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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Our blogs, audio journals, like writing in our diaries, Paulina, Yes.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Take it away, Thank you so much, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
So I got a friend. You guys know, my best friend.
You know, he has a lot of opinions. He's a
he's you know, just he's Jonathan Ray. We all know Jonathan.
Everybody has that one friend who I feel like just
speaks their mind. And right now I think he's mad
at me. And he told me it's because I don't
set him up with people.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Now, let me explain and break that down a little
bit more. It's more I.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Don't set him up with people because I don't.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
He thinks I don't care enough to or whatever.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
If I mentioned, oh I met somebody whatever and my
best friend is gay, so he'll be like, oh, you know,
I'll bring up another man or whatever, and he'll be like,
and he didn't mention me. I thought he was kidding.
I thought this man was kidding. He is not kidding.
He goes he didn't mention me, and I'm like, why
would I mention him? Talking about business or something else,
or like someone's asking about I don't know some thing
that I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I'm like, why would you be brought up, and he.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Was just so offended and he wants to get specifically
with someone that I know, and I don't know this
other person's gay though, So now my issue was.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Like, well that would be a good first time.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
That's so inappropriate in my opinion to ask somebody like
and be like, you know, I mean, I think he's game.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Most of us think he's gay.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I think he gives gay.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Is he going to be something if he's not. I
think I'm pretty confident he gives gay.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
But I am, well, you know, he'll say certain things
and I could pick up on it, right, I'm like, Okay,
I see things like I like man.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
A much, I mean pretty much, and and my other.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Friends the manhole this weekend, Like what that's what I'm saying?
And what what what sorts? I love the property brothers?
Like what what sort of things does he say? I mean,
let's figure that out first.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Well, my friend did some investigation and I guess asked
him something about a vacation and he's like, yeah, like
my friend that I travel with, he this he.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
That he doesn't mean.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Either, I mean it doesn't but you know the way
that he's talking about his friend. They're traveling and things
sound a little sexy. In my opinion, it sounds like
it might be a guy he's seeing, So I just
I can't straight up ask him that. I feel rude
asking him that. So I'm picking up on the cues here.
But if he is, I would love to set them up,
but I can't get over this step first that to
find out is he even interested in Jonathan.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Why don't you just put them in the same place
together and then let him do the work so that
you don't have to be the middle person.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I can try that, I can see.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
What I can and let him do his own investigation.
Because that way then you don't have to ask the
uncomfortable questions. Thank you, you don't have to be told no,
you don't have to be the messenger. I mean, I
get it, but I've given you a hard time over
the years for not setting me up with your hot friends.
If one in particular, well that was early on.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
That was early I think it was just one hot friend.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
It was one hot friend. You just wouldn't do it.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
No, I wouldn't not do it.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I was just like trying to keep my job. I
was so new here and I didn't talk back yet
I was like a little afraid.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I was like, I don't want to like, no, you talked,
you said, you said, no.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yeah, I don't know. I was very afraid if this
was today.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
But I don't blame you. But I don't blame you
because it gets weird when. Trust me, it gets weird
when there's middle people involved, you know, in one person
or the other. Ax up. Look, I get that. I
get that it can be awkward to be sort of
in the middle of a situation like that, and so
it's sort of like hey, but but what you don't
get to do, which a lot of people do, is dabble,
(03:34):
like get in the middle of it and then when
it goes bad, then step away like oh I had
nothing to do with it. You no, no, no, I'm
telling you, this was today. We either avoid it or
you either you either support it or you avoid it.
But you don't get to play the middle. That is true.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I agree with that, But I'm telling if it was today, like,
look at my friends, I'll let them up for you.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
You can take a pic. I don't care.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
At that time, I think it was like a different me,
different like mentality. Now, I would love I would love
if you got one of my friends, I would love
I recommended you to my friends. Wow, I have I'm like,
I know a good guy.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Don't tell Jonathan because he'll I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Jonathan's like he thinks it sounds like he thinks every
man should. You should be like, hey, I nice to
meet you. How are you? I'm pulling him on the
radio and then oh, by the way, would you like
to have section with my friend? Jonathan? Like like, I don't,
That's not how it goes.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
No, Like, you have to meet them, you have to click,
you know, see if there is a vibe, you catch
a vibe on each other.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Gay, Yeah, we'll find out if.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
First step that part is. I would say that would
be priority number one, right if you're looking for a
high level of success. But I do think that at
this point, if I'm going to meet anybody who I'm
going to be with, like really really be with, I
do think it's going to be a setup. It's going
to be somebody who knows me well saying to someone
else who they know, well, you know this is a match. Like,
(04:53):
I think that's the only way it's truly going to work.
Because the dating apps every time are a total crapshoot.
You have no idea what you're really getting on either side,
And I don't know how people We've talked about this,
you know, for hours on the show about dating apps,
but it's a hot or not game. It is not
a chemistry game. And I feel like the chemistry is
probably what keeps people together. And and also somebody vouching
(05:16):
for common interests in common you know the quality of
the human you know what I mean? Like you just
don't know. You don't know if the person you thinks
hot online is going to be a person who you
want to be with in person.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
And that's why I think I'm with Jonathan on this one.
I think if you have a hot single friend, I
try to hook my hot single friends up with everybody.
They don't always like it, Kaitlin, but I always try
to do it. I just think you should always play
matchmaker with your friend.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Why not that was a waiter that you thought was hot,
that was not your.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Friends friend is hot and single?
Speaker 1 (05:50):
What you're doing? Yeah, Kiki, if you have to produce anything,
I have to be very selective for you.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Like I have to be because I got a loyalty
to mam afraid, like, I just can't have you out
here doing everything.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
But Kaitlyn great, but Kaylin knit just what.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Mist hasman material.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
That's my close personal friend. I mean, he just read
me to specials, but he wrote them slowly and deliberately,
and I I feel like we're extremely close now
Our blogs, audio journals, like writing in our diaries, Paulina, Yes.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Take it away, Thank you so much, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
So I got a friend. You guys know, my best friend.
You know, he has a lot of opinions. He's a
he's you know, just he's Jonathan Ray. We all know Jonathan.
Everybody has that one friend who I feel like just
speaks their mind. And right now I think he's mad
at me. And he told me it's because I don't
set him up with people.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Now, let me explain and break that down a little
bit more. It's more I.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Don't set him up with people because I don't.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
He thinks I don't care enough to or whatever.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
If I mentioned, oh I met somebody whatever and my
best friend is gay, so he'll be like, oh, you know,
I'll bring up another man or whatever, and he'll be like,
and he didn't mention me. I thought he was kidding.
I thought this man was kidding. He is not kidding.
He goes he didn't mention me, and I'm like, why
would I mention him? Talking about business or something else,
or like someone's asking about I don't know some thing
that I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I'm like, why would you be brought up, and he.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Was just so offended and he wants to get specifically
with someone that I know, and I don't know this
other person's gay though, So now my issue was.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Like, well that would be a good first time.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
That's so inappropriate in my opinion to ask somebody like
and be like, you know, I mean, I think he's game.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Most of us think he's gay.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I think he gives gay.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Is he going to be something if he's not. I
think I'm pretty confident he gives gay.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
But I am, well, you know, he'll say certain things
and I could pick up on it, right, I'm like, Okay,
I see things like I like man.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
A much, I mean pretty much, and and my other.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Friends the manhole this weekend, Like what that's what I'm saying?
And what what what sorts? I love the property brothers?
Like what what sort of things does he say? I mean,
let's figure that out first.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Well, my friend did some investigation and I guess asked
him something about a vacation and he's like, yeah, like
my friend that I travel with, he this he.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
That he doesn't mean.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Either, I mean it doesn't but you know the way
that he's talking about his friend. They're traveling and things
sound a little sexy. In my opinion, it sounds like
it might be a guy he's seeing, So I just
I can't straight up ask him that. I feel rude
asking him that. So I'm picking up on the cues here.
But if he is, I would love to set them up,
but I can't get over this step first that to
find out is he even interested in Jonathan.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Why don't you just put them in the same place
together and then let him do the work so that
you don't have to be the middle person.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I can try that, I can see.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
What I can and let him do his own investigation.
Because that way then you don't have to ask the
uncomfortable questions. Thank you, you don't have to be told no,
you don't have to be the messenger. I mean, I
get it, but I've given you a hard time over
the years for not setting me up with your hot friends.
If one in particular, well that was early on.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
That was early I think it was just one hot friend.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
It was one hot friend. You just wouldn't do it.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
No, I wouldn't not do it.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I was just like trying to keep my job. I
was so new here and I didn't talk back yet
I was like a little afraid.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I was like, I don't want to like, no, you talked,
you said, you said, no.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yeah, I don't know. I was very afraid if this
was today.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
But I don't blame you. But I don't blame you
because it gets weird when. Trust me, it gets weird
when there's middle people involved, you know, in one person
or the other. Ax up. Look, I get that. I
get that it can be awkward to be sort of
in the middle of a situation like that, and so
it's sort of like hey, but but what you don't
get to do, which a lot of people do, is dabble,
(03:34):
like get in the middle of it and then when
it goes bad, then step away like oh I had
nothing to do with it. You no, no, no, I'm
telling you, this was today. We either avoid it or
you either you either support it or you avoid it.
But you don't get to play the middle. That is true.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I agree with that, But I'm telling if it was today, like,
look at my friends, I'll let them up for you.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
You can take a pic. I don't care.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
At that time, I think it was like a different me,
different like mentality. Now, I would love I would love
if you got one of my friends, I would love
I recommended you to my friends. Wow, I have I'm like,
I know a good guy.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Don't tell Jonathan because he'll I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Jonathan's like he thinks it sounds like he thinks every
man should. You should be like, hey, I nice to
meet you. How are you? I'm pulling him on the
radio and then oh, by the way, would you like
to have section with my friend? Jonathan? Like like, I don't,
That's not how it goes.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
No, Like, you have to meet them, you have to click,
you know, see if there is a vibe, you catch
a vibe on each other.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Gay, Yeah, we'll find out if.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
First step that part is. I would say that would
be priority number one, right if you're looking for a
high level of success. But I do think that at
this point, if I'm going to meet anybody who I'm
going to be with, like really really be with, I
do think it's going to be a setup. It's going
to be somebody who knows me well saying to someone
else who they know, well, you know this is a match. Like,
(04:53):
I think that's the only way it's truly going to work.
Because the dating apps every time are a total crapshoot.
You have no idea what you're really getting on either side,
And I don't know how people We've talked about this,
you know, for hours on the show about dating apps,
but it's a hot or not game. It is not
a chemistry game. And I feel like the chemistry is
probably what keeps people together. And and also somebody vouching
(05:16):
for common interests in common you know the quality of
the human you know what I mean? Like you just
don't know. You don't know if the person you thinks
hot online is going to be a person who you
want to be with in person.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
And that's why I think I'm with Jonathan on this one.
I think if you have a hot single friend, I
try to hook my hot single friends up with everybody.
They don't always like it, Kaitlin, but I always try
to do it. I just think you should always play
matchmaker with your friend.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Why not that was a waiter that you thought was hot,
that was not your.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Friends friend is hot and single?
Speaker 1 (05:50):
What you're doing? Yeah, Kiki, if you have to produce anything,
I have to be very selective for you.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Like I have to be because I got a loyalty
to mam afraid, like, I just can't have you out
here doing everything.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
But Kaitlyn great, but Kaylin knit just what.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Mist hasman material.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
That's my close personal friend. I mean, he just read
me to specials, but he wrote them slowly and deliberately,
and I I feel like we're extremely close now
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