June 16, 2025 • 12 mins
After trying for kids for years and being unsuccessful, a couple finally got pregnant and had their first child. Only issue, the father was in denial it was is and got a DNA test behind his wife's back to find out it was his child... Judge Keke weighs in
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Kiki's court, all right, then is here? Take it away,
judge Kik.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
All right, let's get into the courtroom.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
It says Kiki.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Am I wrong for getting a DNA test on my
daughter because I didn't believe she was mine. My wife
and I have been together for ten years, married for
six We tried for years to have a baby, and
for years we were faced with struggles. But back in December,
we were finally blessed with our baby girl. I was
shocked excited, but if I'm honest, I had a little
bit of doubt in my mind that the baby could
(00:29):
really be mine, just because we tried for so long
and had no success. To make matters worse, when my
daughter was born, she didn't really look like me. Even
my own mother started making comments about how she didn't
really look like us at all, different hair texture, eye color,
and more. Eventually, my mom suggested that I buy an
at home DNA test and test my daughter without telling
(00:51):
my wife. Thankfully, the results confirmed she is mine, and
I felt a huge sense of relief and was ready
to move on with our lives. But last week, my
wife found out she was shopping online and saw the
DNA test in our recent purchase history, and now she's
not speaking to me, She's sleeping in the gas room
and says that our trust is forever broken. It really
(01:12):
wasn't a trust thing for me, but more of my
anxiety just getting the best of me. Am I wrong
for doing what I felt was necessary to make me
feel secure?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Judge Kicky would say, Oh.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
You da are wrong.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
You are so wrong, my boy, you are wrong. Oh
you're wrong.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
You know, I gotta be smarter about hiding the evidence
of I am a you know what you got to do,
but people can't find out about you, Cald like you
share the Amazon.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
What are we doing?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I mean, I'm a technically single woman, but even yes,
I am Jason, Like if.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
I was sitting where he's asleep.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, we find out that Big Tip works all night,
which is why there's no chance that he'll hear any
of this racket.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah, he's a smart man.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
But I would never do something like this, and I
talk about it with my partner, like, I feel, what
are you.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Supposed to say? Kiki, Like, hey just said I don't
think this kid looks like me. I'm pretty sure that
somebody else inseminated you.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
No, I mean like I don't.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
I don't think that you can have that comp I
mean that that wouldn't that be worse than just doing
this on the side and not telling anybody to appease
what you know to be your own insecurity.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
If you're gonna do it, do it well, bro.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
You can't do it on the same wallbrings account like
you should have you know you have somebody else by you,
but actually ban something. You should be able to talk
to your partner about this, like if you're having insecurities,
if you're having doubts, if there's something going on, you
could say, my mind's playing tricks on me, like can
we fix this?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Can we figure it out?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
But to do this behind her back, and then you
and your mama in cahoops and then nobody told me anything.
Y'all over your DNA testing my child. Oh my Yes,
I'm sleep in the guest room. You better be glad
you're still alive.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
Yes, babies don't look like anybody, Like, I'm so such
a mad people are like this baby looks more like
babies look like babies. Okay, you're gonna look at a
baby and be like this doesn't look like me, Like
it's a.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Baby it's a baby. They need to cook like grown.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
No, I mixed on this, you guys, So I'm supposed
to bring all of my insecurities into the relationship, Like
I'm supposed to sit down and be like, I think
you cheated on me and created a baby. Or if
I'm this crazy in my mind Loki like Cabasa, then
I just go figure it out on my own and
then hopefully you never find out. Then I'm a crazy
person and that's on me, and I needed some reassurance.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You are okay with this. It's gonna end.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
It would potentially end the relationship to sit down and
accuse the mother of your child of cheating because simply
because you're insecure.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
No no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
See, he could have came to her and said, you know,
my mind is something wing on with my mind after
having this baby. We've been through so many struggles, like
help me ease my mind, wife, you know, but.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
What damage does this do?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
It? If he's just confirming what he already wants to know,
like what is it? What damagees really take? I mean,
either way, either way he's saying I don't trust my wife,
whether he sits down and talks to her or gets
a DNA test. Either way, he's saying, I don't trust you,
which means there's an overarching, a larger issue going on here.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
But you can't trust now. I can never trust you
or your mama. I don't know what y'all will do.
You know now you're forever. I'm always looking at you
with a side eye because you had this whole operation
on the side of our marriage and never mention it
to me.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
You just gotta be smarter about it. Oh, we just
gotta not get caught, is what just says. If you're
if you've got insecurities and you want answers, and you
can get them and no one ever has to, no
one's ever the wiser, then you go get those answers
and you make sure you never get caught. That's it,
Oh my Lanta eight five five five five, Well, because
like I don't I don't know if you're gonna live
(04:44):
with this. If you are, if you believe this and
you have no evidence, no evidence whatsoever, and this is
something that you just have to clear your mind about.
And I sit down, I say, Kiki, is that kid mine?
I want a DNA test. I'm saying, you're a cheer
for no reason.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
No, because you know you could say postpartumn man, go
through postpartum two.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Stop it.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
You know you could, Like I'm just saying, he would
have to me, you could have blamed on your mental health,
and I would have worked with you.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
But the fact that you're out here, you cheater.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Even if my mental health is off, which my mental
health is always off, and you knew that when I
when we got when we hotel, call me.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
A cheated to my face now behind my back? Okay, Colleena,
what would you do if Poppy did this?
Speaker 7 (05:27):
Well, I'm taking a grave at the cemetery because Dad
is like, I'm already postpartum, already going through everything. I
cooked this baby for nine months, and you're accusing me
of that. Sometimes I look at my daughter, though I
don't even know if she's mine, because she looks nothing
like me, even like just like her beautiful, like you know,
skin texture, everything, her color.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
I'm like, oh my god, like, are you even my baby?
Speaker 7 (05:44):
But I might have to but if Hoby ever asked
me that, or him and his mother went behind my back,
I don't. I don't even know what's worse, to be honest,
I don't know if you're going behind my back room
just straight up telling me I want a DNA tyst.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
You cannot get caught. If you're going to do this,
you cannot get caught. That's what this comes down to,
is you just simply cannot get caught. Hey, Chloe, Hey,
Hi Chloe, Welcome to Keiky's Court. On The Fred Show,
I did a situation a dude is insecure because he
doesn't think that his kid is his. And so despite
the fact that he has no evidence of her cheating whatsoever,
(06:17):
he wins, and he and his mom went and had
a DNA test to prove that in fact, the kid
was his and it is. And then his wife found
out because he was a dummy and he bought it
on a shared account.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Dummy. But what do you think?
Speaker 8 (06:31):
I don't know, Like, honestly, I think probably you should
go because there's like so many things that are wrong
in this situation. For me, one, you say that all
I had to do it because my anxiety was so bad. Okay, So, like,
if you struggle with mental health, you should be talking
with your partner about that, and you should probably have
a therapist because chances are if you were talking with
your therapist about all of this, you would not have
(06:53):
needed to buy the paternity test. Second issue, what is
mom in law doing? Like, there are things that you
like to say, and then there are things that you
don't say, and it seems like mom in law is
a little bit of a hater. And there's just like
some things you just don't tell your kids about their
(07:14):
other partner, you know, like if my mom has some
opinions about my husband, I tell her, yeah, thank you,
keep them to yourself and let's keep it moving. But
I feel like this is also pretty severe where you're like, yeah,
I don't think the kid here is either like.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
What ye what?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, Chloe saying no, I'm glad you called, Thanks for listening,
have a good day.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I mean, look, I'm a thinker, you know. I let
my mind get the best to me. I have my insecurities.
I wouldn't say, you know, this would hopefully be one
of them. But if I need to rest my mind
over something that I know is ridiculous, I've got two choices.
I can either it's either mind ever matter where I control,
I control it. And I said, this is ridiculous, and
(07:56):
I have to talk to myself and say Hey, hey, Fred,
this is like you're crazy person and this is a
crazy thought, and move past it. And if I simply
cannot do that, I don't need to torture you and
sit down and accuse you of being a bad person.
I get answers on my own.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
And get caught. I already said, don't get caught.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
How could you live with yourself if you did that
in secret?
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Though?
Speaker 1 (08:16):
See, I could live with myself a lot better than
sitting down and accusing a person who I don't really
think cheated cheated because I'm a crazy person.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
But if you don't really think I cheated, then why
do you need the test?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
You've never had a thought that just was unreasonable, that
just didn't add up.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
Of course I have, but I would share that. I wouldn't.
I wouldn't get my book jest.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Like, I know that if I really have no evidence
of you cheating, and I sit you down and I
accuse you of cheating, that isn't quite the accusation when
I know I'm a crazy person, So I can put
my mind to rest. Mine is rested. Oh you just
can't get caught, Okay, Oh someone said you were lying? Here,
hold on a second, kick, you say, oh, kick you
out here lying like a living room rug wanted it.
(08:55):
Gotta be upfront about it. See, I don't think that's
an answer. I simply don't think that's that. It's not
an option.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
You're right, I'm lying. I want him to go sneak
around my back, behind my back?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
What is mama? Yeah, nothing exactly.
Speaker 8 (09:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I can't want him to be honest.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I'm not saying any of this is good, but I
can't just project every insecurity I have on too my partner.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That's not fair to my partner.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
But you can do it without saying someone cheated. You
could say, hey, i'm having these thoughts. I know they're
maybe it's not mine.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
That means another dude put his stuff in.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Their No, you could say, I know you didn't cheat,
but like I have been hurt in the past, and
this is what's coming up for me. You could have
a conversation without accusing someone.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
If I didn't think you'd cheated. That we don't need
the test. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
This one is one that's going to be tough to
work around. I don't think you can communicate that without
I think that's equally hurtful, maybe more hurtful. Wow, and
you could also a lot of people were suggesting that
you just blame it on mom in law.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Well, yeah, just get hurt. Just hey, my mom, I
don't know the relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I couldn't get her to shut up. I couldn't po Polly, Hi, Polly,
my niece. My niece is not yet, doesn't have an
opinion on this yet, she's four.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
What would you do here? What? What's what? How do
you get around this? What? What do you say? What
do you do?
Speaker 6 (10:16):
I mean, I would leave. Honestly, this sucks because they've
been trying so long to have this kid and then
she finally has a kid and this shit all happens.
But the mother in law is a bigger problem than
we're talking about here, because why is she why is
she acting this on? Why is she adding to this?
She's probably getting in her son's head, like, honestly, that's.
Speaker 8 (10:38):
Probably part of it as well.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
So I think she has to go because there's a
whole baggage here.
Speaker 8 (10:45):
It seems like, yeah, be honest, my.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Mom, I'd hope she talked me out of it, right,
you know, I hope is that's crazy? You know, like,
let's someone just texted my kid didn't look like me
until my kid was ten or something. So like, I
don't know that that's you know, I don't know. I
think sometimes you gotta take you gotta, you gotta uh.
You cannot just put everything else that you're feeling onto
other people simply because you're feeling it. You kind of
(11:07):
have to like sometimes have control over your thoughts and
and and so I don't know that necessarily putting that
on her is something you would ever recover from. But
then again, I think getting caught in this case is
not something you're ever gonna get we're going to recover from.
So I don't know there's a point of no return here. Yeah,
he just can't get caught.
Speaker 6 (11:25):
Yeah, I agree. Either way he would have been he
should be gone, okay if he colder or if he
didn't tell her.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
You know, thank you, Polly, I appreciate it. Have a
good day you too.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
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It's Kiki's court, all right, then is here? Take it away,
judge Kik.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
All right, let's get into the courtroom.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
It says Kiki.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Am I wrong for getting a DNA test on my
daughter because I didn't believe she was mine. My wife
and I have been together for ten years, married for
six We tried for years to have a baby, and
for years we were faced with struggles. But back in December,
we were finally blessed with our baby girl. I was
shocked excited, but if I'm honest, I had a little
bit of doubt in my mind that the baby could
(00:29):
really be mine, just because we tried for so long
and had no success. To make matters worse, when my
daughter was born, she didn't really look like me. Even
my own mother started making comments about how she didn't
really look like us at all, different hair texture, eye color,
and more. Eventually, my mom suggested that I buy an
at home DNA test and test my daughter without telling
(00:51):
my wife. Thankfully, the results confirmed she is mine, and
I felt a huge sense of relief and was ready
to move on with our lives. But last week, my
wife found out she was shopping online and saw the
DNA test in our recent purchase history, and now she's
not speaking to me, She's sleeping in the gas room
and says that our trust is forever broken. It really
(01:12):
wasn't a trust thing for me, but more of my
anxiety just getting the best of me. Am I wrong
for doing what I felt was necessary to make me
feel secure?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Judge Kicky would say, Oh.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
You da are wrong.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
You are so wrong, my boy, you are wrong. Oh
you're wrong.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
You know, I gotta be smarter about hiding the evidence
of I am a you know what you got to do,
but people can't find out about you, Cald like you
share the Amazon.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
What are we doing?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I mean, I'm a technically single woman, but even yes,
I am Jason, Like if.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
I was sitting where he's asleep.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, we find out that Big Tip works all night,
which is why there's no chance that he'll hear any
of this racket.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah, he's a smart man.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
But I would never do something like this, and I
talk about it with my partner, like, I feel, what
are you.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Supposed to say? Kiki, Like, hey just said I don't
think this kid looks like me. I'm pretty sure that
somebody else inseminated you.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
No, I mean like I don't.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
I don't think that you can have that comp I
mean that that wouldn't that be worse than just doing
this on the side and not telling anybody to appease
what you know to be your own insecurity.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
If you're gonna do it, do it well, bro.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
You can't do it on the same wallbrings account like
you should have you know you have somebody else by you,
but actually ban something. You should be able to talk
to your partner about this, like if you're having insecurities,
if you're having doubts, if there's something going on, you
could say, my mind's playing tricks on me, like can
we fix this?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Can we figure it out?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
But to do this behind her back, and then you
and your mama in cahoops and then nobody told me anything.
Y'all over your DNA testing my child. Oh my Yes,
I'm sleep in the guest room. You better be glad
you're still alive.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
Yes, babies don't look like anybody, Like, I'm so such
a mad people are like this baby looks more like
babies look like babies. Okay, you're gonna look at a
baby and be like this doesn't look like me, Like
it's a.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Baby it's a baby. They need to cook like grown.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
No, I mixed on this, you guys, So I'm supposed
to bring all of my insecurities into the relationship, Like
I'm supposed to sit down and be like, I think
you cheated on me and created a baby. Or if
I'm this crazy in my mind Loki like Cabasa, then
I just go figure it out on my own and
then hopefully you never find out. Then I'm a crazy
person and that's on me, and I needed some reassurance.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You are okay with this. It's gonna end.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
It would potentially end the relationship to sit down and
accuse the mother of your child of cheating because simply
because you're insecure.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
No no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
See, he could have came to her and said, you know,
my mind is something wing on with my mind after
having this baby. We've been through so many struggles, like
help me ease my mind, wife, you know, but.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
What damage does this do?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
It? If he's just confirming what he already wants to know,
like what is it? What damagees really take? I mean,
either way, either way he's saying I don't trust my wife,
whether he sits down and talks to her or gets
a DNA test. Either way, he's saying, I don't trust you,
which means there's an overarching, a larger issue going on here.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
But you can't trust now. I can never trust you
or your mama. I don't know what y'all will do.
You know now you're forever. I'm always looking at you
with a side eye because you had this whole operation
on the side of our marriage and never mention it
to me.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
You just gotta be smarter about it. Oh, we just
gotta not get caught, is what just says. If you're
if you've got insecurities and you want answers, and you
can get them and no one ever has to, no
one's ever the wiser, then you go get those answers
and you make sure you never get caught. That's it,
Oh my Lanta eight five five five five, Well, because
like I don't I don't know if you're gonna live
(04:44):
with this. If you are, if you believe this and
you have no evidence, no evidence whatsoever, and this is
something that you just have to clear your mind about.
And I sit down, I say, Kiki, is that kid mine?
I want a DNA test. I'm saying, you're a cheer
for no reason.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
No, because you know you could say postpartumn man, go
through postpartum two.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Stop it.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
You know you could, Like I'm just saying, he would
have to me, you could have blamed on your mental health,
and I would have worked with you.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
But the fact that you're out here, you cheater.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Even if my mental health is off, which my mental
health is always off, and you knew that when I
when we got when we hotel, call me.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
A cheated to my face now behind my back? Okay, Colleena,
what would you do if Poppy did this?
Speaker 7 (05:27):
Well, I'm taking a grave at the cemetery because Dad
is like, I'm already postpartum, already going through everything. I
cooked this baby for nine months, and you're accusing me
of that. Sometimes I look at my daughter, though I
don't even know if she's mine, because she looks nothing
like me, even like just like her beautiful, like you know,
skin texture, everything, her color.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
I'm like, oh my god, like, are you even my baby?
Speaker 7 (05:44):
But I might have to but if Hoby ever asked
me that, or him and his mother went behind my back,
I don't. I don't even know what's worse, to be honest,
I don't know if you're going behind my back room
just straight up telling me I want a DNA tyst.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
You cannot get caught. If you're going to do this,
you cannot get caught. That's what this comes down to,
is you just simply cannot get caught. Hey, Chloe, Hey,
Hi Chloe, Welcome to Keiky's Court. On The Fred Show,
I did a situation a dude is insecure because he
doesn't think that his kid is his. And so despite
the fact that he has no evidence of her cheating whatsoever,
(06:17):
he wins, and he and his mom went and had
a DNA test to prove that in fact, the kid
was his and it is. And then his wife found
out because he was a dummy and he bought it
on a shared account.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Dummy. But what do you think?
Speaker 8 (06:31):
I don't know, Like, honestly, I think probably you should
go because there's like so many things that are wrong
in this situation. For me, one, you say that all
I had to do it because my anxiety was so bad. Okay, So, like,
if you struggle with mental health, you should be talking
with your partner about that, and you should probably have
a therapist because chances are if you were talking with
your therapist about all of this, you would not have
(06:53):
needed to buy the paternity test. Second issue, what is
mom in law doing? Like, there are things that you
like to say, and then there are things that you
don't say, and it seems like mom in law is
a little bit of a hater. And there's just like
some things you just don't tell your kids about their
(07:14):
other partner, you know, like if my mom has some
opinions about my husband, I tell her, yeah, thank you,
keep them to yourself and let's keep it moving. But
I feel like this is also pretty severe where you're like, yeah,
I don't think the kid here is either like.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
What ye what?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, Chloe saying no, I'm glad you called, Thanks for listening,
have a good day.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I mean, look, I'm a thinker, you know. I let
my mind get the best to me. I have my insecurities.
I wouldn't say, you know, this would hopefully be one
of them. But if I need to rest my mind
over something that I know is ridiculous, I've got two choices.
I can either it's either mind ever matter where I control,
I control it. And I said, this is ridiculous, and
(07:56):
I have to talk to myself and say Hey, hey, Fred,
this is like you're crazy person and this is a
crazy thought, and move past it. And if I simply
cannot do that, I don't need to torture you and
sit down and accuse you of being a bad person.
I get answers on my own.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
And get caught. I already said, don't get caught.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
How could you live with yourself if you did that
in secret?
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Though?
Speaker 1 (08:16):
See, I could live with myself a lot better than
sitting down and accusing a person who I don't really
think cheated cheated because I'm a crazy person.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
But if you don't really think I cheated, then why
do you need the test?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
You've never had a thought that just was unreasonable, that
just didn't add up.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
Of course I have, but I would share that. I wouldn't.
I wouldn't get my book jest.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Like, I know that if I really have no evidence
of you cheating, and I sit you down and I
accuse you of cheating, that isn't quite the accusation when
I know I'm a crazy person, So I can put
my mind to rest. Mine is rested. Oh you just
can't get caught, Okay, Oh someone said you were lying? Here,
hold on a second, kick, you say, oh, kick you
out here lying like a living room rug wanted it.
(08:55):
Gotta be upfront about it. See, I don't think that's
an answer. I simply don't think that's that. It's not
an option.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
You're right, I'm lying. I want him to go sneak
around my back, behind my back?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
What is mama? Yeah, nothing exactly.
Speaker 8 (09:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I can't want him to be honest.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I'm not saying any of this is good, but I
can't just project every insecurity I have on too my partner.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That's not fair to my partner.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
But you can do it without saying someone cheated. You
could say, hey, i'm having these thoughts. I know they're
maybe it's not mine.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
That means another dude put his stuff in.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Their No, you could say, I know you didn't cheat,
but like I have been hurt in the past, and
this is what's coming up for me. You could have
a conversation without accusing someone.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
If I didn't think you'd cheated. That we don't need
the test. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
This one is one that's going to be tough to
work around. I don't think you can communicate that without
I think that's equally hurtful, maybe more hurtful. Wow, and
you could also a lot of people were suggesting that
you just blame it on mom in law.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Well, yeah, just get hurt. Just hey, my mom, I
don't know the relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I couldn't get her to shut up. I couldn't po Polly, Hi, Polly,
my niece. My niece is not yet, doesn't have an
opinion on this yet, she's four.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
What would you do here? What? What's what? How do
you get around this? What? What do you say? What
do you do?
Speaker 6 (10:16):
I mean, I would leave. Honestly, this sucks because they've
been trying so long to have this kid and then
she finally has a kid and this shit all happens.
But the mother in law is a bigger problem than
we're talking about here, because why is she why is
she acting this on? Why is she adding to this?
She's probably getting in her son's head, like, honestly, that's.
Speaker 8 (10:38):
Probably part of it as well.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
So I think she has to go because there's a
whole baggage here.
Speaker 8 (10:45):
It seems like, yeah, be honest, my.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Mom, I'd hope she talked me out of it, right,
you know, I hope is that's crazy? You know, like,
let's someone just texted my kid didn't look like me
until my kid was ten or something. So like, I
don't know that that's you know, I don't know. I
think sometimes you gotta take you gotta, you gotta uh.
You cannot just put everything else that you're feeling onto
other people simply because you're feeling it. You kind of
(11:07):
have to like sometimes have control over your thoughts and
and and so I don't know that necessarily putting that
on her is something you would ever recover from. But
then again, I think getting caught in this case is
not something you're ever gonna get we're going to recover from.
So I don't know there's a point of no return here. Yeah,
he just can't get caught.
Speaker 6 (11:25):
Yeah, I agree. Either way he would have been he
should be gone, okay if he colder or if he
didn't tell her.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
You know, thank you, Polly, I appreciate it. Have a
good day you too.
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