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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Trending stories headlines just starts your Tuesday space sky space
SpaceX is aiming to launch Starship, the most powerful rocket
ever built, on its sixth test flight today. It's also
the vehicle selected to land US astronauts on the Moon
as soon as twenty twenty six. Last month, SpaceX succeeded
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for the first time and bringing back and safely landing
the rockets booster called super Heavy. Nice whoa that's taller
than a twenty story building. Similar to the last test,
SpaceX this week will try and catch the spacecraft mid
air with a set of massive metal arms called chopsticks.
They're gonna catch Super Heavy with the chopsticks.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
I guess, okay, yeah, I don't know what's going on here,
Butcher siting.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
You're just looking out the window watching all this, like
go on, Yeah, Butcher and Sunny are out there going
can you catch up with We've been trying to get
home now. I'm just trying to get a ride. I'm
trying to mom, come pick me trying to get mom
and come pick me up now. For some time every
day now, they just keep sending everybody else home. And
then I saw yesterday that in the Russian part of
this of the space station.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
There's an air leak. There's a leak.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It's a leak in the space station. Also the space station,
I guess, is set to retire, and not that long.
It's been up there for a while. Like this whole
going to space thing is nothing new. They're acting like
it is. But now they're up there in this aging
thing they're about to retire that has an air leak
in it. And they were supposed to be home when
they're you know, on their couch like two months ago.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
These astronauts been leaking for five years. No, well, I
fix it.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Now sounds better than here.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
So that's that's gonna happen. There could already be snow.
I feel like it was not that cold, not that
long ago in most parts of the country, and now
we're talking about snow lake. This week, two storm systems
are set to move across the country, with the first
rain and in the first I guess rain and then
the second maybe some snow storms in the southern planes
shifted north, giving rainfalls in the Midwest and central plans.
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Memphis and Atlanta could see rainfall by the middle of
this week. You see in front of the map right
now as I describe this.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
This cold front, and it's due point.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, with the due point, what happens when the due
point of the temperature are close to each other for
the sad havoc, it's just you know, yeah, visible fog.
That's what happens the temperature and due point are close.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I heard a tsunami's coming. That's no, none of that.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
But anyway, Memphis, Atlanta could see rainfall. New York City
and Boston could see rain snow, and Montana, Oregon, Idaho,
New Mexico, Wyoming in Utah. Hold on, I need some
music for this's listening. Well, no, this story is for you. Okay,
it's for you. It's terrible news. Oh no again, you
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already know, don't you? What here comes Sarah McLaughlin. Well,
you're right about that. It just takes forty five minutes
from my apple. I actually have to call Sarah macglaughlin
to get her out of bed Towe to start singing.
So yeah, it's part of the She has to pick
up her dial, do her dial up, Internet log in,
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authenticate better authenticate, Kiky, what do you of all the
different things that I would associate to you? What what
could what are the possibilities in your mind what this
story could be.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
It's either TikTok or Spirit Airlines.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Yeah, Spirit Airlines. Oh god, that's filed for bankruptcy.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Okay, that mean okay.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
This is a bounce back plan. They're gonna come back
stronger than ever.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
This is the plan.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Yeah really, yes, we already met about this, me and
my board members.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Is good. Okay, So what is to tell you how?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
They're gonna tell you know what, Spirit for bankruptcy, But
tell me how they're coming back.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Okay, So they filed for bankruptcy, right, and then they're
gonna think they make y'all think that they need prayer
and they're sad, and then really we're in the laugh
prepare for a major comeback. Yeah, and when we come back,
people will have seats, You will not have to pay
for water.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
You will have the little air over your head that
will work. Wait wait, wait, you're gonna give them more.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
So you tell me about they're going to turn it
into delta, is what you said? Yeah, Wow, they're coming
back strong.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Just wait, man, Like, depending on where you live, I
don't know if the places where people I mean you
get let's do it's on iHeart app anywhere, but the
places I'm thinking of are not big Delta hubs. But
everyone talks like Delta is like flying private. Everyone talks
like Delta is like a PJ. Everyone raves about it.
It's amazing. That was my hub in Detroit. I miss
it every day. You in Chicago, you're either on American
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or United. Yeah, people Harrison Raleigh, I feel like you're on.
There's like a gate for every airline. Yeah, you can
go VLO, you can go Southwest, you can go United America.
I mean, isn't like you can you can go Bahama's Air.
Out of there, Bahamas Air one day, I'm like, what
the hell, what are we doing?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Yeah, well that But it's I feel like it's just
like thirty one flavors, Like every air airline has one
gate there, so you're good to go, but but not Delta.
But everyone talks about you get the bisk Off cookies,
like forget about it.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Oh that's how you're going to talk about Spirit.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
When Spirit announced that it's filed for Chapter eleven bankruptcy
protection after a fight with lost his growing dad and
a failed merger, the company said in the statement that
it secured a pre arranged deal with bondholders. It includes
three hundred million in financing, and they planned to exit
bankruptcy the first quarter of twenty twenty five. How will
this affect you, Kiki as a customer?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
It won't. Yeah, it shouldn't at all.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
The most important thing to know is that you can
continue to book and fly down in the future.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
So there you go. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I never thought they had any money anyway.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Oh you didn't.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
I mean, you can't get anything on the flight. So
like they were already acting broke.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
That's fine. I kept trying to merge with Frontier. I
was like, blept.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Yeah, it was the outcome of that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Right, They're gonna paint a Hyaena on the side of
the airplane, but it's still going to.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Be ratchet, right, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Yeah, the front of your airplanes are all cool. They
got like a picture of a bear on the tail.
You're like, ooh, that's neat, like you know, and then
you get in the waiting room, right exactly exactly. I
wish that I similar to what I was saying before about,
you know, having the bandwidth to text radio personalities and
tell them they suck. I wish I cared enough about
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anything to write a company and complain about their bottle redesign.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
But it's happening.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
In what's trending today, Tropicana customers are in revolt over
an orange juice bottle redesign.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Can you imagine?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Like, I don't get me wrong, I've either I'm trying
to think of an example, but there's stuff I've bought
and they changed the recipe or they changed the bottle,
or they changed the packaging, And in my mind, I'm like,
I don't like this, But i cannot honestly tell you
that I've ever taken the time to be like, now,
who do I tell about that? Cause they're gonna They're
definitely gonna change it back if I complain.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Tropicana recently ditched it's distinct orange juice in a clear, plastic,
circular shaped bottle with a thinning neck and a crown
like bottle cap, known as the Kraff. Over the summer,
it rolled out a more traditional looking plastic bottle and
down sized from fifty two to forty six. They also
narrow the label to fit the more compact bottle. Now,
I get it if you're upset because of the shrinkflation
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thing where you know, same price or more for less product.
But they're saying that it actually costs less for less product.
But man, can you imagine being that pissed off about
an orange juice bottle? It is a big change, it is.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
I'm kind of upset about it.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
I don't look, it'll still be seven bucks anymore.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Something about when you grab and it was all voluptuous,
and it.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
Was, yeah, you grab it by the bottleneck and po
your orange juice.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
God forbid, I grab it the exact same place.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
I ain't got no neck Yetore is that guy for
the thumb from a head?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
It looks like a zempic, like got ahold of Chopicanno?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Exactly, Who's Vegas stuff fancy?
Speaker 7 (08:09):
Now?
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Would you say tropic Who's mega stuff fancy?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Now? I don't know if you guys have a fine
two here I am in Einstein's bagos. I don't know
if you guys. You might have a twenty twenty four
ice cooled top coan.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
No I get the Aldie versions.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
I don't know about her.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
That might be called Tropicana c H T R O
p H A n A S Tropica.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
And this didn't have it on spirit, but it may
as well have.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Over one hundred hamsters are loose on a flight in Portugal,
grounding the plane for days. Escapee hamsters not one, but two,
but one hundred and thirty two. This is a tap
Air Portugal flight in Lisbon had human passengers as well
as hamster's, ferrets and birds that were headed to a
pet store. I don't know if they were like they
gave him seats or something. I don't know what happened here,
but some of the hamsters decided to escape. It took
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days to account for all the critters and the airplane.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Was able to go again.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I don't know if they got loose in like the
cargo area, and then you know, there's all kinds of
nooks and crannies and crevices all over the airplane, so
they were crawling around that thing trying to find everywhere
those little guys went.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
That's all you need, is it.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Hamster gnawed away at some wires somewhere, and you're over
Lisbon and hamster guy just ate the wrong one.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
It's not good, guys.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
One single solitary day to day national play Monopoly day.
It's a game that never ever ends. That starts to
never have anyone ever played Monopoly to completion? Has anyone
ever played a game of Monopoly where you could honestly
say at the end I won? Has anyone ever played
Monopoly where you were the banker and didn't cheat?
Speaker 2 (09:49):
No, No, it wasn't see there you go?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Well yeah, yeah, well I will say the app the
Monopoly it's pretty good.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Yeah, you're playing Monopoly in your phone.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
You are the person who played the fake you.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
You had a seam character Monopoly Fred.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Everything was shut down. Things are open now.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
What does that matter to me? The house now? Entertainment reporters.
Next Friend Show. The Friend Show is on. It's stay
or go. Hi, Eric, Good morning Eric, How you doing? Welcome? Yeah,
how's it going, y'all?
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Hey man, what's going on? Oh he's ready to go,
he's getting right to it. Uh, what's going on with
your girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (10:38):
So basically, I'm just I'm calling for some advice.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
Uh.
Speaker 8 (10:43):
So, I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over
a year now, and we recently just moved in together,
and I love having her around all the time.
Speaker 9 (10:53):
But the real problem is that she's super messy, like
nest here than I ever thought popped like she leaves
dirty dishes everywhere she finds, I like, find food in
her bed because she eats it it and then she
forgets and then she starts her laundry and leaves the clothes.
Speaker 8 (11:11):
In the washer to the point where they are stinky.
And then you know, she leaves clothes that are dry
in the machine that needed to be folded out for weeks.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
It's just ridiculous.
Speaker 8 (11:25):
And like every time I try to talk to her
about it, she says she's going to get better, but
then she does it for like a day, then goes
back to being messy.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
So this is not something that you knew in the
year that you've dated her, Like you never noticed these
things when she would stay your house or when you'd
go to hers. You never noticed that she'd Because I
don't know if this this is not something that people
just pick up, Like she didn't move into your house
or you moving together and then she just decided to
be dirty or messy or whatever else.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
You know.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I mean, I feel like this is something that people
have done their whole lives.
Speaker 8 (11:53):
Yeah, but I think it wasn't like as obvious to me.
Usually she would she wouldn't cook that much and you
get takeout and stuff like that. When I would go
over to her place and she came over to mind
more often, so I didn't see her in her an
all men as well well.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Plus it's easier to conceal when people, you know, when
people are on top of it.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
You're trying to make an impression. So I think she was.
Speaker 8 (12:17):
Better and now that we're in it togetherability, so you've
gone to her and been like, hey, look, I need
you to at the very least change your clothes, you know,
from the washer to the dryer so it doesn't get
whatever that moldies.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Yeah, right, whenever you'll do whatever that is, I need
you to like it at the very least, you know,
can you fold the clothes or get them out of there?
Can you kind of pick up after you like you've expressed,
because I mean, if you're a perfectionist or you're like,
you know, extremely tidy or clean, you may not get
another person to come to that level. Like me, I
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tend to like things the way I like, and I've
had to accept the fact that people are not as
particular about things as I am, and I would have
to sort of come to the middle on that a
little bit. That doesn't mean that I have to necessarily
settle for people who are inconsiderate or who don't respect
the fact that we're sharing space. Right, So I assume
you've said something, and what it's her response?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Yeah, I mean I compromise. I went to the middle.
Speaker 8 (13:20):
Like initially, I did take a step back and say, like,
things don't need to be perfect. And I know that
you're you and on me, but even on the stuff
that I mean basics like just my pet peeves, dirty
dishes in the sink, moldy laundry, or just like and
food in the bed is really gross to me, especially because.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
It's sharing the bed, you know, with her. I don't
think this is too much you ask.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
It's not like he's saying everything has to be ironed
and hung, color coded and crazy people stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
You know he's asking for. I don't want you to
eat in the bed.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I want you to pick up your stuff, and I
want you to you know, spaces we have to share,
like I need you to sort of handle your business
in those are I don't think these guys asking for
too much. But the thing is she may not, she
may never do those things. She may be very comfortable
the way she likes to live and eating in bed
and things like that. So I feel like you either
compromise to a certain extent or maybe this is a
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way in which you're incompatible.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Right, Yeah, that's Ruth Fatter.
Speaker 6 (14:22):
I have a question for you, Eric, Are you cleaning
up after her? Like are you enabling it by like, oh,
though dises are all in there, and then you empty
the sink and you take her clothes out. Are you
enabling her behavior by cleaning up after her?
Speaker 8 (14:37):
Well, at the beginning, yeah, I was doing it just
to be nice and forgiving and accepting. But then I
like to make a point at some point when I
after the couple times of asking her, I left it
and didn't do anything, and then went back to her
and was like, look at this, like can we just
take a look at this right now.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
And yeah, yeah, no, continue, I'm sorry.
Speaker 8 (15:01):
No, I'm just thinking that it's like it's not fair
and I needed to have an example to show her.
But for the most part, yeah, I was enabling a
little bit, but I'm just tired of it.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Okay, we're gonna talk about you behind your back now, Eric,
except you can have the radio on the iHeart app
as well. Thank you for calling good luck? Yeah, thank
you eight five five three five. This is my hot take.
This is very controversially ready. This is a deal breaker.
This is a deal breaker. Really, this is going to
be an issue for the rest of their lives together.
This is a person who doesn't who feels comfort, doesn't emphasize,
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it's not as concerned with organization and kindliness and and
I've dealt with people like this before, and we I mean,
I think there's compromise to be had, but you're not
going to change a person like this, fundamentally, You're not
going to They're not just going to turn into the
organized clean.
Speaker 10 (15:55):
What I have changed, I've made changes, made change. Yes,
so you and my husband Hobby are very similar. Like
it's like clean this and that, and I had to
respect that this is also his space and his home.
So like I've had to make those changes because I
can be miss messy little thing.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
I could miss messy little thing.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Oh yeah, miss messy thing.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
That's like a cabbage patch, don't characters.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
I mean, I think you can get people to say
I think I think like taking your clothes out of
the washer and dryer and folding them is a reasonable
thing to ask. I think not eating in bad might
be a reasonable thing to ask. I think I don't
think leaving dishes in this thing for someone else to
clean is. It's an unreasonable thing to ask for that
not to happen. But now we're asking for three or
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four things, and I don't know. I don't know if
that's sustainable.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
Jury is hard, though it is. I mean it's really hard.
It's never ending, okay, But see here, I'm a guy
in all honesty. The clothes that I wash and don't dry,
clean or whatever and don't hang, they sit in my
driver for a long time. I live alone, though no
one else is using this equipment, so I think it
would be unfair for me to wash my clothes and
they need to leave them there. So now when my partner,
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you know, who lives with me, And that's a wild hypothetical,
but that person would then go to wash their clothes
and then realize not only can they not wash their clothes,
now they have to re wash mine, dry them, and
fold them in order for them to handle their business.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 3 (17:18):
It's all the part of love.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
Though you know, no one's folding the clothes to the
other person. You, So now we're just throwing them somewhere.
They're gonna go, They're.
Speaker 6 (17:25):
Gonna go into the basket, and I'm gonna use the
washing machine.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Oh I fooled my boyfriend's clothes.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Oh no, you.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
Hold your wife, slaunch my back? I scratch yours.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
You know I leave my stuff in the dry air.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
You need to use it, Just take it out.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
You know I leave dishes in the scene, Just go
ahead and put them in a dish washer or something.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
So you want a maide, No, no, no, no.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
Because it's like you would do the same. I would
do the same for you. You know, you scratch my back,
I scratch yours?
Speaker 2 (17:53):
How you scratching? Yeah? Where's his match? Getting back in
the tretch?
Speaker 4 (17:56):
I my thought, if you cleaned up everything before I
can get to.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
See now here we go, Here we go, Here we go.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
And I know it sounds crazy, and I'm I'm as
somebody who's like, if the cup is here, I need
it here, Like I need to let that go. But
it also doesn't mean that you don't have to respect
shared space, And it doesn't mean that you know that
that our living room becomes your storage room.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
It doesn't.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
It doesn't mean that I have to now as your partner,
I'm expected to do your laundry for you every single time.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
It's just kind of inconsiderate.
Speaker 10 (18:32):
Yeah, I agree, And I don't think that it's like
weird or anything. I think there's just certain types of people, right,
there's the friends and there's the Paulina's Now.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
The reason I say that too is because the resentment
will grow.
Speaker 10 (18:42):
So like if you and I were married or dating
Fred and I was doing that constantly at home, resentment
would start to grow. You'd be really you'd be really
sick with me. At one point, you'd be a girl.
I know you're my girlfriend, but like get it together,
and then what we're gonna fight. We're gonna fight, and
then we're probably gonna break up. So I don't see
it being crazy. I think it could really, you know,
destroy a relationship. Unfortunately, and said this before. This is
why I don't have a problem with people living together.
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I mean problem, that's not the right way to phrase it.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
This is why I can understand why people live together
ahead of time, and I can understand how people can
ultimately break up over things like this, Because this has
learned behavior. This is its deeper psychological behavior. I'm not
a physician currently, but I'm just saying these are not
things that after twenty thirty forty years you're going to
change in people. And it also, in my opinion, indicates
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a level of insensitivity and a level of inconsiderateness, if
that's a word, because I don't think that's too much
to ask. If I expect you to fold the toilet
paper like a hotel every time you use it, or
like you know, I need you to color code your closet,
or the refrigerator has to be perfectly in order. I mean,
these are things that that's my own OCD. These are
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things that I would need to compromise on, But basic cleanliness,
I don't think that's too much to ask, And I'm
not certain that you're going to change that in somebody.
And I think you're exactly right ful, Lina. I feel
like the fights be start there and then they become
like you know, your ratchet as ex girlfriend still text
in it before long. You know, here we are on
Morey Hey, Ashley, good morning.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Good morning. Hey, what do you want to say, sir go?
Speaker 3 (20:12):
I think he should go.
Speaker 7 (20:13):
I agree with you fred basic cleanliness, and once she
starts having.
Speaker 11 (20:17):
Kids, she's just going to make more excuses why she
can't do something and it's just gonna be worse.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
He should just go now, And like how many times
do you have to do the basic thing for the
other person and they don't do it before? Now you
realize not only are they not going to do it,
they expect you to do it now and they're okay
with it. Like it's almost like sometimes I wonder when
you ask someone to do the same thing over and
over again and they don't do it, like they're doing
it on purpose at a certain point.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Oh yeah, now exactly, And there's a line right in
her limit. Yeah yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Actually, thank you, have a good day you too, And again,
like there's a I think there's a line we would
all agree, there's a place that's like considerate and minimum expectation,
and then there's you know.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
A latent disrespect.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Right right then on the other end of it, I
think there's a a standard that's just ridiculous, Like I
don't you know what I mean some of the references
I made, Like there's a there's an organization in cleanliness,
and then there's excessive on both sides, So I think
they've both got to come to the middle. But he's
not talking about stuff that's unreasonable to me. The examples
he gave, Hey, Jake.
Speaker 12 (21:19):
Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 11 (21:20):
Fred Rufio, Jason Brown, kaylen A Kiky.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Now you look at this guy, Jakes, Hey, yeah, you
know everybody's there.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Go all right.
Speaker 11 (21:31):
So here's what I think. I think this is a
deeper conversation. There's no immediate red flags. I think you
need to stay. However, if this behavior is consistent, and
after time after time again it's being brought up, then
it's then, I mean action speaks to himself. I think
you would have to go. If after such brutal honesty conversations,
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if it's if it's disregarded, if it's ignored, if no
actions have been taken, if it's just words, then unfortunately,
that's where you got to draw the line, because it
does come down to respect, It does come down to
those little actions because it is his space. Although in
the adage, this adage just reminds me you never truly
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know someone until you move in with them.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yeah, that's biblical.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
That's in classic classic key, elastic key. What is it Ecclesiastes.
It's in that one Ecclesiastes. Yeah, yeah, that's the thing, right,
it's in the Bible. Jake is over here preaching biblically.
Hey Jake, thank you, man, have a good day.
Speaker 11 (22:38):
Hey, love you all, love the tent and keep them coming.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
That's Ecclesiastes ten sixty four. Yeah both, Hey, Jesse, how
you doing? It's it's either old or new.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
I don't know. Hey, Jesse, what do you want to say?
Is there go? Oh, he's got to go.
Speaker 13 (22:57):
It's uh, I'm dealing with that same thing at all home. No,
I mean, I'm not going anywhere, but it leads to
bigger things. And next thing, you know, you have a
four bedroom house with four bedrooms full of things and
stuff that is just overwhelming.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
And people are talking, Jesse about kids. This is not
going to get any better with If you can't cleanup
after yourself, you're not going to clean after further, you know,
additional humans.
Speaker 13 (23:24):
Well, and that's kind of where I'm at too, because
you know, me and my wife just got.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
Married and congratulations.
Speaker 13 (23:30):
She keeps saying, don't worry, I'm going to change. But
what happened, you know, she took a year off to
play in the wedding, and nothing changed in that whole
year because you know she works too, but now she
didn't work that year and there wasn't a change in anything.
Nothing's changed. And then so now it leads to, like
you just said, kids and what's going to change. You're
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going to be a stay at home mom, which is
what she wants or whatever. So and then you go
to there like I'm in that same boat right now.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
Yeah, I don't know that it's going to change, man,
but I hope it does for you. And yeah, I'm sorry.
I mean, that's the overwhelming thing that we're getting text
Like overwhelming is people saying this is kind of a personality.
I don't want to call it a flaw, but it's
this is in your DNA. I feel like, Jesse, thank
you man, have a good day and good luck.
Speaker 14 (24:21):
Well.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
I had a roommate and we didn't get along in college.
The only room I ever had, and this duo was
it wasn't messy per se, but he was sort of
His half of the room is somewhat disheveled, and I
used to organize it, not organize it, but I clean
it basically like make it not disheveled, because my side
of the room wasn't. And I realized over time he
hated me for that because that's how he wanted his
(24:42):
space to be, and he had every right to have that,
it was his side of the room. But like, and
I guess I learned that that there are people who
find this is the way they want to live, like
for whatever reason it's I don't know, they find comfort
in it or something, and I had to respect that.
But what I did know is that he and I
would not be good roommates moving forward. Marry the guy,
because you know, I'm not going to clean up after
(25:03):
him all the time. And I guess the thing is,
would you agree you have to find someone to be
with who has at least similar sensibilities.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
In that way?
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Yeah, then again, if two people are messy, then you
know you're gonna live in a pig stye.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
So I don't know, you.
Speaker 7 (25:18):
Just need to have like respect, you know, I definitely
changed some things, like when I moved in with my boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
I think you just have to be willing to like
meet them where they are.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
To listen to what they're you know, yeah, they're asking
for Betsy. Hi, okay, so you're saying, and just if
you're just tuning in, by the way, stayre go. This
dude is married to a woman who leaves her clothes
in the in the not only the dryer, but in
the washer and lets them get all mildy. We get nasty,
eats in the bed, leaves dishes in the sink. He
(25:47):
said like, hey, look, can you help out with this?
Can we not do all that? And she doesn't stop.
It continues to happen, it persists. So what do you think,
stare go?
Speaker 12 (25:56):
I think he should go, and I love you guys
and everything like that.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
He should go, he should go.
Speaker 12 (26:03):
They both should go their separate ways. And it definitely
says it in Ecclesiastes the Old Testament.
Speaker 14 (26:11):
Leave.
Speaker 12 (26:11):
It's the Old Testament.
Speaker 14 (26:13):
And I am about fifteen years into a relationship that's
very similar. I'm not going anywhere, but as an older
person looking at a younger person, you need to go
because if you've met somewhere in the middle, then okay,
then we're listening.
Speaker 12 (26:31):
To each other, we're understanding.
Speaker 14 (26:33):
But like my partner is very tidy, very cleanly. I
can be like Paulina, miss messy wilfain.
Speaker 7 (26:41):
And but I also.
Speaker 14 (26:43):
Do all the laundry in the house. I do all
the cooking in the house.
Speaker 7 (26:47):
His version of cooking.
Speaker 14 (26:49):
Is takeout.
Speaker 7 (26:52):
And so the dishes, and he works two jobs seasonally,
so I am to put everything in the dishwasher, you know,
clean it. Like right now there's dirty dishes in the
think probably know when he wakes up, he's probably gonna
like roll his eyes. But being that fifteen years in,
if it's already like that right now, I've made changes,
(27:13):
I've met in the middle. But if I put out
too many little decorations on the.
Speaker 14 (27:17):
Table for a holiday, he will go around and change
them because there'll be too many things on that table.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
It's clutter bets.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
What you're saying basically is you're fifteen years in, you're invested,
so you deal with it. But if you had it
to do over again, this is this is enough of
an issue that it might not lead to a fifteen
year relationship again.
Speaker 14 (27:39):
Yeah, like I'd be like three years in, I'd be like,
thank you for what you've taught me, but I think
we should go away our separate ways.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Okay, fair enough. So this is like you're what you're saying,
is fundamentally this is an issue? Yes, okay, I mean
I've heard that song before.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
It's too late time. That's you. I gotta go have
a good day. I appreciate you.
Speaker 13 (28:04):
I'm like, I have.
Speaker 14 (28:05):
Four more years than you know.
Speaker 12 (28:07):
Our kid is eighteen, so oh lord year.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
So right, she's got a calendar.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
Invited their divorces man in about three years and oh
my goodness, yeah three point seven five years.
Speaker 2 (28:20):
But I was like, she's out of here.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Look, Betsy, I gotta go have a good day, all right,
thank you, thank you.
Speaker 14 (28:27):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Okay, there it is. She a love to say.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yeah, you want to let the streets know in a
couple of.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Years, right, everybody, make sure you're around. In about three
point seventy five to four years, I'm going to be
on the market.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
The Entertainment Report is
Trending stories headlines just starts your Tuesday space sky space
SpaceX is aiming to launch Starship, the most powerful rocket
ever built, on its sixth test flight today. It's also
the vehicle selected to land US astronauts on the Moon
as soon as twenty twenty six. Last month, SpaceX succeeded
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for the first time and bringing back and safely landing
the rockets booster called super Heavy. Nice whoa that's taller
than a twenty story building. Similar to the last test,
SpaceX this week will try and catch the spacecraft mid
air with a set of massive metal arms called chopsticks.
They're gonna catch Super Heavy with the chopsticks.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
I guess, okay, yeah, I don't know what's going on here,
Butcher siting.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
You're just looking out the window watching all this, like
go on, Yeah, Butcher and Sunny are out there going
can you catch up with We've been trying to get
home now. I'm just trying to get a ride. I'm
trying to mom, come pick me trying to get mom
and come pick me up now. For some time every
day now, they just keep sending everybody else home. And
then I saw yesterday that in the Russian part of
this of the space station.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
There's an air leak. There's a leak.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It's a leak in the space station. Also the space station,
I guess, is set to retire, and not that long.
It's been up there for a while. Like this whole
going to space thing is nothing new. They're acting like
it is. But now they're up there in this aging
thing they're about to retire that has an air leak
in it. And they were supposed to be home when
they're you know, on their couch like two months ago.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
These astronauts been leaking for five years. No, well, I
fix it.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Now sounds better than here.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
So that's that's gonna happen. There could already be snow.
I feel like it was not that cold, not that
long ago in most parts of the country, and now
we're talking about snow lake. This week, two storm systems
are set to move across the country, with the first
rain and in the first I guess rain and then
the second maybe some snow storms in the southern planes
shifted north, giving rainfalls in the Midwest and central plans.
(01:56):
Memphis and Atlanta could see rainfall by the middle of
this week. You see in front of the map right
now as I describe this.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
This cold front, and it's due point.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, with the due point, what happens when the due
point of the temperature are close to each other for
the sad havoc, it's just you know, yeah, visible fog.
That's what happens the temperature and due point are close.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I heard a tsunami's coming. That's no, none of that.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
But anyway, Memphis, Atlanta could see rainfall. New York City
and Boston could see rain snow, and Montana, Oregon, Idaho,
New Mexico, Wyoming in Utah. Hold on, I need some
music for this's listening. Well, no, this story is for you. Okay,
it's for you. It's terrible news. Oh no again, you
(02:44):
already know, don't you? What here comes Sarah McLaughlin. Well,
you're right about that. It just takes forty five minutes
from my apple. I actually have to call Sarah macglaughlin
to get her out of bed Towe to start singing.
So yeah, it's part of the She has to pick
up her dial, do her dial up, Internet log in,
(03:06):
authenticate better authenticate, Kiky, what do you of all the
different things that I would associate to you? What what
could what are the possibilities in your mind what this
story could be.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
It's either TikTok or Spirit Airlines.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Yeah, Spirit Airlines. Oh god, that's filed for bankruptcy.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Okay, that mean okay.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
This is a bounce back plan. They're gonna come back
stronger than ever.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
This is the plan.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Yeah really, yes, we already met about this, me and
my board members.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Is good. Okay, So what is to tell you how?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
They're gonna tell you know what, Spirit for bankruptcy, But
tell me how they're coming back.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Okay, So they filed for bankruptcy, right, and then they're
gonna think they make y'all think that they need prayer
and they're sad, and then really we're in the laugh
prepare for a major comeback. Yeah, and when we come back,
people will have seats, You will not have to pay
for water.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
You will have the little air over your head that
will work. Wait wait, wait, you're gonna give them more.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
So you tell me about they're going to turn it
into delta, is what you said? Yeah, Wow, they're coming
back strong.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Just wait, man, Like, depending on where you live, I
don't know if the places where people I mean you
get let's do it's on iHeart app anywhere, but the
places I'm thinking of are not big Delta hubs. But
everyone talks like Delta is like flying private. Everyone talks
like Delta is like a PJ. Everyone raves about it.
It's amazing. That was my hub in Detroit. I miss
it every day. You in Chicago, you're either on American
(04:34):
or United. Yeah, people Harrison Raleigh, I feel like you're on.
There's like a gate for every airline. Yeah, you can
go VLO, you can go Southwest, you can go United America.
I mean, isn't like you can you can go Bahama's Air.
Out of there, Bahamas Air one day, I'm like, what
the hell, what are we doing?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Yeah, well that But it's I feel like it's just
like thirty one flavors, Like every air airline has one
gate there, so you're good to go, but but not Delta.
But everyone talks about you get the bisk Off cookies,
like forget about it.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Oh that's how you're going to talk about Spirit.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
When Spirit announced that it's filed for Chapter eleven bankruptcy
protection after a fight with lost his growing dad and
a failed merger, the company said in the statement that
it secured a pre arranged deal with bondholders. It includes
three hundred million in financing, and they planned to exit
bankruptcy the first quarter of twenty twenty five. How will
this affect you, Kiki as a customer?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
It won't. Yeah, it shouldn't at all.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
The most important thing to know is that you can
continue to book and fly down in the future.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
So there you go. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I never thought they had any money anyway.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Oh you didn't.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
I mean, you can't get anything on the flight. So
like they were already acting broke.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
That's fine. I kept trying to merge with Frontier. I
was like, blept.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Yeah, it was the outcome of that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Right, They're gonna paint a Hyaena on the side of
the airplane, but it's still going to.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Be ratchet, right, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Yeah, the front of your airplanes are all cool. They
got like a picture of a bear on the tail.
You're like, ooh, that's neat, like you know, and then
you get in the waiting room, right exactly exactly. I
wish that I similar to what I was saying before about,
you know, having the bandwidth to text radio personalities and
tell them they suck. I wish I cared enough about
(06:22):
anything to write a company and complain about their bottle redesign.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
But it's happening.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
In what's trending today, Tropicana customers are in revolt over
an orange juice bottle redesign.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Can you imagine?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Like, I don't get me wrong, I've either I'm trying
to think of an example, but there's stuff I've bought
and they changed the recipe or they changed the bottle,
or they changed the packaging, And in my mind, I'm like,
I don't like this, But i cannot honestly tell you
that I've ever taken the time to be like, now,
who do I tell about that? Cause they're gonna They're
definitely gonna change it back if I complain.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Tropicana recently ditched it's distinct orange juice in a clear, plastic,
circular shaped bottle with a thinning neck and a crown
like bottle cap, known as the Kraff. Over the summer,
it rolled out a more traditional looking plastic bottle and
down sized from fifty two to forty six. They also
narrow the label to fit the more compact bottle. Now,
I get it if you're upset because of the shrinkflation
(07:20):
thing where you know, same price or more for less product.
But they're saying that it actually costs less for less product.
But man, can you imagine being that pissed off about
an orange juice bottle? It is a big change, it is.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
I'm kind of upset about it.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
I don't look, it'll still be seven bucks anymore.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Something about when you grab and it was all voluptuous,
and it.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
Was, yeah, you grab it by the bottleneck and po
your orange juice.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
God forbid, I grab it the exact same place.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
I ain't got no neck Yetore is that guy for
the thumb from a head?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
It looks like a zempic, like got ahold of Chopicanno?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Exactly, Who's Vegas stuff fancy?
Speaker 7 (08:09):
Now?
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Would you say tropic Who's mega stuff fancy?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Now? I don't know if you guys have a fine
two here I am in Einstein's bagos. I don't know
if you guys. You might have a twenty twenty four
ice cooled top coan.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
No I get the Aldie versions.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
I don't know about her.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
That might be called Tropicana c H T R O
p H A n A S Tropica.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
And this didn't have it on spirit, but it may
as well have.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Over one hundred hamsters are loose on a flight in Portugal,
grounding the plane for days. Escapee hamsters not one, but two,
but one hundred and thirty two. This is a tap
Air Portugal flight in Lisbon had human passengers as well
as hamster's, ferrets and birds that were headed to a
pet store. I don't know if they were like they
gave him seats or something. I don't know what happened here,
but some of the hamsters decided to escape. It took
(09:05):
days to account for all the critters and the airplane.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Was able to go again.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I don't know if they got loose in like the
cargo area, and then you know, there's all kinds of
nooks and crannies and crevices all over the airplane, so
they were crawling around that thing trying to find everywhere
those little guys went.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
That's all you need, is it.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Hamster gnawed away at some wires somewhere, and you're over
Lisbon and hamster guy just ate the wrong one.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
It's not good, guys.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
One single solitary day to day national play Monopoly day.
It's a game that never ever ends. That starts to
never have anyone ever played Monopoly to completion? Has anyone
ever played a game of Monopoly where you could honestly
say at the end I won? Has anyone ever played
Monopoly where you were the banker and didn't cheat?
Speaker 2 (09:49):
No, No, it wasn't see there you go?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Well yeah, yeah, well I will say the app the
Monopoly it's pretty good.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Yeah, you're playing Monopoly in your phone.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
You are the person who played the fake you.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
You had a seam character Monopoly Fred.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Everything was shut down. Things are open now.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
What does that matter to me? The house now? Entertainment reporters.
Next Friend Show. The Friend Show is on. It's stay
or go. Hi, Eric, Good morning Eric, How you doing? Welcome? Yeah,
how's it going, y'all?
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Hey man, what's going on? Oh he's ready to go,
he's getting right to it. Uh, what's going on with
your girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (10:38):
So basically, I'm just I'm calling for some advice.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
Uh.
Speaker 8 (10:43):
So, I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over
a year now, and we recently just moved in together,
and I love having her around all the time.
Speaker 9 (10:53):
But the real problem is that she's super messy, like
nest here than I ever thought popped like she leaves
dirty dishes everywhere she finds, I like, find food in
her bed because she eats it it and then she
forgets and then she starts her laundry and leaves the clothes.
Speaker 8 (11:11):
In the washer to the point where they are stinky.
And then you know, she leaves clothes that are dry
in the machine that needed to be folded out for weeks.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
It's just ridiculous.
Speaker 8 (11:25):
And like every time I try to talk to her
about it, she says she's going to get better, but
then she does it for like a day, then goes
back to being messy.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
So this is not something that you knew in the
year that you've dated her, Like you never noticed these
things when she would stay your house or when you'd
go to hers. You never noticed that she'd Because I
don't know if this this is not something that people
just pick up, Like she didn't move into your house
or you moving together and then she just decided to
be dirty or messy or whatever else.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
You know.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I mean, I feel like this is something that people
have done their whole lives.
Speaker 8 (11:53):
Yeah, but I think it wasn't like as obvious to me.
Usually she would she wouldn't cook that much and you
get takeout and stuff like that. When I would go
over to her place and she came over to mind
more often, so I didn't see her in her an
all men as well well.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Plus it's easier to conceal when people, you know, when
people are on top of it.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
You're trying to make an impression. So I think she was.
Speaker 8 (12:17):
Better and now that we're in it togetherability, so you've
gone to her and been like, hey, look, I need
you to at the very least change your clothes, you know,
from the washer to the dryer so it doesn't get
whatever that moldies.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Yeah, right, whenever you'll do whatever that is, I need
you to like it at the very least, you know,
can you fold the clothes or get them out of there?
Can you kind of pick up after you like you've expressed,
because I mean, if you're a perfectionist or you're like,
you know, extremely tidy or clean, you may not get
another person to come to that level. Like me, I
(12:58):
tend to like things the way I like, and I've
had to accept the fact that people are not as
particular about things as I am, and I would have
to sort of come to the middle on that a
little bit. That doesn't mean that I have to necessarily
settle for people who are inconsiderate or who don't respect
the fact that we're sharing space. Right, So I assume
you've said something, and what it's her response?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Yeah, I mean I compromise. I went to the middle.
Speaker 8 (13:20):
Like initially, I did take a step back and say, like,
things don't need to be perfect. And I know that
you're you and on me, but even on the stuff
that I mean basics like just my pet peeves, dirty
dishes in the sink, moldy laundry, or just like and
food in the bed is really gross to me, especially because.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
It's sharing the bed, you know, with her. I don't
think this is too much you ask.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
It's not like he's saying everything has to be ironed
and hung, color coded and crazy people stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
You know he's asking for. I don't want you to
eat in the bed.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I want you to pick up your stuff, and I
want you to you know, spaces we have to share,
like I need you to sort of handle your business
in those are I don't think these guys asking for
too much. But the thing is she may not, she
may never do those things. She may be very comfortable
the way she likes to live and eating in bed
and things like that. So I feel like you either
compromise to a certain extent or maybe this is a
(14:18):
way in which you're incompatible.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Right, Yeah, that's Ruth Fatter.
Speaker 6 (14:22):
I have a question for you, Eric, Are you cleaning
up after her? Like are you enabling it by like, oh,
though dises are all in there, and then you empty
the sink and you take her clothes out. Are you
enabling her behavior by cleaning up after her?
Speaker 8 (14:37):
Well, at the beginning, yeah, I was doing it just
to be nice and forgiving and accepting. But then I
like to make a point at some point when I
after the couple times of asking her, I left it
and didn't do anything, and then went back to her
and was like, look at this, like can we just
take a look at this right now.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
And yeah, yeah, no, continue, I'm sorry.
Speaker 8 (15:01):
No, I'm just thinking that it's like it's not fair
and I needed to have an example to show her.
But for the most part, yeah, I was enabling a
little bit, but I'm just tired of it.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Okay, we're gonna talk about you behind your back now, Eric,
except you can have the radio on the iHeart app
as well. Thank you for calling good luck? Yeah, thank
you eight five five three five. This is my hot take.
This is very controversially ready. This is a deal breaker.
This is a deal breaker. Really, this is going to
be an issue for the rest of their lives together.
This is a person who doesn't who feels comfort, doesn't emphasize,
(15:34):
it's not as concerned with organization and kindliness and and
I've dealt with people like this before, and we I mean,
I think there's compromise to be had, but you're not
going to change a person like this, fundamentally, You're not
going to They're not just going to turn into the
organized clean.
Speaker 10 (15:55):
What I have changed, I've made changes, made change. Yes,
so you and my husband Hobby are very similar. Like
it's like clean this and that, and I had to
respect that this is also his space and his home.
So like I've had to make those changes because I
can be miss messy little thing.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
I could miss messy little thing.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Oh yeah, miss messy thing.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
That's like a cabbage patch, don't characters.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
I mean, I think you can get people to say
I think I think like taking your clothes out of
the washer and dryer and folding them is a reasonable
thing to ask. I think not eating in bad might
be a reasonable thing to ask. I think I don't
think leaving dishes in this thing for someone else to
clean is. It's an unreasonable thing to ask for that
not to happen. But now we're asking for three or
(16:40):
four things, and I don't know. I don't know if
that's sustainable.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
Jury is hard, though it is. I mean it's really hard.
It's never ending, okay, But see here, I'm a guy
in all honesty. The clothes that I wash and don't dry,
clean or whatever and don't hang, they sit in my
driver for a long time. I live alone, though no
one else is using this equipment, so I think it
would be unfair for me to wash my clothes and
they need to leave them there. So now when my partner,
(17:04):
you know, who lives with me, And that's a wild hypothetical,
but that person would then go to wash their clothes
and then realize not only can they not wash their clothes,
now they have to re wash mine, dry them, and
fold them in order for them to handle their business.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 3 (17:18):
It's all the part of love.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
Though you know, no one's folding the clothes to the
other person. You, So now we're just throwing them somewhere.
They're gonna go, They're.
Speaker 6 (17:25):
Gonna go into the basket, and I'm gonna use the
washing machine.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Oh I fooled my boyfriend's clothes.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Oh no, you.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
Hold your wife, slaunch my back? I scratch yours.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
You know I leave my stuff in the dry air.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
You need to use it, Just take it out.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
You know I leave dishes in the scene, Just go
ahead and put them in a dish washer or something.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
So you want a maide, No, no, no, no.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
Because it's like you would do the same. I would
do the same for you. You know, you scratch my back,
I scratch yours?
Speaker 2 (17:53):
How you scratching? Yeah? Where's his match? Getting back in
the tretch?
Speaker 4 (17:56):
I my thought, if you cleaned up everything before I
can get to.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
See now here we go, Here we go, Here we go.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
And I know it sounds crazy, and I'm I'm as
somebody who's like, if the cup is here, I need
it here, Like I need to let that go. But
it also doesn't mean that you don't have to respect
shared space, And it doesn't mean that you know that
that our living room becomes your storage room.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
It doesn't.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
It doesn't mean that I have to now as your partner,
I'm expected to do your laundry for you every single time.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
It's just kind of inconsiderate.
Speaker 10 (18:32):
Yeah, I agree, And I don't think that it's like
weird or anything. I think there's just certain types of people, right,
there's the friends and there's the Paulina's Now.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
The reason I say that too is because the resentment
will grow.
Speaker 10 (18:42):
So like if you and I were married or dating
Fred and I was doing that constantly at home, resentment
would start to grow. You'd be really you'd be really
sick with me. At one point, you'd be a girl.
I know you're my girlfriend, but like get it together,
and then what we're gonna fight. We're gonna fight, and
then we're probably gonna break up. So I don't see
it being crazy. I think it could really, you know,
destroy a relationship. Unfortunately, and said this before. This is
why I don't have a problem with people living together.
(19:02):
I mean problem, that's not the right way to phrase it.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
This is why I can understand why people live together
ahead of time, and I can understand how people can
ultimately break up over things like this, Because this has
learned behavior. This is its deeper psychological behavior. I'm not
a physician currently, but I'm just saying these are not
things that after twenty thirty forty years you're going to
change in people. And it also, in my opinion, indicates
(19:27):
a level of insensitivity and a level of inconsiderateness, if
that's a word, because I don't think that's too much
to ask. If I expect you to fold the toilet
paper like a hotel every time you use it, or
like you know, I need you to color code your closet,
or the refrigerator has to be perfectly in order. I mean,
these are things that that's my own OCD. These are
(19:48):
things that I would need to compromise on, But basic cleanliness,
I don't think that's too much to ask, And I'm
not certain that you're going to change that in somebody.
And I think you're exactly right ful, Lina. I feel
like the fights be start there and then they become
like you know, your ratchet as ex girlfriend still text
in it before long. You know, here we are on
Morey Hey, Ashley, good morning.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Good morning. Hey, what do you want to say, sir go?
Speaker 3 (20:12):
I think he should go.
Speaker 7 (20:13):
I agree with you fred basic cleanliness, and once she
starts having.
Speaker 11 (20:17):
Kids, she's just going to make more excuses why she
can't do something and it's just gonna be worse.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
He should just go now, And like how many times
do you have to do the basic thing for the
other person and they don't do it before? Now you
realize not only are they not going to do it,
they expect you to do it now and they're okay
with it. Like it's almost like sometimes I wonder when
you ask someone to do the same thing over and
over again and they don't do it, like they're doing
it on purpose at a certain point.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Oh yeah, now exactly, And there's a line right in
her limit. Yeah yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Actually, thank you, have a good day you too, And again,
like there's a I think there's a line we would
all agree, there's a place that's like considerate and minimum expectation,
and then there's you know.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
A latent disrespect.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Right right then on the other end of it, I
think there's a a standard that's just ridiculous, Like I
don't you know what I mean some of the references
I made, Like there's a there's an organization in cleanliness,
and then there's excessive on both sides, So I think
they've both got to come to the middle. But he's
not talking about stuff that's unreasonable to me. The examples
he gave, Hey, Jake.
Speaker 12 (21:19):
Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 11 (21:20):
Fred Rufio, Jason Brown, kaylen A Kiky.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Now you look at this guy, Jakes, Hey, yeah, you
know everybody's there.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Go all right.
Speaker 11 (21:31):
So here's what I think. I think this is a
deeper conversation. There's no immediate red flags. I think you
need to stay. However, if this behavior is consistent, and
after time after time again it's being brought up, then
it's then, I mean action speaks to himself. I think
you would have to go. If after such brutal honesty conversations,
(21:55):
if it's if it's disregarded, if it's ignored, if no
actions have been taken, if it's just words, then unfortunately,
that's where you got to draw the line, because it
does come down to respect, It does come down to
those little actions because it is his space. Although in
the adage, this adage just reminds me you never truly
(22:18):
know someone until you move in with them.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yeah, that's biblical.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
That's in classic classic key, elastic key. What is it Ecclesiastes.
It's in that one Ecclesiastes. Yeah, yeah, that's the thing, right,
it's in the Bible. Jake is over here preaching biblically.
Hey Jake, thank you, man, have a good day.
Speaker 11 (22:38):
Hey, love you all, love the tent and keep them coming.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
That's Ecclesiastes ten sixty four. Yeah both, Hey, Jesse, how
you doing? It's it's either old or new.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
I don't know. Hey, Jesse, what do you want to say?
Is there go? Oh, he's got to go.
Speaker 13 (22:57):
It's uh, I'm dealing with that same thing at all home. No,
I mean, I'm not going anywhere, but it leads to
bigger things. And next thing, you know, you have a
four bedroom house with four bedrooms full of things and
stuff that is just overwhelming.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
And people are talking, Jesse about kids. This is not
going to get any better with If you can't cleanup
after yourself, you're not going to clean after further, you know,
additional humans.
Speaker 13 (23:24):
Well, and that's kind of where I'm at too, because
you know, me and my wife just got.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
Married and congratulations.
Speaker 13 (23:30):
She keeps saying, don't worry, I'm going to change. But
what happened, you know, she took a year off to
play in the wedding, and nothing changed in that whole
year because you know she works too, but now she
didn't work that year and there wasn't a change in anything.
Nothing's changed. And then so now it leads to, like
you just said, kids and what's going to change. You're
(23:51):
going to be a stay at home mom, which is
what she wants or whatever. So and then you go
to there like I'm in that same boat right now.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
Yeah, I don't know that it's going to change, man,
but I hope it does for you. And yeah, I'm sorry.
I mean, that's the overwhelming thing that we're getting text
Like overwhelming is people saying this is kind of a personality.
I don't want to call it a flaw, but it's
this is in your DNA. I feel like, Jesse, thank
you man, have a good day and good luck.
Speaker 14 (24:21):
Well.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
I had a roommate and we didn't get along in college.
The only room I ever had, and this duo was
it wasn't messy per se, but he was sort of
His half of the room is somewhat disheveled, and I
used to organize it, not organize it, but I clean
it basically like make it not disheveled, because my side
of the room wasn't. And I realized over time he
hated me for that because that's how he wanted his
(24:42):
space to be, and he had every right to have that,
it was his side of the room. But like, and
I guess I learned that that there are people who
find this is the way they want to live, like
for whatever reason it's I don't know, they find comfort
in it or something, and I had to respect that.
But what I did know is that he and I
would not be good roommates moving forward. Marry the guy,
because you know, I'm not going to clean up after
(25:03):
him all the time. And I guess the thing is,
would you agree you have to find someone to be
with who has at least similar sensibilities.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
In that way?
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Yeah, then again, if two people are messy, then you
know you're gonna live in a pig stye.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
So I don't know, you.
Speaker 7 (25:18):
Just need to have like respect, you know, I definitely
changed some things, like when I moved in with my boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
I think you just have to be willing to like
meet them where they are.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
To listen to what they're you know, yeah, they're asking
for Betsy. Hi, okay, so you're saying, and just if
you're just tuning in, by the way, stayre go. This
dude is married to a woman who leaves her clothes
in the in the not only the dryer, but in
the washer and lets them get all mildy. We get nasty,
eats in the bed, leaves dishes in the sink. He
(25:47):
said like, hey, look, can you help out with this?
Can we not do all that? And she doesn't stop.
It continues to happen, it persists. So what do you think,
stare go?
Speaker 12 (25:56):
I think he should go, and I love you guys
and everything like that.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
He should go, he should go.
Speaker 12 (26:03):
They both should go their separate ways. And it definitely
says it in Ecclesiastes the Old Testament.
Speaker 14 (26:11):
Leave.
Speaker 12 (26:11):
It's the Old Testament.
Speaker 14 (26:13):
And I am about fifteen years into a relationship that's
very similar. I'm not going anywhere, but as an older
person looking at a younger person, you need to go
because if you've met somewhere in the middle, then okay,
then we're listening.
Speaker 12 (26:31):
To each other, we're understanding.
Speaker 14 (26:33):
But like my partner is very tidy, very cleanly. I
can be like Paulina, miss messy wilfain.
Speaker 7 (26:41):
And but I also.
Speaker 14 (26:43):
Do all the laundry in the house. I do all
the cooking in the house.
Speaker 7 (26:47):
His version of cooking.
Speaker 14 (26:49):
Is takeout.
Speaker 7 (26:52):
And so the dishes, and he works two jobs seasonally,
so I am to put everything in the dishwasher, you know,
clean it. Like right now there's dirty dishes in the
think probably know when he wakes up, he's probably gonna
like roll his eyes. But being that fifteen years in,
if it's already like that right now, I've made changes,
(27:13):
I've met in the middle. But if I put out
too many little decorations on the.
Speaker 14 (27:17):
Table for a holiday, he will go around and change
them because there'll be too many things on that table.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
It's clutter bets.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
What you're saying basically is you're fifteen years in, you're invested,
so you deal with it. But if you had it
to do over again, this is this is enough of
an issue that it might not lead to a fifteen
year relationship again.
Speaker 14 (27:39):
Yeah, like I'd be like three years in, I'd be like,
thank you for what you've taught me, but I think
we should go away our separate ways.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Okay, fair enough. So this is like you're what you're saying,
is fundamentally this is an issue? Yes, okay, I mean
I've heard that song before.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
It's too late time. That's you. I gotta go have
a good day. I appreciate you.
Speaker 13 (28:04):
I'm like, I have.
Speaker 14 (28:05):
Four more years than you know.
Speaker 12 (28:07):
Our kid is eighteen, so oh lord year.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
So right, she's got a calendar.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
Invited their divorces man in about three years and oh
my goodness, yeah three point seven five years.
Speaker 2 (28:20):
But I was like, she's out of here.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Look, Betsy, I gotta go have a good day, all right,
thank you, thank you.
Speaker 14 (28:27):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Okay, there it is. She a love to say.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yeah, you want to let the streets know in a
couple of.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Years, right, everybody, make sure you're around. In about three
point seventy five to four years, I'm going to be
on the market.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
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