December 9, 2025 • 6 mins
Kaelin's bestie wants to have another baby but is worried about her baby having a holiday birthday!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:02):
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Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah they talk better than they excited.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show, like.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Corotting in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
We call it blogs. Kaylin's got one.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Go, Yes, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
So my friend Tatiana, one of my best friends, who
you think all of you know her, and to know
her is to love her. She wants what she wants,
she likes what she likes. She voices that she's very opinionated,
and this trickles all the way down into her family, planning,
her children having if you will, So, I was at
(01:00):
dinner with her the other night and she was telling
us she doesn't by the way, she does not even
have a baby who has hit one years old yet,
so she has a newborn at home. And she is
telling me that she has begun trying again for another
baby because it's very important to her that they are
back to back in the same or back to back grades,
(01:20):
so not the same grade, but like Irish.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Twins, they would have to be a year apart, correct,
but and no more.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Yes, And she was doing the math. Doing the math.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
However, she said, if I'm not pregnant right now, I'm
going to stop trying for a couple months.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
And I said, well, why is that? And she said why.
I don't want a baby with a holiday birthday.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
And I'm like, you care about that? And she's like,
oh yeah, so it's crazy. And I was researching and
I guess that a lot of moms feel a certain
type of way about their baby's birthday. I know, like
if it's a c section, a lot of people will
you know, schedule it such as though they have a
birthday that they want. I know, Paulina didn't want an
(01:59):
April Fool's baby.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I almost did, though, you yes, because I was induced
on March thirtieth at seven pm and you guys are
texting me everything.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
It was like a Monday or something.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
And I was like, you guys, like I could have
this baby any second.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
You don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
But I was so scared because if she came out
on April first, I would have been very upset that
my poor baby has the April full birthday.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
And been listening for a while.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Then you know that Paulina clearly didn't plan that because
she was pregnant at her wedding.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
I was pregnant three months pregnant. My wedding did not
plan that.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
That was not on purpose.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
My wedding theme was like wild weekend in Vegas. That
was the thing with my wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
That was your husband, Oh he didn't make it to
the party, the pre party. Yeah, I was like, we're
hobby at the engagement party. Didn't make it, no friend
engaging party that.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Whatever?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Your propavy up? Yeah, like we propped. We don't talk
about that enough. I'm not mad enough about that. I
was surprised that you were so sad about it, But well,
you know me, I like to go without him sometimes,
you know. Yeah, that was getting into.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
A lot that night, Shelly. Was there much planning for
your kids?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
No?
Speaker 6 (03:05):
You know me, I'm kind of like, let the universe
do what it's gonna do, whatever's gonna happens. That happened.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
So we well.
Speaker 6 (03:13):
For my first we were trying to have a baby
and then wonderful experience. And for the second we did
not plan it at all whatsoever. It was a complete
shock and surprise. So it is it trying?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Is that kind of is it get kind of like annoying?
Because I feel like the when people are trying, then
it's like, you know, we're sort of tracking things, and
then it's like, oh, now is we got to now?
And then, like I've heard from my buddies, it gets
to the point where if you're trying for a while
that it becomes very unromantic and like almost not even
enjoyable because it's like a now we're just we're doing
(03:45):
this for the purpose, we're not doing this for the fun. Right.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Well, I will say it did no, I mean we
were lucky.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
I feel very lucky because I know not everybody's as
lucky as like, we didn't have to try that hard.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Guess okay, yeah I.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Didn't take two many times, but oh hell yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
But you know, I think for some people, like they
try and try and try and try and then it's
like at some point, you know, and we're getting really
granular about the process, and it's oh god, my buddies
will be like, Okay, well this weekend, I'm busy, and
it's not. And it's busy in a fun way, but
not a fun way because at some point it's like, okay,
enough is enough, Like it's not gonna work. It's like,
you know what I mean. And I never thought there'd
be a world where like I wouldn't. I wouldn't be
(04:29):
into that. But my poor sister, I mean, she had
polly within I think I don't know, after maybe six
or eight months of being married, because she was told
by her doctor that it would be extremely difficult for
them to conceive, if at all, and then they didn't
do anything special and then they just she got pregnant.
She was like, oh, so we're doing this now. I
think she was hoping they had a little more time,
(04:49):
like to be you know, married and not without kid. Interesting,
but yeah, it was like yeah, and I won't I
don't know the whole process, but there's something going on there,
and it was like, yeah, it's gonna be hard.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
It went hard. Apparently it was pretty easy. It was
so be careful, I guess.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
But you know what, though, I think a lot of
people will appreciate what your friend is doing, especially because
I have friends whose birthdays fall right like on New
Year's Christmas and someone just texted about that too, and
they're like, it sucks, and I feel like, because you
get the shine taken.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Away from you, right if your birthday's near Christmas? You
guys got Thanksgiving? I like you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
That was not so bad.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
I don't think Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
And that was a month early, so I wasn't I
think I was supposed to be closer to Christmas.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Oh you were?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Oh you were a month early?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yes, I was. I was born small, and.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
It was there was viability was a question. I won't
sure if I was ever going to get big and tall.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Look at you now?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, I know. Gosh.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Apparently I had a gigantic head for for a premie
and so that my mom was convinced. I was like,
what do they call that? U was a hydro cephalic?
Oh yeah, it turns out I just I didn't. I
had to grow into my head, is what it turned
out to me, which is still true. It's still true.
I need to go into my ears too. Yeah, maybe
that's more common than people think. Text us if they
(06:00):
don't want to have a summer baby. Some people don't
want to be pregnant in the summer.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Oh yeah, that's the thing too.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
My one friend said my other friend that it's like
the best to be pregnant starting around like right before
the holidays, because then you're like inside it's cold, and
like you don't have to do a lot, you know
what if you're eating.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Oh yeah, yeah, I guess in the winter you can
sort of get away with that, was me. Yeah, and
I would imagine it would be more enjoyable to be
carrying around another human being and gaining weight when it's
when it's cold outside because it's hot, but it's I
don't know, hard child childbirth is not for me. That's
(06:36):
a good thing. Now.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
It's a miracle that hasn't ever happened.
This is the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Jane is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seven night residency Adobe Live at Park MGM, and we've
got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth
show to night Hotel State Park MGM January twenty fourth
through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text forever
to three seven three three seven now for a chance
to win. A confirmation text will be said. Standard message
(00:23):
of data rates may apply all thanks to Live Nation.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah they talk better than they excited.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show, like.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Corotting in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
We call it blogs. Kaylin's got one.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Go, Yes, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
So my friend Tatiana, one of my best friends, who
you think all of you know her, and to know
her is to love her. She wants what she wants,
she likes what she likes. She voices that she's very opinionated,
and this trickles all the way down into her family, planning,
her children having if you will, So, I was at
(01:00):
dinner with her the other night and she was telling
us she doesn't by the way, she does not even
have a baby who has hit one years old yet,
so she has a newborn at home. And she is
telling me that she has begun trying again for another
baby because it's very important to her that they are
back to back in the same or back to back grades,
(01:20):
so not the same grade, but like Irish.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Twins, they would have to be a year apart, correct,
but and no more.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Yes, And she was doing the math. Doing the math.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
However, she said, if I'm not pregnant right now, I'm
going to stop trying for a couple months.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
And I said, well, why is that? And she said why.
I don't want a baby with a holiday birthday.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
And I'm like, you care about that? And she's like,
oh yeah, so it's crazy. And I was researching and
I guess that a lot of moms feel a certain
type of way about their baby's birthday. I know, like
if it's a c section, a lot of people will
you know, schedule it such as though they have a
birthday that they want. I know, Paulina didn't want an
(01:59):
April Fool's baby.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I almost did, though, you yes, because I was induced
on March thirtieth at seven pm and you guys are
texting me everything.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
It was like a Monday or something.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
And I was like, you guys, like I could have
this baby any second.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
You don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
But I was so scared because if she came out
on April first, I would have been very upset that
my poor baby has the April full birthday.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
And been listening for a while.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Then you know that Paulina clearly didn't plan that because
she was pregnant at her wedding.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
I was pregnant three months pregnant. My wedding did not
plan that.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
That was not on purpose.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
My wedding theme was like wild weekend in Vegas. That
was the thing with my wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
That was your husband, Oh he didn't make it to
the party, the pre party. Yeah, I was like, we're
hobby at the engagement party. Didn't make it, no friend
engaging party that.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Whatever?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Your propavy up? Yeah, like we propped. We don't talk
about that enough. I'm not mad enough about that. I
was surprised that you were so sad about it, But well,
you know me, I like to go without him sometimes,
you know. Yeah, that was getting into.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
A lot that night, Shelly. Was there much planning for
your kids?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
No?
Speaker 6 (03:05):
You know me, I'm kind of like, let the universe
do what it's gonna do, whatever's gonna happens. That happened.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
So we well.
Speaker 6 (03:13):
For my first we were trying to have a baby
and then wonderful experience. And for the second we did
not plan it at all whatsoever. It was a complete
shock and surprise. So it is it trying?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Is that kind of is it get kind of like annoying?
Because I feel like the when people are trying, then
it's like, you know, we're sort of tracking things, and
then it's like, oh, now is we got to now?
And then, like I've heard from my buddies, it gets
to the point where if you're trying for a while
that it becomes very unromantic and like almost not even
enjoyable because it's like a now we're just we're doing
(03:45):
this for the purpose, we're not doing this for the fun. Right.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Well, I will say it did no, I mean we
were lucky.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
I feel very lucky because I know not everybody's as
lucky as like, we didn't have to try that hard.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Guess okay, yeah I.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Didn't take two many times, but oh hell yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
But you know, I think for some people, like they
try and try and try and try and then it's
like at some point, you know, and we're getting really
granular about the process, and it's oh god, my buddies
will be like, Okay, well this weekend, I'm busy, and
it's not. And it's busy in a fun way, but
not a fun way because at some point it's like, okay,
enough is enough, Like it's not gonna work. It's like,
you know what I mean. And I never thought there'd
be a world where like I wouldn't. I wouldn't be
(04:29):
into that. But my poor sister, I mean, she had
polly within I think I don't know, after maybe six
or eight months of being married, because she was told
by her doctor that it would be extremely difficult for
them to conceive, if at all, and then they didn't
do anything special and then they just she got pregnant.
She was like, oh, so we're doing this now. I
think she was hoping they had a little more time,
(04:49):
like to be you know, married and not without kid. Interesting,
but yeah, it was like yeah, and I won't I
don't know the whole process, but there's something going on there,
and it was like, yeah, it's gonna be hard.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
It went hard. Apparently it was pretty easy. It was
so be careful, I guess.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
But you know what, though, I think a lot of
people will appreciate what your friend is doing, especially because
I have friends whose birthdays fall right like on New
Year's Christmas and someone just texted about that too, and
they're like, it sucks, and I feel like, because you
get the shine taken.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Away from you, right if your birthday's near Christmas? You
guys got Thanksgiving? I like you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
That was not so bad.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
I don't think Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
And that was a month early, so I wasn't I
think I was supposed to be closer to Christmas.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Oh you were?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Oh you were a month early?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yes, I was. I was born small, and.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
It was there was viability was a question. I won't
sure if I was ever going to get big and tall.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Look at you now?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, I know. Gosh.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Apparently I had a gigantic head for for a premie
and so that my mom was convinced. I was like,
what do they call that? U was a hydro cephalic?
Oh yeah, it turns out I just I didn't. I
had to grow into my head, is what it turned
out to me, which is still true. It's still true.
I need to go into my ears too. Yeah, maybe
that's more common than people think. Text us if they
(06:00):
don't want to have a summer baby. Some people don't
want to be pregnant in the summer.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Oh yeah, that's the thing too.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
My one friend said my other friend that it's like
the best to be pregnant starting around like right before
the holidays, because then you're like inside it's cold, and
like you don't have to do a lot, you know
what if you're eating.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Oh yeah, yeah, I guess in the winter you can
sort of get away with that, was me. Yeah, and
I would imagine it would be more enjoyable to be
carrying around another human being and gaining weight when it's
when it's cold outside because it's hot, but it's I
don't know, hard child childbirth is not for me. That's
(06:36):
a good thing. Now.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
It's a miracle that hasn't ever happened.
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