 4 (15:40):
That's interesting.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
How about that? Thank you? Bridge?
Speaker 4 (15:43):
Very nice?
Speaker 1 (15:46):
She's better okay, one at a time.
Speaker 4 (15:48):
No, she's good. She's a good one.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
I don't think you could take your time like you
can sit down, relax, have wine.
Speaker 10 (15:52):
And all that.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
Feel like it. But just like, don't be bugging your
service guys. Let them just you know, let them enjoy
the nice give me to bug them.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
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Speaker 1 (16:38):
How you doing, Whitney?
Speaker 6 (16:43):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (16:43):
There she is, Hi Whitney. Wow, welcome to the program.
What's going on with this guy? You've been dating him
for two months? I act like I don't know. I
read the whole email, but let's pretend like I don't know. Yeah,
so you've been dating this guy for two months. You
have yet to dtr which I'm not sure if that's
a term that people still use anymore, that the youth
still moving use anymore. But you yet to determine the relationship,
(17:06):
define the relationship after two months. But where's the issue?
Speaker 10 (17:11):
Well, so, first of all, there's no red flags, and
he's really good at communicating, Okay, I.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
Do appreciate that.
Speaker 10 (17:18):
However, he did tell me this week that he's going
to be, you know, quote unquote going dark for two
weeks because he's going on a trip to Europe with
his sister. And you know, he's had this trip planned
for like months before we even met.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
Okay, and you know they're.
Speaker 10 (17:39):
Thing in hostels and you know, obviously he doesn't know
if or when I'll have service, and I get that, and.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
He really, where is he going? Is he going to
like war torn Russia? Like where where is he going?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
No, they're going.
Speaker 10 (17:55):
I think they're going.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
I'm like, like Paris, and you know, progue understanding is
that there's Wi Fi and the and the interwebs and
phone and you know, cellular service.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
So I don't know. Okay, I'm sorry. Continue.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
So he's going on a trip with his sister for
two weeks, and he's telling you ahead of time, I'm
not going to be in communication with you.
Speaker 10 (18:17):
Yeah, I mean he wants to go off the grid
and like really enjoy it and decompress, which, honestly, like
I really appreciate.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
Him telling me that way.
Speaker 10 (18:25):
I'm not like, oh no, did I do something wrong?
Speaker 4 (18:28):
Where'd he go? You know, like I'd much rather have
you met his sister?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Now?
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Is this legit?
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Is?
Speaker 1 (18:33):
He definitely going with his sister.
Speaker 10 (18:36):
I haven't met her yet, but you know, they facetimed.
They talk about this trip all the time.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
So like, I know that I believe that part, okay.
Speaker 10 (18:46):
And honestly, like I believe the whole thing until you know,
I talk to my friends about it and they think
it's kind of bs and they don't really buy the story.
They're like, we don't buy it.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
I could see this two ways.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I mean, if he's if he's taking some other woman
on this trip to uh wherever he's going. I mean,
trust me, people who are people who are very much
in relationships have managed to pull off a whole lot
more in the same city, in the same country, in
the same zip code. So I don't know why he
would be unable to text with you or communicate with
you if this was some sort of you know, trip
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he was going on with that had some sinister issued,
some sinister layer to it, Like if he was going
with an ex or another woman or something, he would
very easily be able to text you or keep something going,
like he wouldn't have to call his shot in this way,
you know what I mean? Like, Hey, I'm not going
to be able to talk to you for two weeks
because I'm, you know, off doing something with someone else,
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you know what I mean? Like that, that's too obvious.
It's too obvious to me. What like, how many people
do you know? The cheap married people do this? Married
people have full on relationship with other people using the
very same phone and the very same hand that they
do things with their husband with or wife, you know
what I mean? So, like what I'm saying is stuff
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happens right under people's nose. He doesn't have to go
out of the country and say he's unavailable. So it's
very possible. And you know me, I'm not I'm a skeptic.
I'm a pessimist. I tended to go to the plate
the worst place that he's up to something. But I mean,
this could be. But I also don't know why in
twenty twenty five, we're not just like shooting someone that
we care about. A text every now and again to say, hey,
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I'm okay, I'm here having a good time. You know
what about social media? Is he active on social media?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Usually?
Speaker 10 (20:36):
No, he's not a big coaster. You really not.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
So I think this is your little friends meddling. I
think this is your little friends during this up because
it's very possible that this guy wants to be present
on his trip.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
As sister, I mean, hello, like it.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
I don't know if my sister when I was younger,
if my sister had been you know, not in a
relationship and didn't have kids, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I could see a world we would travel.
Speaker 5 (21:02):
Yes, but you you could also talk to other people
like why do you need to like go off the
grid with your sister.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I don't know, do you guys communicate regularly? Like is
it you? Are you always in communication with me? With
with this guy.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
I mean it's not every day.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Oh it's not no coffee bless you, whatever that was.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
It would be one thing if it were like you
guys were constantly communicating all day every day and this
guy's going like, hey, look, just a head's up, Like
I'm gonna be on planes and I'm gonna be, you know,
less reachable. So we're not going to have, you know,
hourly communication in a way that we typically do. And
just just know that that that's because we're doing stuff.
Because if I'm on vacation and I am just ripping
out text messages to someone else, I'll me that's not
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I'm not present. I'm not enjoying what I'm doing, you
know what I mean the way that I might if
id me just in everyday life, doing the same routine
every day. But I want to know from everyone else
eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five.
You know, just what do you think when you hear
Whitney talking about this guy two months no red flags,
he's going out of town with his sister, and he's
basically saying he's going to go dark for two weeks.
(22:07):
I think if he were cheating, he could still pull
off communication.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
What well, I don't think you're just staring at me.
But I don't what does that mean.
Speaker 6 (22:15):
I don't feel like being called insecure today. So I
was actually just gonna let the people speak. But you're
not going to nowhere for two weeks, they me, and
I can't talk to you unless you're going to say
the country is your name military Mike?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
If not you, that's true. I mean, Shelley's husband does
this all the time.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Now. Granted this because he's like it has top secret
clearances and we're not supposed to know where he is.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
I guess I just don't know that this is the
second day in a row.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
We're automatically going to the worst possible outcome, and I
don't I think it's a little weird, but I think that,
you know, twenty years ago or fifteen years ago, this
would have been the norm. You know, you wouldn't have
necessarily had communication in your pocket twenty four to seven,
and you would have had to use a phone payaul.
(23:00):
We've been expensive, like we use the horses too. We've
evolved to a new standard where you're supposed to be
in constant communication with everyone whenever they want. And I
don't necessarily think it's unfair to say, hey, I'm stepping
back for a minute because I'm I'm going on this
trip and it's it's a special thing and I want
to be present for it.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
None of you are buying that. No, no, none of you.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Two weeks you cannot speak to me.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Did he say that?
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Did he say you will not hear from me for
two weeks, or did he say that it's going to
be just a whole lot lass No.
Speaker 10 (23:31):
He just wanted to, like, definitely let me know that's
gonna be a lot less.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
He's gone and you don't even talk every day?
Speaker 4 (23:39):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (23:40):
But you don't even talk every day and you're in
a relationship for two months?
Speaker 2 (23:43):
I mean again, Like, so, I guess I don't know
why it's a big deal if it's a few more days.
Speaker 4 (23:48):
Yeah, but I mean like two weeks.
Speaker 10 (23:49):
Okay, we talk like almost every day and we always
text good night to each other. Okay, so yes, there
is some kind of communication every day. I guess it's
just not constant.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I mean, is there any way I don't know how
to do this and people are texting about I don't
know how to do this without looking paranoid or like
you don't trust him, But is there a way to
meet his sister before he goes, like just so that
you can verify it casually, not like an interrogation.
Speaker 10 (24:15):
Local And I've like said hi on FaceTime, like when
I'm over his house like a he going on.
Speaker 4 (24:23):
Vacation would another woman?
Speaker 1 (24:24):
No, he's not.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
Just you go get you another man, girl, and then
y'all link up when you get back.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
He's not doing that like again, I know because because
cheaters cheaters. I mean it's people have had multiple concurrent
relationships right under people's nose.
Speaker 5 (24:42):
You're better at it. I've seen really dumb, obvious crimes
from sure.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
But what I mean is he doesn't have to go, hey,
heads up, I'm going on a trip with my sister
and you can't meet her, nor can you communicate with
me fortune right, I don't. I don't think I would
go that far. I think I would just have one
on a tree and then if you got mad at
me because I wasn't as responsive because I'm doing some
other girl. Then I would be like, well, I don't know, sorry,
(25:07):
I didn't have Wi Fi, like I'm in the middle
of nowhere. Yeah, I mean, I just I think there's
a way to do this without calling your shot.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Well, they also don't really talk a lot, it sounds like,
which is another red flag.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
She says. We know him time, We almost talk every day.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
The man that you lie with, you almost talk every
day for two months.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
And maybe By the way, Whitney, have you had any
issue with the fact, I mean, are you upset about
the fact that your communication patterns?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Is it not enough for you? See? So she's it's.
Speaker 4 (25:32):
The perfect thing.
Speaker 10 (25:33):
We've been like growing like a healthy, wonderful pace. I'm
if this trick didn't what wasn't like in existence, I
would feel great about where we were.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Okay, well, let me take some phone calls on this,
because you've heard our perspectives. But let me let me
see what people at home have to say. And I
wish you the best, Whitny. I don't this doesn't jump
out at me as necessarily a break up able offense.
And I think you'll know pretty quickly when he gets back.
By the way, I think you'll read it on his face,
if he was up to something, or if he's guilty
about something, or something develop while you were away from
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each other, then I think I feel like you'll sense that.
But I don't think we're we're breaking up with someone.
Speaker 6 (26:11):
Now Friday breakup. I would just date. Oh God, do
you say hello?
Speaker 1 (26:15):
All right? Thank you? Whitney, have a good day?
Speaker 4 (26:17):
Where you go dark?
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Your advice is all over the place.
Speaker 5 (26:21):
Is it not a red flag that they don't talk
every day?
Speaker 4 (26:23):
Though I do?
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
But see, you could say that except I just asked
her if she's okay with them?
Speaker 4 (26:28):
She says yeah, because she's just covering her feelings.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
No, you have to, so let's not take people their
face value because you don't agree the person.
Speaker 3 (26:36):
You're dating like like boyfriend girlfriend, not like casual like hookups,
not casual dinners.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
I'm talking about dating boyfriend girlfriend. You don't talk to
me just to say hey, what's up?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
But again, that's what you need. I just asked her,
are you okay with it? And she said yes? And
then your response is, well, she's lying to us. Maybe
she's maybe she's not, Maybe maybe that's not what she requires. Hey, Jessica, Hi, Jessica, there.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
Go, Oh, definitely go.
Speaker 7 (27:08):
I feel like she's in the stage where ignorance is
bliss and she wants so desperately to hold one day.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
Is actually what you say is that he is even
though she knows it's not. I feel like she's the
other woman, I.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
Will say, Jessica.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
The part of this that we and someone texted this
just now, the part of this that we didn't really
hone in on, is that they have not defined the
relationship after two months.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Now.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
For some people that would be normal, but I mean,
technically they are not in a relationship, so he could
be going with someone else and getting with her, So
I guess I don't know what the purpose of lying is.
He could be omitting because he doesn't want he doesn't
want her to go anywhere but two months and they
are not technically in a relationship, which means that technically
he wouldn't be cheating on her.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
He has every right to do what he wants.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
He's on vacation with his wife and kids.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Oh god, that means.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
He's definitely going with another woman.
Speaker 9 (27:55):
I kind of went through a situation, like say, they say,
people go through things, but you don't.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
Have to.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
You know he is going with another woman. Yeah, Jessica,
you have a good day.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
I love you, guys. I do, I just I don't.
I don't know, Amber high, I don't Amber a stair go.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
Awing. Why it's only two weeks. If it's really a
big issue, they could both get what'sapp and communicate through there.
But I don't think it's that big of issue, especially
if he's only going with his sister.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
I do think.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
I do think it's interesting that the whole not defined
the relationship thing.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
But I mean, what is the appropriates?
Speaker 2 (28:46):
I mean, they don't talk every day, so is it
I mean, is this is it a slow burn? Is this?
Speaker 1 (28:51):
I mean, I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
It is strange, But then again, he wouldn't have to
lie to her, you know, he wouldn't have to say anything.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
They're not together.
Speaker 6 (29:00):
Me and lots today sad chicks all the time. You
don't let you, you don't let your satchigk know she is
sad cheek Okay, ever, thank you, you're right, have a
good day.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
Two weeks.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Yeah, it's a little.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
Strange, but I'm.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Not jumping to immediately. You know this other stuff.
Speaker 5 (29:17):
You're courting me like write letters, get what's app send
a carrier pigeon, let me know you miss me.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
Yeah, okay, that's fair, and it's.
Speaker 4 (29:24):
Too he would.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
And honestly, if you were dating a girl and she
told you I'm going to Europe with my brother for
two weeks, you probably won't hear from me.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
You would be okay with that.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
I wouldn't love it.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
But I guess I'm not necessarily going to all of
this these other things. Hey, Crystal, good morning, So I
gotta wake up now, you say, okay, I'm await, So
go right ahead.
Speaker 4 (29:48):
Tell them this morning. You congress on your engagement. Thank
you hard. You can play this too way, Honey.
Speaker 6 (29:58):
You need to find out for him if something happens
on the trip, who does he contact?
Speaker 2 (30:04):
I mean, what do you mean it his mom? I
don't know? You mean, who's these emergency contact? They're not
in a relationship, Crystal.
Speaker 4 (30:10):
She said they've been dating too much, but they haven't.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Then she did say that, but they have not defined
the relationship, which I think if any of this is suspect,
it's that part of it. I guess I wonder what's
up with that.
Speaker 7 (30:20):
Yeah, Fred, once you get the good of this, so no, no, no,
two weeks.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
So what would you expect every day he needs to
contact you every day he's gone.
Speaker 4 (30:29):
No, he doesn't need to every day.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
I know.
Speaker 9 (30:30):
I get your own vacation, have fun on your vacation,
but you're not going to see him.
Speaker 4 (30:34):
You're going dark. Two weeks?
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Okay, fair enough, thank you, Crystal. Hey, I hear you
have a good day. You asked me if I would
like it. I wouldn't like it. But I again, how
do we know, based on what little information we have,
that he's absolutely lying and he's cheating and all these things. This,
this is how this happens is we're the little friends
here and we're in We have no idea what we're
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talking about it. We're injecting all of our own insecurities
in to this, Pauline.
Speaker 4 (31:01):
No, we're saving her.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Listen, we live in twenty twenty five, Like we said,
what's app this that there's wine down time when you're
on vacation, you're in your room, you're on the toilet,
you're doing your own thing.
Speaker 4 (31:11):
Like you can call her.
Speaker 2 (31:12):
It would be easy enough to drop a text every
now and again. I agree, I agree, I do you agree?
Speaker 4 (31:18):
Leaning Tower Pieza you know they're riding here.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
It is leaning still.
Speaker 4 (31:22):
I'm in the vet.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Yes, absolutely, I'm praying for you with my mistress. Yeah, Carolina, Hi, Hi, Hi,
good morning. Just to recap here, this woman's been dating
a guy for a couple of months. They haven't to
define the relationship she has. She indicated on her own,
no red flags about this guy. But he's going on
a trip for two weeks with his sister, he says,
and let her know that he wouldn't really be communicative
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during that time.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (31:47):
Definitely stay.
Speaker 9 (31:49):
I think that unless she sees other red flags, no
reason to be alarmed. Once It's something similar many years ago,
three week three trips for three weeks for someone I
was just talking to here and there, getting to know
and we're married now, and it was all fine. He
actually did reach out throughout the trip here and there,
not as often as you typically spoke to each other,
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but you know, knew where he was at here and
there every few days and gotten nice souvenirs. Ended up
picking him up from the airport. So I think that
might be something she can try, picking him and the
sister up from the airport, getting to know her after.
Speaker 4 (32:26):
The trip, maybe trust a little bit.
Speaker 6 (32:28):
Yeah, or booking a flight and imagine, you know, ended
up at the same resort.
Speaker 9 (32:35):
I've only been dating for two months. I would say
that's also a little I don't want to go on
a trip with someone I've just stated for two months
and their sister.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Yeah, why I get that too, wife, Yeah, Carolina, thank you,
have a good day.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
There are definitely holes in this and it definitely is
a little strange. But I guess I don't know. I mean,
why is he You're a.
Speaker 6 (32:58):
Good person and you give the benefit of the doubt
not always although you would not go for this, I
wouldn't like it.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
No, I wouldn't like it, But I mean, I guess
after two months it's like, well,
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I think you donned in it with this one again
on the sheet this morning. The first thing I see
is that you're annoyed when you go to I want
to know how this came up, But you're annoyed when
you go to a restaurant and when what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah, I don't like it when I go to restaurants
to go you with somebody and they feel like they
need to ask and bother our waiter or waitress and
ask them what's good here?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Or like what do you like?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
What is wrong with you?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
You?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I love you deeply, but like what what is wrong
with you?
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Like? Why what is the problem with asking people who
work at the place what they're known for or what
the best singing you?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
No, like knocking off, just like what do you want
to eat?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Because I can recommend like beef to you, Kaylen, and
you're gonna look at me and be like, okay, but
I don't eat beef.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
But I tell the server like, here's what I'm into,
Like what are your highlights on the menu?
Speaker 4 (01:20):
What do you work there? That's true?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
What do you like?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
A taste for something very specific? And I'm over here
telling you like about you.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
If I have a taste for something very specific, I'm
gonna order that thing. But if I don't know what
I want, then I might ask the person and I
know this before I asked the person, and then they
tell me stuff and none of that really sounds good
to me, so I don't order any of it, and
I usually joke about it like all right, well thanks
for that, but I'm ordering this instead, ha ha whatever.
But like, what what is what is the problem these
people see all day? Lord, they've eaten most of the
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food there. Yes, damn, you have to assume and if
they're lying to you, then they're liars.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
But whatever, that's that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
They can deal with that, you know, the next time
the rapture comes around, they can deal with that.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
But what is that? I do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, I go to a place it never gone, and
I'll be like, what, what?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
What do you like on the menu? What's good?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I am you so annoyed if I was your waitress
and you asked me that, because I'd be like, yes,
because you.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Are you also annoyed if you're the waitress and I
ask you for water and like that annoying to you
as well?
Speaker 4 (02:18):
That is universal.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
We all need to live, like we needed to drink
your water. I'm more concerned about if you don't like scallops,
I'm not going to give you a presentation about it
and like waste your time.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And like you said, what if I.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Turn around and go, actually, I'm gonna try the other
thing that I thought of first, like do your reputation.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
They're not still a paying customer and everything's okay.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Well, I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
I do it all the time.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Even worse.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Sometimes I'll give them two options and ask them to
choose for me. Now, how triggered would you be for that?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I like that because I'm I'm not putting out of
work into that. You're like, hey, what's a beoutter, the
beef barley or the whatever?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Right?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
The other soup plat a tomato basil. Then I'll say,
I like tomato basil. But see, my.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Taste buds are very different other people's, right, we're when.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
I'm going into the question, So I take that into
considerracy than you.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
I shouldn't ask that question, but other people who have
a less particular taste could very easily ask that question.
And then you might say that the best thing on
the menu is something that I wasn't even looking at
or wouldn't normally order. But if it's like, no, no,
this is what we're known for, you know, then I
might try it because you suggest it. Also might not
(03:20):
because it's not a contract, because I didn't agree to
a contract with the waitress.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
We didn't sign anything.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Okay, yes, some with her?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Why little bit?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, thank you?
Speaker 6 (03:29):
Now I am the person I will do this, probably
the soule. Let me just be honest there. I do
this all the time. But you know I hate a
skit at dinner, Like, let's get this over with. You know,
I looked at the menu before we got here. You
looked at the menu before we got here.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
No, I didn't.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
We know what we want.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
So no, I didn't just done. I didn't look at.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Them guessing on what you want.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
You, Yes, I am. I went to the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I look at the menu for the first time, and
I'm going to I'm going to assess my mood at
the time, because what I want right now might be
different than what I want at six pm or seven pm.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
When I go to them telling you that you don't do.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
That myself the waitress or a waiter, You're like, bro,
I don't want to do this, like I don't want
to play this.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Game with you.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Tell but this is there a different.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I know you don't like the presentation, like the meat presentation.
You don't like that, like when we go to a
steakhouse or something with the suits and then they come
out and they show you like, you know, the whole cow,
the cat.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I know you don't like that.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
No, I don't need that.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Fine, But that's different.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
I think that's very different than me going like, well,
I don't know, I mean, what's no, But.
Speaker 6 (04:36):
I feel Paulina on the waitress side, like if I'm
the waiter, bro, I have seven of the tables I
gotta work on. I don't have time to play this
game with you. What do you want off this menu?
You want to ask me all these questions?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
What do I think?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
You don't care what I see for they work in
the service industry, like they work there, they're ambassadors of
the place.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
But if I bed this whole like lamb, you know
whatever poor chops to you and you get something the
bletely different, I'm going to be so bothered.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
You are bothered.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I ask you what's the best thing is?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
And if it's not, if it's not what I want,
then I'm not going to order an end of story,
we move on.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
But maybe you'll inspire me to order something.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
No what Okay, stop the Shenanigans.
Speaker 6 (05:24):
Take something off this paper. I just gave you a
paper with seven options.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Pick one.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Some of us go out to dinner to like relax
and enjoy, have a glass of wine, like enjoy your company.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
You want to get something you like?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
You want to chat like why why are we going out.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
To dinner with such anger? Who make?
Speaker 2 (05:42):
And then like sometimes if I'm choosing between two things,
I'll be like what about these? And then sometimes if
the person like is really nice and honest, that the
server will be like, yeah, I definitely would go with
the other thing, because they've had it and they don't
like the thing, right book. I mean, if you're an
honest server, not everything on the mat, on every menu
is going to be like you know, Michelin Star. Not
everything is the best thing. You know, there are things
(06:04):
that are better. Hey, a lot of people like this, right, Okay? Good, Well,
then I might order that because if you sell a
lot of them, then they must be pretty good. I mean,
but how would I know that. I don't get their
p and L. They don't little POS system doesn't print
out for me and send to my email before I arrive.
You know, the most popular things at the restaurant.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
I've been betrayed by waiters and waitresses because they gave
me what their recommendation is and I didn't like it.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
So like, that's why I don't, like, why are we
business for trusting them if you already know.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
What you're wanting?
Speaker 1 (06:34):
A room pulled?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
So I don't want to give my trust to Mike
do that, but other people.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Okay, what I'm waitressing on the weekend. I won't do it.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
No, I don't.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
I just feel like, well, you don't ask someone who
knows what you want. You don't ask the waiter. But
like other people might not know.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Wild for this, Like why would I not ask the
person who's there all the time if I'm not sure about.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Something, the waitress. I ask the questions.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
All they do all day is this food?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Right? And then and then you also have to again
you have to assume they've tried a lot of this stuff.
And some people will be like I have never heard that.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
On the flip side, I love when the winter will
be like, don't get that.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
That's not good.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
That's what That's what I'm just That's what I just said, Yeah,
exactly the same thing. It's like, well these you think,
oh no.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Not that yeah, or when they point, don't pick the
most expensive thing, like they're honest, sparkling.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
I don't have to. I asked the questions. I'm the waitress.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah, it's not a fun restaurant. Y, what's wrong with
these people?
Speaker 7 (07:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:28):
What is wrong with you? I guess I'm supposed to
go to the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
I'm supposed to go to the restaurant, and I'm not
supposed to ask any questions. I'm supposed to have the
menu memorized, yes, and then I'm supposed.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
To just know.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And if I don't get it right, if I don't
order everything properly the first time, right, Oh boy, Paulia
is gonna be mad. You're gonna get up and leave
after she eats the food I'm about to buy her.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
That's portrayed before I have.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You know, it's no problem for you because you show
forty five minutes late, so you never saw me do that,
so it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
That's true.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
But Jed, what did you want to say? Please?
Speaker 8 (08:00):
So I'm with Kiki. I definitely review every menu before
I go to any restaurants to make sure I like
what's on the menu, because I prefer to want to.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Eat good food.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
My husband is horrible.
Speaker 8 (08:11):
I said, please do not ask the waitress what their
favorite item is, and he goes, I'm not going.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
To what does he do?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
What's your favorite?
Speaker 8 (08:18):
Two options? And then they get their options and they
say their favorite and he picks the opposite.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
So embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah, I mean, I definitely have done it where people
I'm like, what is what is the best thing here?
Speaker 1 (08:28):
What do you like? And then they say two things,
and it's like.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
You know the Pheasant, and I don't know when I'm
meeting with Pheasant, but you know, I don't know the
famous send burger or something, and I'm like, I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Okay, thank you for that. I don't want either one
of those things, so I ordered something else.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
That's why you.
Speaker 8 (08:40):
Review the menu before you go.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
I guess it doesn't tell you like the best thing
or the most ordered or customer reviews.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Oh yeah, it tells you the I look at the pictures. Yeah,
you gotta go down to I mean from the waiter.
I don't those Google reviews.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
I don't have forty five minutes to research the restaurant,
especially if it's already been just it's not like I'm
going to call my friends and go, oh, that place
that we mutually decided upon.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I don't want to go now.
Speaker 6 (09:06):
No, you just do your research before you get there,
exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I like to just experience things in real time. But
thank you, Jen, have a good day. Okay, So how
about this? So I've got this guy right now. Oh, Paulina,
you'd hate this guy. I need to look up his name.
I was talking to my friend Gideon about this yesterday.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
I love this guy. He's in Houston.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
He's a Texan, older guy, and his his content is
that he goes to restaurants for cuisine he's never had
before ever, and he walks in and basically just says like, Hey,
I've never eaten Palestinian food before, I've never eaten Jamaican
food before, I've never eaten Filipino food before. What should
(09:49):
I have? Do you have a beer that's you know,
from this place? Whatever? And then he eats it and
people love it. People love this man because he's asking
questions about their culture and he doesn't know anything ab
about the food is what to order? They give him choices,
he makes a choice. That's the same thing that don't say.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Not going to Chili's or Applebee's like and asking the
waitresses crazy, Like, that's different. That's the whole experience. You're
also doing video content, you know what I mean. You're
you're putting these these small businesses on.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Like also holding a selfie camera stick up to.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Myself on a chain.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
It can't be a change, can't.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Be a chain, right, But like what if the buffaloed
the new Buffo on that new anymore with the buffalo
Monzarelli sticks, right, Like, what if they're disappointing? You know,
I don't know, And honest server would tell you, yeah,
they're kind of mid but these are really good.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Get these Boom.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
TikTok would have told you that a day ago.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
But you've already spent four hours on TikTok on the
way there.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
I have a life. Okay, I don't have a life,
so I probably have plenty of time for this. But hey, Nancy,
this is one of the wildest takes I've ever heard.
We are not supposed to ask people who work at
the restaurant what is good at the restaurant.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
According to Paulina, well.
Speaker 9 (11:02):
What I usually do, especially if I'm on vacation, I
will be like, hey, if I never come back here again,
what do I have to try before?
Speaker 4 (11:11):
I love that?
Speaker 1 (11:13):
See, I don't see a problem with this.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
And then if they tell you something that you don't
feel like trying, you know all the you know the
frog legs are great, Well I don't. I don't really
want them, and so then you order something else. No
big deal, No big deal.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Exactly exactly. I agree, Okay, we can got Nancy.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Thank you. Yeah, yeah, you're welcome.
Speaker 9 (11:32):
To have a wonderful day.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
You too, And Nancy, I love you, appreciate you.
Speaker 6 (11:36):
Now I want to tell you with Nancy, I told
you I do this, But I do feel Paulina, it's dumb.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
I'm really wasting these people time on both sides. I
don't understand.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Okay, but even if I look at the menu ahead
of time and I know what I want walking in,
what if it's not good and what if the server
is like mmm, I'll tell you.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
What I don't like.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
What I don't like is when a server tells everyone
that they made the best order, like oh, excellent order,
you know, or like excellent choice. It's like, wait, would
you tell me a bit we're a bad choice, Like
you're saying that ahead of time. I didn't ask you,
which means you wouldn't tell me if I made a
bad choice. And I don't like that, like I would
rather I would rather a server be like, yeah, I
(12:18):
don't know, but this is actually better than that, you know,
if it's like in the same category, like oh you
ordered this, that's great, this one. Actually I think this
one's a little bit better, and then I would be
like great, and then I have a choice. Then I'm educated.
I have knowledge that I cannot have. And the other
thing is one more time about reviews. God, you got
me going already. Reviews or bs, reviews, or bs. Almost
(12:42):
nobody takes the time to go say I had the
best club sandwich today at this place. It was the
best I've ever had. No, you said it was there
was a hair in my club sandwich today, you know,
and it was it your hair was someone else's hair.
We don't really know, okay, but no one takes the
time to go. I would say it's not eighty percent
people complaining about something and ten percent people saying how
(13:04):
good things were. So you can't really go to the
reviews to find out what's good.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Yes, you can't.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
And don't you know that I go to TikTok. Don't
you know that pretty well? What about reviews?
Speaker 6 (13:15):
Oh yeah, I make good reviews. I make TikTok videos.
If I really love you, okay, and if I hate you,
Veronica or whatever's going to make a review.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
I see a lot of reviews from Veronica, not nearly
as many from what.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
The negative reviews, whatever her name, you can't even keep
us trade.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Hey, Bridget, hi, Bridget, this is a crazy thing, Paulina
and Kiki.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Now apparently who does it?
Speaker 2 (13:41):
You're not allowed to ask the server at the restaurant
what's good there?
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Yeah, I don't believe in that.
Speaker 7 (13:49):
I actually think that going to restaurants, you're supposed to
go with your friends and sit and enjoy, take your time,
you know, enjoying each other's company, peruves the menu. Yeah,
I don't believe, And like, all right, listen, I want
to know exactly what I want to eat.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
I want to get in, I want to get out.
Speaker 7 (14:04):
I want to like, what is the point of enjoying
if you want to be in and out?
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Is what I'm talking about. So apparently, Bridget, we're supposed
to go. We're supposed to go on the reviews. We're
supposed to read the menu. I'm supposed to try and
dig up any TikTok about the place he's.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Ever been made.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I got to take three or four hours before I
go to the restaurant to make sure I'm fully briefed,
and then when I walk in there, I better have
the order memorize, and I better spit it out, and
I better not say anything. I better not ask anybody
any questions. But lord knows, if I don't like it,
I can then go home and tear them a new
one without ever having spoken a word or asked a question.
That's what I've learned this morning, bridget I want you
to have a great day. No way.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Yeah, that's crazy, right, this is my life.
Speaker 7 (14:49):
Like honestly, that's what happens when social media and Google
takes over the world. There's no such thing as just
wandering into a restaurant and enjoying the experience, or maybe
not enjoying the experience and having a story. I mean,
there is something that's to be sad about old school
dining and old school activities. Or you don't have to
(15:10):
like be an investigator over every little thing.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
That you can. You better have your order memorized.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
You better have it memory, and you better not change
your mind. And if something else looks good, don't you
dare ask if it is not you bridge it, No,
do ask servers.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
I do ask servers what's good on the menu bought?
In my defense, I'm gonna tell you I was in
the service industry for a very long time as a
server and a bartender. And I actually enjoyed it when
people ask me what I enjoyed to eat?
Speaker 4 (15:40):
That's interesting.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
How about that? Thank you? Bridge?
Speaker 4 (15:43):
Very nice?
Speaker 1 (15:46):
She's better okay, one at a time.
Speaker 4 (15:48):
No, she's good. She's a good one.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
I don't think you could take your time like you
can sit down, relax, have wine.
Speaker 10 (15:52):
And all that.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
Feel like it. But just like, don't be bugging your
service guys. Let them just you know, let them enjoy
the nice give me to bug them.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
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Speaker 1 (16:38):
How you doing, Whitney?
Speaker 6 (16:43):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (16:43):
There she is, Hi Whitney. Wow, welcome to the program.
What's going on with this guy? You've been dating him
for two months? I act like I don't know. I
read the whole email, but let's pretend like I don't know. Yeah,
so you've been dating this guy for two months. You
have yet to dtr which I'm not sure if that's
a term that people still use anymore, that the youth
still moving use anymore. But you yet to determine the relationship,
(17:06):
define the relationship after two months. But where's the issue?
Speaker 10 (17:11):
Well, so, first of all, there's no red flags, and
he's really good at communicating, Okay, I.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
Do appreciate that.
Speaker 10 (17:18):
However, he did tell me this week that he's going
to be, you know, quote unquote going dark for two
weeks because he's going on a trip to Europe with
his sister. And you know, he's had this trip planned
for like months before we even met.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
Okay, and you know they're.
Speaker 10 (17:39):
Thing in hostels and you know, obviously he doesn't know
if or when I'll have service, and I get that, and.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
He really, where is he going? Is he going to
like war torn Russia? Like where where is he going?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
No, they're going.
Speaker 10 (17:55):
I think they're going.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
I'm like, like Paris, and you know, progue understanding is
that there's Wi Fi and the and the interwebs and
phone and you know, cellular service.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
So I don't know. Okay, I'm sorry. Continue.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
So he's going on a trip with his sister for
two weeks, and he's telling you ahead of time, I'm
not going to be in communication with you.
Speaker 10 (18:17):
Yeah, I mean he wants to go off the grid
and like really enjoy it and decompress, which, honestly, like
I really appreciate.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
Him telling me that way.
Speaker 10 (18:25):
I'm not like, oh no, did I do something wrong?
Speaker 4 (18:28):
Where'd he go? You know, like I'd much rather have
you met his sister?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Now?
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Is this legit?
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Is?
Speaker 1 (18:33):
He definitely going with his sister.
Speaker 10 (18:36):
I haven't met her yet, but you know, they facetimed.
They talk about this trip all the time.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
So like, I know that I believe that part, okay.
Speaker 10 (18:46):
And honestly, like I believe the whole thing until you know,
I talk to my friends about it and they think
it's kind of bs and they don't really buy the story.
They're like, we don't buy it.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
I could see this two ways.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I mean, if he's if he's taking some other woman
on this trip to uh wherever he's going. I mean,
trust me, people who are people who are very much
in relationships have managed to pull off a whole lot
more in the same city, in the same country, in
the same zip code. So I don't know why he
would be unable to text with you or communicate with
you if this was some sort of you know, trip
(19:22):
he was going on with that had some sinister issued,
some sinister layer to it, Like if he was going
with an ex or another woman or something, he would
very easily be able to text you or keep something going,
like he wouldn't have to call his shot in this way,
you know what I mean? Like, Hey, I'm not going
to be able to talk to you for two weeks
because I'm, you know, off doing something with someone else,
(19:45):
you know what I mean? Like that, that's too obvious.
It's too obvious to me. What like, how many people
do you know? The cheap married people do this? Married
people have full on relationship with other people using the
very same phone and the very same hand that they
do things with their husband with or wife, you know
what I mean? So, like what I'm saying is stuff
(20:06):
happens right under people's nose. He doesn't have to go
out of the country and say he's unavailable. So it's
very possible. And you know me, I'm not I'm a skeptic.
I'm a pessimist. I tended to go to the plate
the worst place that he's up to something. But I mean,
this could be. But I also don't know why in
twenty twenty five, we're not just like shooting someone that
we care about. A text every now and again to say, hey,
(20:28):
I'm okay, I'm here having a good time. You know
what about social media? Is he active on social media?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Usually?
Speaker 10 (20:36):
No, he's not a big coaster. You really not.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
So I think this is your little friends meddling. I
think this is your little friends during this up because
it's very possible that this guy wants to be present
on his trip.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
As sister, I mean, hello, like it.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
I don't know if my sister when I was younger,
if my sister had been you know, not in a
relationship and didn't have kids, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I could see a world we would travel.
Speaker 5 (21:02):
Yes, but you you could also talk to other people
like why do you need to like go off the
grid with your sister.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I don't know, do you guys communicate regularly? Like is
it you? Are you always in communication with me? With
with this guy.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
I mean it's not every day.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Oh it's not no coffee bless you, whatever that was.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
It would be one thing if it were like you
guys were constantly communicating all day every day and this
guy's going like, hey, look, just a head's up, Like
I'm gonna be on planes and I'm gonna be, you know,
less reachable. So we're not going to have, you know,
hourly communication in a way that we typically do. And
just just know that that that's because we're doing stuff.
Because if I'm on vacation and I am just ripping
out text messages to someone else, I'll me that's not
(21:44):
I'm not present. I'm not enjoying what I'm doing, you
know what I mean the way that I might if
id me just in everyday life, doing the same routine
every day. But I want to know from everyone else
eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five.
You know, just what do you think when you hear
Whitney talking about this guy two months no red flags,
he's going out of town with his sister, and he's
basically saying he's going to go dark for two weeks.
(22:07):
I think if he were cheating, he could still pull
off communication.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
What well, I don't think you're just staring at me.
But I don't what does that mean.
Speaker 6 (22:15):
I don't feel like being called insecure today. So I
was actually just gonna let the people speak. But you're
not going to nowhere for two weeks, they me, and
I can't talk to you unless you're going to say
the country is your name military Mike?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
If not you, that's true. I mean, Shelley's husband does
this all the time.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Now. Granted this because he's like it has top secret
clearances and we're not supposed to know where he is.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
I guess I just don't know that this is the
second day in a row.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
We're automatically going to the worst possible outcome, and I
don't I think it's a little weird, but I think that,
you know, twenty years ago or fifteen years ago, this
would have been the norm. You know, you wouldn't have
necessarily had communication in your pocket twenty four to seven,
and you would have had to use a phone payaul.
(23:00):
We've been expensive, like we use the horses too. We've
evolved to a new standard where you're supposed to be
in constant communication with everyone whenever they want. And I
don't necessarily think it's unfair to say, hey, I'm stepping
back for a minute because I'm I'm going on this
trip and it's it's a special thing and I want
to be present for it.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
None of you are buying that. No, no, none of you.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Two weeks you cannot speak to me.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Did he say that?
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Did he say you will not hear from me for
two weeks, or did he say that it's going to
be just a whole lot lass No.
Speaker 10 (23:31):
He just wanted to, like, definitely let me know that's
gonna be a lot less.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
He's gone and you don't even talk every day?
Speaker 4 (23:39):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (23:40):
But you don't even talk every day and you're in
a relationship for two months?
Speaker 2 (23:43):
I mean again, Like, so, I guess I don't know
why it's a big deal if it's a few more days.
Speaker 4 (23:48):
Yeah, but I mean like two weeks.
Speaker 10 (23:49):
Okay, we talk like almost every day and we always
text good night to each other. Okay, so yes, there
is some kind of communication every day. I guess it's
just not constant.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I mean, is there any way I don't know how
to do this and people are texting about I don't
know how to do this without looking paranoid or like
you don't trust him, But is there a way to
meet his sister before he goes, like just so that
you can verify it casually, not like an interrogation.
Speaker 10 (24:15):
Local And I've like said hi on FaceTime, like when
I'm over his house like a he going on.
Speaker 4 (24:23):
Vacation would another woman?
Speaker 1 (24:24):
No, he's not.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
Just you go get you another man, girl, and then
y'all link up when you get back.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
He's not doing that like again, I know because because
cheaters cheaters. I mean it's people have had multiple concurrent
relationships right under people's nose.
Speaker 5 (24:42):
You're better at it. I've seen really dumb, obvious crimes
from sure.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
But what I mean is he doesn't have to go, hey,
heads up, I'm going on a trip with my sister
and you can't meet her, nor can you communicate with
me fortune right, I don't. I don't think I would
go that far. I think I would just have one
on a tree and then if you got mad at
me because I wasn't as responsive because I'm doing some
other girl. Then I would be like, well, I don't know, sorry,
(25:07):
I didn't have Wi Fi, like I'm in the middle
of nowhere. Yeah, I mean, I just I think there's
a way to do this without calling your shot.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Well, they also don't really talk a lot, it sounds like,
which is another red flag.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
She says. We know him time, We almost talk every day.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
The man that you lie with, you almost talk every
day for two months.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
And maybe By the way, Whitney, have you had any
issue with the fact, I mean, are you upset about
the fact that your communication patterns?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Is it not enough for you? See? So she's it's.
Speaker 4 (25:32):
The perfect thing.
Speaker 10 (25:33):
We've been like growing like a healthy, wonderful pace. I'm
if this trick didn't what wasn't like in existence, I
would feel great about where we were.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Okay, well, let me take some phone calls on this,
because you've heard our perspectives. But let me let me
see what people at home have to say. And I
wish you the best, Whitny. I don't this doesn't jump
out at me as necessarily a break up able offense.
And I think you'll know pretty quickly when he gets back.
By the way, I think you'll read it on his face,
if he was up to something, or if he's guilty
about something, or something develop while you were away from
(26:05):
each other, then I think I feel like you'll sense that.
But I don't think we're we're breaking up with someone.
Speaker 6 (26:11):
Now Friday breakup. I would just date. Oh God, do
you say hello?
Speaker 1 (26:15):
All right? Thank you? Whitney, have a good day?
Speaker 4 (26:17):
Where you go dark?
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Your advice is all over the place.
Speaker 5 (26:21):
Is it not a red flag that they don't talk
every day?
Speaker 4 (26:23):
Though I do?
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
But see, you could say that except I just asked
her if she's okay with them?
Speaker 4 (26:28):
She says yeah, because she's just covering her feelings.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
No, you have to, so let's not take people their
face value because you don't agree the person.
Speaker 3 (26:36):
You're dating like like boyfriend girlfriend, not like casual like hookups,
not casual dinners.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
I'm talking about dating boyfriend girlfriend. You don't talk to
me just to say hey, what's up?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
But again, that's what you need. I just asked her,
are you okay with it? And she said yes? And
then your response is, well, she's lying to us. Maybe
she's maybe she's not, Maybe maybe that's not what she requires. Hey, Jessica, Hi, Jessica, there.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
Go, Oh, definitely go.
Speaker 7 (27:08):
I feel like she's in the stage where ignorance is
bliss and she wants so desperately to hold one day.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
Is actually what you say is that he is even
though she knows it's not. I feel like she's the
other woman, I.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
Will say, Jessica.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
The part of this that we and someone texted this
just now, the part of this that we didn't really
hone in on, is that they have not defined the
relationship after two months.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Now.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
For some people that would be normal, but I mean,
technically they are not in a relationship, so he could
be going with someone else and getting with her, So
I guess I don't know what the purpose of lying is.
He could be omitting because he doesn't want he doesn't
want her to go anywhere but two months and they
are not technically in a relationship, which means that technically
he wouldn't be cheating on her.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
He has every right to do what he wants.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
He's on vacation with his wife and kids.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Oh god, that means.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
He's definitely going with another woman.
Speaker 9 (27:55):
I kind of went through a situation, like say, they say,
people go through things, but you don't.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
Have to.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
You know he is going with another woman. Yeah, Jessica,
you have a good day.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
I love you, guys. I do, I just I don't.
I don't know, Amber high, I don't Amber a stair go.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
Awing. Why it's only two weeks. If it's really a
big issue, they could both get what'sapp and communicate through there.
But I don't think it's that big of issue, especially
if he's only going with his sister.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
I do think.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
I do think it's interesting that the whole not defined
the relationship thing.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
But I mean, what is the appropriates?
Speaker 2 (28:46):
I mean, they don't talk every day, so is it
I mean, is this is it a slow burn? Is this?
Speaker 1 (28:51):
I mean, I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
It is strange, But then again, he wouldn't have to
lie to her, you know, he wouldn't have to say anything.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
They're not together.
Speaker 6 (29:00):
Me and lots today sad chicks all the time. You
don't let you, you don't let your satchigk know she is
sad cheek Okay, ever, thank you, you're right, have a
good day.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
Two weeks.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Yeah, it's a little.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
Strange, but I'm.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Not jumping to immediately. You know this other stuff.
Speaker 5 (29:17):
You're courting me like write letters, get what's app send
a carrier pigeon, let me know you miss me.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
Yeah, okay, that's fair, and it's.
Speaker 4 (29:24):
Too he would.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
And honestly, if you were dating a girl and she
told you I'm going to Europe with my brother for
two weeks, you probably won't hear from me.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
You would be okay with that.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
I wouldn't love it.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
But I guess I'm not necessarily going to all of
this these other things. Hey, Crystal, good morning, So I
gotta wake up now, you say, okay, I'm await, So
go right ahead.
Speaker 4 (29:48):
Tell them this morning. You congress on your engagement. Thank
you hard. You can play this too way, Honey.
Speaker 6 (29:58):
You need to find out for him if something happens
on the trip, who does he contact?
Speaker 2 (30:04):
I mean, what do you mean it his mom? I
don't know? You mean, who's these emergency contact? They're not
in a relationship, Crystal.
Speaker 4 (30:10):
She said they've been dating too much, but they haven't.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Then she did say that, but they have not defined
the relationship, which I think if any of this is suspect,
it's that part of it. I guess I wonder what's
up with that.
Speaker 7 (30:20):
Yeah, Fred, once you get the good of this, so no, no, no,
two weeks.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
So what would you expect every day he needs to
contact you every day he's gone.
Speaker 4 (30:29):
No, he doesn't need to every day.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
I know.
Speaker 9 (30:30):
I get your own vacation, have fun on your vacation,
but you're not going to see him.
Speaker 4 (30:34):
You're going dark. Two weeks?
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Okay, fair enough, thank you, Crystal. Hey, I hear you
have a good day. You asked me if I would
like it. I wouldn't like it. But I again, how
do we know, based on what little information we have,
that he's absolutely lying and he's cheating and all these things. This,
this is how this happens is we're the little friends
here and we're in We have no idea what we're
(30:56):
talking about it. We're injecting all of our own insecurities
in to this, Pauline.
Speaker 4 (31:01):
No, we're saving her.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Listen, we live in twenty twenty five, Like we said,
what's app this that there's wine down time when you're
on vacation, you're in your room, you're on the toilet,
you're doing your own thing.
Speaker 4 (31:11):
Like you can call her.
Speaker 2 (31:12):
It would be easy enough to drop a text every
now and again. I agree, I agree, I do you agree?
Speaker 4 (31:18):
Leaning Tower Pieza you know they're riding here.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
It is leaning still.
Speaker 4 (31:22):
I'm in the vet.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Yes, absolutely, I'm praying for you with my mistress. Yeah, Carolina, Hi, Hi, Hi,
good morning. Just to recap here, this woman's been dating
a guy for a couple of months. They haven't to
define the relationship she has. She indicated on her own,
no red flags about this guy. But he's going on
a trip for two weeks with his sister, he says,
and let her know that he wouldn't really be communicative
(31:45):
during that time.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (31:47):
Definitely stay.
Speaker 9 (31:49):
I think that unless she sees other red flags, no
reason to be alarmed. Once It's something similar many years ago,
three week three trips for three weeks for someone I
was just talking to here and there, getting to know
and we're married now, and it was all fine. He
actually did reach out throughout the trip here and there,
not as often as you typically spoke to each other,
(32:11):
but you know, knew where he was at here and
there every few days and gotten nice souvenirs. Ended up
picking him up from the airport. So I think that
might be something she can try, picking him and the
sister up from the airport, getting to know her after.
Speaker 4 (32:26):
The trip, maybe trust a little bit.
Speaker 6 (32:28):
Yeah, or booking a flight and imagine, you know, ended
up at the same resort.
Speaker 9 (32:35):
I've only been dating for two months. I would say
that's also a little I don't want to go on
a trip with someone I've just stated for two months
and their sister.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Yeah, why I get that too, wife, Yeah, Carolina, thank you,
have a good day.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
There are definitely holes in this and it definitely is
a little strange. But I guess I don't know. I mean,
why is he You're a.
Speaker 6 (32:58):
Good person and you give the benefit of the doubt
not always although you would not go for this, I
wouldn't like it.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
No, I wouldn't like it, But I mean, I guess
after two months it's like, well,
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