KeKe Court - The Podcast "My Sister Hates Me!"

You are the jury! Did she betray her sister? 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Order, So let's rush show. But I'm happy to be back,
of course, and it's time for the Keykey Court Podcast.
Let's get into the courtroom. Okay, I'm back from Hawaii
trying to survive a tsunami warning and thankfully I did.
Thank God that I was able to make it back
safely and all the people there, we were safe. Nothing

(00:23):
really happened whtherwise, it was just a lot of panic
and people just you know, trying to stay safe. So
thankfully I am back, and it's time to get back
on track with the Key Key Court Podcast. Multiple episodes
dropping each week, so this week this is our first
one and I'm not gonna lie. I'm a little backed
up in the courtroom, so plenty of cases for us
to discuss. And of course you can always join the podcast.

(00:46):
If you want to be a guest, you can email
me or dm me on Instagram or social media. Let
me know you want to be a guest, and I'll
actually like we'll do a little phone thing where you
can be on the show with me. And of course
if you have a case, you can always send it
to me on my Instagram at on air Kiki or
via email. So let's get into this case. It says, hey,

(01:06):
ki key, am I wrong for announcing my sister's infertility
at my gender reveal party? Okay, after reading that first line,
it's an absolute yes, you are wrong. But let's get
into the story. It says I recently had a gender
reveal party for my first baby. We went all out, cater, food, decorations,

(01:26):
professional photographer, the whole nine. My husband and I have
been trying for a while, so this was a really
emotional moment for us. My older sister, Anna has been
struggling with infertility for years and has had several miscarriages.
It's been heartbreaking and I've always tried to be sensitive
about it well. At the party, during the speech before

(01:49):
the reveal, I thanked everyone for coming, and I said
that this moment means even more to us because we
know how hard the journey can be. Especially watching my
sister Anna's struggle with infertility. It reminds us not to
take anything for granted. I said that exact sentence in
my speech, so after I said it, the crowd got quiet.

(02:12):
Anna looked stunned and then left the party shortly after
without saying a word. Later, she blew up in the
family group chat, saying I humiliated her and made her
trauma a footnote to my big day. Our mom is
completely on my sister's side, saying that I should have
never brought it up, But others are saying it was

(02:33):
an honest and relatable moment and there was no ill intent.
I didn't go into details about her story. I just
mentioned it as a tribute to her. And now I
feel terrible. Am I wrong? Wooh? Okay, this is deep,
This is deep, and I am going to I know
your intention, and I'm a big person that like I'm

(02:55):
a person that's big on what was the intent? Like you,
you know, people make mistakes, but what was the real intent?
And clearly your intent was not to humiliate your sister. However, however, however,
you're wrong because you did not clear this with her.
You know, you don't know what she has revealed to

(03:16):
other family members, you don't know her sensitivity level about
speaking about it, So to mention it in a public
platform where you know you're being celebrated, She's already probably
feeling a way about her situation, and then for you
to bring it up in your speech, I think that
is totally wrong and in very very poor taste. And

(03:36):
if it was me, if I like, if I were you,
I would do everything in my power to apologize to
my sister, like apologize just you know, give her her
space until she's ready to, you know, come back around.
But I would just continue to apologize, like every time
I see my sister, I black, I'm so sorry. I'm
so sorry. I'm so sorry, because until you've dealt with this,
you don't know how hard it is on somebody mentally, emotionally, physically,

(04:02):
and for her to be put on kind of front street.
I just don't think it was the right thing to do.
So I know your intention was not evil, but I
think your dad that's wrong. Not gonna lie, not gonna lie. Friend,
I think you're wrong here. And let's just be mindful.
You know, if we're on a public platform and we're
giving our testimonies and we're giving speeches and things, if

(04:25):
you're gonna bring up somebody else's story in your speech,
think twice before you do it, because you don't know
what people are comfortable with sharing. And somebody like me
who works on the radio, I share a lot, and
I share a lot about my family, I share a
lot about my friends, and my personal life. And now
I even I think twice before I do some things

(04:47):
because I'll get calls after the show, like you know,
I heard you say this, and I'm like, girl, nobody
even knew I was talking about you, But it doesn't matter.
That's somebody else's story to tell. And you never want
to make your friends and family feel like this. So
I know your intentions were good, but I definitely think
you're wrong. I think you're wrong, friend, so let me
know your thoughts. Of course, hit me up on Instagram,

(05:09):
at on air Kiki at Fred Show Radio, I'll post
the video so you can sound off in the comments.
And again, if you want to be a guest on
the podcast, just hit me up. I would love to
have you in my fake court room, even though it's
a real court I mean it's a real court room
to me, but yeah, it's really the studio. Anyway, I
would love to have you. Thanks for listening, and we'll
get into another case soon. By friend