May 28, 2025 • 8 mins
Fred shares a video he watched on TikTok where someone asks their husband if they would remarry when they die... Fred and the crew have a lot of opinions on hypothetical questions!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Do you guys ever in your relationships, you guys ever
have arguments like like this one right here, Like conversations
and I know the answer, Paulina, but otherwise, uh, conversations
like this from TikTok let me push the button.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Uh, like this one here?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
If I died, would you remarry? Would I remarry? Yeah? Yeah,
I want my mother for our child. I wouldn't want
to have him grow up without a mom, of course,
I mean i'd try to remarry. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Okay, Well, then if you're going to remarry, are you
going to stay in our house?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
That probably would be the easiest thing to do, if
it's a nice house. I couldn't afford another one, so yeah,
I probably just stay in the house.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
And by the way, these are like this is like
a dead end, like there's no there's no right answer
for this. I mean, I guess the only right answer
is no, I would just if you died, I would
just I too would die or something, because like it's
just one questioning to another question that it's just a
deeper and deeper hole for this guy.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
She can draw my car if maybe probably so, I
don't see why not. It's in it's in our name.
I would still have the car. It's paid for. I
don't want to buy another car.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I mean, yeah, does makes sense?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Probably let her drive the car.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
What about my stuff?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Like is she gonna wear my clothes? Is she gonna
wear your clothes? Yeah? No, I would never let her
wear your clothes. Thank you. That's where you draw the line.
That's where I draw the line.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
There you go, So, so okay, after if something were
to happen to one of you, would you remarry? And
then would you live in the house? And then and
then it just goes from there. But what is the
point of this conversation, Like, because I think it's going
to do you don't You don't do this.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
In hobby, Absolutely not. I don't belave with mortality, Like
you go through his phone, but you don't ask him.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Still you don't, you know, but you've also admitted, Paulina
that you get into silly arguments with him.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That you pick.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Well, then what do you mean absolutely not? This is
absolutely something you would do. He's not the line.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
No, I think it's I got a kid, so like
I think of her, I'm like, well, I would want
him to remarry and a good person, a good woman
because I'm no longer going to be here physically. I'll
be here in other ways, but not physically yet. You
and I want I want someone to raise my daughter
or be, you know, a part of our family. And
in that way, it has to be a good woman,
a good person, Like that's that's crazy, Like to argue
about that, like you wear my clothes and drive my car,
(02:14):
Like what about your kids?
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Girl?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Like, I'm not worried about that, But I think.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
This is pretty common that people have this thing, would
what would you do if I died?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Would you date again? Would you get married again?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
And then people get mad about the answers, and it's
like these these are not real arguments, of course.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And if someone is wearing my clothes like that is
farther than anything for me. But I play games like
would you still think I'm pretty if I grew a
second nose right here?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yes? What if I shave my head?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Those kinds of games more so than anything.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
But do you want a real answer, like if you do?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
You know?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Yeah, So if he asked you if you shave your head,
would you still find me attractive? I mean, honestly, my
honest answer, and not about you, but for most people.
If you electively shave your head for no other reason,
but you made that choice, I would probably say I
wish you hadn't done that. So, like, obviously, if something happened,
if you get sick or whatever, that's that's very different.
(03:07):
But I mean, like if you just if you just
one day said I'm gonna shave my head, no, I
would say, no, don't do that. That doesn't make me
a bad guy, though, But I can see this being
an argument. Oh you wouldn't think I'm pretty anymore? Yeah,
I mean absolutely maybe, But do you what do you want?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Do you want the right? Do you want a truthful answer,
or do you want the answer that you want to hear?
I want a truthful answer, So then you.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Don't so he can answer truthfully and you won't take
it out on him. Yeah, then what's the point of
asking a question?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Because I like to play fun little games.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
I mean, you get you bored when you live with
someone for twenty four hours a day.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I'm not sure that I believe that you wouldn't be
penalized for answering.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Well he answered correctly, so which is yeah, of course
I would. I would. I would be fine if you
saved your but I.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Know he doesn't take my hair short. I know he
likes my hair longer so than I do. No, he
didn't lie to me about the head shaving thing. He
told the truth. But he doesn't.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
He likes me.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
He prefers my hair longer than sure, he likes it
either way.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
But I know that. And I told you he wouldn't
find you pretty if he shaved your head. No, he
said he would. He still finds me pretty. He doesn't
like you with short hair, but he'd be okay if
you shaved your head.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
He's doing things I'm pretty with short hair. He has
a preference, which I know, and I'm mature enough to
be okay with. I want my hair short, so that's
what short see.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
This is the kind of stuff I don't I just
I don't know. Don't ask me these questions. I don't
ask me questions. Is it logical?
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I know it's like, I'm sorry, but I don't like
your short hair, but shave it. Come on, he's going
to answer it. He's going to tell you that you're wonderful,
as you probably should. He's going to tell you're wonderful
no matter what you do. But I don't think that's
the truth.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
I do believe he would think I'm pretty either way,
I do believe that in my heart of hearts. Do
I think it's his preference for me to shave my head? No,
but it was a funny little game while we were
washing dishes, and then we moved on, and I said,
what if I grew a nose on my cheek?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
I don't like these games. I don't like these games.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
No, I don't like these games because I don't care.
I'm either lying in it or I'm telling you I don't,
I say.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Ask.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
My point though, is I don't think he's wind up
being fun because I'm the person yet, right, because I
think sometimes if you I mean, okay, So like she's
I know this is a bit for TikTok, but she's
kind of annoyed, like, oh, really, you'd remarri but I
mean you're.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Dead, You're gone, Like, I don't know. I don't want
to play this game.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
This.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
No, he's way too honest for this. I would be crying.
But that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Like, you want your man to be honest, you want
your party to be honest, but then you're asking questions
that you don't really want the answer to I'm famous
for this.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
I asked questions. Of course I can, but I'm admitting.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
I'm admitting that I asked questions I don't want the
answer to, and then I'm admitting that I get mad
about it. I'm being fully honest about the whole thing,
start to finish.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
So it's dumb.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
So it's dumb because then I could do it because
I wouldn't be angry if you lied to me. But
then i'd be angry if if I found out you
lied to me. So so the point is it's a
stupid game. Yes, I don't think anybody should be playing it. No, Okay, Well,
well I wasn't talking about you specifically.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Said nobody should be playing it. Okay. Someone said you
skip the best part of the end. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I got enough of a clip, does Mike, But I can.
I don't know who would do this in your relationship,
either one of you. No, we don't. I'm the complete
opposite of you.
Speaker 6 (06:10):
I don't want to ask questions, I don't want answers to,
and I don't want to give him the least little.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Bit of out to get me out of his house.
So you don't ask anything about.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
How would one question would get you out of his
house if if he died?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
What would happen if he died? I'm out on the
street period. Wow. So yeah, I mean that's a shame.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
Exactly why I don't ask the questions I don't want
an answer to because I don't want to know my fate.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I don't know. I don't want to torture myself. It's hard,
it's hard to say. I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
I don't want to make this like gender specific, but
I don't. I feel like in male female relationships, in
many not all, men get trapped in this question and
answer game where we know what you want to hear,
but it's not necessarily the truth, and you know that,
but you still ask the question anyway, you know, But
(07:06):
it's like these hypothetical arguments and then it becomes a
fight and it's like this.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Isn't a real thing. Yeah, oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
So it's easier if I just say, if I just
lie to you, but then I'm lying. And I think
I think when people ask if I grew a third
nose on the side of my face, would you think
that was hot?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I think most people know that if you.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Somehow grew a third nose or a second nose, if
you had three noses.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I don't know how many people would think that was hot.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Really, but you were expecting him to tell you you're
hot no matter what you do, because that's the entry
you want to hear. But that is not, in fact,
the truthful answer. Right, So I don't like this game.
Oh yeah, I don't play this game added to the Constitution. No,
but don't play dumb hypothetical games unless you're willing to
be lied to. I mean, you see, there you go.
Since someone says, no wonder Fred is single? Right, I'm
(07:50):
single because I would tell the truth to a dumb game.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
You can't grow three noses, right, So you're right.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I am single because I won't lie in a stupid game. Yes,
that's right, you're right, that's exactly right. Yeah, I would
think it was weird if you have three nosed Guess
I would. I would, And that's the truth. And I'm sorry.
You can dump me then it's fine. Headline, it's the
biggest stories of the day in three minutes.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Fred Show
Do you guys ever in your relationships, you guys ever
have arguments like like this one right here, Like conversations
and I know the answer, Paulina, but otherwise, uh, conversations
like this from TikTok let me push the button.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Uh, like this one here?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
If I died, would you remarry? Would I remarry? Yeah? Yeah,
I want my mother for our child. I wouldn't want
to have him grow up without a mom, of course,
I mean i'd try to remarry. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Okay, Well, then if you're going to remarry, are you
going to stay in our house?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
That probably would be the easiest thing to do, if
it's a nice house. I couldn't afford another one, so yeah,
I probably just stay in the house.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
And by the way, these are like this is like
a dead end, like there's no there's no right answer
for this. I mean, I guess the only right answer
is no, I would just if you died, I would
just I too would die or something, because like it's
just one questioning to another question that it's just a
deeper and deeper hole for this guy.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
She can draw my car if maybe probably so, I
don't see why not. It's in it's in our name.
I would still have the car. It's paid for. I
don't want to buy another car.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I mean, yeah, does makes sense?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Probably let her drive the car.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
What about my stuff?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Like is she gonna wear my clothes? Is she gonna
wear your clothes? Yeah? No, I would never let her
wear your clothes. Thank you. That's where you draw the line.
That's where I draw the line.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
There you go, So, so okay, after if something were
to happen to one of you, would you remarry? And
then would you live in the house? And then and
then it just goes from there. But what is the
point of this conversation, Like, because I think it's going
to do you don't You don't do this.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
In hobby, Absolutely not. I don't belave with mortality, Like
you go through his phone, but you don't ask him.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Still you don't, you know, but you've also admitted, Paulina
that you get into silly arguments with him.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That you pick.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Well, then what do you mean absolutely not? This is
absolutely something you would do. He's not the line.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
No, I think it's I got a kid, so like
I think of her, I'm like, well, I would want
him to remarry and a good person, a good woman
because I'm no longer going to be here physically. I'll
be here in other ways, but not physically yet. You
and I want I want someone to raise my daughter
or be, you know, a part of our family. And
in that way, it has to be a good woman,
a good person, Like that's that's crazy, Like to argue
about that, like you wear my clothes and drive my car,
(02:14):
Like what about your kids?
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Girl?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Like, I'm not worried about that, But I think.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
This is pretty common that people have this thing, would
what would you do if I died?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Would you date again? Would you get married again?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
And then people get mad about the answers, and it's
like these these are not real arguments, of course.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And if someone is wearing my clothes like that is
farther than anything for me. But I play games like
would you still think I'm pretty if I grew a
second nose right here?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yes? What if I shave my head?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Those kinds of games more so than anything.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
But do you want a real answer, like if you do?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
You know?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Yeah, So if he asked you if you shave your head,
would you still find me attractive? I mean, honestly, my
honest answer, and not about you, but for most people.
If you electively shave your head for no other reason,
but you made that choice, I would probably say I
wish you hadn't done that. So, like, obviously, if something happened,
if you get sick or whatever, that's that's very different.
(03:07):
But I mean, like if you just if you just
one day said I'm gonna shave my head, no, I
would say, no, don't do that. That doesn't make me
a bad guy, though, But I can see this being
an argument. Oh you wouldn't think I'm pretty anymore? Yeah,
I mean absolutely maybe, But do you what do you want?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Do you want the right? Do you want a truthful answer,
or do you want the answer that you want to hear?
I want a truthful answer, So then you.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Don't so he can answer truthfully and you won't take
it out on him. Yeah, then what's the point of
asking a question?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Because I like to play fun little games.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
I mean, you get you bored when you live with
someone for twenty four hours a day.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I'm not sure that I believe that you wouldn't be
penalized for answering.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Well he answered correctly, so which is yeah, of course
I would. I would. I would be fine if you
saved your but I.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Know he doesn't take my hair short. I know he
likes my hair longer so than I do. No, he
didn't lie to me about the head shaving thing. He
told the truth. But he doesn't.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
He likes me.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
He prefers my hair longer than sure, he likes it
either way.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
But I know that. And I told you he wouldn't
find you pretty if he shaved your head. No, he
said he would. He still finds me pretty. He doesn't
like you with short hair, but he'd be okay if
you shaved your head.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
He's doing things I'm pretty with short hair. He has
a preference, which I know, and I'm mature enough to
be okay with. I want my hair short, so that's
what short see.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
This is the kind of stuff I don't I just
I don't know. Don't ask me these questions. I don't
ask me questions. Is it logical?
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I know it's like, I'm sorry, but I don't like
your short hair, but shave it. Come on, he's going
to answer it. He's going to tell you that you're wonderful,
as you probably should. He's going to tell you're wonderful
no matter what you do. But I don't think that's
the truth.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
I do believe he would think I'm pretty either way,
I do believe that in my heart of hearts. Do
I think it's his preference for me to shave my head? No,
but it was a funny little game while we were
washing dishes, and then we moved on, and I said,
what if I grew a nose on my cheek?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
I don't like these games. I don't like these games.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
No, I don't like these games because I don't care.
I'm either lying in it or I'm telling you I don't,
I say.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Ask.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
My point though, is I don't think he's wind up
being fun because I'm the person yet, right, because I
think sometimes if you I mean, okay, So like she's
I know this is a bit for TikTok, but she's
kind of annoyed, like, oh, really, you'd remarri but I
mean you're.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Dead, You're gone, Like, I don't know. I don't want
to play this game.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
This.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
No, he's way too honest for this. I would be crying.
But that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Like, you want your man to be honest, you want
your party to be honest, but then you're asking questions
that you don't really want the answer to I'm famous
for this.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
I asked questions. Of course I can, but I'm admitting.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
I'm admitting that I asked questions I don't want the
answer to, and then I'm admitting that I get mad
about it. I'm being fully honest about the whole thing,
start to finish.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
So it's dumb.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
So it's dumb because then I could do it because
I wouldn't be angry if you lied to me. But
then i'd be angry if if I found out you
lied to me. So so the point is it's a
stupid game. Yes, I don't think anybody should be playing it. No, Okay, Well,
well I wasn't talking about you specifically.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Said nobody should be playing it. Okay. Someone said you
skip the best part of the end. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I got enough of a clip, does Mike, But I can.
I don't know who would do this in your relationship,
either one of you. No, we don't. I'm the complete
opposite of you.
Speaker 6 (06:10):
I don't want to ask questions, I don't want answers to,
and I don't want to give him the least little.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Bit of out to get me out of his house.
So you don't ask anything about.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
How would one question would get you out of his
house if if he died?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
What would happen if he died? I'm out on the
street period. Wow. So yeah, I mean that's a shame.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
Exactly why I don't ask the questions I don't want
an answer to because I don't want to know my fate.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I don't know. I don't want to torture myself. It's hard,
it's hard to say. I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
I don't want to make this like gender specific, but
I don't. I feel like in male female relationships, in
many not all, men get trapped in this question and
answer game where we know what you want to hear,
but it's not necessarily the truth, and you know that,
but you still ask the question anyway, you know, But
(07:06):
it's like these hypothetical arguments and then it becomes a
fight and it's like this.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Isn't a real thing. Yeah, oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
So it's easier if I just say, if I just
lie to you, but then I'm lying. And I think
I think when people ask if I grew a third
nose on the side of my face, would you think
that was hot?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I think most people know that if you.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Somehow grew a third nose or a second nose, if
you had three noses.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I don't know how many people would think that was hot.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Really, but you were expecting him to tell you you're
hot no matter what you do, because that's the entry
you want to hear. But that is not, in fact,
the truthful answer. Right, So I don't like this game.
Oh yeah, I don't play this game added to the Constitution. No,
but don't play dumb hypothetical games unless you're willing to
be lied to. I mean, you see, there you go.
Since someone says, no wonder Fred is single? Right, I'm
(07:50):
single because I would tell the truth to a dumb game.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
You can't grow three noses, right, So you're right.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I am single because I won't lie in a stupid game. Yes,
that's right, you're right, that's exactly right. Yeah, I would
think it was weird if you have three nosed Guess
I would. I would, And that's the truth. And I'm sorry.
You can dump me then it's fine. Headline, it's the
biggest stories of the day in three minutes.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
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