September 4, 2025 • 7 mins
Keke is stressed out after finding out how much goes into planning a wedding!
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the twenty eighth.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
He Come the Touch.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yeah they talk better than they say.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
These are the radio blogs on the thread, like you're
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs. Kiki yo, take it away, girl. We
got a lot to talk about, we do.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Dear blog. You know life is getting very real for me.
You guys know, I've recently gotten engage. Feels very odd
to say that, but it's true, and.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
You actually struggle to get the sentence out, Like I know,
all jokes are say you like, I.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Got very weird.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Like I had to call Big Tim my fiance yesterday,
and I was like, my, I was a glitchen, Like my, my,
the man I live with, You're.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Gonna have to come up with a whole new comedy
routine now because none of that stuff works anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
So and surprisingly, the man who took seven years to
get his life together and make the best decision in
his life, he is now applying pressure on when this
wedding is happening. So I was like, okay, let's aim
for like twenty twenty seven, and he was like, what
about twenty twenty six, Like we can't make this happen
within a year.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
And I was like, look, wait.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
A minute, exactly. Oh you took seven and a half years. Yeah,
he sees your star rising. Is that what it is? Yeah,
that's what it is. But you know what that predum
is gonna slap in the face in it?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Maybe that prenup so solid. I got Mama fred on it.
She was hyping it up right now.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Don't you worry, don't you worry. No, she's she's handling
all the business now for the show.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
But yeah, I don't have anything to little anyway. He
is actually the one kind of applying pressure, like let's
do this, and I'm like, okay. So I go to
my source of knowledge, which is TikTok, and I say
twenty twenty seven brides and I just typed that in there,
and then all these videos pop up like I book
my venue, I got my hair and makeup already done,
I found my dress for twenty twenty seven. That is insane.
(02:28):
And I'm like, you know, meet Jason. He knows that
I like to dealian dally through life. You know, I
let things happen. I'm not a planner, So this is
not the situation for you at all. I came in here, yes,
and I'm looking at Chasing like please roll your sleeves up.
We got work to do. And I'm like, Kaylene, you've
been in seventeen thousand weathers.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
That needs your help. But as I started the process.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Who's paying for this?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, where do we get the money from?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Like, hello, i've't been flushed on Saturday, So I got you.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
That was gonna happen. I really let me. I'm serious
about this lottery thing.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Like I've never wanted you to win the lottery more
than I need you to win anything.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
I really feel like this is the time. And I've
been saying that for a couple of weeks, but it's skitch.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
It lies.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I've been lying to you a lot. I didn't think
it was the time. I just wanted people to buy
tickets so I could have more because I'm greedy. So yeah, no, Saturday,
don't worry. We're gonna have about seven hundred million. Pay
some tax on that. I'll give you a generous budget, please,
tens of thousands of dollars you can spend on your
wedding free.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Walking into the door at the reception places at the
banqueod halls. You need to have thirty thousand dollars to even.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Talk to them.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Okay, so I haven't done any talking.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Yeah, so I turned around.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
It's crazy, like I mean, the dresses, the cakes, and
then deposits.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
A lot of them want their money now, right, fifty percent?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I don't even if I'm gonna be eleven twenty twenty seven.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
You want me to give you fifty percent of this.
Oh my goodness, So I don't know. Guys, we gotta
do something.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
We got what are you gonna do?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Get like some payday loans and something like take out
of it the home equity line of credit, Like what
do you how do you do that if you don't
have that kind of if you're not flush like that.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
I'm righting Amy with a right.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
On the damn ryans a little squabs everything I got.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Amy with a right. My name is.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Earth Like it's bad out here. I don't know how
the brides do it.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
If you if you are in the middle of this mess,
please help me because I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
You know what you're this is what you should do.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Your wedding dress should be like a NASCAR track suit,
you know, like they wear. Like, just get all of
our sponsors to so we can have like Amy with
the right patch on their wind trust patch on their carter,
heating and air.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
I'll keep going like we just keep going.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Everybody buys a little spot on the dress and then
you know, we be paid for immediately each.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
One of my jewelers.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Get that right on that man, We'll keep going. Please,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
You can use my backyard. Come I told you yesterday.
I got the party RAJ thing, my whatever you need
a hobby congress.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
There's a little water table out there for entertainment.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Now, Kiki, will it be a big wedding?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Do you think you know?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I want all the things?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
One I can't.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
I never thought this was really going to happen. So
now that it is, I want everything, you know, I
guess wise. Guess wise is, Yeah, it's going to be
up there. I talked to a lady yesterday at thetorney station.
I said, you know what, girl, I got a win
coming in. Come on there.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, invited.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
We are. We're trying to control costs, and that's a
big one. Want to sort of not do that.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
It's crazy out here, man. Just send all thoughts and
prayers for brides because I don't know how.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
You Yeah, because you want to be like a happy,
fun like process. And it's not at the beginning when
you get engaged with them, when you get in the
nitty griddy of it, it's like more anxiety. It sounds
like yeah, And it's not.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Like a student loan where I can finesse it right.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
They want their money, they want it now and texted
this and I won't even bother because it didn't go
over with my sister, and it's not going to go
over with you. If someone Texas City Hall and a
big party after, you know when it's different. My parents
gave my sister a budget, right, so they wrote her
a check and it was, hey, you can spend all
this or you can keep it and spend five dollars.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
It's totally up to you.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
And I just kept pushing and it wasn't my day,
but I'm like, you should have whatever day you want, Amanda.
But you do realize that no one's going to remember
what they ate. I've already gone on this ran before
no one. It was a beautiful day and she did
a great job. She and my mom did a great job.
It was beautiful right before COVID. Thank god it happened.
Everything was perfect for them, I think. But like she
(06:39):
could have been. She could have won the power Ball
herself if she'd had a food truck and a band,
and she would have had a.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Bunch of money in the bank. That's the move.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
And I honestly think if I look at it differently,
right because I'm older and I don't you know, so
if I ever got married, I feel like if I
married someone my age probably already been married before at
this point, like did all that, I would do that,
I would say, but I have to pay for it now.
No one's writing me a check, right, But if I
were young, I really feel like I would and someone
were saying, here's your budget, I would strongly consider a really,
(07:10):
really fun night with tons of booze and great food
and great music, and it doesn't have to cost a
whole lot. And then I take the rest of the
money and I buy a house or pay off debt
or do something, you know what I mean, Like something
that twenty years from now you're gonna be glad, and
maybe you'll be glad you did that twenty But that's
not you.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I know, that's not you.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
You know me.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
I need the chair covers, the bowls, the sparkles, the
fire cover.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Yes,
This is the fread show.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Let's get you Hotel, a trip for Tunisie, Jennifer Lopez
her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez off All
Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty twenty six,
at the Coliseum at Caesar's.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Palace, Text Vegas.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
He's seven three three seven right now for a chance
to win two tickets to the March thirteenth show at
two Night Hotel Day March twelfth through the fourteenth at
the Flamingo Hotel Casino, Las Vegas and ron Trefair Fair.
A confirmation text will be sent. Dennered message and data
rates may apply. All thanks to Live Dation. Tickets are
on sale now at ticketmaster dot com for all shows
running December thirtieth through January third, and March sixth through
(00:38):
the twenty eighth.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
He Come the Touch.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yeah they talk better than they say.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
These are the radio blogs on the thread, like you're
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs. Kiki yo, take it away, girl. We
got a lot to talk about, we do.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Dear blog. You know life is getting very real for me.
You guys know, I've recently gotten engage. Feels very odd
to say that, but it's true, and.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
You actually struggle to get the sentence out, Like I know,
all jokes are say you like, I.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Got very weird.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Like I had to call Big Tim my fiance yesterday,
and I was like, my, I was a glitchen, Like my, my,
the man I live with, You're.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Gonna have to come up with a whole new comedy
routine now because none of that stuff works anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
So and surprisingly, the man who took seven years to
get his life together and make the best decision in
his life, he is now applying pressure on when this
wedding is happening. So I was like, okay, let's aim
for like twenty twenty seven, and he was like, what
about twenty twenty six, Like we can't make this happen
within a year.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
And I was like, look, wait.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
A minute, exactly. Oh you took seven and a half years. Yeah,
he sees your star rising. Is that what it is? Yeah,
that's what it is. But you know what that predum
is gonna slap in the face in it?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Maybe that prenup so solid. I got Mama fred on it.
She was hyping it up right now.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Don't you worry, don't you worry. No, she's she's handling
all the business now for the show.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
But yeah, I don't have anything to little anyway. He
is actually the one kind of applying pressure, like let's
do this, and I'm like, okay. So I go to
my source of knowledge, which is TikTok, and I say
twenty twenty seven brides and I just typed that in there,
and then all these videos pop up like I book
my venue, I got my hair and makeup already done,
I found my dress for twenty twenty seven. That is insane.
(02:28):
And I'm like, you know, meet Jason. He knows that
I like to dealian dally through life. You know, I
let things happen. I'm not a planner, So this is
not the situation for you at all. I came in here, yes,
and I'm looking at Chasing like please roll your sleeves up.
We got work to do. And I'm like, Kaylene, you've
been in seventeen thousand weathers.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
That needs your help. But as I started the process.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Who's paying for this?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, where do we get the money from?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Like, hello, i've't been flushed on Saturday, So I got you.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
That was gonna happen. I really let me. I'm serious
about this lottery thing.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Like I've never wanted you to win the lottery more
than I need you to win anything.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
I really feel like this is the time. And I've
been saying that for a couple of weeks, but it's skitch.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
It lies.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I've been lying to you a lot. I didn't think
it was the time. I just wanted people to buy
tickets so I could have more because I'm greedy. So yeah, no, Saturday,
don't worry. We're gonna have about seven hundred million. Pay
some tax on that. I'll give you a generous budget, please,
tens of thousands of dollars you can spend on your
wedding free.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Walking into the door at the reception places at the
banqueod halls. You need to have thirty thousand dollars to even.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Talk to them.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Okay, so I haven't done any talking.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Yeah, so I turned around.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
It's crazy, like I mean, the dresses, the cakes, and
then deposits.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
A lot of them want their money now, right, fifty percent?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I don't even if I'm gonna be eleven twenty twenty seven.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
You want me to give you fifty percent of this.
Oh my goodness, So I don't know. Guys, we gotta
do something.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
We got what are you gonna do?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Get like some payday loans and something like take out
of it the home equity line of credit, Like what
do you how do you do that if you don't
have that kind of if you're not flush like that.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
I'm righting Amy with a right.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
On the damn ryans a little squabs everything I got.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Amy with a right. My name is.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Earth Like it's bad out here. I don't know how
the brides do it.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
If you if you are in the middle of this mess,
please help me because I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
You know what you're this is what you should do.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Your wedding dress should be like a NASCAR track suit,
you know, like they wear. Like, just get all of
our sponsors to so we can have like Amy with
the right patch on their wind trust patch on their carter,
heating and air.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
I'll keep going like we just keep going.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Everybody buys a little spot on the dress and then
you know, we be paid for immediately each.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
One of my jewelers.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Get that right on that man, We'll keep going. Please,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
You can use my backyard. Come I told you yesterday.
I got the party RAJ thing, my whatever you need
a hobby congress.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
There's a little water table out there for entertainment.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Now, Kiki, will it be a big wedding?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Do you think you know?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I want all the things?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
One I can't.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
I never thought this was really going to happen. So
now that it is, I want everything, you know, I
guess wise. Guess wise is, Yeah, it's going to be
up there. I talked to a lady yesterday at thetorney station.
I said, you know what, girl, I got a win
coming in. Come on there.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, invited.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
We are. We're trying to control costs, and that's a
big one. Want to sort of not do that.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
It's crazy out here, man. Just send all thoughts and
prayers for brides because I don't know how.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
You Yeah, because you want to be like a happy,
fun like process. And it's not at the beginning when
you get engaged with them, when you get in the
nitty griddy of it, it's like more anxiety. It sounds
like yeah, And it's not.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Like a student loan where I can finesse it right.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
They want their money, they want it now and texted
this and I won't even bother because it didn't go
over with my sister, and it's not going to go
over with you. If someone Texas City Hall and a
big party after, you know when it's different. My parents
gave my sister a budget, right, so they wrote her
a check and it was, hey, you can spend all
this or you can keep it and spend five dollars.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
It's totally up to you.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
And I just kept pushing and it wasn't my day,
but I'm like, you should have whatever day you want, Amanda.
But you do realize that no one's going to remember
what they ate. I've already gone on this ran before
no one. It was a beautiful day and she did
a great job. She and my mom did a great job.
It was beautiful right before COVID. Thank god it happened.
Everything was perfect for them, I think. But like she
(06:39):
could have been. She could have won the power Ball
herself if she'd had a food truck and a band,
and she would have had a.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Bunch of money in the bank. That's the move.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
And I honestly think if I look at it differently,
right because I'm older and I don't you know, so
if I ever got married, I feel like if I
married someone my age probably already been married before at
this point, like did all that, I would do that,
I would say, but I have to pay for it now.
No one's writing me a check, right, But if I
were young, I really feel like I would and someone
were saying, here's your budget, I would strongly consider a really,
(07:10):
really fun night with tons of booze and great food
and great music, and it doesn't have to cost a
whole lot. And then I take the rest of the
money and I buy a house or pay off debt
or do something, you know what I mean, Like something
that twenty years from now you're gonna be glad, and
maybe you'll be glad you did that twenty But that's
not you.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I know, that's not you.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
You know me.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
I need the chair covers, the bowls, the sparkles, the
fire cover.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Yes,
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