May 8, 2025 • 8 mins
Kaelin's parents keep asking her to take her things from her her childhood home in Michigan and she's beginning to wonder if they want her to visit. Listen to what Fred and the crew have to say!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Radio clock. But I'm in jail with some people, and
I'll explain. Oh yeah, I didn't realize I went and done?
Did it this morning? I already did it, only took
an hour or two. No, uh huh, yeah, and went
and done? Did it? Go ahead, Cay, we'll take it
away your.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Blog, please, okay, deer blog.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
So I need to take a little sample survey of
all of you, because I'm certain to get the vibe
that my mom just like may not be that into me.
I'm not sure, but she is constantly trying to move
any remnants of me out of her home, which is
not in this state.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
It is in Michigan.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
We are currently in Illinois, but I know we have
friends all over. So do you guys, what's the deal
at all of your parents' home?
Speaker 2 (00:42):
At Helena's home, do you guys still have a room.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Set up or you Is it still what it looks
like when you were in high school?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Is my room and no one's allowed to use it,
even though I haven't lived there in a long time. Really,
it is not to be used as a guest room.
It is not. It is used to it is no.
It should be untouched by the human hand except for mine?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Do you have do you keep like clothing there because
I know you go back a lot, or do you
keep Is it the same.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Thatngers in my bed?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah? No, I mean I feel that.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
And they got a big enough house, they have a
guest room. My sister's room is fine.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
You know, they're strangers in your parents' house.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I don't want my I don't want my I don't
want anyone in my bed. I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
I don't, right, woe right? So, I mean I live
in a one bedroom apartment.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I think, like we all know, I don't have a
lot of space, and I'm doing my best to you know,
become successful, maybe.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Get another additional bedroom. I'm trying out.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Here, okay, but my mom is constantly texting me pictures
of stuff and asking can I get rid of this?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Can I get rid of that? And we've narrowed it down.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I feel to a manageable situation where like I have
pictures of yount, get.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Rid of this, paint of this?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Can you? But so it's like I leave clothing there
that I use when I'm back home, and it's useful
sweatshirts and stuff, but it's all tucked away. My mom
is a neat freak, Like, I know your mom is friend,
so she never also let me hang like posters.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
We didn't have locks on her door. It was a
whole thing. But you know, it's all neatly tucked away.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Someone is allowed to use it if they want to
use it as a guest room. But I'm starting to
feel like she doesn't want any signs of me there
because it's constantly like when.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
I'm home, go through this, get rid of them.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
They're probably is some point gonna not have whatever size
house they have, Yeah, because at some point, I know
my mom is gonna call me and say, because we
still have the house that we grew up in. So
what I'm guessing is that is it. At some point
they're gonna she's gonna summon me back to Scottsdale, Arizona,
and say, anything you want take it, because we're not
going to have the house and we're gonna get like
a condo or something, you know, and we don't have
room for all your crap. Yeah, but I don't like you.
(02:46):
I don't have room for it either, right, Like, so
they don't want to do with it.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
We're gonna have to go have these on a storage unit.
He was like, what am I gonna do? Because there's
things I want to save.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Meanwhile, I was already moved out of my original room
because I have a little sister who you know, is
the queen of the family, and so my big old
room that I had, I was already summons to Harry
Potter's closet when I go home, which is the tiniest,
worst room in the house.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
And that's fine, you know, live your best life, Bella.
But you know she's got all kinds of stuff in there.
Can't I keep a couple of sweatshirts? You know? Does
your mom do this? Paulina.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Oh, I've been kicked out of this house many of
times as far as like my stuff, but I always
make my way back.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
That's because that's because you said on the radio, Paulina. Yeah,
been in a perfect world, you would rent out your
two homes for profit and move into your mom's house
with your child and husband for free.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah, that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Un If I'm Mama Marta, I'm I'm not only telling
you to get your stuff out, I'm changing the locks
just in case.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Yeah, my listen, I moved back in so many times,
and at this point I would move right back in
as well, like I'm missing my mother. I want my
house to be cleaned and cooked and all the laundry,
like I would literally, like I just that's all I
want is move back home. She won't take me and
my family, but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
I will not allow.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
But you know what she game together that was so
random and I don't know what to do with it.
Exactly your point. She made a binder of all of
my things when I was little, all of my like ribbons,
report cards, like any awards I won, like on paper, certificates.
It's all this big fat binder and she's like, please
take this with you. And my first question is where
do I put this? Like I want to put in
the attic. Hobby said no, no, addict, So I don't
(04:21):
know what to do with it, Like where do I
shove this random binding?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Could?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I don't know? He organized?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
That was the whole thing. Another fight of ours, but like, yeah,
why what do I do with it? Though?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
But it's not going in the attic. Where is it
going to go?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Right?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
And then to their credit, we just moved this crap
from like house to house, and it's things we don't
want to.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Get rid of.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Yeah, but it's also something that like I don't have
the space for.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
But like that's what parents are forced.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
It is their obligation to hold on to that stuff
and that Yeah, Helena does it all the time.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
So now my car is just full of thumb.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
That's what that homeless man was in my car because
she's just full of like childhood stuff that she sends me.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Everything disappointed and he found a bunch of crayon drawn
old shirt. Yeah, no, wonder you don't lock your car
keep and you're hoping somebody'll come and take your drawing
some third grade.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
This lady sends me home every time with a stack
of mail. Yeah you know, he took me a long
time change my address. So she sends me with a
stack of mail and then like a household item. In
the moment I moved out of her house, she repainted
the room, reharnished the room, put a desk.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
In there, got new lighting, Like say you hate me? Yeah,
so I feel you on this time.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Man, Yeah, no, I think that at some point they're
going to make me come and take stuff. Is just
stay away for you? Oh you did you did that
like a year ago? Could your parents moved out of
your childhood home.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, and I threw so much stuff out, but they
took boxes of my crap and then just put it
in their basement, so they still have my crap.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Because I don't want it.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
It's nice of like if my mom gave.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Me that, I'd be like, I don't want this.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Like I honestly like.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
If we were doing that exchange while the move is
going in, I would have thrown it out.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
No much stuff out, like I don't need it.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I don't want this. But it was traumatic and formal.
I don't want.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
It for you. I want the selling me for.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Your who you want to spelling me?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Fat?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
We've been through this. Yes, I want in third grade
and I have a ribbon to prove it. How could
you forget?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
I'd like to see I need I'm gonna need to
see proof of it. Your driving test. But you could
spell in third grade?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I guess I am that girl.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
No, you're a very smart lady, but I I guess
you winning and spelling me is a little surprising.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Hey, man, I did what I did.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
You weren't hard to unspelling them? Driving?
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, and I still got both my license and I want.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Wow, you know you're right, though, I don't know what
I would do with this. Yeah, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yes, don't you want to look at it?
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Mom?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
It's your job. It's treasure everything that I've ever done.
Jan See, your.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Mom loves you. She really does.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
Let you put your legos in her house. Helena wouldn't
have know that's a sentence.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
I never thought that. They don't want to say about me.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
She likes to do whatever, and I love that. I
love her.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
I don't know. I don't, uh, don't go in my room.
That's my room.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Seems hard to not have a room anymore, like I don't,
I don't have It's.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Gonna be it's gonna be weird, like it's somebody. They're
not going to live in this big ass house that
they that we grew up in when everybody was there.
The funny thing is they want to downsize at some point.
But the family's bigger now than it's ever been because
my sister's got seventy four kids, you know, and then
a husband, you know, So we have more people to
accommodate now than we've ever had. My aunt lives in
(07:34):
in Uruguay, in South America, so she thinks that's her
house too.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
They can't move.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
We all think it's there. We all treat their house
as our vacation home. The problem is it's their home.
It's their primary and only resident hotel. Right. Well, no,
it's gonna come to that because it's like my parents like,
we need a smaller house. I'm like, you got more
people now. It's like a work so that you're right.
Someday I'm not gonna have my own room anymore, and
I'm gonna have to use the same room everybody else
(08:00):
use it. My parents, ratchet friend's gonna be doing it
in my.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
My bead they're wild parties.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Oh I think my sister's friends used to do it
in my bed though, because I don't know. I would
find like my parents would find stuff in my bedroom
that I haven't lived in in ten years. Like they
found like a like a bag full of weed, and
they were like, Christopher, I haven't been there in a year,
Like what are you talking about. I can't believe you.
I'm weeding. It's not mine. My sister's like, oh, it
was definitely not mine, of course it was. Oh yeah,
(08:28):
if it was nefarious, it was Amanda's certainly not mine,
but you know it will be weird though, not to
have them.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
You're their baby. They always need to keep a room
for you.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yes, I agree, I agree, and you know you know what,
I'm install one of those code locks on it so
that no one else can use it
Radio clock. But I'm in jail with some people, and
I'll explain. Oh yeah, I didn't realize I went and done?
Did it this morning? I already did it, only took
an hour or two. No, uh huh, yeah, and went
and done? Did it? Go ahead, Cay, we'll take it
away your.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Blog, please, okay, deer blog.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
So I need to take a little sample survey of
all of you, because I'm certain to get the vibe
that my mom just like may not be that into me.
I'm not sure, but she is constantly trying to move
any remnants of me out of her home, which is
not in this state.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
It is in Michigan.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
We are currently in Illinois, but I know we have
friends all over. So do you guys, what's the deal
at all of your parents' home?
Speaker 2 (00:42):
At Helena's home, do you guys still have a room.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Set up or you Is it still what it looks
like when you were in high school?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Is my room and no one's allowed to use it,
even though I haven't lived there in a long time. Really,
it is not to be used as a guest room.
It is not. It is used to it is no.
It should be untouched by the human hand except for mine?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Do you have do you keep like clothing there because
I know you go back a lot, or do you
keep Is it the same.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Thatngers in my bed?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah? No, I mean I feel that.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
And they got a big enough house, they have a
guest room. My sister's room is fine.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
You know, they're strangers in your parents' house.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I don't want my I don't want my I don't
want anyone in my bed. I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
I don't, right, woe right? So, I mean I live
in a one bedroom apartment.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I think, like we all know, I don't have a
lot of space, and I'm doing my best to you know,
become successful, maybe.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Get another additional bedroom. I'm trying out.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Here, okay, but my mom is constantly texting me pictures
of stuff and asking can I get rid of this?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Can I get rid of that? And we've narrowed it down.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I feel to a manageable situation where like I have
pictures of yount, get.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Rid of this, paint of this?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Can you? But so it's like I leave clothing there
that I use when I'm back home, and it's useful
sweatshirts and stuff, but it's all tucked away. My mom
is a neat freak, Like, I know your mom is friend,
so she never also let me hang like posters.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
We didn't have locks on her door. It was a
whole thing. But you know, it's all neatly tucked away.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Someone is allowed to use it if they want to
use it as a guest room. But I'm starting to
feel like she doesn't want any signs of me there
because it's constantly like when.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
I'm home, go through this, get rid of them.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
They're probably is some point gonna not have whatever size
house they have, Yeah, because at some point, I know
my mom is gonna call me and say, because we
still have the house that we grew up in. So
what I'm guessing is that is it. At some point
they're gonna she's gonna summon me back to Scottsdale, Arizona,
and say, anything you want take it, because we're not
going to have the house and we're gonna get like
a condo or something, you know, and we don't have
room for all your crap. Yeah, but I don't like you.
(02:46):
I don't have room for it either, right, Like, so
they don't want to do with it.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
We're gonna have to go have these on a storage unit.
He was like, what am I gonna do? Because there's
things I want to save.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Meanwhile, I was already moved out of my original room
because I have a little sister who you know, is
the queen of the family, and so my big old
room that I had, I was already summons to Harry
Potter's closet when I go home, which is the tiniest,
worst room in the house.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
And that's fine, you know, live your best life, Bella.
But you know she's got all kinds of stuff in there.
Can't I keep a couple of sweatshirts? You know? Does
your mom do this? Paulina.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Oh, I've been kicked out of this house many of
times as far as like my stuff, but I always
make my way back.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
That's because that's because you said on the radio, Paulina. Yeah,
been in a perfect world, you would rent out your
two homes for profit and move into your mom's house
with your child and husband for free.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah, that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Un If I'm Mama Marta, I'm I'm not only telling
you to get your stuff out, I'm changing the locks
just in case.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Yeah, my listen, I moved back in so many times,
and at this point I would move right back in
as well, like I'm missing my mother. I want my
house to be cleaned and cooked and all the laundry,
like I would literally, like I just that's all I
want is move back home. She won't take me and
my family, but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
I will not allow.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
But you know what she game together that was so
random and I don't know what to do with it.
Exactly your point. She made a binder of all of
my things when I was little, all of my like ribbons,
report cards, like any awards I won, like on paper, certificates.
It's all this big fat binder and she's like, please
take this with you. And my first question is where
do I put this? Like I want to put in
the attic. Hobby said no, no, addict, So I don't
(04:21):
know what to do with it, Like where do I
shove this random binding?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Could?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I don't know? He organized?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
That was the whole thing. Another fight of ours, but like, yeah,
why what do I do with it? Though?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
But it's not going in the attic. Where is it
going to go?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Right?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
And then to their credit, we just moved this crap
from like house to house, and it's things we don't
want to.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Get rid of.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Yeah, but it's also something that like I don't have
the space for.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
But like that's what parents are forced.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
It is their obligation to hold on to that stuff
and that Yeah, Helena does it all the time.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
So now my car is just full of thumb.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
That's what that homeless man was in my car because
she's just full of like childhood stuff that she sends me.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Everything disappointed and he found a bunch of crayon drawn
old shirt. Yeah, no, wonder you don't lock your car
keep and you're hoping somebody'll come and take your drawing
some third grade.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
This lady sends me home every time with a stack
of mail. Yeah you know, he took me a long
time change my address. So she sends me with a
stack of mail and then like a household item. In
the moment I moved out of her house, she repainted
the room, reharnished the room, put a desk.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
In there, got new lighting, Like say you hate me? Yeah,
so I feel you on this time.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Man, Yeah, no, I think that at some point they're
going to make me come and take stuff. Is just
stay away for you? Oh you did you did that
like a year ago? Could your parents moved out of
your childhood home.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, and I threw so much stuff out, but they
took boxes of my crap and then just put it
in their basement, so they still have my crap.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Because I don't want it.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
It's nice of like if my mom gave.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Me that, I'd be like, I don't want this.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Like I honestly like.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
If we were doing that exchange while the move is
going in, I would have thrown it out.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
No much stuff out, like I don't need it.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I don't want this. But it was traumatic and formal.
I don't want.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
It for you. I want the selling me for.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Your who you want to spelling me?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Fat?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
We've been through this. Yes, I want in third grade
and I have a ribbon to prove it. How could
you forget?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
I'd like to see I need I'm gonna need to
see proof of it. Your driving test. But you could
spell in third grade?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I guess I am that girl.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
No, you're a very smart lady, but I I guess
you winning and spelling me is a little surprising.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Hey, man, I did what I did.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
You weren't hard to unspelling them? Driving?
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, and I still got both my license and I want.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Wow, you know you're right, though, I don't know what
I would do with this. Yeah, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yes, don't you want to look at it?
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Mom?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
It's your job. It's treasure everything that I've ever done.
Jan See, your.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Mom loves you. She really does.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
Let you put your legos in her house. Helena wouldn't
have know that's a sentence.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
I never thought that. They don't want to say about me.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
She likes to do whatever, and I love that. I
love her.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
I don't know. I don't, uh, don't go in my room.
That's my room.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Seems hard to not have a room anymore, like I don't,
I don't have It's.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Gonna be it's gonna be weird, like it's somebody. They're
not going to live in this big ass house that
they that we grew up in when everybody was there.
The funny thing is they want to downsize at some point.
But the family's bigger now than it's ever been because
my sister's got seventy four kids, you know, and then
a husband, you know, So we have more people to
accommodate now than we've ever had. My aunt lives in
(07:34):
in Uruguay, in South America, so she thinks that's her
house too.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
They can't move.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
We all think it's there. We all treat their house
as our vacation home. The problem is it's their home.
It's their primary and only resident hotel. Right. Well, no,
it's gonna come to that because it's like my parents like,
we need a smaller house. I'm like, you got more
people now. It's like a work so that you're right.
Someday I'm not gonna have my own room anymore, and
I'm gonna have to use the same room everybody else
(08:00):
use it. My parents, ratchet friend's gonna be doing it
in my.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
My bead they're wild parties.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Oh I think my sister's friends used to do it
in my bed though, because I don't know. I would
find like my parents would find stuff in my bedroom
that I haven't lived in in ten years. Like they
found like a like a bag full of weed, and
they were like, Christopher, I haven't been there in a year,
Like what are you talking about. I can't believe you.
I'm weeding. It's not mine. My sister's like, oh, it
was definitely not mine, of course it was. Oh yeah,
(08:28):
if it was nefarious, it was Amanda's certainly not mine,
but you know it will be weird though, not to
have them.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
You're their baby. They always need to keep a room
for you.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yes, I agree, I agree, and you know you know what,
I'm install one of those code locks on it so
that no one else can use it
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