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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Order.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
She's a fresh show. It's Kiki's court rise. The honorable
Kikilik is here.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
Take it away, judge, all right, let's get in this courtroom.
The gabble has been hit. It says, hey, Kiki.

Speaker 4 (00:13):
My name is Amber.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
And two weeks ago, my brother and sister in law
drove to town and stayed in my guest room as
we prepared to celebrate my mom's birthday. I was super
excited to spend time with my sister in law, who's
seven months pregnant with my first nephew.

Speaker 4 (00:27):
I laid out snacks for them.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
I prepared my guest room with new robes and que slippers,
hoping to make their stay as comfortable as possible. The
first night went amazing. However, all hail broke loose on
the second night when we were having a movie night
with my kids, and my sister in law decided to
DoorDash her own snacks that were full of peanuts, completely
disregarding my son's severe peanut allergy. The moment I saw

(00:53):
the snacks, I freaked out and asked her to throw
them away. She refused and said, I'm an adult, I
know how to eat without leaving crumbs.

Speaker 4 (01:01):
Your son will be fine. So I sent my.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
Kids to their rooms and I immediately started cleaning to
help protect my son. Exposing him to peanuts can't literally
kill him, Kiki. The next morning, I woke up to
a text from my brother saying that I really hurt
his wife's feelings and that they will be staying in
a hotel for the rest of the trip. Okay, bye,
good My mom's party was super awkward. We haven't spoken since,

(01:25):
and my nephew is due soon. Should I reach out
and apologize. My brother is my only sibling and I
don't want to miss out on this important time in
his life.

Speaker 5 (01:33):
Judge, Kiki, what say you?

Speaker 4 (01:35):
Girl said?

Speaker 3 (01:36):
Hell no for me, Amber, Amber, I love you, girl,
and I you know not. I love my brothers. Okay,
but your wife literally just try to kill my kid. Okay,
you have tried to kill my kid for your pregnancy cravings.

Speaker 4 (01:51):
You wanted some peanuts. I bought slippers and robes.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
I'm trying to make this comfortable for you, and you
have the nerve to door dash your own snacks to
my house. I tell you that can kill my kid,
and you're still eating it.

Speaker 4 (02:03):
I didn't even know.

Speaker 5 (02:04):
You're in my house.

Speaker 4 (02:05):
You're in my house.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
Kid lives here, Yes, like we have to be mindful
of this is his dwelling, this is like his universe
right here. We have to be considerate of what is
good and bad for his house.

Speaker 3 (02:19):
And you're pregnant with your own son, so you shouldn't.
I mean, when you have a kid. I don't know
what it's like, but I'm assuming when you have a kid,
like that's your top priority and you're putting my kid
in danger. I'm telling you that you're his aunt, and
you can't. You can't just sacrifice the peanuts this one time.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
Yeah, if you want to, if you want to eat
all the peanuts you want all over the place and
go stay in a hotel, right, But if you're in
my house, I don't think that's It's not like that's
not too much to ask. I don't think to respect
the health needs of the people in the home that
you're staying in as a guest. I don't think that's
too much to ask at all.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
And I feel like I know a lot of people
who don't take the peanut allergy thing as serious as
it really is. Like back in the day when it
used to give you peanuts on planes, and you'd be
sitting next to somebody and you know, please don't eat that.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
Don't open that. My kid is allergic.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
You don't know how severe that can that allergy really
is until you almost kill somebody.

Speaker 4 (03:10):
We you know.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Shout out to Bella, who had a little incident with
her boyfriend, Kayla's sister when she kissed him after eating peanuts.

Speaker 4 (03:17):
Almost took that man out. Yea, and she even brushed
her teeth and it still got him. It's very serious.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
And I know I've never been pregnant, Barbley. Can you
speak to pregnancy crazies? Are there this strong where it's
like you have a whole breakdown?

Speaker 4 (03:30):
They are strong by someone else's health is stronger to me.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
Have all the breakdowns you want?

Speaker 4 (03:35):
Yeah, oh I have because I wanted to make Doctor Pepper.
But like I want, didn't.

Speaker 5 (03:38):
Mean you specifically.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
I mean you could go ahead, break down in my house,
like go out, I don't know, go eat the peanuts
at the peanuts store or something.

Speaker 5 (03:44):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Go in the car, yeah, go outside, I don't know.
Like this is our house. We have nowhere else to go.
This is where we live. We got to keep it
clean and free of all this peanut oil and dust
and whatever else. Because we're having a kid. You can
wait a day or two or however long it is.
If you're staying in somebody else's house to do whatever. Yeah,
I feel like even going to get a hotel was rude.

(04:08):
Yeah yeah, but I mean that's the alternative. I guess
if you insist on living this way and then go
get the hood. I mean it's passive aggressive. Yeah eight
five five five three five. You guys are the jury
in Kiky's court?

Speaker 6 (04:19):
What say you?

Speaker 5 (04:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (04:20):
No, this isn't This is like a no. She doesn't
owe anybody an apology. I suppose she could call and say, hey,
can we straighten this out? But I mean, I don't
know what the I don't know what she has to
feel bad about. She's standing up for her child.

Speaker 4 (04:32):
Right, he's standing up for his wife.

Speaker 7 (04:35):
But it's like, but sometimes don't okay, don't talk about
that for a minute, Like sometimes your spouse is wrong
on that here, or your kid is wrong or whatever,
and like I understand that you you want to stick together,
but like how far down are you willing to go?

Speaker 5 (04:51):
Right? That's your sister, bro and your nephew.

Speaker 8 (04:53):
You know what I'm saying, you should be sticking up
for your nephew, not your your wife on this.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Like this is justified. This is not this is not
a necessary drama. This is not you know whatever, This
isn't nippicky stuff. This is like basic humanity.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
And then how far did I feel bad for Amber?
Because like, she wants to meet her first nephew. You
know what I'm saying, she wants to be a part
of that process. And now it's like they're not speaking
to me. So and I know that I'm not wrong,
but you.

Speaker 8 (05:20):
Play the long game. You've apologized, and is it Amber right? Yes,
he apologizes. She meets whatever the baby and then finds
out later in life that he's allergic to something, and
then you're allergic to whatever.

Speaker 5 (05:38):
Oh, let me just bring it all.

Speaker 9 (05:40):
Over the house.

Speaker 10 (05:42):
There's no more than that. I'll just wait to make
sure you close down. You know these are children, No,
I don't. I don't think this someone has anything to apologize.
It's her house. She's allowed to apply, you know, reasonable

(06:05):
rules for her house where she lives with her kid.
And if you're a guest, then guess what you get
to subscribe to some of that because I'm a guest.

Speaker 5 (06:14):
I don't live here. It's not my house.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
When you say at someone's house, is it rude to
door dash at their house? Like if they've already they
have snacks there, they cook dinner, you know?

Speaker 2 (06:23):
Is it rude too.

Speaker 4 (06:26):
That the sister law is just not reading the room
like I've.

Speaker 5 (06:29):
Never done that.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
Now, if you wanted to do that, I think then
you go through the house and be like, hey, I'm
I'm really, I'm pregnant. I want to eat this. Anybody
want anything, I'm going to do this, and then everyone
can have an opportunity. But if someone says no peanuts
in the house because bad for the kid, they know
how to.

Speaker 4 (06:46):
Get the EpiPens out, like this is bad and it's
scary with children.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
Yes, yeah, you don't get to stand on business on
this one. I think that the apology needs to come
from the guest, from the sister. That's that's who the
apology is.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
Do you stand on business and miss the birth of
your nephew?

Speaker 2 (07:03):
I don't know. You shouldn't have to be in that position,
that's for sure. Hey Megan, Yes, hi Megan. What do
you think? So this woman is a guest in somebody
else's home eating peanuts. It's her pregnancy, craving. The child
who lives in a home is allergic to peanuts, and
now it's a whole family divide over this thing.

Speaker 5 (07:20):
Who's wrong?

Speaker 6 (07:21):
Yep, the people who are coming to the house are wrong.
So I have two children with severe peanut allergies. They
are three and one, and we obviously have a no
peanut rule in our house because it can be life threatening.
I've been in the hospital so many different times as
we're discovering these allergies. And for me, if someone doesn't
respect my children and my role of no peanuts in

(07:43):
the house, and like, the relationship is over. There's no
question these are my kids in their health and safety,
and yes, I totally understand that, Like you might not
realize how severe it is because you're not their parents
and you haven't been in the hospital with them, you
haven't had to give an an EpiPen before. But it's
her health and it's just the relationship is over.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
I mean, even if the woman overreacted, even if she
was overreacting, like you know, get out, or like you
can't be here, you can't eat that, or whatever, you
get a choice. Well, even if she was rude about that,
she was defending her child. I mean, I think you
got to give someone a little bit of grace when
it comes to defending their child's health for good reason.
And so I feel they need to come together, you know,
even if that, even if it was an overreaction, I

(08:25):
think it's like you're about to be a mom and
you're about to experience the same thing. You know, you're
going to defend a child, and so I don't know,
And I can't believe the brother is standing on business
on that side. I mean that's like, I know you
want to defend your wife, but like your wife was wrong.
So I feel like, is it really worth burning down
the relationship with your sister and your nephew and all

(08:46):
this over that. I mean, it's it's not like anyone
really has a choice in the matter except the woman
eating the peanuts, right right.

Speaker 6 (08:52):
Yeah, And maybe once she has her you know, she
has her child and she realizes, like the health and
safety of the child is so important, and maybe she
will realize and condescens is and apologize hopefully.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
Yeah, yeah, thank you, Megan, have a good day you too.
But I get I can see a situation where he's like, wow,
that that that escalated and now we're in a hotel
and things are weird. But I can also see behind
closed doors where he's going hey to his wife, like, yo,
you can't act like that, Like you're gonna have to apologize.

Speaker 5 (09:22):
You can.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
You can be one way, you know, externally, but then
internally you got to check the person that you're with
and be like, hey, I can't stand by this. I'm
not going to break up my entire family relationship over
a medical condition with some peanuts, right, like you.

Speaker 4 (09:35):
Need to fix it, right, my girl, come on.

Speaker 5 (09:38):
The peanuts with the omnems with the peanuts.

Speaker 4 (09:40):
Look whatever order a winning and okay.

Speaker 5 (09:43):
It doesn't matter whichever order it is. Hey, Robin Hi,
Robin Kigy's cord? What say you?

Speaker 1 (09:52):
Well?

Speaker 7 (09:52):
I have a two kids also that are allergic.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
My one daughter is extremely allergic to every single night
that you can find, and my the one's allergic to
almonds and pistachio. So I agree with the lady that
whose kids is allergic, because you know, it's like bringing
a gun to the house, you know what I mean.
It's like people don't understand how serious allergies are.

Speaker 5 (10:18):
They can be really dangerous.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
Yeah yeah, yeah, Robin, thank you, have a good day,
you too.

Speaker 5 (10:25):
I mean, what about this one? What if?

Speaker 2 (10:27):
I mean, well, let's say let's say you're the you
have the peanut allergy, and you're going to stay at
someone's home and you're like, hey, I thank you for
the invitation, but I'm allergic to peanuts. Do you have
any in your home? And they're like yeah, is it
fair to expect them to like d peanut the whole house?
Or do you? At that point say okay, well, then
in this case, I'm going to stay in a hotel
because I need to do that, because that's what's best

(10:49):
for me.

Speaker 4 (10:50):
I was staying in a hotel.

Speaker 5 (10:51):
I wouldn't it, because.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
You can't expect someone to, you know, if they eat
peanuts and who knows, they got to throw it all
the way there. There's some oil somewhere, is it in
you know? Who knows what? So at that point, I
don't think you can expect anyone else to really look
out for you.

Speaker 5 (11:04):
You have to look out for yourself.

Speaker 3 (11:05):
You have to, and you have to stand up for
yourself because allergies make it's inconvenience like it's inconvenienced everybody.
You know, I hate being the person at the table
like sorry, guys, I can't eat this or I don't
eat that. It's not fun to be that person. But
you which you want to die. You're gonna kill this kid?
Oh with some pain that yeah, Stephanie, Hi, Stephanie.

Speaker 8 (11:23):
Oh my god, I'm so excited.

Speaker 4 (11:24):
I guess they're sorry.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
Oh my god, I've never been so excited. And I
almost called you Stefani. I almost made it like fancy
or I don't know why, because you know I like
to make names.

Speaker 9 (11:33):
I have one of your thirteen listeners and I have
never made it there.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Well, you know what, it's a miracle because it's usually
everybody who calls in your So this is my third
time calling today. You know, this is incredible, So welcome
And what did you want to say?

Speaker 9 (11:47):
Not that I agree entirely with Rufia when playing the
long game, but I feel like you could completely have
a really good conversation with the brother and sister in
law once their child is born. You know, after a
new baby these are born, everybody wants to put hand
sanitizer on and you know they like over sanitized battles
and beakies and things like that, and those are not

(12:09):
even life threatening things like you could have a real
genuine conversation with this sister in law about how your
carelessness and cravings put my child's life at risk because
you want to you know, peanut m and m's or something.

Speaker 5 (12:26):
And so it's very selfish.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
It's very selfish in someone else's house, standing on your business.

Speaker 5 (12:33):
That's very selfish.

Speaker 9 (12:35):
Yes, And this mother was very accommodating, and that she
sent her own children to their bedrooms and let this
woman still kind of enjoy her peanuts somewhere in this house,
even though she was probably structing that she was going
to have her child somewhere in the next week or two.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
Not good, Not good. Thank you, Stephanie Stefani. Have a
nice day. Imagine sh occup has such a hard time
getting through.

Speaker 5 (13:01):
And nobody else does. It's all right, problems solve there.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
It is.

Speaker 5 (13:08):
Get Roofie over here.

Speaker 6 (13:09):
I'll do care.

Speaker 5 (13:09):
Don't have penealogy. See now a long game.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
Maybe look up The entertainment report is insuming

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