August 28, 2025 • 11 mins
Is it okay to honor your ex-loved one at your wedding? Fred and the crew debate!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the Bread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Let's get you hotel, a trip for Tunisie, Jennifer Lopez
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All right, guys, Moraliti Monday on a Thursday? How about
that morality Monday on a Thursday. This one is very simple.
(00:45):
I'm not even gonna read you the whole story. I'm
just going to read you the headline. And I think
this will be enough. In honor of weddings and engagements, Kiki, yes,
and all these things, and this comes to us from
a guy named Big Tim. It's weird eight five five, five,
nine to one one three. But this is m I
the a hole for postponing our wedding because my fiance
(01:06):
wants her ex boyfriend's ashes involves in the ceremony.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
What what would you do? I gotta hear.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I gotta hear from the people you can call them
texta the same number eight five, five, five nine one
one o three five.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
So you're getting married and.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
You're in the wedding planning stages and your significant other says, hey,
look marrying you. You know, my ex boyfriend Max's girlfriend died,
and I think the urn should be up there with us,
just right next to the thing.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I mean, I don't. I don't know how else you
would involve. I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I don't know how they're involved. They're in your pocket
or whatever. But why is this other person? I don't
mean to be insensitive, I really don't, But why is
this other person involved in our wedding?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
You're marrying me.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
That person, whether they're alive or dead, is not should
not be part of the equation. Like I saw another
one last week on TikTok, where it was it was
a woman saying that herr husban but now that I
think they just got married on their honeymoon, looked at
her phone for some reason and saw that she had
texted her boyfriend ex boyfriend goodbye before she got married.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Well, yeah, but what would goodbye like?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
What?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Why are we talking to this?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Why are we involving any other human being that we
used to sleep with?
Speaker 1 (02:19):
You gotta say goodbye. It's a bomvoyage.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I'm not moving to you know, Barbados or something like,
I can't never see you again. I'm not going to
Mars one way ticket on a westbound train, see how
for I can go?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
You know I'm not doing that. But what would you do?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
What would you do if, Kiki, if Big Tim comes
to you as your wedding planning? Now, the wedding of
the century. Everyone's talking about it. People on my Instagram
or in my dms are lobbying for the plus one.
They're trying to get into this. Hands had nothing to
do with me. They just want to see this event,
the event of the century that will be at some point,
hopefully it takes less time than it did for him
to propose.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
But what would you do? Would you let me pick
your date for my wedding. No, why I agree? No
you should? I think I should?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah no, no, yeah no because because you I've seen
what you've tried to do with Calen when she was single,
and it was every you're like my mom. Every single
person that walked by was like, I think that person
likes you. You should go out with him. So, no, you're
not discerning. I'm sorry, but I don't trust you. I'm
sorry you have. You have squandered your opportunity to change
for me, because I have to choose for me because
(03:28):
I've seen, I'm seeing how you just every guy that
walked by and be like, I think he likes you, Calen,
you should go out with him. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
It didn't matter who it was. Yeah, every person's coworkers,
it didn't matter who it was.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
The police officer that arrested her, I think he likes you. No,
he's arresting me. This is not fund He's on fun handcuffs.
What would you do though?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
It?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Big Tim's like, look, she passed away. I didn't know
you at the time. Uh, you know, the relationship meant
a lot to me. You know, you obviously the person
I want to be with. But hey, can we, like,
you know, loop this person in something.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I'm like, well, you can join her, would you would
you like to be next to her?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Internally?
Speaker 3 (04:05):
We can make that happen because if you ask me
something like that, you're headed that way.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
No tolerance, No tolerance.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Now there's no reason why your ex ashes her shoes
anything would need to be at my wedding.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
That makes no sense. Always says to me, is that
you have not let go.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
You have not let go to the like to me,
it's creepy, and I would actually call off the wedding.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
This isn't the this isn't a grandparent, this isn't a family,
and I would I would even I mean, I don't know.
I guess you process however you want to process.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
I don't might.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
No, it's an absolute no for me and a big
red red flag.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
There was some talk at my sister's wedding about an
empty seat for my grandfather, who was very important to us.
But it's like he's there anyway.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
We're not. We're not. That's very dramatic. We're not doing
stuff like that, but like he's watching it.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
He's watching over us though, Like I don't think everybody
everyone at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Knew the man and knew how happy he would be
to be there. We didn't need it. It was very
we didn't do it. You could have little more, more
and stuff like this set up.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I think that's nice for grandparents and siblings who have
made passed on, but an ex absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I have pictures of my grandfather over my eyes. He's
watching over me. I don't need to have an empty
seat in the studio because he inspired me to do radio.
I don't though, we wouldn't call you, well, I don't,
but we're not though.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
It's just like these some things are in the past
and they're the memory and you cherish them and they're
inside of you, you know. But I don't know why
that has to be involved in And again that's different.
That's a different situation than this. I mean, if she
left an empty seat for her ex boyfriend, you know that,
that's I don't. It would have been fine the other way,
but this way is like, what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
It's insane. I want to know.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Someone said, I want to know why she has his ashes,
and that is family.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
It's a very good question. You can split ashes, But again,
why are you holding on your ex boyfriends? I don't know.
I mean I guess, Okay, well you would allow this.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Of course, Yeah, I was just my best friend was
just in this position. She lost her boyfriend unexpectedly, and
her fiance was incredible about anything that she needed to do.
I told you that her exes who passed away, his
mom wanted to pay for stuff for the bachelorette. It's
it takes a special person to be able to be
with someone who lost someone in that way, because the
(06:14):
relationship would not have ended had they not died, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
But he was I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
I just think, like they're gone, it's okay for them
to want to honor them at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
You guys, everyone, Yeah, like what if?
Speaker 4 (06:28):
What if they were alive and broken up and he
would have been invited to the wedding. Some people invite
access to the wedding.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
I wouldn't. I wouldn't want that either. What are we
doing that for? Why are we inviting your ex? Just
marry him? Then? Right, he's right there. We're not We're not.
We're not go no hardly for this, No, absolutely not.
I also don't really have access to invite like that
or like.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
That dead or live, but like I, some of them
are in jail, so well that's probably.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah. I don't. I don't play that.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
I think we can honor your your past loved one
in another way.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Day another day, just like another day. But you go
to the cemetery together, like, I'll do that with you.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
But we're not in the west seeing you to ignore
that that person ever existed. I'm not asking you not
to honor them or or or uh have the memories
or even photographs. I'm not asking for any of that, right,
I just I don't why are we doing that on
it's our it's our union, it's our I don't care
you're right dead or alive.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I don't really care.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
I think you guys would feel differently if you had
a front row seat of someone losing their X and
then getting married.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
I think you really would feel differently. It's a really
tough thing to go through. For sure.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
If I we're going to marry someone and they were like,
I want my ex boyfriend to earn on the altar
when we get married, my I'm sorry, but I would say, Okay,
you're not detached from this, like you're still connected in
a way that might not. But we maybe we maybe
we don't need to do this right now, like maybe
maybe you need to process that a little further.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Compromise, like not on the altar, but like some involvement
in the day.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
I guess for me, it's not that you need to
do that in itself, it's that you need to do
that on our wedding day.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
That's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Like like if you, however, you need to process things, tragic
things that happened to you, Like that's you're right by
all means do that, but like why why is this
person propped up next to the ice sculpture at the
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
At the bar, right next to the taco bar, Like
what are we doing? Guys? Like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I'm going through these texts like man, I'm back his ashes, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
I don't think so it's not happening. I think everyone agrees.
Everyone agrees with me.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I would be fine with that, of course, would you don't, Jason?
You let everybody do everything. Sometimes you can say.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
I know, why are you threatened by someone that's not living.
I'm not threatened, but you don't marry them. So like Okay,
that means but that's.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
All you're saying, Jason, is that you would have married
them if they hadn't died. And that's going to be
why I have to be reminded of that at my wedding.
Speaker 5 (09:13):
That's why Kailen said, like it takes a very special
person to be in that situation, Like you have to
be called and given and that's a different level of
security that I will probably never be able to know.
But like you have to know that, like, like Kailyn said,
they would be together if that person was still alive,
Like that could potentially be their soulmate, like, and you
only have so many of those in the lifetime, right, Like, so.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
It's not for you, guys.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I respect you, I respect your opinions, but I would
imagine are people listening who have experienced this who still
are like, we don't need to do that.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Sure, I mean every situation is different.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
There might be people that don't want it because they
want to move on and start a new chapter. But
if it was important to my partner, I'd be like, Okay,
I'm not going to feel like, oh, you love him
more than he's not here.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
But I didn't say any of that I didn't say
any of that. I just I don't know. I don't
know why those things have to be connected. I mean
the same way that I don't know. That's how it
is by definition our day. So why are we including
anyone from the past? I guess is what I'm saying.
You know, why are we reflecting on any former love
that you had? If this is about our union, are
(10:20):
we including this person in the union? Then, like I
mean again, I got I got it. I think it's
hard enough to acknowledge that you wouldn't have even been
standing there had this person that passed away.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
So why do I need to be reminded of it?
I guess I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Hey, Josh, Yes, Josh, all right, Yeah, Hi, what do
you want to say?
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Go ahead?
Speaker 6 (10:40):
Yeah, So I was just saying that I think that
maybe inviting a family member of the last boyfriend would
be would be maybe more sensitive to the day.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Yeah yeah, okay, So so someone to represent that time.
I've heard of that happening. I've heard of the former
in law is coming and stuff. Because because no one's like,
no one did anything wrong, we're still right right, and
they want they want the person to be happy in fact,
maybe them coming. I've actually I actually know about this
happening specifically and them then, by the way, thank you
(11:14):
for calling Joss. But those people coming, it was almost
like their way of saying it's okay, it's okay to
let this go, like we want you to move on
and be happy, especially when they are kids involved, when
the grandparents show up and you know the person that's like, hey,
everyone's allowed to move on here. But I think that's
what it is. It's kind of like a statement about
(11:34):
moving on. And maybe I don't know. It would kind
of say to me, maybe you're not ready to move on,
and so we need to wait until you are, Until
you're ready to let that go in a physical form,
never emotionally, never mentally. But I don't know, waiting by
the phone and blogs and six hundred and fifty bucks
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Let's get you hotel, a trip for Tunisie, Jennifer Lopez
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at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace, Text Vegas. He's seven
three three seven right now for a chance to win
two tickets to the March thirteenth show at two night
hotels Say March twelve through the fourteenth at the Flamingo
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Hotel and Casino, Las Vegas and Round Trepair Fair. A
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may apply. All thanks to live dation. Tickets areund sale
now at ticketmaster dot com for all shows running December
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All right, guys, Moraliti Monday on a Thursday? How about
that morality Monday on a Thursday. This one is very simple.
(00:45):
I'm not even gonna read you the whole story. I'm
just going to read you the headline. And I think
this will be enough. In honor of weddings and engagements, Kiki, yes,
and all these things, and this comes to us from
a guy named Big Tim. It's weird eight five five, five,
nine to one one three. But this is m I
the a hole for postponing our wedding because my fiance
(01:06):
wants her ex boyfriend's ashes involves in the ceremony.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
What what would you do? I gotta hear.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I gotta hear from the people you can call them
texta the same number eight five, five, five nine one
one o three five.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
So you're getting married and.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
You're in the wedding planning stages and your significant other says, hey,
look marrying you. You know, my ex boyfriend Max's girlfriend died,
and I think the urn should be up there with us,
just right next to the thing.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I mean, I don't. I don't know how else you
would involve. I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I don't know how they're involved. They're in your pocket
or whatever. But why is this other person? I don't
mean to be insensitive, I really don't, But why is
this other person involved in our wedding?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
You're marrying me.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
That person, whether they're alive or dead, is not should
not be part of the equation. Like I saw another
one last week on TikTok, where it was it was
a woman saying that herr husban but now that I
think they just got married on their honeymoon, looked at
her phone for some reason and saw that she had
texted her boyfriend ex boyfriend goodbye before she got married.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Well, yeah, but what would goodbye like?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
What?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Why are we talking to this?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Why are we involving any other human being that we
used to sleep with?
Speaker 1 (02:19):
You gotta say goodbye. It's a bomvoyage.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I'm not moving to you know, Barbados or something like,
I can't never see you again. I'm not going to
Mars one way ticket on a westbound train, see how
for I can go?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
You know I'm not doing that. But what would you do?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
What would you do if, Kiki, if Big Tim comes
to you as your wedding planning? Now, the wedding of
the century. Everyone's talking about it. People on my Instagram
or in my dms are lobbying for the plus one.
They're trying to get into this. Hands had nothing to
do with me. They just want to see this event,
the event of the century that will be at some point,
hopefully it takes less time than it did for him
to propose.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
But what would you do? Would you let me pick
your date for my wedding. No, why I agree? No
you should? I think I should?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah no, no, yeah no because because you I've seen
what you've tried to do with Calen when she was single,
and it was every you're like my mom. Every single
person that walked by was like, I think that person
likes you. You should go out with him. So, no, you're
not discerning. I'm sorry, but I don't trust you. I'm
sorry you have. You have squandered your opportunity to change
for me, because I have to choose for me because
(03:28):
I've seen, I'm seeing how you just every guy that
walked by and be like, I think he likes you, Calen,
you should go out with him. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
It didn't matter who it was. Yeah, every person's coworkers,
it didn't matter who it was.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
The police officer that arrested her, I think he likes you. No,
he's arresting me. This is not fund He's on fun handcuffs.
What would you do though?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
It?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Big Tim's like, look, she passed away. I didn't know
you at the time. Uh, you know, the relationship meant
a lot to me. You know, you obviously the person
I want to be with. But hey, can we, like,
you know, loop this person in something.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I'm like, well, you can join her, would you would
you like to be next to her?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Internally?
Speaker 3 (04:05):
We can make that happen because if you ask me
something like that, you're headed that way.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
No tolerance, No tolerance.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Now there's no reason why your ex ashes her shoes
anything would need to be at my wedding.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
That makes no sense. Always says to me, is that
you have not let go.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
You have not let go to the like to me,
it's creepy, and I would actually call off the wedding.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
This isn't the this isn't a grandparent, this isn't a family,
and I would I would even I mean, I don't know.
I guess you process however you want to process.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
I don't might.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
No, it's an absolute no for me and a big
red red flag.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
There was some talk at my sister's wedding about an
empty seat for my grandfather, who was very important to us.
But it's like he's there anyway.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
We're not. We're not. That's very dramatic. We're not doing
stuff like that, but like he's watching it.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
He's watching over us though, Like I don't think everybody
everyone at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Knew the man and knew how happy he would be
to be there. We didn't need it. It was very
we didn't do it. You could have little more, more
and stuff like this set up.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I think that's nice for grandparents and siblings who have
made passed on, but an ex absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I have pictures of my grandfather over my eyes. He's
watching over me. I don't need to have an empty
seat in the studio because he inspired me to do radio.
I don't though, we wouldn't call you, well, I don't,
but we're not though.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
It's just like these some things are in the past
and they're the memory and you cherish them and they're
inside of you, you know. But I don't know why
that has to be involved in And again that's different.
That's a different situation than this. I mean, if she
left an empty seat for her ex boyfriend, you know that,
that's I don't. It would have been fine the other way,
but this way is like, what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
It's insane. I want to know.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Someone said, I want to know why she has his ashes,
and that is family.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
It's a very good question. You can split ashes, But again,
why are you holding on your ex boyfriends? I don't know.
I mean I guess, Okay, well you would allow this.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Of course, Yeah, I was just my best friend was
just in this position. She lost her boyfriend unexpectedly, and
her fiance was incredible about anything that she needed to do.
I told you that her exes who passed away, his
mom wanted to pay for stuff for the bachelorette. It's
it takes a special person to be able to be
with someone who lost someone in that way, because the
(06:14):
relationship would not have ended had they not died, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
But he was I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
I just think, like they're gone, it's okay for them
to want to honor them at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
You guys, everyone, Yeah, like what if?
Speaker 4 (06:28):
What if they were alive and broken up and he
would have been invited to the wedding. Some people invite
access to the wedding.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
I wouldn't. I wouldn't want that either. What are we
doing that for? Why are we inviting your ex? Just
marry him? Then? Right, he's right there. We're not We're not.
We're not go no hardly for this, No, absolutely not.
I also don't really have access to invite like that
or like.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
That dead or live, but like I, some of them
are in jail, so well that's probably.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah. I don't. I don't play that.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
I think we can honor your your past loved one
in another way.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Day another day, just like another day. But you go
to the cemetery together, like, I'll do that with you.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
But we're not in the west seeing you to ignore
that that person ever existed. I'm not asking you not
to honor them or or or uh have the memories
or even photographs. I'm not asking for any of that, right,
I just I don't why are we doing that on
it's our it's our union, it's our I don't care
you're right dead or alive.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I don't really care.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
I think you guys would feel differently if you had
a front row seat of someone losing their X and
then getting married.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
I think you really would feel differently. It's a really
tough thing to go through. For sure.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
If I we're going to marry someone and they were like,
I want my ex boyfriend to earn on the altar
when we get married, my I'm sorry, but I would say, Okay,
you're not detached from this, like you're still connected in
a way that might not. But we maybe we maybe
we don't need to do this right now, like maybe
maybe you need to process that a little further.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Compromise, like not on the altar, but like some involvement
in the day.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
I guess for me, it's not that you need to
do that in itself, it's that you need to do
that on our wedding day.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
That's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Like like if you, however, you need to process things, tragic
things that happened to you, Like that's you're right by
all means do that, but like why why is this
person propped up next to the ice sculpture at the
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
At the bar, right next to the taco bar, Like
what are we doing? Guys? Like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I'm going through these texts like man, I'm back his ashes, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
I don't think so it's not happening. I think everyone agrees.
Everyone agrees with me.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I would be fine with that, of course, would you don't, Jason?
You let everybody do everything. Sometimes you can say.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
I know, why are you threatened by someone that's not living.
I'm not threatened, but you don't marry them. So like Okay,
that means but that's.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
All you're saying, Jason, is that you would have married
them if they hadn't died. And that's going to be
why I have to be reminded of that at my wedding.
Speaker 5 (09:13):
That's why Kailen said, like it takes a very special
person to be in that situation, Like you have to
be called and given and that's a different level of
security that I will probably never be able to know.
But like you have to know that, like, like Kailyn said,
they would be together if that person was still alive,
Like that could potentially be their soulmate, like, and you
only have so many of those in the lifetime, right, Like, so.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
It's not for you, guys.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I respect you, I respect your opinions, but I would
imagine are people listening who have experienced this who still
are like, we don't need to do that.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Sure, I mean every situation is different.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
There might be people that don't want it because they
want to move on and start a new chapter. But
if it was important to my partner, I'd be like, Okay,
I'm not going to feel like, oh, you love him
more than he's not here.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
But I didn't say any of that I didn't say
any of that. I just I don't know. I don't
know why those things have to be connected. I mean
the same way that I don't know. That's how it
is by definition our day. So why are we including
anyone from the past? I guess is what I'm saying.
You know, why are we reflecting on any former love
that you had? If this is about our union, are
(10:20):
we including this person in the union? Then, like I
mean again, I got I got it. I think it's
hard enough to acknowledge that you wouldn't have even been
standing there had this person that passed away.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
So why do I need to be reminded of it?
I guess I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Hey, Josh, Yes, Josh, all right, Yeah, Hi, what do
you want to say?
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Go ahead?
Speaker 6 (10:40):
Yeah, So I was just saying that I think that
maybe inviting a family member of the last boyfriend would
be would be maybe more sensitive to the day.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Yeah yeah, okay, So so someone to represent that time.
I've heard of that happening. I've heard of the former
in law is coming and stuff. Because because no one's like,
no one did anything wrong, we're still right right, and
they want they want the person to be happy in fact,
maybe them coming. I've actually I actually know about this
happening specifically and them then, by the way, thank you
(11:14):
for calling Joss. But those people coming, it was almost
like their way of saying it's okay, it's okay to
let this go, like we want you to move on
and be happy, especially when they are kids involved, when
the grandparents show up and you know the person that's like, hey,
everyone's allowed to move on here. But I think that's
what it is. It's kind of like a statement about
(11:34):
moving on. And maybe I don't know. It would kind
of say to me, maybe you're not ready to move on,
and so we need to wait until you are, Until
you're ready to let that go in a physical form,
never emotionally, never mentally. But I don't know, waiting by
the phone and blogs and six hundred and fifty bucks
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