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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Yeah, they talk better than the excited.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show, New
Waiting by the Phone, Money was Showby's Shelley, Kiki's Court
all coming up. But we must do blogs like for
writing in our diaries, except we say them allowed Kiki. Yes,
this is kind of a two parter, but you go
with the first part.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Okay, Well, dear blog, I don't know if this has
ever happened to you all, but when you're in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Nope, no, and sometimes no. I don't even need to
hear the rest of it.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Some beautant day to somebody went back to back.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
He went back to that right in the pandemic.
Speaker 5 (00:41):
Yeah, in the fake hell Yeah, okay, I'm sorry the
famic Yeah, but I should.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
They actually see those women he dated or was like
was he fakeing?
Speaker 6 (00:56):
No?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Because we were at home.
Speaker 7 (00:57):
They didn't take me, so I wasn't allowed to see them.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Do we read them?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Now?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
We didn't mean?
Speaker 5 (01:01):
No.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I met the one on Instagram?
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Okay, I have the other one DM me looking.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
For for her, looking for did you respond?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I did?
Speaker 6 (01:14):
I was just like, were you I was like no,
I was like, wait, I thought you were with Fred.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
He's like, where were you Fred? Another one?
Speaker 6 (01:22):
I think we got in an argument and I was
just like, okay, they were in an event together, and
then she picked a fight with me, right and she's like.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Have you heard from Fred?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I was like, we were together, and I can't fight him.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
I'm like no, like.
Speaker 8 (01:37):
You pretend like you guys, you know what I mean?
Like you tell him hey, if anybody asked.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
No, he never. He didn't tell me until like Monday
this happened. The reason I didn't respond is because we
we got in, we had a disagreement, and I'm like,
I don't I'm not gonna fight with you here. I'm leaving,
And so I left, and I honestly wasn't even out
of the This is not an embellishment. I wasn't even
out of the establishment for fifteen seconds. And I get
a text, you're obviously sleeping with someone else right now,
(02:02):
right now?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
How would you pull?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
But it literally has been less than sixty seconds. Like
I understand that you've been with me before, so you
know it doesn't take long. But like, still, I can't
get my pants off in fifteen I'm still the party. Love.
So once you do something like and this, I think
is just tied to you. But once you throw out
something like that, you've now lost credibility for the rest
(02:27):
of the evening.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Like I can't defend.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
That, right, I'm looking at you through the window anyway,
all right.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
So this is exactly so you can relate. This is
exactly what I'm talking about. Being in a relationship and
then you fight in public and it's so awkward and
you both look so stupid. So Big Tim and I
on Friday, we're like, let's go get up some dinner.
We're going to go to Longhorn, his favorite stay outs. Okay,
So we pull up and say, on the way there,
(02:58):
I said, hey, why since we're both going, why do
we see what Cam and kueland are doing. My sister
in law and my brother our favorite couple. Let's see
what they're doing. He's like, yeah, call them, see if
they can meet us here. I call them. They're like, oh, guys,
we're still working, you know, cause we don't you know,
how to work regular hours, So like, we're still working,
but when.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
We get off, we can meet you there.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
This man was hungry right in the moment, so he
does this skit on the phone with them, is if okay, Yeah,
we'll go to some stores and hang around until you
guys are ready. As soon as I hang up the phone,
he's like, yeah, we can't wait on them.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
How did he eat right now?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
So I'm like, you want me to call my brother
back and say, hey, now mind you I've told my brother, yeah,
bring the kids, Like come on, you want me to
go and call my brother back and say never mind?
He doesn't want to wait on you guys, so we
forget y'all. We're just gonna go eat. So I'm like
that is so rude, and so we have this whole
blown out fight about this. Right. So I finally text
(03:55):
my brother like he's an idiot, don't even worry about
coming here.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
We're just gonna get something quick. So they're like, okay.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
We go into the restaurant, you know the little seating
area where they tell you like wait until they call you.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
He sits on one.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
He sits on one end of the bench, and I
sit all the way on the other hand.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
There's two couples in between us. So when the lady comes,
she's like, reservation for Kiki.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
We look like two idiots because we both got to
get up from two angles up the bench. Go sit down,
We get to the table, we're not speaking. So the
poor waitress is like, you know, tell us about the
specials and what are you going to have? And it's
very very awkward, and I don't know about you. My
tantrum tactic in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Is to silence you.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
I'm not giving you anything any more of my energy,
so don't talk.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
So, yes, that's exactly what it's purpose. I'm because if
I don't talk, we can't fight anymore.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Right, that's true. So I sit there in silence. He's
trying to have random car but like, I'm not giving
him anything. So his tantrum tactic is to not engage
as far as eating.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Oh, he goes on a hunger stride, which only hurts him.
By the way, how does that hurt you? That's like
a sex strike. I've never understood that. Like, you must
really not like getting with me if you're gonna if
you're taking that off the table, right, Like the sure
sign that you're decent in bad is if you really
put someone off. But they're like, I lets just go
do it though anyway, Like I don't want to talk
(05:26):
to you, but like I want to do that because
people are like, I'm then you're not kidding any of that.
I'm like, how is that good? That doesn't help anybody
in this situation. Okay, So he goes on a hunger strike. Yes,
you won't talk right.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
So it's it's really annoying because the waitress, you know,
she comes to get the order and I'm like, I'll
have this, and I'm like, and he'll have because I
know his order, eat this every week, I know his order.
He goes, actually, I'm just gonna have an appetizer.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I'm like, girls, how melodramatic. I would have ordered half
if I were you would order half in front of them.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Oh no, So I'm tearing up my you know me,
I like him by so I'm tearing up up ravines.
It comes out he has these order of wings in
front of him. He's not touching the wings. So the
poor lady comes back. She's like, would you like a boxer?
And he's like, yes, I would like, and this just
we just look like two idiots. And in my mind,
I'm like, as soon as we leave this restaurant, I'm
downloading Bubble like I don't know why we out, you said,
(06:26):
thought I thought in my mind because that I don't
know why I think that, like that's gonna be the
solution to my life, Like I'm gonna get on the
apps like what. So, Yeah, we sat there looking like idiots.
I ate he didn't. We ended up leaving by the
time we loved We were laughing in the car about
how stupid the whole experience was. But it's just like,
what is your fighting language? Because that is so stupid.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
Oh I'm a communicator, so I need to talk it.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
Out right away.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:55):
Yeah, when you guys do the silent treatment, I have
abandonment issues, so I feel Yeah, it gets me real sad.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Ye don't you start to fights on purpose sometimes?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Just like no, no, I thought you told one night
very much. I can.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I can think of a specific example, but anyway, I
just want peace.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I thought, I know people that do that because and
I'm not saying well, as a damaged person, then I
can say this, Uh, people do it because it like
almost imparts value. Like if I start a fight with
you and then you're willing to like hear me out
and fight back with me over a fake fight, then
it means like for some people, it's validation that you
(07:39):
care care if you start a fight.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
And I'm not saying that this.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
I'm not like psychoanalyzing you, but I know people that
will do that because it's like it's like I'm not
getting enough attention in this moment. I need attention from you,
so I'm just going to start a fight. And even
though it's negative attention, at least there's something going on
that that indicates that, you know what I mean, Like
there's some form of back and forth to when what
is it for you, Jason?
Speaker 9 (08:01):
So I hold it, I hold a lot in but
then Mike is very much like the silence.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
So.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
That doesn't make any sense. Yeah, So then.
Speaker 9 (08:15):
I used to be like, what's wrong, let's do what's
wrong with you? Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
So I'll try that, but then I'm very okay.
Speaker 9 (08:21):
Once you like shut me down, I'm like okay, and
we just go into our separate corners like you did.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
Yeah, within an hour, like it's over.
Speaker 7 (08:27):
How do you exist in a room where there's like turmoil.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
In a different rope we very much separation e in
the room kills me.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I'm like, let's just finish this. Most likely it's stupid,
Like it's so stupid.
Speaker 9 (08:40):
I'm like Okay, you're just saying that because you're mad,
and I'm just like, all right, I'm over see.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I'm a silent guy, and I'm a flight guy. Fight
or flight, I'll fight. And the problem is the argument
that people make is well, if you leave, you'll never
come back, or if you leave like then this never
gets resolved. And the fact is I probably would, but
no one ever makes it easy for me to take
my time, Like no one has ever let me just
take a walk or walk away. It's always like, no,
you're staying here. And then that just that just I
(09:06):
close out even more because I'm like, when you're not
giving me what I need right now, I would come
back if you want, so damn annoying about it.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
I don't believe like the person's never coming back or
they'll never talk.
Speaker 9 (09:16):
You can't leave the premises like that is like the
one rule, like are to be mad in separate room.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Yeah it's a cool off, but.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
You are not going though. I want to get the
cool off, which problem.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
For me, it's like if you just give me a
minute and we don't actually have it out, yeah I'm
not either. I'm going to get over it and at
least I'm not going to say things that I regret
because I feel like a lot of fights in relationships
start here and they end way over there. Yes, and
it has nothing to do because we got you know,
Paulina over here when when you go.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Low lower, Yeah, and before long it's like my.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Mom is not ugly, like I don't know whatever, and
then and then like, now you've got to clean that up?
Speaker 7 (10:00):
Do you communicate that though, like I need a minute,
I will be back one, let me do it.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
It's always like you no, you're gonna sit.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Down, We're gonna and then it's like you're screaming at me,
and I'm like, now you're even more mad.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
I'm like, this is not working.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
Yeah, you get silent, yes, and I yeah, Jess as
a communicator, she wants to talk it out. I will
say silent because if I will say something so bad,
like I'll say, I'll start about something else. I hate confrontation,
but like for me, it's just like I'll get over
it in five minutes.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
Yes, that's me.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
I could be like, all right, just don't talk to me,
and then five minutes later I'm fine. But then you
still want to resolve. But she still wants to resolve,
and I'm like, I'm over it.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
It's over. It's not over for her that I ad
said that, But like, if we.
Speaker 6 (10:41):
Keep talking, it's gonna go into some kind of other
situation from ten years ago. We're gonna bring back and resurface,
and it's just gonna get remember one time, Yeah I didn't,
but now I do.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
And then you, you, Paulina, will just you'll just take
take him out of the knees.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
I'm the worst because I'm afraid he's not coming back.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
You said one way to make sure he doesn't come back.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Working on it.
Speaker 8 (11:06):
My newest one though, and this is so immature and
so bad, is that I'll be like, I'm gonna tell
your mom what you did. I'm gonna I'm gonna text
your mom right now and I've done.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
I don't think that I've been doing this for years. No,
I would.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
I would pretend I'm doing it.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
And does his mom actually say anything to him?
Speaker 8 (11:23):
His mom is the sweetest angel woman and planet Earth.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
She stays out of it, and I love it.
Speaker 8 (11:28):
I'll say, like what I see the other day, I
was like, Okay, your son's dust.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Do you think?
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
I want you so bad.
Speaker 8 (11:32):
I'm like, oh, do you think you can come help me?
I was like, Hobby's not being helpful at all with
the baby. I said that straight, and she was like,
you know, if you want me to.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Come for real? And I was like, no, she wants
to sleep, It's okay, like she did.
Speaker 8 (11:42):
But I was just like trying to point out to her, like,
your son is not helpful. Your son is the pain
of my ass. I know, I know, I know she's
talking to her son.
Speaker 7 (11:52):
She's like, yo, she.
Speaker 6 (11:57):
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I need to chill. I need to chill.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
After that, I was like, all right, I'm doing too much,
way too much.
Speaker 8 (12:03):
I don't want a bad relationship with her because of
my you know, immaturity.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Like I think my mom.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
I know if I were messing up, my mom would
tell me, but I don't know that she would validate
my partner. I don't know that she would like she
would call me and be like, are you messing up?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
You know? But she wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
She would like if you texted my mom and said
Fred's doing this, she might go okay or ignore you,
and then she'll call me and go what's going on?
And then I might tell and if she thinks I'm wrong.
She'll tell me, but she's not gonna tell you. Oh yeah,
my son's dusty, crusty. I'll handle this like I don't.
I don't think she would give anyone else that that validation,
but she would hold me accountable privately at the end
(12:42):
of the day.
Speaker 8 (12:43):
Like you're her son, you know, and he's not doing
anything life thrining. He's just I don't know, I'm not
getting me the bottle warmer or something.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
You know, And then you tell it's mom, Of course
I do you tell on this man?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Wow, she is more fresh. Show next
Yeah, they talk better than the excited.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show, New
Waiting by the Phone, Money was Showby's Shelley, Kiki's Court
all coming up. But we must do blogs like for
writing in our diaries, except we say them allowed Kiki. Yes,
this is kind of a two parter, but you go
with the first part.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Okay, Well, dear blog, I don't know if this has
ever happened to you all, but when you're in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Nope, no, and sometimes no. I don't even need to
hear the rest of it.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Some beautant day to somebody went back to back.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
He went back to that right in the pandemic.
Speaker 5 (00:41):
Yeah, in the fake hell Yeah, okay, I'm sorry the
famic Yeah, but I should.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
They actually see those women he dated or was like
was he fakeing?
Speaker 6 (00:56):
No?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Because we were at home.
Speaker 7 (00:57):
They didn't take me, so I wasn't allowed to see them.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Do we read them?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Now?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
We didn't mean?
Speaker 5 (01:01):
No.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I met the one on Instagram?
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Okay, I have the other one DM me looking.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
For for her, looking for did you respond?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I did?
Speaker 6 (01:14):
I was just like, were you I was like no,
I was like, wait, I thought you were with Fred.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
He's like, where were you Fred? Another one?
Speaker 6 (01:22):
I think we got in an argument and I was
just like, okay, they were in an event together, and
then she picked a fight with me, right and she's like.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Have you heard from Fred?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I was like, we were together, and I can't fight him.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
I'm like no, like.
Speaker 8 (01:37):
You pretend like you guys, you know what I mean?
Like you tell him hey, if anybody asked.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
No, he never. He didn't tell me until like Monday
this happened. The reason I didn't respond is because we
we got in, we had a disagreement, and I'm like,
I don't I'm not gonna fight with you here. I'm leaving,
And so I left, and I honestly wasn't even out
of the This is not an embellishment. I wasn't even
out of the establishment for fifteen seconds. And I get
a text, you're obviously sleeping with someone else right now,
(02:02):
right now?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
How would you pull?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
But it literally has been less than sixty seconds. Like
I understand that you've been with me before, so you
know it doesn't take long. But like, still, I can't
get my pants off in fifteen I'm still the party. Love.
So once you do something like and this, I think
is just tied to you. But once you throw out
something like that, you've now lost credibility for the rest
(02:27):
of the evening.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Like I can't defend.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
That, right, I'm looking at you through the window anyway,
all right.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
So this is exactly so you can relate. This is
exactly what I'm talking about. Being in a relationship and
then you fight in public and it's so awkward and
you both look so stupid. So Big Tim and I
on Friday, we're like, let's go get up some dinner.
We're going to go to Longhorn, his favorite stay outs. Okay,
So we pull up and say, on the way there,
(02:58):
I said, hey, why since we're both going, why do
we see what Cam and kueland are doing. My sister
in law and my brother our favorite couple. Let's see
what they're doing. He's like, yeah, call them, see if
they can meet us here. I call them. They're like, oh, guys,
we're still working, you know, cause we don't you know,
how to work regular hours, So like, we're still working,
but when.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
We get off, we can meet you there.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
This man was hungry right in the moment, so he
does this skit on the phone with them, is if okay, Yeah,
we'll go to some stores and hang around until you
guys are ready. As soon as I hang up the phone,
he's like, yeah, we can't wait on them.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
How did he eat right now?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
So I'm like, you want me to call my brother
back and say, hey, now mind you I've told my brother, yeah,
bring the kids, Like come on, you want me to
go and call my brother back and say never mind?
He doesn't want to wait on you guys, so we
forget y'all. We're just gonna go eat. So I'm like
that is so rude, and so we have this whole
blown out fight about this. Right. So I finally text
(03:55):
my brother like he's an idiot, don't even worry about
coming here.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
We're just gonna get something quick. So they're like, okay.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
We go into the restaurant, you know the little seating
area where they tell you like wait until they call you.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
He sits on one.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
He sits on one end of the bench, and I
sit all the way on the other hand.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
There's two couples in between us. So when the lady comes,
she's like, reservation for Kiki.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
We look like two idiots because we both got to
get up from two angles up the bench. Go sit down,
We get to the table, we're not speaking. So the
poor waitress is like, you know, tell us about the
specials and what are you going to have? And it's
very very awkward, and I don't know about you. My
tantrum tactic in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Is to silence you.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
I'm not giving you anything any more of my energy,
so don't talk.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
So, yes, that's exactly what it's purpose. I'm because if
I don't talk, we can't fight anymore.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Right, that's true. So I sit there in silence. He's
trying to have random car but like, I'm not giving
him anything. So his tantrum tactic is to not engage
as far as eating.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Oh, he goes on a hunger stride, which only hurts him.
By the way, how does that hurt you? That's like
a sex strike. I've never understood that. Like, you must
really not like getting with me if you're gonna if
you're taking that off the table, right, Like the sure
sign that you're decent in bad is if you really
put someone off. But they're like, I lets just go
do it though anyway, Like I don't want to talk
(05:26):
to you, but like I want to do that because
people are like, I'm then you're not kidding any of that.
I'm like, how is that good? That doesn't help anybody
in this situation. Okay, So he goes on a hunger strike. Yes,
you won't talk right.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
So it's it's really annoying because the waitress, you know,
she comes to get the order and I'm like, I'll
have this, and I'm like, and he'll have because I
know his order, eat this every week, I know his order.
He goes, actually, I'm just gonna have an appetizer.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I'm like, girls, how melodramatic. I would have ordered half
if I were you would order half in front of them.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Oh no, So I'm tearing up my you know me,
I like him by so I'm tearing up up ravines.
It comes out he has these order of wings in
front of him. He's not touching the wings. So the
poor lady comes back. She's like, would you like a boxer?
And he's like, yes, I would like, and this just
we just look like two idiots. And in my mind,
I'm like, as soon as we leave this restaurant, I'm
downloading Bubble like I don't know why we out, you said,
(06:26):
thought I thought in my mind because that I don't
know why I think that, like that's gonna be the
solution to my life, Like I'm gonna get on the
apps like what. So, Yeah, we sat there looking like idiots.
I ate he didn't. We ended up leaving by the
time we loved We were laughing in the car about
how stupid the whole experience was. But it's just like,
what is your fighting language? Because that is so stupid.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
Oh I'm a communicator, so I need to talk it.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
Out right away.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:55):
Yeah, when you guys do the silent treatment, I have
abandonment issues, so I feel Yeah, it gets me real sad.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Ye don't you start to fights on purpose sometimes?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Just like no, no, I thought you told one night
very much. I can.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I can think of a specific example, but anyway, I
just want peace.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I thought, I know people that do that because and
I'm not saying well, as a damaged person, then I
can say this, Uh, people do it because it like
almost imparts value. Like if I start a fight with
you and then you're willing to like hear me out
and fight back with me over a fake fight, then
it means like for some people, it's validation that you
(07:39):
care care if you start a fight.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
And I'm not saying that this.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
I'm not like psychoanalyzing you, but I know people that
will do that because it's like it's like I'm not
getting enough attention in this moment. I need attention from you,
so I'm just going to start a fight. And even
though it's negative attention, at least there's something going on
that that indicates that, you know what I mean, Like
there's some form of back and forth to when what
is it for you, Jason?
Speaker 9 (08:01):
So I hold it, I hold a lot in but
then Mike is very much like the silence.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
So.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
That doesn't make any sense. Yeah, So then.
Speaker 9 (08:15):
I used to be like, what's wrong, let's do what's
wrong with you? Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
So I'll try that, but then I'm very okay.
Speaker 9 (08:21):
Once you like shut me down, I'm like okay, and
we just go into our separate corners like you did.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
Yeah, within an hour, like it's over.
Speaker 7 (08:27):
How do you exist in a room where there's like turmoil.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
In a different rope we very much separation e in
the room kills me.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I'm like, let's just finish this. Most likely it's stupid,
Like it's so stupid.
Speaker 9 (08:40):
I'm like Okay, you're just saying that because you're mad,
and I'm just like, all right, I'm over see.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I'm a silent guy, and I'm a flight guy. Fight
or flight, I'll fight. And the problem is the argument
that people make is well, if you leave, you'll never
come back, or if you leave like then this never
gets resolved. And the fact is I probably would, but
no one ever makes it easy for me to take
my time, Like no one has ever let me just
take a walk or walk away. It's always like, no,
you're staying here. And then that just that just I
(09:06):
close out even more because I'm like, when you're not
giving me what I need right now, I would come
back if you want, so damn annoying about it.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
I don't believe like the person's never coming back or
they'll never talk.
Speaker 9 (09:16):
You can't leave the premises like that is like the
one rule, like are to be mad in separate room.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Yeah it's a cool off, but.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
You are not going though. I want to get the
cool off, which problem.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
For me, it's like if you just give me a
minute and we don't actually have it out, yeah I'm
not either. I'm going to get over it and at
least I'm not going to say things that I regret
because I feel like a lot of fights in relationships
start here and they end way over there. Yes, and
it has nothing to do because we got you know,
Paulina over here when when you go.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Low lower, Yeah, and before long it's like my.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Mom is not ugly, like I don't know whatever, and
then and then like, now you've got to clean that up?
Speaker 7 (10:00):
Do you communicate that though, like I need a minute,
I will be back one, let me do it.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
It's always like you no, you're gonna sit.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Down, We're gonna and then it's like you're screaming at me,
and I'm like, now you're even more mad.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
I'm like, this is not working.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
Yeah, you get silent, yes, and I yeah, Jess as
a communicator, she wants to talk it out. I will
say silent because if I will say something so bad,
like I'll say, I'll start about something else. I hate confrontation,
but like for me, it's just like I'll get over
it in five minutes.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
Yes, that's me.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
I could be like, all right, just don't talk to me,
and then five minutes later I'm fine. But then you
still want to resolve. But she still wants to resolve,
and I'm like, I'm over it.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
It's over. It's not over for her that I ad
said that, But like, if we.
Speaker 6 (10:41):
Keep talking, it's gonna go into some kind of other
situation from ten years ago. We're gonna bring back and resurface,
and it's just gonna get remember one time, Yeah I didn't,
but now I do.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
And then you, you, Paulina, will just you'll just take
take him out of the knees.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
I'm the worst because I'm afraid he's not coming back.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
You said one way to make sure he doesn't come back.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Working on it.
Speaker 8 (11:06):
My newest one though, and this is so immature and
so bad, is that I'll be like, I'm gonna tell
your mom what you did. I'm gonna I'm gonna text
your mom right now and I've done.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
I don't think that I've been doing this for years. No,
I would.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
I would pretend I'm doing it.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
And does his mom actually say anything to him?
Speaker 8 (11:23):
His mom is the sweetest angel woman and planet Earth.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
She stays out of it, and I love it.
Speaker 8 (11:28):
I'll say, like what I see the other day, I
was like, Okay, your son's dust.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Do you think?
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
I want you so bad.
Speaker 8 (11:32):
I'm like, oh, do you think you can come help me?
I was like, Hobby's not being helpful at all with
the baby. I said that straight, and she was like,
you know, if you want me to.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Come for real? And I was like, no, she wants
to sleep, It's okay, like she did.
Speaker 8 (11:42):
But I was just like trying to point out to her, like,
your son is not helpful. Your son is the pain
of my ass. I know, I know, I know she's
talking to her son.
Speaker 7 (11:52):
She's like, yo, she.
Speaker 6 (11:57):
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I need to chill. I need to chill.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
After that, I was like, all right, I'm doing too much,
way too much.
Speaker 8 (12:03):
I don't want a bad relationship with her because of
my you know, immaturity.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Like I think my mom.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
I know if I were messing up, my mom would
tell me, but I don't know that she would validate
my partner. I don't know that she would like she
would call me and be like, are you messing up?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
You know? But she wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
She would like if you texted my mom and said
Fred's doing this, she might go okay or ignore you,
and then she'll call me and go what's going on?
And then I might tell and if she thinks I'm wrong.
She'll tell me, but she's not gonna tell you. Oh yeah,
my son's dusty, crusty. I'll handle this like I don't.
I don't think she would give anyone else that that validation,
but she would hold me accountable privately at the end
(12:42):
of the day.
Speaker 8 (12:43):
Like you're her son, you know, and he's not doing
anything life thrining. He's just I don't know, I'm not
getting me the bottle warmer or something.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
You know, And then you tell it's mom, Of course
I do you tell on this man?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Wow, she is more fresh. Show next
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