Radio Blogs: Kaelin's Dilemma!

Kaelin asks the crew for advice after she had a falling out with someone and that person has her grandma's heirlooms.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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what Kiki thinks? Kiki, what do you think? Kiki's in Greece?
I can't tell. You don't know. Kiki's on a Grecian vacation.
Guys say, leave her alone, Yeah, Kiki, I'm not going
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we got to see every piece of you know ingredient

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that went in her every ingredient that went in her bag.
I think we got to see. So, yeah, you need
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there will be no part of this trip that is missed.
I think she's trying to figure out how to get
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Iune in. Yeah, well for nine hours, you know, the
whole time. Fred is criticis a text. Fred is critical

(01:24):
over the type of handholding we should do. But at
the same time he's single. What is that critical? It
was a joke.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
He was saying it's not his favorite handhold, and that's okay.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
I think it's not a standard everyday handhold. I think
that's it. I think that's a more serious, especial occajun handhold.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
I think you're critical.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
I just chance him. She's Louise. She's Louise. Relax. Everybody's
not an indictment on it. On a crisscross interlocked hand hold,
It's just that's an aggressive handhold.

Speaker 2 (01:59):
Also, single people can talk and have opinions like I'm
really sick of Like.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Yes, I know, it's the fact that I won't interlock
my fingers right away in the hand hold. That's why
I'm single. Now, let me tell you why I'm single.
Because I'm mentally ill. That's why I can't take it
away to else.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
I dear blog. Okay, So I want your guys' opinion
on something that I've kind of been like looking at sideways.
But I don't know if I'm.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Better not be a handhold.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, let's talk about tipping and hand holding. No, So
I have a friend, Well, I'm no longer friends with
someone who I was very close to at one point
in my life for a very very very long time.
And I don't feel like it was by my decision.
It felt like there wasn't a lot of effort to
resolve the situation, and so I kind of just like

(02:49):
made my peace with it. But this person was very
very close to me before I lost my grandma. As
I was losing my grandma and afterwards, and because this
person was so close to my family and my grandma,
after she passed away, she had some really really nice
like little crystal things like just you know whatever. Grandmas

(03:10):
have a lot of Chatschke's, but these were expensive and
we gave some of her stuff to people that were helpful,
you know that she loved or you know, like Hillary
got hot. Hillary got some because she was actually a
nurse at the hospital where when she was passing away.
Yeah yeah, yeah, so she was close with her. So
we just like whatever, But this friend got a ton
of expensive crystal from my grandma. And it's just really

(03:32):
weird to me that, like, this person for years has
still kept it even though we're no longer friends, Like
for me, wouldn't you guys feel uncomfortable, Like.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Did this person have a relationship with your grandma individually? Well,
I mean obviously through you, but I mean like, but
but they had their own relationship.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
I suppose you could say, I mean it would have
never happened without me.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
I guess what I mean is like, if you if
you gave me some things like, well, this is a
reminder of this person and the relationship that you had
with that person, then I guess I wouldn't necessarily assume
that the gift was contingent on our friendship. I would
assume the gift was more a reflection of the friendship
I had with the person who died. So I guess
that I would I would look at it separate from you.

(04:18):
Like for example, if I I knew Nana, right, if
you had get and I didn't know her well, but
if i'd known her a little better and you had
given me something, and then for some reason, I don't know,
we're not friends anymore. I don't know that I would
necessarily think I better give that back to Calin because
I would have assumed that it was given to me
almost on her behalf. Well you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yeah, I guess in that case, like she didn't ask
for it to be given to this person at all.
It was just us like showing like, you know whatever here.
You know, we know that you were close to us
and knew her and maybe helped out a couple times,
but they didn't have like their own individual relationship like that.
I guess maybe it's not something they're thinking about, but
I would just feel odd if someone I used to

(04:58):
be friends with like lost someone was so close to
them and I had pieces of them, but I like,
am not their friend anymore. I guess I don't know,
maybe I'm thinking too deep into it.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
I think if I were given an air like, let's say,
I'll say the other way around. If I were to
give a romantic partner an heirloom, whether they knew the
person or not, but it was a gesture from me
to them. Then if we broke up, I would want
the heirloom back because like that's not replaceable. So I
guess this might be similar, but I don't know it

(05:27):
just maybe maybe it's similar now. But then again, that's
me giving it to you with an intention that's not
here's a chotchke on. I don't know. That's a difficult one. Yeah,
it is, it is.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
I think at that time though too, it's a reflection
of what was right.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
So it's like you guys were very close.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Obviously it's one of Nana's items, and like at that
time she.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Was a big part of her he or she would
be a part of her lift.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
So I don't know.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
I feel like I just kind of would leave it.

Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah, let it be in the past. And if she
also give it to you, she can.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
But also, what is she going to reach out and say, hey,
here's your grandma's stuff back, you know, I just don't.
I think if you have a deep meaning to you,
then you might have a right to ask for it.
But then again, again it's like the way I would
interpret it was like she wanted you to have this
or we want you to have this on her behalf
because it was once her. So then it's like, well
now it's not about me anymore, which sucks.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
But like, yeah, I would never ask for it back.
I just personally think that I would probably. I mean
I would have worked harder to save the relationship, to
be completely honest, So I can't put myself in that person.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Can get you a new bottle cap collection. It'll be fine.
We'll start right now. We'll go after the show to
a bar and we'll start a new one. It'll be fine.
Don't even know. That's what I worry about it. It's fine,
but I'm not giving it back. Calen, it's mine now,
yas about you? Just so you know, waiting by the
phone more Fred's show next right here,