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Speaker 1 (00:00):
He's slaughter up.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all right, The
Honorable Ki Kahlik is here.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Take it away, all right, Let's get into the courtroom.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Hit that gable, Let's go. Yeah, I mean business.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
I'm standing on business, all right, it says, Hey, Kiki,
I've been married six months now, and I already feel
a divorce coming. Since even before our wedding, my husband
and I have been saving and planning for our dream honeymoon. However,
his sister just ruined our plans and possibly our marriage.
The date of our honeymoon has been known for months, however,
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my sister in law just scheduled her sea section in
the middle of the week that we're gone. My husband
is freaking out because he obviously wants to be there
for the birth of his first nephew, but I feel
like he can just meet his nephew after our trip. Now,
all of my in laws are pressuring me to reschedule
our honeymoon, and my evil sister in law sent me
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the nastiest text saying, you know that you aren't able
to give my brother kids of his own, So don't
be selfish and take this moment away from my brother, Kiki.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
That was it for me.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I've decided that I'm going on my honeymoon with or
without my husband. Am I wrong? If I go enjoy
my honeymoon solo the belts? Yeah, so below the belts
that was unnecessary. Oh my god, Well, judge Kiky, I'm
conflicted because you know, Keikey is saying, you know, honeymoons
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and vacations can be rescheduled once in a lifetime. Moments
can never be redone, so he will never get the
moment of being at his nephew's birth again if you
guys go on this honeymoon, right, But then you got
kk over here.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
That's my other side who said when your sister sends
you a text something like what she.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Said in that text, I need to go on this honeymoon,
so I don't put my hands on anybody because that's crazy,
Like you went so far low the belt because you
and I don't probably I don't know how this worked
with pregnancies and burths like you tell you because now girls,
it seemed like they're just scheduling.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm like, you know what Friday would be good for me?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
So yeah, if you're here a schedule Sea section.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah, it's okay, scheduled, but like you're.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Going to schedule sea sections schedule, but you're going off.
It's scheduled off of your doctor.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Like if you if you want to have your doctor
available call you can take the time.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
You have to pick it. You have to pick this
certain day that your doctor's working.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Okay, because I thought we was letting Jesus take the wheel,
but it just seemed like now people could be like,
you know, on Thursday at two o'clock after I get
a spray tan would be good. So if you think
there is yeah, and do that, then schedule it when
he's back or you know, girl, you.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Know what you were doing. I don't know. The sister
launch just evil to me.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
And at this point I think you need to go
on your trip just to keep the peace, because Lord knows,
if you go to the hospital after what she said
to you, anything may happen.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
So yeah, but her being a jerk doesn't change the
fact that he would miss the experience. I understand that
just makes it worse, but like it doesn't change the
fact that it's a once in a lifetime thing. So
it's like, not only do I think that, do they
have to reschedule the honeymoon, but now that relationship is
permanently damaged, so bad because again she's a jerk. But
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like again, the date is the date the babies come,
When the babies come, and when they decided, and so
if he wants to be there, then that's how that's
going to go.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So you would reschedule your honeymoon.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
It comes down to this, do I want to miss
the once in a lifetime moment over words that were
exchanged between two people? And the answer is no, Okay.
I mean now there may be they may never talk again,
there may be no healing there. I don't know what's
going to happen between those stupid Like again, we're talking
about me being there, and I don't know how much
flexibility do you really have like a few days here
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and there, like for the schedule see section Like it's
not only I don't think you can choose between like
a whole week or two, you know, I don't think
you can go like, well, we'll just do it next
week because you guys are gone.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Maybe yeah, And you can also start going into labor
like a lot earlier than scheduled see section So you
it's really.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
It is still up in the air somewhat.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Yeah, any God's call, it really is.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
And then on top of that too, I think what
they should do is is he needs to hop on
that plane the minute the baby is born, when he
sees his nephew was net through niece. I can't remember
nephew and the nepthew's born to meet the nephew be there.
But those words that were exchanged between sister law and
sister that's a different level of just calling someone the
B word or just being you know whatever, petty. Infertility
is absolutely no joke, especially within a marriage somebody who
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wants a baby, someone who was infertile for a year
before I had my daughter. That is something you do
never ever ever touch. And that was such a shady comment.
That was terrible, And that's something they need to work
on too. Is is that dynamic of that of that relationship,
Like if you're my husband, like you're you're siding with me.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I don't want you to miss your nephew's.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Born, but that's the problem. So I side with you,
and I should because that was a messed up comment.
But then I so I side with you. We go
on our honeymoon and then I missed this thing that
I can never replicate, that will never happen again. Yeah. So,
I mean that's.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Why I'm like, I'm so torn.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Also, for a scheduled sea section, only the father, it's
not a room full of people. Mom's not going to
be there, mother in law is not going to be there.
It's only the mom giving birth and the father, the husband.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
But you know, you be in the waiting room, it's
fresh out.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
You know you want to see the baby the first day.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
You ain't see nobody that first day.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
The mom don't want to see No, I'm telling you
they're not going to see anybody that first day.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Well, the baby though, right, you can see the baby.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Like if you have a baby tomorrow, I can meet
the baby on tomorrow, right.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Tomorrow, tomorrow, the baby is in the room with mom.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
After a woman has a sea section, I'm telling you
they're not going to want to see anybody after the
first day.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
On the first day, So you're going on a honeymoon.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah, Okay, I think without the A whole comment, you
just reschedule the honeymoon. With the A whole comment, you're
tempted out of spite to go on the honeymoon. But
the problem is you're the one who misses out. You know.
It's it's like when when parents are getting along with
their kids and one of the other takes a standover
like a wedding, like I'm not going to the wedding.
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It's like, Okay, well you're gonna make a statement. You are,
but you're never going to be able to relive that moment. Ever,
So is this statement really worth you missing out on
that thing? Because let's say a year from now, six
months from now, five ten years from now, you guys reconcile,
you can never have that moment back. Yeah, so I
think you got to seize the moment and then fix
the fix the problem. That's another thing. So is this
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is the brother not supposed to see his baby fresh
out because those two have an interpersonal problem, Like, yeah,
he has to take her aside, But is he then
supposed to he's supposed to miss out on this experience
that has nothing to do with the baby.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
I don't think so. No, it's important to him.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
It sounds like to be there, like Fred you were
you didn't have to be there when your nieces were born, right,
But that.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Like to you, was it No?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I wanted to be there right away for Polly, I
was well, No, for Polly, I was there the day
she was born. I was I was in Dallas when
it happened. And then for May, I was there the
next morning.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
That's an important to you.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
I'm assuming I wanted to.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Be right there, and I really wanted to see Polly
and May of meat, and I wanted to see when
Polly was handed to my mom. I mean, there's just
moments that you can't and my sister and I could
have been in bad shape. We've never been in bad shape,
but we could have been in bad shape, and I
would have sucked it up to have been there for
that moment, because it's something you can never ever see again.
And it's it's not about the problem I have with
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my family member at that point. It's about the moment.
It's about the baby, it's about everybody else, it's about
the whole family. So this dude's in a tough spot.
He concide with his wife and say hey to his sister,
what you said was so messed up, But then he
still needs to and wants to be there when the
baby comes out and He has every right to do
that because that's about his relationship with the baby, it is.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
But if he doesn't take his wife's side after that
sister's text message, man, I would be It's over.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Six months into a marriage. Why are you trying me
like this land and you only.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Get one hunting?
Speaker 5 (07:54):
You only if you get one honeymoon. You know what
I'm saying, It's a trip of a lifetime.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Victoria. Yeah, Hi, Victoria, how you doing? Hey? What do
you think? Very well? Thanks for calling me, Spaska. What
do you think here? So this this dude, his sister's
having a schedule sea section having a baby. His honeymoon
is scheduled at the same time. And prior to when
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they were kind of working this all out, you know,
there was talk about rescheduling the honeymoon so that he
could be there for the birth of his niece or
nephew or whatever, and then words were exchanged between the
mom and the wife and now it's nasty, and so
now it's like, well, I'm going on the honeymoon, forget
about that, and you better come with me because you
got to support me. You know, what do you do here?
Speaker 8 (08:40):
I mean, I've gone my honeymoon because I mean, personally,
I'm hit two sea sections and I didn't want anyone
to sear me for like the first two weeks at least.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Oh wow, unless it was like my husband or like
my mom or someone who is going to be helpful
and not just like.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Doing and awing over my baby.
Speaker 8 (08:58):
So I've gone moon and then you guys can have
a little party and meet the baby on the way back.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
So like a week later, like, hey, I'm back. Now
I'm saying I'm good. Let me see this kid like that.
That's good enough.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Yeah, yeah, okay, it's rude what she said.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
So it was so rude. That's the kind of stuff
you can't take back.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Beyond rude exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
That's that's some stuff that. Yeah, that might change the
relationship between those two forever. Thank you, Victoria. Have a
good day. Glad you called Myra. Hey, good morning, what
do you think?
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Good morning?
Speaker 6 (09:35):
Oh man, you guys got me. I'm so upset with
that sister in law.
Speaker 8 (09:41):
I would have said cancel and reschedule it, and then
that text message came through it she volus for that,
you know, as somebody who dealt with like issues getting
pregnant and all that fun stuff like that that cuts
that cuts deep.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
That's a different kind of of deep.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
I think I.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
Think the brothers should really talk to the sister and
the sister in law needs to apologize.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah, like, no doubt, no doubt about that.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Again, I apologize, like he should be there because that's
important to him and that's a family. But like that's cutting.
Speaker 8 (10:17):
At something deep that like his wife can't change the
fact that she's unable to.
Speaker 6 (10:21):
Have kids and that's bogus, you know, Like, so she's
going to resent that forever because it's not her fault.
Her body can't do what she wanted to do.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
So yeah, I think that comment is totally separate from
all of this, like that, I don't know that they're
going to have to work that out, and the sister
in law is so messed up for saying that. But again,
it comes back to this moment in time and the
history and the family and legacy and all these different things,
like is he really gonna be able to enjoy himself
and you know, Tahiti or Cancun or wherever, you know,
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when he knows he's missing this really important time in
his family's life.
Speaker 6 (10:56):
But Mary, Yeah, no, I get that I mean, but marriage,
like so gonna throw your whole marriage away because just
this bogus.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
But like the other it wasn't like he just.
Speaker 8 (11:04):
Said like oh you got like a nafty haircut. Like
it wasn't just like a comment you could get over right,
like yeah you are stupid faith or something like no,
like you hit her at something that.
Speaker 6 (11:15):
Like that hurts.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
That hurt me. Just look at me say like I'm so.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
I mean, he should be there. Maybe they could leave
the day after. Maybe, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
That's I don't know.
Speaker 8 (11:27):
I don't know if I could get over that.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
It's like I had an in law.
Speaker 8 (11:30):
That's that's I'm bogus like that to be.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
All right, I don't know. It's hard.
Speaker 4 (11:35):
I can't do it.
Speaker 8 (11:35):
He should be there, that's his family has nothing to
do with the poor little baby.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
But he's got to.
Speaker 6 (11:41):
Do something to help mend that. Because the sister lansapolod,
she yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
Think so, toumayra, thank you have a good day again.
Though it's just I say the same thing, but like
there's got to be a way she has to support.
I think the wife has to support her husband's need
to want to be there. For this child and her
and his sister, while also acknowledging that that is a
relationship that needs to be fixed and he needs to
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take a stand as soon as as soon as she's
recovered and is like of her right mind, there's unfortunately
that's just the way to because again, who really misses out?
Who really misses out? Like this is a once in
a lifetime thing.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
It is once in a lifetime thing. But you know
a lot of people want to text saying that uncle
can just facetimed it. It's his nef, it's his neph
it's not his first child, but I mean it's but
it sounds like they're not having kids.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
So this is really significant to him that.
Speaker 5 (12:34):
He will be in his nephew's life for the rest
of his life. You know what I'm saying, he's got getted.
There's so many opportunities to watch that kid grow up.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
You never know, you know, I get when you start
putting a foot down on these milestone moments. These are
things you can't take back that whole life.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
I know, I'm so torn, but I have to be
that person.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Though.
Speaker 7 (12:50):
Let's say that says when you get married, the family
that you create is now your family, kids are no kids.
Your wife is your family now, so that is priority.
And I hate to be that person to say it,
but it's true. I only feel for this person, for
this couple because it's important to him. He wants to
see his nephew be born. That's important for me as
a wife, I would support that even with that comment
being made, I'd support that.
Speaker 4 (13:10):
But after that, gloves are off thrown hands.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
No, once that's over, Once that's then, then then he
needs to stand up and stand on business for her.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
But again, you know, think about birthday parties, think about weddings,
think about bursts, think about these things where family they
draw the line and go, you know what, forget about it.
I'm not gonna support you. I'm not gonna come. We're
not talking. I'm mad at you or whatever. That's stuff
that can never be never be recreated and never it
can never be fixed.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
That's true.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
It's like you weren't at my wedding.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
But you're gonna meet your nephew for the first time.
It doesn't have to be at the hospital. It could
be a week later, it could be after the honeymoon.
You don't got to be there at the hospital for
this birth.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I mean, that's that, but I don't I didn't meet
any of my nieces or nephews at the hospital.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
And see I have. I'm the That's like, you know,
I want to be there. I want to meet him.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
As soon as out.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That's what he wants.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
It's tough, but like you do, have to stand by
your wife. Bro, you gotta stand by your lady.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
All right. Key Judge Speaky has Kiki has spoken speaking spoken?
Hell you got's
He's slaughter up.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all right, The
Honorable Ki Kahlik is here.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Take it away, all right, Let's get into the courtroom.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Hit that gable, Let's go. Yeah, I mean business.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
I'm standing on business, all right, it says, Hey, Kiki,
I've been married six months now, and I already feel
a divorce coming. Since even before our wedding, my husband
and I have been saving and planning for our dream honeymoon. However,
his sister just ruined our plans and possibly our marriage.
The date of our honeymoon has been known for months, however,
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my sister in law just scheduled her sea section in
the middle of the week that we're gone. My husband
is freaking out because he obviously wants to be there
for the birth of his first nephew, but I feel
like he can just meet his nephew after our trip. Now,
all of my in laws are pressuring me to reschedule
our honeymoon, and my evil sister in law sent me
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the nastiest text saying, you know that you aren't able
to give my brother kids of his own, So don't
be selfish and take this moment away from my brother, Kiki.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
That was it for me.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I've decided that I'm going on my honeymoon with or
without my husband. Am I wrong? If I go enjoy
my honeymoon solo the belts? Yeah, so below the belts
that was unnecessary. Oh my god, Well, judge Kiky, I'm
conflicted because you know, Keikey is saying, you know, honeymoons
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and vacations can be rescheduled once in a lifetime. Moments
can never be redone, so he will never get the
moment of being at his nephew's birth again if you
guys go on this honeymoon, right, But then you got
kk over here.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
That's my other side who said when your sister sends
you a text something like what she.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Said in that text, I need to go on this honeymoon,
so I don't put my hands on anybody because that's crazy,
Like you went so far low the belt because you
and I don't probably I don't know how this worked
with pregnancies and burths like you tell you because now girls,
it seemed like they're just scheduling.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm like, you know what Friday would be good for me?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
So yeah, if you're here a schedule Sea section.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah, it's okay, scheduled, but like you're.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Going to schedule sea sections schedule, but you're going off.
It's scheduled off of your doctor.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Like if you if you want to have your doctor
available call you can take the time.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
You have to pick it. You have to pick this
certain day that your doctor's working.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Okay, because I thought we was letting Jesus take the wheel,
but it just seemed like now people could be like,
you know, on Thursday at two o'clock after I get
a spray tan would be good. So if you think
there is yeah, and do that, then schedule it when
he's back or you know, girl, you.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Know what you were doing. I don't know. The sister
launch just evil to me.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
And at this point I think you need to go
on your trip just to keep the peace, because Lord knows,
if you go to the hospital after what she said
to you, anything may happen.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
So yeah, but her being a jerk doesn't change the
fact that he would miss the experience. I understand that
just makes it worse, but like it doesn't change the
fact that it's a once in a lifetime thing. So
it's like, not only do I think that, do they
have to reschedule the honeymoon, but now that relationship is
permanently damaged, so bad because again she's a jerk. But
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like again, the date is the date the babies come,
When the babies come, and when they decided, and so
if he wants to be there, then that's how that's
going to go.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So you would reschedule your honeymoon.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
It comes down to this, do I want to miss
the once in a lifetime moment over words that were
exchanged between two people? And the answer is no, Okay.
I mean now there may be they may never talk again,
there may be no healing there. I don't know what's
going to happen between those stupid Like again, we're talking
about me being there, and I don't know how much
flexibility do you really have like a few days here
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and there, like for the schedule see section Like it's
not only I don't think you can choose between like
a whole week or two, you know, I don't think
you can go like, well, we'll just do it next
week because you guys are gone.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Maybe yeah, And you can also start going into labor
like a lot earlier than scheduled see section So you
it's really.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
It is still up in the air somewhat.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Yeah, any God's call, it really is.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
And then on top of that too, I think what
they should do is is he needs to hop on
that plane the minute the baby is born, when he
sees his nephew was net through niece. I can't remember
nephew and the nepthew's born to meet the nephew be there.
But those words that were exchanged between sister law and
sister that's a different level of just calling someone the
B word or just being you know whatever, petty. Infertility
is absolutely no joke, especially within a marriage somebody who
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wants a baby, someone who was infertile for a year
before I had my daughter. That is something you do
never ever ever touch. And that was such a shady comment.
That was terrible, And that's something they need to work
on too. Is is that dynamic of that of that relationship,
Like if you're my husband, like you're you're siding with me.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I don't want you to miss your nephew's.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Born, but that's the problem. So I side with you,
and I should because that was a messed up comment.
But then I so I side with you. We go
on our honeymoon and then I missed this thing that
I can never replicate, that will never happen again. Yeah. So,
I mean that's.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Why I'm like, I'm so torn.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Also, for a scheduled sea section, only the father, it's
not a room full of people. Mom's not going to
be there, mother in law is not going to be there.
It's only the mom giving birth and the father, the husband.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
But you know, you be in the waiting room, it's
fresh out.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
You know you want to see the baby the first day.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
You ain't see nobody that first day.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
The mom don't want to see No, I'm telling you
they're not going to see anybody that first day.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Well, the baby though, right, you can see the baby.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Like if you have a baby tomorrow, I can meet
the baby on tomorrow, right.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Tomorrow, tomorrow, the baby is in the room with mom.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
After a woman has a sea section, I'm telling you
they're not going to want to see anybody after the
first day.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
On the first day, So you're going on a honeymoon.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah, Okay, I think without the A whole comment, you
just reschedule the honeymoon. With the A whole comment, you're
tempted out of spite to go on the honeymoon. But
the problem is you're the one who misses out. You know.
It's it's like when when parents are getting along with
their kids and one of the other takes a standover
like a wedding, like I'm not going to the wedding.
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It's like, Okay, well you're gonna make a statement. You are,
but you're never going to be able to relive that moment. Ever,
So is this statement really worth you missing out on
that thing? Because let's say a year from now, six
months from now, five ten years from now, you guys reconcile,
you can never have that moment back. Yeah, so I
think you got to seize the moment and then fix
the fix the problem. That's another thing. So is this
(06:27):
is the brother not supposed to see his baby fresh
out because those two have an interpersonal problem, Like, yeah,
he has to take her aside, But is he then
supposed to he's supposed to miss out on this experience
that has nothing to do with the baby.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
I don't think so. No, it's important to him.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
It sounds like to be there, like Fred you were
you didn't have to be there when your nieces were born, right,
But that.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Like to you, was it No?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I wanted to be there right away for Polly, I
was well, No, for Polly, I was there the day
she was born. I was I was in Dallas when
it happened. And then for May, I was there the
next morning.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
That's an important to you.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
I'm assuming I wanted to.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Be right there, and I really wanted to see Polly
and May of meat, and I wanted to see when
Polly was handed to my mom. I mean, there's just
moments that you can't and my sister and I could
have been in bad shape. We've never been in bad shape,
but we could have been in bad shape, and I
would have sucked it up to have been there for
that moment, because it's something you can never ever see again.
And it's it's not about the problem I have with
(07:24):
my family member at that point. It's about the moment.
It's about the baby, it's about everybody else, it's about
the whole family. So this dude's in a tough spot.
He concide with his wife and say hey to his sister,
what you said was so messed up, But then he
still needs to and wants to be there when the
baby comes out and He has every right to do
that because that's about his relationship with the baby, it is.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
But if he doesn't take his wife's side after that
sister's text message, man, I would be It's over.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Six months into a marriage. Why are you trying me
like this land and you only.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Get one hunting?
Speaker 5 (07:54):
You only if you get one honeymoon. You know what
I'm saying, It's a trip of a lifetime.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Victoria. Yeah, Hi, Victoria, how you doing? Hey? What do
you think? Very well? Thanks for calling me, Spaska. What
do you think here? So this this dude, his sister's
having a schedule sea section having a baby. His honeymoon
is scheduled at the same time. And prior to when
(08:19):
they were kind of working this all out, you know,
there was talk about rescheduling the honeymoon so that he
could be there for the birth of his niece or
nephew or whatever, and then words were exchanged between the
mom and the wife and now it's nasty, and so
now it's like, well, I'm going on the honeymoon, forget
about that, and you better come with me because you
got to support me. You know, what do you do here?
Speaker 8 (08:40):
I mean, I've gone my honeymoon because I mean, personally,
I'm hit two sea sections and I didn't want anyone
to sear me for like the first two weeks at least.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Oh wow, unless it was like my husband or like
my mom or someone who is going to be helpful
and not just like.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Doing and awing over my baby.
Speaker 8 (08:58):
So I've gone moon and then you guys can have
a little party and meet the baby on the way back.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
So like a week later, like, hey, I'm back. Now
I'm saying I'm good. Let me see this kid like that.
That's good enough.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Yeah, yeah, okay, it's rude what she said.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
So it was so rude. That's the kind of stuff
you can't take back.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Beyond rude exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
That's that's some stuff that. Yeah, that might change the
relationship between those two forever. Thank you, Victoria. Have a
good day. Glad you called Myra. Hey, good morning, what
do you think?
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Good morning?
Speaker 6 (09:35):
Oh man, you guys got me. I'm so upset with
that sister in law.
Speaker 8 (09:41):
I would have said cancel and reschedule it, and then
that text message came through it she volus for that,
you know, as somebody who dealt with like issues getting
pregnant and all that fun stuff like that that cuts
that cuts deep.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
That's a different kind of of deep.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
I think I.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
Think the brothers should really talk to the sister and
the sister in law needs to apologize.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah, like, no doubt, no doubt about that.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Again, I apologize, like he should be there because that's
important to him and that's a family. But like that's cutting.
Speaker 8 (10:17):
At something deep that like his wife can't change the
fact that she's unable to.
Speaker 6 (10:21):
Have kids and that's bogus, you know, Like, so she's
going to resent that forever because it's not her fault.
Her body can't do what she wanted to do.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
So yeah, I think that comment is totally separate from
all of this, like that, I don't know that they're
going to have to work that out, and the sister
in law is so messed up for saying that. But again,
it comes back to this moment in time and the
history and the family and legacy and all these different things,
like is he really gonna be able to enjoy himself
and you know, Tahiti or Cancun or wherever, you know,
(10:52):
when he knows he's missing this really important time in
his family's life.
Speaker 6 (10:56):
But Mary, Yeah, no, I get that I mean, but marriage,
like so gonna throw your whole marriage away because just
this bogus.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
But like the other it wasn't like he just.
Speaker 8 (11:04):
Said like oh you got like a nafty haircut. Like
it wasn't just like a comment you could get over right,
like yeah you are stupid faith or something like no,
like you hit her at something that.
Speaker 6 (11:15):
Like that hurts.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
That hurt me. Just look at me say like I'm so.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
I mean, he should be there. Maybe they could leave
the day after. Maybe, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
That's I don't know.
Speaker 8 (11:27):
I don't know if I could get over that.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
It's like I had an in law.
Speaker 8 (11:30):
That's that's I'm bogus like that to be.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
All right, I don't know. It's hard.
Speaker 4 (11:35):
I can't do it.
Speaker 8 (11:35):
He should be there, that's his family has nothing to
do with the poor little baby.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
But he's got to.
Speaker 6 (11:41):
Do something to help mend that. Because the sister lansapolod,
she yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
Think so, toumayra, thank you have a good day again.
Though it's just I say the same thing, but like
there's got to be a way she has to support.
I think the wife has to support her husband's need
to want to be there. For this child and her
and his sister, while also acknowledging that that is a
relationship that needs to be fixed and he needs to
(12:07):
take a stand as soon as as soon as she's
recovered and is like of her right mind, there's unfortunately
that's just the way to because again, who really misses out?
Who really misses out? Like this is a once in
a lifetime thing.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
It is once in a lifetime thing. But you know
a lot of people want to text saying that uncle
can just facetimed it. It's his nef, it's his neph
it's not his first child, but I mean it's but
it sounds like they're not having kids.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
So this is really significant to him that.
Speaker 5 (12:34):
He will be in his nephew's life for the rest
of his life. You know what I'm saying, he's got getted.
There's so many opportunities to watch that kid grow up.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
You never know, you know, I get when you start
putting a foot down on these milestone moments. These are
things you can't take back that whole life.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
I know, I'm so torn, but I have to be
that person.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Though.
Speaker 7 (12:50):
Let's say that says when you get married, the family
that you create is now your family, kids are no kids.
Your wife is your family now, so that is priority.
And I hate to be that person to say it,
but it's true. I only feel for this person, for
this couple because it's important to him. He wants to
see his nephew be born. That's important for me as
a wife, I would support that even with that comment
being made, I'd support that.
Speaker 4 (13:10):
But after that, gloves are off thrown hands.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
No, once that's over, Once that's then, then then he
needs to stand up and stand on business for her.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
But again, you know, think about birthday parties, think about weddings,
think about bursts, think about these things where family they
draw the line and go, you know what, forget about it.
I'm not gonna support you. I'm not gonna come. We're
not talking. I'm mad at you or whatever. That's stuff
that can never be never be recreated and never it
can never be fixed.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
That's true.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
It's like you weren't at my wedding.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
But you're gonna meet your nephew for the first time.
It doesn't have to be at the hospital. It could
be a week later, it could be after the honeymoon.
You don't got to be there at the hospital for
this birth.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I mean, that's that, but I don't I didn't meet
any of my nieces or nephews at the hospital.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
And see I have. I'm the That's like, you know,
I want to be there. I want to meet him.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
As soon as out.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That's what he wants.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
It's tough, but like you do, have to stand by
your wife. Bro, you gotta stand by your lady.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
All right. Key Judge Speaky has Kiki has spoken speaking spoken?
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