May 7, 2024 • 29 mins
During today's show, we talked about Rudy Gobert, Keke doesn't think she's strong enough for kids, and Rufio has a bone to pick with USPS
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So Rudy Gobert, who plays.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
For the Minnesota Timberwolves, I.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Can finish the cement.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Sorry promise, Sorry, my.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
Man, I'm messing with you. I get there, I I
I get there.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I was maybe.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Jason Brown, Jason Brown should have said it first. Sports
are part obviously.
Speaker 5 (00:25):
He's like, did you say the Mets? Gallup?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
All the Mets were there? You still don't get the
reference to you know, what isn't the Mets?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
That's is the team?
Speaker 6 (00:37):
Right?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
What team?
Speaker 7 (00:38):
Though?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
I don't know? That's basketball?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
That's nuts, that's the Nats.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Is a basketball team. That's another New York team. You
don't like the Nuts? Okay, real lazysus Nuts. That's is
New Jersey, Brooklyn now. And then the Mets are baseball
(01:07):
team in Queens, New York Matts.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Got it? Yeah? Well, I mean New York Mets, New
York and the Yankees. They have two like Chicago does, right,
Mets and and the Yankees. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Nonetheless, this guy who plays for the Timberwolves is probably
going to it looks like he might miss Game two
of the NBA Playoffs, the second round of the NBA Playoffs,
because his wife either is it is having a bit.
I'm trying to get the story here straight because I
have the clip of a bunch of people complaining about this.
But following the birth of his first child, a baby boy,
(01:44):
So he's thinking about missing a playoff game because his
wife had a baby already. So we're not talking just
to be clear, we're not talking about the baby was
about to be born and he might be out of
town for that or something like that.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
We've heard of that story before.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
The baby apparently has been born and so he might
not play in this game, and a bunch of other
NBA players have a bunch of things to say about it.
But just to I mean, I want to know if
that makes a big Does that make a big difference though,
if the baby just arrived and is here versus the
baby hasn't been born yet and you might be missing
(02:23):
the you know, actual birth. I think to support your
you know wife, girlfriend, whatever it is. I think it's
his wife and and and be present for the you know,
actual arrival of this kid. He's a bunch of NBA
players Gilbert Arena complaining about it.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Yeah, I would imagine Minnesota go I don't know for
something not in that man's business, like, okay, for that.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Baby when you get back.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
So that that's his comment. Uh, the baby will be
there when you get back. So do we think that
missing a playoff basketball game for the birth of your
kids so you can be there for like, I don't know,
day two, three, whatever it is, day you know, just
I don't know. Again, big difference between the baby actually
being born and you being there to support your wife
(03:14):
in the process and however long that takes, and you
don't want to miss that moment once in a lifetime
versus Okay, I was there for that baby's here, baby
looks healthy, wife's healthy.
Speaker 8 (03:22):
I'm gonna go play this basketball a game. I'll be
right back. So he already met the baby. Just to
be clear, he met the baby already. That's the way
that I understand the story. The game was he missed
the game yesterday. The game was yesterday. It's already happened.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
It happened he missed the game, so he did because
the story I just read was that he might miss
the game. So we missed the game, but not because
he was trying to be there. The baby was already
here when he missed the game. Are we clear about that? Okay,
So then, so are we mad about this? I mean,
should you? Should you? Does it? Is there any excuse
for missing work? If you're if you're an athlete, is
(03:56):
there any excuse? Are you allowed to miss work for
the birth of a baby?
Speaker 8 (04:00):
Should be allowed to you should be allowed to be
with your baby. That's the ones in a lifetime moment
that you won't get back. You can play another basketball game,
but you will not get that precious moment with your
child again. However, if I'm on the team, you got
to come to work. Were trying to win a championship.
I don't have time for you to go meet no baby.
Let hip bring the baby up here.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
What are you talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Actually, that's a good idea, Helena. Put the baby up here.
Babies four weeks, so come on, Alorady taken the baby
to Taco Bella.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Come on, the baby up here.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
So, yeah, I get I feel like if it's if
it's hey, I'm gonna be on the road and my
wife is in labor or something, then I'm not going.
I'm sorry, I'm not going, especially if it's my Wow. No,
I don't think there's anything I was gonna say. It's
my first kid. But no, because every time it's dangerous,
every time my wife needs support, I help make the baby,
I need to be there.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
So i'm I need to be there.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
You're missing the playoff if now here's the thing though,
If I was there for the birth, I held the baby,
everybody's okay. Yeah, I don't know that I sit there
and stare at the baby for another how many times
I gonna say baby in this break. I don't know
that I sit there and stare at the child for
a day or two instead of going and helping my
teammates win the game because it's a very important game.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
But yet that's I think.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
I think. I go if the baby's already born and
everything everybody's okay, then I go play. If the baby's
not here yet and it's gonna happen during the game,
I'm missing the game, right.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
No, you missed the game.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
It's a game. It's you missed the game even after
the kids already here.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
So the game was yesterday his wife, his fiance, gave
birth to the baby.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Early Monday, and then the game was at night.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
But right, so that's what I'm saying. The babies here,
everybody's okay, get on a PJ or whatever and go.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Wherever it is.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
You're already and you're already in Denver because they're on
the road.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
He has to fly back to Minneapolis for the birth
of his first child.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
And you're gonna be like, all right, see you later.
I gotta go play this game. They didn't even need
him yesterday.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
They won by a gazillion yesterday, but he didn't know
that at the time. But still, like it's just one
game out of a game of seven, you know, like
it's it's like if it was like the final championship game. Okay,
that's that's a little like if the championship's on the line,
that's a little different. But if the baby was mourn
at like nine o'clock in the morning and everybody's okay,
and you were there and she wants to like she
(06:26):
probably wants to sleep. You know, there's nurses at the hospital,
the whole thing. I mean, I probably sound wildly in
you're taking care of a child. Well, I don't know,
there's I assume there's nannies and moms and dads and family.
I mean, Rich he's an NBA player. I'm sure there's
no there's no lack of support. Here's what you do.
You hop on a PJ, you hang out all day,
you hop on a PG two hours, you go play
(06:47):
the game, hop back on a PJ, come back, and
it's almost like you weren't even gone.
Speaker 9 (06:52):
I mean, if I'm his girl and this is gonna
shock you all, I'm team basketball. I'm like, go, babe,
I don't remember one second of meeting my parents, So like, fine.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Meet me, say what up, and then go win a
game and come back.
Speaker 9 (07:04):
I would say that, but if she says no, then
he's got to stay.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
What about my FanDuel? You know what?
Speaker 8 (07:10):
Did you know?
Speaker 5 (07:11):
We're betting on our husband name as.
Speaker 8 (07:13):
A consumer, as a watcher. What about that FanDuel bit?
It's like I need you to be under there. You
know I've been loyal to you for years. This baby
just met you, so it's.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Why they won regardless. But that's the thing you didn't know.
He's a very good player.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
You don't have you don't have a child, Fred, That's
what I'm saying, Like that experience is once in a lifetime.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
He was there for that.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Yeah, but it's it's just not over.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
The baby doesn't come out and you just say, if
I were to do that and be like, hey, Jess,
the show's on.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
You had the baby at seven, I'm gonna go. It's
the same thing. That's work. It's it's work to him.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
That's a job.
Speaker 9 (07:53):
Yes, no, but it could affect his money in the future,
which affects his baby's college and stuff.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
I'm team basketball ball is like.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
No, I'm getting I'm getting killed. This so clear. Fred
never had a baby. I'm also not in the NBA.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Okay, if it's the same situation.
Speaker 6 (08:08):
Here, Fred, if you were if your girl was pregnant
and she was going to give birth, and say like,
if she gives birth at four thirty in the morning,
this show starts at five, you're leaving.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
You're leaving.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
It's the same situation.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
We do two hundred and fifty stupid shows a year.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
I mean eighty two basketball games a year. That's no difference.
That's a job.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
He gets paid forty million dollars or something to play basketball.
It's the playoffs. He was there, He's got tons of money.
He can teleport his ass and play and come back
and it's all She could take a nap.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
It's up to the wife.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
It is one to the wife, and I would. I
wonder what the wife said. I agree with you. It's
what if she said stay, then you're staying. Oh well
if she said go and he stayed anyway, well then
he could have gone.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Hey, that baby could change his whole life. That baby
could have been born yesterday. He does like me, he
doesn't want to play basketball ever again.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
He get let his head up.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I'm just saying, like people have kids that they don't
want to work ever again. That baby could change his
life for the instant that baby's born. Says I don't
want to ever play basketball yet. Met him already He's like, no,
I still want to play.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Hey, April, how you doing?
Speaker 8 (09:18):
All right?
Speaker 7 (09:18):
How you doing?
Speaker 1 (09:19):
What do you think about this?
Speaker 4 (09:20):
So this dude, we finally got the story right after
but twenty minutes to stumbling around. So this guy plays
with the Timberwls. Very good player, important player on the team.
His wife had a baby early yesterday morning. They had
a playoff game at later in the day at night
that same day, and he missed the game, and people
are asking the question, should he have made it to
(09:41):
the game. He would have had to travel from Denver
to Minneapolis the other way or the other way around,
but yet he didn't go.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
And are we mad about this or not?
Speaker 7 (09:54):
Well, I'm not mad if the baby was born that day.
But if everything was okay and everything, he should be
on the first thing, Smoga. Back to the playoff game.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
This playoff time.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
Yep, this is suit up and boot up.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Listen, come on, that's game two.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
I gotta win that.
Speaker 7 (10:10):
The baby sleeps twenty two hours out of the day.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
Get you, but do the basketball bay the time to go.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You gotta do the look, you gotta, you gotta, you
gotta in the first twenty four hours.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
You have to establish a relationship with that baby. You
gotta do skin to sin that baby.
Speaker 7 (10:28):
You got eighteen years establishing the relationship this baby.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
Baby.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
It's playoff time.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
And you all belong to the NBA.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
You get that.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Everything's okay, everybody's okay, Okay, let's go.
Speaker 7 (10:41):
We gotta we got a championship the way.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Job, it's a job. Thank you. Have a good day.
Look all right, you guys. I love how you.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Guys keep trying to Roofie over. You're trying to keep
up making it apply to me. I'm not him, I'm
not famous, I'm not important. I do a radio show.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
We'll do it.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
You just see you another one another day. I'm missing it.
I am missing it. Ninety nine percent of people are
missing it. But in this particular case, you got so
much money. Honestly, he could have left it like three
o'clock and been back in the hospital room six hours
later if he wanted to, because he got pj's and
money and rolexes. I don't know what the rolex has
(11:18):
to do with it, but he probably got those. Hey, Jessica,
Correct Jessica. You say, you say, don't play the game,
it doesn't matter, stay.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
With the baby.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Oh absolutely. I think that there's a lack of understanding,
like the pregnancy ends once the baby's born, but there's
a whole life that's starting, So you have to think
about those first twenty four hours, forty eight hours. It's
just the start of a long game with that baby.
So what theme matters more?
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Okay, No, that's fair, and you're right.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
I don't know about that, but I have been present
right after a baby was born, and there was a
lot of sitting there staring at the kid. Yeah, because
there was nowhere to go. In fact, I think my
sister and brother in law were downright board because my
sister had to stay because she was wearing a diaper,
and and you know, the baby's brand new, but the
baby which just was there. I think at one point
the baby went to the nursery for a little while
(12:09):
and they slept. So how about we do that part. Well,
he goes and wins a basketball game, comes back, everybody wins.
I don't know. I don't I don't care about either
one of these teams either. By the way, I really
don't care about this man, Rudy Goldbert.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I don't care. I'm just I'm just wondering.
Speaker 7 (12:23):
This is my one and only time where I'm not
fully on Rufio's side.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Okay, all right, one time we agree with Rufiel.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Also stay with the mama is also there who may
want some support where she says go.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
And by the way, we all agree on that if
the wife is like, you're not going anywhere. I need
you here for this whole thing start to finish, then
then he's not going anywhere.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
But I will say.
Speaker 7 (12:49):
That's a threat. Sometimes I tell my husband you want
to go to the bar, go well, go ahead, but
it's really just a threat. You don't go.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Oh yeah, I see what you're saying. Have fun.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
If I tell you have fun and does not mean.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Do not have fun, I thank you, Jessica, have a
good day, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
People agree with the rufio here. I have a kid.
Speaker 4 (13:10):
I understand the significance. But it's a playoff game, not
a regular season game. Rufeo's acting like this is his
kid and needs to chill. I gave birth to two am.
My husband's father's wake was that day. He didn't go,
but he went to the funeral the next dance said
so sad he's a basketball player. Baby was born. If healthy,
jump on the plane, play your game, jump on a plane,
go home. She has help with mom, nanny's, et cetera.
(13:32):
How you know that just because he's got money. Oh,
come on, you don't think they have nanny's and stuff?
Come on, you think they are? Do you think they're
out here?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Just will you? You don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Just because you have money doesn't change the situation. It's
it's becoming a parent for the first time.
Speaker 4 (13:46):
My husband is not in the NBA, and after he
spent the first night in the hospital, I sent him
Home's probably that too. I don't know anyway, this was
a very controversial topic. Yes, I had no idea how
he did this would get and it also it already happened.
And if he didn't go, he didn't go, So I
didn't look it all worked out. I mean, that was
(14:08):
probably the right decision and the team won and nobody
can really be mad about it. But if the team
had lost, this man has would have problems. This man
would have problems in the city of Minneapolis, Minnesota. And
what if the nurses were like big Timberwolves fans and
they're like, dude, we'll take care of it.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
This place she can be is right here.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Right, But that is true. That's another thing.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
It's like he left her like on the street, you know,
all right, Well, so I'm gonna come pick you up.
I guess, get an uber home. I'm being discharged, Honny,
I don't care. I'm outright. I'm in the club right
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Speaker 8 (15:00):
I don't know if you guys ever have this moment
where you kind of reflect and you want to apologize
to your parents. It happened to me over the weekend
because my family was over for Sinko de maayo. You
know we do a big celebration. Yeah, And while they
were there, they were pressuring me to have a baby
per usual and time the family gets together. Nothing never
mind anything. I've accomplished this far, but you know I
(15:22):
don't have a child. So we got on that topic
and I started to think about it, like at this age,
if I had a kid, would I really be mentally
strong enough to do it, like to really raise a child?
Speaker 4 (15:34):
Yes, the answers yes, I don't. I know that's rhetorical question,
but the answer, of course is yes. Fred.
Speaker 8 (15:38):
When I started thinking about this, you know, my sister
raised me, So I started thinking about the things that
she was going through and the age she was raising me.
I don't think I can handle that, like I saw.
Speaker 5 (15:49):
It was like just.
Speaker 8 (15:50):
Thinking about how often I used to call her at
work and like bother her for stupid stuff like hey,
can I make chicken tenders?
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Say? Can I go outside?
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Like I s'll do that?
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Can you imagine that years old, I still call my
mom and ask her if I can spend money on
stuff and what should I have for dinner? Oh yeah,
I still yeah, so she It never stops exactly, That's
my point.
Speaker 8 (16:11):
So I don't know if I can handle that because
I cannot imagine leaving this job going home. There's somebody
else that's home. There's somebody else that you have to
pay for. Like, I just couldn't wrap my mind around
doing it. And then I started thinking about, like remember
where your parents would call and say, can you take
the meat out the freezer. I'm going to make dinner tonight,
and you, as a child, you have nothing else to do.
(16:32):
That's your what responsibility? You don't even take the meat
out the freezer. I would lose my mind if I
got home and the meat was not out of the freezer.
I understand why parents get off work, go home and
close their door and don't want to talk to the
rest of the world.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
I completely understand.
Speaker 8 (16:45):
You know, It's just like when you think about what
parents go through and rufie.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
I know you can feel this.
Speaker 8 (16:51):
You probably just want to go home and play Xbox PlayStation,
but you still do.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
It's just hard.
Speaker 8 (16:58):
So I don't know if anybody else have the reflections
of like how they used to bother their parents and
just they are the world's strongest soldiers.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Because it's true.
Speaker 4 (17:07):
Some of the stuff I used to complain about her
could even complain about now about my childhood. I'm like,
I don't know that I could handle it. Yeah, I
mean the amount of money they spent on the private
school that I hated.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
All the basketball games they had to go to to
watch me lose. I was the worst player, and they
still came to everything. I mean, just like an overall commitment.
The craziest thing for me, Kiki, is that when my
mom was my age, I was nineteen, she had a
nineteen year old almost twenty in college. Like for me
to think about me having a twenty year old and
(17:38):
like what the last twenty years would have looked like
in order for me to get I don't know that
the kid would still be alive. To be honest with you,
I'm barely alive. I can hardly keep my own self alive.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Yeah, it's no one's ever ready to be a parent,
but it definitely is karma sometimes Like for me, like
I was a dick as a kid, you know, like
really like you're you're raising a mini you, and it's
just like why are you like this?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
I'm like, oh, that's because of me.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Everything.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Then you want to have more, You want to have
more kids, like it's it's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Now you're gonna have two of them.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Yeah, I know too. Mini me's they.
Speaker 5 (18:20):
Do say, like, don't have kids if you don't want
to argue with a mini versus yourself all day. Yeah,
that's terrifying.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
It's the worst for Jess because it's like she deals
with me, she deals with and then you're gonna have
another like hopefully that one gets all the Jess' personality,
our second child.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
But yeah, so this is why Rufio.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Comes in here and he is like he is to us,
because then he goes home and he gets served.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
He gets roasted, yes, by two people. It's hard training.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
When you get home, it's like it's like we're up early,
we do this show and then just like, oh man,
I got more to do, Like you can't just like
I'm just gonna go give a little less here.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
For child rearing.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
You can always tell, I believe you can tell the
people like at work who try and dominate or like
try and like flex or walk around with their chest
puffed out or whatever. You can tell they're the ones
to get their asses kicked at home like that their
wives just own them. Like we've had a few suits
around here over the years that like they think they
can come in here and like be assertive, and you know,
the second they walk out of here, they just get
(19:24):
you know, just just like whipped, like physically assaulted by
their because the only the only time they get to
exert any power is what or feel like they get
to exert any power over anyone anyone is here because
they go home and they just get dominated. You can
always tell, yeah, but you are fully worthy and capable.
Speaker 8 (19:43):
Well thank you, I thank you for saying that. But
I do want to apologize to Helena if she's listening.
You'd have to put the TikTok down in order to make.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
The care Can you imagine that?
Speaker 4 (19:52):
No, like taking taking five minutes just to put the
TikTok tag in order to just create the child I
was talking about making the kid that might be on
TikTok now too. I don't know, you trying to save
the damn platform. So that's supposed to go on OnlyFans.
By the way, Kiki that content.
Speaker 8 (20:08):
Okay, yeah, well yeah, I'm on TikTok.
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I could never Fred be like, order doord ask game.
It'll leave me alone. You know the code.
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of the Miss USA resignation statement, it spells I am silenced?
So I went on Instagram and I looked, and if
you take the first capital letters of each sentence, in fact,
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it does spell out I am silenced scared. And I
don't know if that's a coincidence or what, And that
would take a lot of work to put that together.
But the first letters of each sentence, I so it's
in as my it goes on and on, I am silenced.
(21:35):
Interesting Illuminati, it's gotta be I don't know. I actually
don't know if that thing can do with the illuminati.
But okay, here's the actual French's fun fact of the day.
Studies show that men actually experience more emotional pain post
breakup than women.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
And I believe this me too.
Speaker 4 (21:58):
Women get this bad rap you guys for being overly emotional,
more emotional than men. I think you're just more expressive
than most men. I don't know that I think you're
more emotional. I just think you're more expressive.
Speaker 7 (22:09):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (22:10):
And I don't know if that's because for you know, generations,
men weren't supposed to be emotional or I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
I don't know what it is, but I think it's possible.
Speaker 4 (22:17):
Studies show that men experience more emotional pain post breakup
than women.
Speaker 9 (22:22):
I've noticed that, like women feel it all right away
and like deal with it right away, whereas men kind
of delay it like out of sight, out of mind,
and then they feel it later.
Speaker 4 (22:31):
Do you think so that's what I've observed. Wow, maybe
it's true. I think it's I think I think we
just bury it. Yeah, I agree, But anyway, there you go.
What go ahead, say what you gonna say. Don't you
got that look on your face like you've got something
to say?
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Go ahead?
Speaker 8 (22:44):
But no, I think women a lot of times check
out of a relationship way before the actual breakup. So
we've already digested what's happening, and you guys just are
in the lululand until it's over.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Okay, all right, that's it delululand. Yes, and then and
then we.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
More Fred show next right here, Wait, the Freads Show is.
Speaker 5 (23:10):
On the hottest morning show.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
You guys are so smart. A text from a psychologist.
There are studies done on post breakup emotions. It's true
women tend to be more emotional immediately after a breakup
and men delay it until later.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Okay, I believe that men being more avoidant. I suppose
maybe who was that?
Speaker 8 (23:36):
Y'all just always go think you could find a rebound
real quick. You know, I'll go out with the boys,
I'll go to the club, and when you get home,
you're gonna be crying, sliding down the wall, thinking about me?
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Just what that's Most days when I go home, I
cried slide down the wall thinking about you. You should
see there's a spot on my wall where it's just
like there's no paint because every day I go home
and I'm.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Like, where is it? I just and I have to
come in here every day and see it's hard.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Keep here. It's hard. Blogs in just a second, the
Entertainment Report after that, what are you working on?
Speaker 5 (24:05):
K Well, one person from the Tom Brady.
Speaker 9 (24:07):
Roast is being accused of both being on drugs and getting.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
A facelift right before, so we need to unpack that.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
Okay, The Tangent are off air Uncensored podcast. A off
air fun fact that one of the thirteen sent me.
We got into that yesterday. That's on the iHeart app
if you missed Waiting from the Vault this morning.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
A strange request. People are into some weird stuff.
Speaker 4 (24:28):
I'm not sure why this is appealing, but this guy
was into it and I can't wait for the illustration
that we'll follow stair go this morning Showbi Shelley. All
of that on the iHeart app right now, search put
a Fred show on demand.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
Tell them, yeah, they talk better than the excited.
Speaker 4 (24:44):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
you're writing in our diaries, except we say them a
loud We call them blogs.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Rufie, Yes you got one, yep, all.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Right, go, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
So I have a bone to pick with the United
States Postal Service.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Oh boy, I'm getting my nail here.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
I'm you know, I'm not complaining about the price of
a stamp or whatever.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
It's eighteen dollars letter.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
So when you I don't know if you've ever done this,
when you move, you know, you forge your address and
then there's this thing you could sign up for. Uh
in my email, it's called USPS Informed Delivery, So it
tells you like if something's coming in the mail from
the or a package whatever. And this is really ruining
my purchase game, oh, because I'd be ordering stuff and
(25:30):
it tells me like, oh this, you know, this package
you got from TikTok is coming today?
Speaker 1 (25:37):
The hell you buy it from TikTok. You don't go
on the TikTok shop. I try not to.
Speaker 5 (25:41):
It's on our TikTok.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
I see what she's ordering in a TikTok shop?
Speaker 9 (25:45):
Yeah, who does Paulina on the freshman TikTok. It'll be
like your order has been received.
Speaker 5 (25:51):
She orders some correct, well, I mean she uses her
own mode.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Its gonna say who's credit card is in my credit.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
But if you want to give that to us, yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Okay, so right, And it doesn't have to be from TikTok.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
If anything gets delivered, if I and through the post service,
they'll send me the notification like it's coming today. The
problem is my wife, Jess kids said, also gets the
same email. You know, it'll show this bill's coming, this,
this letter's coming, birthday cards coming. It also shows package
arriving today TikTok from TikTok. So yesterday I got confronted.
(26:25):
It's like, what did you order from TikTok now? And
I was like what She's like, the email says what
is you order from TikTok? And I was just like,
don't worry about it because it has to do with
a certain gift for this weekend.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
And so I couldn't, you know, say what it was.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
But I had to.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Say, yes, something is coming from TikTok.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
But yeah, like if something gets sent from Nike, oh
here we go. Now I have to deliver stuff to work.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
A lot of people do that, by the way, Yeah
for sure.
Speaker 9 (27:10):
Oh, I just I can't imagine why I would want
this app.
Speaker 5 (27:13):
Like, that's the last thing I need is to know
what's coming.
Speaker 4 (27:15):
I don't need another email telling me what is going
to be my mailbox. I'll just go look.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
But like I feel like as growing up, you're just
like you never want to get mail. But for some
reason I want to get mail now, like and it
tells me, like it takes a photo copy, like, oh
this is coming today, bills coming, whatever's coming.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Packages? Right, yeah, packages.
Speaker 8 (27:35):
You want to know when you get home your package
is going to be delivered at this tea. You want
to plan and make sure you get it. So I
get the package part. But I hate mail.
Speaker 4 (27:43):
Maybe that's the whole thing tomorrow is how do you
hide your purchases from people? Because it's becoming more and
more difficult to do that. What was your trick with shoes,
You'd put them at the bottom of the pile.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
So like in my closet, I have I keep all
the shoe boxes. They're all in the shoe boxes, and
I'll stick a new pair of shoes in the middle,
not at the top. And then I'll be like, wait,
let me, oh, what shoes am I looking for? Let
me take off these ten pairs and get this box right, Chris,
They've been in the middle of the pack. And then
(28:12):
I can't do that anymore either because we moved. I
have another child coming, so my shoes are all out
of the closet. No, they're in a certain area which
probably gets monitored by secret cameras, are hidden cameras or
stuff like that.
Speaker 8 (28:25):
They have to.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
Oh, I've known a number of people to work here
that have had all their stuff sent here so that
people at home don't know how much stuff they're buying,
so they just get it delivered here and then it's
like they can steek it back in their work bag
or whatever else.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
And then it's like, you know, right, I haven't been
order anything. Nothing shows up to the house.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Normally I'll deliver it to on days at you know,
Chess is working.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
This is you know, get rid to them, but give
her to the box, put the box and been everything
and then be like this, I had this for years.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
What are you talking about? This is not new. What
do you mean?
Speaker 4 (29:02):
That's an NBA Finals, that's an NBA Playoffs bullshirt?
Speaker 10 (29:07):
I got two nineties right, you know this is a
nineteen ninety six authentic Yes, it's yes, I've had this
first try. It's two thousand and four on it. I
don't know. I've had it forever.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
So shout out to not shout out to the Post
Office for ruining my game.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
Yeah, they're c blocking you. The Entertember Reports next
So Rudy Gobert, who plays.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
For the Minnesota Timberwolves, I.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Can finish the cement.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Sorry promise, Sorry, my.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
Man, I'm messing with you. I get there, I I
I get there.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I was maybe.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Jason Brown, Jason Brown should have said it first. Sports
are part obviously.
Speaker 5 (00:25):
He's like, did you say the Mets? Gallup?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
All the Mets were there? You still don't get the
reference to you know, what isn't the Mets?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
That's is the team?
Speaker 6 (00:37):
Right?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
What team?
Speaker 7 (00:38):
Though?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
I don't know? That's basketball?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
That's nuts, that's the Nats.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Is a basketball team. That's another New York team. You
don't like the Nuts? Okay, real lazysus Nuts. That's is
New Jersey, Brooklyn now. And then the Mets are baseball
(01:07):
team in Queens, New York Matts.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Got it? Yeah? Well, I mean New York Mets, New
York and the Yankees. They have two like Chicago does, right,
Mets and and the Yankees. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Nonetheless, this guy who plays for the Timberwolves is probably
going to it looks like he might miss Game two
of the NBA Playoffs, the second round of the NBA Playoffs,
because his wife either is it is having a bit.
I'm trying to get the story here straight because I
have the clip of a bunch of people complaining about this.
But following the birth of his first child, a baby boy,
(01:44):
So he's thinking about missing a playoff game because his
wife had a baby already. So we're not talking just
to be clear, we're not talking about the baby was
about to be born and he might be out of
town for that or something like that.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
We've heard of that story before.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
The baby apparently has been born and so he might
not play in this game, and a bunch of other
NBA players have a bunch of things to say about it.
But just to I mean, I want to know if
that makes a big Does that make a big difference though,
if the baby just arrived and is here versus the
baby hasn't been born yet and you might be missing
(02:23):
the you know, actual birth. I think to support your
you know wife, girlfriend, whatever it is. I think it's
his wife and and and be present for the you know,
actual arrival of this kid. He's a bunch of NBA
players Gilbert Arena complaining about it.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Yeah, I would imagine Minnesota go I don't know for
something not in that man's business, like, okay, for that.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Baby when you get back.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
So that that's his comment. Uh, the baby will be
there when you get back. So do we think that
missing a playoff basketball game for the birth of your
kids so you can be there for like, I don't know,
day two, three, whatever it is, day you know, just
I don't know. Again, big difference between the baby actually
being born and you being there to support your wife
(03:14):
in the process and however long that takes, and you
don't want to miss that moment once in a lifetime
versus Okay, I was there for that baby's here, baby
looks healthy, wife's healthy.
Speaker 8 (03:22):
I'm gonna go play this basketball a game. I'll be
right back. So he already met the baby. Just to
be clear, he met the baby already. That's the way
that I understand the story. The game was he missed
the game yesterday. The game was yesterday. It's already happened.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
It happened he missed the game, so he did because
the story I just read was that he might miss
the game. So we missed the game, but not because
he was trying to be there. The baby was already
here when he missed the game. Are we clear about that? Okay,
So then, so are we mad about this? I mean,
should you? Should you? Does it? Is there any excuse
for missing work? If you're if you're an athlete, is
(03:56):
there any excuse? Are you allowed to miss work for
the birth of a baby?
Speaker 8 (04:00):
Should be allowed to you should be allowed to be
with your baby. That's the ones in a lifetime moment
that you won't get back. You can play another basketball game,
but you will not get that precious moment with your
child again. However, if I'm on the team, you got
to come to work. Were trying to win a championship.
I don't have time for you to go meet no baby.
Let hip bring the baby up here.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
What are you talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Actually, that's a good idea, Helena. Put the baby up here.
Babies four weeks, so come on, Alorady taken the baby
to Taco Bella.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Come on, the baby up here.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
So, yeah, I get I feel like if it's if
it's hey, I'm gonna be on the road and my
wife is in labor or something, then I'm not going.
I'm sorry, I'm not going, especially if it's my Wow. No,
I don't think there's anything I was gonna say. It's
my first kid. But no, because every time it's dangerous,
every time my wife needs support, I help make the baby,
I need to be there.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
So i'm I need to be there.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
You're missing the playoff if now here's the thing though,
If I was there for the birth, I held the baby,
everybody's okay. Yeah, I don't know that I sit there
and stare at the baby for another how many times
I gonna say baby in this break. I don't know
that I sit there and stare at the child for
a day or two instead of going and helping my
teammates win the game because it's a very important game.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
But yet that's I think.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
I think. I go if the baby's already born and
everything everybody's okay, then I go play. If the baby's
not here yet and it's gonna happen during the game,
I'm missing the game, right.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
No, you missed the game.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
It's a game. It's you missed the game even after
the kids already here.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
So the game was yesterday his wife, his fiance, gave
birth to the baby.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Early Monday, and then the game was at night.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
But right, so that's what I'm saying. The babies here,
everybody's okay, get on a PJ or whatever and go.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Wherever it is.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
You're already and you're already in Denver because they're on
the road.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
He has to fly back to Minneapolis for the birth
of his first child.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
And you're gonna be like, all right, see you later.
I gotta go play this game. They didn't even need
him yesterday.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
They won by a gazillion yesterday, but he didn't know
that at the time. But still, like it's just one
game out of a game of seven, you know, like
it's it's like if it was like the final championship game. Okay,
that's that's a little like if the championship's on the line,
that's a little different. But if the baby was mourn
at like nine o'clock in the morning and everybody's okay,
and you were there and she wants to like she
(06:26):
probably wants to sleep. You know, there's nurses at the hospital,
the whole thing. I mean, I probably sound wildly in
you're taking care of a child. Well, I don't know,
there's I assume there's nannies and moms and dads and family.
I mean, Rich he's an NBA player. I'm sure there's
no there's no lack of support. Here's what you do.
You hop on a PJ, you hang out all day,
you hop on a PG two hours, you go play
(06:47):
the game, hop back on a PJ, come back, and
it's almost like you weren't even gone.
Speaker 9 (06:52):
I mean, if I'm his girl and this is gonna
shock you all, I'm team basketball. I'm like, go, babe,
I don't remember one second of meeting my parents, So like, fine.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Meet me, say what up, and then go win a
game and come back.
Speaker 9 (07:04):
I would say that, but if she says no, then
he's got to stay.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
What about my FanDuel? You know what?
Speaker 8 (07:10):
Did you know?
Speaker 5 (07:11):
We're betting on our husband name as.
Speaker 8 (07:13):
A consumer, as a watcher. What about that FanDuel bit?
It's like I need you to be under there. You
know I've been loyal to you for years. This baby
just met you, so it's.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Why they won regardless. But that's the thing you didn't know.
He's a very good player.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
You don't have you don't have a child, Fred, That's
what I'm saying, Like that experience is once in a lifetime.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
He was there for that.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Yeah, but it's it's just not over.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
The baby doesn't come out and you just say, if
I were to do that and be like, hey, Jess,
the show's on.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
You had the baby at seven, I'm gonna go. It's
the same thing. That's work. It's it's work to him.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
That's a job.
Speaker 9 (07:53):
Yes, no, but it could affect his money in the future,
which affects his baby's college and stuff.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
I'm team basketball ball is like.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
No, I'm getting I'm getting killed. This so clear. Fred
never had a baby. I'm also not in the NBA.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Okay, if it's the same situation.
Speaker 6 (08:08):
Here, Fred, if you were if your girl was pregnant
and she was going to give birth, and say like,
if she gives birth at four thirty in the morning,
this show starts at five, you're leaving.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
You're leaving.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
It's the same situation.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
We do two hundred and fifty stupid shows a year.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
I mean eighty two basketball games a year. That's no difference.
That's a job.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
He gets paid forty million dollars or something to play basketball.
It's the playoffs. He was there, He's got tons of money.
He can teleport his ass and play and come back
and it's all She could take a nap.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
It's up to the wife.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
It is one to the wife, and I would. I
wonder what the wife said. I agree with you. It's
what if she said stay, then you're staying. Oh well
if she said go and he stayed anyway, well then
he could have gone.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Hey, that baby could change his whole life. That baby
could have been born yesterday. He does like me, he
doesn't want to play basketball ever again.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
He get let his head up.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I'm just saying, like people have kids that they don't
want to work ever again. That baby could change his
life for the instant that baby's born. Says I don't
want to ever play basketball yet. Met him already He's like, no,
I still want to play.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Hey, April, how you doing?
Speaker 8 (09:18):
All right?
Speaker 7 (09:18):
How you doing?
Speaker 1 (09:19):
What do you think about this?
Speaker 4 (09:20):
So this dude, we finally got the story right after
but twenty minutes to stumbling around. So this guy plays
with the Timberwls. Very good player, important player on the team.
His wife had a baby early yesterday morning. They had
a playoff game at later in the day at night
that same day, and he missed the game, and people
are asking the question, should he have made it to
(09:41):
the game. He would have had to travel from Denver
to Minneapolis the other way or the other way around,
but yet he didn't go.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
And are we mad about this or not?
Speaker 7 (09:54):
Well, I'm not mad if the baby was born that day.
But if everything was okay and everything, he should be
on the first thing, Smoga. Back to the playoff game.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
This playoff time.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
Yep, this is suit up and boot up.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Listen, come on, that's game two.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
I gotta win that.
Speaker 7 (10:10):
The baby sleeps twenty two hours out of the day.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
Get you, but do the basketball bay the time to go.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You gotta do the look, you gotta, you gotta, you
gotta in the first twenty four hours.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
You have to establish a relationship with that baby. You
gotta do skin to sin that baby.
Speaker 7 (10:28):
You got eighteen years establishing the relationship this baby.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
Baby.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
It's playoff time.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
And you all belong to the NBA.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
You get that.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Everything's okay, everybody's okay, Okay, let's go.
Speaker 7 (10:41):
We gotta we got a championship the way.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Job, it's a job. Thank you. Have a good day.
Look all right, you guys. I love how you.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Guys keep trying to Roofie over. You're trying to keep
up making it apply to me. I'm not him, I'm
not famous, I'm not important. I do a radio show.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
We'll do it.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
You just see you another one another day. I'm missing it.
I am missing it. Ninety nine percent of people are
missing it. But in this particular case, you got so
much money. Honestly, he could have left it like three
o'clock and been back in the hospital room six hours
later if he wanted to, because he got pj's and
money and rolexes. I don't know what the rolex has
(11:18):
to do with it, but he probably got those. Hey, Jessica,
Correct Jessica. You say, you say, don't play the game,
it doesn't matter, stay.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
With the baby.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Oh absolutely. I think that there's a lack of understanding,
like the pregnancy ends once the baby's born, but there's
a whole life that's starting, So you have to think
about those first twenty four hours, forty eight hours. It's
just the start of a long game with that baby.
So what theme matters more?
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Okay, No, that's fair, and you're right.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
I don't know about that, but I have been present
right after a baby was born, and there was a
lot of sitting there staring at the kid. Yeah, because
there was nowhere to go. In fact, I think my
sister and brother in law were downright board because my
sister had to stay because she was wearing a diaper,
and and you know, the baby's brand new, but the
baby which just was there. I think at one point
the baby went to the nursery for a little while
(12:09):
and they slept. So how about we do that part. Well,
he goes and wins a basketball game, comes back, everybody wins.
I don't know. I don't I don't care about either
one of these teams either. By the way, I really
don't care about this man, Rudy Goldbert.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I don't care. I'm just I'm just wondering.
Speaker 7 (12:23):
This is my one and only time where I'm not
fully on Rufio's side.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Okay, all right, one time we agree with Rufiel.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Also stay with the mama is also there who may
want some support where she says go.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
And by the way, we all agree on that if
the wife is like, you're not going anywhere. I need
you here for this whole thing start to finish, then
then he's not going anywhere.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
But I will say.
Speaker 7 (12:49):
That's a threat. Sometimes I tell my husband you want
to go to the bar, go well, go ahead, but
it's really just a threat. You don't go.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Oh yeah, I see what you're saying. Have fun.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
If I tell you have fun and does not mean.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Do not have fun, I thank you, Jessica, have a
good day, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
People agree with the rufio here. I have a kid.
Speaker 4 (13:10):
I understand the significance. But it's a playoff game, not
a regular season game. Rufeo's acting like this is his
kid and needs to chill. I gave birth to two am.
My husband's father's wake was that day. He didn't go,
but he went to the funeral the next dance said
so sad he's a basketball player. Baby was born. If healthy,
jump on the plane, play your game, jump on a plane,
go home. She has help with mom, nanny's, et cetera.
(13:32):
How you know that just because he's got money. Oh,
come on, you don't think they have nanny's and stuff?
Come on, you think they are? Do you think they're
out here?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Just will you? You don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Just because you have money doesn't change the situation. It's
it's becoming a parent for the first time.
Speaker 4 (13:46):
My husband is not in the NBA, and after he
spent the first night in the hospital, I sent him
Home's probably that too. I don't know anyway, this was
a very controversial topic. Yes, I had no idea how
he did this would get and it also it already happened.
And if he didn't go, he didn't go, So I
didn't look it all worked out. I mean, that was
(14:08):
probably the right decision and the team won and nobody
can really be mad about it. But if the team
had lost, this man has would have problems. This man
would have problems in the city of Minneapolis, Minnesota. And
what if the nurses were like big Timberwolves fans and
they're like, dude, we'll take care of it.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
This place she can be is right here.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Right, But that is true. That's another thing.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
It's like he left her like on the street, you know,
all right, Well, so I'm gonna come pick you up.
I guess, get an uber home. I'm being discharged, Honny,
I don't care. I'm outright. I'm in the club right
now in Denver or wherever all they were. Let's do
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(14:56):
make a dollar more taking away blog.
Speaker 8 (15:00):
I don't know if you guys ever have this moment
where you kind of reflect and you want to apologize
to your parents. It happened to me over the weekend
because my family was over for Sinko de maayo. You
know we do a big celebration. Yeah, And while they
were there, they were pressuring me to have a baby
per usual and time the family gets together. Nothing never
mind anything. I've accomplished this far, but you know I
(15:22):
don't have a child. So we got on that topic
and I started to think about it, like at this age,
if I had a kid, would I really be mentally
strong enough to do it, like to really raise a child?
Speaker 4 (15:34):
Yes, the answers yes, I don't. I know that's rhetorical question,
but the answer, of course is yes. Fred.
Speaker 8 (15:38):
When I started thinking about this, you know, my sister
raised me, So I started thinking about the things that
she was going through and the age she was raising me.
I don't think I can handle that, like I saw.
Speaker 5 (15:49):
It was like just.
Speaker 8 (15:50):
Thinking about how often I used to call her at
work and like bother her for stupid stuff like hey,
can I make chicken tenders?
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Say? Can I go outside?
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Like I s'll do that?
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Can you imagine that years old, I still call my
mom and ask her if I can spend money on
stuff and what should I have for dinner? Oh yeah,
I still yeah, so she It never stops exactly, That's
my point.
Speaker 8 (16:11):
So I don't know if I can handle that because
I cannot imagine leaving this job going home. There's somebody
else that's home. There's somebody else that you have to
pay for. Like, I just couldn't wrap my mind around
doing it. And then I started thinking about, like remember
where your parents would call and say, can you take
the meat out the freezer. I'm going to make dinner tonight,
and you, as a child, you have nothing else to do.
(16:32):
That's your what responsibility? You don't even take the meat
out the freezer. I would lose my mind if I
got home and the meat was not out of the freezer.
I understand why parents get off work, go home and
close their door and don't want to talk to the
rest of the world.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
I completely understand.
Speaker 8 (16:45):
You know, It's just like when you think about what
parents go through and rufie.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
I know you can feel this.
Speaker 8 (16:51):
You probably just want to go home and play Xbox PlayStation,
but you still do.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
It's just hard.
Speaker 8 (16:58):
So I don't know if anybody else have the reflections
of like how they used to bother their parents and
just they are the world's strongest soldiers.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Because it's true.
Speaker 4 (17:07):
Some of the stuff I used to complain about her
could even complain about now about my childhood. I'm like,
I don't know that I could handle it. Yeah, I
mean the amount of money they spent on the private
school that I hated.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
All the basketball games they had to go to to
watch me lose. I was the worst player, and they
still came to everything. I mean, just like an overall commitment.
The craziest thing for me, Kiki, is that when my
mom was my age, I was nineteen, she had a
nineteen year old almost twenty in college. Like for me
to think about me having a twenty year old and
(17:38):
like what the last twenty years would have looked like
in order for me to get I don't know that
the kid would still be alive. To be honest with you,
I'm barely alive. I can hardly keep my own self alive.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Yeah, it's no one's ever ready to be a parent,
but it definitely is karma sometimes Like for me, like
I was a dick as a kid, you know, like
really like you're you're raising a mini you, and it's
just like why are you like this?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
I'm like, oh, that's because of me.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Everything.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Then you want to have more, You want to have
more kids, like it's it's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Now you're gonna have two of them.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Yeah, I know too. Mini me's they.
Speaker 5 (18:20):
Do say, like, don't have kids if you don't want
to argue with a mini versus yourself all day. Yeah,
that's terrifying.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
It's the worst for Jess because it's like she deals
with me, she deals with and then you're gonna have
another like hopefully that one gets all the Jess' personality,
our second child.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
But yeah, so this is why Rufio.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Comes in here and he is like he is to us,
because then he goes home and he gets served.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
He gets roasted, yes, by two people. It's hard training.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
When you get home, it's like it's like we're up early,
we do this show and then just like, oh man,
I got more to do, Like you can't just like
I'm just gonna go give a little less here.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
For child rearing.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
You can always tell, I believe you can tell the
people like at work who try and dominate or like
try and like flex or walk around with their chest
puffed out or whatever. You can tell they're the ones
to get their asses kicked at home like that their
wives just own them. Like we've had a few suits
around here over the years that like they think they
can come in here and like be assertive, and you know,
the second they walk out of here, they just get
(19:24):
you know, just just like whipped, like physically assaulted by
their because the only the only time they get to
exert any power is what or feel like they get
to exert any power over anyone anyone is here because
they go home and they just get dominated. You can
always tell, yeah, but you are fully worthy and capable.
Speaker 8 (19:43):
Well thank you, I thank you for saying that. But
I do want to apologize to Helena if she's listening.
You'd have to put the TikTok down in order to make.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
The care Can you imagine that?
Speaker 4 (19:52):
No, like taking taking five minutes just to put the
TikTok tag in order to just create the child I
was talking about making the kid that might be on
TikTok now too. I don't know, you trying to save
the damn platform. So that's supposed to go on OnlyFans.
By the way, Kiki that content.
Speaker 8 (20:08):
Okay, yeah, well yeah, I'm on TikTok.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
I'm hungry, mom, I'm in the middle of some.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
I could never Fred be like, order doord ask game.
It'll leave me alone. You know the code.
Speaker 4 (20:23):
I've been waiting for you for years. So I can
order more and don't feel like a fat out. Let's
just stare a goo group. Therapyle debates the relationship drama.
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Show is on Fred's Fun.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
Fact Fred's Fun learn so much. Okay, well now I
have two fun facts for you because I just verified one.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
This is interesting.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Someone texted, we were just talking about a couple of
times about Miss USA resigning for her mental health. Someone texted,
do you know that if you take the first letter
of the Miss USA resignation statement, it spells I am silenced?
So I went on Instagram and I looked, and if
you take the first capital letters of each sentence, in fact,
(21:13):
it does spell out I am silenced scared. And I
don't know if that's a coincidence or what, And that
would take a lot of work to put that together.
But the first letters of each sentence, I so it's
in as my it goes on and on, I am silenced.
(21:35):
Interesting Illuminati, it's gotta be I don't know. I actually
don't know if that thing can do with the illuminati.
But okay, here's the actual French's fun fact of the day.
Studies show that men actually experience more emotional pain post
breakup than women.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
And I believe this me too.
Speaker 4 (21:58):
Women get this bad rap you guys for being overly emotional,
more emotional than men. I think you're just more expressive
than most men. I don't know that I think you're
more emotional. I just think you're more expressive.
Speaker 7 (22:09):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (22:10):
And I don't know if that's because for you know, generations,
men weren't supposed to be emotional or I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
I don't know what it is, but I think it's possible.
Speaker 4 (22:17):
Studies show that men experience more emotional pain post breakup
than women.
Speaker 9 (22:22):
I've noticed that, like women feel it all right away
and like deal with it right away, whereas men kind
of delay it like out of sight, out of mind,
and then they feel it later.
Speaker 4 (22:31):
Do you think so that's what I've observed. Wow, maybe
it's true. I think it's I think I think we
just bury it. Yeah, I agree, But anyway, there you go.
What go ahead, say what you gonna say. Don't you
got that look on your face like you've got something
to say?
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Go ahead?
Speaker 8 (22:44):
But no, I think women a lot of times check
out of a relationship way before the actual breakup. So
we've already digested what's happening, and you guys just are
in the lululand until it's over.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Okay, all right, that's it delululand. Yes, and then and
then we.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
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Speaker 5 (23:10):
On the hottest morning show.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
You guys are so smart. A text from a psychologist.
There are studies done on post breakup emotions. It's true
women tend to be more emotional immediately after a breakup
and men delay it until later.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Okay, I believe that men being more avoidant. I suppose
maybe who was that?
Speaker 8 (23:36):
Y'all just always go think you could find a rebound
real quick. You know, I'll go out with the boys,
I'll go to the club, and when you get home,
you're gonna be crying, sliding down the wall, thinking about me?
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Just what that's Most days when I go home, I
cried slide down the wall thinking about you. You should
see there's a spot on my wall where it's just
like there's no paint because every day I go home
and I'm.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Like, where is it? I just and I have to
come in here every day and see it's hard.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Keep here. It's hard. Blogs in just a second, the
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Speaker 4 (24:13):
Okay, The Tangent are off air Uncensored podcast. A off
air fun fact that one of the thirteen sent me.
We got into that yesterday. That's on the iHeart app
if you missed Waiting from the Vault this morning.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
A strange request. People are into some weird stuff.
Speaker 4 (24:28):
I'm not sure why this is appealing, but this guy
was into it and I can't wait for the illustration
that we'll follow stair go this morning Showbi Shelley. All
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Tell them, yeah, they talk better than the excited.
Speaker 4 (24:44):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
you're writing in our diaries, except we say them a
loud We call them blogs.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Rufie, Yes you got one, yep, all.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Right, go, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
So I have a bone to pick with the United
States Postal Service.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Oh boy, I'm getting my nail here.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
I'm you know, I'm not complaining about the price of
a stamp or whatever.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
It's eighteen dollars letter.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
So when you I don't know if you've ever done this,
when you move, you know, you forge your address and
then there's this thing you could sign up for. Uh
in my email, it's called USPS Informed Delivery, So it
tells you like if something's coming in the mail from
the or a package whatever. And this is really ruining
my purchase game, oh, because I'd be ordering stuff and
(25:30):
it tells me like, oh this, you know, this package
you got from TikTok is coming today?
Speaker 1 (25:37):
The hell you buy it from TikTok. You don't go
on the TikTok shop. I try not to.
Speaker 5 (25:41):
It's on our TikTok.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
I see what she's ordering in a TikTok shop?
Speaker 9 (25:45):
Yeah, who does Paulina on the freshman TikTok. It'll be
like your order has been received.
Speaker 5 (25:51):
She orders some correct, well, I mean she uses her
own mode.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Its gonna say who's credit card is in my credit.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
But if you want to give that to us, yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Okay, so right, And it doesn't have to be from TikTok.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
If anything gets delivered, if I and through the post service,
they'll send me the notification like it's coming today. The
problem is my wife, Jess kids said, also gets the
same email. You know, it'll show this bill's coming, this,
this letter's coming, birthday cards coming. It also shows package
arriving today TikTok from TikTok. So yesterday I got confronted.
(26:25):
It's like, what did you order from TikTok now? And
I was like what She's like, the email says what
is you order from TikTok? And I was just like,
don't worry about it because it has to do with
a certain gift for this weekend.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
And so I couldn't, you know, say what it was.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
But I had to.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Say, yes, something is coming from TikTok.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
But yeah, like if something gets sent from Nike, oh
here we go. Now I have to deliver stuff to work.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
A lot of people do that, by the way, Yeah
for sure.
Speaker 9 (27:10):
Oh, I just I can't imagine why I would want
this app.
Speaker 5 (27:13):
Like, that's the last thing I need is to know
what's coming.
Speaker 4 (27:15):
I don't need another email telling me what is going
to be my mailbox. I'll just go look.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
But like I feel like as growing up, you're just
like you never want to get mail. But for some
reason I want to get mail now, like and it
tells me, like it takes a photo copy, like, oh
this is coming today, bills coming, whatever's coming.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Packages? Right, yeah, packages.
Speaker 8 (27:35):
You want to know when you get home your package
is going to be delivered at this tea. You want
to plan and make sure you get it. So I
get the package part. But I hate mail.
Speaker 4 (27:43):
Maybe that's the whole thing tomorrow is how do you
hide your purchases from people? Because it's becoming more and
more difficult to do that. What was your trick with shoes,
You'd put them at the bottom of the pile.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
So like in my closet, I have I keep all
the shoe boxes. They're all in the shoe boxes, and
I'll stick a new pair of shoes in the middle,
not at the top. And then I'll be like, wait,
let me, oh, what shoes am I looking for? Let
me take off these ten pairs and get this box right, Chris,
They've been in the middle of the pack. And then
(28:12):
I can't do that anymore either because we moved. I
have another child coming, so my shoes are all out
of the closet. No, they're in a certain area which
probably gets monitored by secret cameras, are hidden cameras or
stuff like that.
Speaker 8 (28:25):
They have to.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
Oh, I've known a number of people to work here
that have had all their stuff sent here so that
people at home don't know how much stuff they're buying,
so they just get it delivered here and then it's
like they can steek it back in their work bag
or whatever else.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
And then it's like, you know, right, I haven't been
order anything. Nothing shows up to the house.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Normally I'll deliver it to on days at you know,
Chess is working.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
This is you know, get rid to them, but give
her to the box, put the box and been everything
and then be like this, I had this for years.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
What are you talking about? This is not new. What
do you mean?
Speaker 4 (29:02):
That's an NBA Finals, that's an NBA Playoffs bullshirt?
Speaker 10 (29:07):
I got two nineties right, you know this is a
nineteen ninety six authentic Yes, it's yes, I've had this
first try. It's two thousand and four on it. I
don't know. I've had it forever.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
So shout out to not shout out to the Post
Office for ruining my game.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
Yeah, they're c blocking you. The Entertember Reports next
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