July 21, 2025 • 17 mins
A listener is conflicted after her neighbor came to her door asking to look at her Ring camera because ChatGPT told her that her husband was cheating on her.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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(00:42):
It's all rise the Honorable Kiki League out at the best.
Shout Judge Kiki. All right, let's say you, let's get
into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit, it says Kiki.
Am I wrong for not sharing Mareen camera footage with
my neighbor because jet Chat GPT told her that her
husband is cheating. My neighbor, who I am not friends
(01:05):
with but seeing passing from time to time, came to
my door last week in tears, asking if she could
look at my ring camera footage. When I asked her why,
she said that chat GPT told her that her husband
is cheating. I tried my hardest not to laugh in
her face, but she was so serious. She said that
she believed that her husband may be sneaking a woman
into their house while she's at work.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I told her I didn't.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Feel comfortable getting involved in a marriage situation and I
didn't want to be a part of a potential legal
drama or domestic issues, and I politely declined. She begged,
saying I could save her months of doubt and pain,
and I still said no. Now she's furious with me,
calling me selfish, heartless, and saying that women like me
enable men like him. After she left, I did feel bad,
(01:51):
so I went back to review the footage, and sure enough,
her husband was on my camera in four K taking
a younger looking woman into their home.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Boy.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I know I went against girl cold, but I still
feel like I made the right decision.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Wow? Wow? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Kiki what do you judge, Kiki, what you're ruling?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
You know how I feel about this girl.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I've seen lifetime movies on stuff like this, you know,
and hey, I'm not gonna get involved in that. And
then he chop you up and come chop me up
because the camera footage came from my angle.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
I don't want to be a.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Part of this. This is what you gotta do.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, I'm not giving up my footage.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
No, you gotta get a wildlife camera. This is what
you because here's the thing. If you get like a
like a ring camera, then your husband's gonna know that
you did that. Like if you put cameras, there's a
good chance. Now, wildlife camera this is where they put
out like in the forest so they can see like
migration hunters can see like migration patterns of animals. You
(02:51):
stick that in the tree. It's camouflage, it blends him,
and it's motion activated. Now that's how you find out.
You set up your own surveillance. Do not rely on
the people to get involved in your drama. I agree
with you. I'm sorry, but I don't want any part
of this. All you got to do is out this guy,
and before long he shows up with a shotgun at
your front door, and you've got a problem. I've seen
(03:13):
the movies I have too. Can you take l NBC
episodes have started and ended this way.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yes, if you think your man is cheating while you're
at work, here's what you do, girl, Go to work
or act like you're going to work, spend the block,
come back around the time you think that he's cheating.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Boom, it's all there.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I think you're on your own to come up with
your own evidence and your own proof.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Like you can't say I enable men and I'm the problem.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
No, your husband is the problem.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I'm creeping around. I would not give up this footach.
It can give you really messy for you. I can
understand if we were friends, you know, if I had
some type of investment in y'all relationship. But I don't
know you, girl, You're just a neighbor across the street.
That's not go at somebody else.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Someone just Cli'm assuming it's me that someone just called
me a deal hole. Sorry about that, Yeah, Calyn, get
off your phone.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Honestly, I think they're talking to the listener that wrote it. Oh,
because she said, yes, you're wrong, You're dual.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Well, you're wrong. You're wrong not to give it to someone.
I guess I agree. Okay, Caaylen, let me let me
hear it now.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Thank you. We're back at trail cams is what.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
They're called cams? Okay? Not a lot a wildlife.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I think it's the same. Everyone knew what I was
talking about. Everybody knows. I'm just go to Bass Pro
shop whatever and get you one of them. It blends
right in with the tree.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Have you done this before?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
It is not recently. I don't have a lot of
trees in my building that I can blend it into too.
You know, I'm just saying, come up with your own method.
If you just, first of all, ched GPT thinks you're cheating,
what does that even mean? I don't know what did
you type in there?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Said that Jack told her that, yes, girl.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Of the Sign, do not involve me in your drama.
But Kaylyn, you say you say that?
Speaker 6 (04:56):
What I say that If a woman who is distraught
shows up at my front door and it wants to
see my cameras, I'm going to let her see my cameras.
I could not to someone's face say no, sorry, can't
help you, even though I might have the answer.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Sorry, go off.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
On your own, invite her inside. We're gonna have a
nice open some wine. No, you were doing wine because yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
We need we need to drink for this one, honey,
because he's cheating and I already knew.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
But what if he comes back with the knife?
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Then I I know that I can sleep because I
did the right thing. Like I'm not I I hold
myself to a certain standard and I would not be
able to look in the mirror if I didn't help
a cheating a woman with her husband cheating.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
We don't, We don't. We don't know until we knew,
Like we don't know for a fact. We had to
go look and we had to go dig up the footage.
We had to go do all this stuff. It wasn't
like we knowingly said, I'm he's cheating with me or
I'm personally involved and I'm not gonna tell you.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I think the.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Problem with our world today is that everyone is extremely
selfish and don't want to get involved in things. And
I think that we need to go back to helping
each other and being there for each other.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
I don't know, just my my opinion.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Because if it was me, I would want you to
help me.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
But if it was me, I think a reactive world
where people do stupid things as opposed to being accountable.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
For their own fear.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
You cannot not do something that's good because you're scared
of the outcome. I would I would never walk outside
downtown if I lived in fear.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
You know what I mean? Like, you have to live
your life, be a good person.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
It's time, it's my time.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
Yeah, that's where you and I.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I don't know that I'm a bad person for not
wanting to get involved in your drama. I don't think
that makes it. I don't think that. But you just
said be a good person. If you don't implying that, if.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
You define be a good person, I'm not calling you
a bad person. I'm just we have our own moral coast.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Well, yeah, it's very upsetting some time. Hey Jack, what's Jack?
Hey Jack? Okay? So you heard Kieky Score. You're basically
a woman thinks that her husband's cheating ask chet ept
GPT's infinite wisdom was to basically go ask her neighbor
if she has any video proof of it. I guess
I don't know. It turns out she doesn't want to
(07:07):
be involved, but she did go look and it does
look that way. It does appear the dude is cheating.
What do you think she should do?
Speaker 8 (07:16):
I don't know. I climb back and forth, but if
it was me, I don't know. I originally said to
stay out of it, but I'm honestly going back and forth.
What I said earlier was what I told Bella was
I saw this thing.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Online where somebody ordered. The person who thought they were
being cheated on ordered uber or door Dash, and they
in the notes told the person to keep the food,
but just drive by the house and say if there
was a certain kind of car there, and that's how
they find out if it was really going on or not.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, I don't know. Maybe the neighbor can tip her
off or something, but I don't. Providing footage how you're
getting involved and then I don't know. It makes me
so uncomfortable. Someone texted, this is how you wind up
on verse forty eight. It's true. I've seen it. I'm serious, Jack.
Thank you have a good day, because you gotta member
(08:06):
people who cheat are not accountable people, so they're not
gonna go Oh, neighbor caught me yap you got me.
You know what, I'm so sorry. I'm a bad person.
I'm wrong. They're gonna spin it. They're gonna make you
out to be a bad person. They're gonna drag you
into what they're gonna do, all kinds of things. We're
expecting everyone's going to behave appropriately and they're not because
people don't. You guys are the jury eight five five
(08:28):
five five Cam, Hi, Hi, Cam, You say tell the neighbor.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah, I say what you say about how it could
like definitely be a scary situation.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
But I feel like that's if you actually like send
it to her with the angles, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
But I'm kind of like, I'm kind.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Of like, I'm a married woman.
Speaker 8 (08:50):
If I if.
Speaker 5 (08:51):
I was in that situation, I would want somebody to
help me out.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
M Yeah, I'm trying to think of a way that
the that you could do it and have your hands
clean on it. Because I agree if if I know
someone's being cheated on and they asked me to confirm it,
and I know it, and I don't say anything that
would make me feel bad, but I also think I
would be justified in not wanting to be involved in
a situation that could be potentially problematic for me.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Because what if they work it out like we've always said,
you know, then now they joined forces and I'm the
nosy neighbor that was medaling or you know.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah it's my neighbor too. It's not like it's it's
not like it's a stranger. I mean, it's somebody crossed
the street from my house. Like they they they could
do a lot of things.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
Well with that logic, the wife could do something to
you for not helping her.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
If we're you know, I mean, everybody go care you
know what.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
But I guess what I'm saying is if you and Kim,
thank you so much, have a good damn glad you
call it thank you. What I'm saying. What I'm saying
is why is it Why is it the neighbor's responsibility
to be involved in this thing? Why if you think
your husband's cheating, then you figure out how to catch him, right?
You and chapt like, why I dragged me into this?
I set up your own camera.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
But you know I do I see what Kaylen is saying,
like we do want somebody to help us.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
But it's like, girl, like I've been cheated on, and
I mean to you know, so like, I know how
bad that hurts.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
And another thing, Sometimes you don't need confirmation. If Chad
GPT told you and it's your woman's intuition and told
you that he was he's cheating, you don't need my footage,
go ahead and divorce.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
And you already know. You already know. That's how I
would talk to her.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Maybe if I saw it, like if I were looking
at my ring camera and I saw like a pattern,
maybe I'd say anonymous. Maybe I'd put a little note
on her thing and be like, I don't know, maybe
maybe Wednesday's around one o'clock, you should stop by your
e I don't know. There's gotta be a way that
I can help without implicating myself because I don't trust anybody. Hey, Melissa,
(10:51):
this happened to you.
Speaker 9 (10:52):
Oh yeah, so I have a neighbor reach out on Facebook,
and she asked if I could check my ring cameras
because she knew I had them set up. And it
was months later and I went back months to go
find that footage and my husband was like, yeah, I
actually saw a couple of cars pull into the driveway.
(11:13):
He was in the hospital at the time, and she
reached out to me, and we were like, yeah, he
was having cars coming and out.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Of the driveway.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
That dirty dog. She's in the hospital. Yes, she was
in the hospital.
Speaker 9 (11:27):
And it was very sad because but we we kind
of played it like I think it was his family also.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You covered for him.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
We did a little bit.
Speaker 9 (11:39):
I was like, I don't know. There was this black car,
there was a white one.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Yeah. I mean I see both sides of this, I
really do. But I'm also not trying to die. So
thank you, Melissa, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
You too.
Speaker 9 (11:52):
Bye.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
That husband needs to pay him some you know, they
kept them right right right? They did a and beyond
for him.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Yeah, or or you could we've had this kind of
conversation before. You could go to the husband and be like, look, oh,
homegirl asked me for some information. I didn't give it
to her, but I went and looked, and I think,
I don't know what you're up to, but you need
you need to fix it. I don't want anything to
do with this, but I'm just telling you right now,
she's asking questions. She wants me to get involved. I
(12:21):
don't want to be involved. Handle your business, or I'm
turning this stuff over. You could do something now that's
more confrontational, right, But I mean at least at least
it's like you're on you're sort of on both sides here,
like you're being fair. Like she asked for the information,
you have the information, you go to the person response on,
I don't know what you're doing, but you need to
(12:41):
have an explanation for what I saw.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
But then you see you mess around and have both
of them at your door.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Yeah, well he's.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Trying to get the footage from you.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
She wants this is like, oh, this is something mess
and you could say, like turn the footage over anonymously,
but they're gonna know where it came from.
Speaker 7 (12:56):
What you know, right exactly? I mean that's a camera, right,
and you know I would just burn my ring camera.
I just burned the whole house down. Actually, this is
too stressful as the neighbor.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I mean, if here's the thing, if it were a crime,
I would absolutely turn my ring camera footage joke, right,
But this is this isn't a crime. This is a
moral indiscretion.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
Haven't you read the Bible?
Speaker 1 (13:20):
No, hey, Laura, as a matter of fact, I have it, Laura, Hi, Hi,
it's been a minute. I mean I haven't. Yea, what
do you think here Kiki's court?
Speaker 8 (13:30):
I totally h yeah, I totally agree with Caitlin. I
think that she has to help her neighbor. I also
think she could just say, here's.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
The footage, and you know what, if the guy and
the lady want to kill her, then you know what, you.
Speaker 8 (13:47):
Shouldn't have been cheating, or you shouldn't have been cheating
at your house. Okay, thank you, kind of you kind
of set yourself up for that.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Ye thank you, Laura, have.
Speaker 8 (13:56):
A good day you too.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That's a good neighbor.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Okay, But okay, what about this? And we were talking
about somebody to the effect of this earlier, but like
we've talked about on the show before too. But okay,
so you have footage of a girl going to the
house with a guy, so you give it to her.
She watches that, and they watch it together and it's, oh, no,
that's actually his knees or that's my whatever. It turns
out that it was. It wasn't in fact nefarious. That
(14:19):
there was an explanation. Now he knows that you're a snitch. Yeah,
so let's say he's not actually doing anything, but he
knows what you're capable of, which is you're willing to
get involved in my business. So now he doesn't like you.
You have a problem. There's a lot of ways this
winds up in your face for doing the right thing.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Sure, are you a snitch?
Speaker 6 (14:39):
If you're you're getting someone intel for cheating, that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
But if they're But if he's not cheating, well then.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
He's like, okay, good, I'll continue if not.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Cheat, if he has a good explanation. But then but
then I would be like, what is she getting involved
in this for? You know what I mean? Like, if
it turned out that I wasn't doing anything wrong, what
did you get this? And she'd be like, well, I
went to the neighbor, and the neighbor's in on this
with me. Great, So now the neighbor thinks I'm a
cheater and she's willing to turn over footage of everything
I do.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
Cool, but now everyone knows you're not. And I'd be like, good,
that's a good friend, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
No, I think you'd be totally annoyed. You'd be annoyed
that you were being spied on. You'd be annoyed that
this person doesn't I don't know I can see this
being a problem no matter how it turns out true,
that's the problem. Hey, Jasmine, Hi, Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 10 (15:24):
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
How are you guys doing well? Kiki's Court? What say you? So?
Speaker 10 (15:28):
I actually feel like, you know, I've been in that situation.
I've been cheated on, and I didn't go looking around,
you know, asking people for footage or anything like that.
But if someone's asking you, it's better to help them out.
Because in my situation, it was actually the friend of
the girl that was cheating on me with thinking that
she was doing me a favor. I don't think she
was doing me a favor, but she sent me a picture,
(15:50):
she sent me, you know, everything that the girl had.
I don't know why the girl didn't reach out to me,
but it's always better to help out the woman because
she's asking part than having her find out from someone
else that you know, not coming from a good place.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. She has been Thank you
have a good day. There's a lot, there's a lot
on the show today. I don't know about it. I
don't know about her waiting by the phone. I don't
know about this, Richard, I don't know. I don't know
what what say you? That's to me, it's just devil's advocate.
I'm just playing that side of.
Speaker 11 (16:22):
It is that could be his sister. That all she
saw was some young woman going into the house with him,
his sister and cousin, niece.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
I mean, that could be anybody.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
His hairstyles, sure, mistress.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
So why is that, Richard? Why is it on the
neighbor to solve the If you think you're being cheated on,
then you catch the guy. Like, why do I have
to get that?
Speaker 11 (16:53):
She should not give up any footage because it is
none of her business.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
I would be like, I'm so sorry this is happening
to you. I do want to be involved. This isn't fair.
I'm your neighbor. I don't want to be involved. This
is my home. I can't just move, you know what
I mean. So so if this goes wrong, this is
a big problem. Here are some things I might do
if I were you trail camera my camera girl, yeah yeah,
(17:18):
or something like that. Hey, Richard, thank you, have a
good day. I love you guys, Yeah, I love you.
I don't I don't know that's fair. It's an unfair
position to put someone to put someone else in
This is the Freas Show. Let's get you Hotel, A
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It's all rise the Honorable Kiki League out at the best.
Shout Judge Kiki. All right, let's say you, let's get
into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit, it says Kiki.
Am I wrong for not sharing Mareen camera footage with
my neighbor because jet Chat GPT told her that her
husband is cheating. My neighbor, who I am not friends
(01:05):
with but seeing passing from time to time, came to
my door last week in tears, asking if she could
look at my ring camera footage. When I asked her why,
she said that chat GPT told her that her husband
is cheating. I tried my hardest not to laugh in
her face, but she was so serious. She said that
she believed that her husband may be sneaking a woman
into their house while she's at work.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I told her I didn't.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Feel comfortable getting involved in a marriage situation and I
didn't want to be a part of a potential legal
drama or domestic issues, and I politely declined. She begged,
saying I could save her months of doubt and pain,
and I still said no. Now she's furious with me,
calling me selfish, heartless, and saying that women like me
enable men like him. After she left, I did feel bad,
(01:51):
so I went back to review the footage, and sure enough,
her husband was on my camera in four K taking
a younger looking woman into their home.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Boy.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I know I went against girl cold, but I still
feel like I made the right decision.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Wow? Wow? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Kiki what do you judge, Kiki, what you're ruling?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
You know how I feel about this girl.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I've seen lifetime movies on stuff like this, you know,
and hey, I'm not gonna get involved in that. And
then he chop you up and come chop me up
because the camera footage came from my angle.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
I don't want to be a.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Part of this. This is what you gotta do.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, I'm not giving up my footage.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
No, you gotta get a wildlife camera. This is what
you because here's the thing. If you get like a
like a ring camera, then your husband's gonna know that
you did that. Like if you put cameras, there's a
good chance. Now, wildlife camera this is where they put
out like in the forest so they can see like
migration hunters can see like migration patterns of animals. You
(02:51):
stick that in the tree. It's camouflage, it blends him,
and it's motion activated. Now that's how you find out.
You set up your own surveillance. Do not rely on
the people to get involved in your drama. I agree
with you. I'm sorry, but I don't want any part
of this. All you got to do is out this guy,
and before long he shows up with a shotgun at
your front door, and you've got a problem. I've seen
(03:13):
the movies I have too. Can you take l NBC
episodes have started and ended this way.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yes, if you think your man is cheating while you're
at work, here's what you do, girl, Go to work
or act like you're going to work, spend the block,
come back around the time you think that he's cheating.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Boom, it's all there.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I think you're on your own to come up with
your own evidence and your own proof.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Like you can't say I enable men and I'm the problem.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
No, your husband is the problem.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I'm creeping around. I would not give up this footach.
It can give you really messy for you. I can
understand if we were friends, you know, if I had
some type of investment in y'all relationship. But I don't
know you, girl, You're just a neighbor across the street.
That's not go at somebody else.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Someone just Cli'm assuming it's me that someone just called
me a deal hole. Sorry about that, Yeah, Calyn, get
off your phone.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Honestly, I think they're talking to the listener that wrote it. Oh,
because she said, yes, you're wrong, You're dual.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Well, you're wrong. You're wrong not to give it to someone.
I guess I agree. Okay, Caaylen, let me let me
hear it now.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Thank you. We're back at trail cams is what.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
They're called cams? Okay? Not a lot a wildlife.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I think it's the same. Everyone knew what I was
talking about. Everybody knows. I'm just go to Bass Pro
shop whatever and get you one of them. It blends
right in with the tree.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Have you done this before?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
It is not recently. I don't have a lot of
trees in my building that I can blend it into too.
You know, I'm just saying, come up with your own method.
If you just, first of all, ched GPT thinks you're cheating,
what does that even mean? I don't know what did
you type in there?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Said that Jack told her that, yes, girl.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Of the Sign, do not involve me in your drama.
But Kaylyn, you say you say that?
Speaker 6 (04:56):
What I say that If a woman who is distraught
shows up at my front door and it wants to
see my cameras, I'm going to let her see my cameras.
I could not to someone's face say no, sorry, can't
help you, even though I might have the answer.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Sorry, go off.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
On your own, invite her inside. We're gonna have a
nice open some wine. No, you were doing wine because yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
We need we need to drink for this one, honey,
because he's cheating and I already knew.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
But what if he comes back with the knife?
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Then I I know that I can sleep because I
did the right thing. Like I'm not I I hold
myself to a certain standard and I would not be
able to look in the mirror if I didn't help
a cheating a woman with her husband cheating.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
We don't, We don't. We don't know until we knew,
Like we don't know for a fact. We had to
go look and we had to go dig up the footage.
We had to go do all this stuff. It wasn't
like we knowingly said, I'm he's cheating with me or
I'm personally involved and I'm not gonna tell you.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I think the.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Problem with our world today is that everyone is extremely
selfish and don't want to get involved in things. And
I think that we need to go back to helping
each other and being there for each other.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
I don't know, just my my opinion.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Because if it was me, I would want you to
help me.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
But if it was me, I think a reactive world
where people do stupid things as opposed to being accountable.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
For their own fear.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
You cannot not do something that's good because you're scared
of the outcome. I would I would never walk outside
downtown if I lived in fear.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
You know what I mean? Like, you have to live
your life, be a good person.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
It's time, it's my time.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
Yeah, that's where you and I.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I don't know that I'm a bad person for not
wanting to get involved in your drama. I don't think
that makes it. I don't think that. But you just
said be a good person. If you don't implying that, if.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
You define be a good person, I'm not calling you
a bad person. I'm just we have our own moral coast.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Well, yeah, it's very upsetting some time. Hey Jack, what's Jack?
Hey Jack? Okay? So you heard Kieky Score. You're basically
a woman thinks that her husband's cheating ask chet ept
GPT's infinite wisdom was to basically go ask her neighbor
if she has any video proof of it. I guess
I don't know. It turns out she doesn't want to
(07:07):
be involved, but she did go look and it does
look that way. It does appear the dude is cheating.
What do you think she should do?
Speaker 8 (07:16):
I don't know. I climb back and forth, but if
it was me, I don't know. I originally said to
stay out of it, but I'm honestly going back and forth.
What I said earlier was what I told Bella was
I saw this thing.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Online where somebody ordered. The person who thought they were
being cheated on ordered uber or door Dash, and they
in the notes told the person to keep the food,
but just drive by the house and say if there
was a certain kind of car there, and that's how
they find out if it was really going on or not.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, I don't know. Maybe the neighbor can tip her
off or something, but I don't. Providing footage how you're
getting involved and then I don't know. It makes me
so uncomfortable. Someone texted, this is how you wind up
on verse forty eight. It's true. I've seen it. I'm serious, Jack.
Thank you have a good day, because you gotta member
(08:06):
people who cheat are not accountable people, so they're not
gonna go Oh, neighbor caught me yap you got me.
You know what, I'm so sorry. I'm a bad person.
I'm wrong. They're gonna spin it. They're gonna make you
out to be a bad person. They're gonna drag you
into what they're gonna do, all kinds of things. We're
expecting everyone's going to behave appropriately and they're not because
people don't. You guys are the jury eight five five
(08:28):
five five Cam, Hi, Hi, Cam, You say tell the neighbor.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah, I say what you say about how it could
like definitely be a scary situation.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
But I feel like that's if you actually like send
it to her with the angles, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
But I'm kind of like, I'm kind.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Of like, I'm a married woman.
Speaker 8 (08:50):
If I if.
Speaker 5 (08:51):
I was in that situation, I would want somebody to
help me out.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
M Yeah, I'm trying to think of a way that
the that you could do it and have your hands
clean on it. Because I agree if if I know
someone's being cheated on and they asked me to confirm it,
and I know it, and I don't say anything that
would make me feel bad, but I also think I
would be justified in not wanting to be involved in
a situation that could be potentially problematic for me.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Because what if they work it out like we've always said,
you know, then now they joined forces and I'm the
nosy neighbor that was medaling or you know.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah it's my neighbor too. It's not like it's it's
not like it's a stranger. I mean, it's somebody crossed
the street from my house. Like they they they could
do a lot of things.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
Well with that logic, the wife could do something to
you for not helping her.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
If we're you know, I mean, everybody go care you
know what.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
But I guess what I'm saying is if you and Kim,
thank you so much, have a good damn glad you
call it thank you. What I'm saying. What I'm saying
is why is it Why is it the neighbor's responsibility
to be involved in this thing? Why if you think
your husband's cheating, then you figure out how to catch him, right?
You and chapt like, why I dragged me into this?
I set up your own camera.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
But you know I do I see what Kaylen is saying,
like we do want somebody to help us.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
But it's like, girl, like I've been cheated on, and
I mean to you know, so like, I know how
bad that hurts.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
And another thing, Sometimes you don't need confirmation. If Chad
GPT told you and it's your woman's intuition and told
you that he was he's cheating, you don't need my footage,
go ahead and divorce.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
And you already know. You already know. That's how I
would talk to her.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Maybe if I saw it, like if I were looking
at my ring camera and I saw like a pattern,
maybe I'd say anonymous. Maybe I'd put a little note
on her thing and be like, I don't know, maybe
maybe Wednesday's around one o'clock, you should stop by your
e I don't know. There's gotta be a way that
I can help without implicating myself because I don't trust anybody. Hey, Melissa,
(10:51):
this happened to you.
Speaker 9 (10:52):
Oh yeah, so I have a neighbor reach out on Facebook,
and she asked if I could check my ring cameras
because she knew I had them set up. And it
was months later and I went back months to go
find that footage and my husband was like, yeah, I
actually saw a couple of cars pull into the driveway.
(11:13):
He was in the hospital at the time, and she
reached out to me, and we were like, yeah, he
was having cars coming and out.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Of the driveway.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
That dirty dog. She's in the hospital. Yes, she was
in the hospital.
Speaker 9 (11:27):
And it was very sad because but we we kind
of played it like I think it was his family also.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You covered for him.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
We did a little bit.
Speaker 9 (11:39):
I was like, I don't know. There was this black car,
there was a white one.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Yeah. I mean I see both sides of this, I
really do. But I'm also not trying to die. So
thank you, Melissa, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
You too.
Speaker 9 (11:52):
Bye.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
That husband needs to pay him some you know, they
kept them right right right? They did a and beyond
for him.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Yeah, or or you could we've had this kind of
conversation before. You could go to the husband and be like, look, oh,
homegirl asked me for some information. I didn't give it
to her, but I went and looked, and I think,
I don't know what you're up to, but you need
you need to fix it. I don't want anything to
do with this, but I'm just telling you right now,
she's asking questions. She wants me to get involved. I
(12:21):
don't want to be involved. Handle your business, or I'm
turning this stuff over. You could do something now that's
more confrontational, right, But I mean at least at least
it's like you're on you're sort of on both sides here,
like you're being fair. Like she asked for the information,
you have the information, you go to the person response on,
I don't know what you're doing, but you need to
(12:41):
have an explanation for what I saw.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
But then you see you mess around and have both
of them at your door.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Yeah, well he's.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Trying to get the footage from you.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
She wants this is like, oh, this is something mess
and you could say, like turn the footage over anonymously,
but they're gonna know where it came from.
Speaker 7 (12:56):
What you know, right exactly? I mean that's a camera, right,
and you know I would just burn my ring camera.
I just burned the whole house down. Actually, this is
too stressful as the neighbor.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I mean, if here's the thing, if it were a crime,
I would absolutely turn my ring camera footage joke, right,
But this is this isn't a crime. This is a
moral indiscretion.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
Haven't you read the Bible?
Speaker 1 (13:20):
No, hey, Laura, as a matter of fact, I have it, Laura, Hi, Hi,
it's been a minute. I mean I haven't. Yea, what
do you think here Kiki's court?
Speaker 8 (13:30):
I totally h yeah, I totally agree with Caitlin. I
think that she has to help her neighbor. I also
think she could just say, here's.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
The footage, and you know what, if the guy and
the lady want to kill her, then you know what, you.
Speaker 8 (13:47):
Shouldn't have been cheating, or you shouldn't have been cheating
at your house. Okay, thank you, kind of you kind
of set yourself up for that.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Ye thank you, Laura, have.
Speaker 8 (13:56):
A good day you too.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That's a good neighbor.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Okay, But okay, what about this? And we were talking
about somebody to the effect of this earlier, but like
we've talked about on the show before too. But okay,
so you have footage of a girl going to the
house with a guy, so you give it to her.
She watches that, and they watch it together and it's, oh, no,
that's actually his knees or that's my whatever. It turns
out that it was. It wasn't in fact nefarious. That
(14:19):
there was an explanation. Now he knows that you're a snitch. Yeah,
so let's say he's not actually doing anything, but he
knows what you're capable of, which is you're willing to
get involved in my business. So now he doesn't like you.
You have a problem. There's a lot of ways this
winds up in your face for doing the right thing.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Sure, are you a snitch?
Speaker 6 (14:39):
If you're you're getting someone intel for cheating, that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
But if they're But if he's not cheating, well then.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
He's like, okay, good, I'll continue if not.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Cheat, if he has a good explanation. But then but
then I would be like, what is she getting involved
in this for? You know what I mean? Like, if
it turned out that I wasn't doing anything wrong, what
did you get this? And she'd be like, well, I
went to the neighbor, and the neighbor's in on this
with me. Great, So now the neighbor thinks I'm a
cheater and she's willing to turn over footage of everything
I do.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
Cool, but now everyone knows you're not. And I'd be like, good,
that's a good friend, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
No, I think you'd be totally annoyed. You'd be annoyed
that you were being spied on. You'd be annoyed that
this person doesn't I don't know I can see this
being a problem no matter how it turns out true,
that's the problem. Hey, Jasmine, Hi, Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 10 (15:24):
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
How are you guys doing well? Kiki's Court? What say you? So?
Speaker 10 (15:28):
I actually feel like, you know, I've been in that situation.
I've been cheated on, and I didn't go looking around,
you know, asking people for footage or anything like that.
But if someone's asking you, it's better to help them out.
Because in my situation, it was actually the friend of
the girl that was cheating on me with thinking that
she was doing me a favor. I don't think she
was doing me a favor, but she sent me a picture,
(15:50):
she sent me, you know, everything that the girl had.
I don't know why the girl didn't reach out to me,
but it's always better to help out the woman because
she's asking part than having her find out from someone
else that you know, not coming from a good place.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. She has been Thank you
have a good day. There's a lot, there's a lot
on the show today. I don't know about it. I
don't know about her waiting by the phone. I don't
know about this, Richard, I don't know. I don't know
what what say you? That's to me, it's just devil's advocate.
I'm just playing that side of.
Speaker 11 (16:22):
It is that could be his sister. That all she
saw was some young woman going into the house with him,
his sister and cousin, niece.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
I mean, that could be anybody.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
His hairstyles, sure, mistress.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
So why is that, Richard? Why is it on the
neighbor to solve the If you think you're being cheated on,
then you catch the guy. Like, why do I have
to get that?
Speaker 11 (16:53):
She should not give up any footage because it is
none of her business.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
I would be like, I'm so sorry this is happening
to you. I do want to be involved. This isn't fair.
I'm your neighbor. I don't want to be involved. This
is my home. I can't just move, you know what
I mean. So so if this goes wrong, this is
a big problem. Here are some things I might do
if I were you trail camera my camera girl, yeah yeah,
(17:18):
or something like that. Hey, Richard, thank you, have a
good day. I love you guys, Yeah, I love you.
I don't I don't know that's fair. It's an unfair
position to put someone to put someone else in
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